WEBVTT - DeAnna’s Going On A Date 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:04.320 iHeart Podcasts bring you the ultimate Summer of Love Tree. 0:00:04.680 --> 0:00:09.280 This is Famously Available. Welcome back to Famously Available. I'm 0:00:09.320 --> 0:00:12.080 your host, Ben Higgins, and I'm really excited about this 0:00:12.119 --> 0:00:16.120 episode because we've been getting to know our famously Available women, 0:00:16.160 --> 0:00:20.800 and let me tell you, they are awesome. We got 0:00:20.880 --> 0:00:23.840 Dianna and Mercedes. We've been catching up with them for 0:00:24.079 --> 0:00:28.160 what seems like months now. Uh and today I'm sending 0:00:28.280 --> 0:00:32.080 Dianna on a date in the real world and she's 0:00:32.120 --> 0:00:36.480 here with me. She's looking beautiful, looking, flirty. 0:00:38.600 --> 0:00:39.400 Am I. 0:00:39.400 --> 0:00:41.040 I thought you were going to keep going. That's why 0:00:41.080 --> 0:00:44.680 I paused. I was waiting for the multitude compliment. 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:48.600 Memorous, looking, spunky, all these things. 0:00:48.600 --> 0:00:52.560 Okay, Spunky. I don't know if I hope this date 0:00:52.560 --> 0:00:53.960 thinks I'm spunky, Ben. 0:00:54.360 --> 0:00:55.720 I think Spunky's a good thing. 0:00:55.960 --> 0:00:58.000 Spunky. Okay, all right, so. 0:00:57.960 --> 0:00:58.440 Here we go. 0:00:59.200 --> 0:01:01.640 This is a lot of fun for me. We've sent 0:01:01.720 --> 0:01:04.200 you to San Francisco is where you're currently at. You're 0:01:04.240 --> 0:01:07.760 going to a Jonas Brothers concert. This date will be 0:01:07.840 --> 0:01:12.320 there with you. I'm very very excited to ask you, 0:01:12.440 --> 0:01:13.480 how are you feeling? 0:01:14.360 --> 0:01:17.200 I am super excited. I have to be honest. The 0:01:17.280 --> 0:01:20.479 response to the podcast has been really great. But our 0:01:20.520 --> 0:01:23.480 listeners keep messaging me wanting to know if I'm actually 0:01:23.480 --> 0:01:25.720 going to date someone, Like they're all caught up now 0:01:25.720 --> 0:01:27.319 on all of the things and they know what I 0:01:27.360 --> 0:01:29.160 want and what I'm doing, but they would like to 0:01:29.200 --> 0:01:31.480 know if I'm actually going to be dating. 0:01:31.520 --> 0:01:32.760 And I was like, yeah, I hope. So I'm just 0:01:32.760 --> 0:01:33.640 waiting on Ben here. 0:01:33.959 --> 0:01:36.760 Yeah, yeah, you know what. We want to get the 0:01:36.800 --> 0:01:41.360 episodes out there. So the responses were incredible. We have 0:01:41.400 --> 0:01:43.600 a lot of options available. I think this is a 0:01:43.640 --> 0:01:44.679 good option for you. 0:01:44.760 --> 0:01:45.000 Though. 0:01:45.959 --> 0:01:46.920 Are you nervous at all? 0:01:47.880 --> 0:01:51.320 No, not right now. I just am like, you know, 0:01:51.360 --> 0:01:52.000 I'm just trying to. 0:01:51.920 --> 0:01:54.520 Find the right outfit to wear. But like my genes 0:01:54.560 --> 0:01:57.520 look so great, but they're so tight Ben that I'm suffocating. 0:01:57.640 --> 0:02:00.600 But it's a good asset, you know what I mean. 0:02:00.600 --> 0:02:03.520 And I'm really trying to highlight it because I put 0:02:03.560 --> 0:02:05.320 one good foot in front of the other. 0:02:06.400 --> 0:02:06.680 Yeah. 0:02:06.800 --> 0:02:07.639 No, I'm not nervous. 0:02:07.640 --> 0:02:08.799 That's a good word you use there. 0:02:11.960 --> 0:02:15.000 I'm not nervous. I'm actually really excited. But my hope 0:02:15.040 --> 0:02:18.240 is that you know whomever it is that is coming 0:02:18.440 --> 0:02:22.360 that I guess it's taking it seriously, because I realized 0:02:22.400 --> 0:02:25.080 this is super unconventional to be going on a podcast, 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:28.280 to be dating a girl who was on reality TV 0:02:28.480 --> 0:02:30.920 a long time ago, you know what I mean, and 0:02:30.960 --> 0:02:33.760 to be able to think that that it could be something. 0:02:33.880 --> 0:02:36.240 There's a possibility that it could be something. So I 0:02:36.280 --> 0:02:39.760 hope is that that he's showing up with great intentions? 0:02:40.560 --> 0:02:41.000 Mm hmm. 0:02:41.440 --> 0:02:43.000 If he's your friend, I'm going to blame you. 0:02:44.200 --> 0:02:46.079 I think he is. Do you want to hear a 0:02:46.120 --> 0:02:46.919 little bit about him? 0:02:47.000 --> 0:02:47.440 Yeah? I do. 0:02:47.520 --> 0:02:49.240 I'm dying. No one will tell me anything. 0:02:49.639 --> 0:02:51.640 Okay, So, first thing, he's tall. 0:02:52.200 --> 0:02:55.200 Oh I love it, love love love. 0:02:56.160 --> 0:02:59.720 We at famously available. Find him very. 0:02:59.600 --> 0:03:03.800 Handsome, oh we that's exciting. 0:03:04.440 --> 0:03:09.000 Easton especially he grew up in the Bay Area. 0:03:09.880 --> 0:03:13.200 Okay, he's a dad, love it, love it. 0:03:14.400 --> 0:03:15.200 Very athletic. 0:03:15.560 --> 0:03:16.800 Oh, bonus points. 0:03:17.080 --> 0:03:19.120 He's a nice guy too. That's the final thing I'm 0:03:19.120 --> 0:03:21.079 gonna share with you tonight. He's a very nice guy. 0:03:21.360 --> 0:03:23.080 Okay. Is he funny? 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:25.320 You'll have to you have to be the judge of that. 0:03:25.400 --> 0:03:28.480 I think humor is something that I can never put 0:03:28.520 --> 0:03:31.519 down as a characteristic for somebody, because I find people 0:03:31.639 --> 0:03:33.959 hilarious that other people do not find funny. 0:03:34.240 --> 0:03:35.760 Okay, is he a Joe Bros. 0:03:35.800 --> 0:03:36.040 Fan? 0:03:37.080 --> 0:03:40.640 I don't know that, Or is it going to be 0:03:40.640 --> 0:03:42.720 like we're a couple of old chumps over here watching 0:03:42.760 --> 0:03:44.360 the Jonas Brothers creeping out? 0:03:47.120 --> 0:03:51.320 You do have some friends there with you? Or I 0:03:51.360 --> 0:03:55.680 saw some instagrams last night. I wasn't invited to this party. 0:03:55.720 --> 0:03:57.800 That's why I'm doing this virtually. I would have loved 0:03:57.840 --> 0:03:58.480 to be invited. 0:03:58.720 --> 0:04:01.880 It's an all girls dinner, Ben, it's an all. 0:04:01.880 --> 0:04:04.880 Girls dinner last night. Can you tell us who's there 0:04:04.960 --> 0:04:06.080 from the show with you? 0:04:07.240 --> 0:04:08.840 It's a lot of fun. 0:04:09.080 --> 0:04:15.960 It's Ashley I is here, Daisy is here, Kathy is here, 0:04:16.520 --> 0:04:22.839 Susan is here, Susie is here. It's a good group 0:04:22.920 --> 0:04:25.000 of solid women. That's a lot of fun. 0:04:25.320 --> 0:04:27.240 Are you getting any of their advice as you get 0:04:27.240 --> 0:04:27.960 ready for tonight? 0:04:28.760 --> 0:04:30.719 You know what is so funny is all of the 0:04:30.800 --> 0:04:33.120 girls were like, this is so exciting. You're going on 0:04:33.160 --> 0:04:34.719 a date. What are you guys going to do? And 0:04:34.760 --> 0:04:37.560 I was like, we're all kind of going on my 0:04:37.680 --> 0:04:42.280 date together. We're all gonna be together, which is super exciting. 0:04:42.360 --> 0:04:45.279 And so the girls were all actually really excited that 0:04:45.320 --> 0:04:47.240 they're going to get to meet him, because I was like, Okay, 0:04:48.400 --> 0:04:50.960 if he's great, we'll have a lot of fun. It's 0:04:51.000 --> 0:04:54.400 the Jonas Brothers concert. If he's not so great, there's 0:04:54.560 --> 0:04:56.760 other people in the room to talk to to help 0:04:56.800 --> 0:04:59.760 smooth things over. So for me, it's a win win. 0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:02.599 Doesn't feel like a lot of pressure. We can just 0:05:02.680 --> 0:05:07.920 hang out and enjoy good music, or we can really 0:05:08.000 --> 0:05:09.560 hit it off and it won't matter who else is 0:05:09.560 --> 0:05:10.120 in the room. 0:05:10.720 --> 0:05:13.160 Is this more or less ideal than just the two 0:05:13.200 --> 0:05:15.080 of you going out for the first time alone? 0:05:15.600 --> 0:05:21.880 To me, this is more ideal. I really appreciate non 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:23.080 traditional dating. 0:05:24.160 --> 0:05:24.360 You know. 0:05:24.600 --> 0:05:25.839 I had some friends who were like, oh my gosh, 0:05:25.839 --> 0:05:27.080 you're going to a concert, like you're not going to 0:05:27.120 --> 0:05:28.440 be able to talk and get to know each other. 0:05:28.480 --> 0:05:33.040 But for me, that feels almost like a relief, because 0:05:33.040 --> 0:05:36.240 what if the conversation does suck, you know what I mean, 0:05:36.279 --> 0:05:38.880 Like we'd just be like so hot about Nick I'm like. 0:05:39.120 --> 0:05:40.159 Joe, you know. 0:05:41.760 --> 0:05:45.680 But where it's also it's also pretty exciting because if 0:05:45.720 --> 0:05:48.040 it is like someone can show up in a scenario 0:05:48.200 --> 0:05:50.520 like this, you know, and I get it, He's not 0:05:50.560 --> 0:05:51.839 coming there and it's just going to be me. 0:05:51.920 --> 0:05:53.360 There's going to be other women in the room. 0:05:53.560 --> 0:05:55.400 So let's hope he doesn't flirt with all the other 0:05:55.480 --> 0:05:57.320 women in the room and I can be the apple 0:05:57.360 --> 0:05:59.760 of his eye this evening. But you know, beggars can't 0:05:59.760 --> 0:06:02.960 beat you. I guess plenty of options to go around. 0:06:03.040 --> 0:06:05.360 But you know, I just think that it's a lot 0:06:05.360 --> 0:06:07.599 of fun. It's an activity. It's not a typical like 0:06:07.680 --> 0:06:10.080 sit down get to know each other. There's no pressure 0:06:10.120 --> 0:06:12.160 to like ask hard questions. We can just see if 0:06:12.160 --> 0:06:14.200 the vibe is there, if we're feeling each other, and 0:06:14.240 --> 0:06:16.560 if we're not, then we got to go to a concert, 0:06:16.800 --> 0:06:17.160 we got. 0:06:17.080 --> 0:06:19.320 To eat some good food, and we got to enjoy 0:06:19.360 --> 0:06:19.840 some friends. 0:06:20.200 --> 0:06:22.960 You know, we've gotten to know you through the last 0:06:23.000 --> 0:06:25.560 few weeks. I know the responses, as you said, have 0:06:25.640 --> 0:06:28.880 been really encouraging, but also very curious of if you're 0:06:28.920 --> 0:06:32.320 ever going to date. Have you taken in any of 0:06:32.360 --> 0:06:35.680 these comments? Does it add a level of pressure now 0:06:35.720 --> 0:06:39.560 knowing that there's people listening excited about this, Has anybody 0:06:39.560 --> 0:06:42.520 given you any insights kind of talk about to us 0:06:42.760 --> 0:06:46.880 the world of getting this show released, having the response 0:06:47.279 --> 0:06:48.960 and how it's prepared you for this moment. 0:06:50.120 --> 0:06:52.880 Yeah, I'm not putting any pressure on myself. I think 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:56.800 it's actually pretty exciting that anybody would want to listen 0:06:56.880 --> 0:06:59.880 and follow along. And I think that I really appreciate 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:02.120 that there is, you know, a group of women out 0:07:02.160 --> 0:07:04.640 there who are walking along in the same life phase 0:07:04.680 --> 0:07:07.400 as I am, that are you know, newly divorced or 0:07:07.440 --> 0:07:11.120 divorced and are trying to get into the dating world. 0:07:11.680 --> 0:07:13.880 And pretty much all of them is like, hey, good luck, 0:07:13.960 --> 0:07:16.320 it's not pretty out there in the wild, and I'm like, yeah, 0:07:16.360 --> 0:07:18.360 it's a good thing. I'm not in the wild. I 0:07:18.400 --> 0:07:21.720 am like I am in a controlled zoo here, you 0:07:21.760 --> 0:07:23.920 know what I mean, where we get to pet every 0:07:23.960 --> 0:07:27.520 animal and see which ones we like the most. But 0:07:27.760 --> 0:07:30.840 for the most part, everyone has had a really good response, 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:33.040 and I would say through social media, people have been 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:36.280 really engaging because I just posted the other day what 0:07:36.440 --> 0:07:38.360 to wear on this date, because I haven't been on 0:07:38.400 --> 0:07:40.520 a date in so long that I don't. 0:07:40.280 --> 0:07:43.360 Know how to dress appropriately anymore. 0:07:43.400 --> 0:07:45.120 Because you know, I'm in that like sweet spot in 0:07:45.160 --> 0:07:48.120 my life. I'm not like super young like Susie and Daisy, 0:07:48.200 --> 0:07:51.400 where you know, I'm trendy, but I'm not like super 0:07:51.440 --> 0:07:55.240 old like Susan and Kathy that sounds terrible. I don't 0:07:55.280 --> 0:07:56.760 mean we didn't like that, but do you know what 0:07:56.760 --> 0:07:58.560 I'm saying, Like I'm not in that bracket yet to 0:07:58.560 --> 0:08:00.680 where I need to wear like sweaters around my neck. 0:08:00.760 --> 0:08:03.160 So it's a fine line of like, hey, I don't 0:08:03.200 --> 0:08:07.920 want to look to Lucy Goosey, but also comfortable. 0:08:07.680 --> 0:08:10.880 And feeling good in my skin. Do you understand? 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:13.320 So that was a lot of fun posting them on 0:08:13.360 --> 0:08:15.960 social media because I got a really good response from 0:08:16.080 --> 0:08:19.280 women everywhere telling me what I should wear on this date, 0:08:20.000 --> 0:08:22.679 and it's kind of fun to bring everybody along. 0:08:23.600 --> 0:08:25.880 Yeah. Yeah, I did two options. 0:08:25.920 --> 0:08:26.120 Ben. 0:08:26.160 --> 0:08:29.960 I was like myself, jeans and a cool shirt, like 0:08:30.040 --> 0:08:32.600 that's I feel best in jeans, Like that's my comfort zone. 0:08:33.040 --> 0:08:34.720 And then I was trying to like live on the 0:08:34.840 --> 0:08:38.120 edge and do like a skirt and a black top, 0:08:38.440 --> 0:08:40.760 and I was like, I don't know, this just doesn't 0:08:40.760 --> 0:08:43.160 feel me. I'll be uncomfortable all night, like what if 0:08:43.160 --> 0:08:46.320 my butt hangs out, or like I bend over, or 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:48.080 like I have to suck it in all night, Like 0:08:48.080 --> 0:08:50.559 it's the things that a forty somethings have to worry about, Ben, 0:08:50.600 --> 0:08:52.400 And I'm not just not trying to worry about it. 0:08:52.920 --> 0:08:57.240 And so luckily ninety five percent of the women voted 0:08:57.280 --> 0:08:58.920 jeans and a cute top, and I feel really good 0:08:58.920 --> 0:08:59.320 about that. 0:09:00.040 --> 0:09:00.680 Yeah you should. 0:09:00.760 --> 0:09:02.840 My advice to you is go with what makes you 0:09:02.920 --> 0:09:05.600 most comfortable tonight. And it's a concert, right, you can 0:09:05.640 --> 0:09:06.840 kind of wear whatever you want. 0:09:07.559 --> 0:09:10.040 I would prefer my vans instead of high heels, but 0:09:10.160 --> 0:09:12.560 I am since you're saying he's tall, I'll slip the 0:09:12.559 --> 0:09:13.000 heels on. 0:09:13.559 --> 0:09:23.000 Yeah, you know what heels are nice. 0:09:25.720 --> 0:09:28.200 Any questions that you have for him coming off like 0:09:28.600 --> 0:09:30.800 that you're thinking about you have to get answered, or 0:09:30.840 --> 0:09:31.880 any ice breakers. 0:09:32.200 --> 0:09:35.079 I used to go with the would you rathers as 0:09:35.160 --> 0:09:35.840 ice breakers? 0:09:36.720 --> 0:09:40.200 Shoot, Ben, Like, I wasn't feeling any nerves until you 0:09:40.240 --> 0:09:42.520 start talking like, I didn't really have a plan going 0:09:42.559 --> 0:09:44.480 into this. I just thought, when I walk into the 0:09:44.559 --> 0:09:46.320 room and the door opens and the wind blows and 0:09:46.360 --> 0:09:48.640 my hair falls back, he takes one look at me 0:09:48.720 --> 0:09:50.560 and he falls madly in love, and then the rest 0:09:50.640 --> 0:09:53.920 is all history. But now all of a sudden, I'm like, well, shoot, 0:09:53.960 --> 0:09:55.920 do I need to open up chat GPT and figure 0:09:55.920 --> 0:09:57.440 out how a first date's supposed to go? 0:09:58.160 --> 0:09:58.199 No? 0:09:58.360 --> 0:09:59.480 Probably? Probably? 0:09:59.520 --> 0:10:01.400 Okay, you want to hear my icebreaker? 0:10:01.600 --> 0:10:06.200 Okay, would you rather be a alligator or a bird? 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:07.800 I'm not going to say that. 0:10:07.760 --> 0:10:09.880 Ben, why I got married from it? 0:10:10.120 --> 0:10:14.520 No, I need you to send me Jessica's number right now. 0:10:15.280 --> 0:10:18.080 I'm just I hate to break it to you. 0:10:18.120 --> 0:10:18.320 Ben. 0:10:18.400 --> 0:10:21.960 I appreciate all of your advice in the realm of 0:10:22.040 --> 0:10:25.240 relationships and love, but I don't think that I'm gonna 0:10:25.280 --> 0:10:26.079 be going with that one. 0:10:26.120 --> 0:10:27.720 Wait, are you even going to tell me his name? 0:10:28.080 --> 0:10:29.880 No? No, there's your chance. 0:10:29.920 --> 0:10:31.280 I tell you, I have to like walk up. 0:10:31.720 --> 0:10:35.080 He's gonna have to guess which one of me is 0:10:35.120 --> 0:10:35.640 in the room. 0:10:35.800 --> 0:10:36.480 Do you think he'll know? 0:10:36.960 --> 0:10:38.480 I think he's gonna have a good idea. 0:10:39.520 --> 0:10:41.160 Do you think I should wear an orange jumpsuit? 0:10:41.280 --> 0:10:44.200 Yeah, we're gonna tell him. We've already told him. You 0:10:44.440 --> 0:10:48.880 are the pretty brunette who is going to be so 0:10:49.280 --> 0:10:52.240 excited to be there tonight. We're excited for you here 0:10:52.320 --> 0:10:55.480 famously available once this gets started. Here's the thing, though, 0:10:55.520 --> 0:10:56.920 here's my biggest concern. 0:10:57.160 --> 0:10:57.760 You want to hear it? 0:10:58.200 --> 0:11:01.400 Yeah, if this date work, we don't have a season left, 0:11:01.520 --> 0:11:04.520 Like we're done. Like with this episode goes one more, 0:11:04.600 --> 0:11:06.560 we find out like that you guys are just perfect 0:11:06.559 --> 0:11:09.640 and everything's happy and go lucky, and we close this chapter. 0:11:09.880 --> 0:11:12.480 Maybe it's not, though, Ben, let me pause you. Maybe 0:11:12.480 --> 0:11:12.800 it's not. 0:11:13.200 --> 0:11:17.120 Let's say, best case scenario. I go out tonight, I 0:11:17.200 --> 0:11:19.719 meet this guy at the Jonas Brothers concert. We hit 0:11:19.760 --> 0:11:23.640 it off. It's all there. He's emotionally stable and healthy 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:27.200 and also attractive and to all which we've got. But 0:11:27.320 --> 0:11:29.640 let's say that we do hit it off. Yeah, why 0:11:29.679 --> 0:11:32.080 isn't there a chance that there's a second date and 0:11:32.120 --> 0:11:34.160 you follow me through that? A lot can change between 0:11:34.160 --> 0:11:36.760 now the first date a second date, let alone the 0:11:36.800 --> 0:11:41.040 eighth date. Because once people start removing the mask, you 0:11:41.080 --> 0:11:43.720 know what I mean? Yeah, then you're talking about real 0:11:43.760 --> 0:11:45.640 life stuff. Maybe there's beauty in that. 0:11:46.200 --> 0:11:49.000 Here's the deal. Then we're going to follow you along 0:11:49.080 --> 0:11:50.240 for as long as you let us. 0:11:51.559 --> 0:11:53.800 Are we manifesting? Is that what we're doing right now? 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:55.120 Yeah? We are. 0:11:55.280 --> 0:11:56.000 We're doing that. 0:11:56.200 --> 0:11:59.920 We're doing the hope, the wishes, the manifestation, and we're 0:12:00.160 --> 0:12:02.079 to follow along as long as you let us. And 0:12:02.120 --> 0:12:03.720 then at some point you're gonna have to break up 0:12:03.720 --> 0:12:05.920 with this, and you're gonna have to tell us, oh. 0:12:05.760 --> 0:12:07.720 Break up with you. I'll have to break up with you. 0:12:07.800 --> 0:12:09.920 I'm not good at breakup spin. I think that you 0:12:09.960 --> 0:12:12.000 can google that and tell yeah, So. 0:12:11.960 --> 0:12:14.559 You're gonna have to tell us, You're gonna tell us. Hey, 0:12:14.600 --> 0:12:17.360 please stop following me. This is getting weird. It's been 0:12:17.440 --> 0:12:19.920 six years. Final two questions for you? What are you 0:12:19.960 --> 0:12:22.920 hoping to get out tonight? At its basic level? 0:12:24.000 --> 0:12:25.600 I think what I'm hoping to get out of tonight 0:12:26.679 --> 0:12:28.920 on the most basic level is just dip my toes 0:12:28.960 --> 0:12:31.040 and beIN. It's been a long time since I've been 0:12:31.080 --> 0:12:35.320 out on a date, a really long time. But there's 0:12:35.360 --> 0:12:37.480 so much that goes along with that. Like, there's been 0:12:37.480 --> 0:12:39.880 a long time that I have felt really beautiful. There's 0:12:39.920 --> 0:12:42.560 been a long time, you know, that I have felt 0:12:42.559 --> 0:12:45.360 truly desired, there has It's been a long time that 0:12:45.400 --> 0:12:50.640 I've actually had to have meaningful conversation with a person 0:12:50.720 --> 0:12:51.800 of the opposite sex. 0:12:52.240 --> 0:12:54.840 So for me, I'm just looking to, you know, get 0:12:54.920 --> 0:12:56.320 my toes a little wet, that's all. 0:12:56.440 --> 0:12:59.120 And if it blows me out of the water, then 0:12:59.160 --> 0:12:59.880 I will welcome that. 0:13:00.280 --> 0:13:01.839 Could this night end in the kiss? 0:13:02.040 --> 0:13:04.680 Oh that would be exciting, wouldn't it. That was fun? 0:13:05.040 --> 0:13:05.839 That would be fun. 0:13:05.920 --> 0:13:08.319 That would be fun, Ben, sign me up? 0:13:08.720 --> 0:13:10.080 Are you a Jonas Brothers fan? 0:13:10.480 --> 0:13:12.080 I do like the Joe Bros. But I like the 0:13:12.160 --> 0:13:13.160 adult Joe Bros. 0:13:13.200 --> 0:13:15.960 I felt creepy when they were really young, thinking that 0:13:16.000 --> 0:13:17.840 the Joe Bros Were cool. But when they released that 0:13:17.920 --> 0:13:19.640 song where they were dancing around in their underwear and 0:13:19.679 --> 0:13:22.480 their shirts, what a man gotta do? I was like, Okay, 0:13:22.600 --> 0:13:26.520 I'll take Nick or Joe or Knick or Joe. 0:13:27.440 --> 0:13:28.320 Oh, you cracked up. 0:13:28.360 --> 0:13:30.720 You are in a good You are in the perfect place. 0:13:30.800 --> 0:13:33.880 So here is my words for you. Have a blast, 0:13:34.679 --> 0:13:38.600 you are incredible, you are beautiful. These are all very 0:13:38.679 --> 0:13:42.319 true statements that nobody can deny. Just have a lot 0:13:42.320 --> 0:13:45.320 of fun tonight because I cannot wait to catch up 0:13:45.360 --> 0:13:47.240 with you after this date is over. Right here, I'm 0:13:47.240 --> 0:13:52.000 famously available. We're getting started finally, and this is good. 0:13:52.600 --> 0:13:53.920 I'm so excited. Thanks Ben. 0:14:04.800 --> 0:14:09.920 I recently sent single Deanna Pappus out to a Jonas 0:14:09.960 --> 0:14:13.000 Brothers concert for her first set up date here on 0:14:13.120 --> 0:14:16.680 the show. Now, we always invite the dates to come 0:14:16.679 --> 0:14:19.360 on the show and give their perspective as well, but 0:14:19.560 --> 0:14:21.920 this date has opted to not come on the podcast. 0:14:22.480 --> 0:14:25.440 But I've got someone else who was there and witnessed 0:14:25.480 --> 0:14:27.800 everything go down that night. So before I connect with 0:14:27.840 --> 0:14:32.480 Diana this week and we get her thoughts, opinions, feelings, emotions, 0:14:32.520 --> 0:14:36.640 all those things about the date, I thought I'd connect 0:14:36.680 --> 0:14:40.000 with Cynthia, who was kind of observing the date and 0:14:40.080 --> 0:14:42.080 hanging out with them all night long. 0:14:42.200 --> 0:14:44.440 Cynthia, welcome to Famously Available. 0:14:45.160 --> 0:14:46.480 Thank you for having me. 0:14:46.520 --> 0:14:49.640 I feel like I'm this undercover spy doing like Roman's 0:14:50.400 --> 0:14:52.040 romance recon you are. 0:14:52.240 --> 0:14:55.720 You're one hundred percent that for us today. We are 0:14:55.800 --> 0:14:59.200 here because we're curious. We're gonna have Diana on and 0:14:59.240 --> 0:15:03.040 she's gonna share her thoughts and perspective on everything, kind 0:15:03.040 --> 0:15:04.240 of what she was going through. 0:15:04.280 --> 0:15:05.640 But I think that's going to come from. 0:15:05.520 --> 0:15:09.880 More of a personal place for her, and I do 0:15:09.920 --> 0:15:13.880 think it's always helpful to have an outside perspective come 0:15:13.920 --> 0:15:17.600 in and share what they were seeing. You were there 0:15:17.720 --> 0:15:22.840 for the evening at this concert. You met Dianna that night, correct? 0:15:23.440 --> 0:15:25.760 I did. That was the first time meeting her, Okay. 0:15:25.480 --> 0:15:27.640 And so then did you meet her date that night 0:15:27.680 --> 0:15:28.080 as well? 0:15:28.720 --> 0:15:30.680 I did, So I met both of them for the 0:15:30.680 --> 0:15:31.680 first time that evening. 0:15:32.720 --> 0:15:34.640 Let's talk about Deanna, because that's who we love and 0:15:34.680 --> 0:15:39.160 care about here. How was she feeling looking? What was 0:15:39.240 --> 0:15:40.760 kind of the vibe that you were picking up on 0:15:41.040 --> 0:15:41.640 walking into that. 0:15:41.640 --> 0:15:44.440 Ghoby, We had such great energy. First of all, she 0:15:44.600 --> 0:15:48.080 was dressed amazingly, she looked super hot. 0:15:48.280 --> 0:15:51.880 She was really outgoing and open and. 0:15:51.760 --> 0:15:54.040 Talking to a lot of people, Like she has such 0:15:54.280 --> 0:15:57.120 good energy, Like you can't not help but fall in 0:15:57.160 --> 0:16:01.160 love with her, Like, honestly, she did everything right when 0:16:01.200 --> 0:16:05.040 it comes to I think dating, which is being presentable, 0:16:05.080 --> 0:16:09.160 but not being like too presentable, if that makes kind 0:16:09.200 --> 0:16:11.160 of sense, Like she was just there to have a 0:16:11.200 --> 0:16:13.240 really good time, and I think that's the energy you 0:16:13.280 --> 0:16:14.080 want when you're dating. 0:16:15.080 --> 0:16:16.360 What about his vibe? 0:16:16.440 --> 0:16:22.040 Vn same thing, like really good looking, super approachable, like 0:16:22.200 --> 0:16:24.920 great to talk to. And then when I saw the 0:16:24.960 --> 0:16:27.920 two of them talking, like I really thought there was 0:16:28.040 --> 0:16:28.800 a vibe there. 0:16:29.880 --> 0:16:35.200 Okay, so you're hinting at something from your perspective, was 0:16:35.240 --> 0:16:36.560 there a vibe between them? 0:16:37.520 --> 0:16:38.560 I thought there was. 0:16:39.200 --> 0:16:42.880 I really thought like there was good body language when 0:16:43.080 --> 0:16:45.600 you know you're kind of facing towards the person and 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:49.360 you're open to speaking to them close enough that you 0:16:49.480 --> 0:16:53.320 can have a conversation. It definitely seemed viby. 0:16:54.120 --> 0:16:57.640 Now we were worried about this. Here famously available. This 0:16:57.760 --> 0:17:01.200 was obviously an incredible event and a really fun event 0:17:01.280 --> 0:17:03.320 to be at the Jonas Brothers concert. 0:17:03.480 --> 0:17:04.800 We had suites, we had. 0:17:04.720 --> 0:17:08.000 Everything set up, But concerts are I don't think like 0:17:08.840 --> 0:17:12.800 ideal for first dates. They're loud, there's other people around. 0:17:13.240 --> 0:17:14.720 You want to have a good time, You want to 0:17:14.800 --> 0:17:16.480 enjoy the music, so you don't want to be talking 0:17:16.560 --> 0:17:20.719 the whole time. Do you think that possibly some of 0:17:21.760 --> 0:17:24.119 the night was either enhanced by the concert or did 0:17:24.160 --> 0:17:26.119 it feel like the concert was a difficult place to 0:17:26.119 --> 0:17:26.840 have a first date. 0:17:27.400 --> 0:17:30.680 Oh, that's such a good question. I like the concert 0:17:30.800 --> 0:17:31.880 idea as a. 0:17:31.920 --> 0:17:34.359 It's like a great meet cute. Oh we met at 0:17:34.359 --> 0:17:34.880 a concert. 0:17:35.000 --> 0:17:36.399 We kind of hit it off, like, let's go to 0:17:36.400 --> 0:17:39.280 coffee the next day or a couple days later. The 0:17:39.359 --> 0:17:43.280 thing with that particular suite, if you've been to private 0:17:43.280 --> 0:17:45.360 suites before, there's two different versions. 0:17:45.480 --> 0:17:47.800 One where there's like a glass wall. 0:17:47.600 --> 0:17:49.440 And a door, so you can have like an indoor 0:17:49.480 --> 0:17:52.639 outdoor situation where there's like stadium seating outside, but you 0:17:52.680 --> 0:17:54.720 can still have an indoor experience and it's a little 0:17:54.720 --> 0:17:55.160 bit quieter. 0:17:55.680 --> 0:17:58.280 This was, unfortunately not that case. It was wide open. 0:17:58.359 --> 0:18:00.439 So even if you were like inside where there's like 0:18:00.520 --> 0:18:05.000 sofa and the food, it's still a full blown concert 0:18:05.040 --> 0:18:07.199 experience where it is really loud. 0:18:07.640 --> 0:18:09.840 So I could see where it could be difficult. 0:18:10.000 --> 0:18:13.160