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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Ro good morning, welcome to the show. How are you

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Speaker 1: damn good? Thanks well, thanks for being here. Man, it's

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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone. As you know, we're trying to

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Speaker 1: figure out why you may have been ghosted. So tell

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Speaker 1: us about this woman, Lydia, how did you meet? Tell

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Speaker 1: us about any dates that you've been on, and then

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Speaker 1: where things are now?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so we met on Hinge and we've had the

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Speaker 2: one date, no more after that. I mean we had

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Speaker 2: one dinner date. I thought it was amazing. I thought

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Speaker 2: it went really well. But I texted to make sure

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Speaker 2: she got home and she never answered me. And she

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Speaker 2: hadn't texted me since.

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Speaker 1: I don't think she got home yet. How long it

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Speaker 1: was this date? And I hope she got home. I'm

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Speaker 1: she got home. But something must have happened on this date.

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Speaker 1: You look back, though, and you really think it was amazing,

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Speaker 1: Like you don't think there was any no weird hiccups,

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Speaker 1: nothing like you honestly think that this was an amazing date.

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Speaker 1: And you gonna hear from this woman again.

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Speaker 2: They're talking the whole time. We were we were laughing,

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Speaker 2: you know, she was laughing at me, and I thought

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Speaker 2: she was funny. It really just like a good date

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Speaker 1: Yeah, good communication, all of that. All right, Well, that's

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Speaker 1: a shame and it's annoying because nobody wants to find

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Speaker 1: someone they like and then they don't like them back,

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Speaker 1: and it's kind of rude not to maybe give someone

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Speaker 1: some form of at least hey, I got home, but

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Speaker 1: I'm not ever gonna call you again ever in my

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Speaker 1: whole life or something. I mean, you could say something

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Speaker 1: like that, couldn't you, Kiki, That's the least she could do. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, yeah, I mean, probably nicer way to say

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Speaker 1: it than that, but yeah, I mean maybe not. So

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Speaker 1: let's call this woman Lydia. You'll be on the phone, Brock.

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Speaker 1: We'll ask some questions, we'll see if we can figure

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Speaker 1: out what's going on. You welcome jump in at some point,

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Speaker 1: and hopefully there's a misunderstanding here something when on Maybe

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Speaker 1: she has AT and T that's what it is. Oh,

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Speaker 1: she had AT and T por phoo stop working and

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Speaker 1: then now it works again. So I'm sure she was

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Speaker 1: just meaning to get around to calling you, and we're

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Speaker 1: about to find out here in just a second. So

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Speaker 1: hang on, Brock, Let's see what happens next two minutes away.

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Speaker 1: Stay right here after Miley Cyrus, we'll do part two

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Speaker 1: awaiting met the phone on the Fred Show. Miley Cyrus,

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Speaker 1: Good morning, The Fred Show. Is that it's Friday. We're

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Speaker 1: on the radio and the iHeart app as well anytime

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Speaker 1: search for The Fred Show on demand. Hey Brock, all right,

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Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call Lydia. You guys met on the

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Speaker 1: dating app Hinge and you went on a dinner date

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Speaker 1: that you thought went really well. In fact, I believe

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Speaker 1: Leivi used the word amazing. I think you said it

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Speaker 1: was amazing. You know, the conversation was good, and the

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Speaker 1: jokes were flowing and everybody was having a good time.

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Speaker 1: There was chemistry. The problem is that you've reached out

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Speaker 1: to her since to date. Actually she never even you

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Speaker 1: want to know what's going on. Yeah, that's all right,

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Speaker 1: let's call her now. Good luck, Brock. Hello, Hi is Lydia? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Hi Lydia. Good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling

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Speaker 1: from the Fred Show, the Morning radio show, and I

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Speaker 1: with the call cauld which out for just a second.

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Speaker 1: Do you mind? Okay? Sure, Thank you very much. I

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Speaker 1: know it was kind of strange. Maybe you've heard this before,

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Speaker 1: maybe now, but it's called waiting by the phone, and

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Speaker 1: we're trying to figure out for this guy named Brock

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Speaker 1: why you haven't responded to him at all. He called

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Speaker 1: us and said that he met you and he thought

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Speaker 3: It was a good date, Like dinner was good.

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Speaker 2: I thought he was a nice guy.

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Speaker 3: I felt like we had a good time and like

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you're sitting there and this woman comes over all, hey, brock,

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Speaker 1: how you doing? You know whatever? And then he gets

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Speaker 1: up and he hugs it. That's one thing. But then

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Speaker 1: a kiss on the lips, like like a romantic looking

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Speaker 3: I don't know, Like they looked very comfortable, so I

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Speaker 3: it's the first date. I just I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I think it's just super weird.

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Speaker 3: But their tongue, I didn't see any tongue.

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Speaker 1: Where were the hands? Were the hands moving or were

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Speaker 1: on with the hands? This question? No, I think so too,

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Speaker 1: thank you? Where were the hands?

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Speaker 3: Honestly, I don't like one hundred percent remember, but I

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Speaker 3: don't remember being bothered by them, So I guess it

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Speaker 3: wasn't anywhere disrespectful, But I just thought the fact that

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Speaker 1: Dictah, that is interesting. I've forgot to mention that Brock

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Speaker 1: how do you explain the hug and the kiss on

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Speaker 2: Yeah, No, that's seriously, is like nothing to worry about

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Speaker 2: because we're best friend. She's basically like my sister. So

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Speaker 1: To say, Yeah, I don't know about hugging a kiss

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Speaker 2: We're just very comfortable with each other, like I kiss

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Speaker 1: I don't think in the mouth, that's the thing in

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Speaker 1: the all right, Right, I mean I've seen this happen.

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Speaker 4: I've been out to a dinner and I've seen someone

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Speaker 4: So I can't say that I've never seen this happen,

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Speaker 1: That's has that relationship with a kiss on the lips, lady,

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Speaker 1: your friend, your best friend? Has that ever gone to

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Speaker 1: more than that before? Like? Are you that comfortable because

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Speaker 1: you've done other things? I have to ask. I'm a journalist.

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Speaker 1: It's my responsibility to ask these questions.

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Speaker 2: No. No, we've been friends since high school and we've

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Speaker 2: always just been very comfortable with each other. But we've

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Speaker 1: No, you don't want them. I do know, Like culturally,

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Speaker 1: more affectionate with one another than others. I don't want

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Speaker 1: Brock is being cultural. Well, I don't know. But what

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to be is open minded here. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'm not kissing another woman on the lips on that date.

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Speaker 1: I mean, Lydia, what do you think? This guy says,

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Speaker 1: it's just sort of standard operating procedure for that, for

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I'm just kind of like dumbfounded to

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Speaker 3: as you say, that's your sister, Like I would never

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Speaker 1: So I feel like we're just not really. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: don't even introduce it like, hey, this is my best

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Speaker 1: but we're all close in this room, but we're not

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Speaker 1: like mouth kissing each other every morning like wet see

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Speaker 1: for yourself. Sorry, well, right, Jason only kissed me on

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Speaker 1: turn the cheek. It's fine, you know. And Paulina same way.

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Speaker 1: It's like, come on, you're a married woman and I

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Speaker 1: know we're friends. Like this is crazy. No, I agree

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Speaker 1: with you, Like I I'm not a big lip kisser anyway,

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Speaker 1: unless it's romantic, but I know some people are, but

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Speaker 1: that's reserved for like your mother and your grandmother kind

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Speaker 1: of thing. Even then, I don't know. But all right Lydia,

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Speaker 1: would you consider another opportunity for this guy? Would you

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Speaker 1: get Brock another chance? I mean, he explained it the

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Speaker 1: way he explained it, Either you buy it or you don't.

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Speaker 1: But I mean you said you liked him up until

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Speaker 1: that point. So how about another date that we pay for?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I just I don't think so, that's just not

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Brock, Look yeah.

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Speaker 2: No, I just that was not anything. There was no

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Speaker 2: romantic thing there, So you have literally nothing to worry about.

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Speaker 1: Like you just don't find it weird. Like you kiss

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Speaker 1: your best friend on the lips, that's not weird to you,

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Speaker 1: brought No.

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Speaker 2: Because we do it all the all the time.

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Speaker 1: That's just normal. Was there any kind of tingle when

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Speaker 1: you kiss their like, any kind of you know, any

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Speaker 2: No, it's no, It's just the way that we greet

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Speaker 2: each other. That's just a normal thing.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well hey look then you guys keep

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Speaker 1: doing that and I let me know when the wedding

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Speaker 1: what's comfortable for you is not for Lydias, So it's

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Speaker 1: not going to work out. Guys, Thank you both for

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Speaker 1: your time. Best of luck out there.

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Speaker 2: God, thank you