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Speaker 1: This is the most dramatic podcast ever and iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 1: Chris Harrison here in the home office in Austin, Texas,

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Speaker 1: and I got to get back to this conversation with

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Speaker 1: the Lady Gang. These amazing women who I have known

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Speaker 1: for years, Kelty Knight, Becka Tobin, Jack Vannick, three incredible

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Speaker 1: women who were all married, but in different places in

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Speaker 1: their life. They have different expertises, but they have had

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Speaker 1: this successful podcast since twenty fifteen. And this is part

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Speaker 1: two of my conversation with the Lady Gang. So let's

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Speaker 1: get back into it. When I remember meeting Kelty, it

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Speaker 1: was not on the show. For those that don't know,

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Speaker 1: Kelty was on The Bachelor. Brad Womack season of The Bachelor. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: don't blink, you're gonna miss it. But I don't remember

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Speaker 1: you from that show. I remember you from the entertainment

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Speaker 1: news business. That's where I feel like I met you,

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Speaker 1: and I think we had interviewed together several times.

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Speaker 2: Because we never actually met when I was on the.

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Speaker 1: Best Right, especially back then, do you have to be

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Speaker 1: there for.

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Speaker 2: A while to meet Chris Harrison, It was like, you know,

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Speaker 2: day six.

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Speaker 1: I really they really sequestered me and especially back then

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Speaker 1: with Brad season, it was early days still and we

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Speaker 1: kind of I came and went and just did my thing,

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Speaker 1: and then later on we spent a lot of time together.

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Speaker 1: And I do spend a lot of time with Brad,

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Speaker 1: who actually lives here in Austin.

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Speaker 2: Now, Wait, what's he doing?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 2: Does you regret sending me home?

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Speaker 1: He talks about that he's still pining for you, Kelsey,

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Speaker 1: and I think.

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Speaker 4: You ask him, I know a single. Wait, he's never

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Speaker 4: going to end up with anyone.

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Speaker 2: We need him on Lady again.

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Speaker 5: Hi.

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Speaker 1: He is kind of kind of He's one of those

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Speaker 1: guys that I that that nut you can just never

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Speaker 1: really crack, and I've tried. He is the sweetest, most generous, giving,

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Speaker 1: kind human being. I was dating a girl here in

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Speaker 1: Austin years and years ago, and I was coming in

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Speaker 1: and he would literally leave, he was here, take my condo,

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Speaker 1: I'm leaving. He would go stay with his brother and

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Speaker 1: he would just give me his place for weekends at

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Speaker 1: a time. And he was the only bachelor whoever sent

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Speaker 1: me a gift after the show, just to say thank you.

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Speaker 1: There was a shirt that I commented on that he owned,

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Speaker 1: and he sent me the shirt a new one, not his,

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Speaker 1: but he sent me the shirt. Was like, hey man,

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Speaker 1: I just want to say thanks. And we've been good

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Speaker 1: friends ever since. And he's one of those guys I

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Speaker 1: wish he would find love, but I don't know. There's

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Speaker 1: something in him and in his life that he just

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Speaker 1: maybe doesn't need it, doesn't want it.

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Speaker 4: I'm so glad you said this, Chris, because I will

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Speaker 4: tell you my bachelor story. I remember getting out of

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Speaker 4: the limo. I was very excited. I did a high kick.

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Speaker 2: Because they come in your hotel and they're like, what's

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Speaker 2: your stick?

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Speaker 6: Here go go Dan Henny, and I was like whep.

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Speaker 4: And so I walked up to him and there was

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Speaker 4: and I know he's your friend, so I'm going to

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Speaker 4: be kind. But like I saw him, he had a

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Speaker 4: lot of pancake makeup on, which was like it shocked

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Speaker 4: me at the time, even though I was like coming

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Speaker 4: from the dance world, so I was like all the

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Speaker 4: guys were wearing makeup, but there was like it was

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Speaker 4: like looking at Teresa Judc like there was nothing there, there.

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Speaker 2: Was nothing there. I like looked at him and he

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Speaker 2: was like a ken, I'm just ken, Like I do.

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Speaker 6: What his heart wasn't in it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I knew the depth and didn't feel that connection.

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Speaker 4: I knew from the minute I looked at him he

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Speaker 4: was not gonna end up in love with any of

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Speaker 4: us and staying with us for the rest of his life.

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Speaker 4: There was It's a very closed off personality, like lovely,

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Speaker 4: lovely man, but like.

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Speaker 2: There's a guard there.

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Speaker 4: And I was like, oh, And I knew the minute

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Speaker 4: I was like, Hi, I'm Kelty, Hi, I'm I don't

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Speaker 4: know what I said to him, and I walked in

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Speaker 4: and I was like, oh, fuck, what have I done?

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Speaker 4: Like I literally remember thinking that, which is probably why

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Speaker 4: I got sent home because some producer probably heard me

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Speaker 4: say I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You were and because you went home week two.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I made it. I made it past she rose ceremony.

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Speaker 3: Which she had the best exit interview ever. I don't

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Speaker 3: know if you've ever seen it. Oh my god, we've

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Speaker 3: watched it. It's at the Mighty Gang shows. It's amazing.

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Speaker 1: It's like, I need to bring in Meryl Street.

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Speaker 5: It's like a Saturday Night Live skit with a few

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Speaker 5: parodies on the Bachelor, like the girl sobbing in the limbo.

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Speaker 1: The magic of podcasting here we go listening to Kelsey

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Speaker 1: leave the Bachelor.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 7: You know what, I really honestly wasn't surprised. I had

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Speaker 7: like the worst one on one time with Brad and

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Speaker 7: I said something this week that really offended him, and

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Speaker 7: he just never really got better. So I really wasn't surprised.

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Speaker 7: I didn't really expect much more of a conversation because

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Speaker 7: tonight's the first time I ever had a conversation with him.

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Speaker 7: You know, he was never really pulling me aside. He

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Speaker 7: never really like took an interest in talking to me.

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Speaker 7: So I was always talking at him, but he was

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Speaker 7: never really talking back to me. And I think that

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Speaker 7: it's really hard for me because I'm a dancer, so

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Speaker 7: I'm in the entertainment business, and so talking with Roberta

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Speaker 7: and Ally, it's really difficult to sort of explain what

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Speaker 7: life is like for someone who's in this world already

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Speaker 7: and how we can be really lonely.

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Speaker 1: Also, okay, Kelty, explain to us what we just said.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So here's the thing. I'm a very competitive person

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Speaker 4: and I don't like to lose, and so the truth

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Speaker 4: of the matter, and I talked about this in our

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Speaker 4: one of our Lady Gang.

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Speaker 2: Books that we published was that I, you.

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Speaker 4: Know, you sign up for the Bachelor and then I

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Speaker 4: think a lot of people talk about this now, but

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Speaker 4: at the time, no one talked about it. You sign

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Speaker 4: up with the Bachelor and it takes like six or

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Speaker 4: seven months for you to end up on the Bachelor.

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Speaker 4: So I had I was single, I had signed up

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Speaker 4: with my friend Christina, and I heard nothing. And then

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Speaker 4: I was dating and I had ended up meeting my

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Speaker 4: now husband, Chris, and so we had gone on like

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Speaker 4: three dates and I had gotten and I I really

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Speaker 4: I didn't know he was my person because I'd burned

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Speaker 4: burns so many times. And I was like, well, he's

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Speaker 4: gonna disappoint me on date five, so fuck it. I'm

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Speaker 4: gonna go on the Bachelor. This is going to be

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Speaker 4: so fun and what an opportunity and like what a

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Speaker 4: I so for me getting there, I was like I

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Speaker 4: one cafe and he was like, will you be my girlfriend?

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Speaker 4: And I was like, Oh, You're gonna really regret asking

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Speaker 4: me this because I'm leaving on Tuesday to go on

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Speaker 4: the Bachelor, like.

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Speaker 3: Literally you are literally you're the people that they all

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Speaker 3: call out now that they had a boyfriend back home.

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Speaker 4: But I didn't have a boyfriend. I was, you know,

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Speaker 4: I was dating. I actually was dating.

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Speaker 2: Another guard at the same time.

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Speaker 4: Don't know that anyway, So you know, like I was,

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Speaker 4: I was available to go on The Bachelor.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't break. I would never break a role, as

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Speaker 4: I went on, and I just remember like being there

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Speaker 4: and it reminded me of like dance competitions and like pageants,

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Speaker 4: and like you're with all these other women and they're

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Speaker 4: so beautiful. I remember I was sitting in the limbo

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Speaker 4: and I had Emily Maynard in my limo and Michelle

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Speaker 4: Money two of like Michelle Money is like oozing sex

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Speaker 4: and I was like, I was like, holy shit, I

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Speaker 4: then Emily's like the most beautiful girl you've ever seen

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Speaker 4: in your life. And I just remember feeling like I'm

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Speaker 4: such a loser. Why am I here, Like you know,

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Speaker 4: the imposter syndrome. And that's what made that show great

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Speaker 4: At the time. It was before everyone had social media

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Speaker 4: and so like you didn't know how to play the game.

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Speaker 2: If you will, you know, and so it was just

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Speaker 4: Really crazy and so long story short is that I

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Speaker 4: just didn't want to lose. And so I remember when

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Speaker 4: I got kicked off, I was like, I'm a loser.

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Speaker 4: Like I looked around the room and I was like,

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Speaker 4: every one of these women is better than me, hotter

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Speaker 2: Attractive, more lovable, more.

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Speaker 4: And so getting kicked off it wasn't really about ever

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Speaker 4: about Brad Womack, but it was about like I'm never

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Speaker 4: people are like, she's number one, she's the Emily Maynard.

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Speaker 2: She's the best and the prettiest. So it was like

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Speaker 4: And then I just trauma cried about losing and like

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Speaker 4: I'm not meant to have love and I'm like so sad.

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Speaker 4: And I was with the one feather earring and it

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Speaker 4: was like very you had said.

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Speaker 3: We didn't listen to it when we played it. So

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to like think.

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Speaker 5: About understands what it's like to be in the public

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Speaker 3: Yes, oh my god, She's like, I know you're like

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Speaker 3: being in the public eye and being you know, like

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Speaker 3: you didn't say celebrity, it's something like that, and this

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Speaker 3: business can get really lonely. And then you also said

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Speaker 3: you also said I just kept talking at him, at him,

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Speaker 3: at him, and he wasn't saying anything back, and I

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Speaker 3: think I just like offended him by how much I

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Speaker 3: was talking at him, Like.

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Speaker 1: Do you know who I think I am?

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Speaker 3: Yes, it was a lot of that.

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Speaker 1: When you leave week two, it's very interesting because it's

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Speaker 1: really week one because you know, quote unquote Week one

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Speaker 1: is doesn't care one night, it's it's literally one day.

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Speaker 2: It's I was only there for three days, yeah, the.

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Speaker 1: First episode, and then then we do the dates on

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Speaker 1: week one, which is a three day episode. Like you said,

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Speaker 1: so you really you're there for four days.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: But the other thing, the reason I want to just

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Speaker 4: I'm so glad I'm on your podcast and I can

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Speaker 4: finally come clean. The reason I talked about being in

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Speaker 4: the in the public eye or being in the business

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Speaker 4: is because that was this season they had Ali Fediatowski

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Speaker 4: and who was the guy she was dating, Roberto.

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Speaker 2: They had them come.

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Speaker 4: On and they had to interrogate each one of us

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Speaker 4: if we were there for the right reason. And they

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Speaker 4: were like, well, you're a dancer, you love to be

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Speaker 4: on camera, and you like to be with celebrities, so

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Speaker 4: you're probably And I was like, I just want to kick,

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Speaker 4: you know, during the rockets for Christmas and for Jesus,

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, but I.

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Speaker 8: Was like for Jesus, for Jesus, but anyway, Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: She's like, I'm standing here naked? Can anybody pay attention

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Speaker 2: Couldn't get camera time? If I begged for it.

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Speaker 5: You would have crushed, you would. Well, you could go

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Speaker 1: It's not too l It's not too late if.

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Speaker 6: Things don't work out with Chris.

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Speaker 4: I think I heard about this too, But since this

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Speaker 1: Why you were bringing on the show.

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Speaker 2: Yes, a bit. He loved me. He loved me so

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Speaker 1: Know, so next level fed up. That's sough. Hey, come

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Speaker 3: Did you tell him that it was for the engagement?

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Speaker 2: You can't remember?

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Speaker 1: All I asked what it was?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, this is the book, remember that book Why Men

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Speaker 5: Love Bitches?

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Speaker 4: Like a lot of guys that I dated, I was

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Speaker 4: and that's when we decided to be boyfriend and girlfriend.

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Speaker 4: I wore the yellow dress, he wore a suit, he

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Speaker 1: Can we unpack what?

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Speaker 5: What?

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Speaker 3: Just?

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Speaker 1: Okay? So you came off the Bachelor, didn't find love,

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Speaker 5: He's like, okay, this is this is Chris Knight in

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Speaker 6: Him extremely fucking cool.

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Speaker 5: And he loves Kelty so much and he knows exactly

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Speaker 5: look at me, look at me, all of this is

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Speaker 3: Oh wait, sorry, Kelsey, was the yellow dress the dress

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Speaker 4: No, I don't have it anywhere, guys. It was terrible,

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Speaker 4: It was terrible. And then, by the way, I found

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Speaker 4: out that if you actually get uneducaged on the show,

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Speaker 2: A really good dress.

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Speaker 1: Of course, we put you in a dress room to

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Speaker 2: Fall Chris Harrison, you did this to me.

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Speaker 1: By then you're our hero and we need you to

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Speaker 2: Oh, my god, in the gloves.

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Speaker 1: So the gloves and the black cape.

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Speaker 1: You just dressed her up like Cruella Deville.

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Speaker 1: they dressed her up in this black cape, black gloves

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00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:56,760
Speaker 1: because she had been portrayed as the villain that was

444
00:19:56,800 --> 00:19:59,080
Speaker 1: been Flantic, another guy who just got married by the way,

445
00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:02,400
Speaker 1: Ben Flannic, and so it has been season with Courtney

446
00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:05,360
Speaker 1: and she was obviously the villain that had snuck over

447
00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:07,320
Speaker 1: and they went skinny dipping and all that stuff, and

448
00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:09,080
Speaker 1: so they put her in a black cape and gloves

449
00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:09,600
Speaker 1: on purpose.

450
00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:11,800
Speaker 2: Who did he pick?

451
00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:12,320
Speaker 1: Cordon?

452
00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:15,159
Speaker 2: Oh? Are they together?

453
00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:19,760
Speaker 1: No? No, no, no, that didn't last either. It's safe

454
00:20:19,800 --> 00:20:21,359
Speaker 1: to say on the Batchel, it's safe to say on

455
00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:25,320
Speaker 1: The Bachelor, none of them worked. There's there's Sean Low,

456
00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:27,399
Speaker 1: like we just hung our hat on Sean Loh for

457
00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:28,280
Speaker 1: like thirty years.

458
00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:31,479
Speaker 4: It's as bacchi a relationship as you and Zema it is.

459
00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:34,600
Speaker 1: This really is. It was the long con as we

460
00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:37,640
Speaker 1: had everybody over on Friday night, all the Bachelor people,

461
00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:40,840
Speaker 1: which really it was really interesting, Kelty. It became this

462
00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:44,320
Speaker 1: cathartic event that it was Lauren's idea, one hundred percent

463
00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:47,800
Speaker 1: Lauren's idea. Another brilliant Lauren Zima move. She's like, let's

464
00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:49,359
Speaker 1: just have everybody over because I think if we just

465
00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:52,240
Speaker 1: see everybody for the first time at the wedding, it's

466
00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:55,480
Speaker 1: going to be weird, it'll be performative. So everybody came

467
00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:58,240
Speaker 1: to the house here in Austin the night before the wedding,

468
00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:01,680
Speaker 1: and everybody came. Sean Loh couldn't make it. He was

469
00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:04,600
Speaker 1: with the kids, and then Alan Gail, one of our producers,

470
00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:07,399
Speaker 1: but everyone else made it, which was really cool and oh,

471
00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:10,159
Speaker 1: we know and yes and so. But you know what

472
00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:13,520
Speaker 1: was interesting is I didn't expect it to be so meaningful.

473
00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:15,840
Speaker 1: But also Alana and I were talking on the phone

474
00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:17,520
Speaker 1: afterwards and he said, you know what was great about

475
00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:20,880
Speaker 1: that moment? And I haven't brought this up with anybody yet,

476
00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:23,720
Speaker 1: but y'all made me just think about it. It'll never

477
00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:27,880
Speaker 1: happen again. There will never be another moment in Bachelor

478
00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:34,000
Speaker 1: history where Trista Wrenn to Tasha. That span of nineteen

479
00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:38,879
Speaker 1: years will ever be together again. And I wish some

480
00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:41,359
Speaker 1: more of our friends and cast members could have made it,

481
00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:43,359
Speaker 1: because not everybody that was invited could make it in.

482
00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:46,640
Speaker 1: But there was this group, and I thought about it later,

483
00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:49,280
Speaker 1: I'm like, you're right, like Trista was the lightning in

484
00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:52,120
Speaker 1: a bottle that started it, and then Tasha was kind

485
00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:55,080
Speaker 1: of my last show. And to have all of that

486
00:21:55,200 --> 00:22:00,000
Speaker 1: together in one night, there's nobody there's no connective tissue

487
00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:02,199
Speaker 1: that'll ever make that happen again. There's no reason for

488
00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:04,760
Speaker 1: it to ever happen again. And honestly, no one likes

489
00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:07,520
Speaker 1: the show enough to make that happen again. And so

490
00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:11,000
Speaker 1: that it was a once, it was kind of an

491
00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:15,760
Speaker 1: interesting exclamation point on it all that I didn't I

492
00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:18,359
Speaker 1: didn't think about it till later or probably good because

493
00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 1: I would have been a mess.

494
00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:23,160
Speaker 3: As like a massive Bachelor fan, I would have loved

495
00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:25,119
Speaker 3: to be a fly on the wall and seen the

496
00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:26,640
Speaker 3: conversations that were going on.

497
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Speaker 1: Well, it was a really cool night. I mean, I

498
00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:31,680
Speaker 1: guess Kelty should have been there, you know, being such

499
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:35,280
Speaker 1: an integral part of the show for so long. And

500
00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 1: Brad Wilmack, by the way, was he had someone very

501
00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:39,439
Speaker 1: near and dear to him passed away, so he couldn't

502
00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:42,960
Speaker 1: be here as well. But there's a few other people

503
00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:44,600
Speaker 1: I wish could have been there. But it was still

504
00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 1: really beautiful and it was a lot. It was funny.

505
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:49,359
Speaker 1: It was kind of funny how light it was. There

506
00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:52,120
Speaker 1: was I was expecting it to be heavier and more dramatic,

507
00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:54,480
Speaker 1: and you know, there was the Caitlin and Jason thing,

508
00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:57,479
Speaker 1: and there was you know, Ben and Jojo, like all

509
00:22:57,520 --> 00:22:59,960
Speaker 1: these people have dated or were on each other's show,

510
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:04,560
Speaker 1: and it's very incestuous, it's very you know, awkward in

511
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 1: a lot of ways. But it was really cool to

512
00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:09,560
Speaker 1: how light it was and how everybody there was no

513
00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:12,360
Speaker 1: phones and cameras out for the most part, and everybody

514
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:15,199
Speaker 1: just got along and told stories and we raised a

515
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:17,800
Speaker 1: glass and did some shots and we made funny toasts

516
00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:20,040
Speaker 1: and but there was a moment and I said, I

517
00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:23,000
Speaker 1: mentioned this briefly on a podcast, how the girls were

518
00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 1: sitting out by my pool and they were kind of

519
00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 1: sitting all on this one chair, and I wanted to

520
00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:28,720
Speaker 1: bring everybody in so I could kind of say something

521
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:30,800
Speaker 1: and make a toast. And I walked out and it

522
00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:33,280
Speaker 1: was almost like I went, tink tink, ladies, if I

523
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:35,679
Speaker 1: could all have everybody inside, please? You know, I was

524
00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:37,119
Speaker 1: just like, oh my god, did I just do that?

525
00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:41,639
Speaker 1: But as Becca knows, I literally produced and hosted my

526
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 1: own wedding with Lauren, and I even I even made

527
00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:47,000
Speaker 1: a joke to it, because I'm like, yeah, I'm going

528
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 1: to host this wedding because well, who else is going

529
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:53,520
Speaker 1: to do it? And yeah, so Becca should I? So okay, lady,

530
00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:57,280
Speaker 1: should I have made this joke? I ran this by

531
00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:59,960
Speaker 1: Lauren and it felt I think they the two lay

532
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:02,920
Speaker 1: would have thought this is funny. But I didn't want

533
00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 1: anybody else to think I was being mean because I

534
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 1: love them. But I was going to say, you know

535
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:11,840
Speaker 1: who else is going to host this wedding? And I

536
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,919
Speaker 1: was going to say, Caitlyn and Tasha, don't don't say anything.

537
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because obviously they came in and hosted the

538
00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 1: show briefly after I left. But you know, Lauren's like,

539
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:22,600
Speaker 1: if you think at all it could be misconstrued and

540
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:24,439
Speaker 1: taken His mean, you don't ever want to do that,

541
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 1: and I was like, you're right, you're right. So I

542
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:27,840
Speaker 1: made the joke without mentioning anybody.

543
00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:30,560
Speaker 6: Well, I mean, I think it would have hit.

544
00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:32,400
Speaker 2: I think it would have hit.

545
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:33,360
Speaker 3: It very funny.

546
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:36,680
Speaker 5: But I think the fact that the two of them

547
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:39,800
Speaker 5: kind of got didn't. I mean, we saw Caitlyn shortly

548
00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:42,000
Speaker 5: after she did the first season and she was like, oh,

549
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 5: we're not coming back.

550
00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 6: We sucked, like she was kind of bummed about it.

551
00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:47,679
Speaker 1: There was a lot of retalks in their way that

552
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:49,440
Speaker 1: were not their fault. I don't know if they ever,

553
00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:51,440
Speaker 1: you know, could have been, but they definitely didn't have

554
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:51,920
Speaker 1: a chance.

555
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:54,639
Speaker 5: Yeah, so maybe that would have been the only reason.

556
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 5: But you know, those two are good sports.

557
00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 6: I think everyone would have been very What.

558
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:02,240
Speaker 4: I think is so BEAUTIFU Chris is like, you know this,

559
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:04,879
Speaker 4: this is your life's work. Like I'm so sorry to

560
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:06,560
Speaker 4: say this to you, but like you're gonna be the

561
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:09,120
Speaker 4: Bachelor's Chris Harrison forever. Like I know you do amazing

562
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:11,399
Speaker 4: charity work and you have all your companies and you

563
00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 4: and Lauren are like doing your life now, which is great.

564
00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 4: And like, will you come back to TV in some way?

565
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 4: Maybe will TV even exist when you decide to do that?

566
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:21,879
Speaker 4: Who knows, But like it's it's it's lovely to me

567
00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:24,720
Speaker 4: to think about all of those people being there to

568
00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 4: celebrate you and for you to have that moment because

569
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 4: I think, you know TV hosts there there are so

570
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:34,440
Speaker 4: few television hosts that really make an impact, Like there's

571
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:37,240
Speaker 4: people hosting TV all the time, but as far as

572
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:40,359
Speaker 4: like a cultural impact, I do think that you really

573
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:43,359
Speaker 4: created something and you were the face of something, and

574
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:45,439
Speaker 4: you were a big part of all these people's lives.

575
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 4: Like if you think about the amount of money all

576
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:50,200
Speaker 4: these people have made, the careers they've had, the people

577
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 4: they've met through Bachelor through other people and married other people,

578
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:56,720
Speaker 4: and the children, and the the amount of revenue for

579
00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:59,800
Speaker 4: people like me, and you know, like it was such

580
00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:02,360
Speaker 4: a it is such a conglomerate and such a powerful

581
00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:04,639
Speaker 4: thing that I'm really glad that everyone got together and

582
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:06,880
Speaker 4: it was positive for you as a way to celebrate

583
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 4: your life's work because I know that was incredibly meaningful.

584
00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:11,679
Speaker 4: And the other thing is I think having Caitlin and

585
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:14,679
Speaker 4: Tasia like that was obviously a very awkward situation, and

586
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 4: Caitlyn had been on our podcast and talked about how

587
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 4: awkward it was with you guys, and I know you've

588
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:20,480
Speaker 4: made up since, which is so fabulous, But it's like,

589
00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:22,760
Speaker 4: I think it's like kind of going back to your

590
00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:25,160
Speaker 4: high school re union where like all the stupid shit

591
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 4: that went down and like Becka peeing in your person

592
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:31,960
Speaker 4: high school or whatever she did. You know, like it's

593
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:34,119
Speaker 4: like all of that's kind of forgotten, like all the

594
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 4: shit that people said about each other in the press,

595
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 4: and all the bad relationships and.

596
00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 2: All like it.

597
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:40,760
Speaker 4: It kind of is like a nice I don't know,

598
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:42,359
Speaker 4: it's like putting a bow on that era.

599
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:43,480
Speaker 2: And I love that for you.

600
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 1: Oh, first of all, thank you. And I think what

601
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 1: it was, kilty and you just actually brought it to

602
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 1: my mind, is it was the goodbye that I never

603
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:54,360
Speaker 1: got to have, because you know, things don't end well.

604
00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:57,040
Speaker 1: When things end it's a breakup, they don't end well,

605
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 1: and you usually don't get to choose how it goes.

606
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 1: And that's not how I would have chosen to leave

607
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 1: the show after twenty years. But it was the goodbye

608
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:05,720
Speaker 1: that I finally I think I got where I wanted

609
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:08,480
Speaker 1: to have many of the people that I loved and

610
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 1: gotten to be good friends with over the years kind

611
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 1: of give them a hug and say thank you to

612
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 1: them and let them kind of finally be able to

613
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 1: say say their piece to me. And a lot of

614
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:19,399
Speaker 1: them really did. Like Wells came up to me and

615
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:24,159
Speaker 1: said the most amazing thing at our wedding about what

616
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:26,000
Speaker 1: I meant to him, and I think he spoke a

617
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 1: little bit about it in the toast as well that

618
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 1: Becca heard, and Ben Higgins the same thing. And you know,

619
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:33,359
Speaker 1: I got involved in a lot of these people's lives

620
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 1: and help them negotiate deals and work through life and situations,

621
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:39,200
Speaker 1: and they still call and I love being that person

622
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 1: for them, and so yeah, it was it was that

623
00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 1: not that I'm done with these people, but I am

624
00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 1: definitely done with that chapter in my life. And so

625
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 1: it was a good way to put a pin in

626
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 1: it and put a bow on it and say goodbye

627
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 1: to it the way I wanted to and control that

628
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 1: situation because I didn't exactly get to control the last time.

629
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:57,639
Speaker 1: Which is what's interesting is there is a lot of

630
00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:00,679
Speaker 1: psychology to it that I probably haven't into that you

631
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:04,680
Speaker 1: just made me think about now I'm gonna go cry good.

632
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 6: That's our goal.

633
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:18,960
Speaker 1: Speaking of there's a couple things I want to do

634
00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:21,640
Speaker 1: before we go. But one thing I have to talk

635
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:24,880
Speaker 1: about the Lady Gang because you guys have been such

636
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 1: a force. You got into this I think in twenty

637
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 1: fifteen when it was if there was podcasts, we're in

638
00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 1: the black and white phase. It was twenty fifteen, I mean,

639
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 1: things were just hell. I think Glee was still on

640
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:43,480
Speaker 1: TV right, and so it was such. This show was

641
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 1: such on the forefront of podcasting and all that, and

642
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 1: you guys have become so much more and have meant

643
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 1: so much to everybody. So first of all, congratulations on

644
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 1: the Lady Gang. Congratulations on your success. Where does it

645
00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 1: go now? What's next for Lady Gang?

646
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 5: That's a tough question. Well, thank you for saying that.

647
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 5: We feel like the old ladies in this business. And

648
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 5: so you know, we're still going strong, and our community

649
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 5: really kind of keeps us going. Every time we meet

650
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 5: up and we have to record something, something does happen.

651
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:17,320
Speaker 5: And you know this, you worked on a lightning in

652
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 5: a bottle situation. The three of us, we think we've

653
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 5: run out of things to say, and we still now

654
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 5: in twenty three have things to say, and our community

655
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:27,960
Speaker 5: kind of keeps that spark live for us. We really

656
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:30,320
Speaker 5: want to get back to the community this year. I

657
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 5: think the last couple of years, we've written two books,

658
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 5: We've gone on live on tours with the Live show,

659
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 5: we've done clothing lines. It's been a dream and really

660
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Speaker 5: magical and the opportunities we are so grateful for. But

661
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Speaker 5: we've sort of missed those, like grassroots moments with the

662
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Speaker 5: girls who've listened since twenty fifteen. So we're cooking up

663
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Speaker 5: some ideas of how to do that. But I said

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Speaker 5: I'll never write another fucking book again because it was

665
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Speaker 5: the most miserable experience of my life and I.

666
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Speaker 1: Did it horrible task. It is of all because I

667
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Speaker 1: wrote a book that's I think it's right above me.

668
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Speaker 1: Um check it out, The Perfect Letter. It's a romance

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Speaker 1: novel twenty fifteen. By the way, Oh why didn't I

670
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Speaker 1: come on The Lady Gang and talk about it? Damn it.

671
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 1: But there's still times it is such an antiquated world.

672
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Speaker 1: It is so weird that that the publishing industry is

673
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Speaker 1: like has not moved out of nineteen twenty six.

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Speaker 6: It's so crazy.

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Speaker 5: I mean, we had we made the list, the New

676
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Speaker 5: York Times Bestseller List with the first book, and we

677
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Speaker 5: were so grateful and we weren't busted our asses, while

678
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Speaker 5: Kelsey did because she's an evil genius.

679
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Speaker 6: And then the second book, it was so crazy.

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean, I'm saying with the getting on the list,

681
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Speaker 5: getting on the list work. And so then the second

682
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Speaker 5: book comes out, we're on our tour promoting it, and

683
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Speaker 5: we find out that we did not make the list

684
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Speaker 5: that year because there was one independent bookseller, which we

685
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Speaker 5: were trying so hard to tell girls, go to the

686
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Speaker 5: independent bookseller, support them, support small business trying to do

687
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Speaker 5: the right thing.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell buy on Amazon, buy from stall businesses.

689
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Speaker 5: And we find out that the bulk of our orders

690
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Speaker 5: that went to this independent bookseller, they did not report

691
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Speaker 5: the numbers.

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Speaker 1: So what beck is talking about and this is really

693
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Speaker 1: interesting and I found this out too the hard way,

694
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Speaker 1: that the New York Times Bestseller List is essentially bullshit.

695
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Speaker 1: It is an arbitrary, made up list that they can

696
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Speaker 1: just put you on or not. And sometimes if you

697
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Speaker 1: are a big author, if you're a first time author,

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Speaker 1: they just won't put you on because they want you

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Speaker 1: to earn it and there are books and this is

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Speaker 1: the way they get around it, where it's complete bullshit,

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Speaker 1: where they'll just say, oh, there were too many book

702
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Speaker 1: sales in Minnesota, we're going to just not count those.

703
00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 1: And so I went through with my book The Perfect Letter,

704
00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 1: and my publisher called and said congratulations. Because every Tuesday,

705
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Speaker 1: the record stops and they put the list out. So

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Speaker 1: they called me and said, look, we have a couple

707
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Speaker 1: of authors in your same world of fiction whatever. You're

708
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Speaker 1: going to be on the list. You'll be like number

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Speaker 1: twelve to fifteen. We're not sure which, but you'll be

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Speaker 1: twelve to fifteen. I said, great, great, that's awesome. He's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: first time author, that's fantastic. The list comes out not

712
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Speaker 1: on it, and they went and did the forensics and

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Speaker 1: they're like, ah, they just decided not to count because

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Speaker 1: I did a book tour. I you know, I did

715
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Speaker 1: Good Morning America. I did the book tour. And so

716
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Speaker 1: you're at the mall, you're doing all this stuff, and

717
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Speaker 1: what they'll do is if you sold five hundred books,

718
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Speaker 1: they'll just be like, eh, no, we're not we're not

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Speaker 1: down it there. We're not counting, and you're just like

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Speaker 1: this is so disheartening. This is complete bullshit. It's all

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Speaker 1: bullshit your whole life. You think that it's like, oh

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Speaker 1: he sold five books, they sold four books. The number,

723
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Speaker 1: you know, five is better than four that they're on

724
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Speaker 1: the list. No, it's all arbitrary and it's all made up.

725
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Speaker 1: Welcome to the world of literal.

726
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Speaker 3: Like that.

727
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Speaker 1: It doesn't make it fake.

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Speaker 3: Nothing is real.

729
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Speaker 4: But Chris, I think what you were saying about, like

730
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Speaker 4: about Lady Gang is and I think this is very

731
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Speaker 4: fitting for you as well. I think when we form

732
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Speaker 4: these communities, the people that have the community and the

733
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Speaker 4: listeners that have stuck around, they have definitely disagreed with

734
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Speaker 4: us and disagreed with things that we've said or done

735
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Speaker 4: at some point in the past nine years, you know.

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Speaker 4: And our girl is she's strong enough. Like listen, some

737
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Speaker 4: of them burnt our merch and like a hail Mary,

738
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Speaker 4: and it was like very dramatic. I think some of

739
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Speaker 4: those people were like you and they never came back.

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Speaker 4: But our community, like they know us well enough that

741
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:33,520
Speaker 4: sometimes they'll be like, hey, when you said this, it

742
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 4: really pissed me off, and here's why. And I think

743
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Speaker 4: what keeps the Lady In going is that we get

744
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Speaker 4: letters every single week of people that are like, you

745
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 4: changed my life and here's why you made me leave

746
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Speaker 4: this bad relationship.

747
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Speaker 2: You made me ask for I moved.

748
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Speaker 4: To Michigan to take a new job because you guys

749
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Speaker 4: talked about you know, whatever it is.

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Speaker 2: And then we also get.

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Speaker 4: Letters that people are like, hey, fuck you, this was

752
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 4: really shitty for what you said. And we learn from

753
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Speaker 4: that and we continually like evolve and learn through and

754
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Speaker 4: struggle through womanhood because we are imperfect. And so I

755
00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 4: think Lady Gang is a place for like us to

756
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:06,719
Speaker 4: come out and be funny and make jokes and have

757
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Speaker 4: real conversations but also like try to figure it out

758
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Speaker 4: life well.

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Speaker 1: And y'all are so relatable. The three of you are

760
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Speaker 1: very relatable. You're very different, are we, And I think

761
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Speaker 1: you're very relatable.

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Speaker 6: Something maybe not you kelty.

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Speaker 1: Some people like to dress up in their Daisy dukes

764
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Speaker 1: and have activity Sunday. By the way, the daisy duke

765
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Speaker 1: would be a good costume. But y'all are very relatable.

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Speaker 6: For Chris Night and everybody growe.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, dinnim panties and boots. Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 1: But the growing old you mentioned and first of all,

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Speaker 1: y'all aren't old, but your audience has been able to

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Speaker 1: grow with you and go through being young, being married,

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Speaker 1: having kids, going through like all these stages. And that's

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Speaker 1: what I think. Honestly, the Bachelor of people were able

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Speaker 1: to grow with me as well, and the show evolved

774
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Speaker 1: and some of our audience evolved. But then the new

775
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Speaker 1: people came in as well, and I for one that

776
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Speaker 1: and this is what I love and respect about the

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Speaker 1: three of you the most. I'm definitely not going to

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Speaker 1: agree with everything the three of you say, but I

779
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Speaker 1: don't want to live in an echo chamber. I think

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Speaker 1: that is one of the craziest things about the world

781
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 1: today is that many people want to just stay in

782
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:15,920
Speaker 1: your little vacuum and hear your thoughts echoed back to you.

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00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:18,520
Speaker 1: So you're only going to hear people who agree with you,

784
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Speaker 1: And what a minuscule, narrow way of looking at the world.

785
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Speaker 1: And if you're not being pushed, if you're not hearing

786
00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:29,239
Speaker 1: things you don't agree with, then what's the point. And

787
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Speaker 1: so I like the fact that you guys push the

788
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Speaker 1: envelope and you're not afraid because, like you said, you're

789
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Speaker 1: going to make mistakes. Life is sloppy. Love is sloppy.

790
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:39,319
Speaker 1: The world is sloppy, but we all got to live

791
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Speaker 1: in it, and we all got to coexist and we

792
00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:43,240
Speaker 1: all got to move forward. So let's figure it out together.

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Speaker 1: And that's what y'all are great at.

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Speaker 6: Thank you, Thank you, Chris Harrison.

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Speaker 1: And with that said, a little lightning round. Producer Kendall

796
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Speaker 1: came up with this, and it's actually good because we

797
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 1: are all you know, you know now that Jack and

798
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 1: I are, and the family here, we're all married. And

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Speaker 1: so since all four of us are married, some quick

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Speaker 1: questions do well and some of you don't even sleep

801
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Speaker 1: with your significant other? But do you sleep butt to

802
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:10,919
Speaker 1: butt or face to face ever?

803
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:14,280
Speaker 2: Oh god, but touching feet.

804
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 3: I am so disgusted by stinky bed breath. Like I

805
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:24,200
Speaker 3: put a barricade of pillows in between me and Jared

806
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Speaker 3: so I don't have to smell his breath if he

807
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:28,320
Speaker 3: turns on my side. So I'm a very butt to

808
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Speaker 3: butt person. I don't want you near me.

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Speaker 1: I don't like to I don't mind cuddling at first,

810
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Speaker 1: but as soon as we're going to sleep, I'm like okay, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: there needs to be the continental of divide and we

812
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Speaker 1: go to your side. But Lauren does sleep at it

813
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:43,759
Speaker 1: weird of course, just like her life, it's all over

814
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:48,480
Speaker 1: the place. This is a Kelty delt about the Delt

815
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Speaker 1: on this subject a little bit. But how many times

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Speaker 1: a week should you have sex when you're married?

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Speaker 6: I think two is a good number.

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Speaker 1: That's solid, especially with young kids. Well done?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think one. I think you.

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Speaker 9: I think one and and one one memorable moment a

821
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Speaker 9: week okay that he leaves.

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Speaker 3: You thinking wow, wow, that's so creepy. I would say,

823
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Speaker 3: like too ambitiously and one realistically.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I like that. That's good. That's good. What do

825
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 1: you fight most about? And maybe this goes into also, yeah,

826
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Speaker 1: what's the hardest thing adjusting to being married?

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Speaker 9: Oh?

828
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Speaker 6: We have Zach and I. I fight about tone.

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Speaker 5: He has a very no nonsense tone, and if I'm

830
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Speaker 5: feeling extra sensitive, it really like I'll be like, what

831
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Speaker 5: did you mean by that?

832
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Speaker 6: And He's like exactly what I said.

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Speaker 1: I think I'm like that too. I think I'm not

834
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Speaker 1: animated enough and I'm very calm and just very even keeled.

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Speaker 1: I'm not a yeller. I never yell. It's sometimes I

836
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Speaker 1: think Lauren wants because she's more theatrical and explosive and

837
00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:08,319
Speaker 1: wants to fight, and I'm like, I just I don't

838
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Speaker 1: have that in me.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Chris.

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Speaker 4: My Chris is the same way where I'm like I

841
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Speaker 4: would say like tone is a good like overarching thing,

842
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:19,359
Speaker 4: but it's like when I'm like, let's go, like it's

843
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 4: time to go, we gotta go somewhere. We're gonna be excited, now,

844
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Speaker 4: we're gonna be sad, now, we're gonna be quiet now,

845
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Speaker 4: Like I need you to match my tone, And like

846
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 4: Chris is always at a chill and so like I

847
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:30,719
Speaker 4: have this story of like I got in this car

848
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Speaker 4: accident and he comes down and is like I'm looking

849
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Speaker 4: at his face as I'm getting wheeled into the ambulance

850
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Speaker 4: and he's super calm.

851
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:38,239
Speaker 2: It's like he could literally be at a lake.

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00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 4: It's so serene in his mind. I'm like, I need

853
00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 4: you to be upset. I am crushed. My hand is

854
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 4: flopping over, like I need you to like be afraid,

855
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:50,680
Speaker 4: look at the adrenals, like it's time for you to

856
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:51,920
Speaker 4: have an emotion.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: That's what Yeah, that's what we fight about.

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00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 4: It's like I'm like, when we have five minutes and

860
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:00,320
Speaker 4: we have to be somewhere and you're like, I.

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Speaker 2: I'll put oil in the car, like I hate know.

862
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:03,879
Speaker 2: We are on Miss.

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Speaker 1: Lauren me one time. She's like, why aren't you crying

864
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Speaker 1: about this? Why aren't you upset? And I'm like, oh

865
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Speaker 1: my god, do you want me to fake it? Like

866
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Speaker 1: I don't that's not my emotion right now. Sorry. Yes,

867
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Speaker 1: although I cried like a baby at our wedding and

868
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Speaker 1: I thought, so we did it Napa and I ball.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it was horrible at NAPA, and but I

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Speaker 1: knew every time I read my Valves and Napa, and

871
00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:28,440
Speaker 1: they were different in a lot of ways, and especially

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Speaker 1: the one in Napa, I spoke a lot about her

873
00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:32,760
Speaker 1: dad and got a little deeper that I thought wouldn't

874
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 1: be as appropriate in Austin, when I was kind of

875
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Speaker 1: playing to the masses and I thought, Okay, I've done

876
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:40,879
Speaker 1: it once. Austin's going to be easier. I think I'll

877
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:42,760
Speaker 1: get through it. And then I got to the family

878
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 1: part again and I lost it and I got choked up,

879
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 1: and I'm like, damn it. I thought I could get

880
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:50,840
Speaker 1: through this. But so yeah, that the emotion thing is

881
00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 1: definitely one of those I think Lauren would say the same,

882
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 1: but for her, I would say timely is she has

883
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:02,759
Speaker 1: never met a clock, There is no time. Time is

884
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 1: whatever she makes of it, and I will be waiting

885
00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:08,840
Speaker 1: in the car. I just that is something that we

886
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 1: we She is definitely aware of it now and we're

887
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:12,719
Speaker 1: working on.

888
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 3: It as long as there steps.

889
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 1: Forward, Yes, steps forward. But it's just, you know, I'm like,

890
00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:22,280
Speaker 1: I just don't understand you. You knew the dinner started

891
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:24,879
Speaker 1: at seven, you knew we had to be there. It's

892
00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:27,319
Speaker 1: not arbitrary. It's not just something where you just kind

893
00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 1: of haphazardly show up like we have a set time.

894
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:33,480
Speaker 3: Was she late for her wedding?

895
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:37,359
Speaker 1: No, Like that's the thing is. And Kelty can say

896
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 1: speak to this too in entertainment tonight. She'll never be

897
00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 1: late to work. She'll never be late to something that's

898
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:46,439
Speaker 1: super important. I said, well, just consider this important because

899
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 1: what that really says to me is now you just

900
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 1: don't give a shit, right, so hard and so this

901
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:57,719
Speaker 1: this came up, this is the last one Lauren, for

902
00:40:57,760 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 1: the first time in a relationship. It's something that was great.

903
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:01,759
Speaker 1: I'm breaking. She ate a hot dog in front of me.

904
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:04,719
Speaker 1: We were at the at a football game. I don't

905
00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:06,360
Speaker 1: know why we've never eaten a hot dog together in

906
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:08,319
Speaker 1: five and a half years. We just haven't, or maybe

907
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:10,919
Speaker 1: I didn't notice, but she came with a hot dog

908
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:12,359
Speaker 1: and she and I was going to take a bite

909
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 1: and she only had ketchup on it, and I thought,

910
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 1: honest to god, we were going to break up right

911
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 1: then and there. I thought our marriage was over. And

912
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't even know this person. I don't

913
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:23,680
Speaker 1: even know who you are. Have you ever have we

914
00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:26,720
Speaker 1: ever had a meal together? So it made me question everything,

915
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:28,960
Speaker 1: and it shook me. What is it? Is there anything

916
00:41:29,040 --> 00:41:33,879
Speaker 1: that your husband's eat or cook or do or you're just.

917
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:37,560
Speaker 2: Like, no, oh, I have mine. It's toenails.

918
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:40,319
Speaker 4: I had to go to therapy before I married Chris

919
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 4: Knight because I was like, man, feet are so disgusting.

920
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:45,520
Speaker 4: And Chris is sixty six, so he's got a large

921
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 4: foot and the toes are just as lengthy as the

922
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 4: rest of them, and that gives you a long toenail

923
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:52,760
Speaker 4: bed and as I'm describing it, I want to barf.

924
00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:53,960
Speaker 2: And so I looked.

925
00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:55,759
Speaker 4: I remember looking at him like a week but two

926
00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:57,120
Speaker 4: weeks before I got married, and I was like, am

927
00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 4: I going to be able to look at those toes

928
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:01,720
Speaker 4: on every vacation, every night in my house?

929
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:03,479
Speaker 2: And then I had to like get good with the toes.

930
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:05,759
Speaker 2: So it's like, I don't know. Sometimes they catch you

931
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:06,200
Speaker 2: off guards.

932
00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:08,960
Speaker 1: So have you be honest? Have you done things where

933
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:11,439
Speaker 1: you buy a gift and you're like, hey, here's these

934
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:13,440
Speaker 1: house slippers. You're gonna love these. You should wear them

935
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:13,960
Speaker 1: around the house.

936
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 4: Ahole, don't wear a slipper. He won't wear a slipper.

937
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 4: And he won't wear a sweatpant. It's so annoying.

938
00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:19,879
Speaker 1: Won't wear sweatpants.

939
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:24,920
Speaker 5: What is he He doesn't relax, He's like wearing So

940
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:26,799
Speaker 5: they have this thing at work.

941
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 4: It's like dress pants and hoodies is like what every

942
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 4: one in the music business wears. So he just hangs

943
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:32,800
Speaker 4: out and dress pants and hoodies all the time. And

944
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 4: I'm in my Lady Gangs slack suit like a.

945
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:37,759
Speaker 1: Slack And then you can't come home and sit on

946
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:39,799
Speaker 1: the bed in your in your day clothes, though, you

947
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:40,319
Speaker 1: gotta change.

948
00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 2: It's disgusting, and he does. It's just it's you know what,

949
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 2: we're breaking up. Get him on the podcast.

950
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:52,719
Speaker 1: This has been the long Dawn of this podcast is

951
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:55,400
Speaker 1: to get Kelty back and do a relationship show with her.

952
00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:59,239
Speaker 1: Wow Becker Jack.

953
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 5: While Zach's eating in general could not be more opposite

954
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:06,560
Speaker 5: of my own. So it's just he's an alien to me.

955
00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:09,799
Speaker 5: He does not eat cold foods, so he's never put

956
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:13,320
Speaker 5: a bite of salad in his mouth. Not Ever, he

957
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:15,920
Speaker 5: does not like anything with mayonnaise. I like extra mayonnaise

958
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:20,279
Speaker 5: on everything. So it's just it floors me. When we

959
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:22,920
Speaker 5: go to any restaurant. He's like, I'll have a burger

960
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:26,239
Speaker 5: meat and cheese only, and if a lettuce makes it

961
00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 5: in between those, the bun and the meat, it is.

962
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:32,839
Speaker 6: Not okay for him. Oh like lettuce, it's like tasteless.

963
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:35,160
Speaker 6: Just get some greens into your body. So yeah, that

964
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:35,760
Speaker 6: is something.

965
00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:39,000
Speaker 5: And now my son is showing signs that he is

966
00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:40,319
Speaker 5: the same, and it is rich.

967
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:42,840
Speaker 6: It is triggering me.

968
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 5: I put out vegetables constantly that end up in a

969
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 5: trash can. But apparently kids have to see certain vegetables

970
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:53,320
Speaker 5: four hundred times, four hundred times before they actually eat them.

971
00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:54,360
Speaker 6: That's like a fact.

972
00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 5: They've done all these studies with like how you have

973
00:43:56,680 --> 00:44:00,439
Speaker 5: to continue to introduce the stupid foods to your kids.

974
00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:02,920
Speaker 5: They're like, it can take four hundred times.

975
00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 2: I mean, I just started eating vegetables this year, Becka,

976
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 2: So yeah.

977
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:05,879
Speaker 1: I know.

978
00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:06,440
Speaker 3: I know.

979
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:10,480
Speaker 5: It's surrounded by non vegetable eaters except Jack drink.

980
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:13,839
Speaker 2: A green.

981
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:17,080
Speaker 1: Lauren got me on that, and I know she's sponsored

982
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 1: by him, but they don't sponsor me. So I'll just

983
00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 1: say this anyway. It's like Jack, it's been a game saver.

984
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:25,400
Speaker 1: It's like my gut, my stomach, no heartburd It's amazing.

985
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:26,360
Speaker 1: I love that stuff.

986
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:28,719
Speaker 6: I wonder if I could give it to my toddler.

987
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:33,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, why not slip it in stuff they won't know mine.

988
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:35,879
Speaker 3: I can't think of anything for Jared, but like I'm

989
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:40,000
Speaker 3: the weird one. I cannot stand garlic, and I know

990
00:44:40,080 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 3: it's like blasphemy, Like I'm the only person in the

991
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:45,120
Speaker 3: world that doesn't like garlic. And when Jared and I

992
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:47,440
Speaker 3: started dating, it was like something that he had to

993
00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:49,799
Speaker 3: learn how to get over because he loves garlic and

994
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:52,840
Speaker 3: like wants extra garlic and things. And I'm also a sharer,

995
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:55,719
Speaker 3: like we're not ordering separate things, like we're ordering two

996
00:44:55,719 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 3: things and we're sharing everything. So I have been the

997
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 3: asshole in that situ.

998
00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:04,080
Speaker 1: Luckily garlic and raw onions. Yeah, don't beat either one

999
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:04,719
Speaker 1: of us.

1000
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:08,080
Speaker 3: Really, Oh sticks with people.

1001
00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:10,840
Speaker 5: Hear a raw onion is a bummer, Like it's just

1002
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:12,440
Speaker 5: you need to live alone to eat row.

1003
00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:14,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, they just like it.

1004
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:17,480
Speaker 3: Like sits in your mouth. I'm glad I'm not alone.

1005
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 1: You're not alone because you're part of the Lady Gang.

1006
00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 1: Jack Becca Kelty. They make up the Lady Gang and uh,

1007
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:28,319
Speaker 1: I've been a gosh almost ten years. You guys are

1008
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:29,800
Speaker 1: about to be celebrating.

1009
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:32,360
Speaker 4: Soon, gonna be We're gonna be nine on December tenth.

1010
00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:33,879
Speaker 6: Wow, that's us.

1011
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:36,799
Speaker 4: We made our own day, International Lady Gang Day, to

1012
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:37,839
Speaker 4: celebrate our own birth.

1013
00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:41,160
Speaker 6: We're giving away a lot of free shit Instagram.

1014
00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:43,439
Speaker 1: And look, you'll offend somebody and they'll burn it. It'll

1015
00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:43,759
Speaker 1: be great.

1016
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:49,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, dollar diamond diamond bracelet we're giving away on International

1017
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 4: Lady Gang Day, you know what I mean?

1018
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 1: Really, that's good. That's going to be uh a part

1019
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:54,279
Speaker 1: of the giving.

1020
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:57,600
Speaker 4: Like twenty thousand dollars with the giveaways from December first

1021
00:45:57,640 --> 00:45:59,840
Speaker 4: to tenth on our Instagram at the Lady Gang. So

1022
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:02,400
Speaker 4: if you're not a fan, follow, get some shit and

1023
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:03,080
Speaker 4: then unfollow.

1024
00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:08,439
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, come in for the free shit,

1025
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:09,880
Speaker 1: but stay for the Lady Gang.

1026
00:46:10,640 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 5: No.

1027
00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:13,319
Speaker 1: I know y'all have such a loyal following, and it

1028
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:15,200
Speaker 1: really is a testament to the three of you and

1029
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:19,000
Speaker 1: how you all. Y'all are so open and honest. And

1030
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 1: that's the thing. If you're going to do this, if

1031
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:22,759
Speaker 1: you're going to do the podcast and you're going to

1032
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:26,799
Speaker 1: be in this genre, you got to be honest. And

1033
00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:28,719
Speaker 1: the three of you have been nothing but honest and

1034
00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 1: people can tell like and I think that's one of

1035
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 1: the things again that resonated when I was hosting. It's

1036
00:46:33,120 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 1: like people can see, they can read through the bullshit

1037
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 1: and they can see it and smell it and they

1038
00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:39,840
Speaker 1: don't love it. And so if they feel you're being genuine,

1039
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 1: even if they don't agree with everything you're saying, they're

1040
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:43,080
Speaker 1: going to come back because they know they're getting the

1041
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:43,520
Speaker 1: real deal.

1042
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:47,480
Speaker 6: Yep, good, bad and ugly. Thanks for having.

1043
00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:49,840
Speaker 1: Us, ladies. Thank you so much. I've been wanting to

1044
00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:51,919
Speaker 1: do this. I'm sorry Lauren isn't here, so we're gonna

1045
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:54,440
Speaker 1: have to do this again because I love it. And honestly,

1046
00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:55,759
Speaker 1: if we had done this with Lauren, it would have

1047
00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:56,680
Speaker 1: been a whole different show.

1048
00:46:57,400 --> 00:46:59,440
Speaker 5: Well, come on the Lady Gang with Lauren. We'll have

1049
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:01,759
Speaker 5: a fun time, Harris, we do that.

1050
00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:03,480
Speaker 2: Also, can you come.

1051
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:06,360
Speaker 4: On Lady Gang with Lauren? And also can we arrange

1052
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:07,680
Speaker 4: a phone call to Brad Willmack?

1053
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:11,239
Speaker 1: Yes, okay, so here's what and here's the thing.

1054
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 4: Let's do it super secret where you're like, Hey, I'm

1055
00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:15,880
Speaker 4: doing my podcast. Can you do a call in but

1056
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 4: pretend I'm not there, and then we'll connect the phone

1057
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:19,880
Speaker 4: and then you can be like, do you remember in

1058
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 4: your season that was that girl Kelty.

1059
00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 1: Way he's guilty? What if he doesn't remember?

1060
00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:28,319
Speaker 4: Is that going to be just Oh, that'll be so funny.

1061
00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 3: I can't wait for this very awkward moment.

1062
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:33,920
Speaker 6: Well, you're coming on. Whether Brad makes the phone.

1063
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 1: Lauren and I are coming on, because that'll that'll be

1064
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:38,239
Speaker 1: an amazing show. And I know she's very jealous. She's

1065
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:40,040
Speaker 1: not here today because she loves the three of you.

1066
00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:44,040
Speaker 1: Y'all have been very supportive of her, and likewise, I

1067
00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 1: know she loves the three of you. So thank you

1068
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:48,560
Speaker 1: to the Lady Gang. Thank you for the time and

1069
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 1: go check out the Lady Gang, and thank you for

1070
00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:54,120
Speaker 1: joining us today. And I love talking to each and

1071
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:56,840
Speaker 1: every one of you. Love doing this because of days

1072
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:58,640
Speaker 1: like this, and we will do it again next time

1073
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 1: because we have a lot more to talk about. Thanks

1074
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:03,800
Speaker 1: for listening. Follow us on Instagram at the most Dramatic

1075
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:06,200
Speaker 1: pod Ever, and make sure to write us a review

1076
00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 1: and leave us five stars. I'll talk to you next time.