1 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone? It's the Fred Show. 2 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:09,479 Speaker 1: Hey Chase, good morning, Welcome to the show. 3 00:00:09,520 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 2: How are you hey, guys, Yeah, good morning, good morning. 4 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 1: So what's going on with with Jill? What's happening with Jill? 5 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 1: Why don't you tell us? It's waiting by the phone? 6 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:19,760 Speaker 1: So we're trying to figure out if you've been ghosted, 7 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 1: which it looks like maybe you have been. But we 8 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:23,479 Speaker 1: got to know how did you, guys meet? Tell us 9 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:25,639 Speaker 1: about dates that you've been on and any kind of 10 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:28,920 Speaker 1: communication you've had and where things are sure. So I 11 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 1: met Hill on Bumble. 12 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:35,160 Speaker 2: And we met up for a few drinks soon after. 13 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:37,199 Speaker 2: You know, the conversation was great there, and we kind 14 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:38,880 Speaker 2: of took it to the next level of the actually 15 00:00:38,880 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 2: meeting in person, and you know, I was pretty assertive 16 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:44,519 Speaker 2: and kind of got right to it as far as 17 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 2: asking her out, and we had a great time. The 18 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 2: conversation was great, it flowed. You know, we both like 19 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:53,479 Speaker 2: travel and checking out new restaurants, you know, and it 20 00:00:53,560 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 2: seems like we had a lot in common. It was 21 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 2: definitely chemistry and you know, at the end of the day, 22 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 2: we been made out before she got her uber and 23 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:04,640 Speaker 2: before she went home, you know. 24 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: But it wasn't let me just tout this up. 25 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 2: It wasn't just like hey me kischen in a cheap 26 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 2: good night. This was a sexy makeout. 27 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, against wall. 28 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:20,560 Speaker 2: Took her to like there was a wall another restaurant 29 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:22,759 Speaker 2: and like up against the wall something we seen movies 30 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:26,520 Speaker 2: like like heavy making out just like all over each other. 31 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 2: It was sexy and there's really no other word to 32 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:31,679 Speaker 2: say about it. Wow, And obviously you do something like that. 33 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 2: I couldn't wait to see her again, and I reached 34 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:36,399 Speaker 2: out a few times, but she's missing. 35 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 1: I don't know what the heck happened. 36 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 2: And she even unmatched me on the on the app, 37 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 2: and she may have even blocked me because I can't 38 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 2: even search her anymore. So I want to know what 39 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 2: the hell happened, because we had a great night. 40 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: I don't know what happened. Yeah, I mean that I 41 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 1: have had that happen before, where like a date goes 42 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 1: so well, it's like a little spicy, and then like things, 43 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 1: it's just weird. A it's like why why he was Yeah, 44 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 1: I was one sliding down the wall, which is weird 45 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 1: because I'm six or five, so like most girls had 46 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 1: to climb me to begin with. But yeah, I know 47 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:08,520 Speaker 1: it was strange journey. Yeah, I know, he really was. 48 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 1: I think I was sliding down the walk and I 49 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 1: was trying to hold her up, trying to get acromatic 50 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: with it. But anyway, that's the private story. That's just 51 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 1: for me to know, and you never know. So let's 52 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: call this woman Jill. All jokes aside. It's frustrating when 53 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 1: you go on a great date and then you don't 54 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: hear from the person again, and it's like, why, you know, 55 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: everything went so well and there was so much chemistry, 56 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:33,919 Speaker 1: Why don't I have to go back on the dating 57 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:36,800 Speaker 1: apps and start all over again. So let's call her Chase. 58 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 1: We'll see if we can figure out what's going on, 59 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 1: and hopefully we can straighten things out and set you 60 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:43,239 Speaker 1: guys up on another date that we pay for. Sound good? Yeah, 61 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:46,360 Speaker 1: let's see what's up? Part two of Waiting at the Phone. 62 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:48,800 Speaker 1: After this song, Ben Timboon back in two minutes on 63 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:51,639 Speaker 1: the French show Don't Move bensim boone. The French show 64 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 1: is on. Shelley has the Entertainer Report and a tiebreaker 65 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 1: nine one hundred bucks in the showdown. Both in ten minutes. Hey, Chase, Yeah, 66 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 1: all right, welcome back. Let's call it Jill. You met 67 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 1: on an app, you went out, you had a great time, 68 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:06,239 Speaker 1: The date got sexy, there was chemistry, they got a 69 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 1: little spicy. There was a bit of a steamy scene 70 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, up against the wall, 71 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:13,919 Speaker 1: you say, and some making out and all this stuff 72 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 1: is good, except you haven't heard from this woman since then, 73 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 1: and you want to know what's up. 74 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 2: That's right, Like she completely went and I'm like, all right, 75 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 2: did something happened? 76 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 1: What's going on here? So you have no idea? All right, 77 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 1: let's call her now? Good luck, Chase. Hello, Hi is 78 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:37,119 Speaker 1: this Jill? Yes, Hi, Jill, Good morning. My name is Fred. 79 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 1: I'm calling for the Fred Show of the morning radio show, 80 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on 81 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 1: the radio right now and I would need your permission 82 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 1: to continue with the call. Can which have for just 83 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 1: a second? Would you mind? 84 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 2: Sure? 85 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 3: I know it? 86 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 1: Well, thank you, thank you very much. I know it's 87 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 1: kind of shocking, but if you listen, then you probably 88 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 1: know about waiting by the phone, and believe it or not, 89 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 1: you're on it. And this guy, Chase reached out to 90 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 1: us said, he met you and you guys out recently. 91 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 1: Do you remember hanging out with him? 92 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 3: I do remember him. 93 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 1: Okay, So what happened because he told us really about 94 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: a successful date and then he liked you a lot, 95 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 1: was hoping to see you again. But he believes that 96 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: not only are you ignoring him now and ghosting him, 97 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:18,480 Speaker 1: but you've blocked him and unfollowed him and all these 98 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 1: unmatched with him and all these different things. So is 99 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:21,799 Speaker 1: that true? I mean, what's happening? 100 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it was a that is true. Yeah, 101 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 3: we had a really great date, like one of the 102 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:39,800 Speaker 3: best days I've ever had. And yeah, honestly, I you. 103 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 4: Know felt at the time like he was somebody that 104 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:45,279 Speaker 4: I couldn't even you know, get really serious with. 105 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:50,360 Speaker 3: And after the date, I went to brunch a friend 106 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 3: of mine, a really good friend of mine, and I 107 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:58,159 Speaker 3: was talking of the date, talking about Chase, and my 108 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 3: friend asked to of course see the picture, and you know, 109 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 3: looked at it a couple of times, zoomed in. Uh, 110 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 3: but was really sure that he had matched with Chase 111 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:23,279 Speaker 3: on Grinder and that they had also been chatting, which 112 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 3: was a bit of a surprise. 113 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:29,480 Speaker 1: Okay, so your male friend wants to hear about your 114 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:32,480 Speaker 1: date and you know, yeah, I mean I think when 115 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 1: people first meet each other and get excited, your friends 116 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 1: are like, well, let me see this person, you know, 117 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 1: get a visual. And this dude's like, I know him. 118 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 1: I've been chatting with him on a on grinder, which 119 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 1: is an app for well, for gay people, right, I mean, yes, yeah, 120 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 1: well I didn't want to. I don't want to like general, 121 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 1: I mean, it only is it is it? I mean 122 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 1: it's targeted for gay people, right, that's fair to say. Yeah, yeah, 123 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 1: I want to make sure I get the terminology correct here. 124 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 1: I'm not trying to you know, So that would be 125 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 1: you got it from what what what you thought he 126 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 1: was into? Maybe? 127 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I mean we all live in pretty close proctivity, 128 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 3: so it is entirely possible that it is, you know, 129 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 3: one hundred percent real. Chase never said anything about that, 130 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:26,839 Speaker 3: never said he was by never said he was you know, 131 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 3: on grinder, on you know, multiple apps. 132 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:34,039 Speaker 1: Okay, So as far as you were concerned, Chase like 133 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:37,839 Speaker 1: girls like Chase like girls, he liked you, and that 134 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:40,599 Speaker 1: was as that was your assumption. That was as much 135 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 1: as you knew about his interests. 136 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 3: Yes, and yeah, so I. 137 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 1: Was very thrown Okay, okay, well here here to tell 138 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 1: us what what's really going on? I forgot to mention 139 00:06:56,480 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 1: I'm very forgetful. Chase is here and bring him out, 140 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 1: like Mary, Chase, what's going on? What's going is that 141 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:05,800 Speaker 1: you on grinder too? Are you on? Are you on 142 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 1: various apps for various interests? 143 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 2: Okay, so yes, I'm on Grinder. And by the way, 144 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 2: I have no problem saying that I'm on Grinder. You 145 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 2: know what's the problem with that? I am by curious, 146 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 2: No big deal. I do like women and at times 147 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 2: I experiment with men. I will likely marry a woman, 148 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 2: so eventually I just like to kind of have fun. 149 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 2: And so what's the big deal. It's not really a problem. 150 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 2: I don't think it's a case. You don't think that. 151 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 2: You don't think that's something that I'm asking. I really 152 00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 2: don't actually don't know the etiquett or the answer. But 153 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 2: you don't think that's something that she should know? Is hey, 154 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 2: just heads up, like I'm I like a lot of 155 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 2: different things, and so you know this, this could happen 156 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 2: this very thing, you know, after the first date. No, 157 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 2: you know, maybe down the road it could come up, 158 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:53,240 Speaker 2: but I don't think right away, you know, addressing that, 159 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 2: I don't think it's. 160 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 1: A big deal. Jason as a sexy gay man on 161 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 1: the show. Do you believe that somebody who's by curious 162 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 1: or buy or on multiple apps for different interests, do 163 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 1: you believe that they should disclose that they like different things. 164 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 1: I don't think they have to upfront. Okay, if it 165 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 1: comes up organically, they can, But I mean, you know, 166 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:12,240 Speaker 1: it's not like if you go on a date, you 167 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 1: automatically like I'm only straight and no that's valid. No, 168 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 1: that's valid, that's valid. I'm awkward and not necessary. But Jill, 169 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 1: that's what you that's what you want. Like if he's 170 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 1: on a if he's on a quote unquote straight person app, 171 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 1: then you want there to be like an asterisk that 172 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 1: says like disclaimer, I also like male parts too. I mean, like, 173 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm not making fun of you, I'm 174 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:34,600 Speaker 1: just is that the expectation that someone should sit down 175 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:37,080 Speaker 1: and make it very clear what their interests are if 176 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:39,719 Speaker 1: it's not direct or if it's not obvious, I. 177 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:43,959 Speaker 3: Mean, maybe not what parts you like. 178 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:46,959 Speaker 1: But well yeah, maybe you wouldn't say it the way 179 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 1: I did. But you know, like another kind of way. 180 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:55,559 Speaker 3: I mean maybe my typical first date is different, but 181 00:08:55,640 --> 00:08:58,720 Speaker 3: I mean Chase and I talked about like what you're 182 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:06,080 Speaker 3: looking for, and you know, I I Am not really 183 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 3: looking for somebody who's experimenting right now. I'm I'm looking to, 184 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 3: you know, hopefully be in a serious relationship with the 185 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:20,800 Speaker 3: man who likes women and has has has no more 186 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 3: curiosity left in him. Is what I'm looking for. 187 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 4: And that was what I assumed, clearly wrongly, the Chase 188 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:34,319 Speaker 4: is preventing and for for me to find out heah, 189 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 4: my like peer friend who was also chatting with him, 190 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:39,079 Speaker 4: just really true me for a loop. 191 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 1: And well that is another complication. I didn't really even 192 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:43,960 Speaker 1: think about that, I mean your friend. But maybe now 193 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:45,560 Speaker 1: you've got to decide which one of you gets it right. 194 00:09:45,559 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 1: I'll be damned me and Jason have to fight over 195 00:09:47,320 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 1: a man. Yeah, he's not wrong. Now here you have 196 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:56,840 Speaker 1: I don't know, Keiking. Would you have an issue with 197 00:09:57,559 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 1: a guy who you presumed to have have a singular 198 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:03,319 Speaker 1: interest and it turns out he has, you know, a 199 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 1: little bit more varied interest. Yes, if you sit down 200 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 1: with me, I need you to say, what is it Jason. Oh, 201 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 1: I am straight, and I am I'm nothing else that's straight. 202 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:12,559 Speaker 2: Straight. 203 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 1: I only like women and I will never look at 204 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:17,160 Speaker 1: any other being. Hey, Jason, you're gonna need to work 205 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:19,840 Speaker 1: on that. It's not convincing. I'm never convincing at all. 206 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 1: I didn't believe you at all. I bo profile like 207 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 1: bio would that be? Okay? Believe me? Yeah, you might 208 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:33,360 Speaker 1: want to take some classes over it, like you know, 209 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 1: Second City or something. I don't know. Just work on it. 210 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:39,959 Speaker 1: You need that it all, Like, if you want to 211 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:41,800 Speaker 1: do it all, do it all. So I think the 212 00:10:41,880 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 1: new thing is maybe she should have asked him, Hey, 213 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 1: what all are you into? Okay, let's start out. I 214 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 1: will say, like, lately on these dating apps, you see 215 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:53,719 Speaker 1: it seems more and more common you see or you 216 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:57,560 Speaker 1: or you learn about after the fact, non monogamy, married people, 217 00:10:57,880 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 1: experimental people who are doing in this and that. And 218 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:04,600 Speaker 1: I do kind of think it's like becoming a question 219 00:11:04,679 --> 00:11:06,720 Speaker 1: to ask a stranger on a dating app, like what 220 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 1: exactly are the terms here? Right? Like what are we 221 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 1: actually doing? And I know that's unsexy, but it's like, yeah, 222 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 1: I mean I think it is important to know if 223 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:18,560 Speaker 1: someone's experimenting with things, and who's to say, I don't know. 224 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:23,040 Speaker 1: Maybe it's a time where that person is I don't know, Chase, 225 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:25,080 Speaker 1: do you really believe that you're open to a relationship 226 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 1: with a man or a woman. Do you believe that 227 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 1: you are confident in making that choice or are you 228 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:32,679 Speaker 1: still kind of figuring it out, which is also okay. 229 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:36,960 Speaker 2: You know, that's a great question. Ultimately, I do feel 230 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 2: I'm going to marry a woman, you know, as I 231 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:42,200 Speaker 2: sort of navigate life and see. 232 00:11:41,960 --> 00:11:43,040 Speaker 1: What I like and don't like. 233 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:46,959 Speaker 2: I do like trying things, you know, to be told, 234 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:51,679 Speaker 2: and so you know, anything could happen, honestly, And I 235 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:54,160 Speaker 2: date and I didn't have a great date. You know, 236 00:11:54,320 --> 00:11:56,840 Speaker 2: we had a great date. So you can't, you know, 237 00:11:56,920 --> 00:11:59,720 Speaker 2: dismiss that. You know, with Jill, it was it was fantastic, 238 00:11:59,760 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 2: and I'm hoping to see her again and maybe if 239 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:04,800 Speaker 2: it's more and something's there, then then I can see 240 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:06,840 Speaker 2: myself getting really serious with her. And I wouldn't do 241 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:09,560 Speaker 2: the other stuff honestly, but at the moment, I want 242 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:10,320 Speaker 2: to try, Well. 243 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:12,079 Speaker 1: Who did you like better, Jill or her friend? That's 244 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 1: a good question. I mean, he liked Jill. It would definitely, Jill. Yeah, 245 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 1: and if there's wall sliding, that is the choice you 246 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 1: must make. But look, Jill, he sounds like a nice guy. 247 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 1: It sounds like he's figuring things out, but he does 248 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 1: like you, would you give another shot? 249 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 4: I don't think so. 250 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:43,200 Speaker 3: I just and yeah, Chase, I I did have a 251 00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:47,200 Speaker 3: really nice time, but I but I do think we're 252 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:48,479 Speaker 3: at different places. 253 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 4: And may I just say two things. 254 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:55,560 Speaker 3: One, yes, I am absolutely going to be asking. 255 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:59,319 Speaker 4: More questions on my on my next first date, which, unfortunately, 256 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:01,680 Speaker 4: will you know, probably be pretty soon. 257 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:06,720 Speaker 3: But also, in like the dating app world, you it's 258 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:09,960 Speaker 3: not like when you meet somebody organically, you know, in 259 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:10,880 Speaker 3: a you know. 260 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 4: Rom com proverbial elevator, like you. 261 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 3: Can list all the. 262 00:13:14,720 --> 00:13:18,960 Speaker 4: Things you know, I'm I, you know, I am by. 263 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 3: Curious, I am you know whatever, and it's I think 264 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 3: it's kind of good to spell it all. 265 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 4: Out there at the beginning, so there's no confusion. 266 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 1: Second thing, right, Oh yeah, we weren't number two? Yeah? 267 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 3: Sorry. My friend, as weird as it would be for me, 268 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 3: is a fantastic catch, and well you would be lucky 269 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 3: to date him, but. 270 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 1: That would be very weird. Hey, there's an endorsement right there. 271 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:50,720 Speaker 1: I'm going to work on a questionnaire for everybody who's 272 00:13:50,760 --> 00:13:54,319 Speaker 1: on questionnaire for everyone who's on dating app, and I'll 273 00:13:54,360 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 1: put it out there so you guys can have it 274 00:13:55,800 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 1: and use it. Yes, the nutritional fact Yeah, that'll be 275 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:01,959 Speaker 1: on me. Wow, that's a different thing. The ingredients that 276 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:06,120 Speaker 1: would be on a case of case by case basis. 277 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 1: I can't. I can't write that for everybody. It's not 278 00:14:09,640 --> 00:14:11,280 Speaker 1: going to work out. Jill, thank you for your time. 279 00:14:11,360 --> 00:14:11,600 Speaker 4: Cheez. 280 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 1: Good luck to you out there. I appreciate the transparency 281 00:14:13,800 --> 00:14:18,080 Speaker 1: to you. Good luck out there. Let's do the Shelby 282 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:21,120 Speaker 1: Shelley showdown time Breaker with Kelsey. Nine one hundred bucks 283 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:24,800 Speaker 1: is the prize, the Entertainer Report, and oh we've got 284 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:27,680 Speaker 1: a big iHeart Radio Music Festival announcement to all in 285 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 1: the next thirty minutes. The French Show's on.