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Speaker 1: Just like we're going to read this one right here,

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Speaker 1: right now, and you never know, it could be yours.

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Speaker 2: It could be yours.

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Speaker 3: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for

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Speaker 3: you here it is Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: Thank you nephew subject. I fixed him up for his queen.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I got married when I was twenty

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Speaker 1: six years old, and we only lasted for four years

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Speaker 1: because of the way my husband was raised by his

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Speaker 1: mom and grandmama.

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Speaker 2: We moved in.

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Speaker 1: With his mother after we got married, and she cooked

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Speaker 1: for us, washed our clothes, and did all of the

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Speaker 1: household chores.

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Speaker 2: I used to try to clean up the kitchen after

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Speaker 2: she cooked, but she wasn't having it.

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Speaker 1: I could not wait to get my husband away from

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Speaker 1: his mom and grandma and into our own apartment. I

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Speaker 1: taught him to wash clothes, cook, put the trash out,

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Speaker 1: and have some kind of order in our home. His

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Speaker 1: mom was still all in our marriage, saying that I

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Speaker 1: should cater to her son. So I got fed up

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Speaker 1: and moved out. For a while, we tried to save

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Speaker 1: the marriage, but he wasn't the man I needed. We

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Speaker 1: are divorced now, but we are still friends. He calls

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Speaker 1: to ask for my recipes because he cooks.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 1: I have watched him evolve into a grown man and

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Speaker 1: someone that.

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Speaker 2: I can respect and love.

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Speaker 1: I invited him to dinner just to catch up, but

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Speaker 1: he insisted that I come to his house for dinner instead.

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Speaker 1: His place was spotless and the pasta he made good

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Speaker 1: was just as good as mine. I had two glasses

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Speaker 1: of wine, and I was hoping he wanted to have sex.

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Speaker 2: I was so wrong.

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Speaker 1: He started telling me about his queen that he plans

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Speaker 1: to propose to.

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Speaker 2: He thanked me for making him.

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Speaker 1: A better man for her, and he said that his

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Speaker 1: second marriage will last because of it. How can he

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Speaker 1: do all the right stuff for her? I want this

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Speaker 1: new and improved version of my man. I want to

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Speaker 1: be as queen. Should I tell him that? Well, I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: go ahead shoot your shot.

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Speaker 2: Of course.

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Speaker 1: You can tell him how you feel and see where

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Speaker 1: it goes. See how it turns out. I mean, you

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Speaker 1: guys were really young when you got married, and he

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Speaker 1: was still a mama's boy and his mom was too

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Speaker 1: much in the business, you said, But all that has

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Speaker 1: changed now thanks to you. So put it out there.

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Speaker 1: You have nothing to lose. You have nothing to lose

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Speaker 1: with all of this. But you can't be afraid of

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Speaker 1: how you feel. I mean, that's how you feel, So

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Speaker 1: tell him. Just make sure that you want him back

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Speaker 1: for the right reasons and not because he's moved on

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Speaker 1: with a new queen and you're jealous. He could be

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Speaker 1: waiting to hear how you feel, and it could change

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Speaker 1: his mind, and it could be too late. You have

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Speaker 1: to be prepared if you don't get the answer you want.

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Speaker 1: But an honest conversation between the two of you definitely

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Speaker 1: clear a lot of things up, a lot of things.

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Speaker 1: But I gotta tell you it doesn't look too hopeful.

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Speaker 1: He looks pretty happy with this new queen. He sounds

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Speaker 4: Steve Well, Shirley, I ain't mad at your answer. I

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Speaker 4: could see a lot of value in what she said.

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Speaker 4: I agree with a lot of the stuff you said.

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Speaker 4: I don't really know what angle I'm gonna take on

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Speaker 4: this letter yet, I haven't really decided. You always try

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Speaker 4: to find another rabbit hole to jump down here, and

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Speaker 4: you know, yeah, something like that. But I think I

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Speaker 4: may find it as I read a little bit more.

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Speaker 4: This twenty six year old girl was married when she

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Speaker 4: was twenty six, only lasted four years because her husband

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Speaker 4: was raised by his mama and his grandmama.

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Speaker 3: Oh lord old now, oh not the mama and the grandmama.

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Speaker 4: Lord.

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Speaker 3: And then when y'all got married, y'all moved in with

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Speaker 3: his mama. What she do?

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Speaker 4: She cooked for you, washed all the clothes, did all

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Speaker 4: the household charge. You didn't have to do nothing. He

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Speaker 4: clean up the kitchen after she cooked. She wasn't having it. See, man,

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Speaker 4: I ain't got no problem with that. You want to

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Speaker 3: Man?

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Speaker 4: Whoo, knock shelf out? Hey, you might want me help

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Speaker 4: with the didition? No, thank y'all? Ben now watching TV? Okay? Anyway,

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Speaker 4: I could not wait to get my husband away from

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Speaker 3: Oh, this is where the magic gonna start to happen.

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Speaker 3: It ain't it.

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Speaker 4: I taught him to wash clothes, cook, put the trash out,

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Speaker 3: Oh that's a beautiful thing. His mom was.

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Speaker 4: Still all up in your marriage, no telling you you

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Speaker 4: need to cater to this boy. So I got fed

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Speaker 4: up and moved out for a while. See now this

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Speaker 4: is the key part to this letter. See she don't

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Speaker 4: want to focus on that. I got fed up, So

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Speaker 4: I got fed up and moved out for a while.

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Speaker 4: Now once she's not telling you is why she moved out.

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Speaker 4: It was because of the relationship between the mother, the

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Speaker 4: grandmother and the boy. He was a mama's boy, and

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Speaker 4: she got fed up with the woman interfering with the marriage,

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Speaker 4: but the boy was aligning it.

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Speaker 3: So now you got fed up and moved out.

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Speaker 4: Key part to this letter, y'all. We tried to save

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Speaker 4: the marriage, but he wasn't the man I needed. Okay,

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Speaker 4: that's another key part. He wasn't the man you needed.

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Speaker 3: Cool. We are divorced, but.

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Speaker 4: We still friend. How that works at all? I really

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Speaker 4: don't Once you divorced me, we are enemies for life. Yes,

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Speaker 4: I can't call me for no damn help. I don't

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Speaker 4: care how you're doing now. I ain't checking on you.

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Speaker 4: The last thing we finnh do it be buddies? Fie

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Speaker 4: Misschia at all. I don't miss you at all. Part

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Speaker 4: of my life is gone. Let it be gone anyway.

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Speaker 4: Just a personal thoughts that I was having when I

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Speaker 4: read that we are still friend wasn't friends when we

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Speaker 4: was married. I don't know out of here we're gonna

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Speaker 4: be buddies now anyway. Let's go on, Steve. He calls

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Speaker 4: to ask for my recipes because he cooked. Now, I

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Speaker 4: I can respect in.

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Speaker 3: Love really, and then it happened.

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Speaker 4: She invited him to dinner to catch up, but he

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Speaker 4: went to the house, his place was spotless. And when

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Speaker 4: we come back, I'm gonna tell you what happened.

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Speaker 1: All right, Hang on, Steve, We'll have part two of

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Speaker 1: your response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.

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Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letter, subject I fixed him up for his queen.

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Speaker 2: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 2: hard morning show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject fixed him up for his queen.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this woman, you know, had a little mama's boy.

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Speaker 4: She was married to for four years. It ain't last

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Speaker 4: because the mama and the grandmama kept interfering and he

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Speaker 4: was allowing it. And you know, they lived in their

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Speaker 4: apartment for a while and the mother did everything, cooked, clean,

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Speaker 4: all that. Even if she tried to help, the mother

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Speaker 4: say it, oh no, So she couldn't wait to get

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Speaker 4: their own apartment. They finally got their own apartment. They

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Speaker 4: was wonderful time. So she started training him, taught him.

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Speaker 3: How to cook, clean, wash, take the trash out.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 4: I don't know why takes the trash out as a

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Speaker 4: damn skill. And I was this bag of trash, put

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Speaker 4: it notot and walk your ass out there to the

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Speaker 4: garbage can. I don't know why you think that was

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Speaker 4: such a great ass accomplishment. It really wasn't nothing. He

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Speaker 4: took the damn trash out. I know the little boys

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Speaker 4: had take the damn trash shout. He said, there got

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Speaker 4: a grown ass man dragging the trash out, thinking you

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Speaker 4: got a real man. Now, she just took the damn

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Speaker 4: trash out it's a bag, most of them coming the

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Speaker 4: little red thing. All you gotta do is put it

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Speaker 4: in his cinch tight. Ye, you gotta put the nott.

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Speaker 4: Remember you have to put your fingers in the healty

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Speaker 4: bag to make make yourself or not. Now they got

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Speaker 4: drawstring on it, can knot it up yourself. Now you're

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Speaker 4: just impressed. You're too easily impressed. His pucker ass took

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Speaker 4: the trash out, that's all he did. That don't make

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Speaker 4: him a man now, damn. Now he can wash dishes?

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Speaker 3: What kind of man is that?

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Speaker 1: So?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 4: Oh girl? He can wash clothes, cook? Put the trash out, y'all?

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Speaker 4: That well, okay, So now you taught him how to

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Speaker 4: do that. And but the mama was still in the marriage. So,

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Speaker 4: like I said, this is a key part of it.

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Speaker 4: So you got fed up and moved out for a while.

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Speaker 4: Couldn't take it no more. The mama boy wore you out.

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Speaker 4: You couldn't help with the cleaning and all this is.

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Speaker 4: So you got fed up and you moved out. Key

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Speaker 4: part to this letter. Next thing you know, y'all say,

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Speaker 4: y'all tried to save the marriage, but he wasn't the man.

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Speaker 4: I needed two key parts you got fed up and

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Speaker 4: moved out, and he wasn't the man you needed. Now

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Speaker 4: all of a sudden, we're divorced, but we still friends.

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Speaker 4: I said that earlier. I don't know how that worked.

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Speaker 4: I don't know where y'all come from, but being friends

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Speaker 4: with the person you divorced. We got divorced because we

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Speaker 4: wasn't friends, were not finish formed, no friendship. Now, you

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Speaker 4: ain't gonna drag me over the coals. Get a lawyer

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Speaker 4: in there and just win and win and win all

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Speaker 4: the house and property and everything, and then we finish,

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Speaker 4: your friend. I got the damn start over with my

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Speaker 4: life and everything. Now, Hell no, it is about me.

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Speaker 4: I got damn this brief, pig myself out the damn

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Speaker 4: good of every time I get a damn divorce and

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Speaker 4: start over. You're getting alimony, free ash checks and all

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Speaker 4: his head.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm not your damn friend anyway. Let me just

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Speaker 3: move on her say he calls and ask for my

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Speaker 3: recipes because he cooks.

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Speaker 4: Now, I watched him involve into a grown man as

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Speaker 4: someone that I can respect in love. Oh, you're respecting

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Speaker 4: love and man now because you know how.

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Speaker 3: To cook, take out the trash and clean.

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Speaker 4: Girl. I invited him to dinner so we could catch up,

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Speaker 4: but he insisted I come to his house with dinner instead.

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Speaker 4: His place was spotless and the pasta he made was

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Speaker 4: just as good as mind.

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Speaker 3: I had two glasses of wine and was hoping he

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Speaker 3: wanted to have sex. Was I was so wrong?

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Speaker 4: He started telling me about his queen that he plans

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Speaker 4: and propose to. Okay, and what ain't he the man

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Speaker 4: you that that you? He wasn't the man you needed?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 4: He thanked me for making him a better man for her,

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Speaker 4: and he said that his second marriage would last because

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Speaker 4: of it. How can he do all the right stuff

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Speaker 4: for her? Well, didn't you put him into the housekeeping

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Speaker 4: training course?

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Speaker 3: You know how to cook?

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Speaker 2: Clean?

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Speaker 3: And he take out the trash y'all? How hard he is?

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Speaker 4: Get a man take damn trash out?

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Speaker 3: Whoa, I don't know? No means that take the trash out? Girl?

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Speaker 4: You got something now, Tommy, You ever took the trash

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Speaker 4: out last night?

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Speaker 3: Junior? You ever took the trash out?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Every day?

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Speaker 4: Yah?

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Speaker 3: You ever had tash take the trash out? Yes?

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Speaker 4: I don't do no damn housework, cause she tell me too.

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Speaker 2: How is this about you?

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Speaker 4: Not. The problem I had was she asked me to

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Speaker 4: take the trash out. I ain't no where the damn

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Speaker 4: garbage cans were stopt outside about.

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Speaker 2: Fifteen minutes behind walking.

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Speaker 4: Around trying to find these damn garbage cakes. Anyway, how

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Speaker 4: can he do all the right stuff for her because

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Speaker 4: you put him in the house keep a training court.

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Speaker 4: I want this new and improved version of my man.

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Speaker 4: I want to be his queen. Should I tell him that?

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Speaker 4: We Sureley's right? You should tell him that.

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Speaker 3: But he don't want you.

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Speaker 4: You know why he don't want you because you remember

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Speaker 4: when you moved out for a while.

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Speaker 3: A man don't forget that. See, soon as it gets rough,

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Speaker 3: you quit.

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Speaker 4: So since you putting people in the house keeping training program,

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Speaker 4: maybe you should should have. Maybe you should have took

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Speaker 4: that course down at the VY, the how to hang

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Speaker 4: in that when it gets rough course. See, you should

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Speaker 4: have took that course. But oh no, your ass moved

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Speaker 4: out and then you tried to save your marriage.

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Speaker 3: Why you was moved out?

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Speaker 4: That didn't work because if Mama and the Grandmama was

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Speaker 4: in his ears, she'd have left you. Like this boy,

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Speaker 4: you don't need nobody just get up on you as

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Speaker 4: soon as they start thunderstorming outside. And it made sense.

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Speaker 4: So now he don't want you. Oh yeah, he cooking

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Speaker 4: and cleaning and making posta and all that's hill. But

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Speaker 4: he still might not be the man you need because

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Speaker 4: all he did was graduate from the housekeeping training course.

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Speaker 4: You never went to the right. Hang the hell in

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Speaker 4: that course, That house keeper training course. I'm telling you

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Speaker 4: right now, it's very expensive to offer that New York NYC.

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Speaker 3: Now you can get it down.

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Speaker 4: And Emory hasard coming in this right the house keeper

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Speaker 4: training program that's brand new. And that's what should I

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Speaker 4: tell him that I want to be his queen. He

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Speaker 4: don't want you. It ain't gonna happen. It's old with

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Speaker 4: a rap. He got somebody else.

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Speaker 3: Neil Obama's boy though you don't know that though.

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Speaker 4: This house was spidless because the mama came over there

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Speaker 4: and cleaned it up.

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Speaker 3: Right before you.

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Speaker 1: Got that sports talk with Junior. Right after this, you're

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