Speaker 1: All right, We're back on your Monday with a brand
Speaker 1: new Second Date update for you know what you really love?
Speaker 1: Why you're really here? We get you. It's Brick and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning, and we did try a new
Speaker 1: segment yesterday. Yes new for you, not new for us. No,
Speaker 1: not not for us. It's blind Love is where two
Speaker 1: people go basically on a blind date live on our
Speaker 1: radio show. And it was a mixed bag. Seventy five
Speaker 1: percent of listeners liked it, so you know, we love
Speaker 1: the comments coming in, so literally let us know. This
Speaker 1: one is from Clayton. He wrote, I have to know
Speaker 1: two things. One have you ever called someone who is
Speaker 1: actively listening to the Second Date Update live on the
Speaker 1: radio and they answer doing exactly what was going on?
Speaker 1: Here is where we pull the curtain.
Speaker 2: Back a little bit. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Those are pre recorded and they're not live on the
Speaker 1: radio because it takes forever for us to get a
Speaker 1: hold of these people.
Speaker 2: Yeah, would you guys answer a random called six thirty
Speaker 2: in the morning. I don't think so. Latest.
Speaker 1: Sometimes we go weeks before we can get the second
Speaker 1: person on the line, and the magic of editing we
Speaker 1: take out all those puns calls. Yeah, all the ringing
Speaker 1: and all the voicemails that we go to. And Clayton
Speaker 1: also wants to know, has anyone ever met through your show,
Speaker 1: like someone got rejected and then another viewer asked and
Speaker 1: got ahold of them. So we don't ever give out
Speaker 1: people's phone numbers. But if you listen to yesterday's Blind Love,
Speaker 1: is gonna say two listeners who wrote in for different
Speaker 1: things and it didn't work out. Yeah, we put them together.
Speaker 2: It's also good to know we can't give out people's info.
Speaker 1: Guys. No people do ask because they'll be like, I
Speaker 1: want to.
Speaker 2: Take out Amy.
Speaker 1: No, that is quite a lot. We're not going to
Speaker 1: do that. So hey, thanks for being here. Keep leaving
Speaker 1: those comments. If you're on the iHeartRadio app, go ahead
Speaker 1: and leave us a voice message as well. You can
Speaker 1: do that there. And hey, let's get into the brand
Speaker 1: new second Date update right.
Speaker 2: Now, the second Date Update. I'll admit, when I first
Speaker 2: started dating, I thought people went on dates to like
Speaker 2: find true love.
Speaker 1: That's funny, they give alone. I feel like you believe
Speaker 1: that for a long I really did.
Speaker 2: What a naive little boy way to think because some people,
Speaker 2: some people just date for the free meal.
Speaker 1: The fun of it. Somebody knew exactly.
Speaker 2: Some people just date because they need somebody to administer
Speaker 2: that EpiPen shot at the shellfish buffet. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 2: where I go. It's half off of crabs legs. I'm
Speaker 2: not gonna not eat that. So yeah, a lot of reasons.
Speaker 2: And today our listener Lucy is asking for a second date,
Speaker 2: even though she isn't one hundred percent sure why she
Speaker 2: wants to.
Speaker 1: Date this guy that's been there, Lucy.
Speaker 2: So hopefully just talking it out with us might give
Speaker 2: you some clarity. But welcome to the show.
Speaker 1: Hi, I love it. Like four minutes into our conversation,
Speaker 1: she just hangs up. She's like, no, actually, worth it
Speaker 1: was a bad choice.
Speaker 2: Well, Lucy, tell us about this guy that you met, like,
Speaker 2: start from the beginning.
Speaker 3: Okay, so his name is Nate. Okay, I just want
Speaker 3: to get everything out in the open because I'm confused.
Speaker 3: I am way better looking than this man and.
Speaker 1: It's coming in hot there. Okay, all right, I like it.
Speaker 2: Okay, I heard that he's not as good looking as you.
Speaker 2: I didn't hear what you said after that.
Speaker 1: Oh I only heard the humility, so that.
Speaker 2: Sorry, humble, Lucy, what was the other reason, Well, he's
Speaker 2: not chasing me the way that I normally get chased
Speaker 2: after a date. You normally have men like physically chasing you,
Speaker 2: or you just mean like, yeah.
Speaker 3: Possibly most of the time, Yes.
Speaker 1: Okay, can I guess? I mean not just his looks,
Speaker 1: but also his personality is probably not typically what you
Speaker 1: normally date.
Speaker 3: No, not really, Like we met on hinge and he
Speaker 3: seemed normal, like a nice guy, he's sort of cute special.
Speaker 2: Stopped gagging during the description.
Speaker 4: After my friends they're like, I'll give a guy a chance,
Speaker 4: I'll try something different, and then he stops talking to her,
Speaker 4: and it's like, what's wrong in the world?
Speaker 3: Is off?
Speaker 1: I like how she said he seemed normal and he's
Speaker 1: obviously abnormal because he's not going out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but even though he seemed normal and nice and
Speaker 2: totally out of the ordinary, you still went out with him?
Speaker 2: I did.
Speaker 3: I mean, yes, I was kind of bored, so I
Speaker 3: was like why not?
Speaker 1: Wow? Yeah, but personality can add the looks once you
Speaker 1: meet someone. So how was it when you first met him? Like,
Speaker 1: what was that moment?
Speaker 3: Like, well, he invited me to a bar for happy
Speaker 3: hour and it was kind of early for a date
Speaker 3: that was like five, Well.
Speaker 2: That's happy hour, yeah okay, okay, yeah, the late night crowds.
Speaker 1: So all right, So what happened?
Speaker 3: The conversation went, well, he was more confident than I
Speaker 3: thought he would be. He was dressed very well.
Speaker 1: When you can, I just ask, like, it sounds like
Speaker 1: you're saying he's more confident because you still think he's
Speaker 1: not very attractive. Correct, Okay, So I want to know
Speaker 1: when you very first saw him, what was your reaction.
Speaker 3: I think it was like, I'm doing this guy a favor.
Speaker 2: Okay, You're like, he's not crying yet, but he will
Speaker 2: be when I'm.
Speaker 5: Done with.
Speaker 3: I'm just being honest. Okay, you guys asked me the question.
Speaker 2: All right. Sometimes I do see couples and I'm like, Wow,
Speaker 2: she's gorgeous. How did he pull her?
Speaker 1: No, I'm wondering do girls do this and in their
Speaker 1: head it's like a charity case.
Speaker 2: Well, you have to understand, she's the one that's calling
Speaker 2: us right.
Speaker 1: Now, she's the one chasing him.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Okay, although there's a reason we didn't answer your
Speaker 2: first question, Jose, but that's okay, So tell us more
Speaker 2: what happens during this happy hour drink state.
Speaker 3: Conversation went well, and then he started asking about what
Speaker 3: type of food I like, and I was like, he's
Speaker 3: going to try to roll this into grabbing dinner with me.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, I thought. She's like, oh god, this guy's
Speaker 2: going to try and feed me too. Is that is
Speaker 2: that kind of where you're you're normally at, Lucy?
Speaker 3: I mean taking it sound like it's that of the ordinary,
Speaker 3: but that's not where my head was at the time.
Speaker 1: Okay, So you're excited to continue the day with him?
Speaker 3: Excited might be a strong word, like medium, excited.
Speaker 2: All right, okay, willing to go along with it a
Speaker 2: little longer, yeah, okay.
Speaker 3: But here's the weird thing. I tell him what kind
Speaker 3: of food I'm interested in, like Italian, Japanese, and his
Speaker 3: response cool, Well, anyway, this has been chill, but I
Speaker 3: gotta go meet up?
Speaker 2: What immediately?
Speaker 1: Do you that's not even a good review of the date,
Speaker 1: Like this has been chill.
Speaker 3: Why would you even ask what I like to eat?
Speaker 3: And I just said meet up with who? And he
Speaker 3: was like, oh, just a friend. I'll catch you later. Though, Oh,
Speaker 3: this guy.
Speaker 2: Maybe a huge player.
Speaker 4: This feels like the perfect so I think that he
Speaker 4: just maybe saw through that you weren't attracted to him
Speaker 4: and you were interested surface things.
Speaker 3: Did you miss that I am way better looking at him?
Speaker 3: Like he never should have had a chance because some.
Speaker 1: People aren't looking for just you gave off like I'm
Speaker 1: better than you vibes.
Speaker 2: But he did say I'll catch you later, so there's
Speaker 2: some hope for a second meet up there, did he ever?
Speaker 2: What was that the end of all conversation?
Speaker 3: Well, I texted him a little later and I said, hey,
Speaker 3: I had a really great time it was meeting you,
Speaker 3: and he just hearted it.
Speaker 2: Is that he could have just thumbs up there, and
Speaker 2: that would have been I can't.
Speaker 1: Wait to talk to this guy. I don't feel like, like,
Speaker 1: why do you want to go out with him again?
Speaker 1: It's just like a game. I don't don't Well, why
Speaker 1: are we calling him?
Speaker 2: Yeah, what made you reach out to us for help?
Speaker 1: Well, we have to hear his side.
Speaker 3: I'm too curious, Like, who did he have to meet
Speaker 3: that was more important than me at that moment?
Speaker 1: So I don't think you're going to like anything he said.
Speaker 2: Maybe his like family member was in the hospital and
Speaker 2: he had to go visit her or him at that point,
Speaker 2: would that change your mind.
Speaker 3: You don't say meet up with someone if you're going
Speaker 3: to the hot.
Speaker 2: Oh's pretty much dead right now. Meet up.
Speaker 1: She decided the moment she saw him that she was
Speaker 1: not going to go out with him again. It's just
Speaker 1: that he is.
Speaker 2: There is a little bit of a power dynamic going on,
Speaker 2: and I am excited to hopefully get him on the phone.
Speaker 2: We'll see what he has to say if he answers
Speaker 2: in your second date update. Right after this hold on
Speaker 2: second Date update, let's recap what we know about our listener,
Speaker 2: Lucy and her date with Nate the other day.
Speaker 1: It's a rough one, Jeff, Well.
Speaker 2: I don't know. Number one, according to her, she is
Speaker 2: way hotter than him.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Number two, he was lucky to be going out with
Speaker 2: someone as hot as she was. Sure. Number three, his
Speaker 2: personality was fine, but not as fine as her hotness.
Speaker 2: And despite all of that, uh huh, Nate was the
Speaker 2: one who cut their date short after just one drink.
Speaker 1: So weird. It seems like she's so deep.
Speaker 2: It is that he was confident to her.
Speaker 1: Yeah, why would he be confident?
Speaker 2: I'm not sure, but it's all very unusual for Lucy. Clearly,
Speaker 2: it's got her a little bit flustered, very confused, which
Speaker 2: is the reason why she wants us to give him
Speaker 2: a call and get some answers. Right, Lucy, you.
Speaker 3: Guys make me sound like I'm so shallow.
Speaker 1: I'm not, Okay, you know what. I think that just
Speaker 1: the conversation we had made that happen. But yeah, but
Speaker 1: I am.
Speaker 3: Just trying to paint a picture for you here. I
Speaker 3: think it's very important to note that I am, in
Speaker 3: fact hotter than him, Okay.
Speaker 2: Saying factually like a bra We're not disputing that.
Speaker 1: We're all agree I want photos.
Speaker 2: Well, don't you get under We're all taking your word
Speaker 2: for it. But I think what what, what would really
Speaker 2: help us is if you could think of one nice
Speaker 2: thing to say about him that we could bring up
Speaker 2: once we get him on the phone, Something that you liked.
Speaker 3: About him, that he really did hold down a conversation.
Speaker 1: Well okay, and you actually sounds sincere about that, which
Speaker 1: I appreciate.
Speaker 3: Okay, when I say he did that, he barely did it,
Speaker 3: but he did it.
Speaker 2: Okay, But I'm just going to make a note he
Speaker 2: knows how to have a conversation, so that I can
Speaker 2: compliment him sort of.
Speaker 1: But it just ended there.
Speaker 2: I'm just going to bring it up to him just
Speaker 2: so we could say something nice and that usually helps
Speaker 2: people open up a little.
Speaker 1: Sounds like a confident, great guy.
Speaker 2: Okay, so let's hope he holds a conversation. We're going
Speaker 2: to talk to him on the radio if he answers. First,
Speaker 2: we got to get him on the phone. Let me
Speaker 2: dial in. We'll see if he picks up, and then
Speaker 2: we can move from there. Here we go. Hell, hey
Speaker 2: is this Nate?
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, cute voice.
Speaker 2: Coming.
Speaker 1: Can you give him some compliments?
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, this is We're a radio show. We're
Speaker 2: called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show.
Speaker 2: Good morning.
Speaker 5: Uh yeah, I'm a little busy right now. And what's
Speaker 5: going on?
Speaker 2: Yeah, so we won't take up too much of your time.
Speaker 2: What we're doing is a segment it's called a second
Speaker 2: Date Update, where we're trying to help one of our
Speaker 2: listeners get back in touch with you after you two
Speaker 2: went out on a hot date the other.
Speaker 1: Night, A short date. I think he ended it pretty short.
Speaker 3: Who are you talking about?
Speaker 2: Uh? It's a woman named Lucy.
Speaker 5: Lucy Yeah, okay, super serious to laughing.
Speaker 3: It totally checks out.
Speaker 5: It totally checks out that she would be the one calling.
Speaker 2: Yeah, checks out. What does that mean?
Speaker 5: Yeah, she's texted me like four times in the last
Speaker 5: couple of days, Like I barely sponsor her.
Speaker 2: So that's okay. So clearly you you know what you're
Speaker 2: doing here. This is all on purpose.
Speaker 1: It's a power play.
Speaker 5: It sounds like, well, it's just she's that type of girl,
Speaker 5: Like there's a type.
Speaker 1: What does that mean? Explain the type.
Speaker 5: Though, Like she's very attractive, but she's been told all
Speaker 5: her life since she's attractive, so she knows it. And
Speaker 5: then she's like, no, I'm better and I'm like, okay, relax.
Speaker 1: So do you do you not like her?
Speaker 3: Then?
Speaker 1: Like is that negative or positive? I can't tell.
Speaker 5: No, She's fine, Like it's just a matter of like
Speaker 5: there's two things you got to deal with with women,
Speaker 5: like Lucy, keep the date really short, right, that's the thing.
Speaker 5: You got to keep the date really short. Like I
Speaker 5: knew that if I kept the date going longer longer,
Speaker 5: I had the suspicion that she was like, oh good.
Speaker 2: A free meal out of me.
Speaker 5: And I'm not That's not what I'm about.
Speaker 2: Okay, So this this is like a rule of strategy
Speaker 2: that you've come up with for dating beautiful women.
Speaker 5: It's not just beautiful women, it's beautiful women who know
Speaker 5: that they're beautiful and think that they're better than you
Speaker 5: because they're beautiful.
Speaker 3: Good.
Speaker 1: Okay, wait.
Speaker 2: A specific type of girl. Well then most women in
Speaker 2: my case, I don't get.
Speaker 1: It though, Like you want to keep the date short
Speaker 1: because you want to keep her attracted to you, or
Speaker 1: you want to keep the date short because you don't
Speaker 1: ever want to see her again.
Speaker 5: No, it's definitely because I want to keep her interested.
Speaker 5: And you're a woman like Lucy. The longer the date goes,
Speaker 5: the less interested she becomes because she knows all about you.
Speaker 2: So you mentioned earlier there's two things that you always do.
Speaker 2: You keep the date short. Was one short?
Speaker 5: You don't give them any information. You just hey, I
Speaker 5: gotta go talk to you later.
Speaker 1: So when you said you were going to meet up
Speaker 1: with a friend, that was a lie.
Speaker 5: That wasn'tna lie. That was we were at the gym.
Speaker 5: I want to I want to go to the gym
Speaker 5: to meet a friend at the gym, but I'm not
Speaker 5: going to give her specifics. I'm not gonna win and
Speaker 5: when and with who, because I know that the moment
Speaker 5: I say that, all the mystery is gone.
Speaker 2: Wow wow, oh my god. Yeah, who's used to dating?
Speaker 1: Okay, so she found she found someone who. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's what it is.
Speaker 2: So clearly you seem to have some sort of strategy
Speaker 2: with her. Well a very a very your plan. When
Speaker 2: do you plan to actually meet up with her again?
Speaker 2: Like how do you make that happen?
Speaker 5: Well, when I'll reach out to her, I'll say like, Hey,
Speaker 5: do you want to get a COVID drinks or do
Speaker 5: you want to get some dinner tonight? And it's always
Speaker 5: got to be like last.
Speaker 1: Minute, Okay, throw her a bon I've.
Speaker 5: Been dodging her and I've been keeping it vague for
Speaker 5: so long that now she's gonna be like, oh I
Speaker 5: got it track with the irons hot that that's all.
Speaker 2: Right, just plan. Yeah, you're breaking Brooks spirit. The more
Speaker 2: that you talk about it's just like.
Speaker 1: Proud of it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think she's proud of himself with this.
Speaker 1: Energy or go out with someone who thinks they're better.
Speaker 5: Than you, Like, yeah, I definitely wouldn't do this with everybody.
Speaker 5: I don't do this whole like every woman is the
Speaker 5: same thing. I just know the type of woman. And
Speaker 5: when I asked her, Hey, what do you like to eat?
Speaker 5: And she's like hinting, like the most expensive restaurants.
Speaker 2: This come on, dude, Yeah, you know how these women are.
Speaker 2: They try and like manipulate you. They try and like
Speaker 2: tell you how to live the relationship. And then and
Speaker 2: then they wait on the other line of this phone call,
Speaker 2: listening in on this radio show, this entire time and
Speaker 2: everything that you said.
Speaker 3: Right, well, what are you talking about? What did that mean? Well?
Speaker 2: I thought I thought you would have known by now.
Speaker 2: Lucy's on the other line listening to this what Yeah,
Speaker 2: that's how this works, Lucy, are you there?
Speaker 5: Hi?
Speaker 3: Nathan?
Speaker 2: He was Nate before his full name.
Speaker 3: You seriously thought like you were gonna hit my confidence. Baby,
Speaker 3: you can't bread crumb me, Okay, I own the bakery.
Speaker 5: Oh oh god, Lucy, Lucy, you can't say all of
Speaker 5: this after you've called the radio station to get afforded.
Speaker 1: You're not.
Speaker 3: I'm not. I'm a curious about why you were being
Speaker 3: an asshole. And now I know because you like games.
Speaker 5: What I just I'm better at the game than you are.
Speaker 3: To pick up artist, Okay, you think negging women is
Speaker 3: the way to go. You are an age.
Speaker 5: No, that's not at all. That's not true at all.
Speaker 5: I think negging you is the right way, Honey.
Speaker 3: It doesn't work that way, It doesn't.
Speaker 1: It just did.
Speaker 5: You literally called the radio station to get hold of me?
Speaker 2: How you say that?
Speaker 3: No one like? No one me like.
Speaker 5: That, nobody does.
Speaker 1: He's talking.
Speaker 2: At the same time. Her defense a lot. She did say, Remember,
Speaker 2: even if he likes me, I don't want.
Speaker 5: To go out with him again.
Speaker 1: I mean, here's the thing, Lucy, like, it's not that
Speaker 1: you're beautiful, it's that you're I ams gorgeous. The reason
Speaker 1: he's playing the game is because you go around acting
Speaker 1: like you're better than everybody else, And that is fact.
Speaker 3: Are facts? I am looking than Okay, well, yeah he's
Speaker 3: listening to this, Lucy.
Speaker 5: Yeah, she absolutely is better looking to me. But I
Speaker 5: have a wrapped around my little finger.
Speaker 3: Oh, I got your finger right here? Okay, can you
Speaker 3: get the one?
Speaker 6: Wow, let's save that for the bedroom, guys, because this
Speaker 6: is getting a little bit spicy. What I think I'm
Speaker 6: trying to just read between the lines of that conversation
Speaker 6: and what Lucy was trying to say is she's willing
Speaker 6: to give you one more chance.
Speaker 2: To do the day the right way.
Speaker 1: Wait, I think she's talking right now.
Speaker 2: Well, Lucy, this is going to be my time because
Speaker 2: we're running. We're running short here because I have to
Speaker 2: ask Nate, would you be willing to go out with
Speaker 2: Lucy one more time?
Speaker 3: You asked me. You don't need to ask him.
Speaker 1: I reject him, You reject him?
Speaker 2: Whoa is that?
Speaker 1: Was that your last power move?
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm not even gonna say yes or no.
Speaker 5: That's the beautiful I'm just gonna leave it vague and
Speaker 5: I'll just wait for her text later.
Speaker 1: He's so good, so good, Alexis wants to tell you,
Speaker 1: all right, it's a game of chicken. You need to
Speaker 1: see you. I'll text you.
Speaker 2: He's gonna text to first, Nathan.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be her.
Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the morning. Is it just me or was
Speaker 2: that guy like the hot girl whisperer. He just knows
Speaker 2: exactly what to say any hot girl to have them
Speaker 2: eating out of his hand.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's that hard when they're not that deep, jeff.
Speaker 2: But that that in itself is like a crazy difficult
Speaker 2: thing for a guy to do.
Speaker 1: But why would you want to? That's my whole point.
Speaker 1: There's plenty of hot girls to have substance, Like, why
Speaker 1: would you want one without it?
Speaker 4: Show me one, jeff It's not a hey.
Speaker 1: Right here, she's a hot girl with substance. That's nice
Speaker 1: of you, that's true, silent, But I'm glad you think.
Speaker 2: I mean, this whole strategy really was just like basically,
Speaker 2: don't say anything right for guy. Yeah, yeah, just stay vague,
Speaker 2: don't tell them, which is interesting and this is why
Speaker 2: I'll never get dates because I can't shut up. So
Speaker 2: if we want hot girls to listen to our podcasts,
Speaker 2: I guess we should just be vague about it. Yeah. So, uh,
Speaker 2: any hot girls, it's online somewhere, comedians, Yeah, go find it.
Speaker 2: We got a bount.
Speaker 1: You're never going to date someone higher.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but think about the hot girls are going to
Speaker 2: listen to our podcasts.
Speaker 1: I'm sure, yeah, they can't resist you.
Speaker 2: By the way, the official one is Brook and Jeffrey's
Speaker 2: Second Date Update. There's a lot of fakes and knockoffs
Speaker 2: right now.
Speaker 1: So don't I mean, seriously, thank you.
Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey Second Date Update. Find it online wherever
Speaker 2: you get your podcasts.
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,