1 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:17,320 Speaker 1: All right. So there's so much discussion about where I 2 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: live and what it's like. And I was on the 3 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 1: Shared Private Play and the other day and saw this 4 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:26,119 Speaker 1: woman that I had seen before, and we were in 5 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:28,640 Speaker 1: the bathroom and she was like, I miss it here 6 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 1: because we just landed in New York. And I was like, right, 7 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 1: but you're here. And it's funny because everyone people wanted 8 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: to find where I am in my life by where 9 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 1: I am right now. Like it's just I don't know 10 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 1: if it provokes something and other people about changes they 11 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 1: should be making or where they should be living. I 12 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:52,159 Speaker 1: don't have imposter syndrome in my career, but I have 13 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 1: some version of it in my life now. Like we're 14 00:00:56,880 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 1: so used to life being some version of a struggle, 15 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: Sunday scaries, dreading, Monday business trips, things you don't want 16 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 1: to do. Things you only have to do all your 17 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 1: kids are home. You have to go to all the 18 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 1: recitals and make the costumes or do the sports games 19 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:13,479 Speaker 1: on the weekends and do the travel team and get 20 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 1: the snacks and be the class mom and go to 21 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 1: the parent teacher conferences and all the things. 22 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 2: How is my life in Miami? Have I settled? In 23 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:23,959 Speaker 2: How is. 24 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:27,760 Speaker 1: It different than me being in Connecticut. Connecticut was a prison. 25 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:29,960 Speaker 1: That's the honest truth. I could say it another way, 26 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:32,119 Speaker 1: but for my personality at the point of my life, 27 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:37,240 Speaker 1: Connecticut was a burden. It was a trap. It was 28 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 1: a prison. It was stifling, depressing, soul crushing. Not because 29 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 1: of the state of Connecticut, which is beautiful, because of. 30 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 2: My life there. 31 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: Because I am older, I spend a lot of time alone. 32 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 2: I work a lot. 33 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 1: I want to feel every day like I'm connected to 34 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: some version of nature. And while I would walk in 35 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 1: Connecticut and go on nature walks and it was nice. 36 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: Now every day I jump in the ocean, I am 37 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 1: in the salt water, I walk on the sand, I 38 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 1: feel the sand on my feet. I can't believe this 39 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:11,080 Speaker 1: gets to be my life. This is what connects me 40 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:13,920 Speaker 1: to the earth. Some people love the mountains, some people 41 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 1: love a lake. Some people love a desert. Some people 42 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: love a cactus, some people love an open field. Love 43 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 1: what you want. Some people love the concrete jungle. I 44 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:25,799 Speaker 1: like the ocean and jumping in the water. It saves 45 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: my life. So I could not be happier because even 46 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 1: if I'm lonely, bored, feel purposeless, depressed, sad. I still 47 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 1: can connect to the ocean, and that's all that I 48 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 1: really need. So my life is now that I have 49 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 1: a better relationship with the New York. I have a 50 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:46,079 Speaker 1: place in Miami. I have another place in Florida. I 51 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: have created the greatest life for myself where I don't 52 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 1: stay in hotels in New York or in Miami. I 53 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:53,920 Speaker 1: have a beautiful home there if I want to go 54 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:55,959 Speaker 1: there to do work, or to go on a date, 55 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: or to have fond or to go out and dance 56 00:02:57,560 --> 00:02:58,079 Speaker 1: or to drink. 57 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:00,799 Speaker 2: I've worked so hard, and it still works so hard 58 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:01,839 Speaker 2: to get to live this life. 59 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: And it feels a little bit like I've never felt 60 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 1: imposter syndrome in what I have and in what I've 61 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 1: earned and what I've created and how much money I 62 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,080 Speaker 1: have or fame or any of that stuff. I have 63 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 1: some cousin of impostor syndrome where I can't believe that 64 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: this is my life. Like somebody yesterday was like, what 65 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: are your goals? What career would you like to have? 66 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, I have everything I want. No one has 67 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 1: anything I want. I have a career that you can 68 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: only dream of. I can't believe this is my life 69 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 1: and real, and I'm so grateful. 70 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 2: And when I walk on. 71 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 1: The beach every day, it's like doing yoga. I thank 72 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 1: the universe. I can't believe it. I can't believe I'm 73 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 1: in the water. I can't believe I get to wake 74 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 1: up at seven o'clock in the morning if I can't sleep, 75 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 1: go to the ocean. I just can't believe it. So 76 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 1: I'm thrilled. And it changed my life and my daughter's happier. 77 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 1: But I am thrilled. But it's really a life that 78 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 1: I made like this, like it was always some version 79 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 1: of a struggle for me. 80 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 2: I'm just used to. 81 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 1: Not struggling in a way that many people in this 82 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: country unfortunately struggle. But my own version have a struggle 83 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 1: of not knowing what's going to happen to me and 84 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 1: how I'm going to support myself and how I'm going 85 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 1: to get there. And once you hit the cover off 86 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 1: the ball, if you're smart and you don't get caught 87 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 1: up in the joneses and showing off or anything like that, 88 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 1: if you're smart and you're smart with money, you can 89 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 1: really never have to go back there again. 90 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 2: You know. 91 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 1: I don't mean like making one nice paycheck or one 92 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 1: nice thing. But if you've had one thing happen, like 93 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 1: you sell a house or a big bonus, or something 94 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:32,600 Speaker 1: big happens, or someone leaves you money or you inherit it, 95 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 1: you can turn it into something positive. Like you could 96 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 1: probably always go in that direction if you're smart. People 97 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 1: get excited, people get greedy, people get stupid, people get insecure, 98 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:46,040 Speaker 1: and they want to show off. And I'm not any 99 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 1: of that, to be honest, I've always been pretty much 100 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 1: the wolves are at the end of the bed with 101 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 1: the money, meaning you never know when it could be 102 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 1: taken away. But then you get to a certain point 103 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:57,600 Speaker 1: where you've been fairly smart, and for me, real estate 104 00:04:57,680 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 1: has been a part of that. Things that I know 105 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 1: that I could let go of at anytime and move 106 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 1: at anytime. 107 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:06,719 Speaker 2: Like I don't get over my skis. 108 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:10,039 Speaker 1: I happen to like places that are of good size 109 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 1: and value. But I always like charm more than just 110 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 1: gigantic or I won't spend. I never spend more than 111 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 1: I can afford. 112 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:21,600 Speaker 2: Never. It doesn't exist. 113 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:23,919 Speaker 1: When I was younger, I did, I had credit cards, 114 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 1: I'm a charge and have anxiety. 115 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 2: But now I definitely don't. 116 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 1: So what I've built is a life where I don't 117 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:34,560 Speaker 1: have to work ever again if I don't want to. 118 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:36,919 Speaker 1: My daughter doesn't have to work ever again. I like 119 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 1: to work, I like to have purpose. I like to 120 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:44,599 Speaker 1: Actually it's not I don't know that. It's not that 121 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 1: I like to work. I'm not a workaholic. It's that 122 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:50,279 Speaker 1: I like to ide e and if I have an idea, 123 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:54,039 Speaker 1: I like to execute it. That's sort of like it's 124 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 1: not an addiction, but it's it's just in my nature. 125 00:05:58,080 --> 00:05:59,239 Speaker 2: It's just in my nature. 126 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 1: So an idea I'm going to execute, I'm going to 127 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 1: follow through five partners. I'm going to make them proud 128 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 1: and make them money. And that's just sort of how 129 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:12,279 Speaker 1: I think about things. But this life now is pinch me. 130 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:16,720 Speaker 1: I mean it's like I woke up this morning, bring 131 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 1: goes to school. I'm getting a rhythm, like when you 132 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 1: move someplace now you have to get your rhythm. Now 133 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 1: this has become a new base for me. I'm traveling 134 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:27,679 Speaker 1: a lot, but in burse meaning I'm going this Friday 135 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:29,920 Speaker 1: to Paris for fashion week to walk in the Lorel 136 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: Paris Fashion Show, and then I'll run back to the 137 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 1: nest four days later, and then two weeks later or 138 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 1: ten days later, I'm going to New York and Vegas 139 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:41,479 Speaker 1: for the Alex Cooper on Well Show. And then I 140 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 1: go to New York for a photo shoot and things 141 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 1: like that, and then I come back to the nest. 142 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:46,839 Speaker 1: You know, my daughter this weekend is going to see 143 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 1: some friends. We're kind of like, we're not peers. She's 144 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 1: a teen and I'm an adult, but peers in our 145 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 1: making our lives work for us in this new environment. Like, 146 00:06:57,040 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 1: she misses some of our friends from home. So because 147 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 1: I'm going to be away this it's a good time 148 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: for her to go to New York to go see them. 149 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:05,799 Speaker 1: Another weekend, her friend's going to come in and visit. 150 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 1: And last weekend we both stayed here so I could 151 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 1: take her to the University of Miami game. 152 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 2: Like, it's kind of. 153 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 1: Like where some version of a mom and teen a 154 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 1: roommate where we're both getting what we need to get done, 155 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 1: spending meaningful time in between and making it work for 156 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 1: the whole household. That's very unique. It's not like a 157 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 1: struggle or sacrifice for either of us. We're both right 158 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 1: now getting what we need. So this has become a 159 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 1: New Base. I have a big house here in Florida, 160 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 1: and then I have a place in Miami, which is 161 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 1: like the city. 162 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 2: That's like I consider that New York City. 163 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 1: People are shocked by that that further up north, I 164 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:43,280 Speaker 1: have a home. But then that I have a place 165 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 1: in Miami, but that is like a workplace, meaning I 166 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 1: go there, yes, if there's a concert, or if there's 167 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 1: a date, or if there's something fun. But there are 168 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 1: a lot of business appearances and opportunities that I've had 169 00:07:56,800 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 1: in Miami that have justified me buying that place. Because again, 170 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 1: it's an investment, it's a write off, it's an investment, 171 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 1: and it's a place that I could move at anytime. 172 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 2: I always increase value. 173 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 1: So real estate becomes something great to use for you 174 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 1: if you're smart about it. So I woke up this 175 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 1: morning and bring I wake up. I wait for her 176 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 1: to come down so I can see her before she 177 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:19,760 Speaker 1: goes to school and just give her a kiss. And 178 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 1: she's always so sweet in the morning, which is so nice. 179 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 1: She's not sweet when I walk in her rooms, that's 180 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:25,960 Speaker 1: like a no no. But when she says good morning, mom, 181 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 1: I love you, and then she leaves, it's like a 182 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: nice little button on the morning, and then I go 183 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 1: walk to the beach, which is I live at the 184 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 1: beach now in my life, this crazy life that I've created. 185 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:39,199 Speaker 1: Three out of my four homes are on or right 186 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:41,959 Speaker 1: at the beach. So I walk this morning, jump in 187 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 1: the ocean. I make sure I jump in the ocean 188 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 1: because that feels like medication, It feels like one with nature. 189 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:51,200 Speaker 2: That's the moment. 190 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 1: Try to create moments where you're grateful, like, yes, I 191 00:08:57,440 --> 00:08:58,880 Speaker 1: get I make a lot of money, and I get 192 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 1: amazing business opportuit comunities every day, and I get excited. 193 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:05,480 Speaker 1: But there aren't that many moments where you actually stop 194 00:09:05,559 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 1: and say thank you to something, like to universe and 195 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 1: for me, every time I do a yoga class, which 196 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 1: isn't that often, even if I do a yoga DVD, 197 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:17,120 Speaker 1: at the end, I thank the universe and myself and 198 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 1: not in some like faux spiritual way. It's just what 199 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:21,720 Speaker 1: comes to my body. It's just like thank you, like 200 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 1: I'm almost thanking myself. I'm just thinking all of it. 201 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 1: And when I go to the beach and take a walk, 202 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:30,560 Speaker 1: I feel really good. But when I jump in the 203 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 1: water and swim, I am grateful. I can't believe my life. 204 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 1: I can't believe it's happening. It just shifts everything. It's 205 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 1: really really good. I strongly recommend if you can get 206 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 1: in some water, it's just a different type of experience. 207 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:46,079 Speaker 2: So that's how I started the day. 208 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 1: And even though I don't have that many friends in 209 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:51,000 Speaker 1: my new environment, it's very different than when I was 210 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 1: in Connecticut and would take like a nature walk as 211 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 1: my big activity. But the going in the water makes 212 00:09:56,559 --> 00:09:58,680 Speaker 1: this whole house worth it. And even if I don't 213 00:09:58,720 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 1: have tons of here and I'm not social and I 214 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 1: don't even go out to dinner unless I'm going on 215 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 1: a date, Like in a whole week, I could be 216 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:07,680 Speaker 1: at this house except for a manicure the whole entire time. 217 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 1: That beach walk and ocean makes me feel like it 218 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:16,040 Speaker 1: gives me purpose in living in this home, and that 219 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:19,199 Speaker 1: can keep me going until I get on the plane 220 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 1: and go to the next work activity. So I'm very bursty. 221 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 1: I stay home, be healthy, nest, and then go burst 222 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 1: into the next exciting thing that, like on a global scale, 223 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:33,960 Speaker 1: would be exciting, you know, doing a Lorel Paris fashion show, 224 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 1: going to Paris, wearing all the outfits like acting like 225 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 1: this is what my entire life is, which it really isn't. 226 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 1: It's very small percentage of my life, but it will 227 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:44,960 Speaker 1: feel and look like that in the coming days. 228 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:49,440 Speaker 2: So that, to me is my cadence. That's just how 229 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:50,439 Speaker 2: it works. 230 00:10:51,080 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 1: What I'm saying is you find the lifestyle that works 231 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 1: for you within where you're living. Where you live does 232 00:10:56,280 --> 00:11:00,000 Speaker 1: and have to be the most important thing that defines you. 233 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 1: Like it's not like it's just that I'm living next 234 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:06,439 Speaker 1: to the ocean that's making this feel like my entire 235 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:09,200 Speaker 1: life is complete. But it's not like living here means 236 00:11:09,200 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 1: I have tons of friends and a social life and 237 00:11:11,480 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 1: everything is perfect. 238 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 2: It's not. 239 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:16,160 Speaker 1: It's just that I at least gave myself that to 240 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:19,960 Speaker 1: make this change in life meaningful for myself. 241 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 2: I hope that makes sense. 242 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:38,679 Speaker 1: The base of where I'm living, being in an environment 243 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:42,439 Speaker 1: that is conducive to that kind of like therapeutic effect 244 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:44,960 Speaker 1: for me means that when I have to go to 245 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 1: New York for work, I'm like leaping. When I was 246 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 1: living in Connecticut, I was dragging into New York it 247 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: was only an hour. Now I'm leaping because it's like, wait, 248 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 1: I'm part of the New York City experience, Like everything 249 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:58,720 Speaker 1: feels like an adventure and a vacation and an experience, 250 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 1: where before it all felt like a drag. If I 251 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 1: wasn't in the right place and the right base. 252 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 2: I really wasn't. 253 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 1: And I am a work from home person that could 254 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:11,959 Speaker 1: be challenging too. I'll say, like, sometimes I'm just wandering 255 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:14,480 Speaker 1: around my house all day, you know, in slippers, and 256 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 1: I am making an effort. The pandemic fucked all that up. 257 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:18,600 Speaker 1: When we were all on in pajamas every day and 258 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:21,040 Speaker 1: just got into like ordering in food and never leaving, 259 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:24,559 Speaker 1: it was really weird. And now I make an effort 260 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 1: to wear something cute, even though I'm not leaving the house. 261 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 2: Like it's just that I'm. 262 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 1: Seeing Jack who works with me, and he dresses really 263 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:34,560 Speaker 1: cute every day, and I just want to make some 264 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:36,400 Speaker 1: version of an effort to put on some of my clothes, 265 00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 1: even if it's for one social media picture like a story, 266 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:40,959 Speaker 1: just to be like, Hi, I woke up, I got dressed. 267 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:43,680 Speaker 1: Otherwise I'm just like weirdo in sweats all the time. 268 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:46,680 Speaker 1: So I'm liking that I'm making like an effort in 269 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 1: this house where the last house I was really in 270 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 1: pajamas half the time. It's a transition. I don't know 271 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 1: if I'll be here forever and how long. And that 272 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:56,960 Speaker 1: affects dating too, to be honest. You're dating people and 273 00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 1: you kind of have a new dialogue, a new baseline 274 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:01,839 Speaker 1: of who you want to meet. So that's kind of 275 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 1: weird because in life you want to think that there 276 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 1: might be a soulmate for you, but it really is 277 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:07,199 Speaker 1: irrelevant if there is, because if they don't live in 278 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 1: the places where you live, then you're not going to 279 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:11,839 Speaker 1: spend your life with them. It's just not the time 280 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 1: where you want to start meeting people from Napa and Naples, 281 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 1: Like you just don't understand those areas. You're not moving there, 282 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:21,600 Speaker 1: you have no connection to it, or Des Moines and wherever. 283 00:13:22,040 --> 00:13:24,080 Speaker 1: Someone at the Jersey Shore I was like, I get 284 00:13:24,080 --> 00:13:25,720 Speaker 1: the Jersey Shore and I know it, but I'm not going. 285 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 2: To live there. 286 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:31,320 Speaker 1: So as you get older, you narrow your opportunities. My 287 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:33,400 Speaker 1: dating now is like when the lottery was like at 288 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:38,440 Speaker 1: billions of dollars. Me Meeting someone that is lined up 289 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:41,640 Speaker 1: with where I am and what I'm doing is definitely 290 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 1: a long shot. So I'm excited to go to Paris 291 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 1: Fashion Week. It feels different than last year. Last year 292 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:53,360 Speaker 1: felt like I was an intruder and I was just 293 00:13:53,400 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 1: like so excited to be invited, which I am this year. 294 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 1: But this year, I feel like I'm going to act 295 00:13:57,440 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 1: like I belong a little bit more. I also, well, 296 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:03,840 Speaker 1: don't have to do every single thing. I'd like to 297 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 1: make some of these work trips more of the big 298 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:08,839 Speaker 1: thing that we're doing work, but the rest really relaxing 299 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:11,200 Speaker 1: and get a massage and have a nice meal and 300 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:13,640 Speaker 1: enjoy instead of feeling like I have to do everything 301 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 1: and be everything. This next couple of months will be 302 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:23,520 Speaker 1: the busiest, most exciting, big ticket item period of my 303 00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 1: entire life and career. Everything I'm being asked to do 304 00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 1: that I'm agreeing to do is so big. It's so like, 305 00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:36,240 Speaker 1: wait what, It's such an opportunity, it's so outrageous. So 306 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:41,920 Speaker 1: many things are coming that I can't believe the opportunities 307 00:14:41,960 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 1: I'm being presented. I can't believe the money I get 308 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:49,960 Speaker 1: paid to do something. I can't believe that this entrepreneurial 309 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:51,440 Speaker 1: glow up is at this age. 310 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 2: It's like such a surprise, it's shocking. 311 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:56,840 Speaker 1: I'm so grateful and as a result, I mean I've 312 00:14:56,880 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 1: had a little bit of a party lately, dating and drinking. 313 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:01,440 Speaker 2: I mean, they go together, and I don't like that. 314 00:15:01,480 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 1: Like you really like someone, you get excited for it, 315 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:05,440 Speaker 1: and you start drinking, you're the best time ever with them, 316 00:15:05,440 --> 00:15:07,960 Speaker 1: and like maybe you're smooching, maybe you're dancing, but like 317 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:11,080 Speaker 1: it's exhausting. It's exhausting at any age. But I am 318 00:15:11,200 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 1: still tired from partying last weekend. Like it's not worth it. 319 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:18,040 Speaker 1: It actually is not worth it. It's fun to have like 320 00:15:18,080 --> 00:15:21,160 Speaker 1: a drink or so, but it's not worth it to 321 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:23,600 Speaker 1: like just fucking shoot yourself in the foot. 322 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 2: It's been an exhausting week. 323 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna try to be inn a wellness ERA 324 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 1: to coincide with this opportunity ERA to like really be 325 00:15:33,680 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 1: focused on all these things and not come in on fumes. 326 00:15:36,520 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 1: This will be difficult to believe. This will be as 327 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 1: difficult to believe as the fact that I invented the 328 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:45,040 Speaker 1: skinny margarita, not the skinny girl margarita. I invented the 329 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:49,600 Speaker 1: skinny margarita. I invented the low calorie margarita. I created 330 00:15:49,640 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 1: the low calorie cocktail space. I brought to life the 331 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 1: ready to drink cocktail space. I brought to life the 332 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 1: celebrity alcohol. It's hard to believe because people like George 333 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 1: Clooney and Ryan Reynolds and all these people. Diddy was 334 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:09,200 Speaker 1: before me, but I made this popular with the media 335 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 1: that I got. Sorry, So I created the term food 336 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 1: noise the way that we hear it today. Now people 337 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:19,200 Speaker 1: have different definitions, so much so that people have argued 338 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:21,440 Speaker 1: with me on social media trying to tell me with 339 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 1: the definition of a term that I created. In the 340 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:26,840 Speaker 1: modern day, There's a man named Breck who talked about 341 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:30,040 Speaker 1: noise and I allocated it to food, and I defined 342 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 1: what my version of food noise was and a food voice, 343 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:36,160 Speaker 1: and that became something that was in a book that 344 00:16:36,200 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 1: was on the New York Times bestseller list for five months. 345 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 1: So I think food is more associated with joy and 346 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 1: nourishment than it ever was, because people don't count calories 347 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 1: as much as seed oils and is it healthy for you? 348 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:52,440 Speaker 1: And people do chia and sie and bowls and things 349 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:54,840 Speaker 1: that are not low calorie but are good for you, 350 00:16:54,920 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 1: and eat avocado and coconut. So I do think we've 351 00:16:57,360 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 1: moved in that direction. Back in my day, it was 352 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:01,800 Speaker 1: either f it was low calorie. You didn't care if 353 00:17:01,800 --> 00:17:02,960 Speaker 1: it was good for you or not. You would have 354 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:06,399 Speaker 1: taken arsenic to be thin. And now it's very different, 355 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 1: So we have evolved. Food will always be something that 356 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:12,199 Speaker 1: people have to develop a relationship with because it's not 357 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:14,360 Speaker 1: going away. You have to have it in your life. 358 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:16,560 Speaker 1: I want to feel good, I want to feel happy, 359 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:18,680 Speaker 1: I want to feel healthy. I don't want to feel 360 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:23,119 Speaker 1: like I'm dragging. But the opportunity tour is starting right now, 361 00:17:23,160 --> 00:17:27,080 Speaker 1: and let's just start it with this weekend, the Laurel 362 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:31,359 Speaker 1: Paris fashion show. The runway show that last year I 363 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:35,280 Speaker 1: was gigantic platform heels and it was like a giraffe 364 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:37,400 Speaker 1: coming down the runway. And this year I'm not going 365 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:40,680 Speaker 1: to be a giraffe, but I do have giraffe pajamas 366 00:17:40,680 --> 00:17:43,040 Speaker 1: in a robe, just to play the joke. But this 367 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:46,000 Speaker 1: will be the first big ticket item this weekend Paris, 368 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:48,440 Speaker 1: and then I'll take you from there. I've been invited 369 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:50,720 Speaker 1: to speak to Harvard University a couple of times. Like 370 00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:53,280 Speaker 1: there's so many things that it's going to be between 371 00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:56,159 Speaker 1: now and December. The most exciting time I've ever had 372 00:17:56,200 --> 00:18:03,600 Speaker 1: in my career. Okay, so people are asking me about 373 00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:08,320 Speaker 1: connection and being a crowdsourcer. You can only trust your 374 00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:12,679 Speaker 1: opinion because everyone has a skewed version. I was talking 375 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:15,399 Speaker 1: to one person about the Jimmy Kimmel situation. This is 376 00:18:15,440 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 1: a very very right, undeniable Republican. He is going to 377 00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:27,240 Speaker 1: confirmation bias every single aspect of a situation to make 378 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:33,200 Speaker 1: it fit towards his narrative. Meaning in every situation, everything 379 00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:37,639 Speaker 1: is fake news, everything is a conspiracy. 380 00:18:38,440 --> 00:18:39,520 Speaker 2: Jimmy Kimmel has. 381 00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:43,919 Speaker 1: No ratings and he deserved to be off television. He 382 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:50,320 Speaker 1: was talking about MAGA and they're a private company and 383 00:18:50,560 --> 00:18:52,600 Speaker 1: they can decide whether or not to take him on 384 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:53,160 Speaker 1: or off. 385 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:54,760 Speaker 2: And like that's one version. Okay. 386 00:18:55,320 --> 00:18:58,720 Speaker 1: Then another friend who's actually a Republican, who said, this 387 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:02,240 Speaker 1: is now China. We are now in China or Russia. 388 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:05,840 Speaker 1: It's unacceptable that a person can't opine on a president 389 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:10,560 Speaker 1: who's a public figure, and this is becoming communism. 390 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:10,959 Speaker 2: Okay. 391 00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 1: Then other people think it's just deplorable what happened to 392 00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:19,280 Speaker 1: Jimmy Kimmel. He's a comedian, he's allowed to express himself. 393 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:22,680 Speaker 1: Then people go back to when Kathy Griffin held up 394 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:26,600 Speaker 1: a Trump head and lost her whole career because that's 395 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:29,119 Speaker 1: where the line is. And that's like burning a flag 396 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:32,120 Speaker 1: because it's disrespecting a president. I mean, there are fifty 397 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:34,600 Speaker 1: shades of gray. You could be listening to Fox and 398 00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:37,160 Speaker 1: watching them nod their head and it all sounds amazing, 399 00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:37,960 Speaker 1: like your horoscope. 400 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:39,159 Speaker 2: It sounds just like you. It's you. 401 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:41,560 Speaker 1: Then you change the channel, you listen to CNN. It 402 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:43,800 Speaker 1: all sounds amazing, it sounds like your horoscope. It's just 403 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:46,200 Speaker 1: like you. You have to try to use some logic 404 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:48,959 Speaker 1: and take the source. I went on a date with 405 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:53,680 Speaker 1: someone who was a hunter, very Republican, doesn't like Trump, 406 00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:57,480 Speaker 1: doesn't like him, he's a very strict Republican. 407 00:19:57,760 --> 00:20:00,639 Speaker 2: I went on a date with a liberal who who goes. 408 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 1: To Burning Man and who is from the tech world 409 00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:09,239 Speaker 1: and thinks Trump's the devil and that what happened at 410 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 1: the Capitol is the worst thing that ever happened to 411 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:16,840 Speaker 1: mankind and it's never been worse, and doesn't really acknowledge 412 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:20,280 Speaker 1: the fact that everyone covered up the fact that Biden 413 00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 1: was like weekend at Bernie's, and that Kamala couldn't answer questions. Now, 414 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:26,560 Speaker 1: this doesn't have to do with anything. You could be 415 00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 1: a Democrat Republican. You can have an opinion. It really 416 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:32,280 Speaker 1: hasn't been possible to have an opinion. Okay, So you're 417 00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:34,440 Speaker 1: talking to these different people and you're thinking about how 418 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:37,399 Speaker 1: rigid each person is, how open mind it is each person. 419 00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:41,520 Speaker 1: Is this person like where you could basically trip them 420 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:43,439 Speaker 1: up and say something and see if they're just going 421 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:45,639 Speaker 1: to always go in the same direction that they have, 422 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:47,879 Speaker 1: if they can never change their opinion because they're so 423 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:51,000 Speaker 1: scared of going to the dark side and having an 424 00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:53,480 Speaker 1: opinion opposite of what theirs is that they can never 425 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:56,840 Speaker 1: say that Like that to me is insane. For a 426 00:20:56,880 --> 00:21:00,600 Speaker 1: person to blindly agree with every single ass respect of 427 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:05,240 Speaker 1: what the Democrats have done and said, or to be 428 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:09,400 Speaker 1: completely blindly dedicated to everything that Republicans have done or said, 429 00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:13,080 Speaker 1: I think is insane. I think that's crazy to me, 430 00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:18,080 Speaker 1: Like there has to be some great I'm very open minded, 431 00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:20,800 Speaker 1: I'm very reasonable. That freaks people out. They're always trying 432 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:23,320 Speaker 1: to like figure out what I am. Like I happen 433 00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:26,199 Speaker 1: to be open minded, I happen to make decisions in 434 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:29,560 Speaker 1: the moment based on what the circumstances are. It's just 435 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:33,200 Speaker 1: who I am and so crowdsourcing, you are the one 436 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:35,840 Speaker 1: whose opinion you trust. You're just listening to a bunch 437 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:38,800 Speaker 1: of different things, and then sometimes you're taking blind faith. 438 00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:40,240 Speaker 1: You may not be right, and you may not be 439 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:43,320 Speaker 1: able to even affect change. And in this world now, 440 00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:46,560 Speaker 1: not everything needs to be said. It's a very sensitive time. 441 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,199 Speaker 1: You could lose your entire career as a result of 442 00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:52,320 Speaker 1: saying something. So it's bullshit that everybody's supposed to be 443 00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:56,919 Speaker 1: so open and honest and authentic. You have to be 444 00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:59,399 Speaker 1: thinking what everybody else thinks you should think. At the time, 445 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:02,520 Speaker 1: you were never allowed to question vaccines. You were never 446 00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:05,520 Speaker 1: allowed to question masks or COVID or how the man 447 00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:08,880 Speaker 1: was telling us how to do it. Everything was about Fauci. 448 00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:12,400 Speaker 1: Everything was about Cuomo. When Cuomo was on television every day, 449 00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:15,200 Speaker 1: he was a god. But then the pendulum swings and 450 00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:18,399 Speaker 1: everybody hates him. Everything is like has a season and 451 00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:22,760 Speaker 1: a reason and people completely forget what they thought before. 452 00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:40,200 Speaker 1: I've been doing the deepest dive on dating, like much 453 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:43,959 Speaker 1: deeper than I have here. I've had dating coaches on here, 454 00:22:44,080 --> 00:22:47,760 Speaker 1: dating matchmakers. There are some things that have been true. 455 00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:51,480 Speaker 1: The guy Evan who came on Here said that dating 456 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:55,160 Speaker 1: is interviewing for the most important position. Let's say it's 457 00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:58,879 Speaker 1: your personal life CEO, and you have to treat it 458 00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:00,480 Speaker 1: as such. In the way that they act is a 459 00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:02,280 Speaker 1: way that you would consider whether or not you would 460 00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:02,840 Speaker 1: want to hire them. 461 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:05,520 Speaker 2: And I really love that. I think that's accurate. That's great. 462 00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:07,520 Speaker 1: And there are other things I have and agreed with 463 00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:09,720 Speaker 1: on here about telling women to like lean into the 464 00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:13,399 Speaker 1: feminine and it almost gives damsel and distress. And there 465 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:15,680 Speaker 1: are parts of what I've been told by matchmakers that 466 00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:18,720 Speaker 1: are like this person is like religious, so I know 467 00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:21,040 Speaker 1: you're not, but like you don't have to really mention 468 00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:24,640 Speaker 1: that or whatever. Like It's like what I have found 469 00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:30,680 Speaker 1: many surprises with intentional dating. Number one, everybody has different 470 00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:33,880 Speaker 1: political views, and people walk in the door at least 471 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:37,400 Speaker 1: men do, thinking that it could be a deal breaker 472 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 1: if someone's not aligned with their politics. And what I've 473 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 1: said point blank to two people right up front from 474 00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:46,880 Speaker 1: the jump is the following. I am a very open 475 00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:50,960 Speaker 1: minded and reasonable person. I mean, we do relief work 476 00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:56,560 Speaker 1: for the Republicans, for Democrats, for Habad, for the Bible Belt. 477 00:23:56,600 --> 00:24:00,000 Speaker 1: We've sent aid to people suffering in Israel in God's 478 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:04,960 Speaker 1: in Russia and Ukraine and Poland. Like we literally are 479 00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:07,479 Speaker 1: not political and I'm not a political person. There are 480 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:11,920 Speaker 1: aspects of both parties that I understand, and I've been 481 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:16,119 Speaker 1: on CNN and Fox to promote my projects entertainment and 482 00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:19,120 Speaker 1: also relief work. So it's not a hedge and it's 483 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 1: not a waffle. It's just that I just do not 484 00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:23,760 Speaker 1: believe in a one size fits all model. And there 485 00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:27,480 Speaker 1: are different reasons for voting, from your body, to your mind, 486 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:32,760 Speaker 1: to your wallet, to your kids, to education, to a 487 00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:37,080 Speaker 1: myriad of things, to war. And I have said to people, 488 00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:41,000 Speaker 1: are we supposed to be meeting our clones are twins? 489 00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:48,320 Speaker 1: Because I'm open to having discussions or disagreeing or splitting 490 00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:51,680 Speaker 1: the difference or just understanding why someone else feels some way, 491 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,959 Speaker 1: Like the Jimmy Kimmel situation with him being let go. 492 00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:58,200 Speaker 1: I've had a few different opinions on it, and I'm 493 00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:00,000 Speaker 1: a crowdsourcer. I want to talk to you and here 494 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:02,240 Speaker 1: you think why you voted for this person, why you 495 00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:04,240 Speaker 1: feel this way about that, what you think about this, 496 00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:08,479 Speaker 1: like there are different reasons. So anyway, I have my 497 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:12,040 Speaker 1: own personal opinions about different aspects, Like I think that 498 00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:16,600 Speaker 1: a political leader must be someone that commands a presence. 499 00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:20,560 Speaker 1: Should they also be someone that is respected, that people 500 00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:25,400 Speaker 1: think is smart, is compassionate, is a good business person, 501 00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:29,080 Speaker 1: is philanthropic? Is a maybe a good parent? Maybe not 502 00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:31,399 Speaker 1: a cheat. I mean, there's a thousand things that you 503 00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:33,320 Speaker 1: could think, but you have to put it together in 504 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:37,520 Speaker 1: one crystallized answer. So anyway, I've been meeting people and 505 00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:39,320 Speaker 1: saying to them like, hey, I just want to let 506 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:43,200 Speaker 1: you know I'm not you and I have many different feelings, 507 00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:46,280 Speaker 1: but if you're very extreme, it might not work because 508 00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 1: I'm not into extremes in politics or religion. I'm not 509 00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:52,199 Speaker 1: into extremes. It doesn't work for me. It makes me 510 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 1: feel uncomfortable. So I did not watch Dancing with the Stars, 511 00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:05,320 Speaker 1: but I so some clips and Iladia is good, Like 512 00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:11,160 Speaker 1: there's a difference between being mechanically good and going through 513 00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 1: the motions and having that flow and fluidity, and I 514 00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:18,159 Speaker 1: would not be that. People think I can dance, and 515 00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:19,760 Speaker 1: so they always think I should be on Dancing with 516 00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,120 Speaker 1: the Stars, which I've been asked to do multiple times 517 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:25,480 Speaker 1: since the early days, and I've declined because it's not 518 00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:29,000 Speaker 1: for me. But I think I wouldn't be great. I 519 00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:33,280 Speaker 1: don't think I would like have that like loose flow. 520 00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,400 Speaker 1: I would be going through the motions, maybe be able 521 00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:39,919 Speaker 1: to get the steps, but there wouldn't be a fluidity 522 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:41,800 Speaker 1: and an authenticity to it. 523 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:43,840 Speaker 2: It's looks really hard. 524 00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:48,520 Speaker 1: So Iladia is doing superbly well and it was really 525 00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:54,879 Speaker 1: smart of her to do this. If your husband is 526 00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:57,520 Speaker 1: dead weight and boring, can you not bring him on 527 00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:00,640 Speaker 1: trips with your girlfriends and like dinners and things. It's 528 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:04,280 Speaker 1: just it weighs the goddamn trip down. Like women want 529 00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:06,560 Speaker 1: to hang out with other women, like your husband can 530 00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:09,520 Speaker 1: stay by himself, don't bring him. Don't come women, Like 531 00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:11,240 Speaker 1: a woman invites you for something you don't be, like, yeah, 532 00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,399 Speaker 1: I got to bring my husband, like nobody wants him around. 533 00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:14,320 Speaker 2: We really don't. 534 00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 1: What's his value? Is he bringing fucking Is he a bartender? 535 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:19,840 Speaker 1: Is he gonna DJ for us? Does he have like 536 00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:22,760 Speaker 1: goodie bags? Like we don't want dead weight husbands. I 537 00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:26,160 Speaker 1: have friends who have dead weight husbands. You may love them, 538 00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:27,960 Speaker 1: you may love the friends, you may love the husbands. 539 00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:32,800 Speaker 1: No dead weight, no dead weight and friendships in business 540 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:36,200 Speaker 1: and husbands, we don't want it. We're not interested that's 541 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:38,360 Speaker 1: another night when you bring your own fucking dead weight. 542 00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:41,960 Speaker 1: I'll bring my own goddamn anchor on another night. But 543 00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:43,920 Speaker 1: we don't want that. Women want to talk to each 544 00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:49,240 Speaker 1: other about their vaginas, about their dating, about what was 545 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:52,400 Speaker 1: on sale, about they smell, about their version on politics, 546 00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,840 Speaker 1: about their boobs, about not just being sexist, meaning women 547 00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:58,439 Speaker 1: have brains. But we don't want to talk with another 548 00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:00,600 Speaker 1: man present about everything going on with us. 549 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:15,680 Speaker 2: We just don't want that.