WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Beauty and the Meh 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.080 All right, We're back on your Monday with a brand 0:00:02.160 --> 0:00:05.560 new Second Date update for you know what you really love? 0:00:05.600 --> 0:00:07.520 Why you're really here? We get you. It's Brick and 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:10.160 Jeffrey in the Morning, and we did try a new 0:00:10.200 --> 0:00:13.160 segment yesterday. Yes new for you, not new for us. No, 0:00:13.200 --> 0:00:15.480 not not for us. It's blind Love is where two 0:00:15.520 --> 0:00:17.720 people go basically on a blind date live on our 0:00:17.800 --> 0:00:21.480 radio show. And it was a mixed bag. Seventy five 0:00:21.560 --> 0:00:24.680 percent of listeners liked it, so you know, we love 0:00:24.760 --> 0:00:28.280 the comments coming in, so literally let us know. This 0:00:28.320 --> 0:00:30.240 one is from Clayton. He wrote, I have to know 0:00:30.280 --> 0:00:32.479 two things. One have you ever called someone who is 0:00:32.560 --> 0:00:34.640 actively listening to the Second Date Update live on the 0:00:34.720 --> 0:00:36.800 radio and they answer doing exactly what was going on? 0:00:38.760 --> 0:00:40.720 Here is where we pull the curtain. 0:00:40.440 --> 0:00:42.040 Back a little bit. Yeah. 0:00:42.240 --> 0:00:44.960 Those are pre recorded and they're not live on the 0:00:45.040 --> 0:00:48.000 radio because it takes forever for us to get a 0:00:48.000 --> 0:00:48.760 hold of these people. 0:00:48.800 --> 0:00:50.840 Yeah, would you guys answer a random called six thirty 0:00:50.840 --> 0:00:53.440 in the morning. I don't think so. Latest. 0:00:53.680 --> 0:00:56.040 Sometimes we go weeks before we can get the second 0:00:56.040 --> 0:00:59.120 person on the line, and the magic of editing we 0:00:59.160 --> 0:01:01.880 take out all those puns calls. Yeah, all the ringing 0:01:02.040 --> 0:01:06.440 and all the voicemails that we go to. And Clayton 0:01:06.480 --> 0:01:08.880 also wants to know, has anyone ever met through your show, 0:01:09.160 --> 0:01:11.560 like someone got rejected and then another viewer asked and 0:01:11.560 --> 0:01:14.399 got ahold of them. So we don't ever give out 0:01:14.400 --> 0:01:17.840 people's phone numbers. But if you listen to yesterday's Blind Love, 0:01:17.920 --> 0:01:21.240 is gonna say two listeners who wrote in for different 0:01:21.280 --> 0:01:24.320 things and it didn't work out. Yeah, we put them together. 0:01:25.920 --> 0:01:27.880 It's also good to know we can't give out people's info. 0:01:27.920 --> 0:01:30.160 Guys. No people do ask because they'll be like, I 0:01:30.200 --> 0:01:30.480 want to. 0:01:30.480 --> 0:01:31.360 Take out Amy. 0:01:33.760 --> 0:01:37.960 No, that is quite a lot. We're not going to 0:01:38.040 --> 0:01:40.200 do that. So hey, thanks for being here. Keep leaving 0:01:40.240 --> 0:01:42.920 those comments. If you're on the iHeartRadio app, go ahead 0:01:42.920 --> 0:01:44.640 and leave us a voice message as well. You can 0:01:44.680 --> 0:01:46.920 do that there. And hey, let's get into the brand 0:01:47.000 --> 0:01:48.280 new second Date update right. 0:01:48.200 --> 0:01:54.440 Now, the second Date Update. I'll admit, when I first 0:01:54.440 --> 0:01:56.680 started dating, I thought people went on dates to like 0:01:56.840 --> 0:01:57.840 find true love. 0:01:58.320 --> 0:02:02.160 That's funny, they give alone. I feel like you believe 0:02:02.200 --> 0:02:03.360 that for a long I really did. 0:02:03.640 --> 0:02:07.720 What a naive little boy way to think because some people, 0:02:08.720 --> 0:02:10.320 some people just date for the free meal. 0:02:11.000 --> 0:02:15.120 The fun of it. Somebody knew exactly. 0:02:15.760 --> 0:02:18.239 Some people just date because they need somebody to administer 0:02:18.320 --> 0:02:21.160 that EpiPen shot at the shellfish buffet. Oh my gosh, 0:02:21.240 --> 0:02:25.560 where I go. It's half off of crabs legs. I'm 0:02:25.560 --> 0:02:28.800 not gonna not eat that. So yeah, a lot of reasons. 0:02:28.919 --> 0:02:32.079 And today our listener Lucy is asking for a second date, 0:02:32.360 --> 0:02:35.320 even though she isn't one hundred percent sure why she 0:02:35.440 --> 0:02:35.880 wants to. 0:02:35.880 --> 0:02:38.919 Date this guy that's been there, Lucy. 0:02:38.840 --> 0:02:41.960 So hopefully just talking it out with us might give 0:02:41.960 --> 0:02:43.960 you some clarity. But welcome to the show. 0:02:45.040 --> 0:02:47.760 Hi, I love it. Like four minutes into our conversation, 0:02:47.840 --> 0:02:50.560 she just hangs up. She's like, no, actually, worth it 0:02:51.360 --> 0:02:52.320 was a bad choice. 0:02:52.680 --> 0:02:54.800 Well, Lucy, tell us about this guy that you met, like, 0:02:54.840 --> 0:02:55.680 start from the beginning. 0:02:56.160 --> 0:03:00.160 Okay, so his name is Nate. Okay, I just want 0:03:00.160 --> 0:03:03.200 to get everything out in the open because I'm confused. 0:03:04.080 --> 0:03:06.799 I am way better looking than this man and. 0:03:09.360 --> 0:03:12.560 It's coming in hot there. Okay, all right, I like it. 0:03:12.639 --> 0:03:15.160 Okay, I heard that he's not as good looking as you. 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:16.480 I didn't hear what you said after that. 0:03:16.639 --> 0:03:18.520 Oh I only heard the humility, so that. 0:03:19.880 --> 0:03:24.400 Sorry, humble, Lucy, what was the other reason, Well, he's 0:03:24.440 --> 0:03:27.519 not chasing me the way that I normally get chased 0:03:27.560 --> 0:03:30.680 after a date. You normally have men like physically chasing you, 0:03:30.800 --> 0:03:32.640 or you just mean like, yeah. 0:03:32.520 --> 0:03:35.360 Possibly most of the time, Yes. 0:03:35.760 --> 0:03:40.800 Okay, can I guess? I mean not just his looks, 0:03:40.840 --> 0:03:43.160 but also his personality is probably not typically what you 0:03:43.240 --> 0:03:43.839 normally date. 0:03:44.440 --> 0:03:47.200 No, not really, Like we met on hinge and he 0:03:47.280 --> 0:03:51.960 seemed normal, like a nice guy, he's sort of cute special. 0:03:52.240 --> 0:03:53.960 Stopped gagging during the description. 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:56.360 After my friends they're like, I'll give a guy a chance, 0:03:56.360 --> 0:03:58.280 I'll try something different, and then he stops talking to her, 0:03:58.320 --> 0:03:59.600 and it's like, what's wrong in the world? 0:04:01.320 --> 0:04:01.720 Is off? 0:04:01.960 --> 0:04:04.040 I like how she said he seemed normal and he's 0:04:04.080 --> 0:04:06.800 obviously abnormal because he's not going out. 0:04:07.000 --> 0:04:10.200 Yeah, but even though he seemed normal and nice and 0:04:10.240 --> 0:04:12.640 totally out of the ordinary, you still went out with him? 0:04:13.040 --> 0:04:13.440 I did. 0:04:13.680 --> 0:04:15.600 I mean, yes, I was kind of bored, so I 0:04:15.640 --> 0:04:16.240 was like why not? 0:04:16.560 --> 0:04:19.800 Wow? Yeah, but personality can add the looks once you 0:04:19.839 --> 0:04:24.200 meet someone. So how was it when you first met him? Like, 0:04:24.240 --> 0:04:25.240 what was that moment? 0:04:25.360 --> 0:04:29.040 Like, well, he invited me to a bar for happy 0:04:29.080 --> 0:04:31.000 hour and it was kind of early for a date 0:04:31.120 --> 0:04:32.520 that was like five, Well. 0:04:32.440 --> 0:04:37.400 That's happy hour, yeah okay, okay, yeah, the late night crowds. 0:04:37.440 --> 0:04:39.159 So all right, So what happened? 0:04:39.680 --> 0:04:43.920 The conversation went, well, he was more confident than I 0:04:43.960 --> 0:04:46.440 thought he would be. He was dressed very well. 0:04:46.839 --> 0:04:49.080 When you can, I just ask, like, it sounds like 0:04:49.120 --> 0:04:51.360 you're saying he's more confident because you still think he's 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:55.640 not very attractive. Correct, Okay, So I want to know 0:04:56.200 --> 0:04:59.800 when you very first saw him, what was your reaction. 0:05:00.640 --> 0:05:03.280 I think it was like, I'm doing this guy a favor. 0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:07.400 Okay, You're like, he's not crying yet, but he will 0:05:07.440 --> 0:05:08.120 be when I'm. 0:05:08.000 --> 0:05:08.279 Done with. 0:05:10.200 --> 0:05:12.680 I'm just being honest. Okay, you guys asked me the question. 0:05:13.040 --> 0:05:15.440 All right. Sometimes I do see couples and I'm like, Wow, 0:05:15.440 --> 0:05:17.000 she's gorgeous. How did he pull her? 0:05:17.320 --> 0:05:19.240 No, I'm wondering do girls do this and in their 0:05:19.279 --> 0:05:20.680 head it's like a charity case. 0:05:20.880 --> 0:05:23.200 Well, you have to understand, she's the one that's calling 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:23.839 us right. 0:05:23.720 --> 0:05:25.800 Now, she's the one chasing him. 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:29.760 Yeah. Okay, although there's a reason we didn't answer your 0:05:29.760 --> 0:05:37.360 first question, Jose, but that's okay, So tell us more 0:05:37.400 --> 0:05:39.599 what happens during this happy hour drink state. 0:05:40.200 --> 0:05:43.479 Conversation went well, and then he started asking about what 0:05:43.520 --> 0:05:46.080 type of food I like, and I was like, he's 0:05:46.120 --> 0:05:48.719 going to try to roll this into grabbing dinner with me. 0:05:49.120 --> 0:05:52.799 Oh okay, I thought. She's like, oh god, this guy's 0:05:52.800 --> 0:05:55.080 going to try and feed me too. Is that is 0:05:55.120 --> 0:05:57.720 that kind of where you're you're normally at, Lucy? 0:05:58.200 --> 0:06:00.840 I mean taking it sound like it's that of the ordinary, 0:06:01.880 --> 0:06:04.159 but that's not where my head was at the time. 0:06:04.360 --> 0:06:07.360 Okay, So you're excited to continue the day with him? 0:06:07.960 --> 0:06:13.279 Excited might be a strong word, like medium, excited. 0:06:12.880 --> 0:06:15.440 All right, okay, willing to go along with it a 0:06:15.480 --> 0:06:17.119 little longer, yeah, okay. 0:06:17.160 --> 0:06:19.440 But here's the weird thing. I tell him what kind 0:06:19.440 --> 0:06:23.120 of food I'm interested in, like Italian, Japanese, and his 0:06:23.240 --> 0:06:28.040 response cool, Well, anyway, this has been chill, but I 0:06:28.080 --> 0:06:29.359 gotta go meet up? 0:06:30.600 --> 0:06:32.159 What immediately? 0:06:33.440 --> 0:06:36.400 Do you that's not even a good review of the date, 0:06:36.680 --> 0:06:37.920 Like this has been chill. 0:06:38.040 --> 0:06:40.119 Why would you even ask what I like to eat? 0:06:40.200 --> 0:06:43.279 And I just said meet up with who? And he 0:06:43.400 --> 0:06:46.560 was like, oh, just a friend. I'll catch you later. Though, Oh, 0:06:49.400 --> 0:06:49.880 this guy. 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:50.719 Maybe a huge player. 0:06:50.800 --> 0:06:53.840 This feels like the perfect so I think that he 0:06:53.960 --> 0:06:58.440 just maybe saw through that you weren't attracted to him 0:06:58.440 --> 0:07:01.840 and you were interested surface things. 0:07:02.240 --> 0:07:05.720 Did you miss that I am way better looking at him? 0:07:05.800 --> 0:07:08.840 Like he never should have had a chance because some. 0:07:08.920 --> 0:07:11.480 People aren't looking for just you gave off like I'm 0:07:11.480 --> 0:07:12.400 better than you vibes. 0:07:13.720 --> 0:07:17.080 But he did say I'll catch you later, so there's 0:07:17.120 --> 0:07:19.920 some hope for a second meet up there, did he ever? 0:07:20.120 --> 0:07:22.280 What was that the end of all conversation? 0:07:22.840 --> 0:07:25.720 Well, I texted him a little later and I said, hey, 0:07:25.720 --> 0:07:28.400 I had a really great time it was meeting you, 0:07:28.520 --> 0:07:29.920 and he just hearted it. 0:07:31.560 --> 0:07:35.480 Is that he could have just thumbs up there, and 0:07:35.480 --> 0:07:36.640 that would have been I can't. 0:07:36.440 --> 0:07:39.080 Wait to talk to this guy. I don't feel like, like, 0:07:39.160 --> 0:07:40.960 why do you want to go out with him again? 0:07:41.120 --> 0:07:45.320 It's just like a game. I don't don't Well, why 0:07:45.320 --> 0:07:46.280 are we calling him? 0:07:46.520 --> 0:07:48.520 Yeah, what made you reach out to us for help? 0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:50.600 Well, we have to hear his side. 0:07:50.640 --> 0:07:52.960 I'm too curious, Like, who did he have to meet 0:07:53.000 --> 0:07:54.840 that was more important than me at that moment? 0:07:55.160 --> 0:08:00.000 So I don't think you're going to like anything he said. 0:08:01.160 --> 0:08:03.840 Maybe his like family member was in the hospital and 0:08:03.880 --> 0:08:06.280 he had to go visit her or him at that point, 0:08:06.320 --> 0:08:07.400 would that change your mind. 0:08:07.720 --> 0:08:10.080 You don't say meet up with someone if you're going 0:08:10.120 --> 0:08:10.760 to the hot. 0:08:10.760 --> 0:08:14.400 Oh's pretty much dead right now. Meet up. 0:08:15.160 --> 0:08:17.480 She decided the moment she saw him that she was 0:08:17.520 --> 0:08:19.320 not going to go out with him again. It's just 0:08:19.400 --> 0:08:20.080 that he is. 0:08:22.160 --> 0:08:24.640 There is a little bit of a power dynamic going on, 0:08:24.960 --> 0:08:27.920 and I am excited to hopefully get him on the phone. 0:08:29.000 --> 0:08:31.000 We'll see what he has to say if he answers 0:08:31.040 --> 0:08:33.240 in your second date update. Right after this hold on 0:08:34.200 --> 0:08:39.680 second Date update, let's recap what we know about our listener, 0:08:39.840 --> 0:08:42.760 Lucy and her date with Nate the other day. 0:08:43.000 --> 0:08:44.480 It's a rough one, Jeff, Well. 0:08:44.400 --> 0:08:47.280 I don't know. Number one, according to her, she is 0:08:47.440 --> 0:08:48.600 way hotter than him. 0:08:48.800 --> 0:08:49.240 Yeah. 0:08:49.480 --> 0:08:52.080 Number two, he was lucky to be going out with 0:08:52.160 --> 0:08:55.400 someone as hot as she was. Sure. Number three, his 0:08:55.559 --> 0:09:00.600 personality was fine, but not as fine as her hotness. 0:09:00.640 --> 0:09:03.320 And despite all of that, uh huh, Nate was the 0:09:03.320 --> 0:09:06.720 one who cut their date short after just one drink. 0:09:06.920 --> 0:09:08.760 So weird. It seems like she's so deep. 0:09:10.600 --> 0:09:14.439 It is that he was confident to her. 0:09:14.600 --> 0:09:16.319 Yeah, why would he be confident? 0:09:17.280 --> 0:09:20.440 I'm not sure, but it's all very unusual for Lucy. Clearly, 0:09:20.440 --> 0:09:23.600 it's got her a little bit flustered, very confused, which 0:09:23.640 --> 0:09:26.160 is the reason why she wants us to give him 0:09:26.200 --> 0:09:28.760 a call and get some answers. Right, Lucy, you. 0:09:28.679 --> 0:09:30.400 Guys make me sound like I'm so shallow. 0:09:30.480 --> 0:09:34.320 I'm not, Okay, you know what. I think that just 0:09:34.400 --> 0:09:37.640 the conversation we had made that happen. But yeah, but 0:09:38.040 --> 0:09:38.559 I am. 0:09:38.400 --> 0:09:40.480 Just trying to paint a picture for you here. I 0:09:40.480 --> 0:09:43.440 think it's very important to note that I am, in 0:09:43.520 --> 0:09:46.720 fact hotter than him, Okay. 0:09:45.760 --> 0:09:49.240 Saying factually like a bra We're not disputing that. 0:09:49.760 --> 0:09:51.800 We're all agree I want photos. 0:09:52.080 --> 0:09:57.160 Well, don't you get under We're all taking your word 0:09:57.200 --> 0:09:59.000 for it. But I think what what, what would really 0:09:59.040 --> 0:10:01.480 help us is if you could think of one nice 0:10:01.520 --> 0:10:04.240 thing to say about him that we could bring up 0:10:04.360 --> 0:10:06.800 once we get him on the phone, Something that you liked. 0:10:06.679 --> 0:10:10.479 About him, that he really did hold down a conversation. 0:10:10.640 --> 0:10:15.440 Well okay, and you actually sounds sincere about that, which 0:10:15.480 --> 0:10:16.160 I appreciate. 0:10:16.679 --> 0:10:19.840 Okay, when I say he did that, he barely did it, 0:10:19.840 --> 0:10:20.559 but he did it. 0:10:20.760 --> 0:10:23.840 Okay, But I'm just going to make a note he 0:10:23.920 --> 0:10:25.960 knows how to have a conversation, so that I can 0:10:26.000 --> 0:10:27.080 compliment him sort of. 0:10:28.240 --> 0:10:29.240 But it just ended there. 0:10:29.280 --> 0:10:30.360 I'm just going to bring it up to him just 0:10:30.360 --> 0:10:32.280 so we could say something nice and that usually helps 0:10:32.280 --> 0:10:33.160 people open up a little. 0:10:33.240 --> 0:10:35.120 Sounds like a confident, great guy. 0:10:35.240 --> 0:10:37.000 Okay, so let's hope he holds a conversation. We're going 0:10:37.040 --> 0:10:39.960 to talk to him on the radio if he answers. First, 0:10:39.960 --> 0:10:41.240 we got to get him on the phone. Let me 0:10:41.280 --> 0:10:42.760 dial in. We'll see if he picks up, and then 0:10:42.760 --> 0:10:53.880 we can move from there. Here we go. Hell, hey 0:10:53.960 --> 0:10:54.480 is this Nate? 0:10:55.840 --> 0:10:58.800 Uh yeah, cute voice. 0:11:00.920 --> 0:11:01.120 Coming. 0:11:03.280 --> 0:11:04.599 Can you give him some compliments? 0:11:04.600 --> 0:11:09.160 Okay, all right, this is We're a radio show. We're 0:11:09.160 --> 0:11:11.800 called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:11:12.240 --> 0:11:13.040 Welcome to the show. 0:11:13.520 --> 0:11:14.040 Good morning. 0:11:14.280 --> 0:11:16.640 Uh yeah, I'm a little busy right now. And what's 0:11:16.640 --> 0:11:17.000 going on? 0:11:17.760 --> 0:11:19.640 Yeah, so we won't take up too much of your time. 0:11:20.000 --> 0:11:21.760 What we're doing is a segment it's called a second 0:11:21.840 --> 0:11:24.000 Date Update, where we're trying to help one of our 0:11:24.040 --> 0:11:26.840 listeners get back in touch with you after you two 0:11:26.920 --> 0:11:29.360 went out on a hot date the other. 0:11:29.280 --> 0:11:32.360 Night, A short date. I think he ended it pretty short. 0:11:32.800 --> 0:11:33.720 Who are you talking about? 0:11:34.080 --> 0:11:35.960 Uh? It's a woman named Lucy. 0:11:37.080 --> 0:11:42.560 Lucy Yeah, okay, super serious to laughing. 0:11:42.559 --> 0:11:43.800 It totally checks out. 0:11:44.040 --> 0:11:46.040 It totally checks out that she would be the one calling. 0:11:46.400 --> 0:11:48.400 Yeah, checks out. What does that mean? 0:11:49.000 --> 0:11:51.320 Yeah, she's texted me like four times in the last 0:11:51.400 --> 0:11:53.640 couple of days, Like I barely sponsor her. 0:11:53.679 --> 0:11:56.760 So that's okay. So clearly you you know what you're 0:11:56.800 --> 0:11:58.600 doing here. This is all on purpose. 0:11:58.720 --> 0:11:59.480 It's a power play. 0:11:59.559 --> 0:12:02.480 It sounds like, well, it's just she's that type of girl, 0:12:02.600 --> 0:12:03.439 Like there's a type. 0:12:03.559 --> 0:12:05.439 What does that mean? Explain the type. 0:12:05.160 --> 0:12:08.840 Though, Like she's very attractive, but she's been told all 0:12:08.880 --> 0:12:11.280 her life since she's attractive, so she knows it. And 0:12:11.320 --> 0:12:14.240 then she's like, no, I'm better and I'm like, okay, relax. 0:12:14.080 --> 0:12:16.199 So do you do you not like her? 0:12:16.240 --> 0:12:16.400 Then? 0:12:16.480 --> 0:12:18.600 Like is that negative or positive? I can't tell. 0:12:19.040 --> 0:12:21.720 No, She's fine, Like it's just a matter of like 0:12:22.480 --> 0:12:24.760 there's two things you got to deal with with women, 0:12:24.800 --> 0:12:28.040 like Lucy, keep the date really short, right, that's the thing. 0:12:28.080 --> 0:12:29.800 You got to keep the date really short. Like I 0:12:29.920 --> 0:12:33.160 knew that if I kept the date going longer longer, 0:12:33.400 --> 0:12:36.080 I had the suspicion that she was like, oh good. 0:12:35.920 --> 0:12:36.920 A free meal out of me. 0:12:36.960 --> 0:12:38.319 And I'm not That's not what I'm about. 0:12:38.679 --> 0:12:41.199 Okay, So this this is like a rule of strategy 0:12:41.240 --> 0:12:43.600 that you've come up with for dating beautiful women. 0:12:44.080 --> 0:12:46.400 It's not just beautiful women, it's beautiful women who know 0:12:46.440 --> 0:12:48.680 that they're beautiful and think that they're better than you 0:12:48.760 --> 0:12:49.680 because they're beautiful. 0:12:49.720 --> 0:12:49.920 Good. 0:12:50.440 --> 0:12:51.319 Okay, wait. 0:12:53.200 --> 0:12:55.800 A specific type of girl. Well then most women in 0:12:55.840 --> 0:12:57.720 my case, I don't get. 0:12:57.600 --> 0:12:59.400 It though, Like you want to keep the date short 0:12:59.480 --> 0:13:01.480 because you want to keep her attracted to you, or 0:13:01.520 --> 0:13:03.080 you want to keep the date short because you don't 0:13:03.080 --> 0:13:04.079 ever want to see her again. 0:13:05.000 --> 0:13:07.760 No, it's definitely because I want to keep her interested. 0:13:07.880 --> 0:13:11.520 And you're a woman like Lucy. The longer the date goes, 0:13:11.559 --> 0:13:14.400 the less interested she becomes because she knows all about you. 0:13:14.480 --> 0:13:17.280 So you mentioned earlier there's two things that you always do. 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:21.439 You keep the date short. Was one short? 0:13:21.679 --> 0:13:24.280 You don't give them any information. You just hey, I 0:13:24.280 --> 0:13:25.560 gotta go talk to you later. 0:13:26.960 --> 0:13:28.520 So when you said you were going to meet up 0:13:28.520 --> 0:13:29.640 with a friend, that was a lie. 0:13:30.080 --> 0:13:32.800 That wasn'tna lie. That was we were at the gym. 0:13:32.840 --> 0:13:34.000 I want to I want to go to the gym 0:13:34.000 --> 0:13:35.599 to meet a friend at the gym, but I'm not 0:13:35.640 --> 0:13:37.840 going to give her specifics. I'm not gonna win and 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:40.760 when and with who, because I know that the moment 0:13:40.840 --> 0:13:42.839 I say that, all the mystery is gone. 0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:47.840 Wow wow, oh my god. Yeah, who's used to dating? 0:13:47.920 --> 0:13:52.400 Okay, so she found she found someone who. I mean, 0:13:52.440 --> 0:13:53.160 that's what it is. 0:13:53.240 --> 0:13:55.599 So clearly you seem to have some sort of strategy 0:13:55.640 --> 0:14:01.120 with her. Well a very a very your plan. When 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:03.800 do you plan to actually meet up with her again? 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:05.120 Like how do you make that happen? 0:14:05.840 --> 0:14:07.640 Well, when I'll reach out to her, I'll say like, Hey, 0:14:07.679 --> 0:14:08.880 do you want to get a COVID drinks or do 0:14:08.920 --> 0:14:10.720 you want to get some dinner tonight? And it's always 0:14:10.720 --> 0:14:11.880 got to be like last. 0:14:11.640 --> 0:14:15.640 Minute, Okay, throw her a bon I've. 0:14:15.480 --> 0:14:17.760 Been dodging her and I've been keeping it vague for 0:14:17.800 --> 0:14:19.440 so long that now she's gonna be like, oh I 0:14:19.480 --> 0:14:21.960 got it track with the irons hot that that's all. 0:14:22.000 --> 0:14:25.360 Right, just plan. Yeah, you're breaking Brooks spirit. The more 0:14:25.400 --> 0:14:27.360 that you talk about it's just like. 0:14:29.760 --> 0:14:30.200 Proud of it. 0:14:30.440 --> 0:14:33.800 Yeah, I think she's proud of himself with this. 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:36.320 Energy or go out with someone who thinks they're better. 0:14:36.120 --> 0:14:40.440 Than you, Like, yeah, I definitely wouldn't do this with everybody. 0:14:40.640 --> 0:14:42.560 I don't do this whole like every woman is the 0:14:42.600 --> 0:14:45.880 same thing. I just know the type of woman. And 0:14:45.920 --> 0:14:47.480 when I asked her, Hey, what do you like to eat? 0:14:47.480 --> 0:14:50.040 And she's like hinting, like the most expensive restaurants. 0:14:50.200 --> 0:14:56.400 This come on, dude, Yeah, you know how these women are. 0:14:56.520 --> 0:14:59.240 They try and like manipulate you. They try and like 0:14:59.320 --> 0:15:02.000 tell you how to live the relationship. And then and 0:15:02.040 --> 0:15:04.360 then they wait on the other line of this phone call, 0:15:04.720 --> 0:15:07.360 listening in on this radio show, this entire time and 0:15:07.400 --> 0:15:08.720 everything that you said. 0:15:08.520 --> 0:15:11.040 Right, well, what are you talking about? What did that mean? Well? 0:15:11.040 --> 0:15:12.640 I thought I thought you would have known by now. 0:15:12.720 --> 0:15:17.160 Lucy's on the other line listening to this what Yeah, 0:15:17.200 --> 0:15:19.400 that's how this works, Lucy, are you there? 0:15:20.440 --> 0:15:20.680 Hi? 0:15:21.200 --> 0:15:21.640 Nathan? 0:15:23.360 --> 0:15:26.200 He was Nate before his full name. 0:15:27.920 --> 0:15:32.600 You seriously thought like you were gonna hit my confidence. Baby, 0:15:32.640 --> 0:15:35.760 you can't bread crumb me, Okay, I own the bakery. 0:15:36.400 --> 0:15:42.640 Oh oh god, Lucy, Lucy, you can't say all of 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:45.320 this after you've called the radio station to get afforded. 0:15:47.440 --> 0:15:47.840 You're not. 0:15:48.680 --> 0:15:53.480 I'm not. I'm a curious about why you were being 0:15:53.520 --> 0:15:57.080 an asshole. And now I know because you like games. 0:15:59.560 --> 0:16:03.280 What I just I'm better at the game than you are. 0:16:05.120 --> 0:16:08.720 To pick up artist, Okay, you think negging women is 0:16:08.760 --> 0:16:10.600 the way to go. You are an age. 0:16:10.720 --> 0:16:13.640 No, that's not at all. That's not true at all. 0:16:13.680 --> 0:16:19.120 I think negging you is the right way, Honey. 0:16:19.360 --> 0:16:22.680 It doesn't work that way, It doesn't. 0:16:22.440 --> 0:16:23.280 It just did. 0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:27.760 You literally called the radio station to get hold of me? 0:16:27.920 --> 0:16:28.720 How you say that? 0:16:29.120 --> 0:16:32.120 No one like? No one me like. 0:16:32.760 --> 0:16:35.520 That, nobody does. 0:16:36.680 --> 0:16:37.160 He's talking. 0:16:37.160 --> 0:16:41.000 At the same time. Her defense a lot. She did say, Remember, 0:16:41.120 --> 0:16:42.360 even if he likes me, I don't want. 0:16:42.240 --> 0:16:42.960 To go out with him again. 0:16:44.320 --> 0:16:46.320 I mean, here's the thing, Lucy, like, it's not that 0:16:46.360 --> 0:16:53.440 you're beautiful, it's that you're I ams gorgeous. The reason 0:16:53.480 --> 0:16:55.800 he's playing the game is because you go around acting 0:16:55.880 --> 0:16:58.720 like you're better than everybody else, And that is fact. 0:16:58.840 --> 0:17:03.480 Are facts? I am looking than Okay, well, yeah he's 0:17:03.480 --> 0:17:05.119 listening to this, Lucy. 0:17:07.600 --> 0:17:10.520 Yeah, she absolutely is better looking to me. But I 0:17:10.600 --> 0:17:12.040 have a wrapped around my little finger. 0:17:12.480 --> 0:17:16.679 Oh, I got your finger right here? Okay, can you 0:17:16.760 --> 0:17:17.560 get the one? 0:17:17.720 --> 0:17:20.280 Wow, let's save that for the bedroom, guys, because this 0:17:20.400 --> 0:17:23.480 is getting a little bit spicy. What I think I'm 0:17:23.520 --> 0:17:26.080 trying to just read between the lines of that conversation 0:17:26.400 --> 0:17:29.240 and what Lucy was trying to say is she's willing 0:17:29.280 --> 0:17:30.720 to give you one more chance. 0:17:32.720 --> 0:17:34.240 To do the day the right way. 0:17:34.560 --> 0:17:36.280 Wait, I think she's talking right now. 0:17:36.359 --> 0:17:38.200 Well, Lucy, this is going to be my time because 0:17:38.359 --> 0:17:40.600 we're running. We're running short here because I have to 0:17:40.640 --> 0:17:42.960 ask Nate, would you be willing to go out with 0:17:43.040 --> 0:17:44.359 Lucy one more time? 0:17:44.960 --> 0:17:46.720 You asked me. You don't need to ask him. 0:17:47.280 --> 0:17:49.359 I reject him, You reject him? 0:17:49.440 --> 0:17:50.479 Whoa is that? 0:17:50.680 --> 0:17:51.840 Was that your last power move? 0:17:54.119 --> 0:17:55.800 Okay, I'm not even gonna say yes or no. 0:17:55.880 --> 0:17:57.719 That's the beautiful I'm just gonna leave it vague and 0:17:57.800 --> 0:17:59.200 I'll just wait for her text later. 0:18:01.840 --> 0:18:04.800 He's so good, so good, Alexis wants to tell you, 0:18:05.080 --> 0:18:07.040 all right, it's a game of chicken. You need to 0:18:07.040 --> 0:18:07.919 see you. I'll text you. 0:18:08.160 --> 0:18:10.159 He's gonna text to first, Nathan. 0:18:12.520 --> 0:18:17.920 It's gonna be her. 0:18:17.520 --> 0:18:20.240 Jeffrey in the morning. Is it just me or was 0:18:20.280 --> 0:18:23.919 that guy like the hot girl whisperer. He just knows 0:18:24.040 --> 0:18:27.679