1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,600 Speaker 1: Buggle up, hold on tight, We got it for you. Here. 2 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:06,400 Speaker 1: It is the strong Mary letta subject he wants me, 3 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:10,560 Speaker 1: but not the children. Here Stephen Shirley, I am a 4 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: forty nine year old female married to a forty nine 5 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 1: year old man. We have five children and five grandchildren. 6 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:23,239 Speaker 1: Here is the problem my current husband. I have five 7 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 1: children and five grandchildren. Okay, okay, here is the problem. 8 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:33,239 Speaker 1: My current husband is not the father of my children. 9 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: I married this man when my children were young, so 10 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 1: he's been in their lives for a very long time. 11 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 1: My youngest son just graduated from high school and we'll 12 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:45,320 Speaker 1: be going away for college. So now my husband thinks 13 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 1: that we are done raising children and from now on 14 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:50,639 Speaker 1: it will be just the two of us. He has 15 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 1: said that he that we don't have to worry about 16 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 1: the kids anymore because they are all grown and have 17 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 1: their own lives. So am I not supposed to? So 18 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 1: am I'm not supposed to be involved with my children 19 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 1: since they are no longer living at home. My children 20 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 1: range from ages thirty two to eighteen years old, and 21 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 1: all five of them live in different states. I want 22 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 1: to see them and my grandkids as often as I can. 23 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,960 Speaker 1: In fact, I'd like to move closer to them. My 24 00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:20,120 Speaker 1: husband does not want anything to do with them period. 25 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 1: He doesn't want to visit them, and he doesn't want 26 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 1: them to visit us. He said that they don't need 27 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:30,399 Speaker 1: to come for the holidays. What the hell he really 28 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 1: thinks that because they are adults, I am supposed to 29 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 1: forget that they exist. I understand that these are are 30 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:40,839 Speaker 1: golden years and we should be enjoying quality time together 31 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 1: and traveling the world, but our travels should also include 32 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 1: trips to see my children. If he's really serious, I 33 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 1: may have to spend my golden years alone. Stephen Shirley, 34 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 1: can you please help me? Well, Uh, your letters started 35 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:56,919 Speaker 1: off nicely, so I'll put it like this. Your husband, 36 00:01:56,960 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 1: I'm sure it feels like he's done his job and over. 37 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 1: These were not his kids. He raised them anyway, He's 38 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 1: been in their lives, uh since they were really young. 39 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 1: So he's done and uh not being their biological debt. 40 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 1: Like I said, the ties are cut. He has no 41 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 1: connection really to them. It seems um Uh, he cut 42 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 1: them off and his concentration is now on you and 43 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 1: you guys the future together. He wants to live. He 44 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:24,640 Speaker 1: wants to live his life, you know, and and do 45 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:27,519 Speaker 1: all of those things. But now I think that he's 46 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: being very unrealistic when he says the children he doesn't 47 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 1: want the kids to come and see you, or he 48 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 1: doesn't want you to go see the kids. How is that? 49 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 1: I mean, really that that's a bit unrealistic, especially if 50 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 1: it makes you happy to see your kids. You're his wife. 51 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 1: He should want to see you happy and do those 52 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 1: things that make you happy. I mean, it's very unrealistic 53 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 1: to say that. He really thinks that because they're adults, 54 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: you're supposed to forget that they exist. No, that that's 55 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:58,640 Speaker 1: not the issue, and he knows that's not the issue. Um, 56 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:01,040 Speaker 1: they are grown and they are living their own lives. 57 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:03,919 Speaker 1: That part is definitely true. But you guys got to 58 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: come to some kind of uh compromise in terms of 59 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 1: when you see the kids and when you go see 60 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 1: the kids, even if you just go by yourself, you 61 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 1: have to see your kids. These are your kids, Steve, 62 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 1: you're a parent. Now he wants me, but not the children, Okay, 63 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 1: that I can relate to. I don't won't mind either though, 64 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 1: And on any day between the seven month you can 65 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: come get folks just like that so that much. I understand, 66 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 1: But we are parents. You're forty nine, your man's forty nine. 67 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 1: You got five children and five grandkids. Uh, he's not 68 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 1: the fault of the kids. Your youngest son just graduated 69 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 1: high school going away to college. So now your husband 70 00:03:57,000 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 1: thinks that we've done raising children and from now need 71 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 1: to just be the two of us. He has says 72 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 1: that we don't have to worry about the kids no 73 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 1: more because they all grown and have their own lives. Okay, 74 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 1: are you kidding me? You really think that's how it goes? 75 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 1: Do you know that you are a parent for life, 76 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 1: for life. You may not be a husband or a 77 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 1: wife for life, but once you become a parent, you're 78 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 1: a parent for life. Now, there are some good ones 79 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:29,719 Speaker 1: out there, and they are some bad ones out there. 80 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 1: I got it, you, sir, about to turn into a 81 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 1: bad one because you don't get it. You are in 82 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 1: your golden year, as you said that late in the letter. 83 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 1: Your kids are from thirty two d eighteen. All of 84 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:43,680 Speaker 1: them live in different states, and you want to see 85 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:46,840 Speaker 1: your kids and your grandkids. A matter of fact, you 86 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:50,359 Speaker 1: want to move closer to him. Your husband don't want 87 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:54,040 Speaker 1: nothing to do with them paid. He doesn't want to 88 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:57,720 Speaker 1: visit them, and he doesn't want them to visit us. 89 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 1: He says, they don't need to come for the holiday. 90 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 1: That's what the lady type, don't need to come for 91 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:09,920 Speaker 1: the holidays. What the hell? What the hell is right? 92 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:15,679 Speaker 1: Come on, man, are you for real? Bro? You're gonna 93 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 1: just act like you never met these people? Like you? You? 94 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:24,359 Speaker 1: They meant nothing? He going to college. I said, he 95 00:05:24,480 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 1: gotta come home right. He's not ready to live on 96 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 1: his own. And I got that. The kids range from 97 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 1: thirty two to eighteen. Man, do you know how much 98 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 1: advice they need? So how much help they need? Financial 99 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 1: support they need? Come on, man, that ain't how this work. Man? 100 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: Are you crazy? And he don't want them to bet 101 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 1: he don't want him to come for the holidays. What 102 00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:51,840 Speaker 1: the hell? He thinks that because they are adults, I'm 103 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:54,719 Speaker 1: supposed to forget that they exist. That's the craziest part 104 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 1: of them. You gotta be nuts. It doesn't work that way. 105 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:01,720 Speaker 1: It's crazy for you to think that. Come on, man, 106 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 1: I understand that these are golden years. You ain't before 107 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 1: the nine hell golden years. But if that's how you 108 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 1: want to look at it, okay, cool, and that we 109 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:16,599 Speaker 1: should be enjoying quality time together and traveling the world. 110 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 1: Plays should also include trips to see my children. If 111 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 1: he's really serious, I may have to spend my golden 112 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 1: years along. What you say, Steve, I said, well, the 113 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:37,039 Speaker 1: youngest one and graduated, and the boy is five kids, 114 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 1: none of them he is now he's going while they graduated. 115 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:45,280 Speaker 1: They're going. We threw it they out. He's saying, no, 116 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 1: they have their own lives. They're adults. They should be 117 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 1: able to make it on their own. I want to 118 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 1: see my grandkids. Is offer that can It's what the 119 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:55,000 Speaker 1: woman says. In fact, I want to move closer to him. 120 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 1: My husband doesn't want anything to do with them period. 121 00:06:57,320 --> 00:06:59,920 Speaker 1: He don't want to visit them. He don't want to 122 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 1: him to visit us. He said they don't need to 123 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 1: come for the holiday to him, and lady said what 124 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 1: to him, No, we don't come for the holidays. What 125 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 1: is Christmas about? He really thinks that because they're adults, 126 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 1: I'm supposed to forget they exist. I understand that these 127 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:20,880 Speaker 1: are golden years and we should have been enjoying quality 128 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 1: time together and traveling the world. But I traveled playing 129 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 1: to the called trips to see my children. He's really serious. 130 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 1: I may have spend my golden years along Stephen Sherley. 131 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:32,280 Speaker 1: Can you please help me? He wants to check out. 132 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 1: In essence, he wants to check out. He wants to 133 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 1: say that I've done my duty. I raised these kids 134 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 1: to the best of my ability. I've contributed, and now 135 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 1: they're gone. That's it. I'm chilling. I wish that was 136 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 1: the case. But honey, why don't you want to see 137 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:57,240 Speaker 1: the kids. I mean that something happen. We've already seen 138 00:07:57,280 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 1: the kids. Well, yeah, you've seen since they were young. 139 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 1: I mean, and they live their own lives now. I 140 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 1: saw all I needed to see when they was here. 141 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 1: I'm todd. I've been working, paying Bill Punkin to college 142 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 1: and were covering up dream I bought the board, a 143 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 1: carbon machine all that, and honey, we appreciate it so much. 144 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 1: But these are my kids. I have to see them 145 00:08:20,080 --> 00:08:24,120 Speaker 1: on the holidays. That's what the holidays of four families. Holiday, Yes, 146 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 1: family like Thanksgiving, like Christmas, like Thanksgiving like Christmas. We 147 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 1: ain't going down there. I've already made arrangements for them 148 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 1: to come here here, here to the house that I'm 149 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:42,880 Speaker 1: you know, getting the big Christmas tree and everything. They're 150 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 1: just got ready to We just got rid of the 151 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 1: damn boy and he are you inviting them back for? 152 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 1: They don't think we won't. Well, he has to have 153 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 1: somewhere to go when he's out of school for Christmas 154 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:54,600 Speaker 1: break school? Are we? He downed that one of the 155 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 1: me in the national school? But he I want him 156 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:01,840 Speaker 1: to come home. I missed them. I carried them for 157 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:05,520 Speaker 1: nine months. This is my blood. So you raised and 158 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 1: the kid to be none but chump. He's a great kid. 159 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 1: He's in college now. Great kids were let for herself 160 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:18,360 Speaker 1: make it. You know he ain't gonna get a job. Wow, 161 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:21,000 Speaker 1: I don't understand. I mean you were so good with 162 00:09:21,040 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 1: them when they were young and helping me raise them. 163 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:28,200 Speaker 1: Now all of a sudden, it's like, who are I 164 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: don't know? You just counting the day? What do you 165 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:33,839 Speaker 1: mean you were counting the day until they got out 166 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 1: of this house? But you were so good. They call 167 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:44,840 Speaker 1: you daddy, You're not even there. She won't call me 168 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 1: daddy called. They can't find that. Well, you know, I 169 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:53,439 Speaker 1: just wanted to let you know that I really appreciate 170 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:55,480 Speaker 1: that you were there for me, there for my kids. 171 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 1: I know you do. Baby, I appreciate now. I want 172 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:00,280 Speaker 1: you to be here for me. Well, I am here you, 173 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:04,120 Speaker 1: but I'm also all the time all that the mom 174 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 1: days over with. No, the mom days are never over with. 175 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:12,320 Speaker 1: They is they're gone. No, they're not they No, they're 176 00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 1: not call you keeping fighting them back leaving where the girl. 177 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:19,840 Speaker 1: These are my kids and this is my house too. 178 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 1: They're coming home for the holidays. Okay, I put my 179 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:29,559 Speaker 1: foot down and we're fight them back over for the holidays. 180 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:33,079 Speaker 1: It's just being here. We ain't gonna will be able 181 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 1: to put a tree up. We're gonna put a tree 182 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 1: up right over there. But when you put a tree 183 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:42,199 Speaker 1: up over there and then all these people coming to 184 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:46,240 Speaker 1: the house, we will be decorated. It's just five kids 185 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 1: and five grandkids and their people. Look at the little room. Well, 186 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 1: then maybe we need a bigger house because I'm not 187 00:10:53,400 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 1: getting rid of my kids. Bigger house. Yes, it's a 188 00:10:57,120 --> 00:11:04,000 Speaker 1: bigger house, girl, the girl. We can finally got all 189 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:05,560 Speaker 1: the people out of here only here. We need a 190 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:09,320 Speaker 1: big house. It's just for a few days during the holiday's. Honey, 191 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 1: you don't want to send Christmas carols? Yeah, no, matter 192 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 1: fact I won't just how stage saying s so they 193 00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:19,200 Speaker 1: already outgrowed it. And who's gonna we need a bigger house? 194 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 1: Who's gonna help me cook? That's what we love doing that, 195 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:25,600 Speaker 1: me and the girls cooking together well, preparing Christmas dinner 196 00:11:25,600 --> 00:11:30,960 Speaker 1: and Thanksgiving dinner. Huh, you ain't never been cool. We're 197 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:39,200 Speaker 1: gonna stop your damn Joe that you don't try to 198 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 1: slide in and you can cook. We're gonna end damn 199 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 1: woman and the letter can cook letter try to slide in? 200 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:48,559 Speaker 1: And who's gonna help you cool? That what we've been 201 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 1: trying to find out? Sit two thousands. I don't know 202 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 1: what the little Mexican man he set to his name, 203 00:11:58,240 --> 00:12:02,560 Speaker 1: nest the black dude? S are you Steve? Are you 204 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:04,720 Speaker 1: still the man in the letter? Make up your mind? 205 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 1: I'm my man, inter But what you try to slide 206 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 1: in with a cooking compliment by yourself? And I don't 207 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 1: even let you do it now? Surely you can't cook? 208 00:12:16,160 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 1: Gonna help me cook? Anybody? I'm speaking as the woman 209 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:25,439 Speaker 1: in the letter husband who hates kids now like dam 210 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:29,679 Speaker 1: and why is that? What did they do to you 211 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 1: that I don't know about? Because it seems like to me, 212 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 1: you were getting along fine with them because you was 213 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:40,680 Speaker 1: never there. You never knew what was going on behind them. 214 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 1: Does what did they gang up on you or something 215 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 1: to say? You're not having that one night and that board. 216 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:47,000 Speaker 1: The eighteen year old boy he caught me on my 217 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 1: side and he climbed up on and he was choking me. 218 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 1: Oh wow, Yes, you didn't go about Tony. This is 219 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 1: gonna be so much fun. Come on now for a 220 00:12:57,160 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 1: few days. No, okay, I can I can't do it, Okay, 221 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:07,480 Speaker 1: I can't mess on my holiday, missile. What am I 222 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 1: supposed to say when they asked me where's their dad? 223 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 1: Where's dad? And that you know they call you dad, 224 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 1: where's daddy? Huh? What am I supposed to say? You 225 00:13:19,320 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 1: ain't gonna say nothing called they ain't gonna be in here? 226 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:24,840 Speaker 1: All right, we gotta go, We gotta get out of here. 227 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 1: Email us or Instagram. That's your thoughts on today's Strawberry 228 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:30,959 Speaker 1: Letter at Steve Harvey f Emer, you can go to 229 00:13:31,040 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 1: my girl. Sure like you're listening to the Steve Harvey 230 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:34,800 Speaker 1: Morning Show