1 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:22,279 Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. We're high Hi, America. 2 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 2: I'm Nila, and it is. 3 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 1: Wednesday, Wednesday, and our kids are outside being loud, so 4 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 1: sorry if you hear them, it's just they don't speak English, 5 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:34,279 Speaker 1: so when we tell them to do something else, they 6 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 1: don't listen. 7 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 3: How's your Wednesday, Erica? 8 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:40,160 Speaker 4: My Wednesday is going pretty good. 9 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:43,599 Speaker 5: I haven't really eaten today because I woke up, then 10 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:47,199 Speaker 5: I had conference calls and shit, we wrote calls, and 11 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 5: then I worked out, and then you came over and 12 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:51,839 Speaker 5: then I was like, you can do grocery shopping, and 13 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 5: then we had to do another podcast, and then we 14 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 5: had to drink on the podcast because I don't know why. 15 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 3: That's this is our job for some reason. 16 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 5: And now I'm drunk and I haven't really eaten. 17 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 3: So that's where I'm at with it. Yep, that's exactly 18 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:06,040 Speaker 3: how my day went. 19 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: We Also, I was also just stressed out, and I 20 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:12,319 Speaker 1: found out, in addition to already being stressed out, that 21 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:15,959 Speaker 1: the stay home order in California has extended to July, 22 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:19,199 Speaker 1: not June July, and that means it's going to skip 23 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 1: right over my birthday. And I'm pissed but now I'm 24 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 1: just drunk, so it's fine. And also summer camp is 25 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 1: not happening. Fuck okay, anyway, no problems. 26 00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:32,199 Speaker 3: We are joined today by the Lovely Lady. 27 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 1: Okay, there's that highness again, the Lovely Ladies of Sapphire's. 28 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 2: Ear play Hello Megan and yeah, hey else. Oh we're 29 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 2: throwing out government names. 30 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 1: Oh shit, I'm sorry. Okay, So a little background, Sapphire. 31 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 3: We'll believe it. You'll believe it because you're doing. 32 00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 2: Don't worry. I'm registered under Megan Sapphire on SAG. 33 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 6: It's just weird on this pot, guys. 34 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 1: So I know Sapphire as Megan from Saint John's High 35 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 1: School in Panoramic City. 36 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:13,639 Speaker 3: We high school together. I was a year ahead of her. 37 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 1: There was probably two black people, three black people at 38 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:18,679 Speaker 1: the school at the same time, so of course you 39 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 1: know each other. 40 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 3: And ten years later, here we are talking sex on 41 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 3: the internet. 42 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 2: MoMA. Yes we did, Yes we did. 43 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 6: And you've actually come on one of my other shows before, 44 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 6: when I was at Playboy years ago, actually when. 45 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 1: I wanted to when I wanted to be a blogger, 46 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 1: called dirty Lipstick, Dirty Dirty Lipstick. Actually, it's so funny 47 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 1: that you say that because we were on Playboy Radio 48 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 1: and when Erica approached me and asked me to do 49 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 1: this podcast, I was like, she was like, going to 50 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:55,360 Speaker 1: do a podcast together. I'm like, what's that? She was like, 51 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:57,239 Speaker 1: you know, I was like, like radio, She was like yeah. 52 00:02:57,240 --> 00:02:58,360 Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, I did that one time with 53 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 1: my friend. I was talking about you and I liked it. 54 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I knew. 55 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 1: I was like, I knew from that experience that it 56 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:11,240 Speaker 1: was up my alley. So honestly, thank you started. 57 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 6: Her journey into You're welcome. You mamas are killing it. 58 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 6: I mean it's not easy, y'all, just like change my 59 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 6: view on milks. So I'm like, okay, let me hop 60 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 6: on the milk train and get myself ready because what 61 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 6: we're going to take your time. 62 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:31,240 Speaker 3: That's what we're here for. 63 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't have that long prep. 64 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 6: One of my girlfriends is actually getting ready to have 65 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 6: a baby, so that's a whole assxt. 66 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 7: Wait, one of your girlfriends is as and girlfriends that 67 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 7: you're intimate with, yes, yeah, okay, okay, So I'm so 68 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 7: happy that you brought this up because you know, I 69 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 7: want to get in your business more than I'm already 70 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 7: in your business. 71 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 2: Well, we got to get into my co host's business. 72 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 1: Okay, we're first of all, we're getting into both of 73 00:03:58,760 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 1: your businesses. 74 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 3: That's just the man. 75 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 4: She just trying to get the heat off of her. 76 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 2: Always always, I got. 77 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 3: To so what's your business? 78 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 5: Yes, tell us all about you girls? 79 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 4: WHOA let's see. Oh well, I shot porn. 80 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 8: Started in two thousand and nine, moved to LA in 81 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 8: twenty twelve, and I started doing podcast appearances. 82 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 4: Was it podcast? 83 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 1: No? 84 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 2: Yes? And oh no you were doing you were doing 85 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 2: adult radio appearances. Yeah, a radio appearances after us right now? 86 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 3: Where they att? 87 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:47,599 Speaker 8: Yeah, that's living in the bay. 88 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 5: You were shooting you were in porn or you were 89 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:50,839 Speaker 5: shooting the porn. 90 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 4: I was in porn. I was in the porns movies. 91 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 4: I mean I was. I had my own website and everything. 92 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 3: What was your I should write the computer. I'm sorry 93 00:04:58,560 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 3: you guys. 94 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:03,919 Speaker 2: Oh what I think I saw a titty flash? So 95 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 2: that's some one else can see. 96 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 3: That frowning again my booth frown. 97 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 6: Oh my god, honestly, oh my god, it looks sad, 98 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 6: so sad. 99 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:21,800 Speaker 3: What are you doing over there? Are rolling a black 100 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 3: woo me? 101 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:23,240 Speaker 2: Oh? 102 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure, I was like, that's like I can 103 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 1: hear it on the You're like, you're at the end 104 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 1: where you about to start. 105 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 2: She's given. 106 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:37,240 Speaker 3: This is a she also like a sex operator over there. 107 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 4: You see this? 108 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:42,920 Speaker 3: You have sex operations, haven't. 109 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 8: I've had lots of phone sex, like when I was younger, 110 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:49,039 Speaker 8: I used to be on the chat lines rubbing it out. 111 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:53,480 Speaker 3: You know, how did you get into the porn industry? 112 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:54,240 Speaker 3: What what led? 113 00:05:54,360 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 1: Like? 114 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 3: How did you? 115 00:05:57,440 --> 00:06:01,239 Speaker 8: I watched a real sex episode and they had featured 116 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:02,280 Speaker 8: fucking machines. 117 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:05,359 Speaker 4: Found out it was in San Francisco at the Armory 118 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:08,159 Speaker 4: Rescue Peace to the Armory. 119 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 2: I was about to say that, what's the armory? 120 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 3: Hold on, hold on one second, you guys sure. 121 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:19,719 Speaker 4: This is pretty nice. 122 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 5: We're talking sex positions just to just at you guys. Know, 123 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 5: our kids are are not inside of the room. They're 124 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:28,560 Speaker 5: outside playing living their best five year old lives. But 125 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 5: they're just being too loud. 126 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 3: As we talk sex clubs or I don't know what. 127 00:06:33,720 --> 00:06:38,600 Speaker 8: M If you ever heard of kink dot com, that 128 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:41,600 Speaker 8: is where they did all their fetish porn, m M. 129 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 8: It was a kids to straight to gay. Everything was 130 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 8: pretty much. It was like a nice sanctuary. It looked scary, 131 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 8: like if you ever seen the Shining. We had a 132 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 8: really long hallway and random cats pop up at night, 133 00:06:58,000 --> 00:06:58,920 Speaker 8: you know, in that building. 134 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:01,840 Speaker 2: But yeah, we. 135 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:09,040 Speaker 8: There's like bondage hog tie like all kinds of crazy stuff. 136 00:07:08,760 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 4: Falls on at the armory. 137 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 8: But that's where I started, uh, using a fucking machine. 138 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 4: And if anybody doesn't know what a. 139 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 8: Fucking machine is, it's basically a device that's operated by 140 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 8: a controller a. 141 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 3: Switch as a dude though attached to. 142 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 4: It, and it moves in the vagina. 143 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 3: I think it's pretty self explained to her. 144 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I started there. 145 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 3: And what's your what was your what's your porn name? 146 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 3: If you know? About to look you up tonight, girl, 147 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 3: But I haven't looking. 148 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 5: I need to find some new porns, you know, might 149 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 5: as well research somebody. 150 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 3: God of actually, someone that I've met is kind of 151 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 3: even more sexy. So yeah, like now and now I 152 00:07:56,800 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 3: can't help but do the same. Now I must look 153 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:01,280 Speaker 3: at yes too. 154 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 6: I feel like you guys are gonna look it up 155 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 6: like right now, babe, babe, guess. 156 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 3: What I did today? I was I was hanging out 157 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 3: with yeahs and you want to see let's let's check 158 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 3: her out, I. 159 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 4: Got off a review. 160 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 3: Podcast. 161 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 8: But after that, like I took maybe a little while 162 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 8: off because I didn't fully understand my sexuality at the time, 163 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 8: so I thought what I was doing was like demonic 164 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:32,840 Speaker 8: and evil because if you look at past like history, 165 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:37,200 Speaker 8: bondage and stuff was not considered a good thing, Like 166 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 8: they tortured people back in the day, especially. 167 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 2: People of color. 168 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 8: So I was really conflicted with me being a woman 169 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 8: of color liking to be flogged and choked and tied up, 170 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 8: like is. 171 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 4: There something wrong with me? But you know, once I 172 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:55,080 Speaker 4: moved to LA and just started shooting regular. 173 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 8: Porn with males and females, because when when I started, 174 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:01,680 Speaker 8: I was only doing like solos and shows. So when 175 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:03,959 Speaker 8: I got to LA and got around like a nice 176 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 8: circle of people, I had a mentor that really put 177 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:10,319 Speaker 8: me under his belt and just showed me the repes 178 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 8: of the business. And I also learned on my own 179 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 8: as well, and just doing more further research about bondage 180 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 8: and everything and just realizing this is something I like, 181 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 8: this is me. So after that I just started doing 182 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 8: boy girl films and I hooked up with a pr 183 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 8: rep a publicist I'm sorry, and they hooked me up 184 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 8: with Sapphire on Chocolate City Radio That's with Naomi Banks. 185 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 3: And all that. 186 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 8: So it was like from then I felt like I 187 00:09:42,080 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 8: was on every show with Sapphire. 188 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 6: Yeah, she was always coming on like it was great, 189 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 6: it was good, that's dope. 190 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:53,199 Speaker 2: Yeah, So it just kind of. 191 00:09:53,160 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 6: Like and then from there, I also was working behind 192 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:59,959 Speaker 6: the scenes in adult films, doing just mostly the radio stuff. 193 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:02,600 Speaker 6: And then on top of that, I've done regular radio, 194 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:07,440 Speaker 6: so I produced hip hop radio in San Diego. I 195 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 6: lived up in the Bay, went to school in the Bay, 196 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:13,040 Speaker 6: and then moved back to LA And I'm just a filthy, 197 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 6: fucking horn when it comes to talking about my sex 198 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 6: life because she used. 199 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 3: To be a little vanilla though. 200 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 2: Wait, so. 201 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:25,320 Speaker 1: Would you say when I when I caught up with you, 202 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:26,960 Speaker 1: were you still vanilla at that point? 203 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:29,840 Speaker 6: Or I have a girl I was in, like a 204 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:34,400 Speaker 6: really bad first relationship with a female. 205 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:35,680 Speaker 2: She's the fucking cunt. 206 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:38,199 Speaker 3: Okay, I just need to remember a woman. 207 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, she was so light. 208 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:41,840 Speaker 6: She just didn't get it, Like she didn't get that 209 00:10:41,880 --> 00:10:46,240 Speaker 6: her girlfriend at the time was bisexual. And like, look, 210 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:48,520 Speaker 6: I love dildo's too, and I love eating Crissie, but 211 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 6: like I want a real fla. Yeah, Dick, Yeah, I 212 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 6: want to be on FU other people like I. I 213 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:57,599 Speaker 6: was never the person to be monogamous. Like by the 214 00:10:57,640 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 6: time I graduated college, I had over one hundred and 215 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 6: fifty partners at the time. 216 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 1: Wow, how do you know that you wrote it down? 217 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 2: Harris? 218 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:15,200 Speaker 3: What about you? 219 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:15,439 Speaker 5: Yes? 220 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:21,920 Speaker 1: What your signed a Scorpioay scorpios, So you know you 221 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:22,960 Speaker 1: just have to document it. 222 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:25,120 Speaker 6: And like, again, I've been in radio, so it's like, 223 00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:28,679 Speaker 6: this is why I thrived on talking. So well if 224 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:30,679 Speaker 6: I'm going to do it right, well. 225 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:36,360 Speaker 1: Sapphire and I met in high school and our high 226 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 1: school was actually a Catholic school, and I religious, are 227 00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:40,719 Speaker 1: you just. 228 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:45,480 Speaker 3: Going to the school? How are they horror over there? 229 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 3: I just want to know. 230 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:48,600 Speaker 2: I mean I was I was raised very Catholic. 231 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:50,840 Speaker 6: And here's the thing to me, Like I was still 232 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 6: very much a free in high school. 233 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:54,959 Speaker 2: You just no one really knew. 234 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:58,600 Speaker 6: It because you know, I was in all the like 235 00:11:58,640 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 6: pure things like. 236 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:02,960 Speaker 2: Council that bush. 237 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:08,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, school, yeah, she was, she was like she was 238 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 1: like the how do you say, like she had a 239 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:15,720 Speaker 1: lot of school spir nerd she was a school she 240 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 1: had a lot of school spirit. 241 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:22,680 Speaker 3: Is what close she was captain of the Spirit team. Yeah, 242 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:24,400 Speaker 3: the Spirit team. 243 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:28,080 Speaker 6: Spirit all right, I had spirit, But I know I 244 00:12:28,160 --> 00:12:33,960 Speaker 6: was not a cheerleader a dancer like mister Jamila over there. 245 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:36,520 Speaker 3: I never knew Jamila was a cheerleader. 246 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 5: And then like recently she was. 247 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:42,480 Speaker 3: Like yeah what I was like I was. She's like, yeah, like, 248 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 3: you know, I used to compete. 249 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 2: I was like what. 250 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:46,320 Speaker 6: I was like, you want to know something. I was like, 251 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:52,320 Speaker 6: she's told me good on this squad. Like to be honest, 252 00:12:52,679 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 6: She's like she was she was still. 253 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:58,199 Speaker 3: Still the top cheerleader. 254 00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:04,440 Speaker 1: I mean I told her I was like the cheer 255 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:06,680 Speaker 1: and the dance team were the best, the best teams 256 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:08,960 Speaker 1: of school had going. You know, like nothing else was 257 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 1: excelling except for the dance team. Not everything else was 258 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:16,959 Speaker 1: very not good. It was almost it was painful to 259 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 1: cheer for those teams. 260 00:13:20,360 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 2: I mean, I have to brag a little. I sang 261 00:13:22,800 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 2: very well, yes, she can say, I sang my ass on. 262 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 2: So that was like, oh my God, let. 263 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 1: Me, God send me a miracle, ready to send you? 264 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:34,439 Speaker 2: So are you ready for me? 265 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 3: Are you ready for me? 266 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:37,439 Speaker 1: I guess I think I remember you leading that and 267 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 1: the Holy ghost is coming over you. 268 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:42,320 Speaker 6: Oh no, the Holy Ghost is probably like, no, this girl, 269 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 6: the Holy. 270 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:43,679 Speaker 3: Ghost came over. 271 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 5: The girl I was. 272 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:51,880 Speaker 6: At one point, I was like the epitome Catholic school girl, 273 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:56,360 Speaker 6: like I was singing in two Catholic choirs, Like I 274 00:13:56,400 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 6: don't know what the fuck happened? 275 00:13:57,800 --> 00:13:59,840 Speaker 2: You know, you leave, I'm an only child. 276 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:01,839 Speaker 3: You are literally that girl. 277 00:14:01,920 --> 00:14:04,920 Speaker 5: You are the Catholic school girl that went freak that 278 00:14:05,160 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 5: you are the one that you're the one that you're 279 00:14:07,520 --> 00:14:08,280 Speaker 5: the stereotype. 280 00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:12,760 Speaker 6: I guess, like I didn't do blowing like high school. 281 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 6: I didn't do any of that, of course, And I 282 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:16,680 Speaker 6: didn't do in high school of course. 283 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 5: Not you don't like that, you don't do you go 284 00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 5: to church and then after you I was bad. 285 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:24,800 Speaker 3: But I didn't do blow in high school either. I was. 286 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 2: No age kids are doing in high school. 287 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's fine and all. 288 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 2: That, And I'm like, well, I knew a girl that brought. 289 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:39,160 Speaker 8: The date rate drug to school and did it with 290 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 8: her friends. 291 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:43,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, they wanted to get hot at school. 292 00:14:43,280 --> 00:14:43,600 Speaker 1: I don't. 293 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 3: I don't know. 294 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:48,280 Speaker 8: But at the same time, when I was going to 295 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 8: a white school, so I don't know if that was 296 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 8: like a cry for. 297 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:53,480 Speaker 3: Where are you from? 298 00:14:53,640 --> 00:14:55,600 Speaker 4: I'm really for the Bay, but I went to high 299 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 4: school in Sacramento. 300 00:14:56,920 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, And I'm so you're from out here, right 301 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:04,000 Speaker 5: Valley girls. 302 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 2: The Valley, the good old Valley to Valley. 303 00:15:07,960 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 4: It's crazy they called stalked in the valley. Yes, there's 304 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 4: no valley. 305 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:18,440 Speaker 2: There's nothing but thousand stalking. 306 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 4: There's of STDs and stocked in in Modesto. It's crazy. 307 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:24,720 Speaker 3: What I just came back on. 308 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:29,520 Speaker 4: Wait, so, like when I went to the guy to 309 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 4: college and she says she does like nonprofit like health 310 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:35,800 Speaker 4: work out in that way, and she said, like there's. 311 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:40,080 Speaker 8: So many chlamydia and syphilist cases out there, like it's disgusting. 312 00:15:40,120 --> 00:15:43,160 Speaker 4: Why nobody wants to fuck anybody from the Central Valley. 313 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:44,960 Speaker 1: Mm hmmm. 314 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 3: Wait, so I want to know. 315 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 5: So Jamila told me that and that you have been 316 00:15:50,760 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 5: in a poly relationship. I'm trying to get let's get 317 00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:55,040 Speaker 5: to it, because I have questions. 318 00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 3: I want to I'm nosy, and. 319 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 1: We want to know specifically because we were embarking in 320 00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:04,000 Speaker 1: all our options as single women, and we've had a 321 00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 1: mama who's open, open in an open marriage, so we're 322 00:16:07,600 --> 00:16:10,440 Speaker 1: well versed in the openness. But Polly, I know it's 323 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:14,280 Speaker 1: different but I need to know how, and I think 324 00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:17,360 Speaker 1: I'm Polly, so I need to know more. She's like, 325 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 1: you need a checklist, she needs to check all about 326 00:16:22,160 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 1: because I also recently this year found out I was 327 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:26,520 Speaker 1: what is the other one? 328 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:27,120 Speaker 2: Pan sexual? 329 00:16:27,200 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 3: Pand sexual? Yes, so okay to add some more things 330 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 3: to my list to her LinkedIn, I didn't. 331 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:39,120 Speaker 6: Know check it all off, honey, I'm like, shit, you're younger, hot, 332 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 6: fucking do everything, like do everything, okay, So Polly, I've 333 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:47,600 Speaker 6: been polyamorous. Like some people think when I say I'm Polly, 334 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 6: they think I'm saying like I'm a polygamous and that's 335 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:54,000 Speaker 6: an absolute no no, Like I'm not married. I don't 336 00:16:54,040 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 6: have a husband who has multiple wives. Like, no, I 337 00:16:57,320 --> 00:17:02,200 Speaker 6: am not a polygamist. I am polyamorhate. I have a 338 00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:05,520 Speaker 6: dom who is my what I call my primary partner, 339 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:08,680 Speaker 6: so he's literally like the only main. 340 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 2: Dude I have sex with. 341 00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:13,879 Speaker 6: I really like, I'm really kind of just more gay 342 00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:17,119 Speaker 6: for pussy, pussy and transsexuals. 343 00:17:17,119 --> 00:17:20,160 Speaker 3: Like I'm gay from pussy in transsexuals. 344 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:23,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, transsexuals as. 345 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:31,520 Speaker 6: In transgender a transgender sorry let me not say transsexual transgender. Yeah, 346 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:35,400 Speaker 6: Like I'm more attracted to just more females. To be honest, 347 00:17:35,600 --> 00:17:40,119 Speaker 6: like this man, I absolutely adore I love him. It 348 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:43,320 Speaker 6: was funny because we really weren't looking for a relationship. 349 00:17:43,320 --> 00:17:46,920 Speaker 6: It was kind of like we sucked ourselves into a relationship, 350 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 6: which it was just very open and free. Like our 351 00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:51,560 Speaker 6: first date, he told me he. 352 00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:52,240 Speaker 2: Was a DOM and. 353 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:55,360 Speaker 5: Is your dom transgender? 354 00:17:56,320 --> 00:17:57,320 Speaker 2: No? No, no, he is. 355 00:17:59,359 --> 00:18:03,800 Speaker 6: This male, handsome white boy from the South l Yeah. 356 00:18:03,840 --> 00:18:07,360 Speaker 6: I've like kind of spanned across late. I've been with 357 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:09,680 Speaker 6: a male to female, I've been with female to male. 358 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:15,840 Speaker 6: I've been with gender lists where they just non binary 359 00:18:16,880 --> 00:18:17,320 Speaker 6: for what. 360 00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:21,600 Speaker 5: So you don't need to watch that right now, Okay, 361 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:24,560 Speaker 5: but I'll watch it later. Go I'm going go watch 362 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:28,360 Speaker 5: your TV please. Okay, I'll wash it in a little bit. 363 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:40,240 Speaker 5: I'm working, I'm recording. No, I go, thank you, close 364 00:18:40,320 --> 00:18:41,919 Speaker 5: the door. I love you? 365 00:18:42,800 --> 00:18:43,760 Speaker 4: Like are YouTubers. 366 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:50,520 Speaker 1: I could do it, Mommy, you can't remember that. 367 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:53,440 Speaker 2: That is so cute though, That's where I was. Fuck. Yeah. 368 00:18:53,520 --> 00:18:57,119 Speaker 6: So I've been with trans males to females, female to males, 369 00:18:57,680 --> 00:19:00,159 Speaker 6: non binary, and of course a lot of women, a 370 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:00,640 Speaker 6: lot of men. 371 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:02,520 Speaker 2: But I'm more of like. 372 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:06,159 Speaker 3: So you mostly like you, mostly like women. 373 00:19:06,600 --> 00:19:09,080 Speaker 2: Yes, mostly like women. So then why so. 374 00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:10,880 Speaker 3: Then why is that your dom a male? 375 00:19:10,960 --> 00:19:12,960 Speaker 2: Then why is my dama maile? 376 00:19:13,080 --> 00:19:14,960 Speaker 5: Okay, I mean I'm just wondering, like, wouldn't it be 377 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 5: the I don't know, I don't I don't know. 378 00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:18,800 Speaker 3: I don't think you planned it that way. 379 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 1: I don't know. 380 00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:22,160 Speaker 5: I was trying to understand poll I thought dom meant 381 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:22,760 Speaker 5: like that's. 382 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:23,479 Speaker 4: Your main person. 383 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 3: So he is her main person, but she has relationships 384 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:26,960 Speaker 3: with other people, right. 385 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:30,400 Speaker 6: Yes, so I have a dom who again it has 386 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:33,120 Speaker 6: nothing to do with like being Polly, so like him 387 00:19:33,119 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 6: and I. 388 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:35,560 Speaker 2: We started off he was my dom. I was a sub. 389 00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:39,240 Speaker 6: It was BDSM and straight fucking like it. We had 390 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:42,399 Speaker 6: weekly dick appointments and that was it. And then it 391 00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:45,600 Speaker 6: started evolving into a relationship where we're like I really 392 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:48,000 Speaker 6: like your company. I like you too, I like how 393 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 6: open you are? How open do you want to be? 394 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:55,479 Speaker 6: And literally, after a nice little orgy during Pride weekend 395 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 6: two years ago, I like took him the shower and 396 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:01,359 Speaker 6: I was like, I I want to be Pollie, Like, 397 00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:03,280 Speaker 6: do you think we can like open this? Like I 398 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:07,960 Speaker 6: already know that you openly do your thing. I openly 399 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:10,199 Speaker 6: do my thing. We come back to each other like 400 00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:13,160 Speaker 6: we I don't feel a type way of anything. I've 401 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:16,160 Speaker 6: loved hearing when he's fucking other people, and if I'm 402 00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:18,960 Speaker 6: in the room, so be it. I'm like, that is 403 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:22,119 Speaker 6: so hot to me. I fucking love watching him, just 404 00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 6: like vice versa. And so after that, a girl that 405 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:33,679 Speaker 6: we were playing with eventually became individually and both the 406 00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:37,679 Speaker 6: three of us share a girlfriend. So that's where the 407 00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:41,639 Speaker 6: POLLI thing goes ahead. So here's like the little math problems. 408 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 6: So I have my main guy, mister suit and tie 409 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:48,960 Speaker 6: as I call him, who's also my dom suit and 410 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:53,119 Speaker 6: tie because that's suit, and it's Alli fucking wears suit 411 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:53,680 Speaker 6: and tie. 412 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:55,160 Speaker 2: That's it. 413 00:20:55,320 --> 00:20:57,200 Speaker 3: Is he a business guy, it's like a businessman. 414 00:20:57,400 --> 00:20:58,000 Speaker 2: He's a writer. 415 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:01,000 Speaker 6: He's a writer, so he but that's what he prefers 416 00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:03,760 Speaker 6: to wear, like he does not really wear like anything. 417 00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:08,879 Speaker 6: You dapper man, yes, a very dapper man. And then we, 418 00:21:09,119 --> 00:21:11,399 Speaker 6: like I said, we have a girlfriend who is married. 419 00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:16,200 Speaker 6: Their marriage their Polly, but her husband is more of 420 00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:18,640 Speaker 6: a swinger, so he's not really like. 421 00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:21,280 Speaker 2: Dating us per se. 422 00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:23,159 Speaker 6: Like we do have sex from time to time, but 423 00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:26,800 Speaker 6: it's not like a relationship type of thing, and then 424 00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:32,440 Speaker 6: outside of our three are throufle we also have two 425 00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:36,960 Speaker 6: other partners. One of them is my other girlfriend and 426 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:39,480 Speaker 6: I guess I'm part of now you could say it 427 00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:43,480 Speaker 6: throuple because her main partner is also a guy that 428 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:44,240 Speaker 6: I thought, So. 429 00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 2: Technically I have main dude, but then this is. 430 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 6: My other dude on the side that we're evolving into 431 00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:53,800 Speaker 6: a relationship as well. So technically right now I am 432 00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:55,240 Speaker 6: dating five people. 433 00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:58,280 Speaker 1: Jesse and you and him have a sep relationship or 434 00:21:58,320 --> 00:22:00,440 Speaker 1: is it always a three way? No? 435 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:03,800 Speaker 6: No, we everybody has their own separate as well as 436 00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:04,960 Speaker 6: like all together time. 437 00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:09,200 Speaker 5: So so you y'all okay, so you've been with every 438 00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:10,920 Speaker 5: person that he's been with, and he's been with every 439 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:11,920 Speaker 5: person you've been with. 440 00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:13,880 Speaker 2: At least in art what we call tribe. 441 00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:18,000 Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, like either it's all five guys one on one, 442 00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:19,440 Speaker 6: it might be just the girls. 443 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:23,240 Speaker 2: You know, it's just kind of like, how do you 444 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:24,399 Speaker 2: want I have? 445 00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:25,600 Speaker 3: How do you find time? 446 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:30,919 Speaker 5: Honestly, do you guys actually dedicate real time to one another? 447 00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:31,119 Speaker 8: Like? 448 00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:35,439 Speaker 6: Yeah, obviously we have like designated day times and all that, 449 00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:40,280 Speaker 6: especially with mister studentye, Like we have set weekly dates 450 00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:43,679 Speaker 6: because we're also in business. With each other, So we 451 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 6: have like our business nights, of course the terms of 452 00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:50,399 Speaker 6: the sex always because that's like my reward. And then 453 00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:54,040 Speaker 6: and then we have our date nights, which is great, 454 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 6: so we we can definitely separate business from pleasure whenever. 455 00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:02,400 Speaker 6: And that's the same with the other my our girlfriend, 456 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:06,520 Speaker 6: and then the other couple and my girlfriend, my other 457 00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 6: two girlfriends or other girlfriends. 458 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:09,240 Speaker 2: My gosh, it's a lot. 459 00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 3: Is it important? 460 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:14,399 Speaker 5: Is it important for your dom to be attracted to 461 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:16,240 Speaker 5: all of the people in. 462 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:20,400 Speaker 3: Your try tribe? 463 00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:25,119 Speaker 6: I would say yes, because we're like when we're all 464 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:28,160 Speaker 6: together where you live, you know, we if we're out 465 00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:30,480 Speaker 6: in public, you know, I might turn around and kiss 466 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:33,080 Speaker 6: the girlfriend, one of the girlfriends, might kiss both of 467 00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:34,679 Speaker 6: the girlfriends, might kiss both of the guys. 468 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:37,680 Speaker 5: So it's like yes, so you guys do hang out 469 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:40,920 Speaker 5: in all together too, and like, yeah, group dates, that 470 00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:41,440 Speaker 5: sounds fun. 471 00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:43,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, we go on group dates. We go on hangouts. Like, 472 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 6: not everything is about sex either. Like at the end 473 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:49,160 Speaker 6: of the day, we are really good friends with each other. 474 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:51,640 Speaker 6: There are times where we can have sex where we're 475 00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 6: just like we're hanging out, but you know, we just 476 00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:58,240 Speaker 6: make it very important to have like one on ones, 477 00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:00,200 Speaker 6: group dates and then try. 478 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,879 Speaker 2: Dates as we call them. But it's not a requirement 479 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:05,800 Speaker 2: that suit and tie. 480 00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:09,840 Speaker 6: You know, if he wants to bring somebody in, yes 481 00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:12,320 Speaker 6: I want to be attracted to them, but it's not 482 00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:14,480 Speaker 6: a requirement of our relationship. 483 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:17,040 Speaker 3: But for you, for for your whoever you bring in 484 00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:18,359 Speaker 3: it, it is kind of a requirement. 485 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:19,000 Speaker 2: Oh. 486 00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 6: I mean, if I'm having sex with somebody, anybody, I 487 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,479 Speaker 6: need to be I have to be attracted to you. 488 00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:27,639 Speaker 5: But because you're his sub, because you're his sub and 489 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:30,520 Speaker 5: he's your dom, is it is it more important that 490 00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:32,080 Speaker 5: he is attracted to Is there? 491 00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:33,640 Speaker 3: I don't know if there's that dynamic. 492 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,919 Speaker 6: To like that power is that that we crossed in 493 00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:40,720 Speaker 6: the lines of like cutcolding And we definitely don't do that, 494 00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:45,800 Speaker 6: Like he doesn't degrade me and flip he's fucking somebody else, 495 00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:48,760 Speaker 6: Like he does not do that. So you know, if 496 00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:52,119 Speaker 6: we do decide to bring somebody else, we just make 497 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:53,920 Speaker 6: sure that everybody's mutually. 498 00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:58,760 Speaker 2: You know, all responsive and everything. Because again it's just 499 00:24:58,760 --> 00:24:59,840 Speaker 2: like attract there any. 500 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,480 Speaker 5: Rule other rules, And when it's polyamorous, is it just 501 00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:05,560 Speaker 5: free love like or there are rules and boundaries to relationships? 502 00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:08,560 Speaker 3: How do you navigate safety too, Like safety is. 503 00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:09,000 Speaker 2: A big thing. 504 00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:13,920 Speaker 6: So we are extremely, extremely in communications with each other. 505 00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:17,680 Speaker 6: So there have been you know, scares where someone had 506 00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:22,560 Speaker 6: like siphilists for someone had herpes, and you know, we 507 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:26,439 Speaker 6: all had to get tested and you know, just figure 508 00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:30,879 Speaker 6: out ways to prevent things from happening. So we're extremely open. 509 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:34,080 Speaker 6: And yeah, everybody has their you know, their boundaries. Like 510 00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:37,240 Speaker 6: one of my girlfriends, she does not want to hear 511 00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:41,199 Speaker 6: nor see things that happen like some of us. We 512 00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:43,720 Speaker 6: like to send each other videos. If you know, my 513 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:45,959 Speaker 6: girlfriend is fucking suit and tie. One of my girlfriends 514 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:49,840 Speaker 6: is fucking sudenthie. That girlfriend sometimes send me videos and I'm. 515 00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:50,199 Speaker 2: All for that. 516 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:55,200 Speaker 6: And then there's you know, my other girlfriend with her partner. 517 00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:57,960 Speaker 6: If him and I are having a solo date, he 518 00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:02,119 Speaker 6: you know, she doesn't want to see anything. And I 519 00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,399 Speaker 6: try also to be mindful of what I post on 520 00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:09,040 Speaker 6: social media, like for instance, the married So again I 521 00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 6: have one married girlfriend, one who's just in a relationship. 522 00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:17,840 Speaker 6: The married girlfriend, I can't post on social media. She's 523 00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:20,240 Speaker 6: not out to her parents, she's not out to her family. 524 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:23,200 Speaker 6: And she also is a therapist, so she's trying to 525 00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:28,280 Speaker 6: protect her business as well, because that's not something her licenses, 526 00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:30,040 Speaker 6: you know, spans out to be. 527 00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:33,720 Speaker 2: But at the same time, I do have my. 528 00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:36,760 Speaker 6: Other girlfriend who I publicly post in times, and you know, 529 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:40,320 Speaker 6: everything is fine with that, but we all respect one another, 530 00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:43,399 Speaker 6: you know, with the safe sex, like all of us, 531 00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:46,800 Speaker 6: we are not fluidly bonded. So sent Ty and I 532 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:50,400 Speaker 6: we've been together for five years, but we use condoms 533 00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:56,600 Speaker 6: because he openly fucks other people. I sometimes have a 534 00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:58,600 Speaker 6: filling or two, which is very minimal. I'm what they 535 00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:05,120 Speaker 6: call polypatri so what I call Polly saturated. So yeah, 536 00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:10,040 Speaker 6: poly saturating means that I'm only with the people that 537 00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:14,200 Speaker 6: I'm like Polly with in a polyamorous relationship with I'm 538 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:16,360 Speaker 6: not going out and seeking strange Like I'm not going 539 00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:18,440 Speaker 6: on tender and fucking some random people. 540 00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:21,520 Speaker 2: Like I'm bored. I'm done with that. God, I get 541 00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:23,959 Speaker 2: all the good sex with my people. 542 00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:26,200 Speaker 3: What do we call it select We're a selective hose 543 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:29,639 Speaker 3: now I adopted that today. 544 00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:32,440 Speaker 6: Yeah, I am a hoe in my relationships, but I'm 545 00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:33,240 Speaker 6: very selective. 546 00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:34,560 Speaker 2: Like some people try to jump in. 547 00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:36,560 Speaker 6: They're like, oh, you know, like I would love to, 548 00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:41,560 Speaker 6: and I'm like. 549 00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:43,040 Speaker 5: Like we finally we're on our groove over here now right, Okay, 550 00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:44,320 Speaker 5: we're not our groove, bitch. 551 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:48,399 Speaker 3: We don't need nobody. 552 00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 2: Perfect ladies. 553 00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,919 Speaker 6: When I tell you that, I have to say, like 554 00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:57,639 Speaker 6: in all my ears, because I was never a person 555 00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:01,160 Speaker 6: to date. I was never about really relationships. I'm always 556 00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:04,920 Speaker 6: about fuck marriage, fucking relationship. Then I meet this man 557 00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:12,560 Speaker 6: who gives me everything, who respects me for me and 558 00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:15,879 Speaker 6: my sexuality, and that's very hard to find, especially like 559 00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:19,920 Speaker 6: as a black female. Come on, there are hell of 560 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,560 Speaker 6: men that are like, oh, yeah, I'm down with you 561 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:25,520 Speaker 6: being by, but like, only if we're in it together. 562 00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:31,239 Speaker 2: No, motherfucker, that's literally the inship you want. 563 00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:36,439 Speaker 5: Right Wait, I thought I were just fucking missions together 564 00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:38,960 Speaker 5: and I get to fuck too, well, you're not here. 565 00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:43,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, So I've had plenty of those, so and yes, 566 00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:44,800 Speaker 6: and I we talked about it all the time. I 567 00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:46,960 Speaker 6: talk about it. A lot of black men do not 568 00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:49,840 Speaker 6: like me per se because they can't handle the fact 569 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:54,160 Speaker 6: that I have girlfriends, a boyfriend. Oh, I have another 570 00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 6: guy that I'm establishing a relationship with, Like I got 571 00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:01,640 Speaker 6: the big dick department. They all leave pussy. The only 572 00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:04,560 Speaker 6: thing they don't do the guys. It's like each other 573 00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:05,840 Speaker 6: when we're all together. 574 00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:08,560 Speaker 5: The guys are like, are are the people that are 575 00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:11,160 Speaker 5: in a relationship are they? Is it a mixed with 576 00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:13,440 Speaker 5: what are the Is it a mixed situation or is 577 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:14,120 Speaker 5: it mostly white? 578 00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:16,320 Speaker 3: Is it black? What is the dynamics? 579 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:18,480 Speaker 2: The ladies? The ladies are. 580 00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:24,040 Speaker 6: One of my girlfriends is Mexican and oh my god, 581 00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:25,160 Speaker 6: she's mixed with something. 582 00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:29,760 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, dabe. The one that you was on Live 583 00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:33,600 Speaker 2: with No, that's the married one. The married one. She's 584 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:40,000 Speaker 2: Middle Eastern and Jewish. Gotcha, yeah, but are you going 585 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:40,640 Speaker 2: on Live with her? 586 00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:41,320 Speaker 1: Yeah? 587 00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:42,880 Speaker 3: She's the secret one. 588 00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:46,080 Speaker 9: Well, she was like a disappear in twenty four hours. 589 00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:49,960 Speaker 9: We were Yeah, we were drunk. It was my birthday, 590 00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:55,160 Speaker 9: she put. Okay, she had like she was disguised. 591 00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, actually shocked too because I was like, wa, 592 00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:01,600 Speaker 6: you want to be on the line. 593 00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,120 Speaker 3: Okay, hmm, here's your birthday. 594 00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:09,160 Speaker 2: It was my birthday. It was late, it was lit. God, 595 00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:10,840 Speaker 2: my vagina hurts. I'm sorry, but. 596 00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:22,920 Speaker 6: Really this quarantine, like I swear to God, like now 597 00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:26,000 Speaker 6: I like have to go get some quarantine days and. 598 00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:27,560 Speaker 2: I'm loving it. 599 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:31,000 Speaker 6: It's just I'm hurting today. I'm a little store. It's 600 00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:33,880 Speaker 6: up in the in the US. I'm sorry that's too 601 00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:36,680 Speaker 6: much for everybody, but like you up last. 602 00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:40,520 Speaker 8: Night, ever too much for SAH and I don't say 603 00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:42,640 Speaker 8: there's ever anything too much for their show. 604 00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:46,720 Speaker 6: I don't think this thing has been for a long 605 00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:49,600 Speaker 6: time coming, Like I've been wanting to hang out with. 606 00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:55,400 Speaker 3: These mills I forever, like no boundaries nine. 607 00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:57,840 Speaker 6: I tried not to be like a little fan because like, 608 00:30:57,880 --> 00:30:59,560 Speaker 6: now I know people that are fans with you, and 609 00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:01,680 Speaker 6: I'm like, I actually know these women. 610 00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:04,280 Speaker 2: Okay, you know how hard it is not to like 611 00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:07,360 Speaker 2: release sexual energy to these women, like and be professional. 612 00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:08,640 Speaker 3: We're here, We're. 613 00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:10,880 Speaker 1: Here for all the sexual energy. 614 00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:13,320 Speaker 3: Wait, so tell us about you. 615 00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 5: So you at the top of the at the top 616 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,720 Speaker 5: of the episode told us that you like big dick sometimes, 617 00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:21,040 Speaker 5: and you like vagina's nice. 618 00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:24,000 Speaker 3: Vagina, nice vagina, Yes, nice vagina? 619 00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:25,000 Speaker 4: But you are you? 620 00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:26,120 Speaker 5: Are you Polly or No? 621 00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:27,640 Speaker 1: No? 622 00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:30,960 Speaker 8: I just like to have sex. I like to have fun. 623 00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:34,479 Speaker 8: Let's say that, yes, with with good vibes. It's just 624 00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:35,560 Speaker 8: male or female? 625 00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:39,240 Speaker 5: Could you so then you're not interested in any sort 626 00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:41,479 Speaker 5: of like relationship, then you know. 627 00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:44,440 Speaker 8: I tried it for six months and it just was like, 628 00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:46,720 Speaker 8: this is like too much of responsibility. 629 00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:49,400 Speaker 4: I still have other dick that I I. 630 00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:54,640 Speaker 3: Have to conquer. No, it's that too. 631 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:57,120 Speaker 4: I feel like, you know, like there's some checks that 632 00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:59,560 Speaker 4: haven't been written to me yet. So that's how I 633 00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:00,200 Speaker 4: feel like. 634 00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:03,000 Speaker 8: There's still guys that I still keep in contact with 635 00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:04,080 Speaker 8: that I haven't had sex with. 636 00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:05,640 Speaker 4: But I plan on sitting on it. 637 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:10,320 Speaker 8: Yeah, you know, like and being a relationship with somebody 638 00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:14,600 Speaker 8: that's not taking that distraction out of me. 639 00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 4: It shows that I'm not ready to be with somebody. 640 00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,440 Speaker 5: Like maybe maybe you need to be in something Pollie, 641 00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:22,600 Speaker 5: maybe be in a poly relationship with benefit. 642 00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:25,360 Speaker 4: It's hard in the Bay Area? 643 00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:25,880 Speaker 2: Are you? 644 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:28,680 Speaker 5: Are you territorial as far as what your what your 645 00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:30,680 Speaker 5: sexual partners do with other people. 646 00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:33,920 Speaker 4: In a sense, yeah, Like I don't want the guy 647 00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:34,680 Speaker 4: to be eating. 648 00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:42,240 Speaker 8: Cushie just fuck her gets ahead, like, but yeah, that's 649 00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:43,040 Speaker 8: why you can't be. 650 00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:47,440 Speaker 5: Polly though it actually sounds like me exactly. 651 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:49,640 Speaker 4: So I want you to be obsessed with. 652 00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:51,520 Speaker 5: Me, and I want you to tell me every detail, 653 00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:53,720 Speaker 5: but you better not do this one specific thing. 654 00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:55,480 Speaker 8: Yeah, just don't eat a pussy because if you eat 655 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 8: pussy very well and you've given that to somebody else. 656 00:32:58,120 --> 00:32:58,880 Speaker 3: Now that means a bit. 657 00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:03,640 Speaker 8: She's gonna be around your girlfriend or something. 658 00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:04,960 Speaker 4: You're gonna get the bitch pregnant. 659 00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:06,520 Speaker 3: It's just it's done too much. 660 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:12,520 Speaker 6: Yeah, you know there could be the like you know 661 00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:16,160 Speaker 6: that there are some women out there who can get 662 00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:16,920 Speaker 6: there pussy eat in. 663 00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,120 Speaker 2: I'm good, nobody's man. 664 00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:22,560 Speaker 3: I'm if I know your relationship, I'll me too. 665 00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:25,160 Speaker 1: I'm the best side how you can ever ask for 666 00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:31,080 Speaker 1: the same way, in fact that if you respect your relationship, 667 00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:33,040 Speaker 1: if you are really if you're like from the jump, 668 00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:33,800 Speaker 1: I have a girlfriend. 669 00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:36,560 Speaker 3: I love her, She's the greatest. I this is just 670 00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:39,080 Speaker 3: really great. I'm just like that. I can't respect that 671 00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:40,480 Speaker 3: even more. You know I would be. 672 00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:43,400 Speaker 1: I respect it even more if she knows about our relationship. 673 00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:45,800 Speaker 1: But like I mean, I'm not like a sideh. 674 00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:46,360 Speaker 3: I don't do this. 675 00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:47,920 Speaker 1: But I'm just saying in the case is when I 676 00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:50,600 Speaker 1: have done it, I just I'm not out to take 677 00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:54,280 Speaker 1: someone's relationship. But there are a certain type of bitches 678 00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:57,200 Speaker 1: who if a nigga is treating a woman well and 679 00:33:57,240 --> 00:33:59,560 Speaker 1: it's eating her pussy well and fox, then she can't 680 00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:02,760 Speaker 1: understand the concept of you're going back the opening. 681 00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:05,560 Speaker 8: Yeah, if he was giving the same energy he gives 682 00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:07,640 Speaker 8: me to another girl, it's gonna. 683 00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:10,280 Speaker 3: Be all have to be on the same page about 684 00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:11,080 Speaker 3: what we're doing. 685 00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:15,120 Speaker 8: Because they're guys that control how they fuck. They just 686 00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:17,680 Speaker 8: like to make love to every bitch they fucked. Well, 687 00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:20,120 Speaker 8: you just like there's every guy that gives daddy dick 688 00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:22,480 Speaker 8: to every bitch, And me wonder why there's certain girls 689 00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:25,959 Speaker 8: that are crazy, like guys don't know how to turn 690 00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:29,600 Speaker 8: it down, and just like I regular, that's because I 691 00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:30,160 Speaker 8: shot born. 692 00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:31,400 Speaker 4: That's why I have no emotion. 693 00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:33,680 Speaker 8: When I could fuck other people, I could change how 694 00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:36,799 Speaker 8: I feel. Like certain people I could be around, like 695 00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:39,160 Speaker 8: oh he's pussy Hella good and he likes to do this, 696 00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:40,080 Speaker 8: He's hell of fun. 697 00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:42,880 Speaker 4: I'll do that. Or this big dick guy, I like 698 00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:44,879 Speaker 4: to get drunk with him, and you know. 699 00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:47,960 Speaker 8: Like it's just when you're in a relationship, you got 700 00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:50,600 Speaker 8: to think about that person's feelings, like, yeah, fucking me 701 00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:53,839 Speaker 8: better than him, Oh my god, look at him and 702 00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:56,799 Speaker 8: be like, damn, I just had Hella good as sex 703 00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:57,720 Speaker 8: two days ago. 704 00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:00,800 Speaker 3: So it's like the reason why. 705 00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:01,279 Speaker 1: I don't know. 706 00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:03,120 Speaker 5: I'm like, I don't know if I can be in 707 00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:05,160 Speaker 5: a relationship and now that I've been single for two 708 00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,680 Speaker 5: and a half years, like almost three low key. 709 00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:09,880 Speaker 3: Like I like to do what I want to do. 710 00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:12,359 Speaker 5: It's like I love love, I do, and I love 711 00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:14,960 Speaker 5: companionship and I do. There's a lot of times where 712 00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:18,520 Speaker 5: I miss being in love and having like a partner, 713 00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:20,640 Speaker 5: but then there's time. But now I'm kind of in 714 00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:23,880 Speaker 5: this position where I'm like, I have a I have 715 00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:26,000 Speaker 5: a choice of like do I want to be single 716 00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:27,839 Speaker 5: or do I want to like go down this road 717 00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:29,719 Speaker 5: of dating someone seriously. 718 00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:34,520 Speaker 6: And said, you need titles, Like I technically only say 719 00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:36,960 Speaker 6: titles to people so they can understand. 720 00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:40,600 Speaker 5: Because I'm a scorpio and I don't want you like 721 00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:44,400 Speaker 5: and you want you Why you want someone to belong 722 00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:46,520 Speaker 5: to you, I don't know them to belong We need 723 00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:48,239 Speaker 5: to have something sacred for sure. 724 00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:52,080 Speaker 10: Right, this has to be secure as before we start 725 00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:55,160 Speaker 10: like and like you love me, you don't love you 726 00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:59,360 Speaker 10: love me? But I also realistic, but you know, okay, 727 00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:01,080 Speaker 10: it's not really be it. 728 00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:02,759 Speaker 2: It could be very much realistic. 729 00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:05,000 Speaker 5: It can't be like it takes a very special person. 730 00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:07,040 Speaker 5: You have to really find that partner like that really 731 00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:09,120 Speaker 5: is on the same page. And that's the hardest part 732 00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:12,640 Speaker 5: because men are dumb, and men also don't The brains 733 00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:15,040 Speaker 5: don't work the same way as ours, even if they 734 00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:16,600 Speaker 5: say they want to do something, and even if they're 735 00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:18,320 Speaker 5: in their hearts of hearts they do. 736 00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:22,680 Speaker 3: Like I just well for me and also me like, 737 00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:23,160 Speaker 3: I just don't. 738 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:24,239 Speaker 5: And I think a lot of the men that I've 739 00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:25,839 Speaker 5: dated too, I don't know about this guy that I'm 740 00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:28,600 Speaker 5: dating now, but like they say they were open to 741 00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:30,439 Speaker 5: like because i've I don't. 742 00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:31,880 Speaker 3: I don't believe anogamy is natural. 743 00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:34,239 Speaker 5: I don't when thinking about having sex with one person, 744 00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:38,120 Speaker 5: my entire life sounds really sad. And I feel like, 745 00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:41,920 Speaker 5: I know I can't promise that, you know, but like, 746 00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:44,920 Speaker 5: and most men will say they can't either, and then 747 00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:47,359 Speaker 5: they'll agree and say okay, and then you go fuck 748 00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:49,879 Speaker 5: someone and then they get mad and then they feel weird. 749 00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:51,719 Speaker 1: We need to have an agreement that we're both human 750 00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:53,320 Speaker 1: and we're gonna love each other and be loyal to 751 00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:55,239 Speaker 1: each other and honest with each other and committed to 752 00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:58,600 Speaker 1: each other. But like, you know, we're only fucking human. 753 00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:01,160 Speaker 1: I mean, this is you know. I don't want to 754 00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:03,040 Speaker 1: cut off. I want you to be loyal to me. 755 00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:04,480 Speaker 1: But I don't just like, I don't want someone to 756 00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:06,520 Speaker 1: cut off my experiences. I don't want to like, what 757 00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:09,040 Speaker 1: if you're in Brazil. There's two bad bitches. I mean, like, 758 00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:10,560 Speaker 1: do it you're in Brazil? You know what? 759 00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:12,120 Speaker 2: I feel like you got to do it early in 760 00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:12,759 Speaker 2: the relationship. 761 00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:13,960 Speaker 3: Well, well, so this is what I was going to say. 762 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:16,839 Speaker 1: So I'm seeing someone new right now that I met 763 00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:19,520 Speaker 1: right before quarantine, and he's forty three, and. 764 00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:22,239 Speaker 2: He's like serious, he's asking serious, Oh you guys, Zaddy dick. 765 00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:23,879 Speaker 3: I'm getting Daddy dick. 766 00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:28,520 Speaker 1: So anyway, so I figure, because he asked about the podcast, 767 00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:30,520 Speaker 1: should he listen? And we're all in a very interesting 768 00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:32,480 Speaker 1: just like we all put a lot of business on 769 00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:33,040 Speaker 1: the internet. 770 00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:37,320 Speaker 3: So you know, there's men black men especially, there's. 771 00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:41,319 Speaker 1: There's association goes with women that you know talk you know, 772 00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:43,799 Speaker 1: candidly about their sex life because a lot of these 773 00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:46,239 Speaker 1: bitches be lying, you know when the angel like and 774 00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:48,120 Speaker 1: talking about they sucked a lot of dicks, when we 775 00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:53,640 Speaker 1: all know all the bitches sectcks and sat on somebody honest. 776 00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:55,640 Speaker 2: So I. 777 00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:59,479 Speaker 1: Promised myself, even though it feels really good and everything 778 00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:02,279 Speaker 1: seems tracking off marks I'm like, I'm about to put 779 00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:05,879 Speaker 1: everything on the motherfucking table, everything, everything, so you could 780 00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:07,520 Speaker 1: either take it or you could leave it, so I 781 00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:10,799 Speaker 1: don't find myself in love with you. And later I'm 782 00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:12,560 Speaker 1: trying to sneak put things on the table, like oh, 783 00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:16,440 Speaker 1: I didn't mention that because then they can run, you know. 784 00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:19,600 Speaker 1: So I told him. He was like, are you ready 785 00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:21,880 Speaker 1: for relationship? You're such a big personality. Can you be 786 00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:23,920 Speaker 1: fulfilled with you know, just one person? And I had 787 00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:27,200 Speaker 1: to really ask myself, like fuck, can I like what 788 00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:30,920 Speaker 1: is enough? Because I enjoy experiences. I enjoy going down 789 00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:33,040 Speaker 1: the street, meeting a stranger, dumping in the car. 790 00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:35,000 Speaker 3: I don't know what's going to happen in my life. 791 00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:36,560 Speaker 3: My life be happening quickly, you know. 792 00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:40,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, dicks come up and pretty bitches, you know, like 793 00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:43,040 Speaker 1: bitches come to me very easily, dance floors I have 794 00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:46,200 Speaker 1: very like I put out some kind of noise. 795 00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:48,960 Speaker 3: And all the bitches come. You know. 796 00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:52,000 Speaker 1: It's just a magical something that God gave me. And 797 00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:53,759 Speaker 1: when I turned it off to be in a relationship, 798 00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:56,399 Speaker 1: I don't know. It's God given. So I told him, 799 00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:59,239 Speaker 1: I said, listen, I had a lesbian threesome like two 800 00:38:59,239 --> 00:38:59,719 Speaker 1: weeks ago. 801 00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:04,160 Speaker 3: You know, I don't know if I want to take 802 00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:05,520 Speaker 3: that away from my life. 803 00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:06,360 Speaker 2: I don't know. 804 00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:11,439 Speaker 3: I don't want to know if I have, I don't want. 805 00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:13,640 Speaker 1: Does this mean I have to turn all of those 806 00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:16,919 Speaker 1: options off at all times for the rest of my life. 807 00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:20,120 Speaker 3: No? And he said, you know that wouldn't necessarily have 808 00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:20,600 Speaker 3: to stop. 809 00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:25,719 Speaker 4: And I was like, but so he said. 810 00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:28,120 Speaker 2: Not necessarily, and that's the thing to good. 811 00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:30,200 Speaker 3: Enough for me. Let's talk about it. I'm like, that's 812 00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:31,360 Speaker 3: more open than usual. 813 00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:32,680 Speaker 2: I feel like. 814 00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:36,920 Speaker 5: Guys are using opera. You're never gonna all the bitches. 815 00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:39,680 Speaker 5: I'm going to go take it slowly. I know you 816 00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:41,359 Speaker 5: said you're laying it on the table. Now, you've got 817 00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:43,799 Speaker 5: to lay it all out. Why, Well, when I does 818 00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:44,520 Speaker 5: he does he have? 819 00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:46,759 Speaker 6: Does he have dick that you can be like, look 820 00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:49,320 Speaker 6: all these motherfuckers. I've had every dick in the world, 821 00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:54,200 Speaker 6: every size, every flavor, everything. I'm satisfied with this one 822 00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:56,320 Speaker 6: day satisfied. 823 00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:57,719 Speaker 1: So I was talking to him, it's kind of like 824 00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:00,719 Speaker 1: it's kind of like reserved and like not explicit, is me? 825 00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:02,200 Speaker 1: So I was trying to find out I've had a 826 00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:03,800 Speaker 1: big dick. So I was like, was she porn category? 827 00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:06,359 Speaker 1: Blah blah blah. He was like BBC and I was like, 828 00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:09,360 Speaker 1: are you BBC? And he was like, you know mister Marcus. 829 00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:11,320 Speaker 1: And so immediately I went home and looked at mister 830 00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:13,279 Speaker 1: Marcus's penis and then I. 831 00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:16,520 Speaker 3: Screamed, and then I said, chat with him? 832 00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:21,759 Speaker 1: Do you know Justin Slayer? Okay, well that's my friend, 833 00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:24,719 Speaker 1: Justin I told I mentioned that too. That's also my friend. 834 00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:27,520 Speaker 1: And you know, I forget that. Mentioning like that you're 835 00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:30,520 Speaker 1: casually friends with porn stars for a regular guy could 836 00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:35,799 Speaker 1: be like a bit, oh intimidating, and I forget that. 837 00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:37,600 Speaker 3: Like, first of all, I'm a lot of personality. I 838 00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:39,360 Speaker 3: talk with your porn category. 839 00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:40,800 Speaker 2: I know Justin Slayer. 840 00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:43,680 Speaker 3: I looked up mister marcus penis. Is this what yours 841 00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:46,719 Speaker 3: looks like? I need to know? And for everybody, that's 842 00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:50,920 Speaker 3: everybody can't, you know, I can't. It's intimidating and I 843 00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:53,680 Speaker 3: forget that. But anyway, his big dick is really big, 844 00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:54,680 Speaker 3: so that's a plus. 845 00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:56,800 Speaker 2: Okay, and it works. 846 00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:01,560 Speaker 6: Obviously you want to come back for more, yes, okay, 847 00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:03,160 Speaker 6: let me tell you this. 848 00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:05,680 Speaker 2: We gotta have a part two. 849 00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:08,840 Speaker 6: I'm gonna give you some levels, because I feel like 850 00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:14,320 Speaker 6: with the open relationships, Polly, there's levels, just like to 851 00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:16,439 Speaker 6: regular dating, there's levels to this shit. 852 00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:19,480 Speaker 2: So we're gonna have to get into these levels. 853 00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:23,279 Speaker 1: Well, that concludes part one of a two part episode 854 00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:26,680 Speaker 1: with Sapphire's Earplay. Make sure to go to Sapphire's Earplay 855 00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:28,680 Speaker 1: on all podcast platforms. 856 00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:28,839 Speaker 5: And check them out. 857 00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:31,920 Speaker 1: You can check them out on Instagram at missus Sapphire 858 00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:35,800 Speaker 1: Radio and yeahz at Fit and Dirty. 859 00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:38,320 Speaker 5: And before you go, we're gonna play you a clip 860 00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:42,000 Speaker 5: from our Patreon. If you don't know about Patreon, it's 861 00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:47,240 Speaker 5: our platform where we post secret episodes, secret segments. 862 00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:50,719 Speaker 1: Sometimes in our swimsuits, sometimes in lingerie, and we have some. 863 00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:53,320 Speaker 5: Really cool segments on there, like sex positions one oh one, 864 00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:57,240 Speaker 5: Rolling Up with Good Moms, and this is a bonus. 865 00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:58,520 Speaker 2: Episode, so check it out. 866 00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:00,239 Speaker 5: And if you want to find us on Patreon, make 867 00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:03,320 Speaker 5: sure to go to patreon dot com backslash Good Mom's 868 00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:06,440 Speaker 5: Bad Choices. You actually have to input that into your 869 00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:09,360 Speaker 5: search because we are considered explicit go figure. 870 00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:12,439 Speaker 3: So check out this clip and we'll catch you guys 871 00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:12,960 Speaker 3: next week. 872 00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:15,760 Speaker 1: We ended up finding like a group of like training 873 00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:18,080 Speaker 1: football players in Palm Springs. 874 00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:18,600 Speaker 3: We went out. 875 00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:20,759 Speaker 1: We found them the first night. I was like, oh, look, 876 00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:23,480 Speaker 1: we got some eye. Candy invited them to the house 877 00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:26,319 Speaker 1: the next day because we had a house and they're 878 00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:28,600 Speaker 1: all there by the pool. And before they were there, 879 00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:29,960 Speaker 1: I had my shirt off and I was like, they 880 00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:31,600 Speaker 1: were like, the guys are coming. I was like, you, guys, 881 00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:35,240 Speaker 1: I'm not putting my shirt on. All this is our house, 882 00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:37,759 Speaker 1: and you know, no one could tell me to put 883 00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:40,040 Speaker 1: my shirt on. I got some looks like this bitch 884 00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:42,840 Speaker 1: is very annoying. And also I think sometimes I've been 885 00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:44,839 Speaker 1: around friends who think if I do it, then they're 886 00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:46,000 Speaker 1: gonna be reflected poorly. 887 00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:48,440 Speaker 5: Well I think maybe they thought like, if you know 888 00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:50,640 Speaker 5: what it is, I think they're like, well, damn, are 889 00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:51,880 Speaker 5: you trying to take all the attention from all the 890 00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:52,799 Speaker 5: niggas with your shirt off? 891 00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:55,839 Speaker 3: I want some dick too. But wait, wait, bitch, wait, 892 00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:57,080 Speaker 3: let's even the playing field here. 893 00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:01,960 Speaker 1: Okay, well that's not also not my problem. No one 894 00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:02,680 Speaker 1: else stands. 895 00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:08,320 Speaker 3: The next stoves and the sports talk over the g