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Speaker 1: Hey, the folks.

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Speaker 2: In this episode, a salesperson refers to as my wife

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Speaker 2: and I do not correct her. Also, are we really

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Speaker 2: the only ones who fell for it? When Verbo said,

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Speaker 2: you get the whole place to yourself. Also in this episode,

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Speaker 2: expect a new salacious headline about the two of us

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Speaker 2: any moment now and swollen face, black eyes, and dry heaving.

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Speaker 2: It has been a rough few days for Amy Robach

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Speaker 2: and with that, welcome to this episode of Amy and

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Speaker 2: TJ Roades.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Wow, is nothing sacred?

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Speaker 1: Is nothing sacred? Where did I come?

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Speaker 2: I mean, anybody who's seen you the past few days,

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Speaker 2: they've seen swollen eyes and black eyes, the dry heaving.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I maybe that, but none of that is incorrect.

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Speaker 4: I sound like the most amazing companion ever who wouldn't

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Speaker 4: want to be my boy friend?

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Speaker 2: We all go through it, We go through it. Everybody

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Speaker 2: has ugly moments. Yours just happened in a really short time.

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Speaker 3: And they're voluntary for whatever reason.

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Speaker 2: Robes is fine everybody, But we talked about your the

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Speaker 2: vampire facial. Yeah, vampire facial. We had to go back

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Speaker 2: for another session, and this one, I have to say,

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Speaker 2: baby was worse. I mean, the results say the results,

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Speaker 2: but you came out looking.

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Speaker 4: Like I had been in a couple of rounds in

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Speaker 4: the ring. Yes, I know, you just can never predict

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Speaker 4: how your face is going to react. So yes, they

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Speaker 4: take out blood from my arm, just like you get

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Speaker 4: an ivy.

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Speaker 3: They pull out blood, they spin my platelets around.

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Speaker 4: That's about as technical as I'm going to be able

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Speaker 4: to get, and then they reinject it in certain parts

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Speaker 4: of your face where you would like rejuvenation.

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Speaker 3: So the idea is that your own.

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Speaker 4: Platelets, your own blood, is just like rejuvenating and the

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Speaker 4: trauma I guess of getting it in there creates like collagen,

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Speaker 4: all these things that are way above my actual knowledge

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Speaker 4: of how your skin and body works. But I'm told

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Speaker 4: that it's a rejuvenating process, and it's in lieu of

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Speaker 4: doing like other things like fillers. I don't I personally

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Speaker 4: don't want to do that.

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Speaker 2: To get the stuff where it needs to be around

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Speaker 2: your eyes, I have to put.

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Speaker 3: Needles, right, Oh, there are lots of needles.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but you come out you do. We have been

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Speaker 2: very swollen the past several days, and you look like

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Speaker 2: you have black eyes.

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Speaker 3: Right, So I've been wearing sunglasses inside folks.

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Speaker 1: We were at a sports bar in the middle of

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Speaker 1: the day. Well I don't even.

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Speaker 2: Can't remember where we were, but you were the sunglasses

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Speaker 2: in the restaurant.

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Speaker 3: But thankfully I could still watch the soccer game, the

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Speaker 3: euro Cup. It was great.

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Speaker 4: Still had a blast. But yes, I'm ready to take

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Speaker 4: the sunglasses off. I took them off. Now I think

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Speaker 4: it's okay, it's getting better.

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Speaker 2: It's better today, but it's healing. But the other I

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Speaker 2: mentioned the dry heaving. We are in the middle of

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Speaker 2: marathon training for Chicago. You've talked about this before. We

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Speaker 2: too have some stomach issues sometimes with the coffe seemed

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Speaker 2: like you corrected that. But when he gets too hot

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Speaker 2: to too humid, we got issues.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was I know I'm not good when it's

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Speaker 4: humid out. So we had a long run this weekend,

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Speaker 1: We're supposed to have We're supposed.

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Speaker 3: To have a seven miler this weekend.

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Speaker 4: And I got one point seven two miles in and

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Speaker 3: Dry heaving. And then I was like, okay, I can

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Speaker 4: And I made it another one point seven miles and

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Speaker 4: had to stop and finally said, babe, we're done, Like,

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Speaker 1: So I was like, no, I said, you said.

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Speaker 3: I was like, I was like, I can just keep

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Speaker 4: I'm not going to stop and start while you go

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Speaker 2: And what was the name of that trail. It was

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Speaker 2: a beautiful new trail. We were trying at this memorial

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Speaker 3: It was really humid. Did I mention.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't as hot as it's been. We are in

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Speaker 4: But the humidity for me just did me in. And

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Speaker 4: I don't know, again, I felt really bad, especially when

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Speaker 4: you have a partner running with you. You know that they're

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Speaker 3: If it was just me, I would.

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Speaker 4: Have probably quit even sooner and said I'm gonna save

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Speaker 4: that for tomorrow. But I'm gonna get the seven miles in,

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Speaker 4: And you did wait for me, so we're gonna try

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Speaker 4: to get that in and we will.

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Speaker 3: It's just, you know, it's a reminder.

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Speaker 4: I always appreciate when I hear other people who, whether

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Speaker 4: always gonna have easy runs. You're not always gonna be

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Speaker 3: And I don't like thinking that I can't.

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Speaker 4: But I also appreciate when other people are honest about

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Speaker 4: matter how many you've done. It's never easy. I don't

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Speaker 4: It's just it's a part of conditioning, and part of

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Speaker 1: But one point seven two miles we just started.

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Speaker 3: I know I'm not proud of it, but I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: I'm teasing you that I'm there and it's no a

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Speaker 2: big deal. And I told you, do not push yourself,

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Speaker 2: do not push your butt, Do not worry about me

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Speaker 2: at all. You're my running partner. We're out here for

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Speaker 2: a run together. So if you're not finishing, I'm not finishing,

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Speaker 2: And that's fine. But to your point, you've run, you

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Speaker 2: got five or six marathons under your belt, and there

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Speaker 2: say to hell with this. So the body doesn't work.

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Speaker 2: So that's okay, folks, yep, take that if you're out

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Speaker 4: I couldn't get past one point seven two miles, So

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Speaker 4: that happened. And that's just not something that I say

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Speaker 4: very often, but it happened. And I will say. You

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Speaker 4: stopped and said, wow, I was like having the best

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Speaker 4: because you were the opposite experience, which is rare too.

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Speaker 1: Does that mean to say that how great my run

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Speaker 3: No, I was happy for you, and then I felt

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Speaker 3: extra guilty. But it's okay.

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Speaker 2: It was fine, and we had a good we had

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Speaker 2: a good time. We had a good weekend. We were

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Speaker 2: up doing a little well. We got a verbal. We

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Speaker 2: just wanted to get out of town for a couple

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Speaker 2: verbal Airbnb people use them all the time. Verbo had

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Speaker 2: a whole campaign right about by comparing themselves to I

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Speaker 2: think Airbnb so a certain degree, saying you get the

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Speaker 3: Which we've laughed at, yes versus versus what.

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Speaker 1: You're supposed to. That's the point. That's why I didn't

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Speaker 4: That's why I'm renting a house, yes, so I can

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Speaker 2: But the other thing they had was called only your people, right,

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Speaker 2: that was the whole big campaign, saying that you've rented

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Speaker 2: this place only your people that are going to be there.

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Speaker 2: So Rose and I we put the top down, we

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Speaker 2: hit the road. You couldn't see too happier people, oh,

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Speaker 3: Even in the traffic. We were just happy to be

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Speaker 2: So finally a couple hours drive and were pulling up

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Speaker 2: We pull up to the parking lot to the driveway

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Speaker 2: was it four people sitting outside on this deck, music

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Speaker 4: Be staying correct, and we knew it was a bungalow

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Speaker 3: Of course, of course we were not a bungalow.

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Speaker 1: Which was beautiful, gorgeous. Didn't use it one damn time

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Speaker 3: Looked onto us.

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Speaker 4: the people who were in the main house just got

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Speaker 4: like we were their netflix.

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Speaker 3: Basically, I was like, how is this possible? So here

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Speaker 4: View and we have to close the curtains. And then

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Speaker 4: we remembered the Verbo campaign. We thought, well, this is

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Speaker 3: But we got stuck into a situation.

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Speaker 4: Where we were absolutely totally uncomfortable in the place we

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Speaker 2: You know what it felt to me like, you go

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Speaker 2: you got to kind of be quiet. I felt like

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Speaker 2: the whole time we were there that somebody was watching us.

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Speaker 2: We had to be careful.

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Speaker 1: It was.

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Speaker 2: It was a horrible experience to be quiet, honest, But

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Speaker 2: for us, you and I we are used to making

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Speaker 2: lemonade and we had a good time. We're always going

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Speaker 2: to have a good time together. But it was a

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Speaker 2: wild disappointment to show up to that verbal and that's

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Speaker 2: there was a there was a white family of five.

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Speaker 4: Staring at us, saying the entire time and so, yes,

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Speaker 4: we never once used the hot tub, We never once

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Speaker 4: They were actually putting that on the list as things,

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Speaker 4: all these great extras, and do you think I'm going

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Speaker 4: Oh it's so fun. And you were just going into stores.

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Speaker 3: You knew the stores. I like, we were walking in.

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Speaker 1: What were that two hours?

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Speaker 4: I got one shirt, that's true, But Sabine got a

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Speaker 2: So as we were shopping though, at that outlet mall,

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Speaker 1: Oh it was the was it theory? It was where

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Speaker 2: The shirt, the one shirt, one shirt you got? You

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Speaker 2: why can't we think of the name of the store.

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Speaker 1: It was theory. It wasn't theory.

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Speaker 1: I can see it. I can see the shirt. I

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Speaker 2: She said, you guys are so cute and no, listen,

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Speaker 2: she said, you guys boyfriend, a girlfriend, a husband and

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Speaker 4: And I think they thought that we were a husband

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Speaker 2: I didn't take it the way You're right. They still

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Speaker 3: They thought it was sweet.

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Speaker 4: Did you still consider me like your girlfriend even though yes,

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Speaker 1: Husband?

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Speaker 1: What do you do with that? Just has a correct somebody.

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't correct somebody, no, because I mean I think

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Speaker 4: Have we talked about this partly your friend? He said,

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Speaker 2: You don't have boyfriend and girlfriend anymore. It's ridiculous, you sound,

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Speaker 2: you sound silly. If you're a forty year old woman

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Speaker 4: It does feel weird to be like my boyfriend's coming.

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Speaker 4: But I don't know what else to say.

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Speaker 2: It's his thing, and you haven't heard him do this

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Speaker 2: next time we're out, I'll have him get into it,

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Speaker 4: Because I'm too old to have a boyfriend. And so

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Speaker 4: that is where I'm sure they were coming from that place.

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Speaker 4: But it was fun still, and neither one of us

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Speaker 1: No, they had a nice ring to it. I didn't

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Speaker 2: We were out of town in kind in the Hampton's

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Speaker 2: couple of photographers, members of the paparazzi. I guess you

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Speaker 2: but that's all we say. We have seen plenty of

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Speaker 2: But yes, sometimes photographers, or you go to an event,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they'll say your name, you'll say hi, you smile,

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Speaker 4: You let them have their picture.

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Speaker 3: You move on. That's part of life in the public eye.

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Speaker 2: We get it this though we know something else is

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Speaker 2: that is in our experience, has been when they're trying

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Speaker 2: want to a picture. And that is not in good faith.

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Speaker 2: And that is why we wanted to get out of town.

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Speaker 2: But it's also now why we're just waiting.

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Speaker 4: It's one of those things that we've learned the hard

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Speaker 4: the maddening thing about that is, then, yes, you're kind

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Speaker 4: because you know that they wouldn't be out there hiding

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Speaker 2: Oh, just legit, let's just say legit. It don't necessarily

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Speaker 2: have to be positive for us. If they were this

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Speaker 2: say we're about to write this. Can we get comment,

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Speaker 2: we'd say yes, so we say no. When we walk

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Speaker 2: of all, he's a little overweight to think he's gonna

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Speaker 2: hide behind a light pole. Okay, that pole is not

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Speaker 1: The other one really pissed me off.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because we were having a nice dinner and a

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Speaker 3: You saw a lens.

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Speaker 4: Over the top of a vehicle. And I have to say,

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Speaker 4: I know it drives you crazy, But I'm amazed you.

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Speaker 4: Your head is always on a swivel, which is a

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. You know what.

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Speaker 3: We want to give credit.

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Speaker 2: We do want to give them credit. We were at

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Speaker 2: But we were sitting outside having the dinner. And yet

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Speaker 1: And we picked up.

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Speaker 2: We went inside and the guy uh about he was

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Speaker 2: Red polo ships and a hat, and he moved and

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Speaker 2: who we were or another exit. I didn't say who

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Speaker 2: we were nothing. I said, no, I really don't have anything.

447
00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:06,400
Speaker 2: They were nice, moved on. The manager comes a little

448
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Speaker 2: while later and tracks I think you down first. It

449
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Speaker 2: tracks you down first.

450
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Speaker 4: And says what and says, I can get you guys

451
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Speaker 4: out through the back door if that would help, And

452
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Speaker 4: we just said thank you so much.

453
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Speaker 3: And so sure enough we went.

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Speaker 4: Through the kitchen area and out where the employees go through,

455
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Speaker 4: and we were able to get an uber to pull

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Speaker 4: right up and get out of there. And as we

457
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Speaker 4: were leaving, I think you saw him still waiting for

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Speaker 4: us to walk out.

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Speaker 3: That's like the little victory in this, Like he I

460
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Speaker 3: don't know, it was hot. I don't know how long

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Speaker 3: you had to wait.

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Speaker 4: He probably could not understand where we went or why

463
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Speaker 4: we didn't come back out, but we lost him, and

464
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Speaker 4: then we got out of town the next.

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Speaker 1: Day and we so and again, this isn't a thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah this is.

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Speaker 2: It's a part of it to a certain degree. But

468
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Speaker 2: that's that kind of thing where they're hiding behind vehicles

469
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Speaker 2: and trying to make sure they don't see you there

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Speaker 2: and trying to cat that's that's just annoying, and it's

471
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Speaker 2: difficult and it's frustrating, and it got us to get

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Speaker 2: out of town and get a verse. That's the privacy

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Speaker 2: we so desperately saw it.

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Speaker 4: At least they didn't have long lenses over on the

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Speaker 4: other side of the window.

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Speaker 5: They didn't need it right there on a full display

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Speaker 5: for them.

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Speaker 4: I will say this is another way we made lemonade.

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Speaker 4: It definitely pushed us to get out of the city

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Speaker 4: and we ended up having some fun experiences.

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Speaker 2: It's in great spot. I can't remember the name. A

482
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Speaker 2: couple of spots, the one we sat outside on them

483
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Speaker 2: I wanted to give them. They were wonderful, wonderful spots

484
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Speaker 2: we went to and everybody was great. But you make

485
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Speaker 2: lemonade and we made the best out of it. But

486
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Speaker 2: we want to give you all the heads up because

487
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Speaker 2: this is how it goes. Sometimes we're just waiting for

488
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Speaker 2: whatever headline to come. I want everybody's help here as

489
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Speaker 2: we close on this one thing. Robes and Emma was

490
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Speaker 2: talking about it a second and maybe it's a woman thing.

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Speaker 1: The phones.

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Speaker 2: Okay, why is it when you're with someone, they're looking

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Speaker 2: Why is it that people constantly are putting their phone

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Speaker 2: in your face because they want you to see the

495
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Speaker 2: TikTok video somebody just saw sent them. They want you

496
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Speaker 2: to see the text message they just received. They want

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Speaker 2: you to see this picture. They want you And if

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Speaker 2: you as much as we're all on our phones and

499
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Speaker 2: being just entertained, there's a lot of stuff. You might

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Speaker 2: turn that phone around. Ooh look, oh, look, oh look.

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Speaker 2: And between you and Sabine, an eleven year old who

502
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Speaker 2: is on her phone all the time, it's constant on

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Speaker 2: the left, she's putting it in my face to show

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Speaker 2: me something from TikTok. On all right, you're showing me.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know what you show me.

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Speaker 4: You show show your stuff from Instagram. I show you

507
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Speaker 4: stuff the girl. The girls are sending me stuff from

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Speaker 4: instag from TikTok. But now Sabina and I actually just

509
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Speaker 4: show each other good. We're we're we're happy to receive.

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Speaker 1: But why why is that a thing? Do you think?

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Speaker 1: For so many and why is it driving me so greaty?

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Speaker 3: It's driving you crazy? And you know what, it's funny.

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Speaker 4: I know it drives you crazy, and somehow how I

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Speaker 4: still get all caught up in the excitement of wanting

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Speaker 4: to show you something.

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Speaker 3: I forget that it drives you crazy.

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Speaker 4: But I think it's just I think maybe it is

518
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Speaker 4: a female thing, because my daughters and I do it

519
00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:11,960
Speaker 4: to each other and we're like, look at this, look

520
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Speaker 4: at this, and we were even talking here You're surrounded

521
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Speaker 4: by women in this room and we're all laughing because

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Speaker 4: we do it to each other.

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Speaker 3: But I don't see men doing that to each other

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Speaker 3: or to me.

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Speaker 4: So I really do think it might be more of

526
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Speaker 4: a female thing where we're connecting, we're sharing, we're and

527
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Speaker 4: you're just not that into it.

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Speaker 2: No, that's fair, But yeah, I thought about it that way.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, going to dinner with my guys. We not

530
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Speaker 2: not once has Chuck ever picked up his phone and say, ooh,

531
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Speaker 2: look at this video.

532
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Speaker 3: Have you seen this cat?

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Speaker 5: See?

534
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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I mean it's like, you know, it's animal videos, it's

536
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Speaker 4: it's children videos, it's I know, I do think. I

537
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Speaker 4: hate to generalize, but I do think this is probably

538
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Speaker 4: a woman thing.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Mostly I am.

540
00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:55,080
Speaker 2: Thinking, you're excited about something and you laugh, so you

541
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Speaker 2: want everybody else to laugh and you want to.

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Speaker 1: I get it.

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Speaker 4: It comes from a good place of wanting to to

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Speaker 4: bring someone else into the joy or the laughter or

545
00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:06,919
Speaker 4: something that was silly, like we have fall videos, like

546
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Speaker 4: we have shared those.

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Speaker 3: You did watch that one that Annelie sent me that

548
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Speaker 3: you liked.

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Speaker 4: That was the one I remember you kind of were

550
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Speaker 4: okay with watching, but I think you'd rather have me

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Speaker 4: just put it up on the TV.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you know, I will make it. I need to

553
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Speaker 2: make some kind of a deal with you here. I

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Speaker 2: if you will stop putting your phone in my face, okay,

555
00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 2: I will happily take selfies with you.

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Speaker 4: Oh that is something I can get behind, because.

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Speaker 1: Give you one a day.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, we already had to discuss this.

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Speaker 4: So every time we go somewhere, I want to document

560
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Speaker 4: and I want to get you know, and I'm not

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Speaker 4: going to ask someone else to.

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Speaker 3: Take our picture. So I want to do a selfie

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Speaker 3: with him.

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Speaker 4: And it drives him crazy, so he'll pout, he'll make

565
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Speaker 4: a face, or you like, you make a little cloudy face,

566
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Speaker 4: you make a face that you know I can't actually

567
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Speaker 4: use a picture.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, okay, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: And then or you hide your face or at the

570
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Speaker 4: last minute, like you look like you're gonna smile and

571
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Speaker 4: you're gonna participate with me, and then you just duck

572
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Speaker 4: your head when the actual picture gets taken. Its just

573
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Speaker 4: so I have all these outtakes of all these pictures

574
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 4: that are all not good because you sabotage them. So yes,

575
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Speaker 4: if you and then eventually you usually do give me one.

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Speaker 3: But it's like a it's an effort.

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Speaker 2: It's just turning on and off with a smile. That

578
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Speaker 2: is just it's just it's a lot. And you about

579
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Speaker 2: to talk about the guy.

580
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Speaker 4: So we're at the restaurant and we see this couple

581
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Speaker 4: and you see she wants him to take a selfie

582
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Speaker 4: with her, and I said, look, see, look he's taking

583
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Speaker 4: a selfie with her, and she takes me he his

584
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 4: smile turns into like an absolute like nothing face three

585
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Speaker 4: seconds or one second after the victure was taken. So

586
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Speaker 4: then it was hilarious. I'm like, Okay, clearly he doesn't

587
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Speaker 4: like taking them either. Okay, fine, but we're about to

588
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 4: go on vacation, and so I appreciate I get one

589
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Speaker 4: selfie a day.

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Speaker 3: That's it. That's tough.

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Speaker 1: Fair. What's fair? Though, you know, it's just it's so much.

592
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Speaker 1: It's what's fair.

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Speaker 4: We will then go okay, all right, but I feel

594
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Speaker 4: like yes, and when you look back at the pictures,

595
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:11,160
Speaker 4: you like them. They're fun to reminisce and to see

596
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Speaker 4: where we were and what we were like and what

597
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Speaker 4: we were doing.

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Speaker 3: Right.

599
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Speaker 2: I don't think I've taken a single selfie that I

600
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Speaker 2: was like, wow, that came out well, like wow, I'm

601
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Speaker 2: glad I took that one.

602
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Speaker 1: Not one.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well, but that's exciting that you're at least open

604
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Speaker 3: to one a day.

605
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Speaker 2: But part of the agreement you have to stop sticking

606
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Speaker 2: the phone in my face every time.

607
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Speaker 3: That is something I can absolutely start this, all right,

608
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:36,440
Speaker 3: it's a deal.

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Speaker 1: All right, folks. You know where to find us.

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Speaker 2: You can see all of our selfies on our Instagram pages,

611
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Speaker 2: but you can also find the show on our official

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Speaker 2: show page at Amy and TJ Podcast on Instagram. I

613
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Speaker 2: think we got it this week. We got somewhere on

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Speaker 2: this one, baby.

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Speaker 3: I love it. Progress, the

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Speaker 1: Gat, the cat