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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rat An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing.

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Speaker 1: In corub a dub dub in the tub atub dub.

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Speaker 2: Wow, another wedding episode. Before we begin, though, you had

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Speaker 2: a celebrity interaction regarding the wedding.

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Speaker 1: Yes, but is this like too much wedding talk?

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Speaker 2: I think this is what the people want? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Not enough?

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Speaker 1: Oh wow. The thing that I realized, I was like,

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Speaker 1: I never realized until I was planning my wedding how

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Speaker 1: many things you have to think about until I was

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Speaker 1: like in it. So if you are planning a wedding

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Speaker 1: or in the future we like to get married, it

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Speaker 1: might be nice to here's some of these rands've.

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Speaker 2: Been on this journey with you for a very long time,

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Speaker 2: so I think this is very exciting. And they can't

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Speaker 2: physically be at the wedding, so this is this is great.

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Speaker 2: And then like, we're gonna do a wedding recap, so

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Speaker 2: if you don't want to hear about wedding stuff, then

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Speaker 2: come back in listen to old episodes, episodes, and we'll

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Speaker 2: be back in late March.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so we To me, this was just so sweet

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Speaker 1: because we invited Kevin Jonas and his wife Danielle Jonas

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Speaker 1: to our wedding. I have felt obviously I have this

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Speaker 1: connection to them. I also felt very sentimental because I

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Speaker 1: was talking to him the night before I got engaged

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Speaker 1: about getting engaged, and he was like, when's he gonna propose?

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Speaker 2: And did da da?

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Speaker 1: And then it happened literally the next day, so like

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Speaker 1: he was involved, and like everybody that was at the

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Speaker 1: Jonas Brothers concert with me like had told him, like

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Speaker 1: she's getting engaged tomorrow, so like he just feels it's

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Speaker 1: part like a part, a part of the journey. And

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Speaker 1: they tried so hard to like make it work. Like

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Speaker 1: he was constantly reaching out I like remind asking us

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Speaker 1: he just kept saying like to both me and Robbie,

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Speaker 1: like we're really trying to make it work. We're really

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Speaker 1: trying to make it work, which I thought was like

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Speaker 1: so sweet. Turns out they can't make it because, as

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Speaker 1: you've heard, Jonas con is like literally like they just

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Speaker 1: have so much going on and he just like couldn't

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Speaker 1: make it work, which I was not even expecting them

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Speaker 1: to at all, But the fact that he picked up

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Speaker 1: the phone called Robbie to let him know that like

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Speaker 1: they're so sorry they can't make it. They really wanted

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Speaker 1: to make it work. Then picked up the phone and

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Speaker 1: called me separately to say he's so sorry. They really

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Speaker 1: wanted to make it work, like we love you guys.

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Speaker 1: I thought that was so classy and just like so nice.

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Speaker 1: Like I'm like I have people that I see literally

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Speaker 1: every day that just didn't even call me, text me,

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Speaker 1: just went on the website and like RVP, no, do.

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Like literally I see every day like just like no.

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh dang, like no text so sorry,

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Speaker 1: like not even in the collects, you know, like Ben

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Speaker 1: and Jess couldn't make it, and they wrote like we

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Speaker 1: like we just had a baby and we love you guys. Congratulations.

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Speaker 1: Like yeah, like I'm like nothing, And Kevin Jonas picks

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Speaker 1: I feel like that just shows you, like the character

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Speaker 2: Did that so nice.

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Speaker 1: It was so niceful and so thoughtful. It makes me

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Speaker 1: I love them even more.

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Speaker 2: A stand up human, stand up guy who will not

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Speaker 2: be at the wedding. Correct, but they did their best.

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Speaker 1: They did their best, which is all that matters.

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Speaker 2: Well, a lot of our scrubbers wrote in asking questions

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Speaker 2: for you, so I feel like we should get to them.

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Speaker 1: Let's get to tak some of them.

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Speaker 2: No no for three minutes, and let's not do that commercials.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 4: They're all screaming like no, no, more's fish.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, sorry, my brain is not really here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Let me let me an easty hand and handle

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Speaker 2: the breaks, and you just relax and answer the questions.

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Speaker 1: All right, give it to me.

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Speaker 2: Okay. First question is simple, what are you most looking

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Speaker 1: I'm definitely looking forward to just like all the people

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a good crew, it's a good squad. It's

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Speaker 2: So this next one, I feel like, oh, this is

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Speaker 2: and radio listeners feel. But the question is does it

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Speaker 2: feel surreal? I followed your journey from the beginning, and

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Speaker 1: Like it honestly feels out of body. And it's so

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Speaker 1: funny because I was talking to my makeup artist, who

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Speaker 1: Liz if for people that are listening that don't know,

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Speaker 1: So, like it's so crazy that it's like happening. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: You never know.

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Speaker 2: Okay. The next one is what has been the hardest

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Speaker 1: The hardest part for me as I think I've realized

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Speaker 1: I'm just not a good I'm not a very decisive person.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've learned that about you too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I'm a I'm a worker bee, you know

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Speaker 1: I can do it. When I'm forced to make decisions,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I also think that'd be hard for me. And

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Speaker 2: I think it's decisions that are things that, like in

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Speaker 2: kind of like it could go either way and I'm fine.

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Speaker 1: And the thing is, there's pros and cons to like

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Speaker 1: doing a destination wedding. There's cons to doing a destination wedding.

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Speaker 1: So I think that like the pros and cons to

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Speaker 2: By all means and by all agonizing decisions.

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Speaker 2: Okay. Well, what was the best part of the wedding planning?

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Speaker 1: The best part was seeing how involved Robbie was the

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Speaker 1: whole process, Like he's been on every single email, every

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Speaker 2: He's just an involved human.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he wanted to be involved in this podcast before

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Speaker 2: It's okay, maybe he'll come on the recap. Maybe we

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Speaker 2: We already answered this. Someone said, how did the Boudoir

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Speaker 2: Anything like as before being a wife that you haven't

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Speaker 1: Like what like one last fling before the ring?

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Speaker 1: No, nothing sounds worse. No, literally, nothing.

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Speaker 1: Who's what I see. I don't want to see any

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Speaker 2: This is a good question. I think we've ever talked

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Speaker 2: being Robbie's second bride slash wife?

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Speaker 1: So it's interesting because it's something that I used to

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Speaker 1: it being the first for me. But he has expressed

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and he's doing things this time that like he

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Speaker 1: They are best men and ring security, so they're going

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Speaker 2: That's really cute. Do did you have any trouble with

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I felt weird about it. Yeah, like we didn't

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Speaker 2: Someone elked about you doing a first look, which we've

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Speaker 1: That's why we're doing the cocktail hour before because we

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Speaker 2: The thing though, is that you will have a makeup

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Speaker 2: I'm telling you they can. They can turn it around quick.

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Speaker 1: You think, so oh yeah, oh wow, I'm like, god

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Speaker 2: But beyond the convenience of makeup and photos and stuff,

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Speaker 2: in terms of zero heart? Oh?

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Speaker 1: Okay, like literally like the easiest decision on the planet.

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Speaker 2: Okay. The next question is are you going Are you

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Speaker 2: But first, I think we should take a break before

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Speaker 1: I am giving him his boudoir album. Yes, that's the

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Speaker 2: So here's my question. You're waking up, which I know

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Speaker 2: Okay, So you wake up with Robbie, y'all? Do the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I don't know if I'm gonna do like

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Speaker 2: Oh, that's cute that reaction. I like that. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: Once I start getting ready.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's out of there, out of there, banished from

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Speaker 1: Banished from the dungeon.

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Speaker 2: Are you having any Serbian traditions involved? And are y'all

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Speaker 2: doing any Jewish traditions.

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Speaker 1: We will be doing one Jewish tradition during the ceremony,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sided, what color of the bridesmaids were? Let me

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Speaker 2: tell you it's a champagne ivory adjacent to color, which

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Speaker 2: I when when Tonya was sending me the dresses, I

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Speaker 2: this is too white. How are we supposed to be

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Speaker 1: I envisioned you all like basically in white.

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Speaker 2: Is anyone else shocked by this?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's gorgeous. I just knowing how much white has

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Speaker 2: We could literally never believe me with some of the

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Speaker 2: what I'm just saying. It was every time you're seeing

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I wanted that.

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Speaker 1: To be in, and I think it's so pretty.

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Speaker 2: I yeah, And I can't wait till I find mine.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait to say yes to the dress. Are

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Speaker 2: you letting Robbie see you in your dress before the wedding? Yes,

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Speaker 1: The wedding dress. He's seen all the rest of them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my god, I know. I was too excited.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but when we were doing the drawers, we banished

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Speaker 1: Yes, that is true.

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Speaker 2: We already talked about the playlist vibes just like girly

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Speaker 2: Are you borrowing earrings jeweler?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're borrowing. That's borrowed. Okay, great, something borrowed. Someone

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Speaker 1: The the seated dinner I feel like takes away. We

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Speaker 2: And like, oh, some sounds amazing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's gonna be good. So but it'll be open

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Speaker 2: Everybody's free, free to roam about. Is there anything different

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm excited to see that my one of my

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00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:35,119
Speaker 1: best friends is performing are our first dance, and I

443
00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:37,080
Speaker 1: think that's going to be like I can't even listen

444
00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:40,960
Speaker 1: to invisible surprise for the guests.

445
00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:44,879
Speaker 2: Well no, yeah, I mean you just instead of just

446
00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:46,960
Speaker 2: saying her name, oh.

447
00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:48,720
Speaker 1: Sophia, yeah yeah, yeah, No, I mean it's not like

448
00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:50,480
Speaker 1: I mean, I think it will be a surprise to

449
00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:51,520
Speaker 1: most of the guess.

450
00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:53,840
Speaker 2: Like very excited, Like if I'm a fan of the

451
00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:57,040
Speaker 2: podcast knowing that Sophia is performing.

452
00:20:56,680 --> 00:20:59,679
Speaker 1: And she's like doing a different arrangement, like she's like

453
00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:04,159
Speaker 1: really yeah, she's like really like treating it very like

454
00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:06,479
Speaker 1: in a special way, and she like won't tell me

455
00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:11,520
Speaker 1: like what she's doing. I know, you do what is

456
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:12,119
Speaker 1: she doing?

457
00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:15,640
Speaker 2: You'll have to find tune into your wedding to find out.

458
00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:20,359
Speaker 1: I can't even listen to that song without crying. So

459
00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:22,040
Speaker 1: like the fact that she's going to be singing it

460
00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:23,959
Speaker 1: and it's our first dancer, I'm going to be like

461
00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:27,159
Speaker 1: just a puddle. Yeah, I'm going to be like the

462
00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:27,800
Speaker 1: ugly cry.

463
00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:30,639
Speaker 2: Like this is going to be the busiest she's ever been.

464
00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:32,959
Speaker 1: I told her, like, you're gonna be You're gonna be

465
00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:33,840
Speaker 1: on your toes.

466
00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:38,880
Speaker 2: So Sonny is coming, What will she be doing post ceremony,

467
00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:39,919
Speaker 2: where's she going to be.

468
00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:47,719
Speaker 1: So we have a friend coming that is on sunny duty.

469
00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:53,119
Speaker 1: So we have a sunny handler who will be helping

470
00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:57,919
Speaker 1: and assistant house the whole weekend. But our goal is

471
00:21:57,960 --> 00:21:59,520
Speaker 1: we want to have her at the welcome party for

472
00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:01,600
Speaker 1: like a litle little bit, just like at the beginning.

473
00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:03,480
Speaker 1: We want to like take pictures with her and stuff,

474
00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:06,160
Speaker 1: but she'll probably mostly be in the room and then

475
00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:08,639
Speaker 1: she definitely has like her task. She's in charge of

476
00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:11,560
Speaker 1: the rings, which is like really important, sonny, Oh yeah,

477
00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:14,800
Speaker 1: yeah yeah. But then after the ceremony, like she's not

478
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:16,720
Speaker 1: coming to the reception. It's a little too late for her.

479
00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:19,000
Speaker 1: So I think, go to bed. She'll go to bed.

480
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:22,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, well she have her bed like her little crate here.

481
00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:28,880
Speaker 1: No, it's okay, yeah, so rage she will rage.

482
00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:34,200
Speaker 2: They're like there's a noise something, a barking dog.

483
00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:37,119
Speaker 1: We might have to we might have to give her

484
00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:40,320
Speaker 1: a little gardening. Yeah, guard her a little bit, so

485
00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:44,879
Speaker 1: just chill her out. But but yeah, I could not

486
00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:48,720
Speaker 1: pack her crate. I was like, I just can't do this.

487
00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:51,840
Speaker 2: They might have something that you could check that's like

488
00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:54,879
Speaker 2: fold like that folds down, you know what I'm saying.

489
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:56,159
Speaker 1: Her crate does bold. We just have like one of

490
00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:58,800
Speaker 1: those like creat crates like flat.

491
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:01,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would try to bring it, put it in

492
00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:03,479
Speaker 2: like a plastic bag and just check it. I mean,

493
00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 2: because she'll probably just chill and sleep there. Loves her

494
00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:09,160
Speaker 2: care if it's if it goes flat, I would try

495
00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:09,920
Speaker 2: and pay your checks.

496
00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 1: Like what are those it's like the yeah, yeah, yeah,

497
00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:14,480
Speaker 1: just like one of those, Like.

498
00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 2: I would try look into up. I think it would.

499
00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:19,280
Speaker 2: I think it would give you a.

500
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:19,880
Speaker 1: Peace of mind.

501
00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 2: Yes, that's my thought. All right, what are play What

502
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 2: are songs for the playlist for the dance floor? Like

503
00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:29,159
Speaker 2: must plays them? Do you have a do not playlist?

504
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:31,080
Speaker 2: We do have a do not playlist?

505
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:31,960
Speaker 3: What is on there?

506
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:34,560
Speaker 2: I always get robbed of one.

507
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:40,600
Speaker 1: Song y M C A No, oh that's on there. Uh,

508
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:45,200
Speaker 1: I don't shuffle. It's on the do not play. Wow,

509
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:50,879
Speaker 1: I don't want any of those like oh no, none

510
00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:54,200
Speaker 1: of those. And then I think die with a Smile

511
00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:57,200
Speaker 1: is also on the do not play?

512
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:04,400
Speaker 3: Do Not Want to Be Next to You popular? That's

513
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 3: the number one song in the list.

514
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:09,879
Speaker 1: Yes, oh, like all the vendors that like all like

515
00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 1: we have uh strings that are playing for the ceremony,

516
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:15,359
Speaker 1: and they only have a certain amount of songs that

517
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 1: they like know how to play that's on the list.

518
00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:19,679
Speaker 1: The band, there's only a certain amount of songs that

519
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 1: they like, know how to play that's on the list. Interesting, Yeah,

520
00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:23,879
Speaker 1: I'm like, take it off.

521
00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:26,639
Speaker 2: I always get robbed of the Cupid shuffle, always on

522
00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:30,600
Speaker 2: the do not play Sadly, I love watching people if

523
00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:32,840
Speaker 2: I love watching people with no rhythm get up and

524
00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:35,280
Speaker 2: get to dance this song and feel confident in what

525
00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:37,680
Speaker 2: they're doing because they're just being told what to do.

526
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:39,040
Speaker 1: No, it's not gonna happen.

527
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 2: Something wholesome about it.

528
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,000
Speaker 1: But I was making the DJ playlist and it's like

529
00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:45,919
Speaker 1: so random. It's like Timber Pitbull to like to like

530
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:50,359
Speaker 1: Whitney Houston to Tina Turner to.

531
00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:51,200
Speaker 3: Tease take requests.

532
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:54,399
Speaker 1: Yes, as long as there's as long as it's on

533
00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:56,679
Speaker 1: the not on the do not playlist, he will take request.

534
00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:57,879
Speaker 3: How is Desposito looking?

535
00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:01,000
Speaker 1: So the band is going to do that? Yeah, that's

536
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:02,440
Speaker 1: on the van's list.

537
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 2: All right, you've made up keep a shuffle with Timber? Look?

538
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:07,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, comes on.

539
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:11,159
Speaker 2: Okay, are you gonna have a late night snack?

540
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:12,240
Speaker 1: No?

541
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,720
Speaker 2: Okay, there is Robbie wants to jump in the ocean.

542
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:19,200
Speaker 2: That's like a huge thing for him. So what's what's

543
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:20,120
Speaker 2: the update on that.

544
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:22,680
Speaker 1: Okay, so we didn't do the late night snack actually

545
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:27,440
Speaker 1: wasn't even offered. But I think because we're doing the stations,

546
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 1: we have more variety and there's gonna be so much

547
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:33,960
Speaker 1: food that I'm like, I don't think people are gonna

548
00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:36,480
Speaker 1: need anything late night, but maybe something to think about.

549
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:41,880
Speaker 1: And then Robbie has this like he really wants everybody

550
00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 1: to jump in the ocean at the end of the night.

551
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:47,159
Speaker 1: I know it's like his only wish, and I'm like,

552
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:49,880
Speaker 1: don't put that on our guests, Like, I am your wife,

553
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:51,679
Speaker 1: I will do it with you, and then anybody that

554
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 1: would like to join in can join in. But I'm like,

555
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 1: I don't want him to put it on anybody, like

556
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:57,320
Speaker 1: I need you all to like jump in the ocean

557
00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:59,680
Speaker 1: because some people have expensive you know, like some people

558
00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:00,479
Speaker 1: don't want to do that.

559
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:02,439
Speaker 2: Like I'm not more scared of sharks.

560
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:06,320
Speaker 1: Oh not, No, it's not actually close. We're not gore

561
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 1: like a hoe.

562
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:08,920
Speaker 2: You don't You're not on shark TikTok.

563
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:12,159
Speaker 3: It seems if he's like let's all jump in the ocean.

564
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 3: It's just him.

565
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 1: Like, I don't even I don't even want to jump

566
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,679
Speaker 1: in my dress. So I'm bringing like a little slip

567
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,000
Speaker 1: that I got on Amazon because I'm like, ain, no way,

568
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 1: I'm jumping in the ocean in this thing. No vivia

569
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:28,679
Speaker 1: us no, no, no, no, no no. She is not

570
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:30,159
Speaker 1: touching the ocean salt.

571
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 2: What combo of face? Wait, we're gonna take a break. Okay,

572
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:37,240
Speaker 2: and then we have like three more questions. It's gonna

573
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:38,880
Speaker 2: be it's gonna be rapid fire. We'll be right back.

574
00:26:57,920 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 2: All right, we are back. These are our final questions

575
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 2: before we leave you again. People want to know if

576
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 2: I'll if I'm able to update throughout the weekend because

577
00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 2: they there was a suggestion to put in a live

578
00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:15,919
Speaker 2: feed of the wedding where from the scrubbers put it?

579
00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 2: Where in the Facebook group?

580
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:18,480
Speaker 1: Who's going to do that?

581
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:21,439
Speaker 2: They were just like, shit, let's suggest it. And then

582
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 2: people are like, let let's let Tanya have her space.

583
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:26,199
Speaker 2: But people are like, please, like give us updates on

584
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:29,200
Speaker 2: the wedding. But I'm like, I'm gonna I don't ever

585
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:32,639
Speaker 2: do live updates of anything really anymore. So I feel like,

586
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 2: I wait, I don't want to. I want everything to

587
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:37,720
Speaker 2: be on your timeline and i'd rather.

588
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 1: I had a full conversation yesterday because I am bringing

589
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:43,360
Speaker 1: Ashley out for social media purposes. So we were kind

590
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 1: of going through stuff and I was like, I don't

591
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:50,199
Speaker 1: want to like I want her to just take all

592
00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:51,919
Speaker 1: the content and I want to have it, but I'm like,

593
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 1: I don't want to be like looking and approving and

594
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And that's why because I

595
00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:58,359
Speaker 1: just want to be so in the moment. So I

596
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 1: don't know, but I think I'm gonna be so excited

597
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 1: that I like, there's no way I'm not gonna post

598
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:04,400
Speaker 1: anything either, do you know what I mean?

599
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,640
Speaker 2: Maybe on like Sunday, Yeah, oh.

600
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 1: My god, son, I'm gonna be looking through everything. I've

601
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 1: got that plane like free living every.

602
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:15,919
Speaker 2: Moment Sunday, you'll probably have the capacity to go through stuff.

603
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 1: Yeah.

604
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:18,119
Speaker 2: But I also want to be able to just be

605
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:20,679
Speaker 2: present and enjoy myself and I don't want to be like, oh, tonya,

606
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:22,119
Speaker 2: can I post this? Like I don't want to have

607
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 2: to be like having that dialogue while we're just trying

608
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:26,360
Speaker 2: to But.

609
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 1: It's funny because I'm still like trying to figure out,

610
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:32,119
Speaker 1: like now what I want to do, because she was like,

611
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 1: if you want to go dark and you just want

612
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 1: to like enjoy the moment, that's totally fine.

613
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:38,960
Speaker 2: But like you know, I was like, so the answer

614
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 2: to this question is I will go by Tanya's what

615
00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 2: Tanya wants. I will take it so much content, but

616
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:48,719
Speaker 2: in terms of what I'm posting, we'll just be Tanya's discretion.

617
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 1: Wow, the queen.

618
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 2: Okay, we're wrapping up.

619
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 1: We had one last question come in for you guys,

620
00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 1: So I'd like to read that one.

621
00:28:57,960 --> 00:28:58,320
Speaker 2: Okay.

622
00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 1: It says what are Becca and east still looking forward

623
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: to about the wedding?

624
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 3: Oh my god?

625
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 4: What am I not looking forward to? It's a shorter list.

626
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 4: I just I just can't wait. I think about this

627
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:12,120
Speaker 4: so frequently. I can't wait to just see you on

628
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:15,160
Speaker 4: that day, Like after all this, seeing how you are

629
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,080
Speaker 4: and watching your face, I'm really.

630
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:17,680
Speaker 3: Excited about that.

631
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 2: I just can't wait to see you. I know, I

632
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:25,560
Speaker 2: made it through all these Easton. It's also your first

633
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:26,600
Speaker 2: time in Mexico.

634
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 3: My first time in Mexico.

635
00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm so honored to pop your Charry. That's

636
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 1: the last thing I want to do. Before a couple

637
00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 1: of wives.

638
00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:45,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that I'm just so excited to have

639
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:50,120
Speaker 2: the moments of like getting you ready and like watching

640
00:29:50,160 --> 00:30:00,600
Speaker 2: you like put on your dress. And I literally cannot

641
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:05,520
Speaker 2: wait until I'm facing the view of you coming down

642
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:08,959
Speaker 2: the stairs and getting to watch Robbie's face is what

643
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 2: I'm really excited about. And I just feel like this

644
00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 2: moment has been such a lead up in our friendship

645
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 2: and like I think about all the like I was

646
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 2: thinking about all the funny moment, like so many funny moments,

647
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:26,560
Speaker 2: but also so much so many moments of like you

648
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 2: yearning for this moment and this day. And I think

649
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:32,840
Speaker 2: it's like it's.

650
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 1: Just it was so much sadness. Like I feel like

651
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:37,800
Speaker 1: as much like laughy taffy and like fun as I

652
00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,360
Speaker 1: like would make it, there was so much sadness in

653
00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 1: that season too, you know.

654
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:45,880
Speaker 2: So I think it's just it's hard to even grasp

655
00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 2: that we're about to have like that is coming. Like

656
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:51,520
Speaker 2: we're getting we're getting a husband.

657
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, we're getting a husband that's in our group

658
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 5: chat with the PREDIENTE was like, we're getting married next week.

659
00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 2: I was like, we all come yat of gars.

660
00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:04,120
Speaker 1: It's true though it's like so crazy, and I feel

661
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 1: like Robbie's become such like a part and like fabric

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Speaker 1: of like the people in my lives lives, you know.

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Speaker 2: I just feel like he is everything that I wanted

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Speaker 2: for you as a best friend, but also even more

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Speaker 2: that you wanted in a partner. Like I feel like

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Speaker 2: he's been able to be the type of guy and

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Speaker 2: the type of teammate for you that I literally was kind.

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Speaker 1: Of like.

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Speaker 2: She's got to lower her expectations for a while, and

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Speaker 2: it's to me, it was like wow, I was It

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Speaker 2: made me realize, like to all the girls and guys

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Speaker 2: and anyone who's out there that's in the single season,

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Speaker 2: like keep your standards high, because like it, it is

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Speaker 2: worth it when you find that person, because I've gotten

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Speaker 2: to watch you like have someone who meets you so

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Speaker 2: so much in the middle of everything that y'all go through,

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Speaker 2: and I'm just like so excited that he like only

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Speaker 2: brightens your shine that you already have. Yeah, So I

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Speaker 2: can't wait and I'm ready.

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Speaker 1: To party the same.

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Speaker 5: We do have one more episode this week, the final wedding.

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Speaker 2: And then we really are gonna leave y'all. But this

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Speaker 2: is a wedding predictions will be our next episode, so

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Speaker 2: stay tuned. We love you, somebody,