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Nephew's subject his mom is allowing him to 11 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 1: cheat on me. Dear Stephen Shirley, My mother in law 12 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: is a trip and I think she is allowing my 13 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:41,200 Speaker 1: husband to bring randomwomen over to her house to hang 14 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 1: out and do whatever they do. I have been married 15 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 1: nine years and I used to be cool with my 16 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 1: mother in law at first. My husband was going through 17 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: a horrible divorce when I met him, and he was 18 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 1: staying at his mom's house. I visited him there, but 19 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 1: I never messed around with him at his mom's house 20 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:01,960 Speaker 1: because I had my own place. His mom started resenting 21 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 1: me after we got married, and she said I try 22 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 1: to control her son's every move. I told her to 23 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 1: stay out of our business, and our relationship went from 24 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:14,039 Speaker 1: good to bad. So the other day I rode by 25 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:16,319 Speaker 1: her house on my way home and I saw my 26 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:19,839 Speaker 1: husband's truck there. He was supposed to be at work. 27 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 1: I stopped in to say hi and see what was 28 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 1: going on. She told me that my husband was in 29 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: the back sleeping. I called for him and he came 30 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 1: out looking a hot mess. He told me he had 31 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: a migraine and his mom lived closer to his job, 32 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 1: so he came by for a quick nap. Neither of 33 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 1: them would let me go in that back room where 34 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 1: he came from. All I know is that I used 35 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:46,680 Speaker 1: to go over there and chill out with him back 36 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 1: in the day. So I think his mom is allowing 37 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:53,559 Speaker 1: other women to come visit my husband at her house 38 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 1: when he's supposed to be at work. I can't prove it, 39 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 1: and my husband told me that he's getting sick of 40 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: me accusing him of stuff. We put cameras at his 41 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 1: mom's house for her alarm, and I had access to 42 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:08,399 Speaker 1: the cameras on my phone, but my husband said that 43 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 1: the WiFi is off, so the cameras aren't working right now. 44 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 1: I feel like his mom is covering for him. How 45 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:19,079 Speaker 1: could that woman be so low down? Well, if that's 46 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:21,799 Speaker 1: what's really going on, she is low down. I mean, 47 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 1: you were right. The mom should stay. 48 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:24,639 Speaker 2: Out of your business. 49 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 1: I don't know how you asked her to do it, 50 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 1: if it was a fight or whatever, but of course 51 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:32,359 Speaker 1: his mom should stay out of your marital affairs. Her 52 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 1: son is married to you now, but doesn't sound like 53 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 1: he's putting you first, because if he did, his mom 54 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 1: would not treat you his wife this way. I mean, 55 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 1: there is a reason they wouldn't let you look in 56 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:45,960 Speaker 1: the back room. He and his mom seems like are 57 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 1: up to something and you should trust your instincts in this. 58 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:51,799 Speaker 1: If you think his mom is helping him cheat by 59 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 1: hosting women at her house, after all, you know, when 60 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:57,239 Speaker 1: he was going through his divorce you were over there, 61 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 1: then she probably is. I mean, how convenient is it 62 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:03,800 Speaker 1: that the camera just happened to not be working and 63 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 1: there's no Wi Fi right now? So it's time for 64 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 1: you to speak up. Let your husband know and his 65 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 1: mom that what's going on, what you think is going on, 66 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 1: and it's wrong and they're wrong. 67 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:23,959 Speaker 3: Steve Wow, Wow, and another While this is crazy, listen 68 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 3: to me. 69 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:29,919 Speaker 2: The aim of this letter is misdirected. 70 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 3: I could see a portion of this, but this letter 71 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 3: is misdirected. 72 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 2: My mom. His mom is allowing him to cheat on me. 73 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 3: She's allowing That's my first question this Stephen Shirley, My 74 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 3: mother in law is a trip, and I think she's 75 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 3: allowing my husband to bring random women over the house 76 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 3: to hang out and do whatever they do. Okay, Okay, 77 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 3: that don't sound but okay, I got you. 78 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 2: My husband was going through a horrible. 79 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 3: Divorce when I met him, and he was staying at 80 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 3: his mom's house, and I visited him there, but I 81 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 3: never messed around with him a mom's house because I 82 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 3: had my own place. Now, let's just take that paragraph 83 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 3: right there and address that. You say your husband was 84 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 3: going through a horrible divorce, which means he was still married. 85 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 2: You were going over. 86 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 3: That visiting him at his mama's house while he was 87 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 3: still married. The mom, i'm sure was aware of this, 88 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 3: that he was still married. You over that visiting while 89 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 3: he's still married. So the tone has been set. Now 90 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:54,279 Speaker 3: you say you never messed around with him at his 91 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 3: mom's house because I had my own place. 92 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:58,039 Speaker 2: So I'm assuming when y'all did mess around. It was 93 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:02,840 Speaker 2: at your place, but he was married. You see why 94 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 2: I'm getting that through this whole thing. 95 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 3: His mom started resenting me after we got married, and 96 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 3: said I tried to control her son's every move. 97 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:15,039 Speaker 2: I told her to stay out of our business. Well, 98 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 2: your mom resented. 99 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 3: You because you took him away. She had him at 100 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:25,039 Speaker 3: the house all to herself, and you took him away, 101 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:29,160 Speaker 3: and now you're trying to control his every move. You 102 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 3: told her to stay out your business. Well, now you 103 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:39,119 Speaker 3: created an enemy. You say, y'all used to be cool, 104 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 3: but now you've created an enemy. So the other day 105 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:46,279 Speaker 3: I rode by her house on my way from home, 106 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 3: and I saw my husband's truck. He was supposed to 107 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 3: be at work. I stopped here to say hi and 108 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 3: see what was going on. She told me my husband 109 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:57,279 Speaker 3: was in the back sleeping. I called for him and 110 00:05:57,320 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 3: he came out looking a hot mess. He told me 111 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 3: I had to migrate, and his mom lived close to 112 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 3: his job, so he came by there to get a quick. Now, 113 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 3: neither one of them will let you go in that 114 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:13,839 Speaker 3: back room that he came from. All I know is 115 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:15,479 Speaker 3: that I used to go over there and chill out 116 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 3: with him. Back in the day. But remember when you 117 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 3: went over there, he was married. So now you set 118 00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 3: the tone. His mama knows he messages with chicks while 119 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 3: he married. So now because he married you, he was 120 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 3: married to another girl. And y'all was over there in 121 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 3: the back room. Now you're over there again. The tone 122 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:38,160 Speaker 3: has been set. I got more for you. 123 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:38,839 Speaker 2: When we come back. 124 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 1: All right, Hang on, Steve, We'll have part two of 125 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:43,920 Speaker 1: your response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. 126 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letters subject his mom is allowing him to 127 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:50,720 Speaker 1: cheat on me. We'll get back into it right after this. 128 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. You've heard us talk 129 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 1: about the benefits of Globe Life insurance. Globe Life has 130 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:06,799 Speaker 1: been protecting families for generations. Globe Life is easy to buy, 131 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 1: with rates starting as low as three dollars and forty 132 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 1: nine cents a month. 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The subject is his mom 138 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 1: is allowing him to cheat on me. 139 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:39,760 Speaker 3: Well, I think that's crazy because my question is, what 140 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 3: do you mean his mom is allowing him to cheat? 141 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 2: What that means? 142 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 3: See, I think the text of this whole letter is misplaced. 143 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 3: I think all those whole letter I kept waiting on 144 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 3: her to be mad at the husband. The whole letter 145 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 3: she mad at the mom. 146 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 2: This is misplaced. 147 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 3: Anger lady, My mother law's a trip. I think she 148 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 3: he's allowing my husband to bring random win him over 149 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:04,040 Speaker 3: the house to hang out and do whatever they do. 150 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 2: I've been married nine years and I used to be 151 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 2: cool with his mother in law. 152 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 3: First, my husband was going through a horrible divorce when 153 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 3: I met him, and he was staying at his mama's house. 154 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 2: When I visited him, right there, he was married. 155 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 3: You was going over there visiting him why he was married, 156 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 3: horrible divorce or not, but the tone has been set. 157 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 3: I visited him there, but I never run messed around 158 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 3: with him at his mom's house because I had my 159 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 3: own place. Well, y'all messed around over there, but you 160 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 3: was in the back hanging out His mom started resenting 161 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 3: me after we got married, and said I tried to 162 00:08:37,520 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 3: control her son's every move because now he can't do 163 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 3: what he wanted to do because you got him over 164 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:44,480 Speaker 3: there at your place. He ain't have his own place. 165 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:47,199 Speaker 3: So now y'all over at your place, and you done 166 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:48,680 Speaker 3: took him away from the mama. 167 00:08:48,880 --> 00:08:50,559 Speaker 2: I told her to stay out of our business. 168 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 3: Well, now you created an enemy. So you sat there 169 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:59,600 Speaker 3: out of our business. Watch that's exactly what she does. 170 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 3: So the other day I rode by a house on 171 00:09:03,480 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 3: my way home. I saw my husband's truck there. He 172 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:07,559 Speaker 3: was supposed to be at work. I stopped here to 173 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 3: say hi. You ain't really stop here to say how 174 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 3: you went over there and see what's going on. She 175 00:09:12,080 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 3: told me your husband was in the back sleeping. 176 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 2: I called for him. 177 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:18,720 Speaker 3: He came out looking like a hot mess. Told you 178 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:21,320 Speaker 3: he had a migraine, and his mom lived closer to 179 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 3: his job, so he came back for a quick nap. 180 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 3: Neither one of them would let me go in that 181 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:28,680 Speaker 3: back room where he came from, cause there's some people 182 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 3: in there. It's evidence in that it's whatever he was 183 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 3: doing back there. Now, I don't know what pronoun was 184 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 3: back there, but it was a pronoun back there. 185 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 2: You could say it was a mistress. 186 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:59,439 Speaker 3: She he hey, somebody was back there biting every whatelse somebody. 187 00:09:59,200 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 2: In the back. 188 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 3: And then you said neither wanted them to let me 189 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:07,079 Speaker 3: go in that back room. All I know is I 190 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:09,120 Speaker 3: used to go over there and chill out with him 191 00:10:09,160 --> 00:10:13,720 Speaker 3: back in the day when he was married. So I 192 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 3: think as a mom is allowing other women to come 193 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:18,560 Speaker 3: visit my husband and house when he's supposed to be 194 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:21,080 Speaker 3: at work. I can't prove it, and my husband told 195 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:23,200 Speaker 3: me he getting sick of me. Accused him myself. We 196 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 3: put cameras at his mom house for his alarm, and 197 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:28,719 Speaker 3: I'll have access to the cameras on my phone, but 198 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 3: my husband said the WiFi is all so the cameras 199 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:35,200 Speaker 3: ain't working right now. I feel like his mother is 200 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 3: covering for him. How could that woman be so low down? 201 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 3: Didn't you tell her to stay out your bids when 202 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:46,880 Speaker 3: I told you up in the letter that you created 203 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 3: an enemy, Well you did. Now you want to know 204 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:53,080 Speaker 3: how that woman could be so low down? You told 205 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 3: her stay out your bids. Now she got him now, 206 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 3: her husband coming over and doing what he wants to 207 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 3: do she out your business. But here's my problem with 208 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 3: this whole lesson you mad at the mama the whole time. 209 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:14,559 Speaker 3: You're not married to the mama. You married to the man. 210 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:18,440 Speaker 3: He's the one cheating on you. But I don't see 211 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 3: no anger towards him. Is his mama is allowing him. 212 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:26,720 Speaker 3: I ain't got no proof. How much more proof you need. 213 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:29,680 Speaker 3: He come out of the back room, look in a mess, 214 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 3: you and him, and the mama won't let you go 215 00:11:32,280 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 3: back there. Lady, you have misplaced anger. Your anger should 216 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 3: be with your husband, because that's who you married to. 217 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:52,959 Speaker 3: You're not married to his mama, And now you mad 218 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 3: because the mama is allowing him to come and do 219 00:11:56,800 --> 00:11:57,600 Speaker 3: what he do over there. 220 00:11:57,760 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 2: She's always allowed it. 221 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 3: Remember when he was getting a divorce, going through that 222 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 3: rough divorce, wasn't you over there? Then? She ain't say 223 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 3: nothing then? So why she she ain't say nothing on 224 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:11,560 Speaker 3: behalf of the first wife? She not finish say nothing 225 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:14,559 Speaker 3: on behalf of you because she with her son. No 226 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:19,720 Speaker 3: matter what he do, it's a okay, she'll condone it. 227 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 3: She on his side. I don't even know why you 228 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 3: roll this, I really really don't. 229 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:32,440 Speaker 2: You talking about your mother in law as a trip. 230 00:12:32,520 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 2: Your husband is a trip. Yeah, yeah, you're married to 231 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:37,560 Speaker 2: the trip. 232 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 3: Now, you don't give everybody. And you know, here's the 233 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:43,959 Speaker 3: thing about this guy. He's got control over there, the 234 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:46,040 Speaker 3: mama and you. 235 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:49,440 Speaker 2: Nobody blames him. It's always the other person. Small. 236 00:12:50,040 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 3: He got a free pass everywhere he goes. Mama giving 237 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:55,200 Speaker 3: him a past, You giving him a past. Y'all have 238 00:12:55,400 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 3: enabled this dude. You married him, Dude, You married a 239 00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 3: dude that didn't have a place where staying with his mama. 240 00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 2: Now he probably live in that apartment. 241 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:05,439 Speaker 3: You have. 242 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:12,880 Speaker 2: What kind of dude did you marry? And nothing in 243 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 2: this letter? 244 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 3: You didn't mention one redeeming quality that this man has 245 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:19,680 Speaker 3: in this letter. 246 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 2: Not one. 247 00:13:22,600 --> 00:13:25,520 Speaker 3: Now he's a good man, a good father, a good son, 248 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:26,679 Speaker 3: a good husband. 249 00:13:26,920 --> 00:13:33,920 Speaker 1: Nothing, all right, Steve, post your comments, thank you today 250 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:38,479 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter at Steve BARBFM, on Instagram and on Facebook. 251 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 1: And check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free 252 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:44,320 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio app where free never sounded so good. You can 253 00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:47,679 Speaker 1: download it. 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