WEBVTT - We’re Getting a Husband!: Wedding Edition Q&A 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.760 Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rat An iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:08.880 --> 0:00:12.360 Hello everybody, we are scrubbing. 0:00:11.720 --> 0:00:17.439 In corub a dub dub in the tub atub dub. 0:00:18.840 --> 0:00:22.799 Wow, another wedding episode. Before we begin, though, you had 0:00:22.920 --> 0:00:27.440 a celebrity interaction regarding the wedding. 0:00:27.680 --> 0:00:30.720 Yes, but is this like too much wedding talk? 0:00:31.040 --> 0:00:32.840 I think this is what the people want? Yeah? 0:00:32.880 --> 0:00:33.440 Not enough? 0:00:33.720 --> 0:00:35.760 Oh wow. The thing that I realized, I was like, 0:00:35.800 --> 0:00:38.440 I never realized until I was planning my wedding how 0:00:38.440 --> 0:00:40.440 many things you have to think about until I was 0:00:40.440 --> 0:00:43.120 like in it. So if you are planning a wedding 0:00:43.200 --> 0:00:44.960 or in the future we like to get married, it 0:00:45.040 --> 0:00:47.879 might be nice to here's some of these rands've. 0:00:47.680 --> 0:00:51.200 Been on this journey with you for a very long time, 0:00:51.240 --> 0:00:53.520 so I think this is very exciting. And they can't 0:00:53.800 --> 0:00:57.280 physically be at the wedding, so this is this is great. 0:00:57.320 --> 0:00:59.520 And then like, we're gonna do a wedding recap, so 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:02.240 if you don't want to hear about wedding stuff, then 0:01:02.320 --> 0:01:08.440 come back in listen to old episodes, episodes, and we'll 0:01:08.440 --> 0:01:10.360 be back in late March. 0:01:10.560 --> 0:01:16.880 Yeah, so we To me, this was just so sweet 0:01:17.040 --> 0:01:20.399 because we invited Kevin Jonas and his wife Danielle Jonas 0:01:20.400 --> 0:01:23.520 to our wedding. I have felt obviously I have this 0:01:23.560 --> 0:01:26.880 connection to them. I also felt very sentimental because I 0:01:27.000 --> 0:01:29.160 was talking to him the night before I got engaged 0:01:29.160 --> 0:01:31.720 about getting engaged, and he was like, when's he gonna propose? 0:01:31.800 --> 0:01:32.360 And did da da? 0:01:32.440 --> 0:01:34.640 And then it happened literally the next day, so like 0:01:34.959 --> 0:01:37.240 he was involved, and like everybody that was at the 0:01:37.319 --> 0:01:40.360 Jonas Brothers concert with me like had told him, like 0:01:40.440 --> 0:01:44.760 she's getting engaged tomorrow, so like he just feels it's 0:01:44.959 --> 0:01:48.040 part like a part, a part of the journey. And 0:01:48.360 --> 0:01:50.800 they tried so hard to like make it work. Like 0:01:50.840 --> 0:01:53.360 he was constantly reaching out I like remind asking us 0:01:53.360 --> 0:01:55.640 to remind him of like where and when, and like 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:57.520 he just kept saying like to both me and Robbie, 0:01:57.520 --> 0:01:58.800 like we're really trying to make it work. We're really 0:01:58.840 --> 0:01:59.960 trying to make it work, which I thought was like 0:02:00.120 --> 0:02:04.360 so sweet. Turns out they can't make it because, as 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:07.320 you've heard, Jonas con is like literally like they just 0:02:07.320 --> 0:02:09.000 have so much going on and he just like couldn't 0:02:09.040 --> 0:02:12.480 make it work, which I was not even expecting them 0:02:12.480 --> 0:02:15.520 to at all, But the fact that he picked up 0:02:15.560 --> 0:02:18.960 the phone called Robbie to let him know that like 0:02:19.280 --> 0:02:21.040 they're so sorry they can't make it. They really wanted 0:02:21.040 --> 0:02:22.640 to make it work. Then picked up the phone and 0:02:22.680 --> 0:02:25.680 called me separately to say he's so sorry. They really 0:02:25.680 --> 0:02:27.720 wanted to make it work, like we love you guys. 0:02:28.040 --> 0:02:32.079 I thought that was so classy and just like so nice. 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:33.840 Like I'm like I have people that I see literally 0:02:33.880 --> 0:02:35.800 every day that just didn't even call me, text me, 0:02:35.880 --> 0:02:39.040 just went on the website and like RVP, no, do. 0:02:39.040 --> 0:02:39.639 You know what I mean? 0:02:41.080 --> 0:02:43.960 Like literally I see every day like just like no. 0:02:44.120 --> 0:02:46.360 I was like, oh dang, like no text so sorry, 0:02:46.400 --> 0:02:48.200 like not even in the collects, you know, like Ben 0:02:48.240 --> 0:02:49.840 and Jess couldn't make it, and they wrote like we 0:02:49.960 --> 0:02:51.320 just you know, we try to make it work, but 0:02:51.400 --> 0:02:55.320 like we just had a baby and we love you guys. Congratulations. 0:02:55.400 --> 0:02:58.440 Like yeah, like I'm like nothing, And Kevin Jonas picks 0:02:58.520 --> 0:03:01.360 up the phone and calls both of us, not just 0:03:01.400 --> 0:03:03.320 like a text of the two of us, like picks 0:03:03.400 --> 0:03:05.720 up the phone and like speaks to us. Yeah, And 0:03:05.760 --> 0:03:08.280 I feel like that just shows you, like the character 0:03:08.360 --> 0:03:10.160 and the kind of guy that he is that he like. 0:03:11.160 --> 0:03:12.400 Did that so nice. 0:03:12.440 --> 0:03:15.520 It was so niceful and so thoughtful. It makes me 0:03:15.680 --> 0:03:16.680 I love them even more. 0:03:16.800 --> 0:03:19.720 A stand up human, stand up guy who will not 0:03:19.760 --> 0:03:21.919 be at the wedding. Correct, but they did their best. 0:03:22.000 --> 0:03:23.800 They did their best, which is all that matters. 0:03:24.280 --> 0:03:28.200 Well, a lot of our scrubbers wrote in asking questions 0:03:28.320 --> 0:03:31.480 for you, so I feel like we should get to them. 0:03:31.600 --> 0:03:33.239 Let's get to tak some of them. 0:03:33.480 --> 0:03:38.920 No no for three minutes, and let's not do that commercials. 0:03:38.400 --> 0:03:40.760 Okay, okay, okay. 0:03:41.160 --> 0:03:44.480 They're all screaming like no, no, more's fish. 0:03:45.560 --> 0:03:48.240 Sorry, sorry, my brain is not really here. 0:03:49.040 --> 0:03:51.960 Yeah. Let me let me an easty hand and handle 0:03:52.040 --> 0:03:55.400 the breaks, and you just relax and answer the questions. 0:03:54.960 --> 0:03:56.080 All right, give it to me. 0:03:56.640 --> 0:03:59.240 Okay. First question is simple, what are you most looking 0:03:59.280 --> 0:03:59.680 forward to? 0:04:00.920 --> 0:04:03.000 I'm definitely looking forward to just like all the people 0:04:03.040 --> 0:04:06.680 that I love so much, being in one space. I 0:04:07.240 --> 0:04:09.040 Our wedding shower that we had other night was one 0:04:09.040 --> 0:04:11.600 of like the best nights of my life. I think 0:04:11.600 --> 0:04:14.080 it because it was my family, his family, and like 0:04:14.120 --> 0:04:17.920 our closest closest friends, and so the fact that that 0:04:18.000 --> 0:04:19.320 was like one of the best nights of my life, 0:04:19.360 --> 0:04:21.039 I'm like imagining that the wedding is going to be 0:04:21.080 --> 0:04:24.760 like that time's a hundred h So that's what I'm 0:04:24.880 --> 0:04:27.200 most looking forward to. I love that. 0:04:27.240 --> 0:04:28.040 I'm so excited. 0:04:28.200 --> 0:04:30.960 Yeah, it's a good crew, it's a good squad. It's 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:31.960 a good squad, all right. 0:04:32.000 --> 0:04:33.919 So this next one, I feel like, oh, this is 0:04:33.920 --> 0:04:36.279 probably a sentiment that a lot of the scrubbers feel 0:04:36.320 --> 0:04:40.000 and radio listeners feel. But the question is does it 0:04:40.040 --> 0:04:42.680 feel surreal? I followed your journey from the beginning, and 0:04:42.720 --> 0:04:44.200 I'm super excited for you. 0:04:44.839 --> 0:04:47.760 Like it honestly feels out of body. And it's so 0:04:47.800 --> 0:04:50.000 funny because I was talking to my makeup artist, who 0:04:50.600 --> 0:04:53.640 Liz if for people that are listening that don't know, 0:04:53.720 --> 0:04:56.320 she does makeup and glam for E And so when 0:04:56.680 --> 0:04:59.000 Ryan when we were on the morning show at Wilshire, 0:04:59.120 --> 0:05:02.320 like are different in the E building. So I've known 0:05:02.400 --> 0:05:05.559 Liz since I was like twenty one twenty two whenever 0:05:05.600 --> 0:05:07.920 I started, and she'd always seen me in the hallway, 0:05:08.000 --> 0:05:09.880 so she's like been on this journey with me too, 0:05:09.960 --> 0:05:11.719 you know what I mean, Like she's known me since then, 0:05:12.080 --> 0:05:14.120 and she was like, you're the epitome of like you 0:05:14.160 --> 0:05:16.080 know those little girls I always dream about their wedding. 0:05:16.200 --> 0:05:19.280 She's like, that is you, Like, that's that's what I 0:05:19.320 --> 0:05:20.719 think of when I think of those little girls, Like 0:05:20.720 --> 0:05:22.359 I envisioned you as like a little girl. 0:05:22.520 --> 0:05:22.799 Yeah. 0:05:22.800 --> 0:05:26.560 So, like it's so crazy that it's like happening. Yeah, 0:05:26.600 --> 0:05:29.719 it's crazy, and not even just like the wedding, just 0:05:29.760 --> 0:05:32.520 like the fact that like I'm going to be married, 0:05:33.000 --> 0:05:36.800 I know, a missus, a missus and like we've been 0:05:36.839 --> 0:05:38.320 together for five years, you know what I mean, Like 0:05:38.360 --> 0:05:41.400 I feel like it's been so much there's been so 0:05:41.440 --> 0:05:43.800 much time in our relationship already that I'm like, I 0:05:43.800 --> 0:05:46.400 can't believe I waited five years to do this, Like 0:05:47.640 --> 0:05:49.200 I was ready after the first month. 0:05:49.360 --> 0:05:53.279 Yeah, you were, which I'm glad y'all didn't do that. 0:05:54.279 --> 0:05:54.800 You never know. 0:05:56.000 --> 0:05:58.240 Okay. The next one is what has been the hardest 0:05:58.279 --> 0:06:01.200 and best part of this whole wedding season. 0:06:04.440 --> 0:06:07.680 The hardest part for me as I think I've realized 0:06:07.720 --> 0:06:10.920 I'm just not a good I'm not a very decisive person. 0:06:11.520 --> 0:06:12.760 Yeah, I've learned that about you too. 0:06:12.920 --> 0:06:16.040 Yeah, Like I'm a I'm a worker bee, you know 0:06:16.080 --> 0:06:18.040 what I mean, Like I am good if you I 0:06:18.160 --> 0:06:19.760 show up to my job, I know what I need 0:06:19.800 --> 0:06:21.480 to turn in every night. I know what I need 0:06:21.520 --> 0:06:23.640 to do every morning, Like give me a task and 0:06:23.680 --> 0:06:26.560 I can do it. When I'm forced to make decisions, 0:06:26.720 --> 0:06:29.359 I am like I I go back and forth and 0:06:29.400 --> 0:06:31.720 I think I agonize over like every decision. So I 0:06:31.720 --> 0:06:34.520 think the decision making process has been like very hard 0:06:34.560 --> 0:06:34.760 for me. 0:06:34.920 --> 0:06:37.000 Yeah, I also think that'd be hard for me. And 0:06:37.040 --> 0:06:39.120 I think it's decisions that are things that, like in 0:06:39.160 --> 0:06:41.360 the big scheme of things, they don't matter, so you're 0:06:41.440 --> 0:06:44.360 kind of like it could go either way and I'm fine. 0:06:44.400 --> 0:06:45.839 And the thing is, there's pros and cons to like 0:06:45.880 --> 0:06:48.120 every decision, you know what I mean. There's pros to 0:06:48.240 --> 0:06:50.800 doing a destination wedding. There's cons to doing a destination wedding. 0:06:50.839 --> 0:06:53.000 So I think that like the pros and cons to 0:06:53.040 --> 0:06:58.160 both is like very hard for somebody that's indecisive like myself. Well, 0:06:58.279 --> 0:07:00.599 we got here, yes, yes. 0:07:01.080 --> 0:07:05.200 By all means and by all agonizing decisions. 0:07:04.760 --> 0:07:05.680 We already. 0:07:07.000 --> 0:07:09.480 Okay. Well, what was the best part of the wedding planning? 0:07:09.920 --> 0:07:12.320 The best part was seeing how involved Robbie was the 0:07:12.360 --> 0:07:15.000 whole process, Like he's been on every single email, every 0:07:15.040 --> 0:07:17.800 single text message, like even last night when they were 0:07:17.800 --> 0:07:19.720 doing the hair and makeup trial with me. Like he 0:07:19.800 --> 0:07:21.400 was like, oh yeah, like you're going to do that 0:07:21.440 --> 0:07:23.800 with this dress, and like Liz was like the fact 0:07:23.800 --> 0:07:26.000 that he even knows that is so cute. So it's 0:07:26.000 --> 0:07:28.160 like been really cool and fun. I didn't realize he 0:07:28.200 --> 0:07:30.040 was going to be as involved as he has been. 0:07:30.720 --> 0:07:32.040 He's just an involved human. 0:07:32.280 --> 0:07:35.880 Yeah, he wanted to be involved in this podcast before 0:07:35.920 --> 0:07:37.640 the wedding, but he's just been so slammed at work 0:07:37.680 --> 0:07:39.240 that he couldn't swing it. 0:07:39.240 --> 0:07:41.560 It's okay, maybe he'll come on the recap. Maybe we 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:43.120 can squeeze him in on the recap. 0:07:43.520 --> 0:07:45.280 Yeah, I think at the end of I think he 0:07:45.320 --> 0:07:48.040 has a gets in the weeds. But yeah, something closing 0:07:48.040 --> 0:07:49.040 at the end of March. 0:07:49.080 --> 0:07:51.440 We already answered this. Someone said, how did the Boudoir 0:07:51.520 --> 0:07:54.840 photo book turn out? It's great? And she she ordered 0:07:54.880 --> 0:07:58.360 a book that did you style how the pages looked? 0:07:58.400 --> 0:08:00.120 Or was that like pre mating You just say to 0:08:00.360 --> 0:08:01.400 the photos. 0:08:01.160 --> 0:08:04.520 It's pre made. There's like six different like you either 0:08:04.560 --> 0:08:07.200 make it like a rectangle or a square or like 0:08:07.280 --> 0:08:10.200 the page. Yeah, you can decide which. Oh you took 0:08:10.200 --> 0:08:15.000 a great job, thank you. Yeah, it's gorgeous. Do you 0:08:15.080 --> 0:08:16.920 have any last minute things you want to do or 0:08:17.040 --> 0:08:19.600 moments you want to have before you become a wife. 0:08:19.760 --> 0:08:21.240 Oh that's a good question, Like is there. 0:08:21.120 --> 0:08:25.000 Anything like as before being a wife that you haven't 0:08:25.040 --> 0:08:26.960 done that you're like, I gotta squeeze this in before 0:08:27.000 --> 0:08:27.640 the wedding. 0:08:27.480 --> 0:08:29.320 Like what like one last fling before the ring? 0:08:29.560 --> 0:08:30.200 Yeah? 0:08:30.240 --> 0:08:36.000 No, nothing sounds worse. No, literally, nothing. 0:08:36.720 --> 0:08:38.000 Like seeing one last wien. 0:08:39.960 --> 0:08:43.280 Who's what I see. I don't want to see any 0:08:43.280 --> 0:08:48.000 other one literally nothing. I'm so excited, Like I would 0:08:48.000 --> 0:08:48.800 marry him tomorrow. 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:51.079 Yeah, yeah, I think you would have married him two 0:08:51.120 --> 0:08:51.920 years four years ago? 0:08:52.040 --> 0:08:53.440 Yeah, yeah, actually four. 0:08:54.040 --> 0:08:56.040 This is a good question. I think we've ever talked 0:08:56.040 --> 0:08:57.920 about this on the podcast. How do you feel about 0:08:57.960 --> 0:09:00.760 being Robbie's second bride slash wife? 0:09:00.920 --> 0:09:03.040 So it's interesting because it's something that I used to 0:09:03.120 --> 0:09:06.040 get really hung up on in the beginning of our relationship, 0:09:06.120 --> 0:09:08.120 you know, like not being the first with him and 0:09:08.160 --> 0:09:12.439 it being the first for me. But he has expressed 0:09:12.440 --> 0:09:14.920 to me he's like, because when Robby and I met, 0:09:14.960 --> 0:09:16.640 he didn't want to ever get married again. He was like, 0:09:16.679 --> 0:09:19.520 if I never get married again, I am aokay, Like 0:09:19.800 --> 0:09:22.760 he didn't need to get married again. He wanted to 0:09:22.800 --> 0:09:29.640 get married again, and so there's a huge mentality shift 0:09:29.679 --> 0:09:33.400 from when at that time, Like I think a lot 0:09:33.400 --> 0:09:35.560 of people will sometimes get married because they feel like 0:09:35.600 --> 0:09:37.600 that's what they need to do at the time, because 0:09:37.600 --> 0:09:39.800 that's what everybody's doing and it's like so ingrained in 0:09:39.880 --> 0:09:44.360 like your culture. And now he's doing it because it's 0:09:44.440 --> 0:09:47.400 like he wants this is like what he really wants, 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:50.080 and it's like so different and so special because he's like, 0:09:50.360 --> 0:09:52.240 my kids are going to be there, you know, like 0:09:52.280 --> 0:09:54.440 there's nothing more special to him than the fact that 0:09:54.480 --> 0:09:58.640 like his kids are going to be there, and so yeah, 0:09:58.640 --> 0:10:01.640 it's just like a totally it's just a totally different experience, 0:10:01.679 --> 0:10:04.079 and I think I think in the beginning of the relationship, 0:10:04.080 --> 0:10:08.640 I couldn't differentiate, but now it's like very easy to see. 0:10:09.000 --> 0:10:11.560 I feel like you both did such a great job 0:10:11.600 --> 0:10:15.079 at navigating this, because I do remember having conversations where 0:10:15.440 --> 0:10:17.080 it was something you were hung up on, and I 0:10:17.080 --> 0:10:20.160 feel like Robbie did a great job at making sure 0:10:20.160 --> 0:10:22.880 that you felt validated in how you were feeling, but 0:10:22.960 --> 0:10:27.360 also reassured that it was a totally separate experience for 0:10:27.480 --> 0:10:30.120 him and it wasn't like he was comparing the two 0:10:30.160 --> 0:10:33.120 or anything that like he wanted to have he wanted 0:10:33.160 --> 0:10:35.719 to marry you because he wants to be married to you. 0:10:36.000 --> 0:10:39.360 Yeah, and he's doing things this time that like he 0:10:39.440 --> 0:10:41.679 wants in his way, and like we're doing things that 0:10:41.760 --> 0:10:43.920 like feel right and you know what I mean, Like 0:10:43.960 --> 0:10:46.360 it just it's very different. And I was feeling the 0:10:46.360 --> 0:10:48.080 same way about kids too, Like I was like so 0:10:48.200 --> 0:10:49.560 hung up on that for a while, and then I 0:10:49.600 --> 0:10:52.120 was like, actually, this is a blessing that he's done 0:10:52.120 --> 0:10:54.760 this before, because I'm such a worry war and I'm 0:10:54.800 --> 0:10:57.240 like so in my head about stuff that it's going 0:10:57.280 --> 0:10:59.160 to be such a blessing to have him because he 0:10:59.240 --> 0:11:01.800 just like keeps me and he's already done it. Yeah, 0:11:01.840 --> 0:11:04.080 So like I know, I'm gonna lean on him a lot. 0:11:05.120 --> 0:11:08.400 You brought this up, but how will the boys be 0:11:08.480 --> 0:11:09.160 part of the wedding. 0:11:09.720 --> 0:11:13.800 They are best men and ring security, so they're going 0:11:13.880 --> 0:11:17.800 to be walking sunny down the aisle and then best 0:11:17.800 --> 0:11:18.880 men as well. 0:11:19.400 --> 0:11:24.480 That's really cute. Do did you have any trouble with 0:11:24.520 --> 0:11:26.880 the guest list? Since you know so many people in 0:11:26.920 --> 0:11:28.120 the entertainment industry. 0:11:28.760 --> 0:11:31.480 There are a couple people that we didn't invite that. 0:11:31.559 --> 0:11:36.600 I have a little bit of regrets about I'd say 0:11:36.600 --> 0:11:39.160 a handful. There's like a handful of people. But when 0:11:39.200 --> 0:11:42.840 we did the guest list, we like were really really like, 0:11:43.520 --> 0:11:46.920 these are people that have either like we didn't want 0:11:46.920 --> 0:11:49.160 anybody to meet one of us for the first time 0:11:49.200 --> 0:11:50.240 at our wedding. Like, have you ever been to a 0:11:50.240 --> 0:11:53.479 wedding where you're like meeting one of the brighter groom? 0:11:53.760 --> 0:11:54.640 Have you ever done that? 0:11:55.240 --> 0:11:57.480 I think I got invited as a guest one time. 0:11:57.720 --> 0:12:00.160 Yeah, I felt weird about it. Yeah, like we didn't 0:12:00.160 --> 0:12:02.440 want any of that, this intimate celebration. 0:12:02.640 --> 0:12:05.319 Yeah, I just went to a wedding in December where 0:12:05.320 --> 0:12:07.719 I met the groom there, right, Yeah, And it was 0:12:07.840 --> 0:12:08.319 it was weird. 0:12:08.320 --> 0:12:08.760 I'm sorry. 0:12:08.880 --> 0:12:11.080 And because it's destination, we were like and because it 0:12:11.120 --> 0:12:12.840 was like we already knew going in, we wanted it 0:12:12.840 --> 0:12:15.280 to be like on the smaller side. So we were like, 0:12:15.320 --> 0:12:17.560 these are just going to be like, are tried and 0:12:17.600 --> 0:12:20.000 true people that we do life with that know us 0:12:20.000 --> 0:12:22.120 really well. Like there's not a single person at our 0:12:22.160 --> 0:12:25.280 wedding that like doesn't know us really well. Yeah, So 0:12:26.640 --> 0:12:28.680 it was kind of hard, but like, and I really 0:12:28.679 --> 0:12:30.800 have just like a handful of like two or three 0:12:30.800 --> 0:12:32.960 people that I wish I would have invited that I didn't, 0:12:34.400 --> 0:12:34.959 but that's it. 0:12:35.440 --> 0:12:37.920 Someone elked about you doing a first look, which we've 0:12:37.920 --> 0:12:40.480 already talked about, But was that a because I know 0:12:40.559 --> 0:12:42.520 a lot of the decision when people do the first look, 0:12:42.559 --> 0:12:47.080 it's to have a moment together before it's just like chaos, 0:12:47.559 --> 0:12:50.800 and to kind of get the photos handled, like to 0:12:50.840 --> 0:12:53.320 get the bridle photos so that once the wedding part, 0:12:53.400 --> 0:12:56.319 the ceremony's over, you can just go to the reception. 0:12:56.600 --> 0:12:59.640 I told our or our wedding photographer, I said, I 0:12:59.679 --> 0:13:05.440 already know after the ceremony, I'm gonna be a total mess, 0:13:05.720 --> 0:13:09.640 like I'm gonna look so distraught and like it's just 0:13:09.720 --> 0:13:12.679 gonna be tears. So I said, I want to do 0:13:13.280 --> 0:13:16.640 every single photo that we possibly can before the ceremony. 0:13:16.640 --> 0:13:19.120 That's why we're doing the cocktail hour before because we 0:13:19.160 --> 0:13:20.720 don't need it after because we're not gonna do any 0:13:20.720 --> 0:13:23.440 photos after the ceremony. We're gonna do like two or 0:13:23.480 --> 0:13:27.040 three like a handful, like ye there, and then we're 0:13:27.040 --> 0:13:27.800 gonna go straight in. 0:13:28.720 --> 0:13:31.440 The thing though, is that you will have a makeup 0:13:31.520 --> 0:13:34.520 artist there so even if you cry and you get 0:13:35.440 --> 0:13:37.600 I'm telling you they can. They can turn it around quick. 0:13:37.720 --> 0:13:41.000 You think, so oh yeah, oh wow, I'm like, god 0:13:41.080 --> 0:13:44.120 speed to Liz because it's gonna be It's gonna be 0:13:44.120 --> 0:13:45.480 a water works. 0:13:45.520 --> 0:13:49.079 But beyond the convenience of makeup and photos and stuff, 0:13:49.280 --> 0:13:51.360 was that a decision? Was that hard for you, like 0:13:51.480 --> 0:13:53.120 in terms of zero heart? Oh? 0:13:53.320 --> 0:13:55.959 Okay, like literally like the easiest decision on the planet. 0:13:58.280 --> 0:14:01.880 Okay. The next question is are you going Are you 0:14:01.920 --> 0:14:04.640 doing anything to surprise Robbie on the day of the wedding? 0:14:04.800 --> 0:14:06.560 But first, I think we should take a break before 0:14:06.559 --> 0:14:28.840 we get to that. Oo all right, So before the break, 0:14:28.880 --> 0:14:31.320 I asked someone else, are you doing anything to surprise 0:14:31.480 --> 0:14:32.880 Robbie on the day of the wedding? 0:14:33.080 --> 0:14:37.680 I am giving him his boudoir album. Yes, that's the 0:14:37.720 --> 0:14:38.920 only surprise he's getting. 0:14:38.960 --> 0:14:41.600 So here's my question. You're waking up, which I know 0:14:41.640 --> 0:14:43.400 we don't have a timeframe of like when you're starting 0:14:43.400 --> 0:14:44.280 to get ready or whatever. 0:14:44.320 --> 0:14:46.240 Do we I have a little bit. I think that 0:14:46.960 --> 0:14:49.320 David and Liz are gonna like be setting up by 0:14:49.400 --> 0:14:50.080 like ten thirty. 0:14:50.360 --> 0:14:53.440 Okay, So you wake up with Robbie, y'all? Do the 0:14:53.440 --> 0:14:55.240 Bourdoir book and then. 0:14:55.400 --> 0:14:56.720 Yeah, no, I don't know if I'm gonna do like 0:14:56.760 --> 0:15:00.160 right when we wake up, or like I should when 0:15:00.160 --> 0:15:01.880 we wake up right just like have it in the bed, 0:15:02.480 --> 0:15:07.600 I have him wake up, yeah, or like I was 0:15:07.640 --> 0:15:10.920 thinking about they deliver coffee to your room, like you 0:15:10.960 --> 0:15:12.840 tell them, like we're gonna get up at seven thirty, 0:15:12.840 --> 0:15:14.320 and they had they bring like a little basket with 0:15:14.360 --> 0:15:16.280 coffee to the room. So I was thinking of putting 0:15:16.320 --> 0:15:17.920 it in the basket with the coffee. So he just 0:15:17.960 --> 0:15:19.440 like sees it in there and he's like, what's this. 0:15:19.880 --> 0:15:29.360 Oh, that's cute that reaction. I like that. Yeah, and 0:15:29.360 --> 0:15:31.040 then you all will separate until the wedding. 0:15:31.720 --> 0:15:32.720 Once I start getting ready. 0:15:32.760 --> 0:15:37.000 Yeah, he's out of there, out of there, banished from 0:15:37.040 --> 0:15:37.640 the room. 0:15:37.520 --> 0:15:39.560 Banished from the dungeon. 0:15:40.560 --> 0:15:43.360 Are you having any Serbian traditions involved? And are y'all 0:15:43.400 --> 0:15:44.720 doing any Jewish traditions. 0:15:45.520 --> 0:15:48.480 We will be doing one Jewish tradition during the ceremony, 0:15:49.760 --> 0:15:52.680 and then we will be doing like the horror, which 0:15:52.760 --> 0:15:56.440 is a traditional like the chairs in the in the 0:15:56.480 --> 0:16:02.160 air dance, and then there's a traditional Persian song where 0:16:02.200 --> 0:16:04.960 you throw like white basically our wedding planner. After we 0:16:05.000 --> 0:16:07.520 get married, underneath like the hoop bush, She's gonna go 0:16:07.560 --> 0:16:10.800 and like literally rip all the rose petals off of 0:16:10.920 --> 0:16:13.600 all the roses so that we can have flowers to 0:16:13.680 --> 0:16:18.480 like throw, kind of like at that luncheary, everybody was like, 0:16:18.520 --> 0:16:22.640 throws and then we'll do one serbian song too as well. Love. 0:16:23.040 --> 0:16:30.080 Yeah, sided, what color of the bridesmaids were? Let me 0:16:30.160 --> 0:16:36.720 tell you it's a champagne ivory adjacent to color, which 0:16:36.960 --> 0:16:41.760 I when when Tonya was sending me the dresses, I 0:16:41.800 --> 0:16:44.480 was like, this is too white, Like you are the bride, 0:16:44.600 --> 0:16:46.440 this is too white. How are we supposed to be 0:16:46.440 --> 0:16:48.640 in like a color this close to white? 0:16:48.840 --> 0:16:51.160 I envisioned you all like basically in white. 0:16:51.720 --> 0:16:53.080 Is anyone else shocked by this? 0:16:53.400 --> 0:16:53.640 Yeah? 0:16:53.720 --> 0:16:57.640 Okay, it's gorgeous. I just knowing how much white has 0:16:57.720 --> 0:17:00.320 meant you. I think it's still and white. I know, 0:17:00.680 --> 0:17:03.640 taking away from my gorgeous gown, I know we're not. 0:17:03.960 --> 0:17:06.440 We could literally never believe me with some of the 0:17:06.520 --> 0:17:09.120 dresses I've tried on. We could never take away from 0:17:09.119 --> 0:17:14.720 what I'm just saying. It was every time you're seeing 0:17:14.760 --> 0:17:17.040 me dressed, and I was like, no, it's too white. 0:17:17.080 --> 0:17:18.880 And then when I saw everyone's color, I was like, oh, 0:17:19.600 --> 0:17:21.080 they're like close to white. 0:17:21.359 --> 0:17:22.800 Yes, yes, I wanted that. 0:17:23.040 --> 0:17:25.960 No, well, the photo examples you showed me there, it's gorgeous. 0:17:26.000 --> 0:17:29.000 They're like yeah, and especially at the setting, the setting 0:17:29.000 --> 0:17:29.360 we're going. 0:17:29.359 --> 0:17:31.760 To be in, and I think it's so pretty. 0:17:31.920 --> 0:17:35.119 I yeah, And I can't wait till I find mine. 0:17:35.160 --> 0:17:37.560 The same she said yes to the dress. 0:17:38.080 --> 0:17:42.720 I can't wait to say yes to the dress. Are 0:17:42.720 --> 0:17:46.119 you letting Robbie see you in your dress before the wedding? Yes, 0:17:47.720 --> 0:17:50.240 but look I know, but nothing before then. 0:17:50.440 --> 0:17:51.560 No, I hasn't seen it. 0:17:51.640 --> 0:17:53.960 He knows nothing about any of your dresses, just. 0:17:53.880 --> 0:17:56.760 The wedding dress. He's seen all the rest of them. 0:17:57.080 --> 0:17:58.760 Oh, you saw your reception dress. 0:17:58.880 --> 0:18:01.360 Yeah, my god, I know. I was too excited. 0:18:01.560 --> 0:18:02.280 Oh my gosh. 0:18:05.760 --> 0:18:08.800 I'm like, well, I was trying it on. I had 0:18:08.840 --> 0:18:11.520 Reggie at my house, like like I had things happening 0:18:11.560 --> 0:18:12.880 and he was there, so I was like. 0:18:12.880 --> 0:18:15.480 Yeah, but when we were doing the drawers, we banished 0:18:15.520 --> 0:18:16.400 him to his room. 0:18:16.600 --> 0:18:17.640 Yes, that is true. 0:18:18.000 --> 0:18:18.919 You were just too excited. 0:18:19.040 --> 0:18:19.359 I was. 0:18:20.280 --> 0:18:22.679 We already talked about the playlist vibes just like girly 0:18:22.760 --> 0:18:27.280 empower wedding vibes. Did you find something borrowed? 0:18:27.640 --> 0:18:27.800 No? 0:18:28.400 --> 0:18:29.960 Oh, are you going to find something? 0:18:30.440 --> 0:18:30.600 No? 0:18:31.680 --> 0:18:34.560 Are you borrowing earrings jeweler? 0:18:34.680 --> 0:18:36.040