1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 1: I listen to the Black Guy Who Tips podcast because 2 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: Rod and Karen. 3 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:09,560 Speaker 2: Hey, welcome to another episode of the Blackouts podcast. I'm 4 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 2: your host Rod, joined us always by my co host Kim, 5 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 2: and we're alive on a Sunday afternoon, easy, breezy Sunday 6 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:25,800 Speaker 2: Carolina weather. It's great, it's beautiful here. The Panthers are 7 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 2: destroying the Saints right now, just taking a black quarterback 8 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:32,839 Speaker 2: out and humbling them as the way the NFL football 9 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 2: should be played. And we also have one of my 10 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:41,000 Speaker 2: favorite people in the house, a person I call a 11 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 2: dear friend, but a person that you all know as 12 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:47,199 Speaker 2: an award winning singer and Best Female Actor in a 13 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 2: Motion Picture of nineteen seventy two, Best co Supporting Actress 14 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 2: twenty sixteen for Fences, along with Biolla Davis, Golden Globe 15 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:57,640 Speaker 2: winner and future VP candidate for twenty twenty four now 16 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 2: and author of I'm Telling the Truth But On Lying, 17 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 2: available everywhere you get books, It's My Girl, the New 18 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:08,760 Speaker 2: York Times bestselling author If what's going on? 19 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 3: Hi? 20 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:14,960 Speaker 4: Okay, I keep forgetting? How do I how do I 21 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 4: not echo? 22 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:17,039 Speaker 2: Oh? 23 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 3: I got to mute something right now? 24 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 2: I don't think Let me think on your side. I 25 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:25,040 Speaker 2: want to say, it'll go away. 26 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:29,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, I feel like I need to mute so 27 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 4: I can hear you from my headphones. 28 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 2: Oh so you got it set up where it's going 29 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 2: through your computer and not your headphones. Hello. Can you hear 30 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:37,319 Speaker 2: a chef? 31 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 3: That's not working either? Yeah? 32 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 2: This is yeah, yeah, no, only goes away. 33 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay. 34 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:46,039 Speaker 4: I thought I usually had to mute something so that 35 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 4: I wasn't hearing it through different It's been. 36 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 2: It's been. Honestly, what would it be without this? You know, 37 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 2: we don't do some but yeah, how you been? It's 38 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 2: I mean, it hasn't been like a long time since 39 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 2: we talked to you on the show. This time was 40 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 2: you know, we just kind of caught up with you 41 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 2: maybe a month or two ago. But you know, how's 42 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 2: house Tricks? 43 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 5: How is it? 44 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 3: How's tricks? 45 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 2: Yeah? Hou'se tricks? How's things going? 46 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 3: Oh? Fine? No, things are? Things are okay because I 47 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:25,959 Speaker 3: talked to you so much, but uh, things are better. 48 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:31,359 Speaker 3: I think that they have been a little bit of 49 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 3: time and for that so I am I am dude. 50 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 4: Uh, Googie lost. 51 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:41,960 Speaker 3: His sea and I took it very hard. I was upset. 52 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 3: I was like, why am I so upset they've lost games. 53 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 3: This team hasn't lost games before. 54 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:51,240 Speaker 4: It was a bad loss, like they shouldn't have lost 55 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:53,360 Speaker 4: or have lost, you know what I mean that feeling 56 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 4: where it's like, if they earned the loss, I'd be like, 57 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 4: all right, well, you know, whatever you win, somebody lose them. 58 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 3: But I was like, no, this is this is this 59 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 3: is not this is not right. It's like somebody made 60 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 3: a wish with a genie and and fucked everything up, 61 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 3: like they were not supposed to lose. 62 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:11,959 Speaker 2: It was and did you take it harder than he 63 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 2: took the loss or. 64 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 3: Because because it's it was one of those things. 65 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:22,519 Speaker 4: Okay, So he's he's in high school now and he's 66 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 4: a he's ah, he plays for his varsity high school team, 67 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 4: and he was playing against my old high school and 68 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 4: my and and some people uh that he plays his 69 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 4: club team with or on the other team. 70 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 3: So it was like this, you know, cute little rivalry 71 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 3: that you. 72 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 4: Know, we're all friends, but we're you know, onto different teams. 73 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 4: And the first the first goal happened really quickly because 74 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 4: it was raining and the ball was wet, and it 75 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 4: was they had home. 76 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 3: You know, home field advantage, and. 77 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 4: It was it was stuff like that, like that they 78 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 4: didn't really earn the goals, like it was, oh, the 79 00:03:57,720 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 4: ball is wet, it slipped past the goalies and the 80 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:05,120 Speaker 4: next goal. It was just like these weird things. It 81 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 4: wasn't like, oh, they're really like punishing. 82 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 3: Them, nothing like that. And so I couldn't even speak 83 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 3: to the other family. 84 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 2: Wow, Like I had to get up. 85 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:18,719 Speaker 3: And leave like four minutes before the game ended because 86 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 3: I was like, I feel like that, and I'm not 87 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 3: usually a sore loser, but. 88 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 4: I was like, I can't even talk to y'all. And 89 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 4: so when he after, the coach talks and he gets 90 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 4: in the car and I'm like trying not to be upset, 91 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 4: and he says to me, he was like, it wasn't 92 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 4: a good game. We were off and then he says this, 93 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:38,039 Speaker 4: and this is the thing that with him, Like his 94 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 4: confidence is something that we've been working on for the 95 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 4: last year. I would say, because he's a really talented player, 96 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 4: but he doesn't have but he just didn't have the mentality. 97 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 4: He got in the car and he was like, honestly, 98 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 4: they never should have taken me out of the game. 99 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 4: They never scored or came close to scoring when I 100 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 4: was in the gent I understand that I'm a freshman 101 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 4: and they need to get the upper class when you know, 102 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 4: more time on the field, but they need to figure 103 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 4: out a way to keep me on the field at 104 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:07,159 Speaker 4: all times. 105 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 2: And I was like, well, I mean I feel like 106 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 2: that's a pretty healthy place. I mean, you know, for him. 107 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:21,280 Speaker 2: You know obviously as parents, you know, people root for 108 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:23,600 Speaker 2: their kids. And it's not like you're one of those 109 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 2: toxic parents just like you know, fuscinate him or some 110 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 2: shit like you should have fucking you should have kicked 111 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 2: all the goals. Like it's just one of those things 112 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:35,799 Speaker 2: where losing does suck. But it's interesting how this will happen. 113 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:39,080 Speaker 2: When we went to go watch my knees play basketball, 114 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 2: and it's just recreational. They're very young, they're still learning 115 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 2: the skills, like very basic stuff, and like Karen was 116 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:49,840 Speaker 2: like literally rooting for them to like go out and 117 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:53,159 Speaker 2: win and dominating stuff. And I was like, this isn't that, 118 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 2: this isn't this is just like yay, you're making friends, 119 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. You had you had the 120 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:05,720 Speaker 2: confidence to try to dribble and shoot and and it 121 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:08,480 Speaker 2: is that type of mentality that you have to approach 122 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 2: it with because the kids, I think the kids just 123 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 2: only absorb the adults pressure on them, and then that's 124 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 2: when the kids start turning bad. 125 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:19,640 Speaker 5: Yes, and I had to learn by yeah, because I'm 126 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 5: used to watching like high schoolers and junior high schoolers 127 00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 5: and adults play, you know, So I'm used to watching 128 00:06:27,640 --> 00:06:31,839 Speaker 5: things like when somebody double durbles the backcourt or three seconds. 129 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 5: I'm used to people calling those things. So at first, yes, 130 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 5: at first it was confused to me. I was like, 131 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 5: I was up to, going what is this? I had 132 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 5: to come down. He's like, Karen is six thats just 133 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 5: not they got to play. You can't be fussing like 134 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:54,159 Speaker 5: they understand the concept of basketball. And I had to 135 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:57,039 Speaker 5: be like, and what's What's I understood that. It's like, 136 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 5: oh my expectations. 137 00:06:58,520 --> 00:06:58,799 Speaker 3: Lord. 138 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 5: I was like, oh, this is okay. It's okay if 139 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 5: they fuck up or don't play defense. It's okay if 140 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:09,480 Speaker 5: she just stands there and let the girl run past her, 141 00:07:09,960 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 5: because she don't give a funk about being at the 142 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 5: first place. She only signed up because her parents like, 143 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 5: you gotta do this, gotta have something to do. 144 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 3: Today exactly, And that's what when he first, he started 145 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 3: playing when he was four, and I remember the first 146 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 3: time he got him on the field like my brothers and. 147 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 4: I think my sister was there too, and he was 148 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 4: just kind of standing there. 149 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 3: Like like this, And then I was like, oh crap, 150 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 3: he's never seen soccer before. He literally has no idea 151 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 3: what he's supposed to do, right, he never seen this 152 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 3: game before this life. So to see him start there 153 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:45,000 Speaker 3: and then now he's like yeah, da da da da. 154 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 3: And then but he's also like on that note, like 155 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 3: there's a there's a family that he. 156 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 4: Plays club football with, and he played on the other 157 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 4: team and he got hurt like they somehow he somehow 158 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 4: banged knees with another player, so he was out and 159 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:04,960 Speaker 4: his and his dad was like, if you were where 160 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 4: you're supposed to be, you wouldn't have gotten hurt, like 161 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 4: yelled back. 162 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 3: From the from the. 163 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 4: Stands, And I was like, your child is hurt, right, Like, yeah, 164 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 4: he's hurt like that, I don't that's more. 165 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 5: He was supposed to be on the field. 166 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:23,320 Speaker 2: Is that thing too where you're like, because I'm sure 167 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:25,760 Speaker 2: you are literally shaking and went to tweet it, but 168 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 2: it's also that thing. 169 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 3: Literally shaking It's also. 170 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 2: That thing where like, like I said, parents get caught 171 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 2: up more in the in the game than the kid, 172 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 2: like to to the point where it is like you 173 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:44,840 Speaker 2: know this, I remember we had my dad would coached 174 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:49,199 Speaker 2: recreation ball and my brother played on the team, and 175 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 2: there was this guy whose son was on the team, 176 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 2: and the guy would coach his son. Oh like and 177 00:08:57,880 --> 00:09:00,679 Speaker 2: like he would coach his son over my dad. So 178 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:03,400 Speaker 2: my dad's like, you know, demonte you know, you know, 179 00:09:03,840 --> 00:09:05,600 Speaker 2: like you got to drive to the basket. And then 180 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 2: it's his dad's like, just. 181 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:10,560 Speaker 6: Shoot the ball, shoot the three, son, and then and 182 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 6: you're just like what everyone can hear you. You don't 183 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 6: even mind looking like a dick because you know everyone 184 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 6: here thinks you're a dick right now. None of us 185 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:21,840 Speaker 6: were like, you know, that kid's gonna make it because 186 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 6: his dad yells at him. 187 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 5: Yes, nobody's going to get a scholarship at the end 188 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 5: of this game. Seven year olds. It's like, calm down. 189 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:32,839 Speaker 4: The coaches, they're not gonna want like I understand, Like 190 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 4: I get caught up and we are like oh shoot 191 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:38,160 Speaker 4: or dah da da, and then afterwards we're like you 192 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:41,080 Speaker 4: can't see the angle, like you're saying shoot, but where 193 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 4: there's like four people behind us that you're not really like, 194 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:46,760 Speaker 4: I can see the some ones coming up. So if 195 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:48,880 Speaker 4: I do something like all this stuff, I'm like, all right, 196 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:51,720 Speaker 4: well right whatever, I'm still gonna scream. But like coaches 197 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 4: don't want to, coaches will if your your kid would 198 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 4: have to be on a basketball would have to be 199 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 4: Jordan's Yeah, as a sophomore in high school in order 200 00:10:02,880 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 4: for them to deal want to deal with a coach 201 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 4: with a father or a parent who was difficult to 202 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 4: work with or difficult to have on the team, They'd 203 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 4: rather just not deal with you if it's going to 204 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:14,840 Speaker 4: be all that. 205 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 2: My favorite was during those games, they used to have 206 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:21,839 Speaker 2: this one black lady that came and she just rooted 207 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:26,120 Speaker 2: for everybody and she was like super loud. She's like 208 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:29,840 Speaker 2: everyone's mom, but it was only positive things. And I 209 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 2: just remember every time soon with shoot a free throw, 210 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 2: she just go being their knees baby for everybody. Just 211 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 2: I was like, I can't wait to shoot free throws 212 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 2: be my knees. A positive because because it's so few 213 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:51,320 Speaker 2: people that are gonna take sport to any level beyond 214 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:55,520 Speaker 2: like maybe high school. If you're lucky, you know, hopefully college, 215 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 2: you know, especially if you can get something paid for. 216 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:01,560 Speaker 2: But it's just it's so hard to make it. And 217 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 2: some of the stuff with soccer. So we're just like, 218 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 2: if you weren't on the list of people who are 219 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:11,199 Speaker 2: good at soccer when you were fifteen, like people were 220 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:13,040 Speaker 2: just like, yeah, well that person's never gonna be good. 221 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:15,480 Speaker 2: And you're like, how did you know this? This kid 222 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:18,080 Speaker 2: was fifteen and y'all we just knew. So, you know, 223 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 2: it is like a bunch of lessons you can learn 224 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 2: within those structures that go on to help you in life. 225 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:27,200 Speaker 2: For real. I always talk about the story of watching 226 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 2: at the YMCA when I worked there, watching when the 227 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 2: white parents had their white kids who were sucked at basketball, 228 00:11:34,440 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 2: when they watched them play, and the things they were 229 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 2: trying to impart to them were just like confidence, getting 230 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 2: out of their shyness, learning to make friends, teamwork, sacrifice, 231 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:50,840 Speaker 2: you know, structure, practice, Like they were just instilling the 232 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 2: shit because they were like and then you'll use this 233 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:55,960 Speaker 2: as an accountant. And the black people who we were 234 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:58,720 Speaker 2: like our roles was in there like beat these white 235 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:03,439 Speaker 2: kids ass beat they Okay, you are Michael Jordan and 236 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 2: they need to learn a lesson tonight. And they would 237 00:12:06,040 --> 00:12:08,079 Speaker 2: come the black kids would come in from the Black 238 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:11,079 Speaker 2: Woma and stomp the ship out these little white kids. 239 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 2: But the white kids confidence never it never changed. They 240 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 2: were always just like, yeah, we had a good time. 241 00:12:17,480 --> 00:12:19,199 Speaker 5: Parents like come on, let's go to the piece of 242 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:21,320 Speaker 5: party and everybody just you know, it was just they 243 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:23,559 Speaker 5: were just happy today was there. They was like, you 244 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 5: took a shot today like that that would be their parents. 245 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:29,679 Speaker 5: They were like you tried and tried, Yes, tried and 246 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:32,840 Speaker 5: trying to literally half the battle, you know. And that's 247 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 5: one thing that is almost like it's that privilege thing 248 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:38,600 Speaker 5: because a lot of white people don't have the same 249 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:40,840 Speaker 5: things we have to deal with. So it's like, if 250 00:12:40,880 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 5: you on got this basketball, we ain't never gonna be shited. 251 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:45,600 Speaker 5: Type of mentality that a lot of us put on 252 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:47,440 Speaker 5: each other. It may may not be true, but a 253 00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 5: lot of black people put that pressure on themselves like 254 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 5: you have got to be the one. They're like, I 255 00:12:52,160 --> 00:12:56,319 Speaker 5: don't give a damn if you're good at this volleyball violin, 256 00:12:56,520 --> 00:12:58,560 Speaker 5: but I just I don't even care if I don't 257 00:12:58,640 --> 00:13:00,040 Speaker 5: like it. I don't care if a lot of on 258 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 5: My parents sit there, they'll be on TikTok on their 259 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:05,320 Speaker 5: phone down to be looking at and paying attention. All 260 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:06,960 Speaker 5: they know is the game is baby. Did you have 261 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:09,960 Speaker 5: a good time? Yay, Okay, get your participation trophy, Let's 262 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:10,440 Speaker 5: go home. 263 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. 264 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 4: Well, I mean I think there's I think there's a 265 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:19,439 Speaker 4: place between that because I'm not I don't want anybody's time. 266 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:22,360 Speaker 3: Wasted like when you were six, seven, eight, nine. 267 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:24,920 Speaker 4: Okay, But once we start and have to but once 268 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 4: we start having to get in the car and travel, 269 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 4: you know, wake up at four in the morning to 270 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 4: get to Pennsylvania in time for your. 271 00:13:32,360 --> 00:13:35,600 Speaker 3: Seven o'clock game or whatever. Once that starts happening, then 272 00:13:35,559 --> 00:13:37,200 Speaker 3: it has to be a decision made. And I remember with. 273 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 4: Him last year it was like, it feels like you 274 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:43,319 Speaker 4: don't want to do this, like you're super talented. Everybody 275 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:45,480 Speaker 4: who sees you play, coaches are trying to poach you. 276 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 4: Like everyone who sees you play knows that you are talented. 277 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 4: But if your heart isn't in it right, we don't 278 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 4: have to do this, Like we're not You're not Michael Jackson. 279 00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 4: We're not counting on you to get out of its scary, Right, 280 00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 4: you can do something else. Just because you're good at 281 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:03,760 Speaker 4: something doesn't mean you have to do it for blah 282 00:14:03,760 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 4: blah blah. So once we realize that once he explained 283 00:14:07,520 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 4: that it was him just like kind of have doubting 284 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 4: himself and not being confident and not being sure and 285 00:14:12,840 --> 00:14:15,679 Speaker 4: then saying I want to work on it, like I 286 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:17,320 Speaker 4: want to know what I can do, And then he's 287 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 4: calling coaches by himself, like he goes to this school 288 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 4: because he talked to the to the coach and the 289 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 4: coach has been coaching him like unofficially since last year. 290 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 4: And you know, once he started taking the initiative, like 291 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 4: he's he said he's going out to run at four thirty. 292 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:36,920 Speaker 4: But like once he started doing that, I was like, Okay, 293 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 4: we can support you in a way that makes sense 294 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:42,600 Speaker 4: for what it is that you want to do as 295 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 4: opposed to us, you. 296 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 3: Know, you know, making you do something. 297 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 4: But I took that loss hard, and he understood why 298 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:53,960 Speaker 4: they lost, and he's like, I understand, and I need 299 00:14:54,040 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 4: to figure out a way to do my part. 300 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 3: And I tell the coach that I. 301 00:14:57,520 --> 00:14:59,360 Speaker 4: Need to be able to do this, and he had 302 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 4: it all like worked out, and I'm just like yeah. 303 00:15:01,560 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 2: But than y'all yeah, Well, there's also like levels to it, 304 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:11,080 Speaker 2: because like the lessons we were talking about at the beginning, 305 00:15:11,120 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 2: I really like the lessons you get when you're a kid, 306 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 2: like like when you're really starting. But then there is 307 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 2: that other lesson of Okay, if you want to take 308 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 2: things seriously, there's things you have to do to which 309 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 2: is which once again doesn't have to really be about sports. 310 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 2: It can translate to something else, but it's a lesson 311 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:30,800 Speaker 2: you can learn there and then be like, Okay, if 312 00:15:30,800 --> 00:15:33,720 Speaker 2: I want to be a if I want to podcast seriously, 313 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 2: this is the things I'm gonna have to do. If 314 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:38,560 Speaker 2: I want to write a book, this is the thing 315 00:15:38,560 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to do. And I think that that 316 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 2: lesson is important, so I don't It's not like obviously, 317 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:47,120 Speaker 2: on the surface level, it's just like y'all lost this 318 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:49,600 Speaker 2: game and that sucks. But then on the on the 319 00:15:49,640 --> 00:15:53,360 Speaker 2: bigger level, it's kind of like, you know, I love 320 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 2: me and my friend Justin we played pickup ball. We 321 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:58,160 Speaker 2: would talk on the sideline and we'd be one of 322 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:01,280 Speaker 2: the few people talking about like, all right, so this boom, 323 00:16:01,320 --> 00:16:03,080 Speaker 2: this is where we fucked up. This last time, and 324 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 2: this is how we can win the next time and 325 00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:07,160 Speaker 2: that would change everything. And you see some people who 326 00:16:07,160 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 2: are just in there, like I'm just doode to dude, 327 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:10,880 Speaker 2: the dude, I always want to get out here and 328 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 2: throw the ball around you and like that's why you be 329 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 2: losing because you don't think about this any further than that. 330 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:20,360 Speaker 2: So I think that's like a sign of like commitment, intelligence, desire, 331 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:22,640 Speaker 2: all that stuff. So that's doubt that he was thinking. 332 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:26,840 Speaker 4: Even his assessment with him saying, you know, he his 333 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 4: friends are on the other key. But he was like, 334 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:30,520 Speaker 4: it wasn't a good win for them either. It was 335 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 4: a bad loss for us, but it wasn't a good 336 00:16:32,640 --> 00:16:34,840 Speaker 4: win for them. And then when they win, when his 337 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 4: team wins and they win a lot, they were undefeated 338 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 4: until yesterday, he was like, that was a sloppy win, 339 00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:43,480 Speaker 4: you know what I mean, And like the coach will 340 00:16:43,480 --> 00:16:46,560 Speaker 4: reinforce it, like, you guys won and that's fantastic. But 341 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 4: like if the coach emailed me today because he said 342 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 4: he said that, oh, because you got in trouble. Okay, 343 00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:57,400 Speaker 4: you have to know, Boogie is like the sweetest kid 344 00:16:57,400 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 4: in the world, Like the nicest kid in the world, 345 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:01,880 Speaker 4: like you would fall in love with them. He'd be 346 00:17:01,920 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 4: so nice to you, except for when he's playing football 347 00:17:05,359 --> 00:17:08,560 Speaker 4: or soccer. Then he's another child. And so he got 348 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 4: a talking to because he said something to a kid 349 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 4: on the field like they the kid was like, it 350 00:17:14,160 --> 00:17:16,000 Speaker 4: was like because he gets pulled out a lot, and 351 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:18,040 Speaker 4: they like they, you know, pull out his jersey and 352 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:20,520 Speaker 4: they try to foul him a lot because that's the 353 00:17:20,560 --> 00:17:23,720 Speaker 4: only way they can really stop him. And so they'll 354 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 4: pull on him and like you can see the kid 355 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:29,080 Speaker 4: like dragging his jersey and he's still going with the ball, 356 00:17:29,600 --> 00:17:31,760 Speaker 4: and then if he makes the kid fall, he'll say 357 00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:35,919 Speaker 4: something to them and then the will be like. 358 00:17:36,320 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 3: But yesterday he said something. So he said something. I 359 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:41,800 Speaker 3: was like, what did you say. He's like, Mom, I 360 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 3: need you to see me a certain way, and I can't. 361 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:52,200 Speaker 3: He said, I can't be her. I can't be doing this, 362 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 3: you know. 363 00:17:53,040 --> 00:17:55,760 Speaker 5: I said, look you, mama, get your bitch ass off me. 364 00:17:58,200 --> 00:18:00,560 Speaker 2: You know, you don't need to know everything, So now 365 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:03,639 Speaker 2: you know, yeah, that's definitely. I mean, you almost have 366 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:06,199 Speaker 2: to do that if you make somebody fall. It's the 367 00:18:06,280 --> 00:18:09,240 Speaker 2: corollary in basketball, if you cross somebody over and you 368 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:11,280 Speaker 2: make them fall. I always say, you have to shoot 369 00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 2: the ball, you know what I mean, Like, I don't 370 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:16,680 Speaker 2: even care where you can make them fall at half court, 371 00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:18,959 Speaker 2: you have to shoot it from there because then it 372 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 2: becomes the most disrespectful thing you could have done to somebody. 373 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:25,480 Speaker 2: So you know, I completely. 374 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 3: Respect that that kid. 375 00:18:27,560 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna at least try. I'm gonna at least try, 376 00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:36,639 Speaker 2: like if it's any like, I'm me adjusted. Sometimes we 377 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:38,760 Speaker 2: used to play basketball with a clock, right, and so 378 00:18:38,840 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 2: the clock's running down and we need to get the 379 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:44,560 Speaker 2: ball back. Well, the other team they're not stupid. They'll 380 00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:47,440 Speaker 2: hold the ball if they have a lead. That's smart, right, 381 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:50,199 Speaker 2: So what I would do is go just fake a 382 00:18:50,320 --> 00:18:52,959 Speaker 2: fall and then the guy will shoot it, because they 383 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:55,480 Speaker 2: always just they're like, I gotta shoot it. I made 384 00:18:55,520 --> 00:18:58,400 Speaker 2: them fall, And he's like, it's like, you didn't really 385 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 2: make me fallow, but we need to win this game 386 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:02,880 Speaker 2: and so like, but yeah, that that is funny that 387 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:04,400 Speaker 2: that even translates to soccer. 388 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 5: Yes, if I'm assuming that must translate to any foot 389 00:19:07,840 --> 00:19:09,840 Speaker 5: because you make me think about it. When we used 390 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:12,679 Speaker 5: to go and watch your Laila playing and it was 391 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:17,240 Speaker 5: this one particular game, and the game was tight, and 392 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:19,399 Speaker 5: all of a sudden, I don't know what happened, but 393 00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:24,720 Speaker 5: both teams decided to actually really play hard. And it's 394 00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 5: like it's like, cause you know, we're adults, and all 395 00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:28,520 Speaker 5: of a sudden, the adults picked up that the kids 396 00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 5: wanted to play hard. So all of a sudden, like 397 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:36,680 Speaker 5: the level in the arena got louder and louder and louder, 398 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:39,119 Speaker 5: and and so all of a sudden, all the parents 399 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:41,840 Speaker 5: was cheating for all the kids, no matter who shot 400 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 5: on one team, and it's everybody was like yay and yeah, 401 00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:47,880 Speaker 5: And I was like, oh, I beture these kids can 402 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:50,280 Speaker 5: because like the louder we got, the harder each team 403 00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:53,600 Speaker 5: started playing, And so I was like, okay, the kids can. 404 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:55,399 Speaker 5: They can't. They can pick up on the energy of 405 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:57,199 Speaker 5: of like that. Like you said, the parents in the 406 00:19:57,200 --> 00:19:59,520 Speaker 5: crowd nat sphere howld U. 407 00:19:59,520 --> 00:20:02,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's I don't think it's always I don't think. 408 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:05,720 Speaker 4: I don't think the after certain age, I don't think 409 00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:09,400 Speaker 4: the participation trophy is necessary because of stuff like that, 410 00:20:09,560 --> 00:20:12,080 Speaker 4: if you if you, because kids want to be like 411 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:15,040 Speaker 4: they watch sports, they want to be the hero, like 412 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:17,199 Speaker 4: they want to be Steph Curry, Like they want to 413 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 4: be Lebron, Like they want to be the hero. 414 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:21,280 Speaker 3: So once that energy goes up, they they want to 415 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 3: match it. Yeah. 416 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:24,920 Speaker 2: I always feel like, well, I'm an I love the 417 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:26,960 Speaker 2: participation trophy. I always feel like it gets a bad 418 00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:31,080 Speaker 2: rap because, uh, you know, once you haven't you know, 419 00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:32,879 Speaker 2: you've probably seen it. I don't know if you're going 420 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:36,800 Speaker 2: to his like end of the team party, pizza party 421 00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:40,680 Speaker 2: type things, they don't actually do a participation of trophy. 422 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:43,000 Speaker 2: Like it's so funny with you, Like the idea of 423 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:45,600 Speaker 2: the participation trophy is like they just walk up to 424 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:47,399 Speaker 2: like the sorriest kids on the team and they're just 425 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 2: like here, they just throw them like a box of trophies. 426 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:52,720 Speaker 2: But I love it because the coaches always take out 427 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:55,960 Speaker 2: time to say something special about every player. Yes, and 428 00:20:56,440 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 2: that's such that's such a dope thing because it's about 429 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:04,960 Speaker 2: success and progress throughout the season. Now, obviously, once you 430 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:07,040 Speaker 2: start like that's kind of rec league stuff. Once you 431 00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:09,280 Speaker 2: start taking it seriously, you get in high school and 432 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:13,159 Speaker 2: uh college, that all that goes away anyway. Like it's 433 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:16,200 Speaker 2: so it's no, like there's not even the participation thing 434 00:21:16,440 --> 00:21:19,360 Speaker 2: for the kids who are quote unquote taking it seriously. 435 00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:22,239 Speaker 2: But for like rec league people always kind of liked 436 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:26,959 Speaker 2: that idea because like it would feel weird to be like, well, 437 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 2: first of all, your parents had to pay for this shit, right, right, 438 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:33,080 Speaker 2: so that's like that's so that's another thing that's funny. 439 00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:34,679 Speaker 2: They'll put it on the kids on like you know 440 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:37,359 Speaker 2: why they're giving trophies right because parents. 441 00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:40,720 Speaker 5: Had five hundred dollars and they refuse the fact that 442 00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:42,560 Speaker 5: their kids is not gonna get treated special. 443 00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:45,520 Speaker 2: But it's always interesting because at the end of the season, 444 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:48,440 Speaker 2: it would be like, you know, hey, you, I remember 445 00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:50,960 Speaker 2: when you first got here and you couldn't even do this, 446 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:53,520 Speaker 2: and now look at you. You're doing this and that's 447 00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:55,679 Speaker 2: what this is. And everyone class for them and stuff, 448 00:21:55,880 --> 00:22:00,199 Speaker 2: and the kids never thought it for any second. My 449 00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:03,800 Speaker 2: participation trophy is the same as his MVP trophy. I 450 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:07,080 Speaker 2: am the same. We are, like the kids. 451 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:07,600 Speaker 7: Know who's good. 452 00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:11,280 Speaker 5: You don't know why their studid. 453 00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 3: And I tried. 454 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:17,960 Speaker 2: Are they doing anything for like ahead, sorry, well I 455 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:20,000 Speaker 2: was gonna ask for real quick, are they doing anything 456 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:23,800 Speaker 2: different under like the pandemic, Like have they had to 457 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 2: change any of the way they do stuff? Or is 458 00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:28,280 Speaker 2: it all kind of the same since as outdoors. 459 00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:32,280 Speaker 3: Are not. 460 00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:36,800 Speaker 4: This year, his school especially has been really good about 461 00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:40,720 Speaker 4: like eighty seven percent of the students are vaccinated. 462 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:43,800 Speaker 3: The ones who aren't vaccinated that. 463 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:47,040 Speaker 4: It's like health reasons or just something like, but eighty 464 00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 4: seven percent are vaccinated. 465 00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:53,880 Speaker 3: They have to every literally every day before school. 466 00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:56,399 Speaker 4: There's an app on their phones that they have to like, 467 00:22:56,880 --> 00:23:00,359 Speaker 4: I haven't you know all the standard COVID question students 468 00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:00,680 Speaker 4: that they. 469 00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 3: Ask is on an app. 470 00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:04,360 Speaker 4: And if you answer anything and you have to put 471 00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 4: your your temperature, everything, anything is weird, then you can't 472 00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:13,960 Speaker 4: come to school. They test students who want to be tested, 473 00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:17,200 Speaker 4: and the ones who aren't vaccinated have to be tested 474 00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:20,600 Speaker 4: every Tuesday. And so a couple of days ago we 475 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:23,479 Speaker 4: got an email because out of the one hundred and 476 00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:26,919 Speaker 4: sixty seven students that were tested, two of them tested 477 00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:32,760 Speaker 4: positive no symptoms and not vaccinate, all that stuff. And 478 00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:34,600 Speaker 4: you know, they can't tell us who, but they're like 479 00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:37,960 Speaker 4: anybody who was in close contact, We've already notified them, 480 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 4: so they already know who was around them. So they 481 00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:44,040 Speaker 4: shut it down. So all that to say, because of that, 482 00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:48,120 Speaker 4: it's it's you know, we have to wear a mask 483 00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:52,400 Speaker 4: to go inside the locker room or the sports complex 484 00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 4: in order to you know, use the restroom or get 485 00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:55,159 Speaker 4: snacks or whatever. 486 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 3: But outside it's fine. But they're yeah, they're really doing 487 00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:01,920 Speaker 3: their they're really doing their jobs. I don't know how they. 488 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:05,800 Speaker 4: Did it or what I mean, because it's it's it's 489 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:08,440 Speaker 4: pretty much a black school. It's whatever the high school 490 00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:12,399 Speaker 4: equivalent of HBCU is. It's that it's the black private 491 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:16,240 Speaker 4: school in this area. And so no games are being played, 492 00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:17,720 Speaker 4: you know what I mean, Like they're not taking any 493 00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:18,560 Speaker 4: risk whatsoever. 494 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:21,439 Speaker 2: So now that's dope man, that they care like that, 495 00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:23,720 Speaker 2: because like I said, you know, we hear some nightmare 496 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:27,200 Speaker 2: stories out there or you're just like, uh say what now, 497 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 2: like you know what I mean, just like what my rife? Yeah, 498 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:36,040 Speaker 2: uh tuski And you're just like, I don't think that 499 00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:38,879 Speaker 2: is anything to do with what you're talking about. Balls, 500 00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:44,159 Speaker 2: Yeah exactly my cousin. Have you heard about my cousin's balls? 501 00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:47,639 Speaker 2: Like this is this is not okay what's happening at 502 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 2: this school right now? So that is dope that you have, 503 00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:54,440 Speaker 2: Like you know, that's a positive experience because like I said, 504 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:59,560 Speaker 2: there's been some nightmares out there are the like how 505 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,280 Speaker 2: is having a kid in school right now? Because like 506 00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:06,280 Speaker 2: that's the last thing, right for everybody is to like 507 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:10,200 Speaker 2: I mean not the last thing, but like when people 508 00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,720 Speaker 2: talk about vaccinations and stuff, it's like the kids, the 509 00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:15,879 Speaker 2: kids without how can my kid wear a mask? It'll 510 00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:18,359 Speaker 2: affect his mental health and all that type of stuff, 511 00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:23,600 Speaker 2: Like is that something you were ever concerned about or okay, so. 512 00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:27,960 Speaker 4: It's always concerned about in this area. Public school in 513 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:31,120 Speaker 4: private schools, there's everyone had an option to do online, 514 00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:35,920 Speaker 4: you know, not like you know, the pharaoh coming in 515 00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:38,840 Speaker 4: and like forcing it the first born to like go 516 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 4: to school. 517 00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:43,000 Speaker 3: Like, it's not that if you weren't comfortable with if 518 00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:44,200 Speaker 3: you weren't comfortable. 519 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:45,840 Speaker 4: With it, if you didn't want to get vaccinated, you 520 00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:47,600 Speaker 4: didn't want to get tested, then you get to stay 521 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:49,520 Speaker 4: home and and do virtual learning. 522 00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:52,480 Speaker 3: But I think that the issue is that kids wanted. 523 00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:54,760 Speaker 4: I mean one thing that that that the that the 524 00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:58,120 Speaker 4: right wing gets right, I guess is that kids do 525 00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:00,040 Speaker 4: want to be in school, Like, they do want to 526 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,879 Speaker 4: be around their friends, they do want to have like 527 00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:07,000 Speaker 4: a school experience. It's just up to like the adults 528 00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:08,000 Speaker 4: in charge. 529 00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:09,760 Speaker 3: To make it safe or make it make sense. 530 00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:12,480 Speaker 4: So if you're not going to ask people to get vaccinated, 531 00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:15,399 Speaker 4: and you're gonna turn it into like this big you know, 532 00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:21,120 Speaker 4: political statement of like constitutional rights or whatever, then you're 533 00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:23,600 Speaker 4: now you're making it weird, you know, like you know 534 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:27,200 Speaker 4: how like when the little kid falls down and you're 535 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,920 Speaker 4: not supposed to react or else they'll you know whatever. 536 00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:32,679 Speaker 3: It's like that, like you're making a big deal when. 537 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:34,840 Speaker 4: Yes, the kids want to go to school, Yes they 538 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:37,720 Speaker 4: want to be around their friends, but it's up to you. 539 00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:40,840 Speaker 3: As people in charge, to make it safe for them 540 00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:41,280 Speaker 3: to do that. 541 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:45,160 Speaker 4: Right, So you can't be like if we were in Texas, 542 00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:48,480 Speaker 4: he wouldn't be in school, he would be he would 543 00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:48,919 Speaker 4: be at. 544 00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:51,320 Speaker 3: Home because I can't count any of y'all to do 545 00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:52,359 Speaker 3: what's necessary. 546 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:56,080 Speaker 4: Whereas here we have a Republican mayor governor here, but 547 00:26:56,640 --> 00:27:00,440 Speaker 4: he's been his dumb ass voted for Ronald Reagan. Mm 548 00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:04,080 Speaker 4: hmmm anyway, because he didn't he wouldn't vote for Trump. 549 00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:09,800 Speaker 2: I was like, niggah, way, oh shit, okay, I like 550 00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:16,760 Speaker 2: I like in nineteen eighty. 551 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:20,359 Speaker 5: I was for I mean one to get some I know, 552 00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:22,480 Speaker 5: like I got a Twitter year grip. 553 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:25,119 Speaker 3: Hold him grudges, I will never let it go good on. 554 00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:31,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, so so he's yeah, he's a Republican governor, but 555 00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:33,720 Speaker 4: I think his he or his wife one of them 556 00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:38,240 Speaker 4: are immuno compromised, so they weren't playing any games when 557 00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:41,760 Speaker 4: it came to like getting things under under lock. 558 00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:43,600 Speaker 3: But but yeah. 559 00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:49,720 Speaker 4: So I feel I feel that everyone has taken I 560 00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:51,240 Speaker 4: trusted everybody. 561 00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:52,600 Speaker 3: I trusted the people that. 562 00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:55,840 Speaker 4: I'm around and the people that I made conscious decisions 563 00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:59,240 Speaker 4: to be around, and then conscious decisions to have either 564 00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:03,080 Speaker 4: him or his friends or whoever around. They feel the 565 00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:05,719 Speaker 4: same way I do. So no one's taking any like 566 00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:09,400 Speaker 4: any dune risks, right because I do believe it's important 567 00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:12,280 Speaker 4: for them to be in school, especially if and that's. 568 00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:13,920 Speaker 3: Another thing, and I think you and I talk about it. 569 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:18,000 Speaker 3: It's a lot, right, people who are. 570 00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:24,520 Speaker 4: Already like predisposed to not wanting to be around people 571 00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:32,720 Speaker 4: make these restrictions about that as opposed to the fact 572 00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:35,280 Speaker 4: that there are some people who do want to go 573 00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:37,880 Speaker 4: to the office, and there are some people who work 574 00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:40,920 Speaker 4: better when they're outside of their house, who are not 575 00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:43,719 Speaker 4: having a good time at home, and they're not weird 576 00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:47,680 Speaker 4: or abnormal or or putting everybody at risk. But you 577 00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:51,640 Speaker 4: have to understand that people have different ways of coping 578 00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:54,560 Speaker 4: with this thing, and your way of staying at home 579 00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:59,360 Speaker 4: and being with your cats and plants or whatever that's yours. Nothing, 580 00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:01,120 Speaker 4: but you would have on to that anyway, Like if 581 00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:04,120 Speaker 4: there was some other reason besides a pandemic for you 582 00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:06,760 Speaker 4: to have stayed home and never leave your house and 583 00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:09,640 Speaker 4: only order uber eats, you would have taken that too. 584 00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:11,840 Speaker 3: So don't make it about that, do you You know 585 00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:12,240 Speaker 3: what I mean? 586 00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:16,440 Speaker 4: So for me, I saw, especially last year when he 587 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:19,320 Speaker 4: was in middle school, his grades, like he went from 588 00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:21,200 Speaker 4: from from honor student to like. 589 00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:26,000 Speaker 3: Failing, like failing math. He was failing everything, Like it 590 00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:27,000 Speaker 3: was like shocking. 591 00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:30,880 Speaker 4: We were like, what what is I don't want to 592 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:33,920 Speaker 4: live at school? And that's what it feels like. I 593 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:37,440 Speaker 4: feel like I live at school and and it just 594 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:39,240 Speaker 4: wasn't a good thing for him. 595 00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:41,200 Speaker 3: So there are a couple of kids, like I. 596 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:44,600 Speaker 4: Thought, staying at home because he's an only child. There 597 00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 4: are forty eight computers here. He has no other people 598 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:51,560 Speaker 4: that he's you know, he's not fighting for Wi Fi 599 00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:56,000 Speaker 4: right or quiet study space with anybody. So I thought, oh, 600 00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 4: let the kids who need to be in school, be 601 00:29:58,400 --> 00:29:59,040 Speaker 4: in school. 602 00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:00,800 Speaker 3: And you be here. But I didn't. I took for 603 00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:02,600 Speaker 3: granted that he is a kid that needs to be 604 00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:03,080 Speaker 3: in school. 605 00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:06,720 Speaker 4: He does need the outside stimulus, he does need the 606 00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:10,920 Speaker 4: break between home and you know, school at home to 607 00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:14,440 Speaker 4: function and thrive, like he needs that. So all the 608 00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:17,240 Speaker 4: people who are like very adamant about kids can't be 609 00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:19,840 Speaker 4: in school right now. There's there's a there's a there's 610 00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:23,200 Speaker 4: a there's a there's another option, and there's another way 611 00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:25,840 Speaker 4: to think about it that isn't just about if you 612 00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:27,160 Speaker 4: want kids in school. 613 00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:31,360 Speaker 3: Then you want them to die or whatever like those extremes. 614 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:35,840 Speaker 2: I think, and I think because the most extreme people 615 00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 2: are the ones talking when I think if if I'm 616 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:44,160 Speaker 2: told you told everybody to close their eyes and like 617 00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:49,280 Speaker 2: talk about like what what they were against, it's not 618 00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:51,240 Speaker 2: I don't think you will find that people are truly 619 00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:54,000 Speaker 2: against kids going to school. It's just this idea of 620 00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:57,960 Speaker 2: they won't be safe. Yes, Like it's it's like because 621 00:30:58,000 --> 00:30:59,440 Speaker 2: when I think of I know, when I hear the 622 00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:02,360 Speaker 2: terms like kids going to school, I immediately think of 623 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:05,040 Speaker 2: the places that are like and we're not wearing masks 624 00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:07,320 Speaker 2: and we ain't telling you if your kids get no restricts, 625 00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:09,120 Speaker 2: and we're not and we don't give a fuck. If 626 00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:11,560 Speaker 2: you're not coughing and dying, then come to work, you know. 627 00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:14,120 Speaker 2: And so I know, my mind goes that because I've 628 00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:17,480 Speaker 2: just been indoctrinated through the Internet of all these extremists 629 00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:20,640 Speaker 2: that are just you know, constantly spewing and shit where 630 00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:23,040 Speaker 2: you know, it is true that in a lot of 631 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:27,320 Speaker 2: places they've had schools, they've had masks, they've had social distances, 632 00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:30,680 Speaker 2: those distancing and they've allotted for kids to be able 633 00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:32,680 Speaker 2: to learn from home if that, you know, like to 634 00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:35,959 Speaker 2: a certain amount, and you know, it seems to be 635 00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:39,160 Speaker 2: going fine without too many of these like we're not 636 00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:42,120 Speaker 2: reading a lot of like you know, six thousand kids 637 00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:45,880 Speaker 2: got got sick from those districts. But the but the 638 00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:48,360 Speaker 2: stories that I do read about kids getting sick are 639 00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:52,320 Speaker 2: from Texas. Yeah, no restriction and stuff like that, and 640 00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:56,400 Speaker 2: and like you know, I'm sure read yeah, Georgia. And 641 00:31:56,520 --> 00:32:00,000 Speaker 2: so I think in my mind it's become a thing 642 00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:04,800 Speaker 2: where I'm associating school with that, whereas well where everyone's 643 00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:06,920 Speaker 2: kind of back in school and that's not the norm 644 00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:09,880 Speaker 2: for everyone. New York's back in school, and everyone thought 645 00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:11,760 Speaker 2: that was gonna be a terrible idea, but it seems 646 00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:14,920 Speaker 2: to be working. So yeah, yeah, you're absolutely right about 647 00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:18,600 Speaker 2: the panic. And then the other part is parents because 648 00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:22,840 Speaker 2: of how school functions is kind of like a babysitter, 649 00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:27,160 Speaker 2: and parents are being told to go back to work. 650 00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:30,800 Speaker 2: It's just not the option. It was a year and 651 00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:33,560 Speaker 2: a half ago when somewhere a lot of businesses closed 652 00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:36,160 Speaker 2: down because the school's closed down. A lot of businesses 653 00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:39,040 Speaker 2: are like, get vaccinated, Come you'll ask into work or 654 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:43,440 Speaker 2: getting fired. That's not necessarily gonna leave you in a 655 00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:46,000 Speaker 2: position to be like my kid who's not old enough 656 00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:48,440 Speaker 2: to get vaccinated, can stay at home or come to 657 00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:50,160 Speaker 2: work with me. No, they're gonna have to go back 658 00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:52,520 Speaker 2: to school, and the only option for you is to 659 00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:53,480 Speaker 2: hope they do it safely. 660 00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:59,680 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I mean I'm pro vaccine mandate. 661 00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:04,600 Speaker 4: I feel like if you are eligible, if like, okay, So, 662 00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 4: so he can't take the flu vaccine because he's allergic 663 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,520 Speaker 4: to egg yolk and I think that it's made with eggy. 664 00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:10,840 Speaker 3: Or something. 665 00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:18,880 Speaker 2: Egg yo not egg white. 666 00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:20,680 Speaker 3: Hits an omelet. 667 00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:27,320 Speaker 4: Uh uh So, so when they started making it, you know, 668 00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:29,360 Speaker 4: twelve and up could take it, I called. 669 00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:31,959 Speaker 3: His doctor, and I said, he's allergic to the flu vaccine. 670 00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:35,480 Speaker 4: You know, is there anything in this vaccine that he 671 00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:39,240 Speaker 4: should be worried about? Doctor said no, And so he 672 00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:39,680 Speaker 4: got it. 673 00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:41,560 Speaker 3: You know, yeah, you know what I mean. 674 00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:44,280 Speaker 4: I didn't wait and start like, well, let me see 675 00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:45,640 Speaker 4: if there's anybody who died. 676 00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:48,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, well you got it. You know, after that, you 677 00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:51,520 Speaker 2: gotta go on Facebook and then start following like celebrities 678 00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:54,320 Speaker 2: that say not to get it. I mean, that's you know, 679 00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 2: that's the next step in your research, you know, the 680 00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:57,760 Speaker 2: first research you call your die. 681 00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:00,600 Speaker 3: I mean, if I'd have waited, if I would have. 682 00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:04,480 Speaker 4: Waited just four months, then Nicki Minaj could have saved 683 00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:05,320 Speaker 4: his life. 684 00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:05,720 Speaker 3: And his ball. 685 00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:08,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, because like now you've got a son with small balls. 686 00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:13,719 Speaker 2: He can't play soccer that way, but nobody if he 687 00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:17,799 Speaker 2: ever hears he's gonna be like my mom was talking 688 00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:19,920 Speaker 2: about my balls on the podcast. And I don't. 689 00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:27,800 Speaker 4: I just I just I just feel like, uh, I 690 00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:31,719 Speaker 4: just feel like there was a there's there's a case 691 00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:35,520 Speaker 4: to be made about being as you know, as uh 692 00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:39,520 Speaker 4: hyperbolic as possible in order to to. 693 00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:44,279 Speaker 3: Illustrate the seriousness of what is that we've encountered. 694 00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:47,800 Speaker 4: But I also feel like two years in, I cannot 695 00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:51,480 Speaker 4: I cannot do this with y'all anymore. Like I just 696 00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:53,200 Speaker 4: can't do it with you guys. I'm not I can't 697 00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:56,399 Speaker 4: believe we're still having this conversation. I can't believe we're 698 00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:59,920 Speaker 4: still you know, I can't believe we're still doing this. 699 00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:02,040 Speaker 4: I know that we are, but like, I'm just not 700 00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:04,400 Speaker 4: going to be part of that conversation anymore. I was 701 00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:08,640 Speaker 4: in Texas last week for my first uh you know, 702 00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:13,320 Speaker 4: uh like speaking event in two years since it's all started, 703 00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:18,880 Speaker 4: and people in Texas just like it's like the the 704 00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:21,919 Speaker 4: masks are are required like a certain places like the 705 00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:26,360 Speaker 4: like the like the like the airport. But I was 706 00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:30,759 Speaker 4: watching these white people who look like they were prepared 707 00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:33,840 Speaker 4: to argue, do you know what I mean? You know 708 00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:36,040 Speaker 4: what I mean, Like like they had a mask on, 709 00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:40,200 Speaker 4: but they had a like like like just like like here, 710 00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:41,719 Speaker 4: you know what I mean, and. 711 00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:47,880 Speaker 2: Nostrils like okay, you just have it on your body exactly. 712 00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:51,040 Speaker 4: I was like, as soon as if somebody were to 713 00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:53,760 Speaker 4: come to you and say, put your mask on whatever, 714 00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:56,799 Speaker 4: you're ready to argue and you're ready to fight. You're 715 00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:59,960 Speaker 4: ready to talk about your rights and Trump really want 716 00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:00,680 Speaker 4: like you're. 717 00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:02,880 Speaker 3: Ready to do that. So me knowing that, I was like, 718 00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:04,960 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna stand next to any of you. 719 00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:07,040 Speaker 4: I'm going to sit as far as possible. I'm gonna 720 00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:09,600 Speaker 4: have double mask. I'm gonna make sure blah blah because 721 00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:12,600 Speaker 4: you I'm not gonna argue with you. I'm just not 722 00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:13,960 Speaker 4: say I'm just not. 723 00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:16,480 Speaker 3: I'm just gonna make sure that the people that I 724 00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:20,920 Speaker 3: spend the most time around are are vaccinated. It's like 725 00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:22,480 Speaker 3: I told you. Somebody came over and I was like, 726 00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:23,800 Speaker 3: I don't even know if y'all have vaccinated. 727 00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:26,480 Speaker 2: So yeah, I'm not looking for a viol on it, 728 00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:28,440 Speaker 2: Like I'm not. I don't want to go live on 729 00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:33,160 Speaker 2: Instagram and with my confrontation of the maskless care like 730 00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:36,279 Speaker 2: that's not my desire at all. My desires to get 731 00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:38,600 Speaker 2: groceries and to go back home. So like that's what 732 00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:41,719 Speaker 2: the fuck I'm gonna do. And I just lating to 733 00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:44,759 Speaker 2: the pandemic. There's no one who doesn't know. So if 734 00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:47,000 Speaker 2: someone's not wearing a mask, they made a choice. They 735 00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:49,600 Speaker 2: made a choice to come in that place seeing that 736 00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:52,719 Speaker 2: sign and saying fuck it, I'm not you know what 737 00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:55,200 Speaker 2: someone else's job. I'm not the vigilant. I'm not the 738 00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:58,359 Speaker 2: mask vigilante, and I think that's a you know, at 739 00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:00,680 Speaker 2: least for me, that's the reasonable way to be. But 740 00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:05,440 Speaker 2: I think some people, because it's not just the unvaccinated, 741 00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:08,320 Speaker 2: vaccinated people are angry too, and people. 742 00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:09,680 Speaker 5: Have to tend me to forget that. They act like 743 00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:13,480 Speaker 5: the unvaccinated only people mad everybody to be with. 744 00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:15,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, so you can kind of pick up there's certain 745 00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:17,799 Speaker 2: people that want to fight about it, you know, even 746 00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:20,239 Speaker 2: online and stuff, and I think that's where a lot 747 00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:23,200 Speaker 2: of the conflict comes from. Where, you know, people were 748 00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:25,680 Speaker 2: blaming the CDC for shit that I was like, that's 749 00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:28,759 Speaker 2: not even close to the CDC's fault. Well why didn't 750 00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:30,319 Speaker 2: they Why did they say we should even take off 751 00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:32,400 Speaker 2: the mask? Well, because at the time, the delta variant 752 00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:36,440 Speaker 2: wasn't here and the vaccines were ninety effective against the 753 00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:40,920 Speaker 2: current variants and science change, they had no fucking reason 754 00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:43,040 Speaker 2: to tell you not to put on the mask. But 755 00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:44,719 Speaker 2: you know what they told, you know what they told 756 00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:47,080 Speaker 2: people that weren't vaccinated to keep wearing a fucking mask. 757 00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:50,719 Speaker 2: Don't try to make that their fault. Because because the 758 00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,560 Speaker 2: science was the science. And then it was, well, how 759 00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:56,680 Speaker 2: come you told us put the mask back on? We'll 760 00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:59,600 Speaker 2: see now they have science that says that the delta 761 00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:03,239 Speaker 2: varians breads faster and puts out more. So they did 762 00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:04,799 Speaker 2: the thing you wanted them to do and say, put 763 00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:07,240 Speaker 2: the mask back on. And you know what, the people 764 00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:10,239 Speaker 2: who are unvaccinated and never put mask on in the 765 00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:12,600 Speaker 2: first place are doing the same shit they've been doing 766 00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:15,440 Speaker 2: that they don't care. They're not waiting on CDC guidance, 767 00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:18,360 Speaker 2: They're waiting on Donald Trump guidance. We can't be letting 768 00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:23,319 Speaker 2: the whole society rest on these people's ignorance. And uh, 769 00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:25,799 Speaker 2: it's why I love what Joe Biden did, because he 770 00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:29,080 Speaker 2: just asserted his full straight white man privilege and was like, 771 00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:32,480 Speaker 2: y'all gonna put on this motherfucking vaccine. I know that 772 00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:35,440 Speaker 2: much like, oh, put on a mask, put on a mask. 773 00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:38,160 Speaker 2: Oh that's too late for put on a mask. We 774 00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:41,600 Speaker 2: had put we had put in some vaccine. So everyone 775 00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,560 Speaker 2: getting this shot. I will turn this car around. God 776 00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:45,000 Speaker 2: help me. 777 00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:48,080 Speaker 5: Yes, Like he was like, you fed to realize I 778 00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:50,440 Speaker 5: am the federal government. If you are a federal worker, 779 00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:53,720 Speaker 5: get this shot, lose your job, you know, it's about 780 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:54,879 Speaker 5: a federal worker, and. 781 00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:55,879 Speaker 3: Be mad about it. 782 00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:58,560 Speaker 4: Like be mad about it, like there are people who 783 00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:00,760 Speaker 4: are quitting and then wanting people supposed to be upset 784 00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,879 Speaker 4: with them. No, like you know, you know what this is. 785 00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:05,440 Speaker 4: You're supposed to do this or not do this? 786 00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:09,080 Speaker 5: Right then they shot because they was listening to their 787 00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:12,239 Speaker 5: friends online and they was like, I'm gonna get unemployment. 788 00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:14,520 Speaker 5: No bitch, you don't. You get no unemployment. You get 789 00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:17,480 Speaker 5: no insurance. You they don't even offer you that expensive 790 00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:19,040 Speaker 5: ass cobra. You get nothing. 791 00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:23,200 Speaker 2: My favorite higher, my high right now is the stories 792 00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:28,399 Speaker 2: of people quitting and then coming back. So I look 793 00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:31,720 Speaker 2: for jobs and apparently everyone said you gotta have a vaccine. 794 00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:34,879 Speaker 2: Apparently it's y'all still hiring cuz you know, I'm gonna 795 00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:36,799 Speaker 2: go ahnd and get it. And I'm like, yeah, let's 796 00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:40,080 Speaker 2: the fuck your ass get come your ass back. Oh man. 797 00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:42,399 Speaker 5: They started like Delta be like you know what, two 798 00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:44,640 Speaker 5: hundred extra more dollars a month. They was like, oh 799 00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:46,799 Speaker 5: word for some ship. This prey put this free ship 800 00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:47,160 Speaker 5: in my. 801 00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:50,239 Speaker 2: Own Yeah, it's really my jam right now. I love 802 00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:53,520 Speaker 2: these stories. Matter of fact, we got a bunch of 803 00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:56,200 Speaker 2: uh you know, since it hasn't been that long. We 804 00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:59,840 Speaker 2: can go ahead and get into some new stuff with Bossy. 805 00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:01,320 Speaker 2: You know, this is what I was telling right the 806 00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:03,200 Speaker 2: other day where she was like, we didn't get to 807 00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:07,120 Speaker 2: cover any news. Right, come back more often and we 808 00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:11,160 Speaker 2: get to talk bullshit. We don't have to like talk 809 00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:13,160 Speaker 2: to them like I got this project coming up. We 810 00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:15,200 Speaker 2: can just talk. Yeah, So let's do. 811 00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:19,640 Speaker 3: Some don't say that yeah I got I got opinions. 812 00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:22,600 Speaker 2: Let's let's get into these opine Let's talk about coronavirus news. 813 00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:23,840 Speaker 2: That'll do a little bit of this first. 814 00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:28,359 Speaker 8: This episode is brought to you by Shopify. Forget the 815 00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:31,680 Speaker 8: frustration of picking commerce platforms. When you switch your business 816 00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:35,760 Speaker 8: to Shopify, the global commerce platform that supercharges you're selling 817 00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:40,360 Speaker 8: wherever you sell. 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Get the vaccine in 826 00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:03,600 Speaker 1: second shots, whether woman the man black out who tips 827 00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:06,080 Speaker 1: is doing their part, but the dumbest expand niggas we'd 828 00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:09,160 Speaker 1: rather believe a bunch of misinformation. Sha fuck y'all idiots 829 00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:11,560 Speaker 1: not getting shots now. We gotta regrets. If we keep 830 00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:14,439 Speaker 1: going in this direction, we never can rest, never can't 831 00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:16,440 Speaker 1: get back to the last we be living the best. 832 00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:19,919 Speaker 1: Damn fool stopped the lion. Stop the intubation crying because 833 00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:23,640 Speaker 1: it's your fucking motherfucker's dying. Damn fool stopped the lion, 834 00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:27,200 Speaker 1: stopped the benilateated crying because it's your fucking motherfucker's dying. 835 00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:27,879 Speaker 2: I do not. 836 00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:28,839 Speaker 7: Understand this shit. 837 00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:30,120 Speaker 1: I'm not a fan of this. 838 00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:32,879 Speaker 7: We were like one win from the Pandemic Championship. 839 00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:35,080 Speaker 1: The fuckers want to leave it to Game seven with 840 00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:38,320 Speaker 1: Yanni stel to Coupo flocking forward progression. 841 00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:39,720 Speaker 7: And Chris Middle figures to your plans. 842 00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:43,120 Speaker 1: Man, dam looks like it's no Drew Holliday for you 843 00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:45,839 Speaker 1: and your man. Some sick of black people crying for real. 844 00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:47,840 Speaker 1: So I'm just writing this new piece to let you 845 00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:52,200 Speaker 1: know how I feel. Coronavirus, y'all. Fuck that COVID nineteen 846 00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:55,239 Speaker 1: is unseen. It's creeping in the air for you to breathe. Yeah, 847 00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:57,600 Speaker 1: huh so, fuck that COVID nineteen. 848 00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:00,560 Speaker 7: It's unseen. It's creeping in the air for you to reading. 849 00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:02,880 Speaker 2: Coronavirus coronavirus news. 850 00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:03,359 Speaker 3: Uh. 851 00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:06,720 Speaker 2: The Breakfast Club hits Joy Reid for a vaccine scolding. 852 00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:13,839 Speaker 2: Nicki Minaj invokes MSNBC's host skepticism under Trump. Uh so, 853 00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:19,000 Speaker 2: Nicki Minaj, you know, of course said her cousin in 854 00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:24,640 Speaker 2: Trinidad's friend, uh got the vaccine and was impotent in 855 00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:28,120 Speaker 2: his testicle swoll up and uh. 856 00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:30,440 Speaker 3: And his wedding got yeah, and his wedding got. 857 00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:35,400 Speaker 2: I mean it literally sounds like a joke, you know. 858 00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:40,040 Speaker 2: And uh, she has twenty three million followers on Twitter, 859 00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:44,320 Speaker 2: and she was trending on Twitter, and everyone spending a 860 00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,719 Speaker 2: lot of time trying to correct her or you know, 861 00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:51,480 Speaker 2: coming at her to like educate her, or you know, 862 00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:53,600 Speaker 2: just kind of like scold her, because, like I said, 863 00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:57,840 Speaker 2: vaccinated people are angry too. I think I think I 864 00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:02,719 Speaker 2: think people believe that because being unvaccinated is so unreasonable, 865 00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:05,399 Speaker 2: that those are the only motherfuckers mad. And it's just 866 00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:09,560 Speaker 2: like have y'all seen when anyone expresses some bullshit, everyone 867 00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:13,520 Speaker 2: is very upset right now. You know my advice, if 868 00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:16,120 Speaker 2: you really do need to get educated on something or 869 00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:19,239 Speaker 2: you have questions, google that ship. Don't don't hit the 870 00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:21,960 Speaker 2: timeline with that if you truly genuine mean it. And 871 00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:24,799 Speaker 2: that's if you do. But I don't think Nikki does 872 00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:28,960 Speaker 2: mean it. But so Joy Reid basically went on her 873 00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:32,080 Speaker 2: show and did like a little segment where she talked 874 00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:35,120 Speaker 2: about how you know you got twenty two million followers 875 00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:40,280 Speaker 2: and you know, I'm disappointed in you. I'm a fan, 876 00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:43,520 Speaker 2: I'm a hip hop fan, and I'm sad that you 877 00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:49,040 Speaker 2: did that. And you know you don't think you don't 878 00:43:49,040 --> 00:43:52,480 Speaker 2: think on second, I wonder. 879 00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:57,680 Speaker 3: She's not She's not a what are they called a bar? 880 00:43:57,880 --> 00:43:59,000 Speaker 3: I don't think so are we. 881 00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:01,520 Speaker 2: Here's one thing. Are you a Nikki fan? Or do 882 00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:02,880 Speaker 2: you like her verse off a monster? 883 00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:07,200 Speaker 3: You know, like I called the monsters? Yeah, because that's 884 00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:08,640 Speaker 3: that's the only thing I can think of. 885 00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:10,440 Speaker 2: There's a difference, you know what I'm saying. 886 00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:12,000 Speaker 3: Different. 887 00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:16,719 Speaker 2: But but it is funny that, you know, Joy does 888 00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:19,640 Speaker 2: spend this time on her show doing this because of 889 00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:23,759 Speaker 2: course she then becomes she's now she's the bully, like 890 00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:27,279 Speaker 2: so then every like the Breakfast Club The Daily Show, 891 00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:30,160 Speaker 2: they kind of imply like, shame on Joy read for 892 00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:34,520 Speaker 2: addressing this and shaming this woman. And Joy Reid had 893 00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:37,960 Speaker 2: a tweet from a year ago where she was vaccine 894 00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:40,360 Speaker 2: hesitant because she said she didn't know she would trust 895 00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:44,120 Speaker 2: a vaccine that was made under the Trump administration, which, 896 00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:49,160 Speaker 2: while being a kind of valid, uh, I can understand 897 00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:53,120 Speaker 2: that one. It's that thing where once you express something 898 00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:56,200 Speaker 2: like that with the position you have, you do put 899 00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:58,920 Speaker 2: yourself in a position where you can later be that 900 00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:01,839 Speaker 2: can be called back, like you know, twitters forevers, Well 901 00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:05,319 Speaker 2: you said this too, so that they got she got 902 00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:08,640 Speaker 2: a lot of disused and shit like that. And I 903 00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:14,040 Speaker 2: think ultimately it worked out enjoys favor though, because the 904 00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:17,120 Speaker 2: next few days Nikki's just been on a tear saying 905 00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:21,880 Speaker 2: some like apparn shit like siding with white supremacists, retweeting 906 00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:24,840 Speaker 2: Tucker Carlson and the Niche de Zuza and all this 907 00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:27,560 Speaker 2: type of shit. So it you know, at the end 908 00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:30,920 Speaker 2: of the day, Joy I think ultimately was right, even 909 00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:33,360 Speaker 2: if part of the reason she was right is because 910 00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:38,239 Speaker 2: she kind of elevated Nikki into a serious person by 911 00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:39,360 Speaker 2: treating her seriously. 912 00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:44,200 Speaker 4: You know, Yeah, that that that was my issue, Like 913 00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:48,600 Speaker 4: that's when because I feel like, and you know, you 914 00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:51,920 Speaker 4: said that vaccinating people are angry too, and I agree, 915 00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:54,439 Speaker 4: but I also think that there is a level of 916 00:45:55,760 --> 00:46:00,719 Speaker 4: self righteousness that always shows up when it comes to 917 00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:05,359 Speaker 4: anything that's been politicized for any reason. Right, So you're right, 918 00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:10,200 Speaker 4: people should get vaccinated. You're right people should be educated 919 00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:12,120 Speaker 4: on what it is that dah dah da da dad. 920 00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:15,600 Speaker 4: But the way that you that folks come at people 921 00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:19,720 Speaker 4: turns it into an emotional response as opposed to because 922 00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:22,759 Speaker 4: you're telling people trust science, which you're coming at them 923 00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:26,920 Speaker 4: with an emotional response and a plea. And I feel 924 00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:29,000 Speaker 4: like that's more about you than it is about whatever 925 00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:33,040 Speaker 4: the conversation is supposed to be. Right, So my thing 926 00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:38,719 Speaker 4: was she lie about her cousin, like attack that, like 927 00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:42,200 Speaker 4: there's no you trying to educate her made her think 928 00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:44,120 Speaker 4: because she kept saying after a while, she was like 929 00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:47,759 Speaker 4: anybody who thinks for themselves and they don't like intelligent 930 00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:50,680 Speaker 4: black women. And it's like, nigga, you are stupid, like 931 00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:53,520 Speaker 4: you are dumb, like nothing you said was smart. But 932 00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:56,120 Speaker 4: because people are approaching you as though you had a 933 00:46:56,200 --> 00:47:00,839 Speaker 4: valid point, then that's when you. But I wanted more 934 00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:04,279 Speaker 4: people to be like, you are lying, which cousin, when 935 00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:07,040 Speaker 4: did that happen? Show us some Like I wanted people 936 00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:09,719 Speaker 4: to stay on that because that was the obvious thing 937 00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:13,120 Speaker 4: that she was lying about and that she could not dodge. 938 00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:16,680 Speaker 3: But they they, they they turned that into a joke, 939 00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:18,719 Speaker 3: into a meme, and then they took the rest of 940 00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:21,719 Speaker 3: it seriously trying to educate her. It's like, she doesn't 941 00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:24,960 Speaker 3: need to be educated because she's not. She's not. I 942 00:47:25,000 --> 00:47:25,760 Speaker 3: was gonna say she's. 943 00:47:25,600 --> 00:47:28,520 Speaker 4: Not uneducated, but clearly she is. But like, it's not 944 00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:31,320 Speaker 4: even about that with her at this point. Her ego 945 00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:33,960 Speaker 4: is fighting now, she's she's not going to back down 946 00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:36,120 Speaker 4: at all because now people are coming, and then she 947 00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:39,719 Speaker 4: has like, and I believe this of everybody, no matter 948 00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:44,120 Speaker 4: what side you are on, if you have people who 949 00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:49,640 Speaker 4: are only there yes man, you, then you're never going 950 00:47:49,680 --> 00:47:52,839 Speaker 4: to listen to anybody that has anything right to say. 951 00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:54,080 Speaker 4: I mean, I'm not going to get into like some 952 00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:55,839 Speaker 4: of the other stuff we talked about, but like, no 953 00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:59,200 Speaker 4: matter what the issue is, if you have a group 954 00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:02,279 Speaker 4: of people who only and always tell you that you're 955 00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:05,160 Speaker 4: doing the right thing for the right reasons, you're never 956 00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:07,759 Speaker 4: gonna back down, and you're never gonna back down. You 957 00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:10,840 Speaker 4: can't back down, so people cannot come at you, and 958 00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:13,800 Speaker 4: they can't attack you, or they can't they can't confront 959 00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:16,480 Speaker 4: you with truth because truth was never the issue. 960 00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:19,840 Speaker 3: The issue was your ego, So attack that not attacking. 961 00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:21,800 Speaker 4: But you know what I mean, Like, that's the angle 962 00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:23,880 Speaker 4: that I feel like people should have, because people turned 963 00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:26,880 Speaker 4: the cousin thing into a meme and then took the 964 00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:27,680 Speaker 4: rest of her serious. 965 00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:30,239 Speaker 3: I was like, none of this is serious, None of 966 00:48:30,239 --> 00:48:32,759 Speaker 3: this is serious. Call her a liar, because what is 967 00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:33,520 Speaker 3: she gonna do with that? 968 00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:36,680 Speaker 4: Like she can she can sidestep and you know, duck 969 00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:39,040 Speaker 4: duck and dodge all that other stuff. But if you're like, 970 00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:41,960 Speaker 4: you're lying about your cousin because this is not true, 971 00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:44,360 Speaker 4: then what is she left to do? 972 00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:44,960 Speaker 3: You know what I mean? 973 00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:47,319 Speaker 4: And that's what was bothering me about this whole thing. 974 00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:52,600 Speaker 5: And I think too, for a lot of people. I'm 975 00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:55,279 Speaker 5: with Roderick and with you, there are people mad at 976 00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:58,839 Speaker 5: both sides. And when you're talking about emotional the thing 977 00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:01,960 Speaker 5: is a lot of the unvaccinated people, they come from 978 00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:04,320 Speaker 5: an emotional place with their arguments. In the first place. 979 00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:07,680 Speaker 5: So the vaccinated people are coming with emotions too. 980 00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:08,600 Speaker 3: You mad, I'm mad. 981 00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:12,600 Speaker 5: Let's all be mad. Let's all be emotionally attacking each other. 982 00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:17,360 Speaker 5: Because it's like I said, I think that how you 983 00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:20,840 Speaker 5: approach people matter a lot, particularly on social media. A 984 00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:24,480 Speaker 5: lot of unvaccinated people. They're loud, they're wrong, they don't 985 00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:29,319 Speaker 5: want to hear nobody. They talk condescending, they call y'all 986 00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:31,600 Speaker 5: types of they try to ain't like you're stupid. Well, 987 00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:34,000 Speaker 5: then when I come back and reach at you with 988 00:49:34,080 --> 00:49:36,319 Speaker 5: the same energy that you put out, why am I 989 00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:40,440 Speaker 5: considered wrong for telling you and using the same energy 990 00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:42,560 Speaker 5: that you put out, I'm not wrong. We can both 991 00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:44,160 Speaker 5: be loud in the room. And I think that's what's 992 00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:44,960 Speaker 5: happening online. 993 00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:49,239 Speaker 2: I think the initial framing of it with Joy and 994 00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:53,360 Speaker 2: Trevor and even the breakfast club is this idea of like, 995 00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:57,040 Speaker 2: but she wants to be educated, like she's so she's 996 00:49:57,160 --> 00:50:01,200 Speaker 2: just had some questions. And then the second thing that happens, 997 00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:03,920 Speaker 2: and this happens when anybody's mad at anybody, you go 998 00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:06,840 Speaker 2: what their platform, because it becomes a platform. The second 999 00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:09,279 Speaker 2: you don't like what somebody's doing, it's just like you 1000 00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:13,839 Speaker 2: have a platform. But I'm like, is Nicki Minaj a 1001 00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:18,040 Speaker 2: source of vaccine information for twenty two million? 1002 00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:23,160 Speaker 3: Any information? Has she ever been the voice of reason 1003 00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:24,480 Speaker 3: in any situation? 1004 00:50:24,680 --> 00:50:26,600 Speaker 4: What makes you think that this is where she was. 1005 00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:27,160 Speaker 3: Going to start? 1006 00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:29,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like if some of the people. 1007 00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:31,560 Speaker 3: Who follow her are going to always agree that she 1008 00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:33,920 Speaker 3: could have said anything and they would have agreed with her. 1009 00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:37,640 Speaker 3: Her platform is nothing. We all have platforms, and. 1010 00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:40,520 Speaker 2: If someone is reaching out to her because of her 1011 00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:44,800 Speaker 2: vaccine hesitancy or anti VAC statements, that person is literally 1012 00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:47,839 Speaker 2: doing that because they already believe that. Like, they're not 1013 00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:49,600 Speaker 2: doing it because they they were on the fence and 1014 00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:52,600 Speaker 2: then Nikki said something. They were like, oh, scientist Minage, No, 1015 00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:56,600 Speaker 2: they're doing it literally because they're just like, Okay, well 1016 00:50:56,880 --> 00:50:59,120 Speaker 2: I already didn't believe this shit, So thank you Nikki 1017 00:50:59,200 --> 00:50:59,759 Speaker 2: for speaking up. 1018 00:51:01,160 --> 00:51:04,640 Speaker 3: It's confirmation bias, Yah, confirmation bias. 1019 00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:07,240 Speaker 2: I actually have to use the restroom real quick, y'all. Okay, 1020 00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:09,839 Speaker 2: so y'all talking about yourselves. Here's the next article. Chris 1021 00:51:09,960 --> 00:51:13,440 Speaker 2: Rock test positive for COVID nineteen. Go BOSSI ain't Karen. 1022 00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:15,279 Speaker 5: I did not know that. 1023 00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:17,839 Speaker 3: Really, Yeah, I didn't know that either. 1024 00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:22,160 Speaker 5: You said it's vaccinated. Yeah, he was vaccinated with Johnson 1025 00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:26,120 Speaker 5: and Johnson. So for me, that's understandable because they said, 1026 00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:28,280 Speaker 5: you know, because the thing is with it for the vaccines, 1027 00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:31,239 Speaker 5: they're like ninety nine point nine percent, So that means 1028 00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:33,279 Speaker 5: it's like a one to two percent chance that you 1029 00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:35,400 Speaker 5: have these breakthroughs. 1030 00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:38,000 Speaker 2: And the thing about the breakthroughs. 1031 00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:40,759 Speaker 5: The reason why you have the breakthroughs is because of 1032 00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:44,319 Speaker 5: the delta variance, because you know this ship like. 1033 00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:48,480 Speaker 3: Condoms, you're protected, but you're only protected to a point, 1034 00:51:48,600 --> 00:51:50,280 Speaker 3: and I think that people keep missing. 1035 00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:52,320 Speaker 4: And then this is what happened in the Nikki conversation 1036 00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:54,759 Speaker 4: as well, where she was like, well, Drake said he 1037 00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:57,360 Speaker 4: got it forty seven times and he's vaccinated. 1038 00:51:57,560 --> 00:51:59,560 Speaker 3: Well, Drake is doing reckless shit. 1039 00:51:59,880 --> 00:52:02,440 Speaker 4: And if no one ever said you wouldn't ever get 1040 00:52:02,480 --> 00:52:05,759 Speaker 4: it if you're vaccinated, they said, the fact that he 1041 00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:07,719 Speaker 4: is able to have had it as many times as 1042 00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:11,400 Speaker 4: he did means the vaccine works because it could have 1043 00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:13,839 Speaker 4: been that one time he had it and he never 1044 00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:14,680 Speaker 4: recovered from it. 1045 00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:20,440 Speaker 3: And I failed to understand especially and we're going back 1046 00:52:20,480 --> 00:52:24,000 Speaker 3: to like people having these emotional emotional arguments, and I mean, 1047 00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:26,360 Speaker 3: people are on our side. If you come to me 1048 00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:28,399 Speaker 3: if I'm anti vaxxed and I have all. 1049 00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:32,440 Speaker 4: These ridiculous conspiracy theories about it, you coming and clearly 1050 00:52:32,520 --> 00:52:36,640 Speaker 4: lying that you know your entire family was vaccinated and 1051 00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:41,479 Speaker 4: then your daughter went to step practice and came back 1052 00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:44,160 Speaker 4: and now everybody in your family is dead. That's not 1053 00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:47,600 Speaker 4: true either. I'm sorry, that's hyperbolic as well. Just say 1054 00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:50,640 Speaker 4: the facts. Stick to the facts. Yes, you can still 1055 00:52:50,680 --> 00:52:56,319 Speaker 4: get it, but the chances of you dying increases exponent sorry, 1056 00:52:56,400 --> 00:53:01,080 Speaker 4: decreases exponents. Like why are we why are we like 1057 00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:05,040 Speaker 4: selective about when we attack with facts and when we 1058 00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:08,960 Speaker 4: attack with hyperbole and and all these stories like I 1059 00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:12,239 Speaker 4: read these tweets, these tweet threads all the time where 1060 00:53:12,280 --> 00:53:14,600 Speaker 4: people have these like and you know this, it's the 1061 00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:17,280 Speaker 4: same people who will have a long ass tweet thread 1062 00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:20,279 Speaker 4: about literally anything, yes, anything happens in the world, and 1063 00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:22,600 Speaker 4: now they got a story about it and it takes. 1064 00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:24,920 Speaker 3: Seventeen tweets for them to tell it. And it's the 1065 00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:29,000 Speaker 3: same exact people. And for me, it's just like, you 1066 00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:31,560 Speaker 3: are also not telling the true man, sir, You are 1067 00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:35,399 Speaker 3: also not telling the truth because it's truth, because it's 1068 00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:40,240 Speaker 3: about you, because it's about you, so now you understand 1069 00:53:40,239 --> 00:53:43,040 Speaker 3: why an unvaccinated person is making it about them too. 1070 00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:46,800 Speaker 4: It's always about ego. It's always about being the lobdest 1071 00:53:46,840 --> 00:53:49,480 Speaker 4: room in the voice. It's always about that. And I 1072 00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:52,520 Speaker 4: wish Rob is here because he knows how much I hate, 1073 00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:56,399 Speaker 4: I loathe. I cannot stand sorry that happened to you, 1074 00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:59,680 Speaker 4: Like anybody, as soon as somebody, if I tie, if 1075 00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:02,440 Speaker 4: I tweet something and somebody responds, i'm sorry that happened 1076 00:54:02,440 --> 00:54:05,799 Speaker 4: to you, I delete the tweet because clearly you know 1077 00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:08,680 Speaker 4: I'm not saying it right because I cannot because it's 1078 00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:12,680 Speaker 4: such a nothing phrase. And so many people you can 1079 00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:15,640 Speaker 4: see when they're tweeting, they want that. They're tweeting for 1080 00:54:15,719 --> 00:54:18,040 Speaker 4: that like that, I'm sorry that happened to you. I'm 1081 00:54:18,040 --> 00:54:19,399 Speaker 4: s so sorry that happened to you. I'm so sorry 1082 00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:20,680 Speaker 4: that happened to you. Like so, a lot of the 1083 00:54:20,719 --> 00:54:23,080 Speaker 4: people who are on our side are tweeting for that. 1084 00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:24,719 Speaker 4: I'm sorry that happened to you. I'm sorry that happy, 1085 00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:27,600 Speaker 4: I'm sorry that happens. You're also not being honest about 1086 00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:31,400 Speaker 4: what's going on. You can't attack Nicki Minaj for not 1087 00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:35,000 Speaker 4: having facts, and then you so not using scientific facts 1088 00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:38,120 Speaker 4: to make your case. Stick to the truth, stick to 1089 00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:40,719 Speaker 4: the facts, stick to the science. That's all we all 1090 00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:44,000 Speaker 4: need at this point. Like, I'm so tired of hearing. 1091 00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:51,440 Speaker 5: No, no, and I do I understand that. And the 1092 00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:54,879 Speaker 5: thing is, what's funny about when you when you were saying, 1093 00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:56,719 Speaker 5: people say I'm sorry to happen to you. There might 1094 00:54:56,760 --> 00:55:00,560 Speaker 5: be a small percentage of people that actually might have compassion, 1095 00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:03,719 Speaker 5: and they truly might feel that way, But like you say, 1096 00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:06,560 Speaker 5: the phrase has been taken so much out of context 1097 00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:10,320 Speaker 5: to you go, Oh, a lot of people they're fishing 1098 00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:14,600 Speaker 5: for this response, which is different than people sincerely meaning it. 1099 00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:18,879 Speaker 4: And there are some people who use the phrase who 1100 00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:21,839 Speaker 4: probably are sincere when they say that it happens. But 1101 00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:24,840 Speaker 4: I can always tell from the tweet itself that that 1102 00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:29,120 Speaker 4: person created it in order to get that. 1103 00:55:30,920 --> 00:55:33,399 Speaker 2: Chris Rock tweeted, trust me, you don't want this. 1104 00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:35,560 Speaker 5: Oh I believe him? 1105 00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:40,640 Speaker 2: Yeah he so. I think he's using his platform to 1106 00:55:40,719 --> 00:55:46,000 Speaker 2: try to tell people like, even though I'm vaccinated and 1107 00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:49,960 Speaker 2: I had a breakthrough infection, the shit still sucks, so 1108 00:55:51,080 --> 00:55:53,400 Speaker 2: you know, and who knows, maybe he got comfortable. I 1109 00:55:53,440 --> 00:55:56,640 Speaker 2: think comedians are in a weird place right now because 1110 00:55:57,080 --> 00:55:59,480 Speaker 2: depending on where you do your comedy. A lot of 1111 00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:01,319 Speaker 2: those places are like you can't come in unless you're 1112 00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:05,399 Speaker 2: vaccinating it, right, and you know, New York City, LA 1113 00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:08,040 Speaker 2: and stuff, there's a lot of like vaccine passport type stuff. 1114 00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:12,520 Speaker 2: So then never comes just like feeling of safety where 1115 00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:14,719 Speaker 2: you see pictures with comedians and you know, it's a 1116 00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:17,359 Speaker 2: lot of like the audience has no mass they have 1117 00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:20,399 Speaker 2: no masks, They're taking pictures with everybody, they're hanging out, 1118 00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:23,600 Speaker 2: and it's like, we're not there yet, you know what 1119 00:56:23,600 --> 00:56:26,480 Speaker 2: I mean. So that's the whole Like Dave Chappelle and 1120 00:56:26,520 --> 00:56:29,200 Speaker 2: Joe Rogan posting group selfies with everybody, and you're like, bro, 1121 00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:33,839 Speaker 2: we're It's not a coincidence that a few weeks later 1122 00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:36,239 Speaker 2: both of them are like I got COVID. It's like, yes, 1123 00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:43,320 Speaker 2: we're not at a range of vaccinations or just pure 1124 00:56:44,960 --> 00:56:48,279 Speaker 2: you know, instances of the virus that you can be like, 1125 00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:51,040 Speaker 2: I'm taking this mask off because I got vaccinated and 1126 00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:53,960 Speaker 2: everything's normal, so uh, but. 1127 00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:56,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, there's some precautions that people need to say. What's 1128 00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:58,719 Speaker 4: interesting to me is that, and I might be wrong, 1129 00:56:58,760 --> 00:57:00,880 Speaker 4: but I seem to notice it, like even from the 1130 00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:05,759 Speaker 4: very beginning The most people that I heard getting it 1131 00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:09,440 Speaker 4: were comedians because they never stopped, like they were still toring, 1132 00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:13,040 Speaker 4: they were still on the road, they were still doing. 1133 00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:14,240 Speaker 3: Like all these different things. 1134 00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:17,240 Speaker 4: Like if I remember correctly, it just feels like it 1135 00:57:17,280 --> 00:57:20,080 Speaker 4: was it was mostly comedians as far as like celebrities. 1136 00:57:20,080 --> 00:57:23,840 Speaker 3: They were getting it, like not mostly celebrities mostly, but 1137 00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:26,560 Speaker 3: like at a rapid rate. Does that make sense, Like 1138 00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:28,080 Speaker 3: that's where I feel like it was. 1139 00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:30,720 Speaker 2: It did feel like that, and its doubt that like 1140 00:57:30,760 --> 00:57:33,000 Speaker 2: a comedian will be popping up like yeah, I got it, 1141 00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:36,800 Speaker 2: you know so, And that was before we had a vaccine. 1142 00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:38,640 Speaker 2: They were kind of on the front lines of trying 1143 00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:40,760 Speaker 2: to find safe ways to do shit without a vaccine. 1144 00:57:41,360 --> 00:57:43,280 Speaker 2: And of course you also had that brand of comedian 1145 00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:47,840 Speaker 2: who's literally just like I'm gonna get coronavirus. I'm rooting 1146 00:57:47,840 --> 00:57:52,320 Speaker 2: for coronavirus. You know, those coronavirus teams like Jim Brewer 1147 00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:56,360 Speaker 2: and and Joe Rugan and them. Speaking of Minaj, though 1148 00:57:56,440 --> 00:58:00,280 Speaker 2: I forgot, there's a couple more stories she had fails 1149 00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:03,200 Speaker 2: go out and do They took it upon their own volition, 1150 00:58:03,320 --> 00:58:08,120 Speaker 2: of course, but she had fans that went and like 1151 00:58:08,800 --> 00:58:15,800 Speaker 2: did a protest Oh, yeah, this article wants me to 1152 00:58:15,840 --> 00:58:21,120 Speaker 2: pay for it. I don't think so, but I'll find 1153 00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:26,880 Speaker 2: it elsewhere internet. But but yeah, she had little like 1154 00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:31,280 Speaker 2: fans go out and they had like flags and ship. 1155 00:58:32,160 --> 00:58:32,320 Speaker 3: Oh. 1156 00:58:33,240 --> 00:58:36,919 Speaker 2: I was just like, fam is the music this hot? 1157 00:58:37,160 --> 00:58:37,320 Speaker 3: Is it? 1158 00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:38,720 Speaker 2: Has it ever been? 1159 00:58:40,640 --> 00:58:41,800 Speaker 4: Like? Uh? 1160 00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:45,640 Speaker 2: She lied about the White House inviting her to talk 1161 00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:47,920 Speaker 2: to her about the vaccine. 1162 00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:49,880 Speaker 5: And they was like it was a phone call? 1163 00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:50,760 Speaker 2: What is this? 1164 00:58:51,280 --> 00:58:51,560 Speaker 3: Yeah? 1165 00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:53,160 Speaker 2: And my guess is. 1166 00:58:53,120 --> 00:58:55,120 Speaker 3: That phone call to get her educated? 1167 00:58:56,520 --> 00:58:59,360 Speaker 2: Right right? Everyone was taking it too serious or taking 1168 00:58:59,360 --> 00:59:01,640 Speaker 2: her too serious. I shouldn't say taking it too seriously, 1169 00:59:02,480 --> 00:59:06,240 Speaker 2: because I think there is obviously some benefit to countering 1170 00:59:07,040 --> 00:59:09,720 Speaker 2: her lies, you know what I'm saying. So I think 1171 00:59:09,720 --> 00:59:12,600 Speaker 2: there's been. But but this whole like we're gonna talk 1172 00:59:12,640 --> 00:59:14,880 Speaker 2: to you on the phone to see it. No, not her, 1173 00:59:15,120 --> 00:59:17,560 Speaker 2: and nothing about her says that she would be willing 1174 00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:20,080 Speaker 2: to talk about it and hear you out. There's there's 1175 00:59:20,160 --> 00:59:22,920 Speaker 2: never been a reasonable solution of anything she's been involved in. 1176 00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:26,080 Speaker 2: And of course a lot my conspiracy is I think 1177 00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:28,240 Speaker 2: she just did this because her husband just confessed to 1178 00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:31,400 Speaker 2: being guilty for not rechis as a sex offender. And 1179 00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:34,160 Speaker 2: you know this will get that story a little less Sean. 1180 00:59:35,040 --> 00:59:44,720 Speaker 2: But here's the protest. 1181 00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:52,080 Speaker 3: She got an stupid me, you know, fancying, you know, fancy. 1182 00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:58,160 Speaker 2: You know Fulcy's live, You're not you're. 1183 00:59:58,360 --> 01:00:03,600 Speaker 5: Fancy love you know. 1184 01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:06,360 Speaker 2: Now I have to say, this looks to be about 1185 01:00:06,600 --> 01:00:11,280 Speaker 2: twelve people. This does not look like a lot of 1186 01:00:11,320 --> 01:00:13,240 Speaker 2: people that just protests. 1187 01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:18,160 Speaker 5: They act like the CDC itself, that. 1188 01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:21,200 Speaker 3: There's anybody out there. It could be. 1189 01:00:23,320 --> 01:00:26,840 Speaker 2: This is insane and this is a different type of 1190 01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:32,080 Speaker 2: anti vaccine crowd because they're all wearing masks. Because this 1191 01:00:32,080 --> 01:00:36,960 Speaker 2: this crowd is pro mask anti vaccine, which is a new, 1192 01:00:37,120 --> 01:00:39,840 Speaker 2: a new strain. It's a new variant, Yes it is. 1193 01:00:40,240 --> 01:00:44,680 Speaker 2: It's a new variant of anti vaccine, is real. Yeah, 1194 01:00:44,760 --> 01:00:50,640 Speaker 2: this is the monster the barber, the bar the barbie variant. 1195 01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:55,680 Speaker 2: So yeah, So they had like a little little protest thing. 1196 01:00:56,800 --> 01:01:01,280 Speaker 2: A reporter who was trying to get A reporter who 1197 01:01:01,360 --> 01:01:04,840 Speaker 2: was trying to verify the story was reaching out to 1198 01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:07,400 Speaker 2: Nicki Minaj's family, like texting them and stuff and being 1199 01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:10,280 Speaker 2: like are you the cousin? Like who, like, is there 1200 01:01:10,320 --> 01:01:13,400 Speaker 2: any proof that this happened. We're just trying to document 1201 01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:16,280 Speaker 2: this and see where the story came from. And Nicki 1202 01:01:16,320 --> 01:01:20,000 Speaker 2: Minaj decided to dox this person and said they were 1203 01:01:20,040 --> 01:01:25,160 Speaker 2: threatening her family, so and then threatened her, Yeah, and 1204 01:01:25,200 --> 01:01:26,640 Speaker 2: then threatened her and had. 1205 01:01:26,720 --> 01:01:28,120 Speaker 3: Her days are numbered. 1206 01:01:28,880 --> 01:01:33,480 Speaker 4: And then what's hilariousing is that her and her husband 1207 01:01:34,120 --> 01:01:36,919 Speaker 4: have been served for harassing. 1208 01:01:37,160 --> 01:01:38,680 Speaker 3: Her husband's. 1209 01:01:39,680 --> 01:01:43,280 Speaker 4: Harassing and threatening the man the woman her husband raped. 1210 01:01:44,400 --> 01:01:47,760 Speaker 3: So I know that her lawyers are like. 1211 01:01:50,200 --> 01:01:54,000 Speaker 4: Because she's making the case for them, for the for 1212 01:01:54,080 --> 01:01:57,280 Speaker 4: the for the prosecution fam. But here's the thing that 1213 01:01:57,320 --> 01:01:59,960 Speaker 4: I don't understand, and I don't know where I was 1214 01:02:00,200 --> 01:02:04,160 Speaker 4: when this happened. I truly, truly do not know when 1215 01:02:04,200 --> 01:02:10,200 Speaker 4: this happened. But when did stand culture become this? I 1216 01:02:10,200 --> 01:02:16,880 Speaker 4: would say, when did you enjoying somebody's music or yeah, 1217 01:02:16,960 --> 01:02:21,160 Speaker 4: just enjoying their music made you make you this level 1218 01:02:21,160 --> 01:02:23,320 Speaker 4: of an apologist for them, because I see it often 1219 01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:26,480 Speaker 4: because I bet you tomorrow if Beyonce came out with 1220 01:02:26,560 --> 01:02:30,120 Speaker 4: some anti vax stuff, there would be one hundred people 1221 01:02:30,120 --> 01:02:31,120 Speaker 4: outside the CDC. 1222 01:02:31,440 --> 01:02:35,720 Speaker 3: So when did that happen? I don't understand when that happened. 1223 01:02:35,760 --> 01:02:38,640 Speaker 5: It was a slow turn, and I think within the 1224 01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:42,000 Speaker 5: past I want to say, seven to five years, and 1225 01:02:42,080 --> 01:02:45,320 Speaker 5: maybe longer than that. But social I think these people 1226 01:02:45,360 --> 01:02:48,240 Speaker 5: I've always been around, but I think social media has 1227 01:02:48,280 --> 01:02:53,480 Speaker 5: allowed them to collectively get together. And so now instead 1228 01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:55,920 Speaker 5: of me being the only person that will be out 1229 01:02:55,920 --> 01:02:57,720 Speaker 5: there protests, and now I can get online and get 1230 01:02:57,760 --> 01:02:59,320 Speaker 5: it with some other people. Then we get all twelve 1231 01:02:59,360 --> 01:03:00,520 Speaker 5: of us out there kissing. 1232 01:03:00,560 --> 01:03:02,919 Speaker 2: Now. Yep, I think Karen knocked it out the park. 1233 01:03:02,960 --> 01:03:06,480 Speaker 2: That's exactly I was gonna say. And uh, I just 1234 01:03:06,520 --> 01:03:10,160 Speaker 2: find it interesting because, uh, the identity of the stand 1235 01:03:10,400 --> 01:03:15,320 Speaker 2: is not really about logic sense or even necessarily loyalty 1236 01:03:15,360 --> 01:03:20,480 Speaker 2: to that that person. Because I remember Beyonce's case, that 1237 01:03:20,640 --> 01:03:24,320 Speaker 2: lady that was like the wife of the own co 1238 01:03:24,400 --> 01:03:27,640 Speaker 2: owner of the Warriors leaned over her to ask because 1239 01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:29,479 Speaker 2: jay Z was asked trying to talk to her about 1240 01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:32,520 Speaker 2: a drink or something. People, and I remember people that 1241 01:03:32,680 --> 01:03:38,320 Speaker 2: I know acting crazy and thinking that it was justifying, 1242 01:03:38,400 --> 01:03:41,280 Speaker 2: like people harassing that woman and everything and writing long 1243 01:03:41,360 --> 01:03:45,840 Speaker 2: ass threads and Facebook post about female white woman aggressiveness 1244 01:03:45,840 --> 01:03:49,400 Speaker 2: and all this shit, and Beyonce, through her spokesperson, had 1245 01:03:49,440 --> 01:03:51,120 Speaker 2: to put out like a hey, can y'all chill the 1246 01:03:51,200 --> 01:03:54,280 Speaker 2: fuck out? And you know that takes a lot, because Beyonce, 1247 01:03:54,400 --> 01:03:58,680 Speaker 2: don't she normally just act like nothing's happening. Like Beyond 1248 01:03:58,880 --> 01:04:02,000 Speaker 2: Beyonce had a whole as elevator video leak and didn't 1249 01:04:02,000 --> 01:04:03,680 Speaker 2: say shit about it till she made a song goal 1250 01:04:03,720 --> 01:04:08,520 Speaker 2: a year later. So she ain't really prone to exactly, 1251 01:04:08,560 --> 01:04:11,760 Speaker 2: She's not really prone to get involved in internet shenanigans. 1252 01:04:11,760 --> 01:04:13,520 Speaker 2: It's one of the things I actually really like about 1253 01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:17,400 Speaker 2: her as a as a as a celebrity is how 1254 01:04:17,640 --> 01:04:21,479 Speaker 2: little she shares, Like it's I'm selling you this thing. 1255 01:04:21,680 --> 01:04:24,040 Speaker 2: Here's some pictures from my Instagram. Go buy this thing. 1256 01:04:24,760 --> 01:04:27,120 Speaker 2: Me and my family don't. You don't even worry about it. 1257 01:04:27,160 --> 01:04:30,440 Speaker 2: That's that's our business. And it's kind of interesting to 1258 01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:36,360 Speaker 2: see like quote unquote reasonable people justify treating somebody horribly 1259 01:04:36,440 --> 01:04:39,880 Speaker 2: when it was literally just an instant and it was 1260 01:04:39,960 --> 01:04:42,320 Speaker 2: and no one involved was offended. So that's why I 1261 01:04:42,360 --> 01:04:46,120 Speaker 2: say they're not even beholding to the celebrity like because 1262 01:04:46,240 --> 01:04:48,240 Speaker 2: cause you know what I'm saying to me. I used 1263 01:04:48,240 --> 01:04:51,280 Speaker 2: to think Stan was like like what's happening with Nikki? 1264 01:04:51,280 --> 01:04:54,040 Speaker 2: Where she's like, I'm docting this person and the people go, okay, 1265 01:04:54,080 --> 01:04:56,760 Speaker 2: we'll go harass him. This is some other ship with 1266 01:04:56,880 --> 01:04:58,360 Speaker 2: a person like I don't want this, and they're like, 1267 01:04:58,440 --> 01:05:01,360 Speaker 2: this is how we love you. It's an abusive type 1268 01:05:01,360 --> 01:05:06,200 Speaker 2: of very abusive. Eighteen out of twenty gorillas at the 1269 01:05:06,200 --> 01:05:10,920 Speaker 2: Atlanta Zoo contracted COVID. Oh no, yeah, I wonder what 1270 01:05:10,960 --> 01:05:11,480 Speaker 2: happened with the. 1271 01:05:11,400 --> 01:05:17,200 Speaker 5: Other vaccine animals, because animals can catch it, Like. 1272 01:05:17,200 --> 01:05:23,200 Speaker 2: How did the other two not get? Oh? Okay, hold on. 1273 01:05:23,520 --> 01:05:25,760 Speaker 2: So the reason they tested them is because they have 1274 01:05:25,840 --> 01:05:30,360 Speaker 2: been coughing, having running noses, and showed changes in appetite, 1275 01:05:30,400 --> 01:05:31,280 Speaker 2: so they got sick. 1276 01:05:31,520 --> 01:05:31,960 Speaker 5: Okay. 1277 01:05:32,120 --> 01:05:34,840 Speaker 2: So they weren't just like they they weren't just randomly 1278 01:05:34,920 --> 01:05:43,080 Speaker 2: like let's check the gorillas. But yeah, speaking to them, 1279 01:05:43,120 --> 01:05:46,000 Speaker 2: they were doing anti vaccine language, like. 1280 01:05:46,560 --> 01:05:49,280 Speaker 5: They coming up and telling them, wear your mask, taking 1281 01:05:49,320 --> 01:05:49,800 Speaker 5: my mask? 1282 01:05:49,960 --> 01:05:52,760 Speaker 2: Oh fuck y'all. It's like, oh wait a minute, wait 1283 01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:56,880 Speaker 2: a minute, this gorilla's been watching too much Fox News. 1284 01:05:57,960 --> 01:06:02,440 Speaker 2: But yeah, they said that treatment were like those monoclonal antibodies. 1285 01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:04,320 Speaker 2: So we'll see what apples at that. 1286 01:06:04,920 --> 01:06:08,320 Speaker 4: Giving animals I've been met or whatever it's called. 1287 01:06:08,560 --> 01:06:11,120 Speaker 2: They're not even giving, you know, they're not. 1288 01:06:11,200 --> 01:06:14,600 Speaker 5: They're not. And uh, didn't they say they were working 1289 01:06:14,640 --> 01:06:16,760 Speaker 5: on vaccines for animals too. 1290 01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:19,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, they haven't and they vaccinated some animals as well. 1291 01:06:19,760 --> 01:06:21,360 Speaker 2: But it's just interesting that. 1292 01:06:21,760 --> 01:06:24,920 Speaker 3: We can can get it from animals from people. 1293 01:06:25,200 --> 01:06:28,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, animals, animals can't get it, it is possible. Yeah, 1294 01:06:28,880 --> 01:06:29,919 Speaker 2: dogs can get it done. 1295 01:06:29,960 --> 01:06:33,240 Speaker 3: They can give it to people. Mm hmm yeah, can 1296 01:06:33,280 --> 01:06:34,320 Speaker 3: dogs give it to humans? 1297 01:06:34,520 --> 01:06:38,680 Speaker 2: Yes? So don't you know, yeah, don't be up here 1298 01:06:38,720 --> 01:06:41,080 Speaker 2: letting other people's dogs lick on y'all and ship all right, 1299 01:06:43,120 --> 01:06:45,480 Speaker 2: there was a hostess they got attacked for asking donners. 1300 01:06:47,720 --> 01:06:50,040 Speaker 2: There was a hostess. They got attacked for asking dinners 1301 01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:52,720 Speaker 2: for proof of vaccination. And that's in New York where 1302 01:06:53,600 --> 01:06:57,960 Speaker 2: they are asking people to to to have be vaccinated 1303 01:06:58,000 --> 01:07:00,440 Speaker 2: in order to go out. They just did the vaccine passport. 1304 01:07:00,520 --> 01:07:03,600 Speaker 5: It's a lost. So you came to fire Texas yep, 1305 01:07:03,640 --> 01:07:04,840 Speaker 5: oh they're from Texas. 1306 01:07:05,120 --> 01:07:10,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, so these people imported their foolishness. But most importantly, 1307 01:07:10,680 --> 01:07:13,960 Speaker 2: these some of these motherfuckers are doing this on purpose, 1308 01:07:13,960 --> 01:07:16,400 Speaker 2: because you have to think about the logicians of this. 1309 01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:19,400 Speaker 2: They knew they were going to New York City. There's 1310 01:07:19,440 --> 01:07:22,000 Speaker 2: been nothing but news of vaccine mandates and ship the 1311 01:07:22,040 --> 01:07:25,080 Speaker 2: whole time. They got up there and was like, we're 1312 01:07:25,120 --> 01:07:27,400 Speaker 2: going out to eat. They knew that some of these 1313 01:07:27,480 --> 01:07:30,480 Speaker 2: establishment people be like, hey, are you vaccinated? So they 1314 01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:34,240 Speaker 2: were planning to fight somebody that, Like that's the only 1315 01:07:34,280 --> 01:07:35,120 Speaker 2: thing that makes sense. 1316 01:07:35,680 --> 01:07:36,120 Speaker 5: Mm hmm. 1317 01:07:36,640 --> 01:07:39,480 Speaker 2: Like anyway, poor waitress, I think I. 1318 01:07:39,440 --> 01:07:41,360 Speaker 4: Told you, I told you what what the people in 1319 01:07:41,680 --> 01:07:44,120 Speaker 4: Texas were doing? Like I told you they looked like 1320 01:07:44,960 --> 01:07:49,320 Speaker 4: they were purposely wanting some kind of confrontation to somebody, 1321 01:07:49,840 --> 01:07:50,960 Speaker 4: like they wanted that. 1322 01:07:51,360 --> 01:07:51,680 Speaker 3: M hm. 1323 01:07:52,360 --> 01:07:54,440 Speaker 4: So I don't I don't doubt for a second that 1324 01:07:54,520 --> 01:07:57,160 Speaker 4: they that they showed up wanting to fight. 1325 01:07:57,600 --> 01:08:02,760 Speaker 2: Right and the way the waitress got punched in the 1326 01:08:02,840 --> 01:08:08,520 Speaker 2: face and her necklace got broken, one patient, one unspecified patient, 1327 01:08:08,560 --> 01:08:13,480 Speaker 2: was taking them outside the hospital. So yep, there you go. 1328 01:08:13,760 --> 01:08:16,040 Speaker 5: That they don't they don't pay you enough because she'd 1329 01:08:16,120 --> 01:08:18,559 Speaker 5: been wrong, or she'd have whooped their asses for fucking 1330 01:08:18,600 --> 01:08:19,280 Speaker 5: attacking her. 1331 01:08:20,479 --> 01:08:23,320 Speaker 2: We have an update on that Bob in your dude 1332 01:08:23,360 --> 01:08:26,280 Speaker 2: who is an anti bass conservative radio host in the 1333 01:08:26,320 --> 01:08:30,160 Speaker 2: pastor he was in the hospital with complications of from 1334 01:08:30,200 --> 01:08:32,960 Speaker 2: COVID like a week or two ago. Uh, he has 1335 01:08:33,040 --> 01:08:34,080 Speaker 2: now died from COVID. 1336 01:08:34,680 --> 01:08:36,960 Speaker 5: That sounds about right. COVID, don't be playing. 1337 01:08:36,960 --> 01:08:37,799 Speaker 2: He fucked around. 1338 01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:38,280 Speaker 3: COVID. 1339 01:08:38,320 --> 01:08:44,439 Speaker 2: COVID is like you rang he found out. 1340 01:08:44,840 --> 01:08:46,919 Speaker 3: She said, it's wild. 1341 01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:50,040 Speaker 5: Because real everybody be like, I don't know about this COVID. 1342 01:08:50,080 --> 01:08:51,000 Speaker 5: COVID just show up. 1343 01:08:51,400 --> 01:08:53,240 Speaker 2: It's wild because they talk all that ship and then 1344 01:08:53,600 --> 01:08:55,519 Speaker 2: do we still get the same like pray for me, 1345 01:08:56,439 --> 01:08:59,639 Speaker 2: here's my GoFundMe shit. And it's just like fam who 1346 01:09:00,000 --> 01:09:01,040 Speaker 2: who are people given it? 1347 01:09:01,120 --> 01:09:01,160 Speaker 3: This? 1348 01:09:02,320 --> 01:09:04,320 Speaker 2: Like? Who is wasting these thoughts in these prayers? 1349 01:09:04,400 --> 01:09:04,599 Speaker 3: Dog? 1350 01:09:04,800 --> 01:09:07,519 Speaker 2: Like there's so many people that need thoughts and prayers. 1351 01:09:07,560 --> 01:09:09,839 Speaker 2: You know, it's thoughts and prayers is at a premium 1352 01:09:09,920 --> 01:09:11,679 Speaker 2: right now. I don't know if you've been looking around. 1353 01:09:12,360 --> 01:09:14,120 Speaker 2: It's a lot of thoughts. It's not a lot of time, 1354 01:09:14,200 --> 01:09:15,760 Speaker 2: and there's a lot a lot of thoughts and lots 1355 01:09:15,800 --> 01:09:19,400 Speaker 2: of prayers. Doesn't need it? Yeah, here damn throwing them away. 1356 01:09:21,400 --> 01:09:24,160 Speaker 4: I will say that I don't blame I don't blame 1357 01:09:24,600 --> 01:09:28,760 Speaker 4: doctors for saying I'm not treating people who are unvaccinated. Like, 1358 01:09:28,840 --> 01:09:31,360 Speaker 4: I don't blame that people have to people are jumped around. 1359 01:09:31,439 --> 01:09:35,160 Speaker 4: It's like throwing around the constitution. It's illegal, blah blah blah. 1360 01:09:35,240 --> 01:09:38,879 Speaker 4: But like people are allowed to protect themselves from harm. 1361 01:09:39,479 --> 01:09:46,720 Speaker 4: So the unvaccinated are harmful. So a medical doctor or 1362 01:09:46,800 --> 01:09:50,640 Speaker 4: a medical professional has every right to refuse to treat you. 1363 01:09:50,720 --> 01:09:54,000 Speaker 3: They act like it's some sort of God given a navy. 1364 01:09:54,200 --> 01:09:56,920 Speaker 4: In the same way, they're like, it's against hipo violations 1365 01:09:56,960 --> 01:09:58,200 Speaker 4: and they have no idea what that means. 1366 01:09:58,800 --> 01:10:01,080 Speaker 3: They have no idea that a di doctor can refuse 1367 01:10:01,120 --> 01:10:02,280 Speaker 3: your treatment. Like I don't know. 1368 01:10:03,200 --> 01:10:06,000 Speaker 4: Again, maybe I just haven't paying attention, but this, like, 1369 01:10:06,120 --> 01:10:08,360 Speaker 4: I'm like, where did y'all come from? Where did y'all 1370 01:10:08,439 --> 01:10:13,559 Speaker 4: like interpreting the constitution and hippo every way you feel 1371 01:10:13,600 --> 01:10:15,760 Speaker 4: like it, And then just kind of throw I've never 1372 01:10:15,800 --> 01:10:19,400 Speaker 4: in my life said something with a hippo violation because 1373 01:10:19,400 --> 01:10:21,240 Speaker 4: I don't know what that is, really. 1374 01:10:21,040 --> 01:10:22,160 Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean? Like, I don't know 1375 01:10:22,200 --> 01:10:22,720 Speaker 3: what that is. 1376 01:10:23,040 --> 01:10:28,960 Speaker 4: So whatever newsletter, newsletter, probably radio or podcasts consider a 1377 01:10:29,000 --> 01:10:31,880 Speaker 4: podcast like it just it's just it's just fucking ridiculous 1378 01:10:31,880 --> 01:10:32,120 Speaker 4: to me. 1379 01:10:32,479 --> 01:10:34,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, So what I think is interesting about what I 1380 01:10:34,920 --> 01:10:39,479 Speaker 2: think is interesting about that shit is you have you 1381 01:10:39,600 --> 01:10:44,439 Speaker 2: have people that clearly are learning this language from social 1382 01:10:44,479 --> 01:10:47,720 Speaker 2: media like Reddit, Facebook groups, and that's why they all 1383 01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:50,559 Speaker 2: talk like that. They all talk the same because so 1384 01:10:50,600 --> 01:10:52,880 Speaker 2: when they say a hip of violation, someone in some 1385 01:10:52,960 --> 01:10:56,040 Speaker 2: groups somewhere told them say it's a hipp of violation, 1386 01:10:57,200 --> 01:11:01,639 Speaker 2: and then the doctors, of course, there's reasonable to refuse 1387 01:11:01,760 --> 01:11:05,160 Speaker 2: service to these folks because they're not even taking the 1388 01:11:05,320 --> 01:11:09,720 Speaker 2: bare minimum precautions. And I know somebody on Facebook who 1389 01:11:09,760 --> 01:11:11,920 Speaker 2: was posting some shit this week when she came out 1390 01:11:11,960 --> 01:11:15,120 Speaker 2: of the closet because she loves Nicki Minaj apparently, so 1391 01:11:15,160 --> 01:11:18,280 Speaker 2: she came out of the vaccine has in the closet 1392 01:11:18,880 --> 01:11:22,040 Speaker 2: and one of her things is like, uh, so, y'all 1393 01:11:22,080 --> 01:11:25,160 Speaker 2: tell it, saying that you know it's okay, you got 1394 01:11:25,160 --> 01:11:27,760 Speaker 2: to make people get vaccines and all this stuff. That's 1395 01:11:27,800 --> 01:11:30,200 Speaker 2: like a doctor saying they won't treat somebody who got 1396 01:11:30,280 --> 01:11:34,920 Speaker 2: diabetes because their diet or something, they won't give them insolent. 1397 01:11:35,040 --> 01:11:38,320 Speaker 2: I was like, no, the vaccine is the insolent in 1398 01:11:38,320 --> 01:11:40,960 Speaker 2: this scenario. So that doesn't even pass a logic test. 1399 01:11:41,200 --> 01:11:43,320 Speaker 2: Number one, but they're number. 1400 01:11:43,040 --> 01:11:47,839 Speaker 5: Two doesn't kill, Like diabetes doesn't. 1401 01:11:47,680 --> 01:11:50,360 Speaker 2: Kill everyone in the school because someone it was a diabetic. 1402 01:11:50,640 --> 01:11:52,879 Speaker 5: You don't breathe on somebody and they catch the beats. 1403 01:11:53,080 --> 01:11:56,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was just such a it's such a ridiculous 1404 01:11:56,400 --> 01:11:59,240 Speaker 2: thing for people to be saying. Even on that. 1405 01:11:59,400 --> 01:12:06,000 Speaker 4: Note, Even on that note, my my son's school serves 1406 01:12:06,240 --> 01:12:12,519 Speaker 4: sunflower and jelly sandwiches in case somebody has a peanutalergy. Right, 1407 01:12:15,520 --> 01:12:18,240 Speaker 4: No one has an issue with that, right, No, they 1408 01:12:18,240 --> 01:12:20,439 Speaker 4: don't even know if there's somebody who has who has 1409 01:12:20,520 --> 01:12:25,200 Speaker 4: a peanut allergy. Just actually thought that a thing called 1410 01:12:25,200 --> 01:12:27,519 Speaker 4: a peanut allergy exists out there in the world, that 1411 01:12:27,720 --> 01:12:30,880 Speaker 4: somebody might have it. So we're going to take all 1412 01:12:30,920 --> 01:12:35,440 Speaker 4: peanuts off the table. Yep, it's not a foreign concept. 1413 01:12:35,640 --> 01:12:38,679 Speaker 2: And everybody in your that school is vaccinated against everything else. 1414 01:12:39,760 --> 01:12:42,200 Speaker 2: Just the one thing everybody's like, not this one, the 1415 01:12:42,240 --> 01:12:45,439 Speaker 2: one we're currently living through in the pandemic. This is 1416 01:12:45,479 --> 01:12:46,640 Speaker 2: the one we're going to stop. 1417 01:12:46,439 --> 01:12:49,639 Speaker 3: Exactly allergy shots. 1418 01:12:49,720 --> 01:12:52,800 Speaker 4: You have, you have polio shots. 1419 01:12:53,360 --> 01:12:53,639 Speaker 3: People. 1420 01:12:53,920 --> 01:12:56,960 Speaker 4: Anti vax has been around for a while. I've never 1421 01:12:57,000 --> 01:12:59,720 Speaker 4: been anti vax because I'm just not. But when I 1422 01:12:59,760 --> 01:13:04,559 Speaker 4: went to Nigeria and I saw tuberculosis and. 1423 01:13:04,479 --> 01:13:09,160 Speaker 3: Polio and measles and all these things that are are 1424 01:13:09,200 --> 01:13:14,640 Speaker 3: aren't didn't at that time exist in America because of vaccinations. 1425 01:13:14,880 --> 01:13:16,040 Speaker 3: It exists in the world. 1426 01:13:16,240 --> 01:13:18,960 Speaker 4: There are people who still get that, who'd have who 1427 01:13:18,960 --> 01:13:24,880 Speaker 4: hadn't done anything for the vaccination, and y'all refusing it right. 1428 01:13:24,760 --> 01:13:26,759 Speaker 2: It's the ultimate expression of person see. 1429 01:13:26,640 --> 01:13:27,719 Speaker 3: Anybody with polio. 1430 01:13:28,160 --> 01:13:31,360 Speaker 4: It is not It's not like I'm I'm still like 1431 01:13:31,400 --> 01:13:33,280 Speaker 4: the first time I saw somebody who had legit. 1432 01:13:33,120 --> 01:13:36,960 Speaker 3: Polio, I like I could not get the image out 1433 01:13:36,960 --> 01:13:39,559 Speaker 3: of my mind. That's how like disturbing it was. 1434 01:13:39,680 --> 01:13:41,960 Speaker 4: It's not like we don't even fully even know what 1435 01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:44,479 Speaker 4: these things are and what they're capable of because we've 1436 01:13:44,520 --> 01:13:48,920 Speaker 4: never seen them, right, watching people. 1437 01:13:48,960 --> 01:13:52,920 Speaker 2: It's the ultimate expression of American privilege, right, because what 1438 01:13:52,960 --> 01:13:56,120 Speaker 2: they're really saying is I'm not going to participate in 1439 01:13:56,160 --> 01:13:59,000 Speaker 2: this solution, but I do expect y'all to resolve it 1440 01:13:59,040 --> 01:14:01,599 Speaker 2: for me. I expect everyone else to do the right 1441 01:14:01,680 --> 01:14:04,760 Speaker 2: things until there's a point where I feel where I 1442 01:14:04,840 --> 01:14:09,280 Speaker 2: feel like participated. But until then, I'm going to continue 1443 01:14:09,360 --> 01:14:11,840 Speaker 2: to do things as if this isn't happening. Because when 1444 01:14:11,880 --> 01:14:14,880 Speaker 2: you look at the anger that people have where unvaccinated 1445 01:14:14,880 --> 01:14:18,000 Speaker 2: people have, it's a lot of like service me anger. 1446 01:14:18,040 --> 01:14:20,120 Speaker 2: It's a lot of like I want my many petty, 1447 01:14:20,560 --> 01:14:22,840 Speaker 2: I want to go out and eat, I want to 1448 01:14:22,840 --> 01:14:25,920 Speaker 2: go to the football game. It's not just like I 1449 01:14:25,960 --> 01:14:29,040 Speaker 2: want to be of service to listen, I hate to 1450 01:14:29,080 --> 01:14:31,120 Speaker 2: have a job where I need to help people. No, 1451 01:14:31,479 --> 01:14:35,519 Speaker 2: it's all this, it's all complete selfishness, and they're expecting 1452 01:14:35,600 --> 01:14:38,240 Speaker 2: everyone else to finish the group project for him, and 1453 01:14:38,280 --> 01:14:39,760 Speaker 2: then they'll come in at the end and be like 1454 01:14:39,800 --> 01:14:42,960 Speaker 2: we got a a oh yeah. And that is what 1455 01:14:43,040 --> 01:14:46,240 Speaker 2: has happened with the anti vaxx movement over the last 1456 01:14:46,280 --> 01:14:49,320 Speaker 2: like thirty or forty years, which is exactly people going 1457 01:14:49,840 --> 01:14:53,480 Speaker 2: in America. I don't know nobody that died of measles, 1458 01:14:53,800 --> 01:14:56,000 Speaker 2: so I'm not getting no measles vaccine. 1459 01:14:56,040 --> 01:14:56,280 Speaker 3: Come on. 1460 01:14:56,439 --> 01:14:59,720 Speaker 2: Essentially, it worked, so why do it anymore? It's the 1461 01:14:59,760 --> 01:15:02,920 Speaker 2: vote right, Sack arguments, it's working, why do we need it? 1462 01:15:02,920 --> 01:15:04,600 Speaker 2: It's like, because we're gonna go right back to the 1463 01:15:04,680 --> 01:15:08,120 Speaker 2: dark ages. The thing I was gonna say the next 1464 01:15:08,160 --> 01:15:10,240 Speaker 2: the last story for coronavirus, and we'll move out of 1465 01:15:10,240 --> 01:15:15,639 Speaker 2: this so we can talk about some gossip. The states 1466 01:15:15,680 --> 01:15:20,240 Speaker 2: that cut benefits because people weren't getting they weren't taking jobs, 1467 01:15:20,439 --> 01:15:23,400 Speaker 2: these under low paying jobs, and they said it's Joe 1468 01:15:23,400 --> 01:15:26,520 Speaker 2: Biden's fault and the government's fault for giving people unemployment. 1469 01:15:26,520 --> 01:15:30,760 Speaker 2: With those those states cut unemployment, right, they've seen no 1470 01:15:30,880 --> 01:15:32,560 Speaker 2: boost in hiring. 1471 01:15:32,920 --> 01:15:35,360 Speaker 5: Right, because people are like pay us and me, and 1472 01:15:35,439 --> 01:15:38,000 Speaker 5: right they talked about this. When you have people that 1473 01:15:38,120 --> 01:15:41,200 Speaker 5: was barely making it anyway, they lost their job, got 1474 01:15:41,200 --> 01:15:42,920 Speaker 5: a little bit of unemployment. Guess what they was like, 1475 01:15:42,960 --> 01:15:46,559 Speaker 5: I moved back home my mom. I'm good. I look 1476 01:15:46,600 --> 01:15:50,080 Speaker 5: we can roommate up. You know, people have found these alternatives. 1477 01:15:50,120 --> 01:15:52,320 Speaker 5: They was like, why would I go back to a 1478 01:15:52,439 --> 01:15:55,040 Speaker 5: job that underpaid me? And a lot of times, the 1479 01:15:55,080 --> 01:15:57,240 Speaker 5: biggest thing about these jobs they don't tell people is 1480 01:15:57,280 --> 01:16:01,400 Speaker 5: not a consistent schedule. Your own three days off, four days. 1481 01:16:01,520 --> 01:16:04,200 Speaker 5: They put your time all over the place. You don't 1482 01:16:04,240 --> 01:16:06,479 Speaker 5: have a set schedule. So let's say you want to 1483 01:16:06,479 --> 01:16:08,120 Speaker 5: try to go to school, Let's say you want to 1484 01:16:08,120 --> 01:16:10,559 Speaker 5: try to look for another job, you could not do it. 1485 01:16:10,600 --> 01:16:13,400 Speaker 5: And they purposely and strategically do this shit to keep 1486 01:16:13,400 --> 01:16:15,680 Speaker 5: you in these jobs so that you don't have the 1487 01:16:15,840 --> 01:16:18,760 Speaker 5: time or the convenience to look anywhere else. And that's 1488 01:16:18,800 --> 01:16:20,360 Speaker 5: the part that I want to tell you about. They don't 1489 01:16:20,360 --> 01:16:21,840 Speaker 5: want to put you on that for thirty two to 1490 01:16:21,920 --> 01:16:23,519 Speaker 5: forty hours week because they don't want to pay for 1491 01:16:23,520 --> 01:16:25,559 Speaker 5: your health care. They want to pay your seven forty 1492 01:16:25,560 --> 01:16:27,040 Speaker 5: five an hour. But yet they want you to be 1493 01:16:27,040 --> 01:16:29,920 Speaker 5: the bouncer for the coronavirus. They and they want you 1494 01:16:30,000 --> 01:16:32,320 Speaker 5: to be out there and smile and tell the customer 1495 01:16:32,320 --> 01:16:34,120 Speaker 5: that they ran all the time. And people are like, no, 1496 01:16:34,240 --> 01:16:35,479 Speaker 5: pay me, pay me. 1497 01:16:35,960 --> 01:16:38,160 Speaker 2: And yeah, and then also a lot of these jobs 1498 01:16:38,200 --> 01:16:41,479 Speaker 2: are front facing jobs. So a lot of these jobs 1499 01:16:41,520 --> 01:16:44,240 Speaker 2: are the ones where you're going to probably come in 1500 01:16:44,280 --> 01:16:48,160 Speaker 2: contact with somebody with coronavirus or the kind of people 1501 01:16:48,200 --> 01:16:50,040 Speaker 2: that lead a house and be like, I ain't wearing 1502 01:16:50,040 --> 01:16:50,720 Speaker 2: no mask and shit. 1503 01:16:50,760 --> 01:16:52,000 Speaker 5: And there's not a lot of people that want to 1504 01:16:52,000 --> 01:16:52,679 Speaker 5: do those jobs. 1505 01:16:52,720 --> 01:16:58,120 Speaker 2: Man, not for less than fifteen dollars, right, So, yeah, 1506 01:16:58,120 --> 01:17:00,920 Speaker 2: that shit didn't work that they've been tracking it since May. 1507 01:17:01,520 --> 01:17:05,759 Speaker 2: And yeah, them cutting that unemployment shit didn't change anything. 1508 01:17:05,880 --> 01:17:07,280 Speaker 2: People still not getting jobs. 1509 01:17:07,320 --> 01:17:11,240 Speaker 5: And I wonder if they have done the study about 1510 01:17:11,280 --> 01:17:14,640 Speaker 5: how them cutting the benefits rocked the economy, because you 1511 01:17:14,680 --> 01:17:16,720 Speaker 5: know what that unemployment meant. That mean them people was 1512 01:17:16,760 --> 01:17:19,600 Speaker 5: going out and spending money. What's the difference between the 1513 01:17:19,640 --> 01:17:21,600 Speaker 5: money they was spending and now they don't have that 1514 01:17:21,640 --> 01:17:24,320 Speaker 5: money to spend. How has this affected the local community 1515 01:17:24,360 --> 01:17:26,760 Speaker 5: around them because that money drive up that shit they 1516 01:17:26,760 --> 01:17:27,679 Speaker 5: ain't talking about either. 1517 01:17:27,920 --> 01:17:32,760 Speaker 2: True, let's get into some mess, BOSSI tell everybody what's 1518 01:17:32,760 --> 01:17:39,559 Speaker 2: going on with Karen Silvil? Who Karen Silvil? What's going 1519 01:17:39,600 --> 01:17:42,080 Speaker 2: on with that? What's going on with Karen Silvil? Okay, Oh, 1520 01:17:42,200 --> 01:17:45,320 Speaker 2: the people need to know. I don't have a clubhouse 1521 01:17:45,439 --> 01:17:48,080 Speaker 2: on my phone anymore, so I figured you could be 1522 01:17:48,160 --> 01:17:50,160 Speaker 2: the Karen Civil Courts in that club rooms. 1523 01:17:50,280 --> 01:17:56,400 Speaker 4: I was in that clubhouse room for fifteen minutes. Maybe 1524 01:17:57,760 --> 01:18:00,280 Speaker 4: I have no idea what they were talking about. And 1525 01:18:00,320 --> 01:18:02,559 Speaker 4: I only went in there because people were like vague 1526 01:18:02,600 --> 01:18:05,160 Speaker 4: tweeting it. They're like, you know, you know how people are. 1527 01:18:05,120 --> 01:18:10,120 Speaker 3: Like when they're tweeting, but they're like responding, so they're 1528 01:18:10,160 --> 01:18:14,200 Speaker 3: not really like saying what's going on? So I was like, ooh, 1529 01:18:14,880 --> 01:18:16,800 Speaker 3: I was like, I have no idea what's going on? 1530 01:18:18,439 --> 01:18:20,240 Speaker 5: Okay, it's more like I don't know. 1531 01:18:20,560 --> 01:18:22,760 Speaker 4: I know she scammed people, or she didn't scam people 1532 01:18:22,800 --> 01:18:24,920 Speaker 4: know she did scam people, but she's always that's what 1533 01:18:24,960 --> 01:18:25,679 Speaker 4: I've always known. 1534 01:18:26,080 --> 01:18:28,400 Speaker 3: I didn't even know what she did. Apparently she's in PR. 1535 01:18:28,520 --> 01:18:30,679 Speaker 4: I didn't know that because every time her name comes 1536 01:18:30,760 --> 01:18:34,759 Speaker 4: up on social media, she's it's because she did something 1537 01:18:34,800 --> 01:18:38,200 Speaker 4: to someone or or she was around when mac Miller died, 1538 01:18:38,240 --> 01:18:41,080 Speaker 4: and around when when when Nipsey died or something like. 1539 01:18:41,120 --> 01:18:46,639 Speaker 2: I don't well. I call her caring civil losses because 1540 01:18:46,920 --> 01:18:52,519 Speaker 2: apparently there's a lot of people that are trying to 1541 01:18:52,560 --> 01:18:57,200 Speaker 2: take her to court. She uh got into it with 1542 01:18:57,360 --> 01:18:59,880 Speaker 2: a couple of people. First, comedian and singer Jesse Will 1543 01:19:00,120 --> 01:19:03,120 Speaker 2: took the Instagram where she shared court documents from her 1544 01:19:03,160 --> 01:19:07,479 Speaker 2: lawsuit against Karen Silvill, who's a famed hip hop marketing consultant, 1545 01:19:08,840 --> 01:19:15,200 Speaker 2: for attempting to book her. That's what to say for 1546 01:19:15,280 --> 01:19:17,559 Speaker 2: attempting to book her for a fake event by using 1547 01:19:17,560 --> 01:19:20,760 Speaker 2: a non existent company name. Earlier this year, Wow, the 1548 01:19:20,800 --> 01:19:24,040 Speaker 2: Love and Hip Hop reality star accused Silvil of using 1549 01:19:24,560 --> 01:19:27,640 Speaker 2: bogus Jesse Woo's on Love and Hip Hop Now huh 1550 01:19:27,720 --> 01:19:31,840 Speaker 2: Okay accused Silvil of using the bogus company as a 1551 01:19:31,840 --> 01:19:34,640 Speaker 2: way to obtain personal information to use against her in 1552 01:19:34,720 --> 01:19:37,920 Speaker 2: the extortion case for some of three million dollars. Wu 1553 01:19:38,040 --> 01:19:40,920 Speaker 2: also alleged the fictitious appearance was created by civil to 1554 01:19:41,040 --> 01:19:43,960 Speaker 2: embarrass and intimidate her, adding that the Superior Court of 1555 01:19:44,040 --> 01:19:48,240 Speaker 2: California sided with her motion to toss Sivil's case. Wow, 1556 01:19:49,320 --> 01:19:53,400 Speaker 2: this shit gets got pretty deep. She put on her 1557 01:19:53,960 --> 01:19:56,800 Speaker 2: She put a she put like a couple of screenshots 1558 01:19:56,840 --> 01:20:00,720 Speaker 2: of the lawsuit, which honestly I don't know. I'm not 1559 01:20:00,720 --> 01:20:03,719 Speaker 2: reading all that shit. But then she put her long 1560 01:20:04,360 --> 01:20:09,360 Speaker 2: Instagram description earlier this year at Karen Sivil, so she atner, 1561 01:20:10,400 --> 01:20:12,599 Speaker 2: I want to just ain't no subtweet. This is like 1562 01:20:13,120 --> 01:20:16,280 Speaker 2: I want you to see this at Karen Silvil fake 1563 01:20:16,320 --> 01:20:19,080 Speaker 2: booked me using a non existent company in order to 1564 01:20:19,080 --> 01:20:22,360 Speaker 2: obtain personal information, served me with an extortion case for 1565 01:20:22,400 --> 01:20:25,000 Speaker 2: the summer three million dollars at the fake booking, and 1566 01:20:25,120 --> 01:20:27,519 Speaker 2: had it recorded in order to pass the video around 1567 01:20:27,600 --> 01:20:31,320 Speaker 2: the industry with the golda embarrassing intimidate me. Today ahead 1568 01:20:31,320 --> 01:20:34,160 Speaker 2: of our hearing, the Superior Court of California sided with me. 1569 01:20:34,640 --> 01:20:37,920 Speaker 2: I want to thank my attorneys Amanda and Billy no 1570 01:20:38,080 --> 01:20:42,720 Speaker 2: last names, stand by the course decision, and I look 1571 01:20:42,800 --> 01:20:46,680 Speaker 2: forward to my check being cut by miss uncivil. Her 1572 01:20:46,760 --> 01:20:50,759 Speaker 2: Live to ah Her Live today where she pressed about 1573 01:20:50,760 --> 01:20:54,680 Speaker 2: Haitian women empowerment was no coincidence. She's a loser in 1574 01:20:54,760 --> 01:20:59,120 Speaker 2: real life and in court she lost. She's scrambling run 1575 01:20:59,200 --> 01:21:03,080 Speaker 2: me my coins at Karen Sivil. Oftentimes people go silent 1576 01:21:03,120 --> 01:21:05,240 Speaker 2: in this industry because they cannot afford to defend that 1577 01:21:05,360 --> 01:21:08,760 Speaker 2: factual truth. Keep this in mind before you attack the underdogs. 1578 01:21:08,800 --> 01:21:11,719 Speaker 2: She thought I wouldn't defend myself. I am a master's 1579 01:21:11,720 --> 01:21:16,400 Speaker 2: degree holding from the FIU Instagram. I guess Florida International. 1580 01:21:16,840 --> 01:21:20,519 Speaker 2: My undergrads and political science and journalism, my master's and 1581 01:21:20,560 --> 01:21:24,639 Speaker 2: Strategic Communications. I had every intention of going to law school, 1582 01:21:24,720 --> 01:21:29,599 Speaker 2: but baby, the way that lsat that el sat wasn't 1583 01:21:29,600 --> 01:21:34,760 Speaker 2: my ministry. Even if I could afford my lawyers, I 1584 01:21:34,800 --> 01:21:36,960 Speaker 2: would have stayed. I couldn't afford my lawyers. I would 1585 01:21:37,000 --> 01:21:39,839 Speaker 2: have stayed up day and night defending myself by drafting 1586 01:21:39,840 --> 01:21:43,160 Speaker 2: my emotions. Don't ever play yourself at Karen sivil. The 1587 01:21:43,200 --> 01:21:47,200 Speaker 2: devil works hard, but Jessica just works harder. In Jesus' 1588 01:21:47,360 --> 01:21:50,959 Speaker 2: name of strong fist post emoji and a heart emoji 1589 01:21:51,200 --> 01:21:54,760 Speaker 2: hashtag running my coins hashtag all karens Ain't white. Oh, 1590 01:21:54,800 --> 01:21:57,920 Speaker 2: and special shout out, A special shout out to my 1591 01:21:58,040 --> 01:22:03,040 Speaker 2: honorary lawyer, the ak AG for always steering me legally. 1592 01:22:04,000 --> 01:22:08,879 Speaker 2: So and I don't know who some dude named Andrew 1593 01:22:10,760 --> 01:22:12,840 Speaker 2: so yeah, man, that's one of them. And then the 1594 01:22:12,880 --> 01:22:18,920 Speaker 2: other person is Joiner Lucas, who y'all may know from 1595 01:22:19,200 --> 01:22:24,200 Speaker 2: his his video where it was like kind of Quenton 1596 01:22:24,360 --> 01:22:26,479 Speaker 2: being racist with Black Lives Matter. 1597 01:22:27,200 --> 01:22:30,760 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I was like, I thought you did to 1598 01:22:30,760 --> 01:22:31,800 Speaker 4: say the Will Smith song. 1599 01:22:31,960 --> 01:22:33,479 Speaker 3: I didn't know that was him too. 1600 01:22:34,000 --> 01:22:37,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate that video. I've never I never write 1601 01:22:37,560 --> 01:22:41,240 Speaker 2: about ship on my medium blind me. I'm going who Karen, 1602 01:22:41,520 --> 01:22:45,240 Speaker 2: we covered it on the show. I never. All right, well, 1603 01:22:45,280 --> 01:22:48,760 Speaker 2: then let's just move on to the finish, Okay, all right, cool. 1604 01:22:48,800 --> 01:22:53,479 Speaker 2: I was hoping you say that, But yeah, Joynan Lucas 1605 01:22:53,520 --> 01:22:57,360 Speaker 2: did a video about racism called I'm not something like 1606 01:22:57,400 --> 01:23:00,720 Speaker 2: I'm not racist or something, and it was like, from 1607 01:23:00,720 --> 01:23:05,559 Speaker 2: the perspective of these of like white white dude saying 1608 01:23:06,280 --> 01:23:08,719 Speaker 2: it was just bad, it was just equating a bunch 1609 01:23:08,720 --> 01:23:11,080 Speaker 2: of bad shit and that's and like that was enough 1610 01:23:11,080 --> 01:23:13,040 Speaker 2: for me to be like, I'll never check for this guy. 1611 01:23:14,520 --> 01:23:19,360 Speaker 2: Like it wasn't even on somebody active dislike or hate, like, oh, 1612 01:23:19,439 --> 01:23:21,240 Speaker 2: whenever I see his name, I'm gonna say. It was 1613 01:23:21,280 --> 01:23:24,240 Speaker 2: just like me and this guy not even closer on 1614 01:23:24,240 --> 01:23:27,200 Speaker 2: the same page. So good luck with whatever you're doing 1615 01:23:27,200 --> 01:23:31,520 Speaker 2: over there, buddy. I hope it works out. But apparently 1616 01:23:32,320 --> 01:23:39,040 Speaker 2: he got caught up in some shit, so he said, 1617 01:23:41,040 --> 01:23:44,400 Speaker 2: what was it? Joiner said, He hired the always Civil 1618 01:23:44,479 --> 01:23:48,040 Speaker 2: founder for marketing and branding consultation twenty fourteen when he 1619 01:23:48,080 --> 01:23:50,240 Speaker 2: began developing his rap career. In a series of tweets, 1620 01:23:50,280 --> 01:23:53,360 Speaker 2: Joiner explained that he paid Civil sixty thousand dollars for 1621 01:23:53,400 --> 01:23:58,880 Speaker 2: her services, but never received an ounce of what was promised. 1622 01:23:59,720 --> 01:24:02,000 Speaker 2: I was it's desperate for help, and you knew that, 1623 01:24:02,200 --> 01:24:04,720 Speaker 2: and you was paid. After you was paid, you went 1624 01:24:04,840 --> 01:24:07,519 Speaker 2: ghosts and didn't expect me to pop here. I am, 1625 01:24:07,920 --> 01:24:11,439 Speaker 2: he wrote in with an attachment to a twenty fifteen memo. 1626 01:24:13,160 --> 01:24:15,080 Speaker 2: After you got the money paid up front, you stopped 1627 01:24:15,080 --> 01:24:16,840 Speaker 2: answering my calls, and every time I hit you, you 1628 01:24:16,880 --> 01:24:19,559 Speaker 2: answered the phone with an attitude like I was messing 1629 01:24:19,600 --> 01:24:21,640 Speaker 2: up your day. I sent you held the message is 1630 01:24:21,680 --> 01:24:24,040 Speaker 2: pleading with you to do your job. Because my back 1631 01:24:24,120 --> 01:24:29,400 Speaker 2: was against the wall. You took advantage, he said. The loss, 1632 01:24:30,000 --> 01:24:33,000 Speaker 2: he said the theft cause of financial strain, and that 1633 01:24:33,120 --> 01:24:35,560 Speaker 2: he just welcomed his first child at the time of 1634 01:24:35,600 --> 01:24:38,320 Speaker 2: the incident, shaking my head. I was broken down to 1635 01:24:38,400 --> 01:24:41,280 Speaker 2: my last leg. Bro That sixty k was literally my 1636 01:24:41,360 --> 01:24:43,719 Speaker 2: last effort to help me get on, and you stole 1637 01:24:43,760 --> 01:24:46,080 Speaker 2: that from me. When my son was born, the media 1638 01:24:46,120 --> 01:24:48,920 Speaker 2: protects you, but wrong is wrong. All this time I 1639 01:24:48,960 --> 01:24:51,600 Speaker 2: had like five K followers. Oh, at this time I 1640 01:24:51,680 --> 01:24:54,479 Speaker 2: had five K followers. I had no idea how this 1641 01:24:54,560 --> 01:24:57,559 Speaker 2: industry shit works, and I ain't wait. I ain't want 1642 01:24:57,600 --> 01:24:59,320 Speaker 2: you to drag my name through the mud. So I 1643 01:24:59,320 --> 01:25:03,120 Speaker 2: had of fear. I still quiet until at mister Cameron 1644 01:25:03,720 --> 01:25:06,360 Speaker 2: killer Cam got involved. I guess spoke up a few 1645 01:25:06,479 --> 01:25:10,160 Speaker 2: years ago on Twitter, and then I did, so, yeah, 1646 01:25:10,320 --> 01:25:14,200 Speaker 2: she's she's in the frying pan now. She did release 1647 01:25:14,240 --> 01:25:20,520 Speaker 2: a statement and it said his management called me directify 1648 01:25:20,560 --> 01:25:24,160 Speaker 2: the situation. At the Joiner made his first tweets claims, 1649 01:25:24,200 --> 01:25:27,160 Speaker 2: in which I responded, we can happily move forward after 1650 01:25:27,200 --> 01:25:29,960 Speaker 2: public apology was made, since he used that same platform 1651 01:25:30,040 --> 01:25:32,160 Speaker 2: to live about the funds being taken from him, I 1652 01:25:32,240 --> 01:25:35,320 Speaker 2: recorded the call just for future circumstances like this. Unfortunately, 1653 01:25:35,360 --> 01:25:39,000 Speaker 2: six years later, he's now utilizing a separate disagreement moment 1654 01:25:39,479 --> 01:25:42,479 Speaker 2: to amplify and create a social momentum around himself. He 1655 01:25:42,520 --> 01:25:45,519 Speaker 2: and I both had separate conversations with Charlemagne this morning 1656 01:25:45,840 --> 01:25:48,360 Speaker 2: where he passed up his phone number so we can 1657 01:25:48,400 --> 01:25:50,920 Speaker 2: have a discussion directly, but instead he took the social 1658 01:25:51,320 --> 01:25:54,200 Speaker 2: nothing was stolen or taken from joining Lucas. Unfortunately, certain 1659 01:25:54,280 --> 01:25:56,800 Speaker 2: artists are under the impression that they have twenty four 1660 01:25:56,800 --> 01:25:59,959 Speaker 2: to seven access to you. That's not feasible or possible. 1661 01:26:00,280 --> 01:26:03,280 Speaker 2: But it sounded like he had zero access. But okay, 1662 01:26:04,600 --> 01:26:06,720 Speaker 2: she's like, he wont twenty four to seven access. He 1663 01:26:06,800 --> 01:26:08,439 Speaker 2: was like, she never answered no calls. 1664 01:26:08,680 --> 01:26:09,679 Speaker 5: I had no access. 1665 01:26:09,920 --> 01:26:12,680 Speaker 2: All the work done on his behalf were for philed, subcontracted. 1666 01:26:12,720 --> 01:26:16,240 Speaker 2: Invoices were made that said the management Sean McDonald of 1667 01:26:16,320 --> 01:26:19,680 Speaker 2: Dead Silent CEO this which my team also kept records for. 1668 01:26:20,840 --> 01:26:24,840 Speaker 2: So that that sounds like why she's oh and then damn. 1669 01:26:24,920 --> 01:26:30,640 Speaker 2: She also had supposedly had the blogger Jason Lee. She 1670 01:26:30,840 --> 01:26:37,439 Speaker 2: supposedly had his Yeah, she had his Instagram hacked, and. 1671 01:26:37,479 --> 01:26:39,840 Speaker 4: Then he said he lost three hundred thousand dollars in 1672 01:26:39,960 --> 01:26:43,439 Speaker 4: revenue while I was trying to fix it. How But 1673 01:26:43,479 --> 01:26:46,160 Speaker 4: then what I did hear in that clubhouse was that 1674 01:26:46,200 --> 01:26:48,960 Speaker 4: because she was in there that. 1675 01:26:50,400 --> 01:26:51,759 Speaker 3: She I don't know. 1676 01:26:51,960 --> 01:26:57,080 Speaker 4: She said that she paid somebody to hack his site, 1677 01:26:57,520 --> 01:26:59,160 Speaker 4: but that person didn't go through with it. 1678 01:27:00,000 --> 01:27:03,760 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, so it's like I hired a hit but 1679 01:27:03,840 --> 01:27:06,960 Speaker 2: the hitman didn't actually take go kill you. So I'm 1680 01:27:06,960 --> 01:27:09,599 Speaker 2: not really a bad person. You know, if they would 1681 01:27:09,600 --> 01:27:12,960 Speaker 2: have killed you then't obviously. Yeah, here's a clip I 1682 01:27:13,000 --> 01:27:15,720 Speaker 2: talked to Scott Zoop. Scott by the way, remember when 1683 01:27:15,760 --> 01:27:19,080 Speaker 2: Clubhouse started and the whole thing was like it's private 1684 01:27:19,120 --> 01:27:22,599 Speaker 2: conversations that well not And I was like, won't people 1685 01:27:22,680 --> 01:27:27,759 Speaker 2: just screen recorded? And it was like, uh, we'll figure 1686 01:27:27,800 --> 01:27:28,800 Speaker 2: that out. I'm like, no, you won't. 1687 01:27:28,880 --> 01:27:30,200 Speaker 1: As said you were solid. 1688 01:27:30,960 --> 01:27:33,160 Speaker 4: He was like, yo, Karen solid, that's a good Oh. 1689 01:27:33,120 --> 01:27:36,040 Speaker 2: This is joint of Lucas. I don't care about his story. 1690 01:27:36,360 --> 01:27:38,160 Speaker 3: Uh your faith. 1691 01:27:40,240 --> 01:27:42,320 Speaker 4: Can I just say that I'm so glad that I 1692 01:27:42,400 --> 01:27:44,639 Speaker 4: don't have the type of name that if I ever 1693 01:27:44,680 --> 01:27:47,600 Speaker 4: fucked up publicly, they could do a pun for the 1694 01:27:47,640 --> 01:27:54,080 Speaker 4: headline like Karen uncivil uncivilized, Like, I'm just so glad. 1695 01:27:54,360 --> 01:27:57,000 Speaker 5: Oh, I would get out of a joke. I'll get 1696 01:27:57,040 --> 01:28:00,720 Speaker 5: out of Joe Karen Karen myro like too road, Yeah, 1697 01:28:00,720 --> 01:28:02,360 Speaker 5: I would get it. I would get all all that 1698 01:28:02,520 --> 01:28:03,320 Speaker 5: they would be joking. 1699 01:28:03,439 --> 01:28:07,200 Speaker 2: Karen Silvil. Yeah, Karen Silvil does leaders lend herself. But 1700 01:28:07,240 --> 01:28:10,879 Speaker 2: she also used it the name to all her businesses 1701 01:28:10,880 --> 01:28:13,240 Speaker 2: and stuff too, so like it was good on the 1702 01:28:13,280 --> 01:28:15,160 Speaker 2: way up, but then on the way down it's gonna 1703 01:28:15,160 --> 01:28:17,639 Speaker 2: be kind of bad. But then also the other thing too, 1704 01:28:17,760 --> 01:28:21,040 Speaker 2: is like if that's even her name, right, like you 1705 01:28:21,040 --> 01:28:24,920 Speaker 2: know Hollywood name, so like you know, if you blow 1706 01:28:25,000 --> 01:28:27,559 Speaker 2: up enough, you know, maybe you will change your name 1707 01:28:27,600 --> 01:28:32,879 Speaker 2: to something more snazgy, and then it'll be like, you know, uh, bossy, 1708 01:28:34,040 --> 01:28:37,719 Speaker 2: I don't know bossy heart love, and then people will 1709 01:28:37,720 --> 01:28:41,479 Speaker 2: be using that, they will be using that shit again. 1710 01:28:41,560 --> 01:28:44,519 Speaker 2: She's like, oh, she didn't have no heart or love 1711 01:28:44,840 --> 01:28:50,040 Speaker 2: for me, took my money, hearts right, that can happen, 1712 01:28:50,840 --> 01:28:53,080 Speaker 2: all right, here's the club I need to write. 1713 01:28:53,479 --> 01:28:55,200 Speaker 9: And then what you did as a result of me 1714 01:28:55,320 --> 01:28:58,000 Speaker 9: not taking a story down. You hired that kid to 1715 01:28:58,040 --> 01:29:01,280 Speaker 9: hack Hollywood unlock in the twenty thousand. You sent him 1716 01:29:01,280 --> 01:29:02,880 Speaker 9: all the receipts. You said it was you and Punch 1717 01:29:02,920 --> 01:29:05,080 Speaker 9: from TDE that were gonna help him become a rapper. 1718 01:29:05,560 --> 01:29:07,920 Speaker 9: This kid don't know nobody in the industry, He don't 1719 01:29:07,960 --> 01:29:09,439 Speaker 9: know nothing. All you know is he poor and you 1720 01:29:09,479 --> 01:29:10,880 Speaker 9: want to get out the hood. And you promised you 1721 01:29:10,920 --> 01:29:12,320 Speaker 9: was gonna help him. If you took me down, you 1722 01:29:12,360 --> 01:29:14,559 Speaker 9: totally take down all my personal shit too. The only 1723 01:29:14,600 --> 01:29:16,040 Speaker 9: thing is you didn't pay the back end, so he 1724 01:29:16,120 --> 01:29:17,679 Speaker 9: got at me and he gave me that information. 1725 01:29:18,120 --> 01:29:21,760 Speaker 3: You know, I called you, do you guys hear me? Cool? 1726 01:29:21,960 --> 01:29:25,960 Speaker 3: And te that was somebody. 1727 01:29:27,040 --> 01:29:30,479 Speaker 10: Yeah, this kid is And to a point of me, Jason, 1728 01:29:30,760 --> 01:29:33,240 Speaker 10: you you playing this game? Yeah, I hit this nigga. 1729 01:29:33,280 --> 01:29:36,439 Speaker 10: Nobody promised him twenty thousand dollars, nobody promised him a 1730 01:29:36,479 --> 01:29:39,840 Speaker 10: rap career, nothing like that. To double back and tell 1731 01:29:39,880 --> 01:29:40,840 Speaker 10: you some stuff. 1732 01:29:40,840 --> 01:29:47,720 Speaker 2: You called Jason, hmmm, yeah, I don't know. I don't know. 1733 01:29:47,840 --> 01:29:52,240 Speaker 2: That sounds weird. So my conspiracy theory is that this 1734 01:29:52,320 --> 01:29:54,439 Speaker 2: is all just promotion for like love and hip hop, 1735 01:29:56,240 --> 01:30:00,280 Speaker 2: like this is just this is just all like trying 1736 01:30:00,280 --> 01:30:02,200 Speaker 2: to get us to come back to clubhouse, because this 1737 01:30:02,240 --> 01:30:05,040 Speaker 2: shit don't make no sense. It just randomly popped up 1738 01:30:05,080 --> 01:30:07,719 Speaker 2: on a Saturday. But she's almost have been dirty for years. 1739 01:30:07,800 --> 01:30:11,240 Speaker 2: And then everyone that had grievances aired them all out 1740 01:30:11,280 --> 01:30:13,760 Speaker 2: at the same time, and then people on Twitter is 1741 01:30:13,800 --> 01:30:17,559 Speaker 2: live tweeting for over twenty four hours. At this point, 1742 01:30:17,600 --> 01:30:20,000 Speaker 2: you're seeing people. I'm like, did you sleep, Yeah, did 1743 01:30:20,000 --> 01:30:21,120 Speaker 2: you go to bed last night? 1744 01:30:21,160 --> 01:30:25,040 Speaker 4: Outside now, So there's nothing this is not interesting enough, 1745 01:30:25,160 --> 01:30:28,160 Speaker 4: like during pandemic or during the quarantine or what I've lockdown. 1746 01:30:28,960 --> 01:30:30,160 Speaker 3: Anything was interesting. 1747 01:30:30,200 --> 01:30:33,280 Speaker 4: We were in the house riveted by Tiger King and 1748 01:30:33,360 --> 01:30:37,200 Speaker 4: like anything that was remotely interesting we were involved in, 1749 01:30:37,280 --> 01:30:40,759 Speaker 4: Like we can go outside now, why is this happening? 1750 01:30:40,800 --> 01:30:41,479 Speaker 3: I think you're right. 1751 01:30:41,640 --> 01:30:43,720 Speaker 2: It feel like a love and hip hop pride. It's 1752 01:30:43,720 --> 01:30:47,320 Speaker 2: too it's too straightforward, because who's a lawyer but also 1753 01:30:47,439 --> 01:30:48,960 Speaker 2: admits to some shit like that? 1754 01:30:49,640 --> 01:30:50,720 Speaker 5: That don't make sense? 1755 01:30:50,760 --> 01:30:55,160 Speaker 3: Everyone involved? Everyone involved is like an entertainment business. 1756 01:30:55,360 --> 01:30:58,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, like scamming some regular people, right, and then no 1757 01:30:58,400 --> 01:31:00,759 Speaker 4: one regular was saying that they something happens. 1758 01:31:01,080 --> 01:31:04,679 Speaker 2: Right If somebody like I gave you sixty thousand dollars, 1759 01:31:04,720 --> 01:31:07,439 Speaker 2: I'm like, well, I mean, why are you admitting to that? 1760 01:31:07,439 --> 01:31:10,200 Speaker 2: That's is that how you got on? So you aren't 1761 01:31:10,240 --> 01:31:12,920 Speaker 2: You aren't really talented and earned your way up? You 1762 01:31:13,520 --> 01:31:15,519 Speaker 2: you was paying cavern symbol. How did you end up 1763 01:31:15,520 --> 01:31:16,800 Speaker 2: getting on and she stole the money? 1764 01:31:16,800 --> 01:31:17,160 Speaker 3: I don't know. 1765 01:31:17,200 --> 01:31:20,000 Speaker 2: This doesn't feel I just feel like Steve Stevie. Yah. 1766 01:31:20,560 --> 01:31:22,559 Speaker 3: I feel like I used to. 1767 01:31:25,080 --> 01:31:26,880 Speaker 4: But I back in the day when I used to 1768 01:31:26,920 --> 01:31:31,760 Speaker 4: watch like American Idol and Top Model, there's always somebody. 1769 01:31:31,400 --> 01:31:34,800 Speaker 3: Who's like I spent my last two hundred dollars to 1770 01:31:34,880 --> 01:31:38,519 Speaker 3: come here. I really mean this opportunity, and I'm so 1771 01:31:38,600 --> 01:31:41,160 Speaker 3: I was like, you're stupid, like you had you had 1772 01:31:41,240 --> 01:31:43,920 Speaker 3: sixty thousand dollars, which is not which is a lot 1773 01:31:43,920 --> 01:31:47,760 Speaker 3: of money, right, But if it's the only money you have, 1774 01:31:47,920 --> 01:31:49,400 Speaker 3: it's not a lot of money, right. 1775 01:31:49,280 --> 01:31:51,880 Speaker 4: And you just had a baby and you gave that 1776 01:31:51,960 --> 01:31:54,559 Speaker 4: off to this rand person who didn't even take your calls. Like, 1777 01:31:54,840 --> 01:31:58,519 Speaker 4: I can only feel so far from so sorry for you. 1778 01:31:59,120 --> 01:32:00,920 Speaker 4: I feel bad for you because no one should be 1779 01:32:00,920 --> 01:32:04,160 Speaker 4: taking advantage up, but you're also really stupid, Like how 1780 01:32:04,200 --> 01:32:06,040 Speaker 4: important is it to be put on that you would 1781 01:32:06,080 --> 01:32:06,639 Speaker 4: go through. 1782 01:32:06,479 --> 01:32:06,840 Speaker 3: All of this. 1783 01:32:07,080 --> 01:32:10,320 Speaker 2: That was my kid's college fund and you took it. 1784 01:32:11,400 --> 01:32:13,160 Speaker 2: And of course I was using itselfishly to try to 1785 01:32:13,160 --> 01:32:16,320 Speaker 2: get on in the music industry, but still you stole 1786 01:32:16,600 --> 01:32:17,920 Speaker 2: money from my child. 1787 01:32:19,760 --> 01:32:23,200 Speaker 3: I can understand if it was like a pyramid scheme, 1788 01:32:23,240 --> 01:32:25,479 Speaker 3: because you think you're gonna get some money out, Like 1789 01:32:25,840 --> 01:32:27,800 Speaker 3: this is not even you thinking I'm gonna put the 1790 01:32:27,840 --> 01:32:30,360 Speaker 3: sixty thousand in and get money. It's like I'm gonna 1791 01:32:30,479 --> 01:32:31,880 Speaker 3: put sixty thousand. 1792 01:32:31,520 --> 01:32:35,719 Speaker 4: In and get a billboard? What was she supposed to know? Okay, 1793 01:32:35,920 --> 01:32:38,160 Speaker 4: I'm not defending her. I don't know or care like her, 1794 01:32:38,240 --> 01:32:40,720 Speaker 4: but I hate stories like that. Don't tell me you 1795 01:32:40,800 --> 01:32:42,840 Speaker 4: spent your last sixty K and you had a baby. 1796 01:32:42,840 --> 01:32:43,600 Speaker 4: I don't feel sorry for you. 1797 01:32:43,680 --> 01:32:44,360 Speaker 3: I think you're dumb. 1798 01:32:44,920 --> 01:32:51,120 Speaker 2: TikTok. TikTok debuts mental health help as Instagram faces criticism 1799 01:32:51,479 --> 01:32:55,920 Speaker 2: for its effects on teams. TikTok is unvela new mental 1800 01:32:55,960 --> 01:32:58,320 Speaker 2: health resources on this platform to address the well being 1801 01:32:58,360 --> 01:33:01,960 Speaker 2: of it's nearly sixty five point nine million monthly active users. 1802 01:33:02,520 --> 01:33:05,240 Speaker 2: This new initiative is the latest in TikTok's efforts to 1803 01:33:05,320 --> 01:33:08,479 Speaker 2: offer help to users who may be struggling. These tools 1804 01:33:08,479 --> 01:33:11,439 Speaker 2: include in app guides to address body image topics, signs 1805 01:33:11,479 --> 01:33:15,000 Speaker 2: of struggling, and more. TikTok is also altering search results 1806 01:33:15,000 --> 01:33:18,320 Speaker 2: for self harm terms such as suicide instead of seeing 1807 01:33:18,320 --> 01:33:21,400 Speaker 2: harmful clips or users promoting suicide or even committing to act. 1808 01:33:21,680 --> 01:33:25,320 Speaker 2: TikTokers will we met with support and treatment resources. We 1809 01:33:25,400 --> 01:33:27,680 Speaker 2: care deeply about our community and we always look for 1810 01:33:27,760 --> 01:33:30,639 Speaker 2: new ways in which we can nurture their well being. 1811 01:33:30,720 --> 01:33:35,080 Speaker 2: TikTok's at in a statement, and this comes after Facebook 1812 01:33:35,160 --> 01:33:37,680 Speaker 2: has been exposed by The Wall Street Journal for their 1813 01:33:37,720 --> 01:33:42,240 Speaker 2: failure to address is to address Instagram's negative impact on teenagers' 1814 01:33:42,240 --> 01:33:45,640 Speaker 2: mental health, despite the tech giants' own studies that confirm 1815 01:33:45,680 --> 01:33:50,559 Speaker 2: that the issue we make body image issues worse for 1816 01:33:50,600 --> 01:33:54,960 Speaker 2: one in three teen girls, and internal Facebook presentation admitted, Facebook, 1817 01:33:55,000 --> 01:33:58,479 Speaker 2: which owns Instagram, may largely attribute this conclusion to the 1818 01:33:58,560 --> 01:34:01,479 Speaker 2: rise of social media influencer in particularly the Instagram model, 1819 01:34:01,520 --> 01:34:06,920 Speaker 2: which often promotes undertainable beauty standards and body types. So, yeah, 1820 01:34:06,920 --> 01:34:09,240 Speaker 2: what do you think about TikTok trying to help with 1821 01:34:09,320 --> 01:34:13,800 Speaker 2: mental health? I mean, I think the idea of I mean, 1822 01:34:13,840 --> 01:34:15,599 Speaker 2: it does sound weird that you will be able to 1823 01:34:15,640 --> 01:34:18,400 Speaker 2: type in suicide and see people come into like, you know, 1824 01:34:18,479 --> 01:34:21,960 Speaker 2: dying by suicide. That does seem like a no brainer. 1825 01:34:22,000 --> 01:34:23,640 Speaker 2: That should not be a thing that you allowed to 1826 01:34:23,680 --> 01:34:26,960 Speaker 2: happen on your app. If you can control that. Oh yeah, 1827 01:34:27,000 --> 01:34:29,559 Speaker 2: but you know, and I always feel a little conflicted 1828 01:34:29,600 --> 01:34:31,799 Speaker 2: because it's like it is an app, and the app's 1829 01:34:31,880 --> 01:34:33,720 Speaker 2: job is really just to keep you on there. 1830 01:34:35,520 --> 01:34:44,200 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I okay, I feel great, fantastic one. I'm 1831 01:34:44,200 --> 01:34:47,080 Speaker 3: glad that you are thinking about that, and I'm glad 1832 01:34:47,080 --> 01:34:51,080 Speaker 3: that that's something. It feels a little reactionary because Facebook 1833 01:34:51,120 --> 01:34:58,040 Speaker 3: isn't so, but that's that. But I feel like if 1834 01:34:58,040 --> 01:35:00,320 Speaker 3: you are at a point in your life where where. 1835 01:35:05,120 --> 01:35:07,880 Speaker 4: TikTok is the only thing keeping you together or holding 1836 01:35:07,880 --> 01:35:11,040 Speaker 4: you together, and I feel about any social media outlet 1837 01:35:11,120 --> 01:35:14,519 Speaker 4: anything like that, I don't think that you're a healthy 1838 01:35:14,560 --> 01:35:15,760 Speaker 4: person to start with, so you. 1839 01:35:15,720 --> 01:35:16,960 Speaker 3: Shouldn't be on there. 1840 01:35:17,520 --> 01:35:20,760 Speaker 4: So if you are on there and that helps, then 1841 01:35:20,800 --> 01:35:24,160 Speaker 4: I don't think it was that serious. I don't know 1842 01:35:24,160 --> 01:35:26,840 Speaker 4: if that's yeah, I'm gonna I'll explain that, but it 1843 01:35:26,920 --> 01:35:30,240 Speaker 4: makes sense, right, And then if it is. 1844 01:35:30,200 --> 01:35:33,439 Speaker 3: That serious that you're on there, this isn't gonna stop you. 1845 01:35:33,920 --> 01:35:39,200 Speaker 4: So so it's like you're targeting the people who are. 1846 01:35:40,560 --> 01:35:43,680 Speaker 3: And I mean this not in a mental health. 1847 01:35:44,120 --> 01:35:48,000 Speaker 4: Like blanket statement, but in a specific social media narcissism way. 1848 01:35:48,840 --> 01:35:53,559 Speaker 4: If you are the type of person who channels their 1849 01:35:53,640 --> 01:36:00,360 Speaker 4: narcissism through social media, then to me, the mental health 1850 01:36:00,400 --> 01:36:02,519 Speaker 4: issue that this is addressing is not the one you 1851 01:36:02,560 --> 01:36:03,080 Speaker 4: actually have. 1852 01:36:03,439 --> 01:36:08,080 Speaker 3: Right, does that you see what I'm saying? So I 1853 01:36:09,560 --> 01:36:09,920 Speaker 3: don't know. 1854 01:36:10,479 --> 01:36:12,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's kind of like when people say, like send 1855 01:36:13,040 --> 01:36:15,360 Speaker 2: me pictures of cats because I'm feeling depressed or whatever. 1856 01:36:15,400 --> 01:36:17,800 Speaker 5: You're like, oh god, yeah, You're like that. 1857 01:36:18,000 --> 01:36:21,479 Speaker 2: I mean that maybe that may help somebody. I'm not 1858 01:36:21,520 --> 01:36:26,000 Speaker 2: saying it's impossible, but the idea of that being the 1859 01:36:26,040 --> 01:36:28,680 Speaker 2: only thing that's stopping you is means there was a 1860 01:36:28,720 --> 01:36:32,360 Speaker 2: lot that had to like not happen before you got 1861 01:36:32,360 --> 01:36:36,000 Speaker 2: to that point that the last bastion was pictures of cats, 1862 01:36:36,280 --> 01:36:38,080 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? And if it's and then 1863 01:36:38,160 --> 01:36:43,080 Speaker 2: it also of course, it also lends itself to a 1864 01:36:43,120 --> 01:36:46,240 Speaker 2: certain type of narcissistic personality disorder where people are like, 1865 01:36:47,160 --> 01:36:49,760 Speaker 2: I want to see what my influence and reaches and 1866 01:36:49,840 --> 01:36:52,200 Speaker 2: this is a great way to see that in real time, 1867 01:36:52,600 --> 01:36:55,200 Speaker 2: how many people I have in my thrall at all times, 1868 01:36:55,680 --> 01:36:58,360 Speaker 2: and so it could so And you know, I think 1869 01:36:58,400 --> 01:37:01,400 Speaker 2: social media feeds that because if you look at the 1870 01:37:01,400 --> 01:37:03,400 Speaker 2: tools that make people good at social media, they're all 1871 01:37:03,439 --> 01:37:06,880 Speaker 2: the same warning signs of dealing with a malignant narcissists, 1872 01:37:07,600 --> 01:37:10,639 Speaker 2: which isn't good, you know. So, uh yeah I do. 1873 01:37:10,840 --> 01:37:12,680 Speaker 2: But every time I see something like this on a 1874 01:37:12,720 --> 01:37:16,040 Speaker 2: social media app, I've part of me just wonders, like, 1875 01:37:16,200 --> 01:37:20,840 Speaker 2: what's the catch to it? Because these aren't altruistic endeavors. 1876 01:37:20,880 --> 01:37:23,000 Speaker 2: It's you know, are they trying to with a lawsuit? 1877 01:37:23,120 --> 01:37:25,840 Speaker 2: Are they they see the bad press. Facebook is getting 1878 01:37:25,880 --> 01:37:27,759 Speaker 2: in and go we want the good press, Like what 1879 01:37:27,760 --> 01:37:31,559 Speaker 2: what was the impetus? Still released us right now? And 1880 01:37:31,640 --> 01:37:33,600 Speaker 2: I hope it does help, to be honest, you know, 1881 01:37:33,640 --> 01:37:36,439 Speaker 2: I'd much rather you do something than nothing. But you 1882 01:37:36,520 --> 01:37:39,200 Speaker 2: know this, I think a lot of times on social media, 1883 01:37:39,240 --> 01:37:42,040 Speaker 2: this is it's the it's the something that's the closest 1884 01:37:42,080 --> 01:37:42,920 Speaker 2: to nothing you can get. 1885 01:37:43,600 --> 01:37:46,120 Speaker 3: Yeah and yeah. 1886 01:37:45,000 --> 01:37:50,519 Speaker 5: And the thing is, like y'all said, the sites are 1887 01:37:50,520 --> 01:37:53,000 Speaker 5: designed to keep you on there. And going back to 1888 01:37:53,040 --> 01:37:56,000 Speaker 5: what BOSSI was saying, for a lot of people, the 1889 01:37:56,000 --> 01:37:58,240 Speaker 5: help they need is actually off the site like that, 1890 01:37:58,439 --> 01:38:01,000 Speaker 5: Like like the help they need is she's somewhere else. 1891 01:38:01,439 --> 01:38:05,120 Speaker 5: So os are are they going to actually lead you 1892 01:38:05,280 --> 01:38:07,719 Speaker 5: to get to somebody to get you off the site, 1893 01:38:07,800 --> 01:38:11,799 Speaker 5: to get you to actually offline help that you actually need, 1894 01:38:12,200 --> 01:38:14,760 Speaker 5: or is it all gonna cycle you back? So if 1895 01:38:14,800 --> 01:38:16,800 Speaker 5: I go in here, we are we gonna get the 1896 01:38:17,240 --> 01:38:21,600 Speaker 5: three second clip of somebody that's a therapist talking in 1897 01:38:21,640 --> 01:38:24,000 Speaker 5: this situation may or may not apply to me because 1898 01:38:24,000 --> 01:38:25,840 Speaker 5: they don't know my files, they hadn't looked at my 1899 01:38:25,880 --> 01:38:29,000 Speaker 5: case or anything like that, versus you going here's a number, 1900 01:38:29,160 --> 01:38:32,000 Speaker 5: call this number. Contact these persons. Here are the sites 1901 01:38:32,040 --> 01:38:34,080 Speaker 5: that shit. Take you off the site, and that's the 1902 01:38:34,160 --> 01:38:35,640 Speaker 5: last thing they want you to do is to leave 1903 01:38:35,680 --> 01:38:36,160 Speaker 5: the site. 1904 01:38:37,920 --> 01:38:41,559 Speaker 4: Yes, And it's like it's almost like I just don't 1905 01:38:41,560 --> 01:38:45,360 Speaker 4: do it here type of thing, which I don't. 1906 01:38:45,520 --> 01:38:47,720 Speaker 3: And I think that here's the thing with TikTok. I 1907 01:38:48,200 --> 01:38:51,479 Speaker 3: enjoy TikTok. I mean, TikTok is a lot of fun. 1908 01:38:52,160 --> 01:38:53,680 Speaker 3: It's funny. You know. 1909 01:38:54,040 --> 01:38:56,120 Speaker 4: I've curated it so that I see the stuff that 1910 01:38:56,160 --> 01:38:58,519 Speaker 4: I want to see. I don't see any mental health 1911 01:38:58,520 --> 01:39:01,920 Speaker 4: stuff because I don't want that on my on my page. 1912 01:39:01,920 --> 01:39:04,320 Speaker 4: I don't like anybody who gets on there and just 1913 01:39:04,400 --> 01:39:07,799 Speaker 4: you know, just tells all these long stories about terrible 1914 01:39:07,800 --> 01:39:10,720 Speaker 4: things that have happened to them or or you know. 1915 01:39:11,400 --> 01:39:12,080 Speaker 3: I know that. 1916 01:39:12,720 --> 01:39:16,680 Speaker 4: And as somebody who lives with mental health issue, I 1917 01:39:16,840 --> 01:39:20,320 Speaker 4: always always go back to your mental health is your responsibility, 1918 01:39:20,760 --> 01:39:24,920 Speaker 4: meaning that you're the only person who has the power 1919 01:39:25,000 --> 01:39:28,479 Speaker 4: to do something about how you feel about you and 1920 01:39:28,640 --> 01:39:31,440 Speaker 4: and and get the help that you need for yourself. 1921 01:39:32,120 --> 01:39:34,760 Speaker 4: And I think that over the years, I've noticed that 1922 01:39:34,880 --> 01:39:39,800 Speaker 4: people who are outward about it, there's no real incentive 1923 01:39:39,840 --> 01:39:44,320 Speaker 4: to do the work because the validation is external and 1924 01:39:44,600 --> 01:39:45,600 Speaker 4: I don't agree with that. 1925 01:39:46,200 --> 01:39:47,920 Speaker 3: I don't agree with that, But just going back. 1926 01:39:47,800 --> 01:39:51,559 Speaker 4: To to TikTok, TikTok has this thing where if you're 1927 01:39:51,640 --> 01:39:53,680 Speaker 4: like I said it so that if I'm on for 1928 01:39:53,680 --> 01:39:56,160 Speaker 4: forty five minutes, it'll pop up and be like you've 1929 01:39:56,200 --> 01:40:01,080 Speaker 4: been on, you know, in order to continue pin code 1930 01:40:01,160 --> 01:40:03,840 Speaker 4: or whatever. Every single time, I just put my pin 1931 01:40:03,880 --> 01:40:04,519 Speaker 4: code and keep going. 1932 01:40:04,760 --> 01:40:06,759 Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean? Like, it does nothing 1933 01:40:06,800 --> 01:40:07,360 Speaker 3: to deter me. 1934 01:40:07,439 --> 01:40:10,920 Speaker 4: It doesn't say now we're gonna deny you access for 1935 01:40:11,200 --> 01:40:15,320 Speaker 4: fifteen minutes or now you know whatever. It doesn't do anything. 1936 01:40:15,320 --> 01:40:18,240 Speaker 4: It just pops up, I put the pin keep going 1937 01:40:18,280 --> 01:40:20,639 Speaker 4: if I feel like it. If I'm like, oh yeah, 1938 01:40:20,640 --> 01:40:22,559 Speaker 4: I've been on here too long, and I make the 1939 01:40:22,600 --> 01:40:24,880 Speaker 4: decision to put it away or say the next time 1940 01:40:24,920 --> 01:40:26,960 Speaker 4: this pops up, I'm gonna put it away. 1941 01:40:27,560 --> 01:40:29,320 Speaker 3: All that, it's still up to me. 1942 01:40:29,520 --> 01:40:31,879 Speaker 4: I'm still the one who has to make the decision 1943 01:40:32,520 --> 01:40:38,160 Speaker 4: to keep going or to ignore it. Right, So it 1944 01:40:38,360 --> 01:40:41,639 Speaker 4: just feels very empty. And I think that, and I've 1945 01:40:41,680 --> 01:40:47,439 Speaker 4: said this so often, like the more over the years, 1946 01:40:47,840 --> 01:40:52,640 Speaker 4: the happier I am that people are more aware of 1947 01:40:52,880 --> 01:40:55,680 Speaker 4: having these conversations and talking about mental health. 1948 01:40:57,120 --> 01:40:58,480 Speaker 3: And taking it more seriously. 1949 01:40:59,200 --> 01:41:02,840 Speaker 4: The less I am to believe that that was a 1950 01:41:02,880 --> 01:41:07,320 Speaker 4: good thing, because now it becomes about only the language 1951 01:41:07,320 --> 01:41:10,640 Speaker 4: and only the facade of doing the thing, and no 1952 01:41:10,880 --> 01:41:16,000 Speaker 4: real work into the rest of it. Like I've seen 1953 01:41:16,120 --> 01:41:19,200 Speaker 4: tiktoks and tweets and all these things where people are 1954 01:41:19,320 --> 01:41:22,679 Speaker 4: only listing and talking about all the things that are happening, 1955 01:41:22,920 --> 01:41:24,800 Speaker 4: but when things get better, they don't come back and 1956 01:41:24,840 --> 01:41:28,599 Speaker 4: talk about what happens there, Like there's no there's no 1957 01:41:28,720 --> 01:41:31,720 Speaker 4: counter to that, And I feel like, to me, the 1958 01:41:31,720 --> 01:41:34,080 Speaker 4: better counter would be as soon as one of those 1959 01:41:34,120 --> 01:41:37,360 Speaker 4: videos comes up and the algorithm right behind it is 1960 01:41:37,400 --> 01:41:43,080 Speaker 4: something that's far more not toxic positivity, because I think 1961 01:41:43,080 --> 01:41:46,160 Speaker 4: people always get off, you know, weird about that, but 1962 01:41:46,320 --> 01:41:49,080 Speaker 4: just something that says, this is the other thing that 1963 01:41:49,120 --> 01:41:50,640 Speaker 4: pops up, This is the alternative. 1964 01:41:50,640 --> 01:41:52,479 Speaker 3: This is what it looks like when you're healthy. 1965 01:41:52,720 --> 01:41:56,280 Speaker 4: This is what it looks like from somebody who's actually 1966 01:41:56,320 --> 01:41:59,840 Speaker 4: experiencing it, and not necessarily a professional, because what happens 1967 01:41:59,840 --> 01:42:03,000 Speaker 4: on social media is that even the most trained professional 1968 01:42:03,360 --> 01:42:08,920 Speaker 4: starts falling into the social media mindset, and then everything 1969 01:42:08,960 --> 01:42:12,120 Speaker 4: becomes about clips, and everything becomes about these short equips 1970 01:42:12,200 --> 01:42:16,719 Speaker 4: that that that are ultimately empty, so that a real 1971 01:42:17,240 --> 01:42:21,160 Speaker 4: or or uh uh, a psychologist or therapist outside of 1972 01:42:21,240 --> 01:42:24,040 Speaker 4: therapy has so much more to say that's not going 1973 01:42:24,080 --> 01:42:25,680 Speaker 4: to fit in one minute, and it's not going to 1974 01:42:25,720 --> 01:42:28,839 Speaker 4: fit in four hundred and eighty characters. So you're forced 1975 01:42:28,880 --> 01:42:34,320 Speaker 4: to condense your your teaching into whatever, into the into 1976 01:42:34,400 --> 01:42:38,439 Speaker 4: the into the culture of whatever uh social media site 1977 01:42:38,439 --> 01:42:41,439 Speaker 4: that you're using, and that completely dilutes it, and that 1978 01:42:41,479 --> 01:42:44,720 Speaker 4: completely loses the point of why you're supposed to be 1979 01:42:44,760 --> 01:42:45,639 Speaker 4: there in the first place. 1980 01:42:46,120 --> 01:42:49,240 Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, of course it makes sense. It's also 1981 01:42:49,280 --> 01:42:53,200 Speaker 2: that thing too, where like we talked earlier about the 1982 01:42:53,360 --> 01:42:57,200 Speaker 2: vaccine and vaccine hesitancy and stuff, and one of the 1983 01:42:57,240 --> 01:43:00,080 Speaker 2: things I forgot to mention was, like, the thing that 1984 01:43:00,080 --> 01:43:03,559 Speaker 2: that really harm, that's really scary about that shit is 1985 01:43:03,560 --> 01:43:08,000 Speaker 2: a death of expertise. Right, it's I'm going to Nicki minaj, 1986 01:43:08,160 --> 01:43:10,679 Speaker 2: I'm gonna avoid ninety You said when you talked about 1987 01:43:10,680 --> 01:43:12,840 Speaker 2: getting your son vaccinated, the first thing he did was 1988 01:43:12,920 --> 01:43:15,639 Speaker 2: call his doctor, right, which is what people say, call 1989 01:43:15,680 --> 01:43:18,760 Speaker 2: you talk to your physician, because we know ninety nine 1990 01:43:18,760 --> 01:43:20,639 Speaker 2: point ninety nine percent of them were gonna say, yeah, 1991 01:43:20,680 --> 01:43:23,720 Speaker 2: go get vaccinated. Here's I know your specific health chart 1992 01:43:23,760 --> 01:43:27,160 Speaker 2: and your issues, and here's why. But the same thing 1993 01:43:27,160 --> 01:43:29,679 Speaker 2: with social media when it comes to like so many 1994 01:43:29,680 --> 01:43:32,439 Speaker 2: other issues that really do affect people's lives outside of 1995 01:43:32,520 --> 01:43:36,760 Speaker 2: just their phone. The people on the people inside the 1996 01:43:36,800 --> 01:43:39,120 Speaker 2: phone can be the yes people like they can be 1997 01:43:39,240 --> 01:43:41,559 Speaker 2: like those people you talked about with Nikki, where they're 1998 01:43:41,600 --> 01:43:44,400 Speaker 2: just like, I got your back. What I know is 1999 01:43:44,400 --> 01:43:47,040 Speaker 2: support is to be a quote unquote stand And if 2000 01:43:47,040 --> 01:43:49,840 Speaker 2: it's a stand for you and your dozen followers, then 2001 01:43:50,160 --> 01:43:52,880 Speaker 2: then I'm this is what I believe is support. Sending 2002 01:43:52,880 --> 01:43:55,800 Speaker 2: you a cat that's support, telling you I'm sorry that 2003 01:43:55,840 --> 01:43:58,960 Speaker 2: happen to you is support. Retweet support, you know, that 2004 01:43:59,080 --> 01:44:01,880 Speaker 2: kind of thing to the point where you know, someone 2005 01:44:01,920 --> 01:44:06,000 Speaker 2: says your doctor told you you may need to lose 2006 01:44:06,040 --> 01:44:08,240 Speaker 2: weight because your blood pressure is hot, and they're like, 2007 01:44:08,479 --> 01:44:11,439 Speaker 2: your doctor's fat phobic and hates that they don't really 2008 01:44:11,479 --> 01:44:13,679 Speaker 2: know what's happening, and you're like, well, you didn't see 2009 01:44:13,680 --> 01:44:16,519 Speaker 2: my chart. No, like the person that's on my chart, 2010 01:44:16,920 --> 01:44:19,040 Speaker 2: this is what they told me, you know, And I 2011 01:44:19,080 --> 01:44:22,400 Speaker 2: think that can happen. The point being that can happen 2012 01:44:22,439 --> 01:44:25,320 Speaker 2: with TikTok too. Like TikTok is there to make you 2013 01:44:25,400 --> 01:44:30,160 Speaker 2: feel good. So is Facebook, so's Instagram. The side effects 2014 01:44:30,240 --> 01:44:33,599 Speaker 2: may make you feel bad, that's not their intention, but 2015 01:44:33,640 --> 01:44:36,680 Speaker 2: they're there to give you the click, the thing that 2016 01:44:36,720 --> 01:44:40,479 Speaker 2: the dopamine hit that keeps you going, and it is 2017 01:44:40,520 --> 01:44:43,599 Speaker 2: not designed for every type of brain, to be honest, 2018 01:44:43,680 --> 01:44:46,160 Speaker 2: So to them, they're like, there's a certain amount of 2019 01:44:46,200 --> 01:44:47,920 Speaker 2: people that are gonna see the same thing, and some 2020 01:44:47,960 --> 01:44:50,439 Speaker 2: people are gonna be like, oh my god, I love 2021 01:44:50,520 --> 01:44:52,320 Speaker 2: this the greatest thing, and then some people's brains are 2022 01:44:52,360 --> 01:44:55,479 Speaker 2: gonna be like this, this makes me feel terrible about 2023 01:44:55,479 --> 01:44:58,840 Speaker 2: my body and I don't like this, and they're gonna 2024 01:44:58,920 --> 01:45:01,080 Speaker 2: but you know what, the the site is gonna keep 2025 01:45:01,080 --> 01:45:02,960 Speaker 2: you clicking and you go to click the next thing 2026 01:45:03,000 --> 01:45:04,839 Speaker 2: that makes you feel bad about your body and stuff 2027 01:45:04,920 --> 01:45:07,559 Speaker 2: because everyone else is there. So I do think that 2028 01:45:08,040 --> 01:45:10,280 Speaker 2: there's my point being, I don't think there's a way 2029 01:45:10,800 --> 01:45:15,360 Speaker 2: for these sites to completely fix or address these issues. 2030 01:45:15,800 --> 01:45:18,599 Speaker 2: It has to be surface level because the site essentially 2031 01:45:18,760 --> 01:45:21,400 Speaker 2: is surface level. The good they do the good they 2032 01:45:21,400 --> 01:45:24,040 Speaker 2: do with surface level, and the bad they do is 2033 01:45:24,080 --> 01:45:27,400 Speaker 2: service level. So there is no fix that we can 2034 01:45:27,439 --> 01:45:31,680 Speaker 2: look at coming from these websites that were started with 2035 01:45:31,800 --> 01:45:35,400 Speaker 2: venture capitalist money and white dudes, straight white men like 2036 01:45:35,479 --> 01:45:36,439 Speaker 2: that ain't happening. 2037 01:45:38,040 --> 01:45:40,320 Speaker 3: But think about this. Think about this, like going back 2038 01:45:40,320 --> 01:45:43,240 Speaker 3: to the Instagram giving people blah blah blah. Imagine if 2039 01:45:43,280 --> 01:45:47,000 Speaker 3: Instagram said, and this happened with OnlyFans. But imagine if 2040 01:45:47,000 --> 01:45:50,960 Speaker 3: Instagram said, Okay, we're no longer going to allow profiles 2041 01:45:51,080 --> 01:45:58,120 Speaker 3: of scantily cloud women or people with UH or or 2042 01:45:58,240 --> 01:46:02,320 Speaker 3: or shirtlessless gym selfies or blah blah blah blah. Then 2043 01:46:02,360 --> 01:46:04,680 Speaker 3: it'd be a conversation about body shaming and trying to 2044 01:46:04,720 --> 01:46:08,160 Speaker 3: control people and and and and making people feel bad 2045 01:46:08,200 --> 01:46:10,000 Speaker 3: about their own bodies and dah dah dah dah. 2046 01:46:10,200 --> 01:46:13,840 Speaker 4: So there's no there's no winning for losing at all. 2047 01:46:14,200 --> 01:46:16,240 Speaker 4: So they You're right, the only thing they can. 2048 01:46:16,200 --> 01:46:21,080 Speaker 3: Do is make these cosmetic, uh, surface level changes, because 2049 01:46:21,280 --> 01:46:25,120 Speaker 3: anything that is more substantive what really needs to be done, 2050 01:46:25,200 --> 01:46:28,120 Speaker 3: is going to be It's going to it's going to 2051 01:46:28,560 --> 01:46:31,840 Speaker 3: force uh, it's going to have resistance for people. 2052 01:46:31,520 --> 01:46:37,720 Speaker 4: Who have decided that any good thing has a downside. 2053 01:46:38,000 --> 01:46:41,679 Speaker 11: Yeah, it'll be it will actually be work at that point, 2054 01:46:42,439 --> 01:46:45,639 Speaker 11: Like at that point they will it will require them 2055 01:46:45,680 --> 01:46:48,040 Speaker 11: to actually go into a business they didn't plan on 2056 01:46:48,120 --> 01:46:50,800 Speaker 11: going into like you know, the best they got for 2057 01:46:50,840 --> 01:46:54,200 Speaker 11: you is like I don't know on the better help that. 2058 01:46:54,120 --> 01:46:57,200 Speaker 2: App like we can direct you to this place, but 2059 01:46:57,280 --> 01:46:59,599 Speaker 2: they can't. I don't think they can fix these things 2060 01:46:59,600 --> 01:46:59,840 Speaker 2: from it. 2061 01:47:01,840 --> 01:47:05,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, they can't. And I really wish that, I really wish. 2062 01:47:05,120 --> 01:47:07,800 Speaker 4: That that that that there is more of an emphasis 2063 01:47:07,800 --> 01:47:13,040 Speaker 4: on taking responsibility for your own health. I know that 2064 01:47:13,040 --> 01:47:15,400 Speaker 4: that's not popular to say. I know that it's not 2065 01:47:16,240 --> 01:47:19,120 Speaker 4: you know, someone's gonna listen to this and you know 2066 01:47:19,520 --> 01:47:23,439 Speaker 4: at me to death on Twitter, but your mental health 2067 01:47:23,520 --> 01:47:26,519 Speaker 4: is your responsibility. You can ask for help, you can 2068 01:47:26,560 --> 01:47:29,920 Speaker 4: get help, you can be helped, but ultimately it is 2069 01:47:30,040 --> 01:47:32,920 Speaker 4: only up to you to make the changes or make 2070 01:47:33,000 --> 01:47:35,960 Speaker 4: the movements necessary to make your life healthier, to live 2071 01:47:35,960 --> 01:47:40,280 Speaker 4: a healthier life. In what you said, Rod too is 2072 01:47:40,560 --> 01:47:47,280 Speaker 4: super important. Everything isn't for everybody, right, It's not. Twitter 2073 01:47:47,360 --> 01:47:51,320 Speaker 4: can be very unhealthy. I've seen people spiral out. Nicki 2074 01:47:51,360 --> 01:47:55,000 Speaker 4: Minaj is spirally on Twitter right now. It would it 2075 01:47:55,040 --> 01:47:59,200 Speaker 4: would benefit her to put her phone down, not because 2076 01:47:59,200 --> 01:48:01,280 Speaker 4: someone said, oh I said, someone take her phone, but 2077 01:48:01,320 --> 01:48:02,160 Speaker 4: because it is. 2078 01:48:02,080 --> 01:48:04,160 Speaker 3: Not helping her. Clearly it's not helping her. 2079 01:48:04,400 --> 01:48:08,559 Speaker 4: She's spiraling we've seen other people who would benefit from 2080 01:48:08,600 --> 01:48:12,200 Speaker 4: putting their phone down, not on some like on some 2081 01:48:12,400 --> 01:48:14,920 Speaker 4: you know, trite like dismissive shit, but just like it 2082 01:48:15,000 --> 01:48:18,240 Speaker 4: is clearly not healthy for you to be in a 2083 01:48:18,680 --> 01:48:22,680 Speaker 4: place that only reinforces everything that you do and does 2084 01:48:22,720 --> 01:48:26,080 Speaker 4: not challenge you in any meaningful way. Or if you're challenged, 2085 01:48:26,120 --> 01:48:28,600 Speaker 4: you've decided that person is hater, is a hater, or 2086 01:48:28,680 --> 01:48:30,680 Speaker 4: is hating you, or doesn't want you to succeed, or 2087 01:48:31,160 --> 01:48:33,680 Speaker 4: or is your enemy and disguise or or all these 2088 01:48:33,680 --> 01:48:38,120 Speaker 4: different things. Like it is your responsibility and your responsibility only. 2089 01:48:38,200 --> 01:48:39,479 Speaker 3: To make sure that you're okay. 2090 01:48:39,840 --> 01:48:42,479 Speaker 4: And if you take that, if you remove the owners 2091 01:48:42,479 --> 01:48:44,799 Speaker 4: from yourself and place it in the hands of other people, 2092 01:48:45,120 --> 01:48:49,160 Speaker 4: you will never be okay because there's never any incentive 2093 01:48:49,520 --> 01:48:53,080 Speaker 4: for the world at large, the world at large, to 2094 01:48:53,120 --> 01:48:54,040 Speaker 4: be protective of you. 2095 01:48:54,160 --> 01:48:57,400 Speaker 3: It just doesn't work that way. It just doesn't right. 2096 01:48:57,600 --> 01:48:59,479 Speaker 5: And to pick it back on what you was saying, 2097 01:48:59,800 --> 01:49:03,400 Speaker 5: so social media is the opposite of responsibility if we're 2098 01:49:03,439 --> 01:49:07,200 Speaker 5: gonna keep it real. And so that's why they want 2099 01:49:07,240 --> 01:49:09,040 Speaker 5: you to be there, and they want you to stay there, 2100 01:49:09,040 --> 01:49:12,080 Speaker 5: and they want you to get immos immersed in their world, 2101 01:49:12,439 --> 01:49:14,880 Speaker 5: and it's up to you to determine how much you 2102 01:49:14,960 --> 01:49:17,400 Speaker 5: consume is up then it's sad, but it's up to 2103 01:49:17,439 --> 01:49:20,519 Speaker 5: you to determine. If it's an addiction, it's up to 2104 01:49:20,560 --> 01:49:23,080 Speaker 5: you to determine if it fees your depression, if it 2105 01:49:23,120 --> 01:49:26,040 Speaker 5: fees your anger, if it fees your sadness. It's like 2106 01:49:26,240 --> 01:49:28,720 Speaker 5: you have to pick up on these things on your 2107 01:49:28,760 --> 01:49:32,080 Speaker 5: own accord. And the thing is the site was never 2108 01:49:32,360 --> 01:49:39,160 Speaker 5: designed to be responsible for human behavior, and now people 2109 01:49:39,200 --> 01:49:42,920 Speaker 5: are demanding that the site be responsible for human behavior, 2110 01:49:43,160 --> 01:49:46,439 Speaker 5: which is something a calculator cannot predict because humans are 2111 01:49:46,479 --> 01:49:49,160 Speaker 5: always in X factor. You do not know how humans 2112 01:49:49,200 --> 01:49:52,040 Speaker 5: are ever gonna respond to anything, so there's no way 2113 01:49:52,080 --> 01:49:55,559 Speaker 5: they could put a calculator behind to calculate how people 2114 01:49:55,560 --> 01:49:58,519 Speaker 5: are going to respond to things. And the thing is 2115 01:49:58,800 --> 01:50:02,439 Speaker 5: social media allows people to use the excuse of social 2116 01:50:02,479 --> 01:50:05,680 Speaker 5: media to run away from responsibility. 2117 01:50:05,040 --> 01:50:08,320 Speaker 2: And the other thing a truly if you're finding the 2118 01:50:08,360 --> 01:50:11,160 Speaker 2: reason I don't that the reason I'm hesitant about it 2119 01:50:11,479 --> 01:50:14,439 Speaker 2: when it comes to people being supportive via social media 2120 01:50:15,040 --> 01:50:19,479 Speaker 2: is that the social media people that make it up 2121 01:50:19,479 --> 01:50:24,519 Speaker 2: as zeitgeist is fickled. So I like, I don't want 2122 01:50:24,600 --> 01:50:27,240 Speaker 2: you to you need to find your footing within yourself 2123 01:50:27,240 --> 01:50:30,519 Speaker 2: because if you find it there, I've seen it change 2124 01:50:31,200 --> 01:50:35,719 Speaker 2: so quickly. Yes, literally one thing changes. People go from 2125 01:50:35,800 --> 01:50:39,200 Speaker 2: like I'm rooting for you, you're the best, I love you, 2126 01:50:39,760 --> 01:50:42,720 Speaker 2: and then they find out you said something twenty years 2127 01:50:42,760 --> 01:50:46,720 Speaker 2: ago and then they're like, kill yourself. If your confidence 2128 01:50:46,800 --> 01:50:49,760 Speaker 2: is coming from there, then that means the things that. 2129 01:50:50,120 --> 01:50:52,280 Speaker 5: That are negative are going to come from there too. 2130 01:50:52,800 --> 01:50:55,640 Speaker 2: So you do want to find some more solid foundation, 2131 01:50:55,880 --> 01:50:58,040 Speaker 2: you know, it's it's why you for me, you know, 2132 01:50:58,080 --> 01:51:01,800 Speaker 2: I find that with my friends and my offline relationships 2133 01:51:01,880 --> 01:51:06,320 Speaker 2: and stuff like that, because that's solid. There's a there's 2134 01:51:06,360 --> 01:51:11,080 Speaker 2: a there's a buy in there between me and my 2135 01:51:11,120 --> 01:51:14,280 Speaker 2: friends that's like, hey, if we disagree on something, you 2136 01:51:14,320 --> 01:51:16,080 Speaker 2: don't become the worst person in the world to me. 2137 01:51:16,640 --> 01:51:20,559 Speaker 2: And there's a and and and you actually do exist. 2138 01:51:20,600 --> 01:51:24,840 Speaker 2: You don't go away right when when something like when 2139 01:51:25,160 --> 01:51:27,360 Speaker 2: when something happens in your life and I'm not a 2140 01:51:27,400 --> 01:51:29,360 Speaker 2: part of it, it's not like, well fuck it, you 2141 01:51:29,400 --> 01:51:31,200 Speaker 2: know what I mean, they got nothing to do with me. 2142 01:51:32,080 --> 01:51:34,800 Speaker 2: So I think that's a big that's a big difference 2143 01:51:34,960 --> 01:51:37,439 Speaker 2: in uh in the in and one of the reasons 2144 01:51:37,520 --> 01:51:40,519 Speaker 2: that I'm always a little hesitant to see social media 2145 01:51:40,560 --> 01:51:43,760 Speaker 2: as a solution because I've seen it be the downfall 2146 01:51:44,040 --> 01:51:45,000 Speaker 2: way too often. 2147 01:51:45,040 --> 01:51:47,120 Speaker 5: You look at what support looks like online. 2148 01:51:47,200 --> 01:51:52,640 Speaker 2: It's Shikari Richardson mom died. She's self sabotaged with marijuana, 2149 01:51:52,720 --> 01:51:55,920 Speaker 2: and we're like, there should be no rules on marijuana. 2150 01:51:55,960 --> 01:52:00,760 Speaker 2: We don't care about her. It's Naomiosaka says, hey, I'm 2151 01:52:00,760 --> 01:52:04,360 Speaker 2: having a mental fucking breakdown. I've had anxiety for years. 2152 01:52:04,840 --> 01:52:07,760 Speaker 2: I don't feel excited when I win at the thing 2153 01:52:07,800 --> 01:52:10,439 Speaker 2: I'm the greatest in the world, that I only feel relieved. 2154 01:52:11,080 --> 01:52:14,560 Speaker 2: We don't go that sounds like signs of possible clinical depression, 2155 01:52:14,840 --> 01:52:18,559 Speaker 2: and we don't say that. We go, uh, Lee, stop 2156 01:52:18,600 --> 01:52:20,519 Speaker 2: asking her courses at the press conference so she can 2157 01:52:20,520 --> 01:52:22,400 Speaker 2: go beat these white women and we can all pretend 2158 01:52:22,439 --> 01:52:26,240 Speaker 2: that everything's everything makes us feel good, and that kind 2159 01:52:26,280 --> 01:52:30,800 Speaker 2: of stuff isn't really support. And when you watch, when 2160 01:52:30,840 --> 01:52:33,320 Speaker 2: you watch the Internet turn on these people, you know, 2161 01:52:33,360 --> 01:52:37,200 Speaker 2: because the same Internet that makes Chloe Bailey feel like 2162 01:52:37,280 --> 01:52:39,400 Speaker 2: super happy is the same internet that makes her cry, 2163 01:52:39,680 --> 01:52:42,599 Speaker 2: same thing with Lizo. So so no, I don't think 2164 01:52:42,680 --> 01:52:45,120 Speaker 2: it's a good place to get a foundation. And like 2165 01:52:45,160 --> 01:52:49,040 Speaker 2: I said, I'm not against TikTok for bonism resources, but 2166 01:52:49,120 --> 01:52:51,280 Speaker 2: I'll be damned if I think like, oh, well, then 2167 01:52:52,040 --> 01:52:56,000 Speaker 2: obviously this will fix everything. Dum No, it won't even 2168 01:52:56,000 --> 01:52:57,120 Speaker 2: be a step in the right direction. 2169 01:52:58,520 --> 01:53:02,160 Speaker 3: Yeah. And I think we talked about this all the time, 2170 01:53:02,240 --> 01:53:08,760 Speaker 3: like being honest about why you're on these platforms, you know, 2171 01:53:09,000 --> 01:53:12,040 Speaker 3: Like I've been tweeting a lot the last couple of 2172 01:53:12,040 --> 01:53:14,800 Speaker 3: weeks because there's stuff having in my private life and 2173 01:53:14,880 --> 01:53:17,240 Speaker 3: I'm like, well, I want to talk about sad lasso, 2174 01:53:17,400 --> 01:53:20,080 Speaker 3: I want to talk about, you know whatever. I want. 2175 01:53:20,160 --> 01:53:24,320 Speaker 4: I want this space to provide a place for me 2176 01:53:24,360 --> 01:53:27,479 Speaker 4: to put some stuff that isn't personal, because I know 2177 01:53:27,560 --> 01:53:30,280 Speaker 4: it's not safe there, right and I know it's not 2178 01:53:30,400 --> 01:53:33,640 Speaker 4: safe there. I do not want it to live in 2179 01:53:33,720 --> 01:53:36,240 Speaker 4: this in this in this place. So I'm going to 2180 01:53:36,320 --> 01:53:40,640 Speaker 4: do with this space what makes sense for me and 2181 01:53:40,720 --> 01:53:44,599 Speaker 4: not put my my my well being good or bad 2182 01:53:45,040 --> 01:53:46,800 Speaker 4: into it. And I think that a lot of times 2183 01:53:46,840 --> 01:53:51,120 Speaker 4: when people come online and they say, oh, this is 2184 01:53:51,120 --> 01:53:53,320 Speaker 4: the only place that I feel blah blah blah, and 2185 01:53:53,360 --> 01:53:56,519 Speaker 4: I have to think about Okay, So that's a problem. 2186 01:53:57,120 --> 01:54:02,000 Speaker 4: If this thing that could literally go down like Jack 2187 01:54:02,080 --> 01:54:03,559 Speaker 4: could be like, fuck it, I don't want to do 2188 01:54:03,560 --> 01:54:07,759 Speaker 4: Twitter anymore and take this whole side down, or whoever 2189 01:54:07,800 --> 01:54:11,879 Speaker 4: owns TikTok, I can just take that down or whatever. 2190 01:54:12,360 --> 01:54:14,479 Speaker 4: If that is the only place that you have found 2191 01:54:15,000 --> 01:54:18,400 Speaker 4: in order to be or do anything, be it personal 2192 01:54:18,479 --> 01:54:22,200 Speaker 4: or business wise, then you really don't have anything. And 2193 01:54:22,200 --> 01:54:24,679 Speaker 4: that's something that you need to figure out for yourself. 2194 01:54:24,920 --> 01:54:27,639 Speaker 4: You need to figure out why you do not have 2195 01:54:27,680 --> 01:54:30,640 Speaker 4: friends outside of Twitter, why you don't have you know, 2196 01:54:31,520 --> 01:54:34,000 Speaker 4: a business or social life outside of that. 2197 01:54:34,320 --> 01:54:35,320 Speaker 3: It's no longer. 2198 01:54:36,200 --> 01:54:38,720 Speaker 4: I think it's gone from making fun of people who 2199 01:54:38,760 --> 01:54:42,840 Speaker 4: are always on the computer to making fun of people who. 2200 01:54:42,360 --> 01:54:49,200 Speaker 3: Who don't, you know, live their entire lives online. Right, Yeah, 2201 01:54:49,280 --> 01:54:50,560 Speaker 3: there's there's there's a middle place. 2202 01:54:50,600 --> 01:54:53,840 Speaker 4: If you're telling me that the only place that was 2203 01:54:53,920 --> 01:54:55,320 Speaker 4: something that I don't know what it was, and I 2204 01:54:55,320 --> 01:54:56,760 Speaker 4: think I might have shared it with you, right, Like 2205 01:54:57,040 --> 01:55:01,800 Speaker 4: somebody said something about like like they only oh it 2206 01:55:01,920 --> 01:55:04,680 Speaker 4: was that article I sent you about the woman who 2207 01:55:04,680 --> 01:55:07,840 Speaker 4: wrote about how she isn't a when to disclose all 2208 01:55:07,920 --> 01:55:14,520 Speaker 4: her chronic mental and physical issues on Hinder and yeah, 2209 01:55:14,760 --> 01:55:17,760 Speaker 4: and like my thing was like you are not entitled 2210 01:55:18,360 --> 01:55:23,600 Speaker 4: to people understanding or wanting to deal with you mentally 2211 01:55:23,680 --> 01:55:26,960 Speaker 4: or physically, it would be nice, but to put it 2212 01:55:27,000 --> 01:55:29,240 Speaker 4: on other people and say, if you don't want to 2213 01:55:29,280 --> 01:55:33,080 Speaker 4: deal with my borderline personality disorder, there's something wrong with you. 2214 01:55:33,680 --> 01:55:42,520 Speaker 3: But if I don't want deal with you, be come still. 2215 01:55:42,800 --> 01:55:45,640 Speaker 3: Like being in a bubble where people agree with a 2216 01:55:45,680 --> 01:55:48,800 Speaker 3: statement like that is not healthy because you can't take that. 2217 01:55:48,840 --> 01:55:49,200 Speaker 2: Out of. 2218 01:55:50,720 --> 01:55:53,760 Speaker 4: Your article or Twitter and put it into real life 2219 01:55:53,760 --> 01:55:56,200 Speaker 4: because you're not going to get that support in real 2220 01:55:56,240 --> 01:56:00,280 Speaker 4: life because it is it's untenable and it's unreasonable to 2221 01:56:00,360 --> 01:56:02,160 Speaker 4: want that from the world at large. 2222 01:56:02,520 --> 01:56:05,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, Yeah, I think I agree with you. Now 2223 01:56:05,520 --> 01:56:09,280 Speaker 2: I agree with you because I think that's but that's 2224 01:56:09,320 --> 01:56:12,200 Speaker 2: the environment we can create for ourselves online. So we 2225 01:56:12,240 --> 01:56:15,360 Speaker 2: can just make a world where it's like, yeah, everyone 2226 01:56:15,520 --> 01:56:21,800 Speaker 2: understands that if you're if you're having an outburst because 2227 01:56:22,080 --> 01:56:24,400 Speaker 2: of you're not taking care of your mental health and 2228 01:56:24,480 --> 01:56:27,919 Speaker 2: something happened and you did some horrible shit to somebody, 2229 01:56:28,480 --> 01:56:31,240 Speaker 2: they should just understand that's part of the deal. And 2230 01:56:31,440 --> 01:56:33,480 Speaker 2: we love you. We forgive you because we don't know 2231 01:56:33,520 --> 01:56:34,960 Speaker 2: this other person. We won't give a funk about them. 2232 01:56:35,240 --> 01:56:37,440 Speaker 2: We love you, and so everyone should love you and 2233 01:56:37,480 --> 01:56:41,600 Speaker 2: everyone and anybody that tells you that that they're not 2234 01:56:41,640 --> 01:56:44,160 Speaker 2: willing to deal with that they're ablest, or they're racist, 2235 01:56:44,240 --> 01:56:47,640 Speaker 2: or they're bigger or so you're like, yeah, but that 2236 01:56:47,640 --> 01:56:52,320 Speaker 2: then denies the entire real world, the real human experience, 2237 01:56:52,440 --> 01:56:55,200 Speaker 2: or just you know, that person might not be able 2238 01:56:55,280 --> 01:56:58,360 Speaker 2: to handle that, and there should be something there's something 2239 01:56:58,440 --> 01:57:01,040 Speaker 2: about the honesty of saying I can't handle that that 2240 01:57:01,120 --> 01:57:03,760 Speaker 2: should be respected anybody else. We call it a boundary, 2241 01:57:05,240 --> 01:57:07,240 Speaker 2: right because there's a lot of people. The thing that 2242 01:57:07,240 --> 01:57:08,840 Speaker 2: bothers me is there's a lot of people online that 2243 01:57:08,880 --> 01:57:11,360 Speaker 2: have the solutions, but that and my solutions, I mean 2244 01:57:11,480 --> 01:57:14,360 Speaker 2: had quotes that have all the solutions, but it never 2245 01:57:14,440 --> 01:57:15,160 Speaker 2: works right. 2246 01:57:15,160 --> 01:57:17,480 Speaker 5: It's always like I would know how to handle that. 2247 01:57:17,640 --> 01:57:17,800 Speaker 3: You know. 2248 01:57:17,840 --> 01:57:21,240 Speaker 2: You always see like, here's this hypothetical situation. See what 2249 01:57:21,320 --> 01:57:24,520 Speaker 2: I would do is I would go. Then you're like that, Okay, 2250 01:57:24,520 --> 01:57:27,400 Speaker 2: you've never been in this situation, you know, because this, 2251 01:57:27,760 --> 01:57:31,960 Speaker 2: you know, this also happens whenever someone does die by suicide, 2252 01:57:32,040 --> 01:57:36,240 Speaker 2: everyone posts all this subli like this is everyone else's fault. 2253 01:57:36,280 --> 01:57:39,600 Speaker 2: You don't check on your strong friends, or you weren't 2254 01:57:39,680 --> 01:57:42,320 Speaker 2: doing this, or someone dies from like addiction issues. 2255 01:57:42,680 --> 01:57:43,040 Speaker 3: This is. 2256 01:57:43,160 --> 01:57:46,480 Speaker 2: This is this person, this famous person is puff Daddy's fault. 2257 01:57:46,640 --> 01:57:50,000 Speaker 2: This is And you're like, I don't think you understand 2258 01:57:50,040 --> 01:57:53,560 Speaker 2: how any of that works. That like, puff Daddy can't 2259 01:57:53,640 --> 01:57:58,480 Speaker 2: make someone not do heroin. He can't make someone do heroin, right, 2260 01:57:58,600 --> 01:58:01,000 Speaker 2: So as long as we're just looking for someone to blame, 2261 01:58:01,080 --> 01:58:08,000 Speaker 2: we're not really addressing anybody's issues. Anyway. I think might 2262 01:58:08,000 --> 01:58:13,040 Speaker 2: have dropped. Oh hello there, Yeah, okay, your picture out, 2263 01:58:13,080 --> 01:58:16,240 Speaker 2: but you're there. Yeah, but don't worry about it. Don't worry. 2264 01:58:16,280 --> 01:58:18,160 Speaker 2: I'm about to wrap it up. Anyway. We've been talking 2265 01:58:18,160 --> 01:58:21,760 Speaker 2: two hours already, we had let's just we get to 2266 01:58:21,800 --> 01:58:22,440 Speaker 2: talk to them. 2267 01:58:22,640 --> 01:58:24,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, the time go by fast. 2268 01:58:24,320 --> 01:58:26,480 Speaker 2: We get to talking, we're having such a great time, 2269 01:58:26,920 --> 01:58:28,720 Speaker 2: and uh, next thing, you know, I look up and 2270 01:58:28,760 --> 01:58:30,560 Speaker 2: I'm like, I can't keep you here all day? 2271 01:58:32,160 --> 01:58:34,640 Speaker 3: But uh seen that long? 2272 01:58:34,840 --> 01:58:37,400 Speaker 2: It doesn't, it doesn't. I had, like, guess the race 2273 01:58:37,480 --> 01:58:39,760 Speaker 2: queued up and all this stuff, but I don't know that. 2274 01:58:40,040 --> 01:58:41,680 Speaker 2: We'll be probably getting to like two and a half 2275 01:58:41,760 --> 01:58:46,880 Speaker 2: hours by then. But listen, BOSSI, it's always so lovely 2276 01:58:46,960 --> 01:58:50,400 Speaker 2: to talk to you, and it's always I feel like 2277 01:58:51,800 --> 01:58:54,040 Speaker 2: I love you too, and I feel like, you know, 2278 01:58:54,160 --> 01:58:56,560 Speaker 2: sometimes I think people think because we don't we're not 2279 01:58:56,680 --> 01:59:00,640 Speaker 2: doing a podcast, we're not talking, and it's like, no, 2280 01:59:00,720 --> 01:59:02,600 Speaker 2: I'm just keeping all the bossy to myself. 2281 01:59:05,560 --> 01:59:10,000 Speaker 3: He talks literally every single day, all day every day, 2282 01:59:10,280 --> 01:59:13,360 Speaker 3: Like Rod is my for real friend. 2283 01:59:13,400 --> 01:59:16,160 Speaker 4: We've never met, so all the shit I just. 2284 01:59:16,120 --> 01:59:19,280 Speaker 3: Said, ignore it. Yes, we've never ever met in person. 2285 01:59:19,480 --> 01:59:21,160 Speaker 2: And I support everything. 2286 01:59:21,080 --> 01:59:23,800 Speaker 4: All the time. He's a person I support. 2287 01:59:24,080 --> 01:59:26,440 Speaker 2: I support everything she does, even when it's bad. I 2288 01:59:26,480 --> 01:59:27,480 Speaker 2: tell her it's good. 2289 01:59:27,960 --> 01:59:31,680 Speaker 3: And everything that I say. 2290 01:59:32,000 --> 01:59:35,640 Speaker 4: He never goes against anything. I'm always forcing him to. 2291 01:59:35,560 --> 01:59:36,240 Speaker 3: Retweet me. 2292 01:59:38,800 --> 01:59:42,120 Speaker 2: Her behalf like he does. 2293 01:59:42,920 --> 01:59:45,200 Speaker 4: He goes into people's d MS, cuts him out for 2294 01:59:46,240 --> 01:59:50,480 Speaker 4: he dos his people for me. No, but like whatever, 2295 01:59:50,800 --> 01:59:54,000 Speaker 4: Like there's always a moment when I'm like getting too 2296 01:59:54,040 --> 01:59:57,200 Speaker 4: caught up in something and I will take the tweet, 2297 01:59:57,360 --> 01:59:59,480 Speaker 4: send it to Rod and be like should delete this 2298 01:59:59,560 --> 02:00:03,760 Speaker 4: and He'll be like yeah, deleted or and I'm like 2299 02:00:03,840 --> 02:00:06,160 Speaker 4: all right, Like that's that's the kind of friends we are, 2300 02:00:06,720 --> 02:00:08,720 Speaker 4: Like there's never gonna be some dumb shit that get 2301 02:00:08,800 --> 02:00:11,640 Speaker 4: caught up in because because we won't allow it. 2302 02:00:11,880 --> 02:00:15,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like honestly, and plus I think when you have 2303 02:00:15,320 --> 02:00:18,800 Speaker 2: all the incriminating screen shots on each other. It's like 2304 02:00:18,960 --> 02:00:22,640 Speaker 2: mutual understanding. It's like mutually assured destruction. 2305 02:00:22,760 --> 02:00:24,760 Speaker 5: We don't need y'all know, we really think about these 2306 02:00:24,800 --> 02:00:27,680 Speaker 5: mother fuckers, y'all. Y'all gonna be going down, all right. 2307 02:00:28,120 --> 02:00:31,880 Speaker 2: So yeah, but no, obviously, it's always a joy to 2308 02:00:31,920 --> 02:00:36,680 Speaker 2: talk to you, and we do plan on recap and insecure, 2309 02:00:37,760 --> 02:00:40,760 Speaker 2: so you will get some more of this too much. 2310 02:00:40,840 --> 02:00:44,400 Speaker 2: I know we've been getting a lot of questions and 2311 02:00:44,400 --> 02:00:47,520 Speaker 2: and all that stuff, but you know what, it's fine. 2312 02:00:48,160 --> 02:00:50,640 Speaker 2: We'll look forward to the future when we're back and 2313 02:00:50,680 --> 02:00:54,160 Speaker 2: we're talking about condoling that damn baby. 2314 02:00:54,360 --> 02:01:01,800 Speaker 3: Okay, all right, Well, how often I forget and then 2315 02:01:01,840 --> 02:01:05,040 Speaker 3: I remember, like I wh yeah, if. 2316 02:01:04,920 --> 02:01:06,720 Speaker 2: I hit me, I'm like, you want to recap this? 2317 02:01:06,800 --> 02:01:10,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, you want to recap this because I do, 2318 02:01:11,320 --> 02:01:13,480 Speaker 2: you know, I'm always down the clown, but I'm like, 2319 02:01:14,200 --> 02:01:16,400 Speaker 2: you show because I feel like we're gonna have a 2320 02:01:16,440 --> 02:01:21,080 Speaker 2: lot of like our long rants about. 2321 02:01:21,440 --> 02:01:25,200 Speaker 3: Honestly, honestly, I might not even say I'd be like, 2322 02:01:25,200 --> 02:01:28,880 Speaker 3: all right, this is a condola section, and Rod is 2323 02:01:28,920 --> 02:01:29,440 Speaker 3: gonna take that. 2324 02:01:29,720 --> 02:01:32,720 Speaker 2: It's just gonna be me describing it, and you will 2325 02:01:32,760 --> 02:01:36,160 Speaker 2: get back. Yeah, so she brought the baby by Lawrence's 2326 02:01:36,200 --> 02:01:38,720 Speaker 2: house and then he wasn't home, so then she had 2327 02:01:38,760 --> 02:01:40,840 Speaker 2: to go home. She seemed pretty upset. So then in 2328 02:01:40,880 --> 02:01:43,640 Speaker 2: this scene he said, Lawrence go out to dinner. 2329 02:01:43,680 --> 02:01:47,720 Speaker 5: It's like, it's like, oh, Bossie's back, all right, we'll 2330 02:01:47,760 --> 02:01:48,160 Speaker 5: be back. 2331 02:01:49,520 --> 02:01:52,440 Speaker 4: Well, you know what, go ahead, we have Insecure and 2332 02:01:52,480 --> 02:01:55,800 Speaker 4: then Atlanta, Yes, and come back when it comes back, 2333 02:01:55,960 --> 02:01:56,520 Speaker 4: comes back. 2334 02:01:57,120 --> 02:01:59,760 Speaker 3: So we're like, is what Atlanta comes back? 2335 02:01:59,760 --> 02:02:02,600 Speaker 4: And twenty twenty two, but so does by the time 2336 02:02:02,760 --> 02:02:07,440 Speaker 4: Insecure finishes, then Atlanta and this is us we'll start 2337 02:02:08,000 --> 02:02:08,360 Speaker 4: let's go. 2338 02:02:09,080 --> 02:02:13,880 Speaker 2: So and if listening, if you're down to recap any 2339 02:02:13,880 --> 02:02:15,160 Speaker 2: of it, you know, I'll make the time. 2340 02:02:15,480 --> 02:02:18,160 Speaker 3: So I wish we could have done ted Lasso, but 2341 02:02:18,160 --> 02:02:19,440 Speaker 3: there's not enough black people in it. 2342 02:02:20,840 --> 02:02:25,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, that joint. And I started the other two and 2343 02:02:25,520 --> 02:02:28,120 Speaker 2: I was like, it's a lack of melon and on 2344 02:02:28,160 --> 02:02:30,520 Speaker 2: the show. But I still enjoy I still enjoy both. 2345 02:02:30,520 --> 02:02:32,360 Speaker 5: Oh so, so y'all got a rude and it got 2346 02:02:32,360 --> 02:02:33,040 Speaker 5: to be Melanitz. 2347 02:02:33,280 --> 02:02:35,240 Speaker 3: When did you start? When did you start the other two? 2348 02:02:35,720 --> 02:02:39,000 Speaker 2: Today? I just started watching like the first couple of ourselves. 2349 02:02:39,360 --> 02:02:41,440 Speaker 2: But yeah, and obviously. 2350 02:02:41,120 --> 02:02:43,480 Speaker 3: One of the shows this sneaks up on you. It 2351 02:02:43,560 --> 02:02:44,240 Speaker 3: sneaks up on you. 2352 02:02:44,360 --> 02:02:46,840 Speaker 2: Oh no, I heard nothing but good things. And I'm 2353 02:02:47,280 --> 02:02:52,160 Speaker 2: I don't mind white people shows, honestly, I'll be low key. 2354 02:02:52,760 --> 02:02:54,960 Speaker 2: I honestly like them a little bit better sometimes because 2355 02:02:55,640 --> 02:02:58,840 Speaker 2: the lack of stress is gone. Like with black s 2356 02:02:59,120 --> 02:03:03,280 Speaker 2: is always like this weird kind of representational, Like even 2357 02:03:03,320 --> 02:03:05,680 Speaker 2: if I don't feel it, does this like what these 2358 02:03:05,760 --> 02:03:08,400 Speaker 2: niggas gonna say about it on Facebook or whatever, and 2359 02:03:08,400 --> 02:03:10,560 Speaker 2: it's this way. I don't have to feel that way. 2360 02:03:10,600 --> 02:03:13,440 Speaker 2: I'm just like, Okay, Emily's in Paris. Okay, we're doing this. 2361 02:03:13,680 --> 02:03:15,680 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. Let's move on. 2362 02:03:17,320 --> 02:03:20,360 Speaker 3: We talked about The Morning Show and like people were 2363 02:03:20,360 --> 02:03:21,680 Speaker 3: telling me not to watch it was. 2364 02:03:21,600 --> 02:03:23,920 Speaker 4: So traumatic, and I was like, did I not watch it? 2365 02:03:23,960 --> 02:03:25,880 Speaker 3: I thought I watched the first season, but y'all are 2366 02:03:25,880 --> 02:03:28,200 Speaker 3: telling me there was traumatic. And then I went back 2367 02:03:28,520 --> 02:03:29,640 Speaker 3: when I started watching the. 2368 02:03:31,160 --> 02:03:35,160 Speaker 4: Recapitalist season premiere, I was like, I remember all the 2369 02:03:35,200 --> 02:03:38,080 Speaker 4: shit that happened. It just happened that Like it's like 2370 02:03:38,160 --> 02:03:40,760 Speaker 4: we want representation, like we want to just be in 2371 02:03:40,880 --> 02:03:43,520 Speaker 4: some shit, but then when we were in it, we 2372 02:03:44,280 --> 02:03:47,520 Speaker 4: ascribe all this racial politics to it. When it's like 2373 02:03:48,280 --> 02:03:50,680 Speaker 4: if a white bitch was in this role and died, 2374 02:03:51,120 --> 02:03:52,320 Speaker 4: nobody would say anything. 2375 02:03:52,360 --> 02:03:54,600 Speaker 3: It's just the way that it is like part of 2376 02:03:54,640 --> 02:03:57,200 Speaker 3: the plot, Like why does it? Why are we putting 2377 02:03:57,240 --> 02:03:59,640 Speaker 3: extra sauce on it to make it traumatic for us? 2378 02:03:59,640 --> 02:04:02,360 Speaker 3: Like why be traumatized so bad? Yeah? 2379 02:04:02,400 --> 02:04:06,280 Speaker 2: I don't, Yeah, I don't think people really want representation 2380 02:04:06,360 --> 02:04:09,960 Speaker 2: as much as they want aspirational roles for people they 2381 02:04:09,960 --> 02:04:13,960 Speaker 2: want they want Like if like this happens so often 2382 02:04:14,040 --> 02:04:16,360 Speaker 2: with Twitter, I just now just laugh at it and 2383 02:04:16,400 --> 02:04:19,520 Speaker 2: I don't even engage. But it's if you introduce a 2384 02:04:19,560 --> 02:04:23,040 Speaker 2: black character on any level in a show and they're 2385 02:04:23,080 --> 02:04:27,040 Speaker 2: not the main character, people will then attach themselves so 2386 02:04:27,160 --> 02:04:29,600 Speaker 2: much to that character that they're like, this is the 2387 02:04:29,640 --> 02:04:33,640 Speaker 2: main character. Regardless of everything, the writing, the plot, the billing, 2388 02:04:33,760 --> 02:04:38,160 Speaker 2: the casting, the pay, everything, everything is saying, this person 2389 02:04:38,240 --> 02:04:40,480 Speaker 2: is the B or SEA level character in this show. 2390 02:04:40,880 --> 02:04:43,720 Speaker 2: No longer I'm black and I've decided that this is 2391 02:04:43,800 --> 02:04:46,800 Speaker 2: her show or his show. And then it becomes like 2392 02:04:47,160 --> 02:04:49,720 Speaker 2: they can't have a B or C level plot, like 2393 02:04:50,640 --> 02:04:52,840 Speaker 2: you know, which happens in everything. We're like the main 2394 02:04:52,920 --> 02:04:55,360 Speaker 2: character has an arc, but then the supporting characters have 2395 02:04:55,400 --> 02:04:57,880 Speaker 2: different arcs, and there's not They're not gonna ever put 2396 02:04:57,920 --> 02:05:00,160 Speaker 2: as much time in their arcs. They're never gonna get 2397 02:05:00,480 --> 02:05:03,320 Speaker 2: the same level of resolution as the other characters. They 2398 02:05:03,400 --> 02:05:08,240 Speaker 2: will be uh there to to assist in the role 2399 02:05:08,480 --> 02:05:10,800 Speaker 2: in the in the in the title characters thing right, 2400 02:05:11,400 --> 02:05:13,840 Speaker 2: and these niggas do It's like they never heard of 2401 02:05:13,840 --> 02:05:16,880 Speaker 2: a TV show before. They really be like, what she 2402 02:05:17,080 --> 02:05:20,720 Speaker 2: didn't win? And then tell her, white bitch, this is 2403 02:05:20,800 --> 02:05:22,840 Speaker 2: my show actually, And I'm really. 2404 02:05:25,360 --> 02:05:27,080 Speaker 3: No, what gets me? What gets me? 2405 02:05:27,240 --> 02:05:29,920 Speaker 4: Just when they're like, oh, so, she's only there to 2406 02:05:30,040 --> 02:05:34,360 Speaker 4: make sure that the white main character her storyline gets resolved. 2407 02:05:34,920 --> 02:05:38,800 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, what a meek And you know what else? 2408 02:05:39,280 --> 02:05:43,600 Speaker 2: So is so is every other character. Like, it's not 2409 02:05:43,680 --> 02:05:46,360 Speaker 2: just something that only the black character does. It's like 2410 02:05:46,880 --> 02:05:50,200 Speaker 2: and so does the boyfriend, and so does her boss 2411 02:05:50,240 --> 02:05:52,080 Speaker 2: at work, and so does. 2412 02:05:51,840 --> 02:05:55,480 Speaker 5: Her like up to the roommate. 2413 02:05:55,720 --> 02:05:59,000 Speaker 2: Every character that is not the main character is there 2414 02:05:59,440 --> 02:06:01,600 Speaker 2: to impart art some sort of thing to the story 2415 02:06:01,600 --> 02:06:03,640 Speaker 2: of the main character. That's just what it is. And 2416 02:06:03,680 --> 02:06:07,680 Speaker 2: I think when it's all black people sometimes people relax more. 2417 02:06:07,720 --> 02:06:11,360 Speaker 2: Where it's like, well, I can be mad at Molly, 2418 02:06:11,800 --> 02:06:14,040 Speaker 2: but there's twenty seven black people on this show. But 2419 02:06:14,120 --> 02:06:16,920 Speaker 2: when there's one black person, it's almost said about Kelly. 2420 02:06:17,440 --> 02:06:18,640 Speaker 3: They get upset about Kelly. 2421 02:06:18,680 --> 02:06:22,400 Speaker 4: How many times people decide that Kelly should have should 2422 02:06:22,480 --> 02:06:25,880 Speaker 4: be the main character when she's not, And the and. 2423 02:06:25,840 --> 02:06:28,480 Speaker 3: The actress who is also the writer, has said, this is. 2424 02:06:28,400 --> 02:06:31,440 Speaker 4: Not Kelly's story, this is about Molly and Issa, But 2425 02:06:31,480 --> 02:06:33,920 Speaker 4: it doesn't stop people from deciding that she should be 2426 02:06:33,960 --> 02:06:36,280 Speaker 4: the one who has all the storylines and right teaching 2427 02:06:36,480 --> 02:06:39,360 Speaker 4: horticulture children, or I don't never forget that. 2428 02:06:39,440 --> 02:06:44,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think when those kind of people watch a 2429 02:06:44,080 --> 02:06:48,080 Speaker 2: black show, they get mad about every character. When they 2430 02:06:48,120 --> 02:06:50,160 Speaker 2: watch a white show with a black person, they get 2431 02:06:50,200 --> 02:06:52,720 Speaker 2: mad about the black persons. Where you're just like, oh, 2432 02:06:52,960 --> 02:06:54,919 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I thought I was talking to a reasonable 2433 02:06:54,920 --> 02:06:57,600 Speaker 2: person who had watched TV before. I actually don't want 2434 02:06:57,600 --> 02:07:00,560 Speaker 2: to talk to you about this at all. I'm gonna 2435 02:07:00,600 --> 02:07:04,440 Speaker 2: keep my thoughts to myself about The Morning Show. But yeah, 2436 02:07:04,640 --> 02:07:07,080 Speaker 2: I forgot that it was back. I love season one 2437 02:07:07,160 --> 02:07:09,120 Speaker 2: so much, so I gotta get back on that, and 2438 02:07:09,160 --> 02:07:11,920 Speaker 2: I gotta start watching this season to ted Lasso, because 2439 02:07:12,080 --> 02:07:15,160 Speaker 2: I was behind everybody else and Binge the first season 2440 02:07:15,240 --> 02:07:18,360 Speaker 2: and thought it was brilliant. I hear this season is 2441 02:07:18,360 --> 02:07:18,960 Speaker 2: week by week. 2442 02:07:19,000 --> 02:07:20,800 Speaker 3: It only get better, is it? 2443 02:07:20,840 --> 02:07:23,000 Speaker 2: So it's week by week it's. 2444 02:07:22,920 --> 02:07:23,920 Speaker 3: Always been week by week. 2445 02:07:23,960 --> 02:07:28,360 Speaker 4: I didn't Roger's seen it the first season of the 2446 02:07:28,400 --> 02:07:31,120 Speaker 4: Morning Show, so I just thought, oh, it's coming back, 2447 02:07:31,200 --> 02:07:35,000 Speaker 4: I'm gonna watch it all. But it's week by week? 2448 02:07:35,600 --> 02:07:39,080 Speaker 2: Is it? Is it over already? No? 2449 02:07:39,360 --> 02:07:41,120 Speaker 3: It's uh the Ted Last. 2450 02:07:43,480 --> 02:07:47,080 Speaker 4: Ted Lasso is I think we just did episode nine. 2451 02:07:47,920 --> 02:07:51,440 Speaker 3: It's almost and there's three more. There's three more episodes. 2452 02:07:51,440 --> 02:07:54,120 Speaker 4: There's three more episodes because they had a ten season. 2453 02:07:54,520 --> 02:07:57,480 Speaker 4: They had ten ten episodes mapped out, and then Apple 2454 02:07:57,600 --> 02:08:00,000 Speaker 4: asked for two more, so there are a couple of 2455 02:08:00,440 --> 02:08:03,160 Speaker 4: bottle episodes with The show is so well done that 2456 02:08:03,240 --> 02:08:05,920 Speaker 4: even the battle episodes are connected, and like you would 2457 02:08:05,920 --> 02:08:08,280 Speaker 4: never think that they didn't have these already planned out, 2458 02:08:08,640 --> 02:08:09,520 Speaker 4: but there. 2459 02:08:09,200 --> 02:08:11,520 Speaker 3: You can, you'd be able to tell. But it just 2460 02:08:11,600 --> 02:08:12,600 Speaker 3: it connects so well. 2461 02:08:13,040 --> 02:08:16,800 Speaker 4: People were talking about like episode five, people were talking 2462 02:08:16,840 --> 02:08:18,440 Speaker 4: about it wasn't as good as the first, but it's 2463 02:08:18,480 --> 02:08:22,080 Speaker 4: like your expectations are exactly what this show is about. 2464 02:08:22,520 --> 02:08:25,560 Speaker 4: Like you wanted it to be about something else and 2465 02:08:25,600 --> 02:08:28,040 Speaker 4: they're telling you it's not. But you can't deal with that, 2466 02:08:28,200 --> 02:08:30,560 Speaker 4: Like you want to say it's bad instead of going 2467 02:08:30,560 --> 02:08:32,640 Speaker 4: with what it actually it is. 2468 02:08:32,680 --> 02:08:35,200 Speaker 3: But it's so it's such a good show. It quickly 2469 02:08:35,240 --> 02:08:36,320 Speaker 3: became my favorite show. 2470 02:08:36,800 --> 02:08:38,920 Speaker 2: Oh man, yeah, I love. I watched the season one 2471 02:08:38,920 --> 02:08:40,680 Speaker 2: and was like in love with the show. I was 2472 02:08:40,680 --> 02:08:43,040 Speaker 2: just like, oh, this is amazing, this is even that. 2473 02:08:43,040 --> 02:08:44,800 Speaker 2: This one of a few times y'all said something was 2474 02:08:44,840 --> 02:08:48,680 Speaker 2: good and you're delivered, you know what I mean, Like 2475 02:08:48,680 --> 02:08:50,880 Speaker 2: like it was like, it actually is good. It's not 2476 02:08:50,960 --> 02:08:55,200 Speaker 2: just like preachy bullshit, although I do. I really wish 2477 02:08:55,440 --> 02:08:57,840 Speaker 2: the people who loved it would stop just selling it 2478 02:08:57,880 --> 02:09:01,480 Speaker 2: as this kind of weird tox positivity thing because it's 2479 02:09:01,480 --> 02:09:04,440 Speaker 2: it's actually not. Yes, it's not. 2480 02:09:05,760 --> 02:09:07,280 Speaker 3: People are like, oh, it's so wholesome. 2481 02:09:07,320 --> 02:09:11,600 Speaker 2: I'm like, no, I mean, I guess I'm like a 2482 02:09:11,600 --> 02:09:12,720 Speaker 2: lot of fucked up. It's not. 2483 02:09:13,160 --> 02:09:14,160 Speaker 3: It's like if I told. 2484 02:09:13,960 --> 02:09:16,040 Speaker 2: You the plotline and left out all the jokes, it's 2485 02:09:16,080 --> 02:09:18,879 Speaker 2: not wholesome at all, like at all. 2486 02:09:20,920 --> 02:09:21,560 Speaker 3: At all. 2487 02:09:22,240 --> 02:09:25,640 Speaker 2: It's like this Nigga is dealing with like the denial 2488 02:09:25,760 --> 02:09:29,120 Speaker 2: of his divorce and fucking his family separating. 2489 02:09:29,840 --> 02:09:29,960 Speaker 6: Uh. 2490 02:09:30,480 --> 02:09:33,760 Speaker 2: The owner of the team is a woman who's also 2491 02:09:33,840 --> 02:09:37,520 Speaker 2: going through a womanizing divorce, like a divorce of a 2492 02:09:37,560 --> 02:09:42,160 Speaker 2: womanizer who who is really low key rubbing her nose 2493 02:09:42,200 --> 02:09:46,360 Speaker 2: in this ship, and Roy is dealing with aging and 2494 02:09:46,440 --> 02:09:48,440 Speaker 2: a sport that gets rid of you as soon as 2495 02:09:48,440 --> 02:09:50,720 Speaker 2: you like your knees creak a little bit. Jamie's a 2496 02:09:50,800 --> 02:09:55,840 Speaker 2: fucking raging narcissist who's trying to learn some level of it. 2497 02:09:55,840 --> 02:09:57,840 Speaker 3: Has has an abusive father. 2498 02:09:58,160 --> 02:10:00,760 Speaker 5: Yes, yes, what are. 2499 02:10:00,680 --> 02:10:01,560 Speaker 2: You talking about? 2500 02:10:01,640 --> 02:10:03,760 Speaker 5: I don't know what they had like. 2501 02:10:03,800 --> 02:10:04,920 Speaker 2: This ship is telling Tubby. 2502 02:10:05,040 --> 02:10:07,040 Speaker 4: The first couple of episodes, I will let you get 2503 02:10:07,040 --> 02:10:09,240 Speaker 4: away with it. But after a while it's like, are 2504 02:10:09,280 --> 02:10:11,160 Speaker 4: you joking? This show is dark? 2505 02:10:11,320 --> 02:10:15,960 Speaker 2: Right, it's so good? Oh man, all right, that's someone asked. 2506 02:10:16,160 --> 02:10:19,480 Speaker 2: Someone said, when we get into this rabbit hole, And uh, honestly, 2507 02:10:19,520 --> 02:10:21,360 Speaker 2: I didn't think we would, but I was wrong and 2508 02:10:21,400 --> 02:10:24,000 Speaker 2: you were right. So if you're on Twitter, go ahead 2509 02:10:24,000 --> 02:10:26,040 Speaker 2: patch yourself on the back. You know us better than 2510 02:10:26,040 --> 02:10:28,920 Speaker 2: I knew ourselves. And we'll be back tomorrow. Justin will 2511 02:10:28,960 --> 02:10:30,880 Speaker 2: be the guest, and then Tuesday, Mike Lawrence will be 2512 02:10:30,880 --> 02:10:34,320 Speaker 2: the guest. Wednesday is our Walking Dad recap, and Thursday 2513 02:10:34,400 --> 02:10:37,480 Speaker 2: is our live show. Don't forget. You can get tickets 2514 02:10:37,560 --> 02:10:40,960 Speaker 2: in the show notes. Okay, come out support, look at 2515 02:10:40,960 --> 02:10:42,000 Speaker 2: it virtually. 2516 02:10:41,720 --> 02:10:43,520 Speaker 5: And y'all are getting them tickets. 2517 02:10:43,560 --> 02:10:47,720 Speaker 2: Thank you so much, Yes, y'all, thank you. 2518 02:10:48,080 --> 02:10:50,520 Speaker 3: I told Rod that they should fly me out. That's 2519 02:10:50,560 --> 02:10:51,360 Speaker 3: a surprise guest. 2520 02:10:51,440 --> 02:10:55,240 Speaker 2: They really should. But I was like, we already had 2521 02:10:55,280 --> 02:10:55,840 Speaker 2: invited to. 2522 02:10:55,880 --> 02:11:01,880 Speaker 4: Guests, but maybe maybe next time, you know, going down 2523 02:11:01,680 --> 02:11:02,480 Speaker 4: him down. 2524 02:11:02,480 --> 02:11:06,840 Speaker 2: Because listen, they like, we're selling enough tickets for them 2525 02:11:06,880 --> 02:11:09,840 Speaker 2: to be treating us nice and ship they. 2526 02:11:09,440 --> 02:11:13,160 Speaker 5: Wave we sell enough tickets, but they waving feed. Don't 2527 02:11:13,160 --> 02:11:13,680 Speaker 5: worry about that. 2528 02:11:13,800 --> 02:11:15,840 Speaker 2: They were like, they were like because I was like, 2529 02:11:15,920 --> 02:11:17,840 Speaker 2: don't forget we need the projector and the guy. The 2530 02:11:17,880 --> 02:11:20,240 Speaker 2: guy was like, yeah, that's five hundred dollars fee and stuff. 2531 02:11:20,240 --> 02:11:22,320 Speaker 2: I was like, out of our side. And then I 2532 02:11:22,360 --> 02:11:23,920 Speaker 2: was like, I was like, let me ask one of 2533 02:11:23,920 --> 02:11:25,560 Speaker 2: the guys and he's like, oh no, we got that. 2534 02:11:25,920 --> 02:11:28,360 Speaker 2: And he was like anything y'all need backstage? I was like, 2535 02:11:28,440 --> 02:11:30,960 Speaker 2: I guess just water and snacks, and I thought about 2536 02:11:30,920 --> 02:11:33,040 Speaker 2: I was like, actually, you know, how about some some 2537 02:11:33,160 --> 02:11:35,240 Speaker 2: crime royal. He's like, yeah, we got that. 2538 02:11:35,320 --> 02:11:38,720 Speaker 3: Get a writer, you gotta get I'm about to be eating. 2539 02:11:39,960 --> 02:11:41,800 Speaker 3: Come on, let's go, come on. 2540 02:11:41,920 --> 02:11:43,720 Speaker 5: Put him M and M's on a missed Rail. I 2541 02:11:43,760 --> 02:11:44,760 Speaker 5: love missing M and MS. 2542 02:11:44,800 --> 02:11:48,760 Speaker 2: Now all right, y'all, we'll talk to you tomorrow. Until then, Bossie, 2543 02:11:48,920 --> 02:11:52,440 Speaker 2: I love you, I love you, Bossy we love you, 2544 02:11:52,600 --> 02:12:00,440 Speaker 2: and Karen I love you. Love you. Oh, because we 2545 02:12:00,480 --> 02:12:03,880 Speaker 2: threw Bossy up and it became like a way kind 2546 02:12:03,880 --> 02:12:07,800 Speaker 2: of hairlin worst of joint. 2547 02:12:07,920 --> 02:12:09,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, this is like you woul't want to dream. 2548 02:12:09,840 --> 02:12:12,880 Speaker 2: It became some weird, it got it got too awkward 2549 02:12:12,960 --> 02:12:16,280 Speaker 2: and weird. The whole the whole orgy is called. 2550 02:12:16,240 --> 02:12:18,120 Speaker 5: Yeah we we Yeah, we don't know how to act 2551 02:12:18,160 --> 02:12:20,280 Speaker 5: when other people get involved. My bad bossing. 2552 02:12:20,400 --> 02:12:21,840 Speaker 2: Okay, until next time. I love it. 2553 02:12:21,960 --> 02:12:22,800 Speaker 5: I love it, dude, fly