Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make A horrible decisions. Hey, guys,
Speaker 1: welcome to another episode of horrible Decisions. I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: say it like I am from France because I'm so
Speaker 1: sick of hearing that, but yeah, yeah, you chomping horrible decisions.
Speaker 1: Might like we'll start during the pandemic. No, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: say why. I just didn't know I was chewing a goldfish.
Speaker 1: I know we were starting, but during the pandemic, I
Speaker 1: didn't really understand how to use Zoom versus recording separate audio.
Speaker 1: So basically, you record on Zoom so you could see
Speaker 1: each other, but you record the tracks separately so you
Speaker 1: have the highest quality audio. And every time I took
Speaker 1: a byte, I would put the ship on mute on zoom.
Speaker 1: Bitch the whole episode chewing. Oh it's bad, I can't
Speaker 1: focus on zoom. Actually, Patreon, I do, okay, Yeah, because
Speaker 1: you lucked in, you know, so you'll actually like a
Speaker 1: guest on Zoom. Actual, I wouldn't that. Yeah, that was
Speaker 1: hard during the pandemic, having all those guests, like setting
Speaker 1: up audio for some people who weren't podcasting, some who were.
Speaker 1: Everyone kind of recorded different and like remotely. We also
Speaker 1: we already talk over each other and you can't understand
Speaker 1: who's about to speak as a guest. Well, all the
Speaker 1: bitches have different uh gigabytes whatever them. Ships is with
Speaker 1: WiFi and baby, when you was in Mexico, Baby, your
Speaker 1: leg was crazy. That lag was why so, Baby, I'm
Speaker 1: trying to sit here in Paul's enough to see if
Speaker 1: you got anything else to say. You know, it looks
Speaker 1: good on your end, and that the other people's. I
Speaker 1: was like, why are they upsetting? I don't get it, man,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell y'all if anyone like has never experienced
Speaker 1: like kind of roughing it, I know to Loom doesn't
Speaker 1: seem like but it is in the neighborhood. What a
Speaker 1: fucking time during that pandemic, bro I really had to
Speaker 1: have some humility. I thought I was gonna be broke.
Speaker 1: I didn't know where my life was gonna go. So
Speaker 1: the last thing I was thinking about was strong WiFi.
Speaker 1: I was just happy to have water that day, damn,
Speaker 1: which is nuts. Which is nuts now I do want
Speaker 1: to have because in the last episode you talked about
Speaker 1: getting dick, but you really didn't go into who is
Speaker 1: this person? Do you like this person was good dick. Oh, yes,
Speaker 1: but I'm calling you out because for our catchup, I
Speaker 1: would like to know about the set. It was a
Speaker 1: few weeks ago. I know you're talking about when I said, um,
Speaker 1: after Nina Na, who was it was a bd D. Oh,
Speaker 1: you're back because you said you in it? You you
Speaker 1: said you was done. Now I said I was doing
Speaker 1: Old Bay. Now you said you did? She not say
Speaker 1: she was also done with b D I was dead
Speaker 1: to me. I just said that, but she said she
Speaker 1: was done that for Old Bay. Old Bay is dead
Speaker 1: to me. But she said she was done with b
Speaker 1: d D. H hmm. But there was anyway happening. He
Speaker 1: was celebrating something and I it and it just happened
Speaker 1: to be in New York and I just he said,
Speaker 1: let me give us a couchie. No him. This is
Speaker 1: why I felt like it was God, here we go.
Speaker 1: Don't bring God into your mess? Why are you doing this?
Speaker 1: So just is happy? Basically I fly in from l A.
Speaker 1: I'm fucking I had no idea, bro. It was right
Speaker 1: right before the day before the was picnic, nine thirty
Speaker 1: at night. I mean, um, Benny's at the apartment because
Speaker 1: we're going to Philly the next day, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: should we just have one drink? He's like yeah. We
Speaker 1: walked the Soho house. I didn't even see another person first,
Speaker 1: and I saw him. I was like, wow, mind you
Speaker 1: he lives in l A right. Granted I knew he
Speaker 1: was having this event in New York and he wasn't
Speaker 1: even having it, so it was a whole another place
Speaker 1: and we both saw each other. I walked in. He
Speaker 1: was kind of drunk and he was like, good I
Speaker 1: alie beat and I was just thinking about that big
Speaker 1: old Deek and he hugged Benny. He hugged me and
Speaker 1: he looked at me up and down. He was you
Speaker 1: know I was here, and I was like no. He
Speaker 1: was like, yes, you did. And I was like, what
Speaker 1: do you think I did? And he was like, because
Speaker 1: you want to suck me? And I got so insulted.
Speaker 1: I was like, you think I'm gonna just fucking stalk
Speaker 1: your ass at the point where I'm gonna show up
Speaker 1: to a place where so I could fuck you. He
Speaker 1: was like, yes, actually that sounds like your behavior, which
Speaker 1: could be true, but it really wasn't that true in
Speaker 1: that moment. So you were only insulted because it wasn't
Speaker 1: showing the moment. But you do admit that that is
Speaker 1: definitely with the type behavior now. But like if I
Speaker 1: go to a party and I think you're gonna be
Speaker 1: at that party, and I want to suck anyway, so
Speaker 1: let's get to it anyway. Okay, let's get to me anyway.
Speaker 1: So I was actually so, I said how to all
Speaker 1: his friends caught up whatever. I got so embarrassed that
Speaker 1: he thought that that I left or tried to leave.
Speaker 1: I said goodbye, and he was drunk, so he was
Speaker 1: talking to two people that he knew, and he looked
Speaker 1: me dead in the face. He goes, where do you
Speaker 1: think you're going on? I said, I'm leaving. I'm going
Speaker 1: to like this dance party with any He choked me
Speaker 1: out at the fucking not in like a like a
Speaker 1: sad way. Sorry, not in a violent way. Okay, okay.
Speaker 1: He put his hands on my neck, and your pussy
Speaker 1: just started leaking. He said nothing else. He asked me
Speaker 1: another question. He told me my pussy was his, and
Speaker 1: I was like giving toxic and he was like, you're
Speaker 1: pussy's mind. M hmm, I know it is. And I
Speaker 1: was like, first of all I thought, you know, I'm
Speaker 1: trying to start my city. Girl said Nick, he ain't
Speaker 1: he ever? Who are you bucking? You could be done
Speaker 1: with somebody and then go back and it's okay, But
Speaker 1: I can't do that because I wasn't with that nigga.
Speaker 1: You was kind of that niggain. You loved that nigga.
Speaker 1: You at one point considered leaving Old Bay, but like
Speaker 1: you really liked that nigga. Let's not let's not front.
Speaker 1: Let's not act like we can't rewind the tape on
Speaker 1: this nigga. Did you tell him? She didn't. She loves
Speaker 1: this thig. That's what I'm trying to add. What the
Speaker 1: difference is sex, bro, we can run. No, it was
Speaker 1: even after sex. She literally she literally wanted him and
Speaker 1: wanted him to be her boyfriend, wal a bit with
Speaker 1: her boyfriend because she loved him up. I just want
Speaker 1: to know, because when I get into the story about
Speaker 1: how okay that I think about this was a blip.
Speaker 1: If that isn't worth, it's not a blimp a blip.
Speaker 1: We got blips today. So whatever he choked me on,
Speaker 1: it was hot. And then I looked at Vine and
Speaker 1: Vinnie and then guy hit the two friends. He was
Speaker 1: talking to her look at me, and everybody was like,
Speaker 1: what the fuck because a lot of people know we're cool,
Speaker 1: but they don't know he's fucking. So he's like, um.
Speaker 1: I was like, anyway, congrats on your event. Like I
Speaker 1: have to go, he was like congrats. I was like yeah,
Speaker 1: and then I said I should have brought you a gift,
Speaker 1: but since I didn't, since is pussy as yours, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna give you that. Later he was like all right,
Speaker 1: bet So I left and I didn't want to tell
Speaker 1: Vinny I was sucking this nigo. But I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: we did get taken to this Bushwick party. Let's hurry up,
Speaker 1: let's go. So we're walking down the street and then
Speaker 1: he looking at me like bitch. So you're just gonna
Speaker 1: let him do that to you in the middle of
Speaker 1: all these people, and so I was like, I don't
Speaker 1: really understand that's what happens. We have a big book
Speaker 1: you can do. So then we go to this fucking
Speaker 1: Bushwick party where I decided to do just a little
Speaker 1: bit drugs, not that many, but anyway, So we're dancing,
Speaker 1: we having fun and like, who but I'm looking at
Speaker 1: my phone where he's like, where you at? Uber sends
Speaker 1: me the address, So finally I leave Vinnie, I go
Speaker 1: get some dick, I go wherever the funk he was
Speaker 1: staying at Midtown. I get out realize the address. It's
Speaker 1: not a hotel, it's an apartment building. So I guess
Speaker 1: again an Airbnb apartment and I have no apartment number
Speaker 1: because this nigga fell asleep. So now I'm outside on
Speaker 1: fifty something fucking trying to figure out how to get
Speaker 1: up there. So I go to the doorman. I'm like, hey,
Speaker 1: did just see a black pie go up? No, They're
Speaker 1: looking at me like, bitch, what the funk are you
Speaker 1: talking about? So I call all of this nigga's friends
Speaker 1: at four o'clock in the morning, you wanted that day,
Speaker 1: So I call all his homeboys. I call his brother,
Speaker 1: who hears titch his brother. Do you remember the young
Speaker 1: kid that came to our Atlanta show Old Day's nephew.
Speaker 1: Well that ship also shares this nigga's brother's name. So
Speaker 1: what do I do at four o'clock in the morning?
Speaker 1: Called the person with that name in my phone? Really
Speaker 1: going to worship, though I swear to God he answers
Speaker 1: the phone, and he sounds like a young kid, just
Speaker 1: like his brother. They're about the same age. I was like, yo,
Speaker 1: what room is this? Like where is he? He's like,
Speaker 1: where is who? Beats? Name? Is this? Gilas mind you?
Speaker 1: I'm I am plastered, yes, And I'm like you're looking
Speaker 1: at the phone like what's going on? Like it's the
Speaker 1: same name. I'm like, yeah, it's me. Where is he?
Speaker 1: And he's like I don't know who that is? And
Speaker 1: then it starts to click. I was like, oh my god.
Speaker 1: I was like, sorry, I'm going to a party and
Speaker 1: I'm trying to buy my friend's party just in case
Speaker 1: he's told old Bay bitch. Anyway, I called two lines
Speaker 1: just in case, like, oh, you ain't one all Bay
Speaker 1: to be mad. I would all mag to be mad,
Speaker 1: but you called your if that's a bit, that's oh,
Speaker 1: I hope you'll find out. But anyway, it was rife
Speaker 1: he gonna here, Maggie. So anyway, basically, I then finally um,
Speaker 1: someone answers I and they told me his room number.
Speaker 1: Now banging on the door and I'm like, damn, this
Speaker 1: is desperate, but also I don't really care, so I'm
Speaker 1: banging on the door, and his little brother, the actual
Speaker 1: one with the name answers the door because of course
Speaker 1: he decided to let him crash. I was like, hey,
Speaker 1: and I'm sitting there with my heels in my hand,
Speaker 1: opened the door. BDDs sitting there sleeping, snoring with his
Speaker 1: mouth open. His phone is in his hand, and I
Speaker 1: just see eight calls missed from Wheezy. Wake this nigga up.
Speaker 1: We don't even talk. We don't talk. I'm sucking deep, girl.
Speaker 1: And let me tell you something. When men are drunk
Speaker 1: only they can't get their dick up, this nigga can.
Speaker 1: And I imagin ship. I feel like when nigga drunk,
Speaker 1: they can't get it down. That's a that's true. And
Speaker 1: he probably had it because he couldn't get down either,
Speaker 1: and is not ain't drinking hein. We both couldn't come
Speaker 1: because we were so drunk, but it was still good.
Speaker 1: And you know, uh when we were done because we
Speaker 1: were both so exhausted. I looked at my phone. It
Speaker 1: was five in the morning, and then we're right before
Speaker 1: he goes to sleep. He was like to set that
Speaker 1: out alarm, but our roots, Big Nick was laughing at
Speaker 1: me because I came to get that deep and um yeah,
Speaker 1: I went right back home around seven thirty, strung out,
Speaker 1: still drunk. It was really bad. I was so fucked up.
Speaker 1: And he looked at me like what disgusted Nina and
Speaker 1: toe and then profit ol base house. So nice, Hey,
Speaker 1: well I'll share my little dad, I'll sep um so
Speaker 1: yeah so so manye it's still been somewhat in the
Speaker 1: picture of the front and so uh. During Memorial Day weekend,
Speaker 1: I didn't get to give you guys a eight. The
Speaker 1: four more erotic dining went amazing. It was great, yes,
Speaker 1: and clearly because we were not together. My plus one
Speaker 1: was Medina, So Medina from Cocktails came up. She was
Speaker 1: my plus one all weekend. And so we go to dinner.
Speaker 1: We're dressed to the nines and I was bringing liquor,
Speaker 1: uh like champagne, so for when people walked in, they
Speaker 1: got champagne. So I was like already running around. We
Speaker 1: had to get our makeup done, and he's like, well,
Speaker 1: I can bring the liquor. He gets to my house
Speaker 1: to drop off the liquor. It's time for me now
Speaker 1: to go. He's like, well I can thank y'all, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, you're being all nice. Mind you. The
Speaker 1: only reason he was my plus one because nigga, we
Speaker 1: broke up, and so I sold Joe cheer when we
Speaker 1: broke up to then not really sold because it was free,
Speaker 1: but I was like, I was gonna invite somebody else,
Speaker 1: and it wasn't gonna be a nigga. It was gonna
Speaker 1: be my friends. So we get to where the location is.
Speaker 1: Mind you, was a meat packing if never of y'all
Speaker 1: know about meat packing. The cobble stone is some fucking bullshit.
Speaker 1: So he's literally walking into carrying our bags, carrying the liquor,
Speaker 1: making sure me and Medina don't follow the cobble stone,
Speaker 1: and clearly we know it's about to be a long
Speaker 1: night because it's only a dinner. So there was no
Speaker 1: play party after the dinner because of the because of
Speaker 1: the location. So we're all ready to go out, but
Speaker 1: just walking over one block, our feet are hurting. So
Speaker 1: even though he's not invited to the dinner, he's like, well, well,
Speaker 1: I've already been your little letter, so I'm gonna continue
Speaker 1: being your little letter. So he's like, I want you
Speaker 1: all to have a really good night. What do y'all need?
Speaker 1: And I'm like, my feet are already killing me. I
Speaker 1: have my my little expensive feel song. So he goes.
Speaker 1: He's like, I'm gonna go get you some flats so
Speaker 1: that you can have a good night, bitch. He comes
Speaker 1: back right before the party starts. This nigga was like,
Speaker 1: where do I go? Where do women's shop? This nigga
Speaker 1: went to Forever twenty one? Okay, and bro, I'm like,
Speaker 1: I didn't even know niggas know what Forever do we
Speaker 1: want play? They do? Well? He went up Forever twenty
Speaker 1: one and brought back flip flops for me, Amada. It
Speaker 1: was like, here you go, guys. You guys, have a
Speaker 1: good night. Don't want to hover over you. And I
Speaker 1: was like, you were such a good little boy, and
Speaker 1: like I did a little thing because he was my
Speaker 1: little letter. He wanted to play the role of my
Speaker 1: little letter. And he's very very masculine and very little.
Speaker 1: Do I really get to be dominating like with him?
Speaker 1: So I was just really nice that he did that.
Speaker 1: It was like for like And that's the thing too,
Speaker 1: that I think he's he's known like I think it's
Speaker 1: because we come in not really needing men with money anymore,
Speaker 1: not really I mean we were not depending on it.
Speaker 1: Like there was a lot of men in my past
Speaker 1: that I could literally say I dealt with him for survival.
Speaker 1: I dealt with you because I needed you to pay
Speaker 1: my rent, or to help me through school, or to
Speaker 1: help me do certain things. And just it feels good
Speaker 1: to now just have genuine relationships. And so in terms
Speaker 1: of where we've been talking, like he's now not use
Speaker 1: it against me that I really enjoy acts of service,
Speaker 1: and so in terms of a little letter in that
Speaker 1: in that instance where it wasn't sexual at all, my god,
Speaker 1: my pussy was dripping, like just for him to cater
Speaker 1: to pick up the liquor. Don't do that, don't do that. Okay,
Speaker 1: my pussy wasn't dripping to thank you, thank you. It
Speaker 1: was the thought, but not only the thought, like I
Speaker 1: took off my expensive shoes, I put those flop clubs
Speaker 1: on it, and like, my pussy is leaking. No, but seriously, like,
Speaker 1: oh no, it was leaking because to me, not only
Speaker 1: the liquor, like he purchased the liquor, like he's done
Speaker 1: some b n H runs for me for the studio,
Speaker 1: like he's just been like and that's the thing, right,
Speaker 1: I realized how much my love language have changed. Like again,
Speaker 1: if you'll listen to the pod a few years ago,
Speaker 1: maybe I won't gifts. I won't gifts or bills paid,
Speaker 1: and that's all like give and now it's literally acts
Speaker 1: of service that when a man can put their schedule
Speaker 1: aside to do something to make my life easier, because
Speaker 1: my life is very fucking hectic. That to me just
Speaker 1: as like oh god, motherfucking ship, damn, oh give it
Speaker 1: to give it some not seriously, like a whole faucet.
Speaker 1: So that was really nice for us. What was your
Speaker 1: bi the blip? I mean the blip was we went
Speaker 1: to the safe flood the next night and uh, definitely
Speaker 1: are y'all three again? Yeah, but she had six people
Speaker 1: on her I don't know she shared it on her
Speaker 1: show yet, like she was in her own world. Mind you.
Speaker 1: I was hosting, so I was a little less active,
Speaker 1: got active. Your friends should be your new boundary for
Speaker 1: sex with him. I think if you're gonna yeah, no,
Speaker 1: it is. It is. It is not someone you trust,
Speaker 1: and it is it is. I mean we're we're slowly
Speaker 1: like just we're keeping set friends separate and I think, right,
Speaker 1: so that's the thing in relationships. And I think we've
Speaker 1: we've sent my touch on this on Patreon. But when
Speaker 1: you're in a relationship and you love your friends and
Speaker 1: you also want to bring your partner around, I think
Speaker 1: there becomes because even in coming back, he's explained how
Speaker 1: he feels like a prop in my life. And it's
Speaker 1: because even though he's super around my friends and we
Speaker 1: have such a blast, when we break up, he realized
Speaker 1: all my friends was like, duke this nigga, if you
Speaker 1: out the picture, you have the picture with us too.
Speaker 1: And so now it's an issue or or maybe something
Speaker 1: that he needs to work through because they ain't changing
Speaker 1: that even though we do all of these things together
Speaker 1: and we make these memories together. I don't want you
Speaker 1: to feel like a prop. But this is also my world,
Speaker 1: and when you're not a part of my world, I
Speaker 1: need you to know that nothing a part of my
Speaker 1: world will be attached to you once we're over. I
Speaker 1: tried to take last lap and well even even oh
Speaker 1: Boy took the took the bar away from me, he
Speaker 1: took the bar from your house. We do that, and
Speaker 1: that's where I'm just like, I don't know what your
Speaker 1: past relationships have been but ship gets with a breakup.
Speaker 1: It's not only friends, it's not only our love, babe,
Speaker 1: it's the places we go. And I got a whole
Speaker 1: lot of power, a whole lot, so I was even like,
Speaker 1: just so you know, baby, I know the owners of
Speaker 1: these sex clubs. Don't make sure there's a band on
Speaker 1: your ass because I don't want to run into you
Speaker 1: baby the beach. I don't know what sheriff I got
Speaker 1: to talk to, you know what I mean? The sex
Speaker 1: club thing like, and the problem is old Bays in
Speaker 1: his forties, Brooklyn nigga, so he knows fucking everybody that
Speaker 1: owns the ship I go to, right, he moves and
Speaker 1: shakes in the same world. So I get it, Like
Speaker 1: I won't love it, but no, I don't want to
Speaker 1: not entertaining. He just a dude that's been around. I
Speaker 1: don't want nobody in the industry. He's not in that
Speaker 1: dick been around the blog and that's all that matter.
Speaker 1: Even dated, But you did city, bro, They're gonna know
Speaker 1: if you dated somebody that they don't know that from.
Speaker 1: Like it's hard, you got an anomaly, but like it's
Speaker 1: not easy though, I dig it an anomaly and on
Speaker 1: another one, I gotta find me, not industry. I need
Speaker 1: the world to shut down. I need the world to
Speaker 1: shut down again. That's the only reason I found this
Speaker 1: Next that's kind of why I'm into the dreaming again.
Speaker 1: Why because he's just like he gets it, but he's
Speaker 1: not in it. And I also love that ship. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like I don't need to know, but like know what
Speaker 1: I'm talking about, but not like I don't need to
Speaker 1: relate to much. Yeah that's a good feeling. Um, I
Speaker 1: could dig it. But yeah, when in a break up
Speaker 1: the place off limits sex club that they need to
Speaker 1: go go on at, buddy, not only sex club. I
Speaker 1: just need listen, just know. And that's where like the
Speaker 1: boundaries or maybe that's a conversation to like to have
Speaker 1: on the first date. Now moving forward, like, listen, we're
Speaker 1: gonna have a great time together. You're gonna meet all
Speaker 1: my friends because I work so much the way that
Speaker 1: I find ways to lick up with my friends even
Speaker 1: if we are if we had a bar, of course,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell O my friends to pull up. I
Speaker 1: tell my friends to pull up on me whenever, wherever. Hello,
Speaker 1: if I'm hosting something, everyone's invited because this is when
Speaker 1: I get to see my friends. Your time cost a
Speaker 1: lot of money, it does. And so but my friends,
Speaker 1: my friends are number one in my relationship hierarchy of
Speaker 1: what where people stand in my life. So and maybe
Speaker 1: my partner comes second or third. With family, family has yeah,
Speaker 1: I damn near grow up to Osborne's. It's just a
Speaker 1: very toxic family. But I guess you know, friends like
Speaker 1: the family, and my friends are the family that I
Speaker 1: got to choose, so they come. They need so much too.
Speaker 1: I have to tell you gave me a little inspo
Speaker 1: recently because you know, I've been talking about how been
Speaker 1: going out to this party in l A. And someone
Speaker 1: I've been hanging with her obviously, and we're cool with
Speaker 1: each other's friends now to the point where like we
Speaker 1: all follow each other, Okay, Vinnie my homegirl Emily in
Speaker 1: l A. Like Brittany met him like now his like
Speaker 1: and if someone comes in town. It's the point where
Speaker 1: like we all vibe so hard, so we all hang out,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, that needs to be a conversation. You
Speaker 1: have to have that versation when you start mixing. And Malak,
Speaker 1: he's ever going to hit a friend up without me,
Speaker 1: but but but but but but to me, it just
Speaker 1: did it. But I did it. I see all boys.
Speaker 1: I was going out and I was like, Oh, what's
Speaker 1: you up to tonight? And I realized like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I have to stop. But then at the same time,
Speaker 1: I feel like this is what everybody wants. We always
Speaker 1: want to date someone or start hanging with someone that
Speaker 1: like can live and exist within our friend groups. And
Speaker 1: I think what you really taught me was like the
Speaker 1: quote unquote boundary that you got to not you got to.
Speaker 1: But see, even you hitting up the friend, he probably
Speaker 1: didn't think anything of it. But that's the thing. If
Speaker 1: you gotta stop working with each other, like these are
Speaker 1: my friends. But but That's what I'm saying. But is it?
Speaker 1: Is it now that y'all share so much friends? If
Speaker 1: you stopped working with him tomorrow, do you really feel like, damn,
Speaker 1: I've created all these great relationships with all these other people.
Speaker 1: Now now I can't up with them because I met them.
Speaker 1: I will say that feels nice about it. And I
Speaker 1: said this, like, um, I don't know if Old Bay
Speaker 1: and I had that with each other's friends, but I'm
Speaker 1: talking about this new nig no. I know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like it's like the worst of the best of whatever.
Speaker 1: Right you complain when you do complain when we don't.
Speaker 1: But I didn't realize it until this person, Like mm hmm,
Speaker 1: is this what it could be like when friends are lit?
Speaker 1: Because old be and I just did not share friends
Speaker 1: and I just expected not to. Don't get me wrong,
Speaker 1: Like if we all went out with any cool or
Speaker 1: you know whatever, Like we did a thing, but it
Speaker 1: wasn't like this. It didn't feel like this, And I
Speaker 1: don't know which is worse. I just I would say
Speaker 1: that's one of those conversations to where maybe you have
Speaker 1: it now, yo, if this doesn't work out, and like
Speaker 1: would you feel away? Like, like, would you feel away
Speaker 1: if I hit up your friends to hang out? Is
Speaker 1: that a Is that a deal breaker? Would you feel
Speaker 1: away if he hit up your friends? Since clearly I did.
Speaker 1: And this was a conversation we never had until now
Speaker 1: we're having it because we're in a cordial, just friendly
Speaker 1: space where we can now like talk through the things
Speaker 1: that weren't working in our relationships, but also even in
Speaker 1: our breakups, what things really fucked with us the most.
Speaker 1: And that's what we're having now, so maybe before it
Speaker 1: gets there, that's a conversation I have. Way. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think you should. I think you should. All right, let
Speaker 1: me get the boundary. Even though you're not made man,
Speaker 1: everybody wants to hear that. I'm just saying, let's get
Speaker 1: into the outline um for this week. Let me read,
Speaker 1: let me read it from the what you would call it?
Speaker 1: How do I read? Look? Look at me? I'm old?
Speaker 1: How Why do I feel like? Why does it feel
Speaker 1: like when you're having your period? Crabs? Like there's really
Speaker 1: a person and they're beating your ass? Yes, I had
Speaker 1: the worst like period last month and I was just like,
Speaker 1: what the fuck? Um eating a lot of meat? Um? No,
Speaker 1: I think just stressed. I think just stressed, bitch. When
Speaker 1: I was on that set frame TV, bitch, I blew
Speaker 1: up the best and they gave me the bethroom to myself.
Speaker 1: I swear to god, I didn't know if it was nerves.
Speaker 1: I also get nerves when I spend a lot of money.
Speaker 1: I spend a lot of money at once, you know,
Speaker 1: I know, seriously, maybe I blew the bathroom. They was
Speaker 1: like they were telling the hole set you see as
Speaker 1: the bathroom, Please, that's where the guy. That's how bad
Speaker 1: it was, mind you. I was gonna set at seven
Speaker 1: thirty for hair and makeup. My home girl shot, I said,
Speaker 1: he there, Well, she's not my own girl, she's that's
Speaker 1: my boss. But she mean when you were doing the show,
Speaker 1: when you were when yeah, for the MTV Awards, So
Speaker 1: we were on set and maybe I had to get
Speaker 1: there earliest fun but I I just spent so much
Speaker 1: money and I was just my nerves were fucking shot,
Speaker 1: so I blew. It was that a delf frist goes.
Speaker 1: But I'm would blame my nerves because I eat a
Speaker 1: delf fristcos and this they't never happened. But anyways, blow
Speaker 1: up the bathroom. It's seven o'clock in the morning. Heather
Speaker 1: doesn't get there till eleven. The the motherfucking smell is
Speaker 1: still lingering. No man, she it was eleven, mind you.
Speaker 1: I felt so bad by the way, I'm apologized to
Speaker 1: you publicly. Taffy. Taffy's makeup room was right across from
Speaker 1: the bathroom. I felt so bad because it just went, Oh,
Speaker 1: let me spray my little guccy. It was I was bad.
Speaker 1: Smell my own ship sometimes, Oh that it was bad. Yep.
Speaker 1: I even tried to do courtesy fleshes. So my best
Speaker 1: friend talk me about courtesy fleshes, which are while you
Speaker 1: ship and when you spell it before you even get done.
Speaker 1: Just start flesh right, just start flush while it's coming out,
Speaker 1: while it's still coming out. I don't, I keep tina.
Speaker 1: I was not gonna lie to match and blow the
Speaker 1: funk up. That's how. No, it was rancid. Nope, Nope,
Speaker 1: it didn't ran. I'm telling you. It was del first
Speaker 1: goes the early morning. I didn't even get my coffee yet.
Speaker 1: It was either that or the throat coat t And
Speaker 1: I know it wasn't the throat code unless that works
Speaker 1: as elaxative. I don't know it was that a period
Speaker 1: ship heard no, but I was on my laptip. My period.
Speaker 1: It was the end of a period ship. I know
Speaker 1: we had a beginning period ship, period ship. The period
Speaker 1: ship is the worst. Why are we talking about booty
Speaker 1: hole cramp dog Okay, I don't know about Booty. I
Speaker 1: just know about you. Your your cramps to you. But
Speaker 1: maybe you just gotta ship. Oh do you feel like
Speaker 1: you feel it in your back? She said? The bootoole
Speaker 1: She's like no, Um, well, speaking of assholes and boodholes,
Speaker 1: I wanted to get into the fiddle of ship for
Speaker 1: this week. Um, and it's something that you actually spoke
Speaker 1: about as well with sex sells. So the woman, sorry,
Speaker 1: the woman who made two hundred thousand dollars selling parts
Speaker 1: in a jar and went to the hospital, is now
Speaker 1: earning five thousand dollars a day selling boom sweat and
Speaker 1: she that is boob sweat. My nigga, Wait, why did
Speaker 1: you so? I don't really know she I think she
Speaker 1: just wanted to be on TV. Well now she's making
Speaker 1: all the money, so it did. So this chick, if
Speaker 1: anyone remembers a girl in any fiance that had a
Speaker 1: compromised immune system who went to Australia to meet her girlfriend,
Speaker 1: she wasn't giving gay at all, to the point where
Speaker 1: the other girl is kind of like it, but she's
Speaker 1: not even gay. It was just weird, I don't know.
Speaker 1: And she was like complaining about everything, and she just
Speaker 1: kind of seemed annoying. I just don't even see her
Speaker 1: eating a pussy, and I guess that's true because she's
Speaker 1: instead of doing that on only. I do want to ask,
Speaker 1: because you said you have you wouldn't do only fans
Speaker 1: because you're now in the certain positions and rooms that
Speaker 1: you're in. Now, I get why you wouldn't do that,
Speaker 1: But would you randomly sell something that wasn't sexual to
Speaker 1: the masses but maybe someone just wanted like boop sweat
Speaker 1: is not really sexual. No, you still wouldn't sell any
Speaker 1: So I did do something on sex cells and on
Speaker 1: my self for charity, and that's it, okay, mainly because
Speaker 1: like I wanted to, I've been trying to live in
Speaker 1: the life of the businesses, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like brod sad that episode where I got on the
Speaker 1: phopo Sofia is so I just saw the editing footage
Speaker 1: and I was like, when we cut out my fall
Speaker 1: at least like cant But I say that to say,
Speaker 1: like I just I don't know if I can really
Speaker 1: do it and be It's like I want to do
Speaker 1: everything that I want to do with like pride, and
Speaker 1: I'm not secure enough to do it. Okay, It's just
Speaker 1: like talking about insecurities for a moment, like you know,
Speaker 1: talking to Lena the Plug about her ship, like people
Speaker 1: could be bride eyed even though you were about your
Speaker 1: feet picks like you didn't feel a way about doing
Speaker 1: it like I do, Okay, And I don't mean I
Speaker 1: don't noticed, I know, I mean just right like things.
Speaker 1: And it's maybe because I know someone will use it
Speaker 1: for there I don't know. But you know, I'm also
Speaker 1: just trying to be honest here because I'm not saying
Speaker 1: it in a shamy way obviously. I mean, I'm sure
Speaker 1: it can make great money if I decided to get
Speaker 1: only fans, but like, I can't do it. But that's
Speaker 1: I thought it was about my job and stuff. But
Speaker 1: ken you left the comment a few days ago on
Speaker 1: our roots picnic Ship like shaking my damn head, like
Speaker 1: you know, everyone I worked with for the most part
Speaker 1: like knows what the do you know? Like I wanted
Speaker 1: them calls and my emails wheezy at the company I
Speaker 1: work for, like they know you know. And and so
Speaker 1: I don't think it's that more than it's like I
Speaker 1: don't think I'm secure enough to do it, Okay, I
Speaker 1: don't think. I don't know how sexy I could be,
Speaker 1: Like you know, I think I'm goofy. I don't think
Speaker 1: I'm sexy at all, but I'll be open to sell
Speaker 1: on some ship showwood Boot, you want the limp from
Speaker 1: my thoughts? Like what you won't, I'll sell it. How
Speaker 1: much would you sell the books? Boots sweat? I mean,
Speaker 1: if this bitch, I would I would charge premium just
Speaker 1: because as a white woman, So I would charge premium
Speaker 1: rates because I'm gonna compete with this. I don't know,
Speaker 1: but she means five thousand a day. And I tried
Speaker 1: to blink it. Five thousand dollars a day. But boots sweat,
Speaker 1: bro but boobs sweat. We were sweating on that stage,
Speaker 1: his picnic stage, but not even where because the dress
Speaker 1: was cut on the side. Oh puff puff, Like I
Speaker 1: had to wipe my leg and it was not foreign.
Speaker 1: Oh and I got I'm gonna have a whole bunch
Speaker 1: of thoughts this summer, Like New York is hot, son,
Speaker 1: I am dying. I walked to the studio. It's a
Speaker 1: fifteen minute walk. Okay, I didn't make it. It's hot,
Speaker 1: a little deep, that's happy walk, no, I know, and
Speaker 1: heels too. Oh yeah, you're bugging. Oh my god, really
Speaker 1: almost lost my fucking mind. Why everybody knows how much
Speaker 1: I love Jesus. I'm walking on the street, this black
Speaker 1: suburban stops, someone opens the door. I thought like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, somebody's gonna holler at me. It was Jesus
Speaker 1: saying like, yeah, dog, you should have seen me. I
Speaker 1: acted like and it's crazy when you're really a fan
Speaker 1: of someone. And that's why a few weeks ago on
Speaker 1: our episode when I was like, I don't care if
Speaker 1: people come up to me, like, he stopped to say hi,
Speaker 1: and I still was he looked like he jumped back
Speaker 1: in the car because I was like, was like, oh
Speaker 1: my really yeah yeah hoping, man, I can't like I
Speaker 1: just like when I love someone, I can't walking hope it.
Speaker 1: But not just love when you're like inspired by someone,
Speaker 1: when someone is an idol to me at what they do. Fuck,
Speaker 1: I'm that's Overdud. I haven't met, but I'm like over
Speaker 1: Brown anyway. All right, let's get into the horrible decision
Speaker 1: for this week. So the horrible decision is romping through
Speaker 1: the ages, and it's only because I have been seeing
Speaker 1: so many things on the Internet where they be acting
Speaker 1: like our granddaddy's wasn't cheating, the grandmama's wasn't being a hole,
Speaker 1: and so I'm like I wanted to come on here
Speaker 1: and say we have been hoeing, nigga's have been cheating,
Speaker 1: We've been busting a wide open for century. So I
Speaker 1: found this article on the Sun dot co dot uk,
Speaker 1: and I wanted to start off actually with sex toys. Um.
Speaker 1: Sex toys have actually been around forever and I know
Speaker 1: we get now like all the things. So it says
Speaker 1: humans have been creating toys to enhance their sex lives
Speaker 1: for as long as they have been having sex. Um
Speaker 1: back in the King dynasty, Um from China actually found
Speaker 1: that King q I n G. That's king. There ain't no.
Speaker 1: Why did you look at me like that? There ain't no.
Speaker 1: You're just saying, but there there there might be a
Speaker 1: Ming dynasty. But this is from the King dynasty but
Speaker 1: spelled with a quea and it would be look at
Speaker 1: me looking at the Asian. Sorry sorry, I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: you're not Asians? Oh wait what this at hr? Sorry? Red,
Speaker 1: but I was trying to be Yoda is her name?
Speaker 1: Oh Yo Mada? Oh yeah, he's from South Africa, South
Speaker 1: African America, African American whatever, proud King dynasty, sorry, king dynasty, nothing, bitch,
Speaker 1: I'm reading, there's no and looked at us like He
Speaker 1: was like, I knew so right, I said it right.
Speaker 1: She wasn't my bad, my bad, Yomi am I yo
Speaker 1: know where's Yomi? Not yo? Maira. Her name is Yomira, bitch,
Speaker 1: don't you get her name. She just wanted to ask
Speaker 1: some play with chew it. I didn't want to be done, Mada.
Speaker 1: We are here, we are, bro. We are really trying
Speaker 1: not to get canceled before we renewed his contrack, because
Speaker 1: bitch that it already came up to us like, hey,
Speaker 1: so those cute cumbers, we might we might not want
Speaker 1: them at our festival. Oh bitch, Oh you didn't know
Speaker 1: you'll be seeing the email. Well, yeah, well we'll talk
Speaker 1: about it off. We know we're gonna talk about it off.
Speaker 1: Oh the one that's about to hire us. Possibly they
Speaker 1: mentioned huh that festival. Yea, yes, they were, yeah, we'll
Speaker 1: talk about it. It's a panel bro. No no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I'm not that one the big boys. I could see
Speaker 1: your fucking mouth. Um. Oh yeah, they were like we'll
Speaker 1: have a talk. Um anyways, now they was wild if
Speaker 1: it was just nah, that wasn't even a normal cucumber
Speaker 1: second team. They even that doesn't know what we're talking.
Speaker 1: Sorry y'all if y'all were at the Ruth Picknick, because
Speaker 1: we didn't get to talk about it when we got
Speaker 1: into our whole rust picnic rant. We didn't get to
Speaker 1: talk about the fabulousness of the hor hide that made
Speaker 1: cucumbers be like that was too much. It wasn't giving,
Speaker 1: it was giving a lot. So here's what happened. We
Speaker 1: know we're only doing that ship normally. The last time
Speaker 1: we did Cucumbers, I called COVID. We were in Mexico,
Speaker 1: but we were at the pool with a pool party.
Speaker 1: It was pool party we normally have not done, like
Speaker 1: Mandy not. I mean maybe if you didn't Mandy, but
Speaker 1: I needed to check, okay, So we got book to
Speaker 1: do something during the pandemic. I was like, man, I
Speaker 1: don't want to do it, and I came back and
Speaker 1: had it. I was like, fucking we go on. So
Speaker 1: we go and it was at a pool and people
Speaker 1: were wasted. I will never do a pool party show again.
Speaker 1: But I like, never mind, let me say how much
Speaker 1: we make, but les say never. But like it was
Speaker 1: just a mess, bro like sucking cucumbers, fucking Sharon Hookah's
Speaker 1: bottles in my mouth but real quick. The only difference
Speaker 1: from that and Ruth's picnic was there were no hookahs,
Speaker 1: so it was just it was probably more wild at
Speaker 1: Ruth's picnic than because they're outside. I don't know. They
Speaker 1: got excited. They started double sucking, cue cars, doting girls
Speaker 1: to compete because it's Pride months. And I even warned
Speaker 1: the crowd, like, yo, if you don't like that ship,
Speaker 1: get the funk out. This is what we're doing. So
Speaker 1: was wild, not gonna front. They really was tiring you.
Speaker 1: I didn't even really want to do it. I was
Speaker 1: like a little much. She was like, no, we're gonna
Speaker 1: fit in there. It's fine, we're gonna get through it.
Speaker 1: I wasn't even trying to bring the cucumber, the cuber.
Speaker 1: I didn't want to do it. I didn't want to
Speaker 1: do it. I didn't want to do it. I didn't
Speaker 1: want to do it. Then finally we see we'll have
Speaker 1: a little bit of wiggle room for time, and I
Speaker 1: was just hoping. I was like, well, it looks like
Speaker 1: I said, do we even have props? Benny sent me
Speaker 1: a picture of four foot and a half long cucumbers.
Speaker 1: I didn't even know. I didn't even know they were
Speaker 1: this big bro. They was a foot and a half
Speaker 1: cucumbers and I was like, these bitches want to make
Speaker 1: sure the props was there. We was ahead of time
Speaker 1: because I did not want to do the cucumbers. Anyways,
Speaker 1: the cucumbers it looked wild. They look they would have
Speaker 1: believed the girl. We're both good, right, and so we
Speaker 1: were like, let's someone. No, it wasn't doing one each.
Speaker 1: They were gonna suck the same, same one, and it
Speaker 1: was it was it was you saw the picture if
Speaker 1: y'all want to see you going through Instagram. Um, I
Speaker 1: didn't want to go to as well. One of the
Speaker 1: oldest dildos ever discovered is the whole how La Fells ballast.
Speaker 1: It was discovered in the hole a Fels Cave in
Speaker 1: Germany in two thousand five. It was carbon dated to
Speaker 1: somewhere between twenty six thousand and thirty thousand years ago.
Speaker 1: I also want to talk about some aphrodisiacs, which y'all
Speaker 1: may know. Um, we talked, we've talked, we did a
Speaker 1: whole episode on food that we're aphrodisiacs. But maybe y'all
Speaker 1: don't know this because this is a shocker to me.
Speaker 1: Beans while they may make your Buddhist squeeze are also
Speaker 1: in aphrodisiac. Despite the popular image of damsels and distrust
Speaker 1: and chastity about sex in the middle it was progressive anyway.
Speaker 1: For one thing, there was a belief that erections were
Speaker 1: caused when the penis filled with air, and as a result,
Speaker 1: beans were thought to be the aphrodisiac for this. B
Speaker 1: DSM also goes back all the way to four ninety
Speaker 1: b c E. And it gets its name before Christ. Yeah. Yeah, um.
Speaker 1: Some of the oldest evidence of b ds them can
Speaker 1: be found in the Tomb of the Whipping and Extrue
Speaker 1: and at Truth Scan Tomb and Lazio Italy. All right, um,
Speaker 1: it gets it, so b d S the the actual
Speaker 1: whipping gets it. The tomb name gets its name from
Speaker 1: the fresco on the wall that shows two men who
Speaker 1: are flogging a woman as they have sex with her.
Speaker 1: In the eighteen hundreds there were establishments known to cater
Speaker 1: to kink, such as Teresa Berkeley's Berkeley's Brothel and Hallam Street, London.
Speaker 1: Um as well. Birth control. I wanted to get into that,
Speaker 1: especially since now they want to not even allow us
Speaker 1: abortion in this country. Birth control in the past, So
Speaker 1: sex in the past was fun, naughty, and an enjoyable experience.
Speaker 1: So although popular belief has it that they were only
Speaker 1: doing it to procreate, because Christianity wants us to believe
Speaker 1: that was only made for reproduction, day live as most
Speaker 1: of this most of the church does. But we are
Speaker 1: not gonna get it to that pig gut condoms. We're
Speaker 1: being used in the fifteen hundreds, and there's evidence of
Speaker 1: contraception being used all the way back to ancient Egypt.
Speaker 1: One method used back then was a vaginal pests three
Speaker 1: made from Can you look up what pess thori is
Speaker 1: p E S S A R Y. Is it like
Speaker 1: a rosary? Vaginal pess THI is BC? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm I'm assuming it's actually a condom, because let me
Speaker 1: tell you what it's made of, crocodile dung and honey.
Speaker 1: So a vaginal pessory is a soft removable device that
Speaker 1: goes into your vagina and the supports the areas that
Speaker 1: are affected by pelvic oregon prolapse. So this was probably
Speaker 1: then some sort of uh coating to keep the sperm
Speaker 1: from going all the way to the ovaries. This is
Speaker 1: what happens when the bladder rectum or UNI. So they
Speaker 1: were putting crocodile dung and honey and they puss Alabama
Speaker 1: hot pocket buddy, Wow your mind. Because it's also Pride month.
Speaker 1: I want to talk about lgbt Q and just so
Speaker 1: you know, same sex desire and gender fluidity is found
Speaker 1: all throughout history. Um. But some of the most important
Speaker 1: documents and queer history are the Diaries of an Listener,
Speaker 1: which by the way, has an HBO show now, and
Speaker 1: it talks about how like they had to hide even
Speaker 1: being get like and this is lesbians. This isn't even
Speaker 1: gay met Lesbians couldn't even and although it's more accepted now,
Speaker 1: lesbians also had to hide their gender fluidity in the past. Um.
Speaker 1: That is just a few things, Um I have do
Speaker 1: I have any more on here? They just gave a
Speaker 1: whole bunch. It was just very interesting and I was
Speaker 1: like that I need you all to know the pig
Speaker 1: Latin kind of crazy, not only the common thing that
Speaker 1: was like cat intestines or just wait, excuse me, and
Speaker 1: this is what I don't eat hot dogs. This like
Speaker 1: hot dogs is made with them intestins of animals and
Speaker 1: ship Okay, they used like the backup of whatever, but
Speaker 1: Nathans and Nathan is good. Nathans, we talked about somebody
Speaker 1: real quick that I wanted this podcast. Fine is hell
Speaker 1: but crazy there so you can flirt with him the
Speaker 1: whole time. Are you gonna actually be a hot talk best?
Speaker 1: You just maybe think about it with the hot dogs?
Speaker 1: And they wait, the hot dog? Huh? His name is
Speaker 1: nineteen keys. Oh and obviously you did. When I have
Speaker 1: him on the what happened now? He just said he
Speaker 1: in l A Okay, So hopefully we can have him
Speaker 1: on when he's in New York. But um, so I
Speaker 1: thought he did the crypto like you did. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: was like, she hit me up like ninety He's gonna
Speaker 1: be all horrible. And I was like, so this is
Speaker 1: on crypto. The markets is down, I've heard of his name.
Speaker 1: They like didn't follow him or anything like that. Went
Speaker 1: to when of Ian's events saw this nig and I
Speaker 1: was like, whoa, I'm a hope up now I want you,
Speaker 1: I hope. I don't know ship he dresses like one.
Speaker 1: What can I not say that? You can say that
Speaker 1: I have a lot when you come on here, sir face.
Speaker 1: I cannot wait to talk about that fucking Coofy wrap.
Speaker 1: It's the wrap. It gives, it gives DR's following him
Speaker 1: a stage. I don't know, be fine. So anyway, I
Speaker 1: started swiping on his page because I was like, what
Speaker 1: does he talk about? Because I heard someone bring up
Speaker 1: food in his conversation about food, and also he is
Speaker 1: a podcast I was like, oh, ship, come recording our
Speaker 1: studio in l A. Because if you're gonna have high
Speaker 1: level conversations, honey, you need black magic six K. So anyway,
Speaker 1: I started watching his Instagram clip where he starts talking
Speaker 1: about food. Oh, no, I know who he is. No,
Speaker 1: we saw he was there anyway, So I watched this
Speaker 1: conversation at about food, and the dude was like, and
Speaker 1: this is really what I want to talk to him
Speaker 1: about because everybody in his comments are like gun hole
Speaker 1: believing what he's saying. But I'm thinking this is nuts.
Speaker 1: And I told him like, when you come on horrible,
Speaker 1: why did you say that was nuts? So basically they
Speaker 1: were talking about how you could be over sexualized because
Speaker 1: they be put on hormones in the chicken, and they
Speaker 1: put and put hormones in the chicken and they try
Speaker 1: to sexualize the food that niggas. It's giving What is
Speaker 1: the point of a hot dog? He said, the snickers
Speaker 1: and this was the person he at all. It looks
Speaker 1: like a black man's finish your bite into it and
Speaker 1: oozes out and they're trying to get up, and I'm like, yo,
Speaker 1: this is insane. But also he believes in like Steven
Speaker 1: retention stuff, which I want to talk about. I don't
Speaker 1: understand how you look like that and you don't come.
Speaker 1: I mean, hey, sometimes you look I could be wrong.
Speaker 1: Maybe he does come, because the retention doesn't mean you
Speaker 1: don't come. You just certain times you edge or some
Speaker 1: certain times you you stop yourself from coming, But it
Speaker 1: doesn't mean you never come. Why. It's it's the build up, right.
Speaker 1: I didn't feel like an athlete or something, or maybe
Speaker 1: he's gonna teach me about some higher level. Turned me
Speaker 1: into a hotep, sir, I turned me into one because
Speaker 1: I want to know. That's why athletes don't be coming
Speaker 1: when they got the finals. I understand that, but as
Speaker 1: a man, you gotta hold into the saucer. Lad's good
Speaker 1: for your workouts, for your every day energy. It's giving
Speaker 1: hotel And you know what, I can't wait till I'm
Speaker 1: talking about it because I like sometimes I get certain
Speaker 1: things like when it when one of the conversations about
Speaker 1: food and when you like kill animals and they're stressed
Speaker 1: out and the meat is different. I hear that I
Speaker 1: understand heal, but like you don't about tell me I'm
Speaker 1: over sexualized that I eat chicken. No, but but you
Speaker 1: understand the extrogen and the chicken or whatever. But that's
Speaker 1: let me tell you the US of A. The f
Speaker 1: d A approved. I don't want them to approve ship.
Speaker 1: It would be some bullshit that we'll be putting into
Speaker 1: our bodies. Because even when I lived in Singapore, there
Speaker 1: was like no American food. There was nothing that was
Speaker 1: approved by their You got to think about like our
Speaker 1: ways game too, Like when I went to Japan and
Speaker 1: saw that I could eat noodles every day and I
Speaker 1: wasn't gaining weight. It's got to be even our cards
Speaker 1: are different here, our noodles are different, our rights is different, everything,
Speaker 1: And they were having ingredients that are in other countries
Speaker 1: that we still that we consume. Crazy, but it is crazy.
Speaker 1: Maybe he could help us stop eating It's wild now
Speaker 1: for this week, um, because I wanted to talk, well,
Speaker 1: we talked about how sex and hoism has been around
Speaker 1: for our book. UM. Today's homel is actually coming from
Speaker 1: me UM and our patriots. So last month's town hall,
Speaker 1: I stayed on and talked to everybody. This was me
Speaker 1: gearing up for my formal erotic donny experience as well
Speaker 1: as the play party that I threw during UM Memorial
Speaker 1: Day weekend. And so I sat on Zoom with about
Speaker 1: eighty people and they shared with me sex clubs across
Speaker 1: the country. So this is where if you are at
Speaker 1: your desk, if you are just sitting in your living room,
Speaker 1: please take out a pen and paper. Please take out
Speaker 1: your notes UM. Also, if you are a patron, I
Speaker 1: will be posting this. You'll probably have it a couple
Speaker 1: of weeks ago, but I'm posting it to the Patreon.
Speaker 1: Here are the list. I also have asterix for those
Speaker 1: that are strictly LGBTQ friendly. Oh you're giving a sex clubs.
Speaker 1: I'm giving sex clubs because of all we keept getting
Speaker 1: asked where to go. I don't have every fucking sex
Speaker 1: club in the country, but I curated a great list,
Speaker 1: so please please pull out. Shut us to the patriots,
Speaker 1: shout out to the patrons, the patrons dispressed. Um So,
Speaker 1: here we go Entourage Vegas, Club Houston and Houston, Body
Speaker 1: Zone Detroit, Steam Works Chicago, Trapeas Atlanta, of course, nsf W,
Speaker 1: New York. Flex Flex is in Atlanta and Cleveland, and
Speaker 1: it is men only. Velvet in Miami, Caligula as well
Speaker 1: here in Queens, New York, Sousia and Brooklyn, Green Door,
Speaker 1: Las Vegas. I'm not gonna, yes, Green Door, Las Vegas,
Speaker 1: The Oasis, Toronto, Pleasure Hole, Seattle, Cloak Room, d C
Speaker 1: Power Exchange, Sam Francisco, The Loft Atlanta, which to my
Speaker 1: knowledge is also men only, Playhouse Baltimore, sat Fire in Portland,
Speaker 1: This World in Portland, which is also l g B
Speaker 1: t Q at five More Provado in Portland's Electric Social
Speaker 1: Club in Providence, Rhode Islands. I'm just gonna, says Club
Speaker 1: Joy in l A, The Spot in Kansas City, and
Speaker 1: Club Sin in Cincinnati, Ohio. Now, these were all just given,
Speaker 1: and I was asking are they still open, do they
Speaker 1: still operate? Are they members only? There's a ton of
Speaker 1: there's a ton of information that sometimes sometimes you do
Speaker 1: have to be a member for clubs. Um So I
Speaker 1: would just say, get on your Google's, go on Instagram.
Speaker 1: A lot of them also do have Instagram pages. Sent
Speaker 1: you all this. This is literally eighty three patrons who
Speaker 1: stayed on with me on the town hall and we
Speaker 1: ended up just getting into a free flowing convert station
Speaker 1: and I started creating the list. Normally on our town halls,
Speaker 1: I stay on and just talk for like one other
Speaker 1: hour and thank you patrons. This is what our community
Speaker 1: does for you guys to have how much pussy had
Speaker 1: to get fucked for Mandy to get this a nice
Speaker 1: little list, and they were I didn't really gas. But
Speaker 1: also again a lot of our patrons, even on our
Speaker 1: zoom calls, we may have three white people, so y'all,
Speaker 1: these are all also given from black and brown patrons
Speaker 1: that support us. They stayed on and talk to us,
Speaker 1: and I just felt like I had a gem here.
Speaker 1: And you guys asked us every fucking week that y'all
Speaker 1: want to go to a fucking sex club. This is
Speaker 1: a list. Find it, do your Google's and also joined community.
Speaker 1: I will say from experiencing throwing the fed party and
Speaker 1: hosting a party, set Life is your friend, Join fat Life.
Speaker 1: This is not an ad. I'm not sponsored by them.
Speaker 1: Fat Life has been something that has built community into
Speaker 1: integrating all of the sex spaces that I go to,
Speaker 1: and it's great. They're all king friendly the ones I've
Speaker 1: been to. I won't speak for this list, but just
Speaker 1: make sure you have it down. I'll put it on Patreon.
Speaker 1: And if you're not a Patreon yet, this is where
Speaker 1: I'm telling you to go join Patreon or re listen,
Speaker 1: but the list will be posted on Patreon and patrons
Speaker 1: that are on I implore you guys to also write
Speaker 1: into the comments employer dictionary, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Implore you guys to just add to this list because
Speaker 1: what is community without sharing our resources? And there's that
Speaker 1: um outside of that. Are we leaving with anything else?
Speaker 1: With outcome? I can't stand you. I cannot stand you.
Speaker 1: But also again, be sure to join our Patreon that's
Speaker 1: patreon dot com. That slash so like I remember your
Speaker 1: home girl, her name Latasha made horderv Yes, community needs
Speaker 1: to be something. Community definitely has to be something you
Speaker 1: could be like our next tour names or our next march.
Speaker 1: I would love community. All right, don't do this now,
Speaker 1: that baby. Alright, we we're not gonna make the shirt
Speaker 1: because maybe y'all know what happens to black seconds. All right, guys,
Speaker 1: until next time this has been you had another episode
Speaker 1: of decisions by the last one of Icebreakers. If you
Speaker 1: got married tomorrow, would you be okay with any of
Speaker 1: your friends fucking any of your exes? I feel like
Speaker 1: I would when I'm into somebody, and I'm like, I
Speaker 1: don't care. That's me too. And it's funny because the
Speaker 1: character in the show she gets married and finds out
Speaker 1: there her best friend is fucking the man that she
Speaker 1: was previously in love with. Now I'm not gonna hold you.
Speaker 1: At first, I was like, bro, it is your ex
Speaker 1: out of a lot. But as the fucking movie get
Speaker 1: on and I find out this is a nigga that
Speaker 1: she didn't had a miscarriage with and moved in with,
Speaker 1: I was like, nah, that friend crossed the fucking line.
Speaker 1: Went way too far. Like, bro, they were about to
Speaker 1: have a family together. Well here that was too much.
Speaker 1: But then we were talking about it, um which I
Speaker 1: watched it with any and I was like, oh, nigga
Speaker 1: because once we started realizing that, you know, she was pregnant,
Speaker 1: and then they said eight years went by, wasn't it
Speaker 1: the time? Frame eight years eight years. So, for example,
Speaker 1: the older I get, the more I realized people circle back,
Speaker 1: and I don't mean lovers, I mean friends. I go
Speaker 1: to a Little Sister a Lot. It's a club underneath
Speaker 1: the mox scene and as a dude that used to
Speaker 1: work and manage tow that I keep seeing there that
Speaker 1: runs the door and I'm looking at him and why
Speaker 1: do I know you? And I'm like, oh my god.
Speaker 1: I used to work in Orlando at fucking not Cairo.
Speaker 1: What was it called not Tier? What was the name
Speaker 1: of it? And your friend worked there and Danny owned it?
Speaker 1: What the fund was the name of that clube? Bane?
Speaker 1: I was like wow. Then I was like yeah, I
Speaker 1: feel like I know you from somewhere else. He used
Speaker 1: to suck my home girl. He was super cute. I
Speaker 1: was a Brianda that night and I was like day
Speaker 1: because he was feeling rihanda Rihanna was looking at him,
Speaker 1: and I was like, huh, well, this just all came
Speaker 1: back around and wearing a whole another city, right, This
Speaker 1: person somehow back of my life and I see them
Speaker 1: every few weekends. Now if I'm eight years later in
Speaker 1: the game and realized I remember it nigga because someone
Speaker 1: so used to fuck him. A matter of fact, there's
Speaker 1: a basketball player that I just saw it played for
Speaker 1: the Orlando Magic. His name is Kyle O'Quinn. Don't care
Speaker 1: to say his name because I don't know even know
Speaker 1: if you still play ball. Somebody used to play here
Speaker 1: in New York. So a girl I used to live
Speaker 1: with fucked him and was sucking him. And I only
Speaker 1: remembered him because when I was sucking with scissors back then,
Speaker 1: Scissors was like oh, we would come out and he
Speaker 1: would look and she would get pissed, like what the
Speaker 1: fun is he doing? Because he realized the lesbians are
Speaker 1: in the room. How made fucking Biggie's And I'm like,
Speaker 1: why do I know this nigked And he's looking at
Speaker 1: me like he knows me. I was like, Yo, I
Speaker 1: don't know how I know you, but I feel like
Speaker 1: I really know you. And we're looking at each other
Speaker 1: and he's like, did you used to live in Florida? Nigga.
Speaker 1: When I realized once he said that who he was,
Speaker 1: I couldn't even tell him who I was. I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm the roommate of the girl who
Speaker 1: was getting like what But anyway, I was saying that
Speaker 1: I just didn't feel he was with people. I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't feel like reminding. Plus I don't know who
Speaker 1: he with this, you know, And then I'm just like,
Speaker 1: you used to fuck my roommate, remember I was lesbian.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. So but here's the thing. What if
Speaker 1: I saw him out recircled found out that, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? Like, I don't know, I just feel
Speaker 1: like people surfaced back and eight years in the game,
Speaker 1: and you're you're happy with a white picket fence, two kids,
Speaker 1: and a gorgeous husband, like and a bitch is still
Speaker 1: out here single in New York, like I could see it. Right,
Speaker 1: You might feel away, but valid, valid, Alright. So the
Speaker 1: Vanilla ship actually comes from Newsweek. And what's crazy is
Speaker 1: the scene that Wheezy was referencing in the beginning of
Speaker 1: this episode has been oh sorry, has been one of
Speaker 1: the most widely talked about scenes on a Netflix film
Speaker 1: because a dick is actually showed a full frontal and yes,
Speaker 1: it was a big size. So it's crazy with speculation
Speaker 1: as to whether there was any editing done to the
Speaker 1: dick for that it was his real dick. Bitch show UH.
Speaker 1: Sex Life UH is Netflix latest sexually explicit drama that
Speaker 1: viewers are devouring around the world, but it is not
Speaker 1: a sex scene that has most people heading to Google
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Speaker 1: We are in the shower with Brad, who is played
Speaker 1: by Adam Demos, when the camera lingers on his gigantic
Speaker 1: penis in appendage that might even make Boogie Nights Dirk
Speaker 1: Diggler for a little inadequate in the department. Search on
Speaker 1: the Netflix film has been dominated by this scene, with
Speaker 1: the majority of inquiries making the first question that jumps
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