1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:02,480 Speaker 1: I just think I was kind of an idiot. What 2 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: do you mean just thinking about dating? And yeah, calm 3 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 1: down with Aeron and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 4 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 1: Oh no, the Pros and Consolatest Shoot okay, oh no? 5 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 2: Was there a movie where they made a frozen console 6 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 2: a person found in came Polly shit. 7 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:29,600 Speaker 3: That's all right. I was like, wait a minute, all right. 8 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 2: I all I remember was all the pillows Welcome everybody 9 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 2: to the pregame. That was a teaser of an anonymous 10 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 2: follow up, which we will get to shortly. As always, 11 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 2: thank you for your questions, comments and concern concerns writing 12 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 2: into the pregame here as we enter week eleven, big 13 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 2: show to follow, as everyone knows. But let's get to 14 00:00:56,480 --> 00:01:00,840 Speaker 2: the pregame, my gal. We start with Judy Hogland Jewel Team. 15 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Herd too, sorry, the one Julie Hogland. Which 16 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 2: football teams record? 17 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:07,680 Speaker 3: Wow? 18 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 2: Which football team's record surprises you the most at this 19 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:12,479 Speaker 2: point to the seat at the start of the season. 20 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 2: I'll just start where my first instinct goes, always the Colts, 21 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:21,199 Speaker 2: because I think that's everyone's biggest surprise team. 22 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:24,280 Speaker 1: You can go Patriots, the Patriots. I was going to 23 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 1: say and two. Yeah, I mean even Denver. 24 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 2: Denver, you know, is eight and two as well, So 25 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 2: I think there's a lot of surprise teams. 26 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 3: But yeah, those are the three off the top of 27 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 3: my head. You I'm surprised. 28 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 1: Seattle's seven in two, right, I just I guess I 29 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 1: should have paid attention to that. I'm going to standings 30 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 1: right now. You got New England, you got Pittsburgh, you 31 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 1: got Indie. Yep, you hit that Denver, which was your game. Nope, 32 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: I am not what God can't just everybody leave me alone. Philly, 33 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 1: not surprised. It's gonna be interesting to see tonight with 34 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 1: Green Bay. They're the leaders in the NFC North right now, 35 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 1: but we'll see what happens Tampa. 36 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:11,080 Speaker 3: What happened there? Yeah, I think you count it. 37 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:15,800 Speaker 1: Colts, Bronco's pit Patres Padrels are up there. How about 38 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 1: Drake May right now is leading the MVP And. 39 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 2: No disrespect to to Drake May because he's having an 40 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:24,240 Speaker 2: outstanding year. Why is Matthew Stafford not number one right 41 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 2: now on the MVP list. I still don't understand why 42 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 2: this guy, after this many years in the league, has 43 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 2: to continue to like and he doesn't care. 44 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:33,079 Speaker 3: But I don't know. I'm just that's crazy. I saw 45 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:33,800 Speaker 3: that today too. 46 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 1: Nuts. Moving right along, moving along, You're okay, Anonymous. I 47 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:42,359 Speaker 1: am thinking about getting back to dating after time away. 48 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 1: Any times, I don't think I was a good dater. 49 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 3: I don't know. 50 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 1: I feel like you had this more locked in than 51 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 1: I did. 52 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 2: I just dated a lot more because you were in 53 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 2: the I'm so boring. 54 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 3: No, you are not boring, am. 55 00:02:56,800 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 2: I just went through various stages where I went like 56 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 2: and I was in my like fuck it like stage, 57 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:05,400 Speaker 2: and then I was But I'm a serial monogamous, like 58 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 2: I like being in a relationship. 59 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 3: I would prefer that. 60 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 2: But when I come out of bad relationships, then I 61 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 2: you know, obviously it was like you know whoa, we're 62 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 2: this girl co. 63 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:16,360 Speaker 3: How to lose a guy in six days? 64 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 1: So I would say, thinking back getting back into dating, 65 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 1: We've talked about this before. I do not envy that 66 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 1: world at all. I have some good girlfriends that are 67 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 1: single and they're like the app sock this, you know whatever, 68 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:33,639 Speaker 1: they want to be set up, they wanted to happen organically. 69 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 1: So I would say, with limited experience in this department, 70 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 1: I would say just be open that. I say this 71 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 1: to my girlfriend Jen, and I'm just going to call 72 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 1: her out here on this. She's so picky, and I 73 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: think that's good to be picky. But I also think 74 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 1: you should just like, instead of being like, oh I 75 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 1: have to have this, this, this, this, and this, I 76 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 1: think you go out. It's like, you know, if you're hungry, 77 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 1: sample a lot of different things instead and. 78 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 3: See, Okay, I know I don't like this. I know 79 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 3: I don't like this. I don't know. 80 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 1: I just I think that it's important if you really 81 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:08,960 Speaker 1: want to get back into the dating world to just 82 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: be open minded, not like he has to be six 83 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 1: foot five or he has to be whatever. 84 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 3: And yes, there are. 85 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:17,160 Speaker 2: Some non negotiables, I get that, like if religion or 86 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:21,039 Speaker 2: if an economics like situation, okay, fine, but just have 87 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 2: a little bit of wiggle room and not be so 88 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 2: close minded, because I think he might be surprised that 89 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 2: there's some good people and you might have already ruled 90 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 2: them out if you're just so specific. So be open minded, 91 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 2: have fun, like think about it kind of like in 92 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 2: a way, like what do you have to lose except 93 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:39,720 Speaker 2: gain a guy that you could be with forever. 94 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:41,159 Speaker 3: So I don't know, have some fun with it. 95 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:43,480 Speaker 2: Don't put so much pressure on yourself or on that 96 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 2: person to make him the one. I always feel like 97 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 2: when people go on dates, it's like is he the one? 98 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 2: And it's like, dude, you don't want to like relax, 99 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 2: so sort of be open and lighthearted and relaxed. 100 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 1: I feel like women typically put all the pressure on it. 101 00:04:57,360 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 1: But I have some guy friends in my life that 102 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 1: put a lot of pressure or on dates, and I 103 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 1: just want to say to them stop. But yeah, I 104 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 1: mean that's me being a hypocrite because I feel like 105 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 1: I put a lot of pressure on stuff. 106 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 3: Gosh, that is easier to give and do a. 107 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:15,919 Speaker 1: Couple of things. But I'm where I want to be, 108 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:18,919 Speaker 1: So that's interesting. I just think I was kind of 109 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 1: an idiot. What do you mean just thinking about dating? 110 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 1: And yeah, why I feel like we should dig in there. 111 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:28,600 Speaker 3: But we'll let that go. 112 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:36,239 Speaker 1: Okay, maybe you and I, But that's it, Laila Rhea. 113 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 1: Eat bikes, eat bikes and scooters Should they be allowed 114 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:41,159 Speaker 1: on sidewalks? 115 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 3: No? 116 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 2: No, no, they're dangerous people zip and by Sidewalks are 117 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 2: for people, not for. 118 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:49,839 Speaker 3: The control down here or where I live. They're on 119 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 3: the strand. They're on sidewalks. They're nuts. 120 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:54,719 Speaker 1: We got babies, we're trying to walk. We got people 121 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 1: trying to walk. It's crazy in the streets and on 122 00:05:57,480 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: the strand. And I think with all the bike lanes 123 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 1: that they've built into, like on the street, shouldn't they 124 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:05,279 Speaker 1: just go in the bike lane? Why should you be 125 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 1: on the sidewalk. Sidewalk are for people. Bike lanes are 126 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:10,840 Speaker 1: for bikes, et bikes, scooters, that kind of stuff, and 127 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:12,119 Speaker 1: cars stay in your lane. 128 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:14,359 Speaker 3: I'm going to tell you what I have seen so 129 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 3: many people. It happened to me today. 130 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 2: I went to pull in my garbage cans this guy 131 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 2: and I like waited because the street is pretty busy. 132 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 2: I waited and this guy just staring down at his phone, 133 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 2: texting the whole time, and like this close to the 134 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 2: garbage can. 135 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 1: Yes, I'm like, people are out of control with the 136 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 1: texting and driving. I look around and look, I raise 137 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:34,799 Speaker 1: my hand. Have we done it before? 138 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 3: Yeah? 139 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 1: But I'm like, no, it is so dangerous. Just wait 140 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: till you get to the stop light. You could get hid, 141 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 1: you could hit It's so dangerous. And I'm like, you 142 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 1: know that one that one second, like, oh, I have 143 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 1: to respond to this thing right now. No, you don't like, 144 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:53,919 Speaker 1: it's not worth it. I don't know. 145 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 2: I just get like, so, I don't know, Like, just stop, 146 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 2: it's not that important. You can wait five seconds before 147 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 2: you like ruin your life or ruin somebody else's life. 148 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 1: So that's my PSA on that next. I loved it, Okay, 149 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 1: angel angel I just butchered this mo so sorry, Angela Joe. 150 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 1: Maybe Angela Joe. Sure, what's your pregame routine? I like 151 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 1: to do coffee and breakfast in the morning with my 152 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 1: crew in the meeting room. But if you do a 153 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 1: video of it? Game, what's and do a video of it? 154 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 1: And do a video of it? 155 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 3: What else? With a baby mic? What else? 156 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 2: I'm running late, but I wanted to show you my outfit. 157 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 2: If you're running late, get your ass out of the 158 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 2: room and don't show me your outfit. 159 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 1: Go ahead, get drive like this is what's happened here? 160 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 1: What's happened? 161 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 3: Herbie? So okay, my pre routine? I liked it. 162 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 1: No, Oh, my head is just a spinning and I 163 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 1: want to address it and we can't. And there's so 164 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 1: many things. So it's taking a lot right now to 165 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 1: keep my mouth shut and I'm going to so I 166 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 1: like to do coffee and jammies as Kevin Burkhart and 167 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 1: I call it. In the meeting room, say good morning 168 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 1: to everyone. The boys in the truck have to leave 169 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 1: a lot earlier than we do, so I like to 170 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 1: go before they go. 171 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 3: And then yeah, get ready here. 172 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:25,480 Speaker 1: And make up the whole deal. I look over my notes, 173 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 1: I organize my notes. I always watch Carissa. That's my 174 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 1: favorite thing to do is turn it on. I feel 175 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 1: like it sets my day. I am so freaked out 176 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:38,560 Speaker 1: if I can't get you. I wasn't on in San Francisco, 177 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 1: but I watched it on the app and the whole thing. 178 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:42,719 Speaker 3: I can't do it. I just love it. 179 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:44,000 Speaker 1: And then I have to know what you guys are 180 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 1: up to, and then we get ready to go. We 181 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 1: always play some fun tunes in the car. We always 182 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 1: usually laugh about the night before and the way we 183 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 1: are so a lot of coffee though. 184 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:56,440 Speaker 2: I love it when I get a FaceTime call from 185 00:08:56,480 --> 00:08:58,440 Speaker 2: you and keV when you're in the car on the 186 00:08:58,440 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 2: way to the state. 187 00:08:59,120 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 3: It's good. That makes me happy. My pregame Routinet. 188 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:05,560 Speaker 2: It depends on if it's Sunday or Thursday, my Thursday 189 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:07,959 Speaker 2: routine because the games at night always starts with the 190 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 2: production meeting in the morning. 191 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:12,839 Speaker 3: Sometimes we have to who's that? Do you want to 192 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:14,640 Speaker 3: shut your face? I know you can't see she can't 193 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 3: see you. Is that my best friend, Jared? Yeah, it's 194 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 3: your best friend. He just here dropped a coffee. I 195 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 3: was thinking, I'm coffee opens the coffee shop over there 196 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 3: at six am. So this is that's art. That's very cute. 197 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 3: I love you. How is the drop off? It is? Okay? 198 00:09:32,920 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 3: We just had in town. 199 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:37,560 Speaker 1: Oh yes, I can't wait to hear about that big show. 200 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 1: Fantastic Jared. 201 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 3: So your pregame pregame depends on Thursday night. 202 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 1: Uh different, It starts with a production meeting in the 203 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 1: morning before that, sometimes we have DraftKings hits. I'll either 204 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 1: try to get a work at him before usually after 205 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 1: because there's like the middle of the afternoon, or walk 206 00:09:57,280 --> 00:09:58,319 Speaker 1: around like the boys. 207 00:09:58,559 --> 00:10:01,040 Speaker 2: Sometimes I'll meet him for lunch, depends on what they're doing. 208 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 2: If we're in a new city that we haven't been in, 209 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:05,319 Speaker 2: we'll go and like do something random in the afternoon, 210 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:07,920 Speaker 2: like we're going back to New England this week and 211 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:09,840 Speaker 2: last time we were there. We went to Harvard with 212 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 2: fits and we all walked around and like saw the campus, 213 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:16,040 Speaker 2: so like fun little, you know, touristy stuff. So it 214 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:17,960 Speaker 2: depends on what happens with that. You go ahead, Ben, 215 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 2: do you like doing a night game? It's so different. 216 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:23,200 Speaker 1: I only did nine games when we had Thursday Night Football, 217 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 1: and sometimes it feels like, holy crap, we're sitting. 218 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 3: Around all day. 219 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 1: But then I like getting to this stadium when the 220 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:30,840 Speaker 1: lights are on and it just feels big time. One 221 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 1: o'clock games they're great, four twenty five, they're great, but 222 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:35,920 Speaker 1: there's a different feel with a night game. But with 223 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 1: the one o'clock or four, your day is done and 224 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:39,600 Speaker 1: then you get to go back home. 225 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:41,800 Speaker 3: Night game. It's like a whole day affair. So what 226 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 3: do you like? 227 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:45,200 Speaker 2: It's a great question, and I haven't talked about this 228 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 2: with the guys where you know, from their standpoint, like sure, 229 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 2: hated it because yes, you're playing in primetime, but you're 230 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 2: sitting around all day all day. 231 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 3: I love it. 232 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 2: I love it because it's like you're still like I 233 00:10:57,080 --> 00:10:59,680 Speaker 2: have had a full day and then I'm like a 234 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 2: pre I have enough time to get ready, you know, 235 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 2: just like I don't know. 236 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:05,679 Speaker 1: I just feel like I'm not yet rushed, so that 237 00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 1: part's good. And then yeah, I love when like the 238 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:10,439 Speaker 1: lights go down, and then like in the stadium, like 239 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:13,040 Speaker 1: there's always like the fun line fireworks. I don't know, 240 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 1: I play games, So yeah, I thought that was so 241 00:11:15,720 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 1: cool about Thursday night football. I was like, oh my god, 242 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:18,439 Speaker 1: this isn't night. 243 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 3: This is awesome. 244 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:33,200 Speaker 2: I appreciate it. Sunshine Rose eleven, Who are the dudes 245 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:36,760 Speaker 2: in the suits on the sidelines real life? Jerry McGuire, 246 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:41,200 Speaker 2: who are the dudes in this Sittner spent? 247 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:44,440 Speaker 1: Like? Our security is that we're talking about, But I 248 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:47,160 Speaker 1: don't know who are the dudes in the suits on 249 00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:48,079 Speaker 1: the sidelines? 250 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:48,600 Speaker 3: Ryan? 251 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 1: Do you know what this person's asking? 252 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 3: La la La. 253 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:55,560 Speaker 1: Well, let's let's say that it is the security while 254 00:11:55,559 --> 00:12:00,520 Speaker 1: we figure that out. You have our security, they don't suits. 255 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:02,600 Speaker 1: But like on for Thursday night, there's guys. I think 256 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:05,679 Speaker 1: they're asking people on NFL sidelines who are dressed in suits? 257 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 3: Are they players? Agents? 258 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 1: Oh? 259 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 2: They're asking Oh, definitely not the agents. No, it could 260 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:14,840 Speaker 2: be pr guys. It could be uh that Aaron Aaron 261 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:17,080 Speaker 2: has to talk to throughout the game. 262 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 1: You're in a nice suit, Corey rush dream Yep. Those 263 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 1: kinds of guys could be League people two depending on what. 264 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 3: The situation is. 265 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:31,680 Speaker 2: But yeah, your guys that might be in suits are security. 266 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:34,480 Speaker 2: Not always dressed in a suit, but alongside with you, say, 267 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 2: with ours, we have security that takes us onto the 268 00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 2: field just to like, I mean that don't get you 269 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:40,559 Speaker 2: about me, but like protect like I mean if it's 270 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:43,320 Speaker 2: like Tom are in Seattle and shan or Tom or 271 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:43,840 Speaker 2: something like that. 272 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:44,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, stuff like that. 273 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:47,199 Speaker 2: So yeah, all people that are authorized to be there, 274 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:49,679 Speaker 2: but definitely not agents. Agents are usually in a suite 275 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 2: or not even sometimes they're at the game. I mean, 276 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:53,680 Speaker 2: it just depends on the player and maybe what the 277 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 2: situation is. 278 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:57,080 Speaker 3: But yeah, yeah, no, our guys are in suites. 279 00:12:57,200 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 1: Yesterday we had an eighty degree game in Santa Clair, 280 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:02,280 Speaker 1: and I kept saying, a sweet, sweet Spence, who was 281 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 1: standing with me, take off the jacket, You're gonna die, like, 282 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:07,120 Speaker 1: take the giet the jacket off like, and then on 283 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:10,120 Speaker 1: camera I put it back on. It was roasty toasty 284 00:13:10,200 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 1: on that jagee damn. And then the sun was so 285 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:15,640 Speaker 1: close to setting and I was like holding out my 286 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:17,319 Speaker 1: binder the whole time because I was like, I spent 287 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:20,200 Speaker 1: so much money on my pigmentation on my hair, like color, 288 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:22,720 Speaker 1: this is ruining it. And it was so hot, and 289 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:23,720 Speaker 1: then it finally went down. 290 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:25,679 Speaker 3: It was like a whole new game. It was gro 291 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 3: Isn't that so fun? 292 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 2: Eighty degrees? And then ours was in Denver. It was 293 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:32,280 Speaker 2: it was like the first time I got my hand 294 00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:33,720 Speaker 2: warmers out and it was cold, and I was. 295 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:36,560 Speaker 3: Like, oh, I wisht I'm excited though it's gonna be cold. Well, 296 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:37,200 Speaker 3: you're very sweet. 297 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:39,079 Speaker 1: It is going to be cold at our game and 298 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 1: this weekend no rain and no snow, but cold, which 299 00:13:43,160 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 1: is perfect. Like, what are your TEMs? I'm looking it 300 00:13:45,880 --> 00:13:50,920 Speaker 1: up right now. Foxborough were like mid forties. Yeah for 301 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 1: post game, and I'm excited about that. I love that 302 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:57,680 Speaker 1: jacket situation. You looked so freaking gorgeous in Denver. 303 00:13:58,240 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 3: Very sweet. 304 00:13:59,040 --> 00:14:02,240 Speaker 2: It was situation where I spent some money on it, 305 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:03,320 Speaker 2: but it was on sale. 306 00:14:03,480 --> 00:14:04,640 Speaker 3: It was a Saint Lawrence. 307 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:07,560 Speaker 2: Jacket that like lat two years ago, maybe like a 308 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 2: you're it was on sale and it was one of 309 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:11,000 Speaker 2: those jackets where you're like, oh, should I. 310 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 3: Spend the money on this? 311 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 2: But you know, you know why I bought it because 312 00:14:14,240 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 2: Rosie Rosie Huntington Whiteley Whitley, who I could never pronounce 313 00:14:18,040 --> 00:14:21,120 Speaker 2: her last name. She has that look and it was like, 314 00:14:21,160 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 2: you know what, I'm just gonna make the investment. You 315 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 2: can dress it up, you can dress it down. So anyway, 316 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 2: it's thanksgeous, you look beautiful. Thanks Gal. 317 00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:33,800 Speaker 3: It was Wendy. Let me tell you what Wendy Williams next. 318 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:37,520 Speaker 1: Okay, so this oh no, okay, before we get to 319 00:14:37,560 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 1: the anonymous follow up, which seems kind of juicy, okay, 320 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 1: h Smith Photo. Unlimited chips in salta or warm roles? 321 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 3: Like this is a great question. I limited chips. Also. 322 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 1: The only roles I like though, are my cheesecake factory 323 00:14:57,080 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 1: the brown but yeah, or if at a an Italian restaurant, 324 00:15:00,960 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 1: the garlic rolls are also good. 325 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:04,000 Speaker 3: But I got to go chips and salts. 326 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 2: I get so excited when they hit the table and 327 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 2: I'm like, and then you eat too much of them 328 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 2: and you can't goer the food because ships and walk. 329 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:11,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. 330 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 1: I got a real situation to talk about. It's a 331 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 1: Larry David is about a restaurant. We went to Mikasa 332 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:22,400 Speaker 1: in the San Jose Airport and we were restaurant shamed 333 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 1: and we're going to talk about it by la Ellen 334 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:28,320 Speaker 1: found us and everybody at my table looked at me 335 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 1: and goes, is this gonna be on the podcast? 336 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 3: I'm like, damn sure it is. Yeah, I can't wait. 337 00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:39,600 Speaker 2: Before we get to the big show, we are going 338 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 2: to do an anonymous follow up, which we always appreciate. 339 00:15:41,880 --> 00:15:44,440 Speaker 2: So here's the original question. We'll go back and forth. 340 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 2: I'll set this up. 341 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 1: You do our advice and okay, and with my husband 342 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 1: for a total of seven years, we have had a 343 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 1: lot of long distance, but we were finally home together 344 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 1: and I'm starting to realize I've ignored red flags and 345 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 1: I'm not happy in my marriage. 346 00:15:56,600 --> 00:15:57,440 Speaker 3: We've been there. 347 00:15:57,680 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 1: Any advice for a thirty year old girl who's scared 348 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:01,120 Speaker 1: to leave and start over? 349 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:02,960 Speaker 3: Okay, So our advice was. 350 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 1: Write down the pros and cons, like Along Came Polly, 351 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:10,400 Speaker 1: or yeah is a long came Polly, write down a 352 00:16:10,400 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 1: pros and CON's list about what works in your relationship 353 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:16,120 Speaker 1: and what doesn't. Try your best to make it work 354 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:18,080 Speaker 1: if you can, but it's okay to move on. 355 00:16:18,640 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 3: Here's the follow up. 356 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:22,760 Speaker 2: Ct I made the pros and cons list and After 357 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 2: a lot of discussions with myself, friends, and even a 358 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:27,160 Speaker 2: fight that turned into a convo with my husband, we 359 00:16:27,200 --> 00:16:30,880 Speaker 2: have decided to end our marriage. He too has been unhappy, 360 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:33,040 Speaker 2: and we decided it's for the best. Doesn't take away 361 00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:35,320 Speaker 2: the hurt or feeling of loss, but best advice to 362 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:38,600 Speaker 2: move forward and not feel like a failure. I wish 363 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 2: I knew you and this wasn't anonymous, because I would 364 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:42,640 Speaker 2: invite you over right now. I'd give you a big 365 00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 2: old hug and say this is the worst it's going 366 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 2: to be, but around the next corner is the best 367 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:52,040 Speaker 2: it's ever going to be. And it's okay to be 368 00:16:52,160 --> 00:16:56,600 Speaker 2: conflicted with both emotions. I will never forget that feeling 369 00:16:56,680 --> 00:16:59,120 Speaker 2: where I knew I was doing and making the final 370 00:16:59,160 --> 00:17:01,160 Speaker 2: decision to do it, and it was hard, and I 371 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:03,760 Speaker 2: was crying, and I remember my dad looking at me 372 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:05,560 Speaker 2: and I was like, but I know I have to 373 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:08,960 Speaker 2: do it because it's even though I wanted out other 374 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:11,400 Speaker 2: things so bad, it's still the idea that you don't 375 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:14,360 Speaker 2: want to fail. There was, you know, still things of 376 00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 2: like am I not trying whatever? But I think in 377 00:17:17,800 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 2: this situation, if he also feels that way, then you 378 00:17:21,440 --> 00:17:24,199 Speaker 2: have to remember that you'll never regret being honest, and 379 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:26,639 Speaker 2: he probably appreciates. And I don't know, obviously all the 380 00:17:26,680 --> 00:17:29,159 Speaker 2: specifics that you were the one to broach the subject, 381 00:17:29,200 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 2: because when it's all said and done, you have one life. 382 00:17:32,880 --> 00:17:36,040 Speaker 2: And I stress this all the time, like why go 383 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:39,520 Speaker 2: through it and be miserable? And I get the failure part. 384 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:41,400 Speaker 2: Nobody wants to fail, but I. 385 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:45,000 Speaker 1: Think you said that to me, you set me, I did, 386 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:47,760 Speaker 1: But I think the bigger failure is staying in something 387 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:50,119 Speaker 1: where you know it's not right, and he knows that 388 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 1: it's not right. So allow each other to be happy, 389 00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:55,600 Speaker 1: like free yourself. It's like, think about it. You're on 390 00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:58,800 Speaker 1: the back of your water skiing, let go of the rope, 391 00:17:59,119 --> 00:18:01,960 Speaker 1: put up the red flat. Someone will circle around. 392 00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:04,600 Speaker 2: And pick you back up, and it's okay, you like 393 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:09,640 Speaker 2: it's I guess in closing is give yourself an opportunity 394 00:18:09,720 --> 00:18:12,679 Speaker 2: to write a new chapter for yourself, because the longer 395 00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:16,080 Speaker 2: you stay, the more resentful you get. And I totally 396 00:18:16,119 --> 00:18:19,919 Speaker 2: commend you for walking away and being okay with failure. 397 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:20,439 Speaker 3: Think about it. 398 00:18:20,480 --> 00:18:24,520 Speaker 2: In our world, there's failure all the time. There's literally 399 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 2: only been one perfect season. Well the nineteen seventy two 400 00:18:27,560 --> 00:18:29,879 Speaker 2: Dolphins and then the Patriots had a perfect season but 401 00:18:29,880 --> 00:18:31,680 Speaker 2: didn't end up winning the Super Bowl. In all the 402 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:33,960 Speaker 2: years of football, in all the years of it, perfection 403 00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:35,680 Speaker 2: is not normal. 404 00:18:35,880 --> 00:18:38,719 Speaker 3: So you don't have to be sad that you failed. 405 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:39,720 Speaker 3: You have to be sad if. 406 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 2: You stayed in something that didn't work and you just 407 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:45,120 Speaker 2: stayed because you didn't want to fail. So good for you, gal, 408 00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:47,680 Speaker 2: You're gonna be okay. And if you want me to 409 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:50,120 Speaker 2: come over for wine, DM me and I come too. 410 00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 3: Yes we will. We will help you through it. 411 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 2: And it sounds like you've got a lot of good 412 00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:57,480 Speaker 2: people and friends and family that will help you as well, 413 00:18:57,520 --> 00:19:00,639 Speaker 2: and they're probably very happy for you that you faced 414 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:03,679 Speaker 2: a difficult decision but you made it with you know, 415 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:04,960 Speaker 2: not a knee jerk reaction. 416 00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:06,520 Speaker 3: You put a lot of thought into it. So and 417 00:19:06,640 --> 00:19:07,560 Speaker 3: celebrate yourself. 418 00:19:07,600 --> 00:19:12,280 Speaker 1: That's a really courageous step you made and decision you know, Yes, 419 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 1: you came to so absolutely, And like Chris has said, 420 00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 1: I love that. This is the hardest part right now. 421 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 1: It's going to get better. 422 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:21,480 Speaker 3: It will, it will. 423 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:24,240 Speaker 1: That was Chris's biggest thing is she didn't want to 424 00:19:24,240 --> 00:19:26,720 Speaker 1: start over. She didn't want to admit that it was 425 00:19:27,080 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 1: it didn't work out. I didn't want to go dat again. 426 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 1: Exactly how happy she is, and look how great it 427 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 1: all is. Look how happy I am. I'm seriously, it's 428 00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:40,280 Speaker 1: actually so true. 429 00:19:40,359 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 2: I went to a birthday party of the weekend and 430 00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 2: Steve wasn't with me, and everyone's. 431 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 3: Like, where Steve, Where Steve? Where's Steve? Where Steve? And 432 00:19:46,800 --> 00:19:48,720 Speaker 3: like everybody wants to be around Steve. 433 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:52,520 Speaker 1: I've never in my life had to partner that everybody 434 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:54,240 Speaker 1: wants to be around. And you know how good that 435 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 1: feels to be in a relationship where it's like you're 436 00:19:56,880 --> 00:19:59,800 Speaker 1: both just like proud to be with one another. And 437 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:02,160 Speaker 1: I don't know what the situation was here, but I'm 438 00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:04,520 Speaker 1: just happy that you've made that decision. And also this 439 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:07,120 Speaker 1: is the start of something that's gonna be great, even 440 00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:09,760 Speaker 1: if it's hard. So we love it on you, We 441 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:12,840 Speaker 1: care about you, and you got this. Let us know 442 00:20:12,880 --> 00:20:16,960 Speaker 1: if you want us to come over. Yes, we said 443 00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:19,400 Speaker 1: three times we're gonna if you're in the California area, 444 00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 1: we're gonna knock on your door and we're just gonna 445 00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:24,160 Speaker 1: invite ourselves over all right, joy us on the Big Show. 446 00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 1: We've got to talk about Week ten of the football season, 447 00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:30,359 Speaker 1: Aaron's Larry Davids and restaurant shaming. Also, I was like 448 00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:34,520 Speaker 1: Megan Trainer video that's crazy. 449 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 3: I didn't know it, but I was all right. Comma 450 00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:39,399 Speaker 3: knock on. 451 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:45,920 Speaker 1: Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 452 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:50,440 Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 453 00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:56,000 Speaker 1: or wherever you get your podcasts.