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Speaker 4: On a dating app, how do you go from getting
Speaker 4: just one or two matches a month to having over
Speaker 4: fifty guys drooling begging you to marry them on the
Speaker 4: spot without changing a picture or telling a bold face. Lie,
Speaker 4: I want to marry It's not impossible because one of
Speaker 4: our listeners says it happened to her and all it
Speaker 4: took was adding three little numbers to her bio.
Speaker 1: Girls, don't give your number out.
Speaker 4: It's not Brooks total body count many more numbers than that.
Speaker 1: Just fine.
Speaker 4: You'll find out what it was when we do your
Speaker 4: second date update, next second date Update. We're always talking
Speaker 4: about how much trouble guys have standing out on the
Speaker 4: dating apps. We never really discussed the ladies and their
Speaker 4: struggles when they're online.
Speaker 5: They don't have struggles.
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course they do. They have to deal with you.
Speaker 2: What I say, I see that it's way worse.
Speaker 4: One of our listeners, Jossy, says that she's been trying
Speaker 4: for a bit till she finally figured out a dating
Speaker 4: hack that's worked for her, like a charm.
Speaker 1: Oh where she actually found like a quality person online.
Speaker 5: That's also different, maybe somebody looking for actual love.
Speaker 4: Well, she's gonna tell us about it so that Alexis
Speaker 4: can steal all the men. Welcome to the show.
Speaker 6: Hey guys, it's going on.
Speaker 1: We're interested in what's going on with you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we have our notepads out so we can figure
Speaker 4: out what this hack is. But I guess maybe you
Speaker 4: should start with the guy that it worked on. What's
Speaker 4: his name?
Speaker 6: His name is Sean?
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, And so what's I mean? What is your
Speaker 2: problem with dating apps? Like, what do you struggle with.
Speaker 6: I've been on dating apps for about six months, and
Speaker 6: I've heard of all these girls getting like hundreds of messages,
Speaker 6: and fortunately I am definitely not one of those women.
Speaker 6: And I don't know why. You know, like, I'm not
Speaker 6: bad looking.
Speaker 5: Well, I can help with that. Why don't you just.
Speaker 1: Messages?
Speaker 4: She wasn't fishing for anything there. I think she was
Speaker 4: telling of the problem.
Speaker 2: But it does feel like maybe there's something about your
Speaker 2: profile that isn't clicking right for people, right?
Speaker 1: Is that what you were thinking?
Speaker 6: Yeah, there has to be something, because again, I don't
Speaker 6: think I'm like crazy bad looking or anything like. I
Speaker 6: do all the regular things. I put like what I
Speaker 6: like in my bio and everything.
Speaker 4: See, I can already see where you're messing up, boring.
Speaker 1: Is that what you're saying?
Speaker 4: Yeah, guys want someone that seems like they're really at
Speaker 4: a low point in their life, struggling.
Speaker 5: This girl is hot and desperate.
Speaker 4: I can fix her.
Speaker 1: No, No, what did you change? You didn't add more
Speaker 1: desperation to your profile?
Speaker 5: Did you know I'm so thirsty?
Speaker 6: I don't think so.
Speaker 4: Okay, God, what's your strategy?
Speaker 7: Then?
Speaker 6: So I actually added to my profile my credit score?
Speaker 8: Oh?
Speaker 1: That's funny thing right now?
Speaker 9: Really?
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's eight o four.
Speaker 4: Dang girl, that's your credit score?
Speaker 5: Girl, we're buying a house.
Speaker 4: Oh my god.
Speaker 1: It was out of eight hundred. What is a credit score.
Speaker 4: Out of I think it's like eight twenty. You're right,
Speaker 4: we're not the most funny. Absolutely.
Speaker 2: I'm guessing that Alexis doesn't put her credit score on
Speaker 2: her I don't know where to find mine.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, so what you you put eighty four in
Speaker 4: your profile? That's just what you said.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I put eight oh four and then I put
Speaker 6: gold Digger instead of gold Digger like g o A,
Speaker 6: that's funny. Yeah, I got people thought it was clever because,
Speaker 6: you know, after that, it worked, and I got tons
Speaker 6: of messages from all these guys who were literally ready
Speaker 6: to like marry me.
Speaker 5: I feel like you seem like you're immediately smart and driven.
Speaker 2: And despite what you two say, men do ready.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 4: So it sounds like Sean was one of the guys
Speaker 4: that reached out to you.
Speaker 6: Yeah, so he reached out to me and we were
Speaker 6: just chatting like it was super fun, you know, and
Speaker 6: we did talk about my credit score and he made
Speaker 6: a cute joke about it. And he was like, well,
Speaker 6: I said, you know, I hope just because I have
Speaker 6: an eight o four credit score, you're not assuming I'm
Speaker 6: paying for the date, are you?
Speaker 4: Okay?
Speaker 6: And he's like, no, you're paying for the first three.
Speaker 1: Oh that's funny, Okay, funny.
Speaker 5: I liked it. Yeah.
Speaker 6: Right, So he seems like clever and cute, So I'm like,
Speaker 6: why not go to drinks with him?
Speaker 9: All right?
Speaker 1: What was it like when you met up with him?
Speaker 6: So I showed up a little late, I'm not gonna lie,
Speaker 6: which might have been, you know, not the best. But
Speaker 6: like once I got there, it was so nice and
Speaker 6: he was great, and we were getting along really well.
Speaker 2: Okay, he didn't seem put off by you being late,
Speaker 2: like what like fifteen twenty minutes.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it was like fifteen minutes.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 6: He didn't seem like mad or anything at me. Okay,
Speaker 6: But the only thing was that, like we weren't as
Speaker 6: thirty as I was hoping, and like we did end
Speaker 6: up talking about like a lot of like budgeting and like, oh, it's.
Speaker 5: Like the opposite problem.
Speaker 1: Where did he come to me financial advice? Because you
Speaker 1: have your stuff together?
Speaker 9: No?
Speaker 6: Literally, that's what I felt like, And then I gave
Speaker 6: him a recommendation for a tax person. Oh he was
Speaker 6: so excited.
Speaker 4: Oh my god. All the hosts in the room around
Speaker 4: me are coming off like this is a bad thing.
Speaker 4: I think it's sex.
Speaker 1: See I didn't even think it was hot.
Speaker 6: Well we didn't kiss, so you know that also just
Speaker 6: kind of threw me off instead. You know, I just
Speaker 6: kind of gave him the tax guy's number, and it
Speaker 6: was like, can I okay? Thanks?
Speaker 5: So this guy sound you thought you were like a
Speaker 5: financial advisor.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, but.
Speaker 6: Like I feel like there could have been a spark
Speaker 6: if like we did change it up, yeah, moved on.
Speaker 2: I mean you can get stuck on the subject, you know,
Speaker 2: Like that's easy to I.
Speaker 5: Mean I can't stop thinking about my credit score right
Speaker 5: now too, now that we've brought it up.
Speaker 4: But is it possible that we may do you think
Speaker 4: maybe he like had the wrong intentions when he came
Speaker 4: into the date and just wanted that, and maybe he's
Speaker 4: not the right guy for you.
Speaker 6: I'm wondering because I texted him, I was like, had
Speaker 6: so much fun, like just like a follow up tax
Speaker 6: and now he's not even responding and it's been a
Speaker 6: week and a half.
Speaker 1: Have you talked to your tax person? Has he responded
Speaker 1: to him?
Speaker 6: I didn't check it on that, but I definitely should.
Speaker 6: That's a good call.
Speaker 4: Now that you've fixed him financially, we just have to
Speaker 4: fix romantically and get you guys on a second date. Okay,
Speaker 4: guys love to be fixed. That's what I yes.
Speaker 2: Oh god, I am taking notes.
Speaker 4: It's the perfect circle. We're gonna complete it when we
Speaker 4: do your second date update, next second date update. Do
Speaker 4: you find financial talk arousing?
Speaker 8: What?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, my mom is so excited right now?
Speaker 10: Oh no, my depreciating asset is in a class stock?
Speaker 10: Am I able to transfer the interest it incurs overseas?
Speaker 4: Penalty?
Speaker 1: People translate? He took a different economic economics class than
Speaker 1: I did.
Speaker 4: Think or are you more like Jose where every time
Speaker 4: he opens up his wallet it's like an onion and
Speaker 4: it makes him cry.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm still going.
Speaker 4: Very depressing inside of that wallet.
Speaker 5: I will say when I opened my portfolio, I do
Speaker 5: cry like that.
Speaker 4: It is awful. But one of our listeners is wondering
Speaker 4: if she was used for her financial expertise because she
Speaker 4: posted her excellent credit score right there on her dating.
Speaker 1: App and it works got so many messages.
Speaker 4: Got her matched up with Sean, but instead of getting
Speaker 4: a kiss at the end of their date, she ended
Speaker 4: up just giving him the contact info to her tax guy,
Speaker 4: which I mean, great for him, not quite as sexy
Speaker 4: and good for her. Yeah, but she's not giving up.
Speaker 4: That's the good news.
Speaker 1: No, that is good.
Speaker 2: And I was just wondering, did you end up paying
Speaker 2: for the date or did he because he made the joke.
Speaker 2: He made the joke that you were going to pay
Speaker 2: because your credit score was so high?
Speaker 6: We split it.
Speaker 1: Oh, that's also not a sexy move.
Speaker 5: I mean financially responsible but not hot.
Speaker 6: You know it was it was okay with me. I
Speaker 6: handle my business.
Speaker 1: So it's just like after the joke and then to still.
Speaker 5: It would be a joke and then have him pay.
Speaker 4: You should have bankrolled him for a year and.
Speaker 5: Be paid in bitcoming.
Speaker 4: But let's get right into this call. Okay, I'm gonna
Speaker 4: dial Sean right now. We'll see what he has to say.
Speaker 4: Here we go, Hello, Sean.
Speaker 1: Are you in the bathroom?
Speaker 4: Is the Sean?
Speaker 8: Yes it is.
Speaker 5: Are you mining right now?
Speaker 4: Your phone is a little bit echo with Sean. But
Speaker 4: we're a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 8: Did you sound better?
Speaker 4: Yeah, this sounds a little bit better.
Speaker 8: Okay, So I was on my lunch break.
Speaker 4: Oh well, I got that. Hate to interrupt you on
Speaker 4: your lunch break, Sean, but we do have some important
Speaker 4: business to discuss with you regarding a woman that you
Speaker 4: went out with recently, named.
Speaker 8: Jossy a woman. Wait, wait, you women?
Speaker 4: You know they're like men but with different parts.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I'm familiar with women.
Speaker 1: Okay, do you remember?
Speaker 4: Its confused when I said woman. So I'm just clarifying.
Speaker 1: Do you remember your date with Jossi You guys went
Speaker 1: to drinks?
Speaker 8: Yes, yes, I do.
Speaker 4: Okay, cool, Well, news flash, she is a woman and
Speaker 4: other news flash, she really liked you.
Speaker 8: It wants to see Oh oh that's that's really sweet
Speaker 8: of her.
Speaker 1: Okay, so that's a positive to you. Did you not
Speaker 1: think that already?
Speaker 8: I mean a good vibe. You know. It just was
Speaker 8: a little not a It wasn't a typical date. Our
Speaker 8: comic of discussion wasn't you know you get to know someone?
Speaker 8: It wasn't like that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, well I think she wanted it to be.
Speaker 4: I'll be honest. We heard a little bit about your
Speaker 4: date from Jossy, and she mentioned that the talk went
Speaker 4: into like finances.
Speaker 2: She said, it was a little stiff and a little
Speaker 2: bit too much financial Yeah, she was.
Speaker 8: Really money oriented.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, but I don't know. I thought you were
Speaker 4: the one asking her some of the questions about how
Speaker 4: she got her credit score so good.
Speaker 8: That was on her dating profile. So you know, you
Speaker 8: want to pick it off with something in their bio, right.
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, I know.
Speaker 2: It sounds like she got stuck in talking about it
Speaker 2: and she felt like, you guys never got to be
Speaker 2: flirty with each other.
Speaker 8: Well, okay, so she was fifteen minutes late to the
Speaker 8: date because she was trying to find like the cheapest gas,
Speaker 8: Like there was some gas that was since less than
Speaker 8: all the other gas stations, and so she had to
Speaker 8: have that gas someone like.
Speaker 5: That out of their way to save a couple of blocks.
Speaker 1: She said, you weren't bothered by her being late.
Speaker 8: I wasn't bothered about her being late. It was the
Speaker 8: reason why she was late. And then she stopped at
Speaker 8: the Dollar Store because they had the best paper towel
Speaker 8: at the best price.
Speaker 4: She had to get that done before she met up
Speaker 4: with you. In her defense, those paper towels can be
Speaker 4: pretty expensively.
Speaker 5: Yeah, they had one more layers.
Speaker 4: Especially doing that. It's friendly kind you guys, why were
Speaker 4: you asking her about this?
Speaker 8: She was the one that brought it up, Like she said,
Speaker 8: I was doing this and I was doing that.
Speaker 2: Okay, got a cheap gas and buying dollar store paper towels.
Speaker 4: All right, so she's thrifty and you don't you don't
Speaker 4: like that, man.
Speaker 8: She could be thrifty all she wants, Okay, okay, but
Speaker 8: if we were in a relationship, I will not be
Speaker 8: chastised about paying an extra seventy five cents for some ranch.
Speaker 1: Wait, what what is that example? Yeah, it's like a hypothetical.
Speaker 1: You're saying, no, no, that happened.
Speaker 8: That's not a hypothetical.
Speaker 1: What do you mean, you chastise you what happened?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 5: What does chastise even mean?
Speaker 8: I ordered some French fries and I wanted to side
Speaker 8: a ranch.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you're speaking my language.
Speaker 8: And the waitress said it'd be seventy five cents. Okay, okay,
Speaker 8: And she was like, seventy five damn canceled a ranch.
Speaker 8: He doesn't need it.
Speaker 1: Okay, she canceled your ranch.
Speaker 4: That might cross a line.
Speaker 1: Yes, wait, did you have to eat dry fries.
Speaker 8: On the table.
Speaker 9: Water?
Speaker 4: I feel like Jossy has some splaining to do, and
Speaker 4: she can do that right now.
Speaker 5: She owes your Hey, I think you come back from this.
Speaker 5: I don't think so.
Speaker 4: I need to let you know, Sean, Johssy's been on
Speaker 4: the other line listening, wanting to talk to you.
Speaker 8: What she's listening.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's how the second works, jos joss there, Yes,
Speaker 6: I'm there. Oh it was it was seventy five cents.
Speaker 6: Like I couldn't make a whole bottle for seventy five cents.
Speaker 6: I thought, you know, I was doing a paper. I
Speaker 6: wanted to make sure he was taken care of.
Speaker 2: Turn a bottle of ranch or however, it's I don't
Speaker 2: buy the packets.
Speaker 4: I mean, you're on the date and they say this
Speaker 4: is how much something costs you. You pay that that's yeah, that's.
Speaker 5: Not even rests exactly.
Speaker 4: It's one thing.
Speaker 5: And it was like this steak is fishing.
Speaker 1: I said, you guys, she thought she was hell be okay.
Speaker 6: Right yeah yeah yeah, And I don't know why, so
Speaker 6: I guess she was up. He was upset out late.
Speaker 8: It's not because you were late. It was why you
Speaker 8: were late.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Wait, any longer, I would have been out of the
Speaker 6: paper towels at the Dollar store.
Speaker 1: I bet they go fast.
Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, they run out by six every single week,
Speaker 6: and I was on my last role. I needed to
Speaker 6: stop there. There's nothing I could have done.
Speaker 1: Okay, shut shut, You can look past that.
Speaker 8: You know she should have did she should have taken
Speaker 8: the napkins from the restaurant. I'm surprised she wouldn't do that.
Speaker 4: Who's the financial expert now, Josh, are you guys gonna
Speaker 4: just be stealing napkins? That's like a dynamic duel.
Speaker 6: Do you do that? That's honestly not a bad idea.
Speaker 4: I was speak her interest.
Speaker 8: Is she joking? I don't think she's joking. Actually, I
Speaker 8: don't think she jokes.
Speaker 5: You guys probably keep the ketchup packets too all the time.
Speaker 2: Usually at the grocery stores you can get the ranch
Speaker 2: dip behind the counter as well for free, where the
Speaker 2: chicken strips are.
Speaker 4: OK.
Speaker 5: That's a problem.
Speaker 4: We're getting to the same problem that they did, where
Speaker 4: we're getting too deep into the financial time.
Speaker 5: Let's pull it.
Speaker 4: Back and talk to Sean for a second, because Sean,
Speaker 4: what you don't know, is that before we called you,
Speaker 4: she was telling us how strong of a connection she
Speaker 4: felt the two of you had, yeah, and how she
Speaker 4: wanted to redo because she didn't feel like it went
Speaker 4: great the first time. Yeah, I'm just hoping that Jossi
Speaker 4: still feels the same way as she did before and
Speaker 4: is still into him. Jossy, are you still up for
Speaker 4: going out with him one more time? On our dime?
Speaker 4: That's a smart financial decision right there.
Speaker 5: It's free.
Speaker 6: I mean, that does sweeten the deal, but honestly, like
Speaker 6: I want someone that looks at my strategizing with my
Speaker 6: money and and thinks that that's a great thing instead
Speaker 6: of thinking I'm cheap man.
Speaker 4: That's understandable.
Speaker 6: But he doesn't even hire his and Heie says her
Speaker 6: nephews to landscape the house so he can write it
Speaker 6: off like I do. It saves me seventy dollars a year.
Speaker 8: Oh are you kidding me?
Speaker 4: Another financial gem from Jossy.
Speaker 8: She is out of control, dude.
Speaker 1: Eighth four that's what her credit score is, A oh four?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I have to have to plan anything.
Speaker 4: Okay, worth it?
Speaker 5: I don't think so?
Speaker 4: Not for a couple of bucks from what I'm hearing
Speaker 4: it sounds like you guys aren't going to match up
Speaker 4: and meet up one more time.
Speaker 2: No, so uh yeah, whatever, Jossy, I'm telling you you're
Speaker 2: going to see him at that dollar store trying to
Speaker 2: get those paper towels from you next week.
Speaker 6: Ya, you better get there because I'm blocking him out
Speaker 6: if he's there.
Speaker 4: Actually, let's all go to the dollar store.
Speaker 5: Go to the regular store like regular people, pay more, Okay,
Speaker 5: because convenient convenience.
Speaker 4: We're going to the ranch factory instead. You don't on
Speaker 4: the ranch factory.
Speaker 7: Bring your cupskins, freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: Gas prices, paper towel shortages, and child labor.
Speaker 9: Wow.
Speaker 4: I think public radio the status of the current dating landscape.
Speaker 4: People are talking.
Speaker 2: I mean, times are tough, man, people are gearing up,
Speaker 2: you know, getting ready really session maybe for your.
Speaker 1: Life, gear up to yourself.
Speaker 4: Didn't work out for those two, but I'm just gonna
Speaker 4: say I do think they.
Speaker 1: Missed out on what a good deal somewhere else.
Speaker 4: Those two they could have teamed up to become one
Speaker 4: of those ultra successful billionaire power couples who we're good
Speaker 4: at both money and love, like Bill Gates and are.
Speaker 1: That's about example, like and.
Speaker 4: Like Musk and that robot.
Speaker 1: Is actually I think he's still with Grimes.
Speaker 4: No, right now, let's forget it. Let's just do Love
Speaker 4: Is Blind Season three Brazil edition. Okay, let's stick with
Speaker 4: what works.
Speaker 1: He's still with I mean I think he's still alive a.
Speaker 4: Little Rocky too.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Okay, where the power couples?
Speaker 1: Never mind.
Speaker 4: If you just want to be not a power couple,
Speaker 4: just a normal, regular couple who's truly in love, email
Speaker 4: the show. We'll call that person who wasn't calling you
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Speaker 1: And Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 4: We talk about this on the show a lot that
Speaker 4: before you go out with someone, always google them first.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, and for some reason you don't then definitely
Speaker 4: google them after.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 4: The one guy did not do that before or after,
Speaker 4: and he's probably feeling really stupid right now. Because one
Speaker 4: of our listeners had a little secret. She didn't tell
Speaker 4: the guy on their date, but she does reveal it
Speaker 4: to us. Secret you you're gonna hear her juicy confession
Speaker 4: coming up in a second date update right after this
Speaker 4: second date up date. It's more and more popular nowadays
Speaker 4: to go to restaurants and food spots that do shared tables.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, the community tables, you know, like the big
Speaker 2: long ones.
Speaker 1: At the end.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. The upside to
Speaker 4: that is you might meet somebody interesting sitting at your table.
Speaker 4: The downside is you're sharing napkins. It's wiping past. That's
Speaker 4: my experience, and I'm just hoping I'm not fourth in
Speaker 4: line for the community nap clean.
Speaker 1: He's stealing other people's nap is what I think.
Speaker 4: Okay, that's the way forward. But the only reason that
Speaker 4: I even bring it up is because one of our
Speaker 4: listeners says she met a guy while sitting at a
Speaker 4: shared table. Her name is Donna. That's cute, Donna. Did
Speaker 4: you have to share napkins at the table like I do?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 9: I didn't share any.
Speaker 4: Okay, just sharing a straw, sip and pass.
Speaker 2: There's probably conversation, jeff That's probably all she shared, right, Donna.
Speaker 9: Yep, that's pretty much it.
Speaker 4: Okay, that's a good start. Well, yeah, I definitely need
Speaker 4: to know where this place is that had your community tables,
Speaker 4: because I'm going to the wrong spot.
Speaker 1: Where did you the other ones are so unsanitary?
Speaker 4: Jeff, yeh, where did you go?
Speaker 7: It was a food festival?
Speaker 2: Okay, so you met like a picnic table sitting down? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: a fold out table sharing too.
Speaker 4: And who was this guy that you met?
Speaker 8: Eric?
Speaker 1: Erica?
Speaker 4: How did you was Eric eating? Does that would draw
Speaker 4: you to him?
Speaker 1: Is that how you struck up conversation?
Speaker 6: God?
Speaker 4: Look at that guy.
Speaker 1: I only date guys who eat euros?
Speaker 4: Can I get that napkin when you're done? By the way?
Speaker 9: Where?
Speaker 4: No, how did you meet him?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 9: He was actually a beer garden.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, that's a little bit easier to meet somebody there.
Speaker 4: How did you do it?
Speaker 1: They're of age.
Speaker 9: Yeah, we're trying to like figure out where is it down?
Speaker 9: And so he had a little picnic table and it
Speaker 9: was just kind of him and for friends. So it
Speaker 9: was just kind of this nice, like perfect two guys,
Speaker 9: two gosic table kind of thing.
Speaker 1: Cool. Okay, So how long did you go to hang
Speaker 1: out together?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 9: It was like an hour and a half maybe because
Speaker 9: we were just kind of having a good time. Yeah,
Speaker 9: it was super natural, Like he was really funny, really
Speaker 9: genuine nice guy, and I just saw myself laughing so
Speaker 9: much because you're so goofy.
Speaker 4: Oh that's awesome.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that.
Speaker 4: I wouldn't call him goofy to his face, but I
Speaker 4: could see it's a positive thing to say.
Speaker 2: Was your girlfriend like hyping you up? I mean, could
Speaker 2: she tell that you were into him?
Speaker 9: Yeah? I mean she was like making eyes at me,
Speaker 9: like this guy really likes you, and she could totally tell.
Speaker 7: And he and I actually did.
Speaker 9: Agree to hang out later, like after the event.
Speaker 4: Perfect. So what did you and Eric do when you
Speaker 4: met up after the event.
Speaker 9: Well, we had already drank a lot because you're chilling
Speaker 9: in the beer garden for a while. Yea, so we
Speaker 9: didn't want to drink anymore. We just walked around the
Speaker 9: city and talked. We stoppedly got some dessert. Oh yeah,
Speaker 9: I just really liked him.
Speaker 5: Did you or did he kiss you or anything like romantic.
Speaker 9: Appen No, no kissy stuff, no hand holding it or anything,
Speaker 9: but you felt the vibe.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So looking back now at the whole thing, what
Speaker 4: do you think the reason is that he might not
Speaker 4: be calling you back?
Speaker 8: Is there?
Speaker 4: Do you have any idea?
Speaker 1: Okay, Oh, why did you pause like that?
Speaker 8: I don't know.
Speaker 9: I I don't. I don't like it.
Speaker 1: Why would you not be able to say it? Is
Speaker 1: it about you?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Okay, well you know how this segment works, Like, you
Speaker 4: should probably be honest with us now, because if we
Speaker 4: call him and he says it and we're not prepared for.
Speaker 1: That, you know, you say you're not married, it could.
Speaker 4: Be embarrassing for you. So if it's going to come
Speaker 4: out anyway, you might as well tell us now. Just
Speaker 4: close your ears when you.
Speaker 5: Tell us so you don't hear it.
Speaker 3: It might be one of those things like maybe he
Speaker 3: doesn't know this about me or something, and then it's
Speaker 3: like when I'm revealing this thing and I'm like, oh god,
Speaker 3: what if that wasn't the thing I mean orangury?
Speaker 1: Okay, wait, you don't know if he knows or not.
Speaker 1: Would he be able to find it out on the internet? Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: then he knows?
Speaker 4: Well yeah, I mean, well what is that? Can we
Speaker 4: know what it is? And we won't bring it up
Speaker 4: to him unless he says it?
Speaker 9: Okay, Okay, I didn't say any of this to him,
Speaker 9: but I don't know if you found out, Like, okay,
Speaker 9: I don't even know if I could say this right now?
Speaker 1: Deep breath, you can breath.
Speaker 2: It's probably honestly, like all this stuff is usually not
Speaker 2: as big of a deal as people think it is
Speaker 2: in their head.
Speaker 9: Right, I don't want my mom to be listening or something.
Speaker 1: Okay, God, we're big with moms. So kidding.
Speaker 4: A triple murder suspect or what's going on? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Hey we are an innocent he'll proven guilty type of show.
Speaker 4: Yeah, just tell us.
Speaker 1: I'm not only can you're only fans.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, okay, you know what.
Speaker 1: I bet your mom doesn't even know what that is?
Speaker 8: I hope.
Speaker 2: So Okay, Like how like if you searched your name,
Speaker 2: would it come up?
Speaker 6: You know?
Speaker 1: Because he knows your name, he could do more importantly,
Speaker 1: is like the content?
Speaker 5: Like is it?
Speaker 1: Is it? Is it something?
Speaker 4: Just asked her to send you a link? If you
Speaker 4: really got it?
Speaker 6: Okay?
Speaker 1: Is it pretty aggressive?
Speaker 9: It's not extremely aggressive, but it's definitely like leaning in derighted?
Speaker 4: Are okay?
Speaker 5: Well, some guys love that and some guys don't.
Speaker 4: It's a personality thing, and.
Speaker 2: You're definitely gonna have to tell him whether whether he
Speaker 2: knows now or not.
Speaker 4: And we really appreciate you being vulnerable and coming clean
Speaker 4: about that to us. We will definitely get your information
Speaker 4: during the break for Jose's sake, But.
Speaker 1: I thought I was getting their information trial I was nic.
Speaker 4: We're very thorough in our research whenever we do this thing.
Speaker 4: But just I'm now I'm curious. How successful are you
Speaker 4: with your only fans? Are you somebody who might be
Speaker 4: more well known?
Speaker 9: Well, yeah, I'm somewhat popular, like I have a pretty
Speaker 9: big following.
Speaker 4: Okay, wow, well now I guess that has me curious.
Speaker 4: If you've got all these followers and all the success,
Speaker 4: then why Eric?
Speaker 1: It's Eric.
Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, it's a great question. I'm not on any
Speaker 9: dating apps and this happened organically, which, yeah, it was
Speaker 9: very exciting to meet him, just like face to face
Speaker 9: as strangers. It felt like a cute little meet cute,
Speaker 9: you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, How will you handle it if it is an
Speaker 2: issue for him?
Speaker 9: I don't know. I mean, some guys are scared. Some
Speaker 9: guys are like way too into it. So it's like,
Speaker 9: is that the only reason why.
Speaker 5: You liked me?
Speaker 4: I think I know which category we fell into. Sorry,
Speaker 4: but we will not bring this up again unless Eric
Speaker 4: says it first, because we're going to come back and
Speaker 4: call him and ask him why wouldn't he call you
Speaker 4: back after such a great, unique, genuine hangout and forgetting he.
Speaker 5: May not even know about the only thing.
Speaker 2: It is so nice to have a listener just be
Speaker 2: honest with us from the beginning.
Speaker 1: How much easier this makes our jobs.
Speaker 5: It did take a lot to get it out.
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter.
Speaker 4: Is even worse than are So we're gonna find out
Speaker 4: when we call Eric and get you your second date
Speaker 4: update right after this hold on. Brooks said it earlier,
Speaker 4: and I think we all agree it is refreshing to
Speaker 4: have a listener actually be honest and vulnerable with us
Speaker 4: up front for real.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it makes me feel so much less stressed going
Speaker 2: into this phone call, even though that's like a big
Speaker 2: I mean.
Speaker 1: It's kind of a big thing.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but it feels like we're from the same page.
Speaker 4: Yes, it's good to know that information before we dial
Speaker 4: this guy. And our listener Donna whose Jose's already searched
Speaker 4: that name fourteen times during the break she told us
Speaker 4: about so.
Speaker 5: Many Donna's onf By the way.
Speaker 4: I know it's hard to nail it down which one
Speaker 4: she is, but she told us about her meeting with
Speaker 4: a guy named Eric. It happened organically when they were
Speaker 4: both at a food festival and they ended up bonding
Speaker 4: walking around the city together sharing desserts. He's not calling
Speaker 4: her back.
Speaker 2: It was such a sweet interaction. It really felt genuine.
Speaker 4: And the whole reason I bring up the honesty part
Speaker 4: is because she admitted to us that Eric may have
Speaker 4: found out that she is a successful model on only fans. Yeah,
Speaker 4: here's the thing is we all understand that that information
Speaker 4: can tend to freak some people out, and maybe that
Speaker 4: could be the reason that Eric is avoiding her.
Speaker 2: And if he brings it up, do you want us
Speaker 2: to admit then that we already know Donna?
Speaker 1: Or is that something then you just want to talk
Speaker 1: to us?
Speaker 4: Or do we lie and.
Speaker 5: Say that's not her?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 9: You know, Actually I feel like I would like it
Speaker 9: if I were to be the one to say it
Speaker 9: to him.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, if he knows it makes sense, it online fair.
Speaker 4: If he already knows.
Speaker 1: I mean, if I eventually, if you ever talk about work,
Speaker 1: it's your.
Speaker 4: Well, you can always keep a secret life for twenty
Speaker 4: thirty years before you havelaim about it.
Speaker 5: I work from home.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so okay, he doesn't have to know all the details.
Speaker 1: But that's good advice.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's really it's totally Donna. This is your decision.
Speaker 4: We're just gonna call Eric. We'll see if he answers
Speaker 4: the phone, and then from that point on we're just
Speaker 4: gonna roll with it. Okay, okay, beautiful, All right, here
Speaker 4: we go. I'm gonna dial his number right now. Let's
Speaker 4: do this. Hello, Hey, we're looking to talk with Eric.
Speaker 7: Yeah, this is Eric Cis alright.
Speaker 4: Hey, this is a show called Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 4: the Morning. Here, I'm Jeffrey. You guys want to go
Speaker 4: around the room and introduce your let's sound off.
Speaker 2: Okay, Eric, she's the fun one.
Speaker 1: Why are you so awkward?
Speaker 4: Anyway?
Speaker 1: I want to hear him talk.
Speaker 4: We're trying to help out one of our listeners that
Speaker 4: you actually went on a date with recently. Her name
Speaker 4: is Donna.
Speaker 1: Sounded like a cute date.
Speaker 7: I guess if I had to sum it up, I
Speaker 7: would say that I just had a different impression of
Speaker 7: her on her date from when we first met at
Speaker 7: this beer garden. And I don't know how much she
Speaker 7: told you.
Speaker 4: Well, it's not much more than that. According to her,
Speaker 4: was the beer garden you went out afterwards walking around
Speaker 4: the city.
Speaker 1: I thought it was.
Speaker 2: Really sweet that you guys didn't drink again either, like
Speaker 2: you shared dessert.
Speaker 1: It sounds like a great conversation.
Speaker 5: I don't know how that even happens.
Speaker 4: How do you stop drinking?
Speaker 5: That was a personal comment.
Speaker 4: But you were saying that you got a different impression
Speaker 4: from her from when you met and during the day, Like,
Speaker 4: can you explain what you meant?
Speaker 7: Yeah, she's I want to make it clear, she's a
Speaker 7: super sweet girl. She's really nice, she's really cute. And
Speaker 7: maybe it was just because it was loud at the
Speaker 7: beer garden where we were there, but she seemed a
Speaker 7: little more outgoing and a little more I don't know wild,
Speaker 7: if that's a fair word. And when we were on
Speaker 7: our date, she just seemed really shy and a little conservative.
Speaker 1: Or can you elaborate on that conservative part? Like what
Speaker 1: made her come off that way to you?
Speaker 7: She just kind of gave off goodie goodie vibes and
Speaker 7: attractive generally what I'm into.
Speaker 1: And you're really good at reading people, right, Yeah, I.
Speaker 7: Am pretty good at reading people. And to be honest,
Speaker 7: she just seems a lot more innocent than I.
Speaker 4: Am okay, you think she's too innocent.
Speaker 1: And you are like a wild woman.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't mean like wild. I'm just looking for
Speaker 7: someone who's a little more adventurous, okay, for an adventure.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Wow, there is a very adventurous woman on the other
Speaker 4: line listening in on this phone call. And I'm not
Speaker 4: sure if you could guess that girl would be Donna
Speaker 4: no way? Oh yeah, really really, Donna? Are you there?
Speaker 6: Hi?
Speaker 3: Eric?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, are you dying on the inside? Donna?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 7: Yeah, Hey, Donna, I didn't know you were on the
Speaker 7: other end of the line. And I don't want to
Speaker 7: seem like a jerk here, like you, you are super sweet.
Speaker 7: You're such a kind girl, and I have time.
Speaker 6: No, I get it.
Speaker 9: I get it, and I hear you. I literally heard
Speaker 9: everything he said.
Speaker 6: I totally get it.
Speaker 9: And maybe I do come across that way in when
Speaker 9: I want scenarios, but I'm adventurous. I do have quite
Speaker 9: an adventures wild side.
Speaker 7: I mean, that's that's cool for you to say that,
Speaker 7: And again, I think you're I think you're really cool.
Speaker 7: But like, you can say that, but I don't know
Speaker 7: how I'm supposed to believe that based on the signals
Speaker 7: that I was picking up from you.
Speaker 9: You know, you can just trust me that I'm not
Speaker 9: as shy as I seem. I don't really meet people
Speaker 9: in person, So yeah, it's exciting a little weird, and
Speaker 9: I obviously came off very shy. But I don't say
Speaker 9: I do have I'm experienced. I'm an experienced woman.
Speaker 1: You do not have to say that.
Speaker 9: I know.
Speaker 1: But she's obviously not shy.
Speaker 2: She called a radio station and is here with us,
Speaker 2: even outside of the other stuff.
Speaker 7: I mean, it's pretty wild that she called a radio station.
Speaker 7: But again, you sound innocent to me, and you're just
Speaker 7: kind of trying to pretend to be someone you're not
Speaker 7: to please me, and that doesn't you don't do that.
Speaker 6: Okay, Well, I guess if you feel that.
Speaker 9: Way and you don't want to believe me or get
Speaker 9: to know me more than I guess, nice meeting.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's a good choice. Donna, h Donna, Okay,
Speaker 1: I do too.
Speaker 4: I think she should tell him like before before he
Speaker 4: hangs up.
Speaker 2: I mean, he is so certain who she is and
Speaker 2: doesn't have an open mind to see anything else, Like Donna,
Speaker 2: I'm guessing doesn't feel like he deserves that knowledge.
Speaker 4: Well, fine, but at least before we go, I have
Speaker 4: to ask Eric, would you like to go out with
Speaker 4: shy innocent Donna one more time? And we would pay
Speaker 4: for the date?
Speaker 7: Uh? You know again, it doesn't seem like a match.
Speaker 7: I appreciate it.
Speaker 8: Wow.
Speaker 9: I mean, Eric, I think you made a mistake and
Speaker 9: maybe I'll see you online sometime.
Speaker 1: He's could have to pay us here?
Speaker 7: What does that mean?
Speaker 4: I wouldn't worry about it, Eric, You know.
Speaker 7: What, can somebody just tell me what's going on?
Speaker 4: I sorry, all right, he's gone. Sorry Donald, we had
Speaker 4: to hang up on that guy.
Speaker 9: I am glad.
Speaker 8: I'm glad you did.
Speaker 1: Have you ever had a guy assume that about you before?
Speaker 9: I can maybe see why he maybe thought that, but
Speaker 9: like it was so crazy. They just didn't want to
Speaker 9: give me another chance.
Speaker 1: I like, how hard for it he thought? He was. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know, it's just crazy. I want to be there
Speaker 1: the day he finds out what you do.
Speaker 4: It's probably the day that he listens to this podcast
Speaker 4: and it's like, oh my god, the mistakes that I've made.
Speaker 9: He was so sure he knew how to read people.
Speaker 6: That was That's what got me.
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: We're getting a lot of text in seventy five nine
Speaker 4: to two. On this one, one says, thank I hope
Speaker 4: Eric's listening right now and realizes he missed out on
Speaker 4: the chance of a lifetime.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's right.
Speaker 2: It's really a learning moment to not judge people so quickly.
Speaker 4: Really, you know, Yeah, don't judge a book by its
Speaker 4: cover sort of thing.
Speaker 1: I don't think it was the cover that was the problem.
Speaker 1: It's just like her attitude.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Another text says, I've been trying to date an only
Speaker 4: fans girl for years. That guy's an idiot.
Speaker 5: Oh man.
Speaker 4: There's a lot of other people on the text board though,
Speaker 4: going crazy because we didn't tell him and didn't say it.
Speaker 4: She never revealed what she does too on.
Speaker 1: Her for I agree.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I thought this would be like Alexis going out
Speaker 5: with Christiano Ronaldo and just not realizing he played soccer
Speaker 5: and it's like, you're not my type.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, what are you doing.
Speaker 1: In the world.
Speaker 4: Did email the show after we recorded that, though, and
Speaker 4: said I thought I'd just send him a screenshot as
Speaker 4: a party gift.
Speaker 1: She did not.
Speaker 4: I think he knows now.
Speaker 2: She's just trying to get more subscribers.
Speaker 4: Out of this. She probably did. We're hoping to get
Speaker 4: a few more subscribers. If you like the Second Dates,
Speaker 4: you can always one hundred percent.
Speaker 5: I still have my shirt off.
Speaker 4: By the way, on YouTube, you can find us or
Speaker 4: anywhere where you get your podcasts at Brooke and Jeffrey
Speaker 4: and make sure if you need help with your dating life,
Speaker 4: email the show. We'll call that person who's not calling
Speaker 4: you back.