WEBVTT - How to Poly Like a Pro Feat. Sapphire's Earplay Podcast

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. We're high Hi, America.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Nila, and it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Wednesday, Wednesday, and our kids are outside being loud, so

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<v Speaker 1>sorry if you hear them, it's just they don't speak English,

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<v Speaker 1>so when we tell them to do something else, they

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<v Speaker 1>don't listen.

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<v Speaker 3>How's your Wednesday, Erica?

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<v Speaker 4>My Wednesday is going pretty good.

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<v Speaker 5>I haven't really eaten today because I woke up, then

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<v Speaker 5>I had conference calls and shit, we wrote calls, and

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<v Speaker 5>then I worked out, and then you came over and

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<v Speaker 5>then I was like, you can do grocery shopping, and

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<v Speaker 5>then we had to do another podcast, and then we

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<v Speaker 5>had to drink on the podcast because I don't know why.

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<v Speaker 3>That's this is our job for some reason.

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<v Speaker 5>And now I'm drunk and I haven't really eaten.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's where I'm at with it. Yep, that's exactly

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<v Speaker 3>how my day went.

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<v Speaker 1>We Also, I was also just stressed out, and I

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<v Speaker 1>found out, in addition to already being stressed out, that

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<v Speaker 1>the stay home order in California has extended to July,

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<v Speaker 1>not June July, and that means it's going to skip

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<v Speaker 1>right over my birthday. And I'm pissed but now I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just drunk, so it's fine. And also summer camp is

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<v Speaker 1>not happening. Fuck okay, anyway, no problems.

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<v Speaker 3>We are joined today by the Lovely Lady.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, there's that highness again, the Lovely Ladies of Sapphire's.

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<v Speaker 2>Ear play Hello Megan and yeah, hey else. Oh we're

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<v Speaker 2>throwing out government names.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh shit, I'm sorry. Okay, So a little background, Sapphire.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll believe it. You'll believe it because you're doing.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't worry. I'm registered under Megan Sapphire on SAG.

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<v Speaker 6>It's just weird on this pot, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>So I know Sapphire as Megan from Saint John's High

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<v Speaker 1>School in Panoramic City.

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<v Speaker 3>We high school together. I was a year ahead of her.

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<v Speaker 1>There was probably two black people, three black people at

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<v Speaker 1>the school at the same time, so of course you

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<v Speaker 1>know each other.

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<v Speaker 3>And ten years later, here we are talking sex on

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<v Speaker 3>the internet.

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<v Speaker 2>MoMA. Yes we did, Yes we did.

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<v Speaker 6>And you've actually come on one of my other shows before,

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<v Speaker 6>when I was at Playboy years ago, actually when.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to when I wanted to be a blogger,

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<v Speaker 1>called dirty Lipstick, Dirty Dirty Lipstick. Actually, it's so funny

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<v Speaker 1>that you say that because we were on Playboy Radio

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<v Speaker 1>and when Erica approached me and asked me to do

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<v Speaker 1>this podcast, I was like, she was like, going to

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<v Speaker 1>do a podcast together. I'm like, what's that? She was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I was like, like radio, She was like yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, yeah, I did that one time with

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<v Speaker 1>my friend. I was talking about you and I liked it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I knew.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I knew from that experience that it

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<v Speaker 1>was up my alley. So honestly, thank you started.

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<v Speaker 6>Her journey into You're welcome. You mamas are killing it.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean it's not easy, y'all, just like change my

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<v Speaker 6>view on milks. So I'm like, okay, let me hop

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<v Speaker 6>on the milk train and get myself ready because what

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<v Speaker 6>we're going to take your time.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what we're here for.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, I don't have that long prep.

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<v Speaker 6>One of my girlfriends is actually getting ready to have

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<v Speaker 6>a baby, so that's a whole assxt.

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<v Speaker 7>Wait, one of your girlfriends is as and girlfriends that

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<v Speaker 7>you're intimate with, yes, yeah, okay, okay, So I'm so

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<v Speaker 7>happy that you brought this up because you know, I

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<v Speaker 7>want to get in your business more than I'm already

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<v Speaker 7>in your business.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we got to get into my co host's business.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we're first of all, we're getting into both of

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<v Speaker 1>your businesses.

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<v Speaker 3>That's just the man.

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<v Speaker 4>She just trying to get the heat off of her.

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<v Speaker 2>Always always, I got.

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<v Speaker 3>To so what's your business?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, tell us all about you girls?

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<v Speaker 4>WHOA let's see. Oh well, I shot porn.

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<v Speaker 8>Started in two thousand and nine, moved to LA in

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<v Speaker 8>twenty twelve, and I started doing podcast appearances.

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<v Speaker 4>Was it podcast?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes? And oh no you were doing you were doing

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<v Speaker 2>adult radio appearances. Yeah, a radio appearances after us right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Where they att?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, that's living in the bay.

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<v Speaker 5>You were shooting you were in porn or you were

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<v Speaker 5>shooting the porn.

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<v Speaker 4>I was in porn. I was in the porns movies.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I was. I had my own website and everything.

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<v Speaker 3>What was your I should write the computer. I'm sorry

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<v Speaker 3>you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh what I think I saw a titty flash? So

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<v Speaker 2>that's some one else can see.

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<v Speaker 3>That frowning again my booth frown.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, honestly, oh my god, it looks sad,

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<v Speaker 6>so sad.

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<v Speaker 3>What are you doing over there? Are rolling a black

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<v Speaker 3>woo me?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, for sure, I was like, that's like I can

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<v Speaker 1>hear it on the You're like, you're at the end

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<v Speaker 1>where you about to start.

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<v Speaker 2>She's given.

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<v Speaker 3>This is a she also like a sex operator over there.

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<v Speaker 4>You see this?

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<v Speaker 3>You have sex operations, haven't.

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<v Speaker 8>I've had lots of phone sex, like when I was younger,

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<v Speaker 8>I used to be on the chat lines rubbing it out.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, how did you get into the porn industry?

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<v Speaker 3>What what led?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 3>How did you?

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<v Speaker 8>I watched a real sex episode and they had featured

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<v Speaker 8>fucking machines.

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<v Speaker 4>Found out it was in San Francisco at the Armory

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<v Speaker 4>Rescue Peace to the Armory.

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<v Speaker 2>I was about to say that, what's the armory?

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<v Speaker 3>Hold on, hold on one second, you guys sure.

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<v Speaker 4>This is pretty nice.

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<v Speaker 5>We're talking sex positions just to just at you guys. Know,

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<v Speaker 5>our kids are are not inside of the room. They're

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<v Speaker 5>outside playing living their best five year old lives. But

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<v Speaker 5>they're just being too loud.

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<v Speaker 3>As we talk sex clubs or I don't know what.

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<v Speaker 8>M If you ever heard of kink dot com, that

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<v Speaker 8>is where they did all their fetish porn, m M.

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<v Speaker 8>It was a kids to straight to gay. Everything was

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<v Speaker 8>pretty much. It was like a nice sanctuary. It looked scary,

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<v Speaker 8>like if you ever seen the Shining. We had a

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<v Speaker 8>really long hallway and random cats pop up at night,

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<v Speaker 8>you know, in that building.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, we.

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<v Speaker 8>There's like bondage hog tie like all kinds of crazy stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>Falls on at the armory.

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<v Speaker 8>But that's where I started, uh, using a fucking machine.

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<v Speaker 4>And if anybody doesn't know what a.

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<v Speaker 8>Fucking machine is, it's basically a device that's operated by

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<v Speaker 8>a controller a.

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<v Speaker 3>Switch as a dude though attached to.

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<v Speaker 4>It, and it moves in the vagina.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's pretty self explained to her.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, yeah, yeah, I started there.

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<v Speaker 3>And what's your what was your what's your porn name?

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<v Speaker 3>If you know? About to look you up tonight, girl,

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<v Speaker 3>But I haven't looking.

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<v Speaker 5>I need to find some new porns, you know, might

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<v Speaker 5>as well research somebody.

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<v Speaker 3>God of actually, someone that I've met is kind of

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<v Speaker 3>even more sexy. So yeah, like now and now I

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<v Speaker 3>can't help but do the same. Now I must look

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<v Speaker 3>at yes too.

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<v Speaker 6>I feel like you guys are gonna look it up

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<v Speaker 6>like right now, babe, babe, guess.

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<v Speaker 3>What I did today? I was I was hanging out

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<v Speaker 3>with yeahs and you want to see let's let's check

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<v Speaker 3>her out, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Got off a review.

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<v Speaker 3>Podcast.

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<v Speaker 8>But after that, like I took maybe a little while

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<v Speaker 8>off because I didn't fully understand my sexuality at the time,

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<v Speaker 8>so I thought what I was doing was like demonic

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<v Speaker 8>and evil because if you look at past like history,

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<v Speaker 8>bondage and stuff was not considered a good thing, Like

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<v Speaker 8>they tortured people back in the day, especially.

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<v Speaker 2>People of color.

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<v Speaker 8>So I was really conflicted with me being a woman

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<v Speaker 8>of color liking to be flogged and choked and tied up,

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<v Speaker 8>like is.

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<v Speaker 4>There something wrong with me? But you know, once I

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<v Speaker 4>moved to LA and just started shooting regular.

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<v Speaker 8>Porn with males and females, because when when I started,

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<v Speaker 8>I was only doing like solos and shows. So when

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<v Speaker 8>I got to LA and got around like a nice

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<v Speaker 8>circle of people, I had a mentor that really put

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<v Speaker 8>me under his belt and just showed me the repes

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<v Speaker 8>of the business. And I also learned on my own

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<v Speaker 8>as well, and just doing more further research about bondage

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<v Speaker 8>and everything and just realizing this is something I like,

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<v Speaker 8>this is me. So after that I just started doing

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<v Speaker 8>boy girl films and I hooked up with a pr

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<v Speaker 8>rep a publicist I'm sorry, and they hooked me up

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<v Speaker 8>with Sapphire on Chocolate City Radio That's with Naomi Banks.

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<v Speaker 3>And all that.

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<v Speaker 8>So it was like from then I felt like I

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<v Speaker 8>was on every show with Sapphire.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, she was always coming on like it was great,

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<v Speaker 6>it was good, that's dope.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So it just kind of.

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<v Speaker 6>Like and then from there, I also was working behind

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<v Speaker 6>the scenes in adult films, doing just mostly the radio stuff.

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<v Speaker 6>And then on top of that, I've done regular radio,

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<v Speaker 6>so I produced hip hop radio in San Diego. I

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<v Speaker 6>lived up in the Bay, went to school in the Bay,

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<v Speaker 6>and then moved back to LA And I'm just a filthy,

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<v Speaker 6>fucking horn when it comes to talking about my sex

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<v Speaker 6>life because she used.

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<v Speaker 3>To be a little vanilla though.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, so.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you say when I when I caught up with you,

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<v Speaker 1>were you still vanilla at that point?

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<v Speaker 6>Or I have a girl I was in, like a

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<v Speaker 6>really bad first relationship with a female.

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<v Speaker 2>She's the fucking cunt.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I just need to remember a woman.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she was so light.

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<v Speaker 6>She just didn't get it, Like she didn't get that

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<v Speaker 6>her girlfriend at the time was bisexual. And like, look,

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<v Speaker 6>I love dildo's too, and I love eating Crissie, but

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<v Speaker 6>like I want a real fla. Yeah, Dick, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 6>want to be on FU other people like I. I

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<v Speaker 6>was never the person to be monogamous. Like by the

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<v Speaker 6>time I graduated college, I had over one hundred and

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<v Speaker 6>fifty partners at the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, how do you know that you wrote it down?

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<v Speaker 2>Harris?

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<v Speaker 3>What about you?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>What your signed a Scorpioay scorpios, So you know you

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<v Speaker 1>just have to document it.

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<v Speaker 6>And like, again, I've been in radio, so it's like,

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<v Speaker 6>this is why I thrived on talking. So well if

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<v Speaker 6>I'm going to do it right, well.

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<v Speaker 1>Sapphire and I met in high school and our high

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<v Speaker 1>school was actually a Catholic school, and I religious, are

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<v Speaker 1>you just.

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<v Speaker 3>Going to the school? How are they horror over there?

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<v Speaker 3>I just want to know.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I was I was raised very Catholic.

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<v Speaker 6>And here's the thing to me, Like I was still

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<v Speaker 6>very much a free in high school.

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<v Speaker 2>You just no one really knew.

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<v Speaker 6>It because you know, I was in all the like

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<v Speaker 6>pure things like.

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<v Speaker 2>Council that bush.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, school, yeah, she was, she was like she was

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<v Speaker 1>like the how do you say, like she had a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of school spir nerd she was a school she

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<v Speaker 1>had a lot of school spirit.

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<v Speaker 3>Is what close she was captain of the Spirit team. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>the Spirit team.

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<v Speaker 6>Spirit all right, I had spirit, But I know I

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<v Speaker 6>was not a cheerleader a dancer like mister Jamila over there.

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<v Speaker 3>I never knew Jamila was a cheerleader.

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<v Speaker 5>And then like recently she was.

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<v Speaker 3>Like yeah what I was like I was. She's like, yeah, like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I used to compete.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like what.

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, you want to know something. I was like,

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<v Speaker 6>she's told me good on this squad. Like to be honest,

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<v Speaker 6>She's like she was she was still.

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<v Speaker 3>Still the top cheerleader.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I told her I was like the cheer

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<v Speaker 1>and the dance team were the best, the best teams

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<v Speaker 1>of school had going. You know, like nothing else was

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<v Speaker 1>excelling except for the dance team. Not everything else was

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<v Speaker 1>very not good. It was almost it was painful to

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<v Speaker 1>cheer for those teams.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I have to brag a little. I sang

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<v Speaker 2>very well, yes, she can say, I sang my ass on.

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<v Speaker 2>So that was like, oh my God, let.

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<v Speaker 1>Me, God send me a miracle, ready to send you?

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<v Speaker 2>So are you ready for me?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you ready for me?

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I think I remember you leading that and

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<v Speaker 1>the Holy ghost is coming over you.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh no, the Holy Ghost is probably like, no, this girl,

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<v Speaker 6>the Holy.

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<v Speaker 3>Ghost came over.

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<v Speaker 5>The girl I was.

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<v Speaker 6>At one point, I was like the epitome Catholic school girl,

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<v Speaker 6>like I was singing in two Catholic choirs, Like I

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<v Speaker 6>don't know what the fuck happened?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, you leave, I'm an only child.

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<v Speaker 3>You are literally that girl.

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<v Speaker 5>You are the Catholic school girl that went freak that

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<v Speaker 5>you are the one that you're the one that you're

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<v Speaker 5>the stereotype.

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<v Speaker 6>I guess, like I didn't do blowing like high school.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't do any of that, of course, And I

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<v Speaker 6>didn't do in high school of course.

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<v Speaker 5>Not you don't like that, you don't do you go

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<v Speaker 5>to church and then after you I was bad.

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<v Speaker 3>But I didn't do blow in high school either. I was.

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<v Speaker 2>No age kids are doing in high school.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's fine and all.

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<v Speaker 2>That, And I'm like, well, I knew a girl that brought.

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<v Speaker 8>The date rate drug to school and did it with

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<v Speaker 8>her friends.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, they wanted to get hot at school.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 8>But at the same time, when I was going to

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<v Speaker 8>a white school, so I don't know if that was

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<v Speaker 8>like a cry for.

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<v Speaker 3>Where are you from?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm really for the Bay, but I went to high

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<v Speaker 4>school in Sacramento.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, yeah, And I'm so you're from out here, right

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<v Speaker 5>Valley girls.

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<v Speaker 2>The Valley, the good old Valley to Valley.

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<v Speaker 4>It's crazy they called stalked in the valley. Yes, there's

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<v Speaker 4>no valley.

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<v Speaker 2>There's nothing but thousand stalking.

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<v Speaker 4>There's of STDs and stocked in in Modesto. It's crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>What I just came back on.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, so, like when I went to the guy to

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<v Speaker 4>college and she says she does like nonprofit like health

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<v Speaker 4>work out in that way, and she said, like there's.

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<v Speaker 8>So many chlamydia and syphilist cases out there, like it's disgusting.

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<v Speaker 4>Why nobody wants to fuck anybody from the Central Valley.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmmm.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, so I want to know.

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<v Speaker 5>So Jamila told me that and that you have been

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<v Speaker 5>in a poly relationship. I'm trying to get let's get

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<v Speaker 5>to it, because I have questions.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to I'm nosy, and.

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<v Speaker 1>We want to know specifically because we were embarking in

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<v Speaker 1>all our options as single women, and we've had a

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<v Speaker 1>mama who's open, open in an open marriage, so we're

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<v Speaker 1>well versed in the openness. But Polly, I know it's

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<v Speaker 1>different but I need to know how, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Polly, so I need to know more. She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you need a checklist, she needs to check all about

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<v Speaker 1>because I also recently this year found out I was

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<v Speaker 1>what is the other one?

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<v Speaker 2>Pan sexual?

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<v Speaker 3>Pand sexual? Yes, so okay to add some more things

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<v Speaker 3>to my list to her LinkedIn, I didn't.

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<v Speaker 6>Know check it all off, honey, I'm like, shit, you're younger, hot,

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<v Speaker 6>fucking do everything, like do everything, okay, So Polly, I've

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<v Speaker 6>been polyamorous. Like some people think when I say I'm Polly,

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<v Speaker 6>they think I'm saying like I'm a polygamous and that's

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<v Speaker 6>an absolute no no, Like I'm not married. I don't

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<v Speaker 6>have a husband who has multiple wives. Like, no, I

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<v Speaker 6>am not a polygamist. I am polyamorhate. I have a

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<v Speaker 6>dom who is my what I call my primary partner,

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<v Speaker 6>so he's literally like the only main.

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<v Speaker 2>Dude I have sex with.

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<v Speaker 6>I really like, I'm really kind of just more gay

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<v Speaker 6>for pussy, pussy and transsexuals.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I'm gay from pussy in transsexuals.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, transsexuals as.

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<v Speaker 6>In transgender a transgender sorry let me not say transsexual transgender. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>Like I'm more attracted to just more females. To be honest,

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<v Speaker 6>like this man, I absolutely adore I love him. It

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<v Speaker 6>was funny because we really weren't looking for a relationship.

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<v Speaker 6>It was kind of like we sucked ourselves into a relationship,

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<v Speaker 6>which it was just very open and free. Like our

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<v Speaker 6>first date, he told me he.

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<v Speaker 2>Was a DOM and.

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<v Speaker 5>Is your dom transgender?

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<v Speaker 2>No? No, no, he is.

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<v Speaker 6>This male, handsome white boy from the South l Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>I've like kind of spanned across late. I've been with

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<v Speaker 6>a male to female, I've been with female to male.

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<v Speaker 6>I've been with gender lists where they just non binary

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<v Speaker 6>for what.

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<v Speaker 5>So you don't need to watch that right now, Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>but I'll watch it later. Go I'm going go watch

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<v Speaker 5>your TV please. Okay, I'll wash it in a little bit.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm working, I'm recording. No, I go, thank you, close

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<v Speaker 5>the door. I love you?

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<v Speaker 4>Like are YouTubers.

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<v Speaker 1>I could do it, Mommy, you can't remember that.

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<v Speaker 2>That is so cute though, That's where I was. Fuck. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>So I've been with trans males to females, female to males,

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<v Speaker 6>non binary, and of course a lot of women, a

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<v Speaker 6>lot of men.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm more of like.

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<v Speaker 3>So you mostly like you, mostly like women.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, mostly like women. So then why so.

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<v Speaker 3>Then why is that your dom a male?

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<v Speaker 2>Then why is my dama maile?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I mean I'm just wondering, like, wouldn't it be

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<v Speaker 5>the I don't know, I don't I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think you planned it that way.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I was trying to understand poll I thought dom meant

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<v Speaker 5>like that's.

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<v Speaker 4>Your main person.

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<v Speaker 3>So he is her main person, but she has relationships

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<v Speaker 3>with other people, right.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, so I have a dom who again it has

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<v Speaker 6>nothing to do with like being Polly, so like him

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<v Speaker 6>and I.

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<v Speaker 2>We started off he was my dom. I was a sub.

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<v Speaker 6>It was BDSM and straight fucking like it. We had

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<v Speaker 6>weekly dick appointments and that was it. And then it

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<v Speaker 6>started evolving into a relationship where we're like I really

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<v Speaker 6>like your company. I like you too, I like how

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<v Speaker 6>open you are? How open do you want to be?

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<v Speaker 6>And literally, after a nice little orgy during Pride weekend

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<v Speaker 6>two years ago, I like took him the shower and

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, I I want to be Pollie, Like,

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<v Speaker 6>do you think we can like open this? Like I

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<v Speaker 6>already know that you openly do your thing. I openly

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<v Speaker 6>do my thing. We come back to each other like

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<v Speaker 6>we I don't feel a type way of anything. I've

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<v Speaker 6>loved hearing when he's fucking other people, and if I'm

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<v Speaker 6>in the room, so be it. I'm like, that is

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<v Speaker 6>so hot to me. I fucking love watching him, just

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<v Speaker 6>like vice versa. And so after that, a girl that

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<v Speaker 6>we were playing with eventually became individually and both the

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<v Speaker 6>three of us share a girlfriend. So that's where the

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<v Speaker 6>POLLI thing goes ahead. So here's like the little math problems.

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<v Speaker 6>So I have my main guy, mister suit and tie

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<v Speaker 6>as I call him, who's also my dom suit and

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<v Speaker 6>tie because that's suit, and it's Alli fucking wears suit

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<v Speaker 6>and tie.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it.

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<v Speaker 3>Is he a business guy, it's like a businessman.

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<v Speaker 2>He's a writer.

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<v Speaker 6>He's a writer, so he but that's what he prefers

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<v Speaker 6>to wear, like he does not really wear like anything.

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<v Speaker 6>You dapper man, yes, a very dapper man. And then we,

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<v Speaker 6>like I said, we have a girlfriend who is married.

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<v Speaker 6>Their marriage their Polly, but her husband is more of

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<v Speaker 6>a swinger, so he's not really like.

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<v Speaker 2>Dating us per se.

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<v Speaker 6>Like we do have sex from time to time, but

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<v Speaker 6>it's not like a relationship type of thing, and then

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<v Speaker 6>outside of our three are throufle we also have two

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<v Speaker 6>other partners. One of them is my other girlfriend and

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<v Speaker 6>I guess I'm part of now you could say it

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<v Speaker 6>throuple because her main partner is also a guy that

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<v Speaker 6>I thought, So.

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<v Speaker 2>Technically I have main dude, but then this is.

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<v Speaker 6>My other dude on the side that we're evolving into

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<v Speaker 6>a relationship as well. So technically right now I am

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<v Speaker 6>dating five people.

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<v Speaker 1>Jesse and you and him have a sep relationship or

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<v Speaker 1>is it always a three way? No?

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<v Speaker 6>No, we everybody has their own separate as well as

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<v Speaker 6>like all together time.

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<v Speaker 5>So so you y'all okay, so you've been with every

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<v Speaker 5>person that he's been with, and he's been with every

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<v Speaker 5>person you've been with.

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<v Speaker 2>At least in art what we call tribe.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, yeah, like either it's all five guys one on one,

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<v Speaker 6>it might be just the girls.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it's just kind of like, how do you

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<v Speaker 2>want I have?

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<v Speaker 3>How do you find time?

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly, do you guys actually dedicate real time to one another?

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<v Speaker 8>Like?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, obviously we have like designated day times and all that,

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<v Speaker 6>especially with mister studentye, Like we have set weekly dates

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<v Speaker 6>because we're also in business. With each other, So we

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<v Speaker 6>have like our business nights, of course the terms of

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<v Speaker 6>the sex always because that's like my reward. And then

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<v Speaker 6>and then we have our date nights, which is great,

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<v Speaker 6>so we we can definitely separate business from pleasure whenever.

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<v Speaker 6>And that's the same with the other my our girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 6>and then the other couple and my girlfriend, my other

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<v Speaker 6>two girlfriends or other girlfriends.

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<v Speaker 2>My gosh, it's a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Is it important?

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<v Speaker 5>Is it important for your dom to be attracted to

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<v Speaker 5>all of the people in.

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<v Speaker 3>Your try tribe?

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<v Speaker 6>I would say yes, because we're like when we're all

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<v Speaker 6>together where you live, you know, we if we're out

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<v Speaker 6>in public, you know, I might turn around and kiss

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<v Speaker 6>the girlfriend, one of the girlfriends, might kiss both of

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<v Speaker 6>the girlfriends, might kiss both of the guys.

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<v Speaker 5>So it's like yes, so you guys do hang out

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<v Speaker 5>in all together too, and like, yeah, group dates, that

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<v Speaker 5>sounds fun.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, we go on group dates. We go on hangouts. Like,

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<v Speaker 6>not everything is about sex either. Like at the end

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<v Speaker 6>of the day, we are really good friends with each other.

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<v Speaker 6>There are times where we can have sex where we're

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<v Speaker 6>just like we're hanging out, but you know, we just

0:23:54.359 --> 0:23:58.240
<v Speaker 6>make it very important to have like one on ones,

0:23:58.680 --> 0:24:00.200
<v Speaker 6>group dates and then try.

0:24:00.080 --> 0:24:02.879
<v Speaker 2>Dates as we call them. But it's not a requirement

0:24:04.400 --> 0:24:05.800
<v Speaker 2>that suit and tie.

0:24:07.359 --> 0:24:09.840
<v Speaker 6>You know, if he wants to bring somebody in, yes

0:24:09.920 --> 0:24:12.320
<v Speaker 6>I want to be attracted to them, but it's not

0:24:12.359 --> 0:24:14.480
<v Speaker 6>a requirement of our relationship.

0:24:14.560 --> 0:24:17.040
<v Speaker 3>But for you, for for your whoever you bring in

0:24:17.080 --> 0:24:18.359
<v Speaker 3>it, it is kind of a requirement.

0:24:18.840 --> 0:24:19.000
<v Speaker 2>Oh.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, if I'm having sex with somebody, anybody, I

0:24:22.400 --> 0:24:24.479
<v Speaker 6>need to be I have to be attracted to you.

0:24:25.040 --> 0:24:27.639
<v Speaker 5>But because you're his sub, because you're his sub and

0:24:27.680 --> 0:24:30.520
<v Speaker 5>he's your dom, is it is it more important that

0:24:30.760 --> 0:24:32.080
<v Speaker 5>he is attracted to Is there?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if there's that dynamic.

0:24:33.200 --> 0:24:35.919
<v Speaker 6>To like that power is that that we crossed in

0:24:35.960 --> 0:24:40.720
<v Speaker 6>the lines of like cutcolding And we definitely don't do that,

0:24:40.960 --> 0:24:45.800
<v Speaker 6>Like he doesn't degrade me and flip he's fucking somebody else,

0:24:45.840 --> 0:24:48.760
<v Speaker 6>Like he does not do that. So you know, if

0:24:48.760 --> 0:24:52.119
<v Speaker 6>we do decide to bring somebody else, we just make

0:24:52.160 --> 0:24:53.920
<v Speaker 6>sure that everybody's mutually.

0:24:55.080 --> 0:24:58.760
<v Speaker 2>You know, all responsive and everything. Because again it's just

0:24:58.760 --> 0:24:59.840
<v Speaker 2>like attract there any.

0:24:59.720 --> 0:25:02.480
<v Speaker 5>Rule other rules, And when it's polyamorous, is it just

0:25:02.520 --> 0:25:05.560
<v Speaker 5>free love like or there are rules and boundaries to relationships?

0:25:05.640 --> 0:25:08.560
<v Speaker 3>How do you navigate safety too, Like safety is.

0:25:08.560 --> 0:25:09.000
<v Speaker 2>A big thing.

0:25:09.119 --> 0:25:13.920
<v Speaker 6>So we are extremely, extremely in communications with each other.

0:25:14.119 --> 0:25:17.680
<v Speaker 6>So there have been you know, scares where someone had

0:25:17.760 --> 0:25:22.560
<v Speaker 6>like siphilists for someone had herpes, and you know, we

0:25:22.640 --> 0:25:26.439
<v Speaker 6>all had to get tested and you know, just figure

0:25:26.440 --> 0:25:30.879
<v Speaker 6>out ways to prevent things from happening. So we're extremely open.

0:25:31.160 --> 0:25:34.080
<v Speaker 6>And yeah, everybody has their you know, their boundaries. Like

0:25:34.840 --> 0:25:37.240
<v Speaker 6>one of my girlfriends, she does not want to hear

0:25:37.640 --> 0:25:41.199
<v Speaker 6>nor see things that happen like some of us. We

0:25:41.280 --> 0:25:43.720
<v Speaker 6>like to send each other videos. If you know, my

0:25:43.800 --> 0:25:45.959
<v Speaker 6>girlfriend is fucking suit and tie. One of my girlfriends

0:25:46.000 --> 0:25:49.840
<v Speaker 6>is fucking sudenthie. That girlfriend sometimes send me videos and I'm.

0:25:49.680 --> 0:25:50.199
<v Speaker 2>All for that.

0:25:50.840 --> 0:25:55.200
<v Speaker 6>And then there's you know, my other girlfriend with her partner.

0:25:55.280 --> 0:25:57.960
<v Speaker 6>If him and I are having a solo date, he

0:25:58.359 --> 0:26:02.119
<v Speaker 6>you know, she doesn't want to see anything. And I

0:26:02.160 --> 0:26:04.399
<v Speaker 6>try also to be mindful of what I post on

0:26:04.440 --> 0:26:09.040
<v Speaker 6>social media, like for instance, the married So again I

0:26:09.040 --> 0:26:12.760
<v Speaker 6>have one married girlfriend, one who's just in a relationship.

0:26:14.160 --> 0:26:17.840
<v Speaker 6>The married girlfriend, I can't post on social media. She's

0:26:17.840 --> 0:26:20.240
<v Speaker 6>not out to her parents, she's not out to her family.

0:26:20.880 --> 0:26:23.200
<v Speaker 6>And she also is a therapist, so she's trying to

0:26:23.240 --> 0:26:28.280
<v Speaker 6>protect her business as well, because that's not something her licenses,

0:26:28.640 --> 0:26:30.040
<v Speaker 6>you know, spans out to be.

0:26:31.359 --> 0:26:33.720
<v Speaker 2>But at the same time, I do have my.

0:26:33.680 --> 0:26:36.760
<v Speaker 6>Other girlfriend who I publicly post in times, and you know,

0:26:36.800 --> 0:26:40.320
<v Speaker 6>everything is fine with that, but we all respect one another,

0:26:41.280 --> 0:26:43.399
<v Speaker 6>you know, with the safe sex, like all of us,

0:26:43.600 --> 0:26:46.800
<v Speaker 6>we are not fluidly bonded. So sent Ty and I

0:26:46.840 --> 0:26:50.400
<v Speaker 6>we've been together for five years, but we use condoms

0:26:50.440 --> 0:26:56.600
<v Speaker 6>because he openly fucks other people. I sometimes have a

0:26:56.600 --> 0:26:58.600
<v Speaker 6>filling or two, which is very minimal. I'm what they

0:26:58.600 --> 0:27:05.120
<v Speaker 6>call polypatri so what I call Polly saturated. So yeah,

0:27:05.480 --> 0:27:10.040
<v Speaker 6>poly saturating means that I'm only with the people that

0:27:10.119 --> 0:27:14.200
<v Speaker 6>I'm like Polly with in a polyamorous relationship with I'm

0:27:14.200 --> 0:27:16.360
<v Speaker 6>not going out and seeking strange Like I'm not going

0:27:16.400 --> 0:27:18.440
<v Speaker 6>on tender and fucking some random people.

0:27:18.520 --> 0:27:21.520
<v Speaker 2>Like I'm bored. I'm done with that. God, I get

0:27:21.560 --> 0:27:23.959
<v Speaker 2>all the good sex with my people.

0:27:24.119 --> 0:27:26.200
<v Speaker 3>What do we call it select We're a selective hose

0:27:26.240 --> 0:27:29.639
<v Speaker 3>now I adopted that today.

0:27:30.160 --> 0:27:32.440
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I am a hoe in my relationships, but I'm

0:27:32.520 --> 0:27:33.240
<v Speaker 6>very selective.

0:27:33.280 --> 0:27:34.560
<v Speaker 2>Like some people try to jump in.

0:27:34.600 --> 0:27:36.560
<v Speaker 6>They're like, oh, you know, like I would love to,

0:27:36.640 --> 0:27:41.560
<v Speaker 6>and I'm like.

0:27:39.240 --> 0:27:43.040
<v Speaker 5>Like we finally we're on our groove over here now right, Okay,

0:27:43.240 --> 0:27:44.320
<v Speaker 5>we're not our groove, bitch.

0:27:44.320 --> 0:27:48.399
<v Speaker 3>We don't need nobody.

0:27:49.119 --> 0:27:53.000
<v Speaker 2>Perfect ladies.

0:27:53.040 --> 0:27:55.919
<v Speaker 6>When I tell you that, I have to say, like

0:27:55.960 --> 0:27:57.639
<v Speaker 6>in all my ears, because I was never a person

0:27:57.680 --> 0:28:01.160
<v Speaker 6>to date. I was never about really relationships. I'm always

0:28:01.200 --> 0:28:04.920
<v Speaker 6>about fuck marriage, fucking relationship. Then I meet this man

0:28:05.920 --> 0:28:12.560
<v Speaker 6>who gives me everything, who respects me for me and

0:28:12.600 --> 0:28:15.879
<v Speaker 6>my sexuality, and that's very hard to find, especially like

0:28:16.000 --> 0:28:19.920
<v Speaker 6>as a black female. Come on, there are hell of

0:28:20.000 --> 0:28:22.560
<v Speaker 6>men that are like, oh, yeah, I'm down with you

0:28:22.640 --> 0:28:25.520
<v Speaker 6>being by, but like, only if we're in it together.

0:28:26.040 --> 0:28:31.239
<v Speaker 2>No, motherfucker, that's literally the inship you want.

0:28:32.600 --> 0:28:36.439
<v Speaker 5>Right Wait, I thought I were just fucking missions together

0:28:36.680 --> 0:28:38.960
<v Speaker 5>and I get to fuck too, well, you're not here.

0:28:40.000 --> 0:28:43.320
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, So I've had plenty of those, so and yes,

0:28:43.360 --> 0:28:44.800
<v Speaker 6>and I we talked about it all the time. I

0:28:44.880 --> 0:28:46.960
<v Speaker 6>talk about it. A lot of black men do not

0:28:47.160 --> 0:28:49.840
<v Speaker 6>like me per se because they can't handle the fact

0:28:49.880 --> 0:28:54.160
<v Speaker 6>that I have girlfriends, a boyfriend. Oh, I have another

0:28:54.240 --> 0:28:58.680
<v Speaker 6>guy that I'm establishing a relationship with, Like I got

0:28:58.680 --> 0:29:01.640
<v Speaker 6>the big dick department. They all leave pussy. The only

0:29:01.680 --> 0:29:04.560
<v Speaker 6>thing they don't do the guys. It's like each other

0:29:04.800 --> 0:29:05.840
<v Speaker 6>when we're all together.

0:29:06.400 --> 0:29:08.560
<v Speaker 5>The guys are like, are are the people that are

0:29:08.720 --> 0:29:11.160
<v Speaker 5>in a relationship are they? Is it a mixed with

0:29:11.240 --> 0:29:13.440
<v Speaker 5>what are the Is it a mixed situation or is

0:29:13.440 --> 0:29:14.120
<v Speaker 5>it mostly white?

0:29:14.240 --> 0:29:16.320
<v Speaker 3>Is it black? What is the dynamics?

0:29:16.480 --> 0:29:18.480
<v Speaker 2>The ladies? The ladies are.

0:29:19.600 --> 0:29:24.040
<v Speaker 6>One of my girlfriends is Mexican and oh my god,

0:29:24.200 --> 0:29:25.160
<v Speaker 6>she's mixed with something.

0:29:26.680 --> 0:29:29.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, dabe. The one that you was on Live

0:29:29.840 --> 0:29:33.600
<v Speaker 2>with No, that's the married one. The married one. She's

0:29:33.720 --> 0:29:40.000
<v Speaker 2>Middle Eastern and Jewish. Gotcha, yeah, but are you going

0:29:40.000 --> 0:29:40.640
<v Speaker 2>on Live with her?

0:29:41.080 --> 0:29:41.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:29:41.600 --> 0:29:42.880
<v Speaker 3>She's the secret one.

0:29:43.200 --> 0:29:46.080
<v Speaker 9>Well, she was like a disappear in twenty four hours.

0:29:46.120 --> 0:29:49.960
<v Speaker 9>We were Yeah, we were drunk. It was my birthday,

0:29:50.000 --> 0:29:55.160
<v Speaker 9>she put. Okay, she had like she was disguised.

0:29:55.560 --> 0:29:59.840
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, okay, actually shocked too because I was like, wa,

0:30:00.160 --> 0:30:01.600
<v Speaker 6>you want to be on the line.

0:30:02.640 --> 0:30:05.120
<v Speaker 3>Okay, hmm, here's your birthday.

0:30:05.680 --> 0:30:09.160
<v Speaker 2>It was my birthday. It was late, it was lit. God,

0:30:09.200 --> 0:30:10.840
<v Speaker 2>my vagina hurts. I'm sorry, but.

0:30:14.840 --> 0:30:22.920
<v Speaker 6>Really this quarantine, like I swear to God, like now

0:30:22.960 --> 0:30:26.000
<v Speaker 6>I like have to go get some quarantine days and.

0:30:26.000 --> 0:30:27.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm loving it.

0:30:27.560 --> 0:30:31.000
<v Speaker 6>It's just I'm hurting today. I'm a little store. It's

0:30:31.080 --> 0:30:33.880
<v Speaker 6>up in the in the US. I'm sorry that's too

0:30:33.960 --> 0:30:36.680
<v Speaker 6>much for everybody, but like you up last.

0:30:36.560 --> 0:30:40.520
<v Speaker 8>Night, ever too much for SAH and I don't say

0:30:40.560 --> 0:30:42.640
<v Speaker 8>there's ever anything too much for their show.

0:30:43.040 --> 0:30:46.720
<v Speaker 6>I don't think this thing has been for a long

0:30:46.760 --> 0:30:49.600
<v Speaker 6>time coming, Like I've been wanting to hang out with.

0:30:49.560 --> 0:30:55.400
<v Speaker 3>These mills I forever, like no boundaries nine.

0:30:55.480 --> 0:30:57.840
<v Speaker 6>I tried not to be like a little fan because like,

0:30:57.880 --> 0:30:59.560
<v Speaker 6>now I know people that are fans with you, and

0:30:59.600 --> 0:31:01.680
<v Speaker 6>I'm like, I actually know these women.

0:31:02.200 --> 0:31:04.280
<v Speaker 2>Okay, you know how hard it is not to like

0:31:04.440 --> 0:31:07.360
<v Speaker 2>release sexual energy to these women, like and be professional.

0:31:07.800 --> 0:31:08.640
<v Speaker 3>We're here, We're.

0:31:08.440 --> 0:31:10.880
<v Speaker 1>Here for all the sexual energy.

0:31:12.040 --> 0:31:13.320
<v Speaker 3>Wait, so tell us about you.

0:31:13.400 --> 0:31:16.000
<v Speaker 5>So you at the top of the at the top

0:31:16.000 --> 0:31:18.720
<v Speaker 5>of the episode told us that you like big dick sometimes,

0:31:18.760 --> 0:31:21.040
<v Speaker 5>and you like vagina's nice.

0:31:20.840 --> 0:31:24.000
<v Speaker 3>Vagina, nice vagina, Yes, nice vagina?

0:31:24.160 --> 0:31:25.000
<v Speaker 4>But you are you?

0:31:25.080 --> 0:31:26.120
<v Speaker 5>Are you Polly or No?

0:31:27.360 --> 0:31:27.640
<v Speaker 1>No?

0:31:27.720 --> 0:31:30.960
<v Speaker 8>I just like to have sex. I like to have fun.

0:31:31.080 --> 0:31:34.479
<v Speaker 8>Let's say that, yes, with with good vibes. It's just

0:31:34.600 --> 0:31:35.560
<v Speaker 8>male or female?

0:31:36.080 --> 0:31:39.240
<v Speaker 5>Could you so then you're not interested in any sort

0:31:39.280 --> 0:31:41.479
<v Speaker 5>of like relationship, then you know.

0:31:41.640 --> 0:31:44.440
<v Speaker 8>I tried it for six months and it just was like,

0:31:44.640 --> 0:31:46.720
<v Speaker 8>this is like too much of responsibility.

0:31:47.480 --> 0:31:49.400
<v Speaker 4>I still have other dick that I I.

0:31:51.280 --> 0:31:54.640
<v Speaker 3>Have to conquer. No, it's that too.

0:31:55.000 --> 0:31:57.120
<v Speaker 4>I feel like, you know, like there's some checks that

0:31:57.400 --> 0:31:59.560
<v Speaker 4>haven't been written to me yet. So that's how I

0:31:59.600 --> 0:32:00.200
<v Speaker 4>feel like.

0:32:00.800 --> 0:32:03.000
<v Speaker 8>There's still guys that I still keep in contact with

0:32:03.040 --> 0:32:04.080
<v Speaker 8>that I haven't had sex with.

0:32:04.200 --> 0:32:05.640
<v Speaker 4>But I plan on sitting on it.

0:32:06.280 --> 0:32:10.320
<v Speaker 8>Yeah, you know, like and being a relationship with somebody

0:32:10.400 --> 0:32:14.600
<v Speaker 8>that's not taking that distraction out of me.

0:32:15.440 --> 0:32:17.640
<v Speaker 4>It shows that I'm not ready to be with somebody.

0:32:18.200 --> 0:32:20.440
<v Speaker 5>Like maybe maybe you need to be in something Pollie,

0:32:20.480 --> 0:32:22.600
<v Speaker 5>maybe be in a poly relationship with benefit.

0:32:22.760 --> 0:32:25.360
<v Speaker 4>It's hard in the Bay Area?

0:32:25.480 --> 0:32:25.880
<v Speaker 2>Are you?

0:32:26.000 --> 0:32:28.680
<v Speaker 5>Are you territorial as far as what your what your

0:32:28.720 --> 0:32:30.680
<v Speaker 5>sexual partners do with other people.

0:32:31.440 --> 0:32:33.920
<v Speaker 4>In a sense, yeah, Like I don't want the guy

0:32:33.960 --> 0:32:34.680
<v Speaker 4>to be eating.

0:32:34.480 --> 0:32:42.240
<v Speaker 8>Cushie just fuck her gets ahead, like, but yeah, that's

0:32:42.280 --> 0:32:43.040
<v Speaker 8>why you can't be.

0:32:43.120 --> 0:32:47.440
<v Speaker 5>Polly though it actually sounds like me exactly.

0:32:48.160 --> 0:32:49.640
<v Speaker 4>So I want you to be obsessed with.

0:32:49.640 --> 0:32:51.520
<v Speaker 5>Me, and I want you to tell me every detail,

0:32:51.600 --> 0:32:53.720
<v Speaker 5>but you better not do this one specific thing.

0:32:53.760 --> 0:32:55.480
<v Speaker 8>Yeah, just don't eat a pussy because if you eat

0:32:55.480 --> 0:32:58.080
<v Speaker 8>pussy very well and you've given that to somebody else.

0:32:58.120 --> 0:32:58.880
<v Speaker 3>Now that means a bit.

0:32:58.920 --> 0:33:03.640
<v Speaker 8>She's gonna be around your girlfriend or something.

0:33:03.640 --> 0:33:04.960
<v Speaker 4>You're gonna get the bitch pregnant.

0:33:04.960 --> 0:33:06.520
<v Speaker 3>It's just it's done too much.

0:33:09.320 --> 0:33:12.520
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, you know there could be the like you know

0:33:12.800 --> 0:33:16.160
<v Speaker 6>that there are some women out there who can get

0:33:16.160 --> 0:33:16.920
<v Speaker 6>there pussy eat in.

0:33:17.040 --> 0:33:19.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm good, nobody's man.

0:33:18.800 --> 0:33:22.560
<v Speaker 3>I'm if I know your relationship, I'll me too.

0:33:22.640 --> 0:33:25.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm the best side how you can ever ask for

0:33:25.520 --> 0:33:31.080
<v Speaker 1>the same way, in fact that if you respect your relationship,

0:33:31.200 --> 0:33:33.040
<v Speaker 1>if you are really if you're like from the jump,

0:33:33.040 --> 0:33:33.800
<v Speaker 1>I have a girlfriend.

0:33:33.840 --> 0:33:36.560
<v Speaker 3>I love her, She's the greatest. I this is just

0:33:36.600 --> 0:33:39.080
<v Speaker 3>really great. I'm just like that. I can't respect that

0:33:39.200 --> 0:33:40.480
<v Speaker 3>even more. You know I would be.

0:33:40.920 --> 0:33:43.400
<v Speaker 1>I respect it even more if she knows about our relationship.

0:33:44.200 --> 0:33:45.800
<v Speaker 1>But like I mean, I'm not like a sideh.

0:33:45.880 --> 0:33:46.360
<v Speaker 3>I don't do this.

0:33:46.400 --> 0:33:47.920
<v Speaker 1>But I'm just saying in the case is when I

0:33:47.960 --> 0:33:50.600
<v Speaker 1>have done it, I just I'm not out to take

0:33:50.640 --> 0:33:54.280
<v Speaker 1>someone's relationship. But there are a certain type of bitches

0:33:54.560 --> 0:33:57.200
<v Speaker 1>who if a nigga is treating a woman well and

0:33:57.240 --> 0:33:59.560
<v Speaker 1>it's eating her pussy well and fox, then she can't

0:33:59.640 --> 0:34:02.760
<v Speaker 1>understand the concept of you're going back the opening.

0:34:02.880 --> 0:34:05.560
<v Speaker 8>Yeah, if he was giving the same energy he gives

0:34:05.600 --> 0:34:07.640
<v Speaker 8>me to another girl, it's gonna.

0:34:07.360 --> 0:34:10.280
<v Speaker 3>Be all have to be on the same page about

0:34:10.280 --> 0:34:11.080
<v Speaker 3>what we're doing.

0:34:11.280 --> 0:34:15.120
<v Speaker 8>Because they're guys that control how they fuck. They just

0:34:15.280 --> 0:34:17.680
<v Speaker 8>like to make love to every bitch they fucked. Well,

0:34:17.760 --> 0:34:20.120
<v Speaker 8>you just like there's every guy that gives daddy dick

0:34:20.239 --> 0:34:22.480
<v Speaker 8>to every bitch, And me wonder why there's certain girls

0:34:22.480 --> 0:34:25.959
<v Speaker 8>that are crazy, like guys don't know how to turn

0:34:26.000 --> 0:34:29.600
<v Speaker 8>it down, and just like I regular, that's because I

0:34:29.600 --> 0:34:30.160
<v Speaker 8>shot born.

0:34:30.200 --> 0:34:31.400
<v Speaker 4>That's why I have no emotion.

0:34:31.480 --> 0:34:33.680
<v Speaker 8>When I could fuck other people, I could change how

0:34:33.719 --> 0:34:36.799
<v Speaker 8>I feel. Like certain people I could be around, like

0:34:36.840 --> 0:34:39.160
<v Speaker 8>oh he's pussy Hella good and he likes to do this,

0:34:39.320 --> 0:34:40.080
<v Speaker 8>He's hell of fun.

0:34:40.600 --> 0:34:42.880
<v Speaker 4>I'll do that. Or this big dick guy, I like

0:34:42.880 --> 0:34:44.879
<v Speaker 4>to get drunk with him, and you know.

0:34:45.120 --> 0:34:47.960
<v Speaker 8>Like it's just when you're in a relationship, you got

0:34:47.960 --> 0:34:50.600
<v Speaker 8>to think about that person's feelings, like, yeah, fucking me

0:34:50.680 --> 0:34:53.839
<v Speaker 8>better than him, Oh my god, look at him and

0:34:53.880 --> 0:34:56.799
<v Speaker 8>be like, damn, I just had Hella good as sex

0:34:56.840 --> 0:34:57.720
<v Speaker 8>two days ago.

0:34:59.040 --> 0:35:00.800
<v Speaker 3>So it's like the reason why.

0:35:00.800 --> 0:35:01.279
<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

0:35:01.440 --> 0:35:03.120
<v Speaker 5>I'm like, I don't know if I can be in

0:35:03.160 --> 0:35:05.160
<v Speaker 5>a relationship and now that I've been single for two

0:35:05.200 --> 0:35:07.680
<v Speaker 5>and a half years, like almost three low key.

0:35:07.680 --> 0:35:09.880
<v Speaker 3>Like I like to do what I want to do.

0:35:09.960 --> 0:35:12.359
<v Speaker 5>It's like I love love, I do, and I love

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<v Speaker 5>companionship and I do. There's a lot of times where

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<v Speaker 5>I miss being in love and having like a partner,

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<v Speaker 5>but then there's time. But now I'm kind of in

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<v Speaker 5>this position where I'm like, I have a I have

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<v Speaker 5>a choice of like do I want to be single

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<v Speaker 5>or do I want to like go down this road

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<v Speaker 5>of dating someone seriously.

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<v Speaker 6>And said, you need titles, Like I technically only say

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<v Speaker 6>titles to people so they can understand.

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<v Speaker 5>Because I'm a scorpio and I don't want you like

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<v Speaker 5>and you want you Why you want someone to belong

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<v Speaker 5>to you, I don't know them to belong We need

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<v Speaker 5>to have something sacred for sure.

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<v Speaker 10>Right, this has to be secure as before we start

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<v Speaker 10>like and like you love me, you don't love you

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<v Speaker 10>love me? But I also realistic, but you know, okay,

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<v Speaker 10>it's not really be it.

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<v Speaker 2>It could be very much realistic.

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<v Speaker 5>It can't be like it takes a very special person.

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<v Speaker 5>You have to really find that partner like that really

0:36:07.120 --> 0:36:09.120
<v Speaker 5>is on the same page. And that's the hardest part

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<v Speaker 5>because men are dumb, and men also don't The brains

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<v Speaker 5>don't work the same way as ours, even if they

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<v Speaker 5>say they want to do something, and even if they're

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<v Speaker 5>in their hearts of hearts they do.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I just well for me and also me like,

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<v Speaker 3>I just don't.

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<v Speaker 5>And I think a lot of the men that I've

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<v Speaker 5>dated too, I don't know about this guy that I'm

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<v Speaker 5>dating now, but like they say they were open to

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<v Speaker 5>like because i've I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't believe anogamy is natural.

0:36:31.880 --> 0:36:34.239
<v Speaker 5>I don't when thinking about having sex with one person,

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<v Speaker 5>my entire life sounds really sad. And I feel like,

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<v Speaker 5>I know I can't promise that, you know, but like,

0:36:42.760 --> 0:36:44.920
<v Speaker 5>and most men will say they can't either, and then

0:36:44.920 --> 0:36:47.359
<v Speaker 5>they'll agree and say okay, and then you go fuck

0:36:47.440 --> 0:36:49.879
<v Speaker 5>someone and then they get mad and then they feel weird.

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<v Speaker 1>We need to have an agreement that we're both human

0:36:51.760 --> 0:36:53.320
<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna love each other and be loyal to

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<v Speaker 1>each other and honest with each other and committed to

0:36:55.280 --> 0:36:58.600
<v Speaker 1>each other. But like, you know, we're only fucking human.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, this is you know. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>cut off. I want you to be loyal to me.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't just like, I don't want someone to

0:37:04.480 --> 0:37:06.520
<v Speaker 1>cut off my experiences. I don't want to like, what

0:37:06.560 --> 0:37:09.040
<v Speaker 1>if you're in Brazil. There's two bad bitches. I mean, like,

0:37:09.120 --> 0:37:10.560
<v Speaker 1>do it you're in Brazil? You know what?

0:37:10.800 --> 0:37:12.120
<v Speaker 2>I feel like you got to do it early in

0:37:12.120 --> 0:37:12.759
<v Speaker 2>the relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, well, so this is what I was going to say.

0:37:14.000 --> 0:37:16.839
<v Speaker 1>So I'm seeing someone new right now that I met

0:37:16.960 --> 0:37:19.520
<v Speaker 1>right before quarantine, and he's forty three, and.

0:37:19.560 --> 0:37:22.239
<v Speaker 2>He's like serious, he's asking serious, Oh you guys, Zaddy dick.

0:37:22.600 --> 0:37:23.879
<v Speaker 3>I'm getting Daddy dick.

0:37:24.560 --> 0:37:28.520
<v Speaker 1>So anyway, so I figure, because he asked about the podcast,

0:37:28.560 --> 0:37:30.520
<v Speaker 1>should he listen? And we're all in a very interesting

0:37:30.640 --> 0:37:32.480
<v Speaker 1>just like we all put a lot of business on

0:37:32.520 --> 0:37:33.040
<v Speaker 1>the internet.

0:37:33.239 --> 0:37:37.320
<v Speaker 3>So you know, there's men black men especially, there's.

0:37:37.280 --> 0:37:41.319
<v Speaker 1>There's association goes with women that you know talk you know,

0:37:41.600 --> 0:37:43.799
<v Speaker 1>candidly about their sex life because a lot of these

0:37:43.840 --> 0:37:46.239
<v Speaker 1>bitches be lying, you know when the angel like and

0:37:46.280 --> 0:37:48.120
<v Speaker 1>talking about they sucked a lot of dicks, when we

0:37:48.160 --> 0:37:53.640
<v Speaker 1>all know all the bitches sectcks and sat on somebody honest.

0:37:55.280 --> 0:37:55.640
<v Speaker 2>So I.

0:37:57.120 --> 0:37:59.479
<v Speaker 1>Promised myself, even though it feels really good and everything

0:37:59.520 --> 0:38:02.279
<v Speaker 1>seems tracking off marks I'm like, I'm about to put

0:38:02.360 --> 0:38:05.879
<v Speaker 1>everything on the motherfucking table, everything, everything, so you could

0:38:05.880 --> 0:38:07.520
<v Speaker 1>either take it or you could leave it, so I

0:38:07.520 --> 0:38:10.799
<v Speaker 1>don't find myself in love with you. And later I'm

0:38:10.800 --> 0:38:12.560
<v Speaker 1>trying to sneak put things on the table, like oh,

0:38:12.560 --> 0:38:16.440
<v Speaker 1>I didn't mention that because then they can run, you know.

0:38:16.719 --> 0:38:19.600
<v Speaker 1>So I told him. He was like, are you ready

0:38:19.640 --> 0:38:21.880
<v Speaker 1>for relationship? You're such a big personality. Can you be

0:38:21.920 --> 0:38:23.920
<v Speaker 1>fulfilled with you know, just one person? And I had

0:38:23.920 --> 0:38:27.200
<v Speaker 1>to really ask myself, like fuck, can I like what

0:38:27.480 --> 0:38:30.920
<v Speaker 1>is enough? Because I enjoy experiences. I enjoy going down

0:38:30.960 --> 0:38:33.040
<v Speaker 1>the street, meeting a stranger, dumping in the car.

0:38:33.400 --> 0:38:35.000
<v Speaker 3>I don't know what's going to happen in my life.

0:38:35.040 --> 0:38:36.560
<v Speaker 3>My life be happening quickly, you know.

0:38:36.840 --> 0:38:40.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, dicks come up and pretty bitches, you know, like

0:38:40.280 --> 0:38:43.040
<v Speaker 1>bitches come to me very easily, dance floors I have

0:38:43.320 --> 0:38:46.200
<v Speaker 1>very like I put out some kind of noise.

0:38:47.600 --> 0:38:48.960
<v Speaker 3>And all the bitches come. You know.

0:38:49.040 --> 0:38:52.000
<v Speaker 1>It's just a magical something that God gave me. And

0:38:52.040 --> 0:38:53.759
<v Speaker 1>when I turned it off to be in a relationship,

0:38:53.800 --> 0:38:56.399
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. It's God given. So I told him,

0:38:56.400 --> 0:38:59.239
<v Speaker 1>I said, listen, I had a lesbian threesome like two

0:38:59.239 --> 0:38:59.719
<v Speaker 1>weeks ago.

0:39:00.200 --> 0:39:04.160
<v Speaker 3>You know, I don't know if I want to take

0:39:04.200 --> 0:39:05.520
<v Speaker 3>that away from my life.

0:39:05.880 --> 0:39:06.360
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

0:39:06.400 --> 0:39:11.439
<v Speaker 3>I don't want to know if I have, I don't want.

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<v Speaker 1>Does this mean I have to turn all of those

0:39:13.680 --> 0:39:16.919
<v Speaker 1>options off at all times for the rest of my life.

0:39:17.520 --> 0:39:20.120
<v Speaker 3>No? And he said, you know that wouldn't necessarily have

0:39:20.200 --> 0:39:20.600
<v Speaker 3>to stop.

0:39:20.640 --> 0:39:25.719
<v Speaker 4>And I was like, but so he said.

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<v Speaker 2>Not necessarily, and that's the thing to good.

0:39:28.040 --> 0:39:30.200
<v Speaker 3>Enough for me. Let's talk about it. I'm like, that's

0:39:30.200 --> 0:39:31.360
<v Speaker 3>more open than usual.

0:39:32.040 --> 0:39:32.680
<v Speaker 2>I feel like.

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<v Speaker 5>Guys are using opera. You're never gonna all the bitches.

0:39:37.680 --> 0:39:39.680
<v Speaker 5>I'm going to go take it slowly. I know you

0:39:39.719 --> 0:39:41.359
<v Speaker 5>said you're laying it on the table. Now, you've got

0:39:41.400 --> 0:39:43.799
<v Speaker 5>to lay it all out. Why, Well, when I does

0:39:43.800 --> 0:39:44.520
<v Speaker 5>he does he have?

0:39:44.920 --> 0:39:46.759
<v Speaker 6>Does he have dick that you can be like, look

0:39:47.000 --> 0:39:49.320
<v Speaker 6>all these motherfuckers. I've had every dick in the world,

0:39:49.600 --> 0:39:54.200
<v Speaker 6>every size, every flavor, everything. I'm satisfied with this one

0:39:54.280 --> 0:39:56.320
<v Speaker 6>day satisfied.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was talking to him, it's kind of like

0:39:57.840 --> 0:40:00.719
<v Speaker 1>it's kind of like reserved and like not explicit, is me?

0:40:00.840 --> 0:40:02.200
<v Speaker 1>So I was trying to find out I've had a

0:40:02.239 --> 0:40:03.800
<v Speaker 1>big dick. So I was like, was she porn category?

0:40:03.840 --> 0:40:06.359
<v Speaker 1>Blah blah blah. He was like BBC and I was like,

0:40:06.480 --> 0:40:09.360
<v Speaker 1>are you BBC? And he was like, you know mister Marcus.

0:40:09.360 --> 0:40:11.320
<v Speaker 1>And so immediately I went home and looked at mister

0:40:11.400 --> 0:40:13.279
<v Speaker 1>Marcus's penis and then I.

0:40:13.200 --> 0:40:16.520
<v Speaker 3>Screamed, and then I said, chat with him?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know Justin Slayer? Okay, well that's my friend,

0:40:21.960 --> 0:40:24.719
<v Speaker 1>Justin I told I mentioned that too. That's also my friend.

0:40:24.840 --> 0:40:27.520
<v Speaker 1>And you know, I forget that. Mentioning like that you're

0:40:27.800 --> 0:40:30.520
<v Speaker 1>casually friends with porn stars for a regular guy could

0:40:30.520 --> 0:40:35.799
<v Speaker 1>be like a bit, oh intimidating, and I forget that.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, first of all, I'm a lot of personality. I

0:40:37.680 --> 0:40:39.360
<v Speaker 3>talk with your porn category.

0:40:39.680 --> 0:40:40.800
<v Speaker 2>I know Justin Slayer.

0:40:41.120 --> 0:40:43.680
<v Speaker 3>I looked up mister marcus penis. Is this what yours

0:40:43.719 --> 0:40:46.719
<v Speaker 3>looks like? I need to know? And for everybody, that's

0:40:46.800 --> 0:40:50.920
<v Speaker 3>everybody can't, you know, I can't. It's intimidating and I

0:40:50.960 --> 0:40:53.680
<v Speaker 3>forget that. But anyway, his big dick is really big,

0:40:53.760 --> 0:40:54.680
<v Speaker 3>so that's a plus.

0:40:55.040 --> 0:40:56.800
<v Speaker 2>Okay, and it works.

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<v Speaker 6>Obviously you want to come back for more, yes, okay,

0:41:02.440 --> 0:41:03.160
<v Speaker 6>let me tell you this.

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<v Speaker 2>We gotta have a part two.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm gonna give you some levels, because I feel like

0:41:09.840 --> 0:41:14.320
<v Speaker 6>with the open relationships, Polly, there's levels, just like to

0:41:14.440 --> 0:41:16.439
<v Speaker 6>regular dating, there's levels to this shit.

0:41:17.600 --> 0:41:19.480
<v Speaker 2>So we're gonna have to get into these levels.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that concludes part one of a two part episode

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<v Speaker 3>So check out this clip and we'll catch you guys

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<v Speaker 3>next week.

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<v Speaker 1>We ended up finding like a group of like training

0:42:15.840 --> 0:42:18.080
<v Speaker 1>football players in Palm Springs.

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<v Speaker 3>We went out.

0:42:18.640 --> 0:42:20.759
<v Speaker 1>We found them the first night. I was like, oh, look,

0:42:20.760 --> 0:42:23.480
<v Speaker 1>we got some eye. Candy invited them to the house

0:42:23.480 --> 0:42:26.319
<v Speaker 1>the next day because we had a house and they're

0:42:26.360 --> 0:42:28.600
<v Speaker 1>all there by the pool. And before they were there,

0:42:28.640 --> 0:42:29.960
<v Speaker 1>I had my shirt off and I was like, they

0:42:30.000 --> 0:42:31.600
<v Speaker 1>were like, the guys are coming. I was like, you, guys,

0:42:32.480 --> 0:42:35.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm not putting my shirt on. All this is our house,

0:42:35.840 --> 0:42:37.759
<v Speaker 1>and you know, no one could tell me to put

0:42:37.800 --> 0:42:40.040
<v Speaker 1>my shirt on. I got some looks like this bitch

0:42:40.239 --> 0:42:42.840
<v Speaker 1>is very annoying. And also I think sometimes I've been

0:42:42.880 --> 0:42:44.839
<v Speaker 1>around friends who think if I do it, then they're

0:42:44.840 --> 0:42:46.000
<v Speaker 1>gonna be reflected poorly.

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<v Speaker 5>Well I think maybe they thought like, if you know

0:42:48.480 --> 0:42:50.640
<v Speaker 5>what it is, I think they're like, well, damn, are

0:42:50.640 --> 0:42:51.880
<v Speaker 5>you trying to take all the attention from all the

0:42:51.920 --> 0:42:52.799
<v Speaker 5>niggas with your shirt off?

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<v Speaker 3>I want some dick too. But wait, wait, bitch, wait,

0:42:55.920 --> 0:42:57.080
<v Speaker 3>let's even the playing field here.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well that's not also not my problem. No one

0:43:02.040 --> 0:43:02.680
<v Speaker 1>else stands.

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<v Speaker 3>The next stoves and the sports talk over the g