WEBVTT - Yvette Nicole Brown 

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<v Speaker 1>That's okay because no one here is.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello.

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<v Speaker 3>Listeners of teen Beat or teats, Hmm, no, it doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>sound like I hoped it would, So let me know

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<v Speaker 3>in the comments what your thoughts are on that one.

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<v Speaker 3>I am Danielle Fischl, the host of teen Beat, a

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<v Speaker 3>podcast where I sit down with interesting people with just

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<v Speaker 3>one goal to make them admit they were awkward teenagers.

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<v Speaker 3>We all were, but some of us had to live

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<v Speaker 3>those years out on television, experiencing puberty and childhood confusion

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<v Speaker 3>in front of millions. So now is my chance to

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<v Speaker 3>settle the score and force other celebrities to spill their

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<v Speaker 3>guts and expose their upbringings funniest memories. The concept is simple,

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<v Speaker 3>I gave you my childhood, it's time we hear yours.

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<v Speaker 3>And this week I'm chatting with one of the funniest

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<v Speaker 3>people in anything that involves a camera. Television, movies, cartoons,

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<v Speaker 3>game shows, talk shows, award shows, after shows, probably dog shows.

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<v Speaker 3>Anything she appears in or on is made infinitely better

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<v Speaker 3>because of her involvement. You probably know her best as

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<v Speaker 3>Shirley Bennett from the cult classic TV show Community, stealing

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<v Speaker 3>scenes like some sort of charming pickpocket and leaving behind

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<v Speaker 3>a path of memes like my favorite donning her passive

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<v Speaker 3>aggressive smile with the catchphrase that's nice, or you know

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<v Speaker 3>her as Helen from Drake and Josh, or her Emmy

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<v Speaker 3>nominated appearance on The Black Ladies Sketch Show.

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<v Speaker 2>How about from movies like Zootopia Too and.

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<v Speaker 3>Somehow Avengers Endgame and here's some range. She's hosted The

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<v Speaker 3>View and The Talking Dead, which probably have more in

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<v Speaker 3>common than we'd like to think. She won Celebrity Family

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<v Speaker 3>Feud but lost Celebrity Jeopardy, was signed to Michael Bivins

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<v Speaker 3>and saying let's hear it for the boy well dressed

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<v Speaker 3>as a bird. Plus, she is also the only person

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<v Speaker 3>in history to have appeared on both Real Housewives of

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<v Speaker 3>Atlanta and Critical Role Guys. She has done it all

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<v Speaker 3>except appear on the teen Beat podcast with Daniel Fischl,

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<v Speaker 3>and we are taking care of that today because underneath

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<v Speaker 3>all that talent and before the incredible achievements, she might

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<v Speaker 3>be hiding an awkward teenager ready to share embarrassment with

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<v Speaker 3>the world. So please welcome to the podcast. This week's guest,

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<v Speaker 3>Yvette Nicole Brown.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, that might be the best intro I have ever

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<v Speaker 4>received in my entire life.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, I was like.

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<v Speaker 5>Did I do that?

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<v Speaker 2>I did that?

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<v Speaker 6>Was?

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<v Speaker 5>That was awesome?

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<v Speaker 2>Isn't it so great to.

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<v Speaker 3>Hear your accomplish read back to you in someone else's

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<v Speaker 3>voice when you're just like not really fully prepared for it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, Wow, look I did all.

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<v Speaker 4>That, especially when it's someone like you who's climbed the mountain.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's really nice that you took the time to

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<v Speaker 4>do that and to do the research, and that was

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<v Speaker 4>really lovely. Thanks well.

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<v Speaker 3>I am so happy that you're here, so honored that

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<v Speaker 3>you're joining me today. You have truly done just too

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<v Speaker 3>much in your career in the best way possible. It's

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<v Speaker 3>really impressive. I want to start with the East Coast family.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, you're Cleveland born.

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<v Speaker 3>And bred and yet somehow entered the Philly centric universe

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<v Speaker 3>of Michael Bivens's motown record label BIV ten. How old

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<v Speaker 3>were you when you were signed to him and how

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<v Speaker 3>did you get connected to a member of Bell Bivdevo.

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<v Speaker 4>I was nineteen when I met him. I'd been a

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<v Speaker 4>fan of New Addition since I was twelve when they

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<v Speaker 4>first came out in eighty three.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like that's it.

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<v Speaker 4>That's my group, and they're up for the Rock Hall

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<v Speaker 4>of Fame right now, So please vote, everybody, get out

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<v Speaker 4>and vote for new edition. So I've been an Inny

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<v Speaker 4>for Lifers what they call us, since I was twelve.

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<v Speaker 4>But when I was nineteen, I was a sophomore in

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<v Speaker 4>college and Michael was was, you know, talking about boys

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<v Speaker 4>to men and another bad creation, and he was managing

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm like, I'm a singer. He's got to manage me.

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<v Speaker 4>He's got to manage me. So I kind of stalked

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<v Speaker 4>him after a concert in Cleveland. Jeff Dison, his bodyguard,

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<v Speaker 4>helped me find where they were staying, and I stalked him.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, mister Bimmins, massing for you. Mister Bimin's

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<v Speaker 5>massing for you. Mind you. Michael was maybe three or

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<v Speaker 5>four years older than me. Mister Bibvens, what am I daughters,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like two.

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<v Speaker 4>So he finally let me sing for him, and the

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<v Speaker 4>next day called me and said, I want to manage you.

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<v Speaker 4>And then I was in the East Coast family. It

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<v Speaker 4>was the most miraculous thing, but the craziest thing about

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<v Speaker 4>my stir with Michael. So we go from fan of

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<v Speaker 4>New Edition to sign by Michael and on biften Records,

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<v Speaker 4>to working as Michael's assistant when I first moved to

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<v Speaker 4>La to then playing his mother in the New Edition movie.

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<v Speaker 4>So I literally it's a full circle.

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<v Speaker 2>I have that in here that I was going to

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<v Speaker 2>ask you. Didn't you playing his mother in the movie.

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<v Speaker 3>Was that something like you guys had stayed in touch

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<v Speaker 3>and you were like, hey, let's work together, or did

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<v Speaker 3>that just want?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean we stayed in touch, like me and Michael

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<v Speaker 4>have been in touch since I first met him, but

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<v Speaker 4>we weren't like, it's not like we're doing a movie

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<v Speaker 4>of our life.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you want to play my mot No?

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<v Speaker 4>I auditioned to it at least twice with every other

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<v Speaker 4>black woman of a certain age in Hollywood, and just

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<v Speaker 4>so happened that that's the mom I got. We all

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<v Speaker 4>auditioned for random mom right then they once they picked

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<v Speaker 4>the mothers or the actresses they wanted, they then put

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<v Speaker 4>us with the different New Edition member And I got Michael.

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<v Speaker 2>From mister Bivens at nineteen to play in his mom.

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<v Speaker 5>Mom and I'm still friends with his mom. I owe

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<v Speaker 5>a call. His mom is a vibe. Shirley Bibvens is

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<v Speaker 5>a vibe.

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<v Speaker 6>He's a vibe.

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<v Speaker 3>What a trajectory of friendship. I love that you were

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<v Speaker 3>one of maybe two hundred and fifty young adults he

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<v Speaker 3>signed at the time, including like we mentioned, another bad creation,

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<v Speaker 3>Boys to Men and mc brains.

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<v Speaker 2>Was was it as fun as it sounds?

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<v Speaker 4>It was the most fun because you know, one you know,

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<v Speaker 4>you grow up in your dreaming, like I always wanted

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<v Speaker 4>to be a singer, even more than being an actress.

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<v Speaker 5>I want to be a singer.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm already living like that dream just being around them.

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<v Speaker 4>But it was also at the beginning of Boys to

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<v Speaker 4>Men and Boys to Men became a super nova. This

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<v Speaker 4>is before the Road, you know. So I got to

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<v Speaker 4>watch them grow. And I just went to the amazing

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<v Speaker 4>concert new Edition Boys to Men Tony Brax and go

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<v Speaker 4>see it if you haven't seen, to be at that

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<v Speaker 4>concert and know that everyone on that stage was my friend.

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<v Speaker 4>Everyone on that stage I have their phone number or

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<v Speaker 4>have a memory with them. And to be able to

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<v Speaker 4>celebrate all of them as they celebrated each other. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>I just did a film, a lifetime film with Tony Braxton.

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<v Speaker 4>She's like my sister, so it was like, it's just

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<v Speaker 4>amazing the full circle moments I've had.

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<v Speaker 5>I know you've had a few, probably at your age.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm the older. But even when you get you hold

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<v Speaker 5>you have you cross forty yet?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, forty, I'm going to be forty five.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, you're still a baby. But like, once

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<v Speaker 4>you cross over forty, it's like your life plays in

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<v Speaker 4>front of you a thousand different ways, either the children

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<v Speaker 4>you're raising, or people you worked with, or you know,

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<v Speaker 4>thirty years of a show, like all of that stuff,

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<v Speaker 4>it just comes back in ways, and it's nice to

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<v Speaker 4>still be alive to witness those wins.

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<v Speaker 3>And to correct and like you said, to celebrate those

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<v Speaker 3>accomplishments of your friends who it is rare to have

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<v Speaker 3>a long career in the entertainment industry. So the fact

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<v Speaker 3>that you can count on multiple hands the people and

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<v Speaker 3>going look at you and look at you, and we're still.

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<v Speaker 2>Doing it, it's such a great feeling.

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<v Speaker 3>It's amazing. It's Yeah, my husband is a massive fan

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<v Speaker 3>of the One for All music video you appear in.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, and you know that is the most random

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<v Speaker 4>thing I've ever heard.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh really, Oh yeah, big big fan. What do you

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<v Speaker 3>remember from filming that day.

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<v Speaker 4>I remember that we shot it in Houston, and it's

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<v Speaker 4>my first time going to Texas and it was so hot.

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<v Speaker 5>I remember that.

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<v Speaker 4>I remember just thinking that it was going to be

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<v Speaker 4>a moment, and I think we all thought that this

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<v Speaker 4>was our beginning. You know, it was not true for

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<v Speaker 4>most of us, but we were like, this is it.

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<v Speaker 4>We about to be shot out like a cannon. And

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<v Speaker 4>one of my sharpest memories is I remember Mary J.

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<v Speaker 4>Blige's first album, What's the four One one had just

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<v Speaker 4>come out, so we were on set listening to Mary J.

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<v Speaker 4>Blige and she and I think she's maybe one year

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<v Speaker 4>older than me, but I remember going, gosh, she's amazing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I was twenty she was twenty one, and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>this is so great. She's gonna be a big star.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I just have snapshots of moments like that. And

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<v Speaker 4>then just getting to spend the whole day with everybody

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<v Speaker 4>in the East Coast family was really wonderful. It was

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<v Speaker 4>we did that day and then the day we were recording,

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<v Speaker 4>and we traveled a bit and toured a bit with

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<v Speaker 4>each other. So I have a lot of memories from

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<v Speaker 4>being a teenager just chasing that dream Well.

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<v Speaker 3>One of the very specific questions he wanted me to

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<v Speaker 3>ask you is about Fruit Punch, the kid at the beginning.

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<v Speaker 2>Of the song. He was dressed like Rkle and we

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<v Speaker 2>never heard from him again.

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<v Speaker 4>That was Ryan, That is Michael's cousin. His mom, Dianne Bivins,

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<v Speaker 4>was like our road manager of the East Coast Family,

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<v Speaker 4>and she actually is the first person outside of a

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<v Speaker 4>high school teacher, that told me I should pursue acting

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<v Speaker 4>because I auditioned and stuff while I was I started

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<v Speaker 4>auditioning during the East Coast Family, but I was still

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<v Speaker 4>in Cleveland, so it didn't stick. But she's the one

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<v Speaker 4>that put that in me, besides my my acting teacher

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<v Speaker 4>in high school, MSSC.

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<v Speaker 5>Curry.

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<v Speaker 4>She's the one that told me you could do this.

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<v Speaker 4>So anyway, Ryan Fruit Punch was her son, and so

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know that he ever had dreams of being

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<v Speaker 4>a performer. I just think he was a cute kid.

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<v Speaker 4>And Mike was like, come about this this manhole and

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<v Speaker 4>you know, start the song.

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<v Speaker 2>He's like, all right, done, done.

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<v Speaker 3>Are there any fashion trends from this day or from

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<v Speaker 3>the specific time and hip hop and R and B

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<v Speaker 3>that you would like to see come back. I can

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<v Speaker 3>give you some examples like airbrushed overalls with one strap

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<v Speaker 3>off starter jackets, biker shorts are kind of back, like

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<v Speaker 3>we already have that baggy designer leather jackets on women.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe even shoulder pads, anything you're fond of.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a fan of shoulder pads, a good fan. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>a big fan of men's wear. I'm in a tie.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm in a tie only video on a vest i

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<v Speaker 4>like a few French rolls and a little tendrils. It's

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of some hair things that we might or

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<v Speaker 4>may not want to bring back, you know. And then also,

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<v Speaker 4>I this wasn't in the video, but I always fly

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<v Speaker 4>a flag for hair and pants.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh I love it. I love it. Not not an

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<v Speaker 5>empty hammer hammer pants. It's a little too much for me.

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<v Speaker 4>When a low drop crotched. You know, it's a wonderful.

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<v Speaker 3>Garment, absolutely, especially in like a nice thin fabricable.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, linen.

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<v Speaker 5>Silk, come on, come on there, it is there.

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<v Speaker 2>It is so on community. Did you talk music with

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<v Speaker 2>Donald Glover?

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like he was heavily inspired by the era

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<v Speaker 3>you grew.

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<v Speaker 2>Up making music. And I was in a Donald Glover

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<v Speaker 2>music video.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like I know this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I play I'm in like a dream

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<v Speaker 3>sequence and one of his in one of his.

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<v Speaker 5>Videos, like, I feel like I know this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, did you talk music with him?

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like you would have had a crush when

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<v Speaker 4>you was a kid too, So I think that's well.

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<v Speaker 3>Did he think maybe we I ended up in the

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<v Speaker 3>video because he had?

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<v Speaker 5>I think you did. I think that's how it worked out.

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<v Speaker 4>We did. We? You know, a lot of us on

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<v Speaker 4>the show are musical. Kim Jung actually has a beautiful voice.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if people know this about Ken Jong.

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<v Speaker 4>He's an amazing singer, and I think and he plays

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<v Speaker 4>panel too, So we all had a lot of conversations.

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<v Speaker 4>Donald was the most efficient user of time on the

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<v Speaker 4>community set.

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<v Speaker 5>He created Atlanta.

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<v Speaker 4>On off time, on community he created he became Childish Gambino.

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<v Speaker 5>At our community table, we had the.

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<v Speaker 4>Wu Tang I don't know what it was, called the

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<v Speaker 4>Wu Tang aggregator or Wu Tang. It was this thing,

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<v Speaker 4>this Wu Tang clan thing where you could find your

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<v Speaker 4>Wu Tang name by using this little whatever.

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<v Speaker 5>This thing was.

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<v Speaker 4>So we all got our names, and Donald's was childish Cambino.

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<v Speaker 4>That's how he became childish Cambino happened at the table.

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<v Speaker 4>We'd have a break and he'd be with his computer

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<v Speaker 4>doing beats. Like he's always been just an efficient user

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<v Speaker 4>of time. Yeah, you know how they say in Hamilton,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, why do you write like you're running out

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<v Speaker 4>of time? Donald does everything like he's running out of time.

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<v Speaker 4>So we did talk about it, but it was like

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<v Speaker 4>something he was just doing.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean, he was just constantly creating.

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<v Speaker 4>He's always creating. He's one of I've said this in

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<v Speaker 4>other interviews, but he's one of the most creative people

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<v Speaker 4>I've ever met. Never met Michael Jackson, never met Prince

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<v Speaker 4>so I can't speak on their level of creativity. But

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<v Speaker 4>Donald can do everything creative. He can bake, he can dance,

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<v Speaker 4>he can draw, he can knit, he can knit. Wow,

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<v Speaker 4>he can dance. He does comedy, he writes, he sings,

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<v Speaker 4>he he raps like he literally anything creative he can

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<v Speaker 4>put his hand to and make it magic. So we

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<v Speaker 4>saw that he would come in go I wrote this song,

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<v Speaker 4>and it'd be a song that ended up on his

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<v Speaker 4>album Camp Like he's just he's a.

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<v Speaker 3>Beast, right, Yeah, I had a wonderful time with him.

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<v Speaker 3>It was clapping for the wrong reasons is the name

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<v Speaker 3>of the video that I was in, And uh yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I remember also thinking that day, Wow, he never really sits.

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<v Speaker 3>He doesn't he doesn't relax because you know, when I

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<v Speaker 3>was needed, I was there, and then when I wasn't needed,

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<v Speaker 3>I was just like relaxing, and he when he was

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<v Speaker 3>not needed in front, he was on something, he was

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<v Speaker 3>working on something, he was writing something, he was just

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<v Speaker 3>he was.

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<v Speaker 2>Go, go go.

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<v Speaker 3>But boy, it was a really cool experience for me

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<v Speaker 3>to see him in action.

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<v Speaker 6>I love that he's a sweetheart.

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<v Speaker 3>We saw each other recently, you and I both freaking

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<v Speaker 3>out at a Janet Jackson concert, and I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>about you, but I was absolutely blown away by how

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<v Speaker 3>great she still is.

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<v Speaker 4>Listen, I love her so much. And this is not

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<v Speaker 4>news to anyone that's ever heard me talk about Janet

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<v Speaker 4>like she's my number one, Like I think she's just

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<v Speaker 4>First of all, she's very kind. I'm blessed to say

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<v Speaker 4>that we're friends now. She's very kind, very loving, very supportive,

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<v Speaker 4>very accessible. And then that's just her as a human being.

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<v Speaker 4>But then you moved to her as an artist and

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<v Speaker 4>the fact that she has perfect pitch, the fact that

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<v Speaker 4>she can stack vocals like her other stacked vocals.

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<v Speaker 5>She's a beast in the studio.

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<v Speaker 4>Jimmy jam has told me stories of working with her

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<v Speaker 4>and how amazing it is, and she's humble. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 4>she just regular, you know, she's just she's just the best.

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<v Speaker 4>And she's you know, coming up on sixty and you

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<v Speaker 4>would do sixty where that woman got the knee ware

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<v Speaker 4>at the knees of a thirty five year old, she'd

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<v Speaker 4>be the way she dances, my lord.

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<v Speaker 2>It was. It was really incredible.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I went in having really no expectations because

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't know, like when was the last time I

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<v Speaker 3>had seen her perform, And literally just kept looking around

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<v Speaker 3>like is this Relia?

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<v Speaker 2>And she sang the entire time, the entire time.

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<v Speaker 3>I kept thinking, when are they gonna put When is

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<v Speaker 3>she gonna sit down to take a break?

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<v Speaker 5>Nope, saying the entire time Mike was on.

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<v Speaker 3>Mike was on the entire time, danced the entire time,

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<v Speaker 3>up and down the stage the entire time, not even

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<v Speaker 3>super long wardrobe changes, just.

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<v Speaker 2>She was just moving.

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<v Speaker 5>She gave us a show.

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<v Speaker 2>She really did.

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<v Speaker 3>She really did who were your favorite singers and rappers

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<v Speaker 3>growing up? I know you mentioned Janet's your number one,

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<v Speaker 3>So who are ausition?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Michael Jackson, Prince, Whitney, Houston. I can't believe Prince,

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<v Speaker 4>Michael Jackson and Whitney being gone. I just don't even

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<v Speaker 4>know where to file that. And then I'm you grew

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<v Speaker 4>up in the seventies and the eighties, so I'm a

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I like some seventies R and B. I

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<v Speaker 4>like some Shallamar, some dbars switch, you know, like when

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<v Speaker 4>people were really playing instruments and really singing heat Wave,

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<v Speaker 4>earth Wind and Fire, Stevie Wonder, Luther Van dross Aker,

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I could. My R and B list is long.

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<v Speaker 4>And then I also love like Dolly Parton. She's one

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<v Speaker 4>of my favorites. Ronnie Millsap. I used to love country

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<v Speaker 4>back when I was a kid too, so it's everywhere.

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<v Speaker 4>And then my brother loved Kiss, so I grew up

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<v Speaker 4>listening to Kiss and loving Kiss.

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<v Speaker 6>So I'm across.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm all across the.

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<v Speaker 2>Border, You're all across the genres. Yeah, you love it all.

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<v Speaker 3>What was high school like for you? Were you were

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<v Speaker 3>you an entertainer at your school?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I think I was Junior High was rough,

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<v Speaker 4>and when I talk about my embarrassment, it's gonna be

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<v Speaker 4>a doozy from the seventh grade. But by the time

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<v Speaker 4>I got to tenth grade and I had my braces

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<v Speaker 4>and figured out my acne cream, I think I found

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<v Speaker 4>a sweet spot where I was not the most popular,

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<v Speaker 4>but I also was no longer the outcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone was right sweet spot. Nobody's paying any attention.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm just listen. I'm the same way on red carpets. Now,

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<v Speaker 4>when I get dressed for a red carpet, I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>trying to be best dressed.

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<v Speaker 5>Don't want to be worst dressed. I want to be

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<v Speaker 5>right in the middle.

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<v Speaker 4>Just ignore, just to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Want to give you a good interview, but nothing too

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<v Speaker 3>clickbaitableaven nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>So I got to that sweet spot. And I think

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<v Speaker 4>the reason I bodied that lane so well is that

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<v Speaker 4>I have such a love for other people.

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<v Speaker 5>So throughout school.

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<v Speaker 4>I collected all the other misfits and the underdogs. Everybody

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<v Speaker 4>could sit with me, everybody could hang with me. So

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<v Speaker 4>by the time I graduated, I knew everybody. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>And that's that's the best way I think to go

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<v Speaker 4>through life. I I as a kid. After what I

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<v Speaker 4>tell the story of when I was in junior high

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<v Speaker 4>I never understood who got to decide who was popular, Like,

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<v Speaker 4>why did you get to say that you matter and

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<v Speaker 4>I don't matter? Why do you get to say that

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<v Speaker 4>they don't matter?

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<v Speaker 5>What you know?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not saying that you're not a great person, but

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<v Speaker 4>why do you have to be greater than me? Why

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<v Speaker 4>do you have to make me feel bad? So I

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<v Speaker 4>decided I'm not I don't believe you.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you love that.

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<v Speaker 5>You can say I'm not cool or I'm not whatever.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't believe you.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I'm great, and I think these people with

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<v Speaker 4>me are great and we're gonna go be great. And

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<v Speaker 4>if you want to come be great with this, you can,

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<v Speaker 4>but you're not gonna make us feel bad about who

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<v Speaker 4>we are because you've decided that we're not cute enough,

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<v Speaker 4>tall enough, clear skinned enough, straight to you. Whatever the

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<v Speaker 4>thing is, I've never understood that. I've never liked it,

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<v Speaker 4>never understood it.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel very much the same way, But it is

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<v Speaker 3>it really, I think just comes from such a scarcity mindset.

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<v Speaker 2>It's when people feel as though there's.

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<v Speaker 3>Only one spot and if someone's gonna claim it. It's

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<v Speaker 3>gonna be me and I'm gonna fight everyone else away

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<v Speaker 3>from the one spot, and I I thankfully don't. I

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<v Speaker 3>just don't think that in that way, and obviously neither

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<v Speaker 3>do you. So tell me about junior high. Junior High

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<v Speaker 3>I think is rough across the board, because I also

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<v Speaker 3>did not have lovely junior high experiences.

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<v Speaker 2>So what was junior high like for you?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, well, let me say this. First.

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<v Speaker 4>I grew up in East Cleveland, which is the hood,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm proudly from the hood.

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<v Speaker 5>And then I moved.

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<v Speaker 4>My mom wanted a better life for us, so we

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<v Speaker 4>moved to the suburbs. So it was like going from

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<v Speaker 4>you know, the inner city to like Beverly Hills. Right,

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<v Speaker 4>we didn't have the Beverly Hills money, so we were

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<v Speaker 4>still in like wrangler jeans and hand me downs, but

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<v Speaker 4>we were in.

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<v Speaker 5>A better school system.

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<v Speaker 4>So it was culture shock for me getting there and

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<v Speaker 4>seeing these girls with their hair freshly pressed, and they're

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<v Speaker 4>in Jordan ash and Gloria Vanderbilt jean's, and you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm in my brother's hand me down wranglers, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>or my cousin's hand me downs. So automatically walking in

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<v Speaker 4>I was targeted, like one of these things is not

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<v Speaker 4>like the other, right. And so when I was when

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<v Speaker 4>I was in seventh grade, it was this guy I

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<v Speaker 4>really liked. I thought he was a cue thing I've

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<v Speaker 4>ever seen. Now I will not say his name because

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<v Speaker 4>I do still know him. Okay, I don't wont say

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<v Speaker 4>his name. But I thought he was great. And there

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<v Speaker 4>was a girl friend of mine. She's now a friend,

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<v Speaker 4>but she was really mean to me on this particular day.

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<v Speaker 4>She used to date this guy date.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah, they once looked at each other across the

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<v Speaker 3>across the.

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<v Speaker 4>They once held hands at reason, but she used to

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<v Speaker 4>date them, and they had broken up, and she knew that.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought he was super duper cute. And so one

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<v Speaker 4>day she came up to me and she said, so

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<v Speaker 4>and SO likes you And I said no. She said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>he likes you, and I think you should write him

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<v Speaker 4>a note and ask him if he likes you too,

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<v Speaker 4>and you should give it to him tomorrow. And I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, oh, my god, he likes me like I

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<v Speaker 4>never thought he would like me. So I'm talking to

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<v Speaker 4>my friends and they're like, okay, well you should wear

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<v Speaker 4>this shirt and one of my friends let me borrow her.

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<v Speaker 4>One of my friends let me borrow her little ear rings.

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<v Speaker 4>I remember I had this this black and white I'll

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<v Speaker 4>never forget the outfit, black and white striped shirt with

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<v Speaker 4>these poof it was the eighties, yes, right. And she

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<v Speaker 4>gave me these spot these plastic spiral earrings that were

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<v Speaker 4>also black and white.

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<v Speaker 5>So I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 4>I got the outfit. Penmanship is on point. I'm writing

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<v Speaker 4>the note dear so and so I I really like

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<v Speaker 4>you too, you know, would you like my number? I

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<v Speaker 4>don't even know what I put the note. It's a

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<v Speaker 4>blur because it was so traumatic. So I get to

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<v Speaker 4>school and I have lunch. I either had lunch first

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<v Speaker 4>or study hall first. I had lunch first, then study all.

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<v Speaker 4>So I go to lunch and he also has lunch

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<v Speaker 4>first and then study all. He's there, heus gorgeous, cross

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<v Speaker 4>the room.

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<v Speaker 5>It's my moment. So I walk up.

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<v Speaker 4>He's talking to his friends.

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<v Speaker 6>I walk up.

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<v Speaker 4>I give him the note, Danielle like, give them the

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<v Speaker 4>note listeners, And he said, what's this? And I said,

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<v Speaker 4>and he didn't say it, like, what's this?

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<v Speaker 5>He said what's this? And I said, you know, oh.

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<v Speaker 3>It looks so confident she really Never for a second

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<v Speaker 3>did you think you think maybe she's doing something to

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<v Speaker 3>screw me over?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, I thought, this is this is a lovely

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<v Speaker 4>thing she's doing. She sees the love is supposed to happen,

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<v Speaker 4>and she's just about to happen. So he opened the

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<v Speaker 4>note in front of me. You read the note. He

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<v Speaker 4>laughed at the note. He showed the note to the

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<v Speaker 4>friends with him, and then he passed the note around

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<v Speaker 4>the lunch room. And the bottom line was, how dare

0:20:58.400 --> 0:21:04.200
<v Speaker 4>she think that I whatever? So I, of course am

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<v Speaker 4>face on the ground.

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<v Speaker 5>I scurry out of there. I've never scurried in my life,

0:21:08.560 --> 0:21:09.919
<v Speaker 5>but I scurried, scurried that.

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<v Speaker 4>I scurried out of there, and I got to the

0:21:11.920 --> 0:21:13.760
<v Speaker 4>bathroom because I didn't want to go to study hall too.

0:21:14.280 --> 0:21:15.879
<v Speaker 4>I went to the bathroom, pulled my feet up on

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<v Speaker 4>the on this this things locked the door in the stall,

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<v Speaker 4>just like, okay, what just happened? Like I couldn't I

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<v Speaker 4>was twelve. I couldn't process that level of cruelty. I

0:21:23.800 --> 0:21:26.480
<v Speaker 4>did not understand, because again, I'm the one that's like

0:21:26.520 --> 0:21:29.399
<v Speaker 4>everybody can sit with me, So I don't understand going

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<v Speaker 4>out of your way to.

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<v Speaker 5>Harm I've never understood.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm in there and then people are coming in,

0:21:35.480 --> 0:21:38.360
<v Speaker 4>girls are coming in, and the only topic is me.

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone, And because your feed are up, they don't even

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<v Speaker 3>know you're there, so they care.

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<v Speaker 2>They're just still talking about you here and all.

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<v Speaker 4>Can you believe that was dumb enough to think blah

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<v Speaker 4>blah blah, just oh my god, he would never like it.

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<v Speaker 5>I can't believe. I die.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so embarrassed for her. So I didn't have to

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<v Speaker 4>go to study hall because lunch is over, I have

0:21:55.760 --> 0:21:57.119
<v Speaker 4>to go to study hall check in. I get in

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<v Speaker 4>study hall and I just put my head down on

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<v Speaker 4>my desk and I'm just like, I'm crying.

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<v Speaker 5>It's bad.

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<v Speaker 4>The girl that did this to me comes and sits

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<v Speaker 4>in front of me, and she leans down and she goes,

0:22:06.600 --> 0:22:10.080
<v Speaker 4>I can't believe you thought he would ever like you?

0:22:10.320 --> 0:22:14.800
<v Speaker 4>How dumb are you? When I tell you, I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I do know that evil exists. And really, to this day,

0:22:19.440 --> 0:22:22.320
<v Speaker 4>I'm grateful because I think now, had I not had

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<v Speaker 4>that lesson of how dark and mean people could be,

0:22:26.400 --> 0:22:28.640
<v Speaker 4>I probably would have been hurt a lot more in life.

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<v Speaker 4>But learning that at twelve taught me that everybody smiling

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<v Speaker 4>in your face is not for you.

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<v Speaker 5>Now.

0:22:36.080 --> 0:22:38.520
<v Speaker 4>She and I life went on, And this is one

0:22:38.520 --> 0:22:40.520
<v Speaker 4>thing I know about karma and how fair God is.

0:22:41.320 --> 0:22:45.080
<v Speaker 4>As life went on. Everything in life she wanted, I

0:22:45.119 --> 0:22:50.359
<v Speaker 4>got hm everything. I mean when we got to high school,

0:22:50.359 --> 0:22:53.359
<v Speaker 4>a guy she liked liked me. The sorority I joined,

0:22:53.359 --> 0:22:55.000
<v Speaker 4>she wanted to join. She didn't get it that sorority.

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<v Speaker 4>She loves. A lot of the artists that I love

0:22:58.080 --> 0:23:00.199
<v Speaker 4>that I'm now friends were her favorite artist I ever

0:23:00.200 --> 0:23:02.720
<v Speaker 4>met them. Like it's like it's almost like God was like,

0:23:04.040 --> 0:23:07.040
<v Speaker 4>you gonna do something this nasty that somebody don't bother nobody.

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<v Speaker 5>You need to know. You need to know loss through her.

0:23:12.200 --> 0:23:15.880
<v Speaker 4>You now need to experience loss through someone you tried

0:23:15.920 --> 0:23:18.440
<v Speaker 4>to take down. And she and I are friends now,

0:23:18.440 --> 0:23:21.520
<v Speaker 4>Like she's lovely. I think it was just the a

0:23:21.640 --> 0:23:24.520
<v Speaker 4>child doing something that was unkind, and maybe she had

0:23:24.520 --> 0:23:26.520
<v Speaker 4>been treated unkind maybe so, I don't know the reason,

0:23:27.280 --> 0:23:29.840
<v Speaker 4>but we're friends now. I consider her friend and I've

0:23:29.840 --> 0:23:34.879
<v Speaker 4>forgiven her thirty years ago, but that moment will stay

0:23:34.880 --> 0:23:38.680
<v Speaker 4>with me the rest of my life. And thankfully, thankfully.

0:23:40.000 --> 0:23:45.720
<v Speaker 3>Yes, a rat that is rough. Yeah, and to and

0:23:46.119 --> 0:23:48.520
<v Speaker 3>you're friends with the guy still too, the guy.

0:23:48.359 --> 0:23:50.840
<v Speaker 4>I wouldn't say friends, but I know him. He now

0:23:51.040 --> 0:23:52.600
<v Speaker 4>has reached out a few times because he has a

0:23:52.640 --> 0:23:55.720
<v Speaker 4>magazine and he's reached out now he wants something from

0:23:55.760 --> 0:23:57.480
<v Speaker 4>you made to do his magazine.

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<v Speaker 5>So you know, and I'm thinking, not me, what why

0:24:00.640 --> 0:24:01.200
<v Speaker 5>would you want?

0:24:01.720 --> 0:24:04.480
<v Speaker 3>You know, you made it very clear I should never

0:24:04.720 --> 0:24:10.440
<v Speaker 3>think that you would want something to me, right.

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<v Speaker 4>So you know, and I'm still kind to people like

0:24:12.800 --> 0:24:15.720
<v Speaker 4>I'm still you know, if he hears this story any

0:24:15.760 --> 0:24:18.199
<v Speaker 4>may you know, he may not even remember because it

0:24:18.240 --> 0:24:21.760
<v Speaker 4>was so it was nothing to them, It was everything

0:24:22.080 --> 0:24:22.359
<v Speaker 4>to me.

0:24:23.119 --> 0:24:23.520
<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I have a memory of the guy that I liked

0:24:27.480 --> 0:24:29.920
<v Speaker 3>in junior high who was I was in sixth grade.

0:24:29.960 --> 0:24:34.200
<v Speaker 3>He was in eighth grade, and he was so cute

0:24:34.760 --> 0:24:37.640
<v Speaker 3>and I thought, I truly just thought, oh my gosh.

0:24:37.680 --> 0:24:40.720
<v Speaker 3>And he was he was cool and I wasn't exactly cool,

0:24:41.280 --> 0:24:43.960
<v Speaker 3>and I just I thought, oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 2>This I just kept every day.

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<v Speaker 3>Was me daydreaming about how it was going to turn out,

0:24:47.920 --> 0:24:50.679
<v Speaker 3>that we were going to end up being together. Absolutely,

0:24:50.960 --> 0:24:55.479
<v Speaker 3>And then in my theater class there was a kid

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<v Speaker 3>who had I think the best way of describing it

0:24:59.000 --> 0:25:01.800
<v Speaker 3>is probably I don't know what he would be diagnosed

0:25:01.840 --> 0:25:03.840
<v Speaker 3>with today or whether or not he had been diagnosed

0:25:03.840 --> 0:25:06.760
<v Speaker 3>with anything at the time, but he was definitely neurodivergent

0:25:07.040 --> 0:25:12.480
<v Speaker 3>and had some learning disabilities. And I saw the guy

0:25:12.560 --> 0:25:14.600
<v Speaker 3>I have a crush on. It was another class he

0:25:14.640 --> 0:25:17.480
<v Speaker 3>had done, like a big science project, like something with cardboard,

0:25:17.480 --> 0:25:20.040
<v Speaker 3>you know, that opened up, and he brought it into

0:25:20.760 --> 0:25:24.399
<v Speaker 3>the theater and the guy I had a crush on

0:25:25.280 --> 0:25:30.000
<v Speaker 3>asked to see it, and the friend opened it up

0:25:30.240 --> 0:25:32.840
<v Speaker 3>and was kind of showing it off and was very

0:25:32.880 --> 0:25:35.359
<v Speaker 3>proud of it, and the guy I had a crush

0:25:35.359 --> 0:25:39.040
<v Speaker 3>on just started laughing at him and pointing at it

0:25:39.080 --> 0:25:44.000
<v Speaker 3>and talking about how stupid he was. And wow, my

0:25:44.080 --> 0:25:45.959
<v Speaker 3>friend closed it and was then embarrassed that he had

0:25:45.960 --> 0:25:47.800
<v Speaker 3>been so proud to share it and put it down

0:25:47.840 --> 0:25:50.800
<v Speaker 3>on the floor, and then he went up on stage

0:25:50.880 --> 0:25:53.399
<v Speaker 3>to do what he needed to do with theater, and

0:25:53.440 --> 0:25:57.959
<v Speaker 3>the kid I had a crush on stomped do you know?

0:25:58.720 --> 0:26:04.840
<v Speaker 3>His project? And from that moment on, I was never

0:26:04.960 --> 0:26:09.080
<v Speaker 3>able to see that guy as cute ever he was, he.

0:26:09.040 --> 0:26:10.400
<v Speaker 2>Was now hideous.

0:26:11.359 --> 0:26:14.960
<v Speaker 3>And I think I was on stage at the time

0:26:15.200 --> 0:26:17.800
<v Speaker 3>with and he saw it happening, and he was.

0:26:17.760 --> 0:26:22.680
<v Speaker 2>Like oh, and I lost it. I became like it

0:26:23.320 --> 0:26:23.920
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I.

0:26:23.880 --> 0:26:28.240
<v Speaker 3>Was like, how dare you that's not yours? Like just

0:26:28.400 --> 0:26:33.200
<v Speaker 3>fully freaked out and yeah. So the thing that reminded

0:26:33.200 --> 0:26:36.040
<v Speaker 3>me of that story was when you said, you know

0:26:36.119 --> 0:26:38.840
<v Speaker 3>this person, this woman, this girl who you had thought

0:26:39.080 --> 0:26:41.920
<v Speaker 3>was your friend so much so it never even occurred

0:26:42.000 --> 0:26:45.000
<v Speaker 3>to you that she could have been doing something like

0:26:45.200 --> 0:26:47.439
<v Speaker 3>even when he was like, what's this, you were like,

0:26:47.760 --> 0:26:50.480
<v Speaker 3>of course, you know, yeah, you know what this is.

0:26:51.600 --> 0:26:53.520
<v Speaker 3>And then when she came in and just showed you

0:26:53.640 --> 0:26:57.240
<v Speaker 3>that evil, that's it was like, one, take the mask

0:26:57.320 --> 0:26:59.080
<v Speaker 3>off and guess what I am.

0:26:59.240 --> 0:27:03.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm so great full. Thank you. Please everyone wearing that

0:27:03.960 --> 0:27:05.760
<v Speaker 2>kind of mask, please don't reveal it.

0:27:05.920 --> 0:27:08.639
<v Speaker 3>Take it off, please, And no matter what the outcome is,

0:27:09.040 --> 0:27:11.200
<v Speaker 3>we're going to be better off seeing you.

0:27:11.359 --> 0:27:14.480
<v Speaker 4>I I want to just hearing your story. Where does

0:27:14.520 --> 0:27:17.680
<v Speaker 4>that come from in a child? How does a child

0:27:17.880 --> 0:27:22.159
<v Speaker 4>know to destroy a spirit like that, to wings like that?

0:27:22.280 --> 0:27:24.440
<v Speaker 4>Like I am so grateful, Like when I tell people

0:27:24.440 --> 0:27:26.560
<v Speaker 4>when someone does something atrocious and I don't understand, I'm

0:27:26.600 --> 0:27:27.000
<v Speaker 4>so grateful.

0:27:27.000 --> 0:27:27.760
<v Speaker 5>I don't understand.

0:27:27.960 --> 0:27:30.479
<v Speaker 4>I'm so grateful that what is within me does not

0:27:30.680 --> 0:27:31.679
<v Speaker 4>vibrate at the same.

0:27:31.640 --> 0:27:35.280
<v Speaker 5>Level of that level of cruelty. That's horrible.

0:27:35.520 --> 0:27:37.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, couldn't agree with you more, couldn't agree with you

0:27:37.480 --> 0:27:52.480
<v Speaker 2>more horrible. Did you have a high school sweetheart?

0:27:53.920 --> 0:27:54.480
<v Speaker 5>I did?

0:27:55.280 --> 0:28:00.520
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I did, Alan White. We're still friends, oh all

0:28:00.520 --> 0:28:00.960
<v Speaker 4>these years?

0:28:00.960 --> 0:28:03.080
<v Speaker 2>Like how many friends you have still from this time

0:28:03.160 --> 0:28:03.680
<v Speaker 2>of your life?

0:28:03.680 --> 0:28:05.200
<v Speaker 4>I keep them, baby, If I get a good one,

0:28:05.200 --> 0:28:08.120
<v Speaker 4>I keep them, you know, And I feel like first love,

0:28:08.119 --> 0:28:10.560
<v Speaker 4>you got it. If you can they haven't done something

0:28:10.560 --> 0:28:13.959
<v Speaker 4>completely destructive, you should hold on because that's they have

0:28:14.000 --> 0:28:17.000
<v Speaker 4>a cheak code for you that no one else does.

0:28:17.119 --> 0:28:19.560
<v Speaker 4>And I remember, even for years because Allen got married

0:28:19.600 --> 0:28:21.399
<v Speaker 4>really young. I got married a year ago, so I

0:28:21.400 --> 0:28:25.040
<v Speaker 4>got married very late, congratulations, And he got married really young.

0:28:25.280 --> 0:28:27.920
<v Speaker 4>So through the years we would talk every year on

0:28:27.960 --> 0:28:29.760
<v Speaker 4>our birthdays. Through the years, I was just like, why

0:28:29.800 --> 0:28:31.640
<v Speaker 4>is there nobody for me? And he used to always say,

0:28:31.640 --> 0:28:35.040
<v Speaker 4>said he that you you're not a regular chick. So

0:28:35.080 --> 0:28:37.880
<v Speaker 4>you're going to require a guy that's not a regular dude.

0:28:37.920 --> 0:28:40.960
<v Speaker 4>So you're gonna meet twenty guys in a year. Maybe

0:28:41.120 --> 0:28:43.920
<v Speaker 4>one would be the right fit for you, And I

0:28:44.000 --> 0:28:46.320
<v Speaker 4>suggest you wait for who that guy is only someone

0:28:46.360 --> 0:28:48.080
<v Speaker 4>that knew me from the time I was sixteen, could

0:28:48.080 --> 0:28:50.720
<v Speaker 4>say that to me at twenty five or at thirty

0:28:50.800 --> 0:28:53.920
<v Speaker 4>five and have it resonate, you know what I mean. So, yeah,

0:28:54.000 --> 0:28:56.280
<v Speaker 4>if I've got I got a set of girlfriends from

0:28:56.320 --> 0:28:58.600
<v Speaker 4>high school and middle school that I'm still cool with.

0:28:58.680 --> 0:29:02.000
<v Speaker 4>I mean, it's just good friends, are not They don't

0:29:02.200 --> 0:29:03.960
<v Speaker 4>were on trees. So if you get a good one, you.

0:29:03.960 --> 0:29:05.120
<v Speaker 5>Hold on, hold on.

0:29:05.440 --> 0:29:08.400
<v Speaker 3>All of my best friends are still from sixth grade.

0:29:08.600 --> 0:29:12.000
<v Speaker 3>We were We went from junior high straight through high school.

0:29:12.040 --> 0:29:15.280
<v Speaker 2>There's about twelve of us. We're all still in touch.

0:29:15.320 --> 0:29:17.240
<v Speaker 3>Of course, some of us are closer to others, like

0:29:17.920 --> 0:29:20.840
<v Speaker 3>everybody's got their best friend, but we are still in

0:29:20.920 --> 0:29:23.560
<v Speaker 3>touch as a group, get together for all of our

0:29:23.600 --> 0:29:28.080
<v Speaker 3>weddings and birth of children and you know, random girls night. Absolutely,

0:29:28.560 --> 0:29:30.840
<v Speaker 3>So I couldn't agree with you more about needing to

0:29:30.880 --> 0:29:34.240
<v Speaker 3>hold on to good ones because they are few and far.

0:29:34.080 --> 0:29:35.960
<v Speaker 5>Between, aren't they aren't they?

0:29:36.160 --> 0:29:40.080
<v Speaker 2>You went to high school with our Cineo Hall, which.

0:29:40.120 --> 0:29:42.160
<v Speaker 5>I feel like a few years apart.

0:29:42.240 --> 0:29:44.160
<v Speaker 2>Okay, the same high school.

0:29:44.000 --> 0:29:46.080
<v Speaker 5>As he's got me by a few years.

0:29:46.120 --> 0:29:48.000
<v Speaker 3>But yeah, okay, Well, because I went to the same

0:29:48.080 --> 0:29:51.200
<v Speaker 3>high school as the Menendez brothers, so it's it doesn't

0:29:51.200 --> 0:29:52.840
<v Speaker 3>feel as inspirational, you know.

0:29:56.120 --> 0:29:57.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, definitely not.

0:29:59.280 --> 0:30:02.080
<v Speaker 3>Did you love of talk shows growing up because you're

0:30:02.400 --> 0:30:05.640
<v Speaker 3>so good at them? I feel like you only get

0:30:05.680 --> 0:30:09.080
<v Speaker 3>that skill when you have been paying attention since you

0:30:09.120 --> 0:30:09.720
<v Speaker 3>were a kid.

0:30:09.840 --> 0:30:11.600
<v Speaker 4>Absolutely, And I want to take time to give you

0:30:11.600 --> 0:30:15.160
<v Speaker 4>your flowers. You are really good at this, kiddo. This

0:30:15.200 --> 0:30:18.400
<v Speaker 4>is a delightful conversation. And when you're having a conversation,

0:30:18.520 --> 0:30:20.440
<v Speaker 4>it feels like when you're on a podcast or an interview,

0:30:20.440 --> 0:30:23.000
<v Speaker 4>and it feels like a conversation. Yeah, got an interview.

0:30:23.520 --> 0:30:25.120
<v Speaker 4>That's a good interviewer. You're doing a great job. So

0:30:25.120 --> 0:30:27.000
<v Speaker 4>I want to make sure I say, cue, that's so sweet,

0:30:27.000 --> 0:30:28.400
<v Speaker 4>you're no baby.

0:30:28.200 --> 0:30:30.440
<v Speaker 5>It's so good, so good. I'm glad you're in this space.

0:30:30.760 --> 0:30:35.120
<v Speaker 4>But yeah, I grew up watching Oprah, Phil Donahue, Sally,

0:30:35.200 --> 0:30:39.760
<v Speaker 4>Jesse Rafael, I loved Jenny Jones, Ricky Lake. I can

0:30:39.880 --> 0:30:42.600
<v Speaker 4>name all of them because I like people and a

0:30:42.680 --> 0:30:45.240
<v Speaker 4>talk show was a place where you get to find

0:30:45.240 --> 0:30:47.800
<v Speaker 4>out about people. So I was watching more to see

0:30:47.800 --> 0:30:50.440
<v Speaker 4>what's going on in people's lives, and you know, see

0:30:50.480 --> 0:30:52.760
<v Speaker 4>how how life unfolds. Is a young person, and I

0:30:52.800 --> 0:30:56.000
<v Speaker 4>think during that I like wax On, wax offt Paint

0:30:56.000 --> 0:30:58.600
<v Speaker 4>the fence and Karate Kid. I was learning how to

0:30:58.680 --> 0:31:00.320
<v Speaker 4>do it and the way you do it well. And

0:31:00.320 --> 0:31:02.320
<v Speaker 4>this is why you do it well. You have to

0:31:02.360 --> 0:31:05.680
<v Speaker 4>be interested and you have to want to know the

0:31:05.960 --> 0:31:08.320
<v Speaker 4>ones that excel at talk show hosting because I feel

0:31:08.320 --> 0:31:10.240
<v Speaker 4>like I'm a kindisseur of talk show host at this Sam. Yes,

0:31:10.920 --> 0:31:14.200
<v Speaker 4>if they care more about themselves and this is my

0:31:14.320 --> 0:31:16.640
<v Speaker 4>moment to shine, it's not gonna be a good show.

0:31:16.920 --> 0:31:20.880
<v Speaker 4>If someone wants to provide a space in a spotlight

0:31:20.920 --> 0:31:23.080
<v Speaker 4>for other people to shine, that's gonna be a show

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<v Speaker 4>you want.

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<v Speaker 5>To watch every single day. Yep, every time O day.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, So that's I think that's the secret sauce,

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<v Speaker 4>and it's not I think sometimes they feel like you

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<v Speaker 4>have to be a famous person to do it. Forgetting

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<v Speaker 4>that Oprah wasn't famous when she got her show. Sally

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<v Speaker 4>Jesse Rafael wasn't famous when she got her show. Doing

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<v Speaker 4>the show well is what made them famous. So find

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<v Speaker 4>people that like people that are honest about their own lives,

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<v Speaker 4>and then you create a show around that person and

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<v Speaker 4>you're going to have a hit.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I was the biggest Oprah fan. I watched every

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<v Speaker 3>single episode. I loved it, and Oprah ended up being

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<v Speaker 3>one of the reasons. Her show ended up being one

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<v Speaker 3>of the reasons I went to college late in life

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<v Speaker 3>for psychology. I you know, Boy Meets World ended in

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<v Speaker 3>two thousand and I was nineteen and decided not to

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<v Speaker 3>go to school at that time.

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<v Speaker 2>And then the way.

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<v Speaker 3>The industry works, I had a lot of years of

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<v Speaker 3>struggling and not sure what I was going to do

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<v Speaker 3>and didn't work for a long time, and eventually got

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<v Speaker 3>to be about twenty six years old and realized, I've

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<v Speaker 3>been living off of savings that I made as a teenager,

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<v Speaker 3>and I have to work, but I may not ever

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<v Speaker 3>get hired again, and so what else do I know

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<v Speaker 3>how to do?

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<v Speaker 2>What do I want to do? And I was watching

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<v Speaker 2>an episode.

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<v Speaker 3>Of Oprah where she interviewed a marriage and family therapist

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<v Speaker 3>who specialized in children of divorce. Wow, And it was

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<v Speaker 3>the most interesting, fascinating, heart wrenching and also this feeling.

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<v Speaker 2>Of that's someone who's really of service.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, I want to do that.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to be And I went to school for

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<v Speaker 3>psychology and then got accepted for my master's degree at

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<v Speaker 3>Chapman University, and I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was just that's it, that's it, that's what I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to do.

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<v Speaker 3>And then the opportunity to do a Girl Meets World

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<v Speaker 3>came about in twenty fourteen, and I was likes, Girl

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<v Speaker 3>Meets World once in a lifetime opportunity.

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<v Speaker 2>I can get my master's later.

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<v Speaker 3>And I still I still maintain I will eventually have

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<v Speaker 3>my masters and will use it in some way of

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<v Speaker 3>being of service. But I still every time I think

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<v Speaker 3>about how I ended up going to school for psychology,

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<v Speaker 3>which was such an amazing experience, I think that's only

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<v Speaker 3>because of Oprah.

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<v Speaker 4>But also this is of service, Danielle. So you need

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<v Speaker 4>to realize that every time you're speaking and using what

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<v Speaker 4>you learned, you don't have to. Your psychiatry skill is

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<v Speaker 4>not just used in a room with a couch and

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<v Speaker 4>someone talking to you.

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<v Speaker 5>You're using it now. You're using it when you talk

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<v Speaker 5>to people.

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<v Speaker 4>You're using it when you support people and encourage people,

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<v Speaker 4>or you're there for someone when they're down.

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<v Speaker 5>You're using it.

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<v Speaker 4>So, yes, get your master's if that's what you want

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<v Speaker 4>to do, But do not think that you didn't complete

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<v Speaker 4>the mission, because you did, and you might have did

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<v Speaker 4>it so because the Lord knew where you were going

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<v Speaker 4>to be ultimately, so he needed you to get that

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<v Speaker 4>undergrad degree so that you're ready to do this because

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<v Speaker 4>this is psychology.

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<v Speaker 5>Every time you talk to somebody.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, thank you, I appreciate it. I did not mean

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<v Speaker 3>to turn this into a therapy session. You're sorry.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I think it's great.

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<v Speaker 4>But I think sometimes we have these things on the

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<v Speaker 4>list and we don't even realize. Again going to wax

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<v Speaker 4>On wax Off, you have the skill, you're doing the job.

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<v Speaker 4>You're in the space you're supposed to be in, even

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<v Speaker 4>if it looks a little different. Like I always thought

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<v Speaker 4>that i'd be a teacher. I thought I was going

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<v Speaker 4>to be an elementary school teacher. I love five and

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<v Speaker 4>six year olds first grade, and I'm a teacher, you

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<v Speaker 4>know what I mean. Everything I do is trying to

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<v Speaker 4>lead people to something that can make them better and

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<v Speaker 4>encouraging people to be better. So I'm using I'm doing

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<v Speaker 4>it in a different space. It's not in a classroom,

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<v Speaker 4>but it is what I do.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, Yes, And you're leading by example every single time

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<v Speaker 3>you open your mouth. You have guest hosted what I'm

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<v Speaker 3>calling the Triple Crown, the View, the Talk, and the Real.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's say there was going to be a steel cage

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<v Speaker 3>match between the hosts, which show would win.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh that's a good question. It also depends on which

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<v Speaker 5>set of view.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's go with Whoopy, Joy, Sonny and Anna Navarro.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh well, I gotta go with with with those four

0:35:23.800 --> 0:35:25.560
<v Speaker 4>women over now, I was gonna say that for anyone,

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<v Speaker 4>I was going to say the Real, because Lonnie Love

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<v Speaker 4>could go, Jeannie, Mike could go, and Adrin could go.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I think I think Tamara's too much of

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<v Speaker 4>a lady. She would not involve herself in the in

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<v Speaker 4>the cage match.

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<v Speaker 5>The other three.

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<v Speaker 4>Would tie to tie the hair up and put some

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<v Speaker 4>vaseline on and get it done. But I think that Anna, Whoopy, Sonny,

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<v Speaker 4>and Joy, they have that age behind them with they't

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<v Speaker 4>no kind.

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<v Speaker 5>Of sweep that leg.

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<v Speaker 4>So I feel like I gotta go with the View legs.

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<v Speaker 4>I think that they would literally wipe the floor.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, listen, I am not gonna argue with you for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen.

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<v Speaker 3>my podcast, I am going to do it. So Evett

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