1 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:08,200 Speaker 1: Looking jubils second date date. There really is only one 2 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 1: surefire way to find out if you're terrible at dating, 3 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:12,639 Speaker 1: and that's by getting a second date update from us. 4 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:15,240 Speaker 1: Would you guys agree? I actually do agree with that. Yeah, 5 00:00:15,280 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: and you can do it in front of all of Seattle. 6 00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: That's the first time Brooks ever agreed with me in public. 7 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 1: I like it. I suddenly hate myself that record. Tim 8 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:24,960 Speaker 1: is on the phone with us right now. Tim emailed 9 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: us about a girl named Charlotte. Hey, Tim, how are 10 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 1: you doing good? Um? You know, I'm just looking for 11 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 1: some answers. I guess right right. Your email said that 12 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 1: your date left before it was over. Yeah. We went 13 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:41,000 Speaker 1: out to dinner and then I went to the bathroom 14 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 1: and she was gone. Really, that's it. This isn't the 15 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:45,839 Speaker 1: first time we've heard of this. No, it's not. But 16 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 1: that's a bold move for a girl. How far into 17 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:51,320 Speaker 1: dinner were you, guys? It had been an hour, and 18 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 1: like I mean, she was just like smiling at everything 19 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:55,959 Speaker 1: I was saying, and we were having a good time, 20 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 1: and I thought she was interested. That's I was gonna 21 00:00:57,720 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: ask you, Tim, because I've skipped out on a date before. 22 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 1: In the middle love it, but the girl and I 23 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 1: were arguing the whole time, so I just left like 24 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:05,320 Speaker 1: we hated each other and I knew it. No, this 25 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:07,480 Speaker 1: didn't feel anything like that weird. Did she get a 26 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 1: phone call or anything during dinner that might suggest she 27 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:13,960 Speaker 1: had to go somewhere? I don't think so. I mean 28 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: the dinner basically was just the two of us. I mean, 29 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 1: aside from like the waitress coming over and you know, 30 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 1: serving us. But I mean, it was just unbroken contact. 31 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 1: There's not one thing that comes to your mind when 32 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:30,480 Speaker 1: you think of why. No, I'm serious, I have no idea. 33 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 1: And you only went number one in the bathroom, right, 34 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 1: It didn't take you like eight hours in there or anything. Yeah, No, 35 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:39,479 Speaker 1: I was not gone long. I went went in there 36 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 1: to do my thing, wash my hands, and come back out. 37 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 1: You tried to reach her, I mean, I've tried to 38 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 1: call her, but she doesn't return my call. Tim. Let 39 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: me ask you this. In order for you to like 40 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 1: to email us to do a second day update, you 41 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 1: must really like her, because if a girl skipped out 42 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:54,000 Speaker 1: on me like that, I'd be like whatever and not 43 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 1: want to hear from her. Agan, what'd you like so 44 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 1: much about her? She just like had this personality that 45 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 1: I thought really clipped with mine. I mean it didn't 46 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 1: hurt that she like had a super pretty face, the 47 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 1: hottest girl I've ever been. So we find out the truth. Well, 48 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 1: we have her number. We'll give her a call right 49 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 1: after this song and see if we can get your 50 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 1: second date update. Okay, thanks man looking jubil in the 51 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 1: morning date? All right, Tim's on the phone with us. Basically, 52 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:30,839 Speaker 1: he got ditched on his date. He took a girl 53 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 1: off to dinner. About an hour end, went to the bathroom. 54 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:35,240 Speaker 1: He came back to the table and she was gone. Tim, 55 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 1: how long did you wait at the table when you 56 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:41,919 Speaker 1: got back for her? I'd say at least fifteen minutes. 57 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 1: I mean I thought she was in the bathroom right right, 58 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 1: So like after fifteen minutes, I was like, something must 59 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 1: be up. So I asked our waitress if she would 60 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 1: go into the bathroom and see if she was there. 61 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:57,240 Speaker 1: She told me that she was not. That is embarrassing. 62 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 1: How much did you have to spend on dinner? I 63 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:02,920 Speaker 1: mean it was about eighty bucks. It sounds like she 64 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 1: dined and dashed on you. She should want to pay. 65 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 1: She like finish her food real quick and ran out. 66 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: All right, hey, Tim, we're gonna call it right now. 67 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 1: Get her on the phone and see if we can 68 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:16,679 Speaker 1: get your answer. Okay, all right, thank you. Feel free 69 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 1: to jump in on the phone call whenever you want. Hello, Hey, 70 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:33,079 Speaker 1: I was looking for Charlotte. Yeah, this is Charlotte. Hey, 71 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewel calling from Brook and 72 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 1: Jewel in the morning. On Moving ninety two point five, 73 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 1: we do a segment on our show called second Date Update. 74 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 1: Are you familiar with the show or the Segmentum? I 75 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: think I've heard it before. Okay, so you know that 76 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 1: somebody emailed us because they went on a date with 77 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 1: you and you haven't gotten back to them, and they 78 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 1: want to know why. Oh okay, so you haven't let 79 00:03:57,560 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 1: me explain to you what it is. That was a 80 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 1: disappointing exte n I think it was something else. The 81 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 1: second Date Update is just that you went on a 82 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 1: date with someone and blew them off. Do you know 83 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 1: what I'm talking about? Maybe? I'm not really sure. Do 84 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:16,159 Speaker 1: you often go out with guys and then halfway through 85 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 1: your dinner just leave while they're in the bathroom? No, 86 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 1: do you remember doing that? I think so? Yeah, I 87 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:32,479 Speaker 1: think that would be pretty memorable. So Tim, the guy 88 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:34,600 Speaker 1: that you went out with, emailed us because he wanted 89 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:37,279 Speaker 1: to know why you did that to him. But he 90 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:41,279 Speaker 1: kept checking his phone. Okay, you know, once or twice 91 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:43,799 Speaker 1: is fine. They kept checking it and I could see 92 00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 1: a photo on it that was like disturbing. What was 93 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 1: the photo? It was like a nude photo of somebody. Wow, 94 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 1: And let me ask you, this is that like before 95 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 1: he got up to go to the bathroom. Yeah, that 96 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:02,039 Speaker 1: was right before. But it was the thing that he 97 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 1: did next that really bothered me. What did he do 98 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 1: next after the photo came in? He kind of like giggled. 99 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 1: I mean, what if you don't know who it was from? 100 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 1: You don't know anything about the photo? Are you just 101 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 1: reading too far into it? It was just the constant 102 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 1: checking of the phone like he was. It seemed like 103 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 1: he was talking to somebody rum him. Hello, Tim is 104 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 1: on the phone with us. By the way, if you 105 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 1: haven't figured that out, oh my god, it was absolutely you. 106 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 1: I'm not getting naked photos from from anybody else, from 107 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 1: anybody else? Who else? Who's getting your naked pictures? Then? 108 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 1: What was going on was my friends knew I was 109 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 1: on a date and they were just trying to get 110 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:53,280 Speaker 1: me to look at my phone. So they were just 111 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:56,920 Speaker 1: sending me like crazy things. They were trying to ruin 112 00:05:57,000 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 1: your date. Yes, because he did and they and they 113 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 1: did and they did. Tim. Can I ask you a question, Yeah, 114 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 1: because this has happened to me before. If I'm on 115 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 1: dates and people are texting me or whatever, I always 116 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:12,720 Speaker 1: get up and go to the bathroom to respond to them. 117 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:13,720 Speaker 1: Is that why you got up to go to the 118 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 1: bathroom in the first place. Honestly, I went to the 119 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:18,359 Speaker 1: bathroom because I had to go to the bathroom, Okay, 120 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 1: not because I needed to look at some picture of 121 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 1: a naked woman on my phone. Okay, Charlotte, Yeah, why 122 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:30,040 Speaker 1: wouldn't you Why would you just leave and not say 123 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 1: anything about why you were upset? I was already embarrassed 124 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 1: at what I thought I saw, and I didn't even 125 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 1: want to like plint blank ass this guy that I 126 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 1: barely knew, like, oh you know that, yeah, your other 127 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 1: girlfriend or what you know? I just didn't. That's kind 128 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 1: of weird to do on a first date. So is 129 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:50,560 Speaker 1: leaving in the middle of the first date. Why why 130 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 1: not just tough it out and eat dinner and then 131 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 1: leave and just blow them off. Then it's like a 132 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:57,839 Speaker 1: lot of work being on a date to you know, 133 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 1: like keep up conversation. And he laughed into the bathroom, 134 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 1: and I was like, I think I would have a 135 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 1: better time at home and my Pajanna is watching kid. 136 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 1: You could have just asked me. I thought we were 137 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 1: having a good time. I thought we were really having 138 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 1: like a really good connection. And I mean, I was embarrassed, 139 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 1: and of course I giggled out of nervousness of being like, 140 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:20,160 Speaker 1: my friends are such jerks. I mean, you could have 141 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 1: just asked. I would have told you, Charlotte, I will 142 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: say this, guys are just like that. We messed with 143 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 1: each other. We do. We messed with each other. The 144 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 1: difference Tim is, don't check your phone, man, Just let 145 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 1: it vibrate in your pocket, man, if you're on a date, 146 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 1: Like That's why I said I'd go to the bathroom 147 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 1: to check it. You know, I go to the bathroom 148 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 1: maybe like fifty times on a date, but I'm checking 149 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 1: my phone when I'm there, Like, don't do it at 150 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 1: the table. Either way, it's disrespectful. Can we just ask, Charlotte, 151 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 1: do you believe Tim's story? I mean that does make sense. 152 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 1: I guess guys would do that to their friends, you know, 153 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 1: to just sort of like ras them. So yeah, I 154 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 1: believe them. We will pay for you guys to go 155 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 1: on a second date. Charlotte, What you got with him again? 156 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 1: I'm sorry? No, really, it just bothered you that much. Yeah, 157 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 1: and while you know, I'm on a dating site, I've 158 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 1: I've kind of met something off. Oh all right, there's 159 00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 1: that too, right back on her and that little tid 160 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 1: bit of information. Alright, she met him while she was 161 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 1: leaving on the way from the restaurant where she did 162 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 1: suit Tim, All right, Tim, Sorry, man didn't work out 163 00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 1: for you. Well, oh okay, at least you got those 164 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 1: naked picks on your phone to keep you company downe. Well, 165 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 1: we'll need him every morning.