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Speaker 1: I sure will A good morning everybody. You're listening to

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay, here we go today, folks.

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Speaker 1: This is a good one because today I want to

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Speaker 1: share with you something that affects every living soul, and

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Speaker 1: that one thing is your attitude. This affects everyone. It

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Speaker 1: is your attitude. You know. I don't know if anyone's

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Speaker 1: ever told you, but I mean many of you who

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Speaker 1: listen know this, But there are a lot of people

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Speaker 1: who don't understand a positive attitude can bring about a change.

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Speaker 1: A positive attitude can bring about a change. Well, now

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Speaker 1: here we go with the nay says well, Steve, what

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Speaker 1: you mean if I'm just positive being chained? My mama gone,

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Speaker 1: What me being positive got to do with that? Okay,

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Speaker 1: now listen to me carefully. A positive attitude can bring

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Speaker 1: about change. Well, okay, Steve, I hear you saying that,

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Speaker 1: but they didn't fired me. So now what does my

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Speaker 1: attitude can bring about change. Or Steve, I set up

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Speaker 1: gonna change that? Okay, here we go again. A positive

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Speaker 1: the positive attitude and the change that can happen starts

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Speaker 1: to start. It starts within you. See, life is ten

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Speaker 1: percent what happens is what you do about what happens. Okay,

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Speaker 1: positive attitude. How does that change things for you? So far?

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Speaker 1: You can use any example. Here's what happens when you

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Speaker 1: have a positive attitude. What it produces within you is

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Speaker 1: a positive approach to life. And when you have a

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Speaker 1: positive attitude and a positive approach to life, it causes

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Speaker 1: and turn into a positive That's very important because as

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Speaker 1: the law of attraction comes into play, if you think

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Speaker 1: positive thoughts, you attract positive things. If you think evil thoughts,

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Speaker 1: to you. The change will begin within you. So let's

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Speaker 1: if not already been, toxic in your life, cause you

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Speaker 1: So I don't want to go down on the list,

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Speaker 1: You never know the one God God for you that

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Speaker 1: woe is Me negativity train because it ain't gonna take

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Speaker 1: If you change your attitude, you change your altitude. Altitude

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Speaker 1: is determined by your attitude. How high you go, how

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Speaker 1: That's the conversation you're listening to morning show, Ladies and gentlemen,

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Speaker 1: it is upon a se Steve Harvey Morning Show is

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Speaker 1: now here. It means that God has allowed us to

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Speaker 1: run It's over. It was funny, But the other day

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Speaker 1: I can say, ladies and gentlemen, let's get it on

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Speaker 1: this hill. Popping Junior, what's on your mind up today?

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Speaker 1: Ash Wisday, could you please shut his assist this story?

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Speaker 1: No I don't want to do that, Junior, You don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to do the ash wist. This story

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Speaker 1: Why are you laying there having pillot talk? Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: This is repalling the church, Hugh, got dog. We are

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Speaker 1: in your command, all right, all mine clear, let's go

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a pastor, Pastor Wilkins. Yeah, this

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Speaker 1: is the reverend doctor Wilkins. Are you the you're the

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Speaker 1: How can I help you? Okay? Listen, my name is Daniel,

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Speaker 1: and I'm calling from RCS, which is a church supply,

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Speaker 1: and we have an outstanding bill here that we wanted

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Speaker 1: to bring to you all's attention for like twenty three

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Speaker 1: So we wanted to see not to cut you out. Yeah, yeah, Daniel, RCS, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: church supply, sir. That's uh, this is actually where you

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Speaker 1: this was something before you got there, but nevertheless, there's

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Speaker 1: be repossessing these pews as of early seven o'clock Sunday morning,

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Speaker 1: Coming up entertainment news at the top of the hour.

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Speaker 1: morning show, So now listen to what Target has done.

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Speaker 1: So I just kept steaks in there and sold it

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Speaker 1: let's get to this Big Sean story, because this is

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Speaker 1: What you say? Where did he get it from? Are

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Speaker 1: and explains why his name is Big Sean. Uh So

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Speaker 1: there you go. Now are you getting what eggplant means? Oh?

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Speaker 1: My nickname big Daddy. They don't have that emoji? Thought

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna well, why my mom ain't long enough to

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650
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651
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652
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Speaker 1: All right, second, now we'll have more of the Steve

653
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:42,000
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this. You're listening

654
00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up about four

655
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. It's my Strawberry letter for today

656
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,359
Speaker 1: and the subject is I'm here for a good time,

657
00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:55,360
Speaker 1: not a long time. Okay, we'll get into that in

658
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:58,360
Speaker 1: just a bit. I wonder what that's all about. But

659
00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:00,320
Speaker 1: right Now it is time for the next you and

660
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:02,239
Speaker 1: the prank phone call for it today? What you got

661
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:05,279
Speaker 1: for us? Nap. You know, there are a lot of

662
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:08,280
Speaker 1: famous quotes that have gone down in the black community.

663
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:11,920
Speaker 1: There are some nice famous quotes that that we still

664
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:16,480
Speaker 1: use to this day, and this one right here we

665
00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:19,760
Speaker 1: still use it. Every one of us on this show

666
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:25,440
Speaker 1: has used this quote. The title is don't let them

667
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:32,919
Speaker 1: wife folk get your ass for yesterday. Yeah, we all

668
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 1: said it. Don't let them wife folk get your ass for.

669
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 1: Uncle Stevens said it, Junior has said it. Shirley, who

670
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:44,960
Speaker 1: you think, don't curse? She said it, trust and of

671
00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:59,400
Speaker 1: course I get your ass for like a here go,

672
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:06,520
Speaker 1: let's go, cat dog. Don't let them white get your word. Hello, Hey,

673
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:09,440
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach yourrell. Yeah, that's the real who

674
00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:12,520
Speaker 1: is Hey, Jill? This is Drake. Hey. You you work

675
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:15,480
Speaker 1: the you work the day shift, right? Yeah? I work

676
00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:17,520
Speaker 1: at the day shift. I'm last year. What's right now?

677
00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 1: What's going on? All right, I'm on I'm on the

678
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:23,960
Speaker 1: night shift with with d Sean and Jamal. I'm on

679
00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 1: the night shift. Then. I don't know them, but is

680
00:45:25,960 --> 00:45:29,759
Speaker 1: it something like that? Work? Brother? What's going on? Yeah, yeah,

681
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 1: we got a problem. So listen us on the on

682
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 1: the night shift, we're here that you supposed to be

683
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 1: telling everybody that we ain't doing something right. Listen, when

684
00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:41,399
Speaker 1: we get a load in at the dock, we check

685
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:43,360
Speaker 1: that load in, we filed it like we're supposed to

686
00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 1: file it, and then we put and then we take

687
00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 1: the fore clip and put everything where it's supposed to be.

688
00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:50,239
Speaker 1: That's what we do. What I gotta do with here, brother,

689
00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:53,759
Speaker 1: because they're saying they saying that, they saying that, you

690
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:56,400
Speaker 1: saying that we ain't doing our job right on the

691
00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:59,239
Speaker 1: night shift. Who is they? We got the wrong person, brother?

692
00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:05,360
Speaker 1: Who is they? Wine? You? You Turreil? Right, yeah, that's Treil.

693
00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 1: But who it is they? And I ain't saying nothing

694
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:09,480
Speaker 1: like that? Okay, so but let me let me let

695
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 1: me go, let me go clear up like this here though.

696
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:15,879
Speaker 1: Don't let them white folks help you get your here here.

697
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 1: Who brother, No, I'm telling you right now, if we

698
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 1: get one more complaint, but they talking about the night

699
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:25,560
Speaker 1: shift ain't doing something right, I'm gonna tell you right now,

700
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 1: we're coming up there to the day's shift and you're

701
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:29,080
Speaker 1: gonna get your ass when you're gonna let the wife

702
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:31,680
Speaker 1: folks help you get your talking about brother some wine.

703
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:34,799
Speaker 1: I ain't making any complaints. You bring your black down here,

704
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 1: then you're talking about somebody. Come on down here, put

705
00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:42,000
Speaker 1: this pointless of your alight broody. You can you can

706
00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:43,840
Speaker 1: do all this wolf and you're doing right now. You

707
00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 1: can do all this wolfing. What I'm letting you know

708
00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:49,719
Speaker 1: is one more complaint go down about somebody saying something

709
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 1: about the night shift. I'm coming up their person down

710
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 1: here there, man, I ain't trying to hear all this bullet.

711
00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:58,200
Speaker 1: I'm not worse right now. You called me with this bullet.

712
00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:00,680
Speaker 1: I don't even know who you are talking about the

713
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 1: night shift. Matter of fact, don't come down doing the

714
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:05,320
Speaker 1: day shift. I'll wait for you to come to the

715
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:07,040
Speaker 1: knight shift. Well, you can do what you want to.

716
00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:10,440
Speaker 1: Don do with the double and who works that double.

717
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:13,240
Speaker 1: Whatever you got to do, it don't matter to me, Terrell,

718
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:16,360
Speaker 1: It don't matter me. All I'm saying is you're gonna

719
00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 1: prode you leave. Don't call this bush. Why why are

720
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:22,399
Speaker 1: you running your Why are you running your mouth? Why

721
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:25,480
Speaker 1: are you running your mouth? Why are you why are

722
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:27,400
Speaker 1: you running your mouth to the wife, folks, time by,

723
00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:30,799
Speaker 1: we ain't doing our job on the night ship. You're

724
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:33,680
Speaker 1: gonna call somebody I was gonna call with them now

725
00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:36,399
Speaker 1: so so so what why are your voice getting high

726
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 1: because you're lying thinking talking about we're calling with this?

727
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:45,520
Speaker 1: Hey man, you're working, you're working. I'm working to night.

728
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:48,120
Speaker 1: I'm working. Now you give you to night. I'm gonna

729
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:50,040
Speaker 1: say over, I'm gonna work the double just to whoop

730
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:54,120
Speaker 1: your okay, well come get this double whooping dn Okay,

731
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 1: come get this double because we are already then found

732
00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:59,279
Speaker 1: out you the person running your mouth and the wife folks.

733
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:02,839
Speaker 1: Time by nice shift? Night shift ain't nice? Shief ain't

734
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:04,920
Speaker 1: put this way? It was supposed to go nights hif

735
00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 1: ain't ain't checked this all the end right, knight shift,

736
00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:11,360
Speaker 1: nights shift, you blame it. Why don't you stop stopping

737
00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:15,279
Speaker 1: people stop saying you messed up? Stop up, and people

738
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:18,560
Speaker 1: won't complain on the day's shift. It sounds we were

739
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 1: messing up on the knight shift. That's what I'm telling you. Boy.

740
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:26,960
Speaker 1: It probably needs to fire you. Okay, okay, okay, cool?

741
00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 1: You know what you know what how long for you

742
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:31,880
Speaker 1: get off? Man? How long for you get off? How

743
00:48:31,960 --> 00:48:34,160
Speaker 1: long for you get off. I'm working a double. I'm

744
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 1: getting paid for with your nice Come on, any boy?

745
00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:42,320
Speaker 1: All right, cool, cool, let's say no more so how

746
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:45,520
Speaker 1: your wife Cynthia doing? But how you know my wife?

747
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 1: How's she doing? Do you know my wife? I'm saying,

748
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:52,360
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, I'm asking your question. Cruising for a

749
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:54,680
Speaker 1: bruising you're really cruising for a bruson? I don't you

750
00:48:54,760 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 1: know my wife? Man? H I'm I'm going to tell you.

751
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:02,800
Speaker 1: You want to know how I know you? Why? You

752
00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:04,840
Speaker 1: want to know how I know you? Why? Yeah? You

753
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:10,319
Speaker 1: know my wife? To real? This is nephew Timmy from

754
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning, to show your wife Cynthia got

755
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:22,480
Speaker 1: me to praying phone call? Yo? What real? Slowdown? Slowdown, slowdouse, lowdown.

756
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:25,279
Speaker 1: This is this nephew Timmy from the Steve Harvey Morning,

757
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:29,759
Speaker 1: to show your wife Cynthia. You almost got so who boy?

758
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:38,400
Speaker 1: I was sixty nine shout this boy, God, you damning

759
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:40,440
Speaker 1: got me fire. The whole fact that you're looking at

760
00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 1: me right now. I might have to check you. Just

761
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 1: listen if I get fired. Hey, Hey, this was nephew Tommy.

762
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 1: Yeah you see your show? Yeah not young something right

763
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:58,080
Speaker 1: now el do me a favor. Man, You gotta tell

764
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:01,000
Speaker 1: me this baby's twenty twenty. What is the baddest and

765
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:04,719
Speaker 1: I mean the baddest radio show in the land, but

766
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey's Warning show. Oh man, y'all got me. You're

767
00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 1: gonna mess around? Yeah, you know, but but you know

768
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:18,840
Speaker 1: what I liked about him help you. He invited you

769
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:24,840
Speaker 1: down immediately. There was no hesitation say hey man, I

770
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:29,399
Speaker 1: don't do stuff like that. Come on down here then, yeah,

771
00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:32,800
Speaker 1: work a matter of fact, I'm gonna work a double.

772
00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:41,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna stay here, get paid. Black you be already

773
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:46,640
Speaker 1: sick man. Voice went up about four octaves. Julie, I

774
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:48,919
Speaker 1: think I think he went hide in you. Junior, Yeah,

775
00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:53,600
Speaker 1: because you own his nerve right back. I would love

776
00:50:53,640 --> 00:51:00,439
Speaker 1: to hear Junior in the argument I've heard I've heard.

777
00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:11,560
Speaker 1: It's funny. It's like it's kind of like listening to

778
00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:23,520
Speaker 1: Oh Books Wunnygan with Daffy Dump and you'll Simmity Sam

779
00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 1: walk in and fog Horn leg Horn is trying to

780
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:32,000
Speaker 1: calm I'll say, I'll say, I'll say, Son, calm down.

781
00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:36,360
Speaker 1: You know that ruth to be trying to talk Junior

782
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:46,759
Speaker 1: boy that what he was sweating guy. Sweating guy, sweating guy.

783
00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:54,839
Speaker 1: You know you, Cell, I'm telling you right now, you Cell,

784
00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:02,640
Speaker 1: you ain't what you want. He again, You're gonna get it.

785
00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:05,719
Speaker 1: Channing again, He's gonna get it. You better listen to

786
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:10,240
Speaker 1: my voice. I gotta pay, I gotta play it. Anything

787
00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:20,719
Speaker 1: checking out, checking out, Wow, I love it. I really

788
00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:29,319
Speaker 1: believe you with my I really believe you. My lever

789
00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:35,160
Speaker 1: say this my nineteenth. Don't come about my dad. Well,

790
00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:37,000
Speaker 1: we all be about my dear. And I tell you

791
00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:52,800
Speaker 1: what we all We'll go now listen, coming up Strawberry Letter. Listen.

792
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:55,400
Speaker 1: The subject is I'm here for a good time, not

793
00:52:55,560 --> 00:52:58,640
Speaker 1: a long time. We'll get into it right after this.

794
00:52:59,360 --> 00:53:04,600
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now

795
00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:08,720
Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships,

796
00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:12,120
Speaker 1: on work, sex, parenting, and more, please submit your Strawberry

797
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:14,600
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798
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Speaker 1: do is click submit Strawberry Letter. We could receive your

799
00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:20,600
Speaker 1: letter and read it live on the air, just like

800
00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:23,080
Speaker 1: we're gonna read this one right here, right now. And

801
00:53:23,280 --> 00:53:27,120
Speaker 1: you never know, this one could be yours. You never know,

802
00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:30,400
Speaker 1: so buckle up and hold on tight, we got it

803
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:33,960
Speaker 1: for you. Here. It is the Strawberry Letter. Thank you, nephew. Subjects.

804
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:36,520
Speaker 1: I'm here for a good time, not a long time, okay,

805
00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:41,080
Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been married for almost fifteen years,

806
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:43,839
Speaker 1: and when I met my husband, I was twenty six

807
00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:46,120
Speaker 1: and he was thirty seven. He was more like a

808
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:49,879
Speaker 1: father figure to me then. Back then, because I grew

809
00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 1: up in a house full of women that were headstrong

810
00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:56,160
Speaker 1: and didn't need a man for anything, I was determined

811
00:53:56,239 --> 00:53:59,160
Speaker 1: to be different. So the first real man that offered

812
00:53:59,200 --> 00:54:02,680
Speaker 1: me a dreamline, I jumped at the opportunity. The fairy

813
00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:06,160
Speaker 1: tale was real for the first three years. Reality set

814
00:54:06,239 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 1: in and I started to have children and he started

815
00:54:09,719 --> 00:54:12,360
Speaker 1: stepping out on me. I used to follow him and

816
00:54:12,440 --> 00:54:14,520
Speaker 1: act a fool on him with my twins in the

817
00:54:14,600 --> 00:54:17,920
Speaker 1: back seat. Then it all stopped when he got an

818
00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:22,560
Speaker 1: incurable infection and had to tell me to go get tested.

819
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:27,000
Speaker 1: Thank heavens, I was not affected or infected by his nastiness.

820
00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:30,800
Speaker 1: That was almost five years ago, and that's the last

821
00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 1: time he touched me. We've been coexisting in this marriage

822
00:54:35,320 --> 00:54:38,480
Speaker 1: since then. We sleep in the same bedroom, but all

823
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 1: of his belongings are in the guest room, and he

824
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:44,160
Speaker 1: shares a bathroom with our twins. They haven't heard us

825
00:54:44,320 --> 00:54:47,960
Speaker 1: arguing years, so I hope they're having a happy childhood.

826
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:51,120
Speaker 1: The sacrifice was wearing on me and I needed some

827
00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:54,000
Speaker 1: good sex and attention from a man. So I got

828
00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:57,680
Speaker 1: a boyfriend two years ago. He's married too, but he's

829
00:54:57,719 --> 00:55:01,040
Speaker 1: ready to get a divorce. He is not as complacent

830
00:55:01,239 --> 00:55:03,719
Speaker 1: as I am, and he's pressuring me to leave my

831
00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:06,640
Speaker 1: home and be happy with him. I have to remind

832
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:09,400
Speaker 1: him that we're together for a good time, not a

833
00:55:09,520 --> 00:55:12,440
Speaker 1: long time. He said, I'm wasting my life, and my

834
00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:15,719
Speaker 1: kids are aware of our dysfunctional marriage. I know all

835
00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:18,560
Speaker 1: of the cliches, like the grasses and greener on the

836
00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:21,480
Speaker 1: other side, but I've had a great time on the

837
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:24,920
Speaker 1: other side, and the grass was nice. Would i'd be

838
00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:27,960
Speaker 1: selfish to leave my marriage and enjoy my life with

839
00:55:28,640 --> 00:55:32,160
Speaker 1: my new man? Well, I just got to say that

840
00:55:33,440 --> 00:55:36,560
Speaker 1: here we go again. You know you didn't ask us

841
00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:39,520
Speaker 1: our opinions two years ago when you decided to get

842
00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:42,920
Speaker 1: this boy friend, or when you were in this loveless,

843
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:46,200
Speaker 1: crazy marriage, But now you're asking should you leave your

844
00:55:46,320 --> 00:55:49,279
Speaker 1: husband for him? I have to tell you this is

845
00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:51,560
Speaker 1: not a game. You are still married and you do

846
00:55:51,760 --> 00:55:54,680
Speaker 1: have kids. So why didn't you leave your husband when

847
00:55:54,719 --> 00:55:56,879
Speaker 1: he first started cheating on you, or when he brought

848
00:55:56,960 --> 00:56:01,359
Speaker 1: home that incurable infection that you called it? I mean

849
00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:03,319
Speaker 1: that was the time to pick up and get out.

850
00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 1: I mean, now you're so called boyfriend who is still married,

851
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:10,560
Speaker 1: I might add, who is pressuring you to leave your husband?

852
00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:14,040
Speaker 1: I mean for what This arrangement has been working for

853
00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:17,800
Speaker 1: you guys for years, which in and of itself is crazy.

854
00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:21,360
Speaker 1: But I say, if you're gonna leave, please don't do

855
00:56:21,520 --> 00:56:25,279
Speaker 1: it for this boyfriend. I mean, leave your husband and

856
00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:28,320
Speaker 1: your marriage because it's run its course, or because you

857
00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:31,359
Speaker 1: don't love your husband anymore and you want out. Those

858
00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:34,560
Speaker 1: are the reasons. You know. You would leave because he's

859
00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:37,200
Speaker 1: been cheating on you, because he brought home and incurable

860
00:56:37,280 --> 00:56:40,800
Speaker 1: infection to you, not because your boyfriend is pressuring you

861
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:44,280
Speaker 1: and you got to think about it. Like your husband,

862
00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:47,279
Speaker 1: your new man is also a cheater, and chances are

863
00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:50,200
Speaker 1: he will cheat on you too. Remember he's cheating with

864
00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:54,839
Speaker 1: you right now. So in other words, you're not even

865
00:56:54,960 --> 00:56:58,279
Speaker 1: leaving your husband for something better. This is just a

866
00:56:58,640 --> 00:57:02,839
Speaker 1: different cheating situation. You need to think this one through

867
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:05,880
Speaker 1: a lot more before you make any major decisions. I

868
00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:09,400
Speaker 1: do know your marriage isn't working, but you need to

869
00:57:09,480 --> 00:57:12,040
Speaker 1: think about this before you make any major moves like

870
00:57:12,120 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 1: you're thinking about Steve. Let me start my letter by laughing.

871
00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:28,680
Speaker 1: I have a totally different perspective here. I'm going to

872
00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:31,800
Speaker 1: share it with you and why I feel this way.

873
00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:35,440
Speaker 1: I'm not here for a good time. I'm here for

874
00:57:35,560 --> 00:57:38,320
Speaker 1: excuse me, I'm here for a good time, not a

875
00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:41,880
Speaker 1: long time. Well, lady, you wrote this noting this your title,

876
00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:43,760
Speaker 1: But I think you need to be thank all this.

877
00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:48,000
Speaker 1: I really really do, because I've got to. Let's just

878
00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 1: deal with the facts. You've been married for almost fifteen years.

879
00:57:52,840 --> 00:57:55,200
Speaker 1: You was twenty six year Hunds was twenty seven. That's

880
00:57:55,240 --> 00:58:00,840
Speaker 1: eleven years older than you. So right now have fifteen years.

881
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:05,040
Speaker 1: That makes your husband fifty two, and that makes her

882
00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:09,000
Speaker 1: forty one. Correct or do I have that right? Yeah?

883
00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:13,640
Speaker 1: Forty one fifty two, that's right. Yeah, you grown now.

884
00:58:15,320 --> 00:58:17,600
Speaker 1: He was more like a father figed to you back then.

885
00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:19,640
Speaker 1: He knew more than you. You grew up in the

886
00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:21,960
Speaker 1: house of headstrong women all that didn't act like they

887
00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:24,440
Speaker 1: didn't need a man, and you wanted to be different.

888
00:58:24,800 --> 00:58:27,120
Speaker 1: So the first real man you met that offered you

889
00:58:27,200 --> 00:58:30,960
Speaker 1: a dream life, you jumped out the opportunity and Lord

890
00:58:31,040 --> 00:58:35,600
Speaker 1: Ha Mercy, their fairy tale was born. Oh here it

891
00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:45,400
Speaker 1: is Cinderella. You know, the Slipper, snow White, Rapunzel. All

892
00:58:45,520 --> 00:58:50,440
Speaker 1: of them humped it, dumping your man had a little

893
00:58:50,560 --> 00:58:57,200
Speaker 1: lamp fairy Tale, Nita Baker one of my favorite songs,

894
00:58:57,680 --> 00:59:00,640
Speaker 1: fairy Tale, Lord Ha Mercy. The piano solo in that.

895
00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:05,240
Speaker 1: If you got time, look up Anita Banker's fairy Tale,

896
00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:07,520
Speaker 1: one of my favorite need to Banker songs, and listen

897
00:59:07,600 --> 00:59:10,439
Speaker 1: to the long version with that piano solo winning Lord

898
00:59:10,520 --> 00:59:13,720
Speaker 1: Have Mercy. It's worth a listen. Soul teacher Steve Harvey

899
00:59:13,800 --> 00:59:18,320
Speaker 1: just took him over the ship. That then reality set in.

900
00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:22,400
Speaker 1: I started to have children and he started stepping out

901
00:59:22,440 --> 00:59:25,560
Speaker 1: on me. Used to follow him and act the food

902
00:59:25,600 --> 00:59:29,120
Speaker 1: with the twins in the back seat. It all stopped

903
00:59:29,480 --> 00:59:33,520
Speaker 1: when he got an incurable infection and had to tell

904
00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:37,240
Speaker 1: me to go get tested. This is where we must stop.

905
00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:44,960
Speaker 1: Yeah at incurable infection. You you my ass. Part two

906
00:59:45,160 --> 00:59:48,160
Speaker 1: of Steve's responses coming up. It's twenty three minutes after

907
00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:50,800
Speaker 1: the hour of the subject for today's Strawberry Letter, I'm

908
00:59:50,880 --> 00:59:53,320
Speaker 1: here for a good time, not a long time. We'll

909
00:59:53,360 --> 00:59:57,360
Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening Steve

910
00:59:57,480 --> 01:00:00,640
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, come on, let's recap

911
01:00:00,720 --> 01:00:04,120
Speaker 1: today's strawberry letter. The subject I'm here for a good time,

912
01:00:04,600 --> 01:00:07,640
Speaker 1: not a long time. I'm gonna do a recap, but

913
01:00:07,720 --> 01:00:10,000
Speaker 1: it's gonna be a quick one. Twenty six year old

914
01:00:10,040 --> 01:00:12,080
Speaker 1: girl marriage a thirty seven year old man who's more

915
01:00:12,160 --> 01:00:13,880
Speaker 1: like a father figure. She grew up in a house

916
01:00:13,880 --> 01:00:16,240
Speaker 1: full of women and they were all headstrong, and she

917
01:00:16,400 --> 01:00:18,720
Speaker 1: was determined to have a different life. The first real

918
01:00:18,800 --> 01:00:21,640
Speaker 1: man came along, treated a good She jumped out the

919
01:00:21,720 --> 01:00:25,520
Speaker 1: opportunity and it was a fairytale marriage. It all worked

920
01:00:25,560 --> 01:00:29,200
Speaker 1: out just fine. It was going great up into three years,

921
01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:32,920
Speaker 1: and then she had babies, and then she had twins,

922
01:00:33,000 --> 01:00:35,720
Speaker 1: and then he started cheating on a stepping out. She

923
01:00:35,840 --> 01:00:38,160
Speaker 1: used to follow him with them twins in the back seat,

924
01:00:38,200 --> 01:00:41,800
Speaker 1: and at a food it all stopped. And this is

925
01:00:41,840 --> 01:00:44,800
Speaker 1: where we stopped at this ladder. Last time it all

926
01:00:44,920 --> 01:00:48,680
Speaker 1: stopped when he got an incurable infection and had to

927
01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:53,520
Speaker 1: tell me to go get tested. Thank Heavens, I was

928
01:00:53,680 --> 01:00:59,560
Speaker 1: not affected or infected by his nastiness. That was five

929
01:00:59,680 --> 01:01:05,680
Speaker 1: years ago, and that was the last time he touched me. Hallelujah.

930
01:01:06,840 --> 01:01:11,960
Speaker 1: This is where the letter took the turn that I

931
01:01:12,280 --> 01:01:18,000
Speaker 1: needed it too. Once you come home and you tell

932
01:01:18,120 --> 01:01:21,600
Speaker 1: me I got to go get tested, once you say

933
01:01:21,720 --> 01:01:28,520
Speaker 1: that all bets is off, Once you come in that

934
01:01:28,720 --> 01:01:31,920
Speaker 1: damn house and you tell me that I got to

935
01:01:32,000 --> 01:01:35,320
Speaker 1: go get tested, and I know what you're talking about,

936
01:01:37,440 --> 01:01:40,439
Speaker 1: all bets is off. But now you'd bought your ass

937
01:01:40,560 --> 01:01:44,080
Speaker 1: in here with the one thing that they ain't got

938
01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:48,920
Speaker 1: no damn cure for what. Now you haven't told me this.

939
01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:54,680
Speaker 1: I really don't know what my reaction gonna be. But

940
01:01:55,040 --> 01:01:59,720
Speaker 1: let's thank God that times are changing with this, that

941
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:02,960
Speaker 1: people have opportunity to live long, healthy lives now. So

942
01:02:03,120 --> 01:02:07,080
Speaker 1: let's let's thank God for that right. So appreciate that.

943
01:02:07,720 --> 01:02:09,920
Speaker 1: But now that's the last time he touched I know

944
01:02:10,040 --> 01:02:12,360
Speaker 1: gonna hear where it is because if I go down here,

945
01:02:12,360 --> 01:02:15,400
Speaker 1: I get tested and I'm clear clean, that's God's grace

946
01:02:15,520 --> 01:02:19,280
Speaker 1: in my life. What you're not touch me, I hit

947
01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:21,880
Speaker 1: the way I'm shocked at That was almost five years ago.

948
01:02:21,960 --> 01:02:25,040
Speaker 1: That's list time it touched me. We've been coexisting in

949
01:02:25,160 --> 01:02:28,560
Speaker 1: this marriage. That's not gonna happen. This is old which,

950
01:02:28,600 --> 01:02:31,320
Speaker 1: but you've ben't take your nasty ass somewhere else. We've

951
01:02:31,320 --> 01:02:34,320
Speaker 1: been coexisting in this marriage since then. We sleep in

952
01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:39,120
Speaker 1: the same bedroom. What didn't you tell me I had

953
01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:42,280
Speaker 1: to go get tested? Why are you and I are

954
01:02:42,360 --> 01:02:47,800
Speaker 1: sleeping in the same bed for what you bet? Now?

955
01:02:47,920 --> 01:02:49,960
Speaker 1: You're told had not hit the back of my leg.

956
01:02:52,520 --> 01:02:57,320
Speaker 1: This is how disconnected we are. Your hand can't sketch

957
01:02:57,360 --> 01:03:02,880
Speaker 1: scrape across my back, not sin. All his belongings are

958
01:03:02,920 --> 01:03:05,720
Speaker 1: in the guest room, and he shares a bathroom without twins.

959
01:03:06,560 --> 01:03:08,800
Speaker 1: They haven't heard us all getting years. So I hope

960
01:03:08,840 --> 01:03:12,160
Speaker 1: they're having a happy childhood. Well they probably are. The

961
01:03:12,360 --> 01:03:15,360
Speaker 1: sacrifice was wearing on me. And here's the part where

962
01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:18,720
Speaker 1: I agree with I needed some good sex and attention

963
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:20,760
Speaker 1: from a man. Well, I don't agree with that part,

964
01:03:20,840 --> 01:03:22,680
Speaker 1: but I do agree with you I needed some good

965
01:03:22,760 --> 01:03:26,400
Speaker 1: sex and attention. I agree with that one one hundred percent.

966
01:03:27,600 --> 01:03:32,760
Speaker 1: So I got a boyfriend two years ago. He's married too,

967
01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:35,960
Speaker 1: but he's ready to get a divorce. Now I understand

968
01:03:36,040 --> 01:03:39,800
Speaker 1: what happened here. You're in a bad situation, you still

969
01:03:39,920 --> 01:03:45,200
Speaker 1: have a feelings, and so you stepped out. I understand that.

970
01:03:47,040 --> 01:03:51,680
Speaker 1: And you stepped out with a married man, which leads

971
01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:58,320
Speaker 1: me to something that somebody told me one time. He said, facts,

972
01:03:58,480 --> 01:04:03,439
Speaker 1: change ain't no robbery. I'm taking something that be long

973
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:06,120
Speaker 1: as somebody else, and you're giving me something that be

974
01:04:06,280 --> 01:04:10,160
Speaker 1: long as somebody else. That exchange is not a robbery.

975
01:04:11,560 --> 01:04:13,520
Speaker 1: So now this man is ready to get a divorce,

976
01:04:13,600 --> 01:04:16,000
Speaker 1: and he's not complacent as I am, and he's pressing

977
01:04:16,040 --> 01:04:18,600
Speaker 1: me to leave my home and be happy with him.

978
01:04:19,280 --> 01:04:21,360
Speaker 1: I have to remind him that we're together for a

979
01:04:21,440 --> 01:04:24,680
Speaker 1: good time, not a long time. Well what is your

980
01:04:24,760 --> 01:04:28,880
Speaker 1: plan though? You're not having a relationship with your husband

981
01:04:28,920 --> 01:04:32,200
Speaker 1: who came in and gave you an incurable disease, and

982
01:04:32,360 --> 01:04:35,120
Speaker 1: this is the one you're having a relationship with. He said,

983
01:04:35,160 --> 01:04:37,280
Speaker 1: I'm wasting my life and my kids aware of our

984
01:04:37,360 --> 01:04:41,120
Speaker 1: dysfunctional marriage. They probably are. I know all the cliches,

985
01:04:41,240 --> 01:04:44,120
Speaker 1: like the grass isn't greener on the other side, Well

986
01:04:44,280 --> 01:04:49,000
Speaker 1: that's not true. The grass is greener wherever you water

987
01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:53,800
Speaker 1: in it. You water in the other side of the fence,

988
01:04:55,080 --> 01:04:58,280
Speaker 1: so it is greener over there. Because that's where you're

989
01:04:58,280 --> 01:05:01,640
Speaker 1: water in it. All ain't got no water in y'all marriage.

990
01:05:01,640 --> 01:05:03,400
Speaker 1: He already down that share in the bar room with

991
01:05:03,480 --> 01:05:07,880
Speaker 1: the twins. Daddy, you stink, you know, stuff like that

992
01:05:07,960 --> 01:05:11,000
Speaker 1: getting said up the hallway, so you know what I'm saying.

993
01:05:12,680 --> 01:05:15,120
Speaker 1: But I've had a great time on the other side,

994
01:05:15,640 --> 01:05:18,400
Speaker 1: and the grass was nice because that's where you water

995
01:05:18,520 --> 01:05:21,600
Speaker 1: in it. Would I be selfish to leave my marriage

996
01:05:21,600 --> 01:05:24,040
Speaker 1: and enjoy my life with my new man? What's selfish

997
01:05:24,120 --> 01:05:27,280
Speaker 1: in it? You have an incuble disease that a man

998
01:05:27,400 --> 01:05:30,360
Speaker 1: gave you five years ago. Y'all have no relationship whatsoever.

999
01:05:30,800 --> 01:05:33,280
Speaker 1: Y'all don't argue because he can't believe you're letting him

1000
01:05:33,320 --> 01:05:37,280
Speaker 1: stay there. You have a chance of happiness. I personally

1001
01:05:37,280 --> 01:05:40,400
Speaker 1: would take that chancel. I jump on it. I take

1002
01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:44,440
Speaker 1: a shot at happy. I'd at least get I get

1003
01:05:44,560 --> 01:05:46,680
Speaker 1: my husband. I don't see why not. But that guy

1004
01:05:48,920 --> 01:05:54,080
Speaker 1: that he wants a divorce, all right up? Please me

1005
01:05:54,200 --> 01:05:57,120
Speaker 1: and you do the Strawberry letter so people can see

1006
01:05:57,200 --> 01:06:01,520
Speaker 1: both sides exactly why we do the Strawbay Let him

1007
01:06:01,640 --> 01:06:07,320
Speaker 1: leave and then okay, answer. Please leave us your comments

1008
01:06:07,360 --> 01:06:11,120
Speaker 1: on today's letter on Instagram and Steve Harvey FM and

1009
01:06:11,840 --> 01:06:14,800
Speaker 1: check out the Strawberry Letter podcast undermand Up. Next it

1010
01:06:14,960 --> 01:06:18,880
Speaker 1: is Junior and Sports Talk right after this. You're listening

1011
01:06:19,640 --> 01:06:22,800
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, it is time now

1012
01:06:22,920 --> 01:06:26,520
Speaker 1: for Junior and Sports Talk, which you got Junior All right, Shirley.

1013
01:06:26,560 --> 01:06:28,560
Speaker 1: Before I do that, let me just remind everybody in

1014
01:06:28,600 --> 01:06:31,280
Speaker 1: the Dallas Fort Worth area coming to the Texas State

1015
01:06:31,360 --> 01:06:35,320
Speaker 1: Theater April first, April Fools Comedy jam My Man, Earthquake,

1016
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Speaker 1: Bill Bellamy, Bruce Bruce, Ryan Davis, and Sean Tay Wayne's Man.

1017
01:06:39,720 --> 01:06:41,760
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Speaker 1: get your tickets and ticketmaps dot com. All right. With

1019
01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:48,200
Speaker 1: that being said, little HBCU Sports News South Carolina States

1020
01:06:48,240 --> 01:06:51,440
Speaker 1: women basketball coach, I've you heard about this? Ardre Smith

1021
01:06:52,080 --> 01:06:54,840
Speaker 1: was five last Thursday, a day after she sued the

1022
01:06:54,920 --> 01:06:58,800
Speaker 1: school in a federal court allegend Title nine violations and

1023
01:06:58,880 --> 01:07:02,480
Speaker 1: discriminary practices at the university. Now. Smith has led the

1024
01:07:02,520 --> 01:07:05,520
Speaker 1: women's team for the last four years, okay. When she

1025
01:07:05,760 --> 01:07:09,440
Speaker 1: was dismissed, she fithers suit asking for a response to

1026
01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:13,800
Speaker 1: the Freedom of Information Act request in January, seeking documentation

1027
01:07:14,160 --> 01:07:18,560
Speaker 1: that South Carolina State gave more resources to the male athletes, coaches,

1028
01:07:18,640 --> 01:07:22,200
Speaker 1: and teams than it's women's program players and coaches, so

1029
01:07:22,320 --> 01:07:24,200
Speaker 1: that is she's also saying that she's alleged that she

1030
01:07:24,320 --> 01:07:28,080
Speaker 1: was paid thirty thousand less than the South Carolina States

1031
01:07:28,160 --> 01:07:31,800
Speaker 1: men's basketball coach when she was hired. Throughout her tenors,

1032
01:07:31,840 --> 01:07:34,960
Speaker 1: Smith has said that she was provided fuel resources than

1033
01:07:35,000 --> 01:07:37,720
Speaker 1: the men's program at the historical was Back college, so

1034
01:07:38,080 --> 01:07:42,400
Speaker 1: visiting men's teams changed in the women's locker room. And

1035
01:07:42,520 --> 01:07:44,480
Speaker 1: then the suit said that while the pumas for the

1036
01:07:44,520 --> 01:07:47,720
Speaker 1: women's game were not permitted to use the men's locker

1037
01:07:47,840 --> 01:07:51,240
Speaker 1: room at the arena, So that's what she's suing forth,

1038
01:07:51,440 --> 01:07:54,720
Speaker 1: All that's true. I believe it's. Now here's a deal. Now,

1039
01:07:54,840 --> 01:07:57,360
Speaker 1: once you sue the school you cannot work in, you

1040
01:07:57,560 --> 01:08:01,640
Speaker 1: do know that they Yeah, that would be a problems

1041
01:08:02,080 --> 01:08:04,880
Speaker 1: that's normally immediately right out. Yeah that right after you

1042
01:08:05,000 --> 01:08:08,080
Speaker 1: sue us, you know you ain't working him. So I'm

1043
01:08:08,120 --> 01:08:11,560
Speaker 1: not gonna Yeah, it would be no shocker here. But

1044
01:08:11,720 --> 01:08:15,080
Speaker 1: do I agree with the sister. I think so, because

1045
01:08:15,160 --> 01:08:18,600
Speaker 1: that's the problem with women's soccer, that's the problems with

1046
01:08:18,800 --> 01:08:21,400
Speaker 1: women's sports all the way around and the way they

1047
01:08:22,200 --> 01:08:25,000
Speaker 1: judge it. As you get paid less, you have less attendance,

1048
01:08:25,120 --> 01:08:28,719
Speaker 1: it's less facilities. The facilities for the women are different.

1049
01:08:29,280 --> 01:08:34,160
Speaker 1: It's different. There's a huge disparity, the disparity when it

1050
01:08:34,240 --> 01:08:37,519
Speaker 1: comes to the way they treat female athletes versus male athletes,

1051
01:08:37,720 --> 01:08:40,120
Speaker 1: and that has to be corrected because at the bottom line,

1052
01:08:40,160 --> 01:08:44,200
Speaker 1: they are athletes, and so why should you be treated less? Absolutely,

1053
01:08:44,320 --> 01:08:46,479
Speaker 1: but let me tell you something. Them girls in there, man,

1054
01:08:46,560 --> 01:08:49,519
Speaker 1: they bawl it. And I would bet money I had

1055
01:08:49,560 --> 01:08:51,840
Speaker 1: a high school got kid talking to me. Man. Our

1056
01:08:51,880 --> 01:08:55,640
Speaker 1: team accrushed them girls. No you won't, you won't. Oh,

1057
01:08:55,760 --> 01:08:58,640
Speaker 1: no you won't. No, you won't. They're gonna hand you

1058
01:08:58,800 --> 01:09:02,040
Speaker 1: your ass. Boy. They can bother, oh y'all, Oh, y'all

1059
01:09:02,080 --> 01:09:04,679
Speaker 1: can out leap them. But they run in real plays,

1060
01:09:05,000 --> 01:09:08,240
Speaker 1: they got real sets. Yeah, they're gonna do something to y'all.

1061
01:09:08,320 --> 01:09:11,200
Speaker 1: Y'all go out there with them pro girls. You fin

1062
01:09:11,280 --> 01:09:14,000
Speaker 1: to get your feelings hurt because they threes is legit.

1063
01:09:16,080 --> 01:09:21,280
Speaker 1: Jim girls, get your ankles broke too. I'd have seen

1064
01:09:21,360 --> 01:09:25,120
Speaker 1: they got handles. Yes, well we've be hird, all right,

1065
01:09:25,320 --> 01:09:28,439
Speaker 1: thank you Junior. Coming up at the top, of the hour. Okay,

1066
01:09:28,560 --> 01:09:31,760
Speaker 1: Steve the nephew has some questions for you. You want

1067
01:09:31,760 --> 01:09:35,880
Speaker 1: to asking. We'll get into that right at all. You're

1068
01:09:35,920 --> 01:09:43,080
Speaker 1: listening to show, all right, So timmy um I mentioned

1069
01:09:43,120 --> 01:09:45,920
Speaker 1: earlier you wanted to ask you your uncle something here.

1070
01:09:46,000 --> 01:09:48,840
Speaker 1: You got some questions. This question, Shirley, This question is

1071
01:09:48,840 --> 01:09:51,160
Speaker 1: for uncle Steve, but it's also for everybody. All Right,

1072
01:09:51,720 --> 01:09:53,800
Speaker 1: we know what we know what time it is. If

1073
01:09:53,840 --> 01:09:56,560
Speaker 1: you had to give up something for lent, if that

1074
01:09:56,760 --> 01:10:00,160
Speaker 1: is something that you practiced, what would you be giving up?

1075
01:10:00,400 --> 01:10:03,479
Speaker 1: Its yell? What would you be giving up? Well, give

1076
01:10:03,600 --> 01:10:07,000
Speaker 1: up something. I've never done it before because I don't

1077
01:10:07,040 --> 01:10:10,560
Speaker 1: really understand what giving up for means. But if I

1078
01:10:10,720 --> 01:10:13,439
Speaker 1: gave up something for lint, I would give up the

1079
01:10:14,040 --> 01:10:18,439
Speaker 1: LT roller. I'm just and just let have its way.

1080
01:10:19,280 --> 01:10:25,679
Speaker 1: Yeah he said this fool said roll off my clothes.

1081
01:10:26,200 --> 01:10:28,400
Speaker 1: Yeah I would. You're gonna get have its way. I'm

1082
01:10:28,400 --> 01:10:31,280
Speaker 1: gonna give up the net roller for forty days, no

1083
01:10:31,400 --> 01:10:36,840
Speaker 1: more roller for me, because he's better. You know what

1084
01:10:36,960 --> 01:10:39,360
Speaker 1: I'm really I've never I've never known what that was.

1085
01:10:39,720 --> 01:10:44,000
Speaker 1: Is that for Catholics? It's for Christians? Yeah? I did

1086
01:10:44,080 --> 01:10:47,040
Speaker 1: it when I was little. Yeah, we used to do it.

1087
01:10:47,160 --> 01:10:50,920
Speaker 1: Give up the sun. Oh that's Oh, that's for advanced Christianity.

1088
01:10:51,240 --> 01:10:55,120
Speaker 1: The last thing I gave up with advanced. Yeah, I

1089
01:10:55,240 --> 01:10:58,160
Speaker 1: think that's for because I I just do entry level Christianity.

1090
01:10:58,280 --> 01:11:00,680
Speaker 1: I'm not at that. But you're gonna give up the

1091
01:11:01,040 --> 01:11:05,200
Speaker 1: roller rolling. That's brilliant. And let Len have his way though,

1092
01:11:05,400 --> 01:11:10,120
Speaker 1: and just in that way I can participate that something

1093
01:11:10,200 --> 01:11:14,160
Speaker 1: I can do and you know, and complete and just

1094
01:11:14,479 --> 01:11:20,040
Speaker 1: let Lent have his way. Next question, junior, Yeah, I

1095
01:11:20,520 --> 01:11:22,360
Speaker 1: thought about this time. You know, I'm gonna give it up.

1096
01:11:22,400 --> 01:11:24,439
Speaker 1: Now I'm already doing it. So I've already been given up.

1097
01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:27,559
Speaker 1: But I'm giving up kissing. I mean here by myself already.

1098
01:11:27,600 --> 01:11:30,080
Speaker 1: Ain't nobody to kiss mighty well for another for the day.

1099
01:11:30,120 --> 01:11:33,799
Speaker 1: He's not kissing nobody now, I'm already I'm already actually inland.

1100
01:11:34,360 --> 01:11:38,439
Speaker 1: I can't get up. Well, I'm already here. Every days,

1101
01:11:38,640 --> 01:11:40,519
Speaker 1: I don't know what I've been none the day, go

1102
01:11:40,600 --> 01:11:43,720
Speaker 1: by home kissing? Well, you you're married about myself? Did

1103
01:11:43,840 --> 01:11:47,479
Speaker 1: married too? Yeah? Yeah, I'm already not kissing now. So

1104
01:11:47,680 --> 01:11:49,080
Speaker 1: I leave a house, I got to go all the

1105
01:11:49,080 --> 01:11:52,320
Speaker 1: way back upstairs kiss upon I leave you leaving Steve. Yeah, baby,

1106
01:11:52,320 --> 01:11:55,280
Speaker 1: I'll talk to you. Lady. You're forgetting something. Oh man,

1107
01:11:56,439 --> 01:11:59,280
Speaker 1: you got to go back up there, not for that

1108
01:11:59,439 --> 01:12:05,920
Speaker 1: walk I yeah, Sley probably shriving up, pletic, probably sugar.

1109
01:12:06,360 --> 01:12:08,400
Speaker 1: So you're just not gonna eat them. No, I can't

1110
01:12:08,400 --> 01:12:12,800
Speaker 1: eat stuff without shirt. Call them coming your way, or

1111
01:12:12,840 --> 01:12:14,760
Speaker 1: we're giving up philantic. You had to give up something,

1112
01:12:15,160 --> 01:12:19,479
Speaker 1: what would it be? Maybe no alcohol? But then that

1113
01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:22,240
Speaker 1: won't work because yesterday was fast Tuesday and then I

1114
01:12:22,360 --> 01:12:33,760
Speaker 1: had swamping right back Hurricane daquery type. Wow, come back

1115
01:12:33,840 --> 01:12:39,160
Speaker 1: to me. I'm come back to you. What you gonna

1116
01:12:39,200 --> 01:12:42,120
Speaker 1: do something? Yeah, you know I'm gonna give up winning

1117
01:12:42,200 --> 01:12:46,760
Speaker 1: drawls for that many days, you know, just feel for

1118
01:12:46,960 --> 01:12:49,320
Speaker 1: the days of no drawls. I think I'm gonna be

1119
01:12:49,360 --> 01:12:54,560
Speaker 1: a lot more comfortable. I ain't done just commando Geronimo

1120
01:12:54,600 --> 01:12:59,600
Speaker 1: or whatever they call it. Yeah, I'm not. I'm not

1121
01:12:59,640 --> 01:13:02,160
Speaker 1: gonna be dude. I'm just going too many people around me.

1122
01:13:02,160 --> 01:13:05,360
Speaker 1: You're gonna be uncomfortable. That's just it's just I don't

1123
01:13:05,400 --> 01:13:08,320
Speaker 1: want y'all to be that uncomfortable. You can wear pants.

1124
01:13:09,080 --> 01:13:11,720
Speaker 1: I'm gonna wear pants. I wear pants every day, But

1125
01:13:12,439 --> 01:13:17,759
Speaker 1: you say you don't want us to be uncomfortable. Nobody

1126
01:13:17,840 --> 01:13:22,519
Speaker 1: gonna know you ain't got draws on? Though? Who who's

1127
01:13:22,560 --> 01:13:27,720
Speaker 1: not gonna know? If I don't have no draws on?

1128
01:13:28,560 --> 01:13:33,280
Speaker 1: The secret is out. You're gonna quit acting like you

1129
01:13:33,400 --> 01:13:36,120
Speaker 1: This man didn't go worry or something. Man quit all

1130
01:13:36,200 --> 01:13:38,760
Speaker 1: that I ain't got I'll tell you right now, I

1131
01:13:38,920 --> 01:13:44,840
Speaker 1: got draws on. You know that? Thank you for damn show.

1132
01:13:45,120 --> 01:13:48,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna also give up cooking since you sugar boring,

1133
01:13:48,840 --> 01:13:53,920
Speaker 1: oh man, already, Well when you're about to make Nesto cry,

1134
01:13:56,160 --> 01:14:03,639
Speaker 1: but tears of joy, sheer joy? This is you say, Nestar,

1135
01:14:03,640 --> 01:14:05,280
Speaker 1: I will give up cooking. This is what he's gonna do.

1136
01:14:05,320 --> 01:14:14,240
Speaker 1: Show what mop in his hands? All right? Listen, um,

1137
01:14:14,439 --> 01:14:16,880
Speaker 1: we'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1138
01:14:17,600 --> 01:14:20,840
Speaker 1: Talk about millions at twenty minutes after right after this

1139
01:14:21,160 --> 01:14:25,880
Speaker 1: ten million dollars. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1140
01:14:28,040 --> 01:14:35,040
Speaker 1: What would you do if you won ten million dollars? Twice? Twice? Okay?

1141
01:14:35,760 --> 01:14:38,800
Speaker 1: Just three years after winning a ten million dollars lottery one,

1142
01:14:38,920 --> 01:14:43,439
Speaker 1: Hernandez Uniondale, New York has done it again. He purchased

1143
01:14:43,520 --> 01:14:46,639
Speaker 1: his latest lottery ticket at a stopping shop. In Himpstead,

1144
01:14:46,760 --> 01:14:49,400
Speaker 1: New York, and he cashed out his ten million dollars

1145
01:14:49,439 --> 01:14:53,439
Speaker 1: ticket for six point fifty one million. Hernandez issued a

1146
01:14:53,520 --> 01:14:56,679
Speaker 1: statement saying that he's still trying to spend the first

1147
01:14:56,760 --> 01:14:59,439
Speaker 1: ten million that he won back in twenty nineteen, so

1148
01:14:59,640 --> 01:15:05,720
Speaker 1: he's one too. Now, Wow do we need Wow? Who

1149
01:15:05,800 --> 01:15:11,280
Speaker 1: doesn't ask your question one at a time, Shirley, If

1150
01:15:11,320 --> 01:15:15,599
Speaker 1: you had twenty million cash, non taxable, would you quit

1151
01:15:15,720 --> 01:15:20,160
Speaker 1: this job? Probably? Yes, I'd spend more time with my family,

1152
01:15:20,240 --> 01:15:24,360
Speaker 1: my grandkids, my daughter, all that. Yes, yes, I would call. Yes,

1153
01:15:26,520 --> 01:15:29,720
Speaker 1: it's just a matter of what time. Yeah, as soon

1154
01:15:29,760 --> 01:15:32,719
Speaker 1: as it hit the bank. Yes, I thank you, Junior.

1155
01:15:32,800 --> 01:15:35,839
Speaker 1: Twenty million. You're leaving the job with a new headline,

1156
01:15:38,960 --> 01:15:45,639
Speaker 1: stunting with a new headline. Tommy, I'm calling them white

1157
01:15:45,680 --> 01:15:48,040
Speaker 1: folks on the weight on there. Well, I'm going to

1158
01:15:48,120 --> 01:15:50,439
Speaker 1: get the money. I'm calling that. I ain't coming back

1159
01:15:50,520 --> 01:15:54,400
Speaker 1: up in him. Yes, that'd be yes? Are you no?

1160
01:15:54,520 --> 01:15:58,200
Speaker 1: I'm staying work tomorrow. Yeah, twenty million is not enough

1161
01:15:58,240 --> 01:16:00,880
Speaker 1: for you to wait? What else do you won't? What

1162
01:16:00,960 --> 01:16:03,479
Speaker 1: do you want? All right? We gotta go. I want

1163
01:16:04,360 --> 01:16:06,880
Speaker 1: to play around And would you rather right after this?

1164
01:16:07,600 --> 01:16:11,800
Speaker 1: You'd rather come to work. That's what you're listening to

1165
01:16:13,040 --> 01:16:15,760
Speaker 1: morning show all right. Time now, guys, for would you

1166
01:16:16,080 --> 01:16:19,560
Speaker 1: rather here we go? Would you rather be the ugliest

1167
01:16:19,640 --> 01:16:22,519
Speaker 1: person in the room, or would you rather you've been

1168
01:16:23,280 --> 01:16:26,760
Speaker 1: you've been doing? Or would you rather be the least

1169
01:16:26,840 --> 01:16:31,200
Speaker 1: funny in the room? There you go? Yeah, here you go, Tommy.

1170
01:16:32,040 --> 01:16:38,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna gone like I'm gon over here with y'all.

1171
01:16:39,520 --> 01:16:43,280
Speaker 1: That's what I thought, you've been over here. The only

1172
01:16:43,360 --> 01:16:46,720
Speaker 1: confusion is in your mind what you want to be

1173
01:16:46,840 --> 01:16:49,600
Speaker 1: a R b ugliest person in the room or the

1174
01:16:49,680 --> 01:16:52,160
Speaker 1: least funniest person in the room. What you want to be?

1175
01:16:52,800 --> 01:16:57,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be here first. That's not an option. Okay,

1176
01:16:57,400 --> 01:16:59,840
Speaker 1: all right, I think we're clear on that one. Would

1177
01:16:59,840 --> 01:17:02,360
Speaker 1: you rather have dinner with your ex? Or live in

1178
01:17:02,439 --> 01:17:09,719
Speaker 1: a tiny house? In a tiny house on the corner

1179
01:17:09,920 --> 01:17:14,120
Speaker 1: of the wolf of the tiny house? With that point

1180
01:17:14,640 --> 01:17:18,800
Speaker 1: the only thing I got to sit on. Yeah, put

1181
01:17:19,000 --> 01:17:25,000
Speaker 1: me in there and shut the dope. What about you, junior?

1182
01:17:25,320 --> 01:17:30,760
Speaker 1: I sent house with no windows. You're all in the

1183
01:17:30,840 --> 01:17:33,599
Speaker 1: tiny house. All right, We'll go to tiny jail, Shirley,

1184
01:17:36,120 --> 01:17:40,679
Speaker 1: a little tiny handcuff, shuld I live in a tiny

1185
01:17:40,840 --> 01:17:52,760
Speaker 1: tiny house house all right. Would you would you rather

1186
01:17:52,880 --> 01:17:56,040
Speaker 1: take cold showers for three months? Or would you rather

1187
01:17:56,160 --> 01:17:59,040
Speaker 1: connect your phone in the car? You know, when you're

1188
01:17:59,160 --> 01:18:01,680
Speaker 1: when you're with your being to be I'm being to

1189
01:18:01,720 --> 01:18:05,439
Speaker 1: be shriveled up every day, looking like a prone all

1190
01:18:05,600 --> 01:18:09,360
Speaker 1: day day. I'm chrome, baby, I'm gonna connect my phone. Yeah,

1191
01:18:09,400 --> 01:18:12,680
Speaker 1: I ain't up to I'm good, I ain't up to know.

1192
01:18:13,280 --> 01:18:16,720
Speaker 1: Oh I can connect it. But I'd rather shrivel up. Yeah,

1193
01:18:21,920 --> 01:18:25,600
Speaker 1: on your phone, hey, dog, But I'm gonna tell you

1194
01:18:25,800 --> 01:18:27,599
Speaker 1: I got some partners that call while I go. Dog,

1195
01:18:28,479 --> 01:18:30,200
Speaker 1: I'm on to speak in the car with my girl.

1196
01:18:30,280 --> 01:18:33,240
Speaker 1: I have to tell him that, Yeah, you have immediately

1197
01:18:33,280 --> 01:18:35,040
Speaker 1: got some partners. Why I have to say that too.

1198
01:18:35,240 --> 01:18:37,200
Speaker 1: I have to say that too. All right, let it

1199
01:18:37,280 --> 01:18:39,040
Speaker 1: be the random thought because I can go ahead. Shot.

1200
01:18:39,400 --> 01:18:42,360
Speaker 1: Would you guys rather a sixteen hour road trip in

1201
01:18:42,479 --> 01:18:46,000
Speaker 1: an RV or a four hour flight on Spirit Airline.

1202
01:18:47,800 --> 01:18:50,599
Speaker 1: I'm gonna see the sights on that RV. We gonna,

1203
01:18:50,600 --> 01:18:52,599
Speaker 1: we're gonna get on this road for st I'm gonna

1204
01:18:52,600 --> 01:18:56,799
Speaker 1: getting in that RV for sixteen stopping at truck stops.

1205
01:18:57,200 --> 01:19:02,880
Speaker 1: All that you're only on Spirit for four hours. Gotta

1206
01:19:02,920 --> 01:19:06,800
Speaker 1: fight five we're getting you know who else on that

1207
01:19:06,920 --> 01:19:11,599
Speaker 1: plane though. That's the problem with speed, it's the other customers. Yeah,

1208
01:19:12,160 --> 01:19:14,519
Speaker 1: it's four hours of that. Especially me sitting back there,

1209
01:19:14,560 --> 01:19:16,400
Speaker 1: I don't saying what a funny thing I've seen you

1210
01:19:16,520 --> 01:19:23,160
Speaker 1: on family few. We'll be back with the last break

1211
01:19:23,200 --> 01:19:25,280
Speaker 1: of the day and at forty nine minutes after the hour,

1212
01:19:25,320 --> 01:19:27,960
Speaker 1: of course, Steve Harvey, we'll have some closing remarks for

1213
01:19:28,080 --> 01:19:32,160
Speaker 1: us right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1214
01:19:32,960 --> 01:19:35,519
Speaker 1: Here we are last break of the day, guys on

1215
01:19:35,640 --> 01:19:38,559
Speaker 1: this hump day, and it's been a good day. Thanks

1216
01:19:38,600 --> 01:19:41,200
Speaker 1: to Adie Dolphin for stopping by, keeping us healthy with

1217
01:19:41,400 --> 01:19:46,320
Speaker 1: the herbs as always. And uh, Steve, you have some

1218
01:19:46,439 --> 01:19:50,000
Speaker 1: clothing for us this fine Wednesday hump day. Say no,

1219
01:19:50,120 --> 01:19:52,360
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't Sully, I don't have any

1220
01:19:52,400 --> 01:19:56,320
Speaker 1: closing remarks today. I was wondering about that on the

1221
01:19:56,400 --> 01:19:58,840
Speaker 1: commercial break and I didn't come up with anything. I

1222
01:19:58,960 --> 01:20:01,040
Speaker 1: was trying to be fine out something that I could

1223
01:20:01,040 --> 01:20:08,120
Speaker 1: be inspirational to people. But sometimes let me just go

1224
01:20:08,240 --> 01:20:11,640
Speaker 1: at it this way, I need to inspire myself. So

1225
01:20:12,880 --> 01:20:15,120
Speaker 1: and so what I've decided, Oh, here's something I can

1226
01:20:15,160 --> 01:20:19,080
Speaker 1: share with you. I was on Sunday. I was stumbing

1227
01:20:19,160 --> 01:20:21,679
Speaker 1: through the channels. I was up and I was watching

1228
01:20:21,920 --> 01:20:26,680
Speaker 1: listening to a Bishop Jake's sermon on computer Sunday, and

1229
01:20:26,920 --> 01:20:29,640
Speaker 1: then I listened to a Joel Oldstein and I was

1230
01:20:29,720 --> 01:20:32,880
Speaker 1: stumbing through the TV and I ran up into a

1231
01:20:33,000 --> 01:20:36,120
Speaker 1: pastor that I've never seen before. A white guy had

1232
01:20:36,200 --> 01:20:40,840
Speaker 1: on jeans the churches in Georgia somewhere, and I saw

1233
01:20:40,880 --> 01:20:42,920
Speaker 1: a guy in the orders with a baseball hat on.

1234
01:20:43,040 --> 01:20:45,200
Speaker 1: It was one of those types of and I just

1235
01:20:45,400 --> 01:20:49,760
Speaker 1: had an interesting name. I don't remember it, but his

1236
01:20:50,040 --> 01:20:55,080
Speaker 1: sermon was about my cup runneth Over. I'm gonna get

1237
01:20:55,120 --> 01:20:58,280
Speaker 1: this guy's name, because this guy, I really really liked him.

1238
01:20:58,400 --> 01:21:01,320
Speaker 1: I'd never heard of him, never seen anybody. Just stopped

1239
01:21:01,320 --> 01:21:06,559
Speaker 1: through it and he was preaching about my cup runneth Over,

1240
01:21:07,800 --> 01:21:11,000
Speaker 1: and I just felt like he was talking directly to me.

1241
01:21:12,200 --> 01:21:14,519
Speaker 1: But as he got to talking, I found that he

1242
01:21:14,680 --> 01:21:17,880
Speaker 1: was talking to so many people, because you know, I

1243
01:21:18,040 --> 01:21:20,600
Speaker 1: think when you think of your cup runneth Over, you

1244
01:21:20,760 --> 01:21:25,800
Speaker 1: think yourself of having too many things. And I think

1245
01:21:25,840 --> 01:21:28,120
Speaker 1: when you think of your life in terms of things,

1246
01:21:28,400 --> 01:21:32,200
Speaker 1: you miss the blessing of what your life is actually

1247
01:21:32,400 --> 01:21:36,040
Speaker 1: full of If you are a person who has loved

1248
01:21:36,080 --> 01:21:40,840
Speaker 1: ones around you often, that's a blessing. If you're a

1249
01:21:40,960 --> 01:21:45,000
Speaker 1: person who has your health in check, that's a blessing.

1250
01:21:45,960 --> 01:21:48,760
Speaker 1: If you are a person who has enough to eat

1251
01:21:49,080 --> 01:21:53,760
Speaker 1: and that's extra in the refrigerator, that's a blessing. If

1252
01:21:53,800 --> 01:21:56,920
Speaker 1: you're a person who when you get your check, you

1253
01:21:57,120 --> 01:21:59,880
Speaker 1: have enough to make a stop at a fast food play,

1254
01:22:00,640 --> 01:22:04,439
Speaker 1: or buy yourself a game, or watch a movie, or

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Speaker 1: go shopping, that's a blessing. But you gotta quit comparing

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Speaker 1: your cup to other people's cup. See Oprah's cup is huge.

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Speaker 1: Your cup may not be that being, but your cup

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Speaker 1: can still over runneth If you look at life the

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Speaker 1: right way, your cup runneth over. If you have hope

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Speaker 1: for tomorrow, your cup is full. Do you know that

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Speaker 1: there are people who have written their life off as

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Speaker 1: hopeless and taking their life. The fact that you've never

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Speaker 1: considered that, the fact that you have a chance for tomorrow,

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Speaker 1: Your cup is full, man, it really is. If you

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Speaker 1: have food in your cabinet, your cup is full. If

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Speaker 1: you've got if you have anything that you can be

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Speaker 1: grateful for, if you can find yourself to be grateful,

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Speaker 1: for something. Your cup is full, your cup runneth over. See,

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Speaker 1: I thought he was just talking to me for a minute,

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Speaker 1: because my cup runneth over. I'm really fool, man, I

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Speaker 1: really really am. But as I listened to him carefully,

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01:23:14,920 --> 01:23:17,760
Speaker 1: I saw more people in that congregation raise than they

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01:23:17,880 --> 01:23:21,640
Speaker 1: had and starting to clap. And then he made the

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01:23:22,200 --> 01:23:27,240
Speaker 1: obvious statement that summed it up. He said, you ain't

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Speaker 1: got to be rich for your cup to runneth over.

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Speaker 1: That sealed the deal, And that's what had everybody's attention,

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Speaker 1: because we have a tendency to think that it's all

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Speaker 1: just about economics or money or extra money. But it's

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01:23:43,160 --> 01:23:48,040
Speaker 1: extra love, it's extra relationships, it's extra time, it's extra

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Speaker 1: it's extra feelings, it's extra friendships, it's extra everything. Man,

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Speaker 1: that's what that means. And I was just caught up

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Speaker 1: in this sermon. Man, when I get this guy's name,

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Speaker 1: I'm a share with you. But man, and it also

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01:24:04,200 --> 01:24:07,160
Speaker 1: when you wake up and you say, my cup brothers over,

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01:24:07,880 --> 01:24:11,880
Speaker 1: it sends such a feeling of gratitude through your body

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01:24:12,200 --> 01:24:16,439
Speaker 1: that it makes you feel better. Y'all, instead of looking

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01:24:16,479 --> 01:24:19,479
Speaker 1: at what you don't have, think of the things that

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01:24:19,600 --> 01:24:22,680
Speaker 1: you do have. Let's say you're on the market for

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Speaker 1: a house and you stay in an apartment right now,

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01:24:25,320 --> 01:24:27,479
Speaker 1: or you just want a bigger apartment than one you have.

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Speaker 1: Can you remember the other one though? Can you remember

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01:24:30,560 --> 01:24:33,760
Speaker 1: one you had before that? I know you want a

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01:24:33,840 --> 01:24:35,720
Speaker 1: new car, but let me ask you something. Can you

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01:24:35,840 --> 01:24:38,320
Speaker 1: remember the time when you really wanted the one you

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01:24:38,479 --> 01:24:42,160
Speaker 1: had because the one you had before that wasn't as

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01:24:42,200 --> 01:24:45,760
Speaker 1: good as this one? Remember that? Can you remember that?

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Speaker 1: Can you remember when you didn't have any children and

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01:24:51,560 --> 01:24:54,920
Speaker 1: now the one you have as difficult is child rearing

1299
01:24:55,040 --> 01:24:57,599
Speaker 1: can be? Then you look at the blessing that walks

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01:24:57,640 --> 01:25:00,080
Speaker 1: past you every day. Can you realize, ladies, that you

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01:25:00,240 --> 01:25:04,679
Speaker 1: made that human being. You did that. If it wasn't

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Speaker 1: for you, that person does not exist. You did that.

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Speaker 1: That's major, man, that's major. That you're a mother, that's major.

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01:25:15,560 --> 01:25:18,719
Speaker 1: Fellas the fact that you can provide for your family

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Speaker 1: and come in there and secure them a place to stay,

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01:25:22,240 --> 01:25:27,799
Speaker 1: food to eat, TVs to watch, they talking on phones, brothers,

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01:25:28,120 --> 01:25:33,600
Speaker 1: that's major. You've accomplished something. You're a man. You're not

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Speaker 1: only taking care of yourself, You're taking care of yourself

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Speaker 1: and everybody. You're responsible for your cup runneth over, you fool,

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01:25:40,439 --> 01:25:43,800
Speaker 1: you're doing a full time man size job. Your cup

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Speaker 1: runneth over. I don't care who you are. If you

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Speaker 1: look at it the right way, I bet you your

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01:25:49,920 --> 01:25:52,920
Speaker 1: cup runneth over. Start being grateful for what you have,

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01:25:54,040 --> 01:25:57,759
Speaker 1: stop looking at what you don't have. That's my clothes

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Speaker 1: and remark today And if you did didn't like that one,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what we're trying getting tomorrow, because we'll

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Speaker 1: be here, Lord William, we'll just try another one tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: Have a great day, tom guy. Loved you from you.

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