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Speaker 1: Today.

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Speaker 2: I fed up when I thought a cute guy was

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Speaker 2: ghosting me. But little did I know I was ghosting him.

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Speaker 2: The ghosty becomes the ghost Ed's right. I was at

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Speaker 2: a party two weeks ago where I only knew two

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Speaker 2: people walked.

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Speaker 1: Fucking loser. What are you doing, bro, go get go,

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Speaker 1: get forty friends?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, get one hundred new friends there, Okay, When in

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Speaker 2: walks this guy who immediately gave me a really big

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Speaker 2: smile and I thought he was so gorgeous. We ended

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Speaker 2: up talking in the same circle and he introduces himself.

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Speaker 2: We start chatting and quickly find the circle around us

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Speaker 2: has disappeared and it's just us. Oh oh, some loan time. Also,

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Speaker 2: I would just like to say I have a ghosting

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Speaker 2: story right now, and I need to tell it after this, yes,

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Speaker 2: because currently it's happening and I'm so mad and I

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Speaker 2: need a bed bro No, all right, anyway, he is

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Speaker 2: so smart, his smile is outrageously cute, and I love

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Speaker 2: how he seems laser focused on me instead of one

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Speaker 2: of the many attractive women around the party.

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Speaker 1: That's right, m And.

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Speaker 2: They're everywhere around the party and they're talking about their

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Speaker 2: cool rayah dates, you know, about rya.

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Speaker 1: That's like the celebrity yeah or something. Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: As the night wore on, I found myself talking to

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Speaker 2: various different groups, but each time this guy would appear

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Speaker 2: again and again, and we end up just talking to

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Speaker 2: each other. Someone who neither of us knew came up

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Speaker 2: and said, we made an attractive couple.

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Speaker 1: Ooh, and I realized.

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Speaker 2: Somehow, in the span of two hours, we were already

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Speaker 2: acting like a couple.

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Speaker 1: Wow, that's heating up, moving quickly. Yeah. Wow.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't just me being sexually attracted him, although I

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Speaker 2: definitely was.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I felt so comfortable around him, and he was so

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Speaker 2: attentive to my needs. Sounds like it sounds like y'all

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Speaker 2: are a couple.

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Speaker 1: Bro, They're gonna get married by the end of the night.

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Speaker 1: At the end of the story, they're gonna be married. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I told him offhand had allergies to the dog at

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Speaker 2: the party. Hours later, I started sneezing, and he immediately

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Speaker 2: knew what to do. Man, dude, man, it's attentive. His like, Wow,

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Speaker 2: he moved us outside.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, so so she wouldn't so, but the

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Speaker 1: he remember gen analogy, moved outside. I'm like, God, that's

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Speaker 1: pretty cute. He's the perfect man. Seant impressed. Wow, shut up.

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Speaker 2: His smile was the thing that immediately caught my attention,

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Speaker 2: but it was the thoughtfulness that made it so great.

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Speaker 2: At the end of the night, we catch an uber

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Speaker 2: home and end up smacking lips before the uber drops

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Speaker 2: him off and give him my number.

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Speaker 1: There we go. Nice.

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Speaker 2: Sunday comes in. I don't hear from him, Okay, I

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Speaker 2: get it. We both got home at four am, and

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Speaker 2: I was just and I too, just wanted to sleep

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Speaker 2: the day away. Monday comes silence, Tuesday even more silence.

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Speaker 2: And I know I've read it's uncool to text a

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Speaker 2: girl immediately because you want to seem super cool and

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Speaker 2: suave and wanted. But we're both in our mid thirties,

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Speaker 2: and I hoped he would realize that his mind games

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Speaker 2: or bullshit. Anyway he likes someone, just text them when

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Speaker 2: you can. Life is too short to be with people

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Speaker 2: half interested in you. I agree, which is great advice.

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Speaker 2: That's great advice. Wednesday comes around and I'm a mixture

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Speaker 2: of angry and over it and insecure all at the

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Speaker 2: same time. Bro, this is where I am right now.

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Speaker 2: How dare he lead me on like this. Well, I

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Speaker 2: guess I'm glad I only wasted one night on this asshole?

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Speaker 2: Was I not pretty enough? All the thoughts raced them

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Speaker 2: my head and coalesced me typing his name and workplace

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Speaker 2: into Google to see if I can find him. Uh,

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Speaker 2: she's going on a stock and rampage at her place

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Speaker 2: of work, like like, she's going to look up this

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Speaker 2: guy and see, like where, who the heck he is?

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's funny.

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Speaker 2: Turns out he was incredibly easy to find. I was

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Speaker 2: planning and just looking at him because I missed his face,

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Speaker 2: but I accidentally clicked the link that brought him to

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Speaker 2: his LinkedIn page. No, yikes, Now he'll know I stalked him,

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Speaker 2: which made me feel even worse. Probably feel crazy right now, Well,

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Speaker 2: says I was already on his page. I guess I

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Speaker 2: would look where he worked. Maybe he's not that interesting

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Speaker 2: and i'd feel better about him ghosting me, right.

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Speaker 1: Nope.

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Speaker 2: Turns out he's not only very smart, but also humble,

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Speaker 2: because his resume listed a dozen of different cool jobs,

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Speaker 2: impressive schools, and basically cool things he's worked on.

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Speaker 1: Great. I probably wasn't impressive enough for him. Wow, dude,

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Speaker 1: if he's just going through straight god, yeah, bless Now.

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Speaker 2: Thirty minutes later, he friends me on LinkedIn because I

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Speaker 2: guess he saw that she was talking him. That's amazing,

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Speaker 2: funny road, but he seemed surprised that I was reaching out.

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Speaker 2: He had evidently texted me that night and again the

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Speaker 2: next day, only to not hear back. He thinks that

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Speaker 2: I had ghosted him, and this is how we found

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Speaker 2: out my f up. When I gave him my phone number,

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Speaker 2: turns out I was off by one digit. Tipsy me

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Speaker 2: isn't so great at typing or proof reading, which is

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Speaker 2: why you got to text the number right after.

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Speaker 1: You know, that's that's a move. If I hadn't been

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Speaker 1: a creepy LinkedIn stalker or use uh the one to

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Speaker 1: be friends car Oh yeah, well we'll show those very soon.

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Speaker 2: If I hadn't been a creepy LinkedIn stalker, it could

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Speaker 2: have been months, if ever, before we would have seen

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Speaker 2: each other again. Right now, we're laughing about it and

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Speaker 2: setting up our first real dates. Wish me luck, which

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Speaker 2: is amazing. It sounds like it all worked out, but

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Speaker 2: you know what, has it worked out? Let me? Okay? Okay, okay?

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Speaker 2: So I was at the beach on Sunday. Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: was with You've met Alexa, right, Christian's girl, Yes, girl,

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Speaker 2: lady person that. Yeah, And Alex is an attractive person

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Speaker 2: and which makes her an incredible wing woman, right, Like,

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Speaker 2: if you have an attractive woman with you, it makes

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Speaker 2: it so much easier to talk to random girls.

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Speaker 1: Literally, everyone loves the women love attractive women and men

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Speaker 1: at dude, it makes it so it's great. It's a

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Speaker 1: hack brok.

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Speaker 2: So we get to the beach and we're supposed to

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Speaker 2: meet some friends there and uh, and no one's there yet,

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Speaker 2: and so Alexi's like, oh, like, where do you want

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Speaker 2: to set up? And I see this super cute girl

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Speaker 2: and orange bainging suit, and I'm like, let's sit up

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Speaker 2: right next to her, right, And so literally we post

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Speaker 2: up like like we're we are closer than you and

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Speaker 2: away from her, and so we plopped down, put the

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Speaker 2: like she's like reading a book and she's like journaling

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Speaker 2: is that a journal? And then I strike up conversation

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Speaker 2: with her and She's so cool, dude. Yeah, she's so cool.

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Speaker 2: She's well traveled. She like randomly went to France to

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Speaker 2: and she was just like she went to juice leg

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Speaker 2: like great, right, yeah, and so I, you know, we

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Speaker 2: were talking. It's going great, and we're really hitting it off.

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Speaker 2: And so then I we leave and I get her

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Speaker 2: information and I DM her and I say, hey, loved

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Speaker 2: our beat chat. I've been kind of wanting to get

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Speaker 2: I've been kind of wanting to get tipsy and poorly

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Speaker 2: interpret modern art at a museum.

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Speaker 1: You in, right, great text, great text.

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Speaker 2: Alexa helped me on that, right, And she responded and said, hey,

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Speaker 2: as did I. Being tipsy is my favorite Being tipsy

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Speaker 2: in a museum is my favorite pastime. Boom sounds like

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Speaker 2: a lot of fun this weekend. Right, So she's like

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Speaker 2: going so much.

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Speaker 1: In for it. Right. Also, Alexa is like incredible at

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Speaker 1: helping men get women. She should, dude. She she helped

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Speaker 1: me craft that first text. She should become the new

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Speaker 1: Andrew tape.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm literally only to I am only listening to

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Speaker 2: her for relationship advice. And then I responded yesterday on

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Speaker 2: Friday at Lack where there's jazz at six pm, so

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Speaker 2: we could do a little wine and picnic, peruse the

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Speaker 2: museum a bit, and maybe find a place to dance.

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Speaker 1: Saw text two.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely she saw it twenty two hours ago. Yep, and

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Speaker 2: she has it responded.

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Speaker 1: So any wait so it's for Friday night. Yeah, shot

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Speaker 1: twenty two hours ago.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I opened the Instagram text saw it.

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Speaker 1: Also, we're texting on Instagram. Yeah. See I always go

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Speaker 1: for I feel like the number is the vibe. I

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Speaker 2: I think Instagram, Yeah, it's like a less yeah, less intrusive,

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Speaker 2: and also like you have more points to reconnect because

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Speaker 2: like if you post a story, like I'll probably post

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Speaker 2: a story tomorrow and then like maybe she'll see it

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Speaker 2: and then try like.

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Speaker 1: Go into this really great jazz clube to go dance alone.

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Speaker 2: No, no, I'm gonna be like I'm doing such cool

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Speaker 2: things without you. Yeah, but yeah, Alexa think she'll still

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Speaker 2: respond because she was.

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Speaker 1: Like I twenty two hours, like if it was you know,

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Speaker 1: twenty four hours, two more hours and then this check

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Speaker 1: us out here. I don't know. I mean it's it's look,

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Speaker 1: it's borderline's she's riding the line. Of like it's been

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Speaker 1: too long. I would definitely wait and give it some

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Speaker 1: more space and just maybe maybe like Okay, so Thursday something,

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Speaker 1: it was Friday, it was Friday, Sunday we met. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: well yeah we got time.

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Speaker 2: Monday Monday was when I sent the text last at

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Speaker 2: six pm yep.

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Speaker 1: So I mean yeah, probably like Wednesday morning, like yo,

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Speaker 1: we still want to go lame? Yeah, it's so lame.

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Speaker 1: You know what else? What else? You know? She's I

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Speaker 1: don't know people, but I think I posted a story

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Speaker 1: where I'm doing something cool. Yeah, and she's like, oh

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Speaker 1: my god, worked on my ABS today. Yeah, real working

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Speaker 1: out session. But that's my story. Go for it, but

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Speaker 1: fingers crossed, She responds, fingers crossed for Sam. Guys