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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for refusing my fiance's request

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Speaker 1: to pay for his brothers and his wife's ivf using

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Speaker 1: my inheritance?

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Speaker 2: You know, I think you know the inheritance was given

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Speaker 2: to Op, and so that's fiance entitled. Correct. Yeah, Op

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Speaker 2: owns none of the money that was given to him. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: how how dare they think they're entitled to that?

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Speaker 1: But it transcends Op exactly goes straight to the fiance.

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Speaker 3: This is the law of Reddit universe.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's also the probably like some some law in

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Speaker 1: like the Middle East or something where it's like if

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Speaker 1: you are if you are betrothed to someone, instantly, all

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Speaker 1: of your property becomes theirs.

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Speaker 3: Well, the women get twenty five percent I believe.

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Speaker 1: Is that is that actually a law? I believe that's

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Speaker 1: a law, Yes, twenty percent.

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Speaker 2: Of of Like like, uh, how does it work or

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Speaker 2: is it fifty? Basically the woman the woman gets less.

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Speaker 2: What's talent law the Taliban? That might be Sharia law,

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Speaker 2: which it's like I think it's like the woman gets.

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Speaker 1: Less five percent, they are entitled at twenty five percent, Like, oh.

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Speaker 3: Here we go, here we go.

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Speaker 2: I believe it's Uh so, like let's say the dad

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Speaker 2: dies away, and he has like a.

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Speaker 3: Son and a daughter.

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Speaker 2: The son will get like seventy five and the daughter

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Speaker 2: will get twenty five or something like, just like there's

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Speaker 2: an imbalance.

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Speaker 3: And in the context of marriage.

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Speaker 2: I don't remember that, and I honestly could be misremembering everything,

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Speaker 2: but I believe in Sharia law there is like situations

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Speaker 2: basically where the woman gets less than the man, like

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Speaker 2: in the law and audience.

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Speaker 1: You might be wondering, how does John know the workings

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Speaker 1: of the Taliban?

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Speaker 2: And it's because he is a member of himself, you know.

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Speaker 2: I I came to them and I'm like, look, guys,

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Speaker 2: I am such a big fan of your work. I like,

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Speaker 2: really in Afghanistan? Really, yeah, so what you get? It

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Speaker 2: did an Afghanistan's so what you did?

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Speaker 3: You know? Here? You know?

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Speaker 2: And you know our our home, our home, our home, turf.

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Speaker 2: And I was impressed. I threw my resume and and

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Speaker 2: here we are.

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Speaker 1: I female thirty two, have recently inherited money from my mom.

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Speaker 1: She was the only parent. In losing her is beyond devastating.

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Speaker 1: Rough Yeah, the money can barely be called inheritance because

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Speaker 1: my mom and her family didn't have much, but it's

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Speaker 1: better than nothing. My fiance at first said I deserved

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Speaker 1: it and have a right to do whatever I wanted

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Speaker 1: with it.

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Speaker 3: At first.

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Speaker 1: At first, whoever, he told his whole family about this

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Speaker 1: and this you know, recent windfall, and then his infertile

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Speaker 1: brother and his wife.

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Speaker 3: Pull an infertile brother.

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Speaker 1: Ye, that is, infertile brother and his wife pull them

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Speaker 1: aside for a conversation. I love like throwing like infertile brother,

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Speaker 1: such a subs, so well placed, so well played, fertile brother,

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Speaker 1: My brother whose penis can't can't semonate my Wait what

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Speaker 1: is it?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 2: It's as brother, Yeah yeah, uh my brothers My brother's

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Speaker 2: barren penis that can't plant the seed in his wife's womb.

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Speaker 3: What a geezer, What a geezer.

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Speaker 1: After that, he started talking about wanting slash needing a

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Speaker 1: nephew slash niece, basically hinting about his brother's infertility issues.

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Speaker 1: Then flat out requested that I pay for his brother

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Speaker 1: and wife's IVF treatment for my inheritance money. It's herden's money.

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Speaker 1: It's not your money, bro dude. Everyone who's getting IVF

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Speaker 1: asking for other people's money.

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Speaker 3: We need to start like an IVF show. Why are you.

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Speaker 1: Why don't you just like adopt, you know, just adopt

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Speaker 1: to stop spending other people's money.

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Speaker 3: Adopted kid in foster care. You know.

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Speaker 1: I was taken aback initially, but then I declined. He

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Speaker 1: got mad, saying I was selfish. One, he and I

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Speaker 1: are blessed to never have issues with fertility because he.

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Speaker 3: Is such a verrally.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, shoot bullets every single time his solami is

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Speaker 2: just inminating everything inside.

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Speaker 3: Baby yep, baby.

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Speaker 1: And two, I literally have nothing to lose if I

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Speaker 1: give them money.

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Speaker 3: What are you talking about except all the money from

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Speaker 3: his from his dead mother.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Jesus, it's easy money that I didn't work for,

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Speaker 1: so thus I should be able to give it up.

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Speaker 3: See so easy.

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Speaker 1: This upset me to the point where I lashed out,

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Speaker 1: telling him to stop bothering me and guilting me about it.

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Speaker 1: I denied the request as a final decision, but he

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Speaker 1: got more and more agitated and went on and went

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Speaker 1: on a campaign to shame me for treating him as

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Speaker 1: if he's not my future husband. Therefore he gets to

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Speaker 1: therefore he gets to say, and therefore he gets to

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Speaker 1: say and what to do about my inheritance?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, what is this your money concept.

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Speaker 1: It say it's our money. You know you know not

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Speaker 1: yet Boyo. I say, oh Pee, better send that pre

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Speaker 1: you up fast. Lock it down, Lock it down,