WEBVTT - Financial Lessons Learned During Covid #239

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to How the Money. I'm Joel and I and

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<v Speaker 1>Matt and today we're discussing financial lessons learned during COVID

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<v Speaker 1>m Yeah, Joe, it's safe to say that our lives

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<v Speaker 1>look a lot different now than they did at the

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<v Speaker 1>beginning of the year. You know, a lot of our

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<v Speaker 1>personal finances have really taken a hit, a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>our incomes are are maybe a good bit lower than

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<v Speaker 1>they used to be. This pandemic that we've lived through

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<v Speaker 1>has certainly taught us a lot of lessons. And the

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<v Speaker 1>thing is, these are lessons that we knew to be

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<v Speaker 1>true before, but the coronavirus has heightened, you know, our

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<v Speaker 1>awareness of these truths and the impact that we have

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<v Speaker 1>on our lives. And so that's what we're gonna talk

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<v Speaker 1>about today. Man, We're gonna talk through these different lessons

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<v Speaker 1>that you and I that we've learned, that others have

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<v Speaker 1>learned during this time of financial stress. Yeah, Matt. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's been said that those who cannot learn from history

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<v Speaker 1>are doomed to repeat it for that before, right, It's

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<v Speaker 1>a popular phrase. Uh, And and so I think, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if we don't learn these lessons, if we don't kind

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<v Speaker 1>of document them, discuss them and basically learn from what

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<v Speaker 1>we've gone through, right, I mean, we are learning a

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<v Speaker 1>lot on the health front that is gonna hopefully help

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<v Speaker 1>us in the case of, you know, a potential future pandemic,

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<v Speaker 1>which I hope never happens, because this one's been pretty

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<v Speaker 1>horrible in and of itself. But there are financial lessons

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<v Speaker 1>that we should all be learning and we should put

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<v Speaker 1>to use for our future, because I think you can

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<v Speaker 1>help us whether upcoming storms, hopefully not pandemic storms in

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<v Speaker 1>our financial future, but but other financial storms that we

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<v Speaker 1>are going to go through, because they inevitably happen in

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<v Speaker 1>life to all of us at one point or another.

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<v Speaker 1>But before we get to that, Matt, I think a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of weeks ago, I mentioned a new power line

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<v Speaker 1>internet solution that that we purchased uh for homeschooling to

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<v Speaker 1>help increase the Internet in our house. And I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>people have heard of this on the show before, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Emily and I are family. We basically live

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<v Speaker 1>in this duplex that we used to have somebody living

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<v Speaker 1>in the back of our house, and now we kind

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<v Speaker 1>of taking it all over, but we still have this

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<v Speaker 1>kitchen in the back like a second kitchen, and we're

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<v Speaker 1>five people. We don't need two kitchens. Almost nobody actually

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<v Speaker 1>needs two kitchens. This is our breakfast kitchen, and lunch

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<v Speaker 1>and dinner kitchen is up front. Yeah, that sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>something a fancy person would have, right, you are pretty fancy,

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<v Speaker 1>that's true. But yeah, so this kitchen basically there, it's

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<v Speaker 1>used to storage, Like we put our bikes back there

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff right now, and we realize, man, this is

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<v Speaker 1>a perfect space to try to do homeschooling with the kids.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I'm in the process of ripping everything out

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<v Speaker 1>of the kitchen and selling off everything I can and

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<v Speaker 1>just making it a conducive space to do homeschooling. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's something that we probably wouldn't have thought about, and

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<v Speaker 1>we probably would have just left it as is for

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<v Speaker 1>a while longer or it not for this realization that, like,

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<v Speaker 1>we need extra space. We can't just be doing everything

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<v Speaker 1>in the girl's bedrooms. They already share a bedroom. If

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<v Speaker 1>we put all the schooling in there plus their toys,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's just gonna be it's gonna be a

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<v Speaker 1>close lot of stuff. Yeah. So yeah, I'm curious to

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<v Speaker 1>know kind of what our listeners are doing and maybe

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<v Speaker 1>what you're doing to Like, I'm sure so many people

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<v Speaker 1>are reconsidering their the space in their home for how

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<v Speaker 1>they're going to do childcare and schooling and all that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of stuff, because we're all in a completely different

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<v Speaker 1>boat right now. Yeah, man, And you know that's something

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<v Speaker 1>that a lot of families here in Atlanta, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>l A just other cities where schools are not opening

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<v Speaker 1>in person, where they're only opening virtually or online this fall.

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<v Speaker 1>But the thing is, in order to do that, you

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<v Speaker 1>have to have somebody to help facilitate that, someone to

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<v Speaker 1>watch the kids actually during the day. And men, you

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<v Speaker 1>and I were our families are in a position where

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<v Speaker 1>our wives it's maybe a little old school, but we're

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<v Speaker 1>lucky enough to have them be stay at home moms.

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<v Speaker 1>Those are some decisions that we have proactively made. But

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<v Speaker 1>what that means is that we're lucky enough to have

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<v Speaker 1>someone to oversee and facilitate that learning while the kids

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<v Speaker 1>are at home. But man, we know that that is

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<v Speaker 1>not the case for everyone. There's a lot of individuals

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<v Speaker 1>who you know, we're both parents need to work, or

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<v Speaker 1>if it's a single parent household, like that parent has

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<v Speaker 1>to go back to work. Uh, and they're in a

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<v Speaker 1>tough position to where they're having to figure out what

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<v Speaker 1>childcare looks like for them as they go back to work,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. And the thing is, not very many employers

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<v Speaker 1>are offering any type of backup childcare or any additional

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<v Speaker 1>benefits to help take care of those situations. Yeah. Sure,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a stressfhold place to be in if especially if

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<v Speaker 1>you have to go into a physical location to work.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're working from home, that's hard enough, right to

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<v Speaker 1>multitask and do both, But if you actually have to

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<v Speaker 1>hop in the car go somewhere for work, how in

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<v Speaker 1>the world if you're a single parent or both parents

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<v Speaker 1>have to go into work, do you even come close

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<v Speaker 1>to making sure your kids taken care of. We talked

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<v Speaker 1>about pod schooling a while back, and that's one thing

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<v Speaker 1>that some people are considering, and I think that can

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<v Speaker 1>be helpful a small group of people and in your

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<v Speaker 1>community doing school together with other kids that are in

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<v Speaker 1>the same class or same grade. I think too, it's

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<v Speaker 1>really important for a lot of parents right now to

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<v Speaker 1>petition their their boss, to talk to someone in HR

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<v Speaker 1>and see what's available, and to see if that company

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<v Speaker 1>is willing to make more resources available when it comes

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<v Speaker 1>to childcare, because obviously we're all just kind of winging

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<v Speaker 1>it at the end of the school year last year.

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<v Speaker 1>But at this point, I think employers have had enough

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<v Speaker 1>time to kind of put some thought into Okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>asking you to come back to work, I need you

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<v Speaker 1>to be this productive. But at the same time, the

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<v Speaker 1>options are pretty slim when it comes to how you

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<v Speaker 1>handle childcare. And and so, yeah, I think employers do

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<v Speaker 1>have a role to play in this conversation. And as

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<v Speaker 1>an employee, I think you have every right to ask

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<v Speaker 1>for your employer to help be a part of the

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<v Speaker 1>solution in that case. Yeah, And personally, what I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to see is like an employer trying to create

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<v Speaker 1>their own daycare but instead, like you kind of hinted

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<v Speaker 1>at this, but like just compensation, right, like additional funds,

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<v Speaker 1>additional money, uh, that's kind of earmarked for childcare, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and then allow the individual employees to to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>what is going to work best for them, because maybe

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<v Speaker 1>for someone they were going to have a parent come

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<v Speaker 1>and watch the you know, the kids, the grandkids, but

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<v Speaker 1>knowing that there's compensation evolved might make that decision a

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<v Speaker 1>lot a lot easier. Um, it's not a matter of

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<v Speaker 1>having to create, uh, you know, this daycare program there

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<v Speaker 1>on site or something crazy like that, although some employers

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<v Speaker 1>are doing at But I think it would be more

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<v Speaker 1>efficient and just a smarter use of time and money

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<v Speaker 1>if you're able to to leave it up to the individual.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I couldn't agree more though. It's just to

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<v Speaker 1>advocate for what it is that you need, because I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>in the end, it's sort of supply in demand, right

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<v Speaker 1>Like if employeers are seeing that, man, a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>employees are demanding this, there's this other employer that is

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<v Speaker 1>offering this. Well, you know, those employees are gonna see

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<v Speaker 1>that that's a benefit that another company offers and they

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to lose those those great employees. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's expensive to train and recruit rehire employees. And

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<v Speaker 1>at the very least, I think if your employer isn't

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<v Speaker 1>doing anything to help you out when on the childcare front,

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<v Speaker 1>you need to start the conversation now based on kind

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<v Speaker 1>of what your school is doing, whether your kids going

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<v Speaker 1>back to school or whether your kid is is homeschooling

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<v Speaker 1>for the fall. You need to have that conversation now

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<v Speaker 1>about what your work days look like and what the

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<v Speaker 1>level of productivity expectation can be. And employers are definitely

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have to be flexible on that front. I know

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<v Speaker 1>if I was a single parent with two kids at

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<v Speaker 1>home going to school trying to work as well, my

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<v Speaker 1>productivity would would suffer greatly and I would hope that

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<v Speaker 1>my employer would be understanding. And that's a conversation. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that needs to start now, if if it hasn't already, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the sooner the better, for sure. On that, Let's go

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<v Speaker 1>ahead and introduce our beer for this episode. Man, we

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<v Speaker 1>are having Modus the Vendi and this is by the

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<v Speaker 1>Wild Beer Company, and I'm looking forward to sharing our

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<v Speaker 1>thoughts on this one, Buddy at the end of the episode. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this breweries out of the UK. Looking forward to having

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<v Speaker 1>a foreign beer on today's episode. Yeah, so all right,

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<v Speaker 1>But let's get onto the topic at hand, financial lessons

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<v Speaker 1>learned during COVID, Matt. I don't think any of us

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<v Speaker 1>ever expected to live through a pandemic. It wasn't not

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<v Speaker 1>my radar. I know my mom was reading books about

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<v Speaker 1>ebola back in the nineties and she's a nurse. She's

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<v Speaker 1>a nurse, so she's like an upper ally. Yeah, she's

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<v Speaker 1>interested in that stuff. And and so I was always like,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, cool, that sounds like that's it's like a

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<v Speaker 1>Grisham novel or something like that, But it never felt

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<v Speaker 1>like it could actually be reality. But it is our

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<v Speaker 1>reality right now. Right the current health crisis has had

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<v Speaker 1>this domino like effect on so many other areas of

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<v Speaker 1>our lives. We just talked about childcare, but of course

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<v Speaker 1>finances as well. Some of our listeners have filed for

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<v Speaker 1>unemployment for the first time, others have been furloughed, and

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<v Speaker 1>others have just kind of seen what's happening around them

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<v Speaker 1>and felt this keen sense of a need to say

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<v Speaker 1>more money. Right. And so today on the show, Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>you and I were gonna share some of the financial

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<v Speaker 1>lessons that really seem to stick out like a sore

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<v Speaker 1>thumb due to the impact of COVID on our lives.

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<v Speaker 1>Because again, there are things we can take away there,

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<v Speaker 1>there are lessons we can learn that are gonna help

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<v Speaker 1>improve our financial trajectory from today moving forward. Yeah, man,

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, some of these lessons we're going to discuss,

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<v Speaker 1>they are probably something you've thought of already because you know, like,

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<v Speaker 1>how could you not, especially if you've you know, listened

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<v Speaker 1>to the show for a while. But there are gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be some other financial lessons that we're gonna share that

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<v Speaker 1>might feel brand new to you. But the impact of

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<v Speaker 1>COVID has certainly taught us all a good bit. There

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<v Speaker 1>are some broader macro money lessons that we've learned as

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<v Speaker 1>a just as a whole society, But we're gonna stick

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<v Speaker 1>mostly to you know, personal finance in this episode because

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<v Speaker 1>that's what we do, man, That's what we talk about. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>for sure, Matt. I think one of the first lessons

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<v Speaker 1>that we need to mention that sticks out to me

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<v Speaker 1>that I've learned through going through a pandemic was that

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<v Speaker 1>emotions influence how we handle money in just a major way.

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<v Speaker 1>Human emotion can be this simultaneously wonderful and terrible thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Emotions can create the most beautiful feelings that lead to

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<v Speaker 1>wonderful action, right, like like an incredible piece of art.

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<v Speaker 1>Often those are inspired by an overwhelming emotion, right, But

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<v Speaker 1>it can also lead us to eat a whole pint

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<v Speaker 1>of ice cream in one sitting. I know you're eating

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<v Speaker 1>the all the ice cream though in one sitting Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>if if that happens to you, I have been known

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<v Speaker 1>to lack some self control when it comes to eating

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<v Speaker 1>ice cream, especially the good all these stuff. Right, But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're we're all dealing with a lot right now from

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<v Speaker 1>the pandemic. Racial injustice is a real issue in our

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<v Speaker 1>country right now, and it's an election here, so emotions

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<v Speaker 1>are running high, and because of that, many of us

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<v Speaker 1>are dealing with wider emotional swings. And it's just to me,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so clear that the emotions that are happening around

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<v Speaker 1>us interpersonal emotions to Matt with with people that were

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<v Speaker 1>close to It's harder on parent child relationships, it's harder

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<v Speaker 1>on partner relationships right now. And I think the increased

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<v Speaker 1>emotional tension is affecting the way people actually handle their

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<v Speaker 1>dollars and cents too. Yeah, like you mentioned, even on

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<v Speaker 1>a personal level, right you know, Like we just talked

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<v Speaker 1>about childcare difficulties at the top of the show, but

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<v Speaker 1>even that can create higher psychological distress levels. Our emotions

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<v Speaker 1>can cause us to follow these different urges to maybe

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<v Speaker 1>spend more money or to sell stocks in a panic.

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<v Speaker 1>Even just being aware of the fact that emotion can

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<v Speaker 1>wreak havoc on our finances that can help us to

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<v Speaker 1>take solid action to do something hopefully differently, in something

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<v Speaker 1>that's a little bit more smart. You might just need

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<v Speaker 1>to to reframe things mentally, or you know, you might

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<v Speaker 1>need a trusted friend to talk to you off the

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<v Speaker 1>ledge before maybe making a harmful money move. Yeah, sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>it's hard to recognize kind of the emotion that's overtaken

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<v Speaker 1>us until we've made the poor decision, Until we see

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<v Speaker 1>the empty ice cream pint on the couch next to us,

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<v Speaker 1>we're like, oh, yeah, that's what happened. And that's just

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<v Speaker 1>common for so many of us. It's hard to see

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<v Speaker 1>it coming on. It's hard to know that the emotion

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<v Speaker 1>is overtaking us and is leading to disastrous results. And

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, I think Matt kind of putting things in

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<v Speaker 1>place that can help you realize those emotions. Having, like

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<v Speaker 1>you said, uh, someone to bounce something off of so

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<v Speaker 1>you don't make a catastrophic money money move in a

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<v Speaker 1>particularly emotional time is incredibly beneficial. And then right if

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<v Speaker 1>you've made a bad financial move, I feel like that

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<v Speaker 1>then feeds into feeling more stressed and it becomes this

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<v Speaker 1>kind of perpetuating cycle if we can't stop it, and

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<v Speaker 1>over time, like money in security leads to poor mental health. Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>We've talked about this on the show before, but but

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<v Speaker 1>not having a solid financial foundation leads to increased levels

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<v Speaker 1>of stress and that UH studies then show that your

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<v Speaker 1>i Q decreases by about a dozen points when your

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<v Speaker 1>stress levels go up. There are very few of us

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<v Speaker 1>who perform better at work and make better financial decisions

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<v Speaker 1>when our brains feel fried. And so I just think

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<v Speaker 1>that's where a lot of people are right now. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's so so important to realize the impact that emotions

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<v Speaker 1>can have on the way that we we handle our

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<v Speaker 1>money because they have so much more power than we

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<v Speaker 1>typically realize. And on a personal finance show, Matt, we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about the steps are the numbers, But emotion play

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<v Speaker 1>such a huge part of how we handle our personal finances,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think that needs to be acknowledged and it's

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<v Speaker 1>something that more people in the personal finance fear should

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<v Speaker 1>be talking about. Yeah, that's a lot of talk about

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<v Speaker 1>emotions in our minds, right, but you know, we do

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<v Speaker 1>feel that that's an important place to start because so

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<v Speaker 1>much of personal finance has to do with what goes

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<v Speaker 1>on inside of our heads. It's not just about knowing

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<v Speaker 1>the right actions and right steps to take, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not just about the tips and tricks. Psychology and

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<v Speaker 1>our our human behavior that plays a large role. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>Now that we've covered all of that, let's go ahead

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<v Speaker 1>and get to some more of these, maybe more tangible

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<v Speaker 1>financial lessons that we've learned due to COVID and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>get to those right after the break. We're back from

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<v Speaker 1>the break. We're talking about financial lessons that we've learned

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<v Speaker 1>during the pandemic, and Matt, let's talk about some of

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<v Speaker 1>the takeaways that that we've had, things that we knew

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<v Speaker 1>but but things that have become even more apparent of

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<v Speaker 1>their level of importance. And one thing I think that

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<v Speaker 1>just sticks out like a sore thumb, probably the thing

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<v Speaker 1>that most people are feeling right now, is the importance

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<v Speaker 1>of having a solid emergency fund, of having cash on hand.

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<v Speaker 1>Right even though I think over the last ten years,

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<v Speaker 1>in particular, the idea of having more cash in the

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<v Speaker 1>bank has become downplayed. A lot of people were prone

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<v Speaker 1>to prode you to invest that money, because why are

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<v Speaker 1>you letting it sit around? And savings earning very little, right,

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<v Speaker 1>especially as the stock market has been performing incredibly well,

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<v Speaker 1>it just became more popular to frown on holding cash

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<v Speaker 1>in those savings accounts, but then having money in the

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<v Speaker 1>bank a minimum of roughly tred but you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>and I are fans of people having six plus months

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<v Speaker 1>of living expenses in the bank that they have a

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<v Speaker 1>liquid access to. It became so much more vital as

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<v Speaker 1>Americans were were no longer able to work and earn

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<v Speaker 1>an income. So many Americans I think of Americans the

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<v Speaker 1>last I saw, had their income negatively affected because of

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<v Speaker 1>the pandemic, whether that was a full on job loss

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<v Speaker 1>or even just being able to earn less because of

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<v Speaker 1>what's opening. Yeah, and having cash on hand. Essentially, what

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking about here is an emergency fund, right and

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully you rarely need to tap that emergency fund, but

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<v Speaker 1>if you do, it is important to have a financial

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<v Speaker 1>fire drill in place, knowing how you'll respond to different

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<v Speaker 1>financial scenarios that can take the stress down quite a bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Even if you're barely saving any money currently, Knowing what

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<v Speaker 1>and how much you can cut back if times get tough,

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<v Speaker 1>that's gonna be comforting to you, you know, man for us,

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<v Speaker 1>I know that we typically spend around four hundred bucks

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<v Speaker 1>every month just to go about to eat, but I

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<v Speaker 1>know that we don't need to do that every month.

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<v Speaker 1>We also put a set amount towards saving for Christmas

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<v Speaker 1>gifts as well as vacation every year. But again, I

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<v Speaker 1>know that if we were in a tight spot, we

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<v Speaker 1>could hit pause and get by on a whole lot less.

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<v Speaker 1>And so having that plan and knowing how it is

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<v Speaker 1>that we could cut back, you know, just knowing that

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<v Speaker 1>there's some legal room there that definitely gives me some

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<v Speaker 1>peace of mind. Yeah. I think in in middle school

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<v Speaker 1>or something like that, Matt, we were supposed to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of figure out our house how we would escape in

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<v Speaker 1>the event of a fire. And I totally remember that right, like,

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<v Speaker 1>we were supposed to meet as a family in one

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<v Speaker 1>particular area, this is the best way to get out

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<v Speaker 1>of the house, all that kind of stuff, And and

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good exercise to go through as a family,

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<v Speaker 1>to actually think about what would happen in the event

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<v Speaker 1>of a legitimate fire in your house. But then, but

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, doing something similar with your finances and thinking through, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>if stuff hits the fan, what do we do and

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<v Speaker 1>and what are the first things that we cut immediately?

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<v Speaker 1>What could our budget look like? What could we live on?

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<v Speaker 1>That's so so helpful and and having that financial fire

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<v Speaker 1>drill in place is something I think so many people

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<v Speaker 1>would would benefit from. Yeah, man. And you know what's

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<v Speaker 1>interesting too, is that we've seen people make changes to

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<v Speaker 1>their spending. I think even if they haven't really thought through,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, what steps they could take. We've seen because

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<v Speaker 1>of the pandemic that upping your savings rate by spending

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<v Speaker 1>less that it is almost always possible. Hopefully a less

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<v Speaker 1>in our country has learned from the pandemic is that

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<v Speaker 1>we don't need to spend as much as we are

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<v Speaker 1>actually guilty of spending. Uh. The recent increased savings rate numbers, man,

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<v Speaker 1>that's evidence that it actually can be done. As job

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<v Speaker 1>losses piled up there, there were just millions of people

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<v Speaker 1>getting laid off in an incredibly short period of time,

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<v Speaker 1>but at the same time, we saw the savings rate

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<v Speaker 1>in America that it was actually increasing. That is in

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<v Speaker 1>large part because we couldn't go out and spend money

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<v Speaker 1>like we usually would, and that has led to a

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<v Speaker 1>realization for many that we can get by by spending less,

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<v Speaker 1>and that our budgets are more in our control than

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<v Speaker 1>you know we sometimes think. Yeah, So another lesson learned,

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<v Speaker 1>upgrading your savings rate by spending less is almost always possible.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's one of the most common excuses

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<v Speaker 1>when people talk about personal finance. It's I can't cut anymore,

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<v Speaker 1>like there's nothing left. And for so many people that's

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<v Speaker 1>just not the case. We found that out. And if

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<v Speaker 1>you actually look at your budget and you actually comb

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<v Speaker 1>through your credit card bills and you see what you're

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<v Speaker 1>spending money on every single month, I guarantee there's something

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<v Speaker 1>that ninety five plus percent of us could find that

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't need to be there, or a bill that can

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<v Speaker 1>be slashed in some way, form or fashion. And so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>upping your savings rate it's almost always possible. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's something that we've we've learned as we've seen, like

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<v Speaker 1>you said, historic job losses, and yet UH savings rates

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<v Speaker 1>increases across the board at the same time. Another lesson, though, Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>that we've learned during the pandemic is that prioritizing debt

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<v Speaker 1>payoff is almost never a bad idea. And I do

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<v Speaker 1>stress almost and I'm gonna get to that in just

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<v Speaker 1>a second. Why. But yeah, working towards not having debt

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<v Speaker 1>is this foundational, uh personal finance principle right at the

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<v Speaker 1>core of wealth building. It's in the fact that we

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<v Speaker 1>need to be earning interests and not paying it out

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<v Speaker 1>to the banks that it puts us in a tough position, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And so you and I were fans of helping people

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<v Speaker 1>think through debt payoff in order to get in a

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<v Speaker 1>stronger financial position. But at the same time, while eliminating

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<v Speaker 1>debt is so helpful to a person's financial journey, it's

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<v Speaker 1>actually even more important when the infected respiratory droplets hit

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<v Speaker 1>the fan, right, the entire country stays at home and

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<v Speaker 1>you lose your job. So like, while student loan deferments

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<v Speaker 1>and other programs to postpone debt payments, they've been nice,

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<v Speaker 1>but think about how much better it would be if

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't have those loans altogether, if you had come

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<v Speaker 1>up with a plan to pay off those debts quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>I did say that the lesson was that it's almost

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<v Speaker 1>never a bad idea, right. So on the flip side,

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<v Speaker 1>eliminating that emergency fund that we just talked about in

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<v Speaker 1>order to get rid of your debt more quickly. Places

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<v Speaker 1>too high of a priority on debt elimination in most cases,

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<v Speaker 1>because in the event of job loss, it's nice, of

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<v Speaker 1>course to not have a student loan payment, It's nice,

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<v Speaker 1>of course to not have a mortgage, but if you

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<v Speaker 1>paid those off quickly at the expense of having any

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<v Speaker 1>cash in the bank. To whether you throw any sort

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<v Speaker 1>of storm, that is I would say when you put

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<v Speaker 1>maybe a little too much emphasis on the debt payoff thing, right, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>hot priority is maintaining that emergency fund, having that cushion,

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<v Speaker 1>having that financial margin. Another lesson that we've learned man

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<v Speaker 1>from the pandemic is that no career is completely solid. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>And this is a lesson that I can speak to

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<v Speaker 1>you from personal experience. Okay, Now, we began shooting weddings

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<v Speaker 1>full time back in two thousand and eight, and at

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<v Speaker 1>the time business grew like crazy. Man, like you, we

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<v Speaker 1>would quickly realize that, like wow, this is an industry

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<v Speaker 1>that is basically a recession proof. No matter what is

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<v Speaker 1>going on with the economy, people continue to get married

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<v Speaker 1>even during the Great Session. But you know, while the

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<v Speaker 1>wedding industry is recession proof, it's definitely not pandemic proof.

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<v Speaker 1>Needless to say, uh, there have been many many weddings

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<v Speaker 1>that have been canceled or postponed, which also means that

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<v Speaker 1>there have been many wedding professionals who have had their

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<v Speaker 1>income canceled or postponed. So thankfully, man, if you know,

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<v Speaker 1>in our case, we're doing fine. Over the years, we've

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<v Speaker 1>transitioned to taking on fewer weddings, and we have diversified

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<v Speaker 1>or income through real estate and even side gigs like podcasting.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's important to develop alternate ways to to make

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<v Speaker 1>a living. And ideally, again we're you're doing this before

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<v Speaker 1>you actually need it, because sometimes if you're gonna wait

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<v Speaker 1>until you need it, it's a little bit too late. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It makes me think about a long time ago when

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<v Speaker 1>we had Jordan Harbinger on the show and he gives

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<v Speaker 1>the example of digging the well before you're thirsty. He

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<v Speaker 1>specifically talks about networking right and how having those contacts

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<v Speaker 1>before you lose your job or before you go through

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<v Speaker 1>a tough career situation, that having those relationships and staying

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<v Speaker 1>in contact with people that can be influential in your

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<v Speaker 1>future job decisions is so a clutch and I love

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<v Speaker 1>that idea. I also love that idea of digging that

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<v Speaker 1>well before your thirsty when it comes to having multiple

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<v Speaker 1>streams of income, Matt, if you hadn't thought about that

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<v Speaker 1>years ago, if you weren't working towards a more diversified

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<v Speaker 1>way of earning money, you'd probably be going through a really,

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<v Speaker 1>really difficult time right now seeing a lot of those

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<v Speaker 1>weddings basically just vanished. Try out. Yeah, So I just

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<v Speaker 1>would encourage everybody out there to know that their career

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<v Speaker 1>as solid as they might have thought it was. The

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<v Speaker 1>industry maybe that was recession proof, or maybe they're the

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<v Speaker 1>number one producer at their job, but that industry has

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<v Speaker 1>been affected just in a massive way right now, and

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<v Speaker 1>maybe they're not on solid footing anymore. Realizing that your career,

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<v Speaker 1>that no career is completely solid is is definitely I

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<v Speaker 1>think one of the lessons that we've learned during this pandemic,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's something that we can take to heart and

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<v Speaker 1>we can make changes to actually strengthen our personal finances

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<v Speaker 1>in the future. And ultimately maybe it's just a call

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<v Speaker 1>to say, be a little clear eyed about this and

0:20:55.880 --> 0:20:58.800
<v Speaker 1>don't just assume that the job that you're in is

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<v Speaker 1>going to continue to provide for you no matter what.

0:21:01.400 --> 0:21:03.760
<v Speaker 1>It's important for you to have a plan, even for

0:21:03.880 --> 0:21:07.000
<v Speaker 1>the unlikeliest of situations. Yeah, I like what you said, man,

0:21:07.040 --> 0:21:09.879
<v Speaker 1>about your specific job. You might feel pretty secure about that.

0:21:09.880 --> 0:21:12.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, you might feel really good about your specific company.

0:21:12.359 --> 0:21:14.480
<v Speaker 1>But aside from whether or not your specific company is

0:21:14.480 --> 0:21:16.600
<v Speaker 1>doing well, like the industry as a whole might collapse,

0:21:16.640 --> 0:21:18.679
<v Speaker 1>you know, like it did for us. And so, Man,

0:21:18.720 --> 0:21:20.080
<v Speaker 1>at the heart of it, what we're talking about here

0:21:20.119 --> 0:21:23.080
<v Speaker 1>is diversification of income. But after the break, we're gonna

0:21:23.080 --> 0:21:26.359
<v Speaker 1>talk about diversification in another way. We're gonna talk about it, uh,

0:21:26.480 --> 0:21:29.320
<v Speaker 1>in your portfolio, in what it is that you invest in,

0:21:29.359 --> 0:21:41.120
<v Speaker 1>and we'll get to that right after the break. We're

0:21:41.119 --> 0:21:43.480
<v Speaker 1>back from the break. Of course, we're talking about the

0:21:43.520 --> 0:21:46.240
<v Speaker 1>pandemic and how it has affected our finances, and there's

0:21:46.240 --> 0:21:47.760
<v Speaker 1>some lessons that we can learn and we can take

0:21:47.760 --> 0:21:50.640
<v Speaker 1>those lessons and kind of implement them into how we

0:21:50.800 --> 0:21:54.240
<v Speaker 1>begin to build our financial lives from today moving forward.

0:21:54.520 --> 0:21:56.840
<v Speaker 1>And that we just talked about how no career, no

0:21:57.000 --> 0:21:59.919
<v Speaker 1>specific job, is completely solid, right, and so it's in

0:22:00.000 --> 0:22:02.919
<v Speaker 1>iportant for us to be diversified when it comes to

0:22:03.119 --> 0:22:05.960
<v Speaker 1>how we make money. But yeah, diversification in in what

0:22:06.000 --> 0:22:08.680
<v Speaker 1>we invest in is crucial to the stock market was

0:22:08.720 --> 0:22:11.920
<v Speaker 1>hammered right in March and April, and some individual stocks

0:22:11.920 --> 0:22:14.760
<v Speaker 1>in particular are still feeling the pain and and they

0:22:14.760 --> 0:22:17.760
<v Speaker 1>haven't recovered in the slightest. Other companies have seen increased

0:22:17.800 --> 0:22:20.679
<v Speaker 1>demands for their products and services due to COVID, and

0:22:20.720 --> 0:22:24.040
<v Speaker 1>the market is reflecting that right their stocks are sky high.

0:22:24.240 --> 0:22:27.320
<v Speaker 1>But but who could have predicted these exact outcomes? Now,

0:22:27.440 --> 0:22:30.480
<v Speaker 1>you or I'm at I wouldn't have predicted Tesla's meteoric rise.

0:22:30.720 --> 0:22:35.000
<v Speaker 1>And diversification in your investing is always key because it

0:22:35.160 --> 0:22:37.960
<v Speaker 1>is so hard for us as individuals one to know

0:22:38.000 --> 0:22:39.800
<v Speaker 1>what's coming and then too to know how that's going

0:22:39.840 --> 0:22:43.280
<v Speaker 1>to influence the markets and businesses and and their demand

0:22:43.320 --> 0:22:45.439
<v Speaker 1>for their services. Yeah, that's right, man, And that's why

0:22:45.520 --> 0:22:49.439
<v Speaker 1>we don't recommend single stock investing. We recommend buying the

0:22:49.600 --> 0:22:54.040
<v Speaker 1>entire stock market, basically investing into the entire U S economy.

0:22:54.080 --> 0:22:56.800
<v Speaker 1>Another lesson that we we've learned due to the pandemic

0:22:57.000 --> 0:22:59.760
<v Speaker 1>is that we need to invest for decades, not for years.

0:23:00.040 --> 0:23:02.200
<v Speaker 1>You know, if you many ay changes to your investments

0:23:02.200 --> 0:23:04.600
<v Speaker 1>this past spring, maybe other than buying as much as

0:23:04.640 --> 0:23:08.200
<v Speaker 1>you could, Uh, you need to rethink you're investing prime horizon.

0:23:08.480 --> 0:23:11.359
<v Speaker 1>We wouldn't recommend investing money in the stock market unless

0:23:11.359 --> 0:23:13.960
<v Speaker 1>you're willing to not touch it for five or you know,

0:23:14.000 --> 0:23:17.639
<v Speaker 1>ideally seven years. If you're looking to the headlines and

0:23:17.680 --> 0:23:20.160
<v Speaker 1>you know you're buying and selling stocks on a daily basis,

0:23:20.480 --> 0:23:23.639
<v Speaker 1>that's not actually investing. It's just speculating. Yeah, boy, And

0:23:23.680 --> 0:23:26.560
<v Speaker 1>isn't that Another lesson that we've learned in the COVID

0:23:26.600 --> 0:23:30.400
<v Speaker 1>times is that speculating can cause a lot of financial harm.

0:23:30.480 --> 0:23:32.879
<v Speaker 1>There's been so many stories written about Robin Hood training

0:23:33.040 --> 0:23:36.520
<v Speaker 1>and youngsters in particular getting into the stock market in

0:23:36.560 --> 0:23:39.280
<v Speaker 1>this kind of tumultuous and volatile time, and so many

0:23:39.320 --> 0:23:41.240
<v Speaker 1>of them it looks like for a minute that they've

0:23:41.240 --> 0:23:43.080
<v Speaker 1>just made a ton of money and then they get crushed.

0:23:43.320 --> 0:23:46.040
<v Speaker 1>And you're right, Matt, that speculation that is not investing.

0:23:46.320 --> 0:23:48.320
<v Speaker 1>So another lesson we need to learn is what our

0:23:48.359 --> 0:23:51.000
<v Speaker 1>investing strategy should be. And I think there's a quote

0:23:51.000 --> 0:23:52.960
<v Speaker 1>from Warren Buffett that sums us up well. He says

0:23:53.280 --> 0:23:55.199
<v Speaker 1>that we should be fearful when others are greedy, and

0:23:55.240 --> 0:23:58.639
<v Speaker 1>greedy when others are fearful, and there will be volatility

0:23:58.640 --> 0:24:00.399
<v Speaker 1>in the market. We've talked about that before, but we

0:24:00.440 --> 0:24:02.360
<v Speaker 1>have to train ourselves to kind of see those drops

0:24:02.640 --> 0:24:05.080
<v Speaker 1>as the market going on sale, not as a sign

0:24:05.080 --> 0:24:06.720
<v Speaker 1>that we're gonna lose everything and it's time to bail

0:24:06.760 --> 0:24:08.919
<v Speaker 1>out of our investments. But at the same time, not

0:24:09.040 --> 0:24:12.239
<v Speaker 1>buying individual stocks when they're on sale, because we do that,

0:24:12.359 --> 0:24:14.200
<v Speaker 1>especially as so many people are doing right now, is

0:24:14.280 --> 0:24:17.800
<v Speaker 1>kind of armchair investors without much knowledge going into the

0:24:17.880 --> 0:24:20.800
<v Speaker 1>trades you're making on specific companies. That's when you put

0:24:20.840 --> 0:24:23.600
<v Speaker 1>a whole lot of your personal wealth at risk. Yeah, man,

0:24:23.640 --> 0:24:26.640
<v Speaker 1>So those are some thoughts on investing right. Another lesson

0:24:26.760 --> 0:24:29.239
<v Speaker 1>that we've learned is that it is important for us

0:24:29.280 --> 0:24:32.199
<v Speaker 1>to prepare for the inevitable. People are dying, man, but

0:24:32.240 --> 0:24:33.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, because of a virus that most of us

0:24:33.840 --> 0:24:37.000
<v Speaker 1>didn't see coming. But we all know that, like someday

0:24:37.000 --> 0:24:39.080
<v Speaker 1>that we are going to die, right, and so making

0:24:39.119 --> 0:24:41.960
<v Speaker 1>sure that we are preparing for that is important. Uh. This,

0:24:42.400 --> 0:24:44.080
<v Speaker 1>you know likely means that you need to make sure

0:24:44.119 --> 0:24:46.480
<v Speaker 1>that you have a will and creating steps maybe for

0:24:46.480 --> 0:24:49.240
<v Speaker 1>your your significant other, your partner to know how to

0:24:49.280 --> 0:24:51.600
<v Speaker 1>handle the finances if you were to die and that

0:24:51.680 --> 0:24:53.360
<v Speaker 1>was you know, one of the roles that you took

0:24:53.400 --> 0:24:55.840
<v Speaker 1>on in your relationship. I mean, at the very least,

0:24:55.840 --> 0:24:57.640
<v Speaker 1>it's important for them to know where the passports are,

0:24:57.640 --> 0:24:59.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, like for them to be able to log

0:24:59.840 --> 0:25:02.440
<v Speaker 1>in the accounts that you jointly hold together. That way

0:25:02.480 --> 0:25:05.640
<v Speaker 1>their personal finances can continue, that way their financial life

0:25:05.680 --> 0:25:08.760
<v Speaker 1>doesn't get up ended. Yeah. Man, that provides so much

0:25:08.840 --> 0:25:10.680
<v Speaker 1>peace of mind in the here and now when things

0:25:10.720 --> 0:25:14.240
<v Speaker 1>are kind of in a crazy state all around us.

0:25:14.560 --> 0:25:16.760
<v Speaker 1>Knowing that you have a will in place, that you

0:25:16.800 --> 0:25:19.919
<v Speaker 1>have life insurance, that you have access to those passwords,

0:25:20.119 --> 0:25:23.280
<v Speaker 1>and that you've communicated well about you know, the inevitable happening.

0:25:23.440 --> 0:25:25.800
<v Speaker 1>It's such a healthy conversation to have, but nobody wants

0:25:25.840 --> 0:25:27.760
<v Speaker 1>to have it. It's not fun. But it is one

0:25:27.800 --> 0:25:29.680
<v Speaker 1>of those things that that I think we've seen as

0:25:29.680 --> 0:25:31.840
<v Speaker 1>a lesson is that it's important, and it feels like

0:25:31.880 --> 0:25:34.320
<v Speaker 1>it's even more important right now. Yeah, so true, But

0:25:34.359 --> 0:25:36.320
<v Speaker 1>like you said, it's not fun, Like, that's not a

0:25:36.400 --> 0:25:38.560
<v Speaker 1>conversation with My wife wants to hear me say. It's like, Hey,

0:25:38.840 --> 0:25:40.840
<v Speaker 1>when I die, here's how you can log into everything

0:25:40.880 --> 0:25:42.960
<v Speaker 1>and make sure that you continue living your life, you know,

0:25:43.600 --> 0:25:46.359
<v Speaker 1>but that doesn't mean it's any less important, Joel. One

0:25:46.400 --> 0:25:48.960
<v Speaker 1>other lesson too, that we've learned is that money, man,

0:25:49.040 --> 0:25:51.719
<v Speaker 1>it's not everything. You know. The pandemic has for for

0:25:51.720 --> 0:25:54.480
<v Speaker 1>many of us, helped us realize that while being financially

0:25:54.560 --> 0:25:58.040
<v Speaker 1>secure through smart money management, it's great, but money does

0:25:58.119 --> 0:26:00.160
<v Speaker 1>have its limits. Many of us have been separated from

0:26:00.200 --> 0:26:02.919
<v Speaker 1>family and from friends, and hopefully a lot of us

0:26:02.920 --> 0:26:05.400
<v Speaker 1>have realized that those relationships that they mean so much

0:26:05.400 --> 0:26:08.040
<v Speaker 1>more to us than having a padded bank account, than

0:26:08.160 --> 0:26:10.400
<v Speaker 1>having all of our ducks lined up and where we're

0:26:10.400 --> 0:26:12.960
<v Speaker 1>not having to worry about our finances quite as much.

0:26:13.440 --> 0:26:16.080
<v Speaker 1>Relationships also mean a whole lot to us. Yeah, and

0:26:16.119 --> 0:26:18.400
<v Speaker 1>whether we've kept our job or we've had a pay cut,

0:26:18.440 --> 0:26:21.200
<v Speaker 1>what whatever position we're in, I think there's a lot

0:26:21.240 --> 0:26:23.680
<v Speaker 1>for us to be thankful for and grateful for, even

0:26:23.680 --> 0:26:25.360
<v Speaker 1>if COVID has thrown kind of a wrench in our

0:26:25.359 --> 0:26:27.840
<v Speaker 1>plans and and a wrench specifically in some of our

0:26:27.880 --> 0:26:31.680
<v Speaker 1>financial plans. I think also too, you know, money isn't everything. Yes,

0:26:31.720 --> 0:26:34.040
<v Speaker 1>that's an important lesson to learn, and at the same time,

0:26:34.040 --> 0:26:36.680
<v Speaker 1>being thankful for the good health that we'd have. I mean,

0:26:36.720 --> 0:26:40.120
<v Speaker 1>I know, I'm acutely aware of the fact that, you know, one,

0:26:40.240 --> 0:26:43.199
<v Speaker 1>we haven't gotten COVID, and too, I've been able to

0:26:43.320 --> 0:26:46.359
<v Speaker 1>enjoy my healthy body, like during these times going on

0:26:46.400 --> 0:26:48.399
<v Speaker 1>bike rides with the kids, and when you look at

0:26:48.400 --> 0:26:50.960
<v Speaker 1>the mounting cases of COVID and the people battling for

0:26:51.040 --> 0:26:53.400
<v Speaker 1>their lives and and many people having lost their lives,

0:26:53.600 --> 0:26:56.000
<v Speaker 1>I think we've definitely learned that not taking our health

0:26:56.080 --> 0:26:59.359
<v Speaker 1>for granted is important. We're not promised tomorrow, none of us, right,

0:26:59.560 --> 0:27:02.919
<v Speaker 1>and so be thankful having gratitude for what we currently

0:27:02.960 --> 0:27:05.399
<v Speaker 1>do have in our lives, the relationships, but then also

0:27:05.840 --> 0:27:07.760
<v Speaker 1>good health. That's certainly a lesson I want to learn

0:27:07.920 --> 0:27:10.000
<v Speaker 1>and I want to kind of continue to implement in

0:27:10.040 --> 0:27:12.480
<v Speaker 1>my life from from here on out. Yeah, I mean,

0:27:12.480 --> 0:27:15.520
<v Speaker 1>COVID it's impacted us all in different ways, but hopefully

0:27:15.600 --> 0:27:18.560
<v Speaker 1>we've all learned some financial lessons in the midst of

0:27:18.600 --> 0:27:20.679
<v Speaker 1>all of this insanity. You know, Let's let's hope that

0:27:20.720 --> 0:27:23.320
<v Speaker 1>we can make some meaningful changes based on on what

0:27:23.359 --> 0:27:24.960
<v Speaker 1>we've learned. And like you said at the beginning, Joel,

0:27:25.040 --> 0:27:27.439
<v Speaker 1>it's important for us to to cover these things in

0:27:27.560 --> 0:27:30.200
<v Speaker 1>order that they stick and that we don't allow history

0:27:30.240 --> 0:27:32.600
<v Speaker 1>to repeat itself. And unfortunately, you know, there are some

0:27:32.640 --> 0:27:34.720
<v Speaker 1>of us who have learned these lessons the hard way,

0:27:34.760 --> 0:27:36.960
<v Speaker 1>and so by talking about these lessons, hopefully we can

0:27:36.960 --> 0:27:40.480
<v Speaker 1>help others to completely avoid them all together in their lives. Yeah,

0:27:40.640 --> 0:27:43.040
<v Speaker 1>learn the lessons from listening to a podcast as opposed

0:27:43.040 --> 0:27:46.919
<v Speaker 1>to going through incredibly difficult times and not being prepared. Yes,

0:27:47.000 --> 0:27:48.720
<v Speaker 1>so I think we can be more prepared based on

0:27:48.760 --> 0:27:51.760
<v Speaker 1>these lessons. And of course, hopefully we don't encounter another pandemic,

0:27:51.800 --> 0:27:55.320
<v Speaker 1>but financial pitfalls and difficulties and emergencies come up for

0:27:55.520 --> 0:27:57.800
<v Speaker 1>all of us at different times, and they will happen,

0:27:57.840 --> 0:27:59.760
<v Speaker 1>and they're going to happen, and we can be more

0:27:59.800 --> 0:28:01.840
<v Speaker 1>for paired than we currently are. And I think these

0:28:01.840 --> 0:28:03.240
<v Speaker 1>are just some of the ways that we can learn

0:28:03.240 --> 0:28:06.080
<v Speaker 1>a lesson, implement some change, and make a difference for

0:28:06.160 --> 0:28:08.159
<v Speaker 1>our future selves. All right, let's get back to the

0:28:08.200 --> 0:28:09.720
<v Speaker 1>beer that we had on the show today. We drank

0:28:09.720 --> 0:28:12.760
<v Speaker 1>a beer called Modus Vivendi by the Wild Beer Company

0:28:12.880 --> 0:28:14.840
<v Speaker 1>out of the UK. I've actually had this one kind

0:28:14.840 --> 0:28:16.920
<v Speaker 1>of stored away in my quote unquote beer seller, which

0:28:16.960 --> 0:28:19.240
<v Speaker 1>means my kitchen country. Yeah, for like two and a

0:28:19.280 --> 0:28:21.720
<v Speaker 1>half three years now, but I decided to pop it

0:28:21.720 --> 0:28:23.359
<v Speaker 1>out for for this episode with you. Man, what were

0:28:23.359 --> 0:28:25.120
<v Speaker 1>your thoughts on it? Sometimes you gotta bust it out

0:28:25.119 --> 0:28:27.960
<v Speaker 1>for a special occasion podcast or not special occasion, just

0:28:28.640 --> 0:28:30.720
<v Speaker 1>random recording day. Yeah. I will say, this is a

0:28:30.720 --> 0:28:33.359
<v Speaker 1>beer I've had before, and every time I have it,

0:28:33.480 --> 0:28:35.960
<v Speaker 1>I really enjoy it. You know. It doesn't necessarily say

0:28:36.000 --> 0:28:38.200
<v Speaker 1>on the bottle that it's a Flanders red but it

0:28:38.280 --> 0:28:40.560
<v Speaker 1>drinks just like a Flanders Red ale. For for the

0:28:40.600 --> 0:28:42.920
<v Speaker 1>non beer nerds out there, let's just mention that Flanders

0:28:42.920 --> 0:28:46.400
<v Speaker 1>read is this incredibly tart beer with like a vinegar

0:28:46.560 --> 0:28:50.360
<v Speaker 1>profile that is typically found in the Flanders region of Belgium. Yeah, man,

0:28:50.400 --> 0:28:52.360
<v Speaker 1>And that's exactly how I would describe this beer. You know,

0:28:52.440 --> 0:28:54.760
<v Speaker 1>it was acidic and so it was nice and bright,

0:28:55.160 --> 0:28:57.520
<v Speaker 1>but at the same time it had uh it was

0:28:57.600 --> 0:28:59.680
<v Speaker 1>Asian oak barrels, and so it had this kind of

0:28:59.680 --> 0:29:03.800
<v Speaker 1>oak tannon flavor that complemented the acidity very well. It's

0:29:03.840 --> 0:29:05.680
<v Speaker 1>a it's a flavor profile that I can always turn

0:29:05.680 --> 0:29:07.920
<v Speaker 1>to and I know that I will enjoy and this one,

0:29:07.960 --> 0:29:11.280
<v Speaker 1>in particular Modus Vivendi by the Wild Beer Company. I

0:29:11.280 --> 0:29:14.080
<v Speaker 1>feel that this is a perfect example of what this

0:29:14.160 --> 0:29:16.719
<v Speaker 1>style should taste like. Really enjoyed it, buddy, Thank you

0:29:16.720 --> 0:29:19.480
<v Speaker 1>for sharing. What are your thoughts on this one? No, man,

0:29:19.520 --> 0:29:22.400
<v Speaker 1>I totally agree. I really like this beer. I don't

0:29:22.400 --> 0:29:24.000
<v Speaker 1>know why I held onto it for so long without

0:29:24.080 --> 0:29:26.920
<v Speaker 1>drinking it, but now I'm glad I did. And yeah,

0:29:27.000 --> 0:29:29.320
<v Speaker 1>I think to what you said about it being aged

0:29:29.320 --> 0:29:34.000
<v Speaker 1>in oak barrels. It's so massively mellows the those uh,

0:29:34.200 --> 0:29:37.080
<v Speaker 1>those Harsher flavors, and actually really like those Harsher flavors,

0:29:37.240 --> 0:29:39.160
<v Speaker 1>but when you mellow them out with the oak, I

0:29:39.160 --> 0:29:40.959
<v Speaker 1>feel like it actually opens up a whole lot of

0:29:40.960 --> 0:29:43.000
<v Speaker 1>other flavors that are going on in the beer. It's

0:29:43.000 --> 0:29:46.240
<v Speaker 1>not overpowering in its hardness because of the oak. So yeah,

0:29:46.280 --> 0:29:49.320
<v Speaker 1>this was like expertly done right, because some people can

0:29:49.360 --> 0:29:50.960
<v Speaker 1>make a Flanders Red and it can just be like

0:29:51.200 --> 0:29:52.560
<v Speaker 1>a punch to the mouth. It can be a little

0:29:52.600 --> 0:29:55.480
<v Speaker 1>bit too much sometimes, you know, or sometimes even not enough. Yeah,

0:29:55.560 --> 0:29:57.240
<v Speaker 1>either one, and I feel like, yeah, they kind of

0:29:57.280 --> 0:29:59.200
<v Speaker 1>did hit it perfectly on this one. So yeah, I

0:29:59.240 --> 0:30:01.320
<v Speaker 1>really like this beer. Cool man, Well that's going to

0:30:01.360 --> 0:30:03.160
<v Speaker 1>be it for this episode. Listeners. You can find our

0:30:03.160 --> 0:30:05.240
<v Speaker 1>show notes up on our website at how to money

0:30:05.280 --> 0:30:07.320
<v Speaker 1>dot com. And if you've been listening for a while,

0:30:07.360 --> 0:30:09.520
<v Speaker 1>thanks so much. If you're a new listener, don't forget

0:30:09.520 --> 0:30:11.800
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0:30:15.120 --> 0:30:16.560
<v Speaker 1>So all right, Matt, that's gonna do it for this

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<v Speaker 1>one until next time, Buddy, best Friends Out, Best Friends Out.