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Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, how are you good?

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Speaker 3: How are you?

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Speaker 1: I am a gecko on the computer and your name

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Speaker 1: is Megan. Correct correct it sounded it sounded weird, Megan?

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Speaker 1: What's up? How's life?

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Speaker 3: I sounded weird. A you sounded weird.

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Speaker 1: I sounded weird. But you sound a little weird too, Hugh.

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Speaker 1: The human voice is strange. It's no one's fault. What's up, Megan,

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Speaker 1: How's life.

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Speaker 3: Not too bad? Just got home from work so it

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Speaker 3: was a very long day. But yeah, I've been listening

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Speaker 3: to your show a lot recently and I decided I

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Speaker 3: would call in to end my night.

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Speaker 1: Well, Meghan, uh, it says here that you wanted to

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Speaker 1: talk about a you wanted to talk about playing competitive

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Speaker 1: nude volleyball around the country, and that HBO is doing

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Speaker 1: a documentary about your nude volleyball group. MM.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I got introduced to it in twenty eighteen.

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Speaker 3: You know, I grew up playing volleyball and a friend

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Speaker 3: of mine, you know, mentioned that they go to it

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Speaker 3: and the volleyball, you know, is really really good, and

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Speaker 3: I was like, you know what, why not? So I went?

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Speaker 3: And you know how they work is I call it

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Speaker 3: a circuit. There are tournaments that the first tournament is

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Speaker 3: in March, that's what opens this season, and then the

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Speaker 3: last tournament is in September, and there's about one a

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Speaker 3: month and they're at all you know, different nudest resorts.

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Speaker 3: So there's two in Florida, three in Pennsylvania, one in Virginia,

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Speaker 3: and so on. And basically, you know, it seems super

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Speaker 3: was a lot of just pure curiosity of what is this.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I mean our biggest tournament, which is the

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Speaker 3: one that HBO is at this year, is the one

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Speaker 3: that closes this season in Pennsylvania, and there's about I

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Speaker 3: would say between six hundred and seven hundred people that

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Speaker 3: that go. You know, it's very serious quote unquote ball

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Speaker 3: in that we have you know, separate divisions between Novice B,

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Speaker 3: So I mean, for example, in two thousand and nine,

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Speaker 3: ESPN sent a team Olympians to the tournament and basically

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Speaker 3: But yeah, it's a pretty incredible group. Again, we all

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Speaker 3: travel from various places to these we all stay on

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Speaker 3: quote unquote campus, so you either tent or you have

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Speaker 3: an RV. Sometimes there's places to rent on the property.

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Speaker 3: But at night, it basically is the music festival. There

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Speaker 3: are definitely a lot of drugs done, and then we

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: I got to imagine the best part of traveling around

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Speaker 1: the world to nudest resorts playing nude volleyball is what

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Speaker 1: you don't have to check a bag because you don't

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the packing is really easy. I mean basically, all

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Speaker 1: I have a lot I got a lot of questions.

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Speaker 1: Were you a nudist before you started doing this stuff

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Speaker 1: or was like being a newdist something that was interesting

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Speaker 3: No, not even close. In fact, prior I would say,

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Speaker 3: it was just one of those things that you know,

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Speaker 3: I figured why not, And it's not some resorts. It's

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Speaker 3: not mandatory nude for everybody, meaning that like you can

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Speaker 3: you play. But yeah, I think you quickly. I know

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Speaker 3: be amazed at how quickly it loses its shock factor.

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Speaker 3: You just don't think about it. And you know, I

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Speaker 3: think that one of the things that makes this, you know,

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Speaker 3: you dress like you kind of you know, portray a

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Speaker 3: And you don't have your phones with you. You're not

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Speaker 1: Right right right that. You know what that's an overlooked

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Speaker 3: And I wouldn't call I'm not a true nudist. You know,

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Speaker 3: there's a big true nudist can kind of be a

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Speaker 3: It's more so about this community. And I mean they're

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Speaker 3: And again, I feel like there's no it's a lot

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Speaker 1: This is a very interesting thing because you went from

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm curious what within you inspired you to

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Speaker 3: Well, you're also not alone in those environments. It's not

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Speaker 3: But I will say so, like I can tell you

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Speaker 3: and my stepsister and I met these two boys. Of course,

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Speaker 3: I liked, his first reaction was you have those kind

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Speaker 3: I mean, me not wanting to be naked in front

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Speaker 3: I've just kind of had this. You know what if

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Speaker 1: Do you like, are you You're not at a thing

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Speaker 1: Like seeing all these other people naked at all?

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Speaker 3: I mean, of course you do. And you know I

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Speaker 2: As positive about their body.

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Speaker 3: But again, you know, women especially they're constantly encouraging each other,

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Speaker 1: We got to get this part out of the way.

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Speaker 1: Is there a sexually charged energy to the nudist resorts

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Speaker 3: So again, that's a big misconception that like, basically nudists

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Speaker 3: So for example, you're not allowed to wear bathing suits

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Speaker 3: And he's like, I don't know, you just look hot.

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Speaker 1: But I would say somebody, if somebody is in the

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Speaker 1: nudist So if somebody is a part of the newdist

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Speaker 1: just real quick the audience that these things is naked too, right,

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Speaker 1: because it's on a not all of them, but I

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Speaker 3: It's not mandatory nude, but yeah, as a whole, I

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Speaker 3: mean people are in some shape or form, you know, nude.

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Speaker 1: So look, obviously if somebody were like jacking off or something,

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Speaker 1: Now, Megan and the other part, tell me, tell what's

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Speaker 1: Like I've been reading the chat I'm sorry for reading

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Speaker 3: It depends on the resort. They all have different rules

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Speaker 1: What's your like you put? Let's I it was I.

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Speaker 1: First of all, thanks for calling in and talking about

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Speaker 3: You want to go during a volleyball tournament.

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Speaker 1: When you give any volleyball tournaments going on in California

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Speaker 3: None that I go to. So the like I said,

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Speaker 1: What is it?

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Speaker 3: Where the people that where is it? It's that White

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Speaker 1: I want to say something, really, I want to say something.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, keep in with you. But somebody else in

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Speaker 1: You know, I don't. It's just the thing I think

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Speaker 3: You can walk away, Yeah, I guess happen, you know.

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Speaker 3: Like you've messed around a little bit to give him shit.

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Speaker 1: You give him a boner and then you run away

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Speaker 3: Yeah. No, that's I mean absolutely, And you know, I

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Speaker 3: open minded. But yeah, anybody out there, I promise you

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00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:32,879
Speaker 3: if you come, you won't you won't look back.

433
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:35,880
Speaker 1: Okay, what is it again, I'll unless Philly, I'll check

434
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:36,200
Speaker 1: it out.

435
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:41,560
Speaker 3: So it's actually I lied. It's it's outside of Pittsburgh.

436
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 1: It's called do you know what you do? You know

437
00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 1: any in California?

438
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:52,879
Speaker 3: Not in my circuit. There are ones in California, but

439
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 3: the circuit I play in, we don't go that far.

440
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:00,840
Speaker 3: It's more up up and down the East coast, and

441
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 3: there's several in Canada, but I haven't gone up there.

442
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:06,400
Speaker 1: York this year.

443
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:16,879
Speaker 3: Mm hm New York City. My sense of direction is

444
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 3: all kinds of uft of I mean, I guess it

445
00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 3: would be the Philly which, like I said, the Music Festival,

446
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:26,880
Speaker 3: which again is there's much more. I mean, it's all

447
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:30,400
Speaker 3: emphasis on music. But those volleyball tournaments going on during

448
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:37,560
Speaker 3: the day that is outside of Philadelphia in that's is

449
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 3: an m But yeah, no, the music festival is you

450
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 3: know again, you come and it's just something you can't

451
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 3: describe until you experience it, and you you will quickly

452
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:56,400
Speaker 3: forget about the newtest like being naked, and if anything,

453
00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:00,280
Speaker 3: I mean, it just will becomes Yeah.

454
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:04,160
Speaker 1: And you just got a very excited by the idea

455
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:08,199
Speaker 1: of several people hearing this and showing up to this

456
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:12,680
Speaker 1: nudest colony and being like a giant green gecko sent

457
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:13,120
Speaker 1: me here.

458
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 3: Yeah.

459
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 1: Throughout the duration of my stay, you have my word.

460
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 3: You want to know a funny story. Recently, a lot

461
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:32,199
Speaker 3: of my friends, no not exactly, a lot of my friends,

462
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:34,960
Speaker 3: like I talk about therapy Gecko and they know I

463
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 3: really like it. And recently I had taken some acid

464
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 3: and started to go a little bit south, thinking I'm

465
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:46,120
Speaker 3: going well, And my boyfriend called our best friend Jody,

466
00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 3: and was like, I don't know what to do, and

467
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 3: she said, take her in her room, turn off the lights,

468
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:51,960
Speaker 3: and put on therapy gecko.

469
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:56,920
Speaker 1: She'll be that's nice. Is that what happens?

470
00:28:57,640 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 3: Exactly? What happened?

471
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 1: That nice? What? Okay? How damn well? What do you

472
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 1: remember what episode was playing?

473
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, Now.

474
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 1: You were drooling, tripping fucking balls and freaking out and

475
00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: then you just like sat in a room and listened

476
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 1: to the podcast.

477
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I just love that she knew that's when

478
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 3: I needed.

479
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:25,479
Speaker 1: That makes me feel good.

480
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:30,640
Speaker 3: Yeah. But I can post in the comment section, you know,

481
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 3: the information about the music festival and if people am

482
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 3: I allowed to get my Instagram? I never checked my

483
00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 3: Instagram And seriously, I mean you guys, I'm not kidding.

484
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:48,800
Speaker 3: If nothing else, like, why not? And you don't have

485
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 3: to be nude, but you won't you won't regret it.

486
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 1: I'm going to show up wearing just the head. I'm

487
00:29:57,360 --> 00:30:00,400
Speaker 1: going to show up wearing just the head, the and

488
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 1: the feet of the gecko.

489
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:01,720
Speaker 4: Suit.

490
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 3: That would be yes, Now, that would be great. I

491
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 3: have a friend who he has he's gotten melanoma, so

492
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:18,720
Speaker 3: he has to be covered. He cannot, like you know,

493
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,960
Speaker 3: have any sun exposure, and he had to get like

494
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:25,000
Speaker 3: all this documentation to show like prove that he has

495
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 3: this and that's why he has to wear clothes. And

496
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:30,920
Speaker 3: basically he wears like head to toe the brightest colors

497
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 3: possible and then like cuts a hole where his stick is.

498
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 1: That's pretty fire.

499
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 3: So that's his nudity. But yeah, it's again, I mean,

500
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 3: you just have it's a vulnerability that you put out

501
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 3: there that allows you to connect with people that I

502
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 3: haven't found anywhere else.

503
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 1: Well, Megan, any final thoughts you can share your Instagram

504
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:58,360
Speaker 1: if you still want to do that. Any any other thoughts,

505
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:00,040
Speaker 1: feeling sentiments you have share before we get No.

506
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 3: I mean I hope that you guys you know, come

507
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:08,719
Speaker 3: and experience it and then you can call in and

508
00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 3: say I get it.

509
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 1: Rock and roll all right, Megan, thank you very much

510
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 1: for calling and you the the the I hope I

511
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 1: hope we've brought some some some business to these to

512
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:25,760
Speaker 1: these newdist colonies.

513
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I hope people have a better understanding are

514
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,040
Speaker 3: a little bit more intrigued by.

515
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 5: The idea having ANNT.

516
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 1: Megan Nice, Oh, you know what I'm gonna do. I'm

517
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 1: gonna you know, those cock socks, you know I'm gonna do.

518
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to the nudist colony. Just the head,

519
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 1: the gloves, the feet, and a and a bright green

520
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:58,760
Speaker 1: cock sock. That way. Nobody, nobody that way. You gotta

521
00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 1: have something case if you get a boner, man, I

522
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 1: can't believe. I can't believe people will get kicked out

523
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 1: of these places for having boners. Again, I get like,

524
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 1: I get it if you're like being being weird about it.

525
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 1: But if you are just like I mean, we've all

526
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 1: been out in public or somewhere where, like you just

527
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 1: randomly get a boner for no reason, but you have,

528
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 1: you have, Like I mean, even getting one with sweatpants

529
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:27,720
Speaker 1: is stressful, but getting I mean, imagine being out and

530
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 1: you're just naked, you have no tools whatsoever. I mean,

531
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 1: I feel I feel bad for that guy, this theoretical

532
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 1: guy that I'm making up that doesn't exist. All right,

533
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:51,720
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, hello, hello, Hey, how you doing, buddy?

534
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 2: Oh Hey, what's up? Man?

535
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 1: What's your name? My name is Sid sid Well, Sid,

536
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 1: my name is Lyle. How's it going on?

537
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 2: It's going pretty good.

538
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 5: Man.

539
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:06,400
Speaker 2: My semester just ended. I'm back home. I'm chilling.

540
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 1: Ah Well said, what's your relationship like with your parents?

541
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 2: It's pretty good. It's actually it's actually really good. You know,

542
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:23,840
Speaker 2: they're actually in India right now. They're not at home,

543
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 2: so I'm home alone. So you know, I'm just hilling them.

544
00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:31,560
Speaker 2: They're real nice. They they financially support me.

545
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:34,960
Speaker 1: How come you didn't go to go to India with them?

546
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 1: You were too busy with school?

547
00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 2: Uh No, I couldn't. My sister, My little sister is

548
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 2: here and she she still has school, so I gotta

549
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:44,760
Speaker 2: watch her in the house and the dogs.

550
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 1: What what are they doing in India?

551
00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 2: It's actually so last year I got I got diagnosed

552
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 2: with cancer, so they wanted to go to India and

553
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 2: go to the it's like like religious like temple and

554
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 2: like go pray for me, I guess. And also my

555
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 2: grandma died a couple of months ago, so they went

556
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 2: to do some religious rights with their ashes.

557
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:16,600
Speaker 1: Do you think you can be ho Look they're gone

558
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:19,360
Speaker 1: all right, so you can be honest with me. Do

559
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: you think that's gonna do shit.

560
00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 2: I don't know, man, Like I don't think anybody has

561
00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:31,319
Speaker 2: as the real answers, you know what I mean. So

562
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 2: if they want to do it, I'm gonna let them

563
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 2: do it. And if it does something, it does something,

564
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 2: and if it doesn't, it's all good.

565
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:41,240
Speaker 1: When were you When were you diagnosed with the cancer?

566
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 2: It was last April. I don't I don't have it anymore, luckily.

567
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:48,400
Speaker 1: I Oh, wait, so they're going to pray for cancer

568
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:49,239
Speaker 1: that you don't even have.

569
00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 2: I guess so, I mean, I guess they're just like trying.

570
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:57,280
Speaker 1: To sounds like a waste of a prayer. I guess.

571
00:34:57,520 --> 00:34:58,760
Speaker 2: I guess so. I guess.

572
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:02,799
Speaker 1: So they could pray for like a million dollars or something,

573
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:04,960
Speaker 1: but they're they're praying for something that already happens.

574
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:06,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I.

575
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:08,760
Speaker 3: Would.

576
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:13,000
Speaker 2: I'd rather have a million dollars than not have cancer,

577
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 2: which I already don't have cancer.

578
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 1: What kind of cancer? Uh did you have?

579
00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:22,439
Speaker 2: It was testicular cancer, So you know, prognosis is pretty good.

580
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:24,680
Speaker 2: You know, it's not as serious as other types.

581
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:28,359
Speaker 1: Is it a bummer? Is it a bummer to have

582
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 1: the funniest type of cancer?

583
00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:34,880
Speaker 2: It? Yes, it actually very much is because when I

584
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:36,600
Speaker 2: have when I tell people I have cancer and ask

585
00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:39,160
Speaker 2: what type I know, I have to say testicular, and

586
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 2: like it's just it's just a little bit awkward. Like

587
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:45,400
Speaker 2: to me, it's not awkward like I'm I'm over, I'm cool,

588
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 2: like it happens done, but like it's it's just a

589
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:48,800
Speaker 2: little bit awkward.

590
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:53,040
Speaker 1: Then m hm, did your did they have to cut

591
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 1: off your balls or you still got balls?

592
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 2: I got one? I got one?

593
00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:00,240
Speaker 1: Oh so they cut off with them?

594
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 2: They did? Could they cut off one of them? But

595
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:05,279
Speaker 2: you know other ones carrying the weight?

596
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 1: Oh shit, okay, so this wasn't even like no, so

597
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:11,960
Speaker 1: the cancer didn't go The cancer didn't go away. The

598
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:15,200
Speaker 1: cancer was cut out of your ball set.

599
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah it didn't. I mean, I don't

600
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:22,399
Speaker 2: think cancer just ever goes away on its own, but yeah,

601
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:23,840
Speaker 2: I guess you could say it was cut out. I

602
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:27,440
Speaker 2: had some I had like a monk of chemotherapy just

603
00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:30,719
Speaker 2: so like it wouldn't come back or whatever. And I

604
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:31,799
Speaker 2: think I think we're good.

605
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 1: It sounds like God really really didn't do shit on

606
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:36,920
Speaker 1: this one.

607
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, God, it sounds like God tried to do shit.

608
00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:41,360
Speaker 2: But couldn't do it.

609
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:43,840
Speaker 1: It's true God tried to. You know. Do you think

610
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 1: maybe it was like God, part of God's plan was

611
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 1: to kill you, but uh, innovations in medical technology foiled him.

612
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:54,920
Speaker 3: No.

613
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 2: Actually, the way I like to look at it is

614
00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:02,319
Speaker 2: that this is something, you know, I just had to

615
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:05,719
Speaker 2: go through sticking in some perspective. You know. Uh, I

616
00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:07,200
Speaker 2: think I was talking to you in the chat. I'm

617
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 2: actually pre med. So sorry, I'm actually like a little

618
00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:14,319
Speaker 2: bit nervous right now. I watch I watched this every day.

619
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:18,480
Speaker 1: That's oh fucky fuck yeah fuck yeah, that's what you're saying,

620
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 1: all right, right right, Okay, you were in the chat

621
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:22,319
Speaker 1: and you said that you got to Temple, which is

622
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 1: where I went to college.

623
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I heard you went to the Temple a

624
00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 2: couple of days ago, which is crazy. I'm actually wearing

625
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:28,799
Speaker 2: a Temple shirt right now.

626
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, but you're in I went for something stupid.

627
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,719
Speaker 1: You went for like how to you? You said you're

628
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:38,759
Speaker 1: in pre med, right, so you're learning how to cut

629
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 1: off people's balls when they start to try to kill them.

630
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 2: Yeah. So like the way I see it, I have

631
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:48,399
Speaker 2: the perfect medical school essay to right now.

632
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:51,839
Speaker 1: So yeah, that is a good That is a good

633
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:54,320
Speaker 1: way to see it. You got good perspective on this issue.

634
00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:57,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, man, I mean I just gotta I mean it.

635
00:37:57,320 --> 00:37:59,360
Speaker 2: You know, I'm just thankful that it wasn't anything a

636
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:01,759
Speaker 2: lot worse. So the best I can do is take

637
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 2: away from positive from it. Use it as like motivation,

638
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 2: you know, to be a good doctor, to be a

639
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 2: successful doctor who helps people.

640
00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 1: I like that. What are what's your sister's deal? Is

641
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:16,720
Speaker 1: she like also in school?

642
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:21,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's in high school. So that's why that's why

643
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:22,759
Speaker 2: I got to stay home because I need to pick

644
00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 2: her up from school, drop her off, watch over the dog.

645
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 2: She still has her semester going on. It's about your soon.

646
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 2: Do you have a good sphomore?

647
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:32,759
Speaker 1: Do you have a good relationship with her?

648
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:37,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's pretty good. We don't talk like that much,

649
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:40,880
Speaker 2: but I feel like every since I went to college,

650
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:41,920
Speaker 2: we got a little bit closer.

651
00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 1: You know.

652
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 2: They say, like, what's the phrase like distance makes the

653
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:48,000
Speaker 2: heart heart.

654
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 1: Grow fonder, which I I is one of my favorite

655
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 1: phrases because I probably fully believe it.

656
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:56,920
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, no, for sure, that's it's definitely true.

657
00:38:57,400 --> 00:39:01,239
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. So what's your dream in life? Which I

658
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:03,000
Speaker 1: know that there's a lot of different kinds of doctors.

659
00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:05,480
Speaker 1: I don't know if you necessarily want to be the

660
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 1: testical kind, But what kind do you want to be?

661
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 2: That's a tough question. I honestly don't know right now.

662
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 2: I feel like I would have to like have some

663
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:18,319
Speaker 2: experience in the field, figure some things I would, you know,

664
00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:20,880
Speaker 2: see what I'm interested in. Ultimately, I just want to

665
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 2: do something that helps people. You know. I know I'm

666
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:25,680
Speaker 2: a smart guy. I know I can get through pre

667
00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:27,480
Speaker 2: med and medical school. So I just want to use

668
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 2: the talents that I have to you know, give back

669
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:32,200
Speaker 2: to the world. Just something meaningful.

670
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:36,799
Speaker 1: M I like that. Do you what do you do

671
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 1: outside of school? Do you have hobbies? Interests?

672
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:45,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, some hobbies. I honestly hate that question because like

673
00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 2: whenever people ask me, like what hobbies I have, I

674
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 2: just go blank. But off the top of my head,

675
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:53,560
Speaker 2: I play a little bit of tennis. I've been playing

676
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:55,840
Speaker 2: I'm playing Zelda recently. That has been taking up a

677
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:56,399
Speaker 2: lot of my time.

678
00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:59,600
Speaker 1: The new one, Yeah, the new one.

679
00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:01,200
Speaker 2: I heard you were just hitting on a gig.

680
00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:03,719
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, two seconds before you called in, I was

681
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:06,440
Speaker 1: talking to the stream and I was talking I was

682
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 1: just talking a ton of shit on uh the I bought.

683
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:14,920
Speaker 1: I bought the new one because uh, I need, I

684
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:17,799
Speaker 1: wanted something to play on the planes and stuff. But

685
00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:21,799
Speaker 1: the old one I didn't like it. I actually don't

686
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:23,920
Speaker 1: know why about the note. I really did not like

687
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:27,960
Speaker 1: the Breath of the Wild. Yeah, it's like fucking it's

688
00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 1: kind of a bullshit game. It's like padded and padded

689
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 1: and padded with grass, and dude, people love this grass.

690
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 1: People are like, I love the open world dynamic of

691
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:43,920
Speaker 1: the game. I love how much grass there is to explore.

692
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:45,200
Speaker 1: Ten out of ten.

693
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:49,480
Speaker 2: No, I feel like I mean, I feel like, you know,

694
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:51,400
Speaker 2: his breath of the wild, so there has to be

695
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:53,759
Speaker 2: some some wild you know what I mean?

696
00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:58,480
Speaker 1: Right, they should have called it breath of the Grass,

697
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:00,640
Speaker 1: part of the grass, and I would have been a

698
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 1: more apt title. Anyway, that was a stupid thing that

699
00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:09,120
Speaker 1: I shouldn't have said. But oh, yes, have you had

700
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:11,120
Speaker 1: sex since they cut your balls off?

701
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:15,879
Speaker 2: No, I've actually, like, I've never had sex. Like, I'm

702
00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:16,320
Speaker 2: a version.

703
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 1: Okay, are you are you freshman in college?

704
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:23,000
Speaker 2: No, I'm a I'm a sophomore. Actually I just finished

705
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:23,759
Speaker 2: my sophomore years.

706
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:27,239
Speaker 1: Okay, are you out. Are you out there? Are you

707
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:30,319
Speaker 1: like going on the apps? Or are you focused on

708
00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:34,520
Speaker 1: the grind? Are you religiously abstinent? What's what's your do?

709
00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:35,160
Speaker 1: What's the deal?

710
00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:40,240
Speaker 2: No, I mean that's a tough question. Like I wouldn't

711
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:43,400
Speaker 2: like I'm not out there just because like I feel like,

712
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 2: I feel like I on really put myself in a

713
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:48,840
Speaker 2: lot of situations like that. But you know, I'm working

714
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 2: on it. I was last semester. It was just really

715
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 2: really tough with school and extra curriculars and stuff. So

716
00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:58,440
Speaker 2: I was really busy and I've been I had this

717
00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 2: like pretty bad weed habit that I've been trying to

718
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:02,879
Speaker 2: get rid of, and I haven't smoked in like a week,

719
00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:04,320
Speaker 2: and I feel a lot better, honestly.

720
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:09,080
Speaker 1: MM, why do you think you're having trouble putting yourself

721
00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:09,479
Speaker 1: out there?

722
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:14,239
Speaker 2: I don't know. I just you know, I feel like

723
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:18,920
Speaker 2: I'm not. I haven't really like developed socially in the

724
00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:21,760
Speaker 2: best way. I feel like half of my high school

725
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:25,839
Speaker 2: I was gone because of COVID. I was just at home, isolated,

726
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:29,839
Speaker 2: and then suddenly it's like freshman year and now I'm

727
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:32,799
Speaker 2: at Temple, which is a huge school, and it's kind

728
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 2: of overwhelming. It's kind of overwhelming, but you know, I'm

729
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:38,080
Speaker 2: working on it. I have confidence that I can, Like

730
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 2: I'm not worried about it. Like, I have confidence that

731
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:42,719
Speaker 2: I can, you know, like put myself out there and

732
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:44,279
Speaker 2: be successful with it if I really try.

733
00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:46,719
Speaker 1: You seem like a noise. You seem like a well

734
00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:52,400
Speaker 1: adjusted person. Do you believe that about yourself?

735
00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 2: I don't know. That's that's hard to say. I'm yeah,

736
00:42:57,600 --> 00:42:59,759
Speaker 2: you know what, I feel like, I'm well logisted. I'm

737
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:02,120
Speaker 2: I'm doing a good job taking care of myself, you know,

738
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:04,240
Speaker 2: working hard for a right future.

739
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 1: How is the ball? How is the one ball thing

740
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:12,080
Speaker 1: affected your ability to produce? Come? Do you do it? Really?

741
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 1: Not at all?

742
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't affect anything, like it carries like like

743
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 2: I said, the one ball carries all the weight, does everything?

744
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:23,080
Speaker 1: Dude, I don't know. I feel like some girls might

745
00:43:23,120 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 1: be interested in you as an anomaly. I don't know

746
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:29,440
Speaker 1: if that's what you're going for, but it is hard

747
00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:30,160
Speaker 1: to play.

748
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:33,799
Speaker 2: Like, I honestly don't know like what girls would think

749
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 2: about it. Like, I'm really like not sure. I feel like, honestly,

750
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:41,799
Speaker 2: like other than the incision which is like on my

751
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:46,360
Speaker 2: lower abdomen area. It's not really too noticeable, so I

752
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:48,799
Speaker 2: feel like I would have to like draw attention to

753
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:50,240
Speaker 2: it for them to actually notice.

754
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:56,279
Speaker 1: Listen. I'm no online dating experts, but a tender profile

755
00:43:57,280 --> 00:44:04,000
Speaker 1: where your bio just says I have one testicle would

756
00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:09,480
Speaker 1: definitely pique some people's interest. It's an interesting conversation starter.

757
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:12,520
Speaker 1: I don't know. I wouldn't I wouldn't like message a

758
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:15,279
Speaker 1: girl saying that, But if you put it in your

759
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:19,440
Speaker 1: bio could drum up you know some you know, I

760
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 1: mean there's a lot of like, you know, there's a

761
00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:24,920
Speaker 1: lot of people who are like into oddities and ship

762
00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:26,360
Speaker 1: and you might catch some of those.

763
00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:28,160
Speaker 2: That's true.

764
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 1: Maybe you seem like a nice guy, are you, like,

765
00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:38,320
Speaker 1: let me ask you this question, are you like bummed

766
00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 1: about it? Like, do you wish you were putting yourself

767
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 1: up there out there more often? Or is it not

768
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:44,799
Speaker 1: really even a priority in your life?

769
00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:48,120
Speaker 2: No, I mean, I definitely do wish I was putting

770
00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:50,760
Speaker 2: myself out there a little bit more. I feel like

771
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:53,120
Speaker 2: like a lot of things in my life have gotten

772
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 2: in the way. But I'm not sure if I'm just

773
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:57,120
Speaker 2: using that as an excuse. I mean, last year I

774
00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:00,319
Speaker 2: had cancers. So I made thinks a little bit tough

775
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:05,759
Speaker 2: this past year. Yeah, this past year's school has just

776
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:09,319
Speaker 2: been pretty difficult. And like I said, I had like

777
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 2: a pretty bad Like I wouldn't say it's a problem,

778
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:14,640
Speaker 2: but like I was coping with weed pretty heavily. And

779
00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 2: I feel like once you start doing that, like you

780
00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:20,319
Speaker 2: kind of just like get comfortable with isolating yourself, which

781
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:25,759
Speaker 2: I don't want to do anymore. No, it's not just

782
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:26,720
Speaker 2: buying it off the street.

783
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:32,319
Speaker 1: Okay, which, what did you buy it? In Narnia? You

784
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:33,319
Speaker 1: know what Narnia is?

785
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Yeah, I know.

786
00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:40,840
Speaker 1: In Narnia they still call it Narnia. There's this fucking

787
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 1: it's in at Temple University. There's this dude, what is it?

788
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 1: Explain Narnia.

789
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 2: So basically, like like by this like Bell Tower area,

790
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:57,840
Speaker 2: there's this like little alleyway that's kind of secluded, but

791
00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:00,880
Speaker 2: like everybody knows about it, so it's not super secluded.

792
00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:03,640
Speaker 2: But there's this little area with some benches and some

793
00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:06,839
Speaker 2: grass where people usually go to smoke. It's a nice

794
00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:07,759
Speaker 2: little spot.

795
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:13,399
Speaker 1: And it's called Narnia. It's called that's crazy that it's

796
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:16,879
Speaker 1: that it's still called that that that I has lived on.

797
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:21,319
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean actually I smoked there a lot. But

798
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:23,879
Speaker 2: I've only recently learned, like a couple of months ago,

799
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 2: that it's called Narnia.

800
00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:29,360
Speaker 1: There's this I used to smoke weed all the time

801
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 1: on the lawn where that bell tower is.

802
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:37,680
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, right outside Bury.

803
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:41,360
Speaker 1: Hall Beury Beach. I think it's called or the Beach.

804
00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:43,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it is.

805
00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, I had a lot of time. I had

806
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:50,800
Speaker 1: a lot of great times walking around that whole city

807
00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:55,279
Speaker 1: and uh, smoking weed. That's really my favorite thing to do.

808
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 1: I don't I try to talk. I I mean, I'm

809
00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:01,560
Speaker 1: kind of a fucking owner right now, but it's just

810
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:04,799
Speaker 1: it just has always been my favorite thing to do

811
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:08,600
Speaker 1: is walk around and smoke weed. And I've only recently

812
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:12,960
Speaker 1: been reconciling with the fact that that's bad for my health.

813
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:15,440
Speaker 1: But I don't want to give it up. I don't

814
00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:17,759
Speaker 1: want to give all the things that are bad for me.

815
00:47:18,239 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 1: I just fucking don't want to give up. I love

816
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 1: what's your name again, My name is Sid. Sid. I

817
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 1: fucking love getting stoned, going for a walk and eating

818
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:35,200
Speaker 1: a big hamburger. I love it, so I might love

819
00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 1: it more than I would hate dying.

820
00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 3: Shit.

821
00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:41,840
Speaker 4: No.

822
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 2: I mean, if that's like, that's completely valid. If that's

823
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:47,360
Speaker 2: what you want, that's what you want. And being outside

824
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:52,560
Speaker 2: and smoking and just eating something that's absolutely terrible for

825
00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:54,000
Speaker 2: you and it is probably going to give you a

826
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:56,719
Speaker 2: heart attack is probably one of the best activities.

827
00:47:57,320 --> 00:47:59,919
Speaker 1: God damn it, City, You're supposed to be a medical profer.

828
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:01,720
Speaker 1: What the hell are you talking about?

829
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:03,399
Speaker 2: Not yet? Not yet.

830
00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:05,960
Speaker 1: This was a test and you failed. I'm calling the dean.

831
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:11,319
Speaker 2: We don't have a dean right now. Actually he quit.

832
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:18,319
Speaker 1: Oh I would too, Sid. Sid. Sid said, all right,

833
00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:20,279
Speaker 1: you have cancer or you don't have cancer anymore, but

834
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:22,880
Speaker 1: you do have one ball. You've never had sex? Have

835
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:24,560
Speaker 1: you ever had any kind of sex? Have you ever

836
00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:26,120
Speaker 1: had like a blowjob or a hand job?

837
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 3: No?

838
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:31,080
Speaker 2: I haven't. I mean I've had a couple of situations

839
00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:33,880
Speaker 2: here and there, but it's never it's never really like

840
00:48:34,080 --> 00:48:37,799
Speaker 2: led to that. Okay, you know, like I'm not really

841
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:39,719
Speaker 2: too worried about it or anything. I feel like I

842
00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:41,680
Speaker 2: just you know, need to like work on myself a

843
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:45,520
Speaker 2: little bit and just continue like meditating, stop smoking weed.

844
00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:46,760
Speaker 2: I'll be fine.

845
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:51,480
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Sid, I'm how old are you? Like nineteen?

846
00:48:52,640 --> 00:48:53,400
Speaker 2: I'm twenty.

847
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:57,120
Speaker 1: You're twenty. Oh my fucking gun man, I'm jealous of

848
00:48:57,120 --> 00:48:59,600
Speaker 1: you because when I, dude, when I was twenty and

849
00:48:59,640 --> 00:49:03,960
Speaker 1: I was Temple University, I was a fucking idiot and all,

850
00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:06,719
Speaker 1: and you know, getting laid was like all I was

851
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:10,160
Speaker 1: obsessed with. And I look back at it and now

852
00:49:10,200 --> 00:49:13,919
Speaker 1: and I'm listening to you be like, you know, yeah,

853
00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:16,400
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna hang out and work on myself and meditate,

854
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:18,880
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I fucking wish I was as smart

855
00:49:18,880 --> 00:49:21,040
Speaker 1: as you were. I would wish I was as smart

856
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 1: as you are when I was twenty and going to Temple.

857
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 1: So good idea, you're going to have a great life.

858
00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:29,759
Speaker 2: I appreciate that, man, But like to be honest with you,

859
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 2: like it's not always, you know, I'm not always having

860
00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:35,359
Speaker 2: this monthset. You know, sometimes it feels it feels kind

861
00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:36,759
Speaker 2: of bad. I get in my head a little bit

862
00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:39,759
Speaker 2: about it, but ultimately I know, you know, I'll be good.

863
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:42,920
Speaker 1: What is what? What? Tell me? What? What you getting

864
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:44,000
Speaker 1: in your head? Looks like.

865
00:49:45,719 --> 00:49:49,960
Speaker 2: I don't know. I guess like when you like, I

866
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 2: feel like the word virgin is us like as an

867
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:56,480
Speaker 2: insult pretty frequently, and like there's just a level of

868
00:49:56,520 --> 00:50:00,600
Speaker 2: like like you know, there's like it's like toxic masculinity. Sure,

869
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:04,000
Speaker 2: the fact that you have to like lose your virginity

870
00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 2: at a certain age, and like you just start comparing

871
00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 2: yourself to people. And actually, Temple is I think the

872
00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:12,360
Speaker 2: most sexually active campus in the United States, so like

873
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:15,239
Speaker 2: that's true. You know, everybody around me is, you know,

874
00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 2: running around fucking each other. So it's hard to not

875
00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 2: get in your head about comparisons.

876
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 1: But okay, well, every time I want you to know,

877
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:25,439
Speaker 1: I want you to notice every time you do start

878
00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 1: to get in your head about comparisons, I want you

879
00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:30,920
Speaker 1: to know that I wish I was doing what you

880
00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:33,920
Speaker 1: were doing when I was twenty and go into Temple.

881
00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:37,400
Speaker 1: So well, I don't know if that's worth anything.

882
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:41,719
Speaker 2: No, that's definitely worth something. I appreciate that. That's nice

883
00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:41,960
Speaker 2: to hear.

884
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:45,279
Speaker 1: No, a lot of my obsession with like sex at

885
00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:49,440
Speaker 1: that time like held me back from like because you know,

886
00:50:49,480 --> 00:50:51,719
Speaker 1: I was just like on the fucking Tinder and all

887
00:50:51,760 --> 00:50:54,920
Speaker 1: the apps all the time, and like you know, on

888
00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:59,640
Speaker 1: fucking Snapchat, like like spending my whole day like like

889
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:02,680
Speaker 1: waiting for somebody to respond. I mean, it's a whole

890
00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:08,560
Speaker 1: fucking horrible, shitty thing to be obsessed with. And so

891
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:11,319
Speaker 1: I think the mindset that you have of like I'm

892
00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:14,200
Speaker 1: just going to meditate and hang out and get on

893
00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:18,719
Speaker 1: my grind. You know, that's that's that's where you want

894
00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:20,319
Speaker 1: to be. You're doing it. You're doing it right, sid.

895
00:51:20,360 --> 00:51:22,840
Speaker 1: I want you to know that I'm.

896
00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:24,720
Speaker 2: Trying, man, But like like I said, it's not always

897
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 2: like that. Like just yesterday, you know, I was pretty horny.

898
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:29,600
Speaker 2: I was on those apps.

899
00:51:29,640 --> 00:51:29,799
Speaker 5: Man.

900
00:51:30,040 --> 00:51:33,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I actually got two numbers and I was talking

901
00:51:33,360 --> 00:51:35,279
Speaker 2: to girls a little bit. But after a while, it's

902
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:39,719
Speaker 2: just like do I really want to keep like mindlessly

903
00:51:39,800 --> 00:51:42,080
Speaker 2: talking to them? And like, I don't know, bro, Like

904
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:43,880
Speaker 2: if I'd rather just stay at home, I'd rather just

905
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:44,880
Speaker 2: stay at home and play.

906
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:47,960
Speaker 1: No No City. You don't want to do any of that.

907
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 1: You want to you want to meditate for two hours

908
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:55,120
Speaker 1: a day and learn how to cut test cut cut counts.

909
00:51:55,360 --> 00:51:58,200
Speaker 1: You want to meditate for two hours a day and

910
00:51:58,280 --> 00:52:01,719
Speaker 1: learn how to cut cancer out of people's testicles. That's

911
00:52:01,719 --> 00:52:02,200
Speaker 1: what you wanted.

912
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:04,640
Speaker 2: That that will be great.

913
00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:07,239
Speaker 1: That's what you want. Just I want you to listen, like,

914
00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 1: listen to this phone call again. I'm gonna post it

915
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:12,520
Speaker 1: on something. Listen to this phone call again. Every time,

916
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:16,279
Speaker 1: every time you get all every time you get horny,

917
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:19,239
Speaker 1: I want you to listen to my voice. Okay, and

918
00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:21,600
Speaker 1: and and listen to me tell you that you're gonna

919
00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:24,799
Speaker 1: be okay, that you can just uh, that you can

920
00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:28,359
Speaker 1: ignore all those feelings and do something productive with your

921
00:52:28,360 --> 00:52:29,000
Speaker 1: life instead.

922
00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:31,640
Speaker 2: I appreciate that.

923
00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 1: Man, Well, what do we do now?

924
00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:41,359
Speaker 2: What is there to do?

925
00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:43,879
Speaker 1: So anything else you want to say to the people

926
00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:44,920
Speaker 1: of the computer before we go.

927
00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:48,560
Speaker 3: I don't know.

928
00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:51,720
Speaker 2: Kind of on the spot. You know, everybody stays strong

929
00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:54,440
Speaker 2: and I hear people call it every day with some

930
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:58,239
Speaker 2: real serious issues, real serious topics. And you know, I

931
00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:02,240
Speaker 2: hope everyone's doing okay. It's feel bad, trying to meditate,

932
00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:04,919
Speaker 2: it's better and that's all.

933
00:53:06,440 --> 00:53:10,360
Speaker 1: Hey, God bless you said you're you're my role model.

934
00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:12,640
Speaker 2: God bless you too. Good.

935
00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:18,960
Speaker 1: Thank you care brother than you too. Man. All right,

936
00:53:18,960 --> 00:53:21,840
Speaker 1: when I come to Philly in September, I'm gonna do uh,

937
00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:24,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do the after I'm coming to Philly. I'm

938
00:53:24,200 --> 00:53:27,000
Speaker 1: doing underground Arts. I'm doing my after party at Narnia.

939
00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:31,360
Speaker 1: You're all invited. Hello, folks, it is Lyle back again

940
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:36,759
Speaker 1: to end the podcast with a little interview that I

941
00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 1: did on the streets of Amsterdam in the Netherlands, which

942
00:53:41,640 --> 00:53:44,000
Speaker 1: is one of my favorite countries in the world. And

943
00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:46,919
Speaker 1: this was an interview that I did with a young

944
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:49,920
Speaker 1: dutch Man, a student filmmaker. We talked a little bit

945
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:52,520
Speaker 1: about life and the Netherlands. We talked a little bit

946
00:53:52,520 --> 00:53:56,239
Speaker 1: about being a student filmmaker. We talked a little bit

947
00:53:56,239 --> 00:54:02,959
Speaker 1: about the Dutch perception of American which is an interesting thing.

948
00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:07,360
Speaker 1: But anyway, you should listen to this. It's it's fun,

949
00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:10,440
Speaker 1: you know, it's something a little different than the phone calls.

950
00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:12,279
Speaker 1: And also everyone that we talked to on the show

951
00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:17,440
Speaker 1: is mostly like American people. There are some non Americans

952
00:54:18,560 --> 00:54:21,120
Speaker 1: here and there, but it's mostly American folks. So it's

953
00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:27,120
Speaker 1: cool to like actually go to physical, real places and

954
00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:31,000
Speaker 1: talk to people who are who don't live in America.

955
00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:35,680
Speaker 1: It's fun. Come come along with me to the streets

956
00:54:36,160 --> 00:54:42,759
Speaker 1: of Amsterdam to talk to a guy right now. What's

957
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:43,200
Speaker 1: your name?

958
00:54:43,719 --> 00:54:45,399
Speaker 5: My name is Nino, to meet.

959
00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:47,839
Speaker 1: Nice to meet you man. You live here in the Netherlands, Yes,

960
00:54:47,880 --> 00:54:52,320
Speaker 1: I do. Born erased in Amsterdam. I feel like nobody

961
00:54:52,360 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 1: in Amsterdam is Dutch.

962
00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:56,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, we have a lot of tourists.

963
00:54:56,920 --> 00:54:59,480
Speaker 4: Amsterdam is the most diverse country when it comes to

964
00:54:59,560 --> 00:55:00,640
Speaker 4: nass in the world.

965
00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:05,000
Speaker 1: And how do you guys feel about the tourists.

966
00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:08,720
Speaker 5: It's quite fun to mess with them.

967
00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:11,320
Speaker 1: I will say, how do you in what ways do

968
00:55:11,360 --> 00:55:12,240
Speaker 1: you mess with the tourists?

969
00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:15,520
Speaker 4: If they ask where the Rights Museum is? I say, oh, yeah,

970
00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:17,759
Speaker 4: go dead way and then it's that way now.

971
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:19,359
Speaker 5: Just we have we have our.

972
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:24,680
Speaker 4: Fun with them. But I don't mind. You know, I'm

973
00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:28,879
Speaker 4: overall pretty chill, so you know, I don't really care

974
00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:31,040
Speaker 4: if there's a lot of tourists. You know, sometimes they

975
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:32,520
Speaker 4: get in a way and I don't know how to

976
00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:33,320
Speaker 4: ride a bike.

977
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:36,200
Speaker 5: But it's fine. You want to experience something new, go

978
00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:36,560
Speaker 5: for it.

979
00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:40,160
Speaker 1: Do have you ever given someone the wrong directions and

980
00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:41,640
Speaker 1: then they run into them later?

981
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:43,120
Speaker 2: Oh?

982
00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:43,920
Speaker 5: Good question.

983
00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:47,799
Speaker 4: I have not No, that will be really funny and

984
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:49,320
Speaker 4: I would just say I'm sorry.

985
00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:50,719
Speaker 5: I'm also a little new here.

986
00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:53,680
Speaker 1: Do you have an American accent that you can do

987
00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:56,200
Speaker 1: that you can like an American mask, the fact that

988
00:55:56,200 --> 00:55:57,440
Speaker 1: you're that you're not a tourist.

989
00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:05,560
Speaker 4: I can try, you know, maybe American accents, so you know,

990
00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:11,160
Speaker 4: I'm from California, so I'm not really from Amsterdam specifically,

991
00:56:11,200 --> 00:56:12,080
Speaker 4: I'm like from l A.

992
00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:15,759
Speaker 1: There's a little English in there, yeah, there's.

993
00:56:16,160 --> 00:56:19,360
Speaker 4: You know, our accents in the Netherlands are pretty fucked

994
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:24,640
Speaker 4: up because we have like the English TV shows and

995
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:28,359
Speaker 4: sometimes they're American, but mostly the TV shows we watch

996
00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:31,720
Speaker 4: our American But then in school we get taught British

997
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:34,799
Speaker 4: British English, so it's like a weird mix between the two.

998
00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:36,279
Speaker 5: And then of course we're Dutch.

999
00:56:36,560 --> 00:56:39,120
Speaker 4: So a lot of people also have to like, yeah,

1000
00:56:39,160 --> 00:56:42,359
Speaker 4: I can speak English very well and you know, but

1001
00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:43,480
Speaker 4: I'm a little bit ditch.

1002
00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:44,600
Speaker 5: So I have an action.

1003
00:56:45,200 --> 00:56:47,800
Speaker 1: Okay, what do you do here for school?

1004
00:56:49,239 --> 00:56:52,239
Speaker 4: I'm right now in between school years, so like I

1005
00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:55,240
Speaker 4: have a tuscar, which means I don't go to school

1006
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:55,680
Speaker 4: right now.

1007
00:56:55,760 --> 00:56:57,799
Speaker 5: But I want to study film because.

1008
00:56:57,680 --> 00:56:59,880
Speaker 1: You want to study film? Yeah, I studied film.

1009
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:02,200
Speaker 5: Really yeah, any any advice?

1010
00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:02,960
Speaker 1: Don't do it?

1011
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:03,359
Speaker 5: No?

1012
00:57:03,680 --> 00:57:07,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, well just because us the thing, well, you know,

1013
00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:08,040
Speaker 1: are you going to go into debt?

1014
00:57:08,880 --> 00:57:12,759
Speaker 4: No, So that's the thing in the Netherlands. Well, you

1015
00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:17,720
Speaker 4: do have private schools which have like American fees, I

1016
00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:20,800
Speaker 4: like to call them. So it's like like twenty thousands

1017
00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:24,040
Speaker 4: a year. But there's two like serious film schools in

1018
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:26,920
Speaker 4: the Netherlands, which are the Dutch Film Academy and you

1019
00:57:26,960 --> 00:57:30,000
Speaker 4: have to hack you in and they're.

1020
00:57:29,800 --> 00:57:33,960
Speaker 5: Both like two k yere basically and they're horrible.

1021
00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:37,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, those are really like professional schools and they really

1022
00:57:37,320 --> 00:57:40,000
Speaker 4: go into detail. They're not like, oh, yeah, I made

1023
00:57:40,040 --> 00:57:41,480
Speaker 4: a film once so I can teach it.

1024
00:57:41,600 --> 00:57:43,400
Speaker 1: You know, they're what what do you so, what do

1025
00:57:43,440 --> 00:57:44,680
Speaker 1: you want to do with film? Like, what do you

1026
00:57:44,720 --> 00:57:47,240
Speaker 1: want to make films about?

1027
00:57:47,640 --> 00:57:51,320
Speaker 4: Well, it's it's pretty difverse. I want to make like

1028
00:57:51,400 --> 00:57:56,760
Speaker 4: realistic films. I do like sci fi, but for my

1029
00:57:56,920 --> 00:57:59,880
Speaker 4: own work, I like to do like realistic stuff. So,

1030
00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:02,760
Speaker 4: for example, I made a film about a school shooting

1031
00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:06,080
Speaker 4: from the perspective of one of the people that was

1032
00:58:06,120 --> 00:58:10,000
Speaker 4: in a school shooting because I have a niece that

1033
00:58:10,160 --> 00:58:16,840
Speaker 4: lives in Denver. Yeah, Denver in Colorado, and is that correct, Yes,

1034
00:58:17,840 --> 00:58:20,840
Speaker 4: But I've a niece that lives in Denver and there

1035
00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:23,920
Speaker 4: was a school shooting and her school and it went

1036
00:58:25,080 --> 00:58:28,360
Speaker 4: yeah in twenty nineteen, I believe maybe twenty twenty.

1037
00:58:30,640 --> 00:58:33,000
Speaker 1: I remember if I heard keep going yeh.

1038
00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:36,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, and that was pretty shocking, you know. I remember

1039
00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:39,720
Speaker 4: my mom telling me that it had happened and that

1040
00:58:40,080 --> 00:58:41,200
Speaker 4: my niece was okay.

1041
00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:45,280
Speaker 5: But then I went to school and it didn't really compute.

1042
00:58:44,920 --> 00:58:47,920
Speaker 4: You know, And then I got to class and I

1043
00:58:48,000 --> 00:58:51,560
Speaker 4: sat there in class and I just at this moment

1044
00:58:51,600 --> 00:58:57,760
Speaker 4: where I thought like, wow, someone was trying to kill

1045
00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:00,880
Speaker 4: people in that school, and it really hit me and

1046
00:59:01,120 --> 00:59:06,560
Speaker 4: I just started crying. And I guess one of my

1047
00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:10,080
Speaker 4: coping mechanisms was just writing about it, writing a film

1048
00:59:10,120 --> 00:59:13,680
Speaker 4: about it. And it wasn't specifically about that school shooting,

1049
00:59:14,600 --> 00:59:16,480
Speaker 4: but it was like a school shooting.

1050
00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:17,880
Speaker 5: I don't know if you've seen nineteen.

1051
00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:22,000
Speaker 1: Seventeen, nineteen seventeen, the film I'm familiar with that, I've

1052
00:59:22,000 --> 00:59:22,400
Speaker 1: never seen it.

1053
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:25,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, so basically it's like one take, or it's supposed

1054
00:59:25,640 --> 00:59:28,360
Speaker 4: to look like one take all the way through except

1055
00:59:28,400 --> 00:59:30,520
Speaker 4: for one cut. And my idea was the same that

1056
00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:33,080
Speaker 4: it's like, it looks like one long take of a

1057
00:59:33,120 --> 00:59:37,560
Speaker 4: school shooting. And you know, it was a pretty It

1058
00:59:37,600 --> 00:59:40,200
Speaker 4: was the biggest project I've done so far, but it

1059
00:59:40,240 --> 00:59:44,439
Speaker 4: was really fulfilling because it was also like it gave

1060
00:59:44,520 --> 00:59:47,560
Speaker 4: me something to process the feelings I had about the

1061
00:59:47,600 --> 00:59:53,920
Speaker 4: school shootings. So yeah, it was nice it sucked, of course,

1062
00:59:54,440 --> 00:59:55,600
Speaker 4: but it was nice in a way.

1063
00:59:56,440 --> 00:59:59,160
Speaker 1: What is your niece do in Denver?

1064
00:59:59,720 --> 01:00:02,880
Speaker 4: Well, well, right now, she wants to she wants to

1065
01:00:03,120 --> 01:00:09,240
Speaker 4: join the police because her reaction was also she was

1066
01:00:09,280 --> 01:00:12,080
Speaker 4: really shocked, of course, you know, and to be robbed

1067
01:00:12,120 --> 01:00:16,000
Speaker 4: of your security like that is is life changing. And

1068
01:00:16,280 --> 01:00:18,840
Speaker 4: she just said, I never want anyone else to feel

1069
01:00:18,880 --> 01:00:19,680
Speaker 4: like that ever again.

1070
01:00:20,200 --> 01:00:22,120
Speaker 5: So she she wants to join the police.

1071
01:00:23,720 --> 01:00:26,640
Speaker 4: And you know, in America, of course, the police it's

1072
01:00:26,680 --> 01:00:28,800
Speaker 4: always you know, a case of whether.

1073
01:00:28,560 --> 01:00:30,360
Speaker 5: They actually help or not, I believe.

1074
01:00:30,440 --> 01:00:34,600
Speaker 4: But I think in her own way, she's she's trying

1075
01:00:34,600 --> 01:00:37,720
Speaker 4: to help people, and I think that should be the

1076
01:00:37,760 --> 01:00:39,960
Speaker 4: way for the police to handle things, you know, make

1077
01:00:40,000 --> 01:00:41,480
Speaker 4: people feel secure.

1078
01:00:42,280 --> 01:00:44,680
Speaker 5: And I think in the Netherlands that's handled pretty well.

1079
01:00:45,160 --> 01:00:46,160
Speaker 5: But in America, you know.

1080
01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:50,800
Speaker 4: From the videos I've seen, it's it's, I don't know,

1081
01:00:50,840 --> 01:00:54,600
Speaker 4: they seem a little angrier there for some reason.

1082
01:00:54,880 --> 01:00:55,280
Speaker 1: They just.

1083
01:00:56,800 --> 01:01:01,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, there's they tend to escalate things in de escalate them,

1084
01:01:01,560 --> 01:01:03,560
Speaker 4: and I think that should be the first lesson thought

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Speaker 4: in police academy. But something's going wrong there. I don't

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Speaker 4: know if you have more to say about that.

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Speaker 1: Fuck, I don't know. I'm not I'm not a very

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm not like a political social takes,

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Speaker 1: but it is interesting to hear what other people's perspectives are,

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Speaker 1: and you know, from outside of America.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's fair.

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Speaker 1: What's your next plan for Yes, for a film you

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Speaker 1: want to make?

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Speaker 5: So I am of my next film I want to make. Well.

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Speaker 5: I have this one idea where I envisioned like a hotel.

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Speaker 4: And it's split into two parts, and in one side

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Speaker 4: of the hotel the people live there that know they're

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Speaker 4: going to die one day, and the other part is

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Speaker 4: for the people who.

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Speaker 5: Don't know they're gonna die.

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Speaker 4: It's basically based on a quote from Confusius Confusions. Confucius, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: and he said a man has two lives, and the

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Speaker 4: second one starts when he realizes he only has one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, another one yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: So I founded a really nice quote.

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Speaker 4: And I I don't know if I've quite figured out

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Speaker 4: that if if the reality has set in, if I'm

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Speaker 4: gonna die one day. Yeah, but you know, the school

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Speaker 4: shooting made it a little closer. So that's you know,

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Speaker 4: one of one of the things that can make you

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Speaker 4: come closer to.

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Speaker 1: Death is is that realization that you only have one life. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, I mean that's why I wanted to come

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Speaker 1: here and do this because you know, I don't know

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Speaker 1: what I'm gonna die, so I might as well travel

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Speaker 1: as much as I can and try to be a

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Speaker 1: lizard and talk to people. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's also why I want to make films because

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I I that that's what I want to do, you know,

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Speaker 4: And I could just go for job security and a

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Speaker 4: lot of people tell me, like, you're really gonna study film?

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Speaker 5: You know, I did the highest form of.

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Speaker 4: Education for like middle school here, so I have a

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Speaker 4: lot of options and going into film is not.

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Speaker 5: Basically the most job secure way to go.

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01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:17,560
Speaker 4: Sure, but I like to think if I'm going to

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Speaker 4: die within a year, what would I do? And well,

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Speaker 4: what I want to do is make films and write.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, that's the plan basically for now.

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Speaker 1: Well congrats on following your dreams. Man.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's it's scary, but that's what makes life fun.

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Speaker 1: I think. Well, man, I mean, you know it's cool.

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Speaker 1: Now I've had I've talked to people about film school before,

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01:03:38,640 --> 01:03:40,360
Speaker 1: and it's like, if you're going into a crazy amount

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Speaker 1: of two k years not horrible because in the States,

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Speaker 1: I mean that would cost like, yeah, about three hundred

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Speaker 1: and eighty million thousand dollars Jillian. Yeah, especially in considering

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01:03:55,680 --> 01:03:57,040
Speaker 1: in a world where you can just you know, make

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Speaker 1: films on your phone and shit.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 4: And you know, of course, film school not to be

1143
01:04:03,240 --> 01:04:07,120
Speaker 4: like to be pompous about it or something, but I

1144
01:04:07,160 --> 01:04:10,040
Speaker 4: think film school it's not gonna teach me a lot.

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01:04:10,080 --> 01:04:11,800
Speaker 5: It's more about the connections.

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01:04:11,320 --> 01:04:14,280
Speaker 4: You make, you know, and you know, getting get food

1147
01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:16,600
Speaker 4: into the door with the film industry.

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01:04:16,760 --> 01:04:18,000
Speaker 5: I've already tried to.

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Speaker 4: Get I've already tried to get into like film jobs,

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Speaker 4: you know, just work on the sets, grab coffee for

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01:04:27,600 --> 01:04:31,760
Speaker 4: the actors, you know, anything work, Yeah, of course, anything that's.

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Speaker 5: That can make a little bit of that.

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01:04:33,720 --> 01:04:37,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, But they won't accept me because I'm not into

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01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:38,080
Speaker 4: a film school.

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Speaker 1: So well, you know what, here's the thing. I think.

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Speaker 1: I think it's great. I think you should go to

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Speaker 1: film school if if you can afford that, that too, Ok,

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Speaker 1: it's not horrible. But in the meantime, make movies on

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Speaker 1: your own, dude. Yeah, I'm which you're already already doing.

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Speaker 1: You're making I'm trying to write stuff, So I think

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Speaker 1: I think you're gonna be okay. You know, a lot

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Speaker 1: of the people I went to film school with, they

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Speaker 1: they were just kind of sitting around waiting for somebody

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Speaker 1: to tell them that they can make a movie. But

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01:05:01,160 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 1: you can, obviously you've already gone beyond that. So I

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01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:05,640
Speaker 1: think you're gonna do great.

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Speaker 5: Well, that's very nice here. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: What's your name again?

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Speaker 5: My name is Nino.

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Speaker 1: Nino. Thank you for sharing all this stuff with me.

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Speaker 5: No problem. That's a very nice time too.

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Speaker 4: I've seen some of some of your videos, so I

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Speaker 4: thought maybe talk with the guy once.

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Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, you did you have a good experience? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was mostly me talking, but I don't mind.

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Speaker 4: I I like staring my shot.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm glad it's mostly I didn't come all the

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Speaker 1: way to fucking Amsterdam to hear myself talking. Yeah, fair

1179
01:05:32,520 --> 01:05:34,120
Speaker 1: enough enough, So thank you for sharing me. Is there

1180
01:05:34,120 --> 01:05:35,720
Speaker 1: anything else you want to say to the people of

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Speaker 1: the computer before we go?

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Speaker 4: I'd like to see it to say, don't be scared

1183
01:05:41,280 --> 01:05:44,880
Speaker 4: to follow your dreams. You know, it's a wise man

1184
01:05:44,920 --> 01:05:47,200
Speaker 4: once said. The thing that makes me hope most happy

1185
01:05:47,280 --> 01:05:49,680
Speaker 4: is sticking to my values. And sticking to my dreams,

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01:05:49,720 --> 01:05:52,000
Speaker 4: and I wholeheartedly believe in that.

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Speaker 1: So this guy's got quotes. This guy's got quotes.

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Speaker 2: I do.

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Speaker 1: Thank you very much, Nina. It was very nice time,

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01:05:58,080 --> 01:05:59,960
Speaker 1: you know, you said, yes, you know, nice to meet you.

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01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:01,920
Speaker 1: Have a nice day, youtuboe man, take care.

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01:06:02,040 --> 01:06:02,360
Speaker 5: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Hey, folks, it's Lyle once again. If you enjoyed that

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01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:07,600
Speaker 1: little interview and you want to hear all of the

1195
01:06:07,640 --> 01:06:10,640
Speaker 1: interviews that I did on the streets of Amsterdam, you

1196
01:06:10,840 --> 01:06:15,560
Speaker 1: can go to YouTube dot com slash Lyele forever and

1197
01:06:15,600 --> 01:06:18,880
Speaker 1: look for a video called being a Gecko in Amsterdam,

1198
01:06:19,400 --> 01:06:22,880
Speaker 1: or you can just check the description of this podcast

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Speaker 1: episode and the link will be in there. All right,

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Speaker 1: God bless you, thanks for listening. Ever goes on the

1201
01:06:30,320 --> 01:06:33,880
Speaker 1: line thanking your phone calls every night. Ever be Ad

1202
01:06:34,040 --> 01:06:36,640
Speaker 1: goes to a dry staging your cloud in the mind

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01:06:36,680 --> 01:06:39,800
Speaker 1: of your life. He's not really an expert.