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Speaker 2: My sister's adopted, so it doesn't count.

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Speaker 3: I've a whole Yeah, you know you already won the

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Speaker 1: Sam, You know, I could have family, or I could

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Speaker 2: I could hire a family and have some left over.

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Speaker 1: I could hire a sister to laugh at all my

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Speaker 2: You actually probably could.

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Speaker 3: Like I talked to my sister probably like maybe fifteen

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Speaker 3: to thirty minutes talk about it, you know, let's say

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Speaker 3: fifteen to thirty minutes every two days.

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Speaker 2: Yep.

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Speaker 3: I could hire an actor probably for really twenty bucks

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Speaker 3: rest of my life of talking to my sister.

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Speaker 1: And is this actor going to Bregnan talk insults from

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Speaker 2: No, exactly.

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Speaker 3: We just figured it out, dude, hire family, Fire your family,

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Speaker 3: hire your family, hire make money, hire a new one.

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Speaker 1: That's the way. Baby, I thirty mail. Lost my mom

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Speaker 1: I did not take my dad dating a year after

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Speaker 1: her death. Well, my dad recognized that he knew this

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Speaker 2: Him in the long run. Yeah, you'll totally thank me

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Speaker 2: for this, lady, your dead mom. That is a wild

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, like, all right, and it's one thing

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Speaker 3: Learning being thank me, just I don't know, having sex again. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I mean like, I don't know. Man, that's a weird statement.

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Speaker 2: That's tough. I don't know how to justice. It's a

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Speaker 1: If Sam has a hard time justifying it, you're not

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you something.

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Speaker 3: Also, I think like, but to his credit, a year

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Speaker 1: Appropriate hundred Yeah. I think that's getting married be reasonable.

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Speaker 3: You get married a year after or started dating a

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Speaker 2: So many times? Wow that you know that is technically true.

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Speaker 1: By the way, thank you, thank you for that clarification.

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Speaker 2: Sam. Not long after that he married my step mom Lucy.

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Speaker 1: And when I began to act out over it, my

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Speaker 2: I don't know if that's the right approach.

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Speaker 2: Well, what explanation does he need? Like?

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Speaker 3: Hello, son, you know your father is a man, and

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Speaker 3: He does sexual impulses that only your stepmother can supply

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Speaker 1: And that's exactly what they should have said. That was

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Speaker 1: And to be honest, Jessica was easily pleased and wasn't

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Speaker 2: My mom is my mom thing. No, that's true. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: This is you got, you got off your stages.

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Speaker 2: That's right. What are the stages? Like? Break it down?

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Speaker 3: First stage, Yeah, my mom's dead. Second stage, my dad's

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Speaker 2: I gotta say, I think you did a pretty good job.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. That was a great breakdown on the fly

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Speaker 2: too on that line, right, very good. This is this

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Speaker 1: It got worse when I was eight and Lucy had

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Speaker 2: Yeah, do they I have enough kids who is not enough.

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Speaker 2: I want more. I mean, it's fine to have more,

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Speaker 3: Is there like any reason? I guess I would have

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Speaker 1: When I was eight, Lucy had her own kids because

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Speaker 2: I did not know that was a thing.

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Speaker 3: So the kids can veto your the adoption. Yeah, I wow,

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Speaker 1: I'm looky.

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Speaker 2: You know your mom dies and you think you rule

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Speaker 3: Some of the biggest dicks in my life were children.

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Speaker 3: That is correct, me as people I've ever met were children.

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Speaker 2: That is correct.

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Speaker 3: There's no one who has been ever meaner to me

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Speaker 2: Children are just tiny terrorists, tiny no empathy.

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Speaker 2: No. No, it's I want what I want, little fucking monsters.

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 3: That destroy families. Correct, and your dreams of adoption.

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Speaker 1: Apparently after that therapy started, but it didn't last. So

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Speaker 1: Samuel Donner's coming, familial proirists like what what.

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Speaker 2: Are you really gonna do? Not take him on? Like

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Speaker 1: In the same position as the dad, I'm like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: A year, remarry.

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Speaker 1: Now you know, we want to have a kid together.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I don't know, man, but I was too

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Speaker 1: So when I turned eighteen, I went straight to her.

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Speaker 1: It was when I became a legal adult that my

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Speaker 2: That is not cool. Why weren't they okay with it?

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Speaker 1: I truly wonder if there's more context than more that

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was furious, so furious that I had my

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Speaker 1: Fast forward to now, and my grandma has passed away.

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Speaker 1: only their lead the elegal grandchildren is to split the

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Speaker 1: two hundred fifty thousand dollars inheritance. And since Jess is

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Speaker 1: legally Lucy's daughter, all she got was a framed photo.

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Speaker 3: Of my mom and a letter, wait, so Op singly

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Speaker 2: K I think that might be the case. No, right,

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Speaker 1: The sister was was the adoption was from for them,

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Speaker 1: for them to be so Lucy adopting, That's what it was.

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Speaker 1: It's not that they wanted to add new kids to

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Speaker 2: You think the grandparents did that on purpose? Well? I

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Speaker 2: Damn yikes, that is cold, clappity clap back, ice cold.

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Speaker 2: Adopt him specifically, not just add to the family.

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Speaker 1: It had been two years since the last time my

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Speaker 1: Which, yeah, I was not allowed to keep any of

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Speaker 2: Oh that's fucked.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I would catch heat if I tried to

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Speaker 2: That is super funked.

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Speaker 3: Okay, context we were looking from starting to see why

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Speaker 1: I didn't expect anyone from Lucy's side to leave me anything,

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Speaker 1: lawyer send out an official letter to Jessica. She said

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Speaker 2: Over this. Wow.

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Speaker 3: Wow, man, that is I mean, it seems like the

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Speaker 1: Right, because you kind of have to in a way

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Speaker 1: it's like, oh, I do want you to move on

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so there's like a right and wrong way.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it seems like in certain ways, Ope's parent

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Speaker 2: It makes no sense whatsoever.

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Speaker 1: I also wonder if Lucy pressured the dad to do

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he wasn't expecting to lee, you know, like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Maybe I think I think daddy's a big a big

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Speaker 1: old cut, big old cut. But I would love to

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Speaker 2: We always get the crazy step mom story.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, moms, or if you've been have you been in

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Speaker 3: because you know this happens in divorce all the time

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Speaker 3: and I just couldn't keep my mouth shut.

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Speaker 2: Am I the a hole? So okay, here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: Right, if we're talking two to three, ay over steven

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Speaker 2: That's a village.

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Speaker 3: My twenty one female sister thirty two female, has been

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Speaker 3: They already have six kids total. The last one was

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Speaker 2: Pumping them out. I mean that's a lot.

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Speaker 3: Yesterday, my sister had announced that she's three months pregnant

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Speaker 3: You gotta wait with words over there. I didn't mean

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Speaker 2: I don't think that's a lot less slip out. That's

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And my sister looked at me angrily and literally

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Speaker 1: Opie said again, that's slipping out. Yeah, but not that

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Speaker 3: I told her that she and her husband have been

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Speaker 2: Let's make it a full decade baby round it out.

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Speaker 3: I was worried about her having so many babies in

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Speaker 3: so fuck off.

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Speaker 2: If you want to have a hundred kids, it's your prerogative.

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Speaker 3: My mother told me that I should apologize for being rude,

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Speaker 2: John? What is your decree? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Be like, all right, you you slipped up there.

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Speaker 1: And also it's another thing to like sit down with

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Speaker 2: Just not the move.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not the move, op one hundred percent asshole.

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Speaker 3: But let's see if this update does you any justice.

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Speaker 2: So edit.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I do babysit my sister's kids sometimes in all

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Speaker 2: But they're to fifty bucks an hour, pretty good, not bad.

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Speaker 3: I'm aware that the stupid husband comment was inappropriate, but

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Speaker 3: I'm twenty one female, My sister's thirty two female, and

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Speaker 3: I apologize to my sister for insulting her husband and

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Speaker 3: making that rude comment, but I told her that I'm

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Speaker 3: it's because one I'm her youngest sister. Two she knows

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Speaker 3: because they both want this pregnancy to.

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Speaker 2: Be the last.

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Speaker 3: For those asking in the comments, she and her husband

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Speaker 3: can afford to have kids. He runs a very successful

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Speaker 3: business and she is still co partner with their best

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Speaker 3: friend in a company that they both started before she

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Speaker 3: got married. How she manages to juggle being a full

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Speaker 3: time mom and work here and there is beyond me,

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Speaker 3: but she does. That's why a babysit sometimes when the

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Speaker 3: nanny is an available. Twenty four to seven. Her husband

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Speaker 3: was the one who initially wanted a big family, and

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Speaker 3: my sister just went along with the idea. But that's

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Speaker 3: their business.

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Speaker 1: Wow, So I would say I am not anywhere near

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Speaker 1: educated enough on reproductive health.

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Speaker 2: Is that actually worrisome? I don't know. My dad's one

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Speaker 2: of ten.

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Speaker 3: My grandma's popping them out every year for a decade,

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Speaker 3: and she is currently ninety one, sturdy, staying in the

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Speaker 3: test of time. Yeah, so I mean, like it could

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Speaker 3: help you live to ninety one. We have evidence, this evidence.

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Speaker 3: This is pure science, pure science. Yeah, you know, the

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Speaker 3: average I went to Amish Country recently. The average family

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Speaker 3: size in Amish Country is eight point two kids. The

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Speaker 3: Amish population is the fastest growing religious population in America.

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Speaker 2: Really, that's fascinating. How you build a freaking empire? Dude?

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Speaker 2: Why not go for it?

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Speaker 3: Well, let's go for this next story. Also, how many

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Speaker 3: kids is too many? Put your answers in the comments.

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Speaker 3: What's your number? How many kids do you want? And

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Speaker 3: when would you start? You know, just like throwing them

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Speaker 3: in the lake or the river.

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Speaker 2: Let us know.