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<v Speaker 1>Second day, the guy on the phone for a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update today? Met a girl Exactly how I do

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<v Speaker 1>if I ever hit on a girl at a coffee shop? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>he was there. Yeah, he grabbed an empty coffee cup. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>cut a hole in the bottom of it, placed it appropriately,

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<v Speaker 1>and then looked at her and went, hey, you want

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<v Speaker 1>to try some of this coffee. It's non fat. That

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<v Speaker 1>cannot be true. Well, that's what I'm hoping he did.

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<v Speaker 1>His email said that he met her at Starbucks, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's just where my mind went. The old yeah, good,

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<v Speaker 1>old girl. Girls love it when you do that. Cody,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you doing? I'm doing well? How are you

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<v Speaker 1>guys doing good? Please tell me that's how you met

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<v Speaker 1>this girl at Starbucks? You know, I've never even thought

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<v Speaker 1>of that, but you know, next time, maybe I'll consider it.

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<v Speaker 1>Never failed, never failed. Your email said that you met

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<v Speaker 1>the girl you want to call today at Starbucks? So

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<v Speaker 1>how did you do it? If you didn't do the

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<v Speaker 1>obvious thing, place yourself in a coffee cup. Well yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we were just staying next to each other

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<v Speaker 1>in line, and when we went to go try to

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<v Speaker 1>find a place to sit, we realized that there was

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<v Speaker 1>no two tables for each of us to sit at,

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<v Speaker 1>so there was one, and so we just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>decided to to, you know, share a table. You were

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<v Speaker 1>so excited when you looked around that coffee shop and

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<v Speaker 1>saw that well, I mean I kind of saw this

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of an opportunity. I mean, she was

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<v Speaker 1>really cute. Yeah, yeah, yeah, so you invited her to

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<v Speaker 1>sit at the table with you since there was nowhere

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<v Speaker 1>else for her to sit. Yeah, you know, I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it'd be, you know, a nice thing to do. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>pretty boring compared to everybody's got to make their own

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<v Speaker 1>way in life, you know what I mean. So how

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<v Speaker 1>did that go? You sat down and shared the table,

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys have great conversation or something? You're like,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I want to ask her out. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>think I kind of awkward at first because she pulled

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<v Speaker 1>out her phone immediately and started, you know, go through emails,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's disappointing. I want to share this table share

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<v Speaker 1>I do, and then she just gets on her phone

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<v Speaker 1>and ignores you the whole time. Uh yeah, I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of started out that way. Do you think that she

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<v Speaker 1>knew that you were interested immediately or do you think

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<v Speaker 1>that she just honestly had I don't know. Did she

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<v Speaker 1>honestly have work to do? She may have just been

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<v Speaker 1>trying to make me, you know, work for it. So

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<v Speaker 1>I just was trying to open up a conversation, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>not bother her or seemed like I was getting her way. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>next time that happens, the best way to do it

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<v Speaker 1>is start reading over her shoulder. She'll eventually put her

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<v Speaker 1>phone down. So how did you end up finally engaging

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<v Speaker 1>her in conversation if she was preoccupied with her phone

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<v Speaker 1>smack it out of her hand, Well, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of made her, made a laugh a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>and so she eventually kind of just put her phone down.

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<v Speaker 1>It must not have been too important. So your email

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<v Speaker 1>says that, I mean, obviously you guys ended up going

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date, or unless this was your what

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<v Speaker 1>you're considering your first date, No, this was the I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>the free date. I guess you could say Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>what did you actually do on your date? Then? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I wanted to do something a little different

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<v Speaker 1>instead of just going a bar. I thought it'd be

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<v Speaker 1>fun to go, you know, do a little driving tour

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<v Speaker 1>around the city because there's a lot of really great views. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's kind of weird. I mean, like you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>make out points all over the place or I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think makeout points of existed since the fifties, so I'm

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<v Speaker 1>assuming that they probably weren't going there. That's what he

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<v Speaker 1>would feel like to me. I well know, she I

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<v Speaker 1>just you know, wanted to go take her on to

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<v Speaker 1>see some of the nice views and seemed like a

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<v Speaker 1>like she would be into it. And there wasn't like

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<v Speaker 1>any food or any sort of restaurant or well, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to put most of my planning into the actual

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<v Speaker 1>driving around. I have a whole map that I could

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<v Speaker 1>kind of follow, so I may have kind of not

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<v Speaker 1>planned for food as much. And I did offer to

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<v Speaker 1>go stop and you know, get a back or something.

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<v Speaker 1>That's good, all right? And were you actually using a map,

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<v Speaker 1>like a legit map like Google Maps. This whole second

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<v Speaker 1>day update is now throwback. There's makeout points. There's maps

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<v Speaker 1>and convertible Yeah I know, yeah, I mean I just

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<v Speaker 1>had it on my phone. Okay, picture you're driving around

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<v Speaker 1>this huge map over the steering wheel. Well, how did

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<v Speaker 1>that go? Then we drove around and we at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the night, we just got to see this

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful sunset. Oh, come on, that was your moment. That

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<v Speaker 1>was the moment you went in for a kiss, right, well, no, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I was debating whether I should do it because it

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<v Speaker 1>seemed like, you know, that was kind of the moment,

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<v Speaker 1>But then it was just kind of that is the

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<v Speaker 1>worst the right time. That's the worst feeling ever when

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<v Speaker 1>you're out with a girl and you're like, now is

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<v Speaker 1>the moment where I have to kiss her, and then

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<v Speaker 1>for some reason you don't do it, and then you

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<v Speaker 1>drop her off and the rest of the drive home

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, why, God, you're so stupid. All the signs

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<v Speaker 1>were there, sun set, everything. Is that how you felt?

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<v Speaker 1>Pretty much? Yeah, if this girl likes you, I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>she's thinking why didn't he do it? Like you're an idiot?

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<v Speaker 1>What did you say when you left her? I said,

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<v Speaker 1>so maybe we can do it again sometime, And then

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<v Speaker 1>she gave me a hug. Okay, so you guys hugged.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're thinking that maybe you didn't make the move

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<v Speaker 1>in the right amount of time, and now she's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he isn't really that interested in me. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it's either that or she just thinks that I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>total whimp and I just can'tled trigger on me. When

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<v Speaker 1>you're watching a sunset, here's just some advice for the future.

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<v Speaker 1>You kiss the person next to you. I don't care

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<v Speaker 1>if you're at like a lookout point by yourself and

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<v Speaker 1>like there's an old lady standing next to you the sunset.

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<v Speaker 1>Sunsets are always an appropriate time to kiss, Okay, even

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<v Speaker 1>if you're standing there with your dad, it doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 1>Sunsets are always kissed time. And how many times have

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<v Speaker 1>you try to get ahold of her since your date?

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<v Speaker 1>Two or three time? She never answered. I left left

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<v Speaker 1>voicemails each time. Here's the thing, though, I feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>even if you miss that moment of the kiss, if

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<v Speaker 1>she really liked do she get back to you. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it's because it wasn't a traditional type of date. She

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<v Speaker 1>just wasn't into that, or that could have turned her off.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, all right, well, we'll play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>come back, call her and get your second date update. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, thank you so much. Do it right after

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<v Speaker 1>this brooking jubil in the morning date, Cody is on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone with us. He wants to call a girl

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<v Speaker 1>named Sydney. They went out for a wonderful date where

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<v Speaker 1>he took her to see all the beautiful views around

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<v Speaker 1>the city. They drove around and looked at all these

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<v Speaker 1>viewpoints that he had found and eventually found himself at

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<v Speaker 1>sunset with her. Wow turned to her. They locked eyes,

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<v Speaker 1>and then Cody proceeded to grab his downstairs mix up,

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<v Speaker 1>tuck it inside of his body, cry and run away

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<v Speaker 1>like a little girl. He couldn't go through with the kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>That right, Cody, Your words, not mine. But yeah, Cody

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<v Speaker 1>feels like maybe he didn't make a move on her

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<v Speaker 1>when he should have at sunset and he felt the tension,

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<v Speaker 1>but he didn't actually go through with the kiss. So

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<v Speaker 1>he's wondering if maybe she thinks that he's just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a little whoosy boy. Would you guys just cut

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<v Speaker 1>that out? I'll quick piling one always like that. You

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<v Speaker 1>were getting some good signs before this, right, Uh? Sure?

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<v Speaker 1>Thoughts though it felt good to me. Okay, cool, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna call her right now. See we can get

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<v Speaker 1>her on the phone and get your second date update

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<v Speaker 1>ready to go. I'm ready a right to it? Helloh gott,

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<v Speaker 1>I speak to Sydney. Please, Yeah, this is she. Hey Sydney,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. Jebil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not familiar. I'm sorry. Why why are you calling me?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this a Sydney that went out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with a guy named Cody a little while ago to

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<v Speaker 1>look at views of the city? Uh? Yeah, okay, perfect,

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<v Speaker 1>Then you are the right Sydney. You're who I'm looking

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<v Speaker 1>to get ahold of it? Why a great question. We

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<v Speaker 1>do a segment on our show called the second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>You went out on a date with Cody, and Cody

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<v Speaker 1>email us to see if we could talk to you

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<v Speaker 1>and find out why you're not answering any of his

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<v Speaker 1>phone calls. Okay, that's awkward. Did you enjoy your date

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<v Speaker 1>with Cody? Um? I mean it was definitely kind of

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<v Speaker 1>an odd first date. I would say that driving around

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<v Speaker 1>looking at views. Yeah yeah, So how much do you

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<v Speaker 1>guys actually know about the date. Well, we talked to

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<v Speaker 1>Cody and he basically just told us that he wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to do something different and maybe romantic. So he said

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<v Speaker 1>that he planned out a bunch of different viewpoints you

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<v Speaker 1>could go look at. Well, yeah, I mean it was

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<v Speaker 1>definitely different. And by the way, we're we're on your

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<v Speaker 1>side with that. We think it's kind of like a

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<v Speaker 1>strange date. I would have gotten really bored by the lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you give me two viewpoints maybe, but more

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<v Speaker 1>than that, I'm checked out exactly. He really just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to look at a lot of bridges. It was all

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<v Speaker 1>about the bridges. He was really into views. He kept

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<v Speaker 1>saying views a lot. I don't know. He was just

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<v Speaker 1>really excited by it. And at one point we were

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<v Speaker 1>driving on the freeway and he pulls over on the

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<v Speaker 1>freeway to say, oh my gosh, we just have to

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<v Speaker 1>stop and look at this view. They're just on the

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<v Speaker 1>side of the freeway with cars screaming by you at

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<v Speaker 1>seventy miles an hour. Yes, when he told us about this,

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<v Speaker 1>I pictured more of like an nature thing. It was

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<v Speaker 1>like calm and quiet, had no though it was very urban. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you know a couple times even where we would stop

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<v Speaker 1>and he would have as hype under bridges to get

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<v Speaker 1>a different view, like you're going under freeway overpasses. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and he just said that that was another unique view

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<v Speaker 1>for us to enjoy together. Part was right. He did

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<v Speaker 1>tell us one thing. He said that you guys eventually

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<v Speaker 1>stumbled upon a sunset view and he felt that there

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<v Speaker 1>was a moment where you might have wanted a kiss

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<v Speaker 1>and he didn't go in for it. Was he feeling

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<v Speaker 1>the right vibe there or was he From talking to you,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like you were not feeling like being kissed,

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<v Speaker 1>not by him. Okay, you do have to give him

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<v Speaker 1>some credit. The guy put some effort into it. I see. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know because in my mind it kind of

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<v Speaker 1>actually fell I just had the potential to be romantic.

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<v Speaker 1>But what it sort of felt like Morris just that

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<v Speaker 1>he may have been too cheap to take me on

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<v Speaker 1>an actual date of these views than what was there

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<v Speaker 1>when we talked to him. I didn't get the vibe

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<v Speaker 1>like he was that scheming to be like I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>take her to look at bridges and views because I

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<v Speaker 1>want to save money. Maybe he's just got a weird

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<v Speaker 1>thing with bridges. Yeah, it wasn't just bridges though, because actually,

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<v Speaker 1>at one point toward the end, he stopped by this

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<v Speaker 1>house and I was kind of weirded out, and I said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, why are we at this random house? And

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<v Speaker 1>he said, no, don't worry, I know the guy. And

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<v Speaker 1>we went into the guy's backyard to look at yet

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<v Speaker 1>another view. And so I was just standing in the

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<v Speaker 1>stranger's backyard. I would have run if I were you

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<v Speaker 1>at that point. Hey, we're gonna go to this house.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't worry. I know a guy. Don't ask questions. Yeah, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>it was the are Okay, I'd love to find out

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<v Speaker 1>if your theory is right. Did he wanted to save

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<v Speaker 1>money so he took you on this view date? Wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>you at least like to know that? Um? Actually, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not concerned. I don't think I'm gonna go on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date. So, oh, well, that's too bad because he's

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone right now and I wanted to ask him. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, need's so nice to hear your voice. Oh, Cody,

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<v Speaker 1>do you realize how much time I spent planning that date.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it'd be unique. Well, it was appreciate it

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<v Speaker 1>also for you. Do you realize how much time I

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<v Speaker 1>spent putting this peak together? How many how many maps

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<v Speaker 1>I consulted. I spent hours on the internet looking up places.

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<v Speaker 1>I called people to plan this whole thing out. I

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<v Speaker 1>spent so much time on that, and I cared about

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<v Speaker 1>what happened. And and you just blow this off in

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<v Speaker 1>your hours on the internet. Did you not find normal restaurant? Think?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh yeah, I'm so sorry. I tried to do

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<v Speaker 1>something original for Shake instead of taking it to a

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<v Speaker 1>bar stupid restaurant. Just don't claim originality as cheap. It's

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<v Speaker 1>obvious you were just being cheap. I am not cheap.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it would be fun. Doesn't it sound weird

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<v Speaker 1>when I say we went and looked at a dozen bridges?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's weird, right? You know? It wasn't just

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<v Speaker 1>the bridge. It was a view off of the bridge,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. But if you, you know, look up from

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<v Speaker 1>your phone, maybe you would have noticed. Can we also

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned maybe how awkward it was for me standing in

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<v Speaker 1>some random dude's backyard. That's not a date. Paul is

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<v Speaker 1>not a random guy. He's a good friend of mine,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's got a really good view from the back. Wow. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Dennis Sney, let me ask you a question. Why not

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<v Speaker 1>just say, hey, let's go eat, let's do something else.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really like doing this. It's the first date,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just I don't know. I guess I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>little old fashioned. I just feel like the guy should

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<v Speaker 1>kind of take charge of that, and if it goes poorly,

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<v Speaker 1>then that's just assigned to me that there's not going

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<v Speaker 1>to be a second date. I have a perfect way

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<v Speaker 1>to solve this, Jewell, don't don't do it. No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do it. I have to do it. Sidney, would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to go on a second date with Cody?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, we will pay for you guys to

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<v Speaker 1>go out again. Uh No, threw me for a loop

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<v Speaker 1>on that one. Well, Sidney, thank you very much for

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<v Speaker 1>your time. I appreciate it. Thanks, thanks, thanks for coming

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<v Speaker 1>on to check out the show sometime. Yeah, yeah, I will,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, thank you. Well, there you go, Cody. She

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<v Speaker 1>thought your date of taking her to look at views

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<v Speaker 1>and bridges was boring. You know, I'm I'm I'm glad

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<v Speaker 1>I know now because if a girl, you know, can't

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate the view from a side of a bridge, then

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<v Speaker 1>you know, not for me. I've been saying for years,

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<v Speaker 1>if a chick can't dig a view from a bridge,

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<v Speaker 1>kick him to the curb. Sixty second. I was obviously

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<v Speaker 1>joking about the whole if chick can't appreciate the view

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<v Speaker 1>from the bridge. We're getting so many text messages in

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<v Speaker 1>at seven eighty five to nine two. They're like, this

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<v Speaker 1>chick is dumb. Bridges are legit. I'm a photographer. I

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<v Speaker 1>would have loved this date. Who knew so many people

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<v Speaker 1>were into bridges right