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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Jane Kramer and I'mheart Radio Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Okay, ladies, back on the couch, you guys, literally, can

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Speaker 2: we just talk about something really fast? Sure. I was

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Speaker 2: in the car driving home from Tuloom because we went

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Speaker 2: to Tuloom last minute, great little uh three day with

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Speaker 2: Alan and Roman because we've never had that, just like

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Speaker 2: one on one uninterrupted time and it was so great,

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Speaker 2: so so so good. But as we're driving home, I

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Speaker 2: saw a little thing that popped up on my phone

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Speaker 2: and it said Jana Kramer almost rode off into the

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Speaker 2: sunset with Jason Oppenheim. I'm like, what, what?

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Speaker 1: Where? Where was this on us Weekly? Come on?

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 1: Wait what?

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Speaker 2: So I look at it, I'm like the like, oh,

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Speaker 2: what joke? Because we had talked about we had to

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Speaker 2: dig No, we did that Q and A. Yeah, we

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Speaker 2: also talked about it on there, and it was just

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Speaker 2: like and I forgot about it. It's one of the

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Speaker 2: questions was has any host or has any guests been flirty?

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Speaker 2: And I was like, no, not really. In Hannah's like, well, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Jason oppenhein asked you out. And I was like, oh gosh.

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Speaker 2: I was like, he's he'll ask anybody out. I was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: but he's so sweet, like we're friendly. That's what they took.

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Speaker 1: You all just rode off into the sunset. Wow, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I mean listen, I was here for it. I was

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Speaker 1: trying to get you to write off in the sunset,

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Speaker 1: actually advocate, and I was like, yeah, into the sunne

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Speaker 1: I don't know about into the sunset, but you know,

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Speaker 1: like I think it's a word.

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Speaker 2: I just got the plan. It's just a plan word.

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Speaker 1: Selling sunset.

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Speaker 2: Any day.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I was like, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 1: That's actually okay, fine take it. Yeah, I actually give

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Speaker 1: you slow guys, I really got that.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, that's fine. That actually is really funny, well done.

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Speaker 1: So actually re tracked.

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Speaker 2: Good job. Oh anyway, I thought that that's weekly. Just

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Speaker 2: picked up one of my girlfriends posts on Instagram. Oh yay, No, no, no,

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Speaker 2: I don't know. She walked out of Wicked for good.

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Speaker 2: Oh that was your friend.

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Speaker 1: I've read this, you have Okay?

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Speaker 2: Who was it? Sarah Burnett? Okay, so I remember seeing

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Speaker 2: the headline, but I didn't I didn't click on click

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Speaker 2: on the link to the bio of the whole thing.

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Speaker 2: So well, I saw her Instagram post because she's a

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Speaker 2: friend of mine. She's actually a really incredible, sweet human

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Speaker 2: and she she was like, I walked out, you know,

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Speaker 2: be the mom that walked out of Wicked for good.

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Speaker 2: And so I read it because I thought, oh boy,

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Speaker 2: because I actually took all three of my kids and

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Speaker 2: I had read a headline saying that actually scaled back

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Speaker 2: the the intimacy of what the scene was going to be.

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Speaker 2: So that is what I'd post all of this. That

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Speaker 2: is the one article that I did read. So I'm curious.

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Speaker 2: Have you seen the movie? Yes, okay, I haven't seen it.

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Speaker 2: I've not taken the kiddos yet. Yeah, so was it

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Speaker 2: a thing to walk out of? Well, let's go back.

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Speaker 2: Hold on, did you read this before or after you

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Speaker 2: saw it after? I saw it after?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so I read it before. And I actually had

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Speaker 1: think because I read this, right, Well, so.

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Speaker 2: Many people asked me, even we saw it the night

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Speaker 2: wrote and said like, tell me what you think. And

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Speaker 2: I thought, well, I don't know. This is up to discretion.

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Speaker 2: This is tricky for me. That was the same.

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Speaker 1: I was like, so I again, I'm going to be

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Speaker 1: that I see both sides on this one. I absolutely

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Speaker 1: I was fine.

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Speaker 2: Can we describe the scene for a parent that hasn't

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Speaker 2: because I have not taken my, my my? Have you

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Speaker 2: seen the musical? Well, I don't remember a sex scene

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Speaker 2: in the movie.

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Speaker 1: That's the thing. I saw the musical, but I don't

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Speaker 2: It's not over the Is it Alphaba and the Prince ye, yeah, fiero?

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Speaker 2: Do they is it? Is it a cowboy Christmas romance

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Speaker 1: A lingerie on. I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I'm gonna defend.

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Speaker 1: Has kind of like because I remember going the whole

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Speaker 1: something about one of the songs I had read too.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if it was the same girl. And

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Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know what they're talking about, okay,

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Speaker 1: this is what they're talking about. Like I can see

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Speaker 1: Let me see the photo.

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Speaker 2: It's more like a night I mean it is. Does

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Speaker 2: is what she wears in the scene, and the sweater.

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Speaker 3: But they are lovey, yeah, kiss, it's not even about

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Speaker 3: That's what's so hard and why it's very like it.

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Speaker 1: But it wasn't about the making out. It wasn't about

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Speaker 1: it's so tricky. Like I watched Ramsey to see if

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Speaker 1: to so like I didn't care, but I can understand

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Speaker 1: where people are coming from.

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Speaker 2: It was the rating, e g.

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Speaker 1: It's PG. It was just more about the insinuation of

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Speaker 1: and then they end up at the end it's like

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Speaker 1: It didn't bother me. But also, if you're taking a

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Speaker 1: see them all like it's sensual.

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Speaker 2: In pg's rating, defense is often considered suitable for children

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Speaker 2: around eight, yes, and older.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think it's a issue. It's not PG thirteen, right,

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Speaker 1: It's not necessarily I think in the musical went that way.

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Speaker 2: I would have more of an issue if Frozen Elsa

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Speaker 2: was taking her thing off, absolutely not, no, man put

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Speaker 1: It was fair. It wasn't over no anyway.

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Speaker 2: It's tastefully well done for a people I haven't seen it,

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Speaker 2: so again I'm saying this for.

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Speaker 1: Me, it's more about the Again, their lips didn't touch,

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Speaker 1: that kind of stuff, I was like'd almost rather y'all

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean, Like in the Notebook

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Speaker 3: Really about the taking off the clothes, It just was

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Speaker 2: that is what's more important to me in that scene

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and for me too, it's like that wouldn't have

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Speaker 2: sexualizing evil and these things are not like just because

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Speaker 2: it's called wicked.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, at no point.

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Speaker 2: At no point are we thinking we're it's not called Glinda,

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Speaker 2: So I know, But I also have known how impactful

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Speaker 2: there is a responsibility and being I consider nine relatively

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00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:50,160
Speaker 2: young to not believe. I guess I don't know why

433
00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:52,560
Speaker 2: both of mine were nine, But it's still like, I

434
00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:56,520
Speaker 2: would never expect them to go tell another child, yeah,

435
00:20:56,520 --> 00:21:00,560
Speaker 2: that it's not. And even still, the teeny tiny girl

436
00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:03,280
Speaker 2: in me is like, just hope somebody gets a Christmas

437
00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:07,560
Speaker 2: miracle and they have nothing, they can't explain it. I

438
00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:09,919
Speaker 2: still think there's some magic in it. I agree with that.

439
00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:13,320
Speaker 2: Has anyone finished The Secret Life of Mormon Wives? I

440
00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:14,360
Speaker 2: don't know how you're doing it.

441
00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:17,800
Speaker 1: I love Surprisingly. I have not watched the second season,

442
00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:21,040
Speaker 1: their third season, I mean third season. I'll watched second. Sorry,

443
00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:22,359
Speaker 1: I so I watched the first two. I have not

444
00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:23,000
Speaker 1: watched the third.

445
00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:25,880
Speaker 2: Oh it's so good, you're so all in.

446
00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:28,600
Speaker 1: I wasn't too. I just haven't watched.

447
00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:31,000
Speaker 2: It yet, So I didn't the second season I didn't love.

448
00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:33,639
Speaker 2: But the third season, the second season got a little fabulous.

449
00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:35,600
Speaker 1: Oh good, Okay, want to keep going?

450
00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:37,560
Speaker 2: No one to talk to about it, And I'm kind

451
00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:40,640
Speaker 2: of bummed. But it's because the reunion's coming up, and

452
00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:43,600
Speaker 2: I am just like, we're going to have to binge it.

453
00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:47,080
Speaker 2: When's the reunion December fourth? Oh, I've got I've got time,

454
00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:55,040
Speaker 2: very excited. Any did anybody watch Whitney's Whitney's uh dancing? Yep,

455
00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:57,639
Speaker 2: that Alex Cooper interview and then her final dance. I

456
00:21:57,680 --> 00:21:59,679
Speaker 2: saw parts of the dance from that parts how do

457
00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:01,800
Speaker 2: you turn not off? I didn't watch it on the

458
00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:07,320
Speaker 2: light like a highlight club highlighted by her the season Whitney.

459
00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:11,960
Speaker 2: I mean, she's an amazing dancer. Yeah, so basically she

460
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,400
Speaker 2: didn't get to have her freestyle. So Alex Cooper they

461
00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 2: did a sit down. I mean I watched the whole

462
00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:19,640
Speaker 2: interview in the dance when I was on the treadmill

463
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 2: in uh in to loom and treadmill and to Loom

464
00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:25,560
Speaker 2: tread Can we both take a time out here and

465
00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:29,920
Speaker 2: agree that's something tread Maillon to Loom. I will say

466
00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:32,119
Speaker 2: that I didn't want to do it, but it was

467
00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:34,800
Speaker 2: one of those where I it was the one only

468
00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:36,679
Speaker 2: time I'm like, I packed these damn shoes to go

469
00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:41,000
Speaker 2: for a run. Yeah, I still fine packing them and

470
00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:41,480
Speaker 2: never do it.

471
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:42,320
Speaker 1: I needed.

472
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:45,400
Speaker 2: I get it. I just like I needed my one

473
00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:47,679
Speaker 2: my one run day. But Cat and I always on

474
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:52,199
Speaker 2: wind Down Tour are the ones. That's why. That's why

475
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:53,919
Speaker 2: I thought it was important to say. Jana was like,

476
00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:57,000
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go for a run. Anybody assist and we're like,

477
00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:59,080
Speaker 2: eggs over easy. We'll see you later when we.

478
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:02,080
Speaker 1: Go to Loom for why now you'll be on the treadmill.

479
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:05,320
Speaker 2: Great breakfast. Then took a rest and then I went

480
00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:05,880
Speaker 2: for a job.

481
00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:06,479
Speaker 1: Even was mad.

482
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:09,680
Speaker 2: I watched the interview. I love that theay she was

483
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 2: able to do her you know, her her freestyle dance,

484
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:15,720
Speaker 2: which was incredible. It's interesting though, because a lot of

485
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:18,199
Speaker 2: the women are talking about how they're so upset with

486
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 2: her that she only reason she came back was because

487
00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:22,840
Speaker 2: of Dancing with the Stars. And she basically says this

488
00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:26,800
Speaker 2: on the season three too. She's like, it's a business opportunity.

489
00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:28,359
Speaker 2: And I'm like, listen, she ain't wrong, you know what

490
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:32,480
Speaker 2: I mean, we have a call today about this wildly

491
00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:36,199
Speaker 2: interesting thing. The only way I do it is if

492
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:38,439
Speaker 2: it helped business like and.

493
00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:41,520
Speaker 1: It's okay to admit that.

494
00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:43,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I'm like, why are we getting angry at

495
00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:47,240
Speaker 2: her for admitting something like hello, while they're at their

496
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:51,520
Speaker 2: fully sponsored parties, do it? I mean you're doing it

497
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:54,960
Speaker 2: to get sponsorships or as you know, and to be

498
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:57,560
Speaker 2: the bachelorette. And it's like, why are we just faulting

499
00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:00,479
Speaker 2: her for wanting to you know? Now, she just she

500
00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:04,439
Speaker 2: announced that she is, you know, joining Chicago. You know,

501
00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 2: I'm like, awesome, good job, you know what I mean.

502
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:09,920
Speaker 2: And she deserves that opportunity. But there is a headline

503
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:13,920
Speaker 2: going around right now speaking of the Mormon wives. That

504
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:19,440
Speaker 2: is between Demi and Jesse. Oh, I can't with the cereal,

505
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 2: the cereal, the fruity pebble. It's basically been explained now

506
00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 2: what that was. And she's just going on her story

507
00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:32,040
Speaker 2: now just open and oh to me is open openly yes,

508
00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:36,119
Speaker 2: like kind of laughing at herself about it and and

509
00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:38,720
Speaker 2: and you know, eating the cereal because Jesse was like,

510
00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:40,760
Speaker 2: all right, fine, she's gonna, you know, say the stuff

511
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,520
Speaker 2: about me. This is what this is. I need you

512
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:46,440
Speaker 2: to fill everyone in because before this podcast, I did

513
00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:49,200
Speaker 2: not understand what the fruity pebbles was. And I could

514
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,399
Speaker 2: have never guessed this in a million years, and I

515
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:55,320
Speaker 2: didn't know people do this well, I don't think. Yeah,

516
00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:58,880
Speaker 2: I was like, let's not put it all. I mean,

517
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 2: someone did I think I didn't. Certain people have different

518
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:05,920
Speaker 2: kinks in the bedroom. Now it is not a kink

519
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 2: that I would ever get on board with. But I'm

520
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:10,000
Speaker 2: not going to judge people's kinkiness. I'm judging, but I

521
00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:11,640
Speaker 2: didn't know this was even a thing. I know you're

522
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 2: not judging, but I'm just saying it to me. It's listen,

523
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:21,439
Speaker 2: this is wild. I have seen things from people's list

524
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:28,200
Speaker 2: of things that are the most disturbing things I have

525
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:33,600
Speaker 2: ever ever ever without wanting to see saw and then

526
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:34,960
Speaker 2: you residually passed it on.

527
00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:39,439
Speaker 1: I did traumatize my life.

528
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 2: Can see unsee the things I did. I did something

529
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:47,560
Speaker 2: things and you even spared us apparently from I spared

530
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 2: you lots of things. Yours a friend from that thing.

531
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 2: But I also had to share in that moment when

532
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 2: you come upon a treasure that you didn't want to find.

533
00:25:56,680 --> 00:26:01,600
Speaker 2: I'll never look at a cheffy blue bathroom ever again.

534
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:05,120
Speaker 1: Trauma. I can't things.

535
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 2: So listen, and I'm when I was doing some more

536
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 2: detective work and I was having and I'm seeing this

537
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:16,320
Speaker 2: list of things. I'm like this is some kink beyond kink,

538
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 2: you know what I mean?

539
00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:20,840
Speaker 1: Like yeah, and oh my god, like.

540
00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 2: And if that is what someone wants to do in

541
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:28,800
Speaker 2: their free time, let it be that, right.

542
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:31,680
Speaker 1: But please watch it. I don't know I'm going to

543
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,200
Speaker 1: be the bad guy here, but that's their life. That's

544
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:34,680
Speaker 1: their life.

545
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:37,160
Speaker 2: Now. Do I want to be said married to anybody?

546
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 1: Like no, because that's not what.

547
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:40,520
Speaker 2: I'm into, right, you know what I mean? Like that,

548
00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:44,439
Speaker 2: I would never, But that's where great people have the

549
00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 2: same kink level. Right, So like me and Alan, we

550
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 2: kinky on the same level, you know what I mean,

551
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:54,240
Speaker 2: Like we're just like it's nothing crazy, you know the

552
00:26:54,400 --> 00:27:02,040
Speaker 2: answers either just kinking on the same but like, gotta get.

553
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 1: Out of here, rates walk out of this podcast. So

554
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:11,960
Speaker 1: I g she literally hate this conversation. She's calling keep

555
00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 1: keep like I don't.

556
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:17,359
Speaker 2: Want to know to share. Okay, here's the thing, Like

557
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 2: we're like the PG king. Okay, I'm also a PG kinker.

558
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 2: You go on to fucking sorry the guys a dryer

559
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 2: like we're not a dryer king.

560
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:42,000
Speaker 1: I don't want you already shared it? I would hear.

561
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:48,399
Speaker 1: Was I here for this conversation? I don't think so

562
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 1: this is one you'll do without me?

563
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 2: No, I think for good reason, it's not alive on tour.

564
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:58,640
Speaker 2: I can't remember. Maybe so welcome, no need to burchase

565
00:27:58,640 --> 00:27:59,920
Speaker 2: a ticket to an in person.

566
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 1: Is this when we took photos on the dryer? When

567
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:04,440
Speaker 1: did they talk about it?

568
00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:07,120
Speaker 2: Now? Maybe Catherine?

569
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 1: Okay, I.

570
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:16,919
Speaker 2: Mean I would ever, guys, No, I think I actually

571
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 2: feel like give you a little vibration.

572
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:25,680
Speaker 1: I feel so fun that.

573
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 2: I am warm, so well done.

574
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay.

575
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:38,920
Speaker 2: Let's back keep Okay, people do things. I'm about a

576
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 2: PG kink, right, so you're about a PG thirteen.

577
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:46,680
Speaker 1: Not gonna go We're gonna go with g Yeah sounds

578
00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 1: that's okay.

579
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 2: There are then some people that are are and then

580
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 2: X rated. Right, so where are the the pet fruity

581
00:28:56,400 --> 00:29:00,040
Speaker 2: pebbles falls in line? Here is please get guys, I

582
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 2: please Lord. There are people that I know, again I've

583
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:09,560
Speaker 2: never done, only heard that. There are some people that

584
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:14,600
Speaker 2: like to actually be Pete on that a golden shower

585
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 2: right again, I would never do that.

586
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:19,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I understand the appeal. I don't. What's happening.

587
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 2: Pee in general grosses me out because it's like it

588
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:28,160
Speaker 2: should be something that the toilet only sees and what

589
00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:30,680
Speaker 2: I look at to make sure I'm nicely hydrated, right,

590
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 2: and like I don't want I think morning peas discussed,

591
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 2: like it's just smells. It's gross, Like I don't know

592
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:40,280
Speaker 2: what I want that. So apparently what the fruity pebbles

593
00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 2: is is that apparently Demi's husband likes to drink basically

594
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 2: her pea in some form of like a sexual that

595
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 2: is what I have, what we have, and what she's

596
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 2: talking about, right, like fruity pebbles. Okay, so the taste

597
00:29:57,880 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 2: of it, it.

598
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 1: Tastes fruity pebbles.

599
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 2: Well, or maybe he pours her pee and fruity pebbles.

600
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,560
Speaker 2: I don't know, right, but let's just say, let's just

601
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:07,680
Speaker 2: say it tastes like that because it's it's something of

602
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 2: a tasting like it. Yeah, And there's actually a video

603
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:14,120
Speaker 2: that went around that he had to guess which one

604
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 2: was his wife, and she's like, oh my god, he

605
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 2: guessed me. So that's been a video that that's been around,

606
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:22,080
Speaker 2: and so now she's like, yeah, you know, basically calling

607
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 2: herself out about this whole situation and being in on

608
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:29,200
Speaker 2: the joke. I would say, and I gotta give her

609
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 2: props for being in on the joke. I'm actually like, okay, girl,

610
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 2: I don't I'm not on that kink rated level of

611
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:38,720
Speaker 2: that piece. But like, good on you for if you're gonna,

612
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:41,320
Speaker 2: you're gonna if people are talking about it, I think

613
00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 2: it's always fun to be in on it.

614
00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:43,880
Speaker 1: It's better.

615
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:47,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, it hurts a little less. Yeah, it doesn't sting

616
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:51,080
Speaker 2: as much. Yeah, it'll it'll die down now. Yeah, Like

617
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 2: she's and I'm I'm I'm I'm way more a Jesse supporter.

618
00:30:55,520 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 2: I love Jesse. I'm not the from what I've seen.

619
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 2: I'm just more of a Jess fan at the moment.

620
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 2: And so you know, and I just don't. I don't.

621
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:11,959
Speaker 2: I would never do that, Like I just I don't know.

622
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 2: I don't know if. But again, I don't want to

623
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 2: judge people's like kinkiness level. We just probably Alan was

624
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:18,880
Speaker 2: never going to get that. I'm also just too I

625
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 2: think he'd want that. I'm way too tidy, you know me,

626
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 2: I'm too ocd for that. It feels like, isn't that Like.

627
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 1: I just don't understand. Yeah, I just don't you do

628
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 1: that if you're trapped right on the.

629
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 2: Water in the ocean, or don't you get dehydrated? Yeah,

630
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 2: is like salt water. I don't know.

631
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 1: I think that's salt water. Okay, But I just I'm

632
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 1: having a hard time correlating how this is sexual. I

633
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 1: guess yeah, because it seems like a lot of steps,

634
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 1: like why does P become sexual? And that's where my

635
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 1: brain just because I'm not that way, I guess just

636
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 1: is having a hard time understanding.

637
00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 2: Becoming sexual.

638
00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 1: Well, again, I drinking, How does that turn you on?

639
00:31:57,200 --> 00:31:58,959
Speaker 2: Like you're having to do it in a cup and

640
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:02,680
Speaker 2: then he's drinking. I think it's again, I think we're

641
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:03,240
Speaker 2: probably missing.

642
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 1: Peak can be.

643
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 2: Associated with sexuality due to chemical compounds like pheromones, which

644
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 2: can be sexually stimulating in physical sensations that can cause

645
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 2: pleasure or an orgasm. Pheromones in urine can stimulate the brain,

646
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 2: and the physical pressure and nerve stimulation from a full

647
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 2: bladder can lead to pleasurable sensation, sometimes describe as a peakasm.

648
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 1: This is peeing on.

649
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 2: Well, so basically it's the pheromones, okay, okay, of yeah,

650
00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 2: So the practice of involving urine in sexual activity is

651
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 2: known as or the Golden shower, and that says This

652
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 2: can be connected to feelings of closeness and trust between partners,

653
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 2: or the thrill of engaging in something unusual or edgy.

654
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:42,200
Speaker 2: And I think that's a lot of like where the

655
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:45,520
Speaker 2: kink stuff falls is because it does give you that.

656
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 2: And what I saw from that list is it gives

657
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:54,400
Speaker 2: people this like thrill or that and very proud whatever.

658
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 2: And you know, like when someone goes for a run,

659
00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 2: that endorphin fill or just whatever it is, like if

660
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 2: it's that Chila tane, you go to Starbucks and then

661
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 2: you're just like, it gives you that whatever whatever that is.

662
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 1: Okay, that explained. That helps me understand a little bit,

663
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 1: I guess.

664
00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:12,680
Speaker 2: But yeah, wow, it wouldn't be, you know, on my kinkliss.

665
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:15,040
Speaker 2: But I got to say, listen, I do applaud her

666
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:17,960
Speaker 2: for going in on it on the joke, not the joke,

667
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 2: but too.

668
00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 1: I mean, at that point, if everybody's gonna call you

669
00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 1: out and keep making it a thing, you might as

670
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 1: well get in on it. Yeah, make find yourself just really.

671
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 2: I guess I need to know logistics at this point.

672
00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 2: And now I'm wondering if Preston asked you to do that.

673
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:37,720
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna even give Catherine question, what would you do?

674
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 2: I know it's a no, and he wouldn't even ask

675
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 2: because he's tidy, Like, well, I have a question, but

676
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 2: you have sex and your period. That's not tidy. That's

677
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 2: not hello everyone. Yeah, I mean not on the first

678
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 2: or second day, because I'm a little more tidier than that. No.

679
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:55,080
Speaker 2: I just mean, like drinking urine is different than us

680
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:58,160
Speaker 2: doing something in a shower. I have a question to

681
00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 2: pose opposite this. Okay, this is going to get sexual

682
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:07,800
Speaker 2: clever your ears? What is any grocer than actually taking

683
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:09,840
Speaker 2: sperm from a blowjob?

684
00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 1: Not much?

685
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:12,840
Speaker 2: Well, I think you would like to get on a

686
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:18,799
Speaker 2: wine down too, you know I feel about that. I mean, like,

687
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 2: if we're really a Devil's advocate, that ship is nasty. Yeah,

688
00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:23,800
Speaker 2: oh nasty. I mean you know how I feel.

689
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 1: So, but that is pleasure, dude, yeah to so yeah?

690
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:31,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, okay, I see where you're at, and

691
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:34,360
Speaker 2: what do we do be a man to feel pleasured?

692
00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 2: You should be some sort of kinky lawyer.

693
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:37,879
Speaker 1: You're really well done.

694
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 2: Well done, But I also I am still going to

695
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:44,839
Speaker 2: say hard pass. I should we ask if that would

696
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:46,919
Speaker 2: be a thing? What do you mean? Kick? Come? Back.

697
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:50,840
Speaker 2: Would Alan do that? No, I don't think so. He

698
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:53,360
Speaker 2: also loves my pheromones like he's always I know, like present,

699
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 2: very much like cave man pheromone. Yeah yeah yeah, love

700
00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:00,839
Speaker 2: your smell yeah kind of man. I know That's why

701
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:03,880
Speaker 2: I'm like, I can't say no, I guess that Preston wouldn't,

702
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:08,680
Speaker 2: but I would guess that now. I honestly think he would.

703
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 2: I think we might be surprised. Are we going to

704
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:13,200
Speaker 2: circle back? Should we do a bird? Can?

705
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 1: We need to talk about that too, by the way,

706
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:18,840
Speaker 1: but let's wrap up. Would you love to go to

707
00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:20,960
Speaker 1: something is a conversation.

708
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:24,399
Speaker 2: I can't know what your circle back.

709
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:26,560
Speaker 1: I don't know what he I mean if I asked

710
00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:27,359
Speaker 1: him what he would say.

711
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:29,160
Speaker 2: I'm not going to video because my husband gets a

712
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:33,160
Speaker 2: little bay. I don't know. I don't want the ideot.

713
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:48,759
Speaker 2: Mom says she secretly prefers staying at home to vacationing

714
00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:50,800
Speaker 2: with her kids. I feel like I need another break

715
00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:53,839
Speaker 2: to recover an exacerbated exacerbation.

716
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:56,719
Speaker 1: Well, now, don't get your bait, it's all mixed up.

717
00:35:56,760 --> 00:36:00,480
Speaker 2: After this conversations, she is asking herself this late question

718
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 2: after her family trip, Needing another break, We've just come

719
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:05,640
Speaker 2: back from a week away, and honestly, I feel like

720
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:07,319
Speaker 2: I need another break to re cover from it, wrote

721
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:10,080
Speaker 2: the tired parent. Between packing and cleaning the airbnb before leaving,

722
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 2: managing constant squabbles, and trying to keep everyone fed and

723
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:15,799
Speaker 2: entertain entertained, it didn't feel like a holiday at all.

724
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:18,280
Speaker 2: Every photo looks lovely, but behind the scenes it was chaos.

725
00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 2: Tantrum's forgotten essential as someone always hungry, and the endless

726
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:23,680
Speaker 2: what are we doing next? Made it more stressful than work.

727
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 2: Tripity trip trip. You remember the article tripity trip. That's

728
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 2: a trip, it's not a vacation. That's her problem. Framework Yeah,

729
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:36,520
Speaker 2: I think there's so magical, like something so magical about

730
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:41,200
Speaker 2: the kids will remember the vacations, that's the thing, and

731
00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 2: get I get it, like I get that there. Yes,

732
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:49,479
Speaker 2: was it challenging when Roman is screaming, got a new trade,

733
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:52,879
Speaker 2: so he got a new trade from preschool, screams top

734
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:56,359
Speaker 2: of lungs, screams when he's happy, when he's sad, when

735
00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 2: he's excited, and it's like, you know, trying to be

736
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,200
Speaker 2: like hey, buddy, like we don't scream and trying, but

737
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:04,680
Speaker 2: you know, he also is not he needs to. You know,

738
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 2: he's having a hard time with his speech, so you know,

739
00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:08,759
Speaker 2: we're working on that and getting going to get him

740
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:11,640
Speaker 2: a speech therapist, and I think he's for the doctor. Well,

741
00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 2: the doctor apparently wants him to say, Mommy, I want

742
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:16,880
Speaker 2: to go outside. Okay, then that doctor would have a

743
00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 2: very hard time because we are not And I'm like, oh,

744
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:22,520
Speaker 2: he's not saying that, and she's like, I would recommend

745
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:24,439
Speaker 2: speech therapy. We also need to get his ears checked,

746
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 2: Like it's a whole thing. You need. Twenty minutes with Lyon,

747
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:29,799
Speaker 2: You're going to feel so good about where Romance. She's

748
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 2: six months older and she barely Yeah. Well, so I

749
00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 2: think he's having a hard time expressing at times when

750
00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:40,360
Speaker 2: he's angry. So what does he do. He's screams. So

751
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:43,480
Speaker 2: we're when we're at dinner, and it was most nights,

752
00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 2: I mean we had to take him out of the

753
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 2: restaurant countless times, like we would take turns because he

754
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 2: just would keep screaming. And you know, was that frustrating, Sure,

755
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:56,439
Speaker 2: But at the same time, the moments that we had

756
00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:59,239
Speaker 2: together were so much better than so much more than

757
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:02,320
Speaker 2: the yes, was it?

758
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 1: I don't know.

759
00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 2: I wouldn't take I wouldn't I wouldn't trade it for anything.

760
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 2: And I get like, but I just would never prefer

761
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 2: to stay I love staying home, don't get me wrong,

762
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:12,439
Speaker 2: But I would just the memories that like we made,

763
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 2: the memories that we've made on our family trips in Florida,

764
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:17,920
Speaker 2: Like I those are those are memories of kids will

765
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 2: remember forever. And I think, just like you said, framework

766
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:22,799
Speaker 2: of it, Yeah, I think if you are going in

767
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 2: thinking this is going to be a vacation and that

768
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:28,320
Speaker 2: you're going on a trip and that's all, if you

769
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 2: can just know that family trip, yeah, And I do

770
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:33,840
Speaker 2: think those memories are important. I also get being tired

771
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 2: and being I felt that way.

772
00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 1: We drove late.

773
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:38,920
Speaker 2: We were going to drive during the day to Georgia

774
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 2: for Thanksgiving, and we decided to drive at night. It

775
00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 2: was a brilliant idea to my husband, and it was great,

776
00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 2: actually loved it was really connective, we got to listen

777
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:47,279
Speaker 2: to new music. It was lovely. And then on the

778
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 2: way home we did the same thing. But We're getting

779
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:50,480
Speaker 2: home at like twelve thirty in the morning, and so

780
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 2: I'm toast and then I feel like I need a

781
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:55,360
Speaker 2: day and a half at this age to get myself

782
00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 2: back on track from no sleep. You know, so I

783
00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 2: get it. I also so I think you just need

784
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:06,480
Speaker 2: to have different framework and give yourself patting. One thing

785
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:08,360
Speaker 2: I know for sure we need as a family is

786
00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 2: we need to get home a few days before school

787
00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 2: starts or whatever, because I need time for myself to

788
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:17,759
Speaker 2: regulate and do laundry and get myself back on track,

789
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:21,000
Speaker 2: grocery shop and feel like a person. I don't do

790
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 2: well bumping one thing up to the other right anymore.

791
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:28,280
Speaker 1: Well, it's also short lived where it's super stressful, because

792
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:29,600
Speaker 1: it really is when they're younger.

793
00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:32,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I even tried to say right now with Lyon,

794
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:35,080
Speaker 2: like she's really struggling with talking, and she's in that

795
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:38,920
Speaker 2: phase of you get two guesses and by the third guess,

796
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:41,879
Speaker 2: she's just on the floor. But I told Preston, I said,

797
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 2: do you remember this phase? It's like, you know, they

798
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:45,960
Speaker 2: just don't have all the words yet, but they have

799
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 2: the big emotions and they have the big ideas and

800
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:50,160
Speaker 2: it's going to be done in like ten minutes.

801
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 1: And yeah, and that's the thing, Like, I mean, I

802
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:54,280
Speaker 1: look back on our trips when the kids were young

803
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,080
Speaker 1: and It always stressed Nick out more than it stressed

804
00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:59,759
Speaker 1: me out, because I think like the framework of you know,

805
00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:02,880
Speaker 1: the expectations or whatever. But I mean, god, that feels

806
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:05,279
Speaker 1: so short lived. Now, Like I look back at those

807
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:07,280
Speaker 1: I'm like, man, I remember when Kato was a baby

808
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:10,960
Speaker 1: at the beach, you know, and it's like I kind

809
00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:13,240
Speaker 1: of remember that it was stressful, but I don't really,

810
00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 1: you know. And now it's like, you go and you

811
00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:17,160
Speaker 1: got teenagers, and it's like just a different stress. You

812
00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:18,880
Speaker 1: got to stay up till they get home, you know.

813
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:19,880
Speaker 2: But it's not.

814
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:24,719
Speaker 1: It's short lived. So take the trip, change your mindset

815
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:25,800
Speaker 1: on it, and.

816
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:28,400
Speaker 2: Just keep taking the trips, I think, and give yourself

817
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 2: a couple of days when you get home.

818
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 1: And I love to be home otherwise I want to

819
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:31,919
Speaker 1: be home all the time.

820
00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:35,000
Speaker 2: But I do like trips. Nick Offerman details holiday rule

821
00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:39,360
Speaker 2: with wife Megan. I always say her name right, Malayley.

822
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 2: She's also an actress. She's great. But she said that

823
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:47,319
Speaker 2: they have a holiday rule with his actress wife. The

824
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:50,279
Speaker 2: couple has one non negotiable I guess the only rule

825
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:53,239
Speaker 2: is no work. Holiday knows Hollywood knows to leave us

826
00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 2: alone until the New year. Arrives, and I think in

827
00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 2: that world too, there isn't much going on going on.

828
00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:00,839
Speaker 2: You know. Do you guys have rule though with your

829
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 2: husband's about no work during the holidays.

830
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:07,480
Speaker 1: No. I mean we both have jobs that generally slowed

831
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 1: down at that time, but then we also have jobs

832
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 1: that if a client or if someone were working with

833
00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 1: needs us, we have to be available at all times.

834
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 2: So I wish we had rules about that, but we

835
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:21,200
Speaker 2: don't work is all the time all the time. So

836
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:22,880
Speaker 2: you guys, I have this thing that Alan and I

837
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 2: are going to do, and it's going to be a

838
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:31,479
Speaker 2: no phone on Sundays rule. They're going to try where

839
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 2: it's just like completely no phone. I love that. I

840
00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:37,759
Speaker 2: love that. One of the things that when we were

841
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:41,400
Speaker 2: into Loom, we didn't have our phone for you know,

842
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 2: and I was like, God, I'm so relaxed. He goes,

843
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:44,799
Speaker 2: you know why he goes because we don't have our

844
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 2: phone right now, and I'm like, oh wow. And I

845
00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:49,919
Speaker 2: was like, we should do this like once a week.

846
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:52,640
Speaker 2: I was like, it'd be Sunday most likely. Usually I

847
00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:55,759
Speaker 2: shut off pretty well, but I was like, how great

848
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:58,160
Speaker 2: would that be? Not only for the kids, yeah, for

849
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:02,560
Speaker 2: just our marriage for just and that's the day that

850
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:05,960
Speaker 2: people don't really need us. Yeah, you know, so I

851
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 2: was like, we should just put it away. We couldn't

852
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:11,080
Speaker 2: do it this past Sunday, but we're gonna try it,

853
00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:13,440
Speaker 2: and I want to know how you let us know.

854
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:15,400
Speaker 2: I like the ideas of that. We really have a

855
00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:18,839
Speaker 2: very strong phone household for data, so yeah, we can

856
00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:21,480
Speaker 2: get out pretty quick by that. But I understand but

857
00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 2: also annoyed. Mm hm, it's just phones all the time.

858
00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 2: I know. That's where I'm like, I know, put it away.

859
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:30,680
Speaker 2: I know. I think that's what I enjoyed about our

860
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 2: drive down to Georgia or over or wherever it is.

861
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:37,520
Speaker 2: I felt like we he was driving, we listened to

862
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:40,400
Speaker 2: a ton of demos, which is like my love language,

863
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 2: and so we just got to listen to this a

864
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:45,640
Speaker 2: huge folder of songs and I got to guess who

865
00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:47,759
Speaker 2: was singing it on the demo, who wrote it, you know,

866
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:50,239
Speaker 2: And it was very like connective and he wasn't on

867
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:52,800
Speaker 2: his phone the whole time, and I loved it. So

868
00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 2: I hope Sundays no phone Sundays go great for you.

869
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:59,800
Speaker 2: We'll report back. I'm homeschooling my kids and my family

870
00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 2: has strong opinions on whether or not they're being socialized properly.

871
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:06,160
Speaker 2: We go to the park in farmers' markets and visit

872
00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:08,319
Speaker 2: friends with other kids. But I'm wondering if maybe they

873
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:10,800
Speaker 2: need to be more social any thoughts or suggestions to

874
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:13,560
Speaker 2: include them with other kids. I'm gonna put this right

875
00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 2: to you. I mean, in my word, I feel like

876
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:18,520
Speaker 2: I wrote that in everyone has an opinion about everything.

877
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:20,800
Speaker 2: You know, your kid's best, whatever makes you feel like

878
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:25,239
Speaker 2: they're connected, you know, don't listen to anyone. Everyone has

879
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 2: an opinion. It's wild. And I'm not saying that they

880
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:31,240
Speaker 2: shouldn't be socialized. We do that a lot. I also

881
00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:34,360
Speaker 2: just think that we have as a society lost our

882
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 2: ability to connect with the family unit is intentionally to

883
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 2: your no phone point, and I think what socialization looks

884
00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:47,240
Speaker 2: like now and what social is what socialization may be needed,

885
00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:51,600
Speaker 2: are two different things. So if you feel like you

886
00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:58,400
Speaker 2: have connected kids, then I would of course entertain a

887
00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:01,040
Speaker 2: healthy curiosity about other people's if that matters to you,

888
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:03,400
Speaker 2: But I would say, know what you know, and know

889
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 2: it all the way. But I think also like you

890
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:09,959
Speaker 2: realize that legend might need more of a schooling, more

891
00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:12,520
Speaker 2: kids for his like, and you also know your kid too,

892
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. I know that you've kind of

893
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:18,280
Speaker 2: changed a bit with what he might need moving forward.

894
00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:22,160
Speaker 2: I think we have another friend who does some one

895
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:24,440
Speaker 2: kids in high school, ones and homeschool. So it's like,

896
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:28,399
Speaker 2: you know, but that didn't come from hearing that from

897
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:31,040
Speaker 2: someone telling me what he needed. It came from me going,

898
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 2: I wonder if he would do better in a five

899
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:35,399
Speaker 2: day a week, you know, just by like the way

900
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 2: he likes to be engaged. You know, yes, a good

901
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:41,760
Speaker 2: job mom, whatever it is. I mean, listen, public school,

902
00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:45,239
Speaker 2: private school, homeschool. You know your kid, but you don't

903
00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:47,440
Speaker 2: need to hear opinions from other people that aren't doing

904
00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:52,040
Speaker 2: or walking your life. I agree, Well, ladies, this was

905
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Speaker 2: fun and I have to go to the bathroom.

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Speaker 1: By