WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Vinyl Party

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking jew bules the second date up date, the guy

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone for a second date update today took

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<v Speaker 1>the girl that he wants to call on a really

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<v Speaker 1>cool date if it was nineteen eighty two, and then actually,

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<v Speaker 1>after reading his email and hearing about his date, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know if it would have been cool in

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<v Speaker 1>the eighties. We'll talk to him about that in just

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<v Speaker 1>a second, but first, his name is Sean, and Sean,

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<v Speaker 1>before we get into what you did on your dates,

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<v Speaker 1>where'd you meet the girl that you want to call today?

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<v Speaker 1>I met her to bar. Okay, she came in with

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<v Speaker 1>a few friends and the obnoxious man and our crew

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<v Speaker 1>broke the ice and uh right up for me. Nice. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't sound like the obnoxious person in your crew.

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<v Speaker 1>You sound like the barely awake person. Thank you, no problem.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know if he was trying to use sexy

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<v Speaker 1>voice with us or you were like literally still lying

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<v Speaker 1>in bed. Allow both your buddy opened up the conversation

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<v Speaker 1>and what was her name? Sarah? Sarah? So tell us

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit about your first encounter with Sarah. Just

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<v Speaker 1>talked a little bit and the music at the bar

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of funny. Someone kind of tackies and was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of cool, some eighty stuff, some ninety stuff, and

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<v Speaker 1>we just were just having a laugh and talked a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about her work and just sexy Sarah. I

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<v Speaker 1>could barely stand it, you know, Sarah, did you use

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<v Speaker 1>that voice too when you told her that? Didn't you?

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<v Speaker 1>I tried. My god, you sound so creepy to me

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<v Speaker 1>right now, like if I saw you in a bar,

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean, did you really refer to her as

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<v Speaker 1>sexy Sarah to her face too? Absolutely not. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're smart. You can call her that now, all right?

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<v Speaker 1>So you met her at that bar, and let's get

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<v Speaker 1>to your email about the date you went on, because

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<v Speaker 1>it was very interesting to me. You went to a

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<v Speaker 1>vinyl party, Yeah, somebody I know. You know, they throw

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<v Speaker 1>these parties where everyone shows up and everybody brings one record,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's kind of like a curator or a handler

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of picks everybody one by one and they

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<v Speaker 1>hand over their record, and then they pick a track

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<v Speaker 1>off of that record, and then at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the song, each person kind of tells, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>why that song is special or poignant or sappy or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're a hipster, is what you're saying, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, I mean my jeans aren't large. If that's

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<v Speaker 1>an indicator, that actually sounds like a kind of cool

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<v Speaker 1>party though, To be honest, I mean, sometimes it's fun,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes it's funny, and sometimes it's super awkward. And I

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<v Speaker 1>guess that I mean, and therein lies the humor. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So do you go to these things a lot? I've

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<v Speaker 1>been to a few, and say a lot, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I've seen it. Okay. So did she have

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<v Speaker 1>to bring a record herself? She did? Yeah, And what

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<v Speaker 1>did she choose? Because that's a lot of pressure, man, Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she brought a Cyndi Lauper record. Cool, all right? And

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<v Speaker 1>you said that they play a song and then they

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<v Speaker 1>talk about it? What song was hers? We're in the world?

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<v Speaker 1>What true colors? Dude? I love true colors? How can

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<v Speaker 1>you not like true colors? How are you hating on

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<v Speaker 1>true colors? Oh? Horrid? Absolutely horrid? Man? Did you tell

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<v Speaker 1>her that? Absolutely? Not? Okay? God, I was gonna say

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<v Speaker 1>that might be the reason she's not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're like God, I've never bringing you to another

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<v Speaker 1>Vinyl party. First day thought you were creepy, And now

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<v Speaker 1>I just think you're a jerk for hating on true colors.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she seem to have a good time at the

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<v Speaker 1>Vinyl party? Yeah, you know, she's uh, you know, somewhat reserved,

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<v Speaker 1>but she seemed like she had a good time. And

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<v Speaker 1>she talked to some people that I know and hung

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<v Speaker 1>around a little bit, and you know, we hung out

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<v Speaker 1>for hours. It seemed, you know, seemed relaxed and casual

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<v Speaker 1>and okay, she was. She wasn't like dancing on the

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<v Speaker 1>tables or anything, but you know, she had fun. Did

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<v Speaker 1>she judge you as harshly about your pick for your song?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that maybe what happened? I'm not sure. What did

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<v Speaker 1>you break? Rick James super Freak? Yeah, come on, nobody

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<v Speaker 1>can hate on that. Yeah, but that's tacky on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date. Man, I don't know. Come on, are you

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<v Speaker 1>killing me? You're destroying me as fun super Freak on

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<v Speaker 1>a first date? I mean, could you be any more

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<v Speaker 1>obvious of what your message was? What are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a fun song, it was a huge hit, the

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<v Speaker 1>party song. It's a dance song. At the very least

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<v Speaker 1>two babies were made at least I think so. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's actually a fact with that song every single

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<v Speaker 1>time is played, two babies are made. How did the

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<v Speaker 1>night end? Since she was calling an uber and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I had my car, so you know, I didn't drink,

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<v Speaker 1>and I offered. I said, no, no, you let me

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<v Speaker 1>give you right home, and you know she wasn't having it.

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<v Speaker 1>She said, you know, she was polite and said the

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<v Speaker 1>uber was around the corner in two minutes and that

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<v Speaker 1>was that. And so she just left, no kiss, no hug, nothing,

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<v Speaker 1>two pat and the back cug. Oh yeah, that's even

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<v Speaker 1>worse than no hug. And to call an uber before

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<v Speaker 1>you even tell someone that you're calling an uber means

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<v Speaker 1>that you're trying to make a real speedy getaway. Thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for reminding me, Yes, yes it does. So why do

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<v Speaker 1>you think she's not calling you back? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it went, it went pretty well, I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I really enjoyed her. I mean, I think

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<v Speaker 1>she's so damn pretty, and I thought I was being courteous,

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<v Speaker 1>so you know, I didn't drink, and you know I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't have been that obnoxious. So I really don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I would like to know, but I have

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<v Speaker 1>no idea. Okay, cool, Well we'll play a song, unfortunately

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<v Speaker 1>not on final digital song, and then we'll come back

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<v Speaker 1>and get your second date update. All right, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hang on brooking jubil in the morning second

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<v Speaker 1>days if you're just tuning in for today's second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Sean is on the phone, and Sean is a super freak.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, He's a super freak. Except the only problem

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<v Speaker 1>with being a super freak is when you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>somebody to super freak with. So Sean's been home alone

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<v Speaker 1>in his house, super freaking by himself, which can be fun,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's way better with a partner, and the girl

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<v Speaker 1>that he wants to be a super freak partner isn't

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<v Speaker 1>calling him back. Sean took his date, her name is Sarah,

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<v Speaker 1>to a vinyl party. The idea of the party is

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<v Speaker 1>you buy a vinyl record and take it there, and

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<v Speaker 1>then they play a song from that record, and then

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<v Speaker 1>everybody listens to you explain why you picked that song.

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<v Speaker 1>That was Sean's song that he picked, super freak. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess she picked True Colors by Cindy Lauper. Awesome song. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>He thought that he had a great date and she

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<v Speaker 1>had a good time, except she left early, took an

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<v Speaker 1>uber when he offered to give her a ride home,

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<v Speaker 1>and they ended the evening with just a hug and

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<v Speaker 1>a pat on the back. So it seems like she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't really enjoy the date with Sean, and we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get her on the phone right now and find out

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<v Speaker 1>if that's true. No, Sean, I was a little hard

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<v Speaker 1>on you in the first part of this. Yes you were. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was. But I'm going to give you a chance.

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<v Speaker 1>Why should Sarah go out with you again? You should

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<v Speaker 1>be prepared with that answer. So we're gonna do the

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<v Speaker 1>heavy lifting at the first part, and we talked to

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<v Speaker 1>her and find out if something went wrong and everything else.

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<v Speaker 1>But eventually that's going to come up in the conversation, Sean,

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<v Speaker 1>And that's what I want you to be thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>while we talked to her. Okay, you want to feed

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<v Speaker 1>me something, I'm on a blank there. Tell her that

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<v Speaker 1>you liked her a lot and you really want to

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<v Speaker 1>date her, and you thought she was a magnificent person,

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<v Speaker 1>and that should be good. I think I put the

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<v Speaker 1>focus on her. Yeah, there's nothing you can really draw

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<v Speaker 1>from from yourself. Just put it on her. Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>all right? There in two genius man minds at work

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<v Speaker 1>right now here we go. I'm gonna call her right now. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hang on, Hello, Hi, can I speak to

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<v Speaker 1>Sarah please? This is she? Hey Sarah, how are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. What are you calling from Brook and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>familiar with it at all. No, I don't listen to

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<v Speaker 1>the radio. Why are you calling? Well, I'm calling because

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<v Speaker 1>you recently went on a date with somebody who does

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<v Speaker 1>listen to the show. Okay. And his name is Sean. Okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And Sean emailed us about you and said that he

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<v Speaker 1>really had a good time. But he's wondering why you're

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<v Speaker 1>not answering his phone calls or text messages. Um, that's weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, it's kind of weird. I don't really know

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<v Speaker 1>what you want to know. I guess we just weren't

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<v Speaker 1>a fit. You weren't fit. Yeah, he's super cute guy,

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<v Speaker 1>very nice, very charming, engage in the conversation and just

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes in life. The timing boss. I don't really believe

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<v Speaker 1>you on that one, because you called an uber before

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<v Speaker 1>you even told him you were going to call an

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<v Speaker 1>uber like that usually indicates something else was going on.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you How do you know that? Because he

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<v Speaker 1>told us he told you a lot about our date? Then, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he did. He told us all about it. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>the reason why I called the uber is there was

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<v Speaker 1>some stuff that was going on, and I just I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't really want to talk with him about it, and

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<v Speaker 1>I just kind of wanted to excuse myself from the situation.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just thought that, well, that's what wents beck.

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<v Speaker 1>You mean, like stuff at the party going on that

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't like. It's a little more complicated than that. Okay, Ay,

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<v Speaker 1>mind telling us what it is so we can at

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<v Speaker 1>least let him know because he liked you a lot. Um. So,

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<v Speaker 1>Sean and I had our date set up, and earlier

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<v Speaker 1>in the day, I had received a text message from

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<v Speaker 1>my ex boyfriend. Okay, I didn't respond to it. I

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of let it go by the wayside and

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to enjoy my time with Sean and getting to

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<v Speaker 1>know him. And so my song, my favorite song, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>did he tell you what it was? Yeah? Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>all I'm saying. I've got your back on that one. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>He told us that you're the record that you chose

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<v Speaker 1>to bring with Cindy Lauper and the song that you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted with True Colors. He told us that to me,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just a really great song. It's just, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a female anthem of support and really just

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<v Speaker 1>going after what's important to you in your life. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of getting emotional talking about it right now,

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<v Speaker 1>but it just brought up a lot of emotions and

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<v Speaker 1>it made me really kind of think about where I'm

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<v Speaker 1>at in my life and where I want to go.

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<v Speaker 1>And my ex just you know, sent me this lovely

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<v Speaker 1>text message and it just I felt like it was

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<v Speaker 1>a sign that we were supposed to be together, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I got a little emotional excused myself. I

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<v Speaker 1>went to the restroom. I kind of gathered things together

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<v Speaker 1>and that's when, you know, I took a deep breath

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<v Speaker 1>and was like, I just I don't feel comforable being

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<v Speaker 1>here because it was kind of a weird emotional state.

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<v Speaker 1>So I called the uber and that's kind of when

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<v Speaker 1>I last. So nothing against Sean. It was he was

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<v Speaker 1>very nice, but he's just not the person I'm supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be with So are you back with your X?

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<v Speaker 1>I am? I am, Yeah, we're back together. I'm telling

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<v Speaker 1>you that is a powerful song. I have tried many

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<v Speaker 1>times to it. I haven't run back to any man's

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<v Speaker 1>arms yet, but I could see how that could happen

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<v Speaker 1>for you. Yeah, it was just the confirmation from that

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<v Speaker 1>song and getting back to my act. It was just

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<v Speaker 1>so strong. I couldn't ignore it. I couldn't sleep it

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<v Speaker 1>on the rug. And I have Sean really to think

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<v Speaker 1>for that. So oh nice. Yeah, Sean did a nice

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<v Speaker 1>thing and reminded you of your ex boyfriend. So now

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<v Speaker 1>you could go back and be in that relationship. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>if you guys do talk to him, if you could

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<v Speaker 1>pass that along, that would be great, because I do

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate what meeting him has brought to my life. Sure. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>actually you can thank him yourself, because he's on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening and wants to talk to you. What

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean, I mean, he's on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>and wants to say hi to you. He's been listening

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<v Speaker 1>to this whole thing. Yeah, ye, Sean, are you still there? Hip?

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<v Speaker 1>I could rekindle your love. Look, I am so sorry

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<v Speaker 1>for not returning your phone. Call and your text messages.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I thought it was inappropriate. I didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>know how to tell you, but thank you, honestly, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's probably not what you want to hear

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<v Speaker 1>from a girl that you went out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with getting back together with her ex, But had I

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<v Speaker 1>not had that opportunity to meet you and really kind

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<v Speaker 1>of had that opportunity to bring a record to this

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<v Speaker 1>really cool, interesting party that you invited me to. I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to have gotten to the place, you know, to

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<v Speaker 1>be comfortable and confident in moving back into a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>with X. And we're in a really good place right now. Sean.

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<v Speaker 1>You should be really happy for her. Yeah, I'm super happy.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta be kidding me. I bet you. I bet

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<v Speaker 1>you love SIDDI lauper True Colors more than ever before

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<v Speaker 1>right now. I hated that song so much and I

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<v Speaker 1>just have like a new level of just like that

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<v Speaker 1>song real. Yes, really, party, you told me that you

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<v Speaker 1>really liked it. Yeah, Well, I was lying through my

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<v Speaker 1>teeth because I really like you, you know. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>not to be cheesy, but you know, I thought we

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<v Speaker 1>had something. I thought we had a nice time, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I thought goes and I was a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit but her youdn't return my text. Sean, we did.

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<v Speaker 1>We had a great time. And I don't know any

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<v Speaker 1>other way to say it, but you're you know, you're

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<v Speaker 1>not my guy. You are a great guy. Hey, thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and I understand, but just you know, the future,

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<v Speaker 1>you could just return a text, you know. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it was pretty nice of her to say that she

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<v Speaker 1>had a good time since she spent half the date

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<v Speaker 1>crying by herself in the bathroom. Yeah, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>have that effect sometimes, you know. There you go, Sean, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>at least you can take saulce and knowing that Sarah

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<v Speaker 1>is happy, I guess. Yeah. I mean I never should

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<v Speaker 1>have taken her to that damn party. Yeah. If you

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't have done that, she might not have realized that

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<v Speaker 1>she wanted to be back with her ex. He was

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<v Speaker 1>meant to be. I mean, it was it was going

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<v Speaker 1>to happen eventually, and it just it kind of worked

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<v Speaker 1>out in this lovely story the universe wanted to write

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<v Speaker 1>for us. Well, Sarah, the universe wants me to ask you,

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<v Speaker 1>if you'll go out with Sean on a second date,

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<v Speaker 1>we will pay for it. You want to go out Sean. Again,

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<v Speaker 1>she's not even single. Thank that'd be the most shocking. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we ever got on a second date update, So you're

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<v Speaker 1>sure about that? That's a no no. But I have

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<v Speaker 1>some single girlfriends and I think might be a good

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<v Speaker 1>fit for him. Oh nice, Sean, Are you interested in

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<v Speaker 1>going out with one of Sarah's friends? Absolutely? You are

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<v Speaker 1>talking to the og, super freaquent. When did you start?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I'm so excited. I am so excited to

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<v Speaker 1>set you have. I've got a ton of girlfriends met

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<v Speaker 1>some of them met at the bar, but I'll definitely

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<v Speaker 1>get you guys in contact. All right, Well, there you go, Sean.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of a successful second date update for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll take it. Yeah. Yeah, And Sarah just make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that any girl you set I'm up with has an

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<v Speaker 1>ex boyfriend that she's been thinking about a lot. Very

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<v Speaker 1>good point. On the text messages, it says that guy

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't be a real hipster. A real hipster wouldn't listen

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<v Speaker 1>to your show. I realized that. Yeah, Brooke and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning, if you missed the second day to

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<v Speaker 1>update that was recorded when Brooke was still here. Jackie

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<v Speaker 1>is filling in for Brook. Brooke is out on maternity

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<v Speaker 1>leave and Sean wanted to call Sarah. Sean kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a hipstery guy, at least he says so, but he

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<v Speaker 1>listened to this show, so he can't be too much

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<v Speaker 1>of a hipster. He took her to a vinyl party

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<v Speaker 1>where everybody listens to records and then they talk about

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<v Speaker 1>the songs that they chose for the evening. He chose

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<v Speaker 1>Super Freak, she chose True Colors. Anyway, she wasn't calling

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<v Speaker 1>him back because the song reminded her of her ex

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<v Speaker 1>and then she called her X and got back together

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<v Speaker 1>with her X and didn't want to go out with

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<v Speaker 1>him again. Wow. And yeah, well it didn't really backfire

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<v Speaker 1>too much because she said that he was a nice

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<v Speaker 1>guy and she's willing to hook him up with some friends,

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<v Speaker 1>so he was into that. So kind of a successful

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<v Speaker 1>A second day update worked out forever. Yeah, remember, if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do a second day up the date,

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<v Speaker 1>all you have to do his email the show and

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<v Speaker 1>we will call the person didn't call you back. Proven

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen two point five