1 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your girl Cheeky's and you've reached the 2 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: voicemail box for Dear Cheeky's. I'm here to give you 3 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 1: advice on anything and everything you need help with. Maybe 4 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 1: you're going through a breakup, maybe you're having issues with 5 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 1: your family, or maybe you need help figuring out how 6 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: to balance your checkbook or how to start a business. 7 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 1: What arever the cases I want to hear from you. 8 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: Remember these are my thoughts and opinions. And if you're 9 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:42,599 Speaker 1: suffering from an issue or hardship, you should seek help 10 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 1: from a qualified professional. All right, now go ahead and 11 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 1: leave your question at the sound of the beeB. 12 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 2: So, my friend boyfriend, he was locked up for nine years. 13 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 2: She waited for him. He just recently got out. It's 14 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 2: been six months that he's got out. 15 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 3: They were great. He was like treating her like a queen. 16 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:09,959 Speaker 3: And then all of a sudden, one day from another like, yeah, 17 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 3: they got in an argument whatever you know, says she's 18 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:16,679 Speaker 3: toxic or whatever. Of course you know we all are. 19 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:20,559 Speaker 3: But he just told her he doesn't love her no more. 20 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:24,679 Speaker 3: And now my friend is like really really hurting. We 21 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:29,399 Speaker 3: don't understand, Like she fucking waited nine fucking years for him. 22 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 3: She could have moved on with her life and had 23 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 3: a baby. She wanted a baby, and this motherfucker just 24 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 3: fucking just gave up six months and that's it. Like 25 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 3: he didn't even fucking want to fight for her. So 26 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 3: like now we're like, does he have someone? Is he 27 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 3: seeing someone? Or he's just really fucked up in his 28 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 3: fucking head because he was locked up for fucking nine years. 29 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 3: I don't know. 30 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 2: I just need to help, just trying to tell her, 31 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 2: like how to move on or I'm trying to be 32 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 2: a good. 33 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 1: Friend, Monique. I can tell you're pissed a lot of 34 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: f bombs there. I feel you though I'd be that friend. 35 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: I think you're a great friend first and foremost you're 36 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:14,799 Speaker 1: a great friend. You're asking for advice for a friend. 37 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 1: What a beautiful heart. Look babe at Chingasu. You know 38 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: what this guy has to go if he straight up 39 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 1: told her that he doesn't love her. As hard and 40 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 1: as difficult as that is to hear, it's a hard 41 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 1: pill to swallow, but she needs to sit in at 42 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 1: amadun oadio and buy asad this guy. There's no excuse 43 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 1: even if he's not all there, because he was locked 44 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 1: up for nine years, Like there's absolutely no excuse, like 45 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 1: you did this woman dirty and it's okay, Like you 46 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 1: both your friend. You guys have to trust in God, 47 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: in the universe that everything is going to work out 48 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:56,800 Speaker 1: the way it should. She was a faithful woman and 49 00:02:56,880 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 1: waited for him. That is honestly. 50 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 4: Her. 51 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:01,519 Speaker 3: That is admirable. 52 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 1: And my hat goes off to her because that is 53 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:05,799 Speaker 1: I can't even imagine I will be honest. I don't 54 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 1: know if I'd be able to do that. So she's 55 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:09,959 Speaker 1: a good woman. He's lost someone amazing, and she needs 56 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 1: to know that. She needs to know how amazing she is, 57 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: and she needs to value herself and give herself her place. 58 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: Ibai quees sufra. 59 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 3: Have her. 60 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 1: Tell her to embrace the pain it's going to her. 61 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 1: Don't light her and towards No, she's going to go 62 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 1: through a grieving process. She's losing someone. And even if 63 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 1: you found someone else, fine, even if it is another 64 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:34,079 Speaker 1: woman who cares. Don't please tell her not to take 65 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 1: this man back because he is ungrateful and he is 66 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 1: not a man that deserves a woman like her. I 67 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 1: can tell you that already, So just be there for 68 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 1: her and tell her I will be here. I will 69 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 1: hold like. She has a good friend. I can already tell, 70 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 1: so just hold on to her, pray with her, girl, 71 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 1: take her to church, then take her out to party, 72 00:03:56,080 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 1: all of it. Find balance. But you guys like, I'm 73 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 1: upset right now because I can't even believe this guy. 74 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 1: F that guy. You're right, So Monique, let us know 75 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 1: how she's doing. I'm sure she's gonna find someone better. 76 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 1: God is going to bless her because she was a good, 77 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 1: faithful woman. So that's what I gotta say about that, 78 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 1: because I gotta, you know, say centered, because I have 79 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 1: other people, you know. But Monique, thank you so much 80 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:26,720 Speaker 1: for your question. I hope everything works out. Our next 81 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 1: question comes from Alex. 82 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:31,679 Speaker 4: Hey, Cheeky's. My mom's a huge fan of your mom, 83 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:35,280 Speaker 4: Jenny Rivero. I grew up listening to her music. So 84 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 4: I'm just curious. Who are your favorite rappers? Did any 85 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 4: of them influence you in some way? Do you have 86 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:47,839 Speaker 4: any hip hop influences? I'm just curious, Alex. 87 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 1: I love your question. Thank you so much for being 88 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 1: a Jenny Rivera fan, and thank you for your question. Yes, 89 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:57,240 Speaker 1: I grew up in Long Beachanna Compton So I grew 90 00:04:57,360 --> 00:05:00,279 Speaker 1: up with listening to rap music since I I was 91 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:04,040 Speaker 1: like freaking I don't know, I think five. I remember 92 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 1: listening to my first rap song and I loved easy. 93 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 1: I listened to Snoop Dogg. He's from Long Beach. I 94 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 1: love jay Z. Actually that is I think one of 95 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 1: my main influences in especially with my new album of Herena, 96 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 1: is jay Z. I admire him as a man, as 97 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 1: a businessman. So jay Z, Tupac, Biggie, I love them all. 98 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:29,559 Speaker 1: Who else? Eminem is another one that I would listen 99 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:33,039 Speaker 1: to the game. So there's a bunch that I would 100 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:34,920 Speaker 1: listen to with my mom. Actually we love the same 101 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:38,160 Speaker 1: type of music. I love rap music because of my mom. 102 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: And of course we cannot forget the female rappers. Okay, 103 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 1: Cardi b is still one of my faves, Foxy Brown, 104 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:49,359 Speaker 1: Lil Kim, Iggy, I love Iggy two. So yes, a 105 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 1: bunch of rap influence in my music, especially in these 106 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 1: last two albums. So I love that question. Thank you 107 00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: so much for asking that. I appreciate it, sending you 108 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 1: a big hug alets. Okay, so we're moving on to 109 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:08,040 Speaker 1: the next question, and it comes from Chris. 110 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 5: I was watching you on Jenica's podcast and you were 111 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:16,120 Speaker 5: saying how the other Herena experience was coming to an 112 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:19,039 Speaker 5: end and there's a new era coming, and I was 113 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 5: wondering if you could give us some sort of hint 114 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 5: of what era's coming and what these next albums represent. 115 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:31,719 Speaker 1: Ooh, okay, I love this question too. Okay, so a 116 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:34,839 Speaker 1: hint without giving you too much. I am sad you 117 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 1: guys that ave Herena is coming to an end, just 118 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:40,279 Speaker 1: the tour, because I'm still doing stuff and hints, you know, 119 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:42,479 Speaker 1: the bees and Avea Reina. It's all a part of 120 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:46,479 Speaker 1: what I do. But I want to call that like 121 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 1: my gangster era, you know, like I was like I 122 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 1: was finding my strength and just holding my own I 123 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:55,600 Speaker 1: don't know, that's how I feel. I feel like, you know, 124 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 1: not that I'm gonna stop doing that, but what's coming 125 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 1: is more refined and refined. It's full of light and shine. 126 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 1: I think that's the word refined. That's that's the first 127 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:13,200 Speaker 1: word that came to mind. So I can't say too 128 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 1: much yet because I'm in between two different concepts right now, 129 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 1: but they're going to intertwine. But let me just tell you, 130 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 1: you guys are gonna love it. I am excited to 131 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 1: work on this and a lot of great music. You 132 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 1: guys have a lot of ideas. I think everything that 133 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 1: I've been dreaming about is it's this year. It's twenty 134 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 1: twenty four, you guys, so be ready, Chris. 135 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 3: So, our last question comes from Duli Hi Tiki's. I 136 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 3: would like to know how you and Bakichi came about 137 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 3: making that song and or how was it, what were 138 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 3: the vibes? And love what you guys are doing. Definitely 139 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 3: Chiky's and Bakichi. You guys will present the Chicanas out 140 00:07:57,440 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 3: here that we're born and raised on the side and 141 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:06,080 Speaker 3: traveled to Mexico constantly because of our family. Tasa welos 142 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 3: theos sorinos yprimos. Thank you, Dul said, thank you so much. Honestly, 143 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 3: I love Becky too. I admire her. I always tell 144 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 3: her how proud she makes me. She's making all of 145 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 3: us proud, all Latina's worldwide. So I'm super super happy 146 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 3: that she invited me to Quilo. I asked her to 147 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 3: ujulyne with me first, and then now she's like, okay, 148 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 3: now it's your turn. And I love Guidarita as soon 149 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 3: as I heard it, I was like, this is such 150 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 3: a fun song. It's her first regional album, and for 151 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 3: her to think about me and invite me it was 152 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 3: it was an honor. So we have a very good relationship. 153 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 3: You know, we don't see each other as much, we 154 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:39,679 Speaker 3: don't talk a lot, but when we do, it's like 155 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 3: we never stopped talking. 156 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 1: It's the weirdest and coolest thing. 157 00:08:42,520 --> 00:08:43,440 Speaker 5: So it was just natural. 158 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:44,959 Speaker 1: Even when we were on stage and I went to 159 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 1: her concert to sing, it was just nice. I don't know, 160 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 1: that song just fits us both so well. So that's 161 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:54,560 Speaker 1: how it came about. You know, Becky started following me 162 00:08:54,559 --> 00:08:56,760 Speaker 1: on socials like a little bit right after my mom passed, 163 00:08:56,760 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 1: and her and her mom were fans of my mom 164 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:01,960 Speaker 1: and the reality show. And that's kind of how we 165 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:04,760 Speaker 1: started talking. We're like, hey, let's have a barbecue one day, 166 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 1: and so we did. We've had a lot of barbecues 167 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 1: since then. So that's how we kind of lose Thanks 168 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 1: to social media, I met her, so now we're we 169 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:15,480 Speaker 1: call each other's sisters. So anyways, that's how it happens. 170 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:18,960 Speaker 1: So luisaid, thank you so much, actually, thank you to Monique, 171 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 1: to Alex, to Chris, and Telulse. It feels like this 172 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 1: was like a very musical episode, which I love. So 173 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 1: thank you guys for your questions. And I really hope 174 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:29,240 Speaker 1: Monique that I was able to help you and your friend, 175 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 1: because girl, my heart, I'm just still like I'm upset 176 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:36,360 Speaker 1: for you guys. But anyways, you guys, thank you so much. 177 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 1: Thank you for listening and watching another episode of Dear 178 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 1: Cheeky's And you guys, if you have any questions that 179 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 1: I can help you with, you know where to go. 180 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 1: This is a production of iHeartRadio and Mike Withdura podcast Network. 181 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 1: Follow us on Instagram at Mike Wipura Podcasts and follow 182 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:55,440 Speaker 1: me Cheeky's That's. 183 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 5: H i q u i s. 184 00:09:57,760 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeart, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 185 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:04,080 Speaker 1: or wherever you get your favorite shows.