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Speaker 1: All right, thank you, nephew. Subject why was she at

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Speaker 1: the same hotel? Dear Stephen Shirley. I am dating a

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Speaker 1: man that has a lot of female friends. I don't

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Speaker 1: like it, but they seem harmless, so I've learned to

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Speaker 1: go with the flow. He is on a bowling team

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Speaker 1: with two of his closest friends from his childhood. They're

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Speaker 1: girly girls, and it bothers me because I don't do

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Speaker 1: all of the weed, makeup, lashes and stilettos like them.

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Speaker 1: I feel self conscious around them. To be totally honest,

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Speaker 1: he assured me that he isn't into all of that either,

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Speaker 1: and he loves how I dress and how I carry myself.

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Speaker 1: He told my stepdad that he wants to marry me.

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Speaker 1: So I have been on pins and needles, thinking he's

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Speaker 1: going to pop the question at any minute. He booked

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Speaker 1: a weekend trip to the nearby beach, and he said

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Speaker 1: he just wanted to get away. We got a suite

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Speaker 1: on the beach side, and when I walked in, I

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Speaker 1: got excited because I just knew he was setting the

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Speaker 1: mood to ask me to marry him. That night, he

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Speaker 1: said we were going to dinner and he had a

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Speaker 1: few people joining us to make the night special. It

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Speaker 1: was his two best girlfriends. I thought it would be

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Speaker 1: my stepdad, my brother, and my best friend because I

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Speaker 1: was getting a ring that night, but it was just

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Speaker 1: the four of us sitting there. To make matters worse,

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Speaker 1: one of the ladies asked to ride to the hotel

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Speaker 1: with us. She said, my man got her a discounted

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Speaker 1: rate so she could come kick it with us for

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Speaker 1: the weekend. Why is she at our same hotel? When

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Speaker 1: I asked him that, he got cross with me, like

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Speaker 1: I'm the problem. I was furious the entire weekend and

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Speaker 1: started to drive the hour back home. In the middle

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Speaker 1: of the night, he told me that he's getting tired

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Speaker 1: of my insecurities. I am supposed to be cool with

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Speaker 1: his girlfriends and not worry about him crossing the line

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Speaker 1: with them. Nope, you don't have to be cool with

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Speaker 1: them if you're not cool with them. And you are

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Speaker 1: clearly not cool with these women, and that's okay, it's

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Speaker 1: quite all right. It's not even about you being insecure

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Speaker 1: like a man accused you of. It's about him not

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Speaker 1: hearing you having these female friends and not considering your

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Speaker 1: feelings concerning these girls. It's a free country and all,

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Speaker 1: But I agree with you. Why are they there when

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Speaker 1: it's supposed to be a weekend getaway for the two

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Speaker 1: of you. Are you sure this is the man you

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Speaker 1: want to marry. You're looking for a ring from this

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Speaker 1: guy because his girly girlfriends obviously aren't going anywhere. He'll

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Speaker 1: probably want them in the wedding, you know that, right.

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Speaker 1: You got to tell him exactly how you feel about

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Speaker 1: these ladies always being around. Tell him you don't like it.

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Speaker 1: He's not gonna like it when you tell him that,

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Speaker 1: and you may lose him. But this is about you,

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Speaker 1: and you're never going to be comfortable or happy in

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Speaker 1: your relationship, and you will never trust or be sure

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Speaker 1: that he won't cross the line with these girls. That's

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Speaker 1: always gonna be at the top of your mind. So you,

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Speaker 1: my dear, are not the priority in this relationship, Steve.

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Speaker 3: Well, well, well, here we go again. How many times

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Speaker 3: I got to say this? Damn the subject of this

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Speaker 3: letter being why she at the same hotel. Damn that,

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Speaker 3: here's the letter right here. I am dating a man

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Speaker 3: that has a lot of female friends.

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Speaker 1: I said.

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Speaker 3: Right now, I'm told y'all how many times I got

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Speaker 3: to tell y'all. I ain't gonna keep telling y'all, Uncle Steve,

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Speaker 3: that's old fashioned, Uncle Steve. That ain't hard work no more,

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Speaker 3: Uncle Steve. You can have friends and not have sex

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Speaker 3: with him. Uncle Steve, Yeah, you might can have friends

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Speaker 3: and not have sex with him, But don't mean y'all

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Speaker 1: You might cross that line.

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Speaker 2: Damn it.

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Speaker 3: I'm tired of talking to you about this. You're just stupid.

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Speaker 3: We are men, ain't finna change. We love optics, We

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Speaker 2: We are men.

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Speaker 3: Don't you let no man tell you that aesthetics don't

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Speaker 3: matter what's wrong with you? We are not that complicated

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Speaker 3: of a creature. Aesthetics is everything I'm dating. A man

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Speaker 3: got a lot of female friends. You know why he

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Speaker 3: got a lot of female friends because of the aesthetics.

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Speaker 3: How it looks, how he feel when he around them.

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Speaker 3: That's why you have a lot of female friends. Sick

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Speaker 3: of sayings to y'all. Now, Uncle Steve, you old fashioned,

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Speaker 3: call whatever you want to call it, this real. I

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Speaker 3: don't like it, but they seem harmless, so I've learned.

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Speaker 2: To go with the float. Okay.

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Speaker 3: So now what you've done is you found this out

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Speaker 3: in the beginning and you just got okay with it.

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Speaker 2: That's gonna come back to bite you.

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Speaker 3: He's on the bowling team with two of his closest

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Speaker 3: friends from his childhood that listen to this line right here.

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Speaker 3: They're girly girls, and it bothers me because I don't

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Speaker 3: do all the weave makeup, lashes and stilettos like them.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what you doing?

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Speaker 3: Then? Let me ask you that you don't do we've

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Speaker 3: you don't do lashes, you don't do stilettos, you don't

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Speaker 2: Where you going? What's happening?

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Speaker 3: They are girly girls, and it bothers me. Now they

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Speaker 3: girly girls, and you know they girly girls all uncle

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Speaker 3: Steve asking you if them is girly girl, what is you?

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Speaker 2: That's all I'm a no, no, is you know, Shirley.

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Speaker 3: You have your letter, Just do your letter with all

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Speaker 3: their little bulls, your handswers you be got?

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Speaker 2: What is you?

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Speaker 3: Then? If Jesus girly girls, what is you? I'm just asked, Wow,

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Speaker 3: I'm just that you know, and I'm telling you right now?

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Speaker 2: Do he like makeup? Yup? Weave?

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Speaker 3: He don't mind? Last is yes, instill left. I don't

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Speaker 3: know a man living don't like the letters. I don't

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Speaker 3: know who. I do not know a man that don't

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Speaker 3: like red botm shoes. I just thought I ain't many.

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Speaker 3: I ain't never heard a man say I'd rather my

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Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, hang on, Okay, well hang on, We'll

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Speaker 1: have part two of your Strubbery of your Strawberry letter

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Speaker 1: response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour

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Speaker 1: of today's subjects Why was she at the same hotel?

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Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 1: Steve Hardy Morning Show all right, come on, Steve, let's

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Speaker 1: recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is why was she

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Speaker 1: at the same hotel?

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Speaker 3: Well, the letter ain't really about it's why she at

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Speaker 3: the same hotel. The letter is I'm dating a man

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Speaker 3: that has a lot of female friends. That's what this

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Speaker 3: whole letter is about. Not have told you all about it.

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Speaker 3: She don't like it, but they seem harmless, so I've

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Speaker 3: seen to go with the flow. Well, let me tell

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Speaker 3: you about the harmless people that's on his bowling team.

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Speaker 3: Two of his closest friends from his childhood and two

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Speaker 2: They hear.

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Speaker 3: The problem is they girly girls, and it bothers me

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Speaker 3: because I don't do all the weave, make up, last

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Speaker 3: stilettos like them. Okay, then what do you do. I

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Speaker 3: ain't gonna get into that no more. You obviously you

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Speaker 3: not a girly girl. I'm gonna tell you one more time.

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Speaker 3: Men are into aesthetics, period, Don't you think we not?

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Speaker 2: They ain't been.

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Speaker 3: Friends with them girls all these years because they rough

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Speaker 3: and madly. Man, I showed like these girls right there

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Speaker 3: by you let them t shirts they be wearing, many

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Speaker 3: got them baseball hats. Home. They got they half faded.

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Speaker 3: You know, they should have been here. We can box sometime,

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Speaker 3: we go boxing together, you know, and they ain't doing that.

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Speaker 3: They girly girls, they got on stilettos, lashes, all that.

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Speaker 3: Now to be totally honest, and you self conscious around them,

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Speaker 3: He assured me that he ain't to all that either.

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Speaker 3: He ain't into that. And he loves how I dress

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Speaker 3: and carry myself. Okay, that could be fair assessment. He

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Speaker 3: probably do, but I and he told my stepdad that

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Speaker 3: he want to marry me. So now you've been walking

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Speaker 3: the question. So you thought it was gonna happen because

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Speaker 3: he booked this weekend trip to the beach. He got

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Speaker 3: popped the question. And then he said that we're gonna

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Speaker 3: have to at dinner, and he had a few people

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Speaker 3: joining us to make the night special.

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Speaker 2: Or you got really excited.

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Speaker 3: So then guess what you assumed you thought the special

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Speaker 3: people was gonna be your stepdad, your brother, and your girlfriend,

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Speaker 3: your best friend, because you was getting the ring that night.

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Speaker 3: But it was before, of y'all. It was him, you

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Speaker 3: and them two girls, them two girly girls sitting over

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Speaker 3: there with their stilettos on, and them damn eye lash

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Speaker 3: and said that makeup and they have longer than it's

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Speaker 3: supposed to be. Probably had bought a thirty bag up

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Speaker 3: in here, just all up in here, just all up

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Speaker 3: make matters worse, one of the ladies asked to ride

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Speaker 2: Now, I want you to know that she made sure

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Speaker 3: That information, because she didn't have to say that, right,

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Speaker 3: but little missus gurly girl, made sure that you knew

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Speaker 3: that information. Now, well, why is she at our same hotel?

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Speaker 3: Because that's the one he put her at. So when

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Speaker 3: the room, she right there went till my lashes on

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Speaker 3: in that makeup and them still lettos. You sitting up

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Speaker 3: in here, God on you got a moo moo dress

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Speaker 3: on with them flats. You ain't got an nail polish

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Speaker 3: or toe nail polish. Your head foot over there look

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Speaker 3: like mine? You just over here, just at the beach.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm not gonna do. I'm not gonna look

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Speaker 3: We're we're not finnh Do I need to see some differences.

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Speaker 3: I don't wear nail polish on my toes all hands.

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Speaker 3: I like it when you do, though. I don't wear

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Speaker 3: I don't wear makeup except on TV, but I like

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Speaker 3: it when you do. I ain't never had on no lash. Yes,

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Speaker 3: I happen to like him though. Now if you want

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Speaker 3: Don't have them, you know, yeah, they do it different.

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Speaker 3: Now you ain't got to have tracks and all this

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Speaker 3: get it done right, or don't do it at all.

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Speaker 3: Don't come out the house looking like Mary Poppins. And

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Speaker 3: now we want me to be excited about you? Now,

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Speaker 3: I was furious the entire weekend. I started to drive

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Speaker 3: told me, he's getting tired of my insecurities. Am I

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Speaker 3: supposed to I am supposed to be cool with his

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Speaker 3: If you worry about them crossing the line, why are you.

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Speaker 3: I saw a young dude on the internet that said

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Speaker 3: of his guests said, women, do you all believe in

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Speaker 2: And all the women in here said yes. He said,

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Speaker 3: Intuition can tell you that your man is cheating, why

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Speaker 2: And the whole room got quiet. Wow, the whole room

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Speaker 3: Now, if he keeps inviting these girls somewhere, it's because

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Speaker 3: they feel something in him that you don't. And I'm

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Speaker 3: just being real with you, because it comes a time, man,

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Speaker 3: where you gonna meet the one where you don't need

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Speaker 3: all the other women. I ain't saying you ain't a man,

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Speaker 3: you ain't gonna wish or think about it or nothing

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Speaker 3: like that. I ain't saying that, but I'm saying, it

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Speaker 3: comes a time when you gonna meet one where the

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Speaker 3: rest of them ain't gonna matter, And right now he'd

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Speaker 3: have met you, but the other two still matter. Now

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Speaker 3: you work that out how you want to. Old fashioned

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Speaker 3: ass uncle Steve and told y'all get a dude who's

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Speaker 3: got all them female friends gonna be a problem.

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Speaker 2: Thus the letter. Thank you very much.

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