Speaker 1: This is he said, Ayadiho with Eric Winter and Rosalind Fantas.
Speaker 1: Hello Zarah. What second? He said, ado episode where we
Speaker 1: I think we only had one right and then we
Speaker 1: had to break off into she said, She said, she
Speaker 1: said she last week.
Speaker 2: It was fun. I enjoyed it and based on.
Speaker 1: The comments started to rip on me on one of
Speaker 1: them about like you didn't miss you didn't you definitely
Speaker 1: didn't miss all my bad.
Speaker 2: Habits because one of the questions was if I miss
Speaker 2: any of your annoying stuff, and I was like, no,
Speaker 2: I don't miss anything, and that I talked about one
Speaker 2: of your things that that is annoying. Yeah, but it
Speaker 2: was cute. I said it very acutely. I didn't mean
Speaker 2: to offend anybody, especially not you. And people thought it
Speaker 2: was funny. And you know what, maybe ninety percent of
Speaker 2: women related said, oh my god. You see this is
Speaker 2: like a universal thing, like husband's leaving things all over
Speaker 2: the place and women picking them up.
Speaker 1: But I'm sure the women that pick it up usually
Speaker 1: know where they put it. Oh my god, guys, you
Speaker 1: don't know where you put anything?
Speaker 2: Well, it doesn't matter.
Speaker 1: That's a nice lipstick, is it.
Speaker 2: I'm upsised with this brand, and it's like a lip plump, That's.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm plumping so I don't have to injectly put
Speaker 2: it on, and it gets it's very tingly and it's
Speaker 2: kind of uncomfortable, right, but then it makes you like
Speaker 2: swollen and your lips get a little swollen.
Speaker 1: Oh I can see it.
Speaker 2: No, yeah, right, I have like four shades of it,
Speaker 2: and now my friends are buying it too because I
Speaker 2: love it. I love it anyway. What about our daughter
Speaker 2: this morning, guys, she had a picture day at school.
Speaker 2: She's a middle schooler, as you know, she's in seventh grade,
Speaker 2: and she had me blow drying her hair super straight,
Speaker 2: and then she bought these things that you put in
Speaker 2: your hair, these rollers that you go to bed. It
Speaker 2: looks super uncomfortable. No, it has no heat. It's just
Speaker 2: like exactly exactly. So she gets up in the morning
Speaker 2: and it's this main of curls and then she's like.
Speaker 1: An old president, like George Washington.
Speaker 2: The mandic. I know, I don't even know how she
Speaker 2: can sleep, but my neck will be so out and
Speaker 2: I'll be so stiff sleeping with that. But she gets
Speaker 2: up and then she's kind of have some spray because
Speaker 2: I want them. I want them to to stay curl
Speaker 2: like this, and then foundation and lipstick. And she has changed.
Speaker 2: Like two years ago, Sabby was the most sporty. I
Speaker 2: don't care about anything. I am like a sporty spice.
Speaker 2: And now it's all about makeup and skincare and my
Speaker 2: hair and my look. And if she showing up from boys,
Speaker 2: like what's going on, I don't know.
Speaker 1: She's just very into being done up. She's her mother's daughter.
Speaker 1: She loves being done up and she loves to make.
Speaker 2: And I'm a simple girl. I'm a simple girl.
Speaker 1: I am simple girl. I am very simple when that's when.
Speaker 2: I look at myself, like this morning, I'm editing all day,
Speaker 2: I'm in my pajamas all day.
Speaker 1: I look like these in like three weeks.
Speaker 2: When you look at movies of people that are like
Speaker 2: blah blah blah right there.
Speaker 1: There there, Yeah, would be a single person.
Speaker 2: They are all made up, even even at the house.
Speaker 2: You know, they're walking around with lingerie like they're like
Speaker 2: La perla. You know, they're like very even at the house.
Speaker 1: All about that. If you're gonna walk around the house
Speaker 1: the whole time, you can you can blah blah blah
Speaker 1: all you want, how you're going to look in lingerie
Speaker 1: and but you know what I mean, Like I've never
Speaker 1: seen you walk around the house in lingerie all the.
Speaker 2: Time at the house, I'm comfortable. I want my sweatpants,
Speaker 2: I want I want to be comfortable. I just saw
Speaker 2: a documentary about like a very very famous person and
Speaker 2: she's the same way. She's like when she's home, she
Speaker 2: looks homeless, and I'm going, that's my kind of girl.
Speaker 2: And then she goes out and he's.
Speaker 1: Like the show I will I would say something. We
Speaker 1: went out for the first time, like we had a
Speaker 1: we haven't really gone out of town. She's editing every
Speaker 1: single day. She doesn't leave the house and I've been
Speaker 1: working and even when I'm home, like we're seeing each other,
Speaker 1: but she's busy, you know, like a rock star editing
Speaker 1: her movie and put it all the other But we
Speaker 1: did go out for a date night and had dinner.
Speaker 1: A couple of weeks ago. A special chef was in
Speaker 1: town that meteor I don't know kind of so a
Speaker 1: special chef was in town. It was a tasting menu, big,
Speaker 1: big menu, and we had a night. It was super
Speaker 1: It was like the hottest day in Los Angeles. I
Speaker 1: think it was one hundred and six that day. Dinner,
Speaker 1: it was still like ninety degrees. It was kind of outside.
Speaker 2: We were sitting all doors and we were not.
Speaker 1: Thrilled about the seating. It was beautiful, beautiful, but we
Speaker 1: had this great menu set up, all these incredible foods,
Speaker 1: and we were so excited. And Roslin was, you know,
Speaker 1: all in with sometimes a tasty menu. She's a little tricky,
Speaker 1: but she was like, you know what, I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 1: So we're eating everything and enjoying it, and everything was delicious,
Speaker 1: and we got done and our waiter came over and
Speaker 1: the waiter said, what did you guys think of the
Speaker 1: guinea pig? I said, I'm sorry, what which was the
Speaker 1: guinea pig? Like a guinea pig? And he goes the
Speaker 1: one that had popcorn all around. It was guinea pig meat.
Speaker 1: We ate guinea pig.
Speaker 2: I'll never be this, I'll never be the same.
Speaker 1: I was laughing. So we loved the dish. By the way,
Speaker 1: I don't think we tasted anything about guinea pig. I
Speaker 1: don't know what we were eating.
Speaker 2: We didn't know.
Speaker 1: She passes out it was it was.
Speaker 2: It was all cuisine from delicacies from the mountains and
Speaker 2: villages of Peru, Ecuador.
Speaker 1: Colombia is very big and pu exactly, so we she breaks.
Speaker 1: You break out in a full rash. Two days later,
Speaker 1: you blamed it on the guinea pig.
Speaker 2: Okay, he said listener, Roos, so I ate. I eat
Speaker 2: guinea pig, villager food, herbs and things that I guess
Speaker 2: my body they it does. They don't do well with
Speaker 2: my body. I don't digest them properly. Or I don't
Speaker 2: know what the heck. I have this event in Chicago.
Speaker 1: You know the creams you've been putting all of your
Speaker 1: body that were whatever whatever.
Speaker 2: Don't I don't know what did it. But for a
Speaker 2: whole week, even I'm in Chicago receiving this beautiful I
Speaker 2: just posted something on Instagram about this speech that I
Speaker 2: did when I received the award. You don't see anything,
Speaker 2: but just so you understand, I'm calling Eric hysterical. I
Speaker 2: break into this rash all over my body, not my head,
Speaker 2: but chest down. I looked like like it was.
Speaker 1: Just it was pretty bad. And I'm one that will
Speaker 1: be like, ros, come down, you're overacting. It was a
Speaker 1: solid solid rash.
Speaker 2: Doctor's following prescriptions to Chicago, to the pharmacy in Chicago.
Speaker 1: Because who's helping you?
Speaker 2: No, you did amazing you help, you helped me, But
Speaker 2: what are the odds.
Speaker 1: I'm the one in La while I'm at work dealing
Speaker 1: with everything, trying to get her prescriptions because I don't know.
Speaker 1: You don't like to be on the phone, but I don't.
Speaker 1: She's like Rosin's sitting there based practically in tears, like
Speaker 1: what do I do with myself? But like we'll sit
Speaker 1: there paralyzed, like she can't pick up the phone and
Speaker 1: do anything, and I'm I can't. I just don't like
Speaker 1: doing your miserable so I'm on set.
Speaker 2: I want other people to for me.
Speaker 1: Kill me.
Speaker 2: I kill me, I kill me. I don't like doing it.
Speaker 1: But if you hate a diary situation, we got to
Speaker 1: step up.
Speaker 2: Guys. This is my HUSBANDO.
Speaker 1: So you're just talking.
Speaker 2: Everybody's like, Eric Quinter, this is how I annoying he
Speaker 2: can be. This is Eric. You're so on it that
Speaker 2: it's too much and that's why people go like he's crazy.
Speaker 2: So I'm dealing with this doctor, Eric Winter. I'm with
Speaker 2: this doctor right, amazing doctor that I'm dealing with because
Speaker 2: of my GI issues. I'm a new patient. I just
Speaker 2: met her. We actually hit it off over the phone.
Speaker 2: She's very nice to just giving her cell phone and
Speaker 2: her email is not her assistant. He's actually emailing me back.
Speaker 2: So I want the kids to be treated as well.
Speaker 2: So she immediately says, listen, this is what you're gonna do.
Speaker 2: You need this and this and that. And I get
Speaker 2: the email. It's maybe ten thirty at night, and Eric
Speaker 2: is like, well you need to ask her this. Yeah, Eric,
Speaker 2: I will do it tomorrow. Nobody just ask her now.
Speaker 1: Because they're having a full email exchange in them.
Speaker 2: Here I am at ten thirty eleven o'clock at night
Speaker 2: going back and forth with all these questions that can wait.
Speaker 1: Eric, Okay, she is the one emailing you. First. You
Speaker 1: were like, oh my god, the doctor's emailing me. She's
Speaker 1: answering questions. I said, well, right now, check with her
Speaker 1: on this. Since you have her, you don't do that.
Speaker 1: If she emailed you, you do that. Number two.
Speaker 2: She's not expecting me to answer right away.
Speaker 1: We put it off the next day. You and I
Speaker 1: both know you're never going to do it. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: you're so.
Speaker 2: Busy, and it was I'm going to change the topic,
Speaker 2: guinea pig, get it pig. So he basically took me
Speaker 2: on a date night and I was with a rash
Speaker 2: for a week. It was amazing, but we enjoyed it,
Speaker 2: and thank you for the date night.
Speaker 1: Let's talk about Dance with the Stars, and it's a
Speaker 1: show that you love and we watched it time. You know,
Speaker 1: throughout the years we've seen many of them, but this
Speaker 1: this season there's been a very big controversial situation with
Speaker 1: Anna Deelvy, which you loved that series, by the way,
Speaker 1: it was incredible. I was not super into it, but
Speaker 1: you was. I have to agree. This is my perspective.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 1: I guess she's been on house arrest and they waived
Speaker 1: her house arrest so that she could participate and compete
Speaker 1: in Dancing with the Stars with an ankle bracelet that
Speaker 1: she's blinged out. Okay, that's stupid. And I remember I
Speaker 1: remember hearing a press release from I believe it was
Speaker 1: ABC or Dancing with Stars, probably Dance. I think it
Speaker 1: was Dancing with the Stars. Actually that released had a
Speaker 1: press release come out saying, well, she served her time,
Speaker 1: so we don't think we should hold it against her.
Speaker 1: She could do the show. If someone's still in house arrest,
Speaker 1: they haven't finished serving their time, they're still on house arrest.
Speaker 1: House arrest is a punishment, am I right? Yep, Like,
Speaker 1: if you're in house arrest, you can't leave your home.
Speaker 1: That sucks, So experience what that feels like to have
Speaker 1: that suck. Don't go dance on a reality show so
Speaker 1: you can gain a ton of attention and try to
Speaker 1: roll that into a brand deal, or roll that into followers,
Speaker 1: and roll that into financial gain for yourself. I don't
Speaker 1: fault her, She's just going along with it.
Speaker 2: I was going to ask you that, So who's that
Speaker 2: fault here with the stars? So you think the offered
Speaker 2: that the network on the producers just have absolutely no
Speaker 2: moral compass by them thinking more about the ratings and
Speaker 2: the publicity that they're going to generate.
Speaker 1: Think it's absurd. I think it's absurd. I think at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, say she never should have
Speaker 1: been invited onto the show. There are plenty of other
Speaker 1: people you can get to bring on the show. Why
Speaker 1: would you bring someone Granted they're done with their jail time,
Speaker 1: they're still on house arrest, so they're still serving some
Speaker 1: sort of a sentence.
Speaker 2: Let me ask you something, and my apologies. I'm very
Speaker 2: ignorant when it comes with the topic house arrest. Is
Speaker 2: it house or house?
Speaker 1: I take it back house something first house house like
Speaker 1: a house. I take it back. It's not zero and
Speaker 1: house house like you spell yeah, house house, So I
Speaker 1: take it back the standard, the old way of house arrest,
Speaker 1: like you couldn't leave somewhere. Now they have ankle bracelets, right,
Speaker 1: so you can walk around, you're on it. You have
Speaker 1: an ankle brace track because I.
Speaker 2: Can find that.
Speaker 1: But I mean, yeah, now I'm actually retracting my thought
Speaker 1: a little bit because I remember being at the gym
Speaker 1: maybe a few months ago, and I saw a dude
Speaker 1: with ankle bracelet on at the gym.
Speaker 2: So you can move on with your life, but they're
Speaker 2: just tracking you. So it doesn't look like you're.
Speaker 1: Going on out at a certain mile radius. So if
Speaker 1: you can go out within a certain distance from your home,
Speaker 1: as long as you have you have the ankle bracelet on.
Speaker 2: So she's close to the stages, So she's actually legally this.
Speaker 1: Is what's bs. This is where I'm going back to
Speaker 1: my original thought. She her home base was clearly New
Speaker 1: York because that's where she was serving out her prison sentence.
Speaker 1: She was in New York. All this happened in New York,
Speaker 1: and then she went to prison in New York. So
Speaker 1: she got out, probably got this offer dancing with the Stars.
Speaker 1: She got special permission from the New York to go
Speaker 1: from New York to LA. So she got special permission
Speaker 1: to move from New York to go to LA to
Speaker 1: be monitored by the studio. So I'm back to my
Speaker 1: original thought process. This is ridiculous. She shouldn't be on.
Speaker 2: The show, but I don't want to. I think every
Speaker 2: woman should have a little bit of Anna Delvi's no,
Speaker 2: because I'm thinking, you know, she is a con artist, right,
Speaker 2: she can't dancing with and I don't understand how she
Speaker 2: can get away get away with with that, Like her
Speaker 2: whole life has been I don't know if her whole life,
Speaker 2: but since we've known about who she is, the way
Speaker 2: she moves and the way she operates, you know, within
Speaker 2: her personal life and business, it's just and people are
Speaker 2: fascinated and she can get away with murder is the
Speaker 2: craziest things. It's like she should be a case study.
Speaker 2: What's inside that mind.
Speaker 1: What is so special about her? Like I had forgotten
Speaker 1: she's smart? Who she even was?
Speaker 2: She's smart. We have a special guest today, guys, before
Speaker 2: we go to the next topic. I forgot about this. Dylan,
Speaker 2: come over here.
Speaker 1: What's up? Dude? Dylan's are a special guest on the podcast.
Speaker 2: I know her nanny is in Mexico because of her
Speaker 2: son's wedding and our mother in law, which is the
Speaker 2: other nanny mother nanny she is with sabbat tennis and
Speaker 2: we're like, what are we going to do.
Speaker 1: With the boot?
Speaker 2: And he came to the podcast for the first time. Hi,
Speaker 2: how are you feeling? Because I know you were a
Speaker 2: little like under the weather the other day. You feel better?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: You want to see something too? Or he said?
Speaker 1: Friends who's played football? Team?
Speaker 2: We don't watch football. Listen, who what do you love
Speaker 2: the most? Who do you love the most in the world?
Speaker 1: Daddy and mommy and Archie, Grandma and grandma and Delmi.
Speaker 3: Yeah okay, said by to everybody.
Speaker 1: Did you hear about this bride getting married? Wanted to
Speaker 1: have her made of honor hook up with the best man,
Speaker 1: so she forced them to stay in the same airbnb
Speaker 1: during the wedding festivities to try to get them hook up,
Speaker 1: but her maid of honor was actually in a relationship.
Speaker 1: So the maid of honor bailed on the wedding and said,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to be a part of this because
Speaker 1: you're forcing me to do something I'm not comfortable with doing.
Speaker 1: What do you think about that?
Speaker 2: I think it's uncalled for And I think I don't
Speaker 2: understand the intention behind this, behind all this, because if
Speaker 2: you really love your friend and you know your friend
Speaker 2: and she is and.
Speaker 1: The bride didn't even invite her boyfriend in.
Speaker 2: Real well that's weird too. How come the boyfriend is
Speaker 2: not there? And why is your best friend doing that
Speaker 2: knowing that potentially can get you a lot of trouble.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm very confused about the whole thing.
Speaker 2: So there has to be more of the story because
Speaker 2: for a woman to do that to her best friend,
Speaker 2: she probably has information that we don't know about. I
Speaker 2: don't know people.
Speaker 1: Get in such a weddings are so weird at times
Speaker 1: to me, like it gets so like this is a
Speaker 1: really unusual situation, but it also gets so political, Like
Speaker 1: I also, I'll never understand why, And I guess I listen,
Speaker 1: there's a situation where the parents are often paining for
Speaker 1: the wedding right, so then they feel like entitlement to say,
Speaker 1: I want X, Y and Z invited because I'm paying
Speaker 1: for this wedding and you're my kid. But also weddings
Speaker 1: become so political of just like the invites, the festivities,
Speaker 1: how everything goes down and.
Speaker 2: Then I think they're beautiful, they are amazing.
Speaker 1: But I think it gets I hear so many stories
Speaker 1: about it just gets so complicated, whether it's an incident
Speaker 1: like this, or someone didn't like the way that the
Speaker 1: people are getting into pictures or doing things or organizing things,
Speaker 1: or some people always want to steal the thunder somehow.
Speaker 2: And in certain situations, the bad one, the bad part
Speaker 2: is if the two families are just not closed or
Speaker 2: they don't get along. Are we are we're talking about
Speaker 2: cultural differences and there's religion involved, you know, and it
Speaker 2: can get very toxic because it becomes a little bit
Speaker 2: about pissing contest. But when it's a wed that it's
Speaker 2: just surrounded with the love and respect and the families
Speaker 2: get along and you know, and and it's something well organized,
Speaker 2: it's just the most magical night.
Speaker 1: Ever, clearly, I know you think the bride was in
Speaker 1: the wrong, But do you think the maid of honor
Speaker 1: should have stuck it out and just did her duties
Speaker 1: as the maid of honor even though.
Speaker 2: The bride put her in the well, I think she
Speaker 2: should have just moved out of the airbnb. And so listen,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm not going to participate because I don't
Speaker 2: I'm not interested, but I'm here for you. You're my best friend.
Speaker 2: But if she felt completely doomed and disrespected, you know,
Speaker 2: I understand why she'll be pissed.
Speaker 1: I agree. I think she could bounce in that situation
Speaker 1: if her friend's putting her in that. If her friend
Speaker 1: is putting her in that compromising situation to begin with
Speaker 1: and not caring about.
Speaker 2: It, I just want to ask her best friend, That's
Speaker 2: the thing I want to ask her, how come your
Speaker 2: boyfriend wasn't there?
Speaker 1: She wasn't invited. Of course it was no they said
Speaker 1: that in order to save money. The brides own.
Speaker 2: Okay, then the guys on a hole and the bride
Speaker 2: the boyfriends. Yeah, and the boyfriend he's not invited. But
Speaker 2: there's a reason. That's there's a reason why he's not invited.
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe the bride knows this guy is a douchebag
Speaker 2: and he I don't want him to be with my friend.
Speaker 1: I mean, I understand the point of view you just
Speaker 1: came up with, but you just made all that up.
Speaker 1: I made Yeah, what if it has nothing to do
Speaker 1: with it.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: What if he's a great guy.
Speaker 2: No he's not not. I have no idea. Maybe I
Speaker 2: don't care.
Speaker 1: Listen, I think this is something an article I'm seeing
Speaker 1: here about in in the UK people are putting up
Speaker 1: as a protest. They're putting up slings like they're they're
Speaker 1: putting up babies and slings as a show on statues
Speaker 1: of men in the UK because they're fighting for the
Speaker 1: right for men to have a longer paternity leave. I said,
Speaker 1: I'm all about you know this, Like if a man
Speaker 1: wants to stay home and be the stay at home dad,
Speaker 1: I'm all for it.
Speaker 2: Man, Why don't you do that?
Speaker 1: Because I work? But there was a.
Speaker 2: Time but you do what, well, there was a time.
Speaker 1: What there was a time when you were working quite
Speaker 1: a bit and I was home a lot dealing with
Speaker 1: the kids, was there not? Yeah, but I was still
Speaker 1: looking for a job.
Speaker 2: But was that a lifestyle that you would have continued.
Speaker 2: I'm just going to stay home with the kids.
Speaker 1: If it's a ford like if we can afford a
Speaker 1: lifestyle like that, I have no qualms with a man
Speaker 1: that says he wants to ste No.
Speaker 2: I think it's amazing. I think it's lovely. I think
Speaker 2: is incredible. I wonder if you actually take that role
Speaker 2: for years and years and years in years.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean I would do it for a period
Speaker 1: of time. I do like to work. I might even
Speaker 1: try and find a way to work while I'm being
Speaker 1: a stay at home dad. But this is but my
Speaker 1: point goes back to paternity leave. I think in the US,
Speaker 1: I guess you're allowed to have up to three months
Speaker 1: paternity leave, not paid like it's up to your employer
Speaker 1: to decide if you're going to be paid or how much.
Speaker 2: I have never heard of a guy of a father
Speaker 2: getting that. No.
Speaker 1: In the US, you can have up to three months
Speaker 1: patnity ma man no male or female up to three months,
Speaker 1: but it's dependent on the employer how much they want
Speaker 1: to pay you during that leave. In the UK it's
Speaker 1: it's one to two weeks. That's what they'll give you. Now,
Speaker 1: do you think a man should have the same amount
Speaker 1: of time whatever is allowed for the paternity leave, or
Speaker 1: do you think the woman should have more and the
Speaker 1: man should just have two weeks or a month.
Speaker 2: I don't know if two weeks is the right number,
Speaker 2: but I believe the woman should have more.
Speaker 1: Yes. Now what about women that just go straight back
Speaker 1: to work like yourself, Yeah, well that's her choice, okay,
Speaker 1: but then the man could still you don't think the
Speaker 1: man could be at home?
Speaker 2: Well, listen, if the mom is a bread winner, or
Speaker 2: if the mom is the one going to work because
Speaker 2: she has to and the dad has to stay home
Speaker 2: for three months or whatever, Yeah, I think yes, there
Speaker 2: should be compensated.
Speaker 1: Now, there's a world in which both parents should be
Speaker 1: allowed maybe a month of paid leave both literally. I
Speaker 1: think that the forces companies to support that for a
Speaker 1: period of time or whatever the case is. Like, a
Speaker 1: man should be allowed if he wants to not be paid,
Speaker 1: Like let's say that a company can't paign him, but
Speaker 1: he can stay for two months.
Speaker 2: I don't know, It's just a tricky subject because listen,
Speaker 2: I feel like women should as the mom and as
Speaker 2: the one most likely breastfeeding. I know, but not all
Speaker 2: breastfeed exactly exactly. But because women have this, I don't
Speaker 2: know how to say it. You know, there's not a compromise,
Speaker 2: there's not a commitment. It's it's not a duty. Is
Speaker 2: something that nature has made for women that we actually
Speaker 2: feed the baby. I think it's only natural, you know
Speaker 2: that that women are allowed more time because are you're
Speaker 2: actually providing an incredible source of health.
Speaker 1: The woman's opting not to breastfeed, and it's bottle of
Speaker 1: the baby.
Speaker 2: The problem is that there is no way that the
Speaker 2: government or any company will will know if the woman
Speaker 2: is actually breastfeeding or not.
Speaker 1: You know, but I think there is a lot of
Speaker 1: quality time in those early early months. I should say
Speaker 1: that the father gains as much connection with the baby.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, I agree.
Speaker 1: One hundred percent. I think there should be I don't.
Speaker 2: Know if he should be three months, but I.
Speaker 1: Don't know if it has to be three months either,
Speaker 1: But I think it's more than a week or two
Speaker 1: for sure. For sure, you know, a month, a month
Speaker 1: I could probably sat away. Yeah, you know, yeah, maybe
Speaker 1: maybe it's a month for the the male, and you
Speaker 1: think three months for the female. Yeah, it feels about right.
Speaker 1: I think so that's what's that's what's out there. I'd
Speaker 1: listen Jenna on our show, God Bless her. She's been
Speaker 1: back to work. I think it was like shortly after
Speaker 1: six weeks or something like that. Maybe I'm making that,
Speaker 1: maybe it was two months, but it was like six
Speaker 1: weeks and she's been breastfeeding working And.
Speaker 2: I did it.
Speaker 1: We pause, I did it.
Speaker 2: Wasabella with a pilot for Devious Mates. She was a
Speaker 2: month old, she was four weeks old.
Speaker 1: At least, that was only one a one off and then.
Speaker 2: But then I went to Columbia and she was three months.
Speaker 1: True, but again by choice and Jenna by choice too.
Speaker 1: Jenna work and she's doing, you know, the duty on both.
Speaker 1: It's a rock star move. When a mom is, you know,
Speaker 1: breastfeeding and you're you're all in and you're still choosing
Speaker 1: to go back to work. Is mad respect for women
Speaker 1: that are doing that, because it's a lot, there's a
Speaker 1: lot on the body. There's no sense.
Speaker 2: But you know what, I think it is true. It's
Speaker 2: so having a baby and that first month eric is
Speaker 2: so overwhelming and you're all consumed with this baby that
Speaker 2: there is like a part of you doesn't mean that
Speaker 2: it's correct, but there is like a part of you
Speaker 2: you're solely saying, I need to do something else. Other words,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go crazy, you know, because it's all you
Speaker 2: do is care for this baby and you're breastfeeding and
Speaker 2: you're exhausted, and it's almost like you feel like you
Speaker 2: have lost your identity. It's really weird. And he has
Speaker 2: nothing to do with the love or the compromise that
Speaker 2: you have for the baby, because you know, that's the
Speaker 2: most incredible gift you get in the world, you know,
Speaker 2: So when you want to be a mom, you want
Speaker 2: to be a mom, but those first I don't know
Speaker 2: if it's postpartum partum or if it's the realization that
Speaker 2: my life has changed forever. And it's almost like you
Speaker 2: feel like you're inside this trap. You know. It's really interesting.
Speaker 2: So I think a lot of women they're like, I
Speaker 2: want to go back to work so they feel a
Speaker 2: sense of normalcy again. I mean, I don't know I'm
Speaker 2: making it all.
Speaker 1: I'm just talking about the experience as a dad, and
Speaker 1: I feel like I've lost my identity. I'm a chauffeur,
Speaker 1: I'm a therapist, I'm a babysitter, I'm a class, not
Speaker 1: a class court life coach, life coach. I'm a scheduler.
Speaker 2: I mean, it's NonStop, it's awesome though it is the best,
Speaker 2: it's the best.
Speaker 1: Is the most rewarding thing on the planet, most challenging
Speaker 1: and most rewarding thing on the planet. I always say that.
Speaker 1: I do want to give a shout out to a
Speaker 1: lot of our listeners who I saw in Chicago at
Speaker 1: this epic CON's First Responder event. It was incredible, so
Speaker 1: many people asked about you and then listen to the show.
Speaker 1: We have an amazing support group of listeners who are
Speaker 1: die hard, he said, And they were hoping that you'd
Speaker 1: be at one of these events. And just a big
Speaker 1: thank you to all of you. Was so lovely sitting
Speaker 1: down with you all in the meet and greets and
Speaker 1: signing autographs, taking pictures.
Speaker 2: Thank you for all the braces, guys, are we got
Speaker 2: how many bracelets? Like? So many? And there was some
Speaker 2: with my name and he said, Jo and characters that
Speaker 2: have played a lot of about Pam, Republic, about Bradford
Speaker 2: and the rookie. I mean the amount of brasilet. Isabella
Speaker 2: got some, Dylan has some, I have some, Eric has some.
Speaker 2: So it's just beautiful to know that you guys take
Speaker 2: the time to do actually something that is like a craft,
Speaker 2: you know, like an artistic craft, and that means a
Speaker 2: lot to us. So thank you.
Speaker 1: And let's just do a couple of questions because it's
Speaker 1: always fun to answer a couple of questions. What is
Speaker 1: this is, Gray c. What is the biggest challenge that
Speaker 1: we have in our relationship between the two of us
Speaker 1: when it comes schedules being so.
Speaker 2: Hectic that quality time and it becomes like autopilot type
Speaker 2: of thing. He's busy and busy and then we see
Speaker 2: each other, but I'm busy and he's busy, and there
Speaker 2: is some kind of like a like a disconnect that
Speaker 2: a lot of times if we go two three days
Speaker 2: like that, then we feel it and then things can
Speaker 2: are getting tricky. So we all always have to just
Speaker 2: say hey, I'm here, I'm here too, you know, and
Speaker 2: be present.
Speaker 1: Do you feel that you can still chase each other?
Speaker 1: How do you keep each other interested and excited? You
Speaker 1: tell me date nights, which we've been very bad at. Honestly,
Speaker 1: she's been traveling, but we're back on that, you know,
Speaker 1: on that road to try to make those special nights
Speaker 1: and more guinea Pig dinners. That's fancy, and you probably
Speaker 1: will let me take you to a tast team in
Speaker 1: your friend for a while. But I do think that
Speaker 1: we keep that chase and excitement fun. And you know
Speaker 1: that thing I posted on social media the other day
Speaker 1: about couples that make fun of each other laugh more
Speaker 1: together and the relationship is stronger. I think that's us.
Speaker 1: Like we tease all the time. It's literally our podcast,
Speaker 1: and we do it out of love. And that's one
Speaker 1: of the things we enjoy about doing this podcast. It's
Speaker 1: a lot of fun and it's therapeutic.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Ways, so it's good. On that note, a lot of fun.
Speaker 1: One good day to be taping the podcast show. Hey
Speaker 1: Tani hit his fiftieth home run and had his fiftieth
Speaker 1: stolen base.
Speaker 2: I don't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 1: Good talk, nice. I'm glad you're a Dodger fan.
Speaker 2: Dylan cares all I know. You know what I know
Speaker 2: about the Dodgers, and the only thing I care about
Speaker 2: is one name, kik Hernandez.
Speaker 1: That's it all right, till next time, love you, love you,
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Speaker 1: See you next time.
Speaker 2: Bye,