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Speaker 1: Second day, the guy on the phone for a second
Speaker 1: date update today? Met a girl Exactly how I do
Speaker 1: if I ever hit on a girl at a coffee shop? Okay,
Speaker 1: he was there. Yeah, he grabbed an empty coffee cup. Yeah,
Speaker 1: cut a hole in the bottom of it, placed it appropriately,
Speaker 1: and then looked at her and went, hey, you want
Speaker 1: to try some of this coffee. It's non fat. That
Speaker 1: cannot be true. Well, that's what I'm hoping he did.
Speaker 1: His email said that he met her at Starbucks, and
Speaker 1: that's just where my mind went. The old yeah, good,
Speaker 1: old girl. Girls love it when you do that. Cody,
Speaker 1: how are you doing? I'm doing well? How are you
Speaker 1: guys doing good? Please tell me that's how you met
Speaker 1: this girl at Starbucks? You know, I've never even thought
Speaker 1: of that, but you know, next time, maybe I'll consider it.
Speaker 1: Never failed, never failed. Your email said that you met
Speaker 1: the girl you want to call today at Starbucks? So
Speaker 1: how did you do it? If you didn't do the
Speaker 1: obvious thing, place yourself in a coffee cup. Well yeah, well,
Speaker 1: you know, we were just staying next to each other
Speaker 1: in line, and when we went to go try to
Speaker 1: find a place to sit, we realized that there was
Speaker 1: no two tables for each of us to sit at,
Speaker 1: so there was one, and so we just kind of
Speaker 1: decided to to, you know, share a table. You were
Speaker 1: so excited when you looked around that coffee shop and
Speaker 1: saw that well, I mean I kind of saw this
Speaker 1: a little bit of an opportunity. I mean, she was
Speaker 1: really cute. Yeah, yeah, yeah, so you invited her to
Speaker 1: sit at the table with you since there was nowhere
Speaker 1: else for her to sit. Yeah, you know, I thought
Speaker 1: it'd be, you know, a nice thing to do. Okay,
Speaker 1: pretty boring compared to everybody's got to make their own
Speaker 1: way in life, you know what I mean. So how
Speaker 1: did that go? You sat down and shared the table,
Speaker 1: did you guys have great conversation or something? You're like,
Speaker 1: I know, I want to ask her out. Well, I
Speaker 1: think I kind of awkward at first because she pulled
Speaker 1: out her phone immediately and started, you know, go through emails,
Speaker 1: and that's disappointing. I want to share this table share
Speaker 1: I do, and then she just gets on her phone
Speaker 1: and ignores you the whole time. Uh yeah, I kind
Speaker 1: of started out that way. Do you think that she
Speaker 1: knew that you were interested immediately or do you think
Speaker 1: that she just honestly had I don't know. Did she
Speaker 1: honestly have work to do? She may have just been
Speaker 1: trying to make me, you know, work for it. So
Speaker 1: I just was trying to open up a conversation, you know,
Speaker 1: not bother her or seemed like I was getting her way. Yeah,
Speaker 1: next time that happens, the best way to do it
Speaker 1: is start reading over her shoulder. She'll eventually put her
Speaker 1: phone down. So how did you end up finally engaging
Speaker 1: her in conversation if she was preoccupied with her phone
Speaker 1: smack it out of her hand, Well, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I kind of made her, made a laugh a little bit,
Speaker 1: and so she eventually kind of just put her phone down.
Speaker 1: It must not have been too important. So your email
Speaker 1: says that, I mean, obviously you guys ended up going
Speaker 1: out on a date, or unless this was your what
Speaker 1: you're considering your first date, No, this was the I guess,
Speaker 1: the free date. I guess you could say Okay, so
Speaker 1: what did you actually do on your date? Then? Well,
Speaker 1: you know, I wanted to do something a little different
Speaker 1: instead of just going a bar. I thought it'd be
Speaker 1: fun to go, you know, do a little driving tour
Speaker 1: around the city because there's a lot of really great views. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's kind of weird. I mean, like you're going to
Speaker 1: make out points all over the place or I don't
Speaker 1: think makeout points of existed since the fifties, so I'm
Speaker 1: assuming that they probably weren't going there. That's what he
Speaker 1: would feel like to me. I well know, she I
Speaker 1: just you know, wanted to go take her on to
Speaker 1: see some of the nice views and seemed like a
Speaker 1: like she would be into it. And there wasn't like
Speaker 1: any food or any sort of restaurant or well, I'm
Speaker 1: going to put most of my planning into the actual
Speaker 1: driving around. I have a whole map that I could
Speaker 1: kind of follow, so I may have kind of not
Speaker 1: planned for food as much. And I did offer to
Speaker 1: go stop and you know, get a back or something.
Speaker 1: That's good, all right? And were you actually using a map,
Speaker 1: like a legit map like Google Maps. This whole second
Speaker 1: day update is now throwback. There's makeout points. There's maps
Speaker 1: and convertible Yeah I know, yeah, I mean I just
Speaker 1: had it on my phone. Okay, picture you're driving around
Speaker 1: this huge map over the steering wheel. Well, how did
Speaker 1: that go? Then we drove around and we at the
Speaker 1: end of the night, we just got to see this
Speaker 1: beautiful sunset. Oh, come on, that was your moment. That
Speaker 1: was the moment you went in for a kiss, right, well, no, oh,
Speaker 1: I was debating whether I should do it because it
Speaker 1: seemed like, you know, that was kind of the moment,
Speaker 1: But then it was just kind of that is the
Speaker 1: worst the right time. That's the worst feeling ever when
Speaker 1: you're out with a girl and you're like, now is
Speaker 1: the moment where I have to kiss her, and then
Speaker 1: for some reason you don't do it, and then you
Speaker 1: drop her off and the rest of the drive home
Speaker 1: you're like, why, God, you're so stupid. All the signs
Speaker 1: were there, sun set, everything. Is that how you felt?
Speaker 1: Pretty much? Yeah, if this girl likes you, I'm sure
Speaker 1: she's thinking why didn't he do it? Like you're an idiot?
Speaker 1: What did you say when you left her? I said,
Speaker 1: so maybe we can do it again sometime, And then
Speaker 1: she gave me a hug. Okay, so you guys hugged.
Speaker 1: So you're thinking that maybe you didn't make the move
Speaker 1: in the right amount of time, and now she's like, oh,
Speaker 1: maybe he isn't really that interested in me. I mean
Speaker 1: it's either that or she just thinks that I'm a
Speaker 1: total whimp and I just can'tled trigger on me. When
Speaker 1: you're watching a sunset, here's just some advice for the future.
Speaker 1: You kiss the person next to you. I don't care
Speaker 1: if you're at like a lookout point by yourself and
Speaker 1: like there's an old lady standing next to you the sunset.
Speaker 1: Sunsets are always an appropriate time to kiss, Okay, even
Speaker 1: if you're standing there with your dad, it doesn't matter.
Speaker 1: Sunsets are always kissed time. And how many times have
Speaker 1: you try to get ahold of her since your date?
Speaker 1: Two or three time? She never answered. I left left
Speaker 1: voicemails each time. Here's the thing, though, I feel like,
Speaker 1: even if you miss that moment of the kiss, if
Speaker 1: she really liked do she get back to you. Maybe
Speaker 1: it's because it wasn't a traditional type of date. She
Speaker 1: just wasn't into that, or that could have turned her off.
Speaker 1: I don't know, all right, well, we'll play a song,
Speaker 1: come back, call her and get your second date update. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, thank you so much. Do it right after
Speaker 1: this brooking jubil in the morning date, Cody is on
Speaker 1: the phone with us. He wants to call a girl
Speaker 1: named Sydney. They went out for a wonderful date where
Speaker 1: he took her to see all the beautiful views around
Speaker 1: the city. They drove around and looked at all these
Speaker 1: viewpoints that he had found and eventually found himself at
Speaker 1: sunset with her. Wow turned to her. They locked eyes,
Speaker 1: and then Cody proceeded to grab his downstairs mix up,
Speaker 1: tuck it inside of his body, cry and run away
Speaker 1: like a little girl. He couldn't go through with the kiss.
Speaker 1: That right, Cody, Your words, not mine. But yeah, Cody
Speaker 1: feels like maybe he didn't make a move on her
Speaker 1: when he should have at sunset and he felt the tension,
Speaker 1: but he didn't actually go through with the kiss. So
Speaker 1: he's wondering if maybe she thinks that he's just kind
Speaker 1: of a little whoosy boy. Would you guys just cut
Speaker 1: that out? I'll quick piling one always like that. You
Speaker 1: were getting some good signs before this, right, Uh? Sure?
Speaker 1: Thoughts though it felt good to me. Okay, cool, Well,
Speaker 1: we're gonna call her right now. See we can get
Speaker 1: her on the phone and get your second date update
Speaker 1: ready to go. I'm ready a right to it? Helloh gott,
Speaker 1: I speak to Sydney. Please, Yeah, this is she. Hey Sydney,
Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning. Jebil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.
Speaker 1: I'm not familiar. I'm sorry. Why why are you calling me?
Speaker 1: Is this a Sydney that went out on a date
Speaker 1: with a guy named Cody a little while ago to
Speaker 1: look at views of the city? Uh? Yeah, okay, perfect,
Speaker 1: Then you are the right Sydney. You're who I'm looking
Speaker 1: to get ahold of it? Why a great question. We
Speaker 1: do a segment on our show called the second Date Update.
Speaker 1: You went out on a date with Cody, and Cody
Speaker 1: email us to see if we could talk to you
Speaker 1: and find out why you're not answering any of his
Speaker 1: phone calls. Okay, that's awkward. Did you enjoy your date
Speaker 1: with Cody? Um? I mean it was definitely kind of
Speaker 1: an odd first date. I would say that driving around
Speaker 1: looking at views. Yeah yeah, So how much do you
Speaker 1: guys actually know about the date. Well, we talked to
Speaker 1: Cody and he basically just told us that he wanted
Speaker 1: to do something different and maybe romantic. So he said
Speaker 1: that he planned out a bunch of different viewpoints you
Speaker 1: could go look at. Well, yeah, I mean it was
Speaker 1: definitely different. And by the way, we're we're on your
Speaker 1: side with that. We think it's kind of like a
Speaker 1: strange date. I would have gotten really bored by the lot.
Speaker 1: I mean, you give me two viewpoints maybe, but more
Speaker 1: than that, I'm checked out exactly. He really just wanted
Speaker 1: to look at a lot of bridges. It was all
Speaker 1: about the bridges. He was really into views. He kept
Speaker 1: saying views a lot. I don't know. He was just
Speaker 1: really excited by it. And at one point we were
Speaker 1: driving on the freeway and he pulls over on the
Speaker 1: freeway to say, oh my gosh, we just have to
Speaker 1: stop and look at this view. They're just on the
Speaker 1: side of the freeway with cars screaming by you at
Speaker 1: seventy miles an hour. Yes, when he told us about this,
Speaker 1: I pictured more of like an nature thing. It was
Speaker 1: like calm and quiet, had no though it was very urban. Okay,
Speaker 1: you know a couple times even where we would stop
Speaker 1: and he would have as hype under bridges to get
Speaker 1: a different view, like you're going under freeway overpasses. Yes,
Speaker 1: and he just said that that was another unique view
Speaker 1: for us to enjoy together. Part was right. He did
Speaker 1: tell us one thing. He said that you guys eventually
Speaker 1: stumbled upon a sunset view and he felt that there
Speaker 1: was a moment where you might have wanted a kiss
Speaker 1: and he didn't go in for it. Was he feeling
Speaker 1: the right vibe there or was he From talking to you,
Speaker 1: it sounds like you were not feeling like being kissed,
Speaker 1: not by him. Okay, you do have to give him
Speaker 1: some credit. The guy put some effort into it. I see. Actually,
Speaker 1: I don't know because in my mind it kind of
Speaker 1: actually fell I just had the potential to be romantic.
Speaker 1: But what it sort of felt like Morris just that
Speaker 1: he may have been too cheap to take me on
Speaker 1: an actual date of these views than what was there
Speaker 1: when we talked to him. I didn't get the vibe
Speaker 1: like he was that scheming to be like I'm gonna
Speaker 1: take her to look at bridges and views because I
Speaker 1: want to save money. Maybe he's just got a weird
Speaker 1: thing with bridges. Yeah, it wasn't just bridges though, because actually,
Speaker 1: at one point toward the end, he stopped by this
Speaker 1: house and I was kind of weirded out, and I said,
Speaker 1: you know, why are we at this random house? And
Speaker 1: he said, no, don't worry, I know the guy. And
Speaker 1: we went into the guy's backyard to look at yet
Speaker 1: another view. And so I was just standing in the
Speaker 1: stranger's backyard. I would have run if I were you
Speaker 1: at that point. Hey, we're gonna go to this house.
Speaker 1: Don't worry. I know a guy. Don't ask questions. Yeah, exactly,
Speaker 1: it was the are Okay, I'd love to find out
Speaker 1: if your theory is right. Did he wanted to save
Speaker 1: money so he took you on this view date? Wouldn't
Speaker 1: you at least like to know that? Um? Actually, I'm
Speaker 1: not concerned. I don't think I'm gonna go on a
Speaker 1: second date. So, oh, well, that's too bad because he's
Speaker 1: on the phone right now and I wanted to ask him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I said, need's so nice to hear your voice. Oh, Cody,
Speaker 1: do you realize how much time I spent planning that date.
Speaker 1: I thought it'd be unique. Well, it was appreciate it
Speaker 1: also for you. Do you realize how much time I
Speaker 1: spent putting this peak together? How many how many maps
Speaker 1: I consulted. I spent hours on the internet looking up places.
Speaker 1: I called people to plan this whole thing out. I
Speaker 1: spent so much time on that, and I cared about
Speaker 1: what happened. And and you just blow this off in
Speaker 1: your hours on the internet. Did you not find normal restaurant? Think?
Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah, I'm so sorry. I tried to do
Speaker 1: something original for Shake instead of taking it to a
Speaker 1: bar stupid restaurant. Just don't claim originality as cheap. It's
Speaker 1: obvious you were just being cheap. I am not cheap.
Speaker 1: I thought it would be fun. Doesn't it sound weird
Speaker 1: when I say we went and looked at a dozen bridges?
Speaker 1: I mean, that's weird, right? You know? It wasn't just
Speaker 1: the bridge. It was a view off of the bridge,
Speaker 1: you know. But if you, you know, look up from
Speaker 1: your phone, maybe you would have noticed. Can we also
Speaker 1: mentioned maybe how awkward it was for me standing in
Speaker 1: some random dude's backyard. That's not a date. Paul is
Speaker 1: not a random guy. He's a good friend of mine,
Speaker 1: and he's got a really good view from the back. Wow. Okay,
Speaker 1: Dennis Sney, let me ask you a question. Why not
Speaker 1: just say, hey, let's go eat, let's do something else.
Speaker 1: I don't really like doing this. It's the first date,
Speaker 1: and I just I don't know. I guess I'm a
Speaker 1: little old fashioned. I just feel like the guy should
Speaker 1: kind of take charge of that, and if it goes poorly,
Speaker 1: then that's just assigned to me that there's not going
Speaker 1: to be a second date. I have a perfect way
Speaker 1: to solve this, Jewell, don't don't do it. No, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna do it. I have to do it. Sidney, would
Speaker 1: you like to go on a second date with Cody?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, we will pay for you guys to
Speaker 1: go out again. Uh No, threw me for a loop
Speaker 1: on that one. Well, Sidney, thank you very much for
Speaker 1: your time. I appreciate it. Thanks, thanks, thanks for coming
Speaker 1: on to check out the show sometime. Yeah, yeah, I will,
Speaker 1: all right, thank you. Well, there you go, Cody. She
Speaker 1: thought your date of taking her to look at views
Speaker 1: and bridges was boring. You know, I'm I'm I'm glad
Speaker 1: I know now because if a girl, you know, can't
Speaker 1: appreciate the view from a side of a bridge, then
Speaker 1: you know, not for me. I've been saying for years,
Speaker 1: if a chick can't dig a view from a bridge,
Speaker 1: kick him to the curb. Sixty second. I was obviously
Speaker 1: joking about the whole if chick can't appreciate the view
Speaker 1: from the bridge. We're getting so many text messages in
Speaker 1: at seven eighty five to nine two. They're like, this
Speaker 1: chick is dumb. Bridges are legit. I'm a photographer. I
Speaker 1: would have loved this date. Who knew so many people
Speaker 1: were into bridges right