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Speaker 1: It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Getting somebody a gift off

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Speaker 1: their wedding registry is something they'll remember forever. Yeah, especially

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Speaker 1: when you keep bringing it up to them years later.

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Speaker 1: Like Brook, remember when I got you for your wedding.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you got me a green blunder and you got

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Speaker 3: me a wine decanter.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, nice of me, And I use them both all

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Speaker 2: the time.

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Speaker 1: That's right. Whenever Brook drinks wine, which is every night

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Speaker 1: in most mornings, she has to think of me. Oh,

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Speaker 1: it's my way of cursing her.

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Speaker 3: For usually doesn't make it into the decanter. It usually

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Speaker 3: makes it straight into my mouth.

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Speaker 2: Every but it's pretty Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And for one of our listeners, though, her wedding registry

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Speaker 1: has actually caused drama in her relationship and now she

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Speaker 1: needs our help. So Shilah, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, how are you guys feeling?

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Speaker 3: I can't believe that whoever you're marry and even cares

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Speaker 3: about the wedding registry.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, was like, yeah, whatever you need.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, Charlotte, tell us what's going on in

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Speaker 4: Okay, So I have a wedding website okay, and on it,

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Speaker 4: I have my registry linked, and you know, I have

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Speaker 4: like regular stuff like dishes and towels and stuff, but

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Speaker 4: we also have like a thing you can donate to,

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Speaker 4: like our honeymoon fun. And then the one that has

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Speaker 4: my fiance upset is I had added an impromptu bachelorette

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Speaker 4: trip to Vegas, thinking people would probably just donate like

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Speaker 4: one hundred bucks, fifty bucks. They're just like spending money

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Speaker 4: kind of the thing.

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Speaker 1: Oh, okay, gambling money.

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Speaker 3: Oh, you put your bachelorette party on the I mean

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Speaker 3: that's nice because the bridesmaids don't have to pick up

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Speaker 4: No no, no, no.

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Speaker 1: You said it was a problem for your fiance. Why

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Speaker 4: It wasn't really a problem at first. But my fiance

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Speaker 4: was on there the other day to see if anyone

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Speaker 4: got anything, and he noticed that my coworker, my male coworker,

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Speaker 4: had donated to the bachelorette trip.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's so nice, really nice.

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Speaker 1: What's wrong with that?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he donated two thousand dollars. Whoa, whoa, Yeah, co

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Speaker 4: workers take not.

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Speaker 1: Upgrade hotel room. Now, that's awesome.

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Speaker 2: I mean, that's really cool.

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Speaker 3: Do you guys work in like a really well paid job,

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Speaker 3: you know, like he.

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Speaker 4: Could definitely, I guess afford it. I mean, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I don't assume anyone's finances.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, that's so sweet. I still, what's the issue.

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Speaker 4: My fiance feels like the reason that he gave that

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Speaker 4: much is because he's hoping that something will happen between

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Speaker 4: the two of us, like that, he's got an ulperior motive.

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Speaker 2: Oh, he's not going on the trip like what.

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Speaker 4: I'm married. My fiance feels like because of the amount

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Speaker 4: that he gave, but he he'll find some reason to

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Speaker 4: be down there and we'll want to meet up or

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Speaker 4: try to hook up or whatever.

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Speaker 3: He's not like that, and you can say no, you're happy,

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Speaker 3: like your fiance doesn't trust you to handle that if

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Speaker 3: that actually happened, which seems like a stretch.

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Speaker 4: If he does, thinks that's really inappropriate. He's like, I

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Speaker 4: know how guys are.

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Speaker 2: Tell me he's not making you give the money back?

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Speaker 4: Terrible, So that is actually why I'm calling, because he

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Speaker 4: wants me to give the money back.

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Speaker 1: And they like, think you can't just take the money

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Speaker 1: and use it on something else.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and just lie to both of men.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I mean, I want to start off

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Speaker 3: I'm just trying to think from his perspective, right, Like, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: if a woman gave him two thousand dollars to use

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Speaker 1: Little yeah, because it'd be one thing if he gave

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Speaker 1: you the two thousand dollars to donate towards your honeymoon

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Speaker 1: together or towards building your future home. But the fact

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Speaker 1: that it's a trip specifically for you, I could see

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, can we ask what's your relationship like with

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Speaker 2: Like you just say coworker Jeffrey, Well.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know how how like do

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Speaker 4: I mean, my fiance's met him before, and like he's

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Speaker 4: my group of friends at work, but not you know,

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Speaker 4: or not.

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Speaker 1: Not good enough to get a two thousand dollars donation.

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Speaker 2: I mean I feel like.

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Speaker 3: If you're getting a two thousand dollars donation. It'd be

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Speaker 3: like from your work husband. You know, like the person

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, like your friend. So your fiance wants

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Speaker 1: you to give that back. What are you looking for

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Speaker 4: This is such an awkward phone call. I don't know

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Speaker 4: how to approach this. I don't know how to say it.

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Speaker 2: Who are we calling?

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Speaker 4: We're going to call my coworker to give the money back, Okay.

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Speaker 3: Because you want to keep a good friendship with him.

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Speaker 3: You don't want to insult him because it is a

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Speaker 3: generous gift. Are you open to having him transfer the

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Speaker 3: money into a different area or do you think that would.

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Speaker 1: Still like you're going to do some money laundering on

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Speaker 3: I mean, like these dishes were really nice. Would your

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Speaker 3: fiance be more comfortable if the money got shifted to

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Speaker 3: the honeymoon fund?

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Speaker 4: I mean I think so, But I think he's still

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Speaker 4: got like a bad taste of about the whole thing.

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Speaker 1: Accepting two thousand dollars in general is making him uncomfortable,

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Speaker 1: no matter what the situation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that is like a family member or a best friend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just like all right, you're just trying to flex

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Speaker 1: on my future wife. It is weird to get that

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Speaker 1: amount of money from a total not tall stranger, but

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Speaker 1: one that's doesn't know you that well. But if anybody

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Speaker 1: wants to donate two thousand dollars to us, like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: don't let that stop you free, We're gonna we're gonna

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Speaker 1: try and come up with some advice for you. Here though, Shilah,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna help you. Tell your coworker we can't accept

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Speaker 1: your generous two thousand dollars donation.

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Speaker 4: Okay, does anybody in this room have experienced denying money?

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Speaker 2: Nobody?

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Speaker 1: I can beg for it.

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Speaker 5: Thousand dollars.

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Speaker 1: This is going to be a challenge. So we're gonna

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Speaker 1: do our best with your awkward Tuesday right after this,

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Speaker 1: It's awkward, It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. If

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Speaker 1: you're just joining us for our awkward Tuesday call, We've

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Speaker 1: got an interesting situation that happened to one of our

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Speaker 1: listeners named Shila. She's less than a month away from

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Speaker 1: getting married, and a male coworker of hers just donated

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Speaker 1: two thousand dollars towards her bachelorette party.

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Speaker 2: That's a that's a wedding gift.

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Speaker 1: Generous to say the least, and that amount of money

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Speaker 1: made her fiance suspicious, Like there's gotta be strange motives

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Speaker 3: Remember, she did put her bachelorette party up on her

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Speaker 3: wedding registry, so it's not like it was coming out

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he didn't, just like venmo. Yeah, but nobody expected

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Speaker 1: two thousand dollars towards her. So long story short, she

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Speaker 1: needs our advice on how to decline his generous gift

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Speaker 1: and send the money back. Ye, three two thousand dollars.

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Speaker 1: You want to flirt with him, Yeah, you can do

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Speaker 1: this a little bit. But Shila, you said your fiance

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Speaker 1: noticed that donation a few days ago. Since then have

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Speaker 1: you spoken with your coworker or seen him around, Like,

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Speaker 1: has he mentioned anything?

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Speaker 4: That's actually funny that you say that because he actually

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Speaker 4: was sick yesterday. But wait, he did say that he

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Speaker 4: doesn't talked to me and to give him a call

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Speaker 4: after the donation.

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Speaker 3: Well maybe, I mean it's a gift, right, so maybe

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Speaker 3: he just wanted to confirm that's a lot of money.

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Speaker 2: You want to confirm it went to where it is

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Speaker 2: supposed to know, or he.

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Speaker 4: Wants to confirm your flight numbers so you can join

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Speaker 1: With the girls, share hotel room numbers. Like, who knows

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Speaker 1: what he wants to do.

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Speaker 2: This guy sounds so innocent. It sounds like he's never

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Speaker 1: You one am I right, Like, we haven't.

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Speaker 4: He's not like that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you know before we call him, we're supposed to

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Speaker 1: give you a little bit of advice too. So, Brooke,

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Speaker 1: what do you think that she needs to keep in

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Speaker 2: I think this is really simple.

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Speaker 3: I think that you need to first thank him for

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Speaker 3: being so generous and kind. Yeah, and then you just

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Speaker 3: need to explain that it makes you uncomfortable, like it's

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Speaker 2: And also don't bring your fiance into it at all.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know, like if they ever wanted to

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Speaker 3: be friends or something like, it just wouldn't happen.

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Speaker 2: Let's not blame other people. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: That's first time I've ever heard you say that. So Jose,

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Speaker 1: what do you think? Well? I think your strat is

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Speaker 1: r n C. That is, reject then compliment.

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Speaker 2: No compliment, then reject. That's my method.

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Speaker 1: No, you have to leave him feeling good at the end.

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Speaker 1: I like that strategy too, where it's like ad news

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Speaker 5: Yes, it's like, look, I can't take the money, but

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Speaker 5: you get kind.

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Speaker 3: Of happy if someone told me to take a gift back.

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Speaker 1: How do you feel about that, Shilah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I think that's probably what's going to work.

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Speaker 4: The best is like be straightforward but also complimentary.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, said it way better than any of us did,

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Speaker 1: so quicker. Maybe you should be in radio.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like a really nice guy do something. I

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Speaker 2: can't imagine he's gonna like blow up on the phone

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Speaker 2: or something.

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Speaker 1: Let's find out. I'm going to dial his number right now.

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Speaker 1: We're going to step away and let you make this call.

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Speaker 1: Will be we're on your side. We're going to jump in.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm saying. We're gonna jump We

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Speaker 1: are here just in case you need us, and you're there.

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, you got this? Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hey, Joseph is Shila?

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Speaker 5: Oh Hey, no, you didn't call me back. I was

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Speaker 5: trying to reach you yesterday with stuff.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I'm sorry about that, you know, just like

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Speaker 4: wedding stuff. I got caught up, But yeah, I wanted

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Speaker 4: to give you a call now.

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Speaker 5: That's good, you know, because I want to talk to

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Speaker 5: you too, Like, I got a few things I gotta

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, let me go first because I just need

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Speaker 5: What's wrong to talk to me?

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Speaker 4: I just wanted to thank you so much for your

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Speaker 4: generous donation. It was seriously, like so nice. I never

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Speaker 4: would have expected that. That was so kind of you.

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Speaker 5: Don't worry about that.

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Speaker 4: It's just it's such a huge amount of money. I

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Speaker 4: It was so like kind, thoughtful, and you're always so

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Speaker 4: nice and generous, and I still I really appreciate it,

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Speaker 4: but I just I don't think I'm going to be

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Speaker 5: Okay, Well, can you just give it back to me,

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Speaker 5: like two weeks from this Thursday coming up?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 5: Just hold on to it until then I'll get it

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Speaker 5: from you then.

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Speaker 4: Okay? Why though, all.

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Speaker 5: Right, check it. I'm gonna give you the all clear,

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Speaker 5: and once I do that, then you can send it back.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all clear?

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Speaker 5: What?

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Speaker 4: Like, I don't understand.

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Speaker 5: God, I don't know how to say this, but I'm

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Speaker 5: going through some things right now. And I'm about to

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Speaker 5: divorce my wife. I'm about to file for divorce, so

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Speaker 5: I figured that I could start pushing my money in

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Speaker 5: different places so she can't find it. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh my god. Oh guy, Hey, Joseph, be good

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Speaker 1: news for you, not auditors. Don't worry.

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Speaker 5: Speaker at a party.

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Speaker 1: No, man, you're you're on a radio show right now.

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Speaker 1: The radio. We're brooking Jeffrey in the morning. We're like

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Speaker 1: a morning party.

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Speaker 2: Really sorry to hear about your divorce.

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Speaker 5: Man. Yeah, you definitely don't know that. No, damn divorce.

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Speaker 5: You don't know Jack, Okay, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Fine with that. I know nothing. I know that too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know what was going on there. We

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Speaker 1: were just trying to help Shilah. She's a listener of

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Speaker 1: our show, and she told us she's been in this

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Speaker 1: kind of awkward situation with you giving her the money.

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Speaker 1: She didn't know, like why she got so much fun her.

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Speaker 3: She thought it was a kind gift for her wedding,

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Speaker 3: not a way to stole money away.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's kind. It is laundering.

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Speaker 5: I mean it is nothing nothing laundering show. What the

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Speaker 5: did you do it?

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Speaker 2: Shilah didn't know?

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Speaker 5: Are you working with my wife and she's trying to

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Speaker 5: divorce me first, and then you got down here.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, Shilah, I had no idea. I just

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Speaker 4: my fiance just thought it was weird that you did that, And.

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Speaker 1: It turns out it was well, was not for the

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Speaker 1: reasons that he thought.

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Speaker 2: Fiance thought that you were hitting on her, like like, I.

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Speaker 1: Don't know out there, yes, and be like, oh I

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Speaker 1: got money. We didn't know that you were happily married

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Speaker 1: at the time.

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Speaker 2: So what was your plan? I don't get your plan?

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Speaker 5: Why would I tell you now?

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Speaker 2: I just don't get how you would give the money?

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Speaker 2: And then it's not our problem.

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Speaker 1: He was going to get it back now, Brooks planning

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Speaker 1: ahead for her impending relationship problems. How exactly think you

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Speaker 1: execute the stealing?

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Speaker 5: Let me tell you this, If you didn't give it back,

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Speaker 5: it wouldn't have been a big deal. As long as

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Speaker 5: my wife don't get a hands on it, that's cool.

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Speaker 5: I will accept it happily.

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Speaker 1: You have more money you need to get rid of.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, I got something a whole lot.

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Speaker 1: Yay. I don't know nothink it's money?

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Speaker 2: Where like? So can she tell her fiance what the

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Speaker 2: money is really for can she keep it? Okay, so

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Speaker 2: then you need the money back. You need to give

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Speaker 2: the money.

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Speaker 5: Back now that you know that's why I just got

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Speaker 5: to wait a couple of weeks to take care of

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Speaker 5: some business. You can send it back to me. You

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Speaker 5: can tell your fiance that you're giving it back to me.

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Speaker 5: I'm accepting it. I got some things going on.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, happen? Does that feel good?

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Speaker 4: Shila? None of this feels good.

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Speaker 2: But you don't want divorce hidden money to fund your wedding.

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Speaker 4: I gotta get it.

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Speaker 1: You're looking into your future.

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Speaker 5: Man, How do you think I feel money launder and

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Speaker 5: that the whole world's gonna hear?

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Speaker 3: No, no, just come after jose not the rest of us.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, thanks, guys, I got done.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're welcome, unless Brook wants to ask for any

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Speaker 1: more tips from Joseph on what she should do.

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Speaker 2: I didn't want tips, Jeffrey. I just didn't understand.

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Speaker 1: Okay, sure, we're gonna check your browser history after this

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Speaker 2: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning,