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Speaker 1: Second day, the guy on the phone for a second

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Speaker 1: date update today? Met a girl Exactly how I do

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Speaker 1: if I ever hit on a girl at a coffee shop? Okay,

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Speaker 1: he was there. Yeah, he grabbed an empty coffee cup. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: to try some of this coffee. It's non fat. That

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Speaker 1: His email said that he met her at Starbucks, and

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Speaker 1: old girl. Girls love it when you do that. Cody,

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Speaker 1: how are you doing? I'm doing well? How are you

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Speaker 1: guys doing good? Please tell me that's how you met

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Speaker 1: Never failed, never failed. Your email said that you met

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Speaker 1: this brooking jubil in the morning date, Cody is on

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Speaker 1: ready to go. I'm ready a right to it? Helloh gott,

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Speaker 1: I speak to Sydney. Please, Yeah, this is she. Hey Sydney,

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Speaker 1: Then you are the right Sydney. You're who I'm looking

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Speaker 1: You went out on a date with Cody, and Cody

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Speaker 1: Don't worry. I know a guy. Don't ask questions. Yeah, exactly,

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Speaker 1: it was the are Okay, I'd love to find out

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Speaker 1: I said, need's so nice to hear your voice. Oh, Cody,

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Speaker 1: I thought it'd be unique. Well, it was appreciate it

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Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah, I'm so sorry. I tried to do

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Speaker 1: to solve this, Jewell, don't don't do it. No, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna do it. I have to do it. Sidney, would

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, we will pay for you guys to

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Speaker 1: all right, thank you. Well, there you go, Cody. She

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Speaker 1: I know now because if a girl, you know, can't

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