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<v Speaker 1>This is he said, Ayadiho with Eric Winter and Rosalind Fantas.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello Zarah. What second? He said, ado episode where we

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<v Speaker 1>I think we only had one right and then we

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<v Speaker 1>had to break off into she said, She said, she

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<v Speaker 1>said she last week.

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<v Speaker 2>It was fun. I enjoyed it and based on.

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<v Speaker 1>The comments started to rip on me on one of

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<v Speaker 1>them about like you didn't miss you didn't you definitely

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<v Speaker 1>didn't miss all my bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Habits because one of the questions was if I miss

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<v Speaker 2>any of your annoying stuff, and I was like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't miss anything, and that I talked about one

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<v Speaker 2>of your things that that is annoying. Yeah, but it

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<v Speaker 2>was cute. I said it very acutely. I didn't mean

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<v Speaker 2>to offend anybody, especially not you. And people thought it

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<v Speaker 2>was funny. And you know what, maybe ninety percent of

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<v Speaker 2>women related said, oh my god. You see this is

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<v Speaker 2>like a universal thing, like husband's leaving things all over

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<v Speaker 2>the place and women picking them up.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm sure the women that pick it up usually

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<v Speaker 1>know where they put it. Oh my god, guys, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know where you put anything?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a nice lipstick, is it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm upsised with this brand, and it's like a lip plump, That's.

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<v Speaker 1>What I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm plumping so I don't have to injectly put

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<v Speaker 2>it on, and it gets it's very tingly and it's

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<v Speaker 2>kind of uncomfortable, right, but then it makes you like

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<v Speaker 2>swollen and your lips get a little swollen.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I can see it.

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<v Speaker 2>No, yeah, right, I have like four shades of it,

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<v Speaker 2>and now my friends are buying it too because I

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<v Speaker 2>love it. I love it anyway. What about our daughter

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<v Speaker 2>this morning, guys, she had a picture day at school.

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<v Speaker 2>She's a middle schooler, as you know, she's in seventh grade,

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<v Speaker 2>and she had me blow drying her hair super straight,

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<v Speaker 2>and then she bought these things that you put in

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<v Speaker 2>your hair, these rollers that you go to bed. It

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<v Speaker 2>looks super uncomfortable. No, it has no heat. It's just

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<v Speaker 2>like exactly exactly. So she gets up in the morning

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<v Speaker 2>and it's this main of curls and then she's like.

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<v Speaker 1>An old president, like George Washington.

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<v Speaker 2>The mandic. I know, I don't even know how she

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<v Speaker 2>can sleep, but my neck will be so out and

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<v Speaker 2>I'll be so stiff sleeping with that. But she gets

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<v Speaker 2>up and then she's kind of have some spray because

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<v Speaker 2>I want them. I want them to to stay curl

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<v Speaker 2>like this, and then foundation and lipstick. And she has changed.

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<v Speaker 2>Like two years ago, Sabby was the most sporty. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't care about anything. I am like a sporty spice.

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<v Speaker 2>And now it's all about makeup and skincare and my

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<v Speaker 2>hair and my look. And if she showing up from boys,

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<v Speaker 2>like what's going on, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>She's just very into being done up. She's her mother's daughter.

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<v Speaker 1>She loves being done up and she loves to make.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm a simple girl. I'm a simple girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I am simple girl. I am very simple when that's when.

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<v Speaker 2>I look at myself, like this morning, I'm editing all day,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in my pajamas all day.

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<v Speaker 1>I look like these in like three weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>When you look at movies of people that are like

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<v Speaker 2>blah blah blah right there.

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<v Speaker 1>There there, Yeah, would be a single person.

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<v Speaker 2>They are all made up, even even at the house.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, they're walking around with lingerie like they're like

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<v Speaker 2>La perla. You know, they're like very even at the house.

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<v Speaker 1>All about that. If you're gonna walk around the house

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time, you can you can blah blah blah

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<v Speaker 1>all you want, how you're going to look in lingerie

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<v Speaker 1>and but you know what I mean, Like I've never

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<v Speaker 1>seen you walk around the house in lingerie all the.

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<v Speaker 2>Time at the house, I'm comfortable. I want my sweatpants,

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<v Speaker 2>I want I want to be comfortable. I just saw

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<v Speaker 2>a documentary about like a very very famous person and

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<v Speaker 2>she's the same way. She's like when she's home, she

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<v Speaker 2>looks homeless, and I'm going, that's my kind of girl.

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<v Speaker 2>And then she goes out and he's.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the show I will I would say something. We

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<v Speaker 1>went out for the first time, like we had a

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<v Speaker 1>we haven't really gone out of town. She's editing every

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<v Speaker 1>single day. She doesn't leave the house and I've been

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<v Speaker 1>working and even when I'm home, like we're seeing each other,

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<v Speaker 1>but she's busy, you know, like a rock star editing

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<v Speaker 1>her movie and put it all the other But we

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<v Speaker 1>did go out for a date night and had dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>A couple of weeks ago. A special chef was in

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<v Speaker 1>town that meteor I don't know kind of so a

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<v Speaker 1>special chef was in town. It was a tasting menu, big,

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<v Speaker 1>big menu, and we had a night. It was super

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<v Speaker 1>It was like the hottest day in Los Angeles. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it was one hundred and six that day. Dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>it was still like ninety degrees. It was kind of outside.

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<v Speaker 2>We were sitting all doors and we were not.

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<v Speaker 1>Thrilled about the seating. It was beautiful, beautiful, but we

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<v Speaker 1>had this great menu set up, all these incredible foods,

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<v Speaker 1>and we were so excited. And Roslin was, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>all in with sometimes a tasty menu. She's a little tricky,

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<v Speaker 1>but she was like, you know what, I'm gonna do it.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're eating everything and enjoying it, and everything was delicious,

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<v Speaker 1>and we got done and our waiter came over and

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<v Speaker 1>the waiter said, what did you guys think of the

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<v Speaker 1>guinea pig? I said, I'm sorry, what which was the

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<v Speaker 1>guinea pig? Like a guinea pig? And he goes the

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<v Speaker 1>one that had popcorn all around. It was guinea pig meat.

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<v Speaker 1>We ate guinea pig.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll never be this, I'll never be the same.

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<v Speaker 1>I was laughing. So we loved the dish. By the way,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think we tasted anything about guinea pig. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what we were eating.

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<v Speaker 2>We didn't know.

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<v Speaker 1>She passes out it was it was.

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<v Speaker 2>It was all cuisine from delicacies from the mountains and

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<v Speaker 2>villages of Peru, Ecuador.

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<v Speaker 1>Colombia is very big and pu exactly, so we she breaks.

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<v Speaker 1>You break out in a full rash. Two days later,

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<v Speaker 1>you blamed it on the guinea pig.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, he said listener, Roos, so I ate. I eat

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<v Speaker 2>guinea pig, villager food, herbs and things that I guess

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<v Speaker 2>my body they it does. They don't do well with

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<v Speaker 2>my body. I don't digest them properly. Or I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know what the heck. I have this event in Chicago.

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<v Speaker 1>You know the creams you've been putting all of your

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<v Speaker 1>body that were whatever whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't I don't know what did it. But for a

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<v Speaker 2>whole week, even I'm in Chicago receiving this beautiful I

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<v Speaker 2>just posted something on Instagram about this speech that I

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<v Speaker 2>did when I received the award. You don't see anything,

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<v Speaker 2>but just so you understand, I'm calling Eric hysterical. I

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<v Speaker 2>break into this rash all over my body, not my head,

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<v Speaker 2>but chest down. I looked like like it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Just it was pretty bad. And I'm one that will

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<v Speaker 1>be like, ros, come down, you're overacting. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>solid solid rash.

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<v Speaker 2>Doctor's following prescriptions to Chicago, to the pharmacy in Chicago.

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<v Speaker 1>Because who's helping you?

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<v Speaker 2>No, you did amazing you help, you helped me, But

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<v Speaker 2>what are the odds.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the one in La while I'm at work dealing

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<v Speaker 1>with everything, trying to get her prescriptions because I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't like to be on the phone, but I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like Rosin's sitting there based practically in tears, like

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<v Speaker 1>what do I do with myself? But like we'll sit

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<v Speaker 1>there paralyzed, like she can't pick up the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>do anything, and I'm I can't. I just don't like

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<v Speaker 1>doing your miserable so I'm on set.

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<v Speaker 2>I want other people to for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Kill me.

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<v Speaker 2>I kill me, I kill me. I don't like doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you hate a diary situation, we got to

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<v Speaker 1>step up.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys. This is my HUSBANDO.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're just talking.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody's like, Eric Quinter, this is how I annoying he

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<v Speaker 2>can be. This is Eric. You're so on it that

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<v Speaker 2>it's too much and that's why people go like he's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm dealing with this doctor, Eric Winter. I'm with

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<v Speaker 2>this doctor right, amazing doctor that I'm dealing with because

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<v Speaker 2>of my GI issues. I'm a new patient. I just

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<v Speaker 2>met her. We actually hit it off over the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>She's very nice to just giving her cell phone and

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<v Speaker 2>her email is not her assistant. He's actually emailing me back.

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<v Speaker 2>So I want the kids to be treated as well.

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<v Speaker 2>So she immediately says, listen, this is what you're gonna do.

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<v Speaker 2>You need this and this and that. And I get

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<v Speaker 2>the email. It's maybe ten thirty at night, and Eric

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<v Speaker 2>is like, well you need to ask her this. Yeah, Eric,

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<v Speaker 2>I will do it tomorrow. Nobody just ask her now.

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<v Speaker 1>Because they're having a full email exchange in them.

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<v Speaker 2>Here I am at ten thirty eleven o'clock at night

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<v Speaker 2>going back and forth with all these questions that can wait.

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<v Speaker 1>Eric, Okay, she is the one emailing you. First. You

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<v Speaker 1>were like, oh my god, the doctor's emailing me. She's

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<v Speaker 1>answering questions. I said, well, right now, check with her

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<v Speaker 1>on this. Since you have her, you don't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>If she emailed you, you do that. Number two.

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<v Speaker 2>She's not expecting me to answer right away.

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<v Speaker 1>We put it off the next day. You and I

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<v Speaker 1>both know you're never going to do it. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>you're so.

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<v Speaker 2>Busy, and it was I'm going to change the topic,

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<v Speaker 2>guinea pig, get it pig. So he basically took me

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<v Speaker 2>on a date night and I was with a rash

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<v Speaker 2>for a week. It was amazing, but we enjoyed it,

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<v Speaker 2>and thank you for the date night.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about Dance with the Stars, and it's a

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<v Speaker 1>show that you love and we watched it time. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>throughout the years we've seen many of them, but this

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<v Speaker 1>this season there's been a very big controversial situation with

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<v Speaker 1>Anna Deelvy, which you loved that series, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>it was incredible. I was not super into it, but

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<v Speaker 1>you was. I have to agree. This is my perspective.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess she's been on house arrest and they waived

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<v Speaker 1>her house arrest so that she could participate and compete

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<v Speaker 1>in Dancing with the Stars with an ankle bracelet that

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<v Speaker 1>she's blinged out. Okay, that's stupid. And I remember I

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<v Speaker 1>remember hearing a press release from I believe it was

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<v Speaker 1>ABC or Dancing with Stars, probably Dance. I think it

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<v Speaker 1>was Dancing with the Stars. Actually that released had a

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<v Speaker 1>press release come out saying, well, she served her time,

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<v Speaker 1>so we don't think we should hold it against her.

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<v Speaker 1>She could do the show. If someone's still in house arrest,

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<v Speaker 1>they haven't finished serving their time, they're still on house arrest.

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<v Speaker 1>House arrest is a punishment, am I right? Yep, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're in house arrest, you can't leave your home.

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<v Speaker 1>That sucks, So experience what that feels like to have

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<v Speaker 1>that suck. Don't go dance on a reality show so

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<v Speaker 1>you can gain a ton of attention and try to

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<v Speaker 1>roll that into a brand deal, or roll that into followers,

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<v Speaker 1>and roll that into financial gain for yourself. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>fault her, She's just going along with it.

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<v Speaker 2>I was going to ask you that, So who's that

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<v Speaker 2>fault here with the stars? So you think the offered

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<v Speaker 2>that the network on the producers just have absolutely no

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<v Speaker 2>moral compass by them thinking more about the ratings and

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<v Speaker 2>the publicity that they're going to generate.

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<v Speaker 1>Think it's absurd. I think it's absurd. I think at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the day, say she never should have

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<v Speaker 1>been invited onto the show. There are plenty of other

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<v Speaker 1>people you can get to bring on the show. Why

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<v Speaker 1>would you bring someone Granted they're done with their jail time,

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<v Speaker 1>they're still on house arrest, so they're still serving some

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<v Speaker 1>sort of a sentence.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me ask you something, and my apologies. I'm very

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<v Speaker 2>ignorant when it comes with the topic house arrest. Is

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<v Speaker 2>it house or house?

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<v Speaker 1>I take it back house something first house house like

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<v Speaker 1>a house. I take it back. It's not zero and

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<v Speaker 1>house house like you spell yeah, house house, So I

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<v Speaker 1>take it back the standard, the old way of house arrest,

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<v Speaker 1>like you couldn't leave somewhere. Now they have ankle bracelets, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so you can walk around, you're on it. You have

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<v Speaker 1>an ankle brace track because I.

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<v Speaker 2>Can find that.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean, yeah, now I'm actually retracting my thought

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit because I remember being at the gym

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<v Speaker 1>maybe a few months ago, and I saw a dude

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<v Speaker 1>with ankle bracelet on at the gym.

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<v Speaker 2>So you can move on with your life, but they're

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<v Speaker 2>just tracking you. So it doesn't look like you're.

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<v Speaker 1>Going on out at a certain mile radius. So if

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<v Speaker 1>you can go out within a certain distance from your home,

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<v Speaker 1>as long as you have you have the ankle bracelet on.

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<v Speaker 2>So she's close to the stages, So she's actually legally this.

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<v Speaker 1>Is what's bs. This is where I'm going back to

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<v Speaker 1>my original thought. She her home base was clearly New

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<v Speaker 1>York because that's where she was serving out her prison sentence.

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<v Speaker 1>She was in New York. All this happened in New York,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she went to prison in New York. So

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<v Speaker 1>she got out, probably got this offer dancing with the Stars.

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<v Speaker 1>She got special permission from the New York to go

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<v Speaker 1>from New York to LA. So she got special permission

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<v Speaker 1>to move from New York to go to LA to

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<v Speaker 1>be monitored by the studio. So I'm back to my

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<v Speaker 1>original thought process. This is ridiculous. She shouldn't be on.

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<v Speaker 2>The show, but I don't want to. I think every

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<v Speaker 2>woman should have a little bit of Anna Delvi's no,

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<v Speaker 2>because I'm thinking, you know, she is a con artist, right,

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<v Speaker 2>she can't dancing with and I don't understand how she

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<v Speaker 2>can get away get away with with that, Like her

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<v Speaker 2>whole life has been I don't know if her whole life,

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<v Speaker 2>but since we've known about who she is, the way

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<v Speaker 2>she moves and the way she operates, you know, within

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<v Speaker 2>her personal life and business, it's just and people are

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<v Speaker 2>fascinated and she can get away with murder is the

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<v Speaker 2>craziest things. It's like she should be a case study.

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<v Speaker 2>What's inside that mind.

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<v Speaker 1>What is so special about her? Like I had forgotten

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<v Speaker 1>she's smart? Who she even was?

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<v Speaker 2>She's smart. We have a special guest today, guys, before

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<v Speaker 2>we go to the next topic. I forgot about this. Dylan,

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<v Speaker 2>come over here.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? Dude? Dylan's are a special guest on the podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>I know her nanny is in Mexico because of her

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<v Speaker 2>son's wedding and our mother in law, which is the

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<v Speaker 2>other nanny mother nanny she is with sabbat tennis and

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<v Speaker 2>we're like, what are we going to do.

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<v Speaker 1>With the boot?

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<v Speaker 2>And he came to the podcast for the first time. Hi,

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<v Speaker 2>how are you feeling? Because I know you were a

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<v Speaker 2>little like under the weather the other day. You feel better?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>You want to see something too? Or he said?

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<v Speaker 1>Friends who's played football? Team?

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<v Speaker 2>We don't watch football. Listen, who what do you love

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<v Speaker 2>the most? Who do you love the most in the world?

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<v Speaker 1>Daddy and mommy and Archie, Grandma and grandma and Delmi.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah okay, said by to everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you hear about this bride getting married? Wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>have her made of honor hook up with the best man,

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<v Speaker 1>so she forced them to stay in the same airbnb

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<v Speaker 1>during the wedding festivities to try to get them hook up,

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<v Speaker 1>but her maid of honor was actually in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>So the maid of honor bailed on the wedding and said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to be a part of this because

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<v Speaker 1>you're forcing me to do something I'm not comfortable with doing.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think about that?

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's uncalled for And I think I don't

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<v Speaker 2>understand the intention behind this, behind all this, because if

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<v Speaker 2>you really love your friend and you know your friend

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<v Speaker 2>and she is and.

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<v Speaker 1>The bride didn't even invite her boyfriend in.

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<v Speaker 2>Real well that's weird too. How come the boyfriend is

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<v Speaker 2>not there? And why is your best friend doing that

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<v Speaker 2>knowing that potentially can get you a lot of trouble.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I'm very confused about the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 2>So there has to be more of the story because

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<v Speaker 2>for a woman to do that to her best friend,

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<v Speaker 2>she probably has information that we don't know about. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know people.

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<v Speaker 1>Get in such a weddings are so weird at times

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<v Speaker 1>to me, like it gets so like this is a

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<v Speaker 1>really unusual situation, but it also gets so political, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I also, I'll never understand why, And I guess I listen,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a situation where the parents are often paining for

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<v Speaker 1>the wedding right, so then they feel like entitlement to say,

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<v Speaker 1>I want X, Y and Z invited because I'm paying

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<v Speaker 1>for this wedding and you're my kid. But also weddings

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<v Speaker 1>become so political of just like the invites, the festivities,

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<v Speaker 1>how everything goes down and.

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<v Speaker 2>Then I think they're beautiful, they are amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think it gets I hear so many stories

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<v Speaker 1>about it just gets so complicated, whether it's an incident

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<v Speaker 1>like this, or someone didn't like the way that the

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<v Speaker 1>people are getting into pictures or doing things or organizing things,

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<v Speaker 1>or some people always want to steal the thunder somehow.

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<v Speaker 2>And in certain situations, the bad one, the bad part

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<v Speaker 2>is if the two families are just not closed or

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<v Speaker 2>they don't get along. Are we are we're talking about

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<v Speaker 2>cultural differences and there's religion involved, you know, and it

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<v Speaker 2>can get very toxic because it becomes a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>about pissing contest. But when it's a wed that it's

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<v Speaker 2>just surrounded with the love and respect and the families

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<v Speaker 2>get along and you know, and and it's something well organized,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just the most magical night.

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<v Speaker 1>Ever, clearly, I know you think the bride was in

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong, But do you think the maid of honor

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<v Speaker 1>should have stuck it out and just did her duties

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<v Speaker 1>as the maid of honor even though.

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<v Speaker 2>The bride put her in the well, I think she

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<v Speaker 2>should have just moved out of the airbnb. And so listen,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna I'm not going to participate because I don't

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not interested, but I'm here for you. You're my best friend.

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<v Speaker 2>But if she felt completely doomed and disrespected, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I understand why she'll be pissed.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree. I think she could bounce in that situation

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<v Speaker 1>if her friend's putting her in that. If her friend

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<v Speaker 1>is putting her in that compromising situation to begin with

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<v Speaker 1>and not caring about.

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<v Speaker 2>It, I just want to ask her best friend, That's

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<v Speaker 2>the thing I want to ask her, how come your

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<v Speaker 2>boyfriend wasn't there?

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<v Speaker 1>She wasn't invited. Of course it was no they said

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<v Speaker 1>that in order to save money. The brides own.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, then the guys on a hole and the bride

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<v Speaker 2>the boyfriends. Yeah, and the boyfriend he's not invited. But

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<v Speaker 2>there's a reason. That's there's a reason why he's not invited.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe maybe the bride knows this guy is a douchebag

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<v Speaker 2>and he I don't want him to be with my friend.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I understand the point of view you just

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<v Speaker 1>came up with, but you just made all that up.

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<v Speaker 1>I made Yeah, what if it has nothing to do

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<v Speaker 1>with it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>What if he's a great guy.

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<v Speaker 2>No he's not not. I have no idea. Maybe I

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<v Speaker 2>don't care.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, I think this is something an article I'm seeing

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<v Speaker 1>here about in in the UK people are putting up

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<v Speaker 1>as a protest. They're putting up slings like they're they're

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<v Speaker 1>putting up babies and slings as a show on statues

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<v Speaker 1>of men in the UK because they're fighting for the

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<v Speaker 1>right for men to have a longer paternity leave. I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm all about you know this, Like if a man

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<v Speaker 1>wants to stay home and be the stay at home dad,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm all for it.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, Why don't you do that?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I work? But there was a.

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<v Speaker 2>Time but you do what, well, there was a time.

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<v Speaker 1>What there was a time when you were working quite

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<v Speaker 1>a bit and I was home a lot dealing with

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<v Speaker 1>the kids, was there not? Yeah, but I was still

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<v Speaker 1>looking for a job.

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<v Speaker 2>But was that a lifestyle that you would have continued.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just going to stay home with the kids.

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<v Speaker 1>If it's a ford like if we can afford a

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<v Speaker 1>lifestyle like that, I have no qualms with a man

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<v Speaker 1>that says he wants to ste No.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's amazing. I think it's lovely. I think

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<v Speaker 2>is incredible. I wonder if you actually take that role

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<v Speaker 2>for years and years and years in years.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean I would do it for a period

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<v Speaker 1>of time. I do like to work. I might even

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<v Speaker 1>try and find a way to work while I'm being

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<v Speaker 1>a stay at home dad. But this is but my

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<v Speaker 1>point goes back to paternity leave. I think in the US,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess you're allowed to have up to three months

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<v Speaker 1>paternity leave, not paid like it's up to your employer

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<v Speaker 1>to decide if you're going to be paid or how much.

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<v Speaker 2>I have never heard of a guy of a father

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<v Speaker 2>getting that. No.

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<v Speaker 1>In the US, you can have up to three months

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<v Speaker 1>patnity ma man no male or female up to three months,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's dependent on the employer how much they want

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<v Speaker 1>to pay you during that leave. In the UK it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's one to two weeks. That's what they'll give you. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>do you think a man should have the same amount

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<v Speaker 1>of time whatever is allowed for the paternity leave, or

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<v Speaker 1>do you think the woman should have more and the

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<v Speaker 1>man should just have two weeks or a month.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if two weeks is the right number,

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<v Speaker 2>but I believe the woman should have more.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes. Now what about women that just go straight back

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<v Speaker 1>to work like yourself, Yeah, well that's her choice, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but then the man could still you don't think the

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<v Speaker 1>man could be at home?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, listen, if the mom is a bread winner, or

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<v Speaker 2>if the mom is the one going to work because

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<v Speaker 2>she has to and the dad has to stay home

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<v Speaker 2>for three months or whatever, Yeah, I think yes, there

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<v Speaker 2>should be compensated.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, there's a world in which both parents should be

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<v Speaker 1>allowed maybe a month of paid leave both literally. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that the forces companies to support that for a

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<v Speaker 1>period of time or whatever the case is. Like, a

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<v Speaker 1>man should be allowed if he wants to not be paid,

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<v Speaker 1>Like let's say that a company can't paign him, but

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<v Speaker 1>he can stay for two months.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, It's just a tricky subject because listen,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like women should as the mom and as

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<v Speaker 2>the one most likely breastfeeding. I know, but not all

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<v Speaker 2>breastfeed exactly exactly. But because women have this, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know how to say it. You know, there's not a compromise,

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<v Speaker 2>there's not a commitment. It's it's not a duty. Is

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<v Speaker 2>something that nature has made for women that we actually

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<v Speaker 2>feed the baby. I think it's only natural, you know

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<v Speaker 2>that that women are allowed more time because are you're

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<v Speaker 2>actually providing an incredible source of health.

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<v Speaker 1>The woman's opting not to breastfeed, and it's bottle of

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<v Speaker 1>the baby.

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<v Speaker 2>The problem is that there is no way that the

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<v Speaker 2>government or any company will will know if the woman

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<v Speaker 2>is actually breastfeeding or not.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, but I think there is a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>quality time in those early early months. I should say

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<v Speaker 1>that the father gains as much connection with the baby.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I agree, I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>One hundred percent. I think there should be I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Know if he should be three months, but I.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't know if it has to be three months either,

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<v Speaker 1>But I think it's more than a week or two

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. For sure, you know, a month, a month

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<v Speaker 1>I could probably sat away. Yeah, you know, yeah, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>maybe it's a month for the the male, and you

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<v Speaker 1>think three months for the female. Yeah, it feels about right.

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<v Speaker 1>I think so that's what's that's what's out there. I'd

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<v Speaker 1>listen Jenna on our show, God Bless her. She's been

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<v Speaker 1>back to work. I think it was like shortly after

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<v Speaker 1>six weeks or something like that. Maybe I'm making that,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe it was two months, but it was like six

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<v Speaker 1>weeks and she's been breastfeeding working And.

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<v Speaker 2>I did it.

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<v Speaker 1>We pause, I did it.

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<v Speaker 2>Wasabella with a pilot for Devious Mates. She was a

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<v Speaker 2>month old, she was four weeks old.

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<v Speaker 1>At least, that was only one a one off and then.

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<v Speaker 2>But then I went to Columbia and she was three months.

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<v Speaker 1>True, but again by choice and Jenna by choice too.

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<v Speaker 1>Jenna work and she's doing, you know, the duty on both.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a rock star move. When a mom is, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>breastfeeding and you're you're all in and you're still choosing

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<v Speaker 1>to go back to work. Is mad respect for women

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<v Speaker 1>that are doing that, because it's a lot, there's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot on the body. There's no sense.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know what, I think it is true. It's

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<v Speaker 2>so having a baby and that first month eric is

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<v Speaker 2>so overwhelming and you're all consumed with this baby that

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<v Speaker 2>there is like a part of you doesn't mean that

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<v Speaker 2>it's correct, but there is like a part of you

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<v Speaker 2>you're solely saying, I need to do something else. Other words,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna go crazy, you know, because it's all you

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<v Speaker 2>do is care for this baby and you're breastfeeding and

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<v Speaker 2>you're exhausted, and it's almost like you feel like you

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<v Speaker 2>have lost your identity. It's really weird. And he has

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<v Speaker 2>nothing to do with the love or the compromise that

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<v Speaker 2>you have for the baby, because you know, that's the

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<v Speaker 2>most incredible gift you get in the world, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>So when you want to be a mom, you want

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<v Speaker 2>to be a mom, but those first I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>if it's postpartum partum or if it's the realization that

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<v Speaker 2>my life has changed forever. And it's almost like you

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<v Speaker 2>feel like you're inside this trap. You know. It's really interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think a lot of women they're like, I

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<v Speaker 2>want to go back to work so they feel a

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<v Speaker 2>sense of normalcy again. I mean, I don't know I'm

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<v Speaker 2>making it all.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just talking about the experience as a dad, and

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I've lost my identity. I'm a chauffeur,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a therapist, I'm a babysitter, I'm a class, not

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<v Speaker 1>a class court life coach, life coach. I'm a scheduler.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's NonStop, it's awesome though it is the best,

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<v Speaker 2>it's the best.

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<v Speaker 1>Is the most rewarding thing on the planet, most challenging

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<v Speaker 1>and most rewarding thing on the planet. I always say that.

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<v Speaker 1>I do want to give a shout out to a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of our listeners who I saw in Chicago at

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<v Speaker 1>this epic CON's First Responder event. It was incredible, so

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<v Speaker 1>many people asked about you and then listen to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>We have an amazing support group of listeners who are

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<v Speaker 1>die hard, he said, And they were hoping that you'd

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<v Speaker 1>be at one of these events. And just a big

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<v Speaker 1>thank you to all of you. Was so lovely sitting

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<v Speaker 1>down with you all in the meet and greets and

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<v Speaker 1>signing autographs, taking pictures.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for all the braces, guys, are we got

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<v Speaker 2>how many bracelets? Like? So many? And there was some

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<v Speaker 2>with my name and he said, Jo and characters that

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<v Speaker 2>have played a lot of about Pam, Republic, about Bradford

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<v Speaker 2>and the rookie. I mean the amount of brasilet. Isabella

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<v Speaker 2>got some, Dylan has some, I have some, Eric has some.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's just beautiful to know that you guys take

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<v Speaker 2>the time to do actually something that is like a craft,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like an artistic craft, and that means a

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<v Speaker 2>lot to us. So thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>And let's just do a couple of questions because it's

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<v Speaker 1>always fun to answer a couple of questions. What is

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<v Speaker 1>this is, Gray c. What is the biggest challenge that

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<v Speaker 1>we have in our relationship between the two of us

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<v Speaker 1>when it comes schedules being so.

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<v Speaker 2>Hectic that quality time and it becomes like autopilot type

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<v Speaker 2>of thing. He's busy and busy and then we see

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<v Speaker 2>each other, but I'm busy and he's busy, and there

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<v Speaker 2>is some kind of like a like a disconnect that

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of times if we go two three days

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<v Speaker 2>like that, then we feel it and then things can

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<v Speaker 2>are getting tricky. So we all always have to just

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<v Speaker 2>say hey, I'm here, I'm here too, you know, and

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<v Speaker 2>be present.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you feel that you can still chase each other?

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<v Speaker 1>How do you keep each other interested and excited? You

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<v Speaker 1>tell me date nights, which we've been very bad at. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>she's been traveling, but we're back on that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>on that road to try to make those special nights

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<v Speaker 1>and more guinea Pig dinners. That's fancy, and you probably

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<v Speaker 1>will let me take you to a tast team in

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<v Speaker 1>your friend for a while. But I do think that

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<v Speaker 1>we keep that chase and excitement fun. And you know

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<v Speaker 1>that thing I posted on social media the other day

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<v Speaker 1>about couples that make fun of each other laugh more

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<v Speaker 1>together and the relationship is stronger. I think that's us.

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<v Speaker 1>Like we tease all the time. It's literally our podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>and we do it out of love. And that's one

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<v Speaker 1>of the things we enjoy about doing this podcast. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of fun and it's therapeutic.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Ways, so it's good. On that note, a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 1>One good day to be taping the podcast show. Hey

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<v Speaker 1>Tani hit his fiftieth home run and had his fiftieth

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<v Speaker 1>stolen base.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>Good talk, nice. I'm glad you're a Dodger fan.

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<v Speaker 2>Dylan cares all I know. You know what I know

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<v Speaker 2>about the Dodgers, and the only thing I care about

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<v Speaker 2>is one name, kik Hernandez.

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<v Speaker 1>That's it all right, till next time, love you, love you,

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<v Speaker 1>See you next time.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye,