Speaker 1: Second date, up date. Every guy wants to know the
Speaker 1: secret for how to meet gorgeous women every time you
Speaker 1: go out. Okay, and everybody would want to know what
Speaker 1: that secret was.
Speaker 2: A secret find the gorgeous ladies too.
Speaker 3: Where are we at?
Speaker 1: It's actually really easy just be hot, rich, or foreign,
Speaker 1: any one of those, preferably all three. But if you're
Speaker 1: just one, you shouldn't even have to try. Well, the
Speaker 1: thing is I get if you're not any of those, Alexis,
Speaker 1: don't say you don't worry. There's still hope because one
Speaker 1: of our listeners says he figured out a simple trick
Speaker 1: that allows any man to easily meet the hottest girls
Speaker 1: at the club every night. Says it works for him,
Speaker 1: but apparently he might have to hang up his trick
Speaker 1: for good because he thinks he may have found a really,
Speaker 1: really special lay. That's why he needs our help. So
Speaker 1: let's talk to Wes. Wes, welcome to the show man.
Speaker 4: Hey, thanks for having me.
Speaker 3: Okay, I love hearing these tricks from a guy perspective.
Speaker 2: Really, I'm always like skeptical because it's like a club
Speaker 2: and there's tricks like.
Speaker 3: I want to hear it.
Speaker 1: Okay, and Wes can you confirm you're not foreign, hot
Speaker 1: or rich.
Speaker 4: I mean, I can't out hot saying I wouldn't say
Speaker 4: I'm on the rich.
Speaker 1: All right, so this would work for anybody. What's your
Speaker 1: secret you're going to share with us?
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I'm gonna give a pointer out of folks. Okay,
Speaker 4: so this is the thing you gotta think psychology, Right,
Speaker 4: So I try and find a place where most women go.
Speaker 3: That's a good thing to do before you try to
Speaker 3: meet a woman. I like it so far.
Speaker 1: Where most women go.
Speaker 4: Most women go to clubs. So you see a lot
Speaker 4: of women in clubs, right because they.
Speaker 1: Get Step one, go to the club. Okay, I think
Speaker 1: everyone's doing Step one.
Speaker 2: I don't know if you can find a club that's
Speaker 2: all dudes, tell me because I'll be there.
Speaker 1: Well, it's probably they're probably not into you, brother, You're
Speaker 1: definitely You're smoother than I thought you would be. So
Speaker 1: keep going. Now you're at the.
Speaker 4: Club, all right. So we're at the club. Got tons
Speaker 4: of women there. What all women want?
Speaker 1: Money?
Speaker 3: Drinks?
Speaker 4: You free drink. But I thought I'm going there. I
Speaker 4: got you definitely not rich, but if you got to
Speaker 4: give some kind of incentives. So what I do is
Speaker 4: I go to the bar. I turned my back to
Speaker 4: the bartender, so I see all the women coming towards me.
Speaker 4: They're coming for me. So instead of me having to
Speaker 4: go and find them, approach them that coming towards me.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you block the bar well event towards her.
Speaker 2: They're just in line, pushing the You're blocking everyone.
Speaker 1: In his mind, they're coming towards there, like I.
Speaker 3: See a gap.
Speaker 1: Go co Well. I mean that sounds funny, but I
Speaker 1: can see in like in a psychology way, you're kind
Speaker 1: of tricking yourself into not being scared.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, so it's working better on you than women
Speaker 3: so far.
Speaker 1: Okay, confidence. Sure, So how do you get the women
Speaker 1: to actually like engage with you and not push you
Speaker 1: out of the way to get to the bar without
Speaker 1: having to buy ten drinks?
Speaker 4: So this is the deal. I say that it's my birthday,
Speaker 4: and I asked them if they like to do a
Speaker 4: shot with oh birthday shot.
Speaker 2: Birthday shot shot means that your your interaction with them
Speaker 2: is usually about twenty five seconds long.
Speaker 3: So I would say yes to though, because that's perfect totally.
Speaker 4: I mean, that's the open line. Maybe we get into conversation,
Speaker 4: you know, usually try some kind of compliment.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, So the trick is to lie to them
Speaker 2: and tell them it's your birthday.
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm a young old dude, like I do
Speaker 4: this everywhere I go, and you know, it works, like
Speaker 4: ninety nine percent of the time. It works at least
Speaker 4: get a conversation going. Maybe that leads to a damn
Speaker 4: dance floor. Maybe that brings me over to the rest
Speaker 4: of the girlfriends. But once I'm in, I'm in.
Speaker 2: Okay, birthday day.
Speaker 3: Who's the special one that you're in with?
Speaker 1: Yeah, you said you met a special girl using this tactic.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I met this girl named Tina. She had
Speaker 4: the birthday shot with me. She started asking me what
Speaker 4: I'm doing for the weekend I'm celebrating. Learned a little
Speaker 4: bit about her, she learned a little bit about me.
Speaker 4: It was a vibe. We made out.
Speaker 3: Again. You're at a club, Like, what else do you do? Like,
Speaker 3: I mean, my fat days.
Speaker 2: Are over, but like free shots and making out with
Speaker 2: randos on the dance Yeah.
Speaker 1: Okay, but you're being kind of a hater on you
Speaker 1: to day.
Speaker 3: I'm just saying it's not that much different than it
Speaker 3: used to be.
Speaker 1: Jeff I think this is great. It's working for you.
Speaker 1: Clearly you met this great girl. Tina had a perfect
Speaker 1: connection with her. So how did that night end?
Speaker 4: It was real often to connection. Like I said, we
Speaker 4: made out text a little bit the next day, try
Speaker 4: to planned something, but she stopped returning my text.
Speaker 3: Okay, do you have any idea why?
Speaker 4: I have no idea why. Like I said, I've been
Speaker 4: doing this for a while, I'm ready to meet the
Speaker 4: one and I actually was genuinely interested in what she
Speaker 4: had to offer and what we talked about and whatnot.
Speaker 1: All right, we're going to give this all that we have,
Speaker 1: right Brooke?
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I mean club, you know how it goes.
Speaker 2: Actually, I'm rooting for you, man, like I think it's
Speaker 2: that you met somebody that you think is really special.
Speaker 2: I just don't need you to be disappointed if she
Speaker 2: wasn't taking it as seriously as you were.
Speaker 1: And at least you have the trick. Even if she
Speaker 1: doesn't like you, you can you got.
Speaker 3: The icebreaker trick. She gave you her number, that's a
Speaker 3: good sign.
Speaker 1: And she kissed well again, sorry for good. That's not
Speaker 1: a big thing.
Speaker 4: I make out with a lot of women doing this,
Speaker 4: Like he had happen, but they're not a lot that
Speaker 4: I get into a good conversation and get a phone
Speaker 4: number with and like have a genuine vibe with. Like,
Speaker 4: you know, quick and easy as one thing, but quality
Speaker 4: is something different.
Speaker 3: Yeahs out.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, Well let's call this quality woman Tina will
Speaker 1: come back and get you your second date update, so
Speaker 1: you can retire this trick forever, or at least till
Speaker 1: next Friday. We're gonna do it right after this second
Speaker 1: date update. It's not easy for the average guy to
Speaker 1: meet a woman nowadays on the apps or out in
Speaker 1: the wild. Yeah, you gotta be sneaky and kind of
Speaker 1: smart about it, like our listener West, Jeff, you don't
Speaker 1: surprise ladies by jumping up. Tactical Maybe that's a better word.
Speaker 1: Our listener West said he uses a trick. It's kind
Speaker 1: of a psychology hack when he goes out to the
Speaker 1: clubs where he puts his back to the bartender so
Speaker 1: it looks like the women are approaching him instead of
Speaker 1: the bar.
Speaker 3: Come to beautiful and when he sees.
Speaker 1: One that meets his standards, just like a crouching tiger,
Speaker 1: he pounces and says, hey, it's my birthday. You want
Speaker 1: to have a free shot to celebrate.
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, I mean the word free and there really
Speaker 2: helps that statement.
Speaker 1: And even though he's been using that trick for who knows,
Speaker 1: maybe months or years, it sounds like he says he
Speaker 1: finally found a special lady named Tina who he could
Speaker 1: see having maybe more than just a dance floor makeup.
Speaker 1: He likes her, he does, so, Brook, how are we
Speaker 1: going to help him pull this off today?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 2: I don't think we're going to reveal that he's been
Speaker 2: trying a trick for years and then it finally.
Speaker 3: Worked on her.
Speaker 1: You know, that's a good point, unless Wes wants us
Speaker 1: to bring that up with.
Speaker 3: I got you, Wes, I got your back all right?
Speaker 1: Okay, another tactical move on our part.
Speaker 3: How are you feeling right now?
Speaker 1: Wes?
Speaker 4: I mean, you know, like I said, I'm at a
Speaker 4: point where I want to meet the one and I'm
Speaker 4: feel a little vultable right now. I'm ready to get
Speaker 4: his going.
Speaker 1: Okay, well maybe this will help. I want you to
Speaker 1: picture yourself with your back to a virtual bar right now,
Speaker 1: and let's pretend that it's your birthday today. Yeah, he
Speaker 1: already chilled out a little bit let's call Tina here.
Speaker 1: Let's see if she picks up. Hopefully we can get
Speaker 1: some answers from her. Here we go, Hello, Hey, Hey,
Speaker 1: is this Tina Smooth Jeff?
Speaker 3: Oh no, that's what I was thinking to say. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm pushing Jeff aside to get to the bar.
Speaker 1: I had something in my throat. I was trying not
Speaker 1: to cough. He sorry, Tina, are you there?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Who is this?
Speaker 4: Sorry?
Speaker 3: It's a lot of us.
Speaker 1: Yeah. This is a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the Morning.
Speaker 5: It's who what is this?
Speaker 1: We're Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. We're a radio
Speaker 1: show and you're on it right now on a second
Speaker 1: been called a second date Update. Hey, which is awesome,
Speaker 1: she says, Okay, I the skepticism. So it's actually a
Speaker 1: really cool thing that we do where we try and
Speaker 1: help our listeners get back in touch with someone after
Speaker 1: they went on a date or they met out somewhere
Speaker 1: and had a really nice time together. And that was
Speaker 1: the case with you and a guy named Wes. Oh Wes. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you met each other out at the bars one night
Speaker 1: and it was Wes's birthday. So you guys took like
Speaker 1: a celebratory shot together and ended up vibing and pretty
Speaker 1: much hanging out all night time.
Speaker 5: Well, I thought he was a good guy. He was
Speaker 5: that moise kind of talker that I like, and he
Speaker 5: dressed really nice and I like that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, the tape keep going.
Speaker 3: I'm do you know how this conversation started?
Speaker 1: You know we're talking to teen or now all that
Speaker 1: sounds really positive?
Speaker 3: Yeah, what happened?
Speaker 5: Well, I've got friends that have had really bad experiences
Speaker 5: with guys, like you can never really tell what the
Speaker 5: deal is.
Speaker 3: You mean, just women who date men?
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, yes, that's what I mean. So I went
Speaker 5: on Facebook and I went to a page Are we
Speaker 5: dating the same guy?
Speaker 3: Jeez? Well toxic. I don't know if you can believe
Speaker 3: anything that's on there.
Speaker 1: Well, for people that don't know, what is that.
Speaker 5: It's a Facebook page that women go on and they
Speaker 5: post pictures of guys that other women should be suspect of.
Speaker 2: But you don't know, like, you don't know if these
Speaker 2: women have been like jolted or you.
Speaker 3: Know, like my cousin cousin dated him and it's cruel,
Speaker 3: Like there's cruel stuff I see.
Speaker 1: So so you're saying you went on there and saw
Speaker 1: Wes somewhere.
Speaker 5: Yes, it's his picture us on there, and there were commons. Oh,
Speaker 5: I took a shot with him on his birthday and clearly, yeah,
Speaker 5: the same exact thing. I guess he has more than
Speaker 5: one birthday.
Speaker 3: Well, isn't that amazing? Who can have birthday? It's impressive.
Speaker 2: Yes, technology, you didn't like that he was using that
Speaker 2: to meet you?
Speaker 5: Oh oh no, I did not like that at all,
Speaker 5: you know. And I'm still going out to the clubs,
Speaker 5: but I certainly am looking for a long term relationship.
Speaker 5: I don't have time for games.
Speaker 1: Well, so is Wes. Wes said that he wants a
Speaker 1: long term thing too.
Speaker 3: Is that's the worst thing that I was sai about him?
Speaker 3: I've seen meaner stuff on there.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And sometimes some people like they take their birthday
Speaker 1: and they stretch it out for like a whole week
Speaker 1: time or a whole month and it's like my birthday month.
Speaker 1: Maybe that's what was going on.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know either. The only way to find out
Speaker 1: is to have you actually talk to Wes about it
Speaker 1: birthday And wouldn't you know, he's listening right now on
Speaker 1: the other phone line, waiting to talk to you.
Speaker 4: Eight hie.
Speaker 5: Hey, hey, I didn't know you're on the other line.
Speaker 4: Well how you going?
Speaker 5: I mean, oh yeah, listen, I just had to look
Speaker 5: into a little bit more west because you are a
Speaker 5: smooth moving guy, you know. So I went on this
Speaker 5: page and there are other women out there saying, oh,
Speaker 5: I had a birthday shot with him too, like two
Speaker 5: months ago. Oh you have more than one birthday.
Speaker 4: I mean, busted, it's happened. Look, I am at a
Speaker 4: point in my life where I am trying to change things.
Speaker 4: I really enjoyed the time that we had. I really did.
Speaker 4: So that's what I told Broke in the crew, that
Speaker 4: I enjoyed the time we had. And I was thinking,
Speaker 4: there's other things that you don't know about me that
Speaker 4: I would like you to know, like, oh, I don't
Speaker 4: like putting my business out there like that, but I'm
Speaker 4: actually a wealthy guy.
Speaker 1: Oh wait, no, come on, hold on, wait a second.
Speaker 1: Let's see where this goes.
Speaker 5: You're wealthy.
Speaker 4: I actually am doing well. I've got a car dealership
Speaker 4: that's been doing well, and sometimes I do own two
Speaker 4: of them, yes, two?
Speaker 3: How do you only sometimes own a car dealership? Wise,
Speaker 3: he owns one?
Speaker 2: Tell her. What you know that you met this amazing woman,
Speaker 2: that you had this connection that you've never had with
Speaker 2: anybody else before, and you're so excited about it.
Speaker 1: Boo, talk more about the car.
Speaker 4: Why can't both things be true? You know what?
Speaker 5: I don't know like I am. Maybe I'm not at
Speaker 5: that place where I'm looking for a long term Maybe
Speaker 5: I'm just looking for a guy who's got a bucker.
Speaker 3: Are you?
Speaker 1: Are you saying that you don't believe him about the
Speaker 1: cars or do you know?
Speaker 5: What I'm saying at this point is I don't care
Speaker 5: if he's willing to take me out one date, spend
Speaker 5: money on.
Speaker 1: Me, and make out again.
Speaker 2: All he had to say was I'm rich and I
Speaker 2: sometimes own two car dealerships.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to understand where your mind is at.
Speaker 4: We don't need to understand anything. We just need to
Speaker 4: go out.
Speaker 1: But no, okay, I don't know how either.
Speaker 3: He shy you free drinks?
Speaker 1: Well, officially, we'd like to offer to send you two
Speaker 1: out on a date. Oh, this is perfect. This is
Speaker 1: his birthday in a couple of days, Yeah, birthday, No,
Speaker 1: it comes up every.
Speaker 5: Month, broke, No, it's today, it's today.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well in honor of his birthday today, would you
Speaker 1: like to meet up with Wes one more time and
Speaker 1: we would pay for the date?
Speaker 5: Absolutely not. I just scam him like he scammed me.
Speaker 1: Wait, oh my god, what's going on here?
Speaker 4: I mean, did you not get it? Like I said,
Speaker 4: I'm rich.
Speaker 5: It's nobody believes that, just like every girl on that
Speaker 5: Facebook page.
Speaker 3: Why do I feel like his picture is getting posted
Speaker 3: a second time?
Speaker 1: Ya Forbes? That's where it's going to be, Bionaire.
Speaker 4: I'm really thrown right now, you know, Like I said,
Speaker 4: it's not every day that I'm vulnerable and put myself
Speaker 4: out there and actually trying. Thank you, I think.
Speaker 2: So, Okay, let's just remember you weren't totally honest with her.
Speaker 1: Just because he wasn't rich at the start of the
Speaker 1: call and then he was rich by the end doesn't
Speaker 1: mean that he's not being honest. Brous a lot, bro Yes,
Speaker 1: ten million dollars can come and go into accounts all
Speaker 1: the time.
Speaker 3: You know, Do I have a color dealership? Brooke and
Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: Wow, was she a hundred times smarter than most of
Speaker 1: the people we have on this show? Or a thousand
Speaker 1: times smarter?
Speaker 3: You mean smarter than us, because I totally fell for it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we all know, if I'm recapping what just happened.
Speaker 1: She knew about his little trick that he had been
Speaker 1: running at the bars, and then once she figured out
Speaker 1: he was on the phone, instead of just turning him down,
Speaker 1: she had to mess with him and mess with him
Speaker 1: big time, mess with all of us.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, that was brutal.
Speaker 2: I mean, he was just trying to meet somebody, that's
Speaker 2: all he was trying to do.
Speaker 3: I mean he did lie a little bit.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think she believed the Facebook posts a little
Speaker 1: bit too intense.
Speaker 2: I need to know how many comments were on it,
Speaker 2: you know it people saying it or like fine, that's
Speaker 2: a good point.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So I mean I was so excited when she
Speaker 1: was saying yes, a little confused, sure, but excited, and
Speaker 1: then we all got crushed.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Looks like not all internet fame is good fame.
Speaker 5: Oh you know, I.
Speaker 1: Never would have thought that. Weird, But you know what,
Speaker 1: we can always try and help you with your love life.
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