1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:03,280 Speaker 1: I gave birth to a biracial baby. My husband thinks 2 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 1: I cheated and doesn't want the child. And then he 3 00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 1: said the unthinkable. 4 00:00:07,640 --> 00:00:11,440 Speaker 2: Once again, ninth grade biology is that you know what 5 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 2: if everyone that gave birth that became apparent was past 6 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:18,920 Speaker 2: a ninth grade biology textbook and asked to answer it. 7 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,080 Speaker 2: You can only take this baby home if you can 8 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:24,079 Speaker 2: answer these like five questions that would be on a 9 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:25,479 Speaker 2: ninth grade biology quiz. 10 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 3: Where would we both people are white, both people are white? No, 11 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 3: don't kidd, I don't know. We don't know yet. We 12 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 3: don't know yet. 13 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 1: My soon to be ex husband, Eric Spoilers, forty male, 14 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:41,519 Speaker 1: and I thirty eight female, were high school sweethearts and 15 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: we grew up in a small town where the majority 16 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 1: of the population was white. Eric is white, and while 17 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:51,519 Speaker 1: I am not a typical looking white woman, I have 18 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 1: enough features that I could be considered white passing. However, 19 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 1: I recently discovered I am mixed race, which will be 20 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 1: important later. Ah, we're getting some first shadowing in here. 21 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 3: If you know what's coming, put I see you in 22 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 3: the comments. 23 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:11,120 Speaker 1: So Eric and I got married after I graduated high school. 24 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 1: I became pregnant when I was twenty six and had 25 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 1: fraternal twins now twelve, EJ male and Natalie female. As 26 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 1: the twins got older, Ej started to look like Eric 27 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:25,680 Speaker 1: blonde hair, albeit curly and fair skin, and Natalie started 28 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:28,919 Speaker 1: to look like me, dark wavy hair, but her skin 29 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 1: would get darker, like she had a permanent tan. Eric 30 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 1: and I were confused by this because no one in 31 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:40,319 Speaker 1: our families had a skin complexion like this. 32 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:43,680 Speaker 3: So where we go? Look? Where are we going? I 33 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 3: feel you did me dirty? 34 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, don't say that so assuredly, John, don't just say yeah, yeah, 35 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 1: I did you dirty. Yeah, it looks like trash. 36 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 3: That looks good the way you have it right there. 37 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 3: Thanks John, Thanks for stuff sticking. Recovery, nice recovery, Okay. 38 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 1: Eric became a cop after college. When the kids were seven, 39 00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 1: Eric had a chance for promotion, which moved us to 40 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 1: the city. I started to notice that Eric would make 41 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 1: prejudice comments against certain communities of people that I would 42 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 1: shrug off because they were not overtly offensive. One of 43 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: Eric's well, which maybe don't shrug that off, a little 44 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:26,359 Speaker 1: bit of a red flag, yep. One of Eric's co 45 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 1: workers noticed a picture of EJ and Natalie and asked 46 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 1: if Natalie was adopted actually had African American features, and 47 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 1: suggested that I might have had an affair after conceiving 48 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 1: with Eric, as it was possible that twins could be 49 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:45,519 Speaker 1: fothered by two different men. Wait, we love those co workers, 50 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:50,080 Speaker 1: don't we? Those co workers with uh, nothing but good intentions? 51 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:50,359 Speaker 3: Right? 52 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 2: It only just hit me now not only are you 53 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 2: talking about someone accusing your cheating, but two children were 54 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 2: OPI is like, yeah, yeah, what one is mine? But 55 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 2: is is that possible? Maybe maybe I would fail the 56 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:03,119 Speaker 2: eighth grade? 57 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 3: But it is possible. That is possible. Okay. I honestly 58 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 3: was not one hundred percent aware of. 59 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 1: That, But let's double chuck and ass chat GPT. Yeah, 60 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: can you conceive? 61 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 3: Uh? 62 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 1: Can you have twins with two different parents? Yep, twins 63 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 1: with two different fathers? 64 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:19,919 Speaker 3: Wow? Okay? 65 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 1: Hetero paternal super the coundation basically, a woman releases multiple 66 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:29,359 Speaker 1: eggs during your ovulation cycle, and then she has the 67 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 1: naughty naughty with two different men in a short time frame, 68 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 1: typically within a window of five days, and then a 69 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 1: sperm from eat man fertilizes each egg. 70 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 3: So can maybe I need the ninth grade? Bology? You 71 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 3: need the ninth grade biology test. 72 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: I did fail, so nice, So this planted the seed 73 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 1: of doubt. All you need is a seed and then 74 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: it grows. That's all you need is a seed and 75 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 1: then it grows. 76 00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 3: It's like an asshole flower. Mm. 77 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. By the time the twins were eleven, Eric couldn't 78 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: hold his doubt anymore and demanded an attornity test. He 79 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 1: explained his doubts, so I obliged. The test came back 80 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 1: as Eric being Natalie's father, but he would act distant 81 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 1: towards Natalie. One day, I was using Eric's phone because 82 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 1: mine died to look for a rest own no put. 83 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:23,159 Speaker 1: I see you in the comments. If you see what's coming, 84 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 1: but I see you too. If you saw the first, 85 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 1: I see you, and now you see the second, I 86 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:30,119 Speaker 1: see you. One day I was using Eric's phone because 87 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: mine died, to look for a recipe for dinner and 88 00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 1: came across a support forum where Eric was convinced I 89 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 1: slept with a black man and was making awful comments 90 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:44,280 Speaker 1: about black people and that I somehow altered the DNA 91 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 1: test results. 92 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 3: Y oh. 93 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 1: I was furious and confronted Eric. He said there was 94 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:55,359 Speaker 1: no way Natalie could be his and demanded another DNA test. 95 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:58,480 Speaker 1: I agreed to prove him wrong, and once the test 96 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 1: came back, we contacted my parents because I was genuinely 97 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:05,160 Speaker 1: confused about where Natalie's features came from because my. 98 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 3: Parents were white. 99 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 1: After dancing around the topic, my mom confessed that my 100 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:13,920 Speaker 1: dad was not my real dad and my real dad 101 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 1: was biracial. WHOA after looking so does the dad know? 102 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:23,039 Speaker 3: Does Op's dad know? 103 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 1: As A mom told right after looking at an old picture, 104 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:29,720 Speaker 1: my dad looked white at first glance, but the longer 105 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 1: you looked at him, the more he could see his 106 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 1: African American side. I happened to not inherit those genes. 107 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:39,039 Speaker 1: This seemed to appease Eric, but I could not forget 108 00:05:39,080 --> 00:05:42,039 Speaker 1: the comments Eric made about black people and told him 109 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:43,919 Speaker 1: I wanted at divorce. 110 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:47,840 Speaker 3: WHOA divorce, divorce divorce. 111 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 1: He apologized and said he couldn't understand at the time, 112 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 1: but I told him that it was disgusting that that 113 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 1: was what he thought about that community, and I refused 114 00:05:57,000 --> 00:06:00,040 Speaker 1: to raise my children in an environment that fostered and 115 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 1: normalize negative thoughts about any community. Eric and my parents 116 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:07,599 Speaker 1: tried to get me to rethink my decision and go 117 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:10,360 Speaker 1: to counseling. I agreed to go to counseling, but I 118 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 1: am not changing my mind about divorcing him. Wow, And 119 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:18,280 Speaker 1: so John, there is a big juicy update on October sixteenth, 120 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 1: which is not too long ago. 121 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:21,119 Speaker 3: That is true. 122 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 1: All right, let's get into it. So I'm not sure 123 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:26,480 Speaker 1: what you guys mean. My mom lied to me. While 124 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 1: she never outright told me someone else was my biological dad, 125 00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 1: I never questioned it, so it never came up. 126 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 3: She told me she would tell me the truth. 127 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:37,160 Speaker 1: If I ever asked, and everyone my grandparents and dad 128 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 1: knew and agreed to tell me the truth if I asked. 129 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 3: So so everyone kind of knew. 130 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:48,920 Speaker 1: Everyone knew except except for the op That's crazy. Yeah 131 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:50,600 Speaker 1: you never that's crazy. 132 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:51,719 Speaker 3: And how old is op? 133 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:56,799 Speaker 1: OPI is like twenty five, twenty four? Opie is no? Sorry, 134 00:06:56,920 --> 00:06:58,200 Speaker 1: just OPI is thirty eight? 135 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 3: Right, So, like I could totally see it. That's that. Yeah. 136 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:04,839 Speaker 2: That to me, I'm like I could see not telling 137 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 2: her while she's like a child's maybe, but like after 138 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 2: she's been an al Yeah, it seems a little weird 139 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 2: to not tell Yeah that yeah, I agree, because maybe 140 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 2: you would avoid things like this. 141 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 3: Yes, great point, I know Not all. 142 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 1: Prejudice is negative, guys. The prejudice comments my husband made 143 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 1: was saying a kid would be great on track after 144 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 1: seeing them run and they happened to be black, or 145 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 1: that a kid would be a good businessman one day 146 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: if they were Middle Eastern. 147 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 3: This husband just throw thrown me for loops left and 148 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 3: right and back again. 149 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 1: It didn't mean anything at the time due to my 150 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 1: cultural ignorance with that. My husband gave me no indication 151 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 1: he had certain feelings against other communities. So stop with 152 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 1: you were okay with him being racist until it was 153 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 1: you when I said he was distant with Natalie, He 154 00:07:57,120 --> 00:07:59,320 Speaker 1: didn't treat her like dirt. He felt disconnected because he 155 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 1: had doubts she was his and wasn't affectionate otherwise still interactive. 156 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 1: So my husband found out about the Reddit post and 157 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 1: was mortified because he didn't realize how his behavior made 158 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:13,320 Speaker 1: him look. He also says he appreciates the comments that 159 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 1: cut him some slack. Anyways, he booked a session with 160 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 1: the council at his job. He found out that cops 161 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 1: of on site therapists for us to go to. We 162 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 1: got straight into the issue. The councilor asked why the 163 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:25,920 Speaker 1: comments bothered me so much, and I told her that 164 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 1: I've seen so many innocent people suffer from hatred for 165 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 1: something they didn't do, and how it makes people act 166 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:34,800 Speaker 1: way out of character, the degrading and harmful things people 167 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:37,320 Speaker 1: would do and say to others based on a characteristic 168 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:39,959 Speaker 1: they can't control, and treat them like they were less human. 169 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:42,679 Speaker 1: My husband asked if I think he hates me and 170 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 1: the kids. I told him I don't know. When it 171 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:49,160 Speaker 1: was his turn, he confessed to having an inferiority complex 172 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 1: to black men, about how he thought black people were 173 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:54,839 Speaker 1: more physically attractive and gifted and that girls would have 174 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 1: more crushes on the black boys. Goodness, So he's actually 175 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 1: super not racist and just is jealous. 176 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 3: You know what, this guy, I will, I will give 177 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:08,840 Speaker 3: it to this guy. He is. 178 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:11,440 Speaker 2: He is just a complete enigma in all of the 179 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 2: two thousand stories, like he just keep you don't know 180 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:15,840 Speaker 2: what move he's going to make. 181 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 3: You never know, you never know. 182 00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 1: It's not that of racist, babe, It's just that I 183 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 1: love black people so much. 184 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:26,560 Speaker 3: I'm insecure. Oh man, this guy is an interesting case. 185 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 3: My god, so bad. 186 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 1: He said, how it hurt that none of the girls 187 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 1: would look at them, the white boys, Jesus Christ. So 188 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 1: the boys look for compensating factors that would make them 189 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 1: more desirable, having money, getting careers, not being involved in 190 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 1: a legal activity, et cetera. And it turned into this 191 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:49,559 Speaker 1: ugly thing of why like him when I have this. 192 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 1: I was floored. I asked him if he was like 193 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 1: this when we met, and he said yes, but I 194 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: never triggered his insecurities because I didn't pay attention to 195 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 1: them or talk to them. But it was always in 196 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 1: the back of his head. He was worried I would 197 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 1: leave him for them, so he started working out, playing 198 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:10,760 Speaker 1: sports and buying cologne to keep up with them, keep going. 199 00:10:11,040 --> 00:10:13,040 Speaker 3: This is this man. 200 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:16,720 Speaker 1: The counselor asked about the comments, and he said that 201 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:19,439 Speaker 1: he was looking for validation of his feelings as being 202 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 1: good enough. When he considered the thought of me cheating. 203 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 1: He couldn't understand how I could choose a menace to 204 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:29,520 Speaker 1: society over him. Now there you go, yeap, what oh 205 00:10:29,600 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 1: my God, that has provided for his family and give 206 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:35,080 Speaker 1: it us a home. I was numb because I didn't 207 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:38,680 Speaker 1: think he felt this way. Okay, like the the racism 208 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 1: is pretty deep on this, Yes, it absolutely is. I 209 00:10:41,800 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 1: mean like we already kind of like saw that coming. 210 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:47,439 Speaker 1: But yeah, like it's just like it also doesn't it 211 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:49,080 Speaker 1: feel like the wife's giving him like a little wit 212 00:10:49,160 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 1: or break? 213 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, because again we say this many times. We said, 214 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:57,199 Speaker 2: I think earlier in this episode, when you bring the 215 00:10:57,920 --> 00:11:01,400 Speaker 2: paternity test into the equation, it's just such it's just 216 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 2: such a question. 217 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 3: Of their character and like, but it was always like trust. 218 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:09,200 Speaker 1: The thing that was weird it was she was like, oh, yeah, 219 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 1: like he's not racist, he's like good racist, like you know, 220 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 1: the Middle Eastern people will have good businesses or whatever. 221 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 2: The thing exactly exactly, like like that's the thing is 222 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 2: like so many times when someone has such a warped view, 223 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 2: there might be one take or whatever, if you want 224 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:30,199 Speaker 2: to call it, that that might seem to be directed 225 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 2: in a positive area when actually their entire view of 226 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 2: a person is warped. 227 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly exactly. So at least he's getting more evidence 228 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:43,720 Speaker 1: of it being bad in this therapy session. So I 229 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:46,200 Speaker 1: told Eric that I want him to write a detailed, 230 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 1: heartfelt apology letter to the community. 231 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 3: He offended. Is that is that going? Is that being sense? 232 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:52,679 Speaker 2: Where? 233 00:11:54,760 --> 00:12:03,439 Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know, Like I don't know if that 234 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 3: fixes it. 235 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:07,800 Speaker 2: Bro No, no, And this is another case of like 236 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 2: I thought it was one thing, but actually that's a 237 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:12,560 Speaker 2: tip of the iceberg, and what's the whole. This is 238 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:15,439 Speaker 2: just one piece of the iceberg that we're uncovering here 239 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:19,760 Speaker 2: right now. So what else? What else is there? She 240 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 2: had rose colored glasses this whole time. But those are 241 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 2: all red flags in. 242 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:26,720 Speaker 1: The past middle school where it's like, oh, you did 243 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 1: something wrong, so you have to write like an essay 244 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:31,480 Speaker 1: about like what you did wrong and then submit it. 245 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 1: I don't know if you can do just one essay, 246 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:37,839 Speaker 1: you know, like, no, no, no, I don't think that. I 247 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:40,760 Speaker 1: don't think that wipes away your racism, like you gotta 248 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:41,600 Speaker 1: at least do too. 249 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, at least, no, not at all, not at all. 250 00:12:47,360 --> 00:12:47,560 Speaker 3: Yeah. 251 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:51,079 Speaker 1: Anyway, he is not to tell me what it says 252 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 1: or show me, but to write it and then post 253 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 1: it anonymously if strangers can forgive him and push him 254 00:12:56,880 --> 00:13:00,360 Speaker 1: forward to help be better than I can too. Okay, 255 00:13:00,840 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 1: After getting home, Eric wrote the letter, then posted it 256 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 1: after proofreading it again again. He's currently waiting for the comments, 257 00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:09,360 Speaker 1: and in all honesty, it was enough to make me 258 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:13,080 Speaker 1: rethink divorcing him fucking one essay and. 259 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 3: You're like, ah, he's a changed man. 260 00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:19,640 Speaker 1: He's not off scott Free, but I really appreciate the effort. 261 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 1: If anything significant happens, I'll update again. Edit forgot to 262 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 1: include this, but I have not forgotten the comments, and 263 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 1: while he gave some explanation, we will talk more in 264 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:29,959 Speaker 1: depth after this. I did not magically forget the things 265 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:31,920 Speaker 1: he said, and the session made me realize he at 266 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 1: least has some remorse. So we're starting there. Second edit 267 00:13:34,679 --> 00:13:37,240 Speaker 1: shaking my head. The messages are already flowing in to 268 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:39,560 Speaker 1: people who are saying I'm excusing his behavior. 269 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 3: I am not for the threats. Grow up. 270 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 1: I do apologize that this will trigger someone, because that's 271 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:46,720 Speaker 1: not what I meant to do. Eric's behavior is an 272 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:49,600 Speaker 1: excusable and there's so much work to be done for him. 273 00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 1: So here's some relevant comments about what other people think. 274 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:55,520 Speaker 1: So Stolen Fire said he owes you an apology too, 275 00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 1: as heartfelt and sincere as whatever he's posting, and honestly 276 00:13:59,160 --> 00:14:02,320 Speaker 1: is thought you were of poor moral character, that you 277 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:04,920 Speaker 1: were capable of cheating on him and then passing off 278 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:07,840 Speaker 1: another man's child as his, that you were capable of 279 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 1: deception enough to somehow altered DNA test results. They continue 280 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:14,440 Speaker 1: to lie. Someone who could do that is a terrible person, 281 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 1: and he thought you were capable of that. OPI responded 282 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 1: and said, he has apologized profusely to me. 283 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 3: I didn't accept it. 284 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:22,760 Speaker 1: At first because I thought it was BS, But after 285 00:14:22,840 --> 00:14:25,960 Speaker 1: our counseling session, I decided to give him some grace 286 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 1: and allow him the opportunity to show he meant it. 287 00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:32,040 Speaker 1: I do want him to address his biases because while 288 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:34,360 Speaker 1: they may have started off his insecurities, according to him, 289 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 1: they have taken a life of their own from his job. 290 00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:42,840 Speaker 1: And here is the final update October twenty First, WHOA. 291 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 1: The good news is you guys were right, and I 292 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 1: was a dumb ass for believing my husband. I'm relieved 293 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:52,480 Speaker 1: at the fact racism isn't tolerated or accepted by the majority, 294 00:14:52,480 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 1: despite you thinking I am. After my husband wrote his 295 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 1: apology letter, he received support from people telling him that 296 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:01,000 Speaker 1: they were proud he was able to admit his racism 297 00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:03,440 Speaker 1: and that he was willing to change. I was willing 298 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:05,480 Speaker 1: to work through this seeing that other people could forgive 299 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:07,960 Speaker 1: him blah blah blah. A day or two later, I 300 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 1: was using our iPad and received a notification for a 301 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:14,400 Speaker 1: text from mom. I looked at it and didn't recognize 302 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 1: the conversation until I realized it wasn't my mom, it 303 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:21,160 Speaker 1: was my mother in law. I'm assuming my husband forgot 304 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:23,960 Speaker 1: to sign out of his Apple Ideas so it was 305 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 1: linked to his account. I read the text that mother 306 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:30,880 Speaker 1: in law was disappointed that I and my kids happened 307 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 1: to be African American and she didn't expect this for 308 00:15:35,680 --> 00:15:38,480 Speaker 1: her family, but that they were tricked and we are 309 00:15:38,560 --> 00:15:43,520 Speaker 1: one of the good ones. Yikes, that's so fucked. My 310 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 1: husband said he couldn't believe it either, but it's not 311 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:50,080 Speaker 1: my fault. My pore mother lied about laying with one 312 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:52,320 Speaker 1: of them, and that he was going to make sure 313 00:15:52,400 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 1: our kids don't become one of the bad ones always 314 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 1: on the news. My husband still kept his attitudes that 315 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:01,160 Speaker 1: I previously posted per other test with his mother. I 316 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 1: realized there was no hope for him to change, so 317 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:05,840 Speaker 1: I'm leaving my husband now. I keep in contact with 318 00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 1: one of the wives of my husband's ex coworkers who 319 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:11,480 Speaker 1: moved some cities away, and explain to her everything. They 320 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:13,200 Speaker 1: will allow me to stay with them until I can 321 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:15,480 Speaker 1: find someplace for me and my kids since they have 322 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 1: the room. I do have a job, so I do 323 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 1: not rely on my husband's income. Sorry for disappointing everyone 324 00:16:20,720 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 1: when my husband gave me the BS story and crocodile tears. 325 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 1: In hindsight, even then I should not have. I just 326 00:16:26,360 --> 00:16:28,720 Speaker 1: wanted to believe there was hope my husband wasn't racist. 327 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:30,880 Speaker 1: But we live and learn. I will not give an 328 00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 1: update after this because I'm exhausted and only thinking about 329 00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:34,800 Speaker 1: my kids. 330 00:16:35,800 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 3: The truth revealed, the truth always revealed. I mean, but 331 00:16:39,880 --> 00:16:42,680 Speaker 3: we saw it coming, like we did, we did? 332 00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 1: I mean, it's but yeah, this dude's racist, Like yeah, 333 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 1: come on, but I feel really bad for Opie very just. 334 00:16:51,240 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 2: Like think think about the whiplash that op has had. 335 00:16:53,920 --> 00:16:57,080 Speaker 2: Right she realizes her own father was not her father, 336 00:16:57,440 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 2: you know, her her husband. 337 00:16:58,520 --> 00:17:02,760 Speaker 1: Accuses so many revels in this story. For op it's crazy. 338 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:06,320 Speaker 2: Many in like what a month or so, like absolutely 339 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:07,360 Speaker 2: freaking insane. 340 00:17:08,280 --> 00:17:10,879 Speaker 1: Dang, Op, Well, I hope you do some healing. I 341 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:13,920 Speaker 1: hope you're okay. What do you think? Do you think 342 00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 1: op made the right decision? What would you have done? 343 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:19,840 Speaker 1: Put your answers to the comments below, and also if 344 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 1: you have a crazy story like this, or just want 345 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:24,520 Speaker 1: to give us a confession or just some crazy thing 346 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:26,480 Speaker 1: that happened, you should call us John. 347 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:28,960 Speaker 3: What's the number four four zero five zer waight six 348 00:17:29,119 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 3: five sixty seven. 349 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:32,840 Speaker 1: We'll talk to you soon. This is an episode from 350 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:34,119 Speaker 1: Deep within the Archives. 351 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 3: Time for okop rewlam Today. I fed up by trying 352 00:17:40,119 --> 00:17:43,520 Speaker 3: to help a farret owning Karen and assuming her pet. 353 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:50,959 Speaker 3: Excuse me, this is a rather ridge featherwooded lemur. Excuse you? 354 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:54,960 Speaker 3: How dare you assume my pet species? Exactly. 355 00:17:55,680 --> 00:17:57,879 Speaker 2: We were just watching a show, a show mo in 356 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:02,360 Speaker 2: Netflix last night mod Yeah, it's actually really good, and 357 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 2: they made a joke where someone had like a personal 358 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:07,160 Speaker 2: zoo at their house and this guy was like, Yo, 359 00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:09,560 Speaker 2: do you see the zoo? They have anorexic raccoons in there. 360 00:18:09,560 --> 00:18:11,159 Speaker 2: And they were like, that's a lemur. 361 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:18,359 Speaker 1: Interre no from now odd you could only refer to 362 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 1: them as anorexic raccoons. Just happened this weekend. I work 363 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:28,800 Speaker 1: at a large pet store, how large baby, and we 364 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:31,000 Speaker 1: had a middle aged woman come in looking around a 365 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 1: little lost. She didn't know where the heck she was going, 366 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:35,440 Speaker 1: and everyone could tell, you. 367 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:36,560 Speaker 3: Know, stupid. 368 00:18:36,840 --> 00:18:39,720 Speaker 1: I noticed her while stocking shells, and when I got 369 00:18:39,720 --> 00:18:43,439 Speaker 1: a little closer, it was obvious she was a ferred owner. 370 00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:47,679 Speaker 1: Is there like like a store stereotypes where it's like, 371 00:18:47,800 --> 00:18:49,880 Speaker 1: oh that that that guy's definitely a story. 372 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, we got goldfish owner. I feel like stoner. I 373 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:56,160 Speaker 3: feel like it's a stoner pet. It is fairest doonner. 374 00:18:56,200 --> 00:18:58,119 Speaker 3: I knew, I knew a ferred owner who's a stoner, 375 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:00,639 Speaker 3: So I'm just like casting that whole stare type upon it. 376 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:03,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's kind of seem sick, like I know, like 377 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:06,479 Speaker 1: there's like definitely a stigma against ferret owners. 378 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:10,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, why, I guess it's like kind of rodent, Like 379 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 2: it's like like a possum. Yeah, but it's it's closer 380 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:16,119 Speaker 2: to like a little little like a miniature bear. No, 381 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:17,159 Speaker 2: they're pretty possum. 382 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:19,840 Speaker 3: Like, let me look at a ferret. I don't think 383 00:19:19,880 --> 00:19:22,160 Speaker 3: I would mind. Yeah, dude, that's that. That ship's cute 384 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:23,600 Speaker 3: as fun. It's like a little rap. 385 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:27,080 Speaker 1: It looks like a possum. No, it's way cuter than 386 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:31,040 Speaker 1: a possum. You're you're look up it is what do 387 00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:35,639 Speaker 1: you know? Yeah, that's a possum. Is fucking freaky, they're not. 388 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:40,080 Speaker 3: They're not like like exactly the same, but they look 389 00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:42,080 Speaker 3: like the most like each other in that like. 390 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:43,959 Speaker 1: Yo, look at look all right, look at this possum 391 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:47,200 Speaker 1: I'm looking at right now. There's no way that's the 392 00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 1: closest thing, you know, it's the ship. 393 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:51,280 Speaker 3: It's cute. It is cute. I'm not saying it's not. 394 00:19:51,640 --> 00:19:53,600 Speaker 3: I would get a ferret, man, I would get a ferret. 395 00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:55,119 Speaker 3: I'm not saying it's not cute. I'm just saying that 396 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:59,440 Speaker 3: it's like the closest looking thing. You're a freaking ferret hater, 397 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:04,200 Speaker 3: you know what. Fuck all fair all fairs. I hate 398 00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:06,600 Speaker 3: all of them. I didn't realize you hated ferrot so much. 399 00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:09,080 Speaker 3: You know, I'm just a ferrot hater. What can I say? Yeah, 400 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 3: screw you, man, I'm a farret lover over here, love 401 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 3: for all ferrets. I'm so happy for you. 402 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:18,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I got closer and it was obvious she was 403 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 1: a ferret owner, if you know what I mean. Sorry 404 00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:25,800 Speaker 1: ferret people, but I could definitely always smell you. 405 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 3: Is there a ferret smell? I don't know, Yo. I 406 00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:33,520 Speaker 3: think a fair would be a sick pet. Am I weird? 407 00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:35,440 Speaker 2: I think they would be a cool pet. I'm not 408 00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:37,680 Speaker 2: I'm not even I wasn't even trying to diss on them. 409 00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:41,800 Speaker 2: All I'm simply saying. All I am simply saying is 410 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:47,160 Speaker 2: they look the most similar to a possum. That's all 411 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:50,200 Speaker 2: I'm saying. I'm not even saying they're ugly. They're cute, 412 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 2: I think, and they're probably fine. 413 00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:53,080 Speaker 3: As a pet. 414 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 1: But that's like, say, Brad Pitt looks like Steve Buscemi. 415 00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:06,439 Speaker 1: It's like like, yeah, both like are like white guys, 416 00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:09,960 Speaker 1: but like, have you looked at the eyes of Steve Chevy. 417 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:14,840 Speaker 3: They look like wrinkly ball sacks. No, it's they're they're 418 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:19,200 Speaker 3: the most the most similar looking, and they're still different. 419 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:22,280 Speaker 1: Like like you lookout Stevy and Brad Pitt or yossoms 420 00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:23,240 Speaker 1: and possums. 421 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,400 Speaker 2: You look like your cousin, but you look way more 422 00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:29,280 Speaker 2: like your sister than your cousin. You you like, like 423 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 2: look different enough from your cousin, but there's still similarities. 424 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:36,560 Speaker 4: Sure, I'm just saying there's more like like broad stroke 425 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:39,399 Speaker 4: similarities to a ferret and a possum than like like 426 00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:41,600 Speaker 4: a ferret and a bear, or a ferret and uh 427 00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:43,240 Speaker 4: a raccoon or something like that. 428 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:47,399 Speaker 1: There's no animal or raccoon are look more similar than 429 00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:48,479 Speaker 1: a ferret and a possum. 430 00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:51,679 Speaker 2: But the build though, like the whole package, the build 431 00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:54,640 Speaker 2: because like possums are long and skinny and ferrets. 432 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:58,399 Speaker 3: Are long like racktail things on them. Well, ferrets have 433 00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:01,480 Speaker 3: a tail, yeah, but not at tail like I like tail, 434 00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:02,960 Speaker 3: like a rat tail. 435 00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:06,560 Speaker 2: A rat tail is a tale. They just have a hairless, 436 00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:12,199 Speaker 2: hairless possum tail. I hate hairless tales. Hairless tails are 437 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:15,440 Speaker 2: the worst. Hairless tales are pretty bad, terrible. Yeah, it's 438 00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:20,560 Speaker 2: all I'm saying. It's not exactly the same. It's simply 439 00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:21,399 Speaker 2: the most similar. 440 00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:28,280 Speaker 3: You know what, fuck you your ferretts. Ferrets will be 441 00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:30,960 Speaker 3: the end of the show. Yeah, why did the show 442 00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:33,960 Speaker 3: split up? Well, we could, we couldn't agree. What was 443 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:34,520 Speaker 3: more similar? 444 00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:39,040 Speaker 2: Fair her daddy moment where we'll upload like thirty minutes 445 00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:44,040 Speaker 2: long episodes. Like I was simply saying, I am look 446 00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:46,240 Speaker 2: the most similar to possums. 447 00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:50,960 Speaker 1: But here we are in okay, all right, anyway, anyway, 448 00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:54,840 Speaker 1: this much like John op is also a ferret hater. 449 00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:59,000 Speaker 1: Absolutely sorry ferret people, but I can definitely smell you, 450 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:03,760 Speaker 1: and you smell like shit, probably more so because ferrets 451 00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:06,240 Speaker 1: aren't dissented here in the UK like they are in 452 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:08,560 Speaker 1: some places like the US where I used to live. 453 00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 1: I don't mind that much. I guess you can't working 454 00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:14,320 Speaker 1: at a pet store, but it certainly is always noticeable 455 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:16,639 Speaker 1: on every single person I've ever wrung up at the 456 00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:22,239 Speaker 1: register who bought ferret supplies. They're ick, So I thought, oh, 457 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:24,480 Speaker 1: that makes sense. The ferret stuff is a bit tucked away. 458 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:26,800 Speaker 1: So I said, excuse me, are you looking for the 459 00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:30,080 Speaker 1: farre and isle. It's around that way and the leader 460 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:31,760 Speaker 1: to the garbage kid. 461 00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:37,639 Speaker 3: Dump. 462 00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:42,280 Speaker 1: I shouldn't say that. At first, she seemed happy and 463 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:44,679 Speaker 1: thanked me and started walking off in the direction I pointed. 464 00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:47,440 Speaker 1: But then suddenly she stopped and faced me and said, 465 00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:49,640 Speaker 1: wait a minute, how did you know I was looking 466 00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:53,880 Speaker 1: for the farodeysle and Opie is like, it's the way 467 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:54,640 Speaker 1: you smelled. 468 00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:59,240 Speaker 3: Actually no, no, no, oh my god. Well that was awkward. 469 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:01,640 Speaker 1: I didn't know what to say, so I said, well, 470 00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:05,520 Speaker 1: you could just well, you know, you could just kind 471 00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:08,359 Speaker 1: of tell working here, you know, or something done like that. 472 00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:12,040 Speaker 1: She said, you're trying to say I stink, don't you. 473 00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:15,800 Speaker 1: She knows, yo, dude, this paradotor is insecure. 474 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:19,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, she knows how terrible they are. That's basically what's happening. 475 00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:22,719 Speaker 3: Do ferrot stink? Well, I guess they're I guess they 476 00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:24,520 Speaker 3: have some sort of scent glands that are still. 477 00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:28,520 Speaker 1: And I say, well, you know, every animal just has 478 00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:31,200 Speaker 1: their own smell and it's okay. And she got upset 479 00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:34,639 Speaker 1: and said, well, that was very rude. I'm not a slob. 480 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:36,600 Speaker 1: I showered before coming here. 481 00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's right. I love how like this faradtowner is 482 00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:42,400 Speaker 3: not like giving proof. It's like, smell my hair. 483 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:46,919 Speaker 1: It smells like panteine orange scent, come on, Garnier fruit tease. 484 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:54,200 Speaker 1: And then she stormed off for her parodyl Apparently she 485 00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:56,560 Speaker 1: complained to my manager too, and he had a talk 486 00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:58,520 Speaker 1: with me that he was glad I was trying to 487 00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 1: help a customer, but it's probably best not to snip 488 00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:03,919 Speaker 1: out ferret owners for expedited assistance. 489 00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:07,800 Speaker 3: Point taken. I mean he was just trying to be 490 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:11,080 Speaker 3: you know, time is money. Yeah, that's my that's my different. 491 00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 1: Any time that you have to spend smelling a ferret 492 00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:15,960 Speaker 1: owner is time wasted. 493 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:18,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, time is money, and fare owners are filthy. Like, 494 00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,439 Speaker 3: I truly don't see what the issue is here. 495 00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:25,480 Speaker 1: Well, actually, speaking of issues, I'm actually thinking about swapping 496 00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:26,640 Speaker 1: rooms with Brandon. 497 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:30,200 Speaker 3: I'm getting my own room so I can get my 498 00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:33,000 Speaker 3: own ferret. I want to. 499 00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:36,000 Speaker 2: I want to literally walk into your room and the 500 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:39,639 Speaker 2: floor is caught like younver it into the floor is wiggling. 501 00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:42,160 Speaker 3: No no, no, no, fret covered in ferrets. I'm talking 502 00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:46,080 Speaker 3: forty to fifty, Like the floors just wiggling. Dude, ferret orgy. 503 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:48,320 Speaker 3: That's what I want my room to be. That's that's 504 00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:50,160 Speaker 3: the true test if you really love ferrets. 505 00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:52,400 Speaker 1: To have forty of them by all means, yeah, yeah, 506 00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:54,800 Speaker 1: I really want to, like not like I'm already thinking 507 00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:56,640 Speaker 1: like oh shit, like I want to decorate. I want 508 00:25:56,680 --> 00:26:00,159 Speaker 1: to get the bust of Bach somewhere on there like that. 509 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:04,520 Speaker 1: Or a big moosehead, just like a big moose head, 510 00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:09,479 Speaker 1: like right like over your bed anytime anytime you take 511 00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:11,879 Speaker 1: a woman home, it's just like like but. 512 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:15,320 Speaker 3: Like like like a massive moose. I mean moose are 513 00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:17,920 Speaker 3: pretty I'm talking like half. I'm thinking like half the 514 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:20,560 Speaker 3: size of your bed, Like the antlers are coming out. Yeah, 515 00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:22,159 Speaker 3: in front of the door. You can't even open the 516 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:25,560 Speaker 3: doorway all squeeze in a little bit, and she's like. 517 00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:29,600 Speaker 1: Uh, She's like, where did this moosehead come from? And 518 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:36,280 Speaker 1: I'm like, Canada, two thousand and three, killing a moose. 519 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:39,320 Speaker 1: It was it was my it was my eighth kill 520 00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:42,640 Speaker 1: at the ripe age of seven. Yeah, and I killed 521 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:46,240 Speaker 1: it all that year. Yeah, eight moose, the moose massacre 522 00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:48,440 Speaker 1: of ninety of two thousand and six. 523 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:51,520 Speaker 3: And then see what she says. Yeah yeah, She's like, 524 00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:59,040 Speaker 3: oh my god, yeah, oh my god. Take your pants off. Yikes.