1 00:00:01,360 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:07,640 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 4 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:14,560 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 5 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're gonna read 6 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:19,960 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now. You never know it 7 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 1: could be yours. You never never No, buckle up and 8 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 1: hold on type. We got it for you here It 9 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:31,040 Speaker 1: is Strawberry Letter. All right, thank you, nephew. Subject she's 10 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:34,280 Speaker 1: nice to him and naughty to me. Just Stephen Shirley. 11 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 1: I've been married for thirty eight years, and my husband 12 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:40,960 Speaker 1: and I lived together as roommates now because he told 13 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: me years ago that he didn't feel the same about me. 14 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:46,840 Speaker 1: It happened after our oldest daughter got into a fight 15 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 1: with her aunt, my sister. My sister worked at an 16 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 1: upscale restaurant and my daughter got drunk in the restaurant 17 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 1: and walked out without paying her ticket. My sister got 18 00:00:56,880 --> 00:01:00,080 Speaker 1: terminated over the way. My daughter clowned my husband and 19 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:03,320 Speaker 1: defended our daughter. And he's always been a fool for 20 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 1: our daughter, so she has no idea of how the 21 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 1: real world works. I have a rental property that was 22 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: my first home before I met and married my husband. 23 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:16,400 Speaker 1: The house was in bad shape, and I learned recently 24 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:19,040 Speaker 1: that he's having the house fixed up so my daughter 25 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:22,120 Speaker 1: and her teenage son can live there for free. It 26 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 1: feels like she's had a hard time adjusting to being 27 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 1: a single mother. Yes, she's had a hard time because 28 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 1: he doesn't force her to keep a job. If she 29 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 1: has a disagreement with anyone at the job, she calls 30 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 1: her daddy to tell him about it. He will make 31 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: a way to get her another job one of our 32 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:44,480 Speaker 1: friends in town. It's embarrassing because now everyone knows she's trifling. 33 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 1: If I intervene, my daughter tells me that it's between 34 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: her and her daddy and they will handle it. I'm 35 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 1: shocked that my husband is chosing this trifling over me 36 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 1: and our wedding vows. I tried to have a talk 37 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 1: with our daughter and set some rules for living in 38 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 1: my house, which is in my name. She had the 39 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 1: audacity to tell me that I was out of line. 40 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 1: How much more do I have to take before my 41 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 1: husband checks her. She's thirty five and will continue to 42 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:15,520 Speaker 1: be trifling if he keeps enabling her. What can I 43 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 1: do well? I mean, you're right about a lot of 44 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 1: things that you say in this letter. She will continue 45 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: to be trifling if he keeps enabling her. And guess what, 46 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 1: he keeps enabling her. And this is a problem. Your 47 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 1: daughter is overly grown. Okay, she's thirty five years old. 48 00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:36,639 Speaker 1: She's disrespectful, she's a brat because your husband has coddled her. 49 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 1: And guess what, You've lost her, and you've lost your husband. 50 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 1: He's awful the way he's treating you. And you said it. 51 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 1: Your husband has chosen her over you over the years. 52 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 1: Your husband has encouraged her horrible behavior. He'll get on 53 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:54,239 Speaker 1: the phone if she quits a job and get one 54 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 1: of his friends to hire her. And you know what, 55 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 1: this just didn't start after she so ugly to your 56 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 1: sister at the restaurant. This has been happening her entire life. 57 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 1: I think you left out a lot of stuff in 58 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 1: this leather. This has been happening her entire life. Like 59 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 1: I said, otherwise, she wouldn't have acted like she did 60 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 1: in the restaurant in the first place. She's been coddled, 61 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:17,800 Speaker 1: she's been spoiled, allowed to get away with her actions 62 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 1: since she was a kid by you and your husband. 63 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 1: Why are you just speaking about this now? I mean, 64 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 1: you know this woman is thirty five with the child 65 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 1: of her own. She treats you her mother, like her 66 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 1: competition for her dad's affections and attention. You can't allow 67 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 1: her to do you any kind of way. You're the 68 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 1: authority figure here. You're her mother, not her friend. Your 69 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 1: husband is dead wrong for this. He's the one that's 70 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 1: dividing and separating. I mean, you're the queen and the family, 71 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 1: not her. But she gets treated like the queen, not you. 72 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 1: Why I don't understand why you let them band together 73 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: against you? I mean, are you the enemy now? It 74 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: looks like you're the enemy in their eyes? I mean, 75 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: didn't you raise her? I don't know where the mom 76 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 1: respect is. I think the excuse your husband gave you 77 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:09,800 Speaker 1: for not feeling the same about you anymore is a lie. 78 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:12,839 Speaker 1: You didn't act a fool in the restaurant, your daughter did. 79 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 1: What did that have to do with you. I think 80 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:17,840 Speaker 1: he's turned his back on you now, But her going 81 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:20,040 Speaker 1: off on her aunt had nothing to do with it. 82 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:23,799 Speaker 1: That's just an excuse he gave you, So stop blaming yourself. 83 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 1: For your daughter's ignorant behavior and your husband's neglect. You 84 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 1: get to decide how you want to live your life. 85 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:32,599 Speaker 1: You're not happy with this arrangement. You gotta do something 86 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 1: about it. Start with putting your foot down with your 87 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:38,720 Speaker 1: daughter and your rental property. Step in, make her pay rent, 88 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 1: let her. Let your husband know you mean business too. 89 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 1: I don't think you should tolerate anymore them against you, Steve. 90 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:51,839 Speaker 1: Let's get to this. The subject on this letter is 91 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 1: she's nice to him and naughty to me. The name 92 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:58,719 Speaker 1: of his letter should be way minute. Ain't she your 93 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 1: daughter too? Yeah, the name of this letter should be 94 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 1: way a minute, Ain't she your daughter too? Listen to this? 95 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 1: Just Stephen Sheryl, I've been married for thirty eight years. 96 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 1: My husband I lived together as roommates now because he 97 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:14,280 Speaker 1: told me years ago he didn't feel the same way 98 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 1: about me. It happened after our oldest daughter got into 99 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 1: a fight with her aunt. Who is my sister. Hold on, 100 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:26,559 Speaker 1: wait a minute, ain't she your daughter too? My sister 101 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 1: worked at an upscale restaurant and my daughter got drunk 102 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 1: in the restaurant and walked out without paying her ticket. 103 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 1: Ain't this your daughter? There? We talked about too. My 104 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:39,239 Speaker 1: sister got terminated over the way my daughter clown. Oh, okay, 105 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 1: so it is your daughter. My husband defended our daughter, 106 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:45,280 Speaker 1: and he's always been a fool for our daughter, so 107 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:48,919 Speaker 1: she has no idea how the real world works. Ain't 108 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:51,919 Speaker 1: she your daughter? I had a rental property that was 109 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:54,719 Speaker 1: my first home before I met and married my husband. 110 00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:57,279 Speaker 1: The house has been in bad shape, and I recently 111 00:05:57,360 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 1: learned that he's having the house fixed up so my 112 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 1: daughter and her teenage son can live there free. Wait 113 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 1: wait a minute, excuse him, I'm sorry, Ain't she your daughter? 114 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 1: He feels that she's had a hard time adjusting to 115 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:14,479 Speaker 1: being a single mother. Yes, she's had a hard time 116 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:18,559 Speaker 1: because he doesn't force her to keep a job. Wait, wait, 117 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:23,159 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Am I reading this letter on? Ain't she 118 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 1: your daughter? Two? So? I think you all get where 119 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:31,840 Speaker 1: I'm going with this? Yeah, because she's talking in this 120 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 1: letter like she didn't actually birth this girl. Yeah, so 121 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 1: this is why I'm confused. So when we come back, 122 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 1: no confusion. Yeah, hang on, Steve, We'll have far two 123 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 1: of your response coming up at twenty three minutes after 124 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:49,720 Speaker 1: the hour Today's Strawberry letter, subject She's nice to him, 125 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:52,160 Speaker 1: but naughty to me. We'll get back into it right 126 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:57,360 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening show, all right, Come on, Steve, 127 00:06:57,440 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter, and good to your response. 128 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 1: What you got. She's nice to him and naughty to me. 129 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:07,159 Speaker 1: Like I said, the name of this letter should simply 130 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 1: be excuse me. Wait a minute, Ain't she your daughter too? 131 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:14,400 Speaker 1: So all the way I've been doing the first half 132 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 1: of this letter was I was reading this letter and 133 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 1: plugging in where I thought she should be saying, but 134 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 1: this is your daughter too. I'm trying to realize how 135 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:25,000 Speaker 1: she wrote the letter. But his part about this letter, 136 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 1: she said she'd been married for thirty eight years. Her 137 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 1: husband and I lived together a roommates now because he 138 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 1: told me years ago he didn't feel the same way 139 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: about me. And then she said, the reason he said 140 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 1: that was it happened after our oldest daughter got into 141 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 1: a fight with her aunt my sister. What Wait a minute. 142 00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 1: A man tells you that he don't feel the same 143 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:50,520 Speaker 1: way about you no more, and you think that it 144 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 1: happened after your oldest daughter got into a fight with 145 00:07:54,560 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 1: her aunt, your sister. We're in I don't want to 146 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 1: sleep with you no more. I don't love you no more. 147 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: I ain't in love with you no more. Because our 148 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 1: daughter got in a fight with my sister, with your sister, 149 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 1: what doc what that don't make no damn sense? And 150 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 1: lady after that, your whole letter don't make no sense. 151 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 1: Your sister worked out an upscale restaurant, your daughter got 152 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 1: drunk in the restaurant, walked out without paying a ticket. 153 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 1: Your sister got fired over the way your daughter clown? 154 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:32,840 Speaker 1: What that got to do with how your husband feel 155 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:35,839 Speaker 1: about you? My husband defended the daughter. He's always been 156 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 1: a fool for our daughter. What that got to do 157 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:41,319 Speaker 1: with how he feel about you? So she has no 158 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: idea how the real world work. What that got to 159 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 1: do with how he feel about you? And this is 160 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:50,079 Speaker 1: your daughter we're talking about. H Then you had a 161 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:52,200 Speaker 1: rental house that you had before you met your husband, 162 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 1: and the house in bad shape. You learned recently that 163 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:56,720 Speaker 1: he having a house picked up so his daughter, so 164 00:08:56,880 --> 00:08:59,600 Speaker 1: your daughter and her teenage son can live that for free. 165 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 1: She your daughter too. He feels she's had a hard 166 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:05,040 Speaker 1: time and just to being a single mother. Yes, she's 167 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:06,839 Speaker 1: had a hard time because she don't he don't force 168 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 1: her to keep a job. He don't force her to 169 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:11,319 Speaker 1: keep a job. You her mother too. She has had 170 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 1: a disagreement agreement with everybody at the job. She calls 171 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:15,960 Speaker 1: her daddy to tell him about it. He'll make a 172 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:18,120 Speaker 1: way to get another job with one of his friends 173 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:21,200 Speaker 1: in time. So this is your daughter, though we talk 174 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 1: about it. It's embarrassing now everybody knows she's trifling. No, 175 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 1: it's embarrassing because everybody knows she trifling, and she your daughter. 176 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:33,720 Speaker 1: If I intervene, my daughter tells me that it's between 177 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 1: her and her daddy. Women, excuse me, and they were 178 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 1: handling it. Didn't you make her? Ain't you the reason? 179 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 1: She on earth. I'm shocked, and my husband watch this 180 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 1: though I'm shocked. This is what she said. I'm shocked 181 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:52,439 Speaker 1: that my husband has chosen this trifling health for over 182 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 1: me and our wedding vibe. Wait a minute, this trifling health. 183 00:09:57,520 --> 00:10:00,439 Speaker 1: Ain't this your daughter? Didn't you give birth to her? 184 00:10:00,559 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 1: I'm confused, and now you think it's your husband has 185 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 1: chosen this trifling health for over me and our wedding rout. 186 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:08,960 Speaker 1: I try to have a talk with our daughter and 187 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:11,320 Speaker 1: set some rules for living in my house, which is 188 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 1: in my name. She had the audacity, the udacity to 189 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:16,720 Speaker 1: tell me that I was out of line. How much 190 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:19,080 Speaker 1: more did I have to take before my husband checks her? 191 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:21,080 Speaker 1: Why are you waiting on your husband to check her? 192 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 1: Didn't you make her? Ain't she your daughter? Ain't the 193 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:28,400 Speaker 1: house in your name? You don't have to let her 194 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:33,280 Speaker 1: live that. I'm so confused. She's thirty five and will 195 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 1: continue to be trifling if he keeps enabling her. What 196 00:10:36,320 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 1: can I do? Stop to enabling? First things? First, my 197 00:10:40,520 --> 00:10:43,719 Speaker 1: house my name had it for I met your mother, 198 00:10:43,800 --> 00:10:47,559 Speaker 1: your father, and had it before you were born. Okay, 199 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:50,600 Speaker 1: so now that's your house. You're not moving into it 200 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 1: with your son? What else you got? Let's start there. 201 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:58,800 Speaker 1: Can't disrespect me no more because I'm no longer accepting 202 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:02,600 Speaker 1: disrespectful being behavior. Why because I'm your mother and I 203 00:11:02,640 --> 00:11:05,760 Speaker 1: won't accept it. So and the way you stop accepting 204 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 1: it is you stop the communication you are in calling 205 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:10,960 Speaker 1: her trifle? Heafer like you don't even know him, So 206 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 1: why don't you quit talking with you? See what you're 207 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 1: not fitling doing. None of my kids fend to do 208 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 1: this to me is play me and then come to 209 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 1: me and need something. Okay, come on, come on, I 210 00:11:21,080 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 1: want to see how this works. I got what my 211 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:27,440 Speaker 1: job as a parent is, but I got news for youth. 212 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:31,559 Speaker 1: Pot you disrespect me. Didn't come to me and need something. Oh, 213 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 1: we're fenn to go right back to what this disrespect 214 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:36,800 Speaker 1: is about. Now you need to go to somebody that 215 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 1: you respect and get some health fun. Oh it's happened. 216 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:43,839 Speaker 1: That's how I know how to heap it. I know 217 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:47,560 Speaker 1: exactly how. Oh, I get your ass in line right quick, 218 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 1: because I tell all of mine. No, you will need 219 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 1: me long before I need you, because I didn't have 220 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:56,679 Speaker 1: you for years. Anyway, you're trust to believe it's here. 221 00:11:56,800 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 1: I don't know what y'all thought I was doing for 222 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:04,640 Speaker 1: your ass was vone, but I was making it. I 223 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:08,320 Speaker 1: was surviving. Oh I might not look like I look 224 00:12:08,440 --> 00:12:11,960 Speaker 1: right now, but I was getting here. Your ass don't 225 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 1: even know the way who I am. So now clearly 226 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 1: your ass needs to make an attitude just me, because 227 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:23,960 Speaker 1: you will need me long before I need you. I 228 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:28,200 Speaker 1: promise you that because everyone every hardship I've ever had, 229 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:29,960 Speaker 1: I've never had to go to you faith for you 230 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 1: to bail me out. Better, get to being a parent 231 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:35,559 Speaker 1: I wish somebody would disrespect me in the house that 232 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:42,280 Speaker 1: I'm paying for. I'll tell you what, how are you laughing? 233 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 1: I want to see it. I like when it come 234 00:12:44,559 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 1: up to me with it. Man, I started laughing because 235 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 1: I already know the ending of the movie already. It's 236 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:56,960 Speaker 1: gonna go out all these scenes and everything. 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