1 00:00:01,080 --> 00:00:04,480 Speaker 1: All right, this is some BJ on Steve HARVFM. BJ says, 2 00:00:04,920 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: I've been dating a woman for about four months and 3 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: she still lives with her ex. She swears they're completely done, 4 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 1: but she, she says, neither of them can't afford to 5 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:19,120 Speaker 1: move out yet. What bothers me is that she hasn't. 6 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 2: Told him about me. 7 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 1: She says she just doesn't want to make things any 8 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 1: more awkward than they already are. He says, I've even 9 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 1: thought about asking her to move in with me, but 10 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: my friend and says she's using me and that they're 11 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:37,519 Speaker 1: probably not really over. I want to believe her, but 12 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: am I being naive? 13 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 2: Look? 14 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 3: Bro, if your girlfriend still lives with her ex, yeah, 15 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 3: that's y'all's girlfriend. Yeah yeah, that that's not your girlfriend. 16 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 3: That's y'all girl. They're sharing the fact that she has 17 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 3: not told. 18 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:08,479 Speaker 2: Him about you. 19 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 3: It's how I know it's still that's y'all's girl, because 20 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 3: if he don't know about you, you're trying to tell 21 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 3: me he ain't sleeping with her. We in here, we 22 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:28,399 Speaker 3: in here, we've been sleeping together. Now all of a sudden, 23 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 3: we ain't. Why why now you think about asking her 24 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 3: to move in with you? 25 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 2: That you can't do nothing. No dumber than that, don't 26 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 2: do it? Man, Hey, bro, why don't. 27 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 3: You go get a woman that don't live with another man? Wow, 28 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 3: that's crazy, And it's a lot of them out there, 29 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 3: and they're wonderful women. It's some incredible women that's available 30 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 3: that could be yours. You ain't got to get another 31 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 3: You don't have to get another man's woman because there's 32 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:10,639 Speaker 3: so many women out there wishing they could be wifey 33 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 3: material or have a monogamous relationship. You in a you 34 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 3: what they what they call. 35 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you kneel. 36 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:34,079 Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's just y'all, y'all, yeah you. 37 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 2: Yep, brouh bru. Just go pet you somebody that's yours. 38 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, they've been dating for four months. 39 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 2: Due man, we too date. Yeah, and he don't know it. 40 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 3: He gonna roll up somewhere and follow her car and 41 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 3: you're gonna have a problem part. Oh yeah, how you're 42 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 3: dating a woman? 43 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 2: You can't go over her house? 44 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 1: But I don't know a mud. 45 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 2: Yeah this is she said, Okay, neither one of them move, so. 46 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 1: They can't afford it yet, and she pops. 47 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:23,799 Speaker 4: Okay, this man will say anything anything. 48 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 3: That is a but but listen to me, that is 49 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 3: an entirely poor mentality. You break up with a man, 50 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 3: you still live there, you're dating another man, you sleeping 51 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 3: with you telling this man you ain't gonna tell your 52 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 3: old boyfriend about him, because it'll make it even more complicated. 53 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, he gonna have something to say. 54 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, see that's a pole mindset. 55 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 1: But instead he wants her to move in with him. 56 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 2: That's stupid though. 57 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. 58 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 2: Really so when she's packing up to leave, what is 59 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 2: she going to take? And the dude, no, she ain't 60 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 2: got the money to go. Where you going? I've been 61 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:17,159 Speaker 2: to move? What with my new man? What new man? 62 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 2: How long you been living for four months? He don't care. 63 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 3: Come on over here, come on, come over here and 64 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 3: see what he got for you. 65 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, bro, you finished this shot. Get out here. 66 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 2: That's how you get shot. That's how you get shot. 67 00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:39,239 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.