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Buckle up and hold on tight. 19 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:06,319 Speaker 2: We got it for you. 20 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: Here. 21 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 2: It is Strawberry. 22 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 1: Letter, subject I love him but dot dot dot Dear 23 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:16,559 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I'm a thirty year old professional woman dating 24 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:19,320 Speaker 1: a man that just got a divorce. I met him 25 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:22,119 Speaker 1: while he was still married, but we didn't go out 26 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 1: until he moved out of his home. He was still 27 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:29,199 Speaker 1: married but legally separated. On our first date, his wife 28 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:32,320 Speaker 1: followed him and she made a big scene in public, 29 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 1: calling me all kinds of names. He cursed her out 30 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 1: so badly that I was ashamed for her and scared 31 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 1: of him. I knew in the back of my mind 32 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:44,679 Speaker 1: that she would be a problem and he might one 33 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 1: day curse me out like that if he got mad 34 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 1: enough at me, but I kept on dating him. When 35 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: he got a divorce, he opened up about how he 36 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 1: cheated on his wife twice and she caught him both times. 37 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 1: He told me that he'd gotten that out of his system, 38 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 1: and since he has a good woman in parentheses met, 39 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 1: he didn't have a reason to cheat. He's a great 40 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 1: lover and provider, and he's cultured. He asked me to 41 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 1: marry him on a Sunday in front of my mother, 42 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 1: and I said yes. By that Wednesday, I found out 43 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:23,239 Speaker 1: he might have another woman that he was sleeping with, 44 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 1: and she said he told her he wants a future 45 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: with her. I told her that I'm engaged to him, 46 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 1: and she was surprised. I called him at work and 47 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 1: he said he wanted to talk face to face. So 48 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 1: he picked me up from work and we drove an 49 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 1: hour to the lake and he had some snacks and 50 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 1: wine in the car. He told me that the lady 51 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 1: was lying and he thought I was smarter than that. 52 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 1: We made love on a blanket by the lake, and 53 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 1: my heart said that this was my husband. It was 54 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 1: the most romantic day ever. My heart flutters around him, 55 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 1: but I don't think I know him well enough to 56 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 1: marry him. Our wedding is in June, and I love him, 57 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 1: but dot dot I need more time. Are most people 58 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 1: uncertain before the wedding? Well, a lot are. I won't 59 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 1: say most, but a lot of people are. Yeah, uncertain 60 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 1: before the wedding. But you should be pretty certain though. 61 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:22,359 Speaker 1: Haven't you heard the saying when people show you who 62 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 1: they are, believe them. I mean, this man has shown 63 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 1: you what he's capable of. You even said you were 64 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 1: afraid of him after he cursed his wife out like that, 65 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 1: but you still didn't break it off with him. You 66 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 1: said he's a good lover. No, you said he was 67 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 1: a great lover and provider. You know, those are wonderful 68 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 1: qualities in a man to be a great lover, great provider, 69 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 1: all of that. But did you forget did you forget 70 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 1: that he cheated on his wife twice? And then that's 71 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 1: why they're getting a divorce. Okay, So whatever you do, 72 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 1: you got to get to know this man. You got 73 00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 1: to continue that. You may find other out, other things 74 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: that he does. The real him is going to eventually 75 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 1: show up. I mean, you know, I get the lake 76 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 1: and sex by the leg and the fruit and the 77 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 1: wine and the snacks and all of that, but you 78 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:16,599 Speaker 1: got to listen to your gut. You obviously can't forget 79 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 1: how he acted when he was angry at his first wife. 80 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 1: Then you're wondering if one day maybe he could do 81 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 1: that to you. Well, he certainly has the capacity for 82 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 1: it now, doesn't he. So I suggest to you, guys, 83 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 1: go to marriage counseling before getting married, even you know, 84 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:36,720 Speaker 1: if you even are still considering taking that step. You 85 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:40,480 Speaker 1: guys need some kind of understanding, some kind of guidance. 86 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 1: Marriage is one of the biggest things you can do 87 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 1: in life, So you need to do whatever you can 88 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 1: to protect yourself. Tell him you want to go to 89 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 1: marriage counseling first and see how that goes. 90 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 3: Steve, you know what, I happen to agree with everything 91 00:04:55,040 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 3: Shirley said. I do, lady. I just want to add 92 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 3: this one thing. I love him. But okay, you know, 93 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 3: my father used to tell me all the time, if 94 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 3: when you say butt indicates everything you said in front 95 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:11,719 Speaker 3: of that. 96 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:14,840 Speaker 2: So when you're talking to me and you. 97 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:18,159 Speaker 3: Say butt, boy just noted whatever you said before, don't 98 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:19,159 Speaker 3: even apply no more. 99 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 2: And that's the case right here. 100 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 3: But this is a case of intuition, and God gives 101 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 3: intuition to women to protect you from the hunter, which 102 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:34,560 Speaker 3: is us. See, we have hunting skills, you have intuition 103 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:38,920 Speaker 3: that which is your safeguard against us. But y'all keep 104 00:05:39,080 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 3: ignoring the intuition because you want to believe your heart 105 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 3: instead of your mind. And that's where the problem starts. 106 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 3: You're thirty year old professional. You're dating a man that 107 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 3: just got a divorce. He was still married when you 108 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 3: get married. Y'all ain't go out till he moved out 109 00:05:57,200 --> 00:06:00,840 Speaker 3: of his house. He was still married but legally separated. 110 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:04,839 Speaker 3: On your first date, his wife followed him, and she 111 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 3: made a huge scene in Pulley called you all kind 112 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:11,119 Speaker 3: of name. He cuts out so bad. You felt bad 113 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 3: for her, and you were scared of him. And then 114 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 3: you knew in the back of your mind. See, here 115 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:20,039 Speaker 3: we go, the mind, now the mind. The mind is 116 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:24,479 Speaker 3: where the intuition resides. Heart is it gets you in trouble. 117 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:26,840 Speaker 3: Your mind is where that I knew in the back 118 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 3: of my mind she would be a problem, and he 119 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 3: might one day cuss me out like that if he 120 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 3: got mad enough in me when we come back. 121 00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 2: That has set the toe for the rest of my answer. 122 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:40,039 Speaker 2: All right, I understand what I'm going. 123 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 1: Right. We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up 124 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:45,360 Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the hour of today's Strawberry 125 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 1: letter subject I love him but dot dot dot. We'll 126 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening hard 127 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 1: Morning show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's 128 00:06:57,680 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 1: Strubberry letter, the subject I love him but do well. 129 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:05,280 Speaker 3: Here we go, perfect case of a woman following her 130 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 3: heart and ignoring her intuition. Your intuition is in your mind. 131 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 3: Your heart is filled with nothing but emotions. Your heart hurts, 132 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 3: your heart bleeds, your heart loves, your heart breaks. All 133 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 3: that your mind just thinks, and that's where you intuition is. 134 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 3: Stop ignoring it. Ladies, you're thirty year old woman dating 135 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 3: the man got a divorce. You made it while he 136 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 3: was married, but you all didn't go out until he 137 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 3: moved out the house. He was still married but legally separated. 138 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 3: Y'all went out on your first date. His wife followed. 139 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 2: Y'all made a huge scene, call him all kinds of names. 140 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 3: He cussed out. He custs out so bad. You was 141 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:48,680 Speaker 3: ashamed for her, but you were scared of him. Then 142 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 3: here we go. I knew in the back of my 143 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 3: mind that she would be a problem and he might 144 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 3: one day cuss me out like that if he got 145 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 3: mad enough at me. Now you knew this in the 146 00:07:57,720 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 3: back of your mind. That's where you're into wish and resigned. 147 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 3: But I kept on dating. When he got a divorce, 148 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 3: he opened up about how he had cheated on his 149 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 3: wife twice, and she caught him both times. 150 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 2: Damn this dude, This dude can't cheat. 151 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 3: He cheated on his wife twice, she caught him both times. 152 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 2: Y'all went on one date. 153 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 3: She caught y'all asked inn, this dude's track record for 154 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 3: getting caught. He you dating somebody real stupid. Now, I 155 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 3: just want you to know that. You know, he told 156 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 3: me that he got that out of his system since 157 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 3: he has a good woman and he didn't have a 158 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:45,440 Speaker 3: reason to treat cheat. Now here you go. He's a 159 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:49,080 Speaker 3: good lover and provider and he's cultured. But he's stupid though. 160 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 3: See that's the part you're leaving out. He's a great lover, provider, 161 00:08:54,440 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 3: he's cultured, and he's stupid. He asked me to marry 162 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:03,440 Speaker 3: him on Sunday in front of my mama, and I said, yes, 163 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 3: now it's Sunday. 164 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:06,000 Speaker 2: Now. 165 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 3: By that Wednesday, three damn days, I found out he 166 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 3: might have another woman that he was sleeping with, and. 167 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 2: She said he told her that he wants the future 168 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 2: with her. 169 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 3: Wait a minute, his wife busted him twice, y'all went 170 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:30,679 Speaker 3: on one date she busted y'all, he asked you to 171 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 3: marry him on Sunday on Wednesday, you done busted his 172 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:39,559 Speaker 3: ass again. How dumb is this man? Right here? You're 173 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 3: dating somebody? That stupid man. He can't cover tracks. He 174 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:48,560 Speaker 3: might be a good provider and he might be a 175 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:51,679 Speaker 3: good lover, but he's not a good protector. See, he 176 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 3: don't know how to protect a woman's feelings. He not 177 00:09:54,360 --> 00:10:00,679 Speaker 3: gonna guard your heart because he reckless. He's stupid. She said. 178 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 3: He told her he wants some future with her. I 179 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:05,280 Speaker 3: told her I'm engaged in him. She was surprised, really 180 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 3: when y'all engaged. I called him at work and he 181 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 3: said he wants to talk face to faith. See that, 182 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 3: see that face to face. That gave him time to 183 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 3: get itself together. So he picked you up from work 184 00:10:20,720 --> 00:10:22,840 Speaker 3: and we drove an hour or two of lake, and 185 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 3: he had some snacks and wine in the car. Well, 186 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 3: ain't that a good thing? Oh yeah, oh yeah, I'm 187 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 3: gonna go fix her all this busting me. I'm gonna 188 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 3: give me some crackers and some wine. Gonna get some cheese, 189 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 3: cheese blocks, cut him up. Don't get me a damn blank. 190 00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 3: I'm gonna talk to her down here by this damn lake. Yeah, 191 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:48,959 Speaker 3: good thing. He bought them snacks. He told me that 192 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 3: the lady was lying, and he thought I was smarter 193 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 3: than that. Wait a minute, if the lady lined, how 194 00:10:55,160 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 3: did you find the lady? 195 00:10:57,760 --> 00:11:00,720 Speaker 2: What you just mean to tell me? 196 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 3: That you pulled a woman's name out of thin air 197 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:08,080 Speaker 3: and called her and she just happened to know who 198 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:12,960 Speaker 3: he was. No, he told you the lady was lying, 199 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 3: and he thought I was smarter than that. 200 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:16,040 Speaker 2: You are smarter. 201 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:19,480 Speaker 3: You found out Wednesday, right after he asked you to 202 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:23,719 Speaker 3: marry him. Sunday we made love on a blanket by 203 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 3: the lake, and my heart said, this is my hood. 204 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 2: He go, you can you go to mess around with 205 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 2: your heart? Here your heart go, ladies, here you go. 206 00:11:35,080 --> 00:11:36,680 Speaker 2: Heart told me this was my hunts. 207 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:39,679 Speaker 3: Your brain just had you call a woman out of 208 00:11:39,760 --> 00:11:43,439 Speaker 3: nodamn where bingo. She was having a future with the 209 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:47,559 Speaker 3: dude too. So now it's really three chicks that his 210 00:11:47,679 --> 00:11:51,079 Speaker 3: wife he was cheating on. You busted him with one, 211 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:53,760 Speaker 3: and the wife then busted him with the two he 212 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:56,720 Speaker 3: cheated on, and y'all on your first day now, dumb 213 00:11:56,760 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 3: ass is back at it again. We made love on 214 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 3: the blanket body lake, and my heart said, this is 215 00:12:05,559 --> 00:12:09,960 Speaker 3: my horse. It was the most romantic day ever. You 216 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:14,160 Speaker 3: need to have some more damn days, then, how is 217 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 3: this the most romantic day ever? On the day that 218 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:21,320 Speaker 3: you found out he was sleeping with somebody else? This 219 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 3: is the most romantic day. You need to hear him 220 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 3: have some more damn days. Our wedding is in June. 221 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:30,280 Speaker 3: My heart flutters around him, but I don't know him 222 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 3: well enough to marry him. Our wedding is in June, 223 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 3: and I love him, but I need more time. Why 224 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 3: don't you take more time? Ain't nothing to say. You 225 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 3: got to get married in June. 226 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:43,680 Speaker 2: Call it off so. 227 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 3: You can find out what you really got and you 228 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:49,439 Speaker 3: might find out a whole lot more. Are most people 229 00:12:49,559 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 3: uncertain before the wedding? What is you worrying about? Most people? 230 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:55,959 Speaker 3: You wrote the damn letter? 231 00:12:56,520 --> 00:12:57,199 Speaker 2: You are? 232 00:12:57,679 --> 00:13:00,319 Speaker 3: You are concerned and you need to be You need 233 00:13:00,360 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 3: to call is weding off and get yourself together until 234 00:13:02,960 --> 00:13:04,240 Speaker 3: you notice man better. 235 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:08,079 Speaker 1: Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter. Thank you, Steve. 236 00:13:08,080 --> 00:13:11,320 Speaker 1: It's Steve Barby FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check 237 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 1: out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now coming up 238 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:17,199 Speaker 1: at forty six minutes after the hour, It's Junior with 239 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:20,200 Speaker 1: Sports Talk and we'll get into that right after this. 240 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 1: You're listening to Harvey Morning Show.