1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:08,080 Speaker 1: The Internet is our best shot at holding these cowards accountable. 2 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 2: There are no Girls on the Internet. As a production 3 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:20,240 Speaker 2: of iHeartRadio and Unbossed Creative, I'm Bridget Todd, and this 4 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:25,960 Speaker 2: is there are no girls on the Internet. Remember Signal Gate. 5 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:28,479 Speaker 2: It's been a minute and a lot has happened. So 6 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:32,480 Speaker 2: here's a quick refresher. The President's national security team got 7 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 2: caught using Signal, a private messaging app, to discuss sensitive 8 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 2: military operations, top tier secret stuff that should only really 9 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 2: be discussed on the Pentagon's ultra secure, billion dollar communication systems. 10 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 2: But instead of following protocol, Vice President j d Vance, 11 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 2: Secretary of Defense Pete Hegseach, National Security Advisor Mike Waltz, 12 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 2: and others were chatting on Signal. Now, I want to 13 00:00:56,440 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 2: be clear, Signal the app did nothing wrong. We're huge 14 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 2: fans of the Signal app here at there are no 15 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:04,479 Speaker 2: girls on the Internet. It's run by a nonprofit led 16 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 2: by Meredith Whittaker, who I deeply admire. This was user error, 17 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 2: plain and simple. So how did we even find out? Well, 18 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 2: it wasn't through a leak or a hack or a whistleblower. No, no, 19 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 2: no, no no. Someone accidentally added the editor in chief of 20 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:23,680 Speaker 2: The Atlantic, Jeffrey Goldberg, to the group chat, I have 21 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 2: to be honest. It's the kind of fat fingered mistake 22 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 2: I find kind of relatable personally, but I am not 23 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 2: handling national security. And it gets worse. After the scandal, 24 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:38,759 Speaker 2: Waltz was photographed using an unofficial signal knockoff called TM signal, 25 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 2: made by a company called Telemessage, which was recently bought 26 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 2: by I kid you not a company called smarsh That's 27 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 2: a name that definitely inspires confidence. Now, unlike Signal, TM 28 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 2: signal stores messages on central servers insecurely, kind of the 29 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 2: opposite of signals. Whole thing. Since this story broke, hackers 30 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 2: have breached the servers multiple times. One hacker told four 31 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 2: l four media that Telebassage had not bothered to implement 32 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 2: basic digital security of practices, and that's the whole thing, 33 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 2: always with about fifteen minutes to break into. Now, this 34 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 2: is not just political drama. It's about real lives, like 35 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 2: those of America's three million service members, people like the 36 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 2: husband of my friend Kendall Brown, a digital strategist and 37 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 2: content creator. Service members can't always speak out, but Kendall can. 38 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:33,080 Speaker 2: She makes it her business to use the Internet to 39 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 2: speak up for service members like her husband. 40 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:41,799 Speaker 1: Weirdly, he in some ways I think he lives vicariously 41 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:45,920 Speaker 1: through me online, that I'm able to say all of 42 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 1: this shit and he cannot. So I think in some 43 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: way like I've never made a video related to the 44 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 1: military without running it by him first, and I have 45 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 1: yet to make one that he doesn't agree with, So 46 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 1: in some ways I feel like I'm being his mouth 47 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:03,639 Speaker 1: for him. 48 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 2: Beyond the logistics of what happened with Signal Gate, Kendall's 49 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 2: reaction went deeper. She was pissed off. Here's a little 50 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 2: of what Kendall had to say in her now viral 51 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 2: TikTok about Signal Gate. 52 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: As someone whose husband is currently deployed in the Middle East, 53 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 1: not far from Yemen, I'm gonna warn you now this 54 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 1: is going to be the angriest fucking video I have 55 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: ever made in my entire life, because there are not 56 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 1: adequate words in the English language for me to fully 57 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 1: fucking communicate to you right now, how fucking furious I am. 58 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 2: I can only really describe the tone of that video 59 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 2: as like righteous, righteous anger, like very I don't know, 60 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 2: like yeah, it lit a fire in me, and I 61 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 2: do think that there's something about seeing a video like 62 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 2: that right now, where every day I am seeing content 63 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 2: that enrages me and it's easy to sort of get 64 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 2: numb to it, but something about your video really broke through. 65 00:03:57,880 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 2: So what was going through your mind? And when you 66 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 2: first saw this news about the signal chat? 67 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 1: Oh, I was big mad, Like I It was the 68 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:13,920 Speaker 1: kind of mad where I feel like all thoughts left 69 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 1: my head entirely and it was just left with this 70 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 1: like buzzing noise. 71 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:18,720 Speaker 2: It was. 72 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 1: You know, a lot of the content that I post 73 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 1: online there is at least some amount of like forethought 74 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:27,720 Speaker 1: to it. This was not one of those times. I 75 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 1: literally just got my phone started recording and immediately was 76 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 1: just honestly practically screaming into my phone, definitely yelling, almost 77 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:44,599 Speaker 1: to the level of screaming, and just honestly it was 78 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 1: I just I was so mad. I had to get 79 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:51,360 Speaker 1: it out there. And I knew that this is one 80 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 1: of those topics that the people in power get away 81 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 1: with this shit, specifically because they know the people most impacted. 82 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:04,720 Speaker 1: Active duty service members literally cannot say anything publicly, and 83 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 1: so the overwhelming majority of Americans have no way of 84 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 1: connecting emotionally with the topic. And so you know, most democrats, 85 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 1: most leftists can look at the story and be like, yeah, 86 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:24,600 Speaker 1: logically this is bad, but they can't feel the emotion 87 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:29,480 Speaker 1: of how scary it is, how infuriating it is. And 88 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 1: I think it's really important for people to connect to 89 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 1: the emotions of it. I think that's one of our 90 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:40,359 Speaker 1: biggest flaws on the left is that we get like 91 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:42,840 Speaker 1: really absorbed into the like facts and we're going to 92 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 1: fact check you to death and somehow if we just 93 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:47,480 Speaker 1: tell you enough facts, you're going to be on our side. 94 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 1: And that's just not how humans work. So yeah, I 95 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:58,599 Speaker 1: try to show up emotionally in most of my content, 96 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:01,160 Speaker 1: but especially when I'm talking about a subject that I 97 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:04,239 Speaker 1: know most people just have no I mean most people 98 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 1: not only haven't served, they don't have a loved one 99 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: that like a close immediate loved one that has served. 100 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:18,280 Speaker 1: And so there's just there's no way to connect to that. 101 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 1: And we live in a society where media has depicted 102 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 1: military service as this like romantic you know, oh, it's 103 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:33,279 Speaker 1: the sacrifice and everyone that does it is so ready 104 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 1: to lay down their lives and just oh, and the 105 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 1: reality is like most of the people in the military 106 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 1: are just poor people that needed a path out of 107 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:50,600 Speaker 1: poverty or out of whatever rural hellhole they were born in, 108 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 1: and like they just want to do their job and 109 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:57,840 Speaker 1: go home at the end of the day. They're just 110 00:06:58,080 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 1: normal people. 111 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:00,160 Speaker 2: Oh. 112 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: I think even for people on the left, like I said, 113 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:06,960 Speaker 1: it can just be really hard to connect to it emotionally. 114 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 1: So there have been times where I've recorded rants where 115 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 1: I haven't posted but because you know, I'll watch it 116 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 1: back and I'll be like, ooh, okay, I was a 117 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 1: little too far on that one. I need to like 118 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 1: bring it down a few notts. But this was not 119 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:21,320 Speaker 1: one of those times. 120 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 2: Kendall's righteous anger struck a chord. Her video rapped up 121 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 2: over three million views and sparked headlines across the country 122 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 2: like military wife rips, hegsas for risking husband's life and 123 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 2: viral video. 124 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 1: So I just went ahead and I was like, let's 125 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 1: do it. So I just went ahead and posted it. 126 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 1: And I genuinely I was expecting there to be people 127 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 1: that were angry about it. I wasn't expecting there to 128 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 1: be as much of a positive response to it that 129 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 1: there was. What was the response like, so on Twitter, 130 00:07:59,880 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 1: it was basically just immediately launched into like a week 131 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 1: and a half of thousands of people calling me fat essentially, 132 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 1: like that was the primary response is oh, well, you're 133 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 1: a fat bitch essentially, And then Instagram was a little 134 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 1: bit of both. I just got to the point where 135 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:25,920 Speaker 1: I started oscillating back and forth between I'm not gonna 136 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 1: look at any of the comments, screw them. I said 137 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 1: what I said, and I'm just whatever. They can have 138 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:32,960 Speaker 1: their feelings and I don't have to listen to them, 139 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:37,080 Speaker 1: to then oscillating back to no, you know what, I 140 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:38,800 Speaker 1: am going to read the comments and I'm going to 141 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:40,679 Speaker 1: go in and I'm going to be mean back to 142 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 1: them because none of these motherfuckers know how to make 143 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:47,720 Speaker 1: a funny insult. So I really for the first week 144 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:49,720 Speaker 1: that's mostly what I was doing, just because it was 145 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 1: fun to me. And then weirdly on Instagram was first 146 00:08:56,800 --> 00:08:58,559 Speaker 1: of all, Instagram was like right in the middle in 147 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 1: terms of how people respond to it. But that was 148 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:05,959 Speaker 1: also where I started hearing from a ton of military spouses, 149 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 1: a ton of active duty service members reaching out to 150 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 1: me and being like, oh my god, thank you, Like 151 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 1: we can't say this or we didn't know how to 152 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:17,560 Speaker 1: say this, And so once I started getting those messages, 153 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:19,400 Speaker 1: I didn't give a shit what they were saying on 154 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 1: Twitter at that point because like the people that responded 155 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 1: by telling me how repulsive they thought, I was, like, 156 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 1: they clearly have no idea what it's like for military families, 157 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 1: So who gives a shit about their opinions when the 158 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 1: actual military families are reaching out to me and saying 159 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:38,200 Speaker 1: that they're grateful. 160 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 2: Military families cannot always be as outspoken as Kendall is, 161 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:45,520 Speaker 2: but sometimes they are. Take what happened Back in February, 162 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 2: Secretary of Defense Pete Hegseth announced a series of hardline changes, 163 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:54,199 Speaker 2: banning trans people from joining the military, halting gender reforming 164 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 2: care for service members, and restricting certain books of the 165 00:09:56,679 --> 00:10:00,160 Speaker 2: Department of Defense schools. Soon after, during a what is 166 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:02,720 Speaker 2: It to a US military base in Germany, he was 167 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 2: met with unexpected pushback. About two dozen military families, mostly 168 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 2: young people, gathered to make their voices heard. They booed, heckled, 169 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:17,080 Speaker 2: and even chanted d Ei d ei, you know, basically 170 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 2: saying you, Pete Hegseth, are the dei higher? You know? 171 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 2: It has to be a real specific kind of dynamic 172 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:27,320 Speaker 2: where if you are a service member or somebody close 173 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:30,440 Speaker 2: to a service member, you can't always say your opinion 174 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 2: about things or you know, even if you are not 175 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:37,079 Speaker 2: a service member yourself, if you're close to one that 176 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:39,320 Speaker 2: comes with its own kind of baggage, that might be 177 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 2: very silencing. So in ways, do you feel like you're 178 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:46,240 Speaker 2: able to sort of be the person who you know 179 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:49,880 Speaker 2: explains the emotionality behind this situation for folks who sometimes 180 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:50,439 Speaker 2: really can't. 181 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so. But I'm also honestly, I'm really 182 00:10:56,280 --> 00:11:02,200 Speaker 1: inspired by a So even like a lot of people 183 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:04,480 Speaker 1: have been saying, like, oh, what you said, being willing 184 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 1: to say that and like take that risk is really brave, 185 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 1: But I was actually inspired by the bravery of there 186 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 1: was a group of middle school age kids who have 187 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:20,840 Speaker 1: a parent that is active duty military and is stationed 188 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 1: in I want to say, it's Stuttered, Germany. It's one 189 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:28,200 Speaker 1: of the German bases. And right at the very beginning 190 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 1: of like right after Pete Hegseth had been confirmed, he 191 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:37,960 Speaker 1: went to this military base and not only was he 192 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 1: met by a couple a dozen active duty military families, 193 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:46,199 Speaker 1: like when he was getting off the plane, they were 194 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:50,280 Speaker 1: standing there protesting him and yelling at him about how 195 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 1: he has been attacking the concept of DEI. But also 196 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 1: when he visited the middle school that's on base, the 197 00:11:58,480 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 1: there was like a fifth grader that led a walkout 198 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 1: of all of the students in response to him. 199 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:08,080 Speaker 2: It's impressive, for sure, but not without risk for service 200 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 2: members and their families. Speaking your mind comes at a 201 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:14,520 Speaker 2: high cost. 202 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:17,440 Speaker 1: I don't think people understand how big of a risk 203 00:12:17,520 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 1: you're taking as a military family member, especially when you're deployed, 204 00:12:23,559 --> 00:12:28,679 Speaker 1: when you're stationed overseas, because anything that you do on 205 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:34,200 Speaker 1: base is held against your sponsors, so your active duty 206 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 1: service member. I have seen families get kicked off of 207 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:42,640 Speaker 1: bite base housing entirely because of something their kid did. So, like, 208 00:12:43,000 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 1: you know, where I'm where we live, there was a kid. 209 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:50,559 Speaker 1: Usually it's like, you know, shitty teenagers being shitty teenagers 210 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 1: and like vandalizing something, and if they figure out who 211 00:12:53,120 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 1: did it, that whole family has to move off of 212 00:12:55,880 --> 00:13:00,160 Speaker 1: base housing. So like it is very very serious. So 213 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 1: the fact that these kids were brave enough to do 214 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:09,120 Speaker 1: that knowing that, like, the stakes are even higher when 215 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:11,640 Speaker 1: you're at a base overseas because if you get kicked 216 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 1: out out of base housing on an overseas base, where 217 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:17,959 Speaker 1: the fuck are you going to live? You know, and 218 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 1: we already know that these this is an administration that 219 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 1: is willing to strand people overseas, like they did to 220 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 1: a bunch of the US AID employees that were stationed overseas, 221 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 1: and then they were just like, well, not only are 222 00:13:34,160 --> 00:13:36,319 Speaker 1: we eliminating your job, We're also not going to pay 223 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:39,720 Speaker 1: to fly you back, so have fun figuring out how 224 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:43,559 Speaker 1: to get home from Sudan or wherever. So it was 225 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:50,000 Speaker 1: a huge risk that they took, and so I was 226 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 1: very inspired by them, and I recognize that I'm in 227 00:13:55,920 --> 00:14:02,720 Speaker 1: a very fortunate spot this like weird intersection of you know, 228 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:05,360 Speaker 1: I work in communications, so I have the ability to 229 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:08,440 Speaker 1: put together an argument at a level that maybe not 230 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:10,680 Speaker 1: a lot of people have been trained to be able 231 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:14,080 Speaker 1: to do. I also, because I work in comms and 232 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 1: because I work in politics, I have from the very 233 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:24,160 Speaker 1: beginning kept my digital online footprint separate from my husband, 234 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:27,920 Speaker 1: so like, I don't have to worry about, oh God, 235 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 1: if I say something now, I have ten years of 236 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:34,400 Speaker 1: posting about him constantly that they could connect me to. 237 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 1: And I'm really lucky that I have a partner that 238 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 1: is like, yeah, girl, go get them. You know, like 239 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 1: he understands that my career and my activism is really 240 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:52,400 Speaker 1: important to me, and as long as I'm not just 241 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:58,280 Speaker 1: blatantly setting out to ruin his career, he is very 242 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:01,000 Speaker 1: accepting of the fact that, like, this is a calculated 243 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 1: risk that I am taking. So yeah, all that together, 244 00:15:06,520 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 1: I think just put me in a very fortunate spot 245 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 1: where I could be that mouthpiece to try and put 246 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:17,080 Speaker 1: it in people's face. And yeah, as long as I'm 247 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 1: in this position and I can do that, I'm going 248 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:24,960 Speaker 1: to continue to do that because I think the military 249 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 1: industrial complex has gotten away with a lot for a 250 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:30,360 Speaker 1: really long time, and a huge part of that is 251 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 1: because the people with the most knowledge and ability to 252 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 1: push back on it are also the people who were 253 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:40,360 Speaker 1: most often silenced. 254 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:44,160 Speaker 2: That silencing that you spoke to is so real for 255 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 2: so many issues, and I think the powers that be 256 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:49,080 Speaker 2: kind of depend on the people who are closest to 257 00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 2: the harm, who can speak to the harm most clearly 258 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:56,240 Speaker 2: and saliently also being silent, and then the people who 259 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 2: can speak up fully. Putting myself in this camp are 260 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 2: some times really only able to do so from this 261 00:16:02,560 --> 00:16:06,400 Speaker 2: incredibly heady or logistical place, but they're speaking about something 262 00:16:06,440 --> 00:16:09,360 Speaker 2: that is deeply human and emotional at its core. Why 263 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:11,280 Speaker 2: do you think it's so easy to sort of skip 264 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:13,880 Speaker 2: over the human emotionality of these stories in favor of 265 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:15,560 Speaker 2: things like facts and figures. 266 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:19,080 Speaker 1: That's a really good question. I think it's probably a 267 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 1: couple of factors, because it's certainly not just like the 268 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 1: things impacting military service members that we do that too, right, Like, 269 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:33,400 Speaker 1: just look at like the entire conversation about Gaza, right Like, 270 00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:37,160 Speaker 1: we get really focused because it's we can't understand what 271 00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 1: it's like to be living there. We can't, like, I 272 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 1: have no way of even trying to put myself into 273 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:48,240 Speaker 1: that position. So it's just I think it's partially that 274 00:16:48,280 --> 00:16:55,200 Speaker 1: it's an easier leap in people's brains. I also think 275 00:16:55,680 --> 00:17:01,080 Speaker 1: that again, it is partially just a democratic and leftist 276 00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:06,119 Speaker 1: impulse that we always jump to the facts of the 277 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:08,720 Speaker 1: case and the logistics, like we want to know everything, 278 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 1: and we're just if we can just get you to 279 00:17:10,520 --> 00:17:12,879 Speaker 1: see that you're being hypocrites, we can finally get you 280 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 1: to stop. So I think that's partially it. And I 281 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:22,359 Speaker 1: also think that there's some element to it that is 282 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:26,280 Speaker 1: the American people, I think have been groomed to do 283 00:17:26,359 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 1: that somewhat like it's beneficial to the Trump administration if 284 00:17:30,359 --> 00:17:34,439 Speaker 1: we skip over the emotion of it, because it's a 285 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:37,359 Speaker 1: lot easier for the Press Secretary for the White House 286 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:41,520 Speaker 1: to get up there and be snide and dismissive and 287 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:46,600 Speaker 1: like mocking of reporters when they ask questions related to 288 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:50,480 Speaker 1: the logistics. It's a lot harder for her to be 289 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 1: dismissive and snide if the emotion of it is put 290 00:17:54,359 --> 00:18:00,199 Speaker 1: in their face. And yeah, so I think the the 291 00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:04,880 Speaker 1: Trump administration wants us to do that. They've been grooming 292 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:06,959 Speaker 1: us to do that. I also think that the media 293 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:12,360 Speaker 1: is kind of complicit in it because when you have 294 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:18,040 Speaker 1: a media that is so overwhelmingly a certain type of person, 295 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:23,480 Speaker 1: a certain socioeconomic status of person, like, they can only 296 00:18:23,520 --> 00:18:27,360 Speaker 1: convey the emotion of the experiences that they understand themselves. 297 00:18:27,840 --> 00:18:34,280 Speaker 1: And there aren't a lot of service members or military 298 00:18:34,320 --> 00:18:39,080 Speaker 1: spouses that go on to become reporters, and so it's 299 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:42,119 Speaker 1: just most of the media doesn't have the ability to 300 00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:44,440 Speaker 1: write about it in the same way that like most 301 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:47,680 Speaker 1: of the media has no idea about how to write 302 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 1: about the emotion of Gaza or the emotion of being 303 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:56,199 Speaker 1: an undocumented immigrant, and so they don't, and so we 304 00:18:56,320 --> 00:18:59,879 Speaker 1: get further groomed into not thinking about it or carrying 305 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:00,479 Speaker 1: about it. 306 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:18,840 Speaker 2: Let's take a quick break at our back. The invasion 307 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:21,919 Speaker 2: of Iraq was my political awakening as a young person. 308 00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:25,000 Speaker 2: My favorite cousin had enlisted a few years earlier, and 309 00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:27,000 Speaker 2: when President Bush announced that we were going to war, 310 00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 2: I honestly thought we had to stop it so that 311 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 2: he wouldn't be deployed. Eventually, he was deployed, but this 312 00:19:34,040 --> 00:19:36,560 Speaker 2: was also the beginning of my time online. I was 313 00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 2: on message boards looking for protests, trying to find folks 314 00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:43,200 Speaker 2: who were organizing. Now these days, everybody says they were 315 00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:45,959 Speaker 2: against the Iraq war, but that's not how I remember it. 316 00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:48,600 Speaker 2: What I remember is that if you were anti war 317 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:51,200 Speaker 2: like I was, people would say, oh, so you don't 318 00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:55,159 Speaker 2: support the troops. Support our troops kind of became this 319 00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:58,480 Speaker 2: slogan that basically meant you could not criticize US military 320 00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:01,679 Speaker 2: policy because if you did, you were somehow against the 321 00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:06,439 Speaker 2: very people risking their lives. That was two thousand and three. Today, 322 00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 2: it feels like things have really changed. I feel like 323 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 2: there was a time, especially for the Republican Party, where 324 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:15,400 Speaker 2: the troops were these like exalted people that you had 325 00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:17,959 Speaker 2: to support the troops. You could not question the troops, 326 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:20,640 Speaker 2: just like you were saying this like massive hero narrative 327 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:22,679 Speaker 2: that these are people who are risking their lives and 328 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:24,960 Speaker 2: we have to do everything to support them, including not 329 00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:27,920 Speaker 2: questioning what the government is doing with regards to service members. 330 00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:33,080 Speaker 2: And today seeing Republican leaders be so flippant about those 331 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:35,840 Speaker 2: very same service members when dismissing the fact that they 332 00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:38,919 Speaker 2: needlessly endangered their lives with signal gad that just a 333 00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:41,080 Speaker 2: few years ago we were saying were the most important 334 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:43,240 Speaker 2: people that you had to support the troops, It just 335 00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:45,919 Speaker 2: really makes clear that maybe they didn't really give that 336 00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:48,240 Speaker 2: much of a shit about service members and their families. 337 00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:53,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's actually a specific moment in our history as 338 00:20:53,320 --> 00:20:55,639 Speaker 1: a country that I would point to as being the 339 00:20:55,680 --> 00:21:00,399 Speaker 1: moment where that shift started to happen, and it was 340 00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:08,880 Speaker 1: during a Republican primary debate for the presidential race in 341 00:21:09,119 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 1: two thousand and eight, somewhere around there. If anybody wants 342 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:13,879 Speaker 1: to watch what I'm talking about, it's literally featured in 343 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 1: an episode. This is embarrassing to site, but it's also 344 00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:21,199 Speaker 1: featured in an episode of the Newsroom. So there's a 345 00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:25,320 Speaker 1: moment where they are, you know, they have questions that 346 00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 1: are being asked by general like normal people, and they 347 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 1: have a soldier who is currently he was stationed, he 348 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 1: was deployed to either Afghanistan or Iraq like as he 349 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:41,119 Speaker 1: was asking this question, they were video videoing him in 350 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:46,200 Speaker 1: and he says, because this is when don't ask, don't 351 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:49,000 Speaker 1: tell was still a thing, and so he says, you know, 352 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:54,320 Speaker 1: I am a gay service member and all I want 353 00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:58,159 Speaker 1: to do is serve my country. Like I this is 354 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:00,920 Speaker 1: very important to me. I want to continue to serve. 355 00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:03,679 Speaker 1: I want to continue to put my life on the line. 356 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:06,440 Speaker 1: And of course this is when there was like active war, 357 00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:09,440 Speaker 1: so putting your life on the line like really had 358 00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:11,960 Speaker 1: weight to it at the moment at that time. And 359 00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:17,000 Speaker 1: you know, I want to know, are there any anyone 360 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:20,959 Speaker 1: on this stage, any candidate that would be willing to 361 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:24,199 Speaker 1: do away with don't ask, don't tell so that service 362 00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:26,960 Speaker 1: members like me don't have to hide who I am 363 00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:31,399 Speaker 1: in order to serve my country. And not a single 364 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:38,480 Speaker 1: person on that stage responded with any empathy towards him 365 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:43,120 Speaker 1: with any respect for his service, and the overwhelming majority 366 00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:44,320 Speaker 1: of the audience booed him. 367 00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:46,919 Speaker 3: In twenty ten, when I was deployed to Iraq, I 368 00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:48,879 Speaker 3: had to lie about who I was because I'm a 369 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:51,160 Speaker 3: gay soldier and I didn't want to lose my job. 370 00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:55,439 Speaker 3: My question is, under one of your presidencies, do you 371 00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 3: intend to circumvent the progress that's been made for gay 372 00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:02,440 Speaker 3: and lesbian soldiers in the military. 373 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:05,520 Speaker 1: Before he had even finished asking this question, the audience 374 00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:10,200 Speaker 1: was booing him. And I genuinely think that's the moment 375 00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:13,800 Speaker 1: when it started to shift. And I think that a 376 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 1: huge part of that shift is because the Republican Party 377 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 1: only wanted to focus on the emotional side of things 378 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:28,359 Speaker 1: when they could be assured that military service members and 379 00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:33,960 Speaker 1: their families were a silent audience that they could tokenize 380 00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:37,800 Speaker 1: without any risk of them pushing back in the same 381 00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:42,520 Speaker 1: way that the Conservative Party still tokenize it, like talks 382 00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 1: about like, oh, the unborn babies, and this is why 383 00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:48,040 Speaker 1: we're so you know, because they know unborn babies, like 384 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:51,840 Speaker 1: literal zygotes cannot speak up and be like, hey, actually, 385 00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 1: we do support women's right to choose, so uh, I 386 00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:58,480 Speaker 1: think that was part of it once they realized that, 387 00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:03,280 Speaker 1: like at any moment, if we invoke the military and 388 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:08,800 Speaker 1: try to romanticize their service, somebody in that audience could 389 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:13,000 Speaker 1: stand up and be like, you, motherfucker, how dare you 390 00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 1: invoke our service when you are sending us to die? 391 00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:20,520 Speaker 1: You know, just like the guy that threw his shoes 392 00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:25,359 Speaker 1: at at George W. Bush. And that's why, you know. 393 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:28,919 Speaker 1: In addition to my original signal Gate video I had, 394 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:32,680 Speaker 1: I recorded myself when I called and talked to Senator 395 00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:37,919 Speaker 1: Mark Wayne Mullen's office since he's my senator, Kendall recorded 396 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 1: herself calling her Oklahoma Senator, Senator Mullens, and let's just 397 00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:46,160 Speaker 1: say her anger comes through loud and clear. Quick heads up, 398 00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:48,199 Speaker 1: there is a lot of strong language and what you're 399 00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:51,080 Speaker 1: about to hear. And so help me, God, if I 400 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:53,919 Speaker 1: have to quit my fucking job to make sure that 401 00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:57,680 Speaker 1: I can drive to every fucking campaign and public event 402 00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:00,000 Speaker 1: that the senator has for the rest of his career, 403 00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:04,120 Speaker 1: I will make it my life's work to destroy his 404 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:08,160 Speaker 1: career by making sure that every fucking Oklahoma knows how 405 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:11,240 Speaker 1: few fucks he gave about my husband's life and the 406 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:14,960 Speaker 1: lives of other active duty service members, But I do 407 00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:16,600 Speaker 1: want to make it very clear, and I hope that 408 00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:19,040 Speaker 1: you will take down this message and relay it to 409 00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:21,840 Speaker 1: the Senator to help encourage him to actually be a 410 00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:24,680 Speaker 1: man and make sure that I get a call set 411 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:27,360 Speaker 1: up when I reach out to this scheduler. I want 412 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,760 Speaker 1: you to let him know that if he doesn't reach 413 00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:32,600 Speaker 1: out to me, I'm recording every single time that I 414 00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:35,120 Speaker 1: have called his office and left a voicemailt or spoke 415 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:37,239 Speaker 1: to an intern like you. I am recording all of 416 00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:39,560 Speaker 1: those and if I don't hear back from him, I 417 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:42,879 Speaker 1: will be sending them to every possible newsroom, both in 418 00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:46,280 Speaker 1: Oklahoma and nationally, to let them know that the Senator 419 00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:48,359 Speaker 1: is too much of a coward to call back the 420 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:52,840 Speaker 1: wife of one of the service members in his constituency 421 00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:55,520 Speaker 1: that was put at risk. And so help me God, 422 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:58,360 Speaker 1: if I have to quit my fucking job to make 423 00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,760 Speaker 1: sure that I can drive to every fucking campaign and 424 00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:04,159 Speaker 1: public event that the Senator has for the rest of 425 00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:07,879 Speaker 1: his career, I will make it my life's work to 426 00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:12,119 Speaker 1: destroy his career by making sure that every fucking Oklahoma 427 00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:15,800 Speaker 1: knows how few fucks he gave about my husband's life. 428 00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:22,119 Speaker 1: And the lives of other active duty service members. If 429 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:25,200 Speaker 1: I'd known that video was gonna go viral side note, 430 00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:28,800 Speaker 1: I would have cursed significantly less. I'm a little embarrassed 431 00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:30,960 Speaker 1: that I cursed this much on the phone to a 432 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:36,320 Speaker 1: US senator's office, but I straight up said, like, I 433 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:40,159 Speaker 1: don't care. If I have to quit my job and 434 00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:45,200 Speaker 1: make it my life's work to destroy Senator Mullen's career, 435 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:47,800 Speaker 1: I will do it. I will drive to every fucking 436 00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:50,760 Speaker 1: campaign event he has for the rest of his life 437 00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:54,360 Speaker 1: and be in the audience and be there to remind 438 00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:57,920 Speaker 1: people of how few shits he gave about my husband's 439 00:26:57,920 --> 00:26:59,919 Speaker 1: life and about the lives of other service members. 440 00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:02,879 Speaker 2: And I. 441 00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:08,960 Speaker 1: Want not even just Republicans, I want all politicians to 442 00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:13,000 Speaker 1: have that fear at all times. I want them to 443 00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:16,480 Speaker 1: know at any moment if you tokenize someone, whether it's 444 00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:21,359 Speaker 1: over their military service, or do you're tokenizing DOCCA recipients 445 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:24,320 Speaker 1: or whatever it is, I want them to know, at 446 00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:27,760 Speaker 1: any moment, someone could stand up in the audience and 447 00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:32,919 Speaker 1: remind everyone at your event of the actual humans behind 448 00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:37,159 Speaker 1: what you are talking about. And I think if we 449 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:41,639 Speaker 1: could get politicians to feel that fear again on every topic. 450 00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:45,719 Speaker 1: I think politics in our country would look a lot different. 451 00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:49,879 Speaker 2: Yes, make politicians afraid again. And this is why I 452 00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,440 Speaker 2: love your content, because, as you say on your TikTok, 453 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:56,240 Speaker 2: you're telling the stories of men in power and reminding 454 00:27:56,280 --> 00:28:00,480 Speaker 2: you not to respect them, and showing people but the 455 00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:04,200 Speaker 2: layers of ways that they have screwed people that they 456 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:07,840 Speaker 2: supposedly say they care about. They've not upheld, you know, 457 00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:10,879 Speaker 2: anything looking like accountability to the people that they have 458 00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 2: been elected to serve. I don't know, I really appreciate 459 00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:16,880 Speaker 2: that about your content, that it's like about shifting our 460 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,600 Speaker 2: understanding of like who works for who, who should be 461 00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,680 Speaker 2: afraid of who? I think that's the magic of the internet, 462 00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:25,560 Speaker 2: you know, Like, think about how many videos we've seen 463 00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:30,320 Speaker 2: over the years of constituents trying to confront their elected 464 00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:35,400 Speaker 2: official in Congress on any topic, whether it's military, health care, whatever, 465 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:42,000 Speaker 2: and almost without fail, those clips end with that member 466 00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:47,080 Speaker 2: of Congress getting into the congressional member only elevator and 467 00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:50,080 Speaker 2: then the doors slowly sliding shut in front of their 468 00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:54,600 Speaker 2: face and protecting them from actually having to have that 469 00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:59,440 Speaker 2: hard conversation with their constituent. And I think the magic 470 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:03,040 Speaker 2: of the Internet is that it can it can knock 471 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:09,360 Speaker 2: those sliding elevator doors down. They can't run from their 472 00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:12,360 Speaker 2: constituents in the same way that they can in real life. 473 00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:17,600 Speaker 2: And obviously, you know, there's there's other ways that they 474 00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:19,960 Speaker 2: can dodge that. When it's the Internet, right, they can 475 00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:23,160 Speaker 2: just pretend that they don't see it or whatever. 476 00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:30,360 Speaker 1: But I think that's where I'm trying to utilize my 477 00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:33,480 Speaker 1: content to prevent them from even being able to do that. 478 00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:36,840 Speaker 1: Like Mark Wayne Mullen cannot fucking pretend that he has 479 00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:39,479 Speaker 1: not seen my videos. And I know he can't pretend 480 00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:43,320 Speaker 1: that because there have been national reporters that have called 481 00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 1: his office and asked him for comment on them. There's 482 00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:49,240 Speaker 1: not a chance in hell that man has not seen 483 00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:54,680 Speaker 1: every video I have ever made about him. And I 484 00:29:54,800 --> 00:30:02,080 Speaker 1: just I if I could that like snap my fingers 485 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:06,560 Speaker 1: and have any wish come true. I would love to 486 00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:10,600 Speaker 1: be able to like dedicate significant portions of my time 487 00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,880 Speaker 1: and of my life to being able to train other 488 00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:17,280 Speaker 1: people on how to do what I'm doing right now. 489 00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:20,040 Speaker 1: Like I I don't want to be the one person 490 00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:22,640 Speaker 1: that's like seeing as like ooh, she's doing this thing, 491 00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:25,520 Speaker 1: you know, Like I want there to be so many 492 00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:29,960 Speaker 1: people doing the same exact thing that no one ever 493 00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:34,640 Speaker 1: again thinks that like what I'm doing is special or remarkable. 494 00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:38,320 Speaker 1: Like I if I could completely drive myself out of 495 00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:42,040 Speaker 1: a job as a content creator by getting enough people 496 00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:44,640 Speaker 1: other people to be doing the same thing, I would 497 00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:50,200 Speaker 1: because I really think that the internet is our best 498 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:54,440 Speaker 1: shot at holding these cowards accountable. 499 00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:10,480 Speaker 2: More after a quick break, let's get right back into 500 00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:14,640 Speaker 2: it rather than just preaching to acquire. Kendall has an 501 00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:17,480 Speaker 2: entire series on how to talk the conservatives In a 502 00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:21,880 Speaker 2: digital climate that often prioritizes dunks and clapbacks. Kendall's taking 503 00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:24,520 Speaker 2: a different approach, using the Internet to have the kinds 504 00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:28,320 Speaker 2: of conversation that might actually change hearts and minds. It's 505 00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:31,000 Speaker 2: not about giving someone like me a quick dopamine fix 506 00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:36,080 Speaker 2: or a smug sense of superiority for her. It's about connection, persuasion, 507 00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:39,280 Speaker 2: and doing the harder work of actually reaching across divides. 508 00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:42,840 Speaker 2: I feel like you're able to occupy this very specific 509 00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:46,480 Speaker 2: lane where you're able to speak to people that might 510 00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:49,320 Speaker 2: not be there yet and train other people on how 511 00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:51,840 Speaker 2: they can do the same. Is that intentional with your 512 00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:53,520 Speaker 2: sort of content strategy here? 513 00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:57,160 Speaker 1: Yes, very much. So so, First of all, okay. 514 00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:59,240 Speaker 2: So this gets. 515 00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:00,840 Speaker 1: Dangerously close to a topic that I could rant about 516 00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:05,400 Speaker 1: four hours. Uh, but I think genuinely one of the 517 00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:12,480 Speaker 1: most destructive things that has happened in content creation writ 518 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:14,680 Speaker 1: large over the last several years, and one of the 519 00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:20,080 Speaker 1: most destructive things that TikTok specifically has groomed people into doing, 520 00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:28,320 Speaker 1: is is viewing political content as solely through the lens 521 00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:33,040 Speaker 1: of those like clap back videos that lots of people do, 522 00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:36,520 Speaker 1: right Like, I'm gonna find a conservative doing the dumbest 523 00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:39,200 Speaker 1: fucking video I can, and then I'm gonna take it, 524 00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna respond to them. I'm gonna be smug 525 00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:44,640 Speaker 1: and snide, and I'm gonna tell you why they are 526 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:46,920 Speaker 1: the dumbest piece of shit ever. And then I'm gonna 527 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:49,719 Speaker 1: get one hundred thousand likes on it. I'm gonna make 528 00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:52,720 Speaker 1: thousands of dollars. But have I moved the needle in 529 00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:55,720 Speaker 1: any way on any issue? No, absolutely not. 530 00:32:57,120 --> 00:32:59,760 Speaker 2: So I have to tell you this comes up on 531 00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:02,320 Speaker 2: the show like this, I am right there with you. 532 00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:06,640 Speaker 2: I feel like that kind of content has made our 533 00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:10,960 Speaker 2: entire discourse, especially online, so much worse. It's so harmful 534 00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:13,520 Speaker 2: and The thing that gets me about it is that 535 00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:17,520 Speaker 2: like it is so like it's like when you eat 536 00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:20,080 Speaker 2: a bunch of McDonald's and it tastes so good and 537 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,600 Speaker 2: then it's so empty in the end, like it is 538 00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:28,480 Speaker 2: so hollow and shallow, but it's so like it scratches 539 00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:30,400 Speaker 2: an itch I wish I didn't have. And I think 540 00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:34,040 Speaker 2: I'm seeing the results of that writ large on our 541 00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:36,640 Speaker 2: on our social media discourse. Do you know what I mean? Like, 542 00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:38,720 Speaker 2: I'll just say yes, I agree with you one hundred percent. 543 00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:41,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean. And that's the thing, like, when 544 00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:43,720 Speaker 1: I say this about this content, I am not in 545 00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:46,400 Speaker 1: any way judging people that consume that content, because hell, 546 00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:49,800 Speaker 1: I consume that content. There are times where I really 547 00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:52,920 Speaker 1: enjoy that content, you know, especially when we're in a 548 00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:56,040 Speaker 1: society where it can feel like you are just like 549 00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:59,760 Speaker 1: screaming into a void and being like how are not? 550 00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:02,320 Speaker 1: How are there so many people that think this is 551 00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:06,400 Speaker 1: normal in any way? So like watching somebody get put 552 00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:10,439 Speaker 1: in their place can feel satisfying, but first of all, 553 00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:14,120 Speaker 1: those people are not getting put in their place. Most 554 00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:17,880 Speaker 1: of the people being featured in those videos are thrilled 555 00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:21,800 Speaker 1: when they get featured in a leftist clapback video, because 556 00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:25,279 Speaker 1: all it does is drive up their engagement. These are 557 00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:31,279 Speaker 1: just dollar Tree brand, like store brand Tommy laurens in 558 00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:34,919 Speaker 1: the same way that Tommy Lauren used to intentionally piss 559 00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:39,960 Speaker 1: people off in order to increase her stardom. At least 560 00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:44,359 Speaker 1: she was like actually trying to reach, like you know, 561 00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:47,480 Speaker 1: actually being on television. These people are settling for like 562 00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:50,000 Speaker 1: I just want to get ten thousand views on my 563 00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:52,480 Speaker 1: TikTok video and make one hundred dollars off of it. 564 00:34:52,520 --> 00:35:00,400 Speaker 1: But like it's the same general process, right, and like 565 00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:04,320 Speaker 1: they just the two sides feed off of one another, 566 00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:08,560 Speaker 1: and it's just this like circular. I mean, it's honestly, 567 00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:15,719 Speaker 1: it's just and a digital and political human centipede. They're 568 00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:18,960 Speaker 1: just regurgitating the same shit into each other's mouth over 569 00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:21,560 Speaker 1: and over and over again. Like not to be too graphic, 570 00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:23,080 Speaker 1: but like that's what's happening. 571 00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:23,960 Speaker 2: And so. 572 00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:29,400 Speaker 1: Not only does that content not move the needle, I 573 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:35,839 Speaker 1: genuinely believe it pushes us further apart. It like increases 574 00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:41,279 Speaker 1: the divide, and then politicians respond to that widening divide 575 00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:45,440 Speaker 1: by panicking and being like, oh, well, now we have 576 00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:47,880 Speaker 1: to compromise on our values. So that we can like 577 00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:51,120 Speaker 1: chase after that other side that's moving further away from us. 578 00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:53,440 Speaker 1: And then you know, that's how you get politicians like 579 00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:57,359 Speaker 1: John Fetterman just out there calling himself the Democrat and 580 00:35:57,400 --> 00:36:02,040 Speaker 1: doing all the Republican things. And like, I genuinely believe, 581 00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:05,000 Speaker 1: we don't have to compromise on any of our values. 582 00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:08,399 Speaker 1: We just have to figure out how to talk about 583 00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:11,680 Speaker 1: our values in a way that appeals to a conservative 584 00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:18,799 Speaker 1: morality system. And so that's what I'm now focusing a 585 00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:21,720 Speaker 1: lot of my content on doing, is trying to help 586 00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:27,120 Speaker 1: people learn that. Like you know, I use the moral 587 00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:30,560 Speaker 1: foundation theory that Jonathan Hate came up with, where he said, like, 588 00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:35,040 Speaker 1: there's six different foundational blocks that people build their morality 589 00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:38,400 Speaker 1: off of, and people on the left tend to focus 590 00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:41,879 Speaker 1: on two of those six, people on the right tend 591 00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:43,880 Speaker 1: to focus on three of the six, and then the 592 00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:48,560 Speaker 1: sixth one both sides like. And so I think the 593 00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:51,359 Speaker 1: biggest issue we have with leftist messaging right now is 594 00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:55,880 Speaker 1: we're talking about these values in a way that appeals 595 00:36:55,920 --> 00:37:00,680 Speaker 1: to our morality system, not theirs. And we can talk 596 00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:03,839 Speaker 1: about it in a way that appeals to I mean, 597 00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:07,279 Speaker 1: like for example, immigration, like we're talking about it from 598 00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:09,759 Speaker 1: the perspective of, like this, you know, you have to 599 00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:13,520 Speaker 1: be fair. It is like horrific and unfair to think 600 00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:17,399 Speaker 1: about deporting a DACA recipient to a country that they 601 00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:20,040 Speaker 1: have never called home. They might not even speak about 602 00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:22,680 Speaker 1: the speak that language, you know. All and all of 603 00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:25,880 Speaker 1: that's true. All of that's true, And in a perfect world, 604 00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:28,680 Speaker 1: at least in my opinion, that would be enough to 605 00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:31,719 Speaker 1: convince people. But the reality is we don't live in 606 00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:34,480 Speaker 1: a perfect world, and there's fifty percent of the country 607 00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:37,279 Speaker 1: that doesn't give a shit that it's not fair. But 608 00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:39,480 Speaker 1: if we can talk about it from the perspective of 609 00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:46,680 Speaker 1: what that DACA recipient means to our country, like, you know, 610 00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:49,759 Speaker 1: they're big into patriotism, And if we can talk about 611 00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:53,520 Speaker 1: immigration from the perspective of, like, we are this incredible 612 00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:56,520 Speaker 1: nation that is welcoming these people in, Like these are 613 00:37:56,560 --> 00:38:02,600 Speaker 1: people that believe in our wors of life so strongly 614 00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:05,640 Speaker 1: that they just want to be a part of it, 615 00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:10,120 Speaker 1: you know, And if we can talk about those values 616 00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:14,880 Speaker 1: in that way, then we can actually start to like 617 00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:18,239 Speaker 1: narrow that divide a little bit and hopefully win some 618 00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:26,040 Speaker 1: of those people over, because unfortunately, talking at them endlessly 619 00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:30,520 Speaker 1: from our perspective, and especially creating videos where we're making 620 00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:35,120 Speaker 1: fun of them and like you know, making money off 621 00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:38,480 Speaker 1: of being snigged towards them. That's not going to pull 622 00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:42,880 Speaker 1: them in. That is not going to get them to 623 00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:44,280 Speaker 1: change their mind on anything. 624 00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:46,839 Speaker 2: Okay, if you're like me, this might be the moment 625 00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:49,160 Speaker 2: where you're thinking, why is it on me to change 626 00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:52,239 Speaker 2: these people's minds? Kendall gets that, she really does. 627 00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:56,879 Speaker 1: I understand the criticism that probably a lot of people 628 00:38:56,920 --> 00:39:01,960 Speaker 1: would have for my strategy by saying, like, you know, 629 00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:05,520 Speaker 1: these are people that have been super bigoted. They've been 630 00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:09,000 Speaker 1: so racist, they've been so homophobic and transphobic and all 631 00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:11,840 Speaker 1: of the phobics, Like I don't want to have to 632 00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:13,400 Speaker 1: be nice to them. I don't want to have to 633 00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:16,440 Speaker 1: do that labor. And I think that's totally fair for 634 00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:20,200 Speaker 1: people to say, particularly more than any other group of people. 635 00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:23,920 Speaker 1: I think black women one hundred percent get to say, like, 636 00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:26,520 Speaker 1: you know what, motherfuckers, the ninety two percent is tired, 637 00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:29,879 Speaker 1: so like, you do your jobs, We're gonna be doing 638 00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:34,000 Speaker 1: our thing. Fuck you. So like, I get that, But 639 00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:38,400 Speaker 1: any person on the left that has a skin tone 640 00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:42,960 Speaker 1: like mine, absolutely the fuck not like you don't get 641 00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:45,759 Speaker 1: to do what is fun or easy. Right now. We 642 00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:48,080 Speaker 1: have work to do to repair the shit that we 643 00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:53,400 Speaker 1: stood by as it got broken. And so I just 644 00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:58,280 Speaker 1: I want more people to start looking at their content. 645 00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:01,920 Speaker 1: More content creators and articulars start looking at their content 646 00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:05,280 Speaker 1: from the perspective of what impact is this actually having 647 00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:09,400 Speaker 1: beyond the check that I get from TikTok on the 648 00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:14,879 Speaker 1: fifteenth of every month. And I'm really really worried about 649 00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:18,880 Speaker 1: what's going to happen if more content creators don't start 650 00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:23,120 Speaker 1: doing that, because I get why they don't write like 651 00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:26,640 Speaker 1: my content where I'm talking about here's how to talk 652 00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:30,360 Speaker 1: to a conservative about universal healthcare or immigration or whatever. 653 00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:36,640 Speaker 1: It doesn't perform anywhere nearly as well as you know, 654 00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:40,160 Speaker 1: these clapback videos. It also doesn't perform nearly as well 655 00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:45,000 Speaker 1: as like my emotional videos that have gone viral. And so, 656 00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:51,040 Speaker 1: to use your metaphor of the McDonald's right, you eat 657 00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:54,200 Speaker 1: it and you don't feel satisfied. It is a little 658 00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:57,400 Speaker 1: bit of a chicken and egg situation where it's like, Okay, 659 00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:02,120 Speaker 1: we can keep telling these content creators to create more 660 00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:05,799 Speaker 1: useful content. We can keep telling McDonald's you need to 661 00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:10,160 Speaker 1: sell more vegetables. But if people keep going into McDonald's 662 00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:14,200 Speaker 1: and only buying the French fries, eventually McDonald's is gonna 663 00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:17,160 Speaker 1: be like, we can't do like you motherfucker said you 664 00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:19,920 Speaker 1: wanted vegetables, and then none of you bought vegetables, and 665 00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:22,759 Speaker 1: so we're going back to just selling French fries. And 666 00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:27,280 Speaker 1: I think that there is a responsibility on the side 667 00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:31,880 Speaker 1: of people who are consuming content to start really trying 668 00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:36,160 Speaker 1: to work against our own impulses that we've been groomed 669 00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:41,160 Speaker 1: to have to where like you know, hell, I have ADHD. 670 00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:43,840 Speaker 1: Anytime I see like a ten minute long video on TikTok, 671 00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:44,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my. 672 00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:47,839 Speaker 2: God, why are you left a minute? Shut up? 673 00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:49,920 Speaker 1: Can you not tell me in like forty five seconds? 674 00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:55,160 Speaker 1: Come on, guys. But like, I'm really trying to fight 675 00:41:55,239 --> 00:42:00,399 Speaker 1: that impulse more often now because I recognize is if 676 00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:04,360 Speaker 1: I just scroll on I'm doing I'm being the person 677 00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:07,320 Speaker 1: standing outside of McDonald's yelling at them for not selling 678 00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:12,000 Speaker 1: me vegetables when I wasn't buying vegetables. And so I 679 00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:14,240 Speaker 1: think it has to be an effort on both sides 680 00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:19,680 Speaker 1: of the process, both the creation and the consumption and 681 00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:25,319 Speaker 1: I think if we don't fix it, uh, I don't 682 00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:28,080 Speaker 1: know where we'll be in a few years in our 683 00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:33,760 Speaker 1: country because right now the right is kicking our ass 684 00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:36,759 Speaker 1: online and we have to figure out a way to 685 00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:37,160 Speaker 1: fix it. 686 00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:41,600 Speaker 2: I've had a personal sort of quandary, you know, after 687 00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:45,239 Speaker 2: Trump was elected. I was really getting a lot of 688 00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:48,600 Speaker 2: shot in freud I say that word wrong from like 689 00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:51,560 Speaker 2: oh no, like I never thought the leopard was gonna 690 00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:55,280 Speaker 2: eat my faith and something about that those that content 691 00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:58,160 Speaker 2: was like clearly feeling a need for me. And then 692 00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:00,640 Speaker 2: someone was like, you know, you know, so I live 693 00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:03,120 Speaker 2: in DC, and when all when when federal workers were 694 00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:07,080 Speaker 2: all being fired and like targeted, people were saying like, oh, 695 00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:09,239 Speaker 2: a lot of those federal workers were Trump voters, and 696 00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:11,040 Speaker 2: so they're you know, they're getting what they asked for. 697 00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:12,480 Speaker 2: Maybe they didn't think it was going to be them. 698 00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:14,759 Speaker 2: And someone was like, you know, we kind of need 699 00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:16,799 Speaker 2: these people. Like if the people who are speaking up 700 00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:19,399 Speaker 2: and being like dang, I feel like I got, you know, 701 00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:21,919 Speaker 2: taken for a ride by Trump, somebody that I put 702 00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:24,080 Speaker 2: my faith in and my trusted and he turned on me. 703 00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:28,120 Speaker 2: I understand. Nobody understands the impulse to laugh at those 704 00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:30,319 Speaker 2: people more than me, and I'm sad to say that 705 00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:33,400 Speaker 2: I have, But at a certain point, don't we want 706 00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:36,480 Speaker 2: people who are able to see that they made a 707 00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:38,879 Speaker 2: mistake and are able to call out that like they 708 00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:43,520 Speaker 2: they were misled. I feel angry that these people abdicated 709 00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:46,520 Speaker 2: their responsibility to put effort into who they voted for 710 00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:50,640 Speaker 2: and be a thoughtful consumer of you know, American democracy, 711 00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:56,439 Speaker 2: but sort of just stroking my rage boner when when 712 00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:59,279 Speaker 2: they speak up about it isn't getting us anywhere? Don't 713 00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:01,120 Speaker 2: we kind of like like, isn't it sort of what 714 00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:03,279 Speaker 2: we want for them to be talking about, Like, oh, yeah, 715 00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:05,959 Speaker 2: I'm miss I was mislied. I got it wrong, right, yeah? 716 00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:10,839 Speaker 1: Well, And the weird thing is is, honestly, I hate 717 00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:13,479 Speaker 1: to break it to other people on the left, we're 718 00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:18,799 Speaker 1: not always great at guessing which people were Trump supporters. 719 00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:21,680 Speaker 1: I can't even tell you how many leftists I've had 720 00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:25,120 Speaker 1: come into my comments, especially on Instagram and be like, well, 721 00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:28,040 Speaker 1: you got what you wanted, you got what you voted for, 722 00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:31,840 Speaker 1: so fuck you, And I'm like, uh, my friend, I 723 00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:34,920 Speaker 1: not only voted for Kamala Harris, I literally worked for 724 00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:38,160 Speaker 1: her campaign. I could not have been more kammala hair, 725 00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:42,799 Speaker 1: like pro kamala in this election cycle if I tried, right, 726 00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:46,759 Speaker 1: But like all they see is you're talking about the military. 727 00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:50,000 Speaker 1: You're married to somebody in the military, obviously you must 728 00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:54,200 Speaker 1: be on the right, And like that's bad because like 729 00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:59,000 Speaker 1: if you're being like if you're pushing me away as 730 00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:02,000 Speaker 1: somebody that's like dedicating my life to trying to win 731 00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:05,320 Speaker 1: things for our side of the aisle, how are people 732 00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:08,160 Speaker 1: that are actually on the right that are like conceding 733 00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:10,400 Speaker 1: that they messed up. How are they going to respond 734 00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:12,319 Speaker 1: to those kind of comments. You're only going to push 735 00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:16,840 Speaker 1: him back into the cult. But I will also say 736 00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:21,799 Speaker 1: I do understand like the need for that, Like I 737 00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:25,279 Speaker 1: can't even tell you how many Francesca Ramsey videos I've 738 00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:28,960 Speaker 1: watched of her with her ukulele singing about the leopards 739 00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:31,440 Speaker 1: eating their face. And so I get it, and I 740 00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:33,840 Speaker 1: think we can still have that content. It's just a 741 00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:38,560 Speaker 1: matter of making sure it's targeting the people that actually 742 00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:44,120 Speaker 1: deserve it and that aren't just everyday people. So like 743 00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:50,200 Speaker 1: I will watch every possible video of Dave Portnoy being 744 00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:54,479 Speaker 1: sad about losing twenty million dollars, Like, fuck that guy. 745 00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:58,200 Speaker 1: Fuck you, Dave Fortnoy, Like I don't feel sorry for him. 746 00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:01,279 Speaker 1: He deserves it, and like everyone should laugh at him 747 00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:03,839 Speaker 1: in the same way that like, there is not a 748 00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:06,480 Speaker 1: song in the world that you could set that video 749 00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:09,279 Speaker 1: of Richard Spencer getting punched in the head too, that 750 00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:11,799 Speaker 1: I wouldn't stop and watch it, like four times in 751 00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:16,400 Speaker 1: a row, every time forever, my favorite video. Like, but 752 00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:21,759 Speaker 1: there's a difference between Dave Portnoy and Richard Spencer and 753 00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:27,239 Speaker 1: like random single mom of three working, you know, as 754 00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:30,200 Speaker 1: an assistant manager at a rash dress for less and 755 00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:36,520 Speaker 1: living in a prefab trailer park. You know, like she 756 00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:42,320 Speaker 1: doesn't need to be mocked because ultimately she got tricked, 757 00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:47,720 Speaker 1: she got hoodwinked. That does not excuse whatever horrible shit 758 00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:50,759 Speaker 1: she has said or even continues to say to other 759 00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:57,920 Speaker 1: people online, particularly marginalized communities. But if she is coming 760 00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:02,560 Speaker 1: out and saying, hey, I screwed up. I realized I 761 00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:05,239 Speaker 1: screwed up when I went to get my groceries and 762 00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:08,839 Speaker 1: I found out my food stamps got cut off or whatever, Like, 763 00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:13,399 Speaker 1: we can have discussions with her later about her other 764 00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:19,360 Speaker 1: problematic shit that she's doing. But when she first says, hey, guys, 765 00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:23,200 Speaker 1: I think we screwed up. I think our response should 766 00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:30,080 Speaker 1: be yes, please welcome, welcome to our side. Now, how 767 00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:33,680 Speaker 1: can we help you go convince ten of your friends 768 00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:37,080 Speaker 1: that they also screwed up. Because it's not just about 769 00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:39,760 Speaker 1: making sure we don't push her back into the cult. 770 00:47:40,040 --> 00:47:43,279 Speaker 1: It's about recognizing that the people that are in her 771 00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:47,600 Speaker 1: life are going to listen to her all day long 772 00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:51,560 Speaker 1: and like, take that that is going to mean more 773 00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:55,239 Speaker 1: to them than you could show them every single video 774 00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:57,280 Speaker 1: I have ever made, and it's not going to convince 775 00:47:57,320 --> 00:48:00,239 Speaker 1: them as much as her talking to them. And so 776 00:48:01,200 --> 00:48:03,600 Speaker 1: we need to stop pushing people back into the cult, 777 00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:07,160 Speaker 1: and we need to start giving them the tools necessary 778 00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:13,759 Speaker 1: and empowering them to start being the pipeline out of 779 00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:18,319 Speaker 1: that for the people in their life. Like, there's a 780 00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:22,120 Speaker 1: reason why the alt right pipeline is so attractive to people. 781 00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:27,560 Speaker 1: It's because it's easy to go down and everyone's nice 782 00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:31,400 Speaker 1: to you along the way, and everyone like tells you 783 00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:34,160 Speaker 1: how smart you are for like getting into the pipeline 784 00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:37,040 Speaker 1: in the first place. So, like, we need to start 785 00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:39,520 Speaker 1: building the pipeline going the opposite direction. 786 00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:55,160 Speaker 2: More after a quick break, let's get right back into it. 787 00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:59,680 Speaker 2: As someone who is so good at putting your opinions 788 00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:03,239 Speaker 2: out of the world using social media, even when there's 789 00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:06,040 Speaker 2: this like chilling effect to do so, even when you're like, 790 00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:09,000 Speaker 2: you know, dog biled for doing so. What keeps you 791 00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:12,719 Speaker 2: doing it? Like, what keeps you logging on and continuing 792 00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:14,080 Speaker 2: to put your ideas out there? 793 00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:19,840 Speaker 1: I mean, part of it is Okay, this is going 794 00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:25,600 Speaker 1: to sound really weird, but I weirdly think having depression 795 00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:29,040 Speaker 1: has made it a lot easier to do this and 796 00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:33,880 Speaker 1: survive it, because I know I am at the end 797 00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:36,799 Speaker 1: of the day if I have to lay down and 798 00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:40,320 Speaker 1: close my eyes and go to sleep, and my options 799 00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:43,560 Speaker 1: are either I'm going to be thinking about the fact 800 00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:47,520 Speaker 1: that I said nothing, I did nothing, are were Our 801 00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:52,759 Speaker 1: democracy is sliding further into fascism. More people are being hurt, 802 00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:56,000 Speaker 1: more innocent people are being deported to an ill Salvadorian 803 00:49:56,080 --> 00:50:00,920 Speaker 1: concentration camp. Because I said nothing. That is a lot 804 00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:05,600 Speaker 1: harder for me to live with than if I do 805 00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:07,840 Speaker 1: say stuff. And when I lay down at night and 806 00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:10,000 Speaker 1: I close my eyes, the last thing that I'm thinking 807 00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:14,239 Speaker 1: about is how you know Steve zero four seven five 808 00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:18,120 Speaker 1: six on Twitter thinks that I'm a fat bitch like 809 00:50:18,560 --> 00:50:22,120 Speaker 1: I will sleep soundly knowing that Steve thinks I'm a 810 00:50:22,160 --> 00:50:26,160 Speaker 1: fat bitch. I will not sleep soundly knowing that I 811 00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:29,760 Speaker 1: did nothing and I said nothing and things got worse. 812 00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:33,360 Speaker 2: When you go to sleep at night, what will prevent 813 00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:35,040 Speaker 2: you from getting a good night's sleep? And it's not 814 00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:39,280 Speaker 2: like writhing up shithead Steve zero five five six on Twitter. 815 00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:43,319 Speaker 2: It's actually doing something, saying something, speaking up. 816 00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:46,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. And on top of that, you know, like just 817 00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:49,680 Speaker 1: as a little added bonus for myself, Like you know, 818 00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:53,120 Speaker 1: as I'm doing this content, like the main videos that's 819 00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:58,799 Speaker 1: for everyone, the part I'm doing for me is when 820 00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:02,880 Speaker 1: I'm responding to those insults and being funnier than they 821 00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:06,400 Speaker 1: could ever possibly. That's the part that's just for me. 822 00:51:06,640 --> 00:51:10,000 Speaker 1: That's my little treat. And so the fact that I 823 00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:12,680 Speaker 1: get to go to sleep at night knowing that I 824 00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:16,600 Speaker 1: did something, I said something, and yeah, Steve thinks I'm 825 00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:20,000 Speaker 1: a fat bitch. But also Steve's going to sleep tonight 826 00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:23,759 Speaker 1: knowing that I made a very funny joke about his 827 00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:28,879 Speaker 1: bald spot and that's gonna eat at him. That's the like, Oh, 828 00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:31,440 Speaker 1: I sleep very well when I get to note because like, 829 00:51:31,520 --> 00:51:35,440 Speaker 1: oh my god, I the I think the thing that 830 00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:39,560 Speaker 1: blew my mind the most this entire experience has been 831 00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:43,560 Speaker 1: you know, tens of thousands of insults later, not a 832 00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:47,560 Speaker 1: single one of them has been funny. No, I'm a 833 00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:52,400 Speaker 1: deeply insultable person. I mean, Jesus Christ, I cut my 834 00:51:52,560 --> 00:51:57,080 Speaker 1: own bangs, y'all. My bangs look like shit. One hundred 835 00:51:57,160 --> 00:52:02,440 Speaker 1: percent of the time. They are uneven, and like you 836 00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:06,200 Speaker 1: could make a hundred jokes about that. That would be 837 00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:10,120 Speaker 1: so much funnier than just calling me a cow. So 838 00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:14,360 Speaker 1: I just, in the same way that I want the 839 00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:17,960 Speaker 1: left to get better at talking about our values and 840 00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:21,080 Speaker 1: winning people over, I just want conservatives to get funnier, 841 00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:24,160 Speaker 1: because Jesus Christ, if I'm gonna have to interact with you, 842 00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:27,359 Speaker 1: I at least want it to be funny. And I 843 00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:29,560 Speaker 1: can take a good insult as long as it's funny. 844 00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:34,560 Speaker 1: So please please just learn from me, develop the ability 845 00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:36,760 Speaker 1: to insult someone in a way that's funny. 846 00:52:37,680 --> 00:52:40,759 Speaker 2: Step your game up, Steve zero five six y four 847 00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:43,240 Speaker 2: on Twitter. Or if they really wanted to be smart, 848 00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:45,919 Speaker 2: they could hire you as a digital strategist. You would 849 00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:48,200 Speaker 2: write for them, The money you would go right into 850 00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:50,520 Speaker 2: your pocket, and then the insults would improve. Yeah. 851 00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:54,120 Speaker 1: I mean, I've thought about creating a TikTok series that's 852 00:52:54,200 --> 00:52:59,359 Speaker 1: like comedy one oh one for conservatives, because, like I mean, 853 00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:01,880 Speaker 1: it's it's not even their fault. Like when the best 854 00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:06,080 Speaker 1: example of conservative comedy that you have is like Stephen 855 00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:10,080 Speaker 1: Crowder and Greg Guttfeld, No, what if you're not funny? 856 00:53:10,239 --> 00:53:15,000 Speaker 1: Come on Jesus. So they're just regurgitating the things that 857 00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:18,680 Speaker 1: those two say, and it's like it wasn't funny when 858 00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:23,000 Speaker 1: they said it, it's extra not funny when y'all are 859 00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:27,680 Speaker 1: repeating it. So, just conservatives, if you're listening to this, please, 860 00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:32,239 Speaker 1: for the love of God, just please, please get better 861 00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:36,120 Speaker 1: at comedy. Speaking from the perspective of someone that's not 862 00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:39,920 Speaker 1: only a content creator but is also a digital strategist, 863 00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:43,120 Speaker 1: I think one of the things that the right did 864 00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:49,239 Speaker 1: during this last election cycle that the left did not 865 00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:53,560 Speaker 1: did not do enough of, and also did not do 866 00:53:54,000 --> 00:54:03,160 Speaker 1: nearly as well as the right is having a strategy 867 00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:10,719 Speaker 1: where non political content creators were getting content out to 868 00:54:11,600 --> 00:54:16,319 Speaker 1: their audiences about politics, whether that was them talking about 869 00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:21,680 Speaker 1: themselves or them just quietly reposting stuff from other people. 870 00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:32,680 Speaker 1: And I think that we need to accept the party 871 00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:35,200 Speaker 1: as a whole needs to accept. But also, like anyone 872 00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:38,520 Speaker 1: that cares about the direction of our country needs to accept, 873 00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:41,799 Speaker 1: there are only so many people who are going to 874 00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:47,240 Speaker 1: willingly watch explicitly political content. The reality is the majority 875 00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:50,760 Speaker 1: of people do not give a shit about political content, 876 00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:59,520 Speaker 1: will never watch it. And I think simultaneously, while yes 877 00:54:59,600 --> 00:55:01,680 Speaker 1: the part that the piece of the puzzle that I 878 00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:04,840 Speaker 1: am doing, I think is very important in training people 879 00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:09,880 Speaker 1: to talk to conservatives, I think equally important is empowering 880 00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:14,880 Speaker 1: content creators in radically different spaces, whether it's true crime 881 00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:21,480 Speaker 1: or makeup tutorials or muck bangs or whatever. I think 882 00:55:21,640 --> 00:55:27,120 Speaker 1: that the obstacles that we are facing are monumental enough 883 00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:32,200 Speaker 1: that just getting political content creators to do the right 884 00:55:32,239 --> 00:55:35,920 Speaker 1: thing and to say the right things and like, do 885 00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:40,080 Speaker 1: our part is not going to be enough. So if 886 00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:44,680 Speaker 1: you are a content creator of any type at all, 887 00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:49,040 Speaker 1: I would very much encourage you to try and figure 888 00:55:49,080 --> 00:55:51,400 Speaker 1: out what is the piece of this puzzle that I 889 00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:54,280 Speaker 1: can be playing. It doesn't have to look like creating 890 00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:58,359 Speaker 1: political content. And I would be happy if there's any 891 00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:00,680 Speaker 1: content creator that hears this, that wants to do that 892 00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:03,520 Speaker 1: and isn't sure how to please reach out to me, 893 00:56:03,640 --> 00:56:06,000 Speaker 1: I will help you figure out a way. And oh 894 00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:09,480 Speaker 1: my god, if you work for any political campaign on 895 00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:14,840 Speaker 1: the left at all, please make that a part of 896 00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:17,040 Speaker 1: your strategy. And if you need help figuring out how 897 00:56:17,080 --> 00:56:19,319 Speaker 1: to make that a part of your strategy, please reach 898 00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:24,759 Speaker 1: out to me, because, like I mean, as stupid as 899 00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:28,920 Speaker 1: it was, Trump's strategy of talking to like Aiden Ross 900 00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:31,320 Speaker 1: and the Pool Brothers and all of that, that was 901 00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:35,719 Speaker 1: a hugely influential into his win and we have to 902 00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:38,000 Speaker 1: do that or we are going to keep losing. 903 00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:42,439 Speaker 2: So I can't tell you how many people that I've 904 00:56:42,480 --> 00:56:46,800 Speaker 2: interviewed from all different spectrums of like content or digital strategy, 905 00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:49,440 Speaker 2: who are all saying the left needs to be making 906 00:56:49,600 --> 00:56:54,200 Speaker 2: huge investments with content creators podcasters. I firmly like I 907 00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:58,200 Speaker 2: mean this, like literally, I think we have Trump in 908 00:56:58,239 --> 00:57:02,759 Speaker 2: office again because of podcasters. I think that podcasters shifted 909 00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:06,960 Speaker 2: the landscape of our political fabric and we need to 910 00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:09,120 Speaker 2: just like understand that and get on board. It's not 911 00:57:09,160 --> 00:57:10,680 Speaker 2: too late, but we have a lot of ground to 912 00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:12,040 Speaker 2: make up for, and now it's the time. 913 00:57:12,360 --> 00:57:14,680 Speaker 1: Yes, oh yeah, we coasted for so long and this 914 00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:16,520 Speaker 1: is not even the only time that we've done this, 915 00:57:16,760 --> 00:57:19,920 Speaker 1: Like I mean, I've been doing digital strategy for long enough, 916 00:57:20,360 --> 00:57:23,560 Speaker 1: and I know you were also around and seeing this, 917 00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:27,240 Speaker 1: Like when digital first became a thing. Ooh, we were like, 918 00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:31,040 Speaker 1: we were confident. We were like, the Republicans are never 919 00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:32,960 Speaker 1: going to catch up with us. We are so much 920 00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:34,360 Speaker 1: better at the Internet than they are. 921 00:57:34,600 --> 00:57:36,680 Speaker 2: Oh, what a time to be alive. 922 00:57:37,480 --> 00:57:40,800 Speaker 1: That was a great feeling. But it was not an 923 00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:44,000 Speaker 1: impulse that we should have listened to, because oh no, 924 00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:48,160 Speaker 1: we were so confident that we were at the front 925 00:57:48,200 --> 00:57:51,480 Speaker 1: of the pack that we just slowed down to a 926 00:57:52,240 --> 00:57:56,960 Speaker 1: leisurely stroll and they just ran right past us and 927 00:57:57,680 --> 00:58:01,440 Speaker 1: we caught up. And then the same thing is happening 928 00:58:01,480 --> 00:58:04,040 Speaker 1: now with like podcasts and things like that. So yeah, 929 00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:06,480 Speaker 1: I think you are right about podcasts. We have to 930 00:58:07,600 --> 00:58:11,400 Speaker 1: we just have to stop congratulating ourselves on how good 931 00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:14,320 Speaker 1: we are at certain things and start focusing on getting 932 00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:16,480 Speaker 1: better at the stuff that they are clearly kicking our 933 00:58:16,520 --> 00:58:17,040 Speaker 1: ass on. 934 00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:25,840 Speaker 2: Got a story about an interesting thing in tech, or 935 00:58:25,920 --> 00:58:27,760 Speaker 2: just want to say hi. You can reach us at 936 00:58:27,800 --> 00:58:30,520 Speaker 2: Hello at tangody dot com. You can also find transcripts 937 00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:32,960 Speaker 2: for today's episode at tengody dot com. There are no 938 00:58:33,040 --> 00:58:35,120 Speaker 2: girls on the Internet was created by me bridget Toad. 939 00:58:35,480 --> 00:58:38,920 Speaker 2: It's a production of iHeartRadio, an unbossed creative. 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