WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Lions & Tigers & Capybaras, Oh My!

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<v Speaker 1>Second dat day. I'm pretty excited because we've never done

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<v Speaker 1>this before where a couple has met on a very

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<v Speaker 1>reputable website. Okay, Ashley Madison dot com, so let's do this.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to this show, Ashley. Oh oh wait, wait, her

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<v Speaker 1>name's Ashley. I must screw that up in my notes.

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<v Speaker 1>I had that as where you met. I didn't realize

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<v Speaker 1>that was your name. Really interesting. Okay, well this isn't

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<v Speaker 1>going to be as exciting as I thought. Okay, unless Ashley,

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<v Speaker 1>did you perchance meet your special from one on Ashley Madison?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you rich? No? I didn't you guys for my

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<v Speaker 1>name is Ashley. That's good. So you're both single, you

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<v Speaker 1>and the other person. Yeah, we're both single. Um, and

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<v Speaker 1>we met on the app called Hinge Ashley Madison's nerdy

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<v Speaker 1>little brother. Yes, that's how I like to think of Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>stood out about Brian on Hinge. Brian was really sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>Like see, I'm used to really flashy guys like narcissists,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, show what kind of cars they have, all

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<v Speaker 1>the stuff they have, and I'm super over that and

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<v Speaker 1>I am not that girl at all. And Brian was

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<v Speaker 1>really sweet. Okay, when you were looking for Brian, you

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<v Speaker 1>were looking for something different than what you had been

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<v Speaker 1>dating it like a man who doesn't drive a car. Maybe,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, sure, tell us more about this simple man, Brian. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like in his profile, I mean the things that stood

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<v Speaker 1>out to me. He believes in monogamy. He said, like

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<v Speaker 1>what his date would look like, and he said it

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<v Speaker 1>would be to have a picnic in his living room

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<v Speaker 1>with candlelight. Like he just seemed light and sweet, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>really down to earth. Yeah, I mean he sounds just

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<v Speaker 1>like you said. Absolutely. Yeah, So did you did you

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<v Speaker 1>hit him up or did he message you? I messaged

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<v Speaker 1>him first, but then we just got along right away.

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<v Speaker 1>He wasn't pushing. He just felt like a safe guy. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So what's a safe date with Brian? Yeah? It was

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<v Speaker 1>really cute. So it was my idea for the first

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<v Speaker 1>date because I volunteer at a zoo, and I thought

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<v Speaker 1>that we could walk around the zoo and we could

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<v Speaker 1>get to know each other and talk and at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time, we have some things to look at. And

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<v Speaker 1>plus it's a chance for you, like show off some knowledge, right,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm assuming you know a lot about the animals

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<v Speaker 1>there and how the zoo works. And if there's awkward silence,

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<v Speaker 1>there's always something to talk about. Yeah, you know, well

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<v Speaker 1>we're speculating a lot over here, but tell us how

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<v Speaker 1>it actually went, Ashley. Yes, and because I'm a volunteer,

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<v Speaker 1>I got him in for free. Yeah. But because of that,

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<v Speaker 1>I you know, I had to wear my vest, so

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<v Speaker 1>it's my name Fag and yeah, okay, okay. So as

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<v Speaker 1>we're walking around we're having fun, the parents and the

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<v Speaker 1>kids would stop, like if they needed something. The parents

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<v Speaker 1>would ask me questions about the animals, and I would

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<v Speaker 1>answer the questions and then he could do Maybe think

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<v Speaker 1>he could find that a little bit annoying that the

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<v Speaker 1>date keeps getting paused for you to answer other people's questions. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think he was annoyed, because if he were annoyed,

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<v Speaker 1>then he probably would n't be the kind of guy

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't want him be with, the kind of guy

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<v Speaker 1>that like wants your attention. Oh, I mean, like she's

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<v Speaker 1>doing her thing, Like he knew going into it that

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<v Speaker 1>that's what you were going to do, and non this

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<v Speaker 1>was a surprise. Yeah, but it probably feels like less

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<v Speaker 1>of a date more like, yeah, were you able to

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<v Speaker 1>like connect in a romantic way at all. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>I believe that you should really get to know someone

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<v Speaker 1>as a friend first, and then from that, if we,

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<v Speaker 1>like we had mutual respect for each other, then something

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<v Speaker 1>could come from it. But I thought this was a

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<v Speaker 1>really sweet way to let him into my life, and

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<v Speaker 1>he liked that. You guys like it was cute, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I know he had fun, but you're with us, like,

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<v Speaker 1>why is it he calling you back? Yeah? I mean yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>were there any awkward or moments that stood out from

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<v Speaker 1>the date that could have been a red flag? The

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<v Speaker 1>only thing? You know, So we stopped at I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if you guys know this animal called cappabara. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they're super cute. Yeah, it's a South American animal. And

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<v Speaker 1>we were there and we were looking at them, and

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<v Speaker 1>he said he had spent time in South America, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we just were having a conversation. This like

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<v Speaker 1>a nine year old kid was there with their parents.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just challenged Brian and the nine year old

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<v Speaker 1>kid to see who could spell it. Put him on

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<v Speaker 1>the spot. How did he do? He didn't win, but

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't. Oh, it sounds like you should probably date

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<v Speaker 1>that nine year old and shound more to cash. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>why was that awkward though? Did he actually was he

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<v Speaker 1>actually upset that he got beat by a kid. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just the only moment that I thought maybe he fell

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<v Speaker 1>out of plea. I could see that being kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a masculating to me. If my date challenged me to

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<v Speaker 1>a spelling contest against an elementary school child supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>be fun and entertaining, after talking to kids all night

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<v Speaker 1>over him, I'd be done. Yeah, So how did things

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<v Speaker 1>end with you and Brian? Well, we walked around a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit more, but he said he had to leave

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<v Speaker 1>to go to his niece's piano recital to do more

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<v Speaker 1>kid things, so we obviously doesn't hate him. Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have to like battle pianos with her. He just

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<v Speaker 1>had to sit there and listen. I mean it's a

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<v Speaker 1>valid reason to leave, Yeah, you know, I mean it

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<v Speaker 1>matched the personnel of this person that I'm going out.

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<v Speaker 1>So I walked into the gate and we hugged and

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<v Speaker 1>it was nice, and he left and I haven't heard

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<v Speaker 1>from him. Have you texted or called? Yeah? I have,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't want to seem like kind of crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, it sounds like there was not a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of romance on the date. It could have been fun,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's not the reason not to call someone back up.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, you don't be in the friend zone,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't feel a romantic connection. That's why you don't

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<v Speaker 1>call people back here exactly. That stuff would never happen

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<v Speaker 1>on Ashley Madison. So well, I mean maybe there was

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<v Speaker 1>something else that we don't even know about yet, and

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, that's true. Let's get Brian a call. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>play a song first, we'll come back, and then we'll

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date up date. Okay, okay, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>guys for quick recap of Ashley's first date with Brian,

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<v Speaker 1>which included an hour and a half of walking, a

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<v Speaker 1>detailed zoology lesson on the South American Capabara, and of course,

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<v Speaker 1>a romantic spelling contest against a nine year old boy.

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<v Speaker 1>That is hot. Yeah, I mean when you recap it

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<v Speaker 1>like that, that's because Ashley took Brian to the zoo

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<v Speaker 1>where she volunteers, and so they walked around together. She

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<v Speaker 1>had to answer buns of questions to children and parents

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<v Speaker 1>along the way about the different animals, and it ended

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<v Speaker 1>with Brian saying he had to go attend his niece's

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<v Speaker 1>piano recital. Now he's not calling her back, which I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if you know this. I know you're an

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<v Speaker 1>expert on animal behavior, but that's very common for the

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<v Speaker 1>modern male homo sapience. Yes they do. Oh you really

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<v Speaker 1>are an expert. Wow. We're going to our best to

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<v Speaker 1>get Brian on the phone and get some answers for you.

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<v Speaker 1>How you feeling I'm feeling nervous. Yeah, I know, I

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<v Speaker 1>know he's stitching me, but I just don't know why. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>The the thing that I would imagine it is hard

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<v Speaker 1>for you, is it? This is the first time you're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to date, like basically a nice guy, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and sometimes the nice guys are just as big a jerk.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the true ones that aren't considered nice guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's just the hard lesson of it. I

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<v Speaker 1>consider myself a nice jerk. Yeah. So you know, just

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<v Speaker 1>don't be too disappointed or like give up hope or

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<v Speaker 1>anything after that. You know, Brooke, you're trying to give

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<v Speaker 1>her a lot of hope. So let's try and stay

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<v Speaker 1>as optimistic as we can. But we're gonna dial his

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<v Speaker 1>number and see what Brian has to say. Okay, here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Okay, Hello, Hey, is this Brian? Yeah? Who's this?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? Brian? My name is jeff from the radio

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<v Speaker 1>show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Uh. Sorry, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know the show. That's okay, dude, I barely know

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<v Speaker 1>it either. Yeah. No, that that's that's a lot of people. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a bunch of people in this room, and we're

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<v Speaker 1>all very interested in a date that you went on

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<v Speaker 1>recently with one of our listeners named Ashley. Um, remember

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<v Speaker 1>was that yours? That your stomach? No, I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>just shocked. I'd be shocked too, like, all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking about this. I get it, I get it. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just wait, are you saying that she reached out

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<v Speaker 1>to you guys? Yeah, it's part of a segment that

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<v Speaker 1>we do called a second date Update. Well we haven't

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<v Speaker 1>had a are you guys trying to find out why

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want us? I mean yeah, we're hoping to

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<v Speaker 1>get her at a second date with you because that's

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<v Speaker 1>what she wants and she's a little bit confused about

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<v Speaker 1>why it's not happening yet. Well, it's kind of weird

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<v Speaker 1>what she did. Did she tell you about it? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>We thought it was sweet. She said that she took

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<v Speaker 1>you to the zoo or she volunteers, and she volunteered

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<v Speaker 1>Wall on the date as well, so she had to

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<v Speaker 1>answer like a lot of questions and stuff, but she

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<v Speaker 1>thought you had a great time. I mean, she did

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<v Speaker 1>tell us about what happened with you in the nine

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<v Speaker 1>year old kid mishap. Oh, yeah, that's cute. Yeah you

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<v Speaker 1>just let him win though, right guy. And that's well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know when you can't spell foliage, Yeah, I thought

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<v Speaker 1>you were trying to spell Capebara. Well she gave me

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<v Speaker 1>a few words, but I'm not really a great speller,

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<v Speaker 1>so I had trouble with him. She was just telling us,

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<v Speaker 1>not because she was still judging you about your spelling,

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<v Speaker 1>just simply because she was like, oh, that's the only

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<v Speaker 1>weird thing that I can remember that happened. She was

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to have fun with you in that moment.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't meant to embarrass you or anything. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>was that like a deal breaker for you. There's not

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<v Speaker 1>really any deal breakers. The main thing was that she

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<v Speaker 1>was like a news source. She was giving out misinformation. Mima. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why you have to like put down

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<v Speaker 1>news sources. Journalists work really hard in this country. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>please don't call yourself a journalist. That's the meaning to

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<v Speaker 1>actual journalist. I agree with you, but I went to

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<v Speaker 1>journalism school, and I know, look, I mean, Brian, we're

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to help get some answers here. Because you

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<v Speaker 1>said that she was giving up misinformation? Do you mean

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<v Speaker 1>giving misinformation to you or just in general to everybody?

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<v Speaker 1>Should like the group that we were walking around with,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you mean? Like, she's like, that's a capabara

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<v Speaker 1>and it wasn't a capabara, Like what are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>One of the kids asked about miss Beetle and one

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<v Speaker 1>of the displays, and the display itself wasn't labeled, and

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<v Speaker 1>so she just called it a pirate Beatle. Kids like

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<v Speaker 1>what She's like, yeah, II Beatle, believe it. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know if the Beatles, Like he knows his Beatle species.

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<v Speaker 1>I just thought she was trying to be funny. But

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<v Speaker 1>this kid's like trying to learn something. So I guess

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<v Speaker 1>the reason why it hit me so hard is because

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<v Speaker 1>I used to go to the zoo as a kid

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<v Speaker 1>with my parents, So I was like, but he really

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<v Speaker 1>might be like genuinely curious about what that thing is.

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<v Speaker 1>So you were upset that she made up a name

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<v Speaker 1>of a beatle and instead of just saying I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>is that what you're saying? Well, yeah, but this is

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<v Speaker 1>not just one time we were walking by porcupines and

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<v Speaker 1>she's like, oh, those are arrow pigs. Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, everybody knows that was just a joke. Though, No,

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<v Speaker 1>these kids were legit writing down arrow pig. She never

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<v Speaker 1>corrected them. Does she know what they are? She doesn't.

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<v Speaker 1>We walked by a train manthis if she calls them

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<v Speaker 1>a wobble stick. Yeah, she's really good with the nicknames.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there are animals should be renamed at this

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<v Speaker 1>point thousands of years. I get that was a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit weird, and you were worried about the kids education,

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<v Speaker 1>but like, how does that affect you romantically? Like how

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<v Speaker 1>how you bonded with her? Well, I'm a stickler for

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<v Speaker 1>this stuff, So I don't really respect that sort of stuff. Oh, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I get if it's if you're trying to be funny,

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<v Speaker 1>but if you generally don't know, be like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>let me go find somebody who does. That's my job.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that Ashley has any idea that you

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<v Speaker 1>felt this way during the entire tour of the zoo

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<v Speaker 1>Listen though, genuinely, she's awesome. I would love to be like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>look like let's do a second date. But well that's

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<v Speaker 1>perfect because now you can do that right now, she's

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line listening. You didn't listen to I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to hear that, Jeff, Ashley, I like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Talk to Brian. Hey, guys, hey Brian. All right. I

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<v Speaker 1>had no listening. I'm so grateful. Yeah, you're upset because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm having fun with kids, But you call the lobster

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<v Speaker 1>a drug and shrimp? Was that real? Does it sound better?

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<v Speaker 1>You should be in charge of naming all the world

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<v Speaker 1>animals kids book. I do think it's worth asking, though, Ashley,

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<v Speaker 1>did you really not know the names of the animals

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<v Speaker 1>because you're a volunteer or are you just having fun?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a lobster. Who wouldn't know the name of a lobster?

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<v Speaker 1>Some people never see Ashley. I know that I I

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<v Speaker 1>know the name of the animals, but like some of

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<v Speaker 1>them are made up, and I just don't think it's

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<v Speaker 1>that big of a deal. Like if I can get

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<v Speaker 1>a laugh out of these kids while they're at the zoo.

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<v Speaker 1>That that makes me feel good, you know, So it's

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<v Speaker 1>not coming from a bad place, Brian. I mean, these

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<v Speaker 1>kids get a laugh, but they do flunk out a

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<v Speaker 1>fourth grade. I know it sounds petty, but I just

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<v Speaker 1>had to say something because it bugs me. Yeah, Brian,

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<v Speaker 1>you're being like a grumpy puss. They're like a link

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<v Speaker 1>that you can find out the zoo. That's yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but hold on all seriousness, what is he supposed to do,

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<v Speaker 1>like call you out in the middle of a group

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, it's gonna make you look unprofessional. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to stop you in the middle of

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<v Speaker 1>your thing. You just just bug me, And I'm sorry

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<v Speaker 1>for not talking about it. Okay, Yeah this guy and

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<v Speaker 1>that shows that he respects you at your job, even

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<v Speaker 1>if you're doing a terrible job at it. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're making the zoo fun actually, But Brian

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<v Speaker 1>does bring up a good point, like maybe you she

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<v Speaker 1>should also include correct information like can you do both

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<v Speaker 1>for the kids? Yeah, I mean I can do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe Brian should be volunteering at the zoo. You're like

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<v Speaker 1>a comedic duo. You get the punchlines and he brings

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah is he and Brian job you can actually set

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<v Speaker 1>that up for you guys right now and send you

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<v Speaker 1>on your second date and pay for that date. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I don't think that's a bad idea.

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<v Speaker 1>And what if I call them penguins and then she

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<v Speaker 1>called them it's just chickens, black and whitist. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys have to work on your stick a little bit. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd actually just caught them ice chickens, and I hope

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<v Speaker 1>it's funny, all right, But I'm hearing I'm hearing the

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<v Speaker 1>connection happening. Are we doing this? Ashley? Are you up

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<v Speaker 1>for it? Um? Yeah, I'm up for it. Okay, Brian,

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<v Speaker 1>is that a yes from you? Second? Datus approvius? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>he's bringing the science science successful second date update. Congratulations guys,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,