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Speaker 2: It's the way I'm or my guy cast because he

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Speaker 2: is here with me asking the comas and Cam Newton,

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Speaker 2: I hear the host of one O six and Sports,

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Speaker 2: Welcome to way up.

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Speaker 3: At Angelai and thank you for being here. Yes, don't

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Speaker 3: try to get unlikely now that right energy.

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Speaker 4: I'm just trying to, you know, make sure that y'all

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Speaker 4: smell a palasanto in the sage because I'm trying to

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Speaker 4: be on my best behavior.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, you always do that.

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Speaker 5: I don't feel like everybody.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you'll always do that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Right to promo and tell me about quarter Sports.

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Speaker 2: Tell me how it went when you guys, I know

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Speaker 2: you had to like test together on social on zoom,

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Speaker 2: right because you couldn't do it in person. So how

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Speaker 2: was it when you guys first tested together to actually

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Speaker 2: host this show together?

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Speaker 4: We actually did ours on zoom and everything else was

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Speaker 4: like in person for me. So when I knew the line,

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Speaker 4: they didn't really tell me. I don't know her experience

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Speaker 4: may be different, but they say, hey, we want to

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Speaker 4: we want you to come to LA And this is

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Speaker 4: new for me because I used the analogy of the

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Speaker 4: hunter versus the hunted as an athlete. You're the hunted

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Speaker 4: with brands, you're hunted with opportunities, You're hunted with so

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Speaker 4: many different things, and now being away from the game,

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Speaker 4: you now become the hunter. Like you have to now

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Speaker 4: show yourself in these you know, different networking opportunities. You

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Speaker 4: have to show yourself or the willingness to show yourself

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Speaker 4: on these type of stages or whatnot. And you know,

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Speaker 4: people reached out to the personnel and.

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Speaker 6: I did.

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Speaker 4: Ashley Hers was like first because she was actually doing

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Speaker 4: something in.

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Speaker 7: The NBA playoffs, so like I couldn't go to LA,

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Speaker 7: so we worked it out where I could do it virtual.

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Speaker 7: And yeah, I didn't know until like maybe an hour

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Speaker 7: before I had the test that I was testing with you.

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Speaker 8: Did you know ahead of time who you were?

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Speaker 6: I don't know. I don't know. I just would would have.

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Speaker 6: I hope that everybody did do their stage.

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Speaker 3: And this is good. This is early afternoon came. I

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Speaker 3: just want to say it's.

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Speaker 7: I got on his good side straight out the bat.

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Speaker 7: I complimented him, okay, and that's how.

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Speaker 5: That's all which compliment was.

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Speaker 2: It was to compliment him too. When he came in,

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Speaker 2: I said, like your hat but he still.

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Speaker 8: Was how did you never want to bet award?

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Speaker 3: He said, look, maybe the compliments can we get that?

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Speaker 6: I just want to be invited outside of you.

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Speaker 4: Know, promoting one on six and Sport which comes on

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Speaker 4: every Wednesday, you know, ten Eastern, nine Central.

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Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: Fifteen October fifteenth, one on six and Sport where sports

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Speaker 4: and entertainment Collode.

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Speaker 5: I was about to say, you know a lot like

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Speaker 5: you know what camp and let's have.

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Speaker 6: One of them to date your question.

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Speaker 7: As you know, like when you're in person with someone,

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Speaker 7: it's so it's different when you're virtual. So our screen test,

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Speaker 7: the fact that it was virtual and it went as

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Speaker 7: well as it did was probably the flow.

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Speaker 8: Is just easy.

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Speaker 3: What what are you talking about?

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Speaker 8: We were talking Sanders. I think in the screen test

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Speaker 8: things haven't changed.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, we were talking about like which reality show would

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Speaker 7: you go on?

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Speaker 1: And what did you say?

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Speaker 8: He said, the challenge I need did something similar to

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Speaker 8: the challenge.

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Speaker 5: So it was that the Marines joint the Marine.

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Speaker 8: Special Force Special Forces.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, he jumped from the boat to the helicopter.

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Speaker 6: Naked in the frame.

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Speaker 5: You don't take it to a fall.

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Speaker 8: Naked, you would really want to do naked and afraid,

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Speaker 8: you know, we can arrange.

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Speaker 4: That there's a lot of people are naked.

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Speaker 7: In I said something like love is okay or something

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Speaker 7: like because something so different from my personality. Like I

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Speaker 7: was about to say, like, I think you fit right in.

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Speaker 5: Lots of personality.

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Speaker 7: Person storry during the pandemic. I was approached to be

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Speaker 7: on The Bachelor when it was the who was the

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Speaker 7: first black Bachelor?

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Speaker 8: Matt James?

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Speaker 3: That was oh yeah. I met at Matt at iHeart Festival.

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Speaker 8: That was the year they approached me. And I got

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Speaker 7: I got so far in like the casting, and then

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Speaker 7: what weirded me out is they wanted a full health

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Speaker 7: screen test. And I was like, well, why are you

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Speaker 7: guys assuming that, Like well, you know that's kind of

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Speaker 7: what shows. And I was like, yeah, I'm good. I

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Speaker 7: was like, thank you, but you would have did it.

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Speaker 3: That's interesting.

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Speaker 8: I got close. I was to entertain the idea.

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Speaker 6: I'm confused a little bit. Why why the sexual I'm.

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Speaker 8: Not doing that on camera?

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Speaker 6: That would have been weird on camera.

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Speaker 8: You ever seen like The Bachelor or Love Islander.

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Speaker 5: They got the little the glow in the dark cameras

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Speaker 5: vis cameras.

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Speaker 6: If you ain't got that that that.

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Speaker 9: And honestly, it's kind of respect that they do the

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Speaker 9: full health screen and it is, but the franchise, the

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Speaker 9: franchise is so powerful, especially with BT bringing it back.

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Speaker 9: Obviously you've been grounding for a long time and being

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Speaker 9: a part of One of six and BT has to

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Speaker 9: be a huge sort of responsibility, especially when putting a

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Speaker 9: sports twist to it. So what sort of like similarities

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Speaker 9: and differences can we expect from like One of six

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Speaker 9: and Park Days to One of six and sports.

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Speaker 7: I think the biggest thing that Cam and I both

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Speaker 7: have been trying to get across like this entire time

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Speaker 7: is like, we're not looking to replace One on six

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Speaker 7: in Park and I don't think you can. And respectfully,

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Speaker 7: so many people are so attached to the brand, and

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Speaker 7: I get it, you know, culturally, it meant so much

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Speaker 7: to us. Culturally, it has so many important moments in

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Speaker 7: music history, entertainment history, and we're not trying to erase that.

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Speaker 8: We're basically just trying to.

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Speaker 7: Take what the show did really well, and that was

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Speaker 7: the emphasis and the importance and putting the culture on

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Speaker 7: a major stage, a major platform, but doing that for

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Speaker 7: sports because as you know, sports and mainstream media looks

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Speaker 7: a lot different than what BET could bring, so HBCUs

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Speaker 7: aren't as highlighted as they could be. We don't talk

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Speaker 7: about athletes, specifically black athletes in a way that we

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Speaker 7: can on be Et on other networks. So that's really

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Speaker 7: what we're trying to do, is bring the culture back

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Speaker 7: into sports, and that is what Cam and I are

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Speaker 7: really dedicated to doing. But we've been making it very

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Speaker 7: clear because of how people how protective people are of

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Speaker 7: the one O six brand, Like, we're not trying to

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Speaker 7: erase the twenty five years of one trust me, we

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Speaker 7: couldn't if we tried. This is under the umbrella, but

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Speaker 7: it's a new iteration with the same all the same

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Speaker 7: aspects that you know and love about the original show.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's interesting they didn't just rename it something else

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Speaker 2: and they still put it under the umbrella. And I

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Speaker 2: saw you had Terrence Jayon on your show too. I

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Speaker 2: remember your conversation. You guys talked about financial literacy, which

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Speaker 2: is great, and then you said that you're cheap.

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Speaker 8: Goes back to my point.

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Speaker 2: It's pointing to me saying full circle because it seems

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Speaker 2: like you spend a lot on clothes and fashion. But

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Speaker 2: when it comes to dating, I heard that you get

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Speaker 2: a blueberry waffle if you're lucky.

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Speaker 6: We have to.

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Speaker 4: And Jelicia, stop this now because you know your audience.

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Speaker 6: Oh god, I don't want them to come after me.

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Speaker 7: That is this is way up, start low, to go high,

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Speaker 7: to see if the person that will rise.

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Speaker 4: It's not like a personality. The fact that you can't

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Speaker 4: even name what I have. That's what I'm trying to

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Speaker 4: tell you. It's not just thirst though, huh. Just to

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Speaker 4: let you know now for you giving all this fabrication

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Speaker 4: of waffle house, I am from it and I love

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Speaker 4: waffle house. Five eggs scrambled with cheese, double order, hash

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Speaker 4: brown smoke other uh.

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Speaker 6: No no no no, no no no, no black owned business.

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Speaker 3: There we go, there you go.

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Speaker 6: You feel me. It's just you know what you know?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what I mean? Extremely like waffle, light

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Speaker 4: scale waffle. Matter of fact, making an angel angel, don't

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Speaker 4: me so. But as far as going on a day

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Speaker 4: making nobody, you know what.

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Speaker 6: I'm saying, pay for nobody said that you were.

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Speaker 8: But it's a lot of it's a lot of it,

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Speaker 8: like to start them humble and work them up.

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Speaker 6: I don't like to start nowhere because maybe he just

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Speaker 6: likes waffle.

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Speaker 3: Somebody paying for you on the first day it happened, okay,

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Speaker 3: And how did you feel?

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Speaker 6: Was that cool? How I feel?

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Speaker 5: Because that must be nice?

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Speaker 3: What type of waffle did you get?

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Speaker 6: House?

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Speaker 4: It was?

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Speaker 6: She gangster.

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Speaker 8: I don't think I've ever done that. I don't think

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Speaker 8: I ever would, but I respect them.

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Speaker 6: So you never hit on the man?

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Speaker 8: No, No, okay, I've like splitting someone's d I told

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Speaker 8: you this before.

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Speaker 1: I've heard that.

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Speaker 6: I would never pay for ever like hit on a man.

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Speaker 3: No, I've never hit on a man.

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Speaker 4: Never like, but I feel like you never thought somebody

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Speaker 4: was like attractive and being like yo, like that's my

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Speaker 4: tight hey boom, And it gave the sign.

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Speaker 2: No, I never done it, because I also feel like

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Speaker 2: I really like when he made a joke, he was like,

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Speaker 2: but that's not hitting on somebody. That's like having a

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Speaker 2: conversation and an extra flirtation like I've never been like,

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Speaker 2: can I take you out or anything?

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Speaker 8: I've never done that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I've never slaid in No one's DMS.

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Speaker 1: I haven't.

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Speaker 3: We didn't have DMS back then.

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Speaker 8: You don't do it now.

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Speaker 3: I have a boyfriend. Yeah, I'm always in a relationship.

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Speaker 6: Then how did that dynamic happen?

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Speaker 4: Because one thing about it, I don't think a lot

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Speaker 4: of men will admit that are on the same level.

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Speaker 4: It's like women like you are intimidating and it's a

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Speaker 4: respecting It's like, yo, I gotta come correct.

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Speaker 2: I just thought I've been around, so nobody cares been around.

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Speaker 2: It has been in this business for so long, No

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Speaker 2: one cares.

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Speaker 5: You're very specific. That was a good clean up.

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Speaker 2: I think it's it's I have to imagine, Like for Ashley,

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Speaker 2: I can't even imagine what your dms look like.

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Speaker 8: Cant are so crazy.

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Speaker 5: I've had friends that hit me to get to her dms, like, Yo,

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Speaker 5: that's your friend, right?

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Speaker 3: Why how people are gonna hit me after this interview?

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Speaker 3: Like what's going on with her?

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Speaker 8: Can't you want to play a matchmaker?

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Speaker 2: Don't have your friends up a friend up with Ashley?

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Speaker 6: Ridicule.

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, because if you've never been

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Speaker 4: And I'm not going we all judge, but I'm not

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Speaker 9: Cam, it feels like when you're in media, you either

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Speaker 7: For me, it's off limits. And I think that an

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Speaker 9: It's something like that, cam you've been in that situation.

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Speaker 9: How do you sort of differentiate that? How do you

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Speaker 3: We just saw Clay Thompson getting a questioned about Meganis Stallion.

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Speaker 7: I don't really care about who Clay is dating and whatnot.

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Speaker 8: Like I don't care.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, I'm saying you don't, but you need people, That's

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Speaker 4: But when you have to create content, right, that gives

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Speaker 4: your job to cover the story as best as you know.

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Speaker 4: How now you're not telling lies. It's from things that

447
00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:31,880
Speaker 4: you know, from your dog Wiki to your dog Googly,

448
00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:34,360
Speaker 4: to your dog Gemini.

449
00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:38,880
Speaker 6: To everybody like all that you use your resources.

450
00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:41,960
Speaker 4: But the thing that I know to be true and

451
00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:45,480
Speaker 4: what will be respectable from an athlete is as long

452
00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:48,760
Speaker 4: as you are held accountable or you're holding people accountable,

453
00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:53,399
Speaker 4: favorites ain't a place that is going to make you

454
00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:58,760
Speaker 4: have longevity, right, And whether you whether you talk about

455
00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:01,160
Speaker 4: this person, you talk about that person. I think that's

456
00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:03,840
Speaker 4: the hardest thing is when you have so much respect

457
00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:07,680
Speaker 4: and admiration for a person and you are able to say,

458
00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:11,439
Speaker 4: hey this I'm talking about the football player here, I'm

459
00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:12,440
Speaker 4: not talking about the person.

460
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Speaker 6: It happens all the time. With my critique with Jayalen Hurts.

461
00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:16,359
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was about to get to that.

462
00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:17,400
Speaker 6: You see what I'm saying.

463
00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:21,280
Speaker 4: It's also my critique with Shador. It's also my critique

464
00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:24,200
Speaker 4: with you know, I'm a fan of all sets new album.

465
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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. But hello, man, living on

466
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:30,240
Speaker 4: the rock. Which direction you want to go with Card

467
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Speaker 4: to B. You want to go all set Stefan Diggs,

468
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Speaker 4: or you want to go Nicki Minaj. It's like, it's

469
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:37,960
Speaker 4: so much there, so why not.

470
00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:40,760
Speaker 5: It's it's a cultural sports story.

471
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Speaker 8: There's also a way to like, I hear him like

472
00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:47,439
Speaker 8: they're very interesting because it's intertwined to not.

473
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Speaker 6: To not talk about it will do more Diamond not

474
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Speaker 6: talking about it.

475
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Speaker 8: But I feel like there's a way you can talk

476
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Speaker 8: about it.

477
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Speaker 6: Right.

478
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Speaker 7: It's not like, oh, Clay Thompson don't really like men,

479
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:02,400
Speaker 7: you're moving to go. No, what I'm saying is there's

480
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:05,760
Speaker 7: a way to talk about it in a way that's

481
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:06,600
Speaker 7: still well.

482
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Speaker 4: Let's talk about it then, so we will ask a

483
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Speaker 4: question one more time. You don't want to hear about

484
00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:15,359
Speaker 4: Clay Thompson and making the style, but I would say.

485
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Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you what I've learned.

486
00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:20,000
Speaker 2: I agree with when she says, if I see something

487
00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:23,119
Speaker 2: outside that's not posted, I'm not going to bring it up.

488
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:24,960
Speaker 2: But if it's something that's posted, I feel like it's

489
00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:28,440
Speaker 2: fair game. So if it's something that is like, yes,

490
00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:31,400
Speaker 2: it's posted, so you can ask about something that's posted.

491
00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:33,399
Speaker 2: But if I do see, because you don't want to

492
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 2: be that person where you walk in the room and

493
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 2: people be like, here, come ask.

494
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Speaker 1: You know everybody you know well because.

495
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Speaker 6: Oh here go call, here go call, and I'm here

496
00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:49,080
Speaker 6: with and Alicia. You know what I'm saying.

497
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Speaker 4: Make y'all tune in every Wednesday October started October fifteen.

498
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Speaker 2: You know, I want to ask you guys this because

499
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:58,160
Speaker 2: this was a hot topic lately, the whole I uhould

500
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Speaker 2: curry thing, and I would love to hear both of

501
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 2: your opinions on the conversation she has who goes first her? Yeah,

502
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:08,040
Speaker 2: And people were so upset about I have my feelings

503
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 2: and we'll talk about that in a second. But she

504
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:13,160
Speaker 2: basically was saying on there that her goal in life

505
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:14,960
Speaker 2: when she was younger was like to be a career

506
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:19,399
Speaker 2: oriented person, not necessarily have kids. And then she got married,

507
00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 2: got pregnant right away, and what she thought was gonna

508
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:23,440
Speaker 2: happen just disappeared.

509
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:24,880
Speaker 3: And she's fine with that. She went in trade.

510
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:27,159
Speaker 2: But people are giving her a lot of backlash for

511
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:29,280
Speaker 2: even saying that, in acting like, oh you got with

512
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:32,040
Speaker 2: Steph Cayrie. She's ungrateful, She's this, She's that. Why would

513
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:33,760
Speaker 2: you say that, so I want to see what your

514
00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:34,479
Speaker 2: guy's thoughts are.

515
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Speaker 7: I think people purposely misunderstood her, and I think people

516
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:41,440
Speaker 7: purposely misunderstand her. There's something about Ayisha Curry for some reason,

517
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Speaker 7: and I don't know if it's.

518
00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 8: The love affair. People have her stuff as an athlete,

519
00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:47,000
Speaker 8: as a regarded athlete.

520
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Speaker 6: Good God.

521
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think it's that they always feel like she's

522
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:52,159
Speaker 7: trying to like soun him. But the way that I

523
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:53,639
Speaker 7: took it when I listened to it is that's not

524
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 7: uncommon for women in some way, shape or form. You know,

525
00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:58,680
Speaker 7: you go into your life thinking it's going to look

526
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Speaker 7: a certain way, and then marriage happened, or babies happen,

527
00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 7: or let's flip it. You focus on your career and

528
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 7: then you look up and you're forty and you're like, wow,

529
00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 7: I don't have kids and never got married. I prioritized

530
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 7: my career, Like did I do it wrong? I'm thirty

531
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 7: one and people are always like, when are you having kids?

532
00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 7: You're behind the eight ball, like you're never going to

533
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Speaker 7: get married. Your clock is ticking like as if thirty

534
00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:19,119
Speaker 7: one is sixty one or seventy one.

535
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Speaker 1: I got some time.

536
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Speaker 7: So I think that it's an it's a pressure that

537
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:27,920
Speaker 7: women feel that men don't feel. Because men are given

538
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 7: the grace of as they get older, they only get better.

539
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:35,320
Speaker 7: Women are there's an expiration date put on our prime essentially,

540
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 7: and we're expected to still prioritize marriage and kids. And

541
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Speaker 7: if you're honest and saying, hey, I didn't really think

542
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,120
Speaker 7: about marriage and I didn't think about being a mother,

543
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 7: it happened to me, and I'm grateful and I love

544
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Speaker 7: my family, but it's not what I wanted. It's not

545
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Speaker 7: a picture that I had for myself, at least not

546
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Speaker 7: as quickly as I got it.

547
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Speaker 8: It's like, oh, she hates her husband, Oh she hates

548
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Speaker 8: her kids.

549
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Speaker 1: Ye go, it's no.

550
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Speaker 7: It's just like I grew up wanting to be a

551
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Speaker 7: lawyer or a doctor. When I got married at twenty

552
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 7: four years old, and I had my first baby at

553
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Speaker 7: twenty five, and it's no different for women who prioritize

554
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 7: their career and they don't prioritize love and they don't

555
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:11,560
Speaker 7: prioritize kids, they're judged for that. It's a burden that

556
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 7: men don't have. And it always makes me laugh when

557
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:18,120
Speaker 7: men have the strongest opinion about it, because like y'all

558
00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:18,440
Speaker 7: don't know.

559
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Speaker 8: It's like you don't know that struggle if you have

560
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:25,720
Speaker 8: kids at ninety fee, brother, I.

561
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Speaker 5: Feel like you got a thought. You want to get out?

562
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Speaker 8: Ahead?

563
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Speaker 6: Are you done? I'm done?

564
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Speaker 3: Go ahead, Mike is yours.

565
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Speaker 6: It's always been mine. No, what I would say is

566
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:37,960
Speaker 6: are you mad?

567
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Speaker 4: Or would you be more mad if she thought it

568
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:44,160
Speaker 4: and never said it or actually said what she was thinking?

569
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 4: Like a lot of people say it and that's their truth. Yeah,

570
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:54,200
Speaker 4: I have you know, some rules of engagement when talking

571
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:57,960
Speaker 4: about you know, certain people. If you can't relate, you

572
00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:02,240
Speaker 4: shouldn't debate, right, you can chime in and do like that.

573
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:04,400
Speaker 4: And that's where you get kind of because it's how

574
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 4: you're chiming in. I would never why would she do?

575
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 4: It's like no, but but home boy, you.

576
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 6: Never insinuated that there was you see what I'm saying.

577
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:22,720
Speaker 4: So it's like, you gotta gotta look at the optics.

578
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 4: Certain things may be said, but what do we actually see?

579
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:30,119
Speaker 4: And that's what we should be focused on. Am I

580
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:31,879
Speaker 4: mad that she said what she said?

581
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:32,160
Speaker 1: Man?

582
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 6: She's entitled to whatever she wants to do, And I

583
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 6: think that's what maturity gets you. That's what perspective.

584
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,440
Speaker 4: Hell no, But that's not to say that I have

585
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 4: not hurt somebody from what I've said that I was

586
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:45,399
Speaker 4: in a relationship with.

587
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Speaker 6: And those are certain things that I believe that.

588
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:51,280
Speaker 4: She will learn, And that's a conversation that they have,

589
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 4: right And I think if they're good, and the person

590
00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:59,440
Speaker 4: that you start dating is not the same person that

591
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:02,680
Speaker 4: you're sharing bed with years later, years later, and that's

592
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 4: what you would have to understand. But if you guys

593
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,800
Speaker 4: are at an understanding where it's like, yo, baby, this

594
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 4: is how I felt man keep rocking out. There are

595
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 4: certain things that a lot of people think that it's acceptable. Well,

596
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,080
Speaker 4: when you go into another relationship, some people is like,

597
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:17,119
Speaker 4: that's a non negotiable.

598
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 6: We're not doing that. So if you're saying those type

599
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:21,879
Speaker 6: of things, and you know, I.

600
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 4: Spoke about it on my sports show fourth to one,

601
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 4: and obviously Killer Mike had chimed in, you know with

602
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:30,399
Speaker 4: Steph and I was like, yo, what got misinterpreted was

603
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 4: that I was saying that Killer Mike was you know,

604
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:34,960
Speaker 4: he should have known better.

605
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:37,680
Speaker 6: It's like, no, bro, like Killer Mike from Atlanta, I'll

606
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 6: never go against the grain like that.

607
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:43,720
Speaker 4: But when you have your own perspective, you should have

608
00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:47,720
Speaker 4: more insight, and Steph kind of felt that he was

609
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 4: siding with ain't that the truth with the actual thing,

610
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 4: rather than saying, like Steph saying, but you know how

611
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 4: this could be people going to spend the narrative and

612
00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 4: the optics doesn't does it look right? But we're good though,

613
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 4: and I've been there, so yeah, give me what she

614
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:10,240
Speaker 4: said doesn't sound right, doesn't look right, but we're good.

615
00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 2: I think I think I do think that people misinterpreted

616
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 2: it though, because when you hear I think the problem

617
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:18,239
Speaker 2: we have now is that there's headlines that come out

618
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 2: and clips and if you don't see the full conversation,

619
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 2: because she definitely was like, you know, but this is

620
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:26,720
Speaker 2: what happened in my life has happened, and I never

621
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 2: even thought about that again, Like I had my kids.

622
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:32,720
Speaker 3: I'm so happy and grateful for that, and never thought

623
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:33,320
Speaker 3: about that again.

624
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 2: It's kind of like some I might have been, like

625
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 2: I thought I was gonna be married with kids at

626
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 2: twenty four and it didn't happen, right, and then.

627
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 6: Let's let's stop.

628
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 4: Let's stop this, because this is what I can respect

629
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 4: Ayisha Curry for saying she said what she felt.

630
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:46,520
Speaker 6: Yeah.

631
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:52,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, And there's an often missed word when we're talking

632
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 4: about a relationship.

633
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 6: While we're talking about marriage. You're married, you're in a relationship,

634
00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 6: but are you happy?

635
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 4: Because every single they've been married long enough to be

636
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:05,959
Speaker 4: able to say, hey, during this stretch of our marriage

637
00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:08,480
Speaker 4: or our relationship, we were going through a rough time.

638
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:12,360
Speaker 4: It's been in books, it's been in quotes. We've seen

639
00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 4: it publicly with certain you know, relationships, and you're going

640
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 4: to go through those times. People look on the internet

641
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 4: or social media as if to say, the relationship is

642
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:27,400
Speaker 4: a starting point, but it no, or it's the finishing destination,

643
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 4: but it's just the starting point. It's like, man, the

644
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 4: person that I'm having the opportunity to co host with

645
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 4: on when you see the show on October fifteenth, hopefully

646
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 4: twenty five years later, we will be able to look back,

647
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 4: or you'll look back and say, man, I was a

648
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:48,160
Speaker 4: thirty one year old unmarried person. Now I got my partner,

649
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:49,480
Speaker 4: hopefully I got kids.

650
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:55,840
Speaker 6: Don't don't don't dwell. I'm just trying to tell a

651
00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 6: story here.

652
00:30:57,240 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 5: I see what you're saying.

653
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 4: You change, and I think too many times we just expect,

654
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 4: oh girl, you married, but there's times where I'm not happy,

655
00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 4: but I'm still gonna grind it out, you know what

656
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,240
Speaker 4: I'm saying, because I'm not trouble. Don't last always in

657
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 4: any type of dynamic, and if you're willing to make

658
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 4: it work, that's.

659
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 6: The starting point.

660
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 4: To be able to say we can get through this,

661
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:20,200
Speaker 4: and to be able to see that through their dynamic

662
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:22,360
Speaker 4: is something that people are kind of missing.

663
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 6: And yeah, is he whatever. I don't know how he feel.

664
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 6: Nobody ever asked him.

665
00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:30,960
Speaker 4: And he don't need to come on a podcast talk

666
00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 4: about It's beautiful though in.

667
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 9: Some ways because from the outside looking and everybody looks

668
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 9: at the Curries as like the perfect like wags like

669
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:43,640
Speaker 9: that couple, Like the kids are beautiful seeing Riley grow

670
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 9: up all these years. So when we said here's somebody

671
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 9: like ice your Curry, come on call Daddy and say that, like, Yo,

672
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 9: this is real life, like this is a real sort

673
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 9: of like.

674
00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:58,120
Speaker 4: And that's what we have to highlight, the real like

675
00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:02,920
Speaker 4: real discussions, real issues where it's like I'm good with

676
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 4: Angelicia saying hey, I don't agree with you know your views, Okay,

677
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 4: let's talk about it in a healthy dynamic. How was

678
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 4: you feeling about this. You know you you're a Dallas fan.

679
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 4: How you a Dallas fan? You're from Brooklyn?

680
00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 6: Like what, that's what?

681
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:19,240
Speaker 3: That's crazy.

682
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 8: Repeating it one day? My dad is a Cowboys fan.

683
00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:28,760
Speaker 3: Break that cycle. I can.

684
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 8: I'm too far deep now.

685
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 3: Calas was suffering. I'm not gonna lie.

686
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:35,959
Speaker 6: Yeah, this whole weekend.

687
00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 5: I haven't seen the victory since twenty twenty four.

688
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:40,360
Speaker 3: Let's not talk about what just happened.

689
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 8: Talk about the Yankees.

690
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:45,760
Speaker 5: It's all good. His knicks, basketball is right around.

691
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 6: Maybe just keep getting you know what.

692
00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 4: The craziest thing about the seventy Yeah that's crazy too,

693
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:54,760
Speaker 4: But that ain't crazy what I'm about to say.

694
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 6: He still gave him a three star review.

695
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 5: Wait, he was not I thought he was a driver.

696
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:06,120
Speaker 6: He was not driver.

697
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:09,240
Speaker 3: He delivered frying oil.

698
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 6: Said, Yo, this dude had time to get down. He

699
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 6: didn't kill me. I would have gave him a warm Did.

700
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 3: You see that video?

701
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 2: The fact that he was like making him a friend

702
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 2: and he still was walking through it like it was nothing.

703
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 8: I was like, then they dropped the picture today he

704
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:32,400
Speaker 8: was the guy was in a neck.

705
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 2: Brace and like, at ye, Now that was awful, But

706
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 2: that he played for the Jets man.

707
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:45,840
Speaker 7: Yeah.

708
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 9: Yeah, it's been a rough week after Jets fans, just

709
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 9: New York fans in general, Yankee stink giants.

710
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 5: We only got the next to look forward to, right.

711
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 6: Baby Blue Lies.

712
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 2: You know earlier you mentioned the word non negotiables right

713
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 2: in your conversation, So I want to ask about non

714
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 2: negotiables here.

715
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 8: Now.

716
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:12,440
Speaker 2: We'll start with you, Ashley, because he's hoping that, you know,

717
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 2: you'll look at this show when you were thirty one

718
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:17,680
Speaker 2: and single, right in five years later, hopefully you have

719
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:18,240
Speaker 2: a man.

720
00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 8: Single.

721
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 1: She said it, I said it, not all in New York,

722
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 1: in the world, Yeah.

723
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 2: Okay, non negotiables, just for the people in our dms

724
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:29,200
Speaker 2: that are asking.

725
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 8: I definitely like someone who's intelligent.

726
00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:34,840
Speaker 7: I'm somebody who likes to learn things and I like

727
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:36,839
Speaker 7: to have conversations with people who can teach me things.

728
00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:40,239
Speaker 7: So doesn't I necessarily have to be BookSmart. I think

729
00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 7: that intelligence comes in all forms. But I want to

730
00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 7: be able to have a conversation with you and leave

731
00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:48,279
Speaker 7: with something, or you know, being able to have a

732
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:50,880
Speaker 7: conversation with you and it's like an intelligent conversation.

733
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,440
Speaker 8: I don't want to be like, so, what's up with you?

734
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:55,319
Speaker 8: What are you doing?

735
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 4: Like?

736
00:34:56,239 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 8: No, like talk to me, like, give me something. I

737
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:03,400
Speaker 8: like someone who I need, a compassionate person.

738
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:06,640
Speaker 7: I think that I'm somebody who can, like really keep

739
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:09,520
Speaker 7: their feelings bottled up. I'm a capricorn me too, Yeah,

740
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:14,320
Speaker 7: so you know, like we can get mood swings and

741
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:16,320
Speaker 7: we can kind of keep our feelings to ourselves. And

742
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 7: it may be an uncommon thing, but I think somebody

743
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:22,120
Speaker 7: who knows me well enough to be like, what's.

744
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 6: Wrong with you? Like nothing?

745
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:24,439
Speaker 8: No, No, what's wrong?

746
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:25,319
Speaker 3: That's really wrong?

747
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 8: And that's rare that you sad for.

748
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:32,479
Speaker 6: I love.

749
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 7: I love to laugh, so a non negotiable I have

750
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:37,880
Speaker 7: to be with something money, Like, you have to be

751
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:39,960
Speaker 7: able to laugh. You have to be able to laugh

752
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 7: at yourself. You have to be able to crack jokes

753
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 7: like I need someone who can make me laugh. And

754
00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 7: honesty is really important to me, Like tell me what

755
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 7: it is and let you said, yeah, tell I'm always

756
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:52,840
Speaker 7: someone like I would rather know what it is and

757
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:55,520
Speaker 7: let me decide what to do next than finding out

758
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 7: down the line. And then I'm mad because I'm a

759
00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:00,759
Speaker 7: really loyal person. I believe in law loyalty and not.

760
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 6: Something can't your own paper with loyalty?

761
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:03,279
Speaker 8: Why not?

762
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:07,279
Speaker 4: Because everybody says they're loyal until it requires them to

763
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 4: be loyal, and.

764
00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 6: Then they just jump ship.

765
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:10,959
Speaker 8: I can tell you I'm very loyal.

766
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 6: You need somebody to say that you're loyal. You can't

767
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 6: say that.

768
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:16,839
Speaker 3: You're a loyal Capricorns in general are pretty loyal. That's

769
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:19,360
Speaker 3: one of our trades. We're like, yeah, and we're like

770
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:19,879
Speaker 3: too loyal.

771
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 7: Yeah, we're too Like if we're locked in with you,

772
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:24,160
Speaker 7: we're locked in and then and then we can like

773
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:25,320
Speaker 7: be in different towards.

774
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:26,560
Speaker 3: What's your son?

775
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 8: He's a Taurus God.

776
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:31,799
Speaker 6: Direct reflection of him.

777
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 8: Well, I think that's all we get along. So well

778
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:35,000
Speaker 8: we're Earth's signs Earth.

779
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:40,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, what's your what's your non negotiables?

780
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 6: Respect? R E, S, P E C T.

781
00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:46,359
Speaker 8: That's generic in what way?

782
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 7: Yeah?

783
00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 2: Uh, everybody has respect until there's a situation where they

784
00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 2: have to show you respect.

785
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 4: I'm trying to tell you, and you better show me

786
00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 4: some respect because because if you don't, it's gonna get

787
00:36:57,120 --> 00:36:58,280
Speaker 4: control all deleted.

788
00:36:58,880 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying.

789
00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 4: From in this situation, listen to understand, not listen to

790
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:08,360
Speaker 4: just respond. That's one of the things, just like h

791
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 4: Oftentimes when you're having a discussion with a person, and

792
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 4: tone is important too. I think jazz has taught me that.

793
00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 4: And all the women that's in my life. When I

794
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:23,360
Speaker 4: mean women, I'm not talking about in a sexual manner.

795
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 4: I'm talking about people like my mother, you know, the

796
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:29,960
Speaker 4: mother of my children. They have impacted my life and

797
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:32,640
Speaker 4: have helped me, you know, be the person that I

798
00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 4: am now. And taking a step back to realize, like,

799
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:40,719
Speaker 4: it's not all the times. What you say is how

800
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:43,759
Speaker 4: you say it, because some people can get tuned out

801
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 4: by like man, you're coming at me like no no

802
00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:49,840
Speaker 4: no no, no, no no no, especially the severity of

803
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 4: the situation. It's the tone and responding with the intent

804
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:58,919
Speaker 4: to understand first. And if we could do that, then

805
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:00,879
Speaker 4: Diskott's the limit.

806
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 6: You know.

807
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:05,319
Speaker 2: It's interesting we had this whole topic mens. People were

808
00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 2: calling in today. We were talking about and arguments who

809
00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 2: gets more disrespectful men or women?

810
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 3: And everybody that called in said women.

811
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:16,720
Speaker 8: But you want to know, women will rip you like verbally.

812
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:22,759
Speaker 4: Just like and because they are the safe space. They

813
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:25,640
Speaker 4: are the safe haven, they are the ear, they are

814
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:27,920
Speaker 4: the pillow talking object.

815
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:30,560
Speaker 6: It's like man, baby, let me tell you something. It

816
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 6: happened last night.

817
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:37,680
Speaker 4: Like, man, they know you, they know what you care about,

818
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:40,359
Speaker 4: they know what you don't care about. So even if

819
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:43,800
Speaker 4: you mad that I don't scratched your little car, you

820
00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:45,680
Speaker 4: really care about them clothes?

821
00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:49,279
Speaker 6: Go after them? Oh you, Oh you're gonna play me.

822
00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:52,880
Speaker 6: I'm gonna go after what you love the most.

823
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:55,440
Speaker 8: Do you think that's because women are more emotional than men.

824
00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:57,680
Speaker 6: I don't care what it is. I don't know what

825
00:38:57,840 --> 00:38:59,320
Speaker 6: it is, but y'all gotta stop it.

826
00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 8: Wait you say y'all, you mean all women, because all women.

827
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:07,479
Speaker 6: Do not, So I think we should change.

828
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 5: Had a million callers coming, and not one person said.

829
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:12,600
Speaker 3: Even the women were saying.

830
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:15,600
Speaker 2: One guy called it and said, when his girl gets mad,

831
00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:17,399
Speaker 2: she tells me he has a little penis.

832
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 8: The woman break up with guys, And that's the first

833
00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:25,880
Speaker 8: thing they say, like.

834
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:29,520
Speaker 6: You can play that with me, because I'm saying you

835
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:30,280
Speaker 6: can't even.

836
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:34,359
Speaker 5: Will be uh.

837
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:52,280
Speaker 1: Every And then she'll say it was easy.

838
00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 6: Cool, but you did it though, because you never con

839
00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 6: played me.

840
00:39:57,239 --> 00:39:59,400
Speaker 8: So there's nothing woman can say to you that like

841
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:01,239
Speaker 8: rattles nothing.

842
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:06,560
Speaker 4: Because I'm so secure in who I am. I've already

843
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:10,439
Speaker 4: had that conversation with myself. I know where my weak

844
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:13,239
Speaker 4: spots are. Now there's things that she can say that's

845
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:16,640
Speaker 4: like damn, Like that's low, but it won't affect me

846
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 4: to get me out of character, like those type of

847
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:23,240
Speaker 4: things where it's like, if I'm doing something out of character,

848
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:33,759
Speaker 4: you see them right there. Yeah, but I would have

849
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:35,840
Speaker 4: probably removed myself from the situation.

850
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:36,399
Speaker 1: That's good.

851
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 6: It's like, no, we ain't.

852
00:40:38,280 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 2: That's how I feel if I'm in an argument, I

853
00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:42,480
Speaker 2: just have to not say nothing for a little while

854
00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:45,319
Speaker 2: because I never want to say something that I feel like, damn,

855
00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 2: I shouldn't.

856
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 1: Have said that.

857
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:48,520
Speaker 6: Later, you're non negotiables, oh.

858
00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 2: My non negotiables. Well, definitely, I definitely need somebody with

859
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:53,399
Speaker 2: a good sense of humor because I do like to laugh.

860
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:56,399
Speaker 2: I don't like anybody that's too serious. I like people

861
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 2: that watch the news and can like talk about what's

862
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:00,919
Speaker 2: going on in the world, because I know my job

863
00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:02,880
Speaker 2: every day is to kind of like stay up on

864
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:06,719
Speaker 2: those things, and so part of it is sometimes I

865
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:08,919
Speaker 2: feel like I look at social media a lot for work,

866
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:11,359
Speaker 2: but I like to have like other types of conversations

867
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 2: other than that, So that's important to me. And I

868
00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 2: like people who are ambitious. I don't like people who

869
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 2: are in a space and they're content there and they

870
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:20,920
Speaker 2: could do that for the rest of their life. I

871
00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:22,880
Speaker 2: want people that's always like, all right, how are we

872
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:25,080
Speaker 2: going to do this? They have ideas like what's next?

873
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 2: And supportive because sometimes people could be like not supportive

874
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:28,719
Speaker 2: of what you're doing?

875
00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:33,920
Speaker 5: What that's a that's a big for.

876
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:44,919
Speaker 6: During Like what's the question?

877
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 8: Did you find it difficult to date? Just out of curiosity.

878
00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:53,880
Speaker 1: Media?

879
00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:54,120
Speaker 6: Woman?

880
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 8: In media?

881
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:57,319
Speaker 2: I think that well, first of all, I would say

882
00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:59,400
Speaker 2: like I usually always was in a relationship. It made

883
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:02,399
Speaker 2: it easier for me because it keeps you like out

884
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 2: of the mix, out of trouble, like to be in

885
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 2: a relationship, but so not really and I more am

886
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:11,759
Speaker 2: like always have data people that kind of didn't have

887
00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 2: anything to do with what I was doing.

888
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 9: That Yeah, I got a follow up question, Actually, you're

889
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:19,040
Speaker 9: like a rising star in sports media, but y'all kind

890
00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 9: of stumped over mind?

891
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:21,879
Speaker 5: Oh question was there?

892
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:24,520
Speaker 6: I said them, Yeah you did.

893
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:29,560
Speaker 4: But my follow up to that question was, you're talking

894
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:33,839
Speaker 4: about supportives. Do women support each other?

895
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:39,960
Speaker 3: But that's not a support I'm doing.

896
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:43,040
Speaker 2: Some don't I'll say that I only am around people

897
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:45,000
Speaker 2: who are supportive of me because I've been on the

898
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 2: other side of that where people have been like haters

899
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:49,359
Speaker 2: behind your back and you know, try to do things.

900
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:52,560
Speaker 2: So now if I see some red flags instead of

901
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 2: me like trying to work through it or make excuses

902
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 2: for someone and women, Yeah, but I will say that

903
00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:00,360
Speaker 2: for a lot of things that I do, women have

904
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:03,239
Speaker 2: been the most supportive of me. Like I have my

905
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:05,400
Speaker 2: friend Ingrid, who has her own wine company. We like

906
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:07,920
Speaker 2: every day are talking to each other, helping each other out.

907
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 2: When she gets in a space I have a coffee company,

908
00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:12,279
Speaker 2: She'll try to bring my brand in. She'll set up

909
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:14,799
Speaker 2: meetings for me, and like, we just really help each other.

910
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:16,160
Speaker 6: How long you Ingrid?

911
00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 3: Maybe like twelve years?

912
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:21,600
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm talking about a two month.

913
00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:22,279
Speaker 1: Oh.

914
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:27,759
Speaker 9: There's definitely a mean girls club in media. Like for

915
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:29,879
Speaker 9: both of y'all sports.

916
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:31,240
Speaker 8: Music, you're better at it than women.

917
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:34,279
Speaker 7: I think hold on, let me let me talk you

918
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 7: through what I'm saying here. I think that men are

919
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:39,800
Speaker 7: better at it than women because there are more spaces.

920
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:41,320
Speaker 3: Okay, it's more competitive.

921
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:44,680
Speaker 7: There is a level of competition like athlete led podcasts

922
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:46,880
Speaker 7: or you know, people in the media, But there's so

923
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:50,440
Speaker 7: many avenues and so many spaces for men that it's easy.

924
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:53,560
Speaker 8: And I put that in quotes to be supportive, like

925
00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:54,000
Speaker 8: you let me.

926
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:56,640
Speaker 7: Put my guy on or let me like it's just

927
00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:59,240
Speaker 7: easier because there's more opportunity for them. I think women,

928
00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 7: although it's getting better, there's a small group of us

929
00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:07,920
Speaker 7: in this media landscape that are in top positions right,

930
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:11,120
Speaker 7: and that looks different to everybody. So you think if

931
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:13,680
Speaker 7: I reach back, like if I'm on the mic and

932
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:15,360
Speaker 7: I reach back to the next girl who's trying to

933
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:17,720
Speaker 7: get on the mic will shoot, I may be carving

934
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 7: at her spot and that's going to be my spot,

935
00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 7: pushing me out, bringing the new girl in. So a

936
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:24,440
Speaker 7: lot of the times there's a level of fear that's

937
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 7: tied to helping the next generation. I know, coming up

938
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:30,720
Speaker 7: in my career, I never had a female mentor.

939
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:31,759
Speaker 8: All my mentors were meant.

940
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:35,279
Speaker 7: I credit guys like Jalen Rose and Nate Burleson who

941
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:38,319
Speaker 7: we saw today for really taking me under their wing

942
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 7: and helping me out.

943
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:40,880
Speaker 8: There were a lot of.

944
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:43,239
Speaker 7: Women in the industry who I reached out to that

945
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:46,120
Speaker 7: weren't very receptive to me, that weren't very welcoming of me,

946
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:48,400
Speaker 7: and they were only welcoming of me when I was

947
00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 7: below them, when I was still trying to come through it.

948
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:53,600
Speaker 8: But as I was moving through my career, and.

949
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:55,480
Speaker 7: Now we're in the same rooms, and we're in the

950
00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 7: same spaces, and we're interviewing the same players and at

951
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 7: the same events. Now it's like, oh, okay, now this

952
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:05,880
Speaker 7: is where the line is drawn, because now you're my competition, right,

953
00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:08,400
Speaker 7: and I'm somebody who I've always kind of looked at it.

954
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:12,279
Speaker 7: I think some people preach women empowerment and some people

955
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 7: actually move women empowerment. And I think it's a difference

956
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:19,239
Speaker 7: between saying something and doing it and saying something just

957
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 7: to say because it sounds good. And I think unfortunately

958
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:23,719
Speaker 7: a lot of women use it as a talking point,

959
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:27,120
Speaker 7: but their actions are the complete opposite of what I

960
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 7: think that means. I'm a firm believer, as cliche as

961
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:32,799
Speaker 7: it sounds, you can't take what's for me. So if

962
00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:36,360
Speaker 7: I help you, it's not going to derail my success.

963
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:38,960
Speaker 7: It's not going to derail what belongs to me. It's

964
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 7: only gonna, I think, bring good karma in my direction

965
00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 7: because I help somebody get to the point what they

966
00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:45,960
Speaker 7: want to get to, and I don't.

967
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:47,920
Speaker 8: Think a lot of people actually believe that. They just

968
00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:49,719
Speaker 8: say it. And that's just kind of how I feel

969
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 8: about it, just because that's been my experience.

970
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:53,879
Speaker 2: I wouldn't say though, I did start my podcast lip

971
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:56,520
Speaker 2: Service with the intention of having a space for women

972
00:45:57,320 --> 00:45:59,799
Speaker 2: like to be able to you know, have the conversation

973
00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:02,839
Speaker 2: and lead conversations, because I didn't think at the time

974
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:05,080
Speaker 2: when I started it, and I actually started liftservers when

975
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:06,560
Speaker 2: I was on Serious and then I made it into

976
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 2: a podcast that we've been doing for like twelve years.

977
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:11,919
Speaker 2: But I've always had all women hosts and like people

978
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:15,400
Speaker 2: have gone on to do other things, you know, you know,

979
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:17,319
Speaker 2: just from that, but just because I felt like there

980
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:19,480
Speaker 2: was just a lack of it, like as far as

981
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:22,840
Speaker 2: you know, platforms whereas all women talking, and then I

982
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:25,080
Speaker 2: bring in like women guest hosts and things like that

983
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 2: just because I'm always like, you know, I want to

984
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 2: see people win.

985
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:30,800
Speaker 3: I've been doing this for such a long time. For

986
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:33,600
Speaker 3: a long time, I'm okay, I.

987
00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 4: Even talking about how people kind of leave to kind

988
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:43,719
Speaker 4: of go other places. Do people understand the business and

989
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 4: how how is that kind of you know, the line

990
00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:51,359
Speaker 4: in the saying where it's like, hey, I know you've

991
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:56,000
Speaker 4: played a part in growing the show, but understanding there's

992
00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 4: a business side that's it far exceeds just the entertainment.

993
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 6: How do you how do you kind of.

994
00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:07,840
Speaker 4: Make the masses understand that, especially from a female dynamic

995
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:10,440
Speaker 4: or a woman dynamic. Dare I say female, but the

996
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:14,120
Speaker 4: women dynamic where you got a bunch of sisters, a

997
00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 4: bunch of girls that's rocking and rolling, building a platform,

998
00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:20,319
Speaker 4: but they may not necessarily No, that's not to say

999
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:20,920
Speaker 4: that men.

1000
00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:21,839
Speaker 6: Can't feel the same way.

1001
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:23,880
Speaker 3: You mean like the business of.

1002
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:29,880
Speaker 6: It, business, the business of audio or visual content.

1003
00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:31,839
Speaker 2: Right, because first of all, and I know that you're

1004
00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 2: in that space now where you're helping other people who

1005
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:37,440
Speaker 2: are able to have their own platforms. And I think

1006
00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:40,359
Speaker 2: that there's always going to be people that our boss

1007
00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 2: doesn't take initiative and do their own thing, because I

1008
00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:45,279
Speaker 2: don't think you should be on any platform and not

1009
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:47,520
Speaker 2: be having other things going on. You know, we're not

1010
00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:48,880
Speaker 2: in a day and age where you can do just

1011
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:51,759
Speaker 2: one thing. It's always like, okay, I never want to

1012
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 2: feel reliant on just one thing. I want to make

1013
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:55,759
Speaker 2: sure that while i'm doing this platform. I have this

1014
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:57,760
Speaker 2: going on, this going on, This is like the center

1015
00:47:57,880 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 2: of it, and I have all these planets that orbit

1016
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 2: around it. But yeah, I think that's you know, it's

1017
00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:07,920
Speaker 2: hard sometimes for some people are not that great. That's

1018
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:10,480
Speaker 2: why I say ambition is important to me because I

1019
00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 2: like to surround myself with people who are ambitious and

1020
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:14,840
Speaker 2: who want to do other things. I think that's the

1021
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:16,640
Speaker 2: best thing, right And I think that's the best thing

1022
00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 2: in a relationship to you want to be with somebody

1023
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:21,880
Speaker 2: who this is like always trying to grow and do

1024
00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:23,879
Speaker 2: other things. And so I feel like that about work

1025
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:26,320
Speaker 2: and who I'm with. Even like for me to have

1026
00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 2: a co host on the show, I want somebody that

1027
00:48:28,280 --> 00:48:30,520
Speaker 2: wants to be like a main host, you know what

1028
00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 2: I'm saying, Like, that's what I look for.

1029
00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 3: If I want that.

1030
00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:43,439
Speaker 6: Better.

1031
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:45,960
Speaker 3: When you get this person started here and.

1032
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:47,879
Speaker 2: Now look at where they are, that's like a true

1033
00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:50,520
Speaker 2: measure of the success that you have if you help

1034
00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:52,320
Speaker 2: other people build successful things.

1035
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:54,640
Speaker 7: You know, that's a rare mindset. Though not a lot

1036
00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:57,080
Speaker 7: of people have that mindset, especially women in the industry.

1037
00:48:57,120 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 7: That's the unfortunate reality of it. Is like a lot

1038
00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:02,120
Speaker 7: a lot of people have that like they want to

1039
00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 7: put you on, but they don't want you to do

1040
00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:04,759
Speaker 7: better than them down the road.

1041
00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:06,920
Speaker 5: Let me ask, though, that does that affect how you

1042
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:08,360
Speaker 5: move though? Because I feel like a lot of.

1043
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 9: Women in the sports industry they always get some some

1044
00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:15,560
Speaker 9: sort of unfairly like judge, the criticized to look at,

1045
00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:16,000
Speaker 9: like in.

1046
00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:17,440
Speaker 6: What way amongst themselves?

1047
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 9: Always like especially like if you're a woman who's never

1048
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:25,359
Speaker 9: played a sport, there's always like there's always that, there's

1049
00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 9: always pretty girl book stuff. There's always like, you know,

1050
00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:30,640
Speaker 9: there's been lots of talk about like lots of women

1051
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 9: in the industry and what they've done, you know, like

1052
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 9: behind the scenes, all that type of stuff.

1053
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 6: How did they get to?

1054
00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:41,719
Speaker 8: My favorite comments is who did you sleep with to

1055
00:49:41,800 --> 00:49:42,479
Speaker 8: get this job?

1056
00:49:42,719 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 3: Like they said that about me when I studied that Syrians.

1057
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:47,000
Speaker 7: I got this job and they're like, who did you

1058
00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:49,080
Speaker 7: sleep with to get this job? I'm like, the world

1059
00:49:49,120 --> 00:49:51,920
Speaker 7: will never know, But does.

1060
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 5: That affect the way you moved though?

1061
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:55,640
Speaker 7: It did When I was younger, it definitely did, because

1062
00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 7: it's like the natural reflex is to defend yourself, and

1063
00:49:58,280 --> 00:49:59,680
Speaker 7: like I would get on Twitter and I would.

1064
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:01,720
Speaker 2: Pop back and like I will it's somewhere you Forbes

1065
00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:04,480
Speaker 2: thirty on the thirty. Yeah, it like when you get

1066
00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:07,799
Speaker 2: certain accolade, it's not even worth it trying to like whatever,

1067
00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:09,680
Speaker 2: I'm where I am and it is what it is.

1068
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:12,120
Speaker 7: It was just like a natural reflex because you want

1069
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:13,840
Speaker 7: to defend yourself, Like, no, you know how long I

1070
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:15,440
Speaker 7: had to work to get to this point, Like you're

1071
00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:17,480
Speaker 7: not about to erase it with X, Y and Z.

1072
00:50:17,760 --> 00:50:20,880
Speaker 7: But I've also realized that, like I've done interviews in

1073
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:23,800
Speaker 7: a turtleneck and slacks and I'm trying to douce a

1074
00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:25,320
Speaker 7: player with my eyes. I've done it.

1075
00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:27,319
Speaker 8: I've done an interview and address that was a little

1076
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 8: too tight.

1077
00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:29,120
Speaker 3: Oh doesn't she know he's married?

1078
00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:30,719
Speaker 8: Like, I can't win.

1079
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:33,320
Speaker 7: I would literally have to do an interview with a

1080
00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 7: garbage bag over my face and then they'll say something about.

1081
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:39,920
Speaker 3: My hand movements, like I nothing you can do about it.

1082
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:42,439
Speaker 7: There's nothing I can do. Everything I do is wrong.

1083
00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:44,279
Speaker 7: I could sneeze, and I sneeze the wrong way. So

1084
00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:46,759
Speaker 7: it's just kind of like you gotta deal with it.

1085
00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:49,880
Speaker 7: And I think I mean everybody like Cam, I know

1086
00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 7: you get it. You know what I'm saying.

1087
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:53,359
Speaker 2: I know people come into it's kind of what people

1088
00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:55,960
Speaker 2: would say, this is what comes with the job, right,

1089
00:50:56,000 --> 00:50:58,680
Speaker 2: you put yourself on a platform, but it also is

1090
00:50:58,719 --> 00:51:00,600
Speaker 2: sometimes not what you necessarily sign up for.

1091
00:51:00,680 --> 00:51:04,160
Speaker 3: You're just trying to do like great work.

1092
00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:05,800
Speaker 6: But you you if you post.

1093
00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:09,560
Speaker 4: Public, you get Christis publicly too. But I'm such a

1094
00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 4: fan of other platforms, like you can never make me

1095
00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:14,520
Speaker 4: hate it is what it is. You can never make

1096
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:16,680
Speaker 4: me hate the pivot. You can never make me hate

1097
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:18,080
Speaker 4: you know, Shannon Sharp.

1098
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:28,320
Speaker 6: You can never like seven PM stephen A Smith lip.

1099
00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:33,200
Speaker 4: Service like YO is a culture show, it's a it's

1100
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 4: black shows, it's white Like I see a very big

1101
00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:42,239
Speaker 4: fan of uh call her daddy, right. I love how

1102
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:47,840
Speaker 4: she strategized certain you know things like no for like

1103
00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:50,680
Speaker 4: you have to like everybody sees my content and think

1104
00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:53,120
Speaker 4: that it's just something that I just wake up and do.

1105
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 4: It's like, no, you have to be a student of it,

1106
00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:58,040
Speaker 4: like mister Beast, like, hey let's do a collab.

1107
00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:00,880
Speaker 6: Hey you have to.

1108
00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:05,719
Speaker 4: I'm not looking at no others athlete as competition. D

1109
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 4: d G is my competition. Consanet is my competition, mister

1110
00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:12,040
Speaker 4: Bast is my competition. THEO Vonn is my competition. Barstool

1111
00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:14,840
Speaker 4: is my competition. But that's not to say that we

1112
00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:18,839
Speaker 4: cannot all collabse right, see sports teach you that if

1113
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:21,720
Speaker 4: you're not wearing my colors, you're the enemy. Well, content

1114
00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:23,600
Speaker 4: should teach you that you don't have no enemies.

1115
00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:24,960
Speaker 6: It's just your next collaboration.

1116
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:29,880
Speaker 7: Okay, Cam with that man, you can work out of

1117
00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 7: his actual studio in Atlanta also.

1118
00:52:33,600 --> 00:52:35,879
Speaker 6: Or you can come to my studio the next time.

1119
00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:37,960
Speaker 3: You and I will because I'll be there soon.

1120
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:44,200
Speaker 8: You had on the pod. Yeah, you know, I've yet

1121
00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:45,840
Speaker 8: to get an invitation to Cam's podcast.

1122
00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:46,080
Speaker 5: Right.

1123
00:52:46,200 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 8: Really, as many times as I seen him, he hasn't

1124
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:48,400
Speaker 8: asked me what.

1125
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:50,720
Speaker 3: Wait, you haven't been on there? He has not asked.

1126
00:52:59,760 --> 00:53:01,920
Speaker 7: Music for him when he came in for his photo shoot.

1127
00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:04,240
Speaker 7: What did you play everything? Atlanta?

1128
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:08,239
Speaker 6: My next question is when the next When was the

1129
00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:08,840
Speaker 6: last time.

1130
00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:12,240
Speaker 8: She was in Atlanta when we did the Parmo shoot?

1131
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 2: Well, okay, and then you left win the next day,

1132
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:18,279
Speaker 2: she would have stayed and changed her flight.

1133
00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:19,200
Speaker 8: I wouldn't change my flight.

1134
00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:29,319
Speaker 6: You can, okay, girl, every Wednesday.

1135
00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:32,239
Speaker 8: I would have changed my flight for you.

1136
00:53:32,480 --> 00:53:38,440
Speaker 4: Right, Look for me, I'm all about empowering and also

1137
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:43,960
Speaker 4: being moved to do. And I see so many different

1138
00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:47,879
Speaker 4: people have platforms and that's what I want to kind

1139
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:50,960
Speaker 4: of highlight and magnify. So if you're ever in Atlanta,

1140
00:53:51,880 --> 00:53:54,839
Speaker 4: when your ass come to Atlanta, make sure y'all stop

1141
00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:57,680
Speaker 4: by Iconic Sager Studios and just you know what I'm saying,

1142
00:53:57,719 --> 00:53:58,680
Speaker 4: Let's create some content.

1143
00:53:59,040 --> 00:53:59,440
Speaker 1: Let's do it.

1144
00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:01,960
Speaker 3: We have like a Capricorn takeover for sure.

1145
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:12,880
Speaker 6: Baby, maybe on a cat minimum on a courme to

1146
00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:13,480
Speaker 6: the next game?

1147
00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:22,400
Speaker 3: Ye yes, I hate that. I'm a Nets fan. I

1148
00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:23,240
Speaker 3: know I'm from Brooklyn.

1149
00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:26,080
Speaker 5: What Capricorn loyalty?

1150
00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:26,480
Speaker 6: Right there?

1151
00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:27,920
Speaker 8: You are?

1152
00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:29,800
Speaker 3: You found a black fan. I used to go to

1153
00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:30,720
Speaker 3: the next game in Jersey.

1154
00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:32,840
Speaker 8: Yeah, so you've been loyal to the.

1155
00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:36,320
Speaker 5: Barclays for like the last day.

1156
00:54:38,600 --> 00:54:38,759
Speaker 7: There.

1157
00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:41,040
Speaker 8: We gotta have you come to a next game.

1158
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 6: For real, going to the finals year.

1159
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:46,600
Speaker 8: We're going to get you a next jersey, little orange

1160
00:54:46,640 --> 00:54:47,080
Speaker 8: bow tie.

1161
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:50,879
Speaker 6: Have you ever done the course of the garden? It's

1162
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:52,800
Speaker 6: an experienced man. Why are you thinking that?

1163
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:53,440
Speaker 7: Have you?

1164
00:54:53,640 --> 00:54:53,920
Speaker 5: Nobody?

1165
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:55,719
Speaker 6: Nobody hit you know?

1166
00:54:57,520 --> 00:55:02,800
Speaker 3: Said yes, all right, you know who I am, nigga.

1167
00:55:03,120 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 10: I'm just I've been like I've been powering for a

1168
00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:11,720
Speaker 10: long time of years of the Knicks, not for the years.

1169
00:55:11,600 --> 00:55:15,600
Speaker 6: When the Knicks mesanity. Like, Bro, I was there. I

1170
00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:20,239
Speaker 6: don't like I didn't need to post to enjoy it,

1171
00:55:20,320 --> 00:55:22,920
Speaker 6: to say, like, I don't have the picture of insanity

1172
00:55:22,960 --> 00:55:29,759
Speaker 6: what you brought up, because all the time moment, you

1173
00:55:29,960 --> 00:55:30,799
Speaker 6: just have to be there.

1174
00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:35,000
Speaker 3: I've experienced Jeremy Jersey, don't do that.

1175
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:38,200
Speaker 7: One of my favorite things about cameras when he gives

1176
00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:40,400
Speaker 7: you that side. I we were doing to promotion you

1177
00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:42,759
Speaker 7: and someone said we were going over some sort of

1178
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:45,400
Speaker 7: copy or something and someone said, cam you you were

1179
00:55:45,400 --> 00:55:45,840
Speaker 7: an m v P.

1180
00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:56,759
Speaker 6: Right, he goes, I'm modesty, don't disrespect God has blessed me.

1181
00:55:57,840 --> 00:56:07,440
Speaker 6: You have lived a life that man and Jelicia we've

1182
00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:09,520
Speaker 6: been we've been popping that money. Been good. You know

1183
00:56:09,600 --> 00:56:14,000
Speaker 6: what I'm saying. I just do it subtly, interview.

1184
00:56:14,000 --> 00:56:16,839
Speaker 9: Pledged content, creative member of the media, someone who's lived

1185
00:56:16,880 --> 00:56:19,840
Speaker 9: so much life. Does any of those experience take away

1186
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:22,320
Speaker 9: from that? Knowing that you were on there as one side,

1187
00:56:22,360 --> 00:56:24,319
Speaker 9: as an athlete, as a center of attention, and now

1188
00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:24,759
Speaker 9: you're there.

1189
00:56:24,880 --> 00:56:27,960
Speaker 4: It's happening right now, Bro, And I'm not saying it's

1190
00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:31,320
Speaker 4: just being honest man, the best thing about me is

1191
00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:34,839
Speaker 4: that I have children, right, and I just want them

1192
00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:38,399
Speaker 4: to understand why I'm not always there. And it could

1193
00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:41,399
Speaker 4: it could be hectic, you know, being the bail cow

1194
00:56:41,480 --> 00:56:44,919
Speaker 4: of your family, you know, you have to sacrifice so much.

1195
00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:48,359
Speaker 4: Pictures are important, videos are important. And for a long

1196
00:56:48,480 --> 00:56:51,879
Speaker 4: time I was going through a very you know, tough

1197
00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:54,919
Speaker 4: time or a very busy time in my life having

1198
00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:58,279
Speaker 4: young children where you know, they'll put the phone down,

1199
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:01,080
Speaker 4: Daddy and then boom, the just fan gone. And it's

1200
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:03,759
Speaker 4: kind of like that still, even though they all have

1201
00:57:03,960 --> 00:57:05,840
Speaker 4: blue screens, and you know, we try to limit it

1202
00:57:05,920 --> 00:57:08,359
Speaker 4: as much as possible. So that's why, you know, cole

1203
00:57:08,440 --> 00:57:11,640
Speaker 4: parenting is important. That's why you know, relationships with you know,

1204
00:57:11,719 --> 00:57:13,960
Speaker 4: family members is supported because it takes a village.

1205
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:15,719
Speaker 6: Hey, A, I need you to go do this for me. A,

1206
00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:17,200
Speaker 6: I need you to help me, you know with this.

1207
00:57:17,800 --> 00:57:21,720
Speaker 4: You know, one of my favorite you know, uh people

1208
00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:24,400
Speaker 4: that has a major impact in my family is my

1209
00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:25,000
Speaker 4: sister in law.

1210
00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:29,880
Speaker 6: Right, she just got a doctorate. Uh and she's so education,

1211
00:57:30,040 --> 00:57:31,400
Speaker 6: so education, so education.

1212
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:33,760
Speaker 4: Well, if the kids gonna be on the iPad, we

1213
00:57:33,840 --> 00:57:36,920
Speaker 4: might as well download you know, certain programs that they

1214
00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:40,080
Speaker 4: can do these types. I never would have known that, right,

1215
00:57:40,440 --> 00:57:44,800
Speaker 4: And you have such a guilt sometimes when you're when

1216
00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:49,040
Speaker 4: you're away, right, it's day, it's a day away, two days. Man,

1217
00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:51,280
Speaker 4: you're gonna be going for three or four days. And

1218
00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:58,240
Speaker 4: I just hope that while I'm absent, they understand and

1219
00:57:58,400 --> 00:58:01,560
Speaker 4: I know who I am, that they will. And it's

1220
00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 4: it's it's that that you know, puts a lot of

1221
00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:08,040
Speaker 4: a lot of things in perspective because I'm hustling, like

1222
00:58:08,120 --> 00:58:12,520
Speaker 4: I'm hustling like today ESPN looking forward to shooting the

1223
00:58:12,600 --> 00:58:14,880
Speaker 4: Tyler Perry Studios with the one oh six and Sport

1224
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:18,760
Speaker 4: gig Boom, still you know, doing multiple shows a week

1225
00:58:18,840 --> 00:58:21,240
Speaker 4: from my own fourth and one. Hey we're still doing

1226
00:58:21,320 --> 00:58:24,080
Speaker 4: Funky Friday. Hey, We're still doing all these different things.

1227
00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:28,160
Speaker 4: And and I'm not stopping. I'm not complaining and knowing that,

1228
00:58:28,360 --> 00:58:32,120
Speaker 4: like yo, the only thing that makes me genuinely happy

1229
00:58:32,960 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 4: is hearing.

1230
00:58:36,160 --> 00:58:37,000
Speaker 1: Stop but stop.

1231
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:43,120
Speaker 4: I'm about to go tell Dardy, Like, what's ill doing?

1232
00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:44,600
Speaker 6: Daddy? In here?

1233
00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:48,200
Speaker 4: I can smell them, you know what I'm saying. Like

1234
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:52,000
Speaker 4: those type of memories really like how I really lock

1235
00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:55,760
Speaker 4: in and I just I just know that and uh,

1236
00:58:56,040 --> 00:58:59,800
Speaker 4: coming from where I came, I've always had family and

1237
00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:01,080
Speaker 4: that that just is.

1238
00:59:02,560 --> 00:59:03,840
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's it, that's important.

1239
00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:05,680
Speaker 3: Oh that was amazing.

1240
00:59:06,360 --> 00:59:06,840
Speaker 6: I love that.

1241
00:59:07,160 --> 00:59:07,760
Speaker 3: That was great.

1242
00:59:09,720 --> 00:59:13,240
Speaker 4: Don't believe I don't believe everything you on the internet. Now,

1243
00:59:15,040 --> 00:59:17,280
Speaker 4: what did you hear about cam Newton? Let's just keep

1244
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:19,080
Speaker 4: it a bug. Let's talk before we get out of here.

1245
00:59:19,480 --> 00:59:21,600
Speaker 3: Let me see what have I heard about you? But

1246
00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:23,040
Speaker 3: I know you want to have more children?

1247
00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:28,360
Speaker 2: Hello, right, I know you're scared of divorce extremely So

1248
00:59:28,520 --> 00:59:32,000
Speaker 2: that's why we don't know where this relationship situation will it?

1249
00:59:32,160 --> 00:59:34,640
Speaker 3: You know, marriage? Is that ever in the cards? We

1250
00:59:34,720 --> 00:59:37,240
Speaker 3: don't know. Let me see what else have we heard

1251
00:59:37,480 --> 00:59:39,600
Speaker 3: a lot of people care you asked me what I've

1252
00:59:39,640 --> 00:59:39,880
Speaker 3: heard that?

1253
00:59:40,600 --> 00:59:42,600
Speaker 6: I just don't know. You keep going, but I can

1254
00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:44,280
Speaker 6: still give like a footnote.

1255
00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:47,680
Speaker 2: Of well, because I think when sometimes people are in relationships,

1256
00:59:47,720 --> 00:59:51,800
Speaker 2: they feel like you know that that leads to marriage

1257
00:59:52,280 --> 00:59:52,840
Speaker 2: at some point.

1258
00:59:53,480 --> 00:59:57,120
Speaker 6: They never asked are you happy? And I always will

1259
00:59:57,240 --> 00:59:59,800
Speaker 6: love to say happy as hell? Lit?

1260
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:02,720
Speaker 3: And I will say this, I don't like.

1261
01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:05,680
Speaker 2: My parents got divorced when I was but they still

1262
01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:06,800
Speaker 2: live together to this day.

1263
01:00:08,200 --> 01:00:08,440
Speaker 1: They do.

1264
01:00:08,760 --> 01:00:10,960
Speaker 2: And I've never been like I got to get married.

1265
01:00:11,000 --> 01:00:12,400
Speaker 2: I got to get married, so it's not. But if

1266
01:00:12,440 --> 01:00:15,920
Speaker 2: it happens, it happens. I'm okay with being with somebody

1267
01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:19,960
Speaker 2: forever and not doing that, So it doesn't really what.

1268
01:00:20,520 --> 01:00:21,760
Speaker 8: Said, are they knocking boots?

1269
01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:23,720
Speaker 3: No, I don't think so, But I don't know.

1270
01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:30,640
Speaker 6: Ask the questions that we really want to shutting.

1271
01:00:30,440 --> 01:00:31,400
Speaker 3: Up even on the couch.

1272
01:00:34,760 --> 01:00:36,200
Speaker 8: They go to their separate corner.

1273
01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:40,800
Speaker 3: Sneaking out the house. I never heard nothing when I

1274
01:00:40,880 --> 01:00:42,320
Speaker 3: went past their room say that.

1275
01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:45,280
Speaker 6: I think it doesn't.

1276
01:00:45,320 --> 01:00:47,400
Speaker 7: I think it also like like my parents have been

1277
01:00:47,440 --> 01:00:50,080
Speaker 7: married my entire life. They're still married, and marriage is

1278
01:00:50,120 --> 01:00:51,800
Speaker 7: not something I ever thought about, Like I.

1279
01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:55,240
Speaker 3: Never really thought about it, like you should carry no kidding,

1280
01:00:55,280 --> 01:00:56,040
Speaker 3: I mean I've never.

1281
01:00:58,880 --> 01:01:01,520
Speaker 8: I never I never even visioned my wedding. I never

1282
01:01:01,560 --> 01:01:04,160
Speaker 8: played bride in my head. I never did any of that.

1283
01:01:04,320 --> 01:01:07,959
Speaker 3: That wasn't think about what you're gonna wear to your wedding.

1284
01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:10,000
Speaker 8: At least you don't wear hat just like you.

1285
01:01:10,080 --> 01:01:12,480
Speaker 6: Gonna wear Let me tell you what it's gonna leave

1286
01:01:13,360 --> 01:01:14,480
Speaker 6: me wearing nothing.

1287
01:01:16,000 --> 01:01:17,320
Speaker 8: You already know, naked in a fridge.

1288
01:01:18,000 --> 01:01:19,560
Speaker 2: And as you get older, you may not even care

1289
01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:23,520
Speaker 2: about sex anymore. I could see that like just being like,

1290
01:01:23,600 --> 01:01:26,040
Speaker 2: I'm just happy being here and spooning.

1291
01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:27,840
Speaker 1: Kind of.

1292
01:01:29,960 --> 01:01:34,320
Speaker 8: The anything on the internet real about you? About you,

1293
01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:36,240
Speaker 8: anything you've seen? Is it factual?

1294
01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:36,960
Speaker 3: A lot?

1295
01:01:37,760 --> 01:01:39,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, some things that's true in it, but there's more

1296
01:01:39,520 --> 01:01:40,560
Speaker 6: things that's like, wait.

1297
01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:41,880
Speaker 8: What you get that from?

1298
01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:43,439
Speaker 6: What is those?

1299
01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:43,920
Speaker 9: Like?

1300
01:01:44,040 --> 01:01:46,800
Speaker 3: What what's something you said that you're like? Dang, where

1301
01:01:46,840 --> 01:01:47,480
Speaker 3: they got that from?

1302
01:01:48,280 --> 01:01:48,480
Speaker 4: Oh?

1303
01:01:51,200 --> 01:01:52,400
Speaker 6: You are really good at what you do?

1304
01:01:57,400 --> 01:01:58,000
Speaker 8: You got jumped?

1305
01:01:58,080 --> 01:01:59,240
Speaker 5: But what though?

1306
01:02:00,280 --> 01:02:02,760
Speaker 4: I don't know, you know, my brain is spinning. But

1307
01:02:02,880 --> 01:02:04,800
Speaker 4: I'm just gonna say, you know what's on the internet

1308
01:02:04,920 --> 01:02:05,520
Speaker 4: that is true?

1309
01:02:06,120 --> 01:02:09,280
Speaker 6: Make sure you tell me. Man.

1310
01:02:09,720 --> 01:02:11,000
Speaker 5: That show you know what I'm saying.

1311
01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:16,400
Speaker 4: It was Sports and Entertainment Collide. Ashley Nicole Moss is

1312
01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:19,040
Speaker 4: the host, co hosted by Cam Newton.

1313
01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:23,320
Speaker 3: Period exclamation points, Yes, get that cap her props.

1314
01:02:23,480 --> 01:02:24,240
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying.

1315
01:02:24,480 --> 01:02:25,720
Speaker 8: He's gonna say, have you on the cap?

1316
01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:26,240
Speaker 4: No?

1317
01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:28,240
Speaker 6: No, no, no, no, no, no no no. Just make

1318
01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:29,840
Speaker 6: sure that you leave out the coin.

1319
01:02:31,400 --> 01:02:32,040
Speaker 3: You say that.

1320
01:02:33,160 --> 01:02:34,439
Speaker 6: No, No, that's cool.

1321
01:02:34,560 --> 01:02:38,280
Speaker 4: Babies always shining over here, you feel me? But yeah, man,

1322
01:02:38,280 --> 01:02:39,240
Speaker 4: I'm extremely happy.

1323
01:02:39,400 --> 01:02:41,280
Speaker 3: I'm happy for you guys. It's gonna be a good

1324
01:02:41,320 --> 01:02:42,800
Speaker 3: time show man.

1325
01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:43,240
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Wait, for it.

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Speaker 8: I'm super proud of you too.

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Speaker 7: I just want to say that I saw I saw

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Speaker 7: Nate this morning and it was a full circle moment

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01:02:49,920 --> 01:02:52,840
Speaker 7: for me because he was when I launched Laces Out.

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Speaker 7: He was like one of the first people to do

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Speaker 7: an episode. We went to his house in Franklin Lakes

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Speaker 7: and we spent hours with him and he didn't have

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Speaker 7: to obviously we weren't.

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Speaker 8: Paying him or anything like that.

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Speaker 3: And he first Black women host.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, he really took me under my wing, I mean

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Speaker 7: his wing, and even you when we did Certified Buckets.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, uninterrupted you talking about this, yeah, before you.

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Speaker 9: Got here at I'm seeing Ashley's rise from like a

1341
01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:20,840
Speaker 9: person on Twitter from Knicks fan TV pisses off every

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Speaker 9: Knicks fan for sure.

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Speaker 5: Where she's at now. I'm just always usually right though.

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01:03:26,480 --> 01:03:29,600
Speaker 7: I got like an eighty percent accurate accuracy rate when

1345
01:03:29,600 --> 01:03:30,520
Speaker 7: it comes to my takes from.

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Speaker 8: The next, after before, after what before, Like yo, listen,

1347
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Speaker 8: I was right on my Tims take.

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Speaker 5: It was right about Tis, right about Detroit, I was.

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Speaker 7: Right about I was right about the Pistons when I

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Speaker 7: said Little Caesar's Little Pizza Palace arena.

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Speaker 3: Hey, but you know, we got him up here, We

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Speaker 3: got him up here.

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Speaker 8: We're gonna put this on the jumbo tron. We're gonna

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Speaker 8: we're gonna blame her when we win.

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Speaker 3: And what guess what?

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Speaker 8: We said them packing And.

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Speaker 5: I'm really I'm really excited for your show.

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Speaker 9: Many I love it, really proud to say, y'all two

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Speaker 9: together man and one of six. Just hearing one O

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Speaker 9: six being talked about together, it's just nice.

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Speaker 3: And they just recently had their anniversary like celebration. Y.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's dope, that's been that's that's that's the toughest

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Speaker 4: thing for me, though I can't speak for Ashley. Like

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Speaker 4: when I saw Free and when you see a J,

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Speaker 4: when you talked about when you talk to Terrence J,

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Speaker 4: when you see Roxy, it's like, bro, y'all did the

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Speaker 4: hell of a job. Like I just hope, I hope

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Speaker 4: I do my part.

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Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying. I know gonna do hers.

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Speaker 6: But it's like, yo, that's like.

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Speaker 3: This is a different iteration.

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Speaker 7: It's not like that's why it's so important for us

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Speaker 7: to keep reiterating it, Like we aren't going into this

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Speaker 7: with like a level of arrogance.

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Speaker 8: It's not like, yeah, we hear now and like, if anything,

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Speaker 8: for lack.

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Speaker 7: Of a better word, we're a little terrified, and that's fine,

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Speaker 7: We're a little We're a little scared because that's a

1379
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Speaker 7: good thing. And like we want to do justice by

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Speaker 7: the brand and we want to do right by but

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Speaker 7: also let everyone know we're not trying to erase it.

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Speaker 3: There's nothing better than being terrified to do something.

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Speaker 2: I think it's amazing when you're shook and then it

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01:05:15,560 --> 01:05:17,400
Speaker 2: happens and you make it happen, it feels great.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, you will shut marriage.

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Speaker 6: Cold, man, Well that for you. Don't going to kick

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Speaker 6: it out.

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Speaker 7: Now.

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Speaker 6: I'm about to go down your whole list.

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Speaker 8: From now, maybe i'll have a man and maybe you'll

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Speaker 8: be mad about how you find how.

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Speaker 6: Many people you following and then across contaminated. That's right there.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait twenty five years from now. Let's get

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Speaker 2: back together and talk about it.

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Speaker 6: Five years we're gonna be in twenty five days. This

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Speaker 6: is gonna be a recurrent episode CAM coming on on

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Speaker 6: the first day.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, guys. I appreciate it and I'm excited at congratulations.

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Speaker 3: Amazing m