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Speaker 1: What will you do lesi at Evergreen dot com Rooking

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Speaker 1: Jewels Second dat Day. Dawson is on the phone with

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Speaker 1: us for a second date update today and his email

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Speaker 1: said that he met the girl he wants to call

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Speaker 1: while playing a game at a house party. Hey Dawson,

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Speaker 1: what game were you guys playing? We were playing the

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Speaker 1: Famous People Card game? Is that is that where you

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Speaker 1: guys hold up a picture of me and then you

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Speaker 1: try to guess what I'm doing that evening? That's a

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Speaker 1: fun game. It was Famous People Card Game? Yeah? Yeah again, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's the one where you hold up a picture of me.

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Speaker 1: I know, Oh man, what's the Famous People card game?

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Speaker 1: I don't know what that is? So like, okay, so

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Speaker 1: I'm sitting across from you, for instance, and I hold

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Speaker 1: up a picture on my forehead and I can't see

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Speaker 1: it obviously of a famous person, you know, actor, somebody famous,

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Speaker 1: and then you know, you would have to kind of

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Speaker 1: you know saying who it is. So if you're sitting

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Speaker 1: across from me, I'd be like, it's it's me. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I think we understand the game now. So how did

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Speaker 1: you guys end up playing the game together at the party? Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: So you know, I went to this house party with

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Speaker 1: and we're hanging out, and then, not to sound cheesy,

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Speaker 1: but across the room, I noticed this girl and she's

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Speaker 1: has this really nice approachable mouth. So did you say

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Speaker 1: approachable mouth? Yeah, like nice approachable mouth. Does that mean

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Speaker 1: a smile? What does that mean? She has a really

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Speaker 1: nice smile, nice approachable mouth, you know all I mean

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Speaker 1: I describe it differently. Yeah, I've never heard it describe

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Speaker 1: that way. Did you tell her that she has an

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Speaker 1: approachable mouth? That could be why you're not getting a

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Speaker 1: call back? No, I don't. It doesn't seem weird to me.

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Speaker 1: I mean I've heard other whatever. Okay, okay, okay, So wait,

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Speaker 1: did you like position yourself all night so that when

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Speaker 1: next to each other or on teams or something exactly.

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Speaker 1: You know, we're basically playing teams because there's a lot

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Speaker 1: my head, and I mean, first thing she says is

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Speaker 1: I've got a car for everyone, And I mean, right there,

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Speaker 1: I know who it is. Yeah, you know it's Oprah. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to give it up that quick. I

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Speaker 1: asking questions and stuff like I don't know, is this

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Speaker 1: it's Oprah. How did you not get that? You're stupid?

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Speaker 1: I don't want to go out with you, right, I

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Speaker 1: would think you were dumb if you were doing that. No,

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Speaker 1: because you got to think about the situation. You're at

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Speaker 1: So he ruined your makeout session. Yeah, it kills the

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Speaker 1: It wasn't it wasn't like that. It was just it

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Speaker 1: of petered off. That's not good. Petering is bad. Yeah, Well,

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Speaker 1: then we'll come back and we'll get your second day

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Speaker 1: up date. All right, thank you very much. Okay, hang

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Speaker 1: on looking jubil in the morning. Right in the middle

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Speaker 1: of a second day update and if you're just joining us,

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Speaker 1: Dawson is on the phone, and Dawson thinks a record

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Speaker 1: scratch moment Mida ruined his chances at love. Yeah, you've

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Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, it makes sense now. Yeah, And Dawson

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Speaker 1: he wants to call to day, Hey, Dawson, what's her name?

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Speaker 1: like it's time for beer pong. Everybody inside record scratch

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Speaker 1: when you said you were texting flirty back and forth,

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Speaker 1: you didn't take it like too far, if you know

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Speaker 1: eggplant emojis. Yeah, because sometimes flirting for women and flirting

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Speaker 1: for men are very different definitions. Just send me a

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Speaker 1: That is kind of how it goes down like that.

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Speaker 1: I thought that was the emoji for she wants it.

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Speaker 1: do it? Okay? Hello, Hi, messpeak to Janine. Yes, this

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Speaker 1: is Janine. Hey, what's up? How are you? This is

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Speaker 1: Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's a

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Speaker 1: radio show on the radio. Okay from What is this about? Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm calling you today because of our listeners emailed us

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Speaker 1: about you mean what, I'm unconfused. We do a segment

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Speaker 1: on our show. It's called the second Date Update. That's

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Speaker 1: where if you go out with somebody on a date

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Speaker 1: phone and ask what happened. So Dawson, yeah, oh god,

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Speaker 1: oh was that a good ogut or a bad ogut?

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Speaker 1: I can't tell. So we talked to him a little

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Speaker 1: And that's a bad thing. Okay. Why that leads me

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Speaker 1: So you're thinking that he's broken in some way because

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Speaker 1: with other women. Well, I didn't just check Facebook. I

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Speaker 1: well you know what else is undesirable? Gotcha? You know

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Speaker 1: you there? No? No, no, no, no, no, no, what's up, Janine?

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Speaker 1: It's mister undesirable. Excuse me for wanting someone who wanted

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Speaker 1: The longest I've been quote unquote single is ten dates.

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Speaker 1: you break up with someone. That's what's the post that happened? Yeah, Janita,

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Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm saying? Like you are judging

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Speaker 1: the morning, you made me do it, Me do it,

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Speaker 1: You made me do it? Now, who's gonna come up

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Speaker 1: Like that's what she's looking for. They do need a

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Speaker 1: a second day update, I have to do is email

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Speaker 1: the show and we will call the person that didn't

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