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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with our radio. Hello, welcome to a midweek almost name

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Speaker 1: as podcast. It's gonna be a girl talk podcast because

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Speaker 1: I got Michelle Young and Rachel. I'm gonna say your

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Speaker 1: last name, right, Reia, She's right. We also have Klin

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Speaker 1: soon to be Bell, Caitlin Bell coming on the podcast,

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Speaker 1: so it'll be all of us with Kleen's going to

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Speaker 1: enter in a little bit because you know what, she's

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Speaker 1: watching the sunset with her fiance, which is so cute.

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Speaker 1: I never felt so single. We watched the sunset? We did?

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Speaker 1: You guys actually watched the sunset tonight with your ex,

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Speaker 1: your mutual ex, quite did, and he took a video

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Speaker 1: of us, a really good video, so you know, at

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Speaker 1: least we have that. You know, Rachel, isn't weird that

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Speaker 1: you are just hanging out this week with somebody that

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Speaker 1: you said I love you too, and he said I

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Speaker 1: love you back. I don't know, like, going into this weekend,

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Speaker 1: I think I had no idea what to expect. I

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Speaker 1: think we knew we were going to kind of be civil,

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Speaker 1: but we were able to really actually have good conversation

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Speaker 1: and talk everything through his adults and having both been

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Speaker 1: through our own seasons, it's been really nice to see

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Speaker 1: him as a friend now, and Michelle has been there

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Speaker 1: to watch it. I know I've been by I've been

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Speaker 1: by myself this weekend and I finally got my I

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Speaker 1: finally got my best fie back because they talked through

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Speaker 1: everything that they need to talk about, which they didn't

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Speaker 1: need to talk now, and I did back. So if

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Speaker 1: somebody amongst the two of you we're to get to

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Speaker 1: get question more likely to be Rachel. I mean, she's giggling.

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Speaker 1: My name is out of the question. I'm not even

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Speaker 1: in the running. I don't even know if Michelle knew

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Speaker 1: who clean was ever being honest, I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: I Clayton and I joke about this and he knew

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Speaker 1: that I was going to talk about this or mentioned this.

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Speaker 1: But like you, when you go through the show, do

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Speaker 1: you do like you? Some people fall behind and Clayton

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Speaker 1: I really didn't know too much about and I was

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Speaker 1: not very chipper at that point in Minnesota with going

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Speaker 1: on a date with him. I was really really tired.

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Speaker 1: You were tired, and I wanted to send him home

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Speaker 1: much through the date. Then I was allowed, Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: and he knows this. Now, why do you think that

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Speaker 1: they wanted him to be the Bachelor? Did you find

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Speaker 1: it to be a weird choice when he was announced? Um, honestly,

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Speaker 1: I feel like I was still very much in enjoying

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Speaker 1: at that time, just like the relationship that I was in,

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Speaker 1: and so I was happy for him, but I didn't

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Speaker 1: know much about him. And it kind of always gets

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Speaker 1: pinned on them, like it's like timing, right, because like

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Speaker 1: a season, the roll over the season's comes so fast,

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Speaker 1: and so they're like, well, Michelle, everyone else was in Mexico,

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Speaker 1: so even if yeah, yeah, so I don't know it

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Speaker 1: all works out, how it works out, but yeah, she

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Speaker 1: was a little lose price. I just yeah, I was surprised,

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Speaker 1: like we were like going into it originally that was

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Speaker 1: never who we not that we like I thought anything,

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Speaker 1: but you know, there were the obvious front runners, and

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Speaker 1: like Katie season, Michelle's season hadn't even aired yet, so

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Speaker 1: when we got the announcement, we didn't even see Michelle's

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Speaker 1: Night one, so that was us all meeting him for

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Speaker 1: the first time too. And it's just like I think

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Speaker 1: people who watch The Bachelor and know that it's typically

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Speaker 1: one of like somebody in the top four or just

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Speaker 1: somebody who makes it further along unless they pull another

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Speaker 1: like Matt James situation where they just like pull you

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Speaker 1: out of the casting and making the next Bachelor that

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Speaker 1: didn't really work out. For a lot of that doesn't

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Speaker 1: really happen. Yeah, So yeah, okay, I can never you

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Speaker 1: can never fully predict anything in this Branches. Well, I'm

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Speaker 1: glad that you guys are all cool with Clayton and

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Speaker 1: that you can hang out as exes together. Now, Rachel,

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Speaker 1: we had when one of your ex is maybe I

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Speaker 1: guess you and Zach would you consider yourself being more

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Speaker 1: serious with Clayton or being more serious with Zach. I

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Speaker 1: just from my viewing point of view, I would imagine

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Speaker 1: it was Clayton, since you exchanged I love you, I

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Speaker 1: would say Clayin Yeah, I mean not only that, but

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Speaker 1: he met my family. I met his family vice versa,

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Speaker 1: where Zach I only met his family and I never

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Speaker 1: did get to that point with him. So yeah, I

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Speaker 1: would say probably Clayton. So I would say it's intense

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Speaker 1: feelings for different reasons. Oh really, okay, So what's the

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Speaker 1: intense feeling for Zach? Then I think me and Zach

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Speaker 1: had a really great relationship in the beginning. He was

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Speaker 1: because it's very hard in the beginning, and I remember

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Speaker 1: I think that was Zack's really big role on My

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Speaker 1: Journey season in that way. But then feelings for other

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Speaker 1: people I think did start kind of surpassing him a

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Speaker 1: little bit. So when he was on the podcast, he

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Speaker 1: seemed to still be a little spicy towards whatever happened

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Speaker 1: in the Fantasies week with you. How did you react

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Speaker 1: to that? Did you hear it? It has? He said

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Speaker 1: it in multiple places? I don't know. Yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'm actually shocked at kind of the things I have heard,

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Speaker 1: not only what I heard on your podcast and mainly that,

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Speaker 1: but even when I heard Night one all this talk

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Speaker 1: as if me choosing or feeling stronger feelings for other

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Speaker 1: people somehow made me not authentic, or if us not

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Speaker 1: aligning on certain important views makes him wrong. It's just

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Speaker 1: really honestly shocking to hear him still kind of paint

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Speaker 1: me in this really negative light where I thought at

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Speaker 1: our after the Final Roads, we kind of did make up.

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Speaker 1: A lot of fans speculate that you had, like you

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Speaker 1: found out some huge lifestyle difference or political difference in

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Speaker 1: the Fantasy Suite. Is that true at all? I mean,

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Speaker 1: I think we definitely talked about what a life would

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Speaker 1: those conversations do come up. I mean, Michelle, you know,

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Speaker 1: you start asking those really important questions off camera, and

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Speaker 1: we I mean there were things we didn't align with.

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Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that me and Tino and me

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Speaker 1: makes sense. When we interviewed Zack about two weeks ago,

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Speaker 1: I heard some fan feedback that was definitely siding with you,

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Speaker 1: being like, of course she asked tough questions. Of course,

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Speaker 1: it's going to feel like an interview in there, because

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Speaker 1: there's so much you guys haven't covered before you're supposed

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Speaker 1: to that? I mean, I think absolutely if you were

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Speaker 1: I think maybe with Zach's situation, it felt maybe more

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Speaker 1: And I thought we were both on the same page

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Speaker 1: single second he got off camera because we did have

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Speaker 1: that time. It really didn't matter what I was feeling

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Speaker 1: it for me. I think from like also like just

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Speaker 1: you do your everything's lovey dovey, But in relationship, everything

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Speaker 1: is not always love You debby, like, you have to

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Speaker 1: honestly rightfully. So you you talk about politics, you talk

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Speaker 1: he really prioritizes and like romanticizes vulnerability. Sometimes vulnerability is

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Speaker 1: not crying and opening up your heart. Sometimes vulnerability is

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Speaker 1: really being like, hey, look like these things are really

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Speaker 1: and doesn't you don't moving forward and using your platform

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Speaker 1: a fraud, that they're not realistic, that they're not It's like, no,

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Speaker 1: And so because it didn't go his way, the fact

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Speaker 1: People walk into fantasy suits expecting intimacy a lot of times,

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Speaker 1: take place or should take place, or like all these

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Speaker 1: access to anything, and like, yeah, well, because we truly

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Speaker 1: icon tacked, everything is just like I want to get

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00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:05,639
Speaker 1: to know you. I want to touch your hand, you know,

430
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:08,159
Speaker 1: put my hand on the smell of your back. If

431
00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:10,560
Speaker 1: he's doing that and I am not sold on him,

432
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:14,680
Speaker 1: I'll be like I feel like that's true though, because

433
00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:18,159
Speaker 1: because show, like I think the guys were feel slower

434
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:20,440
Speaker 1: to open up, Like I was more like, oh what

435
00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:23,119
Speaker 1: are what you know? What are they about? Even he

436
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 1: was like more slow And there were guys like immediately

437
00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:27,200
Speaker 1: were like I like you, like you don't even know me,

438
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:30,240
Speaker 1: Like you just you just met me, and I don't

439
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:33,520
Speaker 1: know I get you. I see you want to I

440
00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:39,360
Speaker 1: want to feel like I'm winning the affection. Also, it's

441
00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:41,720
Speaker 1: funny coming from you because like that's how you dared

442
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:49,840
Speaker 1: were yea and more like happen happen is not gonna happen. Okay,

443
00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:51,560
Speaker 1: But I feel like you guys are describing like almost

444
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:54,600
Speaker 1: like two different types of the chase, Like would you

445
00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:58,359
Speaker 1: prefer to chase somebody who's playing hard to get or

446
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:01,240
Speaker 1: would you prefer to be the person since playing hard

447
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 1: to get and feel that someone's chasing you. I see,

448
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 1: that's that's that's my problem. I wish that I want

449
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 1: that I liked the feeling of being chased, but I don't. Yeah,

450
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 1: I didn't think I'm wired to be the chaser. However,

451
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 1: none of the guys in my life that I really

452
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 1: really liked them more interested in They all liked me

453
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:23,680
Speaker 1: to a certain degree back, like they'd hang out with me,

454
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 1: they'd make out with me, blah blah blah, but like

455
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:29,159
Speaker 1: nobody would ever be like I want to be my girlfriend, right,

456
00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 1: So like that would make me want them way more

457
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:36,480
Speaker 1: and okay, okay, wait, wait, okay, So how hard do

458
00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 1: you chase because if you remember, you said you get

459
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:42,200
Speaker 1: the IG from somebody who's like, hi, I know that

460
00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 1: person to them, Yes, problem, I know. I don't take

461
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 1: my own advice advice, but I would also try to, Like,

462
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 1: I think the only time I was very much not

463
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 1: cool was with Jared, where it was just like I

464
00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:02,680
Speaker 1: guess that was like the only situation like that. I think.

465
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 1: Otherwise I was a little bit more subdude, but also like,

466
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:09,120
Speaker 1: you know, you always think you're cool and sub dude

467
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,200
Speaker 1: until you go back and you read your diary or

468
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 1: you have to watch yourself. I always like, I never

469
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:21,520
Speaker 1: thought I was like that bad, and then I'm watching

470
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:25,840
Speaker 1: myself and I'm like, who are you? You're scared. I

471
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 1: wouldn't want to be with you. It's the same thing

472
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 1: I came back from the Bachelor. My parents were like, so,

473
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:32,800
Speaker 1: how are you going to be? And I was like, you, guys,

474
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:35,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be so cool. I'm so proud of myself.

475
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:37,680
Speaker 1: And then I watched myself back and it was like

476
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:46,040
Speaker 1: that craziness. Oh my god, that's we'll give me another

477
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:49,439
Speaker 1: all other would you rather either or okay, wait does

478
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 1: anyone else? What do you guys? What is your take. Well,

479
00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:53,640
Speaker 1: I know it's like a little bit different because we're

480
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:56,040
Speaker 1: all in the bachelor world and we all are on

481
00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:58,320
Speaker 1: social media, But what is your take on a guy

482
00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 1: who was like obsessed with so media and it's like

483
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:06,239
Speaker 1: constantly posting, constantly like worried about things, Like what's your

484
00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:08,360
Speaker 1: take on that. I want the guy to be into

485
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,240
Speaker 1: it to a certain extent, but only be on it,

486
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,800
Speaker 1: but not obsessed or very interested. But if he's not

487
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:15,600
Speaker 1: on it, doesn't that almost kind of raise a red flag,

488
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 1: like what are you hiding? Do you have another girlfriend?

489
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:25,640
Speaker 1: Because my sister always goes cheaters don't have Instagram. I mean, yeah,

490
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 1: well I'm with Dean and it's like he's on it,

491
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:30,720
Speaker 1: but he doesn't post and he hates posting, and I

492
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:33,720
Speaker 1: think that's like the perfect thing for me, Like he

493
00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 1: hates being in the scene and he hates like all

494
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:38,879
Speaker 1: the things that we do to get money, and I

495
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:41,040
Speaker 1: kind of like it, like it doesn't pay the bills,

496
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 1: but it's nice. Like the opposite would be so much worse,

497
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:46,679
Speaker 1: Like a guy that is just so obsessed with TikTok's

498
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:50,640
Speaker 1: and views and engagement. If you're like person was into

499
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:57,399
Speaker 1: making TikTok's like your guy and like he was so

500
00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 1: excited to double over some trending audio. That's me, Okay,

501
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:08,560
Speaker 1: I want somebody. I want somebody who will literally I

502
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 1: want somebody who will have fun and like you know

503
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:14,920
Speaker 1: those couples that you see the couples on TikTok to

504
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:17,680
Speaker 1: in the dance trends and doing things together and having

505
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 1: fun together like TikTok. And actually I love TikTok more

506
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 1: than Instagram because it's just so much less pressure pressure.

507
00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 1: I feel like it's less harsh on your mental health.

508
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 1: But like someone who will make content with you, have fun,

509
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:33,719
Speaker 1: not be so not be miserable doing and if you are,

510
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:38,560
Speaker 1: that's totally fine. I don't it's miserable doingthing are but

511
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 1: like this is kind of part of our life right

512
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 1: now anyways, and so it's like let's just like embrace it.

513
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:47,920
Speaker 1: And so I don't know, it would be nice having

514
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: someone that would be like, yeah, let's jump on board

515
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 1: and do this fun dance TikTok because it's actually becomes

516
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 1: less about the video in the TikTok and more about

517
00:28:56,400 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 1: the fun time. Because when we're actually filming TikTok's and

518
00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 1: like do we whether it's a dance chand whether it's

519
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 1: a dog, whether it's or whatever, like it's actually you

520
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 1: end up laughing because then she just brought up like

521
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 1: another thing like when Jared and I make like our

522
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 1: silly skits, like we did one for like we did

523
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,720
Speaker 1: a Gremlins one for Halloween and a Batman one for Halloween,

524
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 1: and he loves editing them and they're just they are

525
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 1: really fun to get our creative juices and just something

526
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 1: fun to do. But I guess that's just consumed. If

527
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:28,680
Speaker 1: you become consumed with the likes that we have to

528
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:30,400
Speaker 1: do this, we have to do it this time. Oh

529
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 1: we haven't posted in this many days. Like that's where

530
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 1: it becomes intense, and like when it goes beyond a

531
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:40,479
Speaker 1: creative project. Yeah, sometimes I'll just see something that they

532
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 1: post and I'm like, you had to set your phone up. Okay, okay,

533
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:47,959
Speaker 1: shirtless pictures also, like I'm sorry, but the the guys,

534
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 1: the new guys on these these seasons, like yeah, like

535
00:29:55,760 --> 00:30:00,080
Speaker 1: the guys that were on your season, like Rachel know,

536
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 1: like and I've been telling you this a bunch, Like

537
00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 1: the guys that they're casting now are so different from

538
00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 1: the guys like the Deans, the Jared's because social media

539
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 1: wasn't a thing. So now these new guys are having

540
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 1: professional photo shoots and the TikTok's they're creating, and like

541
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 1: again setting up the phone, like you really thought this out.

542
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,800
Speaker 1: And I know I'm being judgmental right now, but I'm like,

543
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:22,520
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just being a little judge. I don't

544
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 1: like it. It isn't it. And I will say from

545
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 1: somebody who like just even he and I have talked

546
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 1: about this, Rach, but like when you go through public

547
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 1: breakups and then they have social media, and especially with TikTok,

548
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 1: now where you like there's like storytelling, there's all these

549
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 1: other avenue or things that come out. It's like, shit,

550
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 1: I didn't know that you believed. I don't know how

551
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:49,560
Speaker 1: you believe in certain things because that's not what I

552
00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 1: was told, which is totally fine, but it's like, damn okay,

553
00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 1: like ship, you're not even like there's so many different

554
00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 1: things that you learned about somebody that I'm like, you

555
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 1: told me the exact opposite, which is no, we're going

556
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:04,720
Speaker 1: to go tear up its Instagram and TikTok. After that,

557
00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 1: it's not even him. I'm not I'm gonna say I

558
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 1: want I won't even name drop, but like it's just

559
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:16,400
Speaker 1: like it's really funny watching these things because it's like, Yo,

560
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:19,840
Speaker 1: why did you tell me things I could get opposite?

561
00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:21,880
Speaker 1: Or like wait, what do you believe in this? And

562
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 1: not this? Wait? You made fun of this? But then

563
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 1: like it's just so weird, like sit there and process,

564
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 1: like I don't know any of these people that walk

565
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 1: on the show because so many people to my point,

566
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:35,320
Speaker 1: it's not even about like an X, but like where

567
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 1: are they lying to you? Are they like lying to

568
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 1: their heart? Are you doing it for views and likes?

569
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 1: Are you doing it because people will get people talking?

570
00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:44,160
Speaker 1: Or you doing it because that's what you believe, Like

571
00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 1: it's really confusing, and it's even more so confusing like

572
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 1: even moving forward and getting to know new people and

573
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 1: seeing their TikTok, it's just like do you take what

574
00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 1: they're saying like face value, entertaining enter Like that's my

575
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 1: whole point, and it's just like it's weird. Was it

576
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 1: Michael B. Jordan's Instagram we were looking at because we

577
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:10,280
Speaker 1: know I look at that all the time. That's her,

578
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 1: that's her guy? I clearly missed my chance because why

579
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 1: you're seeing a relationship is not in a relationship new one? Yeah? No,

580
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 1: are we sure? It's okay? I'll keep that out. We'll see.

581
00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 1: I really know if just shoot me a text so

582
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 1: that I can slide, but we're respectful. So yes, did

583
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 1: you slide? No? You should have. I know I found

584
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 1: out too late. I respect to get Instagram slide, I

585
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 1: really do. I think Instagram is the new like dating app.

586
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:43,960
Speaker 1: I think it's I think that's Ben and Jess met

587
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:48,240
Speaker 1: Diana and I our relationship Iceland in like Ben and

588
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: Jess are married. I think you go into dating apps,

589
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,959
Speaker 1: you could go look at their social media and then

590
00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 1: you like message him after So why not just cut

591
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:03,960
Speaker 1: at the middleman and send a day so so? But

592
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:07,479
Speaker 1: like from somebody coming And I actually don't know who

593
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:09,880
Speaker 1: to ask us because we're all in Basterlination and we're

594
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:12,239
Speaker 1: at one point. But do you, like, have you ever

595
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 1: thought about what other people outside of Vasterlination think of Vasterlination?

596
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 1: Like if if a girl are the girl, if a guy,

597
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 1: if a girl or a guy like slid into your

598
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 1: d M s and they're from bastelorin nation went through

599
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:26,480
Speaker 1: this whole process where it's like, yeah, I love you, engaged,

600
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 1: this is the present, there's my life with Would you

601
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 1: be like, out, yeah, that is difficult to in like

602
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 1: dating now, I think with like especially being in Michelle

603
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 1: and I's position of like having to go on these

604
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 1: dates with people who might not necessarily know the show,

605
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 1: and you just be like, oh, yeah, I was engaged,

606
00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:50,120
Speaker 1: but like, you know, it's okay, Like it's fine, like

607
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:53,719
Speaker 1: it was three months ago, but like it's okay, it's

608
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 1: okay because I knew them for less than three I

609
00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:59,840
Speaker 1: only saw him three times total, but and they're just

610
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 1: what is going on? So it is kind of interesting

611
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 1: yet to your point, like what you know, we like crazy,

612
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 1: We are crazy. When you guys do get engaged for real,

613
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:15,759
Speaker 1: will you consider it? Will you consider the engagement from

614
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 1: the show a real engagement or kind of like an

615
00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 1: annulled engagement? Was Honestly, I'll say, I don't know even

616
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:24,600
Speaker 1: I'm not going to speak for you, Rache, but like

617
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 1: for me tainted because it was like it was my

618
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 1: dream ring. It was I wanted the relationship to work.

619
00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 1: I was willing to put in work for the relationship,

620
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:37,920
Speaker 1: and I had the person take off and you know,

621
00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 1: like that's not something that I've bluntly said because Instagram

622
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 1: and there's all these other things on you. But it's like,

623
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 1: I know what it looks like to work through relationship,

624
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:49,480
Speaker 1: and I know how hard relationships can get, and but

625
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:51,600
Speaker 1: both people have to be capable of doing that, and

626
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 1: so for me it was, yeah, I feel like that

627
00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:56,680
Speaker 1: was literally kind of stripped away from me. So it

628
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:59,840
Speaker 1: pisces me off, but I also I'm like, great, I

629
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,960
Speaker 1: can't wait to do it like for real this next time,

630
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:05,319
Speaker 1: like with somebody who really, like I know, will be there.

631
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to figure out a different cut of

632
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:10,920
Speaker 1: a ring because it happening. I will tell you, you know,

633
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:14,880
Speaker 1: the stars happening, the styles, and we always decide we

634
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 1: like something else when we already have it, Like I

635
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 1: love my ring, of course, but then it's like two

636
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 1: years after my ring, a whole other style is getting popular,

637
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:24,800
Speaker 1: and I'm like, wait, I don't want that ring to

638
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 1: find something we should all get kill. I love that

639
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 1: in my mom much less. Just keep getting new voice

640
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 1: night because it's fake rock. Yeah, I think call me out.

641
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 1: You wouldn't have known, nobody would know. And know what

642
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 1: they have. They have a healthy relationship, so exactly, it

643
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:51,879
Speaker 1: doesn't if you bring up the vois Night ring to him,

644
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 1: he gets very upset because he paid for a real

645
00:35:54,320 --> 00:36:01,880
Speaker 1: diamond that he lost. Yeah, so anyway, being in a

646
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 1: jump drawer is a problem. Yeah, and that was blaming Dean.

647
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:10,920
Speaker 1: I know. Is there any chance that story in the

648
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:13,719
Speaker 1: laundry is there anything's going to be a dry or

649
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:18,200
Speaker 1: or filter? Is there any chance you need to pull

650
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:21,759
Speaker 1: out all of the tubing and everything that's on his list?

651
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:25,680
Speaker 1: But he has so tell me needs to prioritize it

652
00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:28,400
Speaker 1: before he leaves for Antarctica. I know. But the thing is,

653
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:31,640
Speaker 1: we went through hours and hours of camera footage that

654
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 1: overlooks exactly where the junk drawer was, and it was

655
00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:37,319
Speaker 1: never taken out. So then we have people sliding into

656
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:38,960
Speaker 1: our d m s where like maybe a mouse took

657
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:43,359
Speaker 1: it and like thought it was because it was wrapper,

658
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:45,920
Speaker 1: and they're like, maybe you dropped it somewhere in your

659
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:48,320
Speaker 1: house and I was like, that probably didn't happen, but

660
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:51,239
Speaker 1: you have stolen it. No, like it was never We

661
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 1: cannot find the video footage of when it was taken

662
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:56,839
Speaker 1: out of the drawer, like we're looking at night We're looking.

663
00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 1: I don't know, did you tear it? Like, did you

664
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:03,000
Speaker 1: just take a jackhammer to of freaking night stand drawer

665
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 1: to break it apart? No? No, it's um it's in

666
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:07,720
Speaker 1: a drunk drawer like in the middle of our island,

667
00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:11,480
Speaker 1: could be behind the drawer. Checked everything we like, can

668
00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 1: you like break the like did you you physically took

669
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 1: apart every piece of the drawer? Well? No, but it's

670
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:20,000
Speaker 1: like it's like a you know, well constructed it can't

671
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:29,440
Speaker 1: fall in the crack like I don't know. But and

672
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:31,920
Speaker 1: he's so upset about it. But at the end of

673
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:34,279
Speaker 1: the day, we decided because I wanted to buy my

674
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:37,719
Speaker 1: own engagement ring, um, because I'm a bread winner, and

675
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:39,440
Speaker 1: I was like, I make more money, I want to,

676
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: like I want to, and I'm gonna be wearing this

677
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 1: every day. So we came to the decision that I

678
00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 1: would buy him a truck and he would buy me

679
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 1: a ring. So he got a truck and he's like,

680
00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:53,880
Speaker 1: your truck. Uh, well, I put the amount towards the

681
00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 1: truck that he put into the ring. Okay, gotcha, I

682
00:37:56,680 --> 00:38:01,399
Speaker 1: got it. I think is down the road is going

683
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:03,839
Speaker 1: to be do you guys want kids. Yeah, I think

684
00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 1: down the road, this is gonna be like a funny story.

685
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:08,560
Speaker 1: Maybe it might be a little funny for you before him,

686
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 1: but like, I think it's a funny story that you

687
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:11,839
Speaker 1: guys are gonna know he doesn't care. You would think

688
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:14,360
Speaker 1: that he cares, and he doesn't like he hates the

689
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:15,960
Speaker 1: fact that he spent money on something. And now I

690
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:18,720
Speaker 1: have a moist night ring that I love, but it's gorgeous.

691
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:21,719
Speaker 1: He doesn't care that he lost it. And also it's

692
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:24,279
Speaker 1: like the most deemed thing ever I know. Also, if

693
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:25,799
Speaker 1: you were to find the ring, would you be more

694
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:27,640
Speaker 1: attached to that ring than the other one? Would you

695
00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 1: be like at that point, would you be like, let's

696
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:30,719
Speaker 1: sell the ring back, use something else with it, and

697
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 1: keep that one. It's a good idea, yeah, honestly. But

698
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 1: this is the thing that I have been telling everyone

699
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:37,800
Speaker 1: who's about to get married and about to get engaged,

700
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:39,919
Speaker 1: Like we're now paying for a wedding, and I wish

701
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 1: he didn't spend that much. And I wish I didn't

702
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:43,799
Speaker 1: spend so much on a truck because like, weddings are

703
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 1: so expensive at the end of the day, like a

704
00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:47,359
Speaker 1: ring's ring, I like I love Jey, but I don't

705
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:49,719
Speaker 1: care that much, so I wish we just wouldn't have

706
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 1: spent that and saved it for the wedding. Well, there

707
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:53,400
Speaker 1: you go, saw a part of the drawer so that

708
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:57,160
Speaker 1: you can sell it back to Tom your wedding. Yeah,

709
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:10,280
Speaker 1: m all right. I want to wrap up this podcast,

710
00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:12,239
Speaker 1: which I actually don't want to wrap up because this

711
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 1: is really fun. But sorry to the audience. We're just

712
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:17,279
Speaker 1: gonna go have fun off the mic and do it

713
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:20,880
Speaker 1: with food and drink. But first I want to just

714
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 1: put your guys. So, I'm really into celebrity crushes. Okay,

715
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:26,880
Speaker 1: I've always been into them, and like everybody who follows

716
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 1: me on Instagram knows that I love Joe Burrow. But

717
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:32,960
Speaker 1: it's okay because Jared approves um, and I'm trying to

718
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:35,680
Speaker 1: turn Kaylin onto him. And that was a really good conversion.

719
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:37,719
Speaker 1: She's she's all in. She's gonna be part of the

720
00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 1: group message it's Burrows pitches. But now I want you

721
00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 1: to to put out your select your single, and I

722
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:47,800
Speaker 1: want you to put out your celebrity feelers so that

723
00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:50,719
Speaker 1: like we can get that into us weekly like a

724
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:54,759
Speaker 1: headline and so that they can photos. Yeah, exactly, and

725
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:57,799
Speaker 1: then do we gotta pick We probably should pick one

726
00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:01,360
Speaker 1: of the single thing. I will have to say that

727
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:05,320
Speaker 1: me and Ashley talked earlier. I Joe Burrow is definitely

728
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 1: my crash. He is just so sexy. I don't care

729
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 1: Joe Burrow if he ever break up with your girlfriend.

730
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:19,920
Speaker 1: Joe Burrow obviously so hot. Jacob Lordy, who's ja? He's

731
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 1: in Euphoria? Okay, okay, who's said that before? Is he's single?

732
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:27,879
Speaker 1: I don't know. He's dating Sidney Crawford's what's her name?

733
00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:35,399
Speaker 1: No guys with Austin Butler. He's with someone. Maybe I'm

734
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:39,520
Speaker 1: getting the wrong nep for a minute, so it was right.

735
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 1: And then obviously Pete Davidson. I feel like maybe I

736
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 1: could pull Pete Davidson if I was in the same

737
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:50,480
Speaker 1: room with him. Possibly that's me just stretching. It's just

738
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 1: we gotta get you in the same Yeah, that's the present.

739
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:56,880
Speaker 1: Have any ideas he think he's a hard get, because

740
00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:59,879
Speaker 1: like it's a hard we all know that he has.

741
00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 1: He's obvious pick of the whole world. There's no true

742
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:08,320
Speaker 1: but you wheel you really quickly. I could Maybe you

743
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 1: can't do it, Rachel, you could do it. You could,

744
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:16,319
Speaker 1: you know, let's see what Michelle obviously Michael okay, well

745
00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:18,720
Speaker 1: it was Michael v. Jordan. But now he's with somebody.

746
00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:21,520
Speaker 1: So by the time it's cons in us weekly, if

747
00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 1: he's single by that time, cool use this vision. If

748
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 1: he's not, I guess no. I don't want to say

749
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 1: a second choice. That sounds bad. Travis Kelsey, you know

750
00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:36,160
Speaker 1: the Chiefs, all the heart throbs. I'm gonna tell you this.

751
00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 1: I will tell you this. I have become a Chiefs fan.

752
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:40,759
Speaker 1: I do have a lot of connections the Chiefs. I

753
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:44,360
Speaker 1: have been at the games and yeah, we're going to

754
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:48,759
Speaker 1: the super Bowl and super Bowl and he sent me

755
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:50,680
Speaker 1: he sent me a pr package the other day. They

756
00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:52,680
Speaker 1: had all his sweatshirts in it. So I always tell

757
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:57,360
Speaker 1: everybody that Travis, wait, wait, do you know that? You

758
00:41:58,160 --> 00:42:00,319
Speaker 1: you know what you know? Are you inn a war

759
00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:02,799
Speaker 1: with Tassia over Travis Kelson. I'm never in an evil

760
00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 1: war with Tassa oay or I'm never in an evil

761
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:06,879
Speaker 1: worth anyone. Does she have a crush on him? Yeah,

762
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:13,360
Speaker 1: she's like throwing her bids out there, she's shooting her

763
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:17,319
Speaker 1: shotting her shot. Yeah. Okay, do you a girl Okay, yeah,

764
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:23,439
Speaker 1: I I think I don't know. He's got the same

765
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:25,719
Speaker 1: street spag that I get. But I was at you

766
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 1: know what I mean, like that like so into this?

767
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:30,440
Speaker 1: No see, I see, I won't go. I won't go directly.

768
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:33,120
Speaker 1: It's one of my girls. But oh you know if

769
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:34,719
Speaker 1: she if you guys are gonna have to hash it out.

770
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:41,439
Speaker 1: I think, what okay, Kaylen, what were you just saying?

771
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:43,120
Speaker 1: Get why it goes going to super Bowl? I've been

772
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:44,800
Speaker 1: too super Bowl, so I don't know why I'm saying it,

773
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:46,880
Speaker 1: Like what you can. I just want to be like,

774
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:50,839
Speaker 1: why are you going? Um? I like sports? Who are

775
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:53,360
Speaker 1: you going with? Are you buying your own tickets or

776
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:57,600
Speaker 1: somebody giving you? Like a sweet Yes, somebody's giving you.

777
00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 1: I mean I'm going to Wilson Tennis. Where is it

778
00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:05,480
Speaker 1: in Phoenix? Yeah? Who are you doing? I'm literally just going.

779
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:07,239
Speaker 1: I have some friends back in Minnesota who have a

780
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:09,200
Speaker 1: lot of connections, so I'm going with them for that

781
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:13,480
Speaker 1: and we'll be there actually leading up to it, like

782
00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:17,120
Speaker 1: waste management and all that stuff is is leading up

783
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 1: to it. I believe waste Have you heard of waste management?

784
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:23,560
Speaker 1: Have you heard of waste management? I'm never but I'm excited.

785
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:31,360
Speaker 1: Is it garbage cans? Is it sounds so stupid right now? Okay,

786
00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:35,360
Speaker 1: but like waste management, like what it like it's I

787
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:38,520
Speaker 1: know that it's a turn tournament. Like the company, it's

788
00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:42,120
Speaker 1: the company, Okay, is the company garbage cans? I don't

789
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:45,759
Speaker 1: know what it is? Literally though, it is so every

790
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:50,799
Speaker 1: year in Phoenix, Arizona. It is like the biggest attraction

791
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:54,280
Speaker 1: that like Phoenix Hole or Arizona holds, and people flock

792
00:43:54,360 --> 00:44:00,280
Speaker 1: there because there's just these massive these masks adge cans waste,

793
00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:03,399
Speaker 1: which is crazy because that explains why everyone falks there

794
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 1: because everybody needs garbage disposed. Okay, whether you're throwing away

795
00:44:07,239 --> 00:44:12,080
Speaker 1: your trash, where are the throwing women whatever? But really

796
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 1: it's the biggest party of the year and it's it's insane.

797
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:17,919
Speaker 1: It coincides with the super insane, and that's never happened before.

798
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:20,279
Speaker 1: So like people like they always had this going on

799
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 1: and every year every year, and legitimately people fly from

800
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:26,800
Speaker 1: all over the world to come to this event because

801
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:30,800
Speaker 1: this massive networking party, like everybody goes rampant. There's like

802
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 1: golf tournaments things like that. And now it's backing up

803
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:37,800
Speaker 1: to the super Bowl, which is a little bit alarming

804
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 1: because like a lot of people don't come out of

805
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:44,399
Speaker 1: waste management PA drinks so much. Like it's crazy. It's

806
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:46,400
Speaker 1: back to back, But I knew I was on the

807
00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:51,120
Speaker 1: right track with the garbage, Oky, So are you going

808
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:54,400
Speaker 1: to the actual game? So I have a ticket to

809
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 1: the game, but I'm actually going to be launching my

810
00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:01,719
Speaker 1: own brand on February. What kind of bread It's gonna

811
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:05,880
Speaker 1: be around everything that I've kind of teased with motivational speaking,

812
00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:09,799
Speaker 1: giving back to Foundations UM and gonna be having an

813
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 1: event on the thirteenth. And so I my team that

814
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 1: works behind me is like, we've done so much to

815
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:18,239
Speaker 1: get you, Like we've had a putt in crunch time

816
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:20,440
Speaker 1: so much time. Have a little bit of fear of

817
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:22,360
Speaker 1: not being able to get back on the thirteenth. So

818
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:25,640
Speaker 1: I'm maybe skipping the game UM to make sure that

819
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:34,160
Speaker 1: I can fly back in case we run into any issues. Kelsey,

820
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:37,680
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, but you never to find me. All right, Well,

821
00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:41,319
Speaker 1: Kaylin Wilson, you're going, Wilson, You're going in the game? Yeah?

822
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 1: Is Dan going in the game. He'll be in Antarctica.

823
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:48,359
Speaker 1: This is the crazy, Like she said, ever, I will

824
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:50,960
Speaker 1: not be going to this er. Well, I'll be in Antarctica. Yes,

825
00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:53,160
Speaker 1: this is his first trip to Antarctica, And like, is

826
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:55,440
Speaker 1: how do you live there? Like do they have hotels

827
00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:57,960
Speaker 1: or is it like you live with scientists while you're there. No,

828
00:45:58,200 --> 00:45:59,879
Speaker 1: he's going to be on a boat the whole time,

829
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:02,320
Speaker 1: and then then they'll like go onto land and like

830
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:05,320
Speaker 1: take photos and then come back to the boat. And

831
00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:08,319
Speaker 1: it's just straight up ice, Like you're basically on ice

832
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:11,919
Speaker 1: when you're on the continent. A question I think, So, Okay,

833
00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:14,279
Speaker 1: have you seen have you seen all over social media

834
00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:17,239
Speaker 1: about how just people are flocking to you? My other

835
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:19,800
Speaker 1: friend is there, and you know, do you know Candice

836
00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:24,040
Speaker 1: the facial facialist. Yes, yeah, she's there right now. Really

837
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:27,880
Speaker 1: yeah yeah. And they are traveling through the drink passage,

838
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 1: which is like crazy. I saw that rough waters you

839
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 1: have to travel, and then there's rogue waves that hit

840
00:46:35,600 --> 00:46:38,560
Speaker 1: and like have killed people and like just like the

841
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:42,000
Speaker 1: intense waves that are smashing into these like boats, and

842
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 1: people are just going there and I'm like, wow, I

843
00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:49,960
Speaker 1: could never are they going there because it's like and

844
00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:53,200
Speaker 1: near death experience. No, like nat Gio host trips, like

845
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:57,120
Speaker 1: it's a lot of retirees go really yeah, but Jean's

846
00:46:57,160 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 1: going for like a photography trip. People are like sliding

847
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 1: on the cruise ship because you literally have to be

848
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:06,879
Speaker 1: in your room so bad, and there's like that. I'd

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Speaker 1: when we go through the drink passage, are we just

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Speaker 1: gonna completely get smacked. Everyone's gonna be vomiting everywhere, like people,

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Speaker 1: I can't do that. That's not worth it for for me.

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Speaker 1: That's why I'll never go because of the passage. But

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Speaker 1: then Dean like whatever, he's obviously a daredevil. He also

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Speaker 1: went to Pakistan and Paul and Nepaul just there. It's

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Speaker 1: the most dangerous airport in the world and they just

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Speaker 1: had a plane crash the airport that he was at

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Speaker 1: like three months ago and everyone died, like how are

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Speaker 1: you doing like such unsafe things and like, I swear

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Speaker 1: he's a cat with nine lives. Okay, So question for you,

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Speaker 1: when you guys have kids, will you let him continuously

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Speaker 1: do these dangerous missions. It's so funny. If he listens

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Speaker 1: to this, we'll be like, you won't let me? Um

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Speaker 1: he doesn't like, Yeah, I support. Support is yeah, um no,

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Speaker 1: I think like get it out now and then when

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Speaker 1: we have kids, you just have to be safer, Like

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Speaker 1: our kids need a dad mhm. And like the stress

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Speaker 1: that it puts on you while like he's over here

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Speaker 1: zip lining on a freaking thread of foss right, like

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Speaker 1: exactly you're taking care of the kids at home. Really

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Speaker 1: not fair. Well, when he was in the hall, he

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Speaker 1: was in the desert for like fourteen days without a phone. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's the scariest thing I know. He and we bought

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Speaker 1: him a phone, a sat phone that like it's connected

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Speaker 1: to satellite so like you can call from anywhere. Um,

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Speaker 1: and he forgot it. He's like landed in Pakistani. He's goes,

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Speaker 1: oh I forgot. There's a common denominator here. I'm forgetting

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Speaker 1: things and not Galen. Alright, good girl chat guys. I

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Speaker 1: hope you enjoyed this at home and you felt like

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Speaker 1: you were around the table with your girlfriends. Let's see

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Speaker 1: this more often. I love a girl chat pod. Anything else.

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Speaker 1: Final words, you'll um, you need to find I need

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Speaker 1: to come to check out your whenever we need to

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Speaker 1: come to come when it gets nicer. Yeah, I definitely

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Speaker 1: want to do that for sure. We would love to

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Speaker 1: have you. We always say we'll cover your trip if

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Speaker 1: you come to us. Hey, let's go, Me and Rachel

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Speaker 1: around once we get there. My girl Jill's there too.

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Speaker 1: Let's go for sure? All right? See you guys. Follow

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