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<v Speaker 1>Jewels Second dat Day. Dawson is on the phone with

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<v Speaker 1>us for a second date update today and his email

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<v Speaker 1>said that he met the girl he wants to call

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<v Speaker 1>while playing a game at a house party. Hey Dawson,

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<v Speaker 1>what game were you guys playing? We were playing the

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<v Speaker 1>Famous People Card game? Is that is that where you

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<v Speaker 1>guys hold up a picture of me and then you

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<v Speaker 1>try to guess what I'm doing that evening? That's a

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<v Speaker 1>fun game. It was Famous People Card Game? Yeah? Yeah again, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the one where you hold up a picture of me.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, Oh man, what's the Famous People card game?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what that is? So like, okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sitting across from you, for instance, and I hold

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<v Speaker 1>up a picture on my forehead and I can't see

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<v Speaker 1>it obviously of a famous person, you know, actor, somebody famous,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you know, you would have to kind of

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<v Speaker 1>act out get me to guess who it is without

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<v Speaker 1>you know saying who it is. So if you're sitting

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<v Speaker 1>across from me, I'd be like, it's it's me. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I think we understand the game now. So how did

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<v Speaker 1>you guys end up playing the game together at the party? Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, I went to this house party with

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of my friends and stuff. We get there

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<v Speaker 1>and we're hanging out, and then, not to sound cheesy,

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<v Speaker 1>but across the room, I noticed this girl and she's

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<v Speaker 1>got really, you know, really nice brown hair, and she

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<v Speaker 1>has this really nice approachable mouth. So did you say

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<v Speaker 1>approachable mouth? Yeah, like nice approachable mouth. Does that mean

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<v Speaker 1>a smile? What does that mean? She has a really

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<v Speaker 1>nice smile, nice approachable mouth, you know all I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I describe it differently. Yeah, I've never heard it describe

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<v Speaker 1>that way. Did you tell her that she has an

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<v Speaker 1>approachable mouth? That could be why you're not getting a

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<v Speaker 1>call back? No, I don't. It doesn't seem weird to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I've heard other whatever. Okay, okay, okay, So wait,

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<v Speaker 1>did you like position yourself all night so that when

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<v Speaker 1>you guys started playing this card game you could be

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<v Speaker 1>next to each other or on teams or something exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we're basically playing teams because there's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people pair up and I put the card on

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<v Speaker 1>my head, and I mean, first thing she says is

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<v Speaker 1>I've got a car for everyone, And I mean, right there,

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<v Speaker 1>I know who it is. Yeah, you know it's Oprah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to give it up that quick. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to keep engaging in stuff, So I just keep

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<v Speaker 1>asking questions and stuff like I don't know, is this

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<v Speaker 1>person on TV a lot? You know, just whatever, just

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<v Speaker 1>so we can kind of keep even though it's just

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<v Speaker 1>talking about the game, you know what I mean, just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of back and forth. Yeah, She's like, hey, idiot,

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<v Speaker 1>it's Oprah. How did you not get that? You're stupid?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to go out with you, right, I

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<v Speaker 1>would think you were dumb if you were doing that. No,

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<v Speaker 1>because you got to think about the situation. You're at

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<v Speaker 1>a party and stuff, so obviously you can't take it

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<v Speaker 1>too serious. Sleep Yeah, I mean, it obviously worked for you.

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<v Speaker 1>You got her number, at least to the point where

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<v Speaker 1>you're on the phone with us now wondering why she's

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<v Speaker 1>not calling you back. So what happened after you guys

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<v Speaker 1>played the game? So we go outside and we're kind

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<v Speaker 1>of lounging on some pool chairs. And stuff, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it felt right, so I went in for a kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh. Yeah, well and she kissed back, and

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<v Speaker 1>it would have been great except for some drunk dude

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<v Speaker 1>that comes walking out announcing, you know, beer pong in

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of minutes, everybody inside, man, Yeah, buzz kill.

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<v Speaker 1>So he ruined your makeout session. Yeah, it kills the

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<v Speaker 1>mood totally. So what did she say? Oh, sweet, I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta get out of here. I gotta go play beer pong.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't it wasn't like that. It was just it

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<v Speaker 1>really was just kind of like you know, that big

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<v Speaker 1>rogue block just thrown down. Yeah, okay, you know, so

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys go in and play beer pong together? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we went in and we did that. But then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>throughout the night, I you know, my friends start tugging

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<v Speaker 1>me again to hang out and whatever. So we did

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<v Speaker 1>end up at the end of the night exchanging phone numbers.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's awesome. Yeah, But now it's been like a

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<v Speaker 1>week and a half, and I mean, this is why

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling you, guys. I can't get any real response

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<v Speaker 1>about legitimately setting up a date, Like I'm the one

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<v Speaker 1>that's always sending out the text and just getting uh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, let me, let me look at my calendar,

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<v Speaker 1>or we can try and get around to it, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, I can get around to it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm kind of at a loss. So I figured, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'll give you guys a call. And do

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<v Speaker 1>you think it's because she's busy or do you think

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<v Speaker 1>it's because she's not interested. I don't know if there's

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<v Speaker 1>another guy in the picture, like maybe she just went

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<v Speaker 1>to this house party and if there's another guy he

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't go or something, and then there's a little connection

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<v Speaker 1>there and enough for her to swap phone numbers, and

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<v Speaker 1>maybe now she's thinking like that. It's like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my husband could get angry out with this guy at

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<v Speaker 1>a house party. There's nothing other than that you can

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<v Speaker 1>think of that would give you a reason why she

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't want to go out with you. No, well, my end,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, everything seemed to go great at the house party,

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<v Speaker 1>and then the first day or so after there was

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of flirting going back and forth with the

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<v Speaker 1>text messaging and stuff, and then it gets just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of petered off. That's not good. Petering is bad. Yeah, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it can be good. I've petered a few times and

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<v Speaker 1>it was amazing, but sometimes with Peter and it's been terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's definitely bade. Yeah, we'll play a song and

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<v Speaker 1>then we'll come back and we'll get your second day

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<v Speaker 1>up date. All right, thank you very much. Okay, hang

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<v Speaker 1>on looking jubil in the morning. Right in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of a second day update and if you're just joining us,

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<v Speaker 1>Dawson is on the phone, and Dawson thinks a record

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<v Speaker 1>scratch moment Mida ruined his chances at love. Yeah, you've

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<v Speaker 1>had those record scratch moments, Like was the last time

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<v Speaker 1>I had a record scratch moment? It's just the other day. Actually, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>what happens in a conversation with someone and they're like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, you're really soft spoken and rather polite

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<v Speaker 1>in person, And I was like, no, it's not that,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just that I don't like you very much. Record

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<v Speaker 1>scratch moment. Way to put the brakes on a conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Yeah, it makes sense now. Yeah, And Dawson

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<v Speaker 1>had a record scratch moment when he met the girl

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to call to day, Hey, Dawson, what's her name?

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't get that from you, by the way. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>it's Janine. Okay. They were at a party and they

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<v Speaker 1>were making out, and then somebody ran outside and was

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<v Speaker 1>like it's time for beer pong. Everybody inside record scratch

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<v Speaker 1>moment and they exchange emails. At the end of the night,

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<v Speaker 1>they texted back and forth a little bit. She seemed

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<v Speaker 1>very flirty at first, but now she's kind of dropped

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<v Speaker 1>off and he's wondering why. So we're about to get

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<v Speaker 1>her on the phone and see if we can figure

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<v Speaker 1>out what happened. Any last words, Dawson, Now, man, I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to get this resolved and hopefully end up

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<v Speaker 1>on a second date. Oh and I forgot to ask Dawson,

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<v Speaker 1>when you said you were texting flirty back and forth,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't take it like too far, if you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean. Oh no, no, no, you didn't send

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<v Speaker 1>any pics of things or no, no, no picks, no

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<v Speaker 1>eggplant emojis. Yeah, because sometimes flirting for women and flirting

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<v Speaker 1>for men are very different definitions. Just send me a

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<v Speaker 1>winky face. So I sent her my entire naked body.

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<v Speaker 1>That is kind of how it goes down like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that was the emoji for she wants it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true. That is a record scratch moment, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like I think I'm being cute. Oh my god, there

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<v Speaker 1>it is record scratch moment. All right, well I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>dollar phone of her right now and see if we

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<v Speaker 1>can figure it out. Here we go. You ready, let's

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<v Speaker 1>do it? Okay? Hello, Hi, messpeak to Janine. Yes, this

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<v Speaker 1>is Janine. Hey, what's up? How are you? This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>radio show on the radio. Okay from What is this about? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling you today because of our listeners emailed us

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<v Speaker 1>about you mean what, I'm unconfused. We do a segment

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<v Speaker 1>on our show. It's called the second Date Update. That's

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<v Speaker 1>where if you go out with somebody on a date

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<v Speaker 1>and then end up not calling them after, they email

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<v Speaker 1>us to see if we can get you on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and ask what happened. So Dawson, yeah, oh god,

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<v Speaker 1>oh was that a good ogut or a bad ogut?

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<v Speaker 1>I can't tell. So we talked to him a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit and he told us about when you guys met

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<v Speaker 1>at a party. Just I don't think we Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't think you were? Yeah? I mean we I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys just want to know why I'm not talking

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<v Speaker 1>to him anymore. Yep, that's exactly why we're on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone with you right now. Other than you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>think you're an awesome person and want to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>you anyway. But that's pretty much why we're calling. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you mind telling us, Well, I just found out something

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<v Speaker 1>that's unattractive to me. Wait, you found out like back information,

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<v Speaker 1>like he has a girlfriend. No, no, he doesn't have

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<v Speaker 1>a girlfriend, and that's the problem. Is that the problem?

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<v Speaker 1>The problem is he doesn't have a girlfriend. Well yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of. I mean the problem is that he's single.

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<v Speaker 1>What wait, you want to be like a mistress to

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that's your goal in life? Oh no, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want I would never date a guy who

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<v Speaker 1>has a girlfriend. Oh good, I just don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>date a guy who's single. That in a very tough

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<v Speaker 1>spot in the dating world, because either you have a

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<v Speaker 1>girlfriend or you're single. Yeah. No, no, I mean he's

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<v Speaker 1>really single. Yeah, that's usually how people like there's potential

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<v Speaker 1>dates really single. I mean that's usually a positive attribute. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean a day or two after the part I

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<v Speaker 1>checked his Facebook page. There are like no pictures of

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<v Speaker 1>him with a girl. None, And that's a bad thing.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's a bad thing. Okay. Why that leads me

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<v Speaker 1>to think that no girls want him, that he's undesirable.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're thinking that he's broken in some way because

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't have any pictures on social media of him

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<v Speaker 1>with other women. Well, I didn't just check Facebook. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean we have a mutual friend, I asked her. She said,

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<v Speaker 1>he hasn't seen anybody seriously in months. So why is

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<v Speaker 1>that an issue? If someone goes like a long period

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<v Speaker 1>without being in a steady relationship, then there must be

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<v Speaker 1>something wrong. What if they, I don't know, just enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>being single because they're happy with their lives and where

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<v Speaker 1>they are in themselves. Nobody enjoys being single. That's a myth,

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<v Speaker 1>that is true. There's plenty of people that enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you ever enjoy it? I certainly don't it. I

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<v Speaker 1>just I don't get what you're saying. I think I

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<v Speaker 1>get it. Like if I meet a girl and I

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<v Speaker 1>find out she hasn't been on a date in two years,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking, like, why is nobody dating her even two years?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe because she wants to be single? This is stupid.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. After a while, you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be single? Yes, some people do, so, Janine, are you

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship? Then I'm actively dating. I have a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people who want to date me, and I

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<v Speaker 1>go out on several dates. I'm desirable and Dawson is undesirable. Okay, no,

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<v Speaker 1>well you know what else is undesirable? Gotcha? You know

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<v Speaker 1>what else Dawson is. He's also on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>and wants to talk to you. What yeah, Dawson, are

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<v Speaker 1>you there? No? No, no, no, no, no, no, what's up, Janine?

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<v Speaker 1>It's mister undesirable. Excuse me for wanting someone who wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to be socially active. I am socially active. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>need to broadcast it all over the world though. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>how many girls are you seeing right now? WHOA? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>none right now exactly. And that's the problem. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I had a girlfriend about four months ago as well,

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<v Speaker 1>So really, so why haven't you want to meet anyone

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<v Speaker 1>in four months? Because I want to take a break,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, be single for a little bit because I

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<v Speaker 1>just got out of a relationship. You can tell yourself

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<v Speaker 1>that all you want, but the truth is, no one

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<v Speaker 1>wants to date you. What is your problem? This my problem.

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<v Speaker 1>The longest I've been quote unquote single is ten dates.

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<v Speaker 1>You're supposed to jump right back into the day after

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<v Speaker 1>you break up with someone. That's what's the post that happened? Yeah, Janita,

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<v Speaker 1>it tells me if you have that many dates lined up,

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<v Speaker 1>that nobody's coming for a second date. Man, then there's

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<v Speaker 1>a reason this is. I can't believe what's coming out

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<v Speaker 1>of her mouth. I'm not being single for ten days.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kidding me. I'm undesirable. But you and I were

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<v Speaker 1>making out at this house party, so I thought you

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<v Speaker 1>were hirable. Can I be amen? Listen, Gossin. The thing

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<v Speaker 1>is you're living in single land. That's just where I

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<v Speaker 1>want to be. I mean, it's fine if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to be there, but I don't. What is single land exactly?

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<v Speaker 1>What is help? Where you are? About where? It's what

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<v Speaker 1>you are. You're in single land, and I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be there. I'm just single right now. There's exactly land.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not a continent or an island. It's just right now.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I go out and if I meet someone

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<v Speaker 1>like I thought with you, maybe then I would be

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<v Speaker 1>not in single land anymore? Does that make any sense

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Unfortunately, no, because you're out there on your

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<v Speaker 1>little island all by yourself. Oh all right, my head's

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<v Speaker 1>starting to hurt. So hard to understand about this. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>just want to date people that other people like. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't see why that's weird. If nobody likes them, then

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<v Speaker 1>why would I want to see them again? Oh my god, Janine,

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<v Speaker 1>you're basing all of your opinion on someone else's opinion.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know what I'm saying? Like you are judging

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<v Speaker 1>him based on what other people think of him, And

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<v Speaker 1>what's the problem with that? I you know, what I

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<v Speaker 1>think for Eugenine isn't a problem. But I'm gonna ask

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<v Speaker 1>this question. It's a really stupid question. They say there's

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<v Speaker 1>no stupid questions, but this is definitely one. Janine, would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to go out with Dawson again? On a

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<v Speaker 1>second date? We will pay for it, nobody, No, I

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<v Speaker 1>think I'm okay? Yeah, I mean, I under understandable Dawson

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't been out with a woman in four months. You know, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, you understand It took me a while to

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<v Speaker 1>get on the same page as Eugenine. Oh Dawson, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just you know that's fine. I'm fine with this outcome. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you should be buddy. Yeah, of course you're

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<v Speaker 1>fine with it because somebody likes being single, So why

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<v Speaker 1>would you want to go on a day? Yeah in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning, you made me do it, Me do it,

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<v Speaker 1>You made me do it? Now, who's gonna come up

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<v Speaker 1>the studio? Right? Brook and Jewel in the morning text

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<v Speaker 1>in at seven eight, five to nine two that says

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<v Speaker 1>there's obviously a reason why that girl is still single.

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<v Speaker 1>Talking about today's second date update if you missed it,

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<v Speaker 1>Dawson wanted to call a girl named Janine and they

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<v Speaker 1>met at a party. They kissed, texted a little bit after,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she just sort of dropped off. We got

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<v Speaker 1>her on the phone and found out that the reason

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<v Speaker 1>she wasn't calling him back and didn't want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with him again was because she went to his

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<v Speaker 1>Facebook page and noticed there were no pictures of other women,

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<v Speaker 1>so he's not dating anybody currently. Therefore, she deemed him undesirable.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't get it. Apparently still don't get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Like usually single is what you look for when you're

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<v Speaker 1>wanting to date someone, but she wants him to be

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<v Speaker 1>out and about make the round. Yeah, he's got to

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<v Speaker 1>be almost in a relationship for her to go. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that guy is definitely worth dating. You can't win anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't be single and well, I mean you can't

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<v Speaker 1>have a girlfriend or a boyfriend or whatever. You can

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<v Speaker 1>do that, but if you want to date, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>be fully single. You gotta almost be in a relationship. Apparently,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like you need a Yelp review, it's what you need.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's what she's looking for. They do need a

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<v Speaker 1>Yelp review for people. She wants a Yelp review that

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<v Speaker 1>ensures that people are visiting that boyfriend. Yeah, this guy

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<v Speaker 1>mouth's funny. Yeah, two stars only have two reviews. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not going to that place. If you want to do

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<v Speaker 1>a second day update, I have to do is email

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<v Speaker 1>the show and we will call the person that didn't

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<v Speaker 1>call you back.