Speaker 1: Rooking jew bules the second date up date, the guy
Speaker 1: on the phone for a second date update today took
Speaker 1: the girl that he wants to call on a really
Speaker 1: cool date if it was nineteen eighty two, and then actually,
Speaker 1: after reading his email and hearing about his date, I
Speaker 1: don't even know if it would have been cool in
Speaker 1: the eighties. We'll talk to him about that in just
Speaker 1: a second, but first, his name is Sean, and Sean,
Speaker 1: before we get into what you did on your dates,
Speaker 1: where'd you meet the girl that you want to call today?
Speaker 1: I met her to bar. Okay, she came in with
Speaker 1: a few friends and the obnoxious man and our crew
Speaker 1: broke the ice and uh right up for me. Nice. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you don't sound like the obnoxious person in your crew.
Speaker 1: You sound like the barely awake person. Thank you, no problem.
Speaker 1: I didn't know if he was trying to use sexy
Speaker 1: voice with us or you were like literally still lying
Speaker 1: in bed. Allow both your buddy opened up the conversation
Speaker 1: and what was her name? Sarah? Sarah? So tell us
Speaker 1: a little bit about your first encounter with Sarah. Just
Speaker 1: talked a little bit and the music at the bar
Speaker 1: was kind of funny. Someone kind of tackies and was
Speaker 1: kind of cool, some eighty stuff, some ninety stuff, and
Speaker 1: we just were just having a laugh and talked a
Speaker 1: little bit about her work and just sexy Sarah. I
Speaker 1: could barely stand it, you know, Sarah, did you use
Speaker 1: that voice too when you told her that? Didn't you?
Speaker 1: I tried. My god, you sound so creepy to me
Speaker 1: right now, like if I saw you in a bar,
Speaker 1: And I mean, did you really refer to her as
Speaker 1: sexy Sarah to her face too? Absolutely not. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: you're smart. You can call her that now, all right?
Speaker 1: So you met her at that bar, and let's get
Speaker 1: to your email about the date you went on, because
Speaker 1: it was very interesting to me. You went to a
Speaker 1: vinyl party, Yeah, somebody I know. You know, they throw
Speaker 1: these parties where everyone shows up and everybody brings one record,
Speaker 1: and there's kind of like a curator or a handler
Speaker 1: that kind of picks everybody one by one and they
Speaker 1: hand over their record, and then they pick a track
Speaker 1: off of that record, and then at the end of
Speaker 1: the song, each person kind of tells, you know, like
Speaker 1: why that song is special or poignant or sappy or whatever.
Speaker 1: So you're a hipster, is what you're saying, I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess, I mean my jeans aren't large. If that's
Speaker 1: an indicator, that actually sounds like a kind of cool
Speaker 1: party though, To be honest, I mean, sometimes it's fun,
Speaker 1: sometimes it's funny, and sometimes it's super awkward. And I
Speaker 1: guess that I mean, and therein lies the humor. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: So do you go to these things a lot? I've
Speaker 1: been to a few, and say a lot, but yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, I've seen it. Okay. So did she have
Speaker 1: to bring a record herself? She did? Yeah, And what
Speaker 1: did she choose? Because that's a lot of pressure, man, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: she brought a Cyndi Lauper record. Cool, all right? And
Speaker 1: you said that they play a song and then they
Speaker 1: talk about it? What song was hers? We're in the world?
Speaker 1: What true colors? Dude? I love true colors? How can
Speaker 1: you not like true colors? How are you hating on
Speaker 1: true colors? Oh? Horrid? Absolutely horrid? Man? Did you tell
Speaker 1: her that? Absolutely? Not? Okay? God, I was gonna say
Speaker 1: that might be the reason she's not calling you back.
Speaker 1: If you're like God, I've never bringing you to another
Speaker 1: Vinyl party. First day thought you were creepy, And now
Speaker 1: I just think you're a jerk for hating on true colors.
Speaker 1: Did she seem to have a good time at the
Speaker 1: Vinyl party? Yeah, you know, she's uh, you know, somewhat reserved,
Speaker 1: but she seemed like she had a good time. And
Speaker 1: she talked to some people that I know and hung
Speaker 1: around a little bit, and you know, we hung out
Speaker 1: for hours. It seemed, you know, seemed relaxed and casual
Speaker 1: and okay, she was. She wasn't like dancing on the
Speaker 1: tables or anything, but you know, she had fun. Did
Speaker 1: she judge you as harshly about your pick for your song?
Speaker 1: Is that maybe what happened? I'm not sure. What did
Speaker 1: you break? Rick James super Freak? Yeah, come on, nobody
Speaker 1: can hate on that. Yeah, but that's tacky on a
Speaker 1: first date. Man, I don't know. Come on, are you
Speaker 1: killing me? You're destroying me as fun super Freak on
Speaker 1: a first date? I mean, could you be any more
Speaker 1: obvious of what your message was? What are you talking about?
Speaker 1: It's a fun song, it was a huge hit, the
Speaker 1: party song. It's a dance song. At the very least
Speaker 1: two babies were made at least I think so. I
Speaker 1: think that's actually a fact with that song every single
Speaker 1: time is played, two babies are made. How did the
Speaker 1: night end? Since she was calling an uber and you know,
Speaker 1: I had my car, so you know, I didn't drink,
Speaker 1: and I offered. I said, no, no, you let me
Speaker 1: give you right home, and you know she wasn't having it.
Speaker 1: She said, you know, she was polite and said the
Speaker 1: uber was around the corner in two minutes and that
Speaker 1: was that. And so she just left, no kiss, no hug, nothing,
Speaker 1: two pat and the back cug. Oh yeah, that's even
Speaker 1: worse than no hug. And to call an uber before
Speaker 1: you even tell someone that you're calling an uber means
Speaker 1: that you're trying to make a real speedy getaway. Thanks
Speaker 1: for reminding me, Yes, yes it does. So why do
Speaker 1: you think she's not calling you back? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I mean it went, it went pretty well, I thought,
Speaker 1: I mean I really enjoyed her. I mean, I think
Speaker 1: she's so damn pretty, and I thought I was being courteous,
Speaker 1: so you know, I didn't drink, and you know I
Speaker 1: couldn't have been that obnoxious. So I really don't know.
Speaker 1: You know, I would like to know, but I have
Speaker 1: no idea. Okay, cool, Well we'll play a song, unfortunately
Speaker 1: not on final digital song, and then we'll come back
Speaker 1: and get your second date update. All right, all right,
Speaker 1: all right, hang on brooking jubil in the morning second
Speaker 1: days if you're just tuning in for today's second date update.
Speaker 1: Sean is on the phone, and Sean is a super freak.
Speaker 1: That's right, He's a super freak. Except the only problem
Speaker 1: with being a super freak is when you don't have
Speaker 1: somebody to super freak with. So Sean's been home alone
Speaker 1: in his house, super freaking by himself, which can be fun,
Speaker 1: but it's way better with a partner, and the girl
Speaker 1: that he wants to be a super freak partner isn't
Speaker 1: calling him back. Sean took his date, her name is Sarah,
Speaker 1: to a vinyl party. The idea of the party is
Speaker 1: you buy a vinyl record and take it there, and
Speaker 1: then they play a song from that record, and then
Speaker 1: everybody listens to you explain why you picked that song.
Speaker 1: That was Sean's song that he picked, super freak. I
Speaker 1: guess she picked True Colors by Cindy Lauper. Awesome song. Anyway,
Speaker 1: He thought that he had a great date and she
Speaker 1: had a good time, except she left early, took an
Speaker 1: uber when he offered to give her a ride home,
Speaker 1: and they ended the evening with just a hug and
Speaker 1: a pat on the back. So it seems like she
Speaker 1: didn't really enjoy the date with Sean, and we're gonna
Speaker 1: get her on the phone right now and find out
Speaker 1: if that's true. No, Sean, I was a little hard
Speaker 1: on you in the first part of this. Yes you were. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was. But I'm going to give you a chance.
Speaker 1: Why should Sarah go out with you again? You should
Speaker 1: be prepared with that answer. So we're gonna do the
Speaker 1: heavy lifting at the first part, and we talked to
Speaker 1: her and find out if something went wrong and everything else.
Speaker 1: But eventually that's going to come up in the conversation, Sean,
Speaker 1: And that's what I want you to be thinking about
Speaker 1: while we talked to her. Okay, you want to feed
Speaker 1: me something, I'm on a blank there. Tell her that
Speaker 1: you liked her a lot and you really want to
Speaker 1: date her, and you thought she was a magnificent person,
Speaker 1: and that should be good. I think I put the
Speaker 1: focus on her. Yeah, there's nothing you can really draw
Speaker 1: from from yourself. Just put it on her. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: all right? There in two genius man minds at work
Speaker 1: right now here we go. I'm gonna call her right now. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, hang on, Hello, Hi, can I speak to
Speaker 1: Sarah please? This is she? Hey Sarah, how are you?
Speaker 1: This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Uh,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. What are you calling from Brook and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, you're not
Speaker 1: familiar with it at all. No, I don't listen to
Speaker 1: the radio. Why are you calling? Well, I'm calling because
Speaker 1: you recently went on a date with somebody who does
Speaker 1: listen to the show. Okay. And his name is Sean. Okay, okay.
Speaker 1: And Sean emailed us about you and said that he
Speaker 1: really had a good time. But he's wondering why you're
Speaker 1: not answering his phone calls or text messages. Um, that's weird.
Speaker 1: I agree, it's kind of weird. I don't really know
Speaker 1: what you want to know. I guess we just weren't
Speaker 1: a fit. You weren't fit. Yeah, he's super cute guy,
Speaker 1: very nice, very charming, engage in the conversation and just
Speaker 1: sometimes in life. The timing boss. I don't really believe
Speaker 1: you on that one, because you called an uber before
Speaker 1: you even told him you were going to call an
Speaker 1: uber like that usually indicates something else was going on.
Speaker 1: How do you How do you know that? Because he
Speaker 1: told us he told you a lot about our date? Then, yeah,
Speaker 1: he did. He told us all about it. I mean
Speaker 1: the reason why I called the uber is there was
Speaker 1: some stuff that was going on, and I just I
Speaker 1: didn't really want to talk with him about it, and
Speaker 1: I just kind of wanted to excuse myself from the situation.
Speaker 1: And I just thought that, well, that's what wents beck.
Speaker 1: You mean, like stuff at the party going on that
Speaker 1: you didn't like. It's a little more complicated than that. Okay, Ay,
Speaker 1: mind telling us what it is so we can at
Speaker 1: least let him know because he liked you a lot. Um. So,
Speaker 1: Sean and I had our date set up, and earlier
Speaker 1: in the day, I had received a text message from
Speaker 1: my ex boyfriend. Okay, I didn't respond to it. I
Speaker 1: just kind of let it go by the wayside and
Speaker 1: wanted to enjoy my time with Sean and getting to
Speaker 1: know him. And so my song, my favorite song, Um,
Speaker 1: did he tell you what it was? Yeah? Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: all I'm saying. I've got your back on that one. Yeah.
Speaker 1: He told us that you're the record that you chose
Speaker 1: to bring with Cindy Lauper and the song that you
Speaker 1: wanted with True Colors. He told us that to me,
Speaker 1: it's just a really great song. It's just, you know,
Speaker 1: kind of a female anthem of support and really just
Speaker 1: going after what's important to you in your life. And
Speaker 1: I'm kind of getting emotional talking about it right now,
Speaker 1: but it just brought up a lot of emotions and
Speaker 1: it made me really kind of think about where I'm
Speaker 1: at in my life and where I want to go.
Speaker 1: And my ex just you know, sent me this lovely
Speaker 1: text message and it just I felt like it was
Speaker 1: a sign that we were supposed to be together, and
Speaker 1: you know, I got a little emotional excused myself. I
Speaker 1: went to the restroom. I kind of gathered things together
Speaker 1: and that's when, you know, I took a deep breath
Speaker 1: and was like, I just I don't feel comforable being
Speaker 1: here because it was kind of a weird emotional state.
Speaker 1: So I called the uber and that's kind of when
Speaker 1: I last. So nothing against Sean. It was he was
Speaker 1: very nice, but he's just not the person I'm supposed
Speaker 1: to be with So are you back with your X?
Speaker 1: I am? I am, Yeah, we're back together. I'm telling
Speaker 1: you that is a powerful song. I have tried many
Speaker 1: times to it. I haven't run back to any man's
Speaker 1: arms yet, but I could see how that could happen
Speaker 1: for you. Yeah, it was just the confirmation from that
Speaker 1: song and getting back to my act. It was just
Speaker 1: so strong. I couldn't ignore it. I couldn't sleep it
Speaker 1: on the rug. And I have Sean really to think
Speaker 1: for that. So oh nice. Yeah, Sean did a nice
Speaker 1: thing and reminded you of your ex boyfriend. So now
Speaker 1: you could go back and be in that relationship. You know,
Speaker 1: if you guys do talk to him, if you could
Speaker 1: pass that along, that would be great, because I do
Speaker 1: appreciate what meeting him has brought to my life. Sure. Well,
Speaker 1: actually you can thank him yourself, because he's on the
Speaker 1: other line listening and wants to talk to you. What
Speaker 1: do you mean, I mean, he's on the other line
Speaker 1: and wants to say hi to you. He's been listening
Speaker 1: to this whole thing. Yeah, ye, Sean, are you still there? Hip?
Speaker 1: I could rekindle your love. Look, I am so sorry
Speaker 1: for not returning your phone. Call and your text messages.
Speaker 1: I just I thought it was inappropriate. I didn't really
Speaker 1: know how to tell you, but thank you, honestly, thank you.
Speaker 1: I know it's probably not what you want to hear
Speaker 1: from a girl that you went out on a date
Speaker 1: with getting back together with her ex, But had I
Speaker 1: not had that opportunity to meet you and really kind
Speaker 1: of had that opportunity to bring a record to this
Speaker 1: really cool, interesting party that you invited me to. I
Speaker 1: wanted to have gotten to the place, you know, to
Speaker 1: be comfortable and confident in moving back into a relationship
Speaker 1: with X. And we're in a really good place right now. Sean.
Speaker 1: You should be really happy for her. Yeah, I'm super happy.
Speaker 1: You gotta be kidding me. I bet you. I bet
Speaker 1: you love SIDDI lauper True Colors more than ever before
Speaker 1: right now. I hated that song so much and I
Speaker 1: just have like a new level of just like that
Speaker 1: song real. Yes, really, party, you told me that you
Speaker 1: really liked it. Yeah, Well, I was lying through my
Speaker 1: teeth because I really like you, you know. I mean
Speaker 1: not to be cheesy, but you know, I thought we
Speaker 1: had something. I thought we had a nice time, and
Speaker 1: you know, I thought goes and I was a little
Speaker 1: bit but her youdn't return my text. Sean, we did.
Speaker 1: We had a great time. And I don't know any
Speaker 1: other way to say it, but you're you know, you're
Speaker 1: not my guy. You are a great guy. Hey, thanks,
Speaker 1: you know, and I understand, but just you know, the future,
Speaker 1: you could just return a text, you know. I think
Speaker 1: it was pretty nice of her to say that she
Speaker 1: had a good time since she spent half the date
Speaker 1: crying by herself in the bathroom. Yeah, you know, I
Speaker 1: have that effect sometimes, you know. There you go, Sean, Hey,
Speaker 1: at least you can take saulce and knowing that Sarah
Speaker 1: is happy, I guess. Yeah. I mean I never should
Speaker 1: have taken her to that damn party. Yeah. If you
Speaker 1: wouldn't have done that, she might not have realized that
Speaker 1: she wanted to be back with her ex. He was
Speaker 1: meant to be. I mean, it was it was going
Speaker 1: to happen eventually, and it just it kind of worked
Speaker 1: out in this lovely story the universe wanted to write
Speaker 1: for us. Well, Sarah, the universe wants me to ask you,
Speaker 1: if you'll go out with Sean on a second date,
Speaker 1: we will pay for it. You want to go out Sean. Again,
Speaker 1: she's not even single. Thank that'd be the most shocking. Yes,
Speaker 1: we ever got on a second date update, So you're
Speaker 1: sure about that? That's a no no. But I have
Speaker 1: some single girlfriends and I think might be a good
Speaker 1: fit for him. Oh nice, Sean, Are you interested in
Speaker 1: going out with one of Sarah's friends? Absolutely? You are
Speaker 1: talking to the og, super freaquent. When did you start?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm so excited. I am so excited to
Speaker 1: set you have. I've got a ton of girlfriends met
Speaker 1: some of them met at the bar, but I'll definitely
Speaker 1: get you guys in contact. All right, Well, there you go, Sean.
Speaker 1: It's kind of a successful second date update for you.
Speaker 1: I'll take it. Yeah. Yeah, And Sarah just make sure
Speaker 1: that any girl you set I'm up with has an
Speaker 1: ex boyfriend that she's been thinking about a lot. Very
Speaker 1: good point. On the text messages, it says that guy
Speaker 1: couldn't be a real hipster. A real hipster wouldn't listen
Speaker 1: to your show. I realized that. Yeah, Brooke and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the morning, if you missed the second day to
Speaker 1: update that was recorded when Brooke was still here. Jackie
Speaker 1: is filling in for Brook. Brooke is out on maternity
Speaker 1: leave and Sean wanted to call Sarah. Sean kind of
Speaker 1: a hipstery guy, at least he says so, but he
Speaker 1: listened to this show, so he can't be too much
Speaker 1: of a hipster. He took her to a vinyl party
Speaker 1: where everybody listens to records and then they talk about
Speaker 1: the songs that they chose for the evening. He chose
Speaker 1: Super Freak, she chose True Colors. Anyway, she wasn't calling
Speaker 1: him back because the song reminded her of her ex
Speaker 1: and then she called her X and got back together
Speaker 1: with her X and didn't want to go out with
Speaker 1: him again. Wow. And yeah, well it didn't really backfire
Speaker 1: too much because she said that he was a nice
Speaker 1: guy and she's willing to hook him up with some friends,
Speaker 1: so he was into that. So kind of a successful
Speaker 1: A second day update worked out forever. Yeah, remember, if
Speaker 1: you want to do a second day up the date,
Speaker 1: all you have to do his email the show and
Speaker 1: we will call the person didn't call you back. Proven
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