1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:04,479 Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. He is big strawberry. 2 00:00:05,760 --> 00:00:09,680 Speaker 1: Subject is my husband the real king of pranks? Dear 3 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:12,719 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I am a thirty year old female and 4 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: in a relationship with a thirty five year old male. 5 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 1: We've been dating about a year and we have a 6 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:21,159 Speaker 1: four months old daughter. I have been cheated on in 7 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:23,920 Speaker 1: the past relations in past relationships, but I felt like 8 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 1: this new relationship was going in the right direction. Since 9 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 1: I had my daughter, I have been very insecure about 10 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:33,720 Speaker 1: my weight, but my boyfriend Steele says I am the 11 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 1: woman he wants to marry. Well, one day, curiosity got 12 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:40,160 Speaker 1: the best of me and I went through my boyfriend's phone. 13 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:44,320 Speaker 1: I saw text messages, phone calls, and his Instagram messages 14 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:47,880 Speaker 1: between him and another woman. That is what I have 15 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 1: been dreading all along. There were details about their sexual 16 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 1: encounters and other details about their relationships. My blood pressure 17 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 1: went through the roof and I went to him right 18 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 1: then and asked him what was going on. The first 19 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 1: thing he asked me was why was I going through 20 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: his phone. He then told me that it was just 21 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 1: a prank to see if I was gonna go through 22 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 1: his phone, and I was confused. For a moment until 23 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 1: I remembered that the text and phone calls dated back 24 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 1: to September of last year. So my next move was 25 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:23,120 Speaker 1: to talk to the woman he's cheating with. So I 26 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:26,040 Speaker 1: made my boyfriend get her on the phone. She answered 27 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:28,320 Speaker 1: the phone and I asked her what was going on, 28 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:31,319 Speaker 1: and she burst out laughing and said, girl, we were 29 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:36,280 Speaker 1: just pranking you. I was so outdone. After that, I 30 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 1: sent her husband a message on Instagram, but he never replied. 31 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:43,119 Speaker 1: So now I need to know what's really going on. 32 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:45,759 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, do you think this was just a prank 33 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 1: all along? I need your advice. Uh No, I do 34 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 1: not think this was just a prank all along, Absolutely not. 35 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 1: I think this is real. I think they're involved. I think, um, 36 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 1: you just you know what you're thinking. You're not crazy, 37 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 1: of course not. You went looking for something and you 38 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 1: found it. You said, your insecurity has got the best 39 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 1: of you. But what I think happened is they got 40 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:12,079 Speaker 1: together to say that if you ever asked them that 41 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:14,640 Speaker 1: they would they would say they pranked you. And if 42 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 1: you ever went through his phone or caught them, they 43 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 1: would say, you know, to say that it was a prank. 44 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 1: They agreed on this before they even started, which is crazy, 45 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: and I think they went through a lot of extraordinary 46 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 1: lengths to to so called prank you. But because who 47 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 1: does that? But absolutely I think they're involved. Uh and 48 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:36,800 Speaker 1: you should feel that way too, and especially since you 49 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: found your evidence and it was from a year ago, 50 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 1: so you know, trust your own instincts, as we often 51 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:46,399 Speaker 1: say on this show, and know that yeah, they're they're involved. 52 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:48,960 Speaker 1: They're definitely involved, and he's lying and he got her 53 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 1: to lie too. It's interesting that you went ahead and 54 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 1: in contacted her husband. He hasn't contacted you back. That 55 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 1: was a lot for you to to involve everyone like that, 56 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 1: even her husband. Yeah, I definitely think they're involved, and 57 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:05,400 Speaker 1: you should get to the bottom of it. Steve, you're back. Well, 58 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 1: we have a time discrepancy in this entire oh letter, 59 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna reveal how you must use time related 60 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:22,359 Speaker 1: information and keep it all tied together. So just let 61 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 1: me tell you this first of all, is my husband 62 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:28,680 Speaker 1: the real crank king of prank? No he's not. Tommy 63 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 1: is good damn prank? No? How yeah, how stupid? Not 64 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 1: not tom is stupid, But he don't prank himself, don't 65 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 1: now We have been dating for over a year. Now, 66 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 1: listen to the time frame. One year. What month is this? 67 00:03:56,160 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 1: This is August September. We have a four month old daughter. 68 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 1: I've been cheated on the past relationship, but I felt 69 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 1: like this new relationship was gonna be right direction. Since 70 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 1: I've had my daughter, I have been very insecure about 71 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 1: my weight. Oh we go, here we go, here we go. Now, 72 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:20,479 Speaker 1: let's hit the monkey in the mouth, because that's what 73 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 1: this is. Yeah, this is you got to hit the 74 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 1: monkey in the mouth. You ever hit the market in mouth? 75 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:29,160 Speaker 1: House of Pride? They look monkey? Ain't ever ready to 76 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 1: forget it? Hit in the mouth? Hit the market in 77 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:38,039 Speaker 1: the mouth? What uh? You hit something like that? You know? 78 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 1: I never really hit the market, but I've seen him. 79 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 1: I don't know. I just want to get onto this 80 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 1: baby weight and more of a kind, because that's what 81 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 1: we did. You're wrestling with this baby weight, but you ain't. 82 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 1: He probably wrestling with it too. Yeah, but baby is real. 83 00:04:55,680 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 1: Baby weight is real. It's very real. You wrestling with 84 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 1: your baby weight. He rastling with it too. So now 85 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 1: everybody in here wrestling and you're a whole another weight class. 86 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 1: But to concoct this thing. I'm with him, but my 87 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:21,160 Speaker 1: boyfriend I was proud of. My boyfriend says that I'm 88 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 1: the woman I wanted. Man. Well, I decided to go 89 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 1: through his phone. Ain't that crazy? I saw text messaging, 90 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:30,799 Speaker 1: phone calls, and Instagram message between him and another woman. 91 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 1: That's what I've been dreaming all along. See if if you, 92 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 1: if you, if the thing you put out in the 93 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 1: universe is a thing that comes back. If you put 94 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 1: out all men or dogs, then here come dogs your behavior. 95 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:45,840 Speaker 1: This is what I've been dreaming all on. There were 96 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 1: details about that sexual encounters and other details of their relationship. 97 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 1: My blood pressure went through the roof and I went 98 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 1: to him. Right then you ran up on him, you 99 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 1: and all the baby weight. So now you see it coming. 100 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 1: It's like a up and turned the corner. He just 101 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 1: a deer ahead, like so here you come with the 102 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:09,359 Speaker 1: baby weight around the corner, and you made He's scared 103 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 1: as hell. You're mad all of that. I went to 104 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:14,720 Speaker 1: him and I asked him what was going on? The 105 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:18,040 Speaker 1: first thing he asked me was listen to this? Why 106 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 1: was I going through his phone? Class classic Classic always 107 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 1: noticed ladies. For a man, the best defense is a 108 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:35,280 Speaker 1: good office so immediately deflected off of you and buy yourself. 109 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:38,039 Speaker 1: This don't buy you much time because they don't give 110 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 1: a damn. We don't care. Why are you going through 111 00:06:41,440 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 1: my phone? You're sitting up you crazy. You're just gonna 112 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 1: go through my phone to I'm talking to you. You're 113 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:53,200 Speaker 1: the one went through it. Ain't you you're doing in 114 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: my phone that I'm houldering at the person that went 115 00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:59,599 Speaker 1: through my problem. Get your finger out my thing. Ain't 116 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 1: got my finger in your face. I got my friend 117 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:09,720 Speaker 1: in the Let's recap this letter please for the people. 118 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 1: The subject is is my husband the real king of pranks? 119 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 1: This woman had this baby with this man she's been 120 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 1: dating just about a year now. She had been cheated 121 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 1: on in her past. She didn't want to after the baby, 122 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 1: she decided to go through his phone and her big 123 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 1: wordst nightmare happened. Dreaded found texas uh Instagram post conversation 124 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 1: sexual encounters he had with another woman. She's a little 125 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 1: conscious about her baby weight that she hasn't lost yet, 126 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 1: and baby weight is real and sometimes it takes a 127 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 1: little while to get it off. We do appreciate you 128 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 1: all having these children. That's why it's always acceptable. Baby 129 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 1: weight is acceptable. Good babyweight is acceptable because you've given 130 00:07:50,520 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 1: birth to children. We got to go with that. You're 131 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 1: doing something we can't do, so you'll be all right 132 00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 1: with the baby weight. Just but notice now you still 133 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 1: got it, and you rast limp with it, which causes 134 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 1: us to have to wrestle with it too. We just 135 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 1: got in there tossing turn best we can. You ain't 136 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 1: as light as you was. We used to tiss you 137 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:12,480 Speaker 1: a little bit, but not got this a little stress 138 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 1: over you know, you know, And at sixty one, I 139 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 1: really don't want to pick you up and call you 140 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:21,960 Speaker 1: know way, you know, aren't you going over the later? 141 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 1: I'm coming over that. I'm sixty one. I don't want 142 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 1: to tell you to the bed. Why don't you get 143 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 1: up in the bed and I'm gonna climb up in now. 144 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 1: Now I'm an army crawl to you. We could do that, Yeah, 145 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:38,319 Speaker 1: I'm an army crawl to you. But what I can't 146 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 1: do is carry you over there no more and toss 147 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 1: you up in there and make your bounce on the bed. 148 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 1: We're gonna do all that. Then we're gonna have to wait, yeah, 149 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 1: Bi said, She came about two d eighteen pounds twelve 150 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 1: the twins. Yeah baby, wait, and she says she didn't 151 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:56,760 Speaker 1: have it all off yet. Yeah. Yeah, but anyway, I 152 00:08:56,840 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 1: saw her in Nice She was beautiful right with the rest, 153 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:10,199 Speaker 1: and so you had been dreading. You confronted him and 154 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:12,719 Speaker 1: asked him what was going on. Then he asked me, 155 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 1: why was I going through his phone? Excellent, excellent move. 156 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 1: You gotta get it off you now, it's only gonna 157 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 1: buy you a little bit of time. Did then she 158 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 1: then I was going through his phone. Then he told 159 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:29,199 Speaker 1: me it was just a prank to see if I 160 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:32,360 Speaker 1: would go through his phone. Man, can I take my 161 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 1: hat off to you dog, because that one is creating 162 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 1: that's a problem, my guy is. Now here's a deal. 163 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:46,559 Speaker 1: If you found this stuff back last September, been daton 164 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 1: body you that could have been just a residue babe 165 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:53,559 Speaker 1: from before she met you, and he was just ending it. 166 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 1: All the texas and stuff you found was in last September. See, 167 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 1: you ain't found nothing new, it dated which it started 168 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 1: in sept Oh. Well, then we go back up. He 169 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 1: said it just a prank, and then you thought the 170 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 1: better of it. You called the girl. She bust out laughing, 171 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:15,959 Speaker 1: and said, girl, we're just pranking you. My boyfriend got 172 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 1: on the phone. She has the phone. I asked what 173 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:20,320 Speaker 1: was going on. She bust out laughing and said, girl, 174 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:25,959 Speaker 1: we're pranking you. I was so outdone. She was, Oh, 175 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 1: they joke. It's cold joke. Move now is it true 176 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:35,319 Speaker 1: that they're pranking you? This sounds believable now really, But 177 00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 1: now if she called this girl right that same day, 178 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 1: she now some time had went between. He had time 179 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:46,559 Speaker 1: to set this up. She found your number, she might 180 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 1: call you. She called you, just tell her. But she 181 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 1: called him. Look his dad letterly and out. She called 182 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:59,080 Speaker 1: her right away, her right, So then he called her. 183 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 1: She said she planked, So dude, got some good ones 184 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:06,640 Speaker 1: right now. This this could be good. It's an extensive prank. 185 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 1: If she's stupid, it's an extensive prank. It's going on 186 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 1: over a period of time. Pranks don't take Timy that long, 187 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:19,079 Speaker 1: and he is the king of prank Timmy, don't do 188 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:27,280 Speaker 1: us eleven month prank. Thank you, this is stupid. I 189 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 1: sent her. Yeah, I sent her husband a message on Instagram, 190 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:34,839 Speaker 1: but he never replied. So now I need to know 191 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 1: what's really going on. Stephen Show, do you think it's 192 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:41,240 Speaker 1: just a prank, all along. I need your advice, alright, sister, 193 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 1: let me let me give you some real advice. You 194 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 1: can say it's not a prank, But then what you're 195 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:48,599 Speaker 1: gonna do If he say it's a prank and the 196 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 1: girl says a prank, but you say it's not a prank, 197 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 1: then what are you prepared to do about it? Because 198 00:11:58,360 --> 00:12:04,559 Speaker 1: right now it's looking a little air tight. You've called 199 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 1: into one witness. She collaborated his alibi you it's what's 200 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 1: the word now, collaborated? They got together. That's a collaboral. 201 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:21,480 Speaker 1: That's like when rappers get on other albums. Yeah, all 202 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 1: this is black stuff is always hip problem and the 203 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:29,120 Speaker 1: five so they had you invited the did woman in 204 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 1: on your album? She came in and dropped something down 205 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:39,040 Speaker 1: for you. It all adding up right now. But if 206 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:43,679 Speaker 1: you don't believe it's adding up, the question, Beckins, what 207 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:48,079 Speaker 1: are you gonna do about? So now you can accept 208 00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:50,559 Speaker 1: what you think is a lie that you don't have 209 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:54,079 Speaker 1: any other proof of. And then the other witness that 210 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:57,679 Speaker 1: you called in, her husband has refused to testify. See, 211 00:12:57,720 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 1: everybody can't come to court. When I was twenty, I 212 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 1: couldn't come to court as a character witness or anything else. 213 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:07,240 Speaker 1: I can't be in here because it's too much on me. 214 00:13:10,360 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 1: It's just too much on me. So her husband probably 215 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:17,640 Speaker 1: not calling you back because it's too much on him. 216 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 1: So he can't come in as a corroboratory witness and collaboration. 217 00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 1: That's showing the words corroboratory. You can't come in with 218 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 1: a corroboratory witness, and you don't want to collaborate on 219 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:36,240 Speaker 1: do your part on the album, right, So I would 220 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:38,719 Speaker 1: you if you're not prepared to leave him what you 221 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 1: don't sounds like you are pretty much. I'm gonna have 222 00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:44,959 Speaker 1: to let him have this one great alibi. All the 223 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:48,079 Speaker 1: witnesses checked in. You have nothing to say. There is 224 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:50,199 Speaker 1: no witness to that you're listening to.