1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,640 Speaker 1: My mom went to the hospital after eating my food. 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:06,360 Speaker 2: But I know she's faking it. 3 00:00:06,720 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 3: Hmm. 4 00:00:07,640 --> 00:00:10,119 Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know. That's tough. 5 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: You might be cooking some hospital food, you know, it 6 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:15,320 Speaker 1: sends them to the hospital. 7 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:17,599 Speaker 2: Uh, let's see what's going on here. 8 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:21,280 Speaker 1: So my mother and I don't have a great relationship. 9 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:25,240 Speaker 1: Throughout my life. She has pushed all kinds of fad diets, 10 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 1: self help flavored fads, and even conversion therapy via the 11 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:32,199 Speaker 1: troubled teen industry on me. 12 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 2: That's gross. We don't like conversion therapy. It's garbage. You 13 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 2: want to know why, because John rocks. 14 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 1: With the guys. Yeah, that's how many times do I 15 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:46,200 Speaker 1: have to say it? You on the right track. Maybe 16 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 1: you was born that way. Yeah, we'd throw conversion therapy 17 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 1: into the sun, right straight into the sun. 18 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 2: Here it goes okay. Uh. 19 00:00:57,320 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: My mother has never apologized for any of this, despite 20 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 1: me telling her how much it all messed me up. 21 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,959 Speaker 1: I still haven't mustard the guts up to go no 22 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 1: contact because she's still married to my dad, who I 23 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: do get along with and generally like. 24 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:12,919 Speaker 2: Okay. 25 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:17,560 Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from user Vanielle Ashki on 26 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 1: the r slash Okay, storytime, Supreddit so well. I recently 27 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 1: moved to a new place in a really nice area 28 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:27,279 Speaker 1: because I just got a really nice new job. 29 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:28,040 Speaker 2: Nice. 30 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 1: Suddenly my mom really wants to come and visit and 31 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:33,919 Speaker 1: see me. I do my best to make up excuses, 32 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:37,480 Speaker 1: but she pushes so hard that eventually I end up caving. 33 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 1: One of the things I've been doing since moving into 34 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 1: my new place is a lot of cooking, because I 35 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 1: have a nice, big kitchen all to myself. 36 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 2: I love weird food. 37 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: And finding new ways to get protein into my diet 38 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 1: without using meat. Something I've had a lot of fun 39 00:01:55,560 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 1: making lately is Latiao. It's probably not weird to some people, 40 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 1: but to my sheltered American self, it was funky as heck, 41 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 1: and I loved the idea of it. 42 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:10,679 Speaker 4: An I'll look it up and I was like, we're 43 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:18,119 Speaker 4: eating pokemon over we eaten? I choose you. 44 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:22,359 Speaker 1: My mother was sent to the hospital by legendary take it. 45 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:24,679 Speaker 2: I literally, I literally have no idea what's happening in 46 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:26,919 Speaker 2: the story. I'm so sorry because the chat is just crazy. 47 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 2: Could you give me a quick deal? They are? Actually 48 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 2: I'm so sorry t O d R so far. 49 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:35,359 Speaker 1: Really, all that we've gotten is that op Is has 50 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:40,359 Speaker 1: kind of a toxic slash emotionally abusive mother and is 51 00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:44,360 Speaker 1: cooking for her in his new apartment or actually, I 52 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 1: don't know. 53 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 2: In their new place of living. 54 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 1: Yes, and apparently Mom got sent to the hospital from 55 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 1: the cooking. 56 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 2: I don't know that from the pokemon. Yeah, from eating Latis. 57 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:56,239 Speaker 1: I'll look it up. I'll look it up, but you 58 00:02:56,240 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 1: go ahead. And so I started making it from scratch 59 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:06,519 Speaker 1: and discovered that I love it Latio. Well, my mom 60 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 1: and dad got here yesterday afternoon and slash evening and 61 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 1: settle in and we started talking about dinner. As per usual, 62 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 1: Mom has to pick after looking at online menus for 63 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:20,520 Speaker 1: a couple of hours to make sure they fit with 64 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 1: her dietary requirements. She ends up picking a vegan restaurant 65 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 1: that's across town, but she's just so tired from the 66 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 1: drive up she can't fathom getting back in the car. 67 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 1: I feel that, so Dad and I agreed to go 68 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:36,119 Speaker 1: pick it up while she rests. Driving across my new 69 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: city is a long process, which I told her ahead 70 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 1: of time. And it's a little over an hour later 71 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: when we get home with the vegan slash gluten free 72 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 1: food that she wanted. She's not a vegan, but she 73 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 1: is adamantly gluten free and has been for a few 74 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 1: years now. We get inside and as I am opening 75 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:56,480 Speaker 1: the food in the kitchen, I noticed the Pyrex snapware 76 00:03:56,560 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 1: container of Latiao that was in my fridge is now 77 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 1: empty in the sink. 78 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 2: And did we confirm what this mystery food is? Yes, 79 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 2: we get food. 80 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 4: Yes, it is a popular Chinese snack consists of strips 81 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 4: made with wheat flour flavored with chili pepper. It is chewy, spicy, 82 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 4: and tangy, commercially produced by extrusion from a mixture of 83 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:26,160 Speaker 4: gluten rich dough and beyond chili pepper, salt, sugar, and 84 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 4: other spices are commonly used in it. So it's kind 85 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 4: of like ten actually sounds really good, it does. 86 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 2: It does sound really good. I just had the ICU. 87 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:41,280 Speaker 1: Oh you said she's adamantly gluten free and that so 88 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 1: that is what gluten snack s. Yeah, that's made out 89 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 1: of gluten. Okay, gluten sended mommy mommy to the hospital. 90 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:50,119 Speaker 2: That's yeah. 91 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:53,840 Speaker 1: So she even dumped out the sauce that I had 92 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:58,280 Speaker 1: been soaking them in. Okay, everyone knows you saved the sauce. 93 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 1: You saved the sauce for later. I asked her if 94 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: she'd eaten something out of my fridge while we were gone, 95 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 1: and she said that yes, she had eaten some chicken 96 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 1: because she was getting lightheaded from hunger, but it was terrible, 97 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:15,040 Speaker 1: and she was so ready for some real food. That's 98 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 1: so funny that she well, now, this is where I 99 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 1: might have been the a hole. Instead of telling her 100 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 1: what she had actually eaten, I just rolled my eyes 101 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 1: and dished up the food for everyone and we ate. 102 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 1: She continued to remark about how bad and oily the 103 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 1: chicken was and how relieved she was to finally eat 104 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 1: something substantial Throughout the rest of the evening. My dad 105 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:40,279 Speaker 1: kept trying to change the subject, and she kept coming 106 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:43,560 Speaker 1: back to it. Oh no, she kept teeing herself up 107 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:48,840 Speaker 1: for the gotcha she didn't even know. I finally snapped 108 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 1: when she brought it up again. First thing this morning, 109 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:54,279 Speaker 1: when I was picking them up from their hotel, I 110 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 1: asked them where they wanted to go for breakfast, and 111 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 1: my mom made a joke about not wanting me to 112 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 1: cook them breakfast because she didn't want more oily chicken, 113 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 1: or something to that effect. I finally said, Mom, that 114 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 1: was homemade latiao, and I don't understand why you ate 115 00:06:10,520 --> 00:06:14,600 Speaker 1: all of it If you hated it so much boom, Yeah, 116 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:16,840 Speaker 1: if it was so bad, why is it all gone? Mom? 117 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 2: Come on? 118 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:21,560 Speaker 1: Huh? She asked me what latiao is and I explained 119 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:24,919 Speaker 1: that it's just vital wheat, gluten and water steamed and 120 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 1: soaked in sauce. I practically watched as her face dropped, 121 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 1: and sure enough, within thirty minutes, her stomach was killing 122 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 1: her and she was having difficulty breathing and needed to 123 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 1: go to the emergency room. 124 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:42,600 Speaker 4: So once she learned that maybe the mom is actually 125 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:45,800 Speaker 4: not feeling great, I don't know, like, oh she's not 126 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 4: feeling you might go to the emergency room, that would 127 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:50,159 Speaker 4: kick in way earlier though. 128 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 2: I would have to imagine, could we do a little 129 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 2: our our ai chat friend and see what. 130 00:06:57,680 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 1: See? 131 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:01,280 Speaker 2: What the if you have like Celiac disease, how often 132 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:03,679 Speaker 2: does it usually react? Yeah? 133 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 1: I mean I've the people I've known whether it's usually 134 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 1: pretty quick, Like if you eat something super gluteny and 135 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 1: you've got celiac, it's like an our tops because. 136 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 2: I'd imagine it's almost like an allergy, right, like, yeah, 137 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 2: it's just like and it could be Look, she really 138 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 2: could be like, oh my stomach. 139 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 1: Oh, but like that could also just be psychosomatic because 140 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 1: it's like now that she knows now and her body 141 00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 1: really could be making her real symptoms happened. It's not 142 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 1: actually happening from the gluten. It's coming because the brain 143 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 1: is so powerful it can create those like phantom effects. Dude, Yeah, Dutchess, 144 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:45,000 Speaker 1: Cassandra says. Cassanda says, within one half to one hour, 145 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 1: you'd be fed. Yeah, that's that's from my experience. 146 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 2: I don't have. 147 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 1: Celiac, but from the people that I know that have it, 148 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 1: that's typically the window. 149 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 2: So it's pretty so for our friend. 150 00:07:57,320 --> 00:08:00,760 Speaker 4: Glutens start causing damage to the small intestine almost immediately 151 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 4: oof after digestion. 152 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I think we're on the money. 153 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 1: Are I think we are on the money unless she 154 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 1: has a new form of Celiac disease that has yet 155 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 1: to be experienced by the human race. Hey, patient zero, 156 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 1: it Hey, patient zero. 157 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 2: That's where we're at. 158 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 1: The whole time we were there in the emergency room, 159 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 1: she went on and on to the nurses and doctors 160 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:25,960 Speaker 1: about how I'd fed her gluten and not told her 161 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 1: until it was too late for her to take her medicine, 162 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 1: and crying because now the whole trip was ruined. 163 00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 2: Mind you, this is the hospital where I were. 164 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 5: It sucks. 165 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 2: Oh. 166 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 1: My dad pulled me aside to tell me he was 167 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 1: disappointed that I hadn't spoken up last night and how 168 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 1: what I'd done not only hurt my mother's feelings but 169 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 1: also put her health and safety at risk. He'd asked 170 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 1: me to go home and think about my actions and 171 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 1: give my mother some space. And now I was just 172 00:08:57,800 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 1: sitting here alone in my cool new place, like a 173 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 1: wiener and super anxious about what work is going to 174 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 1: be like next week. You know, it's funny to me 175 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:08,200 Speaker 1: that your dad is like, you who work at the 176 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 1: hospital need to go home. You you've done enough here. 177 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:15,319 Speaker 1: You can no longer help in any way at the hospital. 178 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:17,960 Speaker 2: You work at. You need to leave. Oh, I guess 179 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:19,319 Speaker 2: I'll just fire myself then. 180 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. 181 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:22,079 Speaker 2: I don't know what. 182 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 1: OP does at the hospital, but you know, I imagine 183 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 1: it's just like they're the maintenance guy at the hospital. 184 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 2: It's like, really they can think already work. 185 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:33,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe they don't have any medical you know, expertise, 186 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:34,440 Speaker 1: in this situation. 187 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 2: But I think we've we're confirming. 188 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 1: The chat is kind of confirming that there's no way 189 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 1: that this could be like a gluten reaction, because it 190 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 1: would have happened pretty much instantaneously. 191 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:45,280 Speaker 2: Patient zero, I'm sticking with me. 192 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 1: I'm torn because I don't think it's my fault that 193 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 1: she ate my food without talking to me first, which 194 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:53,080 Speaker 1: is true. 195 00:09:53,160 --> 00:09:54,960 Speaker 2: She did just eat that all by herself. 196 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 1: But I'd be lying if I said I didn't omit 197 00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:00,440 Speaker 1: the information about what she'd eat, and because I was 198 00:10:00,520 --> 00:10:03,559 Speaker 1: mad at her and just didn't want to discuss it further. 199 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 1: I also didn't expect it to make her so sick. 200 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 1: So am I the a hole? And there is an update? 201 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 2: Oh? 202 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:14,679 Speaker 1: I mean I think maybe do we we can talk 203 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 1: about we talk a little bit before we get into 204 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:23,199 Speaker 1: this update, because I look, hmm, it's normal to feel 205 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 1: bad if you think you've made someone sick. Yeah, but like, 206 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:29,520 Speaker 1: it doesn't feel like you made her sick. It feels 207 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:33,720 Speaker 1: like she ate an entire canister of gluten snaps and 208 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:37,719 Speaker 1: like was fine about it for the whole night, kind 209 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:40,600 Speaker 1: of making fun of you about your your bad oily 210 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:42,960 Speaker 1: chicken that she didn't even know wasn't chicken. 211 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:44,840 Speaker 2: Which I feel like she would have complained if she 212 00:10:45,040 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 2: felt like she's like, oh, it doesn't taste good, but 213 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 2: she didn't say I feel bad from it. Yeah, like 214 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:51,680 Speaker 2: there's a reaction, right, Yeah. 215 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:55,079 Speaker 1: She was literally just like dogging on oping, like you're 216 00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 1: a terrible cook and your chicken tasted so bad, even 217 00:10:58,080 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 1: though I was starving to death to the point where 218 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:03,000 Speaker 1: I couldn't even leave the house because I was so tired. 219 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:06,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, it wasn't chicken. Yeah, it wasn't. 220 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 4: And then my mom was like, oh no, it wasn't chicken. Yeah, 221 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 4: go to the hospital. 222 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:16,560 Speaker 2: So I guess I'm curious, Like, how do you like, 223 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:20,240 Speaker 2: OPI not the a hole here? Would you? Would you say? Yeah, 224 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 2: I a thousand percent agree, But like now, like as op, 225 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:27,040 Speaker 2: how do you like move forward? And like handling your 226 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 2: your mom here, I don't know how to. 227 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: Roll your eyes because she's clearly like, you know, you 228 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 1: can feel bad for I'd feel bad if I felt 229 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 1: someone was like like placeboing themselves so hard that they 230 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:44,200 Speaker 1: just had to go to the hospital for it. Like yeah, 231 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:47,120 Speaker 1: because it's I mean, it's like a biological thing, Like 232 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 1: if you were that allergic to gluten and to the 233 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 1: point where it's going to send you to the emergency room. 234 00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:54,320 Speaker 1: It's going to send you to the emergency room that night. 235 00:11:54,600 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 1: It's not going to send you to the emergency room 236 00:11:56,480 --> 00:12:00,439 Speaker 1: thirty minutes after you discover it was gluten. So it's clearly, 237 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:03,680 Speaker 1: I think in it's a mental thing for OPC. 238 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:06,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, And honestly, I'm super curious just for the comments 239 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 2: of like how if you've like dealt with someone like this, 240 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 2: like I imagine I would kind of just like try 241 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 2: to distance. It's like these like areas of delusion, and 242 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 2: it's like it doesn't even feel like it makes sense 243 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 2: to engage in those just because you just can't win. 244 00:12:23,280 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, it's she's going to the hospital 245 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 1: and telling people that she got fed gluey me, It's like, no, 246 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 1: you devoured the entire thing by yourself with no permission 247 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:36,400 Speaker 1: while we were getting your dinner. 248 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 2: You stole it from me. 249 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:41,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, you literally stole my snacks and are now telling 250 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 1: the hospital I work at that I sent you here. 251 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 1: Like no grace is needed on the side, Like the 252 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:52,520 Speaker 1: mom like she is fully like not she's not helping 253 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 1: anyone in the situation, including herself. 254 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:57,560 Speaker 2: So I'm just I'm just honestly, I'll leave the hospital. 255 00:12:57,600 --> 00:12:59,320 Speaker 2: I'm out, like you know what, Yeah, I will leave. 256 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 2: I think I've I feel like I just have to 257 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:03,840 Speaker 2: like pull myself out of those Delulu moments comments. Maybe 258 00:13:03,840 --> 00:13:05,920 Speaker 2: you've dealt with this and there's like a better approach, 259 00:13:05,960 --> 00:13:08,199 Speaker 2: but that's what I'm feeling. 260 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 1: Well, let's feel out this update. Oh god, let's get it. 261 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 2: Just got home. 262 00:13:17,520 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 1: So after everything went down this morning, I went back 263 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 1: to the hospital to check on my parents. My mom 264 00:13:22,600 --> 00:13:26,560 Speaker 1: was sleeping and still in the e er I'm gonna 265 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 1: assume instead of ED shout out to all the moms 266 00:13:31,360 --> 00:13:37,320 Speaker 1: with ED and and so I got to talk to 267 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:41,280 Speaker 1: my dad and the doctor a bit. My dad still 268 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:44,360 Speaker 1: thought I should apologize. I told him I would when 269 00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:46,679 Speaker 1: she woke up. When I talked to the doctor a bit, 270 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:49,559 Speaker 1: I started asking about testing. I asked if they'd done 271 00:13:49,559 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 1: a test for the specific kind of immunoglobulin present in 272 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 1: CELIACX when someone has gluten and she said she actually 273 00:13:57,920 --> 00:14:01,319 Speaker 1: hadn't needed to because apparently my had that test done 274 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:05,240 Speaker 1: in the past with her primary care practitioner. The doctor 275 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:07,080 Speaker 1: asked me if I worked in the medical field and 276 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 1: I told her that, yes, I worked in the lab. Okay, 277 00:14:10,559 --> 00:14:16,440 Speaker 1: so not a maintenance guy. Yeah, is a laboratory medical scientist. Huh. 278 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 1: She then volunteered a bit more information that than she 279 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 1: probably should have, but I'm glad she did because I 280 00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 1: feel a bit better. She had managed to get my 281 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 1: mom's lab results faxed over and looked at them. Apparently 282 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 1: my mom's tgg my mom's gluten information was low enough 283 00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 1: that it was absolutely clear that my mother does not 284 00:14:38,680 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 1: have celiac disease. Boom, doctor confirmed, Your mom is fibbing 285 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 1: to herself and to others or are they lying? 286 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 2: Yeah? Or is her new patient zero disease undetectable by 287 00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 2: their whack ass tests? 288 00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:58,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, who knows she's got Yeah, that's what Mom's gonna say. 289 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 1: They're just not using the right tests. My celiac is 290 00:15:01,920 --> 00:15:04,400 Speaker 1: so juiced up they can't even detect it. It's a 291 00:15:04,440 --> 00:15:07,680 Speaker 1: new thing, the strongest ever. Also, we got a comment 292 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:12,000 Speaker 1: from Shauna on Facebook saying that ED stands for emergency department. 293 00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:16,000 Speaker 2: What an unfortunate acronymy, which I guess the other one. Yeah. 294 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:18,840 Speaker 1: Shout out to all the folks suffering in the emergency department. 295 00:15:18,920 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 1: Stay hard, Yeah, try your best, John, Try your best. 296 00:15:26,520 --> 00:15:29,640 Speaker 1: The doctor had offered to refer her for a biopsy, 297 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 1: which is standard procedure for confirmation of celiac, and my 298 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:37,280 Speaker 1: mother declined. I later confirmed with my dad that it 299 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 1: was because she didn't think it was worth it to 300 00:15:39,760 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 1: go through all the expense and pain of surgery to 301 00:15:43,280 --> 00:15:45,640 Speaker 1: confirm something she already knows. 302 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:52,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, sure, sure she knows best. Mother knows best. 303 00:15:52,280 --> 00:15:54,000 Speaker 2: That's what we all know. Mother knows best. 304 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:59,040 Speaker 1: Furthermore, according to the nurse, my mother was giving lazepam, 305 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 1: which she told me was for her stomach pain and nausea. 306 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:06,800 Speaker 1: He actually put this in air quotes with his fingers. 307 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:10,720 Speaker 1: In case you are not familiar with larazapam, it is 308 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 1: a benzo that is also used as an antipsychotic slash 309 00:16:14,400 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 1: anti anxiety sedative along with gastro symptoms. Apparently, the medicine 310 00:16:19,560 --> 00:16:22,560 Speaker 1: my mom was talking about was some kind of holistic 311 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 1: slash herbal thing cherry on top is that the nurse 312 00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:31,239 Speaker 1: It is that the nurse is Chinese and loves Latia. 313 00:16:31,480 --> 00:16:41,040 Speaker 2: Let's go and now I have a new work friend. Yeah. 314 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:43,640 Speaker 1: I thanked them for all their help, and they indicated 315 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 1: that she was ready to be discharged. My dad was 316 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:48,400 Speaker 1: not inclined to wake her up, but I explained that 317 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 1: there were other people waiting that needed to be seen, 318 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:52,920 Speaker 1: and they couldn't be seen if there were no open beds. 319 00:16:53,280 --> 00:16:55,240 Speaker 1: I then asked the doctor if she could write my 320 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 1: mom a script for more lazapam, which she agreed to, 321 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:01,400 Speaker 1: which seemed to placate my dad. They like, as long 322 00:17:01,440 --> 00:17:06,600 Speaker 1: as we can get mom to chill out. Okay, do 323 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 1: you have any more of those chill out beans for 324 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:14,400 Speaker 1: my mom? My mom needs some chill chill out beans. 325 00:17:14,560 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 2: She needs some chillaxes. Quiet beans. 326 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:20,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, my quiet beans. 327 00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:25,360 Speaker 2: Okay. I wheeled my mom out to my car. 328 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:29,120 Speaker 1: She was she was high as a kite and going 329 00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:30,919 Speaker 1: on and on about how she couldn't believe that I 330 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:35,360 Speaker 1: had poisoned her. You ate this stuff, Ma, Come. 331 00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:39,840 Speaker 2: On, it's unwit. She's just she's just nasty. 332 00:17:40,640 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 1: Uh. 333 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:43,840 Speaker 2: And if I wasn't her daughter, I'd be going to prison. 334 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:44,640 Speaker 2: Uh huh. 335 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:48,280 Speaker 1: I just apologized it didn't offer any excuses. When I 336 00:17:48,320 --> 00:17:50,639 Speaker 1: got them to their hotel and my mom was waiting 337 00:17:50,720 --> 00:17:52,960 Speaker 1: on a couch in the lobby while my dad grabbed 338 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:55,320 Speaker 1: their bag for my car, I told my dad that 339 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:57,680 Speaker 1: that it was probably better if they just go home. 340 00:17:58,080 --> 00:18:01,159 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I got a little emotion. He agreed, 341 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 1: And what I agree is that you can join us 342 00:18:04,880 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 1: live every weekday at three pm on YouTube. 343 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:09,840 Speaker 2: Just tap our profile. 344 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:16,280 Speaker 1: Stay hard, then stay hard David Goggins. So, yeah, based 345 00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:18,560 Speaker 1: on the lab work and the way that the ED 346 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:22,240 Speaker 1: staff were acting, and that's emergency Department for all of you, 347 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:26,440 Speaker 1: uh in the stream, I'm convinced my mom was faking 348 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:29,560 Speaker 1: for sympathy and attention. Not that it matters because my 349 00:18:29,640 --> 00:18:32,120 Speaker 1: dad will always support her no matter what. I'm never 350 00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:35,399 Speaker 1: having them over again, and that is the end of 351 00:18:35,480 --> 00:18:40,440 Speaker 1: that story. Yeah, I think, you know, honestly, it might 352 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:43,440 Speaker 1: not even get because Opie said that their mom has 353 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:49,160 Speaker 1: just been on these sort of diet trains like their 354 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:51,840 Speaker 1: whole life, right, So it might not even be that 355 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:54,359 Speaker 1: she's trying to do it for like sympathy and attention, 356 00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:57,280 Speaker 1: Like she might really be gaslighting herself so hard that 357 00:18:57,720 --> 00:18:58,640 Speaker 1: she believes that this. 358 00:18:58,680 --> 00:18:59,920 Speaker 2: Is hantom phantom. 359 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:02,600 Speaker 1: Yes, it's the phantom limb with the pseudo whatever like 360 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:05,719 Speaker 1: pseudo allergy, because it wasn't until she learned that it 361 00:19:05,800 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 1: was gluten that now she needs to go to the 362 00:19:07,840 --> 00:19:11,159 Speaker 1: emergency room, which is like, that's that sounds like textbook 363 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:15,160 Speaker 1: like pseudo, like she's kind of it's in her head. 364 00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:17,560 Speaker 2: Gas let herself into it. Which listen, and you got 365 00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:21,120 Speaker 2: to be a Hall of Famer gaslighter to gaslight your 366 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:22,919 Speaker 2: own body into having a disease. 367 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:27,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's those are strate very strong, sturdy neural pathways 368 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 1: that but she needs Yeah, and then I saw a 369 00:19:31,760 --> 00:19:34,919 Speaker 1: comment that, yeah, she does need help, Like you know, 370 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:38,159 Speaker 1: usually you know that that can be an expression of 371 00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:40,560 Speaker 1: like underlying you know, I don't know. I've had gemming 372 00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:43,439 Speaker 1: numbers with OCD, and it's like, you know, that can 373 00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 1: manifest itself in a lot of different ways. And it's 374 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:51,119 Speaker 1: like clearly, you know, telling your daughter that like she 375 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:53,480 Speaker 1: poisoned you, and if she wasn't your daughter, like she'd 376 00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:56,640 Speaker 1: be going to prison for something that you literally did. 377 00:19:56,720 --> 00:19:58,600 Speaker 2: Alone in a house by yourself. 378 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:01,120 Speaker 1: They were on the the other side of town getting 379 00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:04,360 Speaker 1: your vegan dinner and you ate this all by yourself, 380 00:20:04,480 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 1: like bring him wild. 381 00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 2: You bring up a good point, which I changed my 382 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:11,320 Speaker 2: previous statement to. It's like okay, whenever the dululu like 383 00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 2: pull back, it's like maybe going to the dad and 384 00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:17,919 Speaker 2: being like, listen, she might have a very serious like 385 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:22,000 Speaker 2: mental health issue, Like can we get this like like 386 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:25,159 Speaker 2: don't be blind to this, because like this is about 387 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:27,080 Speaker 2: helping her, you know, it's not not even about like 388 00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:31,360 Speaker 2: protecting me. Can we like figure this out? 389 00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:33,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, figure out how to get mom back 390 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:36,040 Speaker 1: to zero? Yeah, like like at one hundred at all times, 391 00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:37,160 Speaker 1: we just get her to zero. 392 00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:39,400 Speaker 2: I feel like you could almost like pull back on those, 393 00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:41,719 Speaker 2: like maybe the social interactions where she can't like just 394 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:44,080 Speaker 2: yell at you for poisoning her in the hospital, but 395 00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 2: at the same time try to like figure out how 396 00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:49,440 Speaker 2: can we get her tested for Hey, forget celia ecstasies. 397 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:51,399 Speaker 2: Let's get her tested for something else and see if 398 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:52,760 Speaker 2: we can actually get her an helper, just get her 399 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 2: into some kind of therapy where she can talk. I 400 00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:55,760 Speaker 2: like that. 401 00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:58,160 Speaker 4: I kind of want to try the snack, right That's 402 00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:00,920 Speaker 4: like my takeaway right now that then mom taking. 403 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:06,400 Speaker 1: I don't know latio. 404 00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:08,520 Speaker 2: I kind of want to try it. Sounds fire, sounds 405 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:11,320 Speaker 2: like your great flavor profile. That's all I'm saying. 406 00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:14,920 Speaker 4: Let's read some donuts and I'm gonna pull up the 407 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:15,400 Speaker 4: next story. 408 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:23,320 Speaker 1: Yes, hers Dona chons. We have a five dollars donation 409 00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 1: from Emily. Thank you for the five dollars. To be fair, 410 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:26,600 Speaker 1: my mom. 411 00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:29,960 Speaker 2: Has celiac and doctors literally told her she was lying 412 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:33,080 Speaker 2: for years. WHOA, Okay, that's crazy. 413 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:38,680 Speaker 1: So sometimes celiac can be tricky, tricky, tricky m Another 414 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:41,840 Speaker 1: five bucks from Emily, Thank you. Vital wheat gluten is 415 00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:44,719 Speaker 1: even worse. To be honest, it would affect her so 416 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:48,639 Speaker 1: much faster. Yeah, okay, so we've got in the same 417 00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:51,640 Speaker 1: from the same commentary. Sometimes it's hard to diagnose celiac, 418 00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:55,200 Speaker 1: but also if she did have coeliac, that definitely would 419 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:57,440 Speaker 1: have affected her instantaneously. 420 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:01,879 Speaker 2: MJ Grow Thank you for the five dollars. 421 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:08,000 Speaker 1: Master Kekey makes the chat go he he, kiki. 422 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:13,160 Speaker 3: Lo ki ki make me he he are you riding? 423 00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:16,959 Speaker 2: I'm in chat? Do you see me? I'm crying for 424 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,520 Speaker 2: your love? Does I want you and I need you? 425 00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:21,159 Speaker 4: Go? 426 00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:24,280 Speaker 2: He he love that What a remix? 427 00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:25,520 Speaker 3: Uh. 428 00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:29,200 Speaker 1: Lisa the Lady of Rage, thank you for the twenty 429 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:34,960 Speaker 1: five dollars. I got my friend Sabra or Sabra us. 430 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:37,119 Speaker 1: I got my friend Sabra hooked on the show. 431 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:37,879 Speaker 2: Hello. 432 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:43,240 Speaker 1: Thank you Sabra and thank you Lisa for bringing Sabra 433 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:47,760 Speaker 1: into the fold. Yeah, okay, and I think that's it 434 00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:51,120 Speaker 1: for the link tip link, you tip link, tippy link. 435 00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:54,560 Speaker 2: Where do we have any of the super chats. 436 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:59,119 Speaker 1: Super Chat super Chat super super Chat super Chat from 437 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:01,800 Speaker 1: Wingle member for six months. 438 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:05,360 Speaker 2: I'm an axe today, yea big one. 439 00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:11,360 Speaker 1: The Acts of the Barbarian Rah yay, Hello Daddy ki Ki. 440 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:14,760 Speaker 1: I still worship the Pigeon Lord, but you are now 441 00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:15,360 Speaker 1: number two. 442 00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:16,280 Speaker 2: Oh good. 443 00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:19,040 Speaker 1: Well we can't all have cheekbones like the Pigeon Lord, 444 00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:21,760 Speaker 1: but you know, Kean makes up for it with that 445 00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:23,959 Speaker 1: cake that he drags around everywhere. 446 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:25,560 Speaker 4: You know what, I'm not gonna lie, guys. I really 447 00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:28,960 Speaker 4: love the compliments and the chat he does. 448 00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:32,720 Speaker 1: He does through the moon. Yeah, don't let him fool you. 449 00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:37,400 Speaker 1: He really does. And Amy, thank you for the two dollars. 450 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 1: Keon showed that booty for d chess for Donos. That's right, 451 00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:46,520 Speaker 1: that's true. Amy, I did take your advice. Yeah, that's 452 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:49,320 Speaker 1: the first time I've ever seen that like that. I 453 00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:52,480 Speaker 1: love that that that is it's not even wrong. 454 00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:56,520 Speaker 2: Q u e o n Keon. I like it. 455 00:23:57,119 --> 00:24:01,600 Speaker 1: And Josephine with the twenty seven Swedish kroner zay take 456 00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:06,000 Speaker 1: it off or I can take it off. Twenty one 457 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 1: likes cheeky little parentheses. 458 00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:14,879 Speaker 2: There Josephine, and I believe that is all for the donos. 459 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:16,240 Speaker 2: Now there we go. 460 00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:18,960 Speaker 1: Danielle paper Crane does say in all caps, did you 461 00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:20,480 Speaker 1: see my compliment about your hair? 462 00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:21,320 Speaker 2: Keyon? I did not. 463 00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:22,920 Speaker 1: What did you say? Did you say something great about 464 00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:23,200 Speaker 1: my hair? 465 00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:24,440 Speaker 2: Yeah? You gotta say it again? 466 00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:25,920 Speaker 4: Now I guess you got to see it again. Uh oh, 467 00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:32,119 Speaker 4: dear dri Stathan, glorious, Thank you so much, glorious. 468 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:32,720 Speaker 2: I gotten. 469 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:36,800 Speaker 1: This is what keeps me alive. Feed me compliments, feed me, 470 00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:37,199 Speaker 1: feed me. 471 00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 2: It's a six sick and gorgeous is his cakes. 472 00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:42,520 Speaker 1: Some say, yep, it's going straight to my thighs, thick 473 00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:46,720 Speaker 1: luscious hair and thick luscious cheeks. Don't worry, guys. The 474 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:48,440 Speaker 1: mustache is going this week though. 475 00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:51,199 Speaker 2: No, no mustache. We'll see. 476 00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:55,640 Speaker 4: It's for a Halloween costume. Respect, respect, gotta commit it'll 477 00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:56,160 Speaker 4: grow back. 478 00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:58,679 Speaker 2: I respect. Yeah, you're right, I'm sad to see it go. 479 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:03,600 Speaker 2: You've I really do rock the mustache. Thank you. Yeah, 480 00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:04,280 Speaker 2: he does a good job. 481 00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:08,600 Speaker 1: I used to give you you rock my world. He Wow, 482 00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:12,760 Speaker 1: I'll put in my pocket. Oh, right next to his cheeks. 483 00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:14,560 Speaker 1: All right, boys and girls, are you ready for this 484 00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:15,880 Speaker 1: next story? 485 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:19,880 Speaker 2: Skiddy, let's get these here we go. You ready, Yeah, 486 00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:22,600 Speaker 2: I'm ready. You're ready, Let's do it. My mom was 487 00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:24,600 Speaker 2: upset that I was running late for work, so she 488 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:29,120 Speaker 2: made me even later by stealing my brace. All classic, mom, 489 00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:32,760 Speaker 2: move right there, fevery gotta love it. I am sometimes 490 00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:36,040 Speaker 2: running late, leaving at six am instead of five forty 491 00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,880 Speaker 2: five am, which gives me time for coffee. I used 492 00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:41,359 Speaker 2: to work a start time of eight am, but recently, 493 00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:44,439 Speaker 2: due to staffing issues, I start work at six thirty am, 494 00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:47,440 Speaker 2: right in early. Yeah, nice and early ooh. I've also 495 00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:50,280 Speaker 2: been sleeping poorly because of my injured wrist keeping me up. 496 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:53,399 Speaker 2: It's a very bad sprain that hasn't healed yet. I 497 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:55,840 Speaker 2: go for imaging this coming Monday to see if I 498 00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:59,000 Speaker 2: tore anything. By the way, this comes from missing brace 499 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:02,199 Speaker 2: from our slash. Okay, time suppered it very apt. So 500 00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:04,480 Speaker 2: over the last couple of days, I've been out the 501 00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:08,160 Speaker 2: door late by my standards. Uh, and then twice I've 502 00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:10,600 Speaker 2: needed to run back to the apartment for something like 503 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:13,520 Speaker 2: a snack or my coffee. But I've never been late 504 00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:18,440 Speaker 2: to work because I buffer for traffic. Hey, Opie thinks ahead, 505 00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:22,399 Speaker 2: piece two steps ahead, lock in three steps. Even this morning, 506 00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:24,679 Speaker 2: I tried finding my brace, but it wasn't where I 507 00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:27,040 Speaker 2: left it. I'm very curious what this brace is for. 508 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,439 Speaker 2: I halfway looked for it while I got ready, and 509 00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:32,920 Speaker 2: then spent half an hour solely just searching for it, 510 00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:35,800 Speaker 2: only to finally have to give up because I needed 511 00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:39,160 Speaker 2: to leave as it was six o'clock. I asked Dad 512 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:41,600 Speaker 2: while I was looking, and he says, how should I 513 00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:44,760 Speaker 2: know where you put your brace? It's not, Dad, it's 514 00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:47,320 Speaker 2: not my brace. Son, where's your brace? 515 00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:52,240 Speaker 1: I think it's a back brace oh from carrying the 516 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:57,280 Speaker 1: team true coming into wearing this uh oh? And I 517 00:26:57,400 --> 00:26:59,960 Speaker 1: said I know, but it's not where I put it. 518 00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:02,399 Speaker 1: He rolled his eyes at me and joked about it 519 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:07,040 Speaker 1: growing legs, Dad jokes. Later, when I got to work, 520 00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:09,240 Speaker 1: I texted my mom and she said, if you had 521 00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:11,919 Speaker 1: gotten up earlier, you would have had time to find 522 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:15,560 Speaker 1: your brace. Not helpful, his parents suck. 523 00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:19,080 Speaker 2: I explained again that it hadn't been where I put 524 00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:21,879 Speaker 2: it on the kitchen table, as we don't use it 525 00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:25,000 Speaker 2: as a dining table, and she said that people move 526 00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:27,239 Speaker 2: things on the table all the time. I should be 527 00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:30,480 Speaker 2: more conscientious of my time so I can look elsewhere. 528 00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:34,920 Speaker 2: I asked, point blank, did you move it her? 529 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:35,840 Speaker 1: Uh? 530 00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:37,480 Speaker 2: You left it in the way. I put it on 531 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:38,280 Speaker 2: my bathroom sink. 532 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:43,200 Speaker 1: Yo, you waited this long. 533 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:48,439 Speaker 2: Just leave a note, do something. Just put it in 534 00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:48,880 Speaker 2: his room. 535 00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:51,919 Speaker 1: And it's not like it's something by the door. It's 536 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:56,159 Speaker 1: in your bathroom. You put it on your bathroom sync. 537 00:27:56,320 --> 00:28:02,119 Speaker 2: Dude. Oh, also a brain, brain says brace for impact 538 00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:03,639 Speaker 2: of this datute. 539 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:07,720 Speaker 1: I like that they're saying it's a wrist brace. Maybe. 540 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:12,360 Speaker 2: Oh that makes sense. Yes, there we go. That does 541 00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:14,520 Speaker 2: make sense. I wish that was explained. My stupid head 542 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 2: couldn't think her. Uh, in my house, I can move 543 00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:21,800 Speaker 2: whatever I want. I asked why she did it and 544 00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,400 Speaker 2: if she knows how much it hurts, and she still 545 00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:27,960 Speaker 2: hasn't answered. Dude, you're hiding the brace your son used 546 00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:30,359 Speaker 2: as far as hurting sprained wrist. 547 00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:34,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe they're just like, uh, they just believe in 548 00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:36,240 Speaker 1: holistic medicine and they think that this. 549 00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:37,879 Speaker 2: Brace is like you're being weak. 550 00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:40,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, right, I will not have a son with weak 551 00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:43,840 Speaker 1: wrists in this house weak. 552 00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:47,760 Speaker 2: Rists, I'm pissed, I'm in pain. I had to drive 553 00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:51,240 Speaker 2: in carefully with my wrist still too tender to move. 554 00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:53,640 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I can't even move two of my 555 00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:56,560 Speaker 2: fingers and typing is going to be brutal all day. 556 00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,560 Speaker 2: I did use an ace bandage, but it is an 557 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:02,800 Speaker 2: ideal as it doesn't provide the support I need all 558 00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:06,000 Speaker 2: because my mom wanted to make an effing scene about 559 00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:09,520 Speaker 2: my ability to get out the door in time. There's 560 00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:12,560 Speaker 2: no way it was in her way, because if so, 561 00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:16,400 Speaker 2: she should have moved stuff. She should have moved other 562 00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:19,400 Speaker 2: stuff on the table. We do have an update. There 563 00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:20,960 Speaker 2: is a lot more to the story. 564 00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:23,640 Speaker 1: Dude. 565 00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 2: That's gotta suck. When your own mom is your op. 566 00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:31,120 Speaker 2: My mom is my op. Gotta get her off my block. 567 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:34,520 Speaker 3: She literally was. 568 00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:38,320 Speaker 1: She tactically hid this wrisk brace and then was like 569 00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:40,480 Speaker 1: just wait. You know, she's just waiting by the phone 570 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:41,400 Speaker 1: for that text to come in. 571 00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:43,200 Speaker 2: She's like, well, if you had woken up a. 572 00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:46,200 Speaker 1: Little earlier, maybe so many would have had time to look. 573 00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:47,960 Speaker 2: For their risk bras that I hid from you in 574 00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:50,760 Speaker 2: my bedroom. But what do we what do we do? 575 00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:54,600 Speaker 2: Like europ your own mother's is hiding your wrisk brace 576 00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:56,240 Speaker 2: making you in pain. You're trying to get to work. 577 00:29:57,440 --> 00:29:58,960 Speaker 2: What do we do? It's time for revenge. 578 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:04,560 Speaker 1: It's time to hide things that your mother owns. 579 00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:05,680 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 580 00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:08,240 Speaker 1: Oh guys, sorry about let me use you as a 581 00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:16,280 Speaker 1: mirror guy. Yeah, proceeds to John approves, what proceeds to 582 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:19,800 Speaker 1: the entire chat. Yes, it's time to hide everything in 583 00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:21,120 Speaker 1: your mom's bathroom. 584 00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:23,960 Speaker 2: That's true. And then, honestly, I could give her a 585 00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:25,880 Speaker 2: little taste of her own medicine. I do that, and 586 00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:28,360 Speaker 2: then hopefully this job will allow you to save up 587 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:30,200 Speaker 2: and move out as soon as possible. This, dude, this 588 00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:32,800 Speaker 2: sounds terrible. Yeah, dad sucks. 589 00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:34,600 Speaker 1: Mom keep all your stuff in your room from now 590 00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 1: on too, good point, so they can't, I don't know, 591 00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:41,680 Speaker 1: abscond with it in the night. 592 00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:46,920 Speaker 2: Guess it just grew legs again. Yeah, I moved it legs. 593 00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:53,720 Speaker 1: Those are my mom's legs. Those are your wife's. Oh man, 594 00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:56,760 Speaker 1: But guys, we have an update. Let's get into it. 595 00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:59,960 Speaker 1: So I meant to do this that this. 596 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,440 Speaker 2: Same night, but fell asleep earlier than I expected, and 597 00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:04,520 Speaker 2: I was at work all day yesterday. I didn't have 598 00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:08,240 Speaker 2: the chance to really put the effort into this post. Oops. 599 00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:10,360 Speaker 2: Then I tried posting it last night and read it 600 00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:14,800 Speaker 2: gleshout at me. Well, Thursday, I texted Dad's screenshots proof 601 00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:17,560 Speaker 2: of my talk with Mom, where she admitted to moving 602 00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:20,360 Speaker 2: my brace. He didn't respond for a while, except to 603 00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:25,440 Speaker 2: say we'll talk at home. Uh, oh, come to my 604 00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:28,959 Speaker 2: office after a few hours, and uh, you're not in 605 00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:33,280 Speaker 2: trouble to reassure me. My lovely work schedule meant that 606 00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:36,120 Speaker 2: by the time I got home it was around nine pm. 607 00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:38,200 Speaker 2: Bro is doing it? 608 00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:38,480 Speaker 3: Dude? 609 00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:41,640 Speaker 1: You work this hard and there your mom's pulling tricks 610 00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:45,240 Speaker 1: on you at five in the morning. You sprained risks 611 00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:49,400 Speaker 1: for your injury. Come on, it's not like these are 612 00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:53,120 Speaker 1: air pods. Like it's like my wrist brace that I 613 00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:55,800 Speaker 1: need to not be in pain all day. 614 00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:59,320 Speaker 2: But now gone, weak wrists? Do we want our sign 615 00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:03,480 Speaker 2: up a week christ, that's the question. Yeah. By then, 616 00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:06,680 Speaker 2: Mom and Dad had apparently already talked a lot. Dad 617 00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:09,560 Speaker 2: immediately apologized to me and gave my brace back and 618 00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:13,680 Speaker 2: asked if I needed ice Ortamo, okay. He apologized for 619 00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:16,040 Speaker 2: what Mom did, but also for how dismissed if he 620 00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:18,560 Speaker 2: was of me that morning, even if I had lost 621 00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:20,640 Speaker 2: it due to my own actions. It didn't help me. 622 00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:22,840 Speaker 2: It didn't help me the way that he acted, and 623 00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:28,480 Speaker 2: it was mean and disrespectful. Well except or not. 624 00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:31,280 Speaker 1: It's hard to be It's hard to be disrespectful when 625 00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:32,720 Speaker 1: you're cracking dad jokes. You know. 626 00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:35,400 Speaker 2: It's maybe he was just a sad joke. Maybe he 627 00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:37,959 Speaker 2: was Maybe we misread it as he was just so 628 00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:40,280 Speaker 2: much in dad joke mode. It came out as him 629 00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:43,040 Speaker 2: just like totally dismissive. He's like did a walk legs 630 00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:44,480 Speaker 2: girl legs and walk away? 631 00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:46,960 Speaker 1: Well, and it's like, you know, I think Opie said 632 00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:49,720 Speaker 1: that they kind of like do this not all the time, 633 00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:51,960 Speaker 1: but then it's like they'll like forget their coffee or 634 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,480 Speaker 1: they'll like, you know, miss And it's like, I'm not 635 00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:57,280 Speaker 1: as any I wouldn't speak down upon that because I 636 00:32:57,400 --> 00:32:58,440 Speaker 1: do that all the time. 637 00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:02,840 Speaker 2: Like it just reads like the dad was like what 638 00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:03,520 Speaker 2: poll do we want? 639 00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 1: Uh forgive or not? Gotcha forgive or not forgive? The 640 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:13,360 Speaker 1: father for his forgiven attitude. It was a good apology, Yeah, 641 00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:15,680 Speaker 1: I mean I think so. Like so the person who 642 00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:17,840 Speaker 1: really needs to apologize here is not the dad, it's 643 00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:21,720 Speaker 1: the mom. Yeah, for well, literally putting health and well 644 00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:22,520 Speaker 1: being in jeopardy. 645 00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:27,840 Speaker 2: Mom apologized okay, but it didn't feel like she meant 646 00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:30,560 Speaker 2: it at all, and I felt like she was holding 647 00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:33,200 Speaker 2: back a lecture. I haven't really talked to her, and 648 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:35,600 Speaker 2: she sure as crap hasn't spoken to me since then, 649 00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:38,480 Speaker 2: so things are really tense, to say the least. Dad 650 00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:40,920 Speaker 2: has also pissed at her. He's even been sleeping on 651 00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:45,920 Speaker 2: the couch and he hates doing that. He's back. I 652 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:48,200 Speaker 2: made him a heating pack yesterday morning before I left 653 00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:50,800 Speaker 2: for work for his hip because the couch always hurts him. 654 00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:54,200 Speaker 2: I was wrong, and I retract my statement. Uh so, yeah, 655 00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:57,000 Speaker 2: that's it. I'm looking for a place. My friend and 656 00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:59,280 Speaker 2: her fiance have offered me a couch to crash on 657 00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:01,920 Speaker 2: if I need get out immediately, which was nice of them. 658 00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:05,600 Speaker 2: They're basically my emergency out. I'd only be staying a 659 00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:09,399 Speaker 2: few days. I make sure. I'll make sure of that. 660 00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:11,920 Speaker 2: I'll make sure of that much. I can't talk to 661 00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:14,480 Speaker 2: the leasing office. I couldn't talk to the leasing office yesterday, 662 00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:17,400 Speaker 2: but trying again later today if they're in and Monday 663 00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:23,080 Speaker 2: if not, after breaking the lease. Since about breaking the lease, 664 00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:29,000 Speaker 2: since I'm on it too, oh, he's leasing it with 665 00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:30,919 Speaker 2: his parents. 666 00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:32,480 Speaker 5: I believe. 667 00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:36,240 Speaker 2: Talking to lease off. So about breaking the lease since 668 00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:39,520 Speaker 2: I am on it too interesting, So maybe it's like 669 00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:41,239 Speaker 2: the three of them, or like his dad and him 670 00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:44,640 Speaker 2: or something and him, or yes of us. 671 00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:48,600 Speaker 3: We can render it if we tried just the three of. 672 00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:53,040 Speaker 2: Us break the lease and you and your dad. Ooh. 673 00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:55,279 Speaker 2: And I told my boss the truth about why I 674 00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:57,840 Speaker 2: didn't have my brace, and he was furious on my behalf, 675 00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:00,919 Speaker 2: which was affirming. He even let me have Monday off 676 00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:03,640 Speaker 2: for my appointment. That's nice, even though I didn't put 677 00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:06,480 Speaker 2: in the time off and I need to give notice normally, 678 00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:09,360 Speaker 2: and he let me leave earlier than expected. He is 679 00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:11,719 Speaker 2: a dad himself, and he said that he would never 680 00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:14,040 Speaker 2: do this to his own kids, so he didn't understand 681 00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:16,600 Speaker 2: my mom at all. He asked if I felt safe, 682 00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:19,640 Speaker 2: and I said yes, but I honestly never thought about it. 683 00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:21,839 Speaker 2: And the more I think about how things are here, 684 00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:25,080 Speaker 2: I don't know if I was entirely honest in the 685 00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:27,560 Speaker 2: momentm W boss too. 686 00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:32,600 Speaker 1: Upon further reflection, I am now uncertain of my safety. 687 00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:35,440 Speaker 2: I don't trust my mom anymore, and I feel my 688 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:38,840 Speaker 2: skin crawling to be in the same room as her. Basically, 689 00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:41,160 Speaker 2: I'm at limbo waiting to talk to the office about 690 00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:43,840 Speaker 2: my lease, but there's a couple of apartments on my radar. 691 00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:46,440 Speaker 2: As a given, I've been going over my budget and 692 00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:50,439 Speaker 2: spending two My room is practically packed up with all 693 00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:54,600 Speaker 2: my crap in my room piles easily tossed into boxes, 694 00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:57,000 Speaker 2: and I'm gonna get a bunch of boxes from a 695 00:35:57,040 --> 00:36:00,200 Speaker 2: storage store to put in my car today too, the 696 00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:02,080 Speaker 2: kind that you just need to build them up and 697 00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:04,840 Speaker 2: fill them and then go. I have my documents and 698 00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:07,600 Speaker 2: I have for a while in a safe place. Well, 699 00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:10,440 Speaker 2: not all my stuff is technically in my room. I'm 700 00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:14,280 Speaker 2: debating taking with me the appliances and furniture I bought 701 00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:17,400 Speaker 2: for all of us, like the coffee machine or microwave, 702 00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:20,719 Speaker 2: or ottoman for the love seat, quick to code to take, 703 00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:24,680 Speaker 2: big d take Yeah, do we take it? Do you 704 00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:28,520 Speaker 2: take the shared stuff that you've paid for for your parents? 705 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:32,960 Speaker 1: I think it just depends on like how I mean, 706 00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:36,040 Speaker 1: how much did you spend and also how much of 707 00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:37,920 Speaker 1: a headache is it going to be trying to like 708 00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:42,839 Speaker 1: facilitate it with like the mom like honestly, if it's 709 00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:44,640 Speaker 1: gonna be any more of a headache or it's going 710 00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:46,080 Speaker 1: to be like a point of contention. 711 00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:50,439 Speaker 2: Just just leave it. Like Facebook Marketplace, Yeah, get all stuff. 712 00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:54,160 Speaker 1: You can get everything that you need for like home 713 00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:57,000 Speaker 1: furnishing for almost free, guaranteed. 714 00:36:57,160 --> 00:36:57,640 Speaker 2: Correct. 715 00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:00,919 Speaker 1: Like the street and Facebook market Place, you can find 716 00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:03,200 Speaker 1: everything that you need in life. And as long as 717 00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:06,759 Speaker 1: you can wash it, it's fine. But just do a 718 00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:09,760 Speaker 1: smell test. That's if you're gonna take anything off the street, 719 00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:11,960 Speaker 1: you gotta give it a smell test. 720 00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:14,319 Speaker 4: Beca'se a test you need to give everything is just 721 00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:16,799 Speaker 4: a smell test. Well, it's the most important thing for 722 00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:17,680 Speaker 4: things on the street. 723 00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:20,239 Speaker 1: I want it because you can see a chair right 724 00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:22,719 Speaker 1: in that chair might look real nice, smells like cheez, 725 00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:25,280 Speaker 1: But when you smell the chair, it might not smell 726 00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:26,000 Speaker 1: very nice. 727 00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:28,040 Speaker 2: And now you know why it's on the street. 728 00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:30,960 Speaker 1: Right, But then you clean it up and it smells nice, 729 00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:31,520 Speaker 1: then you want it. 730 00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:38,560 Speaker 2: Sometimes for men, I'm in the apartment, guy table, I'll 731 00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:40,960 Speaker 2: take from the street, but all I go in the 732 00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:43,800 Speaker 2: apartment for anything like ca but you can get you 733 00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:46,920 Speaker 2: can get everything you need, yeah, almost for free, pretty 734 00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:50,000 Speaker 2: much like it's insane. Yeah, so yeah, I think, yeah, 735 00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:52,640 Speaker 2: that might be less work and emotional baggage one hundred. 736 00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:56,359 Speaker 2: I know this is an update, but let me know 737 00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:58,520 Speaker 2: if i'd be if it would be a weaner move 738 00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:01,080 Speaker 2: to take the coffee machine and microwave an ottoman if 739 00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:03,040 Speaker 2: you feel like it. I don't really intend on it 740 00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:05,840 Speaker 2: in all honesty, but I'm pissed enough that it sounds 741 00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:07,600 Speaker 2: like a lot of fun right now. 742 00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:12,640 Speaker 1: I mean, listen, if it's a fun little time, If 743 00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:15,640 Speaker 1: it's gonna make you go, then maybe do it. 744 00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:19,200 Speaker 2: If it makes a he he like he he, then 745 00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:23,280 Speaker 2: do it and we have another update ladies and gentlemen. 746 00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:26,360 Speaker 2: So not gonna do a full effing post, but yeah, 747 00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:29,240 Speaker 2: we finally had the talk. I need insight. I genuinely 748 00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:31,840 Speaker 2: need insight. I feel like I've been made to feel 749 00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:35,120 Speaker 2: insane for thinking I could have expected things I put 750 00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:38,960 Speaker 2: in a communal area not to be touched. Uh. Dad's 751 00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,600 Speaker 2: tried a few times to reassure me, but I'm just 752 00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:44,480 Speaker 2: not getting it or it's not sinking in. He's always 753 00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:48,360 Speaker 2: been the softer disciplinarian. What Dad isn't Uh he's so 754 00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:52,240 Speaker 2: he was so indulgent of me always. Maybe I'm selfish 755 00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:54,680 Speaker 2: and not carrying my weight and maybe Dad is hindering 756 00:38:54,719 --> 00:39:02,520 Speaker 2: me by being so patient. I'm also something at the 757 00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:07,560 Speaker 2: moment typing one handed, um hurting. I'm also rhymes with crunk. 758 00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:12,799 Speaker 2: Maybe I've also, yeah, thank you, wasted at the moment. 759 00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:14,399 Speaker 2: We should have the people that do that. I've also 760 00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:16,760 Speaker 2: wasted at the moment typing one handed on my phone. 761 00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:18,920 Speaker 2: So sorry for typos. 762 00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:19,960 Speaker 5: Now. 763 00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:23,080 Speaker 2: The conversation started out with my mom laying into me 764 00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:27,160 Speaker 2: for not doing enough to be unintrusive. Sorry, I couldn't 765 00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:29,480 Speaker 2: hide my entire existence from you. 766 00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:30,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, be. 767 00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:35,279 Speaker 2: Ma bee about that? My bee be? She said, when 768 00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:38,279 Speaker 2: I cook it reeks because I use curry powder or 769 00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:42,359 Speaker 2: turmeric or cuman racism. Uh. My food is disgusting to her. 770 00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:46,200 Speaker 2: Tofu in tempe Uh. And I don't keep my leftovers 771 00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:49,880 Speaker 2: in my drawer in the fridge like I like the 772 00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:53,600 Speaker 2: actual initial product. So she has to deal with tupperware 773 00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:56,120 Speaker 2: full of gelatinous tofu in her face when she opens 774 00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:59,720 Speaker 2: the door. I've been accosted by the gel ctereal. 775 00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:03,960 Speaker 1: This gelatinous tofu is assaulting my senses. 776 00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:09,760 Speaker 2: It's too much now, She likened it to congealed semen, 777 00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:13,239 Speaker 2: before Dad intervened and said she was going too far. 778 00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:15,960 Speaker 2: Where do you get off, mom? 779 00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:18,960 Speaker 1: I'm getting off at congealed semen, That's where I get 780 00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:20,279 Speaker 1: off right there? 781 00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:21,160 Speaker 2: Oh bull. 782 00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:25,040 Speaker 1: Test, smell test? Did I take it into the house 783 00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:25,319 Speaker 1: or not? 784 00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:26,160 Speaker 2: How congealed? 785 00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:26,320 Speaker 1: Is it? 786 00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:31,000 Speaker 2: Really? My almond meal keeps finding its way in front 787 00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:34,640 Speaker 2: of her half and half creamer. When I vacuum, I 788 00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:38,000 Speaker 2: don't always move the couch and therefore I don't vacuum 789 00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:41,360 Speaker 2: as part of the household chores. Like almost the entire 790 00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:45,440 Speaker 2: time of her listing crap I do to deserve Thursday, 791 00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,719 Speaker 2: Dad kept saying that she was going too far. She'd 792 00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:51,920 Speaker 2: backtrack a little, but say it was still disrespectful of 793 00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:55,799 Speaker 2: the household for me to act that way. I don't know, dude, 794 00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:57,040 Speaker 2: this is like, no, hope. 795 00:40:57,200 --> 00:41:00,480 Speaker 1: Maybe if OP was like a ten year old child 796 00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:02,200 Speaker 1: and you were trying to teach them a lesson about 797 00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:05,799 Speaker 1: communal space, it's like, sure, maybe, but like you are 798 00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:10,319 Speaker 1: at you can't defend yourself right now, like you you 799 00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:15,840 Speaker 1: took a medical brace, dude, Like that's that's you're wrong 800 00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:16,279 Speaker 1: for that. 801 00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:18,560 Speaker 2: And even if it's a ten year old child, like 802 00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:24,680 Speaker 2: I feel like by communicating this way, you're you're passing 803 00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:27,920 Speaker 2: down so many like like this this would cause them 804 00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,280 Speaker 2: to like talk to their partner. Yeah no, and stuff 805 00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:30,440 Speaker 2: like that. 806 00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:32,279 Speaker 1: I feel like it's be clear, it's like this is 807 00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:34,239 Speaker 1: not how you should talk to within year old child. 808 00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:36,960 Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, like the way that they're like. 809 00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:39,120 Speaker 2: It's like it's like it's like she is talking to 810 00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:39,840 Speaker 2: a ten years. 811 00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:41,680 Speaker 1: Right, and it's like, no, this is this guy's on 812 00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:42,320 Speaker 1: the lease. 813 00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:47,839 Speaker 2: Dude, exactly like on the chair. I bought, Yeah, what 814 00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:48,480 Speaker 2: are we doing that? 815 00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:50,920 Speaker 1: We? I mean we did you see the comment to 816 00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:53,520 Speaker 1: go to Nope? Oh, I don't know what you're talking about. 817 00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:56,839 Speaker 2: Is OPI making Korean style fetaccini alfredo? 818 00:41:57,360 --> 00:42:05,919 Speaker 1: I said, they must be, Yeah, they must be. We're 819 00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:09,120 Speaker 1: reading on a Samsung right now. We are, so shout 820 00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:14,000 Speaker 1: out South Korea for being the best. Let's go shout out. 821 00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:18,120 Speaker 2: Back to the story, So mom said I never fulfilled 822 00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:20,560 Speaker 2: my promise to go back to school. I pointed out, 823 00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:23,279 Speaker 2: I'm working on it. I'm going to community college a 824 00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:25,640 Speaker 2: few courses a semester at a time, but took a 825 00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:28,000 Speaker 2: break because work got crazy on me. And she said 826 00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:31,480 Speaker 2: that my rent will have to increase because I'm not 827 00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:35,560 Speaker 2: prioritizing it anymore. The audacity of Opie working from six 828 00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:39,680 Speaker 2: am to nine thirty pm, still signing up for college classes, 829 00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:44,319 Speaker 2: and the moms still badgering him. Absolutely insane, absolutely say 830 00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:50,040 Speaker 2: that's completely unhinged, Like this guy. How much rent is 831 00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:52,319 Speaker 2: this guy paying with this job? That's the question, Like 832 00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:55,160 Speaker 2: how much is he providing in the household right now? 833 00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:58,520 Speaker 2: Maybe most of it? Maybe all of it. It's it's 834 00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:01,839 Speaker 2: almost as n hinged as tapping her profile to join 835 00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:03,920 Speaker 2: our Lives every weekday at three PMPST. 836 00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:08,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, that would be truly unhean triggered. 837 00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:13,960 Speaker 2: But when I started crying, oh, Opie, she said I 838 00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:16,080 Speaker 2: was being too emotional and told me to go to 839 00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:18,759 Speaker 2: my room to calm down enough to keep talking like 840 00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:21,080 Speaker 2: the adults. I pretended to be. 841 00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:25,520 Speaker 1: Yo that the only one waking up at the butt 842 00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:28,640 Speaker 1: crack of dawn is this guy, and that is the 843 00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:30,640 Speaker 1: most adult thing you can possibly. 844 00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:33,680 Speaker 2: Do, a thousand percent. Yeah, unlike you being the child 845 00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:38,720 Speaker 2: blaming op for things you do. And yeah, oh, actually 846 00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:41,560 Speaker 2: the most childish thing would be to hide somebody's wrist 847 00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:45,000 Speaker 2: brace in your own bathroom and then wait for them 848 00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:47,239 Speaker 2: to be like, where is it so you can go? 849 00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:49,840 Speaker 1: Well, I got somebody should have spend more time looking 850 00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:54,080 Speaker 1: for it if they woke up a little earlier. Error 851 00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:57,480 Speaker 1: big D set it and I stayed behind it, and 852 00:43:57,600 --> 00:44:05,239 Speaker 1: I support it. True, my X, you're so because you're beautiful, Keon, you. 853 00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:08,520 Speaker 2: Look great with an X. But I have never felt 854 00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:11,480 Speaker 2: more belittled, insulted and demeaned. And we have and we 855 00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:13,880 Speaker 2: have had some awful fights. I can only imagine. I 856 00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:18,200 Speaker 2: don't know why it hurts so much this time. If 857 00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:20,759 Speaker 2: I weren't wasted, I drive over to my friends and 858 00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:23,520 Speaker 2: stay the night. I don't want to impose on her though, 859 00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:26,920 Speaker 2: by wrecking her weekend with my BS on top of 860 00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:32,920 Speaker 2: making her pick me up. That's all me hot. Just 861 00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:35,279 Speaker 2: kid out el mom. Yeah, man, it's time to leave. 862 00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:38,839 Speaker 2: It's time to leave the nest. Op he's making the plan, 863 00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:40,799 Speaker 2: do it like just like on top of it. If 864 00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:42,600 Speaker 2: if I can't do it today, I'm doing the first 865 00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:45,000 Speaker 2: thing Monday. I feel like OP. He's literal and OP 866 00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:48,359 Speaker 2: he's doing so much. Just keep working on that and 867 00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:52,040 Speaker 2: try to avoid the mom until you can. Yeah, avoid 868 00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:53,720 Speaker 2: avoid any further conflict. 869 00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:55,799 Speaker 1: You gotta be, I guess, like the bigger person, even 870 00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:58,279 Speaker 1: though you know nobody ever wants to be the bigger person. 871 00:44:58,280 --> 00:44:59,960 Speaker 1: But sometimes you just gotta do it because it makes 872 00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:03,040 Speaker 1: things easier for you in the long run. It's like 873 00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:06,480 Speaker 1: I can only imagine, like imagine taking this furniture that 874 00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:08,520 Speaker 1: was split costs, even if you paid the most. 875 00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:09,640 Speaker 2: It's like, that's just. 876 00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:11,600 Speaker 1: Gonna give your mom ammo to sling at you, like 877 00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:15,160 Speaker 1: later on down the line when things may swing back 878 00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:17,919 Speaker 1: in a more positive direction, and then she's just gonna 879 00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:20,839 Speaker 1: have that, you know, hanging over your head, being like, oh, 880 00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:24,080 Speaker 1: remember when you stole all of our furniture and left 881 00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:27,520 Speaker 1: us with nothing. It'll be like, wow, great, now we're 882 00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:30,759 Speaker 1: doing this. So just don't even give her the opportunity. 883 00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:33,919 Speaker 1: Just get out. It seems like you have the opportunity 884 00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:34,359 Speaker 1: to do it. 885 00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:38,960 Speaker 2: I know, I say commit, so I'm assuming that's the 886 00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:40,040 Speaker 2: end of it. Brains. 887 00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:43,360 Speaker 4: I know you're in the chat. We did read your donation. 888 00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:45,920 Speaker 4: I know maybe you weren't here, but we can read 889 00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:46,279 Speaker 4: it again. 890 00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:49,640 Speaker 2: Let's do it. Let's do it. I'll read it again again. 891 00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:50,760 Speaker 2: You tipped five dollars. 892 00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:54,359 Speaker 4: Can we send some positive vibes for Aubrey Aubrey's five 893 00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:57,520 Speaker 4: year cardiology appointment on October twenty fifth, and send her 894 00:45:57,560 --> 00:45:58,520 Speaker 4: a special shout out. 895 00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:01,719 Speaker 2: She is my big, brave girl, big heart. We've said 896 00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:03,920 Speaker 2: it once, We're gonna say it again. I want the 897 00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:10,480 Speaker 2: chat not just flooded, obliterated, obliterated with hearts, fully obliterated, 898 00:46:10,640 --> 00:46:15,120 Speaker 2: fully abritilated with hearts for sorry Audrey or Aubrey. Aubrey Aubrey, 899 00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:18,080 Speaker 2: filled with hearts for Aubrey. I don't want to see 900 00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:20,399 Speaker 2: anything but hearts, hearts for Aubrey. Aubrey's the big girl 901 00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:23,160 Speaker 2: who's gonna make it happen. Hearts for Aubrey. Now we 902 00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:25,399 Speaker 2: hear it. We're here for hashtag. It's for Aubrey. Now 903 00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:29,200 Speaker 2: do it? Do it some more donus and we. 904 00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:32,960 Speaker 1: Do have a donation from Pearl for five dollars. 905 00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:33,600 Speaker 2: Thank you Pearl. 906 00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:36,600 Speaker 1: I'm excited to catch a live stream with my morning coffee. 907 00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:41,200 Speaker 1: By the way, I love your crochet shirt, John. I 908 00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:43,239 Speaker 1: like your taste, ye boom. 909 00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:43,840 Speaker 2: Great taste. 910 00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:47,680 Speaker 1: Thanks for watching us with your coffee. We all like 911 00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:52,440 Speaker 1: John shirts. They're great, pretty nice, great shirts. Look at 912 00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:54,880 Speaker 1: all those hearts in the chat. See, that's that's what 913 00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:56,959 Speaker 1: I'm talking about. Other than that, that's what I'm talking about. 914 00:46:57,000 --> 00:47:01,000 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, do we have anything in the super chat yeah, 915 00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:08,000 Speaker 1: we do bp uh Amy five dollars, Thank you, Amy Jones. 916 00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:11,759 Speaker 1: John's seasoned curly fry forty Chess Club shall rise as 917 00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:14,719 Speaker 1: big as the Cardio Bunny Club. Everyone will learn to 918 00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:19,680 Speaker 1: avoid becoming a Reddit story with the clubs. I this 919 00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:23,400 Speaker 1: is just it's it's grown beyond my wildest dreams. 920 00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:25,000 Speaker 2: We can know this. 921 00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:31,520 Speaker 1: It's it's growing at a rate it's almost alarming. Brianna 922 00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:34,440 Speaker 1: b thank you for the eight Australian dollars. 923 00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:36,400 Speaker 2: I'm gonna assume that's what that is. 924 00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:39,799 Speaker 1: I think so showing love for John as my favorite 925 00:47:40,040 --> 00:47:41,600 Speaker 1: and I do love all of you. 926 00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:42,560 Speaker 2: John. 927 00:47:42,640 --> 00:47:45,480 Speaker 1: You are such a soft, loving, funny guy and it 928 00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:47,480 Speaker 1: shines through in every stream. 929 00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:51,719 Speaker 2: Thank you. That is such a sweet comment. Thank you. 930 00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:56,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, he touches dying heart and he's a beauty. Hey, 931 00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:58,600 Speaker 1: he's a beautiful man over there. 932 00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:04,759 Speaker 2: What chat. We're not even gonna address Riley's comment that 933 00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:07,439 Speaker 2: he just made the back that he's off. My kid 934 00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:07,799 Speaker 2: can be. 935 00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:11,920 Speaker 1: So bold, man, you're not fooling anybody, big pro. 936 00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:15,120 Speaker 2: That's right. 937 00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:21,400 Speaker 1: God, can somebody please clip the face that John just 938 00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:22,319 Speaker 1: made when he did that? 939 00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:24,840 Speaker 2: Please somebody meme that face? 940 00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:26,200 Speaker 6: Uh? 941 00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:28,080 Speaker 2: And do we have any more in the super. 942 00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:34,120 Speaker 1: H Oh we got twenty more gifted memberships from Chris 943 00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:40,640 Speaker 1: tinfoil hat. Let's go God, Chris cannot be stopped, unstoppable, 944 00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:43,120 Speaker 1: And now we are with three minutes to spare. We 945 00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:46,839 Speaker 1: are now a fifty what fifty seven dollars away from 946 00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:48,760 Speaker 1: another half hour could happen? 947 00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:49,440 Speaker 2: Goodness? 948 00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:54,160 Speaker 1: Gracious, Wow, we're right at the line. And do I 949 00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:59,240 Speaker 1: think do we have what? Oh god, Chris did it again. 950 00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:05,200 Speaker 1: Chris did it with ten more? Oh we are yeah, 951 00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:08,799 Speaker 1: it didn't hit it, which is Riley's over here like 952 00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:12,000 Speaker 1: gleefully exclaiming about how we didn't. 953 00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:15,640 Speaker 7: Yeah, I got We got a new producer, guys, so 954 00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:19,000 Speaker 7: I don't have to worry about being stuck kicking back 955 00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:19,640 Speaker 7: for his feet. 956 00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:27,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, zipping, guys, at least ten hours on his first 957 00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:30,200 Speaker 1: official day as a producer. He needs to make good 958 00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:37,200 Speaker 1: use of that suit. Ten hour suit stream guys, ten hours, 959 00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:39,160 Speaker 1: ten hours chat. 960 00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:42,680 Speaker 2: The more you beg the harder they go. Yeah they will. 961 00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:45,560 Speaker 2: You will never get your freedom. 962 00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:48,719 Speaker 1: Wait, I feel like we had one more more super Chat. 963 00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:51,839 Speaker 1: I feel like we had one more super Chow. 964 00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:54,279 Speaker 2: And there we go. 965 00:49:54,680 --> 00:50:02,880 Speaker 1: Kristen Well had again. Bring I'll receive ten dollars for Brittany. 966 00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:05,400 Speaker 2: I see you Lynn with a high. 967 00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:09,400 Speaker 1: Hello, Hi Brittany, thank you for the ten dollars. 968 00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:12,480 Speaker 2: And and now we've go, here we go. They hear 969 00:50:12,520 --> 00:50:16,760 Speaker 2: it comes here, it comes everybody. They're gonna get another 970 00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:18,160 Speaker 2: full hour right away. 971 00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:23,080 Speaker 1: Uh Mela sixty eight fifteen seven dollars. 972 00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:25,840 Speaker 2: Thank you. I need more from you, and you have 973 00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:27,719 Speaker 2: received it. 974 00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:30,840 Speaker 1: Giants, milk, more milk in the chat with another five 975 00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:32,400 Speaker 1: gifted memberships. 976 00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:33,640 Speaker 2: And what do we have? 977 00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:36,960 Speaker 1: Keep scroll all the way up, up, up up up 978 00:50:37,600 --> 00:50:40,840 Speaker 1: what Mark? And I think that, yeah, that okay, that's it. 979 00:50:40,920 --> 00:50:42,879 Speaker 1: What do you mean that's I was thinking we had 980 00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:46,920 Speaker 1: one more and ten dollars from Mama Ellie. Ten hour 981 00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:51,840 Speaker 1: stream team. Here we go and the chant begins. 982 00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:55,760 Speaker 2: I can't too much, too much, sauce. 983 00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:59,000 Speaker 1: If we get another half hour, Kean gets to unbutton 984 00:50:59,000 --> 00:50:59,720 Speaker 1: that top button. 985 00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:03,440 Speaker 2: Oh god, now if we tied donations to his buttons, 986 00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:05,239 Speaker 2: all hell would break Lea. I think that's what we 987 00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:05,600 Speaker 2: should do. 988 00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:10,240 Speaker 1: That. If we get to twelve fifty, I think Kean 989 00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:12,239 Speaker 1: opens up, opens up the buttons a little bit. 990 00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:16,560 Speaker 2: You don't get any saying it. That's what's happened. I 991 00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:17,000 Speaker 2: didn't say it. 992 00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:20,400 Speaker 4: I said, I'll take off my coat. M not good enough, 993 00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:21,840 Speaker 4: it's just getting, it's getting. 994 00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:22,919 Speaker 2: But you know what is good enough? 995 00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:26,600 Speaker 1: Now we got chance it Kiki Kiki like ee key 996 00:51:26,840 --> 00:51:31,560 Speaker 1: kee kee kee kee Sean. You can't condone this. Yeah, 997 00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:36,520 Speaker 1: I'm an adult, I'm condoning. I'm both condoning. We're all condoning. 998 00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:39,479 Speaker 1: And you can done it as well. Wingles ten hour 999 00:51:39,560 --> 00:51:46,080 Speaker 1: suit streams who oh yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, but you 1000 00:51:46,120 --> 00:51:48,040 Speaker 1: know what else is not ten hours And we're gonna 1001 00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:50,719 Speaker 1: get into it right now, right after I say that 1002 00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:54,439 Speaker 1: Angie donated ten dollars. You're not clear, Hush, I need 1003 00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:56,719 Speaker 1: you to help me through paperwork. Hey, that's what we're 1004 00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:59,319 Speaker 1: here for, Angie, and we're gonna help you get through 1005 00:51:59,320 --> 00:52:01,960 Speaker 1: it right now with this next story. 1006 00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:04,320 Speaker 2: Are you ready? Keon? Who's reading in Dakota? 1007 00:52:04,400 --> 00:52:09,200 Speaker 1: I'm reading Big d I refused to host my cousin, 1008 00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:13,720 Speaker 1: so my mom manipulated my wife until she agreed to host. 1009 00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:17,759 Speaker 1: Oh so we got some mom manipulators in here. We 1010 00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:23,560 Speaker 1: got some mommy issues today, some mom manipulation. Okay, context. 1011 00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:26,200 Speaker 1: I moved out of the South because frankly, I'm pretty 1012 00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:28,520 Speaker 1: put off by the overall culture in that part of 1013 00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:29,080 Speaker 1: the country. 1014 00:52:29,160 --> 00:52:32,399 Speaker 7: Anything to say, right and Dakota, I'm saying. I had 1015 00:52:32,440 --> 00:52:34,680 Speaker 7: my girlfriend from Orange County. I know she's not from LA. 1016 00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:37,400 Speaker 7: She went to North Carolina and she loved it. But 1017 00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:40,040 Speaker 7: she also loves me, so that might have something to 1018 00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:41,880 Speaker 7: do with it. There you go, But the South is 1019 00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:42,920 Speaker 7: cool in some places. 1020 00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:43,600 Speaker 2: I love you. 1021 00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:48,120 Speaker 1: Oh oh ah, did you hear that? You heard it 1022 00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:49,400 Speaker 1: here first, folks, Kean loves you. 1023 00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:50,239 Speaker 3: Uh oh uh. 1024 00:52:51,440 --> 00:52:57,360 Speaker 1: The religion, the politics, the shooty shooty bang bangs, the racism, 1025 00:52:57,520 --> 00:52:59,640 Speaker 1: none of it makes sense to me and I want 1026 00:52:59,680 --> 00:53:02,360 Speaker 1: no part of it. All of my trauma occurred in 1027 00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:04,600 Speaker 1: the South, and having left, I prefer to keep it 1028 00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:07,480 Speaker 1: all in the South and not revisit it. As I've 1029 00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:09,680 Speaker 1: gotten older, it became more and more triggering to me 1030 00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:12,120 Speaker 1: to be exposed to it. My wife and I are 1031 00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:14,239 Speaker 1: more or less the only people in our families to 1032 00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:18,480 Speaker 1: quote escape the South, so to speak. And by the way, 1033 00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:21,760 Speaker 1: this comes from users Subcreature on the r slash okay 1034 00:53:21,800 --> 00:53:27,879 Speaker 1: storytime subreddit. So several years back, my dad seventy five 1035 00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:31,640 Speaker 1: reconnected with a long lost cousin seventy seven female he 1036 00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:34,800 Speaker 1: knew when he was very young. And now our families 1037 00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:38,439 Speaker 1: are super close. They go on multiple vacations together each 1038 00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:43,279 Speaker 1: year and were always invited and always decline. Fact of 1039 00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:45,880 Speaker 1: the matter is, I don't like to spend time around 1040 00:53:45,880 --> 00:53:48,640 Speaker 1: these people because I have literally nothing in common with them, 1041 00:53:48,880 --> 00:53:52,840 Speaker 1: and they frequently talk about things I find upsetting. Lots 1042 00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:58,399 Speaker 1: of homophobia, racism, overall super right wing stuff that I'm 1043 00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:03,600 Speaker 1: just not interested in exposing myself to. Yeah, sounds fair 1044 00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:06,640 Speaker 1: to not want to be exposed to, like the garbage 1045 00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:08,399 Speaker 1: elements of the human race. 1046 00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:10,399 Speaker 2: I don't rock with it. Yeah, we do not rock 1047 00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:10,719 Speaker 2: with that. 1048 00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:14,439 Speaker 1: We do not rock with homophobia, We do not rock 1049 00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:18,160 Speaker 1: with racism. We only rock with good vibes and positivity. 1050 00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:19,800 Speaker 2: Boom, thanks Big D. 1051 00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:24,399 Speaker 1: Most of the time, they don't even realize they're doing it, 1052 00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:26,839 Speaker 1: mainly because they all think the same way and I've 1053 00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:29,600 Speaker 1: never been challenged on it. On top of this, my 1054 00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:32,600 Speaker 1: wife and I really just don't like beach vacations. 1055 00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:35,960 Speaker 2: I don't like the sand. It's course and it gets everywhere. 1056 00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:38,840 Speaker 2: That is love it, love it great. That's where I 1057 00:54:38,880 --> 00:54:41,719 Speaker 2: will disagree with you. Beachifacations are great. Uh huh. 1058 00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:43,880 Speaker 1: And shout out to all the people who understand what 1059 00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:49,080 Speaker 1: I just referenced. We're busybodies and we prefer exploration, adventure, 1060 00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:53,480 Speaker 1: trying new things, meeting locals, et cetera. Anyway, flash forward 1061 00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:57,760 Speaker 1: to this past weekend, the CrowdStrike fiasco grounds said long 1062 00:54:57,800 --> 00:55:00,600 Speaker 1: lost cousin at the airport in my city in the 1063 00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:04,040 Speaker 1: Upper Midwest. Yeah, shout outs. Do you remember when CrowdStrike 1064 00:55:04,200 --> 00:55:07,200 Speaker 1: just like shut down every airport on Earth for like 1065 00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:12,759 Speaker 1: a couple of days. I remember Peptpbridge Farm. Remember no 1066 00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:15,560 Speaker 1: free sponsors. They don't even exist anymore. 1067 00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:17,960 Speaker 2: I don't say they do. I'm saying that they don't. 1068 00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:20,040 Speaker 2: Uh uh. 1069 00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:25,120 Speaker 1: She had just come off a multi week gallivants around 1070 00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:28,080 Speaker 1: East Asia. She has a lot of money, owns property 1071 00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:32,239 Speaker 1: in Paris, et cetera, and was super jet lagged and exhausted. 1072 00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:34,719 Speaker 1: I look at my phone and notice I've missed a 1073 00:55:34,719 --> 00:55:37,560 Speaker 1: call from my mom. I generally call my mom when 1074 00:55:37,560 --> 00:55:39,759 Speaker 1: it's best for me and when I feel up to it, 1075 00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:43,160 Speaker 1: which isn't all the time. Frankly, hey, do what you 1076 00:55:43,200 --> 00:55:46,040 Speaker 1: need to do, not literally. 1077 00:55:46,320 --> 00:55:46,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1078 00:55:46,560 --> 00:55:51,839 Speaker 1: Well, and that's taken a hard Game of Thrones territory. Uh, 1079 00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:54,560 Speaker 1: We're gonna pivot out of Game of Thrones and back 1080 00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:57,719 Speaker 1: into the story. We've had some verbal knockdown drag outs 1081 00:55:57,760 --> 00:56:00,520 Speaker 1: in our history, and so I've established healthy boundaries that 1082 00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:01,960 Speaker 1: work for me and my mental health. 1083 00:56:02,280 --> 00:56:02,920 Speaker 2: We love that. 1084 00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:06,960 Speaker 1: So I missed the call and I'm debating whether or 1085 00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:10,720 Speaker 1: not to call her back. Shortly thereafter, she immediately calls 1086 00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:15,239 Speaker 1: my wife, who also rejects the call. My wife then 1087 00:56:15,440 --> 00:56:18,480 Speaker 1: basically gets a nine to one one. It's an emergency 1088 00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:21,640 Speaker 1: type of text from my mom, So obviously we drop 1089 00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:23,799 Speaker 1: what we're doing and call back because we think something 1090 00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:26,920 Speaker 1: horrible has happened. At this point, my mom just point 1091 00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:30,560 Speaker 1: Blake's asks if this cousin can stay with us, explaining 1092 00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:33,200 Speaker 1: that her flight has been canceled and saying that there 1093 00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:36,719 Speaker 1: is no hotel vacancy whatsoever in our city. I know 1094 00:56:36,800 --> 00:56:39,200 Speaker 1: that this is one hundred percent BS, and I say 1095 00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:42,759 Speaker 1: as much, but we'll get into that later. My wife, ever, 1096 00:56:42,840 --> 00:56:47,239 Speaker 1: the mpath hesitantly agrees, and I pretty much become unglued, 1097 00:56:47,520 --> 00:56:50,200 Speaker 1: upset at my wife for being a doormat over the 1098 00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:54,080 Speaker 1: entire thing, and just shaking my head and shaking mad 1099 00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:57,560 Speaker 1: at my mom, not just for even entertaining it, but 1100 00:56:57,600 --> 00:57:00,720 Speaker 1: for basically exploiting my wife's soft heart on these types 1101 00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:01,240 Speaker 1: of matters. 1102 00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:04,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, mom, manipulation. 1103 00:57:04,160 --> 00:57:07,600 Speaker 1: Not my soft heart, not my soft little hot Oh, 1104 00:57:07,800 --> 00:57:12,359 Speaker 1: don't do that to my soft heart. I know my mom, 1105 00:57:12,640 --> 00:57:15,080 Speaker 1: I know her tactics, and I know how she operates. 1106 00:57:15,600 --> 00:57:18,240 Speaker 1: She knew my wife would be more easily swayed than 1107 00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:20,600 Speaker 1: for this than I would, and I feel that she 1108 00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:24,760 Speaker 1: took advantage of that. My parents are experts at guilt 1109 00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:26,320 Speaker 1: based manipulation. 1110 00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:31,000 Speaker 2: They learn from the best. That tends to be a thing, 1111 00:57:31,200 --> 00:57:31,640 Speaker 2: isn't it. 1112 00:57:32,360 --> 00:57:35,040 Speaker 1: The parents are good at the guilty manipulation. 1113 00:57:34,600 --> 00:57:35,960 Speaker 2: Which is unfortunate. 1114 00:57:36,120 --> 00:57:42,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I guess it's a long tradition nice passed down. 1115 00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:46,080 Speaker 1: I immediately reach out to my mom, telling her I 1116 00:57:46,240 --> 00:57:50,000 Speaker 1: vehemently disagree with this, I love your vocabulary, Opie, and 1117 00:57:50,040 --> 00:57:52,800 Speaker 1: that she needs to find her cousin a hotel. I 1118 00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:55,800 Speaker 1: then show her the hundreds of available hotels in the 1119 00:57:55,840 --> 00:57:58,880 Speaker 1: city where she could have stayed. Mind you, this lady 1120 00:57:58,960 --> 00:58:02,000 Speaker 1: is basically a strain to me, and I'm fine keeping 1121 00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:06,240 Speaker 1: it that way. My mom downplays my concerns. Things get superheated, 1122 00:58:06,560 --> 00:58:09,800 Speaker 1: and my mom spreads the guilt on super super sick thick, 1123 00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:12,720 Speaker 1: saying things like, we would do this for your friends 1124 00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:14,840 Speaker 1: if they were in a pinch, to which I replied, 1125 00:58:15,240 --> 00:58:17,520 Speaker 1: I wouldn't ask you to do that if you didn't 1126 00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:22,640 Speaker 1: know them, which is a normal thing to do. Anyway, 1127 00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:26,000 Speaker 1: Mom doesn't listen. Wife had basically already committed to it. 1128 00:58:26,080 --> 00:58:29,560 Speaker 1: Cousin is outside waiting, so we cancel our evening plans 1129 00:58:29,600 --> 00:58:30,520 Speaker 1: and go pick this. 1130 00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:32,240 Speaker 2: Old bat up at the airport. 1131 00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:37,840 Speaker 1: Uh No. It was during this time that I realized 1132 00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:41,440 Speaker 1: said cousin was well aware that there was hotel vacancy 1133 00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:44,600 Speaker 1: in the city. She was just unwilling or too cheap 1134 00:58:44,680 --> 00:58:48,680 Speaker 1: to pay what prices. The prices that combined with her 1135 00:58:48,720 --> 00:58:51,880 Speaker 1: inability to navigate an app like Expedia, so she was 1136 00:58:51,960 --> 00:58:57,919 Speaker 1: literally calling hotels up by phone. Yeah, come on, it's 1137 00:58:58,000 --> 00:59:01,120 Speaker 1: twenty twenty four we use our phones to book hotels. 1138 00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:06,120 Speaker 1: She stayed for under twenty four hours, and in that 1139 00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:08,720 Speaker 1: time enough crap came out of her mouth for me 1140 00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:10,680 Speaker 1: to want to boot her out into the rain and 1141 00:59:10,720 --> 00:59:13,120 Speaker 1: tell her to call a cab. But I bit my 1142 00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:15,880 Speaker 1: tongue because frankly, I just don't have the fight in me, 1143 00:59:16,600 --> 00:59:19,720 Speaker 1: and I've never and I'm never intentionally trying to conjure 1144 00:59:19,760 --> 00:59:23,000 Speaker 1: family drama if I can help it. OP just I 1145 00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:27,240 Speaker 1: just didn't have that fight in me. When we dropped 1146 00:59:27,240 --> 00:59:29,200 Speaker 1: her off at the airport the next day, I went 1147 00:59:29,320 --> 00:59:31,640 Speaker 1: off on both of my parents via text message for 1148 00:59:31,680 --> 00:59:34,320 Speaker 1: even putting us in that position, and I haven't spoken 1149 00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:34,960 Speaker 1: to them since. 1150 00:59:35,360 --> 00:59:36,760 Speaker 2: Frankly, I don't want to. 1151 00:59:37,320 --> 00:59:39,480 Speaker 1: I feel like this crossed the boundary with me and 1152 00:59:39,520 --> 00:59:42,600 Speaker 1: I've been considering going in no contact over it. 1153 00:59:43,440 --> 00:59:44,640 Speaker 2: Am I the a hole? 1154 00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:47,480 Speaker 1: By the way, you can join us live on YouTube 1155 00:59:47,560 --> 00:59:49,320 Speaker 1: every single weekday at three pm. 1156 00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:55,160 Speaker 2: Just tap our profile. Tap our profile. Ooh and there 1157 00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:56,040 Speaker 2: isn't at it, But. 1158 00:59:56,080 --> 00:59:58,880 Speaker 1: Let's get into it. Let's have a little discussion here. 1159 00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:01,320 Speaker 1: Is op being the a hole for wanting to go 1160 01:00:01,400 --> 01:00:07,240 Speaker 1: no contact after having the ant foisted upon them. 1161 01:00:07,520 --> 01:00:11,160 Speaker 2: I feel like this this is probably it's like the 1162 01:00:11,200 --> 01:00:14,200 Speaker 2: straw that broke the camel's back. Parents have had a 1163 01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:20,960 Speaker 2: long history of this and if this is like this 1164 01:00:21,040 --> 01:00:25,080 Speaker 2: is the the umpteenth time that this has happened, there's 1165 01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:31,720 Speaker 2: clearly no respect there and they'll keep doing this to you, 1166 01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:34,520 Speaker 2: I wonder how. And it seems like the relationship already 1167 01:00:34,640 --> 01:00:37,280 Speaker 2: is like terrible, yeah, kind of strained. 1168 01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:40,400 Speaker 1: It sounds like it's the very least like moved out 1169 01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:42,560 Speaker 1: of the South escaped the South. I mean, it just 1170 01:00:42,600 --> 01:00:45,200 Speaker 1: sounds like Op kind of doesn't want anything to do 1171 01:00:45,240 --> 01:00:49,720 Speaker 1: with his like family anyway. Like regardless of this, which 1172 01:00:49,800 --> 01:00:51,840 Speaker 1: you know, most of the time, I advocate for love 1173 01:00:52,040 --> 01:00:54,160 Speaker 1: rather than no. Yes, but I totally agree, But that 1174 01:00:54,280 --> 01:00:57,400 Speaker 1: always comes from a place of like looking after yourself 1175 01:00:57,440 --> 01:01:00,280 Speaker 1: in a way more than them. It's not about m 1176 01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:03,880 Speaker 1: keeping it low because you want like the family to 1177 01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:07,040 Speaker 1: be all right, it's for your piece down the line. 1178 01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:12,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, like like I've I'm doing like I'm doing more 1179 01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:17,080 Speaker 2: more than necessary almost, or like I'm I'm I'm making 1180 01:01:17,080 --> 01:01:18,920 Speaker 2: sure I'm not being the a whole here and like 1181 01:01:19,000 --> 01:01:21,560 Speaker 2: doing my best to treat you right. So there there 1182 01:01:21,680 --> 01:01:24,160 Speaker 2: is no like, oh but you did it. It's like no, 1183 01:01:24,240 --> 01:01:27,439 Speaker 2: I'm I'm still here on like the biggest, most important things. 1184 01:01:27,440 --> 01:01:30,160 Speaker 2: But I won't let you just completely like take over 1185 01:01:30,200 --> 01:01:30,560 Speaker 2: my life. 1186 01:01:30,760 --> 01:01:33,800 Speaker 1: Yeah all this, Yeah, just just to keep it so 1187 01:01:33,840 --> 01:01:35,880 Speaker 1: that you're never in a position of like, oh I 1188 01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:37,520 Speaker 1: wish I would have or I wish I could have, 1189 01:01:38,080 --> 01:01:41,040 Speaker 1: or like a what if type thing, because it's like 1190 01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:43,040 Speaker 1: one day they'll be gone and then they're gone forever 1191 01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:45,360 Speaker 1: and then you kind of have to reckon with you 1192 01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:47,680 Speaker 1: know how you handle your relationship, and I feel like 1193 01:01:47,760 --> 01:01:50,840 Speaker 1: having having no contact is an easy way to just 1194 01:01:50,880 --> 01:01:53,320 Speaker 1: like really beat yourself up about that or like, ever, 1195 01:01:54,160 --> 01:01:56,920 Speaker 1: not in every case. I can't generalize this for everybody. 1196 01:01:56,960 --> 01:02:01,160 Speaker 1: I'm just saying, uh, like, that's my position on it 1197 01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:04,240 Speaker 1: most of the time. Of course, not every time, but 1198 01:02:04,320 --> 01:02:04,960 Speaker 1: most of the time. 1199 01:02:05,040 --> 01:02:07,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, load to no contact. I think I'm pretty much 1200 01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:08,200 Speaker 2: on yeah. 1201 01:02:08,240 --> 01:02:10,480 Speaker 1: But it doesn't sound like going no contact would really 1202 01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:12,640 Speaker 1: you know, bother ope at all. 1203 01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:16,440 Speaker 2: Anyway, So anyway, there you go. Here comes the edit, folks. 1204 01:02:17,280 --> 01:02:20,000 Speaker 1: I've heard y'all loud and clear, oh escape the south, 1205 01:02:20,040 --> 01:02:21,400 Speaker 1: but did not escape the y'all. 1206 01:02:22,680 --> 01:02:23,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, the y'all. 1207 01:02:25,200 --> 01:02:29,800 Speaker 1: Uh huh. I obviously need to get calibrated with my 1208 01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:33,120 Speaker 1: wife on how we collectively deal with my parents, and 1209 01:02:33,160 --> 01:02:37,160 Speaker 1: my boundaries with them need to be hardened. I have 1210 01:02:37,280 --> 01:02:39,040 Speaker 1: so many jokes I want to make about that sentence, 1211 01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:39,560 Speaker 1: but I can't. 1212 01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:42,760 Speaker 2: Riley just said it quietly. 1213 01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:46,720 Speaker 1: This wasn't as big of an issue prior to this, 1214 01:02:47,320 --> 01:02:48,880 Speaker 1: and god, it keeps going. 1215 01:02:49,400 --> 01:02:57,320 Speaker 2: Tell you they know what they're doing. Riley, stop. 1216 01:02:58,280 --> 01:03:01,240 Speaker 1: It's the first time my mom has ever used as 1217 01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:04,720 Speaker 1: sort of nine one one slash SOS text to get around. 1218 01:03:04,840 --> 01:03:07,480 Speaker 1: Oh you know what, Actually, that's really I didn't even 1219 01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:09,720 Speaker 1: think about that, the fact that she used the nine 1220 01:03:09,800 --> 01:03:12,960 Speaker 1: one one text to sort of cry wolf and just 1221 01:03:12,960 --> 01:03:15,920 Speaker 1: be like, can the can the cousins stay at your place? 1222 01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:19,240 Speaker 1: Like because they don't want a paper hotel? What are 1223 01:03:19,280 --> 01:03:24,280 Speaker 1: we talking like? Yeah, you're an adult, Yeah, figure it out. 1224 01:03:24,520 --> 01:03:29,000 Speaker 2: It's like, come on are we talking about Yeah? Come on? 1225 01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:31,880 Speaker 2: Great point though, Yeah, the night using the nine one one, 1226 01:03:32,280 --> 01:03:34,560 Speaker 2: that's that's bad. How can I trust you? 1227 01:03:35,760 --> 01:03:37,880 Speaker 1: But what happens when it really is an emergency, They're 1228 01:03:37,880 --> 01:03:40,120 Speaker 1: gonna remember that the last emergency was just about the 1229 01:03:40,120 --> 01:03:45,680 Speaker 1: cousin who could have gotten a hotel literally anywhere. So uh, 1230 01:03:45,800 --> 01:03:47,760 Speaker 1: this was the first time my mom ever ever used 1231 01:03:47,760 --> 01:03:51,880 Speaker 1: a SOS text to get around to us. But so 1232 01:03:51,960 --> 01:03:56,640 Speaker 1: I do count this as somewhat exceptional, But it was 1233 01:03:56,680 --> 01:03:59,640 Speaker 1: still an important lesson, and I value your feedback, even 1234 01:03:59,680 --> 01:04:02,720 Speaker 1: the harsher stuff. I do feel like I've triggered some 1235 01:04:02,840 --> 01:04:05,680 Speaker 1: southern snowflakes with my critique of the region, though, and 1236 01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:11,320 Speaker 1: I'm not particularly sorry for that. Robert E Lee, Robert 1237 01:04:11,360 --> 01:04:14,440 Speaker 1: E Lee was a bee, got him. Yeah, that's a 1238 01:04:14,600 --> 01:04:17,400 Speaker 1: hard line, right, Robert e Lee is a bee. 1239 01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:20,000 Speaker 2: For life, dude. Take down the statues. 1240 01:04:20,480 --> 01:04:23,880 Speaker 1: Although I will say, as someone with family from the South, 1241 01:04:24,840 --> 01:04:25,840 Speaker 1: it's not all bad. 1242 01:04:26,240 --> 01:04:27,480 Speaker 2: But to each their own. 1243 01:04:27,480 --> 01:04:29,959 Speaker 1: You're allowed to have whatever opinion you have about the South. 1244 01:04:30,040 --> 01:04:32,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, they have cookout, You're fully allowed to not like it. 1245 01:04:33,880 --> 01:04:36,840 Speaker 2: And then and then and then they can be they 1246 01:04:36,840 --> 01:04:40,160 Speaker 2: have Zaxby's. I don't know. Oh wait no, no, no, 1247 01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:46,240 Speaker 2: for sent me with that. Oh my god, I love that. 1248 01:04:46,360 --> 01:04:48,840 Speaker 1: I love that restaurant. Bro, would you even call it 1249 01:04:48,880 --> 01:04:57,000 Speaker 1: a restaurant? No, Zaxby's Chicken Cookout. It's like in between. 1250 01:04:57,480 --> 01:05:01,800 Speaker 1: But AnyWho don't worry about that. Enough cook out a side. 1251 01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:06,160 Speaker 1: Robert E. Lee was a b yes, yeah, correct, Yes, 1252 01:05:06,280 --> 01:05:07,000 Speaker 1: I mean that's it. 1253 01:05:07,080 --> 01:05:08,000 Speaker 2: That's that's the end. 1254 01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:15,439 Speaker 1: End. Uh Yeah, I mean yeah, I think it's totally fair. 1255 01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:17,760 Speaker 1: Like the nine one one text, I think that's a 1256 01:05:17,760 --> 01:05:21,360 Speaker 1: good detail to bring back up of, like, yeah, sort 1257 01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:24,400 Speaker 1: of subverting knowing that they that you kind of don't 1258 01:05:24,680 --> 01:05:27,800 Speaker 1: want anything to do with them, and then subverting that 1259 01:05:27,840 --> 01:05:31,360 Speaker 1: with the nine one one text is like that can't 1260 01:05:31,360 --> 01:05:33,920 Speaker 1: do that just to get like a person you are 1261 01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:36,880 Speaker 1: basically a stranger to like to stay in your house. 1262 01:05:36,880 --> 01:05:39,080 Speaker 2: So they don't have to pay for a hotel, which like, 1263 01:05:39,920 --> 01:05:42,600 Speaker 2: I don't know, it's so so like weirds shouldn't even 1264 01:05:42,640 --> 01:05:46,000 Speaker 2: you shouldn't even even brought it up in the first place. 1265 01:05:46,560 --> 01:05:48,480 Speaker 2: But the fact that you use the s O A yeah, 1266 01:05:48,960 --> 01:05:52,560 Speaker 2: that's that is it's it's could seem small on the surface, 1267 01:05:52,600 --> 01:05:55,080 Speaker 2: but to me is such an abuse of the trust 1268 01:05:55,120 --> 01:05:59,000 Speaker 2: of communication. Like you, I'm like every text I get, 1269 01:05:59,040 --> 01:06:02,120 Speaker 2: I'm like, is it's going to be another SOS cousin? 1270 01:06:02,280 --> 01:06:04,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's like anytime I get a text, it's 1271 01:06:04,400 --> 01:06:05,480 Speaker 1: like nine one one so Os. 1272 01:06:05,560 --> 01:06:06,480 Speaker 2: It's like I. 1273 01:06:06,480 --> 01:06:09,560 Speaker 1: Drop, I will drop everything, get in touch with you. 1274 01:06:09,640 --> 01:06:09,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1275 01:06:09,920 --> 01:06:11,400 Speaker 1: And I've had people do that to me before, where 1276 01:06:11,400 --> 01:06:13,360 Speaker 1: it's like nine one one SOS and then it's like 1277 01:06:13,600 --> 01:06:15,720 Speaker 1: I pick up and there it's just like some you know, 1278 01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:17,280 Speaker 1: asked a nine question about like. 1279 01:06:18,280 --> 01:06:19,760 Speaker 2: Like a groth, why are you so handsome? 1280 01:06:19,840 --> 01:06:24,160 Speaker 1: List or something, and it's like, why you do that? 1281 01:06:24,720 --> 01:06:26,320 Speaker 1: It's not a nine one one, that's send me a 1282 01:06:26,320 --> 01:06:30,160 Speaker 1: text message and I'll get to it, right. But any who, 1283 01:06:30,480 --> 01:06:33,600 Speaker 1: any who shot he's fire burning on the dance. 1284 01:06:33,320 --> 01:06:38,000 Speaker 2: Shoty like a madaddy. We got some I saw a 1285 01:06:38,160 --> 01:06:39,400 Speaker 2: million coming in. We have a lot. 1286 01:06:39,440 --> 01:06:42,640 Speaker 1: We have a lot, oh boy, and we're only fifty 1287 01:06:42,680 --> 01:06:47,240 Speaker 1: away from another thirty God, don't tell them that, all right, 1288 01:06:47,320 --> 01:06:49,920 Speaker 1: Brianna from Australia, thank you for the fifteen dollars. 1289 01:06:49,960 --> 01:06:51,480 Speaker 2: Can we see Riley please? 1290 01:06:51,720 --> 01:06:55,120 Speaker 1: Heart kangaroo, there he is. 1291 01:06:55,960 --> 01:06:58,640 Speaker 2: What do you want? I got ready to be here 1292 01:06:58,640 --> 01:07:01,000 Speaker 2: for me. You guys don't need see me anymore. 1293 01:07:01,240 --> 01:07:05,240 Speaker 1: What you eat, we'll just get a picture of it. 1294 01:07:05,440 --> 01:07:06,480 Speaker 1: It smell up on the window. 1295 01:07:06,800 --> 01:07:11,480 Speaker 2: What you eat? Cook out? Because you're breathing in my direction. 1296 01:07:11,760 --> 01:07:15,320 Speaker 2: He breathed right into his the mic. I have the mic. 1297 01:07:16,640 --> 01:07:19,400 Speaker 2: There's no there's no like, there's literally that's the only 1298 01:07:19,400 --> 01:07:20,520 Speaker 2: way to talk into the bike. 1299 01:07:21,360 --> 01:07:25,200 Speaker 1: Screaming into the mic. Yeah, going yeah, Robley, that's what 1300 01:07:25,200 --> 01:07:25,640 Speaker 1: you're gonna do. 1301 01:07:25,680 --> 01:07:25,800 Speaker 6: Now. 1302 01:07:25,800 --> 01:07:28,320 Speaker 2: You gotta see us. Swap the camera back and forth. 1303 01:07:28,520 --> 01:07:33,040 Speaker 1: Ten You and Keon're to get more donuts. 1304 01:07:33,560 --> 01:07:35,240 Speaker 2: H hold on, hold on, hold on, all right, all right, 1305 01:07:35,320 --> 01:07:35,680 Speaker 2: let me leave. 1306 01:07:37,360 --> 01:07:40,680 Speaker 1: We got a donation from Lucy Ford ninety one for 1307 01:07:40,720 --> 01:07:41,240 Speaker 1: five dollars. 1308 01:07:41,320 --> 01:07:42,440 Speaker 2: Thank you for the five dollars. 1309 01:07:42,760 --> 01:07:45,400 Speaker 1: Started chemo and I'm exhausted, but you guys know how 1310 01:07:45,400 --> 01:07:47,720 Speaker 1: to put a smile on my face. Ten hour stream. 1311 01:07:47,920 --> 01:07:52,640 Speaker 1: Hey Hearts hearts for Lucy Ford ninety one for starting 1312 01:07:52,720 --> 01:07:55,160 Speaker 1: chemo and you're gonna finish it and you're gonna be 1313 01:07:55,600 --> 01:07:58,000 Speaker 1: cancer free. Baby, that's what's gonna happen. 1314 01:07:58,120 --> 01:08:02,680 Speaker 2: And guess what. Okay, famous here we got you wet 1315 01:08:03,360 --> 01:08:07,200 Speaker 2: Riley's Breath and all Baby. Riley's Breadth is the newest edition. 1316 01:08:07,360 --> 01:08:09,840 Speaker 1: Literally day two and Riley hates me. 1317 01:08:11,680 --> 01:08:17,160 Speaker 2: We just broke it another thirty minutes, ladies and gentlemen. Yeah, yeah, 1318 01:08:17,160 --> 01:08:24,280 Speaker 2: that's what we were cheers. Great to say. What story 1319 01:08:24,280 --> 01:08:24,559 Speaker 2: am on? 1320 01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:29,679 Speaker 4: By the way, we are at m seven to one? 1321 01:08:29,920 --> 01:08:34,240 Speaker 4: I mean yeah in nine seven one one. 1322 01:08:34,320 --> 01:08:39,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, Emily, thank you for the five dollars. North Carolina 1323 01:08:39,920 --> 01:08:44,920 Speaker 1: is beautiful, Riley, that is true. Waitpe, I will keep 1324 01:08:44,960 --> 01:08:45,400 Speaker 1: going here. 1325 01:08:45,600 --> 01:08:46,799 Speaker 2: I'm seventy sorry, John. 1326 01:08:46,680 --> 01:08:50,080 Speaker 1: Hi, Vincent, thank you for the twenty five dollars. Another 1327 01:08:50,120 --> 01:08:54,240 Speaker 1: half hour please, lol, Well you've got it. We're here 1328 01:08:54,280 --> 01:08:59,240 Speaker 1: for another half uh. Bella Westmoreland for ten dollars. Thank 1329 01:08:59,280 --> 01:09:01,920 Speaker 1: you for the ten dollars. You guys are hilarious. Thanks 1330 01:09:01,920 --> 01:09:04,680 Speaker 1: for making my day. I thank you, Bella. Thanks for 1331 01:09:04,800 --> 01:09:07,160 Speaker 1: rolling through and making our day. 1332 01:09:07,439 --> 01:09:08,439 Speaker 3: Ye, thank you. 1333 01:09:10,240 --> 01:09:12,559 Speaker 1: And then I believe we got I think we got 1334 01:09:12,560 --> 01:09:14,920 Speaker 1: that from wingles. But I'll say it again, ten. 1335 01:09:14,760 --> 01:09:16,200 Speaker 2: Hour suit Stream. 1336 01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:18,960 Speaker 1: Don't let Keon leave looking that good. We gotta keep 1337 01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:20,320 Speaker 1: him here for as long as possible. 1338 01:09:22,080 --> 01:09:22,840 Speaker 2: Tina M. 1339 01:09:23,240 --> 01:09:27,240 Speaker 1: Thank you for the five Gifted members. Aussy Girl in 1340 01:09:27,360 --> 01:09:31,960 Speaker 1: a Oh where'd that go? Oh Ay, aussy Girl in 1341 01:09:32,320 --> 01:09:35,960 Speaker 1: art Shop. Thank you for the five gifted members. Just 1342 01:09:36,200 --> 01:09:40,120 Speaker 1: keep gifting those little bebez for the stream. Ten dollars 1343 01:09:40,160 --> 01:09:43,080 Speaker 1: from Amy with a super pair whatever that is. 1344 01:09:43,080 --> 01:09:45,160 Speaker 2: I don't know is that a pair? What is that thing? 1345 01:09:45,920 --> 01:09:50,760 Speaker 1: Um? Thank you for the ten dollars, Amy Lindsey with 1346 01:09:50,840 --> 01:09:54,600 Speaker 1: four dollars and twenty cents of New Zealand dollars. 1347 01:09:55,200 --> 01:09:56,880 Speaker 2: It's for twenty somewhere. 1348 01:09:57,400 --> 01:10:01,160 Speaker 1: I think, I mean, depending on the the time, if 1349 01:10:01,240 --> 01:10:03,679 Speaker 1: it if it ends in a twenty, then you're right. 1350 01:10:03,800 --> 01:10:05,000 Speaker 2: It is for twenty somewhere. 1351 01:10:06,760 --> 01:10:10,639 Speaker 1: Dear everyone from Brains, thank you for the five dollars. 1352 01:10:11,040 --> 01:10:13,720 Speaker 2: Dear everyone, The world is a better place with you 1353 01:10:13,840 --> 01:10:18,200 Speaker 2: in it. Love the okay, storytime Zombie, that's true. The 1354 01:10:18,240 --> 01:10:20,599 Speaker 2: world is better with you in it, bab, that's true, 1355 01:10:20,760 --> 01:10:21,679 Speaker 2: So stay in it. 1356 01:10:22,360 --> 01:10:25,400 Speaker 1: Locking And actually I would be remiss if I missed 1357 01:10:25,400 --> 01:10:28,439 Speaker 1: the one beneath that one, which was I believe five 1358 01:10:28,560 --> 01:10:32,840 Speaker 1: gifted memberships from Grandma's got a potty mouth, the goat, 1359 01:10:33,400 --> 01:10:34,040 Speaker 1: the goat. 1360 01:10:33,800 --> 01:10:35,639 Speaker 2: One of the greats, one of the greats. 1361 01:10:35,800 --> 01:10:40,280 Speaker 1: Thank you, Grandma and your potty mouth, Amy, with another 1362 01:10:40,320 --> 01:10:41,759 Speaker 1: two dollars, thank you. 1363 01:10:41,840 --> 01:10:44,240 Speaker 2: These newbies need to be broken in with a ten 1364 01:10:44,280 --> 01:10:47,640 Speaker 2: hour stream. Uh. Yeah, you can break us in with 1365 01:10:47,680 --> 01:10:48,599 Speaker 2: a ten hour stream. 1366 01:10:49,320 --> 01:10:49,880 Speaker 3: We can do that. 1367 01:10:51,040 --> 01:10:56,120 Speaker 1: Uh And I think that is all from the super chat. 1368 01:10:56,600 --> 01:10:58,519 Speaker 1: You get a little scroll down to make sure we 1369 01:10:58,560 --> 01:11:01,920 Speaker 1: didn't miss one, and I do not think we did. 1370 01:11:02,040 --> 01:11:05,400 Speaker 1: Oh wait, there was one more uh up, one more 1371 01:11:05,760 --> 01:11:09,240 Speaker 1: uh from Amy. Another two dollars, Thank you, Amy. The 1372 01:11:09,320 --> 01:11:14,320 Speaker 1: donners need in on the October ten hour stream. And Chris, 1373 01:11:14,840 --> 01:11:17,879 Speaker 1: Chris did foil I just came in with another fifty 1374 01:11:18,000 --> 01:11:28,280 Speaker 1: piece no way, Oh my god, fifty piece mag gift 1375 01:11:28,520 --> 01:11:31,080 Speaker 1: memberships from christin foil hat. 1376 01:11:32,080 --> 01:11:35,840 Speaker 2: Oh my god. Wow, that's horrible. 1377 01:11:36,520 --> 01:11:39,360 Speaker 1: Chris, I promised I would take off the jacket. 1378 01:11:39,439 --> 01:11:42,719 Speaker 2: I don't like it. I love it, love it, love it. 1379 01:11:43,280 --> 01:11:45,639 Speaker 4: Let me let me just set some things up first, 1380 01:11:45,680 --> 01:11:47,559 Speaker 4: and then you do not take off the jet. 1381 01:11:47,560 --> 01:11:50,880 Speaker 1: You open the button, don't. I will come over there 1382 01:11:50,920 --> 01:11:54,639 Speaker 1: and jacket stream. 1383 01:11:54,680 --> 01:12:00,840 Speaker 2: Did you hear that? Stream? What you'll do what. 1384 01:12:01,800 --> 01:12:05,120 Speaker 1: Thank you for the five bucks. Slighty Tovez love Daddy. 1385 01:12:05,160 --> 01:12:08,160 Speaker 1: Keon added to the crew. He's looking so good in 1386 01:12:08,200 --> 01:12:10,720 Speaker 1: that suit, you know he is. Let me know if 1387 01:12:10,760 --> 01:12:13,880 Speaker 1: you ever want a goth baddy to ruin your life. 1388 01:12:13,760 --> 01:12:20,160 Speaker 2: Daddy, that's his weakness. His one true weakness is kryptonite. 1389 01:12:20,360 --> 01:12:25,120 Speaker 1: Kean's internal monologue is like, just like its completely frozen. 1390 01:12:25,320 --> 01:12:31,759 Speaker 1: He's and listen Monday hitting us with another two bucks? 1391 01:12:31,840 --> 01:12:32,280 Speaker 3: Thank you. 1392 01:12:32,400 --> 01:12:36,000 Speaker 2: I bet Kean looks great under a waterfall. All right, 1393 01:12:36,080 --> 01:12:37,799 Speaker 2: let's try it out. We gotta do a photo shoot. 1394 01:12:38,360 --> 01:12:41,280 Speaker 2: We gott bring your camera into the bathroom. We'll figure 1395 01:12:41,320 --> 01:12:44,719 Speaker 2: this out. Yeah, no, there's a waterfall around here. A shirt? 1396 01:12:45,160 --> 01:12:45,879 Speaker 2: Oh true? 1397 01:12:46,280 --> 01:12:48,599 Speaker 4: Hold on, all right, hold on, I'm still I'm still 1398 01:12:49,120 --> 01:12:52,160 Speaker 4: contemplating life right now, Like what's going on? 1399 01:12:52,280 --> 01:12:53,800 Speaker 2: Like is this real? Is this real? 1400 01:12:53,880 --> 01:12:54,120 Speaker 3: Chat? 1401 01:12:54,640 --> 01:12:54,720 Speaker 1: Oh? 1402 01:12:54,840 --> 01:12:57,840 Speaker 2: Chat, it's real? It real? What is real? My necessity 1403 01:12:57,880 --> 01:13:01,160 Speaker 2: to hit the little boys room? You hit that big 1404 01:13:01,200 --> 01:13:05,360 Speaker 2: dog anymore any more? Donos? We pretty much hit them all. 1405 01:13:06,920 --> 01:13:09,400 Speaker 2: We pretty much shot him. So you can go full 1406 01:13:09,439 --> 01:13:13,160 Speaker 2: screen on me. Yeah did I hit one hour? Uh 1407 01:13:13,240 --> 01:13:15,320 Speaker 2: oh on the timer? I don't know if I did. 1408 01:13:15,439 --> 01:13:21,320 Speaker 2: I'm not sure. Yes, think a big dog. And then 1409 01:13:21,640 --> 01:13:23,840 Speaker 2: Lucy or On reading some of your comments, Bye you 1410 01:13:23,840 --> 01:13:25,519 Speaker 2: go bye. By the way, you guys are commenting like 1411 01:13:25,560 --> 01:13:29,360 Speaker 2: crazy today. Shout out, Shout out to you guys. Oh no, 1412 01:13:33,000 --> 01:13:36,360 Speaker 2: is he is he? You can't ask that, You can't 1413 01:13:36,360 --> 01:13:40,400 Speaker 2: ask that. Izzy Caleb van Kevin says, you're looking so sexy, 1414 01:13:41,360 --> 01:13:46,120 Speaker 2: and then Amelia Rosewood is dropping the key fire hot 1415 01:13:46,240 --> 01:13:50,840 Speaker 2: chili emoji. Yeah, guys, listen, listen. We know you want 1416 01:13:50,840 --> 01:13:54,799 Speaker 2: the jacket off. It's coming, but we're working on some stuff. Okay, 1417 01:13:55,000 --> 01:13:58,320 Speaker 2: it's coming, it's coming. Socrates says, it's very real, and 1418 01:13:58,400 --> 01:14:02,439 Speaker 2: yes it is. Vela says, yes, you're so cute. Uh, 1419 01:14:02,680 --> 01:14:13,280 Speaker 2: of course, gonna get the chats, of course. Amelia Rosewood says, 1420 01:14:13,320 --> 01:14:18,439 Speaker 2: ooh okay, storytime calendar, it could happen. We need we 1421 01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:20,000 Speaker 2: need more hosts for the rest for the rest of 1422 01:14:20,000 --> 01:14:22,960 Speaker 2: the month. Slasher Barbie says, not even four hundred people 1423 01:14:22,960 --> 01:14:24,880 Speaker 2: have liked the stream on YouTube, and there's six hundred 1424 01:14:24,880 --> 01:14:27,280 Speaker 2: and sixty one here. We want another wheel spin. That's 1425 01:14:27,280 --> 01:14:29,479 Speaker 2: a great point Slash of Barbie. Guys, what are we doing? 1426 01:14:30,280 --> 01:14:34,960 Speaker 2: What are we doing when we could have all the 1427 01:14:35,080 --> 01:14:37,559 Speaker 2: likes that we need for the next wheelspin. I don't 1428 01:14:37,600 --> 01:14:41,240 Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know, frankly, frankly slightly disappointed. 1429 01:14:41,960 --> 01:14:44,559 Speaker 2: I thought I thought you would use the thumbs. Why 1430 01:14:44,600 --> 01:14:47,719 Speaker 2: not use the thumb That's the question, That is the question, 1431 01:14:49,680 --> 01:14:50,479 Speaker 2: ladies and gentlemen. 1432 01:14:51,680 --> 01:14:54,160 Speaker 1: Well, I promised. I promise is a promise. 1433 01:14:54,680 --> 01:14:56,479 Speaker 2: Promise is a promise. I think we need to get 1434 01:14:57,800 --> 01:14:59,920 Speaker 2: We definitely need to jacket off right now. Yeah, we 1435 01:15:00,200 --> 01:15:05,040 Speaker 2: lean to jack it off. Jacket off, jacket off. Take cam, Well, 1436 01:15:05,120 --> 01:15:06,160 Speaker 2: look at those shoulders. 1437 01:15:06,400 --> 01:15:15,759 Speaker 1: Wow, wow, Brown? 1438 01:15:18,439 --> 01:15:22,000 Speaker 4: You like what you see a lot more of it. 1439 01:15:22,400 --> 01:15:23,719 Speaker 2: Because I'm going to be here. 1440 01:15:25,040 --> 01:15:38,240 Speaker 8: All the time, every day, single, dirty, five days a week, Brown, five. 1441 01:15:38,120 --> 01:15:40,439 Speaker 2: Days a week, all work, all cheese. 1442 01:15:40,439 --> 01:15:43,360 Speaker 1: Sorry, it's just so proud of me when Keyon, when 1443 01:15:43,439 --> 01:15:46,719 Speaker 1: Keon's butt is on stream, it's just hard rock starts playing. 1444 01:15:46,840 --> 01:15:51,839 Speaker 2: Dude, that's how it goes. Maybe that's what I was Heyo. 1445 01:15:52,760 --> 01:15:55,320 Speaker 1: The more tactful version of that is to tell the 1446 01:15:55,360 --> 01:15:58,400 Speaker 1: audience to swap those words, to let them know how. 1447 01:15:58,280 --> 01:15:59,559 Speaker 2: We fix Do I look good? 1448 01:15:59,600 --> 01:16:03,280 Speaker 1: Now? Are we looking at my face and not my face? 1449 01:16:03,520 --> 01:16:03,720 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1450 01:16:03,800 --> 01:16:06,519 Speaker 1: Guys, come on, have some have some decency. It's my 1451 01:16:07,160 --> 01:16:08,400 Speaker 1: second day really. 1452 01:16:08,320 --> 01:16:15,000 Speaker 2: Come on, man, man, Okay, yeah, jacket off your shoulder, 1453 01:16:15,400 --> 01:16:21,040 Speaker 2: Ease into it. Ease into it, dude, Sophia count, I 1454 01:16:21,080 --> 01:16:22,760 Speaker 2: think my brain got rewired. 1455 01:16:23,760 --> 01:16:23,960 Speaker 1: Yues. 1456 01:16:26,520 --> 01:16:28,639 Speaker 2: How how do you feel about yourself right now? Kean? 1457 01:16:28,680 --> 01:16:32,400 Speaker 2: How is your self esteem doing? The moon? I'm on planet. 1458 01:16:33,040 --> 01:16:35,920 Speaker 1: I don't even know what the galaxy right now? Planet 1459 01:16:36,040 --> 01:16:37,880 Speaker 1: cake planet. 1460 01:16:37,960 --> 01:16:40,760 Speaker 2: Guys, I'd like to put the double cheeked up on 1461 01:16:40,800 --> 01:16:44,160 Speaker 2: a Tuesday afternoon. Maybe cake is Maybe the birthday cake is? 1462 01:16:44,160 --> 01:16:46,960 Speaker 2: Is Kaalon's emoji? Please you guys think don't do that. 1463 01:16:48,080 --> 01:16:52,439 Speaker 4: My mom would be so disappointed. I for one won't, 1464 01:16:52,439 --> 01:16:54,880 Speaker 4: but my mom would be so disappointed. I'm having to 1465 01:16:54,880 --> 01:17:00,479 Speaker 4: WORKO today, Kean. Oh, they liked my butt. That's it. 1466 01:17:00,560 --> 01:17:03,040 Speaker 2: I mean, you're not wrong. Hey man, she gave it 1467 01:17:03,080 --> 01:17:06,439 Speaker 2: to you. Thanks. How can you be bad? How can 1468 01:17:06,479 --> 01:17:10,160 Speaker 2: you be bad? Dude? You know what? Mom? It's if 1469 01:17:10,160 --> 01:17:12,000 Speaker 2: I'm her. I'm like, it's my own fault. What have 1470 01:17:12,040 --> 01:17:14,680 Speaker 2: I done? What have I done? All right, y'all, we 1471 01:17:14,680 --> 01:17:16,160 Speaker 2: want to read a few more donors before we get 1472 01:17:16,160 --> 01:17:21,680 Speaker 2: into this next one. Got here here we go, Minissa 1473 01:17:21,720 --> 01:17:24,280 Speaker 2: sixty to fifteen, Thanks for the two bucks? What happened 1474 01:17:24,320 --> 01:17:27,080 Speaker 2: to the timer. We fixed it. We gotta fix thank 1475 01:17:27,080 --> 01:17:27,519 Speaker 2: you for asking. 1476 01:17:27,600 --> 01:17:32,160 Speaker 4: It was going again technically, first listen, come on, give 1477 01:17:32,200 --> 01:17:32,799 Speaker 4: me some slack. 1478 01:17:33,000 --> 01:17:35,599 Speaker 2: Here, look at my butt. Come on there we go, 1479 01:17:38,720 --> 01:17:41,200 Speaker 2: oh man. And then we're looking at the tipling now, 1480 01:17:41,360 --> 01:17:44,400 Speaker 2: Brionna from Australia. Thanks for the fifteen bucks. Can we 1481 01:17:44,400 --> 01:17:44,880 Speaker 2: see Riley? 1482 01:17:44,920 --> 01:17:45,160 Speaker 5: Please? 1483 01:17:45,439 --> 01:17:50,040 Speaker 1: We delivered that and that's it. Just to come on again, Riley, 1484 01:17:52,920 --> 01:17:53,760 Speaker 1: how about we look at. 1485 01:17:53,640 --> 01:18:01,479 Speaker 2: Your buttonhging Wait a second, stop mugging, chatw ew go 1486 01:18:01,600 --> 01:18:03,639 Speaker 2: back to me, thank you, thank you. And I don't 1487 01:18:03,720 --> 01:18:04,840 Speaker 2: like that. So they don't like that? 1488 01:18:05,160 --> 01:18:09,160 Speaker 4: Oh god, no, we only we only gained thirty minutes, guys, 1489 01:18:09,160 --> 01:18:13,639 Speaker 4: I accidentally clicked an hour, did Yeah, but we're back No, no, no, yeah, 1490 01:18:13,800 --> 01:18:14,360 Speaker 4: you give. 1491 01:18:14,200 --> 01:18:16,320 Speaker 2: The people the extra thirty you gave it to them. 1492 01:18:16,280 --> 01:18:16,559 Speaker 1: He was. 1493 01:18:18,640 --> 01:18:20,960 Speaker 2: We'll double triple check. Riley is on the scene. Ladies 1494 01:18:20,960 --> 01:18:22,960 Speaker 2: and gentlemen are producing resident producing expert. 1495 01:18:23,000 --> 01:18:26,080 Speaker 1: I'm messing up, guys. 1496 01:18:27,000 --> 01:18:29,559 Speaker 2: Uh, we're checking into it now. But in the meantime, 1497 01:18:30,240 --> 01:18:35,759 Speaker 2: let's read this next story. Reading comprehension boom, My sibling 1498 01:18:35,840 --> 01:18:38,960 Speaker 2: is having a child free wedding. She said, my kids 1499 01:18:39,000 --> 01:18:41,840 Speaker 2: can't even be in the same country. Oh, that's not 1500 01:18:42,000 --> 01:18:45,360 Speaker 2: extra whatsoever. Too close, too close. Uh, my sibling is 1501 01:18:45,360 --> 01:18:47,360 Speaker 2: getting married this year in a different country on the 1502 01:18:47,400 --> 01:18:50,720 Speaker 2: same continent. It's a destination wedding. All the guests live 1503 01:18:50,800 --> 01:18:53,080 Speaker 2: in the same country as US, and half are from 1504 01:18:53,120 --> 01:18:55,719 Speaker 2: the same state as US. By the way, this comes 1505 01:18:55,760 --> 01:18:58,479 Speaker 2: from type ADHD on the r slash Okay story time 1506 01:18:58,520 --> 01:19:01,680 Speaker 2: severed it. So the rehearsal is on a Thursday, the 1507 01:19:01,720 --> 01:19:04,759 Speaker 2: wedding is on a Friday. 1508 01:19:05,400 --> 01:19:07,720 Speaker 4: Kean was right, I was right all along, and then 1509 01:19:08,080 --> 01:19:11,560 Speaker 4: we extra and I gave you more behind. 1510 01:19:11,240 --> 01:19:15,599 Speaker 1: And you can't steal thirty minutes from the chat, Riley, 1511 01:19:16,080 --> 01:19:16,679 Speaker 1: you can't. 1512 01:19:17,640 --> 01:19:20,160 Speaker 2: We got it. We got it, boys and girls, Rookie, 1513 01:19:20,880 --> 01:19:25,439 Speaker 2: it's updated, it's updated. Leave our part Riley alone. He's 1514 01:19:25,439 --> 01:19:28,280 Speaker 2: defenseless with no cameon and Mike to speak for himself. 1515 01:19:28,479 --> 01:19:30,240 Speaker 1: I'm gonna don't watch out, Riley. I might have to 1516 01:19:30,240 --> 01:19:31,439 Speaker 1: beat you at basketball again. 1517 01:19:31,680 --> 01:19:36,000 Speaker 2: Uh oh yeah, here we go, there we go. Get 1518 01:19:36,080 --> 01:19:40,759 Speaker 2: him going, all right? So no, So the rehearsal dinners 1519 01:19:40,800 --> 01:19:43,240 Speaker 2: on a Thursday, the wedding is on a Friday, and 1520 01:19:43,280 --> 01:19:46,240 Speaker 2: then they apparently have a full weekend of playans big wedding. 1521 01:19:46,360 --> 01:19:49,439 Speaker 2: It's apparently going to be an intimate, adults only wedding 1522 01:19:49,680 --> 01:19:53,320 Speaker 2: on the weekend. I have no problem with us. Apparently 1523 01:19:53,479 --> 01:19:55,840 Speaker 2: there won't be a bridal party, and I'm not obligated 1524 01:19:55,840 --> 01:19:58,439 Speaker 2: as a bridesmaid or anything like that. If they want 1525 01:19:58,439 --> 01:20:00,479 Speaker 2: to keep a small playing a full weekd of wedding 1526 01:20:00,479 --> 01:20:02,760 Speaker 2: events and they don't want kids at their wedding, that 1527 01:20:02,920 --> 01:20:05,920 Speaker 2: is their prerogative. I don't have much in common with 1528 01:20:05,960 --> 01:20:08,920 Speaker 2: this sibling, and I don't have an interest in participating 1529 01:20:08,960 --> 01:20:12,559 Speaker 2: in events beyond the rehearsal dinner slash wedding. I'm also 1530 01:20:12,680 --> 01:20:15,800 Speaker 2: not leaving my four children under ten, the youngest will 1531 01:20:15,840 --> 01:20:19,000 Speaker 2: be two, at home from Wednesday to Sunday while all 1532 01:20:19,040 --> 01:20:22,040 Speaker 2: of my family of origin are in a different country. 1533 01:20:22,200 --> 01:20:24,639 Speaker 2: Teach them to fend for themselves. That's all I'm saying. 1534 01:20:24,760 --> 01:20:28,040 Speaker 2: They're gonna have to at some point. Come on, both people, 1535 01:20:28,280 --> 01:20:31,960 Speaker 2: they can survive long. I'm also not close with leaving 1536 01:20:32,280 --> 01:20:35,519 Speaker 2: I'm also not cool with leaving my husband home while 1537 01:20:35,520 --> 01:20:37,920 Speaker 2: I go to this wedding by myself. The wedding is 1538 01:20:38,000 --> 01:20:41,280 Speaker 2: small enough that really I will probably only hang out 1539 01:20:41,280 --> 01:20:43,639 Speaker 2: with one of my other siblings who also has a kid. 1540 01:20:44,200 --> 01:20:47,320 Speaker 2: Is the husband not going to they have four kids, 1541 01:20:48,200 --> 01:20:50,120 Speaker 2: all under ten years old, and the husband's not attending 1542 01:20:50,160 --> 01:20:52,400 Speaker 2: the wedding. Possible red flag. 1543 01:20:52,479 --> 01:20:57,360 Speaker 1: Wait, but because they are because the kids can't go. 1544 01:20:57,720 --> 01:20:59,639 Speaker 2: I'm also not cool with you leaving my husband home. 1545 01:20:59,760 --> 01:21:03,000 Speaker 1: Oh yes, yeah, but someone would have to stay home 1546 01:21:03,000 --> 01:21:06,120 Speaker 1: with the kids. Oh I sorry, he's living. 1547 01:21:05,920 --> 01:21:09,000 Speaker 2: In tomorrow where it would be opposite day. Yeah. Reading comprehension, 1548 01:21:09,040 --> 01:21:13,000 Speaker 2: negative Tesser said, thank you, big d. Here we go. Okay, 1549 01:21:13,040 --> 01:21:16,040 Speaker 2: somm but bit bit bit, baby boo. The wedding is 1550 01:21:16,080 --> 01:21:18,840 Speaker 2: small enough that really I will probably only hang out 1551 01:21:18,840 --> 01:21:21,280 Speaker 2: with one of my other siblings who also has a kid. 1552 01:21:21,760 --> 01:21:24,639 Speaker 2: So our current plan is to bring the kids with us, 1553 01:21:25,240 --> 01:21:28,280 Speaker 2: stay offsite in a condo in a different town around 1554 01:21:28,280 --> 01:21:30,439 Speaker 2: twenty to thirty minutes away from where the wedding is 1555 01:21:30,479 --> 01:21:34,760 Speaker 2: being held, possibly with another sibling who has plans to 1556 01:21:34,760 --> 01:21:37,519 Speaker 2: bring their kids and participate in the same way, and 1557 01:21:37,640 --> 01:21:39,840 Speaker 2: we would either bring a sitter with us or get 1558 01:21:39,880 --> 01:21:43,320 Speaker 2: a sitter. Yes, I absolutely have concerns about hiring someone 1559 01:21:43,360 --> 01:21:46,600 Speaker 2: I haven't met for the evening of the wedding. My 1560 01:21:46,680 --> 01:21:49,400 Speaker 2: husband volunteered to hang out with the kids for the 1561 01:21:49,439 --> 01:21:52,559 Speaker 2: other events if I wanted to attend, but we would 1562 01:21:52,640 --> 01:21:56,320 Speaker 2: also explore the area and make a longer vacation out 1563 01:21:56,320 --> 01:22:00,679 Speaker 2: of it, essentially not imposing my family on their wedding weekend, 1564 01:22:01,160 --> 01:22:03,679 Speaker 2: but making it so both my husband and myself would 1565 01:22:03,720 --> 01:22:05,880 Speaker 2: be able to attend the wedding and I would be 1566 01:22:05,880 --> 01:22:07,760 Speaker 2: able to attend a few other events too. 1567 01:22:09,880 --> 01:22:13,360 Speaker 1: Thorough plan sounds like a great plan, so super solid. 1568 01:22:13,400 --> 01:22:14,439 Speaker 2: Nothing can go wrong for me? 1569 01:22:14,560 --> 01:22:19,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, nothing, And if we know anything it's that nothing 1570 01:22:19,160 --> 01:22:21,320 Speaker 1: ever goes wrong in any of these stories. 1571 01:22:23,280 --> 01:22:30,439 Speaker 2: Correct, So the bride said that. The bride said that 1572 01:22:30,479 --> 01:22:34,799 Speaker 2: it is her decision and non negotiable whether our kids 1573 01:22:34,840 --> 01:22:38,640 Speaker 2: travel with us to the same country where we are 1574 01:22:38,680 --> 01:22:41,160 Speaker 2: hosting their wedding. Non negotiable. 1575 01:22:41,600 --> 01:22:44,880 Speaker 1: Can't come, Nope, not negotiable whatsoever. 1576 01:22:46,360 --> 01:22:50,640 Speaker 2: We are hardline. They are not coming. If they're on 1577 01:22:50,680 --> 01:22:54,400 Speaker 2: the plane, it kick them out. If they're on the 1578 01:22:54,400 --> 01:22:56,880 Speaker 2: plane out here, they're going right out the emergency heat 1579 01:22:56,920 --> 01:22:59,880 Speaker 2: shive them a parachute. You're on your waist on being 1580 01:23:00,000 --> 01:23:03,240 Speaker 2: adult now, yes, grow up with the wolves. The bride 1581 01:23:03,280 --> 01:23:06,120 Speaker 2: specifically made a comment that she was concerned that I 1582 01:23:06,160 --> 01:23:09,400 Speaker 2: would make my parents watch the kids. No, I'm absolutely 1583 01:23:09,400 --> 01:23:13,080 Speaker 2: not imposing on my parents like that. She suggested that 1584 01:23:13,160 --> 01:23:15,759 Speaker 2: I leave the kids with my in laws. They aren't 1585 01:23:15,760 --> 01:23:18,000 Speaker 2: allowed to babysit. We left our kids with them for 1586 01:23:18,040 --> 01:23:20,479 Speaker 2: a couple of days and one of my kids had 1587 01:23:20,520 --> 01:23:26,680 Speaker 2: a significant stutter when he returned. WHOA that I divide 1588 01:23:26,720 --> 01:23:30,400 Speaker 2: my kids amongst my friends. Oh, this is a list 1589 01:23:30,479 --> 01:23:33,080 Speaker 2: of options. Another option that I leave my husband at 1590 01:23:33,080 --> 01:23:36,160 Speaker 2: home alone. That I leave my husband at home to 1591 01:23:36,160 --> 01:23:39,000 Speaker 2: watch the kids. That I leave half the kids with 1592 01:23:39,040 --> 01:23:41,240 Speaker 2: my husband and the other half of the kids with 1593 01:23:41,320 --> 01:23:45,160 Speaker 2: my in laws. What a buffet of choices. My God, 1594 01:23:45,560 --> 01:23:50,960 Speaker 2: everybody eats. Everybody eats everybody except for the kids. It 1595 01:23:51,000 --> 01:23:54,160 Speaker 2: would seem to me that they have control over who 1596 01:23:54,240 --> 01:23:57,360 Speaker 2: they invite and what activities they plan. I have the 1597 01:23:57,439 --> 01:24:00,439 Speaker 2: option to accept or decline some or all of the 1598 01:24:00,479 --> 01:24:03,720 Speaker 2: activities they planned, and I don't think it's any of 1599 01:24:03,760 --> 01:24:06,559 Speaker 2: their business how I travel. Would I be the a 1600 01:24:06,720 --> 01:24:09,759 Speaker 2: hole for my husband and I to have our kids 1601 01:24:09,960 --> 01:24:13,960 Speaker 2: travel with us. We have an update, Bill, we gotta talk. 1602 01:24:15,880 --> 01:24:17,360 Speaker 2: That's kind of that's. 1603 01:24:20,520 --> 01:24:24,400 Speaker 1: I think maybe you would both suck right if there 1604 01:24:24,720 --> 01:24:28,320 Speaker 1: if it's like explicitly stated that there are no children 1605 01:24:29,320 --> 01:24:30,040 Speaker 1: at this wedding. 1606 01:24:30,280 --> 01:24:33,760 Speaker 2: At the wedding, but they're staying in the condo the 1607 01:24:33,800 --> 01:24:40,559 Speaker 2: whole time, is my understanding. Oh oh, so they're they're 1608 01:24:41,360 --> 01:24:44,599 Speaker 2: they're flying with op and the husband staying at the hondo. 1609 01:24:44,720 --> 01:24:46,679 Speaker 2: So they're kind of like, oh, sometimes the husband will watch, 1610 01:24:46,680 --> 01:24:48,799 Speaker 2: sometimes we'll have a babysitter, but we'll. 1611 01:24:48,640 --> 01:24:51,880 Speaker 1: Be able to go without having to bring the. 1612 01:24:51,920 --> 01:24:52,840 Speaker 2: Kids to the wedding. 1613 01:24:53,000 --> 01:24:55,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, so they'll just like go to the wedding and 1614 01:24:55,080 --> 01:24:57,320 Speaker 1: shifts and take care of the children and shifts. 1615 01:24:57,439 --> 01:25:03,240 Speaker 2: Yes, but I don't sister is afraid that they'll they'll 1616 01:25:03,280 --> 01:25:06,760 Speaker 2: like ask ask Opie's parents to watch them or Yeah, 1617 01:25:06,800 --> 01:25:08,080 Speaker 2: looks as long. 1618 01:25:07,960 --> 01:25:10,960 Speaker 1: As the kids don't impact the wedding outside of your 1619 01:25:11,080 --> 01:25:14,800 Speaker 1: own participation in it. Yeah, as long as it's not 1620 01:25:14,800 --> 01:25:17,200 Speaker 1: pulling anyone else away from the wedding besides you two. 1621 01:25:18,240 --> 01:25:20,559 Speaker 1: I don't see any universe in which that should be 1622 01:25:20,640 --> 01:25:22,200 Speaker 1: like a deal breaker problem. 1623 01:25:22,439 --> 01:25:25,040 Speaker 2: Totally agree. And look, we've had sort of like the 1624 01:25:25,439 --> 01:25:27,840 Speaker 2: inverse of the story, very similar has happened, where it's 1625 01:25:27,880 --> 01:25:30,400 Speaker 2: like a person that always ends up dumping their kids 1626 01:25:30,479 --> 01:25:32,720 Speaker 2: on someone. Yeah, and it's like, Okay, you can't come 1627 01:25:32,760 --> 01:25:34,960 Speaker 2: because we know you're you can't bring your kids because 1628 01:25:35,000 --> 01:25:37,360 Speaker 2: we know that you'll dump them on somebody. Yeah, but 1629 01:25:38,040 --> 01:25:41,920 Speaker 2: as far as we know, Opia has zero history of that, 1630 01:25:42,120 --> 01:25:45,240 Speaker 2: and b has a full, complete and thorough plan to 1631 01:25:45,280 --> 01:25:47,599 Speaker 2: make sure the kids don't have to come to the wedding. 1632 01:25:47,720 --> 01:25:51,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, as long as the kids aren't going, it's absurd 1633 01:25:51,640 --> 01:25:52,880 Speaker 1: for them to be, like, they can't even be in 1634 01:25:52,880 --> 01:25:55,840 Speaker 1: the same country, right, If the kids aren't impacting the wedding, 1635 01:25:56,000 --> 01:25:58,599 Speaker 1: then they're not, then it shouldn't be a problem. 1636 01:25:58,920 --> 01:26:01,519 Speaker 2: So no, do you we boycott the wedding, do we 1637 01:26:02,360 --> 01:26:03,720 Speaker 2: go on strike? I don't think so. 1638 01:26:04,280 --> 01:26:07,320 Speaker 1: I think it's perfectly reasonable to like, like, you know, 1639 01:26:07,360 --> 01:26:09,800 Speaker 1: we have so many stories about like people's weddings, and 1640 01:26:09,840 --> 01:26:12,200 Speaker 1: now it's like it's my day, and it's like, yeah, 1641 01:26:12,240 --> 01:26:14,280 Speaker 1: if you decide that on your day that there are 1642 01:26:14,280 --> 01:26:16,360 Speaker 1: not gonna be any kids at the wedding, then the 1643 01:26:16,400 --> 01:26:18,400 Speaker 1: people who are attending have to like respect. 1644 01:26:18,080 --> 01:26:19,960 Speaker 2: That power to you. They have to just to go 1645 01:26:20,080 --> 01:26:21,479 Speaker 2: or not. But yeah, that's the way it is. 1646 01:26:21,880 --> 01:26:25,000 Speaker 1: And if you can't go because like you have kids 1647 01:26:25,040 --> 01:26:27,639 Speaker 1: to take care of, then you can let them know that, hey, 1648 01:26:28,040 --> 01:26:29,920 Speaker 1: I can't go to your wedding because I'm gonna have 1649 01:26:29,960 --> 01:26:32,800 Speaker 1: to take care of my children. And then that's gonna 1650 01:26:32,840 --> 01:26:35,200 Speaker 1: be a conversation at that point, right, But kids at 1651 01:26:35,200 --> 01:26:37,960 Speaker 1: the wedding are like so cool and they're so cute 1652 01:26:38,040 --> 01:26:41,519 Speaker 1: and like the ring bearer and the flower girls and 1653 01:26:41,600 --> 01:26:42,120 Speaker 1: what have you. 1654 01:26:42,920 --> 01:26:45,439 Speaker 2: That's not what they want. I don't listen. I brought 1655 01:26:45,479 --> 01:26:47,280 Speaker 2: my heelies on the dance floor a wedding as a 1656 01:26:47,320 --> 01:26:49,840 Speaker 2: nine year old. That's the greatest thing everyone's, anyone's ever 1657 01:26:49,840 --> 01:26:54,360 Speaker 2: done in history. Undebatable. However, if they don't want kids, hey, listen, 1658 01:26:54,439 --> 01:26:56,000 Speaker 2: you're you're losing out on that awesomeness. 1659 01:26:56,040 --> 01:26:57,960 Speaker 1: It's true, that's all the power to you. It is 1660 01:26:58,000 --> 01:27:01,040 Speaker 1: your day, do what you want. And if yeah, they're 1661 01:27:01,040 --> 01:27:04,320 Speaker 1: gonna have to deal with the likely less people too, 1662 01:27:04,360 --> 01:27:06,240 Speaker 1: because people are gonna have to take care of their kids. 1663 01:27:06,240 --> 01:27:07,920 Speaker 1: So it's like it's you give and you take, big 1664 01:27:07,960 --> 01:27:08,439 Speaker 1: you poison. 1665 01:27:08,640 --> 01:27:12,679 Speaker 4: It's kind of is it sucky? Yeah, but it's again, 1666 01:27:12,800 --> 01:27:15,080 Speaker 4: gotta respect the dealer. 1667 01:27:15,080 --> 01:27:17,559 Speaker 1: I guess it's their date, it's their special date. 1668 01:27:18,280 --> 01:27:22,040 Speaker 2: Well, we have an update, ladies and gentlemen. So update. 1669 01:27:22,120 --> 01:27:26,160 Speaker 2: Here's the background. Sisters getting married in Canada. It's an intimate, 1670 01:27:26,280 --> 01:27:30,559 Speaker 2: child free, extended weekend destination wedding. She thinks that it's 1671 01:27:30,560 --> 01:27:33,840 Speaker 2: within her purview to decide that my four kids aren't 1672 01:27:33,840 --> 01:27:36,519 Speaker 2: welcome to be in the next town over being cared for, 1673 01:27:36,600 --> 01:27:39,439 Speaker 2: either by a sitter hired in Canada or by someone 1674 01:27:39,439 --> 01:27:42,120 Speaker 2: traveling with us during her wedding. I am not opposed 1675 01:27:42,160 --> 01:27:44,479 Speaker 2: to child free weddings and have not asked my sister 1676 01:27:44,520 --> 01:27:49,720 Speaker 2: for any special accommodations or anything. We have both We 1677 01:27:49,800 --> 01:27:52,200 Speaker 2: have used both of these both of those options to 1678 01:27:52,200 --> 01:27:55,760 Speaker 2: attend other destination weddings without imposing on the wedding or 1679 01:27:55,800 --> 01:27:58,479 Speaker 2: other guests. After my sister freaked out on me on 1680 01:27:58,520 --> 01:28:00,720 Speaker 2: the phone and stuck her feet say on the phone 1681 01:28:00,760 --> 01:28:05,439 Speaker 2: to back her up full story on that below at boop. 1682 01:28:05,760 --> 01:28:08,080 Speaker 2: I'm not sure what that means, but Opie says I 1683 01:28:08,120 --> 01:28:11,360 Speaker 2: sent my sister a text to stating we really wanted 1684 01:28:11,360 --> 01:28:13,360 Speaker 2: to come to your wedding, which is why we try 1685 01:28:13,400 --> 01:28:16,640 Speaker 2: to find a solution for kids that was mutually acceptable. 1686 01:28:17,000 --> 01:28:19,479 Speaker 2: The reality is that we are not comfortable leaving the 1687 01:28:19,560 --> 01:28:23,320 Speaker 2: kids while both husband and I and mom and dad 1688 01:28:23,560 --> 01:28:26,400 Speaker 2: are out of the country. So if it's not acceptable 1689 01:28:26,439 --> 01:28:28,439 Speaker 2: for us to be in Canada at an off site 1690 01:28:28,520 --> 01:28:31,360 Speaker 2: condo with the kids having a sitter during the wedding 1691 01:28:31,600 --> 01:28:34,479 Speaker 2: and husband hanging out with them during other events, or 1692 01:28:34,520 --> 01:28:36,759 Speaker 2: bringing someone with us to watch them at the condo 1693 01:28:36,840 --> 01:28:40,360 Speaker 2: during those events. Then we won't be able to attend 1694 01:28:40,720 --> 01:28:44,719 Speaker 2: your wedding, but we will look forward to the family reception. 1695 01:28:45,000 --> 01:28:49,600 Speaker 2: My mom is planning Pole leave the wedding or not? 1696 01:28:50,000 --> 01:28:55,000 Speaker 2: That was a good poll poll po. I always think 1697 01:28:55,000 --> 01:29:01,000 Speaker 2: of there's a moment in SpongeBob where mister Krabs is like, hey, 1698 01:29:01,040 --> 01:29:03,840 Speaker 2: this is Pearl and he's like, hello Pole, And I 1699 01:29:03,880 --> 01:29:05,720 Speaker 2: always think of that every time I say a Pole. 1700 01:29:05,800 --> 01:29:10,040 Speaker 1: Now, our brains are full of just SpongeBob and it's true, 1701 01:29:10,320 --> 01:29:12,720 Speaker 1: just cartoon references. We don't even know, we're not even 1702 01:29:12,800 --> 01:29:15,799 Speaker 1: aware that influence are dad, And it's so beautiful. 1703 01:29:16,080 --> 01:29:19,960 Speaker 2: But you're welcome, guys. But yeah, do you think that 1704 01:29:19,960 --> 01:29:23,800 Speaker 2: that was the right decision quickly? What to believe to 1705 01:29:23,840 --> 01:29:25,760 Speaker 2: basically be like I'm piecing out from this wedding. 1706 01:29:25,840 --> 01:29:30,719 Speaker 1: I mean, like I think if it's you know, yeah, 1707 01:29:30,880 --> 01:29:34,519 Speaker 1: it's weird to be like the kids are taking care 1708 01:29:34,600 --> 01:29:36,640 Speaker 1: of like they're they're a non factor, and for it 1709 01:29:36,680 --> 01:29:39,640 Speaker 1: to still be an issue. It's like, now I feel offended, 1710 01:29:39,880 --> 01:29:42,880 Speaker 1: Like you just hate my own children, like so hard 1711 01:29:42,920 --> 01:29:45,040 Speaker 1: they can't even be in the same country, right, Like 1712 01:29:45,120 --> 01:29:47,960 Speaker 1: what and even if if it's not that and it's 1713 01:29:48,040 --> 01:29:49,680 Speaker 1: just like a bridezilla thing, it's like, if you're going 1714 01:29:49,720 --> 01:29:52,200 Speaker 1: to be that much of a bridezilla, you're probably it's 1715 01:29:52,240 --> 01:29:54,439 Speaker 1: probably not gonna be that much fun of a weekend, Yeah, 1716 01:29:54,439 --> 01:29:58,280 Speaker 1: because you're gonna be you know, ruining everyone's time. 1717 01:29:58,760 --> 01:30:03,000 Speaker 2: Sorry kids, Auntie. So yeah, yeah, I would say. The 1718 01:30:03,040 --> 01:30:05,479 Speaker 2: one thing I was thinking initially was like, oh, have 1719 01:30:05,560 --> 01:30:08,200 Speaker 2: you tried to see if there's like is the the 1720 01:30:08,280 --> 01:30:11,760 Speaker 2: regular sitter use available to like watch the kids, but 1721 01:30:12,920 --> 01:30:15,439 Speaker 2: the sister is just being like so disrespectful, like you 1722 01:30:15,479 --> 01:30:19,280 Speaker 2: literally won't even allow my children, your nieces and nephews 1723 01:30:19,360 --> 01:30:21,439 Speaker 2: to just like be in the same city. 1724 01:30:21,680 --> 01:30:25,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like also your family, dude, these are people related 1725 01:30:25,640 --> 01:30:26,160 Speaker 1: to you. 1726 01:30:26,240 --> 01:30:29,320 Speaker 2: Literally, it's just so like that level of disrespect. Like 1727 01:30:29,360 --> 01:30:31,080 Speaker 2: I like maybe I even would have put in the 1728 01:30:31,080 --> 01:30:33,559 Speaker 2: message like I felt really disrespected when you said, like, 1729 01:30:34,080 --> 01:30:36,160 Speaker 2: you know, my children, your nieces and nephews couldn't even 1730 01:30:36,200 --> 01:30:37,840 Speaker 2: be in the same city. Like I don't know what 1731 01:30:37,880 --> 01:30:39,680 Speaker 2: that's about. Like I would love to I would love 1732 01:30:39,720 --> 01:30:42,240 Speaker 2: to come, and like they we have the plan, we 1733 01:30:42,280 --> 01:30:45,160 Speaker 2: wouldn't impose you on them. Maybe there's something more here. 1734 01:30:45,240 --> 01:30:49,439 Speaker 1: Maybe maybe Opie's kids are just actually little nightmares with 1735 01:30:49,640 --> 01:30:50,960 Speaker 1: little legs running around. 1736 01:30:51,040 --> 01:30:54,280 Speaker 2: Okay, Like is that is that really that? 1737 01:30:54,560 --> 01:30:56,920 Speaker 1: Like that's okay, they can't be in the same country 1738 01:30:56,960 --> 01:31:00,679 Speaker 1: because these little rascals will figure out how to ruin 1739 01:31:00,720 --> 01:31:01,280 Speaker 1: my wedding. 1740 01:31:01,520 --> 01:31:02,799 Speaker 2: Like that is a good theory. 1741 01:31:02,960 --> 01:31:06,479 Speaker 4: I don't know, like just I mean, I know, I know, 1742 01:31:06,520 --> 01:31:09,160 Speaker 4: but like I wish, I really wish there was like 1743 01:31:09,160 --> 01:31:11,200 Speaker 4: an actual reason, like, oh, we're just having an adult wedding. 1744 01:31:11,920 --> 01:31:15,920 Speaker 2: I think there's something below the surface that hasn't been 1745 01:31:15,920 --> 01:31:19,120 Speaker 2: discussed of the reason why. She's like, you can't bring 1746 01:31:20,200 --> 01:31:23,479 Speaker 2: the kids here. Oh maybe it's well, let's let's just continue. 1747 01:31:23,560 --> 01:31:26,439 Speaker 2: We shall see you, so sister responds to that text. 1748 01:31:26,600 --> 01:31:29,120 Speaker 2: I understand that you may not be able to join 1749 01:31:29,640 --> 01:31:32,799 Speaker 2: if you are. If you or you and your husband 1750 01:31:32,880 --> 01:31:34,920 Speaker 2: end up finding a way to come to Canada without 1751 01:31:34,920 --> 01:31:37,200 Speaker 2: the kids, we would look forward to seeing you there. 1752 01:31:37,560 --> 01:31:40,120 Speaker 2: Please let us know by date so that way we 1753 01:31:40,160 --> 01:31:44,920 Speaker 2: can get a final head count. I responded, No, you 1754 01:31:44,960 --> 01:31:48,000 Speaker 2: don't have the authority to dictate anything beyond who is 1755 01:31:48,000 --> 01:31:51,639 Speaker 2: invited in your wedding events. Good luck getting older sibling 1756 01:31:51,720 --> 01:31:53,439 Speaker 2: who was planning to do the same thing as me 1757 01:31:53,840 --> 01:31:59,400 Speaker 2: to attend. Now, mom Zilla is that I am not 1758 01:31:59,520 --> 01:32:02,000 Speaker 2: coming to the wedding. She has been telling me all 1759 01:32:02,080 --> 01:32:06,800 Speaker 2: sorts of untrue things about myself, assigning me motives. You 1760 01:32:06,920 --> 01:32:10,200 Speaker 2: told your sister on X Day that you would ruin 1761 01:32:10,400 --> 01:32:16,439 Speaker 2: her day, telling me that I should know details about 1762 01:32:16,479 --> 01:32:20,000 Speaker 2: the wedding guest's lists that haven't been told to me, 1763 01:32:20,520 --> 01:32:23,639 Speaker 2: saying I've been unkind to my sister. I haven't spoken 1764 01:32:23,680 --> 01:32:26,080 Speaker 2: to my sister since these texts, but that's not out 1765 01:32:26,080 --> 01:32:29,439 Speaker 2: of the ordinary, and I have not been mean. The 1766 01:32:29,479 --> 01:32:31,920 Speaker 2: only thing I've told her is that she doesn't have 1767 01:32:32,000 --> 01:32:34,439 Speaker 2: the authority to tell me how to parent my children 1768 01:32:34,880 --> 01:32:38,519 Speaker 2: or decide who travels with me, telling me that I 1769 01:32:38,520 --> 01:32:41,680 Speaker 2: didn't give my sister the option of bringing someone with us. 1770 01:32:42,040 --> 01:32:45,519 Speaker 2: I did twice at the restaurant and on the phone call, 1771 01:32:45,880 --> 01:32:50,559 Speaker 2: plus sent the above text that we just read. Mom 1772 01:32:50,640 --> 01:32:53,200 Speaker 2: is attacking me like a flying monkey about this, and 1773 01:32:53,280 --> 01:32:56,400 Speaker 2: I am so over it, flying monkeys like a crazy person. 1774 01:32:58,000 --> 01:33:01,479 Speaker 2: So that's that story, is that the sister asked me 1775 01:33:01,560 --> 01:33:04,519 Speaker 2: if I could go dress shopping with her mom, and 1776 01:33:04,560 --> 01:33:07,439 Speaker 2: I drove to where she lives, and when she picked 1777 01:33:07,439 --> 01:33:09,799 Speaker 2: her up, the first thing my mom says to my sister, 1778 01:33:09,960 --> 01:33:13,160 Speaker 2: is you have to tell aunt and cousin that they're 1779 01:33:13,280 --> 01:33:18,280 Speaker 2: not invited to the wedding. Huh, because her intimate wedding 1780 01:33:18,479 --> 01:33:24,799 Speaker 2: apparently would have only been immediate family and a couple friends. 1781 01:33:25,439 --> 01:33:28,640 Speaker 2: But my sister invited our aunt and cousin, who is 1782 01:33:28,720 --> 01:33:32,800 Speaker 2: like another sister and was one of my bridesmaids, to 1783 01:33:32,920 --> 01:33:36,439 Speaker 2: go dress shopping. So now it seems like correct me 1784 01:33:36,479 --> 01:33:38,280 Speaker 2: if I'm wrong. I'm trying to make sure I'm keeping 1785 01:33:38,320 --> 01:33:41,480 Speaker 2: up here. The mom is now there was like the 1786 01:33:41,479 --> 01:33:43,880 Speaker 2: the aunt and cousin who like, OHP is friendly with, 1787 01:33:44,240 --> 01:33:46,800 Speaker 2: and the mom is like, I don't want them in this, 1788 01:33:47,040 --> 01:33:50,880 Speaker 2: in this wedding, and it's like this isn't even your wedding. 1789 01:33:51,600 --> 01:33:54,840 Speaker 1: It's like who, yeah, who is Who's who's in charge here? 1790 01:33:54,920 --> 01:33:57,759 Speaker 2: Who's whose wedding is this? Who's in charge? Who's in charge? 1791 01:33:58,040 --> 01:34:00,960 Speaker 1: Take me to your leader, let me talk, Take me 1792 01:34:01,000 --> 01:34:04,599 Speaker 1: to your wedding. You're ready to go to a wedding, dude, 1793 01:34:05,080 --> 01:34:06,879 Speaker 1: I literally am dressed for the occasion. 1794 01:34:07,360 --> 01:34:10,000 Speaker 2: Proposed to Kean in the comments and well he'll marry 1795 01:34:10,000 --> 01:34:14,519 Speaker 2: the best one. Yep, yes, he's forced to. So I 1796 01:34:14,800 --> 01:34:17,280 Speaker 2: would have noped out of dress shopping. Had I known 1797 01:34:17,360 --> 01:34:19,880 Speaker 2: that all up front. So when we were at dinner 1798 01:34:19,920 --> 01:34:23,960 Speaker 2: after dress shopping, she told aunt and cousin that they 1799 01:34:24,000 --> 01:34:30,840 Speaker 2: weren't invited. Wow, oh wow, dude, Dad's crazy. Yeah, you're 1800 01:34:30,840 --> 01:34:35,360 Speaker 2: not invited, You're out. Mom is crazy. I was super 1801 01:34:35,439 --> 01:34:39,320 Speaker 2: uncomfortable about that and stressed about other things. Uh, and 1802 01:34:39,520 --> 01:34:42,679 Speaker 2: I should have kept my mouth shut, but I mentioned 1803 01:34:42,760 --> 01:34:45,400 Speaker 2: that we'd be bringing our kids to Canada, but not 1804 01:34:45,439 --> 01:34:48,400 Speaker 2: to worry. We won't impede on anything because we were 1805 01:34:48,400 --> 01:34:50,600 Speaker 2: going to stay off site and either bring someone to 1806 01:34:50,600 --> 01:34:53,360 Speaker 2: get a senter there for them for all necessary activities, 1807 01:34:53,680 --> 01:34:56,320 Speaker 2: and they wouldn't be anywhere near the wedding or any 1808 01:34:56,439 --> 01:35:02,040 Speaker 2: other activities. The mom and the sister suck. I'm just like, 1809 01:35:02,080 --> 01:35:03,679 Speaker 2: I don't want to go to this wedding just because 1810 01:35:03,680 --> 01:35:05,840 Speaker 2: it sounds whack. Yeah, this is going to be a 1811 01:35:06,000 --> 01:35:06,759 Speaker 2: trash wedding. 1812 01:35:06,920 --> 01:35:09,439 Speaker 1: This is going to be a weekend of pulling teeth 1813 01:35:09,560 --> 01:35:11,280 Speaker 1: and pretending you're having a good time. 1814 01:35:11,400 --> 01:35:16,439 Speaker 2: And it's like Thursday, like like uh, Thursday rehearsal, dinner 1815 01:35:16,640 --> 01:35:20,479 Speaker 2: all the way to the activities at the end of Sunday. No, 1816 01:35:21,000 --> 01:35:24,439 Speaker 2: that's that's too much. And for this reason, I'm out, 1817 01:35:24,600 --> 01:35:28,559 Speaker 2: I'm out, I'm out. My sister turned frigid and told 1818 01:35:28,560 --> 01:35:31,920 Speaker 2: me that wouldn't be suggested, that wouldn't be accepted, and 1819 01:35:32,000 --> 01:35:37,639 Speaker 2: suggest that we take it offline click out. So after 1820 01:35:37,640 --> 01:35:40,680 Speaker 2: we were driving home, she called it was raining and 1821 01:35:40,720 --> 01:35:44,200 Speaker 2: started telling me how unacceptabable it was and that no, 1822 01:35:44,479 --> 01:35:48,479 Speaker 2: under no circumstances were my kids allowed in Canada during 1823 01:35:48,520 --> 01:35:51,839 Speaker 2: her wedding, et cetera. There been from the country. 1824 01:35:52,240 --> 01:35:54,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, who does this person think they are the god 1825 01:35:54,840 --> 01:35:55,679 Speaker 1: king of Canada. 1826 01:35:55,920 --> 01:35:59,320 Speaker 2: I just got off the phone with Justin Trudeau and 1827 01:35:59,400 --> 01:36:02,840 Speaker 2: he will personally not let your children in this country. Yeah, 1828 01:36:03,080 --> 01:36:03,599 Speaker 2: they will be. 1829 01:36:03,880 --> 01:36:08,640 Speaker 1: They will be fighter planes circling your aircraft. If you 1830 01:36:08,760 --> 01:36:13,960 Speaker 1: attempt to fly into Canadian airspace, your children, Meace will 1831 01:36:14,000 --> 01:36:16,040 Speaker 1: be at the border. You're not coming in. 1832 01:36:16,560 --> 01:36:18,040 Speaker 2: It's me, me, It's me. 1833 01:36:18,200 --> 01:36:23,000 Speaker 1: I guess geese, multiple moose, moose mooses the MEAs. 1834 01:36:23,000 --> 01:36:25,600 Speaker 2: I like mooses, me is just like it's like it 1835 01:36:26,040 --> 01:36:28,640 Speaker 2: logically seems correct, but sounds so wrong. 1836 01:36:28,680 --> 01:36:32,880 Speaker 4: Like a gaggle of geese. Gaggle that's what they care called. 1837 01:36:33,840 --> 01:36:36,160 Speaker 4: The more you know, Hi, guys, Fun facts with key 1838 01:36:36,160 --> 01:36:36,880 Speaker 4: on Today. 1839 01:36:37,360 --> 01:36:41,920 Speaker 1: Fun facts of oh Man, Never mind this is such 1840 01:36:41,920 --> 01:36:43,679 Speaker 1: a sidetrack that just went into my brain. 1841 01:36:43,760 --> 01:36:50,240 Speaker 2: Let's keep on sty sorry, guys, up, says She and 1842 01:36:50,280 --> 01:36:54,000 Speaker 2: her friance both spoke very heatedly, and I calmly answered 1843 01:36:54,040 --> 01:36:57,480 Speaker 2: their rapid fire questions as best I could, while repeatedly 1844 01:36:57,560 --> 01:37:00,400 Speaker 2: telling them that they don't have the authority to decide 1845 01:37:00,400 --> 01:37:03,040 Speaker 2: how I parent my children so long as I'm not 1846 01:37:03,080 --> 01:37:07,040 Speaker 2: imposing on her wedding events. She said, bringing them to 1847 01:37:07,120 --> 01:37:12,479 Speaker 2: Canada imposes on her wedding events. She made a bunch 1848 01:37:12,520 --> 01:37:15,000 Speaker 2: of suggestions all are in the Ami the a hole 1849 01:37:15,040 --> 01:37:17,200 Speaker 2: post about what I could do with my kids instead, 1850 01:37:17,560 --> 01:37:19,920 Speaker 2: and told me that I should have known that I 1851 01:37:19,920 --> 01:37:22,519 Speaker 2: would be expected to do hair and makeup with her. 1852 01:37:22,960 --> 01:37:25,040 Speaker 2: I'm not in the bridal party and I haven't agreed 1853 01:37:25,040 --> 01:37:27,040 Speaker 2: to anything. Yeah, you should have just known this thing 1854 01:37:27,080 --> 01:37:29,160 Speaker 2: that I like didn't tell you, Like you should have 1855 01:37:29,240 --> 01:37:32,240 Speaker 2: just like read my mind and just like, oh yeah here, 1856 01:37:32,280 --> 01:37:35,800 Speaker 2: I am ready to go hairdresser at the ready. Yeah. 1857 01:37:35,800 --> 01:37:39,759 Speaker 1: We sent out the mind reading chips earlier this month 1858 01:37:39,920 --> 01:37:42,040 Speaker 1: to everyone who's RSVP to the wedding. 1859 01:37:42,080 --> 01:37:45,120 Speaker 2: You didn't get it installed. Come on, you're off the timeline. 1860 01:37:45,160 --> 01:37:47,599 Speaker 2: Come on, plenty of time, dude, you need two weeks 1861 01:37:47,600 --> 01:37:51,760 Speaker 2: recovery before it works properly. God, and that they have 1862 01:37:51,800 --> 01:37:54,519 Speaker 2: planned a full itinerary and that I was remiss for 1863 01:37:54,640 --> 01:37:59,400 Speaker 2: not asking about it when making our plans. We have 1864 01:37:59,439 --> 01:38:04,120 Speaker 2: an update, but again quickly it's it doesn't it doesn't 1865 01:38:04,360 --> 01:38:07,320 Speaker 2: impede on anything. Yeah, I mean, what is the plan? 1866 01:38:07,800 --> 01:38:10,519 Speaker 1: Are they like they don't want any kids there because 1867 01:38:10,600 --> 01:38:11,599 Speaker 1: what are they doing? 1868 01:38:12,200 --> 01:38:13,080 Speaker 2: What are they doing? 1869 01:38:13,360 --> 01:38:16,080 Speaker 1: That means that the kids can't even be in the 1870 01:38:16,720 --> 01:38:17,879 Speaker 1: country Canada. 1871 01:38:18,000 --> 01:38:21,360 Speaker 2: The kids like peop would throw the government and ban 1872 01:38:21,680 --> 01:38:24,200 Speaker 2: all weddings unless they get all the candy in the world. 1873 01:38:24,240 --> 01:38:26,720 Speaker 2: And they don't want to have this this stalemate. 1874 01:38:26,560 --> 01:38:36,040 Speaker 1: You know rats. Maybe they're like wrangling Canadian children? Is 1875 01:38:36,040 --> 01:38:38,599 Speaker 1: that an activity that you do for a fun weekend? 1876 01:38:38,640 --> 01:38:41,000 Speaker 1: Getting married in Canada? They're like, we just don't want 1877 01:38:41,040 --> 01:38:43,160 Speaker 1: any of our kids to get mixed into the kids 1878 01:38:43,160 --> 01:38:46,400 Speaker 1: that were wrangling, don't worry, we set them free afterwards. 1879 01:38:46,920 --> 01:38:49,400 Speaker 1: We're catching release. I don't know what's gone. 1880 01:38:49,400 --> 01:38:50,320 Speaker 2: I mean, I don't get it. 1881 01:38:50,479 --> 01:38:54,880 Speaker 1: I truly, I don't understand how one could like they 1882 01:38:54,880 --> 01:38:57,160 Speaker 1: can't even be in the same country. It doesn't make 1883 01:38:57,160 --> 01:38:57,639 Speaker 1: any sense. 1884 01:38:57,640 --> 01:39:00,960 Speaker 4: It's very spiteful. I don't understand why there's such an 1885 01:39:01,000 --> 01:39:02,120 Speaker 4: issue with the kids. 1886 01:39:02,320 --> 01:39:07,640 Speaker 2: Either there's something that we don't know, or they're complete maniacs. 1887 01:39:08,080 --> 01:39:12,000 Speaker 4: Those are the only two I think, so I think 1888 01:39:12,040 --> 01:39:14,720 Speaker 4: that's what it is. Also, thank you for correcting me, guys, 1889 01:39:14,760 --> 01:39:15,439 Speaker 4: it is just moose. 1890 01:39:15,560 --> 01:39:16,400 Speaker 2: Moose's moose. 1891 01:39:18,200 --> 01:39:22,280 Speaker 1: If you rewrote never mind, Yeah, I can't do it. 1892 01:39:22,360 --> 01:39:25,519 Speaker 2: What it is called the Gagalese. The Gaglegese. Thank you 1893 01:39:25,560 --> 01:39:27,639 Speaker 2: for you've been resisting your rabbit hole so well said, 1894 01:39:27,720 --> 01:39:38,000 Speaker 2: I'm resisting chair. Well, guys, we have an update put 1895 01:39:38,280 --> 01:39:42,080 Speaker 2: Dacote Adam's misery. So while I was out this afternoon, 1896 01:39:42,120 --> 01:39:45,000 Speaker 2: my mom stopped by unannounced with one of those bridesmaids 1897 01:39:45,040 --> 01:39:47,760 Speaker 2: gift boxes build with a note asking me to bring 1898 01:39:47,800 --> 01:39:51,840 Speaker 2: a bridesmaid and random crap like an imask that says bridesmaid, 1899 01:39:51,880 --> 01:39:55,200 Speaker 2: et cetera. It was from my sister for me. She 1900 01:39:55,280 --> 01:39:57,479 Speaker 2: left it with my husband. Then like two hours later, 1901 01:39:57,600 --> 01:40:00,800 Speaker 2: my mom texted me, Uh, the gift that I brought 1902 01:40:00,840 --> 01:40:04,800 Speaker 2: over that was from the bride is something that that 1903 01:40:04,840 --> 01:40:07,360 Speaker 2: she ordered for you when she originally was planning to 1904 01:40:07,360 --> 01:40:09,439 Speaker 2: ask you to be a bridesmaid. But she wanted to 1905 01:40:09,439 --> 01:40:12,200 Speaker 2: make sure that you got the gift anyways, even if 1906 01:40:12,200 --> 01:40:14,200 Speaker 2: that didn't work out. 1907 01:40:14,800 --> 01:40:18,840 Speaker 1: Oh thanks feels petty. Yeah, thanks feels petty. Thanks for this, 1908 01:40:19,040 --> 01:40:19,960 Speaker 1: thanks a. 1909 01:40:19,880 --> 01:40:20,840 Speaker 2: Little, Tom Petty. 1910 01:40:21,160 --> 01:40:23,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, what it's like you could have just not given 1911 01:40:23,720 --> 01:40:25,479 Speaker 1: it to me, because guess why, I'm not doing that. 1912 01:40:25,640 --> 01:40:29,080 Speaker 1: So I'll take a free imass though, I mean true, 1913 01:40:29,240 --> 01:40:29,599 Speaker 1: why not? 1914 01:40:30,920 --> 01:40:33,840 Speaker 2: And then there's another update about a week or so later. 1915 01:40:34,720 --> 01:40:37,280 Speaker 2: I sent a text to the bride last Sunday asking 1916 01:40:37,400 --> 01:40:40,520 Speaker 2: what was up with the bridesmaid's gift and and clarified 1917 01:40:40,520 --> 01:40:43,160 Speaker 2: my understanding of the situation that I had offered two 1918 01:40:43,280 --> 01:40:45,599 Speaker 2: ideas on how to have my kids cared for in 1919 01:40:45,680 --> 01:40:48,320 Speaker 2: any way that was comfortable for me, and that and 1920 01:40:48,360 --> 01:40:50,280 Speaker 2: that she told me that I would find a way 1921 01:40:50,320 --> 01:40:54,080 Speaker 2: to leave them at home. I haven't heard back. I 1922 01:40:54,120 --> 01:40:56,160 Speaker 2: would stop trying at this point. I feel like it's 1923 01:40:56,200 --> 01:40:58,639 Speaker 2: just like beating a dead horse. Yeah, it's over. 1924 01:40:59,160 --> 01:41:02,160 Speaker 1: It's so, you are not going to this wedding game over. 1925 01:41:02,200 --> 01:41:05,840 Speaker 1: He's not gonna work. You are not You're not going 1926 01:41:05,880 --> 01:41:08,760 Speaker 1: to Canada, and neither of your children has definitely not. 1927 01:41:08,960 --> 01:41:12,320 Speaker 1: I decree the God Queen of Canada. 1928 01:41:12,120 --> 01:41:16,559 Speaker 2: The Royal News has spoken. So I also told my 1929 01:41:16,640 --> 01:41:19,200 Speaker 2: mom I won't be responding to her calls or texts, 1930 01:41:19,200 --> 01:41:21,719 Speaker 2: and that she may not stop by my house without 1931 01:41:21,760 --> 01:41:24,600 Speaker 2: an invitation. I don't like the way she's assuming the 1932 01:41:24,680 --> 01:41:28,559 Speaker 2: worst about me and all the codependency stuff is really 1933 01:41:28,600 --> 01:41:34,000 Speaker 2: coming to a head. But the most juicy update is 1934 01:41:35,360 --> 01:41:41,160 Speaker 2: the wedding dates have changed, Okay, moving the whole wedding why, Well, 1935 01:41:42,080 --> 01:41:44,679 Speaker 2: it changed a week before the bride's made gift debacle, 1936 01:41:44,760 --> 01:41:46,920 Speaker 2: and my mom didn't say a single word to me 1937 01:41:46,960 --> 01:41:49,439 Speaker 2: about it, whether when I was on the phone with 1938 01:41:49,479 --> 01:41:52,160 Speaker 2: her multiple times that week or when I was at 1939 01:41:52,200 --> 01:41:54,559 Speaker 2: the house overnight one of the nights. The fact that 1940 01:41:54,640 --> 01:41:58,320 Speaker 2: my sister didn't reach out with the new informations means 1941 01:41:58,760 --> 01:42:05,200 Speaker 2: we are not invited, plain and simple. Now. My brother 1942 01:42:05,360 --> 01:42:08,800 Speaker 2: isn't going either, because he would have to leave for 1943 01:42:08,840 --> 01:42:12,679 Speaker 2: the wedding on his regular custody day, uh, the literal 1944 01:42:12,760 --> 01:42:16,280 Speaker 2: day after his child's birthday, so the day he would 1945 01:42:16,280 --> 01:42:19,799 Speaker 2: be celebrating his child's birthday and also miss a whole 1946 01:42:19,840 --> 01:42:22,920 Speaker 2: weekend of custody to go to the wedding. If his 1947 01:42:23,080 --> 01:42:28,280 Speaker 2: ex would even go for that. Yeah, I can't wait 1948 01:42:28,320 --> 01:42:31,439 Speaker 2: for no one to show up to this wedding. Dude, 1949 01:42:31,640 --> 01:42:34,599 Speaker 2: No one's gonna come. Op the sister who also has 1950 01:42:34,640 --> 01:42:38,719 Speaker 2: a kid, the brother who can't make it because of that. Yeah, 1951 01:42:38,800 --> 01:42:42,519 Speaker 2: it's gonna be it's gonna be, uh like a venue 1952 01:42:42,600 --> 01:42:45,360 Speaker 2: full of chairs, and then the salty mom just. 1953 01:42:45,320 --> 01:42:54,080 Speaker 1: Like yes, I'm so pleased to Yolie. 1954 01:42:54,200 --> 01:43:02,000 Speaker 2: No, y'all. By the way, you can join our wedding 1955 01:43:02,400 --> 01:43:05,960 Speaker 2: of being married to the show by tapping the profile 1956 01:43:06,000 --> 01:43:09,920 Speaker 2: every single day and watching its three bmpsda every day. 1957 01:43:09,960 --> 01:43:13,840 Speaker 2: We're married to the game at three pm. But I'll 1958 01:43:13,840 --> 01:43:14,600 Speaker 2: take it. 1959 01:43:14,760 --> 01:43:17,759 Speaker 1: John, You're still so handsome and look. 1960 01:43:17,600 --> 01:43:18,799 Speaker 2: At you, thanks partner. 1961 01:43:19,200 --> 01:43:19,439 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1962 01:43:19,600 --> 01:43:24,040 Speaker 2: From trying over here chat, doesn't John look like Thor? Yeah? John? 1963 01:43:24,080 --> 01:43:26,280 Speaker 2: What have you ever been Thor for? You know? I 1964 01:43:26,320 --> 01:43:29,080 Speaker 2: haven't Actually maybe maybe that could be. Nima wants to 1965 01:43:29,080 --> 01:43:32,120 Speaker 2: do a do a couple's costume this year. But there 1966 01:43:32,200 --> 01:43:33,440 Speaker 2: you how many. 1967 01:43:33,479 --> 01:43:39,559 Speaker 1: You'll be Thor and you can be the hammer, so 1968 01:43:40,680 --> 01:43:41,439 Speaker 1: Opie says. 1969 01:43:41,560 --> 01:43:43,840 Speaker 2: So we're going to plan a trip together that weekend 1970 01:43:43,840 --> 01:43:46,720 Speaker 2: so our kids can celebrate their birthdays together. Was their 1971 01:43:46,800 --> 01:43:51,000 Speaker 2: birthdays since one of mine has a birthday three days 1972 01:43:51,040 --> 01:43:55,280 Speaker 2: earlier than my nephew. Okay, okay. Also, it's a formal 1973 01:43:55,360 --> 01:43:59,040 Speaker 2: black tie optional wedding, but apparently they've opted for texting 1974 01:43:59,080 --> 01:44:02,439 Speaker 2: the information and relying on a wedding website instead of 1975 01:44:02,479 --> 01:44:07,240 Speaker 2: actually sending invitations text. I don't know. 1976 01:44:07,960 --> 01:44:10,519 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a text message is good enough for an invitation? 1977 01:44:10,720 --> 01:44:13,240 Speaker 1: That's okay, That's one thing I will follow these people. 1978 01:44:13,280 --> 01:44:19,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like they're not using a paper. Best bit 1979 01:44:19,960 --> 01:44:23,080 Speaker 2: of information on the wedding website was is that their 1980 01:44:23,200 --> 01:44:28,200 Speaker 2: welcome event is at a bowling alley. Ha you saw, 1981 01:44:28,520 --> 01:44:33,160 Speaker 2: because you know, kids don't exist at Canadian bowling alleys. 1982 01:44:33,600 --> 01:44:40,320 Speaker 2: Big freak, bro, bro. I'm I don't know why that's 1983 01:44:40,360 --> 01:44:44,360 Speaker 2: sending me off the edge, but like, yeah, no, it's 1984 01:44:44,400 --> 01:44:47,439 Speaker 2: because this person is ridiculous. Not only will there be 1985 01:44:47,560 --> 01:44:49,800 Speaker 2: kids everywhere, but I'm getting the vibe that they want 1986 01:44:49,840 --> 01:44:53,200 Speaker 2: like a very quiet, like chill, like like set up 1987 01:44:53,200 --> 01:44:55,600 Speaker 2: because they don't want kids there. You're going to a 1988 01:44:55,640 --> 01:44:58,040 Speaker 2: bowling alley that is like literally the exactly, that's like 1989 01:44:58,120 --> 01:45:00,600 Speaker 2: one level away from Chuck E cheese. Yeah, there's like 1990 01:45:00,680 --> 01:45:03,120 Speaker 2: your only it. 1991 01:45:03,120 --> 01:45:05,360 Speaker 1: Well you know what wait wait wait depending on the 1992 01:45:05,360 --> 01:45:10,160 Speaker 1: bowling alley. Look, I've seen some bowling alleys with no kids. Instead, 1993 01:45:10,240 --> 01:45:14,840 Speaker 1: it's just all old men playing just a good game 1994 01:45:14,840 --> 01:45:19,080 Speaker 1: of bowling. But that's like, you know, that's a different 1995 01:45:19,120 --> 01:45:21,680 Speaker 1: that's a different kind of bowling alley you find yourself in. 1996 01:45:21,800 --> 01:45:24,280 Speaker 1: I found myself in those bowling alleys. And go to 1997 01:45:24,320 --> 01:45:27,800 Speaker 1: old Albuquerque, New Mexico. Oh, they had they do like 1998 01:45:27,880 --> 01:45:33,080 Speaker 1: the bowl there down there in the Albuquerque and uh yeah. 1999 01:45:32,920 --> 01:45:35,839 Speaker 2: I feel like you're trying to communicate something, but I'm 2000 01:45:35,880 --> 01:45:39,240 Speaker 2: just completely we want to unravel this Dakota. What's going on. 2001 01:45:39,320 --> 01:45:42,240 Speaker 1: There's a lot of there's like a competitive bowling scene 2002 01:45:42,240 --> 01:45:46,479 Speaker 1: in Albuquerque. Okay, Yeah, that's Albuquerque is a weird place. 2003 01:45:47,240 --> 01:45:48,480 Speaker 1: Ye shout out Albuquerque. 2004 01:45:48,560 --> 01:45:51,000 Speaker 2: You're weird. And I like it wouldn't have expected it 2005 01:45:51,080 --> 01:45:53,120 Speaker 2: wouldn't have expected that it caught us into that weird stuff. 2006 01:45:54,400 --> 01:45:56,719 Speaker 2: I also, I don't know why, I like literally perfectly 2007 01:45:56,800 --> 01:45:59,639 Speaker 2: imagined you as an old man, just like with your 2008 01:45:59,680 --> 01:46:02,840 Speaker 2: with your old man palace, just like throwing some balls, 2009 01:46:03,560 --> 01:46:07,000 Speaker 2: the big Lebowski. That could be us, that could be 2010 01:46:07,080 --> 01:46:08,920 Speaker 2: all of us in the room right now. You've never 2011 01:46:08,920 --> 01:46:11,560 Speaker 2: seen it, John, No, I haven't seen it. Wow, you 2012 01:46:11,640 --> 01:46:12,799 Speaker 2: gotta look like Jeff Bridges. 2013 01:46:12,880 --> 01:46:14,600 Speaker 1: You gotta do. I was gonna say you took the 2014 01:46:14,600 --> 01:46:15,360 Speaker 1: words right out of my mouth. 2015 01:46:15,360 --> 01:46:18,639 Speaker 2: Never seen it? Yeah, you never seen Jeff Ridges? Who 2016 01:46:18,720 --> 01:46:22,479 Speaker 2: is it? I don't know. There't watch movies. No, we're 2017 01:46:22,479 --> 01:46:23,400 Speaker 2: gonna have one. 2018 01:46:23,680 --> 01:46:25,479 Speaker 1: Yeah we can. We'll get well, we'll scold you late. 2019 01:46:25,560 --> 01:46:25,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's know. 2020 01:46:26,160 --> 01:46:29,040 Speaker 1: But it's it's it is absurd to be posted up 2021 01:46:29,040 --> 01:46:32,240 Speaker 1: in the bowling alley after being like no kids allowed, dude. 2022 01:46:32,240 --> 01:46:36,000 Speaker 2: It's like, come on, absolutely sanity. But that is that? 2023 01:46:36,160 --> 01:46:39,960 Speaker 2: Is that it? That's that? That is? Oh. 2024 01:46:40,040 --> 01:46:45,599 Speaker 1: Caitlin van Campen is from Santa Fe. Nice, shout out, 2025 01:46:45,640 --> 01:46:48,080 Speaker 1: Santa Fe is beautiful. I would take the railroad, the 2026 01:46:48,400 --> 01:46:51,080 Speaker 1: rail Runner up there, which is the they call that 2027 01:46:51,200 --> 01:46:54,000 Speaker 1: the uh that's the name of the train that goes 2028 01:46:54,040 --> 01:46:55,360 Speaker 1: from Albuquerque to Santa Fe. 2029 01:46:56,360 --> 01:46:57,519 Speaker 2: Loving all this New Mexico. 2030 01:46:57,840 --> 01:47:01,680 Speaker 1: The rail Runner, the rail runner like roadrunners like the 2031 01:47:01,680 --> 01:47:05,080 Speaker 1: birds they got down the Yeah, the road runners are 2032 01:47:05,120 --> 01:47:07,840 Speaker 1: birds that really exist, and they're in Albuquerque and they 2033 01:47:07,880 --> 01:47:11,920 Speaker 1: sound like demons. They they do. They sound like it's 2034 01:47:12,000 --> 01:47:14,760 Speaker 1: just like this deep guttural like clicking noise. 2035 01:47:14,520 --> 01:47:15,040 Speaker 2: That they make. 2036 01:47:16,600 --> 01:47:18,320 Speaker 1: Before we get to the next you have you seen 2037 01:47:18,560 --> 01:47:21,960 Speaker 1: like a shoe the shoehorn bird like with the giant 2038 01:47:22,160 --> 01:47:26,160 Speaker 1: like the giant like dinosaur looking bird or a horn bill, 2039 01:47:26,200 --> 01:47:29,040 Speaker 1: I think is what they're called. They they make these 2040 01:47:29,080 --> 01:47:31,599 Speaker 1: like they they also look like demons, and they make 2041 01:47:32,000 --> 01:47:35,120 Speaker 1: like these deep clicking they make noises like dinosaurs used 2042 01:47:35,160 --> 01:47:36,920 Speaker 1: to make. Yeah, I know you're talking about like with 2043 01:47:37,000 --> 01:47:39,080 Speaker 1: like the chamber like, because because birds are really just 2044 01:47:39,120 --> 01:47:40,120 Speaker 1: dinosaurs grown up. 2045 01:47:40,200 --> 01:47:43,240 Speaker 2: I'm excited to see involved the next door. Let me 2046 01:47:43,920 --> 01:47:47,160 Speaker 2: guess there, we can pull up some dons, do you know. 2047 01:47:47,439 --> 01:47:50,160 Speaker 1: I was seeing some stuff during the that last story 2048 01:47:50,160 --> 01:47:54,600 Speaker 1: that the donation bar like froze or something, and that 2049 01:47:54,600 --> 01:47:57,080 Speaker 1: people were sending donations that maybe weren't going through. 2050 01:47:57,400 --> 01:48:00,320 Speaker 2: Guys, let us know if you send a donation that 2051 01:48:00,360 --> 01:48:02,479 Speaker 2: you did not see, yeah, go through, because it should 2052 01:48:02,479 --> 01:48:03,280 Speaker 2: have at least popped up. 2053 01:48:03,280 --> 01:48:05,519 Speaker 1: I did see a twenty five dollars one that did 2054 01:48:05,560 --> 01:48:09,000 Speaker 1: go through though, and that was towards the end, and 2055 01:48:09,040 --> 01:48:12,400 Speaker 1: that was from Hannah. Thank you for the twenty five dollars, Hannah, 2056 01:48:12,800 --> 01:48:17,160 Speaker 1: we love you. You're and yeah, let us know if 2057 01:48:17,479 --> 01:48:21,719 Speaker 1: anything was going crazy or messing up in the chat. 2058 01:48:22,120 --> 01:48:24,479 Speaker 2: Chris ten and foil Hat member for eight months. That 2059 01:48:24,600 --> 01:48:27,280 Speaker 2: is almost an entire stream. 2060 01:48:27,439 --> 01:48:32,200 Speaker 1: Baby, I did fifty memberships at light speed, so understandable 2061 01:48:32,200 --> 01:48:36,599 Speaker 1: for the confusion Yay. Eight months of membership. I've probably 2062 01:48:36,640 --> 01:48:40,519 Speaker 1: funded a small country so far. I believe it, Chris, 2063 01:48:41,000 --> 01:48:46,240 Speaker 1: because I haven't seen anyone throw as many new memberships 2064 01:48:46,560 --> 01:48:47,840 Speaker 1: into the stream as you. 2065 01:48:48,040 --> 01:48:52,719 Speaker 2: Chris. You quite literally have a army of members ready, 2066 01:48:53,000 --> 01:48:56,479 Speaker 2: just ready to stand by. Yes, listen, if you're trying 2067 01:48:56,479 --> 01:48:59,840 Speaker 2: to win the throne, you have the numbers. The army 2068 01:48:59,880 --> 01:49:03,080 Speaker 2: is yours. Yeah, they're they're here in the chat. That's right. 2069 01:49:04,439 --> 01:49:07,559 Speaker 1: Someone said their donation for my suit fund did not 2070 01:49:07,640 --> 01:49:08,000 Speaker 1: go through. 2071 01:49:08,080 --> 01:49:10,080 Speaker 2: The key on suit fund did not go through. 2072 01:49:10,280 --> 01:49:13,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, there was there was a period there where it 2073 01:49:13,240 --> 01:49:14,559 Speaker 1: was frozen, it was stuck. 2074 01:49:14,760 --> 01:49:19,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, slidely toes. Maybe if you could uh send Riley 2075 01:49:19,600 --> 01:49:21,960 Speaker 2: message on discord on where it went through and let 2076 01:49:22,040 --> 01:49:24,840 Speaker 2: us know if it was YouTube super chats or the 2077 01:49:24,880 --> 01:49:27,559 Speaker 2: tip link. Yeah, let's let's go through the Yes, we're 2078 01:49:27,600 --> 01:49:28,240 Speaker 2: refreshing too. 2079 01:49:28,320 --> 01:49:28,559 Speaker 9: Yeah. 2080 01:49:28,760 --> 01:49:30,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, well we'll go through and see if it came 2081 01:49:30,160 --> 01:49:31,200 Speaker 2: through on the tip link. But let us know. 2082 01:49:31,360 --> 01:49:33,800 Speaker 1: And Mama Ellie thank you for the five dollars. How 2083 01:49:33,840 --> 01:49:35,679 Speaker 1: long does the stream need to be for the worm 2084 01:49:35,800 --> 01:49:37,920 Speaker 1: Queen and Daddy Sam to join? 2085 01:49:38,920 --> 01:49:43,040 Speaker 2: Sadly not today. It would have to go all the 2086 01:49:43,080 --> 01:49:47,040 Speaker 2: way until tomorrow. Yeah, that would be a twenty four plus. 2087 01:49:46,800 --> 01:49:52,240 Speaker 1: Hours for you, my friends. Let's see, is there anything 2088 01:49:52,520 --> 01:49:55,400 Speaker 1: Hannah did we already read Hannah's We did read Hannah's. 2089 01:49:56,640 --> 01:49:59,479 Speaker 1: You know, we're caught up on that one. And then yeah, 2090 01:49:59,479 --> 01:50:01,439 Speaker 1: it did kind of I think it did kind of 2091 01:50:01,479 --> 01:50:02,439 Speaker 1: freeze for a second. 2092 01:50:02,560 --> 01:50:03,000 Speaker 2: What's going on? 2093 01:50:03,120 --> 01:50:06,840 Speaker 1: Mellis sixty eighteen says what happened to the timer. 2094 01:50:06,640 --> 01:50:09,080 Speaker 2: But also slightly toes shout out to you also see 2095 01:50:09,120 --> 01:50:11,280 Speaker 2: if if a chargement through on your end as well 2096 01:50:11,360 --> 01:50:14,920 Speaker 2: to double check. Yeah, but yeah, let's see, we are 2097 01:50:14,920 --> 01:50:15,360 Speaker 2: on the case. 2098 01:50:15,439 --> 01:50:19,679 Speaker 1: So remember I remember she left the comment about Keon's suit? 2099 01:50:21,120 --> 01:50:24,400 Speaker 2: Was it the ten hour suit stream? Was that the comment? 2100 01:50:24,920 --> 01:50:28,080 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that does sound similar. Yeah, there, we did 2101 01:50:28,120 --> 01:50:28,840 Speaker 2: say that one. 2102 01:50:28,960 --> 01:50:32,160 Speaker 1: There there there we have our best and brightest and 2103 01:50:32,280 --> 01:50:34,600 Speaker 1: Grandma's got a potty mouth. Says that her message for 2104 01:50:34,680 --> 01:50:36,400 Speaker 1: Keon did not go through with the dono. 2105 01:50:37,439 --> 01:50:40,840 Speaker 2: Was that on the tip link because that is new 2106 01:50:40,880 --> 01:50:44,360 Speaker 2: and possibly could be uh, the connection on the tip 2107 01:50:44,360 --> 01:50:46,840 Speaker 2: link there, so let us know. Let us know, guys, 2108 01:50:46,960 --> 01:50:53,760 Speaker 2: says Tomato and not not the tip link? Maybe okay, cool? 2109 01:50:54,040 --> 01:50:55,679 Speaker 2: Riley's pulling it up on the computer. 2110 01:50:55,920 --> 01:50:59,360 Speaker 1: Yes, we got Riley working hard, look into that horde, 2111 01:50:59,520 --> 01:50:59,960 Speaker 1: working whole. 2112 01:51:01,120 --> 01:51:04,920 Speaker 2: But in the meantime, why don't we do what we 2113 01:51:04,960 --> 01:51:07,400 Speaker 2: do best? Another story? 2114 01:51:09,040 --> 01:51:12,840 Speaker 1: I believe it's mine now, and I'll be reading reading, 2115 01:51:14,160 --> 01:51:15,680 Speaker 1: I will be reading. 2116 01:51:16,840 --> 01:51:19,360 Speaker 2: Slightly toes. We saw, we see this one. Two bucks. 2117 01:51:19,360 --> 01:51:22,559 Speaker 2: I'll send it again black and purple suit next. I'm 2118 01:51:22,600 --> 01:51:24,880 Speaker 2: guessing that's a I don't have one. 2119 01:51:24,960 --> 01:51:30,200 Speaker 1: In purple suit, but I would love one well very midnight. 2120 01:51:30,560 --> 01:51:34,960 Speaker 1: Now you know what reverse prints. You know we did 2121 01:51:35,000 --> 01:51:39,240 Speaker 1: work right by Hollywood suits. Oh you're not going to 2122 01:51:39,280 --> 01:51:42,000 Speaker 1: really be there anymore, are you. That's just going to 2123 01:51:42,040 --> 01:51:42,679 Speaker 1: be a me thing. 2124 01:51:44,800 --> 01:51:48,559 Speaker 2: Okay, he's never returning. Let's see you know what on 2125 01:51:48,800 --> 01:51:49,040 Speaker 2: let me? 2126 01:51:49,640 --> 01:51:52,760 Speaker 1: I just saw Duchess Cassander just said to take off 2127 01:51:52,800 --> 01:51:56,559 Speaker 1: the hat. I think it's time. Whoa for my alter ego? 2128 01:51:57,479 --> 01:52:02,840 Speaker 2: What was it? I think it was Amien. That's right, yea, 2129 01:52:04,120 --> 01:52:08,960 Speaker 2: Damien is Damien. My goodness, ladies and gentlemen. We've brought 2130 01:52:09,000 --> 01:52:11,519 Speaker 2: him out. We've reached that time. We've reached that time, 2131 01:52:11,560 --> 01:52:18,080 Speaker 2: as gentlemen. It is that time. Oh yeah, there he is, sorry, Riley. 2132 01:52:18,160 --> 01:52:22,080 Speaker 1: There he is cool. Cool, Damien's here. Actually, my head 2133 01:52:22,080 --> 01:52:25,160 Speaker 1: looks so big let's pick a side. Here, let's pick 2134 01:52:25,160 --> 01:52:29,799 Speaker 1: a side. Yeah, I'm gonna have to live with that. Okay, cool, Damien, 2135 01:52:29,840 --> 01:52:32,920 Speaker 1: What have you got for us today? Damien has a story? 2136 01:52:33,200 --> 01:52:37,680 Speaker 1: Oh god, I excluded my brother and his girlfriend. 2137 01:52:38,160 --> 01:52:40,000 Speaker 2: Well, well let me let me let me do that 2138 01:52:40,040 --> 01:52:45,080 Speaker 2: one more time. Where did that catch your help? So it's. 2139 01:52:46,439 --> 01:52:49,680 Speaker 1: I excluded my brother and his girlfriend from dinner so 2140 01:52:49,840 --> 01:52:55,960 Speaker 1: I could spend quality time with my mom. Oh, this 2141 01:52:56,080 --> 01:52:57,560 Speaker 1: is a story from muscleman. 2142 01:52:57,800 --> 01:53:00,200 Speaker 2: Oh my god. Uh uh. 2143 01:53:00,640 --> 01:53:03,360 Speaker 1: My husband and I moved five hours away from our 2144 01:53:03,439 --> 01:53:07,920 Speaker 1: families after accepting a great job opportunity to grow his company. 2145 01:53:08,640 --> 01:53:10,840 Speaker 1: It had been about seven months since I was able 2146 01:53:10,880 --> 01:53:13,200 Speaker 1: to spend quality time with just my mother and I. 2147 01:53:13,800 --> 01:53:16,559 Speaker 1: Her fifty sixth birthday was coming up, so I called 2148 01:53:16,600 --> 01:53:18,439 Speaker 1: to see if I could take her to dinner and 2149 01:53:18,600 --> 01:53:21,200 Speaker 1: she agreed. Ooh, and I think we can all agree 2150 01:53:21,240 --> 01:53:24,240 Speaker 1: that this story comes from user the black sheep Kid 2151 01:53:24,720 --> 01:53:26,719 Speaker 1: on the r slash Okay storytime subreddit. 2152 01:53:26,800 --> 01:53:27,200 Speaker 2: I agree. 2153 01:53:27,560 --> 01:53:30,280 Speaker 1: So about a week or so later, I got a 2154 01:53:30,400 --> 01:53:34,560 Speaker 1: text from my brother's girlfriend, Jane. She informed me that 2155 01:53:34,640 --> 01:53:37,040 Speaker 1: they were planning a surprise birthday party for my mother 2156 01:53:37,240 --> 01:53:40,720 Speaker 1: that Saturday, but found out I was already taking her 2157 01:53:40,800 --> 01:53:43,439 Speaker 1: to dinner. She asked if I could take my mother 2158 01:53:43,520 --> 01:53:45,640 Speaker 1: to dinner close by her so she could join us, 2159 01:53:46,040 --> 01:53:48,800 Speaker 1: then we could take my mother to the surprise party afterwards. 2160 01:53:49,479 --> 01:53:52,360 Speaker 2: Seems reasonable. Seems reasonable, I informed Jane. 2161 01:53:52,760 --> 01:53:54,880 Speaker 1: I just wanted to have dinner with my mother and 2162 01:53:54,960 --> 01:53:57,439 Speaker 1: spend quality time with her since I don't get to 2163 01:53:57,479 --> 01:54:02,560 Speaker 1: see her often. Also reasonable. Jane then became irritated and 2164 01:54:02,760 --> 01:54:06,800 Speaker 1: asked why everyone else wasn't invited. Again, I reiterated that 2165 01:54:06,880 --> 01:54:10,160 Speaker 1: I wanted quality time with my mother. Last year, I 2166 01:54:10,240 --> 01:54:12,559 Speaker 1: took my mother out for her birthday and invited everyone. 2167 01:54:12,920 --> 01:54:15,600 Speaker 1: It ended up being about fifteen people, and I was 2168 01:54:15,720 --> 01:54:18,280 Speaker 1: never able to visit with my mother because they were 2169 01:54:18,320 --> 01:54:21,320 Speaker 1: all talking to her, going back and forth with me 2170 01:54:21,479 --> 01:54:24,320 Speaker 1: telling her no. Jane proceeded to ask if I had 2171 01:54:24,360 --> 01:54:28,680 Speaker 1: a problem with her and my brother Dan. I said no, 2172 01:54:29,800 --> 01:54:32,640 Speaker 1: I just want to see my mom. They get to 2173 01:54:32,680 --> 01:54:34,960 Speaker 1: see her every day since they live on her property. 2174 01:54:35,640 --> 01:54:39,400 Speaker 1: Jane then tells me where you choose to live isn't 2175 01:54:39,520 --> 01:54:43,640 Speaker 1: our fault. The time you have with her isn't on us. 2176 01:54:45,480 --> 01:54:49,080 Speaker 1: She also finds it extremely rude and selfish that I 2177 01:54:49,200 --> 01:54:52,720 Speaker 1: plan a birthday dinner didn't invite them and treat their 2178 01:54:52,800 --> 01:54:56,000 Speaker 1: kids like they don't exist. Gee, this is like a 2179 01:54:56,120 --> 01:54:59,520 Speaker 1: lot of not necessary stuff being dragged. 2180 01:54:59,240 --> 01:54:59,640 Speaker 3: In the year. 2181 01:55:00,680 --> 01:55:03,080 Speaker 2: Great story for Demion, Yeah, this is. 2182 01:55:03,080 --> 01:55:05,120 Speaker 1: A great story for DamID God forbidden. 2183 01:55:05,160 --> 01:55:08,600 Speaker 2: She gets dinner with her dad. Who knows that I 2184 01:55:08,800 --> 01:55:11,080 Speaker 2: just want to have dinner with my mom, just some 2185 01:55:11,240 --> 01:55:14,960 Speaker 2: one on one mom? And is it son or daughter? 2186 01:55:15,000 --> 01:55:16,000 Speaker 2: Do we have a gender? 2187 01:55:16,120 --> 01:55:16,320 Speaker 1: Really? 2188 01:55:16,560 --> 01:55:17,520 Speaker 2: I'm not sure? 2189 01:55:17,760 --> 01:55:20,440 Speaker 1: Mom and child time mano imano? 2190 01:55:21,400 --> 01:55:23,720 Speaker 2: Who know you want to have dinner with our mom? 2191 01:55:23,800 --> 01:55:23,920 Speaker 1: Oh? 2192 01:55:23,960 --> 01:55:25,960 Speaker 2: I got it. I didn't know you wanted to murder 2193 01:55:26,080 --> 01:55:29,840 Speaker 2: my children and that a lot. That's what this feels like. 2194 01:55:30,000 --> 01:55:31,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, you want to have a nice dinner with 2195 01:55:32,000 --> 01:55:40,080 Speaker 1: your mom by yourself, you heartless monster, think of my children? Well, 2196 01:55:40,920 --> 01:55:42,840 Speaker 1: so I think we're gonna get a little more details here. 2197 01:55:44,400 --> 01:55:46,760 Speaker 1: I later find out that this is what she tells 2198 01:55:46,760 --> 01:55:49,520 Speaker 1: people who don't call and offer to babysit her kids 2199 01:55:49,600 --> 01:55:52,720 Speaker 1: so they can go out and party. Oh yeah, you're 2200 01:55:52,760 --> 01:55:56,080 Speaker 1: acting like my kids don't exist so I can go party. 2201 01:55:57,000 --> 01:56:01,880 Speaker 2: I have needs partying and needs. Mama needs some tequila. 2202 01:56:02,600 --> 01:56:11,280 Speaker 1: Take my kids now, I'm mamah uh So at this 2203 01:56:11,440 --> 01:56:17,000 Speaker 1: point I've had enough and let five years of frustration out. 2204 01:56:17,800 --> 01:56:20,280 Speaker 2: Juicy, Juicy, let's go. I'm ready. 2205 01:56:20,440 --> 01:56:24,440 Speaker 1: I explain that my mother has canceled many plans with 2206 01:56:24,600 --> 01:56:28,480 Speaker 1: me because she must babysit for them. I told her 2207 01:56:28,480 --> 01:56:31,920 Speaker 1: about my birthday plans that they ruined last year. I 2208 01:56:32,080 --> 01:56:34,080 Speaker 1: had made plans for my mother to come stay the 2209 01:56:34,120 --> 01:56:37,200 Speaker 1: weekend with me for my birthday before we moved away. 2210 01:56:37,760 --> 01:56:40,680 Speaker 1: We had this plan set a month in advance. The 2211 01:56:40,760 --> 01:56:43,600 Speaker 1: weekend prior, I was at a family function having a 2212 01:56:43,680 --> 01:56:46,440 Speaker 1: conversation with Jane. When I told her that my mother 2213 01:56:46,600 --> 01:56:49,960 Speaker 1: was coming over this following weekend for my birthday. Jane 2214 01:56:50,080 --> 01:56:54,000 Speaker 1: had this irritated look on her face and didn't say 2215 01:56:54,440 --> 01:56:57,920 Speaker 1: a word. The following Friday, I called my mother to 2216 01:56:57,960 --> 01:57:00,320 Speaker 1: see when she'd be arriving, but she in for me. 2217 01:57:00,680 --> 01:57:03,120 Speaker 2: She forgot. She told Jane she would babysit for them 2218 01:57:03,160 --> 01:57:03,720 Speaker 2: that weekend. 2219 01:57:04,640 --> 01:57:07,160 Speaker 1: Jane had asked her to watch their kids because she 2220 01:57:07,320 --> 01:57:12,600 Speaker 1: needed quality time with Dan. I was upset because I knew. 2221 01:57:12,680 --> 01:57:15,640 Speaker 1: Jane asked her after I told her of our plans. 2222 01:57:16,000 --> 01:57:19,600 Speaker 1: That is a big weenie move. You're a big You're 2223 01:57:19,600 --> 01:57:23,240 Speaker 1: a weenie level seven weenie, and it's a little we 2224 01:57:23,400 --> 01:57:24,280 Speaker 1: It's a little weenie mos. 2225 01:57:24,320 --> 01:57:30,760 Speaker 2: Oh, it's it's it's it's microscopic micro weenie energy. That's small. 2226 01:57:36,080 --> 01:57:41,120 Speaker 2: Oh damn it, we said wi. 2227 01:57:42,840 --> 01:57:45,800 Speaker 1: I then asked Jane why it must be a huge 2228 01:57:45,880 --> 01:57:47,480 Speaker 1: family thing when all I want to. 2229 01:57:47,480 --> 01:57:54,000 Speaker 2: Do is see my own mother. Unacceptable, unacceptable, monster, you 2230 01:57:54,080 --> 01:57:54,560 Speaker 2: discussed me. 2231 01:57:55,920 --> 01:57:57,960 Speaker 1: I told her that she could still plan a party, 2232 01:57:58,320 --> 01:58:00,440 Speaker 1: but I would be taking her to dinner that Saturday 2233 01:58:00,520 --> 01:58:04,960 Speaker 1: and then returning home early the next morning. Regarding her kids, 2234 01:58:05,480 --> 01:58:07,480 Speaker 1: I have never missed a birthday in four years. I 2235 01:58:07,600 --> 01:58:09,960 Speaker 1: buy them the best toys for their birthday and Christmas, 2236 01:58:10,280 --> 01:58:13,600 Speaker 1: and I spend time with them at every family function, which, honestly, 2237 01:58:14,520 --> 01:58:16,760 Speaker 1: if you're if you're buying the best toys for the 2238 01:58:16,800 --> 01:58:20,440 Speaker 1: birthday and the Christmas, you're already the best. You're already 2239 01:58:20,480 --> 01:58:22,960 Speaker 1: the best, so you're already. 2240 01:58:22,640 --> 01:58:23,400 Speaker 2: Doing what you gotta do. 2241 01:58:25,520 --> 01:58:27,760 Speaker 1: I told Jane not to worry about inviting me to 2242 01:58:27,840 --> 01:58:29,400 Speaker 1: any more birthdays or events. 2243 01:58:29,400 --> 01:58:31,120 Speaker 2: And I will do the same day. 2244 01:58:32,040 --> 01:58:36,880 Speaker 1: This is getting real, He's like real, Dakota has to adjust. 2245 01:58:37,040 --> 01:58:39,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I gotta, I gotta adjust. Sorry, Damien, Damien, Damien, 2246 01:58:39,640 --> 01:58:42,360 Speaker 2: m it's hard to keep track. I don't blame you. 2247 01:58:43,440 --> 01:58:46,360 Speaker 1: She then states I escalated this issue for no reason 2248 01:58:46,440 --> 01:58:49,120 Speaker 1: at all, and she wanted to and all she wanted 2249 01:58:49,160 --> 01:58:53,280 Speaker 1: to do was give my mother a birthday party. Wow, yeah, 2250 01:58:53,320 --> 01:58:55,920 Speaker 1: you heartless monster. I'm not this is I'm not doing 2251 01:58:55,960 --> 01:58:57,720 Speaker 1: anything wrong. You're the wrong one. 2252 01:58:58,120 --> 01:59:00,960 Speaker 2: I just wanted mo. I'm to have a good party. Bro. 2253 01:59:01,640 --> 01:59:06,600 Speaker 1: The following day, Dan texted me saying I was wrong 2254 01:59:06,680 --> 01:59:10,080 Speaker 1: for attacking Jane. They are distancing themselves and their kids 2255 01:59:10,160 --> 01:59:13,160 Speaker 1: for me. I told Dan he was a piece of 2256 01:59:13,240 --> 01:59:16,400 Speaker 1: crap for using his kids to get his way, as 2257 01:59:16,480 --> 01:59:20,400 Speaker 1: he has done numerous times before. I wasn't going for 2258 01:59:20,520 --> 01:59:22,200 Speaker 1: it and told them to have a great life. 2259 01:59:22,960 --> 01:59:26,320 Speaker 2: Dinner with my mother was long and lovely. Love that. 2260 01:59:26,920 --> 01:59:28,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not gonna make fun of that choice of 2261 01:59:28,480 --> 01:59:33,760 Speaker 1: words whatsoever. I enjoyed being able to make I enjoyed 2262 01:59:33,840 --> 01:59:36,320 Speaker 1: being able to catch up and spend time with her 2263 01:59:36,560 --> 01:59:39,920 Speaker 1: at last. So am I the a hole for not 2264 01:59:40,120 --> 01:59:43,880 Speaker 1: inviting my siblings and their families to dinner with my mother? 2265 01:59:44,720 --> 01:59:46,520 Speaker 2: We U should talk about that. But I would be 2266 01:59:46,600 --> 01:59:51,800 Speaker 2: the a hole if I didn't mention three one hundred 2267 01:59:52,960 --> 01:59:58,000 Speaker 2: dollar donation on the phone. Oh I want Vegas, so 2268 01:59:58,240 --> 02:00:05,200 Speaker 2: let's go for my Hey, congratulations on the whim I 2269 02:00:05,400 --> 02:00:11,280 Speaker 2: beg you for the big Benjamin Hondo dollar do wow 2270 02:00:11,720 --> 02:00:16,160 Speaker 2: wild Yeah, that that crazy? 2271 02:00:16,960 --> 02:00:19,280 Speaker 1: And we do we have an edit or an edit 2272 02:00:20,200 --> 02:00:23,320 Speaker 1: edit slash update here, oh, edit slash update. But I 2273 02:00:23,400 --> 02:00:29,040 Speaker 1: mean before we get into that, excuse me, where are 2274 02:00:29,120 --> 02:00:32,520 Speaker 1: we at with OPI? Do we think that OPI is 2275 02:00:32,520 --> 02:00:33,000 Speaker 1: an a hole? 2276 02:00:33,440 --> 02:00:37,080 Speaker 2: Dude? OPI not the a hole and shout out to 2277 02:00:37,160 --> 02:00:40,120 Speaker 2: OPI because it's like if if Opie's sister is like 2278 02:00:40,240 --> 02:00:42,920 Speaker 2: this in this scenario, you know, and and Opie already 2279 02:00:42,960 --> 02:00:45,040 Speaker 2: described all the other scenarios, the birthday from a year 2280 02:00:45,080 --> 02:00:48,440 Speaker 2: ago that she had to cancel, Like it's like this 2281 02:00:48,720 --> 02:00:52,680 Speaker 2: constantly and she needs to like put her foot down 2282 02:00:52,760 --> 02:00:57,480 Speaker 2: and be like this can not happen. Unacceptable, Like you 2283 02:00:57,920 --> 02:01:00,640 Speaker 2: don't just get to like dump your kids on people 2284 02:01:00,680 --> 02:01:03,520 Speaker 2: when you want to go to uh ti Iwana and 2285 02:01:03,760 --> 02:01:06,920 Speaker 2: down a gave alcohol? Up with you, John? Why is 2286 02:01:06,960 --> 02:01:10,040 Speaker 2: this so ugly specific to all this stuff? Is this 2287 02:01:10,720 --> 02:01:13,400 Speaker 2: something from you? I don't get it, Keon. 2288 02:01:13,720 --> 02:01:15,840 Speaker 1: I just don't like it when they go to Tijuana 2289 02:01:15,840 --> 02:01:16,720 Speaker 1: and drink a gave. 2290 02:01:16,880 --> 02:01:21,240 Speaker 2: I'll golly don't get to Kayla. That's all I'm saying. 2291 02:01:21,760 --> 02:01:27,480 Speaker 2: Are you mummy now I'm done. I set my piece. 2292 02:01:27,840 --> 02:01:30,520 Speaker 2: He's had it up to here, up to here, all 2293 02:01:30,600 --> 02:01:34,680 Speaker 2: the way up to here. That's my eyeballs. I've had 2294 02:01:34,720 --> 02:01:37,560 Speaker 2: it up to my eyeballs and Keon's height. 2295 02:01:38,000 --> 02:01:44,800 Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah, I agree. Not the a hole here, like, uh, 2296 02:01:45,160 --> 02:01:48,920 Speaker 1: you know, there's more history. I think maybe you could. Optically, 2297 02:01:48,960 --> 02:01:51,200 Speaker 1: you could look bad if it's like, well, yeah, if 2298 02:01:51,240 --> 02:01:53,720 Speaker 1: you're gonna like try to impose yourself on my dinner 2299 02:01:53,760 --> 02:01:55,520 Speaker 1: with Mom, I guess I'm just gonna cut you off. 2300 02:01:56,040 --> 02:01:58,200 Speaker 2: But it's like, there's clearly a lot more going on 2301 02:01:58,320 --> 02:01:58,960 Speaker 2: that's cooking here. 2302 02:01:59,120 --> 02:02:03,000 Speaker 1: Thirty more are let's go. We just got thirty more 2303 02:02:03,080 --> 02:02:06,400 Speaker 1: minutes thanks to Chris Tinfoil hat gift and ten more 2304 02:02:06,640 --> 02:02:14,480 Speaker 1: subs to the stream. Wowie sowie, let's go. That is mathematical. 2305 02:02:15,120 --> 02:02:22,320 Speaker 1: Wow wow right wow one hundred percent right, Oh wow. Okay, 2306 02:02:22,520 --> 02:02:25,400 Speaker 1: let's get into the updates. Let's get into this update. 2307 02:02:25,520 --> 02:02:28,960 Speaker 1: Let's do let's do it edit to update. First, I 2308 02:02:29,000 --> 02:02:32,560 Speaker 1: would like to thank everyone for your advice and support. 2309 02:02:33,160 --> 02:02:35,640 Speaker 1: I don't usually post my personal business out there for 2310 02:02:35,720 --> 02:02:38,680 Speaker 1: others to see, but I really needed an external perspective. 2311 02:02:39,280 --> 02:02:42,640 Speaker 1: Small background story, my mother never had the best choice 2312 02:02:42,760 --> 02:02:46,280 Speaker 1: in men. She has been manipulated by men most of 2313 02:02:46,360 --> 02:02:49,240 Speaker 1: her life and cannot seem to learn how to say no. 2314 02:02:50,080 --> 02:02:52,480 Speaker 1: My brothers have been taught that it's okay to control 2315 02:02:52,560 --> 02:02:55,240 Speaker 1: and manipulate women, So that's what they're doing to our 2316 02:02:55,320 --> 02:02:56,560 Speaker 1: mother and their girlfriends. 2317 02:02:56,640 --> 02:03:00,800 Speaker 3: Boo boo. 2318 02:03:02,520 --> 02:03:02,760 Speaker 1: Boo. 2319 02:03:06,320 --> 02:03:09,880 Speaker 2: What Mutual Space? Wait? What is this that I see? 2320 02:03:10,640 --> 02:03:11,440 Speaker 2: Fifty dollars? 2321 02:03:11,600 --> 02:03:15,960 Speaker 1: Dono fifty bucks from Mutual Space Drifter. Here we go. 2322 02:03:16,040 --> 02:03:16,640 Speaker 2: You read that one? 2323 02:03:17,000 --> 02:03:21,800 Speaker 1: Hi, I do this for a small ask, Dakota, give 2324 02:03:21,840 --> 02:03:24,080 Speaker 1: a five second smile me like. 2325 02:03:25,000 --> 02:03:28,120 Speaker 2: Ready, starts a timer? Let me yeah, let's do it. 2326 02:03:28,160 --> 02:03:28,760 Speaker 2: Ready ready? 2327 02:03:29,000 --> 02:03:33,840 Speaker 4: Wait one one second? One second, one second, I can. 2328 02:03:35,360 --> 02:03:39,560 Speaker 2: We're getting there. It's eating up there. It is already 2329 02:03:41,440 --> 02:03:44,880 Speaker 2: n but you deserve it. Yeah, right, honestly, mutual Mutual 2330 02:03:44,880 --> 02:03:47,640 Speaker 2: Space Drifter. Again, Let's count. 2331 02:03:47,520 --> 02:03:49,800 Speaker 1: Again, Let's do it. Well, let's repeat, let's count. 2332 02:03:52,840 --> 02:03:56,760 Speaker 2: Oh there it is. 2333 02:03:56,960 --> 02:04:01,360 Speaker 1: Oh dude, what hey, hey, great great smiles. Wow, dude, 2334 02:04:02,560 --> 02:04:04,400 Speaker 1: I'm sweat. I mean, listen, you put you put in 2335 02:04:04,480 --> 02:04:07,960 Speaker 1: the work, you left it all on the field. Let 2336 02:04:08,040 --> 02:04:12,840 Speaker 1: me on the bench now, I'm you. You know what 2337 02:04:13,000 --> 02:04:17,360 Speaker 1: I can't. I cannot me for my life, I can't 2338 02:04:17,440 --> 02:04:19,520 Speaker 1: do it. I can't get my face to do it. 2339 02:04:20,200 --> 02:04:25,440 Speaker 1: I've tried and I can't do it. Now you're ordering 2340 02:04:25,520 --> 02:04:27,919 Speaker 1: me around over there, mister, I'm too good to unbutton 2341 02:04:28,000 --> 02:04:31,560 Speaker 1: my shirt. I work here, Yeah, I work here. Now 2342 02:04:32,560 --> 02:04:39,240 Speaker 1: that's you got me to be. To be continued, okay, okay, okay, 2343 02:04:39,920 --> 02:04:43,280 Speaker 1: all right. So we've left off at the brothers. Dave 2344 02:04:43,440 --> 02:04:47,600 Speaker 1: demand the men in this family are scumbags that manipulate women. 2345 02:04:47,800 --> 02:04:49,640 Speaker 2: Yes, go, Dakota go. 2346 02:04:50,880 --> 02:04:54,640 Speaker 1: That was definitely not a real scream. I almost dropped 2347 02:04:54,720 --> 02:04:58,680 Speaker 1: the phone, and someone else screamed, it was right. 2348 02:04:59,000 --> 02:05:00,600 Speaker 3: It was It was Riley. 2349 02:05:00,640 --> 02:05:01,560 Speaker 2: It was Riley. It was Riley. 2350 02:05:02,400 --> 02:05:04,800 Speaker 1: It was Riley, who I definitely beat at basketball. Don't 2351 02:05:04,840 --> 02:05:07,040 Speaker 1: let that fake AI video you posted in the child 2352 02:05:08,360 --> 02:05:13,440 Speaker 1: I won. I got the heck out of Dodge as 2353 02:05:13,480 --> 02:05:16,280 Speaker 1: soon as I graduated high school. I spent eight years 2354 02:05:16,360 --> 02:05:18,880 Speaker 1: in college, getting my degree and working on getting my 2355 02:05:19,120 --> 02:05:23,240 Speaker 1: state license. My brothers both dropped out of high school 2356 02:05:23,440 --> 02:05:26,720 Speaker 1: and can't seem to hold the job. Just a side note, 2357 02:05:26,800 --> 02:05:29,680 Speaker 1: I paid for my entire college by myself by working 2358 02:05:29,800 --> 02:05:33,760 Speaker 1: full time the entire time. What a baller, big dog? 2359 02:05:34,160 --> 02:05:38,680 Speaker 1: Oh he oh, he's the big dog. I got married 2360 02:05:38,960 --> 02:05:42,520 Speaker 1: five years ago. A week after the wedding, Dan calls 2361 02:05:42,560 --> 02:05:45,640 Speaker 1: and tells me that Jane is pregnant. They'd been together 2362 02:05:45,760 --> 02:05:49,000 Speaker 1: for just over a month. While my mother was happy 2363 02:05:49,040 --> 02:05:51,680 Speaker 1: to get a grandchild, she kept telling me she couldn't 2364 02:05:51,720 --> 02:05:53,720 Speaker 1: wait until I gave her a grandchild. 2365 02:05:53,800 --> 02:05:54,160 Speaker 2: One day. 2366 02:05:54,880 --> 02:05:59,120 Speaker 1: Knowing I had fertility issues peacos and other things, my 2367 02:05:59,280 --> 02:06:02,800 Speaker 1: husband and I started trying to get pregnant immediately. After 2368 02:06:02,920 --> 02:06:05,720 Speaker 1: a year, we went to a fertility doctor. A few 2369 02:06:05,760 --> 02:06:08,120 Speaker 1: months and multiple labs and testing later, we found a 2370 02:06:08,800 --> 02:06:15,000 Speaker 1: micro adinoma, non cancerous brain tumor, which was causing additional 2371 02:06:15,040 --> 02:06:17,200 Speaker 1: hormone issues. That's horrifying. 2372 02:06:17,320 --> 02:06:20,080 Speaker 2: That's crazy, that's got us. That's so scary. Man. 2373 02:06:21,720 --> 02:06:25,520 Speaker 1: Jane knew about my issues when she posted on Facebook 2374 02:06:25,880 --> 02:06:29,880 Speaker 1: about her second pregnancy. Dan and I quote Dan and 2375 02:06:29,960 --> 02:06:32,800 Speaker 1: I decided to take out my IUD two weeks ago 2376 02:06:33,240 --> 02:06:36,440 Speaker 1: and just found out I'm pregnant again. I can't believe 2377 02:06:36,520 --> 02:06:40,080 Speaker 1: how fast I was able to get pregnant. It's so crazy. 2378 02:06:40,680 --> 02:06:44,240 Speaker 1: Shut up, you know your sister's having trouble getting pregnant. 2379 02:06:44,520 --> 02:06:47,560 Speaker 1: Shut off and congratulations, I guess. 2380 02:06:47,600 --> 02:06:49,040 Speaker 4: Oh, John and I are on the same page, Like, 2381 02:06:49,080 --> 02:06:53,640 Speaker 4: why are you patriotic like whoa, whoa, calm down, calm down, 2382 02:06:54,000 --> 02:06:57,720 Speaker 4: what I'm sorry? So, yeah, because she's. 2383 02:06:57,640 --> 02:06:59,960 Speaker 1: Low key trying to throw this in her sister's face 2384 02:07:00,560 --> 02:07:02,680 Speaker 1: that she can get pregnant and her sister can't. 2385 02:07:02,920 --> 02:07:07,640 Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, we were jumped the gun there, Yeah, because 2386 02:07:07,640 --> 02:07:08,760 Speaker 4: we thought you jumped the gun. 2387 02:07:08,880 --> 02:07:13,520 Speaker 2: I didn't jump anything. But y'all this live stream every 2388 02:07:13,760 --> 02:07:21,440 Speaker 2: weekday at three pm. That was the original plan. Okay. 2389 02:07:21,640 --> 02:07:26,280 Speaker 1: So after this malicious, low key you know, uh, subliminal 2390 02:07:26,360 --> 02:07:29,320 Speaker 1: Facebook post, I didn't say anything. 2391 02:07:29,880 --> 02:07:34,240 Speaker 2: I just broke down crying for days. I'm sorry. Op, 2392 02:07:34,600 --> 02:07:35,160 Speaker 2: that sucks. 2393 02:07:36,120 --> 02:07:39,640 Speaker 1: Two failed fertility treatments later, we finally gave up trying. 2394 02:07:40,000 --> 02:07:43,160 Speaker 1: If it happens, great, If not, we are just going 2395 02:07:43,240 --> 02:07:46,400 Speaker 1: to enjoy our lives together as the cool aunt and uncle, 2396 02:07:46,520 --> 02:07:47,400 Speaker 1: which would. 2397 02:07:47,240 --> 02:07:52,080 Speaker 2: Be awesome, which is great, but also the cool aunt 2398 02:07:52,120 --> 02:07:55,800 Speaker 2: and uncle. But the sisters, the one that was throwing 2399 02:07:55,960 --> 02:07:59,800 Speaker 2: the fertility stuff in her face, right, which is like, 2400 02:08:00,640 --> 02:08:02,960 Speaker 2: I mean, but it doesn't matter. The sister doesn't matter. 2401 02:08:03,040 --> 02:08:05,600 Speaker 2: You know. It matters is the kids thinking that you're 2402 02:08:05,720 --> 02:08:09,400 Speaker 2: cooler than their parents. Big facts, yes, big facts. 2403 02:08:11,400 --> 02:08:14,080 Speaker 1: This is why I would spoil my niece and nephew 2404 02:08:14,200 --> 02:08:17,240 Speaker 1: and spend time with them when I could. I would 2405 02:08:17,280 --> 02:08:19,600 Speaker 1: have to deal with James's Facebook posts with her, her 2406 02:08:19,680 --> 02:08:22,200 Speaker 1: kids and my mother all the time. One day, she 2407 02:08:22,280 --> 02:08:25,040 Speaker 1: posted something like, I'm so glad we could give you 2408 02:08:25,200 --> 02:08:31,400 Speaker 1: grandchildren that love you so much. Again dagger to the heart, 2409 02:08:31,880 --> 02:08:34,920 Speaker 1: knowing I would probably never see my mother with my children. 2410 02:08:35,560 --> 02:08:37,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, this girl sucks. 2411 02:08:38,040 --> 02:08:43,120 Speaker 1: Your sister sucks, and her kids are probably cool because 2412 02:08:43,200 --> 02:08:45,360 Speaker 1: you're the cool niece, or not the cool niece. 2413 02:08:45,560 --> 02:08:49,320 Speaker 2: You're the cool aunt who the nieces and nephew's love. 2414 02:08:49,400 --> 02:08:58,440 Speaker 2: Hopefully she doesn't poison him. What like poison like poison 2415 02:08:58,520 --> 02:09:04,879 Speaker 2: their mindset? Okay? I was like, dude, what you're like, where. 2416 02:09:04,920 --> 02:09:08,680 Speaker 10: Was this the whole compa We're not poisoning the children. Oh, 2417 02:09:09,840 --> 02:09:14,920 Speaker 10: it's never on the table. Oh it's okay, it's okay. 2418 02:09:15,280 --> 02:09:16,080 Speaker 10: Don't worry about it. 2419 02:09:16,200 --> 02:09:17,240 Speaker 2: I don't worry about it. 2420 02:09:17,720 --> 02:09:20,280 Speaker 1: Uh. Again, dagger to the heart, knowing I would probably 2421 02:09:20,320 --> 02:09:23,960 Speaker 1: never see my mother with my children. A few years ago, 2422 02:09:24,080 --> 02:09:28,360 Speaker 1: my mother bought ten acres and built a house for herself. Okay, 2423 02:09:29,400 --> 02:09:32,080 Speaker 1: she gave two acres to Dan, two acres to the 2424 02:09:32,120 --> 02:09:36,080 Speaker 1: oldest brother, and kept two acres for herself. I'm just 2425 02:09:37,160 --> 02:09:40,200 Speaker 1: now my mental image of Opie's mom is like way 2426 02:09:40,280 --> 02:09:40,920 Speaker 1: different now. 2427 02:09:40,920 --> 02:09:44,120 Speaker 2: Because the Opie gets none right. Well, I would assume, well, 2428 02:09:44,760 --> 02:09:45,360 Speaker 2: let's keep going. 2429 02:09:45,560 --> 02:09:48,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I told her I didn't need two acres as 2430 02:09:48,960 --> 02:09:51,120 Speaker 1: we had already bought a house and she could just 2431 02:09:51,480 --> 02:09:54,240 Speaker 1: sell it with the remaining to and invest that money. 2432 02:09:54,880 --> 02:09:56,280 Speaker 2: That money is now gone. 2433 02:09:56,760 --> 02:09:59,480 Speaker 1: Dan and the oldest brother put mobile homes on the property, 2434 02:09:59,760 --> 02:10:02,879 Speaker 1: and I live within walking distance to my mother. Okay, 2435 02:10:03,840 --> 02:10:06,880 Speaker 1: everyone tried telling my mother it was a horrible idea 2436 02:10:07,040 --> 02:10:09,320 Speaker 1: to allow my brothers to live on the property with her, 2437 02:10:09,640 --> 02:10:13,200 Speaker 1: but she didn't listen. She tells everyone she wishes she 2438 02:10:13,320 --> 02:10:15,960 Speaker 1: would have never let them move in, but then she 2439 02:10:16,240 --> 02:10:19,360 Speaker 1: is grateful because she is so close to her grandkids. 2440 02:10:20,600 --> 02:10:23,480 Speaker 1: By the way, you can get real close to us 2441 02:10:24,160 --> 02:10:27,320 Speaker 1: every weekday at three pm on YouTube Live. 2442 02:10:27,600 --> 02:10:31,160 Speaker 2: Just tap our profile and you're in. Come on in. 2443 02:10:33,080 --> 02:10:35,120 Speaker 1: It's probably just got a little bit left this story here. 2444 02:10:35,960 --> 02:10:38,280 Speaker 1: I think you just finish it off. I don't know 2445 02:10:38,320 --> 02:10:40,840 Speaker 1: if she will ever learn to say no or learn 2446 02:10:40,920 --> 02:10:43,160 Speaker 1: to be happy, but all I can do is try 2447 02:10:43,200 --> 02:10:45,480 Speaker 1: to see her when I can and spoil her. Since 2448 02:10:45,520 --> 02:10:48,960 Speaker 1: I can't spoil my niece and nephew anymore. As for 2449 02:10:49,040 --> 02:10:51,880 Speaker 1: the comments about telling the rest of my family, they 2450 02:10:51,920 --> 02:10:55,560 Speaker 1: already know most have distanced themselves because they were tired 2451 02:10:55,680 --> 02:10:59,240 Speaker 1: of being asked for money and babysitters. I'm just going 2452 02:10:59,320 --> 02:11:01,760 Speaker 1: to live my life with my wonderful husband doing the 2453 02:11:01,880 --> 02:11:06,640 Speaker 1: things we love to do. Thanks again, everyone, And that. 2454 02:11:07,600 --> 02:11:12,760 Speaker 2: Is the end of that story. The best thing you 2455 02:11:12,800 --> 02:11:14,760 Speaker 2: can do. I mean, can't argue with it. 2456 02:11:15,080 --> 02:11:17,240 Speaker 1: I can't argue with that, can't argue with that. It 2457 02:11:17,280 --> 02:11:19,320 Speaker 1: seems like you got it figured out pretty well. It 2458 02:11:19,560 --> 02:11:22,120 Speaker 1: is unfortunate that you won't be able to be like 2459 02:11:22,280 --> 02:11:25,640 Speaker 1: the cool the cool aunt because of the niece and 2460 02:11:25,920 --> 02:11:29,640 Speaker 1: the nephew kind of being involved in this whole situation. 2461 02:11:29,920 --> 02:11:36,280 Speaker 2: But like, honestly, like I don't have any siblings, so 2462 02:11:36,360 --> 02:11:41,000 Speaker 2: it's hard for me to oh, look who's here, Look 2463 02:11:41,040 --> 02:11:43,440 Speaker 2: who's here? Like, go on, you don't have any what siblings? 2464 02:11:43,480 --> 02:11:45,040 Speaker 1: I don't have any siblings, so it's hard for me 2465 02:11:45,120 --> 02:11:50,000 Speaker 1: to comprehend how to share hard of a betrayal it 2466 02:11:50,040 --> 02:11:52,440 Speaker 1: would be to be reading posts like that that I 2467 02:11:52,560 --> 02:11:55,160 Speaker 1: know are being like subliminally directed. 2468 02:11:54,840 --> 02:11:57,960 Speaker 2: At my like pain and misfortune. 2469 02:11:58,040 --> 02:12:01,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, like, especially when something to that level of like 2470 02:12:02,200 --> 02:12:06,920 Speaker 1: personal like it would sort of be like a permanent 2471 02:12:07,040 --> 02:12:08,880 Speaker 1: like how dare you like would be where I was 2472 02:12:08,920 --> 02:12:11,600 Speaker 1: at at all times? So I completely understand, like not 2473 02:12:11,880 --> 02:12:16,800 Speaker 1: you know, these people are excommunicado, like it's done. 2474 02:12:17,320 --> 02:12:21,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think I could forgive, not even not 2475 02:12:21,280 --> 02:12:24,240 Speaker 2: even low contact, because you're you're a famous low contactor, 2476 02:12:25,560 --> 02:12:26,040 Speaker 2: you know it. 2477 02:12:26,280 --> 02:12:29,080 Speaker 1: Usually my perspective with that is for parents particularly, but 2478 02:12:29,280 --> 02:12:32,320 Speaker 1: like if it's butt and I guess it would be 2479 02:12:32,360 --> 02:12:35,080 Speaker 1: the same for like siblings, right, but still it's like 2480 02:12:35,480 --> 02:12:38,360 Speaker 1: to go that far to say that, to be that 2481 02:12:38,680 --> 02:12:42,920 Speaker 1: like venomous. That's that's what I would call that. That's venomous, 2482 02:12:43,120 --> 02:12:46,600 Speaker 1: like and you can't just like get that out of 2483 02:12:46,640 --> 02:12:48,120 Speaker 1: your system like with like. 2484 02:12:48,240 --> 02:12:50,640 Speaker 2: A you know, oh it's whatever, it'll smooth over. 2485 02:12:50,720 --> 02:12:53,080 Speaker 1: It's like I will always remember that you said that 2486 02:12:53,400 --> 02:12:57,280 Speaker 1: in like one of my darkest moments, Like you used 2487 02:12:57,360 --> 02:13:01,440 Speaker 1: me as a way to what feel good about yourself? 2488 02:13:01,480 --> 02:13:03,920 Speaker 2: What because you're mad that? I like our mom too? 2489 02:13:04,800 --> 02:13:10,280 Speaker 1: Like just crazy absurd behave from the sister. 2490 02:13:10,400 --> 02:13:13,520 Speaker 2: I like, move on and enjoy life with a husband. Yeah, 2491 02:13:13,600 --> 02:13:14,760 Speaker 2: I like it. I like it. 2492 02:13:14,880 --> 02:13:17,200 Speaker 1: Soak up the sun, baby, soak up the sun. 2493 02:13:17,360 --> 02:13:19,760 Speaker 2: You've earned it. Speaking of Soaking up, Son, we got 2494 02:13:19,800 --> 02:13:24,280 Speaker 2: any donos to Soaking that we haven't read already? So 2495 02:13:24,440 --> 02:13:27,280 Speaker 2: many even just dropping like bombs. Shout it again to 2496 02:13:27,600 --> 02:13:30,800 Speaker 2: Chris Tinfoil Hot for the ten gifted memberships. Yeah, absolutely crazy, 2497 02:13:30,960 --> 02:13:34,120 Speaker 2: let's go. Come on, Oh, Kaitlyn, I. 2498 02:13:34,080 --> 02:13:36,840 Speaker 1: Don't I don't think we talked about Kaitlyn van Kampen 2499 02:13:37,360 --> 02:13:40,680 Speaker 1: do it for the five dollars? Why did you live 2500 02:13:40,840 --> 02:13:43,520 Speaker 1: in Burkie? A roadrunner would come up to my door 2501 02:13:43,600 --> 02:13:46,320 Speaker 1: and eat ground beef. One day it brought its cute 2502 02:13:46,360 --> 02:13:48,160 Speaker 1: family and then it got in the house. 2503 02:13:48,640 --> 02:13:48,880 Speaker 2: Wow. 2504 02:13:49,240 --> 02:13:52,600 Speaker 1: I didn't even know roadrunners. I thought they were kind 2505 02:13:52,640 --> 02:13:54,960 Speaker 1: of solitary. I didn't realize that they had little babies 2506 02:13:55,000 --> 02:13:59,800 Speaker 1: that they took care of. I moved to Albuquerque to 2507 02:14:00,160 --> 02:14:04,160 Speaker 1: live with a old friend of mine during the pandemic, 2508 02:14:04,960 --> 02:14:09,560 Speaker 1: and I ended up also selling solar panels. And I thought, 2509 02:14:09,560 --> 02:14:14,000 Speaker 1: you're gonna say, just souls selling souls for the grim Reaper? 2510 02:14:14,680 --> 02:14:16,440 Speaker 2: Uh no, Uh yeah. 2511 02:14:16,520 --> 02:14:18,600 Speaker 1: It was a weird chapter of my life, but one 2512 02:14:18,720 --> 02:14:21,920 Speaker 1: I appreciate because it allowed me to make friends with 2513 02:14:22,040 --> 02:14:24,760 Speaker 1: some people who I'm still very close to to this day. 2514 02:14:25,000 --> 02:14:29,640 Speaker 1: And also, like, shout out, shout out, Daniel, just why 2515 02:14:29,680 --> 02:14:30,520 Speaker 1: did you just pan down. 2516 02:14:33,640 --> 02:14:35,280 Speaker 3: Uh, I all. 2517 02:14:37,440 --> 02:14:40,840 Speaker 2: The kid is like just the camera up. My bad guys, guys, 2518 02:14:41,200 --> 02:14:46,600 Speaker 2: I forget how this works. I also spent the pandemic 2519 02:14:46,720 --> 02:14:48,520 Speaker 2: with like a best friend. It was just like me 2520 02:14:49,320 --> 02:14:52,280 Speaker 2: and him just just broke We just broke down, vibed out, 2521 02:14:52,320 --> 02:14:53,920 Speaker 2: We just broke down, and it was it was a 2522 02:14:53,960 --> 02:14:56,760 Speaker 2: good time. Brow down, brow down. Sometimes you just gotta 2523 02:14:56,800 --> 02:15:01,160 Speaker 2: brow down. Also, Savannah Mosley think the two bucks are 2524 02:15:01,680 --> 02:15:16,240 Speaker 2: mostly mostly whoa that was to synchronized. Just your camera again. Nice. 2525 02:15:16,880 --> 02:15:18,680 Speaker 2: No one gets to know I have a lower body. 2526 02:15:18,880 --> 02:15:24,120 Speaker 1: I'm waste up, Torso, I'm torso man. 2527 02:15:24,320 --> 02:15:28,520 Speaker 2: No one legs. Oh my gosh. He wouldn't even let 2528 02:15:29,000 --> 02:15:32,720 Speaker 2: Bye Riley say. Everyone say bye bye bye bye bye 2529 02:15:32,840 --> 02:15:33,560 Speaker 2: bye bye. 2530 02:15:33,400 --> 02:15:34,840 Speaker 1: Bye big protein. 2531 02:15:35,840 --> 02:15:40,280 Speaker 2: I'm gonna zip this all the way up. Look, wait 2532 02:15:40,480 --> 02:15:41,160 Speaker 2: all did you set it up? 2533 02:15:41,160 --> 02:15:41,320 Speaker 1: Ford? 2534 02:15:41,880 --> 02:15:55,440 Speaker 2: Okay? User standard bomb bomb okay boom? Also, uh, Kean, 2535 02:15:55,520 --> 02:15:58,520 Speaker 2: could you check the tiplingk I wanted to make sure 2536 02:15:58,560 --> 02:16:03,520 Speaker 2: we didn't miss any war World. The time has come to. 2537 02:16:05,320 --> 02:16:05,840 Speaker 3: The world. 2538 02:16:07,080 --> 02:16:12,600 Speaker 1: The time has come to galvanized bump bump, bump bump. 2539 02:16:13,240 --> 02:16:15,480 Speaker 2: It's the party over here, it's the party over there, 2540 02:16:15,560 --> 02:16:19,920 Speaker 2: and the people can't don't hold back world whoa. 2541 02:16:21,280 --> 02:16:25,160 Speaker 1: Oh man, that was great perform chat galvanized shot. 2542 02:16:25,320 --> 02:16:27,200 Speaker 2: Give him some something for that one. That was great? 2543 02:16:27,240 --> 02:16:28,840 Speaker 1: That was that was that was tip worthy. If you 2544 02:16:28,880 --> 02:16:31,720 Speaker 1: asked me, are you the donuts? Yes, they're shouting to 2545 02:16:31,800 --> 02:16:34,520 Speaker 1: breathe in ten bucks. The dono amount is so hot. 2546 02:16:34,760 --> 02:16:39,720 Speaker 1: Let's keep it going to the golden guys, the Golden Goblins. 2547 02:16:39,320 --> 02:16:41,680 Speaker 2: Golden Goblins. I like that one a lot. I like 2548 02:16:42,200 --> 02:16:46,840 Speaker 2: guys too. Also, Grandma's got a potty bout, dude, twenty 2549 02:16:47,040 --> 02:16:51,720 Speaker 2: five dollars on the tippling no less free Sending another 2550 02:16:51,959 --> 02:16:55,080 Speaker 2: dono for Keon, looking good, Keon. If I were thirty 2551 02:16:55,160 --> 02:16:58,760 Speaker 2: years younger, I'd be all over that. Last I heard, 2552 02:16:59,080 --> 02:17:01,240 Speaker 2: Keon doesn't have any issue with it. AG nothing but 2553 02:17:01,320 --> 02:17:01,920 Speaker 2: a number to keep. 2554 02:17:02,040 --> 02:17:06,520 Speaker 4: Age is not grandma, honey, oh honey, get all over 2555 02:17:06,640 --> 02:17:09,240 Speaker 4: that right now. I mean everyone, Yes, age is just 2556 02:17:10,080 --> 02:17:11,800 Speaker 4: just the number for me. I mean, I'm not No, 2557 02:17:11,920 --> 02:17:13,320 Speaker 4: that's weird. That sounds really weird. 2558 02:17:14,360 --> 02:17:24,200 Speaker 2: Only direction age is only a number of it's over eighteen, but. 2559 02:17:26,440 --> 02:17:32,960 Speaker 1: Younger, more older than you. I can't save myself, but 2560 02:17:33,160 --> 02:17:35,480 Speaker 1: I still love it, and I'm I'm kind of like you. 2561 02:17:36,160 --> 02:17:39,080 Speaker 2: You've you've saved yourself. You've done good, good, good done, 2562 02:17:39,160 --> 02:17:42,280 Speaker 2: good good. Thank you, Grandma. Is there any other donuts? 2563 02:17:42,360 --> 02:17:43,120 Speaker 2: Let's checking. 2564 02:17:43,200 --> 02:17:43,560 Speaker 1: I don't know. 2565 02:17:45,240 --> 02:17:47,240 Speaker 2: Thanks for the twenty five bucks. This is just for 2566 02:17:47,320 --> 02:17:50,720 Speaker 2: the effort given to shout out donations. 2567 02:17:51,480 --> 02:17:54,160 Speaker 1: We try our darness. Hey, thanks for the appreciation. We 2568 02:17:54,560 --> 02:17:55,920 Speaker 1: appreciate your appreciation. 2569 02:17:56,160 --> 02:18:00,480 Speaker 2: Right we really heard that? Yes we did. And then 2570 02:18:00,560 --> 02:18:04,800 Speaker 2: super chat is just in case we didn't. Kristen fall 2571 02:18:05,040 --> 02:18:10,400 Speaker 2: again ten gifted memberships. Just I mean, speechless, truly speaks 2572 02:18:10,400 --> 02:18:14,680 Speaker 2: to us hot in the chat, in the chat breaking chat. 2573 02:18:15,040 --> 02:18:17,520 Speaker 2: Pants on the ground, pants on gus, remember that. 2574 02:18:17,640 --> 02:18:19,920 Speaker 1: Looking like a fool with your pants on the ground. 2575 02:18:20,800 --> 02:18:26,000 Speaker 2: I think that's it. Hold on, wait a second, scroll 2576 02:18:26,000 --> 02:18:29,800 Speaker 2: back up to the top. Uh, grandma's got a potty mouth. 2577 02:18:30,000 --> 02:18:33,760 Speaker 2: Twenty five dollars Chip, no words, but we all know 2578 02:18:33,800 --> 02:18:34,879 Speaker 2: what grandma. 2579 02:18:34,520 --> 02:18:40,280 Speaker 1: Said that honestly, honestly, actions speak louder than words. Oh, 2580 02:18:40,640 --> 02:18:45,440 Speaker 1: talk about it, talk about it, talk about it, be 2581 02:18:45,560 --> 02:18:50,960 Speaker 1: about it. He about it, We about it, he about 2582 02:18:51,080 --> 02:18:56,879 Speaker 1: to Who's who's reading? 2583 02:18:56,879 --> 02:18:59,640 Speaker 2: I lost your boy? Is that was something for just me? 2584 02:18:59,720 --> 02:19:04,520 Speaker 1: And yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, all right, and Riley got 2585 02:19:04,560 --> 02:19:05,240 Speaker 1: it all set up. 2586 02:19:05,879 --> 02:19:10,640 Speaker 2: I'm assuming I don't know. My sister's made. My sister's made. Yes, 2587 02:19:10,840 --> 02:19:13,880 Speaker 2: you are good. Let me, Yeah you were good. But 2588 02:19:14,280 --> 02:19:16,119 Speaker 2: let's rock and roll. Let's rock. 2589 02:19:17,760 --> 02:19:17,960 Speaker 1: God. 2590 02:19:18,000 --> 02:19:23,640 Speaker 2: I guess God, my sister's made no effort to see 2591 02:19:23,680 --> 02:19:25,600 Speaker 2: my daughter and now she's blaming me. 2592 02:19:27,200 --> 02:19:28,440 Speaker 3: Well, you kept her from me. 2593 02:19:28,920 --> 02:19:31,920 Speaker 2: Maybe it is your fault. Yeah, we'll find out. Oh, 2594 02:19:32,360 --> 02:19:34,960 Speaker 2: super long cured event, but also need a little advice. 2595 02:19:35,160 --> 02:19:38,120 Speaker 2: My sister thirty eight female texted me yesterday saying that 2596 02:19:38,240 --> 02:19:40,720 Speaker 2: I hope everything is okay, slash, your family is good. 2597 02:19:41,080 --> 02:19:43,160 Speaker 2: For context, about a month ago, I was having a 2598 02:19:43,200 --> 02:19:45,480 Speaker 2: really rough time. My husband and I were on the 2599 02:19:45,560 --> 02:19:49,720 Speaker 2: brink of divorce. My house in disarray because of an 2600 02:19:49,800 --> 02:19:53,680 Speaker 2: ongoing insurance claim. So I haven't had a downstairs bathroom 2601 02:19:53,760 --> 02:19:56,560 Speaker 2: for ten months and still currently don't. I hope you 2602 02:19:56,680 --> 02:20:02,200 Speaker 2: have a bathroom, h I'm the primary caretaker for my daughter. 2603 02:20:02,600 --> 02:20:05,960 Speaker 2: My husband works ten hour days with a two hour commute, 2604 02:20:06,320 --> 02:20:11,320 Speaker 2: and I myself work two jobs. Yeah, Lee there going 2605 02:20:11,400 --> 02:20:14,119 Speaker 2: for it, my goodness, and this comes from hard work, dude, 2606 02:20:14,320 --> 02:20:17,800 Speaker 2: hard to the maximum. My god, stay hard, stay hard. 2607 02:20:18,680 --> 02:20:21,560 Speaker 2: And this comes from dry Baker seven for seven for 2608 02:20:21,680 --> 02:20:24,400 Speaker 2: our size circase or ourtest. Okay, story time sell read it. 2609 02:20:24,760 --> 02:20:27,200 Speaker 2: So my sister came into my work a restaurant on 2610 02:20:27,280 --> 02:20:29,760 Speaker 2: the same night while I was struggling really bad with 2611 02:20:29,879 --> 02:20:32,400 Speaker 2: everything going on in my life, and I broke down 2612 02:20:32,480 --> 02:20:34,800 Speaker 2: and opened up to her about everything that has been 2613 02:20:34,879 --> 02:20:37,720 Speaker 2: going on. I couldn't keep it in any longer. I mean, 2614 02:20:38,080 --> 02:20:40,760 Speaker 2: working two shifts, husband's work out of the house fourteen 2615 02:20:40,800 --> 02:20:43,960 Speaker 2: hours a day. Can you blame her? My goodness, strong, 2616 02:20:44,040 --> 02:20:47,040 Speaker 2: strong woman over here. She listened and validated me for 2617 02:20:47,120 --> 02:20:50,800 Speaker 2: the first time. I felt relieved that I opened up 2618 02:20:50,920 --> 02:20:53,000 Speaker 2: about what I've been going through with someone I love 2619 02:20:53,040 --> 02:20:53,840 Speaker 2: who cares. 2620 02:20:55,640 --> 02:20:59,720 Speaker 1: Well. Congratulations. It's a great feeling to feel. 2621 02:21:00,000 --> 02:21:04,560 Speaker 2: Hey, huh. I've occasionally texted her when she texted me 2622 02:21:04,879 --> 02:21:06,920 Speaker 2: or when I was having a rough day. My husband 2623 02:21:06,959 --> 02:21:08,800 Speaker 2: and I got into an argument last week and I 2624 02:21:08,879 --> 02:21:11,360 Speaker 2: called her to vent and get her opinion. She's also 2625 02:21:11,480 --> 02:21:13,880 Speaker 2: texted me about things that she got pissed about, and 2626 02:21:14,000 --> 02:21:16,880 Speaker 2: I also listened. So this isn't a one way deal. 2627 02:21:17,440 --> 02:21:20,360 Speaker 2: Fast forward yesterday, she sent me a text, so I 2628 02:21:20,560 --> 02:21:24,040 Speaker 2: called her to chat, not just about stuff going on 2629 02:21:24,200 --> 02:21:27,720 Speaker 2: in my life, but to just chat in general. I've 2630 02:21:27,760 --> 02:21:31,440 Speaker 2: started to feel like she genuinely cared about my life? 2631 02:21:31,920 --> 02:21:33,760 Speaker 2: Why do I feel like? This is about to take 2632 02:21:34,200 --> 02:21:38,080 Speaker 2: her rest term. So we're just talking about random stuff, 2633 02:21:38,200 --> 02:21:41,480 Speaker 2: and out of the blue, she says, can I ask 2634 02:21:41,560 --> 02:21:43,440 Speaker 2: you something? Do you even want me in your life? 2635 02:21:45,879 --> 02:21:46,039 Speaker 1: Uh? 2636 02:21:47,920 --> 02:21:52,560 Speaker 2: Do I have time to answer that question? Did you 2637 02:21:52,720 --> 02:21:54,720 Speaker 2: want me here? Should I just chose up and leave? 2638 02:21:55,120 --> 02:21:58,360 Speaker 1: That's just like such a hard question to answer, because 2639 02:21:58,520 --> 02:22:01,160 Speaker 1: like you have to you can't wait too long. If 2640 02:22:01,200 --> 02:22:04,440 Speaker 1: you hesitate too long, you've already answered, like and your 2641 02:22:04,480 --> 02:22:07,000 Speaker 1: man boozled. So you're like, what do I say? Yeah, 2642 02:22:07,080 --> 02:22:09,800 Speaker 1: you're caught completely off guard if you stumble while you 2643 02:22:09,920 --> 02:22:11,720 Speaker 1: answer that you've already answered. 2644 02:22:11,800 --> 02:22:15,760 Speaker 2: Now you're like, oh, just say it. You don't you 2645 02:22:15,800 --> 02:22:19,880 Speaker 2: don't want me here? I mean, that's whoa? Where is 2646 02:22:19,920 --> 02:22:20,280 Speaker 2: this coming? 2647 02:22:20,480 --> 02:22:20,920 Speaker 1: This is true? 2648 02:22:21,080 --> 02:22:27,520 Speaker 2: Whoa? This is? This is insane? So I'm like, yeah, 2649 02:22:28,560 --> 02:22:33,480 Speaker 2: why would you Yeah? Yeah, why would you even ask 2650 02:22:33,520 --> 02:22:36,440 Speaker 2: you that? She continues on to say that I dismiss her. 2651 02:22:36,800 --> 02:22:38,320 Speaker 2: I ask her to give me an example so that 2652 02:22:38,320 --> 02:22:41,080 Speaker 2: I could better understand, and she says, I don't expect 2653 02:22:41,120 --> 02:22:43,680 Speaker 2: you to stop what you're doing. But when I come 2654 02:22:43,800 --> 02:22:47,680 Speaker 2: into the job that I work at, you ask you 2655 02:22:47,800 --> 02:22:54,680 Speaker 2: ask me, how's the house? Et cetera. Which, how's how's 2656 02:22:54,680 --> 02:22:57,280 Speaker 2: the house? Just like you care about the house, you 2657 02:22:57,360 --> 02:22:58,400 Speaker 2: don't care about me. 2658 02:22:58,879 --> 02:23:02,000 Speaker 1: Oh, okay, okay, right, okay, I think, why don't you 2659 02:23:02,040 --> 02:23:03,240 Speaker 1: ask me how I'm doing? 2660 02:23:03,480 --> 02:23:03,680 Speaker 5: Yeah? 2661 02:23:04,360 --> 02:23:06,360 Speaker 2: The house is fine. Yeah, the house is fine. I 2662 02:23:06,440 --> 02:23:08,240 Speaker 2: cleaned it. Don't you want to ask me how I 2663 02:23:08,320 --> 02:23:08,880 Speaker 2: feel about it? 2664 02:23:10,240 --> 02:23:14,920 Speaker 1: Bobby Bouchet, Which is important to do honestly, Like you 2665 02:23:15,080 --> 02:23:17,480 Speaker 1: need to be asking the people that you care about 2666 02:23:17,680 --> 02:23:18,280 Speaker 1: how they're doing. 2667 02:23:18,800 --> 02:23:21,560 Speaker 2: This is true, that is not just about their houses. Yeah, 2668 02:23:21,720 --> 02:23:23,560 Speaker 2: if we could be, if we're being honest here. Yeah, 2669 02:23:24,320 --> 02:23:27,320 Speaker 2: I apologize to her and I said, I'm sorry, my 2670 02:23:27,440 --> 02:23:30,120 Speaker 2: mind has been elsewhere a lot lately, and I didn't 2671 02:23:30,120 --> 02:23:33,120 Speaker 2: mean to be dismissive. Then she proceeds to bring my 2672 02:23:33,280 --> 02:23:36,560 Speaker 2: husband's family into it, saying that she only gets invited 2673 02:23:36,640 --> 02:23:39,520 Speaker 2: to one thing a year, her birthday party, and that's it, 2674 02:23:39,840 --> 02:23:42,720 Speaker 2: and that my husband's family gets to see my daughter 2675 02:23:42,840 --> 02:23:45,840 Speaker 2: for everything. I said, you've always been invited to holidays 2676 02:23:46,160 --> 02:23:48,440 Speaker 2: at my in law's house. They would leave an open 2677 02:23:48,520 --> 02:23:51,880 Speaker 2: invitation every year. But I'm sorry if I haven't communicated 2678 02:23:51,920 --> 02:23:54,440 Speaker 2: that to you, I'll make sure to do that. At 2679 02:23:54,480 --> 02:23:56,600 Speaker 2: this point, she's just crying on the phone and not 2680 02:23:56,720 --> 02:23:59,440 Speaker 2: letting me speak, not letting me speak, just saying that 2681 02:23:59,560 --> 02:24:03,960 Speaker 2: I'm not listening. WHOA that she loves my daughter and 2682 02:24:04,120 --> 02:24:06,879 Speaker 2: that I've been saying for two years since she broke 2683 02:24:07,000 --> 02:24:10,320 Speaker 2: up with her ex, that I would bring my daughter over, 2684 02:24:10,600 --> 02:24:12,200 Speaker 2: which I have a couple of times. She lives about 2685 02:24:12,200 --> 02:24:14,360 Speaker 2: twenty five minutes away from me, and she doesn't see 2686 02:24:14,440 --> 02:24:18,480 Speaker 2: her at all. Dude, A lot going on here. Yeah, 2687 02:24:19,280 --> 02:24:23,320 Speaker 2: I mean I think it should. 2688 02:24:23,360 --> 02:24:26,520 Speaker 1: You should be happy when you realize, oh, I've actually 2689 02:24:26,600 --> 02:24:29,160 Speaker 1: had an open invitation to all of the things that 2690 02:24:29,240 --> 02:24:30,520 Speaker 1: I thought I wasn't invited to. 2691 02:24:31,640 --> 02:24:34,000 Speaker 2: Hooray, now I can go to them. 2692 02:24:34,680 --> 02:24:38,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, instead of like, you know, I mean, it's fair 2693 02:24:38,840 --> 02:24:40,960 Speaker 1: to be distraught, but that should have maybe brought you 2694 02:24:41,040 --> 02:24:44,360 Speaker 1: out of distress. Yeah, something been like, oh okay, that's fine, 2695 02:24:44,360 --> 02:24:46,400 Speaker 1: I'll be able to see your kid all the time. Yeah. 2696 02:24:47,200 --> 02:24:51,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like there's something more, that there's another 2697 02:24:52,240 --> 02:24:54,879 Speaker 2: bomb to be dropped. There's more than meets the eye. Oh, 2698 02:24:56,040 --> 02:24:59,560 Speaker 2: trans bombers more then meets the eye. And there's a 2699 02:24:59,600 --> 02:25:04,400 Speaker 2: lot of meat in my eye right now. What Okay, 2700 02:25:05,640 --> 02:25:09,280 Speaker 2: that's two meat bags right here in the flash and Cake, 2701 02:25:10,200 --> 02:25:13,560 Speaker 2: Handsome Cake turn and spin little on the side of tea. 2702 02:25:13,720 --> 02:25:16,400 Speaker 2: Come on, guys, Okay, fine. 2703 02:25:16,280 --> 02:25:22,400 Speaker 1: After story, the story, it's not only the second day somehow. 2704 02:25:22,440 --> 02:25:25,840 Speaker 2: It always when we have like uh people like join 2705 02:25:26,280 --> 02:25:29,600 Speaker 2: the stream and whatnot, there's there's always the pimping goes 2706 02:25:29,640 --> 02:25:33,280 Speaker 2: crazy chatig. That's true. 2707 02:25:35,280 --> 02:25:41,039 Speaker 1: We all know that, especially Dakota. So back to the story, 2708 02:25:41,560 --> 02:25:43,600 Speaker 1: Uh that it goes both ways. 2709 02:25:43,680 --> 02:25:45,840 Speaker 2: And I need to make an effort for her to 2710 02:25:45,920 --> 02:25:48,320 Speaker 2: see my daughter because I'm always making plans with my 2711 02:25:48,440 --> 02:25:51,720 Speaker 2: husband's family. So I said to her, it's not my 2712 02:25:51,840 --> 02:25:56,480 Speaker 2: responsibility to maintain my daughter's relationship with family members. People 2713 02:25:56,520 --> 02:25:57,880 Speaker 2: who want to be in her life will make the 2714 02:25:57,920 --> 02:26:00,680 Speaker 2: effort to She continues on and talks for me. At 2715 02:26:00,720 --> 02:26:03,040 Speaker 2: this point, I'm getting really frustrated, and I said, this 2716 02:26:03,240 --> 02:26:06,200 Speaker 2: isn't a productive conversation. I'm not going to continue this 2717 02:26:06,280 --> 02:26:08,320 Speaker 2: conversation if I'm not going to be allowed to speak 2718 02:26:08,400 --> 02:26:10,480 Speaker 2: or be talked over. I let you say what you 2719 02:26:10,560 --> 02:26:14,480 Speaker 2: had to say. She continued, and repeated myself to myself 2720 02:26:14,640 --> 02:26:19,119 Speaker 2: that I wasn't going to continue the conversation. I she continued, 2721 02:26:19,160 --> 02:26:21,520 Speaker 2: and I repeated myself that I wasn't going to continue 2722 02:26:21,560 --> 02:26:24,280 Speaker 2: the conversation. Anymore if I was going to be talked over, 2723 02:26:24,720 --> 02:26:27,000 Speaker 2: she said fine and hung. 2724 02:26:26,959 --> 02:26:27,280 Speaker 1: Up on me. 2725 02:26:28,520 --> 02:26:35,240 Speaker 2: Then the texts came the avalanche is coming, Oh boy her. 2726 02:26:35,760 --> 02:26:38,120 Speaker 2: It's really hard to have a conversation with someone who 2727 02:26:38,240 --> 02:26:41,119 Speaker 2: isn't willing to listen. I understand you're putting up boundaries 2728 02:26:41,160 --> 02:26:43,040 Speaker 2: and you feel like you need boundaries in your life, 2729 02:26:43,280 --> 02:26:46,320 Speaker 2: but you can't completely shut people out. I really do 2730 02:26:46,480 --> 02:26:48,560 Speaker 2: wish the best for you and your family, and I 2731 02:26:48,760 --> 02:26:51,480 Speaker 2: only feel like you call when you need something. Otherwise 2732 02:26:51,760 --> 02:26:54,400 Speaker 2: you're non existent, which is really saddening to me. And 2733 02:26:54,480 --> 02:26:57,000 Speaker 2: it's even more saddening now that you don't want to 2734 02:26:57,080 --> 02:27:02,200 Speaker 2: see that it's your point of view. Opie says, I 2735 02:27:02,280 --> 02:27:04,600 Speaker 2: have boundaries to and oh no, no, sorry. The sister 2736 02:27:04,680 --> 02:27:07,440 Speaker 2: goes on, I have boundaries to and it includes not 2737 02:27:07,560 --> 02:27:10,200 Speaker 2: being dismissed. I feel like right now you are not 2738 02:27:10,400 --> 02:27:18,360 Speaker 2: even family. Whoa yikes, Opie responds, Listen. I tried to 2739 02:27:18,440 --> 02:27:21,400 Speaker 2: validate you. I even asked you to give me examples, 2740 02:27:21,480 --> 02:27:23,680 Speaker 2: and you gave me one. And I apologized and said 2741 02:27:23,720 --> 02:27:25,640 Speaker 2: that my mind has been elsewhere a lot, lady a 2742 02:27:25,720 --> 02:27:28,279 Speaker 2: lot lately, and that it wasn't my intention to be dismissive. 2743 02:27:28,560 --> 02:27:31,640 Speaker 2: I stopped the conversation because it wasn't productive. We can 2744 02:27:31,720 --> 02:27:34,280 Speaker 2: have this conversation again when we cool down and can 2745 02:27:34,360 --> 02:27:36,800 Speaker 2: actually talk to one another. I love you, and I 2746 02:27:36,920 --> 02:27:40,440 Speaker 2: hope you have a good rest of your night. To 2747 02:27:40,560 --> 02:27:46,720 Speaker 2: achieve response. Listen, I don't need to be validated. Okay, 2748 02:27:47,560 --> 02:27:51,000 Speaker 2: I was hoping for a productive conversation, but I understand 2749 02:27:51,120 --> 02:27:53,039 Speaker 2: that that's not something that can happen at this time. 2750 02:27:53,840 --> 02:27:56,880 Speaker 2: Good luck with everything. Please don't call me only because 2751 02:27:56,920 --> 02:28:02,640 Speaker 2: you need something. Everyone has their own craft to deal with. Sorry, though, 2752 02:28:03,360 --> 02:28:07,280 Speaker 2: burst your bubble. Whoa, You're not special with dealing crap 2753 02:28:07,400 --> 02:28:09,520 Speaker 2: that happens. That's just a part of life. 2754 02:28:12,360 --> 02:28:18,080 Speaker 1: WHOA, Well, I'm I'm genuinely I think I'm confused because 2755 02:28:18,120 --> 02:28:19,680 Speaker 1: I think I mixed mixed up. 2756 02:28:19,720 --> 02:28:23,440 Speaker 2: Who was who in those text countryations. So basically, Hannah 2757 02:28:23,480 --> 02:28:30,680 Speaker 2: tip fifty, thank you, Hannah, Hannah, whoa Hannah, woh yeah, 2758 02:28:31,440 --> 02:28:36,800 Speaker 2: oh yeah, we're keeping the good times rolling. Oh my god? 2759 02:28:37,160 --> 02:28:41,520 Speaker 2: Who they said cake? Okay, I want to see the 2760 02:28:41,600 --> 02:28:46,240 Speaker 2: chat filled with Zach not trying to keep you here forever. 2761 02:28:47,000 --> 02:28:49,440 Speaker 2: You're just making me laugh. One very sick and on 2762 02:28:49,680 --> 02:28:52,279 Speaker 2: nasty antibiotics got to show some appreciation. 2763 02:28:53,520 --> 02:28:58,160 Speaker 1: Well, that's plenty of appreciation. We appreciate you, Hannah, Thank you, Hannah. 2764 02:28:58,200 --> 02:28:59,920 Speaker 2: Feel better, Yeah, feel better. 2765 02:29:00,200 --> 02:29:02,760 Speaker 1: Help the laps make you feel better. Feel better. 2766 02:29:02,920 --> 02:29:03,879 Speaker 2: They say it's the best menace. 2767 02:29:04,000 --> 02:29:06,760 Speaker 1: Feel better from those nasty and cybos. 2768 02:29:07,040 --> 02:29:10,000 Speaker 2: Technically we're doctors. Is that how they say it. She 2769 02:29:10,280 --> 02:29:15,560 Speaker 2: didn't like it. Whatever, I don't. 2770 02:29:15,400 --> 02:29:16,640 Speaker 1: Care a. 2771 02:29:19,320 --> 02:29:25,600 Speaker 2: British accent it can be. But yeah, so basically Opie. 2772 02:29:25,800 --> 02:29:28,200 Speaker 2: You know, Opie's doing a lot working to jobs all 2773 02:29:28,280 --> 02:29:31,640 Speaker 2: this stuff. She would call her sister, who like was 2774 02:29:32,560 --> 02:29:37,000 Speaker 2: very like validating for her and was able to like 2775 02:29:37,240 --> 02:29:39,160 Speaker 2: kind of like help her through her through her stuff. 2776 02:29:39,879 --> 02:29:42,440 Speaker 2: And now the sister is like, hey, I feel like 2777 02:29:42,480 --> 02:29:44,000 Speaker 2: I'm not invited to the events. I feel like you 2778 02:29:44,160 --> 02:29:46,040 Speaker 2: you don't listen to me, Like basically you're always like 2779 02:29:46,120 --> 02:29:48,280 Speaker 2: coming to me with your problems and never like checking 2780 02:29:48,320 --> 02:29:51,840 Speaker 2: in on how I'm doing. And the one thing I 2781 02:29:52,000 --> 02:29:55,840 Speaker 2: will say is we don't. We might have a unreliable 2782 02:29:55,920 --> 02:29:59,640 Speaker 2: narrator in that maybe op is doing this all the 2783 02:29:59,680 --> 02:30:03,560 Speaker 2: time and it is just like really not fully cognizant 2784 02:30:03,600 --> 02:30:06,200 Speaker 2: of the extent of which they're just like always calling 2785 02:30:06,280 --> 02:30:08,560 Speaker 2: with her. Because in fairness, Opie is going through a lot. 2786 02:30:08,879 --> 02:30:13,560 Speaker 2: So I could see a world where she's like constantly 2787 02:30:13,680 --> 02:30:15,880 Speaker 2: like calling her because she's a person she can lean 2788 02:30:15,959 --> 02:30:18,560 Speaker 2: on but not able to like the sister isn't able 2789 02:30:18,600 --> 02:30:21,520 Speaker 2: to like say her piece. So maybe that's what it is. 2790 02:30:22,800 --> 02:30:25,360 Speaker 1: Maybe not that make makes a little more sense in 2791 02:30:25,400 --> 02:30:27,640 Speaker 1: my head. It could it could be that, or she 2792 02:30:27,760 --> 02:30:28,680 Speaker 1: could be off rocker. 2793 02:30:30,400 --> 02:30:32,920 Speaker 2: I guess what to find out. You'll tune in and 2794 02:30:33,000 --> 02:30:36,280 Speaker 2: find out, guys. So my mind is just like completely 2795 02:30:36,560 --> 02:30:38,960 Speaker 2: boggled at this point. Mind you, she never calls me, 2796 02:30:39,520 --> 02:30:41,440 Speaker 2: she never tries to make plans with me or my daughter, 2797 02:30:41,879 --> 02:30:45,080 Speaker 2: and she is just offered to take take her for 2798 02:30:45,160 --> 02:30:47,680 Speaker 2: the day to spend time with her. At her birthday 2799 02:30:47,760 --> 02:30:50,160 Speaker 2: last year, she didn't even get up from her seat. 2800 02:30:51,080 --> 02:30:53,200 Speaker 2: She sat with my father at a table the entire 2801 02:30:53,320 --> 02:30:56,120 Speaker 2: time and barely spoke to anyone and never interacted with 2802 02:30:56,280 --> 02:30:59,199 Speaker 2: my daughter with a giant puss on her face. 2803 02:30:59,600 --> 02:31:01,600 Speaker 5: What who? 2804 02:31:01,600 --> 02:31:07,880 Speaker 2: He's one of these I reads it as he sees it. 2805 02:31:09,440 --> 02:31:12,440 Speaker 2: She puts in minimal efforts at best to be part 2806 02:31:12,480 --> 02:31:16,080 Speaker 2: of her life, but says it goes both ways. Let's 2807 02:31:16,120 --> 02:31:18,680 Speaker 2: also mention the fact that she's single and has no kids. 2808 02:31:19,160 --> 02:31:22,480 Speaker 2: I am just perplexed. I don't ask her for anything. Ever. 2809 02:31:22,800 --> 02:31:25,119 Speaker 2: I rarely go to her when I'm having trouble because 2810 02:31:25,120 --> 02:31:27,240 Speaker 2: she has proven to me that I can't trust her. 2811 02:31:27,680 --> 02:31:30,400 Speaker 2: I confided in her about a year ago about something 2812 02:31:30,440 --> 02:31:33,600 Speaker 2: with our dad, about his narcissistic behavior and the things 2813 02:31:33,640 --> 02:31:36,760 Speaker 2: he says to us versus what he actually does. I 2814 02:31:36,840 --> 02:31:40,600 Speaker 2: hadn't said anything else to anyone in our family. And 2815 02:31:40,760 --> 02:31:43,160 Speaker 2: then he took me out for brunch for my birthday 2816 02:31:43,160 --> 02:31:45,760 Speaker 2: a couple of weeks later, and proceeded to scold me 2817 02:31:46,360 --> 02:31:47,560 Speaker 2: when we were leaving. 2818 02:31:49,200 --> 02:31:53,400 Speaker 1: The old Kristin Huh, sorry, I didn't want but where 2819 02:31:53,480 --> 02:31:53,880 Speaker 1: we're going? 2820 02:31:54,480 --> 02:31:59,320 Speaker 2: Oh boy, Kristin, here we go for he being gay? 2821 02:31:59,400 --> 02:32:03,160 Speaker 1: Thirty more minutes. It's also another small glimpse of keon cake. Please, please, 2822 02:32:03,200 --> 02:32:03,640 Speaker 1: and thank you. 2823 02:32:03,800 --> 02:32:08,440 Speaker 2: I mean, what have I done? Okay, she said, please, 2824 02:32:11,080 --> 02:32:12,800 Speaker 2: let's give it. Let's give it. What's all right? Hold on, 2825 02:32:12,879 --> 02:32:14,600 Speaker 2: let me just get the thirty minutes going before Ryan. 2826 02:32:15,240 --> 02:32:17,800 Speaker 2: Hold on, we're getting that. We're getting the next third 2827 02:32:18,560 --> 02:32:20,400 Speaker 2: minutes added. 2828 02:32:20,160 --> 02:32:28,240 Speaker 1: In, adding thirty minutes to now he's gonna stand up 2829 02:32:28,520 --> 02:32:29,320 Speaker 1: and show. 2830 02:32:29,400 --> 02:32:31,800 Speaker 2: You his cake. You know what here, this is gonna 2831 02:32:31,800 --> 02:32:32,560 Speaker 2: be better for everyone. 2832 02:32:32,760 --> 02:32:33,160 Speaker 5: Uh, oh. 2833 02:32:34,560 --> 02:32:38,280 Speaker 2: What oh oh, oh oh oh, here we go. We're 2834 02:32:38,280 --> 02:32:41,440 Speaker 2: getting a little show. Oh oh. 2835 02:32:43,080 --> 02:32:43,200 Speaker 1: Is it? 2836 02:32:44,240 --> 02:32:48,400 Speaker 2: It's got You gotta get in there. You gotta really 2837 02:32:48,440 --> 02:32:49,000 Speaker 2: get in there. 2838 02:32:49,120 --> 02:32:49,360 Speaker 4: Dude. 2839 02:32:51,200 --> 02:32:53,120 Speaker 2: Hey, that that was the money shot. Hey, hold on, 2840 02:32:54,800 --> 02:32:57,080 Speaker 2: clips all around. We need to we need to. 2841 02:32:57,360 --> 02:33:00,240 Speaker 1: Clip that and then turn that into an icon that 2842 02:33:00,320 --> 02:33:04,200 Speaker 1: can be sent in the chat. Please, somebody work on that. 2843 02:33:04,400 --> 02:33:05,280 Speaker 1: I don't know how to do that. 2844 02:33:05,520 --> 02:33:07,480 Speaker 2: Someone. They they've done lots of They've turned a lot 2845 02:33:07,520 --> 02:33:11,119 Speaker 2: of stuff into custom discord emogies. Yeah. Wait a second, 2846 02:33:11,680 --> 02:33:17,080 Speaker 2: we're getting some gyration for the nation. Gyration animals. Wow, 2847 02:33:18,280 --> 02:33:21,600 Speaker 2: what what a dude. The Golden the Golden Goblins, Golden 2848 02:33:21,640 --> 02:33:24,959 Speaker 2: guys stream, look at look at us, gentlemen. 2849 02:33:26,360 --> 02:33:26,720 Speaker 1: Like us. 2850 02:33:27,400 --> 02:33:29,320 Speaker 2: Cheers us. He cheers us, gentlemen. 2851 02:33:29,640 --> 02:33:34,360 Speaker 1: Cheers to the golden Goblins, to the gold to you Robinson. 2852 02:33:34,640 --> 02:33:39,200 Speaker 2: There we go. Cheers to the stream and all of you, 2853 02:33:39,640 --> 02:33:44,720 Speaker 2: you sexy beasts, you you're just giving them. 2854 02:33:45,320 --> 02:33:50,840 Speaker 1: Let's leave that for me, you spicy beasts. You gotta 2855 02:33:50,879 --> 02:33:54,120 Speaker 1: leave a little action go over here, all right? Well 2856 02:33:55,720 --> 02:34:01,320 Speaker 1: with all that, I'm so sorry, op right, this is 2857 02:34:01,360 --> 02:34:08,920 Speaker 1: all my fault. College very solemn struggles over here. My 2858 02:34:09,000 --> 02:34:11,320 Speaker 1: mom is going to be so proud of you later, guys, 2859 02:34:11,600 --> 02:34:12,680 Speaker 1: yeah she is. 2860 02:34:12,760 --> 02:34:15,480 Speaker 2: She's going to take credit for that, but she should, dude, 2861 02:34:15,600 --> 02:34:19,959 Speaker 2: I would if I birth that. Come on, dude, come 2862 02:34:20,000 --> 02:34:22,200 Speaker 2: on now, all right, well let's get back into it. 2863 02:34:22,400 --> 02:34:28,000 Speaker 2: So boo boo boo boo boo boo, here we go. 2864 02:34:28,920 --> 02:34:29,280 Speaker 2: Mind you. 2865 02:34:29,879 --> 02:34:30,000 Speaker 11: Uh. 2866 02:34:30,240 --> 02:34:32,600 Speaker 2: She had confided in me for years prior to her 2867 02:34:32,680 --> 02:34:35,120 Speaker 2: breakup with her ex, who was very abusive. I never 2868 02:34:35,240 --> 02:34:37,840 Speaker 2: once said anything to anyone because she asked me not to. 2869 02:34:38,360 --> 02:34:40,520 Speaker 2: I knew if I did and betrayed her trust, she 2870 02:34:40,720 --> 02:34:43,240 Speaker 2: might not ever get out of that relationship. So I 2871 02:34:43,360 --> 02:34:46,040 Speaker 2: bided my time and just reminded her that she didn't 2872 02:34:46,080 --> 02:34:48,560 Speaker 2: deserve the way she was being treated. And when she 2873 02:34:48,680 --> 02:34:51,280 Speaker 2: did get out of that relationship, my husband and I 2874 02:34:51,400 --> 02:34:56,640 Speaker 2: helped her with whatever she needed. My family is very toxic. 2875 02:34:57,160 --> 02:35:01,200 Speaker 2: My father was extremely abuseful. But my father was extremely 2876 02:35:01,240 --> 02:35:04,599 Speaker 2: abusive to us as kids and is still extremely manipulative, 2877 02:35:04,680 --> 02:35:07,400 Speaker 2: and no one seems to see it but me. My 2878 02:35:07,600 --> 02:35:10,320 Speaker 2: mom also has a slew of her own mental health issues, 2879 02:35:10,400 --> 02:35:12,920 Speaker 2: but at least she tries, and she is at very 2880 02:35:13,080 --> 02:35:17,240 Speaker 2: least active in my daughter's life. I'm just out of 2881 02:35:17,360 --> 02:35:21,160 Speaker 2: pass I know that I am not going to accept 2882 02:35:21,160 --> 02:35:23,720 Speaker 2: this type of behavior in my life anymore. My sister 2883 02:35:23,879 --> 02:35:26,040 Speaker 2: is saying that she wants to forge a relationship with 2884 02:35:26,120 --> 02:35:29,480 Speaker 2: my daughter that but then goes about it in the 2885 02:35:29,520 --> 02:35:32,560 Speaker 2: most convoluted way, And I know that a lot of 2886 02:35:32,640 --> 02:35:35,880 Speaker 2: this is projecting her own insecurities onto me. I'm just 2887 02:35:35,959 --> 02:35:39,560 Speaker 2: trying to be empathetic and understand how she's feeling because 2888 02:35:39,959 --> 02:35:43,200 Speaker 2: she said because she said that she was sad. I 2889 02:35:43,320 --> 02:35:45,680 Speaker 2: also do think that she might even be drinking. But 2890 02:35:45,760 --> 02:35:47,720 Speaker 2: it's hard to sell with her. But as a mom, 2891 02:35:47,879 --> 02:35:50,800 Speaker 2: I also have a responsibility to protect my daughter from 2892 02:35:50,840 --> 02:35:54,680 Speaker 2: relationships that could be detrimental, which is true, Like you know, 2893 02:35:55,320 --> 02:35:58,480 Speaker 2: imagine YEA being a parents like you know, so it's like, hey, 2894 02:35:58,560 --> 02:36:02,199 Speaker 2: this is not great for you to spend time, particularly 2895 02:36:02,280 --> 02:36:06,480 Speaker 2: on supervisor with this person. Could not be the move. Yeah, 2896 02:36:07,640 --> 02:36:09,600 Speaker 2: she makes a little effort, and it's hard to see 2897 02:36:09,720 --> 02:36:12,360 Speaker 2: kids bond with people who only make effort when they 2898 02:36:12,400 --> 02:36:15,520 Speaker 2: want to. Not to mention the fact that my sister 2899 02:36:15,720 --> 02:36:18,240 Speaker 2: knows how fed, how fed up my life has been. 2900 02:36:18,640 --> 02:36:20,720 Speaker 2: I keep when I see fed up, I keep reading 2901 02:36:20,760 --> 02:36:26,080 Speaker 2: it is different things fed fed, the fed's bean bean, 2902 02:36:27,879 --> 02:36:30,160 Speaker 2: How stressed out? I am These days, and how little 2903 02:36:30,200 --> 02:36:32,360 Speaker 2: time I have to do anything other than what I 2904 02:36:32,440 --> 02:36:35,040 Speaker 2: have to do. She's working two jobs, her man has 2905 02:36:35,040 --> 02:36:38,240 Speaker 2: gone fourteen hours a day. That's a lot. I literally 2906 02:36:38,360 --> 02:36:41,080 Speaker 2: cried and exploded to her about everything that has been 2907 02:36:41,120 --> 02:36:44,480 Speaker 2: happening a month ago, to the point that she was like, 2908 02:36:44,800 --> 02:36:46,560 Speaker 2: give me a second. I need to process all this. 2909 02:36:47,080 --> 02:36:50,000 Speaker 2: I never ask her for nothing. I have tried not 2910 02:36:50,160 --> 02:36:52,440 Speaker 2: to tell her about things going on my life because 2911 02:36:52,520 --> 02:36:54,880 Speaker 2: she has betrayed my trust just a year ago. She 2912 02:36:55,000 --> 02:36:57,200 Speaker 2: doesn't seem to she doesn't seem to know I know, 2913 02:36:58,200 --> 02:37:00,440 Speaker 2: but she just happened to come in as I was 2914 02:37:00,480 --> 02:37:02,840 Speaker 2: having a mental breakdown. I don't think I would have 2915 02:37:02,920 --> 02:37:05,200 Speaker 2: told her all that if she hadn't have been there 2916 02:37:05,440 --> 02:37:08,360 Speaker 2: at that moment. Also, I know what it's like to 2917 02:37:08,400 --> 02:37:10,400 Speaker 2: see people make the effort to be in my daughter's 2918 02:37:10,440 --> 02:37:13,879 Speaker 2: life versus those who don't. I eat her, my dad, 2919 02:37:14,760 --> 02:37:18,640 Speaker 2: my brother, etc. My husband's family has their own problems 2920 02:37:18,680 --> 02:37:21,040 Speaker 2: and issues, but they love my daughter so much and 2921 02:37:21,120 --> 02:37:23,080 Speaker 2: make it a point to be in her life, in 2922 02:37:23,200 --> 02:37:27,000 Speaker 2: which I'm willing to meet them halfway. They facetimer, they babysitter, 2923 02:37:27,120 --> 02:37:29,520 Speaker 2: They take her to fun places, and they make memories 2924 02:37:29,959 --> 02:37:32,320 Speaker 2: just like you can make a memory every weekday at 2925 02:37:32,440 --> 02:37:35,800 Speaker 2: three pm PST by tapping our profile to join the 2926 02:37:35,840 --> 02:37:39,560 Speaker 2: live stream. That was so smooth. I just now you 2927 02:37:39,720 --> 02:37:41,800 Speaker 2: have to join. Now you have to do it. I 2928 02:37:42,160 --> 02:37:46,160 Speaker 2: don't know what else to tell you except for this 2929 02:37:46,280 --> 02:37:51,280 Speaker 2: next part. Join Join. My sister in law is literally 2930 02:37:51,440 --> 02:37:55,680 Speaker 2: my daughter's favorite person. So I'm just really confused. Is 2931 02:37:55,879 --> 02:37:59,280 Speaker 2: this a relationship worth continuing or putting in the effort 2932 02:37:59,320 --> 02:38:02,040 Speaker 2: for my daughter. There's just so much baggage along with 2933 02:38:02,120 --> 02:38:04,240 Speaker 2: this relationship. I'm really struggling. I don't know. 2934 02:38:04,760 --> 02:38:06,440 Speaker 1: The whole thing has just felt like a slap in 2935 02:38:06,480 --> 02:38:09,680 Speaker 1: the face to me. And I know, and now I 2936 02:38:09,800 --> 02:38:11,080 Speaker 1: don't know which way I want to go. 2937 02:38:12,040 --> 02:38:13,960 Speaker 2: I will be talking to my therapists about this, but 2938 02:38:14,080 --> 02:38:16,680 Speaker 2: right it seems to always have good advice. So let's 2939 02:38:16,680 --> 02:38:17,959 Speaker 2: break it down real quick. 2940 02:38:18,400 --> 02:38:20,960 Speaker 1: Well, I think the first thing would be too Definitely, 2941 02:38:21,080 --> 02:38:24,880 Speaker 1: listen to your therapist before you listen to Reddit. Your 2942 02:38:24,959 --> 02:38:28,200 Speaker 1: therapist is gonna have better insight than strangers on the 2943 02:38:28,280 --> 02:38:30,360 Speaker 1: internet could ever possibly dream to have. 2944 02:38:30,600 --> 02:38:33,200 Speaker 2: You're telling me that the random people of Reddit aren't 2945 02:38:33,200 --> 02:38:35,119 Speaker 2: gonna give the best advice ever. Is that what you're 2946 02:38:35,120 --> 02:38:35,440 Speaker 2: telling me? 2947 02:38:36,200 --> 02:38:38,720 Speaker 1: It's just it's more likely than not. 2948 02:38:39,080 --> 02:38:43,400 Speaker 2: Yes you oh, I would rather have the therapist. But yeah, 2949 02:38:44,520 --> 02:38:46,039 Speaker 2: I think you know, it's. 2950 02:38:48,080 --> 02:38:51,600 Speaker 1: It's hard to know, like if that relationship could pan 2951 02:38:51,680 --> 02:38:54,400 Speaker 1: out into something beneficial for your daughter, if she might 2952 02:38:54,480 --> 02:38:58,520 Speaker 1: be able to change, you know, her sort of behavior 2953 02:38:58,720 --> 02:39:01,600 Speaker 1: down the line. I think the side note about she 2954 02:39:01,720 --> 02:39:06,600 Speaker 1: may be drinking is an interesting note there because of 2955 02:39:07,040 --> 02:39:09,360 Speaker 1: like sort of the nature of that blow up on 2956 02:39:09,400 --> 02:39:09,879 Speaker 1: the phone. 2957 02:39:10,640 --> 02:39:11,360 Speaker 2: I don't know. 2958 02:39:11,600 --> 02:39:13,320 Speaker 1: I don't think that the sister would I don't think 2959 02:39:13,360 --> 02:39:15,600 Speaker 1: op would say that if they didn't have like a 2960 02:39:15,920 --> 02:39:18,560 Speaker 1: serious history with it maybe or like a suspicion that 2961 02:39:18,680 --> 02:39:21,800 Speaker 1: that could play into the way that she's behaving right now. 2962 02:39:22,879 --> 02:39:24,039 Speaker 2: But like. 2963 02:39:27,720 --> 02:39:29,720 Speaker 1: It needs to be what's best for the kid, right Yeah, 2964 02:39:29,879 --> 02:39:31,920 Speaker 1: and hard to know what's best for the kid right 2965 02:39:32,000 --> 02:39:33,400 Speaker 1: now in this moment totally. 2966 02:39:33,480 --> 02:39:34,680 Speaker 2: It's so many things can change. 2967 02:39:34,720 --> 02:39:38,560 Speaker 1: So but yeah, I think if you think your sister's 2968 02:39:38,600 --> 02:39:41,080 Speaker 1: in a really unstable place right now. 2969 02:39:42,320 --> 02:39:45,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe honestly try to seek help for the drinking issue. 2970 02:39:45,560 --> 02:39:48,360 Speaker 2: Maybe that like like not like don't you could almost 2971 02:39:48,400 --> 02:39:50,480 Speaker 2: like put all this to the side and be like, hey, 2972 02:39:50,520 --> 02:39:53,520 Speaker 2: look I want to put my own you know, selfish 2973 02:39:53,640 --> 02:39:56,880 Speaker 2: once or the argument or whatever to the side, and 2974 02:39:57,240 --> 02:40:01,640 Speaker 2: I am, you know, worried about you, And maybe that's 2975 02:40:01,720 --> 02:40:04,640 Speaker 2: where all of this is stemming from. Yeah, maybe it 2976 02:40:04,680 --> 02:40:06,480 Speaker 2: could be like a cry for help type scenario. 2977 02:40:07,120 --> 02:40:09,160 Speaker 1: That's a great point because it's like you're not listening, 2978 02:40:09,240 --> 02:40:11,120 Speaker 1: like no one listens, and it's like I feel like 2979 02:40:11,200 --> 02:40:13,320 Speaker 1: I was listening to exactly what you said. Is why 2980 02:40:13,360 --> 02:40:15,920 Speaker 1: I said X, Y and Z. Yeah, but really she's 2981 02:40:15,959 --> 02:40:18,560 Speaker 1: wanting someone to hear that she needs help. Yeah, and 2982 02:40:18,600 --> 02:40:20,520 Speaker 1: then and then that she's in a dark place and 2983 02:40:20,720 --> 02:40:22,720 Speaker 1: like like has it like if it is a drinking problem. 2984 02:40:22,760 --> 02:40:25,400 Speaker 1: It's like currently, as far as we know, no one 2985 02:40:25,480 --> 02:40:28,840 Speaker 1: knows about that. I really I really like that idea. 2986 02:40:29,040 --> 02:40:31,520 Speaker 1: Just like reach out to her on that and hopefully 2987 02:40:31,920 --> 02:40:35,240 Speaker 1: just in like talking about that. That also shows that 2988 02:40:35,320 --> 02:40:38,520 Speaker 1: Opie cares and is really like trying to like, hey, 2989 02:40:38,560 --> 02:40:41,680 Speaker 1: I'm trying to like really think about yeah, you know 2990 02:40:41,720 --> 02:40:44,240 Speaker 1: what I mean, Like it's it's it. It shows that 2991 02:40:44,360 --> 02:40:46,800 Speaker 1: you're very I'm trying to think of the right word 2992 02:40:46,959 --> 02:40:50,520 Speaker 1: thorough uh thought. You're really listening thoughtful, Yeah, thank you, Diikhda. 2993 02:40:50,560 --> 02:40:53,960 Speaker 1: It addresses her main issue, which is like you don't 2994 02:40:54,000 --> 02:40:55,920 Speaker 1: actually ever think about me, Yes, it's like, well, I'm 2995 02:40:55,920 --> 02:40:56,760 Speaker 1: thinking about you right now. 2996 02:40:57,040 --> 02:41:00,760 Speaker 2: I'm thinking that I hope that you're okay, and yeah, yeah, 2997 02:41:00,920 --> 02:41:03,480 Speaker 2: I love that. That's that's great. I feel like that's 2998 02:41:03,520 --> 02:41:05,760 Speaker 2: what I would do in this scenario. And everything else 2999 02:41:05,840 --> 02:41:08,800 Speaker 2: is almost like too messy to touch. 3000 02:41:09,040 --> 02:41:11,840 Speaker 1: It's impossible to know if the relationship could be good 3001 02:41:12,080 --> 02:41:13,920 Speaker 1: for your kid or bad for your kid. Like down 3002 02:41:13,959 --> 02:41:18,720 Speaker 1: the line, it's impossible to say yeah, like there's I mean, 3003 02:41:18,800 --> 02:41:20,480 Speaker 1: it's it's. 3004 02:41:20,440 --> 02:41:22,959 Speaker 2: Truly like I would say, at fifty to. 3005 02:41:22,959 --> 02:41:25,640 Speaker 1: Fifty, like flip a coin, that's yeah, you know, how 3006 02:41:25,760 --> 02:41:27,360 Speaker 1: do you want to flip a coin with your child's 3007 02:41:27,440 --> 02:41:27,880 Speaker 1: well being? 3008 02:41:28,560 --> 02:41:30,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? Prob. 3009 02:41:30,160 --> 02:41:32,920 Speaker 1: But again it's like from our perspective, it's like flip 3010 02:41:33,000 --> 02:41:35,160 Speaker 1: a coin, right, But if you have more insight, your 3011 02:41:35,240 --> 02:41:38,080 Speaker 1: therapist has more insights, you have more history, You are 3012 02:41:38,160 --> 02:41:41,000 Speaker 1: going to know more than anybody what is best for 3013 02:41:41,080 --> 02:41:41,480 Speaker 1: your child. 3014 02:41:41,720 --> 02:41:45,000 Speaker 2: Hey like w Dakota tek Yeah, ladies and gentlemen, I 3015 02:41:45,120 --> 02:41:48,000 Speaker 2: like that, Hey, thank you. Yeah, we think you're therapist. 3016 02:41:49,520 --> 02:41:56,039 Speaker 2: What No, I'm kidding because you're like, oh, show us 3017 02:41:56,080 --> 02:41:58,440 Speaker 2: your butt, boo. The only thing that will make as 3018 02:41:58,560 --> 02:41:59,160 Speaker 2: right is your butt. 3019 02:41:59,480 --> 02:42:04,200 Speaker 1: Is my personality just gonna be my ass now it's 3020 02:42:04,240 --> 02:42:06,560 Speaker 1: too beautiful to Yeah, this is like the meme of 3021 02:42:06,640 --> 02:42:06,879 Speaker 1: the two. 3022 02:42:08,000 --> 02:42:11,320 Speaker 2: It's like one behind is my own fault. If you 3023 02:42:11,440 --> 02:42:14,080 Speaker 2: just make yourself more ugly, always been more of a 3024 02:42:14,200 --> 02:42:16,320 Speaker 2: pancake reer, then maybe we wouldn't say all. 3025 02:42:16,280 --> 02:42:18,760 Speaker 1: These tis all right, guys, I'm gonna stop doing stuff 3026 02:42:18,800 --> 02:42:20,640 Speaker 1: for my button, make it get flat. 3027 02:42:20,760 --> 02:42:22,800 Speaker 2: You heard it here first, folks is gonna stop doing 3028 02:42:22,840 --> 02:42:28,680 Speaker 2: butt stuff. Got him? That was respect. 3029 02:42:29,240 --> 02:42:34,039 Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys read the doughnuts while I set up 3030 02:42:34,040 --> 02:42:34,640 Speaker 1: the next mega. 3031 02:42:34,840 --> 02:42:38,879 Speaker 2: Yes, sir, he says it in defeat. Mama Ellie, thanks 3032 02:42:38,920 --> 02:42:41,680 Speaker 2: for the five bucks between Keon's cake and Dakota's dimples. 3033 02:42:41,959 --> 02:42:45,160 Speaker 2: Y'all might never sleep again. Oh boys, this is true. 3034 02:42:45,920 --> 02:42:49,280 Speaker 2: Also shout out again christin foile Hot the one oh 3035 02:42:49,400 --> 02:42:52,840 Speaker 2: four and seventy five cents. Can't forget because it's even 3036 02:42:52,920 --> 02:42:55,959 Speaker 2: gang on the tip link thirty more minutes. Also another 3037 02:42:56,040 --> 02:42:58,480 Speaker 2: small glimpse of Kean's cake. And that's what we gave you. 3038 02:42:58,680 --> 02:43:01,440 Speaker 2: That's you're welcome. We at it, we got it. And 3039 02:43:01,520 --> 02:43:04,920 Speaker 2: then also from stars fall Up, thanks for a five 3040 02:43:05,000 --> 02:43:07,960 Speaker 2: buck tip on the dome link. Doing my part that 3041 02:43:08,120 --> 02:43:11,960 Speaker 2: you are, I'm doing my part and breathe. Thanks for 3042 02:43:12,040 --> 02:43:19,080 Speaker 2: the five bucks. Oh night long, oh night, no night long, 3043 02:43:19,640 --> 02:43:22,320 Speaker 2: oh n such a great song, what a great song. 3044 02:43:26,920 --> 02:43:32,240 Speaker 2: Better do we already read Hannah's I think we read it, 3045 02:43:32,320 --> 02:43:34,320 Speaker 2: because we did. We did, we did. Shout out to 3046 02:43:34,360 --> 02:43:35,840 Speaker 2: you again, Hannah for that. Oh, vix Mix, I don't 3047 02:43:35,840 --> 02:43:37,879 Speaker 2: think we read that. Thanks for the five bucks. Been 3048 02:43:37,959 --> 02:43:40,200 Speaker 2: lurking in all the streams. Thank you for keeping me 3049 02:43:40,280 --> 02:43:43,880 Speaker 2: company at my second job. Vix Mix. I remember you, 3050 02:43:44,120 --> 02:43:46,360 Speaker 2: you've been, Yeah, you've been. You've been lurking for a minute, 3051 02:43:46,400 --> 02:43:49,680 Speaker 2: but past active per I see you, vix Mix. I remember. 3052 02:43:49,680 --> 02:43:52,440 Speaker 1: I think it's been lurking all stream, all this stream, 3053 02:43:52,560 --> 02:43:55,400 Speaker 1: all this stream. Yes, because I remember vix Mix. Who right, 3054 02:43:55,520 --> 02:43:57,040 Speaker 1: vix Mix is a is a legend. 3055 02:43:57,240 --> 02:43:59,360 Speaker 2: Chase for the five x mix. Glad we can keep 3056 02:43:59,360 --> 02:44:01,520 Speaker 2: you company. Yes, sir Dakody, you want to hit these 3057 02:44:01,640 --> 02:44:02,360 Speaker 2: YouTube super chat. 3058 02:44:02,640 --> 02:44:07,120 Speaker 1: Yes, let's see Breathe me the horizon. Thank you for 3059 02:44:07,160 --> 02:44:09,800 Speaker 1: the five dollars. Don't forget to become a member. You 3060 02:44:09,879 --> 02:44:12,520 Speaker 1: can see Kean's cheeks on demand. 3061 02:44:13,520 --> 02:44:16,680 Speaker 2: That's right. That's the greatest add for our membership I've 3062 02:44:16,760 --> 02:44:17,720 Speaker 2: ever heard of my life. 3063 02:44:18,040 --> 02:44:20,400 Speaker 4: Welcome to Okay story Time, where you can see my 3064 02:44:20,600 --> 02:44:22,960 Speaker 4: cheeks on demand on Okay. 3065 02:44:24,600 --> 02:44:27,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, we need a button to press right to make 3066 02:44:27,360 --> 02:44:30,440 Speaker 2: you stand up. I mean I think I already changed. 3067 02:44:30,440 --> 02:44:32,440 Speaker 4: They changed by emoji now it's like it used to 3068 02:44:32,480 --> 02:44:34,199 Speaker 4: be a key, now it's going to be a peach 3069 02:44:34,320 --> 02:44:34,920 Speaker 4: or piece of cake. 3070 02:44:35,000 --> 02:44:37,119 Speaker 1: Well, you know we have custom emojis that somebody made. 3071 02:44:37,120 --> 02:44:37,840 Speaker 1: It's in the Discord. 3072 02:44:38,600 --> 02:44:40,360 Speaker 2: I got to join the DISCORDA I'm going to join 3073 02:44:40,360 --> 02:44:41,119 Speaker 2: the Discord dude. 3074 02:44:41,200 --> 02:44:42,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, come on, I'm kind of scared to join the 3075 02:44:42,680 --> 02:44:46,640 Speaker 4: Discord now, especially now everyone's like, oh, ke on to 3076 02:44:46,720 --> 02:44:48,440 Speaker 4: the Chat of trillion cakes. 3077 02:44:48,720 --> 02:44:50,720 Speaker 1: No, it's you're just gonna have to lean into it, 3078 02:44:51,240 --> 02:44:54,680 Speaker 1: like I'm going to lean into this next, don't, oh brains. 3079 02:44:54,800 --> 02:44:58,480 Speaker 2: Thank you for the two Canadian What what is a 3080 02:44:58,959 --> 02:44:59,560 Speaker 2: is that Canadian? 3081 02:44:59,640 --> 02:45:03,240 Speaker 1: It's California to California to California dollars. We went from 3082 02:45:03,360 --> 02:45:06,640 Speaker 1: okay story time to o F story time. 3083 02:45:08,040 --> 02:45:14,320 Speaker 2: I know that's right, that's right, that's right. Uh. 3084 02:45:14,720 --> 02:45:16,920 Speaker 1: And thank you Kristin Foil that for the five dollars 3085 02:45:17,000 --> 02:45:22,279 Speaker 1: on top of your one trillion memberships. Thank you, sir Keon. 3086 02:45:22,560 --> 02:45:29,720 Speaker 1: I'll be missus Robinson. That's okay with me. A kissy 3087 02:45:29,800 --> 02:45:36,760 Speaker 1: face emoji and what's above that one wojos of Wojo's 3088 02:45:36,959 --> 02:45:40,160 Speaker 1: thank you for the five dollars and your first super chat. 3089 02:45:40,560 --> 02:45:43,120 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we love to see it. 3090 02:45:44,280 --> 02:45:47,840 Speaker 1: And Chris Tinfoil had with another five dollars pants on 3091 02:45:47,920 --> 02:45:48,400 Speaker 1: the ground. 3092 02:45:49,080 --> 02:45:50,600 Speaker 2: Was that a request? M? 3093 02:45:51,000 --> 02:45:52,280 Speaker 3: Keon M. 3094 02:45:54,480 --> 02:45:59,119 Speaker 2: I'm doing my part. I'm serving. Sorry. 3095 02:45:59,440 --> 02:46:03,120 Speaker 1: We love star our ship troopers, uh tempest. Thank you 3096 02:46:03,160 --> 02:46:05,120 Speaker 1: for the two bucks, thank you, thanks for keeping me 3097 02:46:05,280 --> 02:46:10,280 Speaker 1: entertained in my second shift. You're welcome, and thank you 3098 02:46:10,400 --> 02:46:14,400 Speaker 1: for joining us. Thank you for working two shifts. Thank 3099 02:46:14,440 --> 02:46:17,959 Speaker 1: you everybody who's in the chat, and speaking of everybody 3100 02:46:18,040 --> 02:46:21,720 Speaker 1: in the chat, everybody go like the stream. We are 3101 02:46:21,840 --> 02:46:26,160 Speaker 1: less than fifty likes away from another wheelspin. We could 3102 02:46:26,160 --> 02:46:34,400 Speaker 1: totally head it, full of limitless possibilities. Oh yeah, oh yeah, 3103 02:46:35,120 --> 02:46:36,160 Speaker 1: and we need more air. 3104 02:46:36,480 --> 02:46:39,320 Speaker 2: We need more air. We got it, guys. Keon's cakes 3105 02:46:39,360 --> 02:46:42,080 Speaker 2: have gotten real hot and heavy in here, so we 3106 02:46:42,160 --> 02:46:44,600 Speaker 2: need to turn it down a little bit. Keon's cake 3107 02:46:44,720 --> 02:46:49,760 Speaker 2: is getting a little swampy, so we gotta dry them 3108 02:46:49,840 --> 02:46:53,440 Speaker 2: out with a little cool air. Is the air on? 3109 02:46:54,320 --> 02:46:54,560 Speaker 1: Turn it on? 3110 02:46:54,640 --> 02:46:56,240 Speaker 2: I don't know how to turn it on. Turn it on? 3111 02:46:56,520 --> 02:46:59,600 Speaker 2: If you if you go around. It's just press the 3112 02:47:00,240 --> 02:47:04,280 Speaker 2: the temperature down until it's blow, sure down, Just keep 3113 02:47:04,440 --> 02:47:05,800 Speaker 2: I don't want. I don't. 3114 02:47:05,840 --> 02:47:08,679 Speaker 1: You don't touch a person's thermostat. You know you're allowed? 3115 02:47:08,840 --> 02:47:09,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? 3116 02:47:09,040 --> 02:47:11,640 Speaker 1: Should I do it? Hold on, I'll be right back 3117 02:47:11,959 --> 02:47:13,240 Speaker 1: trying to figure this out. You have to learn how 3118 02:47:13,240 --> 02:47:16,320 Speaker 1: to produce lower temperatures in the house as well as 3119 02:47:16,360 --> 02:47:21,280 Speaker 1: how to produce on the stream. Oh snap, Lucy Ford says, 3120 02:47:21,400 --> 02:47:22,720 Speaker 1: take off the coat, Dakota. 3121 02:47:22,840 --> 02:47:23,279 Speaker 2: I can't. 3122 02:47:23,840 --> 02:47:27,560 Speaker 1: My entire outfit is coordinated around this. Oh so I 3123 02:47:27,680 --> 02:47:29,440 Speaker 1: take it off. It ruins my whole outfit. 3124 02:47:29,600 --> 02:47:32,200 Speaker 2: Right, you look like a crazy person and it's dripped first, 3125 02:47:32,760 --> 02:47:38,200 Speaker 2: ask questions later. Oh, it'll it'll if you turn it 3126 02:47:38,280 --> 02:47:41,199 Speaker 2: one degree colder, it'll go for like a good twenty minutes. 3127 02:47:42,879 --> 02:47:46,520 Speaker 2: What did you Yeah, what did you do? Did you 3128 02:47:46,600 --> 02:47:49,360 Speaker 2: put it at you put it at the funny number. Yeah, 3129 02:47:49,440 --> 02:47:54,200 Speaker 2: let's do that. Yeah that's good enough. Sophia will will 3130 02:47:54,480 --> 02:48:00,920 Speaker 2: die of cold this, but we will live. Uh, there 3131 02:48:00,959 --> 02:48:02,360 Speaker 2: we go, and we just we. 3132 02:48:02,440 --> 02:48:07,600 Speaker 1: Got some more donuts right now, I'm gone. Donation, Christina, 3133 02:48:07,760 --> 02:48:11,000 Speaker 1: thank you for the five dollars. I cannot believe I 3134 02:48:11,120 --> 02:48:13,320 Speaker 1: caught the live I never get to watch them because 3135 02:48:13,320 --> 02:48:16,160 Speaker 1: I'm in Romania and time difference is quite big. He 3136 02:48:16,560 --> 02:48:18,920 Speaker 1: been watching for a long time. We'll prepare for work. 3137 02:48:19,040 --> 02:48:21,680 Speaker 1: It is six am here. Well, thank you for tuning 3138 02:48:21,760 --> 02:48:22,640 Speaker 1: in from Romania. 3139 02:48:22,760 --> 02:48:23,200 Speaker 2: Christina. 3140 02:48:23,680 --> 02:48:28,600 Speaker 1: We appreciate it, and I think we had what. Grandma's 3141 02:48:28,640 --> 02:48:34,320 Speaker 1: got a potty mouth? Five more okay, story time, gifted membership. 3142 02:48:34,400 --> 02:48:38,840 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, your grandma unstoppable. It's like an unstoppable 3143 02:48:38,879 --> 02:48:40,240 Speaker 1: for us meets an immovable object. 3144 02:48:40,360 --> 02:48:43,800 Speaker 2: Grandma's got a potty mouth, and we are here for it. Yeah, 3145 02:48:43,840 --> 02:48:46,400 Speaker 2: we are. We will support you in all of your 3146 02:48:46,440 --> 02:48:54,640 Speaker 2: potty mouth activities forever. That's true, Forever, forever, forever. Whoever 3147 02:48:56,080 --> 02:48:58,520 Speaker 2: be too man, We're just gonna be singing songs. Now, 3148 02:48:58,920 --> 02:48:59,360 Speaker 2: that's true. 3149 02:48:59,480 --> 02:48:59,920 Speaker 5: This is guy. 3150 02:49:00,000 --> 02:49:02,720 Speaker 2: As we've entered late night stream territory, we. 3151 02:49:03,480 --> 02:49:06,879 Speaker 1: Already reached the of most potato brain hour. 3152 02:49:07,040 --> 02:49:08,400 Speaker 2: Goodness, great, that's where we're at. 3153 02:49:08,640 --> 02:49:11,680 Speaker 1: I'm running on two tangerines and a and a name 3154 02:49:11,920 --> 02:49:14,760 Speaker 1: and an energy drink that will remain nameless. Another tangerine, 3155 02:49:15,240 --> 02:49:16,920 Speaker 1: which was also a flavored tangerine. 3156 02:49:16,920 --> 02:49:20,520 Speaker 2: It is orange. I have a salad and water, oh. 3157 02:49:20,600 --> 02:49:23,400 Speaker 1: Mama, And that's okay because I ate almost an entire 3158 02:49:23,440 --> 02:49:25,160 Speaker 1: pizza by myself last night, and I. 3159 02:49:25,200 --> 02:49:28,640 Speaker 2: Felt sick most of the day. Thank you for. 3160 02:49:30,200 --> 02:49:33,040 Speaker 1: So sometimes it's okay to just eat two tangerines and 3161 02:49:33,080 --> 02:49:39,800 Speaker 1: an energy drink Sori t Sori pistachio member for four months, 3162 02:49:40,280 --> 02:49:43,520 Speaker 1: Drip or Drown super cool Jacket Dakota and I used 3163 02:49:43,520 --> 02:49:46,840 Speaker 1: to work at Swedish International Furniture Store and have the 3164 02:49:46,879 --> 02:49:50,040 Speaker 1: same hat. Well, great minds think alike, and thank you 3165 02:49:50,200 --> 02:49:54,000 Speaker 1: for complimenting the Drip and even more importantly, thank you 3166 02:49:54,080 --> 02:49:56,520 Speaker 1: for being a member for four months. You are the 3167 02:49:56,600 --> 02:50:00,119 Speaker 1: goat in Great Style too, by the way, Stuf. 3168 02:50:00,600 --> 02:50:08,800 Speaker 2: Great Style World, World. The time has come to World. 3169 02:50:10,440 --> 02:50:11,840 Speaker 2: I'm I'm so out of the loop. 3170 02:50:12,240 --> 02:50:12,680 Speaker 1: You know this. 3171 02:50:12,879 --> 02:50:15,800 Speaker 2: You know the song? You know the song. It's the 3172 02:50:15,840 --> 02:50:20,039 Speaker 2: one where they go Galvinize boo boo boo boo. 3173 02:50:22,160 --> 02:50:24,920 Speaker 1: World. That's the part of the song everyone knows, and 3174 02:50:24,959 --> 02:50:27,200 Speaker 1: then the other five and a half minutes nobody knows. 3175 02:50:28,320 --> 02:50:30,320 Speaker 2: I can't remember the name. I don't know that. I 3176 02:50:30,400 --> 02:50:31,480 Speaker 2: famously don't know things. 3177 02:50:31,879 --> 02:50:35,280 Speaker 1: No, you, he doesn't even know who Bridges is. Huh 3178 02:50:35,680 --> 02:50:40,280 Speaker 1: Jeff Bridges. Nope, yep, see who's that exactly? He's related 3179 02:50:40,320 --> 02:50:41,200 Speaker 1: to Lloyd Bridges. 3180 02:50:41,400 --> 02:50:44,280 Speaker 2: Come on. Oh yeah, are you guys? Are you guys hungry? 3181 02:50:45,600 --> 02:50:48,240 Speaker 1: I'm hungry for this next story, but I'm pretty hungry. 3182 02:50:48,240 --> 02:50:52,920 Speaker 1: I'm actually yeah, I'm I had leaves for a whole lunch. 3183 02:50:54,560 --> 02:50:59,480 Speaker 2: My cakes are withering away. My legs are shaky, pop 3184 02:50:59,560 --> 02:51:04,920 Speaker 2: them up. Each is a withering Do we doevity specific? 3185 02:51:05,200 --> 02:51:05,320 Speaker 1: Uh? 3186 02:51:05,680 --> 02:51:09,920 Speaker 2: Probably something quick to get those those things that are 3187 02:51:10,480 --> 02:51:15,600 Speaker 2: the wraps that have beans and chicken and oh yeah, 3188 02:51:15,959 --> 02:51:19,119 Speaker 2: sing down for that whatever you saying, burrito chip bottle. 3189 02:51:19,480 --> 02:51:21,800 Speaker 2: Oh oh okay, yeah, little chip bottle. 3190 02:51:21,879 --> 02:51:26,560 Speaker 1: I'm there, I'm there, folks, cheap, cheap, you want it? Yeah? 3191 02:51:27,840 --> 02:51:32,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I want some of it. I think I want some, 3192 02:51:33,240 --> 02:51:36,400 Speaker 2: all right? You first? You first? Kon? Oh me, okay, 3193 02:51:36,760 --> 02:51:38,920 Speaker 2: who are you entertaining first? Yeah? We just you're still 3194 02:51:38,959 --> 02:51:42,800 Speaker 2: finding it. I'm still trying to pull this up. Pop 3195 02:51:42,920 --> 02:51:43,560 Speaker 2: Rocks O five. 3196 02:51:43,640 --> 02:51:45,840 Speaker 1: We did not get a second wheelspin yet, we are 3197 02:51:46,000 --> 02:51:49,680 Speaker 1: still thirty ish likes away from getting the wheelspin. 3198 02:51:49,920 --> 02:51:50,960 Speaker 2: So spin that. 3199 02:51:51,160 --> 02:51:53,760 Speaker 1: We are currently seven and twenty two out of seven 3200 02:51:53,840 --> 02:51:58,120 Speaker 1: hundred and fifty. So we need twenty eight more beautiful 3201 02:51:58,160 --> 02:52:01,920 Speaker 1: babes to like the stream and then we're spinning that 3202 02:52:02,000 --> 02:52:02,640 Speaker 1: wheel again. 3203 02:52:02,720 --> 02:52:03,280 Speaker 2: We're doing it. 3204 02:52:03,440 --> 02:52:07,200 Speaker 4: Keep going, John, Literally, we're gonna focus on show you 3205 02:52:07,320 --> 02:52:08,920 Speaker 4: because like, no, no, you're fine, You're fine. 3206 02:52:10,640 --> 02:52:14,080 Speaker 1: My thumbs are so fat and the buttons are so small. Oh, 3207 02:52:14,120 --> 02:52:16,720 Speaker 1: it doesn't matter how fat your thumbs. That's just hard 3208 02:52:16,840 --> 02:52:22,520 Speaker 1: to do. That is an inconvenient screen. We're gonna be 3209 02:52:22,560 --> 02:52:26,760 Speaker 1: We ordered a new phone today to help it. No, wait, 3210 02:52:27,720 --> 02:52:28,600 Speaker 1: how about is God? 3211 02:52:29,120 --> 02:52:29,680 Speaker 3: I see. 3212 02:52:32,160 --> 02:52:35,520 Speaker 2: I know where you're from. Sorry, I just clicked. I 3213 02:52:35,680 --> 02:52:36,960 Speaker 2: thought I clicked on the right thing. I don't know 3214 02:52:37,000 --> 02:52:38,720 Speaker 2: if you're talking to me, but I thought I finally 3215 02:52:38,760 --> 02:52:41,640 Speaker 2: clicked on the right thing, and I still clicked it' 3216 02:52:43,240 --> 02:52:44,480 Speaker 2: it's it's very painful. 3217 02:52:44,879 --> 02:52:47,760 Speaker 1: Well, it's so crazy that I'm just like food, like 3218 02:52:47,840 --> 02:52:49,440 Speaker 1: look at him, like, yeah, that'll do. 3219 02:52:50,200 --> 02:52:55,320 Speaker 2: That'll do. That's that's how that whole dude. But a 3220 02:52:55,400 --> 02:52:59,400 Speaker 2: great quote. D all right, that's you me one of yours. 3221 02:53:00,440 --> 02:53:05,720 Speaker 2: What do you mean the same thing that you got? Okay, 3222 02:53:07,520 --> 02:53:13,520 Speaker 2: Oh and talk to the people, O God. 3223 02:53:19,640 --> 02:53:20,680 Speaker 3: About it for camera? 3224 02:53:25,240 --> 02:53:28,400 Speaker 2: Kean. No, No, we can we can. All right, guys, 3225 02:53:28,840 --> 02:53:32,000 Speaker 2: we've had our fun. We're gonna we're gonna okay, we 3226 02:53:32,040 --> 02:53:34,000 Speaker 2: can continue all right, all right, it's it's up to you. 3227 02:53:34,520 --> 02:53:37,560 Speaker 2: It's up to Keon. So guys, but hey, if you see, 3228 02:53:37,560 --> 02:53:39,320 Speaker 2: if you push the line, then we take the cake away. 3229 02:53:40,400 --> 02:53:45,000 Speaker 2: The power is yours, so use it very wisely. I 3230 02:53:45,160 --> 02:53:49,280 Speaker 2: know that's what I was about to say. I was like, na, sorry, sorry, 3231 02:53:49,280 --> 02:53:50,920 Speaker 2: I was just giving. I was just staring at them. 3232 02:53:50,959 --> 02:53:53,720 Speaker 4: I really hope you guys can read lips because I 3233 02:53:53,760 --> 02:53:56,760 Speaker 4: said something real deep. You know, when you like you 3234 02:53:56,920 --> 02:53:58,600 Speaker 4: you're talking to your bros and like, oh my mic 3235 02:53:58,720 --> 02:53:58,960 Speaker 4: wasn't on. 3236 02:53:59,480 --> 02:54:00,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, that was that. 3237 02:54:02,040 --> 02:54:04,480 Speaker 4: Hi everyone, I wanted to say, I appreciate you all. 3238 02:54:04,680 --> 02:54:07,600 Speaker 4: This has been so welcoming. I love you guys. I 3239 02:54:07,680 --> 02:54:09,560 Speaker 4: can't wait for this wild ride that we're gonna go on. 3240 02:54:09,800 --> 02:54:13,920 Speaker 4: And uh, stay tuned for some more tunes. 3241 02:54:15,840 --> 02:54:17,279 Speaker 2: Thank you, Kean. That was beautiful. 3242 02:54:17,840 --> 02:54:20,480 Speaker 1: I don't know if anybody saw me lean over and 3243 02:54:20,600 --> 02:54:22,600 Speaker 1: look at him, like, why are you talking? 3244 02:54:24,280 --> 02:54:25,760 Speaker 2: The microphone is back here. 3245 02:54:26,040 --> 02:54:29,680 Speaker 1: I wanted them to read my lips, read my lips. 3246 02:54:29,720 --> 02:54:32,800 Speaker 2: I wanted to look them in the eyes, let him 3247 02:54:32,840 --> 02:54:37,960 Speaker 2: know where he felt. Guys. I finally did it. I 3248 02:54:38,160 --> 02:54:38,840 Speaker 2: finally did it. 3249 02:54:39,160 --> 02:54:40,920 Speaker 1: We can we can only hear him if he farts. 3250 02:54:40,959 --> 02:54:42,439 Speaker 1: Don't worry, I don't fart. 3251 02:54:46,120 --> 02:54:46,280 Speaker 5: Up? 3252 02:54:51,920 --> 02:54:54,879 Speaker 2: Is he right? My family tried, is it? I think 3253 02:54:54,920 --> 02:54:58,199 Speaker 2: it might be you. My family tried reading. I also forgot. 3254 02:54:58,400 --> 02:55:01,080 Speaker 2: I'll do it. I think you just no, yeah, you 3255 02:55:01,240 --> 02:55:14,960 Speaker 2: just read. Yeah. My throat feels raw, raw, it's all 3256 02:55:18,720 --> 02:55:26,600 Speaker 2: what are you idiot? Sandwich and eat? You've lost the flaw. 3257 02:55:30,720 --> 02:55:32,920 Speaker 2: But yes, thank you, thank you guys for making it 3258 02:55:33,440 --> 02:55:37,440 Speaker 2: so lovely today, all the lovelies in stream. 3259 02:55:37,680 --> 02:55:41,520 Speaker 1: You're so lovely, make me feel so special and I 3260 02:55:41,640 --> 02:55:42,640 Speaker 1: appreciate you all. 3261 02:55:43,879 --> 02:55:45,840 Speaker 2: And my mom is gonna love this again. I'm going 3262 02:55:45,920 --> 02:55:48,560 Speaker 2: to reiterate that my mom's gonna love this. You keep 3263 02:55:48,600 --> 02:55:51,720 Speaker 2: saying that like she won't, she's not. Actually, no, she will. 3264 02:55:51,959 --> 02:55:54,879 Speaker 2: She will love this, Yes, of course she will. 3265 02:55:55,000 --> 02:55:57,360 Speaker 1: She like you ate that up, didn't you. I'm like, yeah, yeah, 3266 02:55:57,400 --> 02:55:58,640 Speaker 1: I ate that up? You. 3267 02:56:00,240 --> 02:56:00,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. 3268 02:56:01,160 --> 02:56:01,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. 3269 02:56:01,959 --> 02:56:04,200 Speaker 2: They're like my cakes, and I like that they like 3270 02:56:05,440 --> 02:56:08,160 Speaker 2: a little. They like my cakes upside down cake. 3271 02:56:08,240 --> 02:56:10,039 Speaker 1: I guess I gotta be a baker now because I'm 3272 02:56:10,080 --> 02:56:13,080 Speaker 1: baking you guys cakes. You've been baking those cakes every day. 3273 02:56:13,160 --> 02:56:15,520 Speaker 1: I've known you for ten years. 3274 02:56:16,520 --> 02:56:21,880 Speaker 2: Ten years of cakes. Anyways. Anyways, Okay, are we ready? 3275 02:56:22,040 --> 02:56:23,760 Speaker 2: I think we're ready here. 3276 02:56:24,680 --> 02:56:28,960 Speaker 1: Okay, my family tried to trick me into riding a 3277 02:56:29,080 --> 02:56:35,760 Speaker 1: roller coaster by taking advantage of my blindness. Oh my god, 3278 02:56:36,560 --> 02:56:38,520 Speaker 1: I think they're gonna find out they're on a roller 3279 02:56:38,600 --> 02:56:43,600 Speaker 1: coaster whether or not they're blind. How does one even 3280 02:56:43,840 --> 02:56:46,000 Speaker 1: think of trying to trick a blind. 3281 02:56:45,720 --> 02:56:48,680 Speaker 2: Person into riding a roller coaster? What is this? 3282 02:56:49,280 --> 02:56:49,520 Speaker 5: Wow? 3283 02:56:52,440 --> 02:56:55,160 Speaker 1: My jaw was to the floor here or to like 3284 02:56:55,280 --> 02:56:57,640 Speaker 1: desk where I was like, who would do that? 3285 02:56:57,959 --> 02:57:02,080 Speaker 2: That's really mean? Also, how Internet? How did I guess 3286 02:57:02,080 --> 02:57:03,000 Speaker 2: they did it with dictation? 3287 02:57:03,080 --> 02:57:05,760 Speaker 1: If they guess I know he is blind, we gotta 3288 02:57:05,800 --> 02:57:07,920 Speaker 1: find dictation or braille keyboard. 3289 02:57:08,040 --> 02:57:10,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, we gotta find it. We find out. 3290 02:57:10,840 --> 02:57:14,640 Speaker 1: Hi. Everyone, This story occurred when I was in my 3291 02:57:14,879 --> 02:57:19,039 Speaker 1: early twenties, about twenty five years ago. I'm a blind 3292 02:57:19,160 --> 02:57:21,080 Speaker 1: male who has been more or less living on his 3293 02:57:21,160 --> 02:57:25,080 Speaker 1: own since I was nineteen. The whole blind thing comes 3294 02:57:25,120 --> 02:57:25,560 Speaker 1: in later. 3295 02:57:26,640 --> 02:57:29,800 Speaker 2: All right, it's all blind thing. It'll come back. 3296 02:57:29,920 --> 02:57:31,840 Speaker 1: Let me tell you know, that whole not being able 3297 02:57:31,879 --> 02:57:32,760 Speaker 1: to see anything thing. 3298 02:57:32,840 --> 02:57:34,720 Speaker 2: We'll get into that later. Uh. 3299 02:57:35,240 --> 02:57:38,160 Speaker 1: This comes from user living brilliant three twenty five on 3300 02:57:38,240 --> 02:57:43,760 Speaker 1: the r slash Okay storytime subreddit. So disability services helped 3301 02:57:43,840 --> 02:57:46,000 Speaker 1: me get a job as a telemarketer when I was 3302 02:57:46,040 --> 02:57:48,680 Speaker 1: a senior in high school. When I was about twenty, 3303 02:57:48,840 --> 02:57:51,480 Speaker 1: the five members of my immediate family took a trip 3304 02:57:51,520 --> 02:57:54,520 Speaker 1: from the Midwest to California to visit my uncle, aunt, 3305 02:57:54,680 --> 02:57:58,520 Speaker 1: and cousin. While there, my uncle got us all tickets 3306 02:57:58,560 --> 02:58:02,240 Speaker 1: to Disneyland. For what ever reason, I've never liked roller coasters, 3307 02:58:02,320 --> 02:58:06,879 Speaker 1: and I've always had a fear of heights and or falling. Stupid, 3308 02:58:07,040 --> 02:58:09,240 Speaker 1: I know, but that's why they call it a phobia, 3309 02:58:09,560 --> 02:58:12,760 Speaker 1: an unreasonable fear. I also have a phobia, and we'll 3310 02:58:12,800 --> 02:58:17,039 Speaker 1: get into that later. Everyone in my extended family knew 3311 02:58:17,160 --> 02:58:19,840 Speaker 1: of my wimpiness when it came to most roller coasters. 3312 02:58:20,920 --> 02:58:23,320 Speaker 1: I was happy to visit my uncle and other family members, 3313 02:58:23,800 --> 02:58:26,680 Speaker 1: but as we'd already been discussing going to Disneyland, I 3314 02:58:26,840 --> 02:58:31,400 Speaker 1: told my mom on my uncle's side that i'd or 3315 02:58:31,560 --> 02:58:34,680 Speaker 1: my uncle's sister sorry, that I'd really rather not go 3316 02:58:35,000 --> 02:58:38,120 Speaker 1: with them, as even twenty five odd years ago, it 3317 02:58:38,280 --> 02:58:40,840 Speaker 1: was still quite expensive, and while I would get some 3318 02:58:41,040 --> 02:58:44,039 Speaker 1: enjoyment out of just the atmosphere and visiting my relatives, 3319 02:58:44,520 --> 02:58:46,199 Speaker 1: I thought it would be a waste of good money 3320 02:58:46,280 --> 02:58:48,160 Speaker 1: if my uncle got a ticket for me, as I 3321 02:58:48,200 --> 02:58:50,760 Speaker 1: wouldn't be going on most of the rides, and being blind, 3322 02:58:51,040 --> 02:58:54,680 Speaker 1: I wouldn't get much enjoyment out of the various shows 3323 02:58:54,680 --> 02:58:57,640 Speaker 1: at the park. My mom told me that my uncle 3324 02:58:57,680 --> 02:58:59,560 Speaker 1: had already bought the tickets and it would have been 3325 02:58:59,680 --> 02:59:02,160 Speaker 1: rude for me not to go with the extended family. 3326 02:59:02,760 --> 02:59:05,199 Speaker 1: I basically shrugged and just made sure to bring along 3327 02:59:05,240 --> 02:59:07,600 Speaker 1: a couple of audio books for while I was waiting 3328 02:59:07,680 --> 02:59:10,200 Speaker 1: for everyone while they all enjoyed themselves on what I'm 3329 02:59:10,280 --> 02:59:15,800 Speaker 1: sure are very exciting rides and visually entertaining shows. I'm 3330 02:59:15,800 --> 02:59:18,720 Speaker 1: gonna pause really quick talk to me because I used 3331 02:59:18,720 --> 02:59:21,720 Speaker 1: to be scared of roller coasters until I was like thirteen, 3332 02:59:22,240 --> 02:59:24,600 Speaker 1: and I had friends like that were going to six Flags, 3333 02:59:24,920 --> 02:59:27,320 Speaker 1: and then you know, my I think my mom kind 3334 02:59:27,360 --> 02:59:29,840 Speaker 1: of goaded me into getting like going there and just like, 3335 02:59:30,560 --> 02:59:32,320 Speaker 1: you know, you don't have to ride it, like you 3336 02:59:32,360 --> 02:59:34,240 Speaker 1: don't have to ride ride, just go and then I 3337 02:59:34,320 --> 02:59:37,000 Speaker 1: inevitably win and got like the what I guess turned 3338 02:59:37,000 --> 02:59:39,039 Speaker 1: into positive peer pressure because I love. 3339 02:59:39,000 --> 02:59:39,880 Speaker 2: Roller coasters now. 3340 02:59:40,120 --> 02:59:44,280 Speaker 1: Wo roller coasters rock, and I was deathly afraid of 3341 02:59:44,320 --> 02:59:46,960 Speaker 1: them as a as a kid. Interesting and all it 3342 02:59:47,000 --> 02:59:50,160 Speaker 1: took was that breakthrough moment and I got to say 3343 02:59:50,320 --> 02:59:52,400 Speaker 1: being blind and not wanting to go on a roller 3344 02:59:52,440 --> 02:59:55,720 Speaker 1: coaster makes sense, because I gotta say, like, having my 3345 02:59:55,800 --> 02:59:58,320 Speaker 1: eyes closed the whole time on a roller coaster sounds 3346 02:59:58,760 --> 03:00:03,600 Speaker 1: viscerally unpleasant, like not being able to anticipate, like, oh, 3347 03:00:03,720 --> 03:00:06,000 Speaker 1: we're gonna turn like left, your turn right, It's like 3348 03:00:06,320 --> 03:00:08,760 Speaker 1: it's gonna like hurt my neck or like it's gonna yeah, 3349 03:00:08,800 --> 03:00:11,480 Speaker 1: it would be I don't think a very fun time 3350 03:00:12,200 --> 03:00:15,240 Speaker 1: to be unable to see what's in front of me 3351 03:00:15,280 --> 03:00:16,440 Speaker 1: while being on a roller coaster. 3352 03:00:16,600 --> 03:00:19,360 Speaker 2: Sometimes I be not most of the time my eyes 3353 03:00:19,360 --> 03:00:22,080 Speaker 2: are open, but like sometimes like if it's uh like 3354 03:00:22,160 --> 03:00:23,800 Speaker 2: c because I have a fear of heights or whatever, 3355 03:00:23,920 --> 03:00:24,879 Speaker 2: so if it's too hot, I'm. 3356 03:00:24,800 --> 03:00:29,200 Speaker 1: Like, nah, yeah, yeah, fair enough. And especially if you've 3357 03:00:29,200 --> 03:00:31,240 Speaker 1: been if you've been blind and you're afraid of heights, 3358 03:00:31,320 --> 03:00:33,879 Speaker 1: it's like at any moment on a roller coaster, you're 3359 03:00:33,879 --> 03:00:35,920 Speaker 1: gonna be thinking in your imagination like, oh my god, 3360 03:00:35,959 --> 03:00:37,360 Speaker 1: we are so high up right now, Oh my god, 3361 03:00:37,480 --> 03:00:42,000 Speaker 1: ha ha, Like just sounds like a terrible time, I understand. 3362 03:00:42,840 --> 03:00:42,960 Speaker 2: Here. 3363 03:00:45,200 --> 03:00:48,400 Speaker 1: While we were at the park, everyone started talking about 3364 03:00:48,400 --> 03:00:50,840 Speaker 1: this one ride. I don't remember which one it was, 3365 03:00:51,040 --> 03:00:54,080 Speaker 1: and it is certainly possible that I simply misunderstood the 3366 03:00:54,200 --> 03:00:57,440 Speaker 1: description of the ride. I would go on a couple 3367 03:00:57,480 --> 03:01:00,520 Speaker 1: of roller coasters, and while I didn't really enjoy them, 3368 03:01:00,600 --> 03:01:04,920 Speaker 1: I was okay with certain ones, such as Space Mountain, not. 3369 03:01:05,080 --> 03:01:07,480 Speaker 2: One I would expect to be cool with because Space 3370 03:01:07,560 --> 03:01:13,160 Speaker 2: Mountain was scary. I love Space Mountain, big fan of 3371 03:01:13,200 --> 03:01:14,160 Speaker 2: Space Mountain. Over here. 3372 03:01:14,879 --> 03:01:19,760 Speaker 1: Uh again, phobia, unreasonable fear, okay, fair enough. Anyway, after 3373 03:01:19,879 --> 03:01:21,720 Speaker 1: hearing about the ride they were all talking about, I 3374 03:01:21,840 --> 03:01:25,000 Speaker 1: told them that that particular ride was one on which 3375 03:01:25,080 --> 03:01:30,000 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be going. Queue the stream of ridiculous I'm sorry, 3376 03:01:30,320 --> 03:01:34,000 Speaker 1: Queue the stream of ridiculing and insults whatever. I've heard 3377 03:01:34,040 --> 03:01:36,840 Speaker 1: them all before, and I'm perfectly fine with pleading guilty 3378 03:01:36,840 --> 03:01:37,400 Speaker 1: as charged. 3379 03:01:38,120 --> 03:01:40,320 Speaker 2: That's right. Let it roll off your back. Oh pee 3380 03:01:40,920 --> 03:01:43,880 Speaker 2: like a duck in water. Let that roll right off 3381 03:01:43,959 --> 03:01:44,280 Speaker 2: your back. 3382 03:01:45,040 --> 03:01:47,720 Speaker 4: Time out Before we go to the story, Alissa did 3383 03:01:48,040 --> 03:01:49,800 Speaker 4: do a dono and she's going to bed right now, 3384 03:01:49,920 --> 03:01:50,520 Speaker 4: so okay. 3385 03:01:50,720 --> 03:01:53,440 Speaker 1: I noticed that, Alyssa. She said she's going to wait, 3386 03:01:53,520 --> 03:01:53,920 Speaker 1: where is it? 3387 03:01:54,000 --> 03:01:55,400 Speaker 2: Where's the mouse? Where is it? 3388 03:01:55,879 --> 03:01:58,080 Speaker 4: Going to bed soon, but want to continue to another 3389 03:01:58,120 --> 03:02:00,960 Speaker 4: thirty minutes for my okay storytime, fam Thank you, Alyssa. 3390 03:02:01,000 --> 03:02:04,480 Speaker 4: Appreciate you, get some z's, get some memis. 3391 03:02:04,840 --> 03:02:09,080 Speaker 1: Yes, then you can catch up as soon as you 3392 03:02:09,160 --> 03:02:15,040 Speaker 1: wake up, open the screen and catch up. Anyway, the 3393 03:02:15,160 --> 03:02:17,720 Speaker 1: normal humans in the family were getting pretty excited about 3394 03:02:17,760 --> 03:02:20,080 Speaker 1: that ride. I told them that I hoped they had 3395 03:02:20,120 --> 03:02:21,760 Speaker 1: a good time and that I would wait for them 3396 03:02:21,800 --> 03:02:25,359 Speaker 1: while they were having all that fun twisting and falling. Everyone, 3397 03:02:25,520 --> 03:02:27,959 Speaker 1: especially my mom, tried to convince me to just get 3398 03:02:28,080 --> 03:02:30,080 Speaker 1: on the ride, as when it was over they would 3399 03:02:30,120 --> 03:02:32,520 Speaker 1: be on the complete opposite end of the park. 3400 03:02:33,280 --> 03:02:33,320 Speaker 2: What. 3401 03:02:33,800 --> 03:02:37,800 Speaker 1: I don't think that's how rides typically work, but we. 3402 03:02:37,920 --> 03:02:40,840 Speaker 2: Will continue on again. 3403 03:02:40,959 --> 03:02:42,640 Speaker 1: I told them to have a good time and I 3404 03:02:42,640 --> 03:02:45,800 Speaker 1: would just sit somewhere and listen to my book. My 3405 03:02:45,920 --> 03:02:48,320 Speaker 1: mom and others told me that if I didn't go 3406 03:02:48,440 --> 03:02:50,480 Speaker 1: on the ride that they would have to walk back 3407 03:02:50,520 --> 03:02:53,560 Speaker 1: through pretty much the entire park. I told them that 3408 03:02:53,600 --> 03:02:55,560 Speaker 1: I was sorry, but from the way they had described 3409 03:02:55,600 --> 03:02:57,560 Speaker 1: the ride, I really didn't want to go on it. 3410 03:02:57,879 --> 03:03:00,280 Speaker 1: And I reminded my mom that I told her early 3411 03:03:00,320 --> 03:03:03,480 Speaker 1: on that I would prefer my uncle not waste his money. 3412 03:03:04,720 --> 03:03:05,680 Speaker 2: Main part of the plot. 3413 03:03:06,480 --> 03:03:09,760 Speaker 1: So we're standing in line for some ride that everyone 3414 03:03:09,840 --> 03:03:12,800 Speaker 1: told me was the ride right before the big, scary 3415 03:03:12,879 --> 03:03:15,640 Speaker 1: one that I was whimping out of. As we're standing 3416 03:03:15,680 --> 03:03:18,480 Speaker 1: in line, I can't help but overhear conversations from others 3417 03:03:18,520 --> 03:03:21,600 Speaker 1: around us. I soon noticed that a lot of people 3418 03:03:21,680 --> 03:03:24,280 Speaker 1: were talking about the ride I did not want to 3419 03:03:24,360 --> 03:03:28,560 Speaker 1: go on. Dude, Honestly, what a huge l try, bro, 3420 03:03:28,879 --> 03:03:32,720 Speaker 1: You're literally trying to trick your blind family member into 3421 03:03:32,760 --> 03:03:33,080 Speaker 1: going on. 3422 03:03:33,080 --> 03:03:34,800 Speaker 4: A roller coaster they don't want to go on, and 3423 03:03:34,959 --> 03:03:38,880 Speaker 4: not imagine especially when they said I don't like that. 3424 03:03:39,560 --> 03:03:44,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. Literally the level of a holary required for this 3425 03:03:45,959 --> 03:03:48,119 Speaker 2: off the charts, Yeah, off the charts. 3426 03:03:48,160 --> 03:03:50,440 Speaker 1: It's almost so much of an Ahle move that it 3427 03:03:50,480 --> 03:03:53,040 Speaker 1: would loop all the way back around into not being 3428 03:03:53,080 --> 03:03:56,200 Speaker 1: an a whole because you're truly treating op like they're 3429 03:03:56,240 --> 03:03:57,080 Speaker 1: not blind at all. 3430 03:03:57,920 --> 03:03:59,520 Speaker 2: You're just like, we're just gonna get in line with 3431 03:03:59,600 --> 03:04:00,640 Speaker 2: our totally not blind. 3432 03:04:00,800 --> 03:04:02,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just I don't even see them as blind, 3433 03:04:03,280 --> 03:04:06,600 Speaker 1: which I think now circles back around again into being 3434 03:04:06,600 --> 03:04:07,199 Speaker 1: an a hole. 3435 03:04:09,360 --> 03:04:15,160 Speaker 2: Exactly, like no matter what, Like, it's just baffling that 3436 03:04:15,280 --> 03:04:16,200 Speaker 2: you think you could do this. 3437 03:04:19,160 --> 03:04:22,360 Speaker 1: I just went with it, as my family had told 3438 03:04:22,440 --> 03:04:26,200 Speaker 1: me that it was the ride after this one, so 3439 03:04:26,400 --> 03:04:28,440 Speaker 1: I thought the people around me had already gone on 3440 03:04:28,520 --> 03:04:31,120 Speaker 1: that ride. We get most of the way through the 3441 03:04:31,200 --> 03:04:35,080 Speaker 1: line when I figure out from surrounding conversations that we 3442 03:04:35,480 --> 03:04:43,200 Speaker 1: actually were in line for that dreaded ride, Space Mountain. No, 3443 03:04:43,360 --> 03:04:45,640 Speaker 1: Space Mountain was the one that they liked, But this 3444 03:04:45,720 --> 03:04:48,240 Speaker 1: one doesn't have a name, just a name. Was ride 3445 03:04:48,280 --> 03:04:49,280 Speaker 1: that they do not want to go. 3446 03:04:50,760 --> 03:04:53,640 Speaker 2: Named? Yeah, I'm my Disney brain is trying to figure 3447 03:04:53,640 --> 03:04:55,080 Speaker 2: out what it is. I don't know. 3448 03:04:56,040 --> 03:04:59,760 Speaker 1: Well, let's find out. Oh, because this is also from wayback. 3449 03:05:00,280 --> 03:05:03,080 Speaker 1: I think it might be this is from Disney twenty 3450 03:05:03,120 --> 03:05:06,720 Speaker 1: five years ago, because they said across across the way right, Yeah. 3451 03:05:06,520 --> 03:05:07,920 Speaker 2: They said that they would have to go across the 3452 03:05:07,959 --> 03:05:09,400 Speaker 2: whole park, which I think. I know what it is. 3453 03:05:09,680 --> 03:05:13,080 Speaker 4: I know exactly what what is it? It does drops 3454 03:05:13,720 --> 03:05:16,120 Speaker 4: or no, there's only there's two possible ones. If this 3455 03:05:16,240 --> 03:05:20,760 Speaker 4: is California, There's the droppy one and the one that 3456 03:05:20,800 --> 03:05:23,760 Speaker 4: does a loop, which back then was a yeah, we know, 3457 03:05:23,879 --> 03:05:25,000 Speaker 4: we don't need to talk about it drop. 3458 03:05:25,400 --> 03:05:27,640 Speaker 2: I don't think it's Tower of Terror. I don't think 3459 03:05:27,680 --> 03:05:27,920 Speaker 2: it is. 3460 03:05:30,720 --> 03:05:35,680 Speaker 1: At this point, I get rather angry, understandably, so I 3461 03:05:35,800 --> 03:05:39,280 Speaker 1: confronted my parents with what people around us had been saying, 3462 03:05:39,600 --> 03:05:41,560 Speaker 1: and that I knew what ride we were in line for. 3463 03:05:42,200 --> 03:05:45,560 Speaker 1: My mom kind of apologized but told me that everyone 3464 03:05:45,640 --> 03:05:47,560 Speaker 1: wanted to go on the ride and it wasn't fair 3465 03:05:47,640 --> 03:05:50,360 Speaker 1: for me to make everyone else walk back all the 3466 03:05:50,400 --> 03:05:53,760 Speaker 1: way after they exited the ride. What you can just 3467 03:05:54,400 --> 03:05:56,000 Speaker 1: what excuse me? 3468 03:05:57,200 --> 03:05:59,480 Speaker 2: Why ex excuse me? That's not even the point. The 3469 03:05:59,560 --> 03:06:01,520 Speaker 2: point is like, why did you bring him here in 3470 03:06:01,520 --> 03:06:04,600 Speaker 2: the first He could have just like hung out and chilled, 3471 03:06:05,560 --> 03:06:08,039 Speaker 2: but then you brought him here, and it's like, well, yeah, 3472 03:06:08,160 --> 03:06:10,840 Speaker 2: now you're the one that puts everyone in that position, 3473 03:06:11,200 --> 03:06:13,840 Speaker 2: and it doesn't matter because you're forcing to the goal 3474 03:06:13,879 --> 03:06:14,440 Speaker 2: on this riding. 3475 03:06:14,480 --> 03:06:18,560 Speaker 1: He doesn't want to go on lying to the blind 3476 03:06:18,760 --> 03:06:21,000 Speaker 1: person that they are not in line for the ride 3477 03:06:21,080 --> 03:06:25,920 Speaker 1: they explicitly did not want to ride. You suck, y'all 3478 03:06:26,080 --> 03:06:29,720 Speaker 1: all suck. And also you're talking to the person who 3479 03:06:29,840 --> 03:06:32,120 Speaker 1: didn't even want to be here. He is like, I 3480 03:06:32,160 --> 03:06:35,360 Speaker 1: would rather just chill, yes, don't worry about it, Like 3481 03:06:36,320 --> 03:06:38,800 Speaker 1: I'll just sit here and read my audio books. 3482 03:06:39,080 --> 03:06:41,400 Speaker 2: Were they using him for like a fast pass or something? 3483 03:06:41,640 --> 03:06:45,440 Speaker 1: Oh that makes so much even that's so diabolical, right, 3484 03:06:45,720 --> 03:06:48,160 Speaker 1: so so crappy. 3485 03:06:48,360 --> 03:06:57,240 Speaker 6: Bolitical OUI we have to stop umlanda yuie get your 3486 03:06:57,320 --> 03:07:00,680 Speaker 6: blond brother in lawn for the run was cutting to 3487 03:07:00,760 --> 03:07:01,160 Speaker 6: the front. 3488 03:07:01,600 --> 03:07:09,200 Speaker 2: I understand that reference. Yeah, okay, so they're trying to 3489 03:07:09,520 --> 03:07:10,840 Speaker 2: guilt trip op in. 3490 03:07:10,879 --> 03:07:13,760 Speaker 1: They're thinking that it's his fault for everyone having to walk, which, 3491 03:07:13,800 --> 03:07:15,720 Speaker 1: by the way, probably need the exercise. 3492 03:07:16,959 --> 03:07:18,360 Speaker 2: Everyone could use a good walk. 3493 03:07:19,600 --> 03:07:22,800 Speaker 1: My father was rather more blunt and just basically told 3494 03:07:22,840 --> 03:07:25,840 Speaker 1: me to suck it up. Yeah, this is dad just 3495 03:07:25,879 --> 03:07:28,760 Speaker 1: being like, suck it up, you baby, get on the 3496 03:07:28,840 --> 03:07:32,720 Speaker 1: roller coaster, you blind babies, What are you talking about? 3497 03:07:36,040 --> 03:07:39,400 Speaker 1: From my perspective, then, as now, I tried to spare 3498 03:07:39,480 --> 03:07:42,760 Speaker 1: everyone from having to deal with a blind coward, and 3499 03:07:42,959 --> 03:07:45,640 Speaker 1: I'd more than made up made it plain that I 3500 03:07:45,760 --> 03:07:49,120 Speaker 1: didn't want to go on that ride. If you are 3501 03:07:49,240 --> 03:07:52,920 Speaker 1: not a blind coward, you are just a reasonable human being. 3502 03:07:53,080 --> 03:07:55,520 Speaker 1: I was like, I don't think the blind person is 3503 03:07:55,560 --> 03:07:58,199 Speaker 1: going to enjoy Disneyland as much as everyone else. 3504 03:07:58,680 --> 03:07:59,920 Speaker 2: Maybe I sit this one out. 3505 03:08:02,840 --> 03:08:05,720 Speaker 1: I told everyone that I couldn't believe they had taken 3506 03:08:05,800 --> 03:08:08,800 Speaker 1: advantage of my blindness, and again told them that I 3507 03:08:08,959 --> 03:08:11,640 Speaker 1: was not getting on that ride. My mom and a 3508 03:08:11,680 --> 03:08:13,880 Speaker 1: couple of others seemed to feel a little bad at 3509 03:08:13,959 --> 03:08:16,440 Speaker 1: having lied to me, thinking I would just never know 3510 03:08:16,600 --> 03:08:19,800 Speaker 1: what they'd done. But mostly everyone just told me i'd 3511 03:08:19,840 --> 03:08:22,520 Speaker 1: have to suck it up, face my fear and learn 3512 03:08:22,600 --> 03:08:26,240 Speaker 1: to conquer it. Fear of roller coasters is not really 3513 03:08:26,280 --> 03:08:28,880 Speaker 1: a fear you have to learn to conquer. You can 3514 03:08:29,160 --> 03:08:31,039 Speaker 1: just not go on roller coasters. 3515 03:08:31,120 --> 03:08:35,360 Speaker 2: It's giving the the same thing of like, uh, someone's like, 3516 03:08:35,440 --> 03:08:38,080 Speaker 2: oh yeah, I'm like deathly allergic to shellfish, and they're 3517 03:08:38,120 --> 03:08:41,600 Speaker 2: like they feed them shellfish, like without telling them. They're like, 3518 03:08:41,640 --> 03:08:43,760 Speaker 2: why do you so good? It's so good? No, Like 3519 03:08:43,840 --> 03:08:45,720 Speaker 2: I wanted a test to make sure, like I wanted 3520 03:08:45,760 --> 03:08:47,520 Speaker 2: to help you get over it, you know, like like 3521 03:08:47,640 --> 03:08:52,000 Speaker 2: small doses. And it's just like that is not no, 3522 03:08:52,480 --> 03:08:55,520 Speaker 2: that's actually that's not something somebody else gets to decide 3523 03:08:55,560 --> 03:08:55,720 Speaker 2: for you. 3524 03:08:56,040 --> 03:08:59,520 Speaker 4: This kind of actually kind of triggered me because when 3525 03:08:59,600 --> 03:09:01,720 Speaker 4: I was a kid, I couldn't swim. I was like 3526 03:09:01,800 --> 03:09:05,040 Speaker 4: a terrible swimmer. And I think I went to a 3527 03:09:05,080 --> 03:09:07,000 Speaker 4: pool party and I was I think I was like 3528 03:09:07,120 --> 03:09:08,600 Speaker 4: five or six. I was like, I can't swim, and 3529 03:09:08,680 --> 03:09:10,080 Speaker 4: it's like everyone's just making fun of me for it, 3530 03:09:10,280 --> 03:09:11,760 Speaker 4: and I think someone pushed me in the pool and 3531 03:09:11,760 --> 03:09:13,440 Speaker 4: I was like I can't swim, and I was kind 3532 03:09:13,440 --> 03:09:16,560 Speaker 4: of like low key drowning and one of the moms 3533 03:09:16,640 --> 03:09:18,000 Speaker 4: is like, oh my god, you actually can't swim, and 3534 03:09:18,040 --> 03:09:20,520 Speaker 4: like kind of made like a it's like stuck in 3535 03:09:20,600 --> 03:09:21,400 Speaker 4: my head like this. 3536 03:09:21,920 --> 03:09:25,000 Speaker 2: That was really mean. Now I'm traumatized, but now I 3537 03:09:25,040 --> 03:09:25,440 Speaker 2: can swim. 3538 03:09:26,720 --> 03:09:29,800 Speaker 1: You heard it here first, folks. That was my rant, 3539 03:09:29,879 --> 03:09:33,480 Speaker 1: and he can swim. I have no nutrients in me. 3540 03:09:34,600 --> 03:09:38,360 Speaker 1: It's all the way I I I got priority delivery. 3541 03:09:38,840 --> 03:09:41,359 Speaker 2: It's on the way. I'm a priority. 3542 03:09:41,800 --> 03:09:46,440 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, dude, those cakes. Listen, you got to keep 3543 03:09:46,440 --> 03:09:47,480 Speaker 1: those cakes nice and healthy. 3544 03:09:47,680 --> 03:09:52,880 Speaker 2: Exactly. Sorry for I'm sorry, sorry for the rant. That 3545 03:09:52,959 --> 03:09:54,200 Speaker 2: was okay story time. 3546 03:09:54,320 --> 03:09:56,879 Speaker 1: Yeah. Now I still need to do my okay story 3547 03:09:56,879 --> 03:09:58,800 Speaker 1: about my phobia, but we'll get into that room. 3548 03:09:58,959 --> 03:10:01,720 Speaker 2: After post post story. Okay story done. 3549 03:10:01,879 --> 03:10:06,040 Speaker 1: Uh yes, post story, okay story. Oh if only it 3550 03:10:06,240 --> 03:10:09,000 Speaker 1: was as easy as sucking it up. I'd gone on 3551 03:10:09,120 --> 03:10:12,040 Speaker 1: roller coasters many times before. I even braved the high 3552 03:10:12,120 --> 03:10:14,560 Speaker 1: dive at the public pool a couple of times. That's 3553 03:10:14,920 --> 03:10:20,039 Speaker 1: crazy to do as a blind person. Yo. Nope, at 3554 03:10:20,240 --> 03:10:23,160 Speaker 1: least for me, confronting my phobia hadn't helped at all, 3555 03:10:23,440 --> 03:10:27,160 Speaker 1: And if anything, generally made the phobia worse. I sternly 3556 03:10:27,240 --> 03:10:29,280 Speaker 1: told them that I'd made my feelings known and that 3557 03:10:29,400 --> 03:10:31,960 Speaker 1: I was not getting on that ride. Everyone told me 3558 03:10:32,080 --> 03:10:34,040 Speaker 1: that I had to get on the ride. Ope, we 3559 03:10:34,120 --> 03:10:36,400 Speaker 1: were getting pretty close to the ride now, and that 3560 03:10:36,600 --> 03:10:38,400 Speaker 1: there just wasn't any way to get out of the 3561 03:10:38,480 --> 03:10:41,039 Speaker 1: line and go back, and again the ride was going 3562 03:10:41,120 --> 03:10:43,160 Speaker 1: to drop everyone off at the other end of the park. 3563 03:10:43,600 --> 03:10:45,760 Speaker 1: I simply told them that they could call me whatever 3564 03:10:45,840 --> 03:10:48,040 Speaker 1: they liked, but they were the ones that deserved to 3565 03:10:48,120 --> 03:10:50,320 Speaker 1: be called a bunch of names for taking advantage of 3566 03:10:50,440 --> 03:10:51,199 Speaker 1: my blindness. 3567 03:10:51,760 --> 03:10:55,240 Speaker 2: Big facts. I was not getting on that ride. 3568 03:10:55,680 --> 03:10:59,360 Speaker 1: As pretty much everyone had started to hotly respond, I 3569 03:10:59,560 --> 03:11:02,200 Speaker 1: unfold in my cane and told them that I'd see 3570 03:11:02,280 --> 03:11:02,720 Speaker 1: them later. 3571 03:11:03,200 --> 03:11:04,680 Speaker 2: I was going back to the hotel. 3572 03:11:05,920 --> 03:11:09,240 Speaker 1: Quote, don't be stupid, How are you gonna find your 3573 03:11:09,280 --> 03:11:13,040 Speaker 1: way to the entrance, let alone back to the hotel. Besides, 3574 03:11:13,160 --> 03:11:15,560 Speaker 1: you simply can't walk back through the line. 3575 03:11:15,959 --> 03:11:19,040 Speaker 2: There just wasn't a path to do, so you just 3576 03:11:19,320 --> 03:11:20,080 Speaker 2: you just go. 3577 03:11:22,120 --> 03:11:25,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm pretty sure that Disneyland's gonna accommodate the blind 3578 03:11:25,760 --> 03:11:26,240 Speaker 1: person in. 3579 03:11:26,320 --> 03:11:30,680 Speaker 2: Line to get out of line. Yeah, They're like, oh no, sorry, sir, 3580 03:11:31,040 --> 03:11:35,680 Speaker 2: come on, we don't allow blind cowards to come back 3581 03:11:35,720 --> 03:11:38,800 Speaker 2: in the line. Yeah yeah, how about getting sued for 3582 03:11:38,959 --> 03:11:40,199 Speaker 2: a trillion dollars. 3583 03:11:40,440 --> 03:11:43,160 Speaker 1: Imagine it's just like, sorry, we don't actually allow blind 3584 03:11:43,240 --> 03:11:44,199 Speaker 1: cowards in our line. 3585 03:11:44,280 --> 03:11:46,199 Speaker 2: We're gonna force you onto the ride. 3586 03:11:46,240 --> 03:11:49,560 Speaker 1: Now, we're gonna man handle you into the roller coaster 3587 03:11:49,680 --> 03:11:53,560 Speaker 1: and you're gonna go yeah freaking I would literally be like, Hi, 3588 03:11:53,680 --> 03:11:55,240 Speaker 1: excuse me, I'm blind. 3589 03:11:55,360 --> 03:11:57,480 Speaker 2: They're trying to force me to go in this coaster. 3590 03:11:57,879 --> 03:11:59,880 Speaker 2: Can you do this so I don't sue you all 3591 03:12:00,000 --> 03:12:00,600 Speaker 2: out of a job. 3592 03:12:00,959 --> 03:12:06,880 Speaker 1: Imagine imagine the extended family shock when op who is 3593 03:12:07,000 --> 03:12:10,080 Speaker 1: blind pulls out their cane and everyone behind them in 3594 03:12:10,160 --> 03:12:14,960 Speaker 1: line immediately becomes accommodating to the blind person trying to 3595 03:12:15,080 --> 03:12:16,440 Speaker 1: make their way out of the line. 3596 03:12:16,560 --> 03:12:20,120 Speaker 2: Also like I'm sorry, but if like I'm like in 3597 03:12:20,760 --> 03:12:23,720 Speaker 2: front or like near them, I'm like, Yo, you can't 3598 03:12:23,840 --> 03:12:27,200 Speaker 2: make this kid go on this ride. You're absolutely insane. 3599 03:12:27,480 --> 03:12:28,200 Speaker 3: I gotta Yeah. 3600 03:12:28,280 --> 03:12:32,360 Speaker 1: If I overheard this conversation, I'm like, yeah, no, as 3601 03:12:32,440 --> 03:12:34,959 Speaker 1: someone who's hearing all this, you don't. 3602 03:12:34,800 --> 03:12:37,520 Speaker 2: Have to ride this ride and all of you suck. Yeah, 3603 03:12:38,240 --> 03:12:38,520 Speaker 2: I didn't. 3604 03:12:38,600 --> 03:12:40,600 Speaker 4: I didn't want to interrupt because you guys are going 3605 03:12:40,640 --> 03:12:43,879 Speaker 4: on a really good tangent there. But fifteen more minutes, 3606 03:12:44,440 --> 03:12:46,480 Speaker 4: shout out to you guys, and we hit seven hundred fifty, Like, 3607 03:12:46,480 --> 03:12:47,320 Speaker 4: so we got to do wheelspin. 3608 03:12:47,600 --> 03:12:50,879 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, story time's coming up. But I got 3609 03:12:51,160 --> 03:12:54,240 Speaker 2: the wheel spin coming out? Uh should we We'll do 3610 03:12:54,320 --> 03:12:56,040 Speaker 2: that for the after the story, right after the story. 3611 03:12:56,120 --> 03:12:58,400 Speaker 4: Let me let me go ahead and get that those 3612 03:12:58,480 --> 03:13:02,480 Speaker 4: fifteen yer, but go ahead, do your thing, okay. 3613 03:13:04,840 --> 03:13:07,040 Speaker 2: So basically Opie's family is like, what do you mean 3614 03:13:07,120 --> 03:13:09,800 Speaker 2: you're blind? How are you gonna get back to the hotel? 3615 03:13:11,480 --> 03:13:13,280 Speaker 1: I told them that I was pretty sure that we 3616 03:13:13,360 --> 03:13:17,440 Speaker 1: weren't all being held at held hostage and then if 3617 03:13:17,480 --> 03:13:20,120 Speaker 1: I'd find my way back to the beginning of the 3618 03:13:20,200 --> 03:13:21,560 Speaker 1: line eventually. 3619 03:13:23,280 --> 03:13:34,320 Speaker 12: Blondst Dared Devil. This is like the beginning of an episode. 3620 03:13:35,520 --> 03:13:36,120 Speaker 2: It starts. 3621 03:13:36,320 --> 03:13:40,000 Speaker 1: This is like a weird special special event episode of 3622 03:13:40,080 --> 03:13:42,480 Speaker 1: Daredevil where it's sponsored by Disney. 3623 03:13:42,200 --> 03:13:49,480 Speaker 2: Lamb Family World. It's like an after. 3624 03:13:49,360 --> 03:13:52,400 Speaker 1: School special about dealing with family members who like or 3625 03:13:52,520 --> 03:13:55,240 Speaker 1: don't don't like bully you for your disability or whatever. 3626 03:13:55,680 --> 03:14:00,520 Speaker 1: Let your family, especially blind fling's never okay, especially if 3627 03:14:00,520 --> 03:14:02,520 Speaker 1: it's from your family and your blind like. 3628 03:14:02,600 --> 03:14:07,600 Speaker 2: Daredevil, your god like thousand. 3629 03:14:11,280 --> 03:14:12,880 Speaker 1: I told them that I was yeah, pretty sure we 3630 03:14:12,920 --> 03:14:15,119 Speaker 1: weren't being held hostage, and that i'd find my way 3631 03:14:15,160 --> 03:14:16,760 Speaker 1: back to the beginning of the line eventually. 3632 03:14:17,320 --> 03:14:18,440 Speaker 2: As for how I would find my. 3633 03:14:18,480 --> 03:14:21,080 Speaker 1: Way back to the hotel, I had my wallet and 3634 03:14:21,120 --> 03:14:24,360 Speaker 1: I've taken lots of cabs before. I would just ask 3635 03:14:24,480 --> 03:14:26,960 Speaker 1: directions to the park entrance, and I would find a 3636 03:14:27,000 --> 03:14:30,000 Speaker 1: phone eventually and would call a cab and give them 3637 03:14:30,040 --> 03:14:33,360 Speaker 1: the name of my hotel. I then turned with my 3638 03:14:33,480 --> 03:14:36,600 Speaker 1: cane and began making my way back to the beginning 3639 03:14:36,640 --> 03:14:39,640 Speaker 1: of the line, apologizing to everyone I was bumping into, 3640 03:14:39,840 --> 03:14:42,400 Speaker 1: explaining that I really needed to be the park. 3641 03:14:43,959 --> 03:14:48,039 Speaker 4: This is so traumatizing, especially at like a young younger age. 3642 03:14:52,040 --> 03:14:56,039 Speaker 1: This is an absolute monster, complete stinky, a whole complaint. 3643 03:14:56,840 --> 03:14:59,000 Speaker 2: Stink. They stink. 3644 03:15:00,120 --> 03:15:07,320 Speaker 4: Eurek, you stink Eureka. You're done right, suck, You're down right? Yeah, suck. 3645 03:15:09,400 --> 03:15:14,280 Speaker 2: Zoom zoe what I'm doing? 3646 03:15:14,840 --> 03:15:15,320 Speaker 3: You stink? 3647 03:15:16,080 --> 03:15:19,080 Speaker 2: You stink, you stink. Okay. 3648 03:15:20,520 --> 03:15:23,480 Speaker 1: There was a few seconds of silence from my family, 3649 03:15:23,720 --> 03:15:26,600 Speaker 1: and then some kind of hasty words exchanged that my 3650 03:15:26,720 --> 03:15:30,760 Speaker 1: father angrily grabbed my arm and began trying to march 3651 03:15:30,879 --> 03:15:31,360 Speaker 1: me back. 3652 03:15:32,280 --> 03:15:33,720 Speaker 2: Oh no, back in line. 3653 03:15:34,879 --> 03:15:37,720 Speaker 1: He angrily called me a term for the female anatomy, 3654 03:15:38,360 --> 03:15:40,360 Speaker 1: and did his best to express his anger as he 3655 03:15:40,480 --> 03:15:42,800 Speaker 1: firmly took slash pushed me along. 3656 03:15:43,120 --> 03:15:45,000 Speaker 2: Daddy about to catch his cane. 3657 03:15:44,840 --> 03:15:48,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, whacking him with that be Like, oh, oh, sorry, 3658 03:15:48,920 --> 03:15:49,360 Speaker 1: I guess. 3659 03:15:49,240 --> 03:15:53,240 Speaker 2: I'm blind and I can't help it. I'm oops. 3660 03:15:54,120 --> 03:15:57,640 Speaker 1: God, I basically shrugged, reminding him that I'd let my 3661 03:15:57,720 --> 03:16:02,920 Speaker 1: feelings be known from the very beginning and female genitalia aside. 3662 03:16:03,800 --> 03:16:06,640 Speaker 1: At least I had never taken advantage of someone's handicap 3663 03:16:07,040 --> 03:16:11,760 Speaker 1: for my own wants. Boom called big facts. They suck 3664 03:16:11,879 --> 03:16:17,240 Speaker 1: for trying to manipulate you for being blind. That's crazy, 3665 03:16:18,560 --> 03:16:24,840 Speaker 1: just disgusting. He grunted something and again called me that 3666 03:16:24,959 --> 03:16:27,920 Speaker 1: word with a few colorful enhancements. I just ignored him 3667 03:16:27,959 --> 03:16:31,480 Speaker 1: until we finally found a bench. He roughly pushed me 3668 03:16:31,560 --> 03:16:33,240 Speaker 1: down on the bench, told me to stay. 3669 03:16:33,080 --> 03:16:36,840 Speaker 2: There, and then left me. Where's the Disney Police? Also? 3670 03:16:37,320 --> 03:16:41,120 Speaker 2: Why is he upset? This is what oh he wanted 3671 03:16:41,640 --> 03:16:45,520 Speaker 2: from the beginning. What is wrong with you? 3672 03:16:47,920 --> 03:16:48,200 Speaker 9: God? 3673 03:16:48,520 --> 03:16:48,800 Speaker 2: Dude? 3674 03:16:49,640 --> 03:16:54,160 Speaker 4: If can you imagine all the people just watching this though? Yeah, 3675 03:16:54,440 --> 03:16:58,840 Speaker 4: at Disney, right, Like, that's crazy. 3676 03:17:01,440 --> 03:17:03,039 Speaker 2: The able ism in this guy. 3677 03:17:03,080 --> 03:17:05,760 Speaker 1: I would like, where's where's making his. 3678 03:17:05,879 --> 03:17:10,600 Speaker 2: Own parents being diab bro? Yeah, this is also Disney. 3679 03:17:10,680 --> 03:17:11,480 Speaker 2: It's for kids. 3680 03:17:11,520 --> 03:17:14,280 Speaker 4: You're supposed to have a good time, not traumatize them 3681 03:17:14,320 --> 03:17:16,280 Speaker 4: and make them have the worst day of their life. 3682 03:17:16,400 --> 03:17:19,680 Speaker 2: Dude, I'm so sorry, dude. What does the kid being like? Mommy? 3683 03:17:20,040 --> 03:17:22,360 Speaker 1: Why does that man hate that blind person? 3684 03:17:23,480 --> 03:17:26,840 Speaker 3: I think they're related? Why does he hate him? 3685 03:17:26,920 --> 03:17:30,120 Speaker 2: Mommy? Good night, Josephine. I don't know. Son, Just stand 3686 03:17:30,240 --> 03:17:33,080 Speaker 2: in line for the roller coaster. The world is complex. 3687 03:17:33,680 --> 03:17:35,920 Speaker 2: Go on, Bobby, I've got time for this. 3688 03:17:37,600 --> 03:17:42,840 Speaker 1: Uh huh, Okay, we're gonna continue on. I just told him, 3689 03:17:42,879 --> 03:17:46,680 Speaker 1: no problem and began reading my book. I got quite 3690 03:17:46,720 --> 03:17:48,520 Speaker 1: a bit of reading in, as most of my loving 3691 03:17:48,600 --> 03:17:51,440 Speaker 1: family had by this time already gotten on and off 3692 03:17:51,520 --> 03:17:53,879 Speaker 1: of the ride. My dad took the ride to where 3693 03:17:53,920 --> 03:17:55,440 Speaker 1: the rest of them had to wait, and then they 3694 03:17:55,480 --> 03:17:58,279 Speaker 1: all came back to get me. Several of my family 3695 03:17:58,400 --> 03:18:01,400 Speaker 1: told me how much i'd incannvenience to them having to 3696 03:18:01,560 --> 03:18:04,520 Speaker 1: come all the way back through the park to get me. Hey, family, 3697 03:18:04,600 --> 03:18:08,920 Speaker 1: you know what else is inconvenient? Being blind? Maybe you 3698 03:18:08,959 --> 03:18:11,480 Speaker 1: should have thought about that when I said, from the 3699 03:18:11,600 --> 03:18:15,879 Speaker 1: very beginning, blind people might not enjoy Disneyland as much as. 3700 03:18:15,800 --> 03:18:18,640 Speaker 2: You, why would you spend It's because they were using 3701 03:18:18,720 --> 03:18:20,920 Speaker 2: him for the fast past and the other parks. I 3702 03:18:21,040 --> 03:18:25,160 Speaker 2: guess it's the only thing that makes sense, Dude, It's ridiculous. 3703 03:18:27,400 --> 03:18:30,040 Speaker 1: I reminded them that they were the ones that wanted 3704 03:18:30,120 --> 03:18:32,080 Speaker 1: me to wait, and that by this time I was 3705 03:18:32,160 --> 03:18:33,840 Speaker 1: fairly sure I would have found my way to the 3706 03:18:34,000 --> 03:18:36,240 Speaker 1: entrance and be on my way back to the hotel. 3707 03:18:36,920 --> 03:18:38,880 Speaker 1: I don't remember very much else about the rest of 3708 03:18:38,959 --> 03:18:41,800 Speaker 1: the day. I do feel kind of odd thanking my 3709 03:18:41,959 --> 03:18:44,520 Speaker 1: uncle with everyone else at the end of the day, 3710 03:18:45,160 --> 03:18:48,560 Speaker 1: but what else was I supposed to do? Besides? I 3711 03:18:48,680 --> 03:18:53,440 Speaker 1: did kind of enjoy this still obvious tension. But you 3712 03:18:53,520 --> 03:18:59,920 Speaker 1: can enjoy our obvious tension every day weekdays on YouTube 3713 03:19:00,400 --> 03:19:04,600 Speaker 1: at three pm. Just tap our profile and you're locked in. 3714 03:19:04,920 --> 03:19:05,200 Speaker 2: Babe. 3715 03:19:06,360 --> 03:19:11,680 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, So, am I the bad apple for making 3716 03:19:11,760 --> 03:19:15,120 Speaker 1: my entire family do all that walking? Am I the 3717 03:19:15,200 --> 03:19:18,760 Speaker 1: bad apple for feeling rather proud of myself for being independent? 3718 03:19:19,120 --> 03:19:20,960 Speaker 1: And am I the bad apple for looking back on 3719 03:19:21,040 --> 03:19:23,600 Speaker 1: that day as kind of a happy memory. Whatever you 3720 03:19:23,680 --> 03:19:25,920 Speaker 1: decide either to compliment me or do your best to 3721 03:19:26,000 --> 03:19:27,880 Speaker 1: expand upon what most of my family said to me 3722 03:19:28,000 --> 03:19:31,000 Speaker 1: that day. I sincerely thank you for reading and for 3723 03:19:31,120 --> 03:19:33,920 Speaker 1: whatever comments you'd like to make. And that is the 3724 03:19:34,080 --> 03:19:34,960 Speaker 1: end of that story. 3725 03:19:35,200 --> 03:19:37,640 Speaker 2: And I think we are all in agreement when we 3726 03:19:37,720 --> 03:19:41,879 Speaker 2: say you are not the a hole. Dude. Not only 3727 03:19:42,520 --> 03:19:46,720 Speaker 2: he's not the asshole, he's the badass. Yeah, because I'm like, listen, 3728 03:19:47,080 --> 03:19:50,640 Speaker 2: if you at least get some enjoyment out of like 3729 03:19:51,160 --> 03:19:59,160 Speaker 2: tormenting these these monsters troglodytes, let's get dude, troglodyte absolutely 3730 03:19:59,520 --> 03:20:02,199 Speaker 2: rotch freight, t re historic. 3731 03:20:02,520 --> 03:20:07,920 Speaker 1: Oh my god, yeah, yes, just a detritis. 3732 03:20:08,200 --> 03:20:12,920 Speaker 2: Please please please do, Like my god, I'm so glad 3733 03:20:13,000 --> 03:20:16,000 Speaker 2: you've at least got some bit of enjoyment out of this. 3734 03:20:16,240 --> 03:20:18,040 Speaker 1: It's great you can look back on it and enjoy it. 3735 03:20:18,400 --> 03:20:20,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they saw it. 3736 03:20:21,160 --> 03:20:23,039 Speaker 2: They've ruined Disney for you, and I'm so. 3737 03:20:23,200 --> 03:20:26,520 Speaker 1: Sorry, right, and you know that's yeah, it's a good 3738 03:20:26,680 --> 03:20:28,120 Speaker 1: moment to look back on and be like, And that 3739 03:20:28,240 --> 03:20:31,720 Speaker 1: was the moment I realized, my family just makes my 3740 03:20:31,840 --> 03:20:36,800 Speaker 1: life worse. Yes, so, uh well, I mean maybe that's 3741 03:20:36,959 --> 03:20:40,000 Speaker 1: it might be a little hyperbolic. It was one event 3742 03:20:40,520 --> 03:20:43,280 Speaker 1: at one place, at disney World or Land whatever. 3743 03:20:43,440 --> 03:20:45,800 Speaker 2: But like, I don't know, dude, I think what you 3744 03:20:45,840 --> 03:20:49,000 Speaker 2: said earlier. It's like this eblism from his own parents. 3745 03:20:48,720 --> 03:20:52,640 Speaker 1: Is just it's heartbreaking. Yeah, it is bleard breaking, pretty rough. 3746 03:20:52,840 --> 03:20:54,200 Speaker 1: This is a different time though it was twenty five 3747 03:20:54,280 --> 03:20:58,520 Speaker 1: years ago. No is the late nineties, you know, No, 3748 03:20:58,800 --> 03:21:00,440 Speaker 1: do you know some of the film is that were 3749 03:21:00,480 --> 03:21:04,280 Speaker 1: being made in the late nineties people, And I don't 3750 03:21:04,320 --> 03:21:06,800 Speaker 1: mean to this to excuse their behavior. I'm just saying 3751 03:21:07,520 --> 03:21:10,600 Speaker 1: that was a time where people were a lot more 3752 03:21:10,840 --> 03:21:15,840 Speaker 1: dismissive of other people's disabilities because I don't know, I 3753 03:21:17,080 --> 03:21:18,400 Speaker 1: guess that's just the way it was. 3754 03:21:18,640 --> 03:21:23,000 Speaker 2: Just so it's just yes, it's still so hot, so bad. Yeah, no, 3755 03:21:23,800 --> 03:21:24,440 Speaker 2: clearly bad. 3756 03:21:24,560 --> 03:21:29,160 Speaker 1: No, that's very ridiculous. That just this whole thing and 3757 03:21:29,280 --> 03:21:32,280 Speaker 1: good on op B like uh, I. 3758 03:21:32,320 --> 03:21:35,200 Speaker 2: Mean taking it like an absolute champ. Champ. 3759 03:21:36,040 --> 03:21:38,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, taking it like a champ and clearly independent and 3760 03:21:39,080 --> 03:21:40,720 Speaker 1: was like, uh, They're like, how are you going to 3761 03:21:40,800 --> 03:21:43,680 Speaker 1: get back to the hotel by myself? 3762 03:21:43,920 --> 03:21:46,520 Speaker 2: Like like how I literally do everything? How I do 3763 03:21:46,640 --> 03:21:48,480 Speaker 2: everything by myself? Yeah? 3764 03:21:50,320 --> 03:21:53,400 Speaker 4: Yes, yes, yes, let's get ready for the next story. 3765 03:21:53,480 --> 03:21:56,040 Speaker 4: We'll treat some Dono's and then we'll also spin that wheel. 3766 03:21:57,959 --> 03:22:01,680 Speaker 2: I think we're gonna spin that wheel another fifteen minutes 3767 03:22:01,760 --> 03:22:06,240 Speaker 2: right there. Oh yeah, Brie, thanks for the twenty five bucks. 3768 03:22:06,560 --> 03:22:09,040 Speaker 2: Sleep schedule is messed up. Let's stay up for the stream. 3769 03:22:09,360 --> 03:22:11,440 Speaker 2: It's already messed up. You might as well stick around. 3770 03:22:11,520 --> 03:22:15,600 Speaker 2: Well here we are, Sarah, uh not Sarah. Thanks in 3771 03:22:15,680 --> 03:22:18,120 Speaker 2: the five bucks. Damn. I was so close to a 3772 03:22:18,160 --> 03:22:20,840 Speaker 2: six month badge. Then I had to change cards and 3773 03:22:20,879 --> 03:22:24,000 Speaker 2: forgot to update it. Oh I'm so sorry, Sarah. We 3774 03:22:24,120 --> 03:22:26,000 Speaker 2: love you, Kean for your brain. Yeah that sucks. I 3775 03:22:26,080 --> 03:22:31,280 Speaker 2: wish I don't know, probably away because Josephine earlier the stream, 3776 03:22:31,360 --> 03:22:33,640 Speaker 2: we were like one month membership, but she had just 3777 03:22:33,800 --> 03:22:38,760 Speaker 2: renewed or changed her whatever. Christiana, thanks in the five bucks. 3778 03:22:38,800 --> 03:22:40,920 Speaker 2: I cannot believe I caught the live. I never get 3779 03:22:40,959 --> 03:22:43,080 Speaker 2: to watch it because I am in Romania. Yah you 3780 03:22:43,120 --> 03:22:44,880 Speaker 2: already read that. Read it. 3781 03:22:45,040 --> 03:22:48,480 Speaker 1: Shout out to Christina again for the remainian and watching 3782 03:22:48,879 --> 03:22:49,360 Speaker 1: and then. 3783 03:22:50,400 --> 03:22:54,119 Speaker 2: Super chats bringing the horizon things at a five bucks. 3784 03:22:54,200 --> 03:22:56,959 Speaker 2: So glad I hopped on tonight. Uh you all make 3785 03:22:57,040 --> 03:23:00,160 Speaker 2: my day cake emoji. I needed to get more. We're 3786 03:23:00,200 --> 03:23:03,200 Speaker 2: active on the discord. Brie, come on now, come on, 3787 03:23:04,080 --> 03:23:07,960 Speaker 2: Josephine says, almost six am, gotta go to bed. Love 3788 03:23:08,000 --> 03:23:16,960 Speaker 2: you all, especially Zaddy Zaya. That's open to whoever that's you, 3789 03:23:18,760 --> 03:23:25,600 Speaker 2: That's it's you. And then Cake Cowbot is God gifting 3790 03:23:25,640 --> 03:23:29,960 Speaker 2: one membership. Let's go, Thank you, Cowbot. Ellie gifting five memberships. 3791 03:23:30,240 --> 03:23:34,200 Speaker 2: Let's freaking go. Thank you, ell Scary Cherry. Thanks for 3792 03:23:34,280 --> 03:23:36,240 Speaker 2: being a member for one month. Thanks for helping me 3793 03:23:36,320 --> 03:23:39,600 Speaker 2: study through vet school. We freaking got you. Thank you 3794 03:23:39,720 --> 03:23:42,000 Speaker 2: for going to vet school. Yeah, and taking care of 3795 03:23:42,080 --> 03:23:45,000 Speaker 2: all the little fur babies. Come on, man, Winter's ninety 3796 03:23:45,000 --> 03:23:47,760 Speaker 2: six year old. Thanks for the five gifted memberships. Hell yeah, 3797 03:23:48,520 --> 03:23:51,920 Speaker 2: Radish being a member for six months, earning the ax 3798 03:23:52,320 --> 03:23:56,280 Speaker 2: the ox, just got to buy Ox, the just got 3799 03:23:56,320 --> 03:23:58,440 Speaker 2: back from Disney Lane and the first story I hear 3800 03:23:58,600 --> 03:24:03,680 Speaker 2: in a full Disneyland store. Wow, Wow, what what amazing timing, 3801 03:24:04,200 --> 03:24:07,240 Speaker 2: And then finally got my six month badge. Well earned. 3802 03:24:07,360 --> 03:24:12,400 Speaker 2: Way to go, well earned, Radish, Uh Zola Darling, could 3803 03:24:12,440 --> 03:24:16,320 Speaker 2: you hit me with a control plus on that poor eyes? 3804 03:24:16,360 --> 03:24:20,360 Speaker 2: Thank you, Thanks for the entertaining and and thanks for 3805 03:24:20,560 --> 03:24:25,160 Speaker 2: entertaining our thirstiness. Keon, I hope you're not too overwhelmed 3806 03:24:25,200 --> 03:24:27,920 Speaker 2: and come back tomorrow part of this team. Baby. 3807 03:24:28,000 --> 03:24:29,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, he has to come back tomorrow. 3808 03:24:29,560 --> 03:24:31,760 Speaker 2: He's forced to. He has no say in. 3809 03:24:31,800 --> 03:24:36,120 Speaker 1: The master suit is not coming though. That was come 3810 03:24:36,200 --> 03:24:36,959 Speaker 1: on first. 3811 03:24:37,120 --> 03:24:37,959 Speaker 2: Know what do you mean? 3812 03:24:38,360 --> 03:24:38,560 Speaker 3: Yeah? 3813 03:24:38,640 --> 03:24:44,320 Speaker 1: I mean it, dude, Dude, I'm your superior suit suit 3814 03:24:44,640 --> 03:24:46,840 Speaker 1: suit suit suit suit suit. 3815 03:24:50,400 --> 03:24:52,480 Speaker 2: Don't have to have a different suit for every day. Yeah, 3816 03:24:53,080 --> 03:24:56,080 Speaker 2: I'll join you. I will too suit with you. Please, 3817 03:24:56,120 --> 03:24:59,800 Speaker 2: don't we both wear a suit in just to pure 3818 03:24:59,840 --> 03:25:05,400 Speaker 2: pri when the three of us next, next Golden guys 3819 03:25:05,440 --> 03:25:09,160 Speaker 2: stream We're doing it. And then could you screw up 3820 03:25:09,160 --> 03:25:12,240 Speaker 2: a little bit? Uh Anna Moon takes her to five bucks. 3821 03:25:12,720 --> 03:25:16,520 Speaker 2: How the doodle? Love you all remember to drink water. 3822 03:25:16,400 --> 03:25:18,360 Speaker 1: And stretch and it's such a good reminder. Anna, thank you. 3823 03:25:19,200 --> 03:25:21,560 Speaker 1: I have not stretched enough today. I have drank plenty 3824 03:25:21,600 --> 03:25:23,360 Speaker 1: of water and I love the way you said, how 3825 03:25:23,400 --> 03:25:25,280 Speaker 1: to doodle, how to noodle, how to doodle? 3826 03:25:25,400 --> 03:25:27,840 Speaker 2: Scary Cherry, thanks for the thank you for the five 3827 03:25:28,040 --> 03:25:34,120 Speaker 2: gifted membership. So let's go, and uh Anna p all 3828 03:25:34,800 --> 03:25:39,160 Speaker 2: h o ADHD. I messed it up, sorry on hd HD. 3829 03:25:39,360 --> 03:25:39,600 Speaker 5: Thank you. 3830 03:25:40,160 --> 03:25:43,120 Speaker 2: Thanks for the five Australian bucks. As kids, we convinced 3831 03:25:43,160 --> 03:25:45,960 Speaker 2: our mom that Space Mountain was a boat ride like 3832 03:25:46,040 --> 03:25:49,920 Speaker 2: Splash Mountain. Needless to say, she wasn't impressed. Oh sound 3833 03:25:49,959 --> 03:25:52,960 Speaker 2: like mom. I didn't like it. Also, Sarah, me, welcome 3834 03:25:53,000 --> 03:25:58,200 Speaker 2: to the night's shing shing. Let's go. And is that 3835 03:25:58,800 --> 03:26:00,800 Speaker 2: is that it? I think we got a new one 3836 03:26:00,840 --> 03:26:02,280 Speaker 2: on me sorry? 3837 03:26:02,840 --> 03:26:04,640 Speaker 1: And did we get I think we did just get 3838 03:26:04,760 --> 03:26:07,840 Speaker 1: a new one on the tip link ah mj grow. 3839 03:26:07,879 --> 03:26:10,720 Speaker 2: Thanks out the five bucks. H. So with all the 3840 03:26:10,800 --> 03:26:13,640 Speaker 2: new stuff, y'all doing that? Okay, calendar for twenty twenty five, 3841 03:26:13,879 --> 03:26:15,359 Speaker 2: you can call it, okay. 3842 03:26:15,400 --> 03:26:18,320 Speaker 1: Case new staff stiff. Yeah, I think the new staff 3843 03:26:18,400 --> 03:26:21,640 Speaker 1: the new staff, not stuff staff. Oh not say new staff, 3844 03:26:21,800 --> 03:26:24,200 Speaker 1: said staff. Oh I meant to say new staff. 3845 03:26:24,200 --> 03:26:24,520 Speaker 2: My bad. 3846 03:26:24,720 --> 03:26:27,920 Speaker 1: With all the new staff, we're just stuff. We're just 3847 03:26:28,040 --> 03:26:29,119 Speaker 1: we're just your objects. 3848 03:26:29,120 --> 03:26:29,720 Speaker 2: I got your new. 3849 03:26:29,760 --> 03:26:34,360 Speaker 1: Wizard staff, right you did? Yeah, you got your new 3850 03:26:34,360 --> 03:26:35,000 Speaker 1: wizard staff. 3851 03:26:35,920 --> 03:26:36,440 Speaker 5: Go with the bit. 3852 03:26:36,600 --> 03:26:38,600 Speaker 2: I was Aladdin for how welleen it once you did? 3853 03:26:40,600 --> 03:26:42,560 Speaker 2: Is this like an early two thousand halloweens. 3854 03:26:42,640 --> 03:26:42,840 Speaker 1: Yeah? 3855 03:26:42,959 --> 03:26:43,800 Speaker 2: Sure, why not? 3856 03:26:44,680 --> 03:26:47,680 Speaker 1: Let's still I have my story. Okay, get your story 3857 03:26:47,720 --> 03:26:50,039 Speaker 1: while I get the way that. I also, wait, were 3858 03:26:50,120 --> 03:26:53,200 Speaker 1: it getting the wheel? Yes, sir, it is about my. 3859 03:26:54,680 --> 03:26:55,520 Speaker 2: My phobia. 3860 03:26:55,800 --> 03:26:59,560 Speaker 1: So I have a phobia because I was when I 3861 03:26:59,720 --> 03:27:03,640 Speaker 1: was in kindergarten, I got stung in the face by 3862 03:27:03,720 --> 03:27:07,960 Speaker 1: a wasp, and ever since that happened, I've had a 3863 03:27:08,160 --> 03:27:11,080 Speaker 1: fear of like bee. It started as just like a 3864 03:27:11,120 --> 03:27:13,000 Speaker 1: fear of bees, anything that could sting, right, and I 3865 03:27:13,120 --> 03:27:15,800 Speaker 1: wasn't really afraid of other insects or anything like that, 3866 03:27:16,480 --> 03:27:19,400 Speaker 1: but it progressed into the fear of the noise that 3867 03:27:19,520 --> 03:27:23,360 Speaker 1: they make, the buzzing noise. So if I hear a 3868 03:27:23,480 --> 03:27:26,120 Speaker 1: noise in a certain frequency, like sometimes like I'll even 3869 03:27:26,160 --> 03:27:28,680 Speaker 1: be on like my balcony and someone will ride a 3870 03:27:28,760 --> 03:27:32,640 Speaker 1: bike pasted on the street, and the frequency like that, 3871 03:27:32,840 --> 03:27:35,680 Speaker 1: the sound of the tires on the bike makes like 3872 03:27:35,800 --> 03:27:38,160 Speaker 1: triggers me to like a like freak out, like I'll 3873 03:27:38,760 --> 03:27:40,279 Speaker 1: I'll get real sketchy and spazzy. 3874 03:27:40,320 --> 03:27:41,160 Speaker 2: I'll start freaking out. 3875 03:27:41,680 --> 03:27:44,120 Speaker 1: And when I worked for that company, the solar company, 3876 03:27:44,240 --> 03:27:47,520 Speaker 1: or I worked for a roofing company in Albuquerque, and 3877 03:27:47,640 --> 03:27:50,039 Speaker 1: I had to quit that job because it involved getting 3878 03:27:50,160 --> 03:27:53,199 Speaker 1: up on the roofs and getting down and I realized 3879 03:27:53,240 --> 03:27:57,000 Speaker 1: that if something flew past me at the wrong moment 3880 03:27:57,040 --> 03:27:58,920 Speaker 1: when I was by the edge of the roof, I 3881 03:27:58,959 --> 03:28:02,440 Speaker 1: could literally get I could fall to my death and 3882 03:28:02,600 --> 03:28:06,160 Speaker 1: die all because some stupid bug flew past my ear, 3883 03:28:06,600 --> 03:28:09,119 Speaker 1: and that would be the lamest way to ever go out. 3884 03:28:09,920 --> 03:28:12,520 Speaker 1: So I had to quit my job as a roof salesman, 3885 03:28:13,520 --> 03:28:16,840 Speaker 1: and I actually I moved out of Albuquerque shortly after that, 3886 03:28:17,720 --> 03:28:21,200 Speaker 1: and I still have not overcame that phobia. It is 3887 03:28:21,280 --> 03:28:23,760 Speaker 1: still a very real thing, and I wish I could 3888 03:28:23,920 --> 03:28:29,440 Speaker 1: undo it, but it's real hard to power through stay hard. 3889 03:28:29,600 --> 03:28:32,160 Speaker 1: And it's, like you said, like the phobia, it's it's 3890 03:28:32,640 --> 03:28:35,400 Speaker 1: it's an unreasonable fear. Like I can think, I can 3891 03:28:35,440 --> 03:28:37,480 Speaker 1: try to think about it as hard as possible, but 3892 03:28:37,600 --> 03:28:42,680 Speaker 1: it's still there, and it's so hard to overpower. Stay hard, Yeah, 3893 03:28:42,760 --> 03:28:46,840 Speaker 1: gotta stay hard, Gotta stay hard, Stay hard at bros. 3894 03:28:46,920 --> 03:28:49,879 Speaker 2: Rock hard rock, rock hard hard rock rock climbing gym. 3895 03:28:51,280 --> 03:28:53,160 Speaker 2: Oh wow? Is that yeah? Bros? 3896 03:28:53,240 --> 03:28:56,400 Speaker 1: Rock hard hard rock, climb rock climbing gym. That's the 3897 03:28:56,440 --> 03:29:00,520 Speaker 1: bit that I'm making, nice bit. You got to spin wheel, guys, 3898 03:29:01,040 --> 03:29:07,440 Speaker 1: let's spurn wheel. I'm gonna put it real, real hard. Yes, 3899 03:29:08,640 --> 03:29:10,800 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm gonna break something. Hold on, it's 3900 03:29:10,920 --> 03:29:14,960 Speaker 1: actually it's missing a post. It's missing a thing. See it, 3901 03:29:16,200 --> 03:29:16,840 Speaker 1: it's missing a. 3902 03:29:17,879 --> 03:29:20,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I said. I don't know. 3903 03:29:21,640 --> 03:29:27,720 Speaker 1: It's okay, you've probably spun it too hardy. 3904 03:29:27,800 --> 03:29:33,920 Speaker 2: Triggery with that five membership. So we're gonna do fifteen 3905 03:29:35,720 --> 03:29:38,200 Speaker 2: on If you go in the super chat on YouTube, 3906 03:29:38,600 --> 03:29:40,360 Speaker 2: you should be able to do that. Our card should 3907 03:29:40,360 --> 03:29:40,880 Speaker 2: be added there. 3908 03:29:41,000 --> 03:29:43,119 Speaker 1: I will do that right now while you guys wait 3909 03:29:43,120 --> 03:29:43,560 Speaker 1: a little bit. 3910 03:29:44,440 --> 03:29:44,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. 3911 03:29:45,120 --> 03:29:46,960 Speaker 1: Watch watch these boys eat food. 3912 03:29:47,640 --> 03:29:48,120 Speaker 2: Don't do that. 3913 03:29:48,400 --> 03:29:51,039 Speaker 4: So I'm sorry when I say hard I'm like really scared. 3914 03:29:51,080 --> 03:29:54,480 Speaker 4: This is gonna fall and break so you can't see 3915 03:29:55,080 --> 03:29:56,119 Speaker 4: it when you get. 3916 03:29:57,879 --> 03:29:57,920 Speaker 1: It. 3917 03:29:58,080 --> 03:30:00,880 Speaker 2: Hides my face. Yeah, we don't want your face hidden, 3918 03:30:00,879 --> 03:30:06,280 Speaker 2: all right, let me go get your there. We go, Yeah, 3919 03:30:06,320 --> 03:30:06,600 Speaker 2: talk to me. 3920 03:30:06,720 --> 03:30:08,440 Speaker 1: Let me put you on game now, put me on game. 3921 03:30:08,520 --> 03:30:11,800 Speaker 1: When you get a burrito bowl, right, do not always 3922 03:30:11,800 --> 03:30:13,800 Speaker 1: get it to go so that you can have the 3923 03:30:13,879 --> 03:30:16,879 Speaker 1: lid on it, and then you can shake. 3924 03:30:16,640 --> 03:30:20,840 Speaker 2: It up, shake it up, shake it, shake it, shake 3925 03:30:20,920 --> 03:30:26,240 Speaker 2: it up for you. Shut you, shake up, shake shake. 3926 03:30:27,720 --> 03:30:33,480 Speaker 1: And now your burrito bowl is at optimum mixed status 3927 03:30:35,240 --> 03:30:38,120 Speaker 1: and you don't even have to worry about everything falling out. 3928 03:30:39,520 --> 03:30:41,080 Speaker 1: It's the perfect way to eat a burrita ball. 3929 03:30:41,720 --> 03:30:46,320 Speaker 2: I like that. Yeah, do you have the YouTube in 3930 03:30:46,400 --> 03:30:50,280 Speaker 2: the super chat. Yes, so there should be if you 3931 03:30:50,360 --> 03:30:52,120 Speaker 2: go in the actual chat, there should be like a 3932 03:30:52,160 --> 03:30:55,960 Speaker 2: little like dollar sign. Uh, it's like a dollar sign 3933 03:30:56,040 --> 03:30:58,040 Speaker 2: in heart or something like that. I see the heart. 3934 03:30:58,600 --> 03:31:02,840 Speaker 2: Uh yeah, did you see the dollars sign? Anywhere? Do 3935 03:31:02,959 --> 03:31:03,320 Speaker 2: we say? 3936 03:31:03,760 --> 03:31:06,560 Speaker 1: Did someone just said one hundred dollars from mutual space 3937 03:31:06,680 --> 03:31:09,280 Speaker 1: drifter or where did that someone? 3938 03:31:10,360 --> 03:31:14,080 Speaker 2: Riley donated five dollars fifteen more minutes. He's probably in 3939 03:31:14,200 --> 03:31:18,760 Speaker 2: his room right now or something here. I'll go look 3940 03:31:18,760 --> 03:31:20,600 Speaker 2: at it with you, like to cut it? 3941 03:31:21,000 --> 03:31:24,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, I will now speak to the baby to 3942 03:31:24,280 --> 03:31:25,039 Speaker 1: destroy anything. 3943 03:31:25,360 --> 03:31:28,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. Now see now that's a mix that's nice and 3944 03:31:28,360 --> 03:31:32,240 Speaker 2: mixed up. Look at that. I won't say where it's from, 3945 03:31:32,800 --> 03:31:33,879 Speaker 2: but I will say that's how. 3946 03:31:33,800 --> 03:31:34,080 Speaker 4: You do it. 3947 03:31:37,440 --> 03:31:38,560 Speaker 2: And now we consume. 3948 03:31:41,879 --> 03:31:42,320 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. 3949 03:31:44,640 --> 03:31:48,200 Speaker 2: How's everyone's Uh, how's everyone's day? Oh? 3950 03:31:48,280 --> 03:31:51,160 Speaker 1: Apparently so apparently the dono link is busted again according 3951 03:31:51,160 --> 03:31:55,240 Speaker 1: to bree Me the horizon. Apparently it's being busted because 3952 03:31:56,160 --> 03:32:01,000 Speaker 1: uh we had a big, a big fat donation. Apparently 3953 03:32:02,000 --> 03:32:03,280 Speaker 1: that that has not gone through. 3954 03:32:03,480 --> 03:32:13,560 Speaker 2: Okay, we will look at that asoph is this brown rice? 3955 03:32:13,680 --> 03:32:22,280 Speaker 2: This tastes like white rice? No, that's brown. M mmm oh, 3956 03:32:23,640 --> 03:32:26,160 Speaker 2: I actually needed this so bad. I didn't realize how 3957 03:32:26,240 --> 03:32:26,920 Speaker 2: bad I needed this. 3958 03:32:31,480 --> 03:32:34,760 Speaker 1: Thank you, Stella, Della, You're always so nice to me. 3959 03:32:37,080 --> 03:32:39,880 Speaker 1: You're the best, Stella. We always love it when you're 3960 03:32:39,920 --> 03:32:40,680 Speaker 1: in the stream, Stella. 3961 03:32:41,360 --> 03:32:44,120 Speaker 2: Although I've been seeing Stella given a lot of a 3962 03:32:44,200 --> 03:32:49,360 Speaker 2: Dakota up today. That's what I've been saying every day. 3963 03:32:49,560 --> 03:32:52,400 Speaker 2: I love it, but like we love it. It seemed 3964 03:32:52,440 --> 03:32:55,400 Speaker 2: like it was just like Dakota, Dakota, Dakota. And now 3965 03:32:55,600 --> 03:32:59,040 Speaker 2: now the cakes are stealing shine a little bit. Sorry, 3966 03:33:00,160 --> 03:33:02,959 Speaker 2: the cakes be doing that out. We're trying to figure 3967 03:33:03,000 --> 03:33:05,360 Speaker 2: it out, all right. You can have two husbands, hard 3968 03:33:07,920 --> 03:33:12,400 Speaker 2: Riley tell him, Riley, tell him just to get a burrito. Thanks, Move, 3969 03:33:12,680 --> 03:33:14,760 Speaker 2: Move the to Winnie the Pooh's cousin. What do you 3970 03:33:14,840 --> 03:33:17,360 Speaker 2: user name? My god, that's an incredible user name. 3971 03:33:18,280 --> 03:33:22,520 Speaker 4: Okay, Well, I don't want to break anything just yet. Sorry, guys, 3972 03:33:23,200 --> 03:33:24,240 Speaker 4: still figuring it out. 3973 03:33:25,000 --> 03:33:31,400 Speaker 2: We will uh for sure gift those five uh next 3974 03:33:31,840 --> 03:33:37,480 Speaker 2: public stream for sure on Thursday. So if we can't 3975 03:33:37,520 --> 03:33:39,400 Speaker 2: get those in today, and then who is it that 3976 03:33:39,520 --> 03:33:43,040 Speaker 2: said that the tiplink didn't go through? I think bring 3977 03:33:43,120 --> 03:33:45,879 Speaker 2: me the horizon the Horizon was saying that the link 3978 03:33:46,000 --> 03:33:50,520 Speaker 2: is bring me the horizon. Somebody tried to donate. If 3979 03:33:50,600 --> 03:33:53,200 Speaker 2: it didn't, if it's bre or whoever it was, if 3980 03:33:53,240 --> 03:33:55,760 Speaker 2: it did not already charge you, and you want to 3981 03:33:55,840 --> 03:33:59,160 Speaker 2: do this, go ahead and go through and try it again, 3982 03:33:59,280 --> 03:34:02,760 Speaker 2: and if it's still doesn't work, let us know. In 3983 03:34:02,959 --> 03:34:07,760 Speaker 2: Riley's chat it was mutual space drift mutual space drifters. Yes, 3984 03:34:08,720 --> 03:34:10,760 Speaker 2: try it, try it again again. If it hasn't already 3985 03:34:10,879 --> 03:34:12,440 Speaker 2: charged you and you would like to do that to 3986 03:34:12,520 --> 03:34:13,000 Speaker 2: test it out. 3987 03:34:13,480 --> 03:34:13,600 Speaker 1: Uh. 3988 03:34:13,840 --> 03:34:17,320 Speaker 2: If that is the case, then maybe take a screenshot 3989 03:34:17,440 --> 03:34:23,000 Speaker 2: of it and send it to Riley's Riley's discord. 3990 03:34:22,680 --> 03:34:27,280 Speaker 1: Chat, reinforcements are on the way. Riley says, I'm coming back. 3991 03:34:27,400 --> 03:34:28,640 Speaker 1: Baby's We're on the way. 3992 03:34:29,520 --> 03:34:30,800 Speaker 2: He says he's coning back. 3993 03:34:31,200 --> 03:34:33,400 Speaker 1: Oh, coning back because he doesn't know how to type. 3994 03:34:34,879 --> 03:34:39,120 Speaker 2: Do you remember coning? I love that trend. No, I 3995 03:34:39,360 --> 03:34:42,519 Speaker 2: forgot about coning. It wasn't coding, great. 3996 03:34:42,760 --> 03:34:43,640 Speaker 3: Dude, it was. 3997 03:34:43,760 --> 03:34:47,440 Speaker 1: It all started with planking, bro, Yeah, it all evolved 3998 03:34:47,480 --> 03:34:48,240 Speaker 1: out of planking. 3999 03:34:48,720 --> 03:34:51,840 Speaker 2: What a time? That was a time? That was when 4000 03:34:51,879 --> 03:34:58,440 Speaker 2: did you guys graduate high school? We're old twenty fourteen 4001 03:34:58,920 --> 03:35:02,120 Speaker 2: fifteen dude, freaking child over here. 4002 03:35:02,480 --> 03:35:07,119 Speaker 4: I got held back in preschool because I didn't speak seriously. Oh, 4003 03:35:07,400 --> 03:35:09,800 Speaker 4: I didn't talk. I was very quiet. All I did 4004 03:35:09,920 --> 03:35:11,080 Speaker 4: was point and say hm hm. 4005 03:35:12,120 --> 03:35:13,039 Speaker 5: I mean listen. 4006 03:35:13,520 --> 03:35:16,920 Speaker 2: That's all you need to do, babe, you need to do. Yeah. 4007 03:35:16,959 --> 03:35:19,080 Speaker 2: I know. But my parents were not fond of that. 4008 03:35:19,440 --> 03:35:22,200 Speaker 1: They were like, uh, they're like, yo, talk, They're like, 4009 03:35:22,360 --> 03:35:23,960 Speaker 1: make him talk, make him talk. 4010 03:35:24,040 --> 03:35:27,080 Speaker 2: Oh he's here and he's really sweaty and wet. He's 4011 03:35:27,080 --> 03:35:30,760 Speaker 2: gonna come and touch me. Wow. Oh he's gonna guys. 4012 03:35:30,879 --> 03:35:33,480 Speaker 2: Our Savior has come to give the gifted memberships to 4013 03:35:33,600 --> 03:35:34,039 Speaker 2: the people. 4014 03:35:35,720 --> 03:35:36,040 Speaker 3: Let's go. 4015 03:35:36,600 --> 03:35:39,920 Speaker 2: I'll add an extra twenty five so you come here. 4016 03:35:41,520 --> 03:35:46,480 Speaker 2: We're doing it. Everyone waiting their years. Oh nice, nice, nice, Yeah, 4017 03:35:46,520 --> 03:35:49,640 Speaker 2: twenty nineteen, two thousand and seven. I graduated in twenty eleven, 4018 03:35:49,840 --> 03:35:52,760 Speaker 2: two thousand and two. Grandma bud No nineteen eighty nine. Yo, 4019 03:35:52,920 --> 03:35:55,760 Speaker 2: that's that's a throwback. Uh oh nine. 4020 03:35:56,480 --> 03:35:59,240 Speaker 1: I'm so jealous of people who like graduated high school 4021 03:35:59,360 --> 03:36:02,879 Speaker 1: in like there we go two thousands, because man, you're 4022 03:36:03,160 --> 03:36:03,960 Speaker 1: the best era. 4023 03:36:05,160 --> 03:36:08,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. Apparently the donation link is also not worrying right now. 4024 03:36:09,840 --> 03:36:12,039 Speaker 2: You have to fix that. I told it was miss 4025 03:36:12,520 --> 03:36:17,440 Speaker 2: was a mysterious Space Realms. This one mysterious? 4026 03:36:17,680 --> 03:36:18,000 Speaker 6: You do this? 4027 03:36:19,000 --> 03:36:19,280 Speaker 5: It was? 4028 03:36:19,520 --> 03:36:22,600 Speaker 2: Uh did you get did you that one? 4029 03:36:23,280 --> 03:36:23,440 Speaker 5: Oh? 4030 03:36:25,680 --> 03:36:31,120 Speaker 2: Here we go? No? Did you fresh refresh? You didn't? 4031 03:36:31,280 --> 03:36:33,520 Speaker 2: We did not? Oh I say, yeah, do that one? 4032 03:36:33,680 --> 03:36:38,560 Speaker 2: Yeah there we go? Oh shoot, oh boo there you 4033 03:36:38,600 --> 03:36:41,120 Speaker 2: would switch. Oh my god, Okay, let me read this one. 4034 03:36:41,240 --> 03:36:43,160 Speaker 2: A mutual space drifter thanks for one hundred bucks. We 4035 03:36:43,200 --> 03:36:44,840 Speaker 2: do see it. It came in thirty four minutes ago. 4036 03:36:45,280 --> 03:36:48,080 Speaker 2: If that wasn't the donation, let us know, and that 4037 03:36:48,120 --> 03:36:50,960 Speaker 2: should be counted in, right, Riley? Yeah, yeah, okay, cool, 4038 03:36:52,640 --> 03:36:55,320 Speaker 2: I'm gonna do the math where Riley's doing the math 4039 03:36:55,360 --> 03:36:58,600 Speaker 2: in double check. But a space drifter uh snoozed by 4040 03:36:58,680 --> 03:37:03,240 Speaker 2: bedtime alarm because Dakota smiley face. Things escalated and I 4041 03:37:03,440 --> 03:37:06,880 Speaker 2: ordered some wings no free sponsors. That's right, the good good. Uh, 4042 03:37:07,040 --> 03:37:09,280 Speaker 2: so we better get another thirty so I can enjoy 4043 03:37:09,320 --> 03:37:12,199 Speaker 2: Dakota while eating wings like a Neanderthal. 4044 03:37:15,800 --> 03:37:16,039 Speaker 1: Nice. 4045 03:37:16,400 --> 03:37:20,360 Speaker 2: I respect that highly. And then uh, and then we 4046 03:37:20,440 --> 03:37:22,920 Speaker 2: got this one. Dude, Oh my god, where'd you go? 4047 03:37:23,040 --> 03:37:23,560 Speaker 2: He was here? 4048 03:37:24,640 --> 03:37:24,879 Speaker 1: Yeah? 4049 03:37:25,760 --> 03:37:28,760 Speaker 2: Wow? Flip switch with ladies and gentlemen. Ladies and gentlemen, 4050 03:37:29,680 --> 03:37:32,560 Speaker 2: A one hundred dollars donation on the templing no less 4051 03:37:32,800 --> 03:37:42,640 Speaker 2: with the message hih, that's it, that's it. Wowhi, that's crazy. Hi, 4052 03:37:43,400 --> 03:37:46,720 Speaker 2: that's it. That is literally it. Guys, so funny. You 4053 03:37:46,760 --> 03:37:51,480 Speaker 2: guys are still here, dude, Wow, listen this dude. As 4054 03:37:51,560 --> 03:37:57,640 Speaker 2: soon as ones came out, Uh, I won my basketball game. Dude, 4055 03:37:57,680 --> 03:38:02,600 Speaker 2: we won the street yeah, oh, he said, he feels me. 4056 03:38:04,240 --> 03:38:04,360 Speaker 1: Right. 4057 03:38:05,920 --> 03:38:09,360 Speaker 2: A lot of rebound there. Cut it off the backboard 4058 03:38:09,440 --> 03:38:12,520 Speaker 2: with that. I don't know if we can show that. Yeah, 4059 03:38:13,200 --> 03:38:16,040 Speaker 2: take us down. We already did need a warning. Take 4060 03:38:16,120 --> 03:38:19,960 Speaker 2: us down if you want. We won the game, and 4061 03:38:20,080 --> 03:38:22,120 Speaker 2: the guys were like, you played really well, and they 4062 03:38:22,160 --> 03:38:23,080 Speaker 2: were like really impressed. 4063 03:38:24,240 --> 03:38:24,600 Speaker 3: Mm hmm. 4064 03:38:26,560 --> 03:38:31,800 Speaker 2: And then everyone clapped every time because they loved me. 4065 03:38:32,480 --> 03:38:34,000 Speaker 2: I heard that k can make it. Clap in the 4066 03:38:34,080 --> 03:38:36,600 Speaker 2: hands yep, jump jump go no, no. 4067 03:38:36,840 --> 03:38:37,720 Speaker 5: No, do it, do it? 4068 03:38:37,840 --> 03:38:39,360 Speaker 2: Do it? Do it? Do it? 4069 03:38:39,480 --> 03:38:42,520 Speaker 7: Do it, make hands up, put your hands up and 4070 03:38:42,600 --> 03:38:44,640 Speaker 7: jump a little bit. Jump it go go go go 4071 03:38:45,120 --> 03:38:46,760 Speaker 7: hey hey, jump it. 4072 03:38:47,440 --> 03:38:57,240 Speaker 2: Jump clap clapping, Yeah, my god, yeah, it was amazing. 4073 03:38:57,440 --> 03:38:59,400 Speaker 2: I was not prepared for that. 4074 03:39:00,760 --> 03:39:05,880 Speaker 9: Oh my god, Mama, Ellie, thanks for the five bucks. 4075 03:39:07,720 --> 03:39:11,200 Speaker 9: Oh you guys, no, no, we're not there yet right, 4076 03:39:11,959 --> 03:39:14,600 Speaker 9: are we maybe not not there? Bama ally thanks for 4077 03:39:14,640 --> 03:39:16,240 Speaker 9: the five bucks. We're so close, guys. 4078 03:39:16,360 --> 03:39:19,160 Speaker 2: Get in on this, guys, we'll see we got we 4079 03:39:19,240 --> 03:39:23,520 Speaker 2: got T minus two minutes T minus. Read me, the 4080 03:39:23,600 --> 03:39:27,200 Speaker 2: horizon just said you donated another twenty I think scroll 4081 03:39:27,240 --> 03:39:29,720 Speaker 2: down on the the hold on, hold on, Yeah, and 4082 03:39:29,760 --> 03:39:32,480 Speaker 2: we're double checking cofie the numbers and all that. Wait, wait, 4083 03:39:33,520 --> 03:39:38,440 Speaker 2: grandma's got a potty mouth. That's another five gifted membership. Yeah, 4084 03:39:38,480 --> 03:39:41,720 Speaker 2: five gifted pre donated twenty bucks more time. Mom saw that. 4085 03:39:41,959 --> 03:39:45,280 Speaker 2: Mammy got you. We freaking got you. 4086 03:39:45,480 --> 03:39:47,560 Speaker 1: Mama only said we're so close, guys, get on this, 4087 03:39:48,160 --> 03:39:52,760 Speaker 1: I mean eleven dollars away from another fifteen minutes of 4088 03:39:53,040 --> 03:39:54,000 Speaker 1: whatever this is? 4089 03:39:54,400 --> 03:39:59,880 Speaker 2: Oh and uh Ansley, I mean uh, I mean you 4090 03:40:00,400 --> 03:40:08,000 Speaker 2: and and Mina, thank you? Right, Welcome to the Nights, 4091 03:40:08,560 --> 03:40:11,240 Speaker 2: Join a membership. Let's freaking go. Let's freaking go. 4092 03:40:15,320 --> 03:40:15,640 Speaker 5: Breeze. 4093 03:40:15,680 --> 03:40:18,680 Speaker 2: Something donated one hundred and sixty bucks. We are what 4094 03:40:19,040 --> 03:40:24,600 Speaker 2: where showing up? Is it? Brit We're double checking everything. 4095 03:40:25,120 --> 03:40:27,280 Speaker 2: Another minute, there might be something we've missed. We are 4096 03:40:27,360 --> 03:40:28,000 Speaker 2: double checking. 4097 03:40:28,080 --> 03:40:30,120 Speaker 1: I'll add to see, I'll add two more minutes. 4098 03:40:30,320 --> 03:40:31,080 Speaker 2: What's gonna happen? 4099 03:40:31,520 --> 03:40:35,440 Speaker 1: Well, well there is. There's your fifteen awkward we go. 4100 03:40:35,560 --> 03:40:39,760 Speaker 2: Folks, awkward Turtle five gifted memberships. Wow, we're there. We're there, 4101 03:40:39,879 --> 03:40:42,200 Speaker 2: ladies and gentlemen. We are a fish. We have officially 4102 03:40:42,400 --> 03:40:46,560 Speaker 2: entered the late night stream. This is crazy. This is 4103 03:40:46,720 --> 03:40:50,280 Speaker 2: late Tuesday streams now two weeks in a row. We're 4104 03:40:50,440 --> 03:40:52,680 Speaker 2: absolutely nuts. We're going kind of dude. 4105 03:40:52,720 --> 03:40:57,879 Speaker 1: The Golden Guys, Golden Night, the gold the Golden gaggle 4106 03:40:57,879 --> 03:40:59,720 Speaker 1: of geese, the Golden gaggle. 4107 03:40:59,440 --> 03:41:09,520 Speaker 2: Of goats like Scoob, Like Scoob ready to make a sandwich. 4108 03:41:09,640 --> 03:41:17,000 Speaker 2: It's like possibly eat like well, like, why you're putting 4109 03:41:17,040 --> 03:41:21,640 Speaker 2: your finger there? School, raggy, raggy? Where am I? 4110 03:41:27,120 --> 03:41:27,280 Speaker 1: Guys? 4111 03:41:27,320 --> 03:41:29,120 Speaker 2: This is a late night stream. You know, you know 4112 03:41:29,200 --> 03:41:30,800 Speaker 2: what the vibes are like. If you've been here before, 4113 03:41:30,840 --> 03:41:32,440 Speaker 2: you know what the lives are He's he's eating a pedal, 4114 03:41:32,520 --> 03:41:35,160 Speaker 2: a piece of lettuce falling out of his mouth. Oh 4115 03:41:35,280 --> 03:41:46,360 Speaker 2: my goodness, An Bella West Berlin, thanks for the eleven dollars. Here, 4116 03:41:46,440 --> 03:41:48,800 Speaker 2: we'll get it. We'll get another story ready for the people. 4117 03:41:49,360 --> 03:41:51,800 Speaker 4: My god, hold on, yeah, hold on, let me just refresh. 4118 03:41:53,320 --> 03:41:56,120 Speaker 4: Oh please get a tablet so that it's easier to read. 4119 03:41:56,200 --> 03:42:00,360 Speaker 2: These stories we try and which by the way, uh 4120 03:42:00,600 --> 03:42:04,000 Speaker 2: switch switch screens to the reading screen. The phone did 4121 03:42:04,080 --> 03:42:08,280 Speaker 2: just close? Wait? 4122 03:42:08,400 --> 03:42:11,320 Speaker 1: Okay, hold on, kelk oh my, there's too much. 4123 03:42:11,200 --> 03:42:14,800 Speaker 2: Things going on. I believe in you. Wow, now he's 4124 03:42:14,800 --> 03:42:16,960 Speaker 2: got it. I believe in him. I have no food 4125 03:42:17,000 --> 03:42:19,879 Speaker 2: in me since oh yeah, eat food? Actually yeah, just kidding. 4126 03:42:20,640 --> 03:42:25,120 Speaker 1: All right, he's doing math. But Grandma, thank you. 4127 03:42:27,320 --> 03:42:31,480 Speaker 2: Hold on, You're all so beautiful and giving me. Love 4128 03:42:31,560 --> 03:42:34,320 Speaker 2: you all. Thanks, Ranma's got a potty out. We love 4129 03:42:34,360 --> 03:42:38,080 Speaker 2: you even if you haven't donated, we love you. We 4130 03:42:38,200 --> 03:42:41,600 Speaker 2: love you all. Smile for me. Just go eat. Wait, 4131 03:42:41,680 --> 03:42:43,959 Speaker 2: my mouth is full, I got it, that's why can 4132 03:42:44,120 --> 03:42:46,840 Speaker 2: it's hipped fifty? What is going on? 4133 03:42:52,879 --> 03:42:53,000 Speaker 1: Right? 4134 03:42:54,000 --> 03:42:57,040 Speaker 2: Thank you? All right, we're summing in. We're summing in. Coaches, back, 4135 03:42:57,240 --> 03:42:59,800 Speaker 2: hold on, there's so much going on coaches. Thank you 4136 03:43:00,040 --> 03:43:01,080 Speaker 2: Hannah for the fifty. 4137 03:43:01,680 --> 03:43:04,160 Speaker 1: Thank you. Grandma's got a potty mouthed for the twenty five. 4138 03:43:05,120 --> 03:43:08,160 Speaker 1: There are other ones that are up there. I can't 4139 03:43:08,200 --> 03:43:09,680 Speaker 1: read them right now, but thank. 4140 03:43:09,560 --> 03:43:15,000 Speaker 2: You so much. You guys are the best. Who's reading? Well, 4141 03:43:15,080 --> 03:43:18,119 Speaker 2: let's get this back on track. I think John's switching. 4142 03:43:18,240 --> 03:43:21,120 Speaker 2: John eating my entire bowls of I'm getting. I'm getting 4143 03:43:21,200 --> 03:43:22,879 Speaker 2: mouth holes as I can. No, no, no, no, let 4144 03:43:23,240 --> 03:43:25,680 Speaker 2: John eat you get one bog mouthful? Everyone see what 4145 03:43:25,800 --> 03:43:27,400 Speaker 2: I want them to eat? Okay, one more? One more? 4146 03:43:28,760 --> 03:43:30,200 Speaker 2: What's the uh? What's the uh? 4147 03:43:30,440 --> 03:43:30,480 Speaker 1: Or? 4148 03:43:30,560 --> 03:43:32,040 Speaker 2: Can you switch to the reading screen real quick? I 4149 03:43:32,080 --> 03:43:36,040 Speaker 2: want to see, Oh, I got it? And then let's 4150 03:43:36,040 --> 03:43:39,160 Speaker 2: see this one that we just read was one, So 4151 03:43:39,200 --> 03:43:40,960 Speaker 2: I'm gonna go to nine seventy one S two. We 4152 03:43:41,040 --> 03:43:43,080 Speaker 2: got another. We're cueuing it up, ladies and gentlemen. I'm 4153 03:43:43,080 --> 03:43:46,160 Speaker 2: getting your stories back on track, you guys, we're getting 4154 03:43:46,200 --> 03:43:50,880 Speaker 2: it ready. Sorry, gentlemen, I thought you ended up getting 4155 03:43:50,879 --> 03:43:53,640 Speaker 2: the same thing. That's that's that's my bee. That's a 4156 03:43:53,680 --> 03:43:56,600 Speaker 2: big John b right there. Nice hair cut, thanks guys. 4157 03:43:56,760 --> 03:44:00,320 Speaker 2: Here we go, right, our boys so handsome. And then 4158 03:44:00,360 --> 03:44:03,240 Speaker 2: I like because I wanted to see how far the 4159 03:44:03,320 --> 03:44:09,160 Speaker 2: guard would go. Hello Riley, Hello, big protein. Hello? Should 4160 03:44:09,440 --> 03:44:14,640 Speaker 2: we do another one hundred? Dude? Y'all? Are chat is 4161 03:44:14,800 --> 03:44:19,720 Speaker 2: feral tonight? Shat is absolutely feral tonight. Okay, cool, here 4162 03:44:19,760 --> 03:44:19,920 Speaker 2: we go. 4163 03:44:20,400 --> 03:44:22,120 Speaker 7: Can you click through just a little bit more, just 4164 03:44:22,200 --> 03:44:25,040 Speaker 7: like do a yeah, yeah, click a little bit. You 4165 03:44:25,120 --> 03:44:28,640 Speaker 7: can do the plus sign. Oh wait, the plus click 4166 03:44:28,680 --> 03:44:33,480 Speaker 7: click volume, the volume on your finger. Do the other way, 4167 03:44:33,760 --> 03:44:36,440 Speaker 7: just do a lot the other way. Wait, make it, 4168 03:44:36,560 --> 03:44:39,160 Speaker 7: I'm gonnaet this. Sorry, I'm trying to Readjust it just 4169 03:44:39,200 --> 03:44:40,720 Speaker 7: like click through it a lot, just all the way. 4170 03:44:40,760 --> 03:44:42,560 Speaker 2: Click click click click click. Yeah, just keep doing that. 4171 03:44:43,760 --> 03:44:45,480 Speaker 2: All right, you're good now go back to. 4172 03:44:48,160 --> 03:44:48,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. 4173 03:44:48,520 --> 03:44:50,960 Speaker 7: Thanks, thanks John, Okay, we're good to go. We're gonna 4174 03:44:50,959 --> 03:44:51,840 Speaker 7: read stories right now. 4175 03:44:52,080 --> 03:44:54,120 Speaker 2: Boom, let's do it. Okay, pop it on. And this 4176 03:44:54,240 --> 03:44:56,640 Speaker 2: is the right one? That is is this a new 4177 03:44:56,680 --> 03:45:02,480 Speaker 2: mega episode hour ago? This is S two? I believe 4178 03:45:02,760 --> 03:45:05,360 Speaker 2: S two. Wow, you guys, don't you guys have been 4179 03:45:05,360 --> 03:45:06,640 Speaker 2: on this one for a while. All right, go for it, 4180 03:45:06,920 --> 03:45:10,400 Speaker 2: all right, let's do it. My sister is a golden child, 4181 03:45:10,840 --> 03:45:16,000 Speaker 2: but she's adopted. Oh good, I mean okay. When I, 4182 03:45:16,280 --> 03:45:19,240 Speaker 2: twenty seven male, was three, my parents fifty one male 4183 03:45:19,280 --> 03:45:23,200 Speaker 2: and forty nine female, adopted my new born sister. Uh. 4184 03:45:23,440 --> 03:45:27,240 Speaker 2: She is deaf and learned to read lips incredibly well. 4185 03:45:27,600 --> 03:45:30,400 Speaker 2: She also got better grades and had more friends. I 4186 03:45:30,520 --> 03:45:33,080 Speaker 2: had a few while she uh, I had a few 4187 03:45:33,240 --> 03:45:37,800 Speaker 2: while she was very social despite her disabilities then me 4188 03:45:37,920 --> 03:45:41,120 Speaker 2: as a child, and my parents always called her the 4189 03:45:41,240 --> 03:45:44,240 Speaker 2: best gift they could have asked for quote unquotes. By 4190 03:45:44,280 --> 03:45:49,120 Speaker 2: the way, this comes from user ok height sixty six 4191 03:45:49,400 --> 03:45:51,560 Speaker 2: twenty eight. Oh we just got another big one. Oh 4192 03:45:51,600 --> 03:45:58,800 Speaker 2: my gosh, Oh my gosh, whoa. 4193 03:46:00,240 --> 03:46:07,240 Speaker 1: Happening ninety nine ninety nine from carriza Ue. 4194 03:46:07,360 --> 03:46:12,240 Speaker 2: Wow, thank you. I'm speechful, dude. No rock climbing for 4195 03:46:12,400 --> 03:46:19,119 Speaker 2: me tonight. Yep, right there. Literally when uh when when 4196 03:46:19,280 --> 03:46:21,480 Speaker 2: Keon started on his first day, We're like going through everything. 4197 03:46:21,520 --> 03:46:24,000 Speaker 2: It's like, oh yeah, yeah. The long streams, you know, 4198 03:46:24,160 --> 03:46:26,360 Speaker 2: they usually don't go that long. Guys. We haven't had 4199 03:46:26,400 --> 03:46:28,360 Speaker 2: a stream like this and literally, like Riley, what like 4200 03:46:28,440 --> 03:46:32,480 Speaker 2: three four five months month month, like damn near half 4201 03:46:32,560 --> 03:46:37,520 Speaker 2: a year we have. Dude, your games have brob take 4202 03:46:37,560 --> 03:46:40,840 Speaker 2: a sup for now on every single day every day, 4203 03:46:40,959 --> 03:46:44,320 Speaker 2: suit Yep, yep. Clap them cheeks, go go cop them go. 4204 03:46:52,280 --> 03:46:54,680 Speaker 2: Oh man, that's what you get. Did you read this 4205 03:46:54,760 --> 03:46:57,320 Speaker 2: one the fifty one and then flip switched to wait, 4206 03:46:57,440 --> 03:47:02,400 Speaker 2: flip switched what with fifty bucks? Fifty bucks? Thanks you, guys. 4207 03:47:02,480 --> 03:47:05,080 Speaker 1: I watched the videos on Facebook or play the podcast 4208 03:47:05,160 --> 03:47:07,120 Speaker 1: to fill the time while doing stuff around the house. 4209 03:47:07,400 --> 03:47:10,960 Speaker 2: It makes every day a bit better, dude. Welcome to 4210 03:47:11,080 --> 03:47:15,240 Speaker 2: the Live family flip switch, just red carpet. What the heck, guys, 4211 03:47:15,480 --> 03:47:21,560 Speaker 2: open arm, You've the best community like ever. No, no, no, no, 4212 03:47:21,720 --> 03:47:23,840 Speaker 2: you're keeping that all unless I see those cakes. Those 4213 03:47:23,920 --> 03:47:24,560 Speaker 2: pants stay on. 4214 03:47:26,560 --> 03:47:29,680 Speaker 7: Yeah, of course we're surging to attaching the suit to you. Also, 4215 03:47:29,720 --> 03:47:30,959 Speaker 7: we're gonna get back to the story. 4216 03:47:31,360 --> 03:47:36,640 Speaker 2: Yes, sir, all right. So they hated her and gave 4217 03:47:36,720 --> 03:47:37,680 Speaker 2: her everything she asked for. 4218 03:47:38,360 --> 03:47:38,480 Speaker 12: Uh. 4219 03:47:38,640 --> 03:47:40,440 Speaker 2: They both made a lot of money and sent her 4220 03:47:40,520 --> 03:47:42,800 Speaker 2: to a very nice private school, while I went to 4221 03:47:42,920 --> 03:47:46,320 Speaker 2: a weekly funded public school two blocks from my house, 4222 03:47:46,560 --> 03:47:49,720 Speaker 2: weekly funded at that wow. When I was eleven, I 4223 03:47:49,840 --> 03:47:51,520 Speaker 2: was made fun of and bullied by a kid in 4224 03:47:51,600 --> 03:47:54,240 Speaker 2: my class, and my father told me to toughen up. 4225 03:47:54,680 --> 03:47:56,800 Speaker 2: I went to my teacher, who filed a report to 4226 03:47:56,879 --> 03:48:00,200 Speaker 2: the principal. We didn't do much later, and my mother 4227 03:48:00,400 --> 03:48:02,680 Speaker 2: called me weak for going to my teacher to talk 4228 03:48:02,720 --> 03:48:03,400 Speaker 2: about a bully. 4229 03:48:04,400 --> 03:48:08,039 Speaker 1: Dude, that's that sounds like some good, old classic parenting 4230 03:48:08,160 --> 03:48:08,440 Speaker 1: right there. 4231 03:48:08,600 --> 03:48:12,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, old classic parenting. You should have just punched him 4232 03:48:12,560 --> 03:48:18,920 Speaker 2: in the throat. Oh my god, dude, what the hell? 4233 03:48:20,640 --> 03:48:21,000 Speaker 3: Avery? 4234 03:48:21,959 --> 03:48:22,039 Speaker 1: Uh? 4235 03:48:22,480 --> 03:48:26,879 Speaker 2: Thanks for the hundred bucks on the tipling never ending 4236 03:48:27,040 --> 03:48:35,080 Speaker 2: stream Golden Goblins. Oh that's true. That's the sound. The 4237 03:48:35,160 --> 03:48:39,160 Speaker 2: fact that I sound like like wa Luigi or something. Wow, 4238 03:48:40,080 --> 03:48:41,800 Speaker 2: it's just maybe being a little goblin. 4239 03:48:42,760 --> 03:48:54,840 Speaker 1: Goblins laugh, they laugh likeblin nuts. Guys, we're getting fair, 4240 03:48:56,600 --> 03:48:57,280 Speaker 1: we're getting feral. 4241 03:48:57,640 --> 03:49:02,400 Speaker 2: We've reached that bad Anyways, back to the story. Yeah, 4242 03:49:03,000 --> 03:49:06,680 Speaker 2: so my father called me meek for going to my 4243 03:49:06,760 --> 03:49:07,600 Speaker 2: teacher about a bully. 4244 03:49:07,760 --> 03:49:12,960 Speaker 13: Yes, so the birthday parties for me were not really parties, 4245 03:49:13,440 --> 03:49:16,480 Speaker 13: but where I asked them my favorite dinner and they 4246 03:49:16,600 --> 03:49:17,800 Speaker 13: reluctantly agreed. 4247 03:49:18,640 --> 03:49:22,320 Speaker 2: Oh god, were they did parties? Trial? 4248 03:49:22,840 --> 03:49:26,759 Speaker 1: Yeah, the best of agreement is always a reluctant agreement. 4249 03:49:26,440 --> 03:49:30,080 Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, Oh my god, dude, what's happening right now? 4250 03:49:30,760 --> 03:49:35,440 Speaker 2: Jesus Christ. So my sister, My sister received massive parties 4251 03:49:35,800 --> 03:49:38,880 Speaker 2: or shut up rightly, where my parents typically got her 4252 03:49:38,960 --> 03:49:41,880 Speaker 2: round ten expensive gifts on top of everything else. They 4253 03:49:42,000 --> 03:49:45,400 Speaker 2: funded her college education in full, while they had told 4254 03:49:45,480 --> 03:49:47,680 Speaker 2: me to make do with the tiny bits of money 4255 03:49:47,760 --> 03:49:49,760 Speaker 2: they gave me for chores that I had been saving. 4256 03:49:50,840 --> 03:49:53,280 Speaker 1: Dude, this is this sounds like a real like Harry 4257 03:49:53,400 --> 03:49:57,920 Speaker 1: Potter under the stairs type scenario. That is exactly except 4258 03:49:58,000 --> 03:50:01,200 Speaker 1: he was the one who was adopted, but not the gold. 4259 03:50:01,320 --> 03:50:06,800 Speaker 1: This is the reverse flip flopped. Oh my gosh, probably 4260 03:50:06,880 --> 03:50:09,040 Speaker 1: I can live with that o ogua. 4261 03:50:09,760 --> 03:50:13,360 Speaker 2: But more recently they have asked me, uh, straight to 4262 03:50:13,480 --> 03:50:19,360 Speaker 2: my face, why I wasn't intelligent, social and successful as 4263 03:50:19,440 --> 03:50:22,920 Speaker 2: my sister. Mind you, I make twenty thousand dollars more 4264 03:50:22,960 --> 03:50:25,160 Speaker 2: than her with no degree a month or a year, 4265 03:50:25,200 --> 03:50:27,680 Speaker 2: because those are two different numbers. Almost certainly a year, 4266 03:50:27,680 --> 03:50:36,960 Speaker 2: I'm guessing. Yeah, I just think that they like her 4267 03:50:37,080 --> 03:50:40,280 Speaker 2: better than you. That's the only explanation. It's just a sick, 4268 03:50:40,480 --> 03:50:44,520 Speaker 2: twisted thing of yeah, like they whatever, and like have 4269 03:50:44,640 --> 03:50:47,440 Speaker 2: different people latch onto different things. But like it's like 4270 03:50:47,520 --> 03:50:51,160 Speaker 2: it's so sad because it's like, damn it, Riley, Like. 4271 03:50:52,840 --> 03:50:54,720 Speaker 1: It's like I feel like the parents are kind of 4272 03:50:54,880 --> 03:50:58,920 Speaker 1: treating them like they're like Pokemon, and it's like you're 4273 03:50:59,000 --> 03:51:01,200 Speaker 1: just the starter Pokemon that like comes with the game, 4274 03:51:01,960 --> 03:51:06,360 Speaker 1: and then your adopted sibling is like the cool legendary 4275 03:51:06,400 --> 03:51:09,960 Speaker 1: Pokemon that you you don't always get and you ignore 4276 03:51:10,000 --> 03:51:12,360 Speaker 1: all all of your other great cards that that served 4277 03:51:12,400 --> 03:51:18,240 Speaker 1: you so well. Yeah, because's deaf and overcame it, which 4278 03:51:18,320 --> 03:51:20,160 Speaker 1: is cooler of a backstory. 4279 03:51:20,280 --> 03:51:22,960 Speaker 2: It's like it's like the arc it's so close because 4280 03:51:22,960 --> 03:51:26,160 Speaker 2: It's like, here's parents, like, you know, giving giving this 4281 03:51:26,320 --> 03:51:31,640 Speaker 2: kid an amazing life, who who is deaf? But then 4282 03:51:31,720 --> 03:51:35,720 Speaker 2: they just like do this to their their other daughter. Yeah, 4283 03:51:36,000 --> 03:51:40,440 Speaker 2: what's going on? Anyways? So recently she got engaged to 4284 03:51:40,480 --> 03:51:43,000 Speaker 2: a guy I'm who I'm currently good friends with and 4285 03:51:43,160 --> 03:51:45,960 Speaker 2: even learned sign language for my sister early in their relationship. 4286 03:51:46,120 --> 03:51:49,440 Speaker 2: That is cute. They held dinner party where they openly 4287 03:51:49,520 --> 03:51:51,600 Speaker 2: talked about how they wish they had another golden child 4288 03:51:51,680 --> 03:51:57,440 Speaker 2: like my sister. What is wrong with each other? Riley? 4289 03:51:57,920 --> 03:52:00,880 Speaker 2: Riley's broke, Riley's somehow more broke in the nuts and 4290 03:52:01,040 --> 03:52:03,240 Speaker 2: we've been in the stream, I've been running. 4291 03:52:03,280 --> 03:52:03,840 Speaker 1: No, did you get it? 4292 03:52:03,920 --> 03:52:12,840 Speaker 2: It said? Sounds nice? Oh it sounds nice. Yeah yeah, okay, 4293 03:52:13,360 --> 03:52:18,640 Speaker 2: so I shook the entire room. Oh yeah, classic Riley 4294 03:52:18,720 --> 03:52:23,400 Speaker 2: tables laugh for you. So then they oh, so they 4295 03:52:23,440 --> 03:52:25,680 Speaker 2: held a dinner party where they openly talked about how 4296 03:52:25,720 --> 03:52:29,720 Speaker 2: they wish they had another golden child like my sister. Dude, 4297 03:52:30,320 --> 03:52:32,680 Speaker 2: then they asked me why I couldn't be like her. 4298 03:52:33,320 --> 03:52:35,720 Speaker 2: I got up and asked to talk to them outside. 4299 03:52:37,240 --> 03:52:38,680 Speaker 2: What's what's what's wrong with you? 4300 03:52:39,080 --> 03:52:41,920 Speaker 1: Because I just imagine that like she's like I got 4301 03:52:42,080 --> 03:52:47,600 Speaker 1: up and then immediately like made myself death like that. 4302 03:52:48,240 --> 03:52:50,960 Speaker 1: That's what I'm where my brain went. It's like, fine, 4303 03:52:51,000 --> 03:52:52,680 Speaker 1: you want another golden child, you have. 4304 03:52:54,400 --> 03:52:54,880 Speaker 2: Right now. 4305 03:52:55,120 --> 03:52:55,880 Speaker 5: Oh my god. 4306 03:52:56,680 --> 03:53:00,440 Speaker 2: So I don't have to listen to this nonsense. Oh 4307 03:53:00,520 --> 03:53:03,640 Speaker 2: it's a late stream ladies and gentlemen. So I got 4308 03:53:03,760 --> 03:53:06,360 Speaker 2: up and asked to talk to them outside. I told 4309 03:53:06,400 --> 03:53:08,560 Speaker 2: them that they were all neglectful a holes who never 4310 03:53:08,680 --> 03:53:11,840 Speaker 2: cared about me. Yes, and that they and that they 4311 03:53:12,000 --> 03:53:14,800 Speaker 2: were bad parrots. Yes. I then argued with them further, 4312 03:53:15,200 --> 03:53:17,120 Speaker 2: and they said that they were simply trying to make 4313 03:53:17,200 --> 03:53:20,440 Speaker 2: her feel better about her disability. By the end of 4314 03:53:20,480 --> 03:53:23,880 Speaker 2: the argument, they admitted that they never wanted a sun 4315 03:53:24,640 --> 03:53:27,960 Speaker 2: and always wanted a child who would impress people and 4316 03:53:28,080 --> 03:53:33,000 Speaker 2: who would make them look good. Now we've see there 4317 03:53:33,080 --> 03:53:35,000 Speaker 2: we go, and it's exactly what I was on. 4318 03:53:35,200 --> 03:53:38,160 Speaker 1: PA co'mon children, and all I can do is sound great, Yeah, 4319 03:53:39,440 --> 03:53:42,080 Speaker 1: I want the shiny Pokemon. You're not a shiny Pokemon. 4320 03:53:42,120 --> 03:53:46,360 Speaker 1: You're a starter, all right. Look at that, that's a 4321 03:53:46,480 --> 03:53:51,000 Speaker 1: rare Pokemon. Look at him, got long as hair is. 4322 03:53:53,040 --> 03:53:55,040 Speaker 1: You don't just find that walking around? 4323 03:53:56,240 --> 03:54:02,880 Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, you don't. Of course, it's the 4324 03:54:03,000 --> 03:54:10,360 Speaker 2: Golden Stream. We're still here. It actually happens. It actually, guys, 4325 03:54:10,400 --> 03:54:14,800 Speaker 2: it hat on. Now this will cause the stream to 4326 03:54:14,840 --> 03:54:21,600 Speaker 2: go even more peral. You guys are going wild today. Yeah, 4327 03:54:22,400 --> 03:54:25,000 Speaker 2: it was all because of Kean's cake in the suit 4328 03:54:28,520 --> 03:54:31,720 Speaker 2: that is here. It is on, but we can't get 4329 03:54:31,760 --> 03:54:32,240 Speaker 2: a camera on you. 4330 03:54:32,440 --> 03:54:32,680 Speaker 3: Sorry. 4331 03:54:35,240 --> 03:54:39,800 Speaker 2: We were climbing from rock climbing. Any new any new babies, 4332 03:54:39,920 --> 03:54:50,400 Speaker 2: any new babies. My hands are unfortunately smooth. So, uh, 4333 03:54:51,040 --> 03:54:56,640 Speaker 2: Opie's not the Golden Child. The Golden child is a deaf, 4334 03:54:56,800 --> 03:54:59,680 Speaker 2: a deaf girl their parents adopted. Oh it was so 4335 03:55:01,480 --> 03:55:06,480 Speaker 2: and Opie just found out that the reason why their 4336 03:55:06,600 --> 03:55:10,120 Speaker 2: adopted sibling is the Golden Child is because the parents 4337 03:55:10,760 --> 03:55:14,280 Speaker 2: want A didn't want a son, and B wanted a 4338 03:55:14,560 --> 03:55:17,520 Speaker 2: child to make them look good. So it's like, oh, oh, 4339 03:55:17,640 --> 03:55:20,280 Speaker 2: they saved this this deaf orphan and they did so 4340 03:55:20,440 --> 03:55:22,120 Speaker 2: much and they paid for their school while they made 4341 03:55:22,200 --> 03:55:23,680 Speaker 2: op live on scrap clout. 4342 03:55:23,720 --> 03:55:26,720 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, they're like, here's my deaf orphan. 4343 03:55:26,880 --> 03:55:31,080 Speaker 2: Yeah exactly, Like have you met our deaf orphan clout? 4344 03:55:31,200 --> 03:55:33,480 Speaker 5: Children are crazy, But I'm kind of convinced that, like 4345 03:55:33,640 --> 03:55:38,240 Speaker 5: a lot of celebrities adopt for Clout of course the first. 4346 03:55:38,880 --> 03:55:41,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was the They were like, we're gonna adopt 4347 03:55:41,560 --> 03:55:42,360 Speaker 1: sixteen of them. 4348 03:55:43,000 --> 03:55:46,000 Speaker 2: That's way too many, too many, like like. 4349 03:55:47,680 --> 03:55:48,360 Speaker 3: A clinic. 4350 03:55:48,560 --> 03:55:53,600 Speaker 2: No, Frank Donner, what another celebrity that adopted for Clout? 4351 03:55:55,000 --> 03:55:58,920 Speaker 5: What adopted a matching set? 4352 03:56:01,240 --> 03:56:05,480 Speaker 3: Like they say that you can't give love to more 4353 03:56:05,560 --> 03:56:07,200 Speaker 3: than like two children. 4354 03:56:08,280 --> 03:56:11,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, we have love to more than like I agree 4355 03:56:11,120 --> 03:56:15,160 Speaker 2: with that, but it like it dilutes. I agree with 4356 03:56:15,200 --> 03:56:15,800 Speaker 2: that because my. 4357 03:56:15,880 --> 03:56:18,120 Speaker 7: Parents had me and my brothers, my kid brother's like 4358 03:56:18,120 --> 03:56:21,160 Speaker 7: twelve years apart, and certain brothers know how to play 4359 03:56:21,200 --> 03:56:22,960 Speaker 7: the guitar and violin and other brothers don't. 4360 03:56:23,200 --> 03:56:26,040 Speaker 1: I have one question though, were your parents Brad Pitt 4361 03:56:26,040 --> 03:56:30,840 Speaker 1: and Angelina Jolie. Yes, No, I mean like that they 4362 03:56:30,960 --> 03:56:33,759 Speaker 1: have more love to give, so talenting. 4363 03:56:35,520 --> 03:56:35,800 Speaker 5: They do. 4364 03:56:36,800 --> 03:56:40,840 Speaker 2: They can act okay, right exactly he gets mistaken for 4365 03:56:40,920 --> 03:56:44,400 Speaker 2: Brad Pitt. Sam's dad does. Oh yeah, it's like a lot, 4366 03:56:44,600 --> 03:56:47,960 Speaker 2: like a lot Wowley telling me to go back to 4367 03:56:48,040 --> 03:56:52,280 Speaker 2: the story. Okay. So I left angrily, and they told 4368 03:56:52,360 --> 03:56:54,320 Speaker 2: my best friend about it, who said that it was 4369 03:56:54,400 --> 03:56:56,400 Speaker 2: good that I standed up to them, that I stood 4370 03:56:56,480 --> 03:56:58,880 Speaker 2: up to them. However, the rest of my family, excluding 4371 03:56:58,920 --> 03:57:02,160 Speaker 2: my sister believed that I was an ungrateful whiney bee 4372 03:57:02,520 --> 03:57:06,280 Speaker 2: who never appreciates, who never appreciated what I had. Of course, 4373 03:57:06,360 --> 03:57:09,040 Speaker 2: this is years after my parents of telling them lies, 4374 03:57:09,800 --> 03:57:12,400 Speaker 2: after they told them a twisted version of the conversation 4375 03:57:12,480 --> 03:57:17,280 Speaker 2: as well. So am I the a hole for losing 4376 03:57:17,360 --> 03:57:20,680 Speaker 2: it at my parents for treating my sister much better 4377 03:57:20,760 --> 03:57:24,360 Speaker 2: than me for years and thinking of me as less 4378 03:57:24,400 --> 03:57:27,600 Speaker 2: than her. Funny, how big it is? 4379 03:57:30,400 --> 03:57:32,960 Speaker 3: No, it's so funny. How big the text is on 4380 03:57:33,080 --> 03:57:33,920 Speaker 3: the phone. 4381 03:57:36,920 --> 03:57:40,320 Speaker 2: Is funny. He's getting a kick out of how large big. 4382 03:57:41,360 --> 03:57:46,960 Speaker 2: Oh my god, what my dad reads Huge shoes? This 4383 03:57:47,080 --> 03:57:49,760 Speaker 2: is huge shoes. Wait till you see what the notion 4384 03:57:49,920 --> 03:57:53,440 Speaker 2: looks like as of right now. Oh my gosh. So 4385 03:57:53,600 --> 03:57:56,160 Speaker 2: we have some relevant comments. But yeah, shall we discuss 4386 03:57:56,840 --> 03:57:57,880 Speaker 2: your monster. 4387 03:57:58,480 --> 03:58:02,040 Speaker 1: For not just like fully accepting that you're the beta 4388 03:58:02,160 --> 03:58:05,760 Speaker 1: in this relationship and this parental No, I'm just kidding, 4389 03:58:05,880 --> 03:58:06,520 Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. 4390 03:58:06,920 --> 03:58:10,040 Speaker 2: I'm just kidding. I don't know. 4391 03:58:10,120 --> 03:58:13,320 Speaker 1: It is pretty unfortunate that the parents, like, we're treating 4392 03:58:13,360 --> 03:58:20,280 Speaker 1: you like pokemon, but like, uh, I don't know. 4393 03:58:20,520 --> 03:58:23,920 Speaker 2: I think what you should do is, like, despite. 4394 03:58:23,520 --> 03:58:26,520 Speaker 1: Your the shortcomings of your parents, is maybe try to 4395 03:58:26,600 --> 03:58:29,320 Speaker 1: have a good, healthy relationship with your sister. 4396 03:58:29,680 --> 03:58:34,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, we actually haven't gotten Opie's friends with her sister's 4397 03:58:34,720 --> 03:58:39,640 Speaker 2: now fiance I believe, or partner. Yeah, just work, which 4398 03:58:39,640 --> 03:58:41,560 Speaker 2: is great. Remove the bad. 4399 03:58:41,720 --> 03:58:43,800 Speaker 1: I feel like the bad element is the parents sort 4400 03:58:43,840 --> 03:58:48,440 Speaker 1: of hitting you against her just by the nature of 4401 03:58:48,800 --> 03:58:52,160 Speaker 1: favoring her all the time. But now you know you're 4402 03:58:52,200 --> 03:58:54,480 Speaker 1: not kids anymore. It's like you can remove that from 4403 03:58:54,520 --> 03:58:58,040 Speaker 1: the equation and just enjoy your It sounds like she 4404 03:58:58,320 --> 03:58:59,360 Speaker 1: is pretty cool. 4405 03:59:00,080 --> 03:59:03,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, enjoy that. I think that's I think that's a 4406 03:59:03,400 --> 03:59:07,400 Speaker 2: good plan, honestly, and hopefully that just like without any 4407 03:59:07,480 --> 03:59:09,920 Speaker 2: doing actions, any actions or any other conflict with the 4408 03:59:09,960 --> 03:59:12,400 Speaker 2: parents kind of shows the parents like, huh, maybe maybe 4409 03:59:12,480 --> 03:59:14,680 Speaker 2: we were a holes this whole time and have like 4410 03:59:14,880 --> 03:59:16,560 Speaker 2: not treated ap Op like dirt. 4411 03:59:17,400 --> 03:59:20,440 Speaker 1: I don't know if they'll do that after telling op like, 4412 03:59:20,640 --> 03:59:24,480 Speaker 1: we never wanted a son and honestly she's better than 4413 03:59:24,520 --> 03:59:28,000 Speaker 1: you in every way, but sorry, Like, I don't know, 4414 03:59:28,080 --> 03:59:30,560 Speaker 1: I think that's I think they said. 4415 03:59:30,400 --> 03:59:32,520 Speaker 2: It all, you know what we may or may not 4416 03:59:32,640 --> 03:59:37,480 Speaker 2: have wanted. But God, anyways, is another fifteen minutes. Yeah, 4417 03:59:38,960 --> 03:59:41,800 Speaker 2: only if you want to, but you have to, you 4418 03:59:41,880 --> 03:59:42,600 Speaker 2: have to get. 4419 03:59:42,480 --> 03:59:49,480 Speaker 5: Up official day of work and he's already showing booty. 4420 03:59:49,640 --> 03:59:54,720 Speaker 2: Oh dude, you don't even ready you know that? 4421 03:59:55,360 --> 03:59:55,640 Speaker 1: Ready? 4422 03:59:55,760 --> 03:59:58,480 Speaker 2: Ready do it? 4423 03:59:59,080 --> 03:59:59,600 Speaker 1: You got. 4424 04:00:02,800 --> 04:00:07,120 Speaker 2: It's clapping, clapping with no hands. Baby, they made me 4425 04:00:07,280 --> 04:00:07,480 Speaker 2: do this. 4426 04:00:09,800 --> 04:00:12,320 Speaker 5: This is gonna be in a documentary. 4427 04:00:13,560 --> 04:00:14,080 Speaker 1: The day. 4428 04:00:16,960 --> 04:00:17,000 Speaker 8: On. 4429 04:00:17,560 --> 04:00:21,600 Speaker 1: There's another tip we had key on join he choosing 4430 04:00:21,640 --> 04:00:22,400 Speaker 1: cake for everyone. 4431 04:00:23,280 --> 04:00:23,800 Speaker 2: Cake dude. 4432 04:00:24,320 --> 04:00:33,640 Speaker 11: Ready, guys, all right, all rights, so good at rock 4433 04:00:33,680 --> 04:00:37,440 Speaker 11: calls an dude, she's been she's been putting in the work. 4434 04:00:37,480 --> 04:00:39,160 Speaker 5: And someone at the wall today. 4435 04:00:39,680 --> 04:00:42,400 Speaker 3: Okay. These two guys uh next to us were like 4436 04:00:42,520 --> 04:00:44,240 Speaker 3: they were kind of talking about me, and then they 4437 04:00:44,280 --> 04:00:46,080 Speaker 3: turn around. They were like, yeah, you've been you've been 4438 04:00:46,120 --> 04:00:47,880 Speaker 3: going at this for like like you've been here for 4439 04:00:47,960 --> 04:00:50,640 Speaker 3: a while, or like saying I've been doing rock climbing 4440 04:00:50,640 --> 04:00:51,880 Speaker 3: for a while, and I was like, no a month. 4441 04:00:52,160 --> 04:00:54,360 Speaker 3: They were like what it felt really good? 4442 04:00:56,360 --> 04:00:56,720 Speaker 5: There you go. 4443 04:00:57,960 --> 04:00:59,680 Speaker 2: You're just the worst I've ever seen. 4444 04:00:59,800 --> 04:01:02,680 Speaker 1: The first worm to be a professional climate. 4445 04:01:02,960 --> 04:01:07,560 Speaker 2: It's all right, breaking boundaries. All right, boys and girls, 4446 04:01:07,840 --> 04:01:10,680 Speaker 2: we'll read the donoes, but let's finish the story for 4447 04:01:10,800 --> 04:01:15,880 Speaker 2: so relevant comments or actually, are we there? We go? 4448 04:01:16,080 --> 04:01:19,360 Speaker 2: So was his sister really blind to the behavior? 4449 04:01:20,280 --> 04:01:20,320 Speaker 1: No? 4450 04:01:21,000 --> 04:01:25,360 Speaker 2: I'm just moving on. We were never really that close, 4451 04:01:25,640 --> 04:01:27,760 Speaker 2: and she was always hanging out with friends or doing 4452 04:01:27,840 --> 04:01:30,640 Speaker 2: other things. I was pretty antisocial to begin with, which 4453 04:01:30,720 --> 04:01:32,960 Speaker 2: meant that I rarely talked to her. I honestly think 4454 04:01:33,040 --> 04:01:35,520 Speaker 2: that she knew my parents liked her more, but didn't 4455 04:01:35,600 --> 04:01:38,840 Speaker 2: know the extent of it. Several people on advising going 4456 04:01:38,920 --> 04:01:41,760 Speaker 2: no contact. Opie says, That's what I'm planning on doing, 4457 04:01:41,920 --> 04:01:43,720 Speaker 2: since a few of my friends are advising me to 4458 04:01:43,800 --> 04:01:46,560 Speaker 2: do so. The only reason that it might be a 4459 04:01:46,600 --> 04:01:48,840 Speaker 2: bad decision is that it means I will probably never 4460 04:01:48,960 --> 04:01:51,920 Speaker 2: be able to talk to my relatives again or try 4461 04:01:52,000 --> 04:01:55,120 Speaker 2: to tell them the truth. I guess because they've all 4462 04:01:55,440 --> 04:01:58,440 Speaker 2: been fed these lives. Yeah, they've heard the fake story. 4463 04:01:58,600 --> 04:01:59,240 Speaker 2: The fake story. 4464 04:01:59,320 --> 04:01:59,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. 4465 04:02:01,040 --> 04:02:03,680 Speaker 2: And then later update to the comments on same day, 4466 04:02:04,480 --> 04:02:07,440 Speaker 2: so Opie says, I told my sister what they have 4467 04:02:07,600 --> 04:02:09,920 Speaker 2: to say. I told my sister what they have said. 4468 04:02:10,440 --> 04:02:12,920 Speaker 2: She seems to believe me and says that she's definitely 4469 04:02:12,960 --> 04:02:16,560 Speaker 2: going to talk to my parents about what they said. Okay, okay. 4470 04:02:16,920 --> 04:02:19,920 Speaker 2: She also apologized for being so ignorant to the neglect 4471 04:02:20,160 --> 04:02:23,200 Speaker 2: that I faced. Even if most of my family hates me, 4472 04:02:23,360 --> 04:02:26,320 Speaker 2: I still have one person who believes in me, which 4473 04:02:26,400 --> 04:02:27,160 Speaker 2: makes me feel better. 4474 04:02:28,360 --> 04:02:30,600 Speaker 1: That is so sweet, and that is a pretty sweet sentiment. 4475 04:02:31,600 --> 04:02:33,120 Speaker 2: She said that she would talk to them about it 4476 04:02:33,440 --> 04:02:37,600 Speaker 2: and apologize for being ignorant to the neglect. I think 4477 04:02:37,640 --> 04:02:41,440 Speaker 2: this is someone responding to that comment from OPI therapy. 4478 04:02:42,960 --> 04:02:46,320 Speaker 2: I'll certainly be looking into getting a therapist. The closest 4479 04:02:46,320 --> 04:02:48,720 Speaker 2: thing I've ever had to a therapist was my guidance counselor, 4480 04:02:49,080 --> 04:02:52,000 Speaker 2: who I never really told what was happening because I 4481 04:02:52,080 --> 04:02:54,840 Speaker 2: was afraid my parents would think of me as an 4482 04:02:54,880 --> 04:02:59,640 Speaker 2: even bigger embarrassment. And Opie is voted in this story 4483 04:03:00,320 --> 04:03:01,080 Speaker 2: not the a hole. 4484 04:03:01,280 --> 04:03:06,000 Speaker 1: We have an update, but please be new best friends 4485 04:03:06,080 --> 04:03:07,800 Speaker 1: with my deaf sister who's adopted. 4486 04:03:08,640 --> 04:03:11,440 Speaker 2: I want that to be the update. Oh best friends 4487 04:03:11,680 --> 04:03:14,920 Speaker 2: adopted sister and they just like live their merry life 4488 04:03:15,000 --> 04:03:18,160 Speaker 2: together and they say screw screw the parents and then 4489 04:03:18,240 --> 04:03:26,240 Speaker 2: that's it. Pole no contact or not? Could we cut 4490 04:03:26,280 --> 04:03:27,320 Speaker 2: off or cut off parents or not? 4491 04:03:27,480 --> 04:03:29,200 Speaker 1: And I think maybe part of this is like that 4492 04:03:29,640 --> 04:03:32,600 Speaker 1: Op's kind of got like a it's kind of shy 4493 04:03:32,920 --> 04:03:35,400 Speaker 1: or maybe a little I don't want to say anti social, 4494 04:03:35,440 --> 04:03:39,400 Speaker 1: but what's the word socially awkward? Maybe because the way 4495 04:03:39,440 --> 04:03:42,040 Speaker 1: that op said, it's like, if I cut off my parents, 4496 04:03:42,120 --> 04:03:45,800 Speaker 1: then I'll probably end up cutting off all my relatives. Yeah, 4497 04:03:45,800 --> 04:03:47,120 Speaker 1: but it's like, I feel like you don't have to 4498 04:03:47,200 --> 04:03:50,320 Speaker 1: cut off all of your relatives, cut off the ones 4499 04:03:50,400 --> 04:03:53,720 Speaker 1: that treat you like less than you are worth, and 4500 04:03:53,920 --> 04:03:56,560 Speaker 1: then try your best to let the other ones know. A, 4501 04:03:56,840 --> 04:03:58,320 Speaker 1: my parents are feeding you a bunch. 4502 04:03:58,160 --> 04:04:00,760 Speaker 2: Of weird lies. Agreed. 4503 04:04:00,960 --> 04:04:04,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, don't just don't just take that, you know, take 4504 04:04:05,000 --> 04:04:06,480 Speaker 1: that as a fact where it's like I won't have 4505 04:04:06,600 --> 04:04:07,360 Speaker 1: my family anymore. 4506 04:04:07,480 --> 04:04:10,640 Speaker 5: You should just like do Survivor with your family, just 4507 04:04:11,000 --> 04:04:14,560 Speaker 5: one at a time, elimonade based on a bunch of 4508 04:04:14,680 --> 04:04:16,320 Speaker 5: different games challenges. 4509 04:04:17,480 --> 04:04:21,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, testing your your mental stamina and yourfulness. 4510 04:04:23,200 --> 04:04:31,200 Speaker 1: Rah, No, you're Ronald, Ye find your Ronald Reagan's such a. 4511 04:04:31,320 --> 04:04:36,240 Speaker 5: That's like season four of Survivor. That's such a specific reference. 4512 04:04:36,320 --> 04:04:37,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so season four. 4513 04:04:37,560 --> 04:04:40,600 Speaker 1: Sophia's out here quoting season four of Survivor like it's 4514 04:04:40,800 --> 04:04:41,960 Speaker 1: two thousand and two. 4515 04:04:43,640 --> 04:04:48,600 Speaker 2: You're crazy. But guys, get your votes in the polls up. 4516 04:04:48,960 --> 04:04:51,480 Speaker 2: Would you cut off the parents? Are Na? Let us know. 4517 04:04:52,240 --> 04:04:54,720 Speaker 2: But we're going to get into this update. So I 4518 04:04:54,800 --> 04:04:56,840 Speaker 2: follow the advice of some of the people in the comments, 4519 04:04:56,880 --> 04:05:00,080 Speaker 2: and I sent an email to my relatives. Also, hell, 4520 04:05:00,120 --> 04:05:03,800 Speaker 2: so keon am i cut off in the Facebook preview version. 4521 04:05:04,320 --> 04:05:07,360 Speaker 4: No, actually, you're kind of perfect. It's just Sam's beautiful face, 4522 04:05:07,440 --> 04:05:07,720 Speaker 4: is in't it? 4523 04:05:08,240 --> 04:05:10,040 Speaker 2: That's exactly what I wanted. 4524 04:05:10,440 --> 04:05:13,400 Speaker 1: That's kind of crazy. Just say I'm just like smiling 4525 04:05:13,640 --> 04:05:13,920 Speaker 1: love it? 4526 04:05:15,240 --> 04:05:19,440 Speaker 2: Ooh you? And so I followed the advisors and people 4527 04:05:19,480 --> 04:05:21,360 Speaker 2: in the comments, and I sent an email to my 4528 04:05:21,440 --> 04:05:24,560 Speaker 2: relatives to got to this point there we go. I 4529 04:05:24,680 --> 04:05:26,680 Speaker 2: told them that they didn't have the proof that I 4530 04:05:26,800 --> 04:05:29,560 Speaker 2: was ungrateful and unappreciative for what I had except for 4531 04:05:29,640 --> 04:05:32,960 Speaker 2: my parents' word, which wasn't much. I also asked why 4532 04:05:33,000 --> 04:05:35,640 Speaker 2: they never came to a single one of my birthday parties, 4533 04:05:36,400 --> 04:05:39,600 Speaker 2: which I why I went to a much crappier school, 4534 04:05:39,960 --> 04:05:42,320 Speaker 2: and why I spent so much time in my room 4535 04:05:42,480 --> 04:05:44,720 Speaker 2: when they came to visit. Something I didn't really mention 4536 04:05:44,840 --> 04:05:47,480 Speaker 2: in my first post. They wanted me upstairs in my 4537 04:05:47,640 --> 04:05:52,720 Speaker 2: room for about seventy five percent of visits because they 4538 04:05:52,840 --> 04:05:58,040 Speaker 2: said that they were embarrassed of me. No, noise, I 4539 04:05:58,200 --> 04:06:03,240 Speaker 2: don't exist exactly. That's it's giving those vibes cover to 4540 04:06:03,280 --> 04:06:07,520 Speaker 2: cover go, oh yeah. I also had my sister vouch 4541 04:06:07,560 --> 04:06:10,520 Speaker 2: for me, saying they only wanted a golden child. That 4542 04:06:10,720 --> 04:06:13,160 Speaker 2: I meant to say that earlier. That is definitely the 4543 04:06:13,240 --> 04:06:16,720 Speaker 2: move is have the sister be your champion telling the 4544 04:06:16,800 --> 04:06:19,320 Speaker 2: other family, because if the sister is saying it, then 4545 04:06:19,360 --> 04:06:21,040 Speaker 2: it's like though, I feel like they'll be way more 4546 04:06:21,560 --> 04:06:25,000 Speaker 2: inclined to believe. Well, they've been basically trained to be 4547 04:06:25,160 --> 04:06:25,400 Speaker 2: that way. 4548 04:06:25,480 --> 04:06:28,320 Speaker 1: They're like, oh, the golden child speaks, let us listen, 4549 04:06:29,160 --> 04:06:30,760 Speaker 1: let us listen to this golden child. 4550 04:06:31,160 --> 04:06:33,200 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna say. I'm not gonna say it. About 4551 04:06:33,240 --> 04:06:36,560 Speaker 2: half of them believe me now, some still saying they 4552 04:06:36,640 --> 04:06:38,600 Speaker 2: can't decide who's in the right, and some saying that 4553 04:06:38,720 --> 04:06:42,520 Speaker 2: it's reasonable to want a perfect child's and that kids 4554 04:06:42,560 --> 04:06:44,720 Speaker 2: are nuisances, and that my parents are one hundred percent 4555 04:06:44,800 --> 04:06:51,800 Speaker 2: in the right. Oh disgusting. I also determined that my 4556 04:06:51,920 --> 04:06:55,680 Speaker 2: sister had to know something was off. I'd agree. I 4557 04:06:55,840 --> 04:06:57,800 Speaker 2: told her that it would be a bit before I 4558 04:06:57,880 --> 04:07:01,960 Speaker 2: trusted her one hundred percent. Again, she agreed, seems surprised 4559 04:07:02,000 --> 04:07:05,320 Speaker 2: when I said it, though, by the way, you should 4560 04:07:05,360 --> 04:07:07,280 Speaker 2: never be surprised when I tell you can join a 4561 04:07:07,360 --> 04:07:12,200 Speaker 2: lobsters every weekday at three pm PST. Just tap the profile. 4562 04:07:12,640 --> 04:07:14,000 Speaker 5: You know what to do. 4563 04:07:14,920 --> 04:07:17,280 Speaker 2: Now. I've looked into some therapy as well, and my 4564 04:07:17,360 --> 04:07:20,520 Speaker 2: first appointment isn't two weeks currently. I still haven't urged 4565 04:07:20,560 --> 04:07:22,280 Speaker 2: to call my parents because I don't want to lose 4566 04:07:22,320 --> 04:07:24,880 Speaker 2: them in case they changed their minds. Something else in 4567 04:07:24,960 --> 04:07:26,760 Speaker 2: my head is telling me not to, though. One of 4568 04:07:26,800 --> 04:07:29,000 Speaker 2: my closest friends even told me that I should sue 4569 04:07:29,120 --> 04:07:32,720 Speaker 2: my parents and that there, Wow, plot. 4570 04:07:32,640 --> 04:07:35,840 Speaker 1: Us is your closest friend in tune with the laws. 4571 04:07:37,080 --> 04:07:40,680 Speaker 5: I did see this one story where this kid sued 4572 04:07:40,760 --> 04:07:42,160 Speaker 5: their parents for being born. 4573 04:07:43,320 --> 04:07:43,840 Speaker 2: Will they win? 4574 04:07:44,360 --> 04:07:44,400 Speaker 1: No? 4575 04:07:45,920 --> 04:07:49,120 Speaker 2: It feels sounded like it was like, oh so groundbreaking 4576 04:07:49,120 --> 04:07:52,520 Speaker 2: because they won, But I think it like went through 4577 04:07:52,880 --> 04:07:55,840 Speaker 2: a couple. Dude, that would be such an insane precedent set. 4578 04:07:56,000 --> 04:07:58,080 Speaker 1: What is what even happens if you win that court case, 4579 04:07:58,200 --> 04:08:00,800 Speaker 1: Like the judge just bangs it's gavel and you like 4580 04:08:01,080 --> 04:08:02,480 Speaker 1: dissipate out of reality. 4581 04:08:02,720 --> 04:08:06,560 Speaker 2: Well, now every child's super parents, literally every Now there's 4582 04:08:06,600 --> 04:08:10,200 Speaker 2: now a precedent for every person born to sue the 4583 04:08:10,320 --> 04:08:11,640 Speaker 2: people that birded you. 4584 04:08:12,040 --> 04:08:13,720 Speaker 1: That's giving off the energy of the guy that mister 4585 04:08:13,800 --> 04:08:18,600 Speaker 1: Incredible saved and he's like, oh, I'm suing you, and 4586 04:08:18,680 --> 04:08:21,200 Speaker 1: then he started the downfall of superhero society. 4587 04:08:21,360 --> 04:08:22,760 Speaker 2: Dude, what a freaking sucker. 4588 04:08:22,880 --> 04:08:26,040 Speaker 1: Too much liability out there, too much liability hanging out. 4589 04:08:25,920 --> 04:08:26,200 Speaker 2: In the air. 4590 04:08:26,360 --> 04:08:30,360 Speaker 3: We're sue happy Nation, these insurance companies these days. 4591 04:08:32,080 --> 04:08:34,120 Speaker 1: I just realized how poetic it is that he that 4592 04:08:34,240 --> 04:08:36,320 Speaker 1: he actually started working for an insurance company. I never 4593 04:08:36,400 --> 04:08:39,400 Speaker 1: realized that it did not connect those dots. He saved 4594 04:08:39,400 --> 04:08:41,680 Speaker 1: that guy's life, and then it destroyed superhero Society, and 4595 04:08:41,680 --> 04:08:43,560 Speaker 1: then he ended up being an insurance suggestion. 4596 04:08:45,400 --> 04:08:50,520 Speaker 2: Okay, back to the story. That's a big one. So 4597 04:08:51,680 --> 04:08:53,760 Speaker 2: something else in my head is telling me not to. 4598 04:08:53,920 --> 04:08:55,880 Speaker 2: Though one of my closest friends even told me that 4599 04:08:55,920 --> 04:08:58,680 Speaker 2: I should sue my parents and that their wife's brother 4600 04:08:58,840 --> 04:09:01,000 Speaker 2: worked for a really good firm that they could help, 4601 04:09:01,640 --> 04:09:03,840 Speaker 2: that they could help me hire them. I don't really 4602 04:09:03,880 --> 04:09:06,720 Speaker 2: think the neglect was that serious for a lawsuit. However, 4603 04:09:07,600 --> 04:09:09,320 Speaker 2: I also wanted to say thank you to all the 4604 04:09:09,360 --> 04:09:11,480 Speaker 2: people who reassured me that I wasn't in the wrong 4605 04:09:11,600 --> 04:09:14,080 Speaker 2: and also gave me advice. Have a nice day to 4606 04:09:14,280 --> 04:09:20,000 Speaker 2: anybody reading this, And that's it, and that's it. So 4607 04:09:20,800 --> 04:09:25,840 Speaker 2: chat ninety seven percent says cut off the parents. I 4608 04:09:25,960 --> 04:09:30,040 Speaker 2: honestly think, Ope, keeps doing what they're doing already, you know, 4609 04:09:30,240 --> 04:09:34,160 Speaker 2: tell the family with the sister backing up, continue to 4610 04:09:34,200 --> 04:09:38,560 Speaker 2: build the bond and communication with the sister, and just 4611 04:09:39,480 --> 04:09:42,440 Speaker 2: at a minimum, maybe low contact with the parents, and 4612 04:09:42,680 --> 04:09:45,160 Speaker 2: just keep it moving. Yeah, just sort of. 4613 04:09:45,440 --> 04:09:49,640 Speaker 1: Let their you know, let them kind of just roll 4614 04:09:49,720 --> 04:09:53,720 Speaker 1: off your back, like the water duck in water roll 4615 04:09:53,800 --> 04:09:56,600 Speaker 1: off the back, do you do? You don't want what 4616 04:09:56,760 --> 04:10:00,040 Speaker 1: they say to have weight anymore, Like they literally I 4617 04:10:00,040 --> 04:10:03,040 Speaker 1: told you that they just wanted a daughter. It's like whatever, 4618 04:10:03,160 --> 04:10:06,680 Speaker 1: It's like their opinions and their thoughts, like really don't 4619 04:10:06,720 --> 04:10:09,920 Speaker 1: need to hold any weight for you anymore. Just focus 4620 04:10:10,040 --> 04:10:14,200 Speaker 1: on your future and your relationship with your sister who's 4621 04:10:14,320 --> 04:10:18,360 Speaker 1: super sick, and have her champion you. Yeah, that'll have 4622 04:10:19,720 --> 04:10:23,120 Speaker 1: that'll have a lot of good positive effects I think 4623 04:10:23,200 --> 04:10:23,840 Speaker 1: on the situation. 4624 04:10:24,120 --> 04:10:26,200 Speaker 2: Agreed. Yeah, I couldn't have said about myself. 4625 04:10:26,440 --> 04:10:28,320 Speaker 3: No, I don't know too much of what's going on 4626 04:10:28,400 --> 04:10:35,080 Speaker 3: in this story. But your rubber, their glue. Everything they 4627 04:10:35,280 --> 04:10:38,680 Speaker 3: say bounces off you and sticks to them. 4628 04:10:39,000 --> 04:10:41,880 Speaker 2: But they're already they're already glue. Though. 4629 04:10:45,560 --> 04:10:48,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've never understood that because if the glue bounces 4630 04:10:48,560 --> 04:10:49,360 Speaker 1: back at the glue. 4631 04:10:49,520 --> 04:10:50,400 Speaker 2: It's just more glue. 4632 04:10:50,480 --> 04:10:51,560 Speaker 3: Rubber bounces. 4633 04:10:53,520 --> 04:10:57,240 Speaker 5: Your like glue. Whatever you say bounces off me and 4634 04:10:57,480 --> 04:10:58,320 Speaker 5: sticks on you. 4635 04:10:58,840 --> 04:11:01,040 Speaker 2: Oh, because glue is okay, now I get it. 4636 04:11:01,320 --> 04:11:02,320 Speaker 3: Now it's changing. 4637 04:11:02,480 --> 04:11:05,120 Speaker 2: The prone is rubber glue resistant. 4638 04:11:06,640 --> 04:11:10,240 Speaker 3: No, the glue okay, we got we got glue, prober 4639 04:11:10,600 --> 04:11:13,840 Speaker 3: words bloom, the words are the words are bouncing. 4640 04:11:14,120 --> 04:11:17,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, Glover's bouncing. The blue is sticky and the words 4641 04:11:17,400 --> 04:11:18,120 Speaker 5: are bouncing off. 4642 04:11:18,480 --> 04:11:22,440 Speaker 2: The glue that going rubber word balls are sticking to 4643 04:11:23,400 --> 04:11:26,760 Speaker 2: What is going on? Got it? Who said? Wheels? 4644 04:11:26,840 --> 04:11:27,040 Speaker 1: Spin? 4645 04:11:27,200 --> 04:11:27,360 Speaker 9: Time? 4646 04:11:27,440 --> 04:11:29,720 Speaker 5: For everyone who was saying in the chat that I'm sad, 4647 04:11:30,320 --> 04:11:33,640 Speaker 5: I'm not sad. I'm just I went in mid story 4648 04:11:33,720 --> 04:11:35,960 Speaker 5: and very very confused. What's going on? 4649 04:11:36,240 --> 04:11:36,520 Speaker 2: Samon? 4650 04:11:36,640 --> 04:11:38,280 Speaker 3: It went so hard at the climbing gym? 4651 04:11:38,440 --> 04:11:39,120 Speaker 5: Yeah we did. 4652 04:11:39,240 --> 04:11:42,080 Speaker 1: I don't doubt it. I don't doubt it. My hands 4653 04:11:42,120 --> 04:11:45,240 Speaker 1: are over here. Just not get and I am jelly. 4654 04:11:45,320 --> 04:11:47,560 Speaker 1: I'm a little jealous. But you know who should be 4655 04:11:47,600 --> 04:11:48,120 Speaker 1: more jealous? 4656 04:11:48,240 --> 04:11:50,400 Speaker 2: Is you two for missing out on this great stream? 4657 04:11:50,560 --> 04:11:53,000 Speaker 5: Oh? True, it is a solid stream. 4658 04:11:53,040 --> 04:11:57,320 Speaker 2: Should we read some of the donuts? Ferocious avalanche of 4659 04:11:57,400 --> 04:12:02,480 Speaker 2: donuts that came in wild Dakota take it away, my friend. 4660 04:12:02,560 --> 04:12:05,000 Speaker 2: All Right, I got it. I've got it. 4661 04:12:06,640 --> 04:12:10,720 Speaker 1: Thanks Anna Pe for the ten dollars reunion stream. 4662 04:12:11,800 --> 04:12:15,080 Speaker 2: That's right, I mean what it became. That's where we're at. 4663 04:12:15,720 --> 04:12:18,320 Speaker 2: They were literally like, how many donos do we need 4664 04:12:18,440 --> 04:12:22,120 Speaker 2: before Sam comes back? And we're like, well, you'll have 4665 04:12:22,240 --> 04:12:27,240 Speaker 2: to do twenties. Never coming out for like twenty four hours. 4666 04:12:27,960 --> 04:12:31,760 Speaker 5: Any John lare things whatever, like we're not we don't 4667 04:12:31,760 --> 04:12:34,080 Speaker 5: appear in the same video for a second. There's always 4668 04:12:34,120 --> 04:12:36,080 Speaker 5: comments like Sam and John are fighting. 4669 04:12:36,160 --> 04:12:38,920 Speaker 2: I know very little Sam and John Laura on this one, 4670 04:12:39,200 --> 04:12:41,720 Speaker 2: mostly about Keon's cakes. That kind of just like just 4671 04:12:42,200 --> 04:12:46,200 Speaker 2: absorbed that. I'm part of the team. Now. That's nice. 4672 04:12:46,840 --> 04:12:51,880 Speaker 2: Stand up and spinner round the dons first and then 4673 04:12:51,960 --> 04:12:52,360 Speaker 2: we'll do it. 4674 04:12:52,840 --> 04:12:56,040 Speaker 3: Is that your like symbol a cake? 4675 04:12:56,480 --> 04:13:00,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's unfortunately the cakes. I'm a cake and eat 4676 04:13:03,360 --> 04:13:07,880 Speaker 2: right away. I'm cakes and teachers for y'all. Now, thank you, mother. 4677 04:13:07,840 --> 04:13:12,360 Speaker 1: Eating, Thank you for the ten dollars, for our queen, queen, 4678 04:13:13,200 --> 04:13:18,800 Speaker 1: my queen, my queen. Uh, thank you m J Grow 4679 04:13:18,920 --> 04:13:23,000 Speaker 1: for the twenty five bucks. Love my fellow sillies. That's right, 4680 04:13:23,160 --> 04:13:27,240 Speaker 1: we're all sillies here. Donation from Bree for twenty five bucks. 4681 04:13:27,280 --> 04:13:27,760 Speaker 3: Thank you, Bree. 4682 04:13:28,200 --> 04:13:31,680 Speaker 2: The Gang's all here. Clap clap, minus Keon while he 4683 04:13:31,800 --> 04:13:36,320 Speaker 2: eats and yeah he's done. Now I'm eating. He's done eating, 4684 04:13:36,360 --> 04:13:39,960 Speaker 2: you're eating, I'm eating, We're eating. Go back to eating. 4685 04:13:40,000 --> 04:13:42,280 Speaker 2: Don't speaking of eating? Can you full screen Dakota while 4686 04:13:42,280 --> 04:13:43,400 Speaker 2: I scarf this down? 4687 04:13:43,520 --> 04:13:43,720 Speaker 1: Yeah? 4688 04:13:43,800 --> 04:13:46,120 Speaker 2: No, we want to zoom in on that. Nope, you're 4689 04:13:46,120 --> 04:13:48,120 Speaker 2: not gonna get me. No, you won't get You won't 4690 04:13:48,120 --> 04:13:49,400 Speaker 2: get him. He already got me. 4691 04:13:51,040 --> 04:13:54,880 Speaker 1: Anonymous, thank you for the twenty five dollars. Love the chaos. 4692 04:13:55,280 --> 04:13:57,840 Speaker 1: That's right, the chaos is here and it is here 4693 04:13:57,960 --> 04:14:01,400 Speaker 1: to stay. Oh okay, and I think that is all 4694 04:14:01,960 --> 04:14:07,280 Speaker 1: for the tip link. I think the new ones are Yeah, 4695 04:14:07,360 --> 04:14:11,080 Speaker 1: let me just go ahead, and everybody on stream scream 4696 04:14:11,200 --> 04:14:13,720 Speaker 1: goodbye to Sam as loud as you can. 4697 04:14:14,200 --> 04:14:22,760 Speaker 2: Because he left. He's still in the doorway. Okay, never mind. 4698 04:14:24,240 --> 04:14:28,480 Speaker 1: Baby though, baby Grandma's got a potty maw. Thanks for 4699 04:14:28,600 --> 04:14:33,240 Speaker 1: the five gifted memberships once again. Wowsy wow er wow 4700 04:14:33,560 --> 04:14:34,280 Speaker 1: wowie s howie. 4701 04:14:34,720 --> 04:14:40,240 Speaker 2: That's all I have to say. Bring me the horizon. 4702 04:14:40,360 --> 04:14:41,360 Speaker 2: Thanks for the two bucks. 4703 04:14:41,840 --> 04:14:47,200 Speaker 1: Peach Cobbler Keeon and his name is spelled properly beautiful, 4704 04:14:48,720 --> 04:14:49,600 Speaker 1: then you're gonna love me. 4705 04:14:50,000 --> 04:14:55,360 Speaker 2: Wombo winton. I gotta bake that ass real quick. 4706 04:14:56,920 --> 04:15:00,480 Speaker 1: And go. Yeah, Brianna, b thank you for the eight 4707 04:15:00,600 --> 04:15:03,800 Speaker 1: Australian dollars. I have six kids and I can promise 4708 04:15:03,880 --> 04:15:06,120 Speaker 1: you I love each one of them exactly the same. 4709 04:15:06,800 --> 04:15:11,320 Speaker 1: I have to bounce now, guys, love y'all. Brianna from Australia. 4710 04:15:12,400 --> 04:15:17,120 Speaker 3: Okay, it wasn't me, It was the thing, the psychology. 4711 04:15:16,480 --> 04:15:22,880 Speaker 2: Thing, psychology. What psychologists say that, Oh yeah, don't worry. 4712 04:15:24,840 --> 04:15:29,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, Sophia just outed herself should be not you wouldn't 4713 04:15:29,560 --> 04:15:30,720 Speaker 1: be able to love more than two children. 4714 04:15:30,920 --> 04:15:31,320 Speaker 3: I've done it. 4715 04:15:32,960 --> 04:15:33,680 Speaker 2: I can only love. 4716 04:15:33,960 --> 04:15:35,880 Speaker 1: I'm giving you away because I won't love you. 4717 04:15:36,200 --> 04:15:38,240 Speaker 3: No, I'm just gonna have more than two. 4718 04:15:38,480 --> 04:15:40,560 Speaker 1: You're gonna have an okay, storytime down the line where 4719 04:15:40,560 --> 04:15:43,160 Speaker 1: it's like my mom gave me away because she said 4720 04:15:43,200 --> 04:15:45,640 Speaker 1: she wouldn't be able to love me, a psychologist said. 4721 04:15:46,000 --> 04:15:50,480 Speaker 1: The psychologist said so, and it'll be you and we'll 4722 04:15:50,520 --> 04:15:55,120 Speaker 1: all know no awkward turtle things for have five bucks. 4723 04:15:56,040 --> 04:15:58,800 Speaker 1: Literally about to get my engagement photos sent to me 4724 04:15:58,960 --> 04:16:02,640 Speaker 1: any minute now. I seriously can't wait either, can we 4725 04:16:03,160 --> 04:16:05,520 Speaker 1: that sounds like a fun time. 4726 04:16:06,280 --> 04:16:12,440 Speaker 2: Put them all in the discord, uh Rea, restone one. 4727 04:16:13,520 --> 04:16:17,760 Speaker 1: Thank you for the ten dollars and the Sheba little emoji. 4728 04:16:17,920 --> 04:16:20,720 Speaker 2: We love that. Alana, Oh, thank. 4729 04:16:20,600 --> 04:16:21,840 Speaker 3: You for the ten dollars. 4730 04:16:22,360 --> 04:16:25,240 Speaker 1: We love you all, even if you have not donated, 4731 04:16:25,400 --> 04:16:30,480 Speaker 1: We also love you. We love even the lurkers who 4732 04:16:30,520 --> 04:16:33,560 Speaker 1: have said nothing. We love you even if you've never 4733 04:16:33,800 --> 04:16:36,000 Speaker 1: liked the stream, which is pretty hard to believe. 4734 04:16:36,200 --> 04:16:38,080 Speaker 5: Almost we still I love you. 4735 04:16:39,120 --> 04:16:41,000 Speaker 1: We love you a little less than those other people, 4736 04:16:42,240 --> 04:16:45,760 Speaker 1: because the psychologist told us so, psychologists, we do still 4737 04:16:45,840 --> 04:16:46,080 Speaker 1: love you. 4738 04:16:46,160 --> 04:16:49,000 Speaker 3: The psychologist says, we can't love all of you the same, 4739 04:16:50,480 --> 04:16:51,400 Speaker 3: but we love you. 4740 04:16:52,440 --> 04:16:52,960 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 4741 04:16:53,000 --> 04:16:55,800 Speaker 1: This guy's name is Socrates, and I love the way 4742 04:16:55,840 --> 04:16:56,520 Speaker 1: that it's spelled. 4743 04:16:56,560 --> 04:16:58,760 Speaker 2: Thank you for the two dollars. I am so happy 4744 04:16:58,840 --> 04:17:04,200 Speaker 2: to be here. It rocks my sock. And it's because 4745 04:17:04,240 --> 04:17:06,040 Speaker 2: his name is sock. Ratise. 4746 04:17:06,520 --> 04:17:09,360 Speaker 3: We didn't miss your Tuba comment. We were just getting 4747 04:17:09,440 --> 04:17:13,320 Speaker 3: through them, I swear. And I also sorry, mister six months. 4748 04:17:13,360 --> 04:17:14,680 Speaker 3: We did not see your six months. 4749 04:17:14,800 --> 04:17:17,000 Speaker 2: Oh what we didn't I don't know. 4750 04:17:17,120 --> 04:17:19,560 Speaker 3: I wasn't here. Congratulations for the six month, did we 4751 04:17:19,680 --> 04:17:21,640 Speaker 3: Congratulations for your six months, soccer team. 4752 04:17:21,720 --> 04:17:23,640 Speaker 2: Let's see. Oh, I think that's a good one. 4753 04:17:23,800 --> 04:17:27,680 Speaker 1: Uh Natalia h remember for seven months. Congratulations on the 4754 04:17:27,880 --> 04:17:28,680 Speaker 1: seven months. 4755 04:17:29,240 --> 04:17:30,880 Speaker 2: Happy to see everyone on the stream tonight. 4756 04:17:30,960 --> 04:17:34,200 Speaker 1: Love for everyone will fall asleep to this stream, and 4757 04:17:34,280 --> 04:17:37,800 Speaker 1: if you're already asleep, I wish you a pleasant night 4758 04:17:37,960 --> 04:17:41,200 Speaker 1: full of good dreams. Dream about it, and I hope 4759 04:17:41,200 --> 04:17:43,800 Speaker 1: it's not too chaotic. It's probably a little chaotic if 4760 04:17:43,840 --> 04:17:45,560 Speaker 1: you're sleep into this stream. 4761 04:17:46,400 --> 04:17:47,120 Speaker 2: Uh Alana. 4762 04:17:47,200 --> 04:17:52,800 Speaker 1: Oh, thanks again for five more dollars and wingles, five 4763 04:17:52,960 --> 04:17:54,480 Speaker 1: more little membership babies. 4764 04:17:55,240 --> 04:17:55,880 Speaker 3: We love it. 4765 04:17:56,720 --> 04:18:00,560 Speaker 2: Y'all are the best. We love you all. We love 4766 04:18:00,640 --> 04:18:02,680 Speaker 2: you all. And it was that is there anymore? 4767 04:18:02,800 --> 04:18:09,400 Speaker 1: Let's keep going, Sue Empire Coyote, Thank you for the 4768 04:18:09,520 --> 04:18:13,160 Speaker 1: twenties smack of Rooney's. My birthday is next week and 4769 04:18:13,280 --> 04:18:16,360 Speaker 1: I don't know if I'll catch another stream, so I'll 4770 04:18:16,520 --> 04:18:19,000 Speaker 1: drop this now it well. 4771 04:18:19,080 --> 04:18:24,960 Speaker 2: Thank you, Sue Empire Coyote. Love that. Happy early birthday. Yeah, 4772 04:18:25,040 --> 04:18:28,680 Speaker 2: happy early birthday, Happy early birthday. 4773 04:18:29,640 --> 04:18:29,960 Speaker 1: Okay. 4774 04:18:31,040 --> 04:18:33,440 Speaker 2: I think that's we are. I think we're caught up now, 4775 04:18:34,480 --> 04:18:38,320 Speaker 2: caught up on the on the on the street. Get 4776 04:18:38,400 --> 04:18:40,720 Speaker 2: all of these guys. I think we do. 4777 04:18:42,440 --> 04:18:45,760 Speaker 1: I think do we get kelk Kelk member for five months, 4778 04:18:45,760 --> 04:18:49,600 Speaker 1: said keep going. I think that's Alexis Aubrey men here. 4779 04:18:50,000 --> 04:18:56,000 Speaker 1: Welcome to the Knights, and Peyton Welcome to the Knights. Welcome, Welcome, Welcome, welcome, welcome, 4780 04:18:56,000 --> 04:18:56,880 Speaker 1: alive the babies. 4781 04:18:57,080 --> 04:18:57,600 Speaker 3: What's that? 4782 04:18:58,520 --> 04:19:03,240 Speaker 2: Who's reading? I'm reading? Are you reading? It's I? It 4783 04:19:03,400 --> 04:19:06,600 Speaker 2: is I. It is I who will be doing duty things? 4784 04:19:06,640 --> 04:19:07,080 Speaker 2: She's ready? 4785 04:19:07,560 --> 04:19:07,880 Speaker 5: Okay? 4786 04:19:10,280 --> 04:19:14,480 Speaker 2: Are we prepared? Folks are either? Are we prepared? Yes? Prepared. 4787 04:19:14,880 --> 04:19:18,680 Speaker 1: I finally cut off my toxic mom, but now she 4788 04:19:18,840 --> 04:19:21,080 Speaker 1: wants to reconnect years later. 4789 04:19:21,680 --> 04:19:26,760 Speaker 2: Let's do it? Always tricky and tricky, tricky, all right? 4790 04:19:27,800 --> 04:19:28,280 Speaker 2: I read it. 4791 04:19:28,680 --> 04:19:30,680 Speaker 1: This story has a lot of background information, so I'm 4792 04:19:30,720 --> 04:19:33,360 Speaker 1: going to try to include as much as I can 4793 04:19:34,040 --> 04:19:37,920 Speaker 1: without writing an entire essay and without jumping around too much. 4794 04:19:38,480 --> 04:19:41,720 Speaker 1: I nineteen, female, cut off my mom in May, two 4795 04:19:41,760 --> 04:19:44,720 Speaker 1: weeks before I graduated. When I was fifteen, my mom 4796 04:19:44,800 --> 04:19:47,120 Speaker 1: and dad divorced, and that was really when I started 4797 04:19:47,160 --> 04:19:48,360 Speaker 1: to notice my mom's behavior. 4798 04:19:48,840 --> 04:19:49,520 Speaker 2: She would talk. 4799 04:19:49,520 --> 04:19:52,400 Speaker 1: Massive loads of crap about my dad, even around me 4800 04:19:52,560 --> 04:19:55,640 Speaker 1: and my sister, who's seventeen. By the way, this comes 4801 04:19:55,640 --> 04:19:57,360 Speaker 1: from user big Booty Bertha ke On. 4802 04:19:57,480 --> 04:20:01,440 Speaker 2: Is that you on stop submitting your own stories. Okay, 4803 04:20:01,640 --> 04:20:04,080 Speaker 2: that's that's not okay, that's yeah. 4804 04:20:04,880 --> 04:20:07,520 Speaker 1: Thank you big booty Bertha for submitting that to the 4805 04:20:07,640 --> 04:20:09,040 Speaker 1: r slash. Okay, storytime ceburated it. 4806 04:20:09,040 --> 04:20:09,520 Speaker 2: You're welcome. 4807 04:20:09,680 --> 04:20:13,800 Speaker 1: So she also would use me as her personal therapist, 4808 04:20:14,000 --> 04:20:17,200 Speaker 1: which is a story for another time. One of the 4809 04:20:17,320 --> 04:20:19,840 Speaker 1: biggest factors that ruined our relationship is the fact that 4810 04:20:19,920 --> 04:20:22,160 Speaker 1: I was reconnecting with my dad's side of the family 4811 04:20:22,560 --> 04:20:25,320 Speaker 1: from what I have learned from multiple other people before 4812 04:20:25,360 --> 04:20:28,200 Speaker 1: I was born. My dad and mom met when my 4813 04:20:28,320 --> 04:20:30,440 Speaker 1: dad was around twenty and my mom was married and 4814 04:20:30,600 --> 04:20:31,600 Speaker 1: in her thirties. 4815 04:20:31,680 --> 04:20:34,360 Speaker 2: Oh the plot thinkings. 4816 04:20:35,760 --> 04:20:38,840 Speaker 1: They started dating while she was still married to some 4817 04:20:39,000 --> 04:20:40,360 Speaker 1: guy I have never met or. 4818 04:20:40,440 --> 04:20:43,600 Speaker 2: Heard who wasn't able to have kids. No wonder she 4819 04:20:43,760 --> 04:20:44,680 Speaker 2: never brought him up to me. 4820 04:20:45,600 --> 04:20:48,600 Speaker 1: She she told my dad that she was on birth control, 4821 04:20:48,680 --> 04:20:51,560 Speaker 1: but found out she was actually not, And then I 4822 04:20:51,840 --> 04:20:55,040 Speaker 1: was created a product of manipulation, as I like to 4823 04:20:55,120 --> 04:20:55,360 Speaker 1: call it. 4824 04:20:55,760 --> 04:20:57,880 Speaker 2: She found out and she wasn't. 4825 04:20:58,640 --> 04:21:00,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, She's like, I guess I'm not on birth control 4826 04:21:00,520 --> 04:21:02,320 Speaker 1: because I just got so pregnant. 4827 04:21:03,280 --> 04:21:07,440 Speaker 2: I'm like, supery new were pregnant right now? Fully pregnant. 4828 04:21:07,920 --> 04:21:12,680 Speaker 2: My birth control is not working. Too powerful, too powerful, 4829 04:21:12,760 --> 04:21:13,360 Speaker 2: too powerful. 4830 04:21:13,400 --> 04:21:17,400 Speaker 1: Your swimmers, they're like little Michael Phelps's. Uh. When they 4831 04:21:17,520 --> 04:21:21,200 Speaker 1: found out she was pregnant, her and my dad got 4832 04:21:21,320 --> 04:21:25,240 Speaker 1: married and two years later, what is funny about seven 4833 04:21:25,320 --> 04:21:26,120 Speaker 1: time Olympian? 4834 04:21:26,560 --> 04:21:30,120 Speaker 2: Right, that's seven gold medals? How many gold mines? Gender 4835 04:21:32,480 --> 04:21:36,200 Speaker 2: the swimmers are? Well, we were talking about the woman. 4836 04:21:36,880 --> 04:21:39,120 Speaker 2: She was on the birth control, but she wasn't. 4837 04:21:39,800 --> 04:21:41,800 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it would be it would be the egg 4838 04:21:41,920 --> 04:21:47,080 Speaker 1: that was the strong one, wouldn't it fertile? A bunch 4839 04:21:47,120 --> 04:21:48,560 Speaker 1: of Billie Jean Kings in there? 4840 04:21:48,640 --> 04:21:51,880 Speaker 2: All right? Moving on? She was good at tennis, right. 4841 04:21:52,240 --> 04:21:57,120 Speaker 1: Uh, they found out she was pregnant, her and my 4842 04:21:57,240 --> 04:21:59,840 Speaker 1: dad got married and two years later had my sister. 4843 04:22:00,400 --> 04:22:03,440 Speaker 1: Fast forward a few years, my grandma is babysitting my 4844 04:22:03,520 --> 04:22:05,920 Speaker 1: sister and I and a policeman shows up at her house. 4845 04:22:06,560 --> 04:22:09,240 Speaker 1: My grandma answers, and she was given papers that basically 4846 04:22:09,320 --> 04:22:12,680 Speaker 1: said that you have missed too many mortgage payments and 4847 04:22:12,800 --> 04:22:16,040 Speaker 1: your house is going to be taken away. Uh, she 4848 04:22:16,160 --> 04:22:19,120 Speaker 1: tells my mom, but instead of doing the responsible adult thing, 4849 04:22:19,840 --> 04:22:24,480 Speaker 1: she refuses to tell my dad and throws the papers away. What, well, 4850 04:22:25,000 --> 04:22:27,080 Speaker 1: what you really should have done is eaten the papers, 4851 04:22:27,160 --> 04:22:29,800 Speaker 1: because then legally they can't do anything about it it. 4852 04:22:30,480 --> 04:22:33,160 Speaker 2: Yep, I learned that from my lawyer. 4853 04:22:34,440 --> 04:22:37,520 Speaker 1: If you if you eat legal, legally binding documents, they 4854 04:22:37,560 --> 04:22:39,040 Speaker 1: are rendered null and void. 4855 04:22:39,160 --> 04:22:42,840 Speaker 3: All my theater kids, you read the one about the 4856 04:22:42,920 --> 04:22:44,200 Speaker 3: eating the divorce papers. 4857 04:22:44,600 --> 04:22:47,200 Speaker 1: Yep, that would work as long as you pass it 4858 04:22:47,440 --> 04:22:48,440 Speaker 1: entirely through your system. 4859 04:22:49,000 --> 04:22:50,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, what if it comes out legible? 4860 04:22:50,400 --> 04:22:51,240 Speaker 3: What if you double it? 4861 04:22:51,640 --> 04:22:54,160 Speaker 2: Then you've made a mistake. Oh you have to chew 4862 04:22:54,240 --> 04:22:56,760 Speaker 2: more thoroughly. True. Okay, good point. 4863 04:22:57,200 --> 04:23:02,600 Speaker 1: Anyway, throws the papers away. In the end, my grandma 4864 04:23:02,720 --> 04:23:05,080 Speaker 1: ended up having to save the house. Mind you, this 4865 04:23:05,240 --> 04:23:07,600 Speaker 1: is the second time that this has happened, and from 4866 04:23:07,640 --> 04:23:10,080 Speaker 1: what I heard from family, she used the money that 4867 04:23:10,200 --> 04:23:13,000 Speaker 1: was supposed to pay the mortgage to go shopping with friends. 4868 04:23:13,320 --> 04:23:15,560 Speaker 3: Sometimes you gotta do something for yourself. 4869 04:23:15,840 --> 04:23:16,200 Speaker 2: Mm hmm. 4870 04:23:16,400 --> 04:23:19,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, like maybe be a responsible mom every now and then. 4871 04:23:19,880 --> 04:23:20,920 Speaker 1: That's something you could do for you. 4872 04:23:21,080 --> 04:23:24,400 Speaker 2: Why buy food for your child when you could go 4873 04:23:24,480 --> 04:23:26,600 Speaker 2: shopping when you can buy a bag? Yeah? 4874 04:23:26,600 --> 04:23:29,240 Speaker 3: You think about that, do you do? 4875 04:23:29,360 --> 04:23:33,240 Speaker 1: My children wanted to look disgusting exactly. How can I 4876 04:23:33,320 --> 04:23:39,840 Speaker 1: be a proper mother if I look horrendous? Treat yourself Louey, Louie, Fendy, 4877 04:23:39,920 --> 04:23:43,360 Speaker 1: Fendi Prada, Okay, not shout out to everyone who knows 4878 04:23:43,400 --> 04:23:48,000 Speaker 1: that song. My aunt on my dad's side ends up 4879 04:23:48,040 --> 04:23:49,960 Speaker 1: confronting my mom about how she needs to tell my 4880 04:23:50,040 --> 04:23:53,240 Speaker 1: dad about the situation, which led to my mom forbidding 4881 04:23:53,760 --> 04:23:56,440 Speaker 1: me or my sister from seeing the majority of my 4882 04:23:56,560 --> 04:23:59,120 Speaker 1: dad's side of the family. And this broke my little 4883 04:23:59,160 --> 04:24:01,800 Speaker 1: heart because I was so close to my aunt, and 4884 04:24:01,880 --> 04:24:04,280 Speaker 1: I also wasn't old enough to understand what was really 4885 04:24:04,320 --> 04:24:07,560 Speaker 1: going on, only what my mom and dad told me. 4886 04:24:08,400 --> 04:24:11,320 Speaker 1: Fast forward a couple more years and my dad finds 4887 04:24:11,360 --> 04:24:14,760 Speaker 1: out that my mom cheated with not one, but two guys. 4888 04:24:14,920 --> 04:24:17,400 Speaker 1: From what I heard, you lose them, you get them, and. 4889 04:24:17,480 --> 04:24:18,720 Speaker 3: She's just all self love. 4890 04:24:18,920 --> 04:24:22,800 Speaker 2: Mom. Okay, double down, Yeah, buy yourself a Burkins so 4891 04:24:22,880 --> 04:24:23,880 Speaker 2: you don't feel the need. 4892 04:24:23,800 --> 04:24:27,800 Speaker 3: To my two berkins for both arms, two men for 4893 04:24:27,920 --> 04:24:31,080 Speaker 3: both arms for both burkins, two little men, two tiny 4894 04:24:31,160 --> 04:24:31,520 Speaker 3: little men. 4895 04:24:31,600 --> 04:24:32,360 Speaker 2: Even straight. 4896 04:24:34,280 --> 04:24:39,320 Speaker 1: Tweet yourselfys, boys, that's what we are now. 4897 04:24:41,120 --> 04:24:41,760 Speaker 2: Okay. 4898 04:24:42,240 --> 04:24:45,760 Speaker 1: Got divorced soon after Soon after finding out about the cheating, 4899 04:24:46,040 --> 04:24:49,320 Speaker 1: they got divorced. This was a major source of trauma 4900 04:24:49,520 --> 04:24:51,560 Speaker 1: because it's the first time I have ever seen my 4901 04:24:51,680 --> 04:24:54,680 Speaker 1: dad cry, and my trust with my mom was completely shattered. 4902 04:24:55,440 --> 04:24:58,800 Speaker 1: Fast forward even more and I'm eighteen and my mom 4903 04:24:59,040 --> 04:25:02,680 Speaker 1: is with her second rappy boyfriend. The first one was worse, 4904 04:25:02,760 --> 04:25:06,160 Speaker 1: but that's an entire other subject. For Christmas Eve that year, 4905 04:25:06,360 --> 04:25:09,240 Speaker 1: I went to my great aunt's house and to my surprise, 4906 04:25:09,800 --> 04:25:12,200 Speaker 1: my aunt that I haven't seen for twelve years is 4907 04:25:12,280 --> 04:25:16,400 Speaker 1: there and we reconnect to make a very long and crappy, 4908 04:25:16,480 --> 04:25:19,440 Speaker 1: showy stort. My mom found out that I'm talking to 4909 04:25:19,520 --> 04:25:23,480 Speaker 1: her and freaks out. I've talked to my aunt, great grandma, 4910 04:25:23,640 --> 04:25:25,960 Speaker 1: and dad and got their side of the story. So 4911 04:25:26,040 --> 04:25:28,080 Speaker 1: I decided that the mature thing to do would to 4912 04:25:28,520 --> 04:25:31,120 Speaker 1: get my mom's side of the story, and if I 4913 04:25:31,160 --> 04:25:33,200 Speaker 1: felt that there was a good reason that I was 4914 04:25:33,240 --> 04:25:35,560 Speaker 1: cut off from them, I would choose to stay away 4915 04:25:35,560 --> 04:25:42,200 Speaker 1: from them. Uh wait, I okay, I'm gonna leave. That 4916 04:25:42,320 --> 04:25:44,640 Speaker 1: is that? Uh? The only thing that I was able 4917 04:25:44,720 --> 04:25:46,840 Speaker 1: to get out of my mom was that they were 4918 04:25:46,960 --> 04:25:51,320 Speaker 1: horrible people and that I was betraying her by talking 4919 04:25:51,360 --> 04:25:51,680 Speaker 1: to them. 4920 04:25:52,120 --> 04:25:54,600 Speaker 2: Would not tell me what they did wrong or anything. 4921 04:25:55,440 --> 04:25:58,120 Speaker 1: Thanks to garbage boyfriend, who gave her the idea, she 4922 04:25:58,320 --> 04:26:02,040 Speaker 1: threatens to kick me out of two different times because 4923 04:26:02,120 --> 04:26:05,000 Speaker 1: I was talking to my own family even though I 4924 04:26:05,160 --> 04:26:07,520 Speaker 1: was eighteen, and I believed I had the full right 4925 04:26:07,640 --> 04:26:09,560 Speaker 1: to make my own decisions about who I wanted in 4926 04:26:09,640 --> 04:26:10,000 Speaker 1: my life. 4927 04:26:10,640 --> 04:26:13,200 Speaker 2: Because that's true. You do you get to talk to 4928 04:26:13,600 --> 04:26:15,040 Speaker 2: people in your life, your family? 4929 04:26:15,520 --> 04:26:19,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, No, you have full autonomy over who gets to 4930 04:26:19,160 --> 04:26:27,080 Speaker 1: stay in your life as an adult. Late street, John's 4931 04:26:27,080 --> 04:26:28,280 Speaker 1: getting thrown into the sun. 4932 04:26:28,360 --> 04:26:30,600 Speaker 2: John, How old are you? Huh? How old are you? John? 4933 04:26:31,160 --> 04:26:31,200 Speaker 1: No? 4934 04:26:31,280 --> 04:26:35,040 Speaker 2: He's two hundred and one. Oh, we're all old here. 4935 04:26:35,280 --> 04:26:37,720 Speaker 1: No, it's because there's some is there's someone's name is 4936 04:26:37,800 --> 04:26:38,840 Speaker 1: John is two hundred and one? 4937 04:26:38,920 --> 04:26:43,400 Speaker 2: Yes, bro, he keeps his age. You're two hundred and one. 4938 04:26:43,480 --> 04:26:45,080 Speaker 2: It used to be one hundred or something. It's official. 4939 04:26:45,120 --> 04:26:48,280 Speaker 2: It's on your Wikipedia. You grow a year every day, 4940 04:26:48,920 --> 04:26:49,480 Speaker 2: that's true. 4941 04:26:50,680 --> 04:26:53,240 Speaker 1: That's why you're two hundred and one days old. True. 4942 04:26:57,720 --> 04:26:58,160 Speaker 2: Okay. 4943 04:26:59,480 --> 04:27:02,360 Speaker 1: This also started a lot of fights because at this 4944 04:27:02,520 --> 04:27:04,360 Speaker 1: time I was done with their crap and stood up 4945 04:27:04,400 --> 04:27:08,560 Speaker 1: for myself. Eventually, everything finally calmed down and planning for 4946 04:27:08,680 --> 04:27:11,760 Speaker 1: my graduation party started. When talking about who I should 4947 04:27:11,800 --> 04:27:13,960 Speaker 1: invite for my party, she tried to tell me that 4948 04:27:14,040 --> 04:27:16,880 Speaker 1: my dad shouldn't be invited, and I lost it and 4949 04:27:17,000 --> 04:27:19,240 Speaker 1: put my foot down because there was no way that 4950 04:27:19,360 --> 04:27:21,120 Speaker 1: my father wasn't going to be at a party to 4951 04:27:21,160 --> 04:27:24,880 Speaker 1: celebrate me and all my achievements throughout high school. Word 4952 04:27:26,160 --> 04:27:28,560 Speaker 1: related to this, another problem we had was her taking 4953 04:27:28,600 --> 04:27:31,760 Speaker 1: control of planning and not letting me decide very much. 4954 04:27:32,120 --> 04:27:34,560 Speaker 1: I pretty much only got to decide the main food, 4955 04:27:35,120 --> 04:27:41,360 Speaker 1: and on the first reasons she threatened to kick me out, 4956 04:27:42,080 --> 04:27:45,200 Speaker 1: she refused to let me have the party at a park. 4957 04:27:45,480 --> 04:27:47,960 Speaker 1: Although I'm a very outdoorsy person and prefer not to 4958 04:27:48,040 --> 04:27:50,880 Speaker 1: be in an enclosed space for five hours on a 4959 04:27:50,960 --> 04:27:51,360 Speaker 1: nice day. 4960 04:27:52,520 --> 04:27:53,400 Speaker 2: One smaller thing. 4961 04:27:53,520 --> 04:27:55,560 Speaker 1: So and to clear that up, that was the first 4962 04:27:55,600 --> 04:27:57,360 Speaker 1: time I think she'd been threatened to be kicked out 4963 04:27:57,360 --> 04:27:59,440 Speaker 1: of the house. Is by being like, I want to 4964 04:27:59,480 --> 04:28:01,560 Speaker 1: have the party here. She's like, if you don't have 4965 04:28:01,720 --> 04:28:03,560 Speaker 1: the party here, I'm kicking you out of the house. 4966 04:28:03,600 --> 04:28:05,200 Speaker 3: She's like, if you want to have the party in 4967 04:28:05,280 --> 04:28:06,880 Speaker 3: the park, then you can live in the park. 4968 04:28:07,320 --> 04:28:09,160 Speaker 2: If you love the park so much, why don't you 4969 04:28:09,280 --> 04:28:09,640 Speaker 2: move there? 4970 04:28:09,960 --> 04:28:10,880 Speaker 3: Why did you marry it? 4971 04:28:12,120 --> 04:28:18,640 Speaker 1: Why I'm not sexually attracted the parks, But Mom, please, 4972 04:28:19,320 --> 04:28:20,720 Speaker 1: I don't want to marry the park. 4973 04:28:20,960 --> 04:28:24,520 Speaker 2: I don't even like the way it looks easy. Good park, 4974 04:28:24,760 --> 04:28:27,160 Speaker 2: and you won't marry him and your girl like it? 4975 04:28:29,480 --> 04:28:30,080 Speaker 3: A good park? 4976 04:28:30,200 --> 04:28:34,760 Speaker 2: Family, Yeah, good park, good park. Look at. One small 4977 04:28:35,000 --> 04:28:39,560 Speaker 2: thing that led to me wow, Okay. 4978 04:28:40,240 --> 04:28:42,960 Speaker 1: One smaller thing that led to being a to me 4979 04:28:43,080 --> 04:28:46,440 Speaker 1: eventually moving out is the fact that even though I 4980 04:28:46,640 --> 04:28:49,560 Speaker 1: was heavily involved in school sports and activities and wouldn't 4981 04:28:49,560 --> 04:28:51,640 Speaker 1: be home until late, she would ask me to do 4982 04:28:51,800 --> 04:28:55,200 Speaker 1: something before I even got into the house, even though 4983 04:28:55,600 --> 04:28:57,960 Speaker 1: she has been at the house all day. She would 4984 04:28:57,960 --> 04:29:00,000 Speaker 1: also expect me to do something even though I was 4985 04:29:00,160 --> 04:29:02,360 Speaker 1: away from the house from five forty in the morning 4986 04:29:02,440 --> 04:29:06,400 Speaker 1: for lifting class to sometimes ten o'clock at night, depending 4987 04:29:06,440 --> 04:29:08,880 Speaker 1: on what activities I was involved in and if I 4988 04:29:09,000 --> 04:29:10,680 Speaker 1: was visiting my boyfriend busy. 4989 04:29:10,840 --> 04:29:13,200 Speaker 3: I thought you were just lifting from five am to 4990 04:29:14,120 --> 04:29:15,880 Speaker 3: I have a lot of lifting to do. 4991 04:29:16,880 --> 04:29:23,880 Speaker 2: I do jack like Sophiel. I'm afraid, please, your muscles 4992 04:29:23,920 --> 04:29:29,400 Speaker 2: are scaring me. Okay, back into it. 4993 04:29:30,920 --> 04:29:34,560 Speaker 1: My final breaking point was her complaining all the time 4994 04:29:34,680 --> 04:29:37,520 Speaker 1: that no one would help her with planning my graduation party. 4995 04:29:37,760 --> 04:29:40,640 Speaker 1: Although I have told her multiple times what I wanted, 4996 04:29:40,920 --> 04:29:43,320 Speaker 1: she completely ignored it, which in the end is what 4997 04:29:43,480 --> 04:29:46,200 Speaker 1: caused me to stop really caring. The day that I 4998 04:29:46,360 --> 04:29:48,920 Speaker 1: decided to leave, we got into a huge argument where 4999 04:29:48,960 --> 04:29:51,680 Speaker 1: she told me that my family was basically brainwashing me 5000 04:29:52,080 --> 04:29:54,920 Speaker 1: into thinking that my mom is a terrible person, a 5001 04:29:55,040 --> 04:29:59,160 Speaker 1: conclusion I came to on my own accord. Boom roasted 5002 04:29:59,440 --> 04:30:04,240 Speaker 1: got then the bashing on Facebook pins so she pretty 5003 04:30:04,320 --> 04:30:08,280 Speaker 1: much tells everyone that I'm a crappy daughter, multiple people 5004 04:30:08,360 --> 04:30:11,280 Speaker 1: that I did and didn't know, the majority I didn't 5005 04:30:11,360 --> 04:30:14,000 Speaker 1: actually know, including a crabby boyfriend. 5006 04:30:14,440 --> 04:30:16,320 Speaker 2: The message that he ended up sending me kind of. 5007 04:30:16,360 --> 04:30:18,240 Speaker 1: Shook me a bit, and I tried avoiding him at 5008 04:30:18,280 --> 04:30:21,600 Speaker 1: all costs ended up contacting me and saying that I'm 5009 04:30:21,640 --> 04:30:25,200 Speaker 1: making a mistake by cutting off my mom. In the end, 5010 04:30:25,400 --> 04:30:28,200 Speaker 1: a bunch more crappy stuff happens, but fortunately I do 5011 04:30:28,400 --> 04:30:31,760 Speaker 1: end up having a really great graduation party and my 5012 04:30:31,920 --> 04:30:34,480 Speaker 1: dad and the rest of my family got to come. 5013 04:30:35,040 --> 04:30:37,680 Speaker 1: Another detail is that my mom specifically told me that 5014 04:30:37,760 --> 04:30:39,480 Speaker 1: my family was not allowed to be at the party, 5015 04:30:39,520 --> 04:30:41,400 Speaker 1: but I invited them anyways because I love them and 5016 04:30:41,480 --> 04:30:45,560 Speaker 1: this was a day to celebrate me. After the party, 5017 04:30:45,960 --> 04:30:47,920 Speaker 1: I made the decision to block my mom on everything, 5018 04:30:48,000 --> 04:30:51,240 Speaker 1: which was a major weight off my shoulders. The graduation 5019 04:30:51,440 --> 04:30:54,200 Speaker 1: was actually really great. Tears were definitely shed, and it 5020 04:30:54,360 --> 04:30:57,400 Speaker 1: was really a moment that I am very proud of. 5021 04:30:58,240 --> 04:31:01,920 Speaker 1: Months later, in the present, I'm now in college doing 5022 04:31:02,080 --> 04:31:07,160 Speaker 1: my gen eds for nursing, debt free because community college rocks. 5023 04:31:08,200 --> 04:31:10,640 Speaker 1: I work at a gym in my hometown, which my 5024 04:31:10,720 --> 04:31:12,600 Speaker 1: mom unfortunately works at. 5025 04:31:12,720 --> 04:31:16,600 Speaker 2: Two just like, maybe don't work at the one place 5026 04:31:16,640 --> 04:31:19,360 Speaker 2: where your mom is. 5027 04:31:21,200 --> 04:31:23,600 Speaker 1: But I rarely ever see her besides once a month 5028 04:31:23,680 --> 04:31:27,680 Speaker 1: at meetings, which I really don't mind. Yesterday, twenty minutes 5029 04:31:27,720 --> 04:31:30,840 Speaker 1: before closing, she just randomly shows up while I'm at working. 5030 04:31:31,200 --> 04:31:34,440 Speaker 1: While I'm working the front desk, she asked me how okay. 5031 04:31:34,480 --> 04:31:36,480 Speaker 1: But to be fair, she didn't just randomly show up. 5032 04:31:36,520 --> 04:31:37,040 Speaker 2: She works there. 5033 04:31:37,800 --> 04:31:39,480 Speaker 1: She does work there, so you can't be like, well, 5034 04:31:39,560 --> 04:31:42,200 Speaker 1: she's so crazy she just showed up. It's like, all 5035 04:31:42,360 --> 04:31:47,120 Speaker 1: allow it, jesus, she works there. She asked me how 5036 04:31:47,160 --> 04:31:49,600 Speaker 1: I'm doing. I said fine. She asked me how school 5037 04:31:49,720 --> 04:31:53,040 Speaker 1: was going. I said fine. Then she said that we 5038 04:31:53,120 --> 04:31:55,800 Speaker 1: should meet up sometime and talk. And I don't say 5039 04:31:55,880 --> 04:31:59,520 Speaker 1: anything and she just leaves. But we don't ever want 5040 04:31:59,560 --> 04:32:02,840 Speaker 1: you to leave. Eve our live stream every weekday at 5041 04:32:02,920 --> 04:32:04,280 Speaker 1: three pm on YouTube. 5042 04:32:04,440 --> 04:32:09,440 Speaker 2: Just tap our profile and you are in. They sometimes 5043 04:32:09,800 --> 04:32:11,560 Speaker 2: they do go a long someday. 5044 04:32:11,320 --> 04:32:13,960 Speaker 1: And their suits and all and cake and peaches and 5045 04:32:14,200 --> 04:32:18,000 Speaker 1: all that. Maybe three to three and we're only one 5046 04:32:18,080 --> 04:32:20,640 Speaker 1: hundred dollars away from fifteen more minutes added to the 5047 04:32:20,800 --> 04:32:22,600 Speaker 1: next We're time. 5048 04:32:22,800 --> 04:32:23,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're at it. 5049 04:32:23,560 --> 04:32:26,280 Speaker 1: We'll be added to the next stream. So don't no 5050 04:32:26,400 --> 04:32:28,520 Speaker 1: matter what we're done after the story? 5051 04:32:28,840 --> 04:32:33,200 Speaker 2: I think, is that legal? You tell me your HR 5052 04:32:35,600 --> 04:32:48,400 Speaker 2: around these parts? Damn it read it's late. 5053 04:32:51,840 --> 04:32:55,200 Speaker 1: Although I'm pretty intent on not seeing Slash talking to 5054 04:32:55,280 --> 04:32:57,880 Speaker 1: her right now, I'm wondering if that is. 5055 04:32:57,960 --> 04:32:59,720 Speaker 2: Something I should do soon. 5056 04:33:03,360 --> 04:33:05,480 Speaker 1: I'm really happy the way the things are right now, 5057 04:33:05,600 --> 04:33:07,640 Speaker 1: and I'm scared that if I do end up letting 5058 04:33:07,680 --> 04:33:10,400 Speaker 1: her back into my life, she's going to add a 5059 04:33:10,480 --> 04:33:14,320 Speaker 1: lot more stress than what I'm experiencing now. I want 5060 04:33:14,360 --> 04:33:16,360 Speaker 1: to be the bigger person and do what's right, but 5061 04:33:16,480 --> 04:33:19,080 Speaker 1: I also am still upset with her and don't want 5062 04:33:19,160 --> 04:33:22,000 Speaker 1: to see her. Sorry for making this super long, but 5063 04:33:22,160 --> 04:33:27,440 Speaker 1: advice would be greatly appreciated. Stop working with her, yeah her. 5064 04:33:27,520 --> 04:33:30,200 Speaker 1: If you don't want to see your mom, don't work 5065 04:33:30,280 --> 04:33:31,960 Speaker 1: in the same place that your mom works. 5066 04:33:31,960 --> 04:33:34,080 Speaker 2: Would be step number one smart. 5067 04:33:34,600 --> 04:33:37,400 Speaker 3: It's like, oh, I don't want to see a fork, 5068 04:33:37,480 --> 04:33:38,960 Speaker 3: and then you walk into the kitchen. 5069 04:33:40,360 --> 04:33:47,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, what kind of analogy was that. It's like you 5070 04:33:48,000 --> 04:33:51,000 Speaker 2: go into the climbing gym and you're like, too many rocks. 5071 04:33:51,520 --> 04:33:52,759 Speaker 2: I don't want the rocks. 5072 04:33:55,200 --> 04:33:58,000 Speaker 1: They always have rocks at rocks rock hard hard rock 5073 04:33:58,240 --> 04:33:59,080 Speaker 1: rock climbing gym. 5074 04:33:59,200 --> 04:34:01,240 Speaker 3: But that's the end the story is. 5075 04:34:04,080 --> 04:34:07,039 Speaker 1: I feel like we didn't give any actual advice. All 5076 04:34:07,120 --> 04:34:13,080 Speaker 1: he said is don't work at the gym. No, what 5077 04:34:13,200 --> 04:34:16,960 Speaker 1: you want take is that you're still like nineteen, And 5078 04:34:17,120 --> 04:34:21,200 Speaker 1: I don't think it's necessarily time to hard cut off 5079 04:34:21,360 --> 04:34:23,280 Speaker 1: your mom out of your life. You work with her 5080 04:34:23,440 --> 04:34:25,680 Speaker 1: because she's a human being who makes mistakes. 5081 04:34:25,720 --> 04:34:26,640 Speaker 2: It is not perfect. 5082 04:34:26,759 --> 04:34:29,400 Speaker 1: She might like all of our parents and all of us, 5083 04:34:30,120 --> 04:34:35,200 Speaker 1: so you know, definitely keep it in mind over time 5084 04:34:35,320 --> 04:34:40,200 Speaker 1: if her behavior does not change. But I think you 5085 04:34:40,320 --> 04:34:43,240 Speaker 1: need to have a conversation with your mom about your 5086 04:34:43,360 --> 04:34:46,400 Speaker 1: boundaries now that you are an adult and where you 5087 04:34:46,840 --> 04:34:50,960 Speaker 1: want the relationship to be, and also maybe letting her 5088 04:34:51,040 --> 04:34:53,800 Speaker 1: know that you don't like her boyfriend because you think 5089 04:34:53,880 --> 04:34:54,360 Speaker 1: he sucks. 5090 04:34:54,520 --> 04:34:55,720 Speaker 3: I said, to get her fired. 5091 04:34:56,440 --> 04:34:58,040 Speaker 2: What what is wrong with you? 5092 04:34:58,320 --> 04:34:59,320 Speaker 3: I don't know what's going on. 5093 04:35:01,360 --> 04:35:06,000 Speaker 2: Another alternative, take every penny you have, hire a private 5094 04:35:06,759 --> 04:35:10,400 Speaker 2: an organization that will professionally kidnap her and place her 5095 04:35:10,480 --> 04:35:13,000 Speaker 2: in another country where she has to start anew without 5096 04:35:13,040 --> 04:35:15,880 Speaker 2: her passport and she can't get back into your home country. 5097 04:35:16,800 --> 04:35:23,480 Speaker 2: Is real. This is really the greatest advice. Okay, scared, 5098 04:35:23,640 --> 04:35:26,800 Speaker 2: we built this show on our backs. Advice. 5099 04:35:27,560 --> 04:35:30,440 Speaker 1: Fire your mom, Fire your mom. 5100 04:35:30,360 --> 04:35:33,400 Speaker 3: I said, take her to the climbing gym, climbing gym. 5101 04:35:34,320 --> 04:35:39,840 Speaker 2: Take her to rock car Rock Rock climbing gym. Fertile baby. 5102 04:35:40,000 --> 04:35:44,200 Speaker 1: Okay, I don't see how many new babies. Those are 5103 04:35:44,200 --> 04:35:44,920 Speaker 1: the same babies. 5104 04:35:44,960 --> 04:35:45,680 Speaker 5: They're just fresh. 5105 04:35:47,000 --> 04:35:51,280 Speaker 2: You had babies there before. Kean read some doughnuts, my man. Okay, 5106 04:35:51,520 --> 04:35:53,080 Speaker 2: all right, I get one more spin at the end. 5107 04:35:53,160 --> 04:35:55,800 Speaker 2: Guys and a p oh and a p thanks for 5108 04:35:55,880 --> 04:35:57,360 Speaker 2: the ten box reunion stream. 5109 04:35:59,240 --> 04:35:59,800 Speaker 1: Let me refresh it. 5110 04:35:59,880 --> 04:36:03,560 Speaker 2: Let we're gonna read fresh. Ah, here we go u 5111 04:36:04,960 --> 04:36:07,320 Speaker 2: kko ninety thanks it the five bucks. Can't believe you 5112 04:36:07,360 --> 04:36:10,200 Speaker 2: guys are still going neither can we either, can we? 5113 04:36:11,280 --> 04:36:13,320 Speaker 3: Yeah and a pee, thank you for the ten bucks 5114 04:36:13,759 --> 04:36:14,079 Speaker 3: we got. 5115 04:36:14,759 --> 04:36:17,560 Speaker 2: You said that, Hey, you know what hoko sounds like? 5116 04:36:18,960 --> 04:36:22,680 Speaker 2: Hoko sounds like say smash. 5117 04:36:23,919 --> 04:36:27,920 Speaker 3: We're saying Sophia smash, which but are fun. 5118 04:36:29,520 --> 04:36:32,680 Speaker 2: We're here for it. Kat, thanks for gifting one membership. 5119 04:36:32,800 --> 04:36:36,720 Speaker 2: Let's go and welcome to the nights. Let's go. Yeah, 5120 04:36:37,280 --> 04:36:41,120 Speaker 2: Elizabeth uh Wender, thanks for thirty bucks on the YouTube 5121 04:36:41,200 --> 04:36:44,760 Speaker 2: super chat not hatter Gale to the charge. Thanks for 5122 04:36:44,840 --> 04:36:49,320 Speaker 2: the five gifted memberships. Elizabeth Wincher with another twenty dollars. 5123 04:36:49,480 --> 04:36:53,640 Speaker 2: Just going crazy with a cute hippo sticker. Victory and 5124 04:36:53,800 --> 04:36:55,160 Speaker 2: then that's it. 5125 04:36:55,800 --> 04:36:59,840 Speaker 1: That's it, sweet, sweet sweet victory. 5126 04:37:00,240 --> 04:37:03,360 Speaker 2: All right, you know what time it is now? It's 5127 04:37:03,440 --> 04:37:05,840 Speaker 2: well we we do give them one more spin? Right, 5128 04:37:06,280 --> 04:37:06,840 Speaker 2: one more spin? 5129 04:37:07,320 --> 04:37:07,520 Speaker 3: Yeah? 5130 04:37:09,680 --> 04:37:10,720 Speaker 2: Wheelspin oh yeah. 5131 04:37:10,640 --> 04:37:13,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, after quick, get up, make it quick, you got 5132 04:37:13,720 --> 04:37:14,280 Speaker 3: five seconds? 5133 04:37:14,360 --> 04:37:29,800 Speaker 2: Oh, here we go, Here we go, spins, there is spine, guys. 5134 04:37:31,200 --> 04:37:33,240 Speaker 2: Call me the wheel guys, because I'm going to take it. 5135 04:37:33,280 --> 04:37:33,720 Speaker 5: For a spin. 5136 04:37:36,040 --> 04:37:39,360 Speaker 2: Make sure to subscribe. We love you as