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Speaker 1: Jewels Second dat Day. Dawson is on the phone with
Speaker 1: us for a second date update today and his email
Speaker 1: said that he met the girl he wants to call
Speaker 1: while playing a game at a house party. Hey Dawson,
Speaker 1: what game were you guys playing? We were playing the
Speaker 1: Famous People Card game? Is that is that where you
Speaker 1: guys hold up a picture of me and then you
Speaker 1: try to guess what I'm doing that evening? That's a
Speaker 1: fun game. It was Famous People Card Game? Yeah? Yeah again, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's the one where you hold up a picture of me.
Speaker 1: I know, Oh man, what's the Famous People card game?
Speaker 1: I don't know what that is? So like, okay, so
Speaker 1: I'm sitting across from you, for instance, and I hold
Speaker 1: up a picture on my forehead and I can't see
Speaker 1: it obviously of a famous person, you know, actor, somebody famous,
Speaker 1: and then you know, you would have to kind of
Speaker 1: act out get me to guess who it is without
Speaker 1: you know saying who it is. So if you're sitting
Speaker 1: across from me, I'd be like, it's it's me. Okay,
Speaker 1: I think we understand the game now. So how did
Speaker 1: you guys end up playing the game together at the party? Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: So you know, I went to this house party with
Speaker 1: a bunch of my friends and stuff. We get there
Speaker 1: and we're hanging out, and then, not to sound cheesy,
Speaker 1: but across the room, I noticed this girl and she's
Speaker 1: got really, you know, really nice brown hair, and she
Speaker 1: has this really nice approachable mouth. So did you say
Speaker 1: approachable mouth? Yeah, like nice approachable mouth. Does that mean
Speaker 1: a smile? What does that mean? She has a really
Speaker 1: nice smile, nice approachable mouth, you know all I mean
Speaker 1: I describe it differently. Yeah, I've never heard it describe
Speaker 1: that way. Did you tell her that she has an
Speaker 1: approachable mouth? That could be why you're not getting a
Speaker 1: call back? No, I don't. It doesn't seem weird to me.
Speaker 1: I mean I've heard other whatever. Okay, okay, okay, So wait,
Speaker 1: did you like position yourself all night so that when
Speaker 1: you guys started playing this card game you could be
Speaker 1: next to each other or on teams or something exactly.
Speaker 1: You know, we're basically playing teams because there's a lot
Speaker 1: of people pair up and I put the card on
Speaker 1: my head, and I mean, first thing she says is
Speaker 1: I've got a car for everyone, And I mean, right there,
Speaker 1: I know who it is. Yeah, you know it's Oprah. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I don't want to give it up that quick. I
Speaker 1: want to keep engaging in stuff, So I just keep
Speaker 1: asking questions and stuff like I don't know, is this
Speaker 1: person on TV a lot? You know, just whatever, just
Speaker 1: so we can kind of keep even though it's just
Speaker 1: talking about the game, you know what I mean, just
Speaker 1: kind of back and forth. Yeah, She's like, hey, idiot,
Speaker 1: it's Oprah. How did you not get that? You're stupid?
Speaker 1: I don't want to go out with you, right, I
Speaker 1: would think you were dumb if you were doing that. No,
Speaker 1: because you got to think about the situation. You're at
Speaker 1: a party and stuff, so obviously you can't take it
Speaker 1: too serious. Sleep Yeah, I mean, it obviously worked for you.
Speaker 1: You got her number, at least to the point where
Speaker 1: you're on the phone with us now wondering why she's
Speaker 1: not calling you back. So what happened after you guys
Speaker 1: played the game? So we go outside and we're kind
Speaker 1: of lounging on some pool chairs. And stuff, and you know,
Speaker 1: it felt right, so I went in for a kiss.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Yeah, well and she kissed back, and
Speaker 1: it would have been great except for some drunk dude
Speaker 1: that comes walking out announcing, you know, beer pong in
Speaker 1: a couple of minutes, everybody inside, man, Yeah, buzz kill.
Speaker 1: So he ruined your makeout session. Yeah, it kills the
Speaker 1: mood totally. So what did she say? Oh, sweet, I
Speaker 1: gotta get out of here. I gotta go play beer pong.
Speaker 1: It wasn't it wasn't like that. It was just it
Speaker 1: really was just kind of like you know, that big
Speaker 1: rogue block just thrown down. Yeah, okay, you know, so
Speaker 1: did you guys go in and play beer pong together? Yeah,
Speaker 1: we went in and we did that. But then you know,
Speaker 1: throughout the night, I you know, my friends start tugging
Speaker 1: me again to hang out and whatever. So we did
Speaker 1: end up at the end of the night exchanging phone numbers.
Speaker 1: Yeah that's awesome. Yeah, But now it's been like a
Speaker 1: week and a half, and I mean, this is why
Speaker 1: I'm calling you, guys. I can't get any real response
Speaker 1: about legitimately setting up a date, Like I'm the one
Speaker 1: that's always sending out the text and just getting uh, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, let me, let me look at my calendar,
Speaker 1: or we can try and get around to it, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, I can get around to it.
Speaker 1: So I'm kind of at a loss. So I figured, well,
Speaker 1: you know, I'll give you guys a call. And do
Speaker 1: you think it's because she's busy or do you think
Speaker 1: it's because she's not interested. I don't know if there's
Speaker 1: another guy in the picture, like maybe she just went
Speaker 1: to this house party and if there's another guy he
Speaker 1: couldn't go or something, and then there's a little connection
Speaker 1: there and enough for her to swap phone numbers, and
Speaker 1: maybe now she's thinking like that. It's like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: my husband could get angry out with this guy at
Speaker 1: a house party. There's nothing other than that you can
Speaker 1: think of that would give you a reason why she
Speaker 1: wouldn't want to go out with you. No, well, my end,
Speaker 1: you know, everything seemed to go great at the house party,
Speaker 1: and then the first day or so after there was
Speaker 1: a lot of flirting going back and forth with the
Speaker 1: text messaging and stuff, and then it gets just kind
Speaker 1: of petered off. That's not good. Petering is bad. Yeah, Well,
Speaker 1: it can be good. I've petered a few times and
Speaker 1: it was amazing, but sometimes with Peter and it's been terrible.
Speaker 1: So it's definitely bade. Yeah, we'll play a song and
Speaker 1: then we'll come back and we'll get your second day
Speaker 1: up date. All right, thank you very much. Okay, hang
Speaker 1: on looking jubil in the morning. Right in the middle
Speaker 1: of a second day update and if you're just joining us,
Speaker 1: Dawson is on the phone, and Dawson thinks a record
Speaker 1: scratch moment Mida ruined his chances at love. Yeah, you've
Speaker 1: had those record scratch moments, Like was the last time
Speaker 1: I had a record scratch moment? It's just the other day. Actually, Well,
Speaker 1: what happens in a conversation with someone and they're like,
Speaker 1: you know what, you're really soft spoken and rather polite
Speaker 1: in person, And I was like, no, it's not that,
Speaker 1: it's just that I don't like you very much. Record
Speaker 1: scratch moment. Way to put the brakes on a conversation,
Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, it makes sense now. Yeah, And Dawson
Speaker 1: had a record scratch moment when he met the girl
Speaker 1: he wants to call to day, Hey, Dawson, what's her name?
Speaker 1: I didn't get that from you, by the way. Oh
Speaker 1: it's Janine. Okay. They were at a party and they
Speaker 1: were making out, and then somebody ran outside and was
Speaker 1: like it's time for beer pong. Everybody inside record scratch
Speaker 1: moment and they exchange emails. At the end of the night,
Speaker 1: they texted back and forth a little bit. She seemed
Speaker 1: very flirty at first, but now she's kind of dropped
Speaker 1: off and he's wondering why. So we're about to get
Speaker 1: her on the phone and see if we can figure
Speaker 1: out what happened. Any last words, Dawson, Now, man, I
Speaker 1: just want to get this resolved and hopefully end up
Speaker 1: on a second date. Oh and I forgot to ask Dawson,
Speaker 1: when you said you were texting flirty back and forth,
Speaker 1: you didn't take it like too far, if you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. Oh no, no, no, you didn't send
Speaker 1: any pics of things or no, no, no picks, no
Speaker 1: eggplant emojis. Yeah, because sometimes flirting for women and flirting
Speaker 1: for men are very different definitions. Just send me a
Speaker 1: winky face. So I sent her my entire naked body.
Speaker 1: That is kind of how it goes down like that.
Speaker 1: I thought that was the emoji for she wants it.
Speaker 1: That's true. That is a record scratch moment, you know,
Speaker 1: like I think I'm being cute. Oh my god, there
Speaker 1: it is record scratch moment. All right, well I'm gonna
Speaker 1: dollar phone of her right now and see if we
Speaker 1: can figure it out. Here we go. You ready, let's
Speaker 1: do it? Okay? Hello, Hi, messpeak to Janine. Yes, this
Speaker 1: is Janine. Hey, what's up? How are you? This is
Speaker 1: Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's a
Speaker 1: radio show on the radio. Okay from What is this about? Well,
Speaker 1: I'm calling you today because of our listeners emailed us
Speaker 1: about you mean what, I'm unconfused. We do a segment
Speaker 1: on our show. It's called the second Date Update. That's
Speaker 1: where if you go out with somebody on a date
Speaker 1: and then end up not calling them after, they email
Speaker 1: us to see if we can get you on the
Speaker 1: phone and ask what happened. So Dawson, yeah, oh god,
Speaker 1: oh was that a good ogut or a bad ogut?
Speaker 1: I can't tell. So we talked to him a little
Speaker 1: bit and he told us about when you guys met
Speaker 1: at a party. Just I don't think we Yeah, you
Speaker 1: don't think you were? Yeah? I mean we I mean,
Speaker 1: you guys just want to know why I'm not talking
Speaker 1: to him anymore. Yep, that's exactly why we're on the
Speaker 1: phone with you right now. Other than you know, I
Speaker 1: think you're an awesome person and want to talk to
Speaker 1: you anyway. But that's pretty much why we're calling. Do
Speaker 1: you mind telling us, Well, I just found out something
Speaker 1: that's unattractive to me. Wait, you found out like back information,
Speaker 1: like he has a girlfriend. No, no, he doesn't have
Speaker 1: a girlfriend, and that's the problem. Is that the problem?
Speaker 1: The problem is he doesn't have a girlfriend. Well yeah,
Speaker 1: kind of. I mean the problem is that he's single.
Speaker 1: What wait, you want to be like a mistress to
Speaker 1: somebody that's your goal in life? Oh no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I don't want I would never date a guy who
Speaker 1: has a girlfriend. Oh good, I just don't want to
Speaker 1: date a guy who's single. That in a very tough
Speaker 1: spot in the dating world, because either you have a
Speaker 1: girlfriend or you're single. Yeah. No, no, I mean he's
Speaker 1: really single. Yeah, that's usually how people like there's potential
Speaker 1: dates really single. I mean that's usually a positive attribute. No,
Speaker 1: I mean a day or two after the part I
Speaker 1: checked his Facebook page. There are like no pictures of
Speaker 1: him with a girl. None, And that's a bad thing.
Speaker 1: And that's a bad thing. Okay. Why that leads me
Speaker 1: to think that no girls want him, that he's undesirable.
Speaker 1: So you're thinking that he's broken in some way because
Speaker 1: he doesn't have any pictures on social media of him
Speaker 1: with other women. Well, I didn't just check Facebook. I
Speaker 1: mean we have a mutual friend, I asked her. She said,
Speaker 1: he hasn't seen anybody seriously in months. So why is
Speaker 1: that an issue? If someone goes like a long period
Speaker 1: without being in a steady relationship, then there must be
Speaker 1: something wrong. What if they, I don't know, just enjoy
Speaker 1: being single because they're happy with their lives and where
Speaker 1: they are in themselves. Nobody enjoys being single. That's a myth,
Speaker 1: that is true. There's plenty of people that enjoy it.
Speaker 1: Do you ever enjoy it? I certainly don't it. I
Speaker 1: just I don't get what you're saying. I think I
Speaker 1: get it. Like if I meet a girl and I
Speaker 1: find out she hasn't been on a date in two years,
Speaker 1: I'm thinking, like, why is nobody dating her even two years?
Speaker 1: Maybe because she wants to be single? This is stupid.
Speaker 1: I don't know. After a while, you don't want to
Speaker 1: be single? Yes, some people do, so, Janine, are you
Speaker 1: in a relationship? Then I'm actively dating. I have a
Speaker 1: lot of people who want to date me, and I
Speaker 1: go out on several dates. I'm desirable and Dawson is undesirable. Okay, no,
Speaker 1: well you know what else is undesirable? Gotcha? You know
Speaker 1: what else Dawson is. He's also on the other line
Speaker 1: and wants to talk to you. What yeah, Dawson, are
Speaker 1: you there? No? No, no, no, no, no, no, what's up, Janine?
Speaker 1: It's mister undesirable. Excuse me for wanting someone who wanted
Speaker 1: to be socially active. I am socially active. I don't
Speaker 1: need to broadcast it all over the world though. Really,
Speaker 1: how many girls are you seeing right now? WHOA? I'm
Speaker 1: none right now exactly. And that's the problem. You know,
Speaker 1: I had a girlfriend about four months ago as well,
Speaker 1: So really, so why haven't you want to meet anyone
Speaker 1: in four months? Because I want to take a break,
Speaker 1: you know, be single for a little bit because I
Speaker 1: just got out of a relationship. You can tell yourself
Speaker 1: that all you want, but the truth is, no one
Speaker 1: wants to date you. What is your problem? This my problem.
Speaker 1: The longest I've been quote unquote single is ten dates.
Speaker 1: You're supposed to jump right back into the day after
Speaker 1: you break up with someone. That's what's the post that happened? Yeah, Janita,
Speaker 1: it tells me if you have that many dates lined up,
Speaker 1: that nobody's coming for a second date. Man, then there's
Speaker 1: a reason this is. I can't believe what's coming out
Speaker 1: of her mouth. I'm not being single for ten days.
Speaker 1: It's kidding me. I'm undesirable. But you and I were
Speaker 1: making out at this house party, so I thought you
Speaker 1: were hirable. Can I be amen? Listen, Gossin. The thing
Speaker 1: is you're living in single land. That's just where I
Speaker 1: want to be. I mean, it's fine if you want
Speaker 1: to be there, but I don't. What is single land exactly?
Speaker 1: What is help? Where you are? About where? It's what
Speaker 1: you are. You're in single land, and I don't want
Speaker 1: to be there. I'm just single right now. There's exactly land.
Speaker 1: It's not a continent or an island. It's just right now.
Speaker 1: And then I go out and if I meet someone
Speaker 1: like I thought with you, maybe then I would be
Speaker 1: not in single land anymore? Does that make any sense
Speaker 1: to you. Unfortunately, no, because you're out there on your
Speaker 1: little island all by yourself. Oh all right, my head's
Speaker 1: starting to hurt. So hard to understand about this. Let's
Speaker 1: just want to date people that other people like. I
Speaker 1: don't see why that's weird. If nobody likes them, then
Speaker 1: why would I want to see them again? Oh my god, Janine,
Speaker 1: you're basing all of your opinion on someone else's opinion.
Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm saying? Like you are judging
Speaker 1: him based on what other people think of him, And
Speaker 1: what's the problem with that? I you know, what I
Speaker 1: think for Eugenine isn't a problem. But I'm gonna ask
Speaker 1: this question. It's a really stupid question. They say there's
Speaker 1: no stupid questions, but this is definitely one. Janine, would
Speaker 1: you like to go out with Dawson again? On a
Speaker 1: second date? We will pay for it, nobody, No, I
Speaker 1: think I'm okay? Yeah, I mean, I under understandable Dawson
Speaker 1: hasn't been out with a woman in four months. You know, yes,
Speaker 1: thank you, you understand It took me a while to
Speaker 1: get on the same page as Eugenine. Oh Dawson, it's
Speaker 1: just you know that's fine. I'm fine with this outcome. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think you should be buddy. Yeah, of course you're
Speaker 1: fine with it because somebody likes being single, So why
Speaker 1: would you want to go on a day? Yeah in
Speaker 1: the morning, you made me do it, Me do it,
Speaker 1: You made me do it? Now, who's gonna come up
Speaker 1: the studio? Right? Brook and Jewel in the morning text
Speaker 1: in at seven eight, five to nine two that says
Speaker 1: there's obviously a reason why that girl is still single.
Speaker 1: Talking about today's second date update if you missed it,
Speaker 1: Dawson wanted to call a girl named Janine and they
Speaker 1: met at a party. They kissed, texted a little bit after,
Speaker 1: and then she just sort of dropped off. We got
Speaker 1: her on the phone and found out that the reason
Speaker 1: she wasn't calling him back and didn't want to go
Speaker 1: out with him again was because she went to his
Speaker 1: Facebook page and noticed there were no pictures of other women,
Speaker 1: so he's not dating anybody currently. Therefore, she deemed him undesirable.
Speaker 1: I don't I don't get it. Apparently still don't get it.
Speaker 1: Like usually single is what you look for when you're
Speaker 1: wanting to date someone, but she wants him to be
Speaker 1: out and about make the round. Yeah, he's got to
Speaker 1: be almost in a relationship for her to go. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that guy is definitely worth dating. You can't win anymore.
Speaker 1: You can't be single and well, I mean you can't
Speaker 1: have a girlfriend or a boyfriend or whatever. You can
Speaker 1: do that, but if you want to date, you can't
Speaker 1: be fully single. You gotta almost be in a relationship. Apparently,
Speaker 1: it's like you need a Yelp review, it's what you need.
Speaker 1: Like that's what she's looking for. They do need a
Speaker 1: Yelp review for people. She wants a Yelp review that
Speaker 1: ensures that people are visiting that boyfriend. Yeah, this guy
Speaker 1: mouth's funny. Yeah, two stars only have two reviews. I'm
Speaker 1: not going to that place. If you want to do
Speaker 1: a second day update, I have to do is email
Speaker 1: the show and we will call the person that didn't
Speaker 1: call you back.