1 00:00:02,480 --> 00:00:09,119 Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make A horrible decisions. Hey, guys, 2 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:13,320 Speaker 1: welcome to another episode of horrible Decisions. I'm not gonna 3 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 1: say it like I am from France because I'm so 4 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 1: sick of hearing that, but yeah, yeah, you chomping horrible decisions. 5 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:24,919 Speaker 1: Might like we'll start during the pandemic. No, I'm gonna 6 00:00:24,960 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 1: say why. I just didn't know I was chewing a goldfish. 7 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: I know we were starting, but during the pandemic, I 8 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 1: didn't really understand how to use Zoom versus recording separate audio. 9 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 1: So basically, you record on Zoom so you could see 10 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 1: each other, but you record the tracks separately so you 11 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:41,919 Speaker 1: have the highest quality audio. And every time I took 12 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 1: a byte, I would put the ship on mute on zoom. 13 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:52,480 Speaker 1: Bitch the whole episode chewing. Oh it's bad, I can't 14 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 1: focus on zoom. Actually, Patreon, I do, okay, Yeah, because 15 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 1: you lucked in, you know, so you'll actually like a 16 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 1: guest on Zoom. Actual, I wouldn't that. Yeah, that was 17 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 1: hard during the pandemic, having all those guests, like setting 18 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:07,760 Speaker 1: up audio for some people who weren't podcasting, some who were. 19 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:11,679 Speaker 1: Everyone kind of recorded different and like remotely. We also 20 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:16,399 Speaker 1: we already talk over each other and you can't understand 21 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 1: who's about to speak as a guest. Well, all the 22 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:22,480 Speaker 1: bitches have different uh gigabytes whatever them. Ships is with 23 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 1: WiFi and baby, when you was in Mexico, Baby, your 24 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 1: leg was crazy. That lag was why so, Baby, I'm 25 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 1: trying to sit here in Paul's enough to see if 26 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:35,039 Speaker 1: you got anything else to say. You know, it looks 27 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 1: good on your end, and that the other people's. I 28 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:42,679 Speaker 1: was like, why are they upsetting? I don't get it, man, 29 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:46,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell y'all if anyone like has never experienced 30 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 1: like kind of roughing it, I know to Loom doesn't 31 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 1: seem like but it is in the neighborhood. What a 32 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 1: fucking time during that pandemic, bro I really had to 33 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 1: have some humility. I thought I was gonna be broke. 34 00:01:58,240 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 1: I didn't know where my life was gonna go. So 35 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 1: the last thing I was thinking about was strong WiFi. 36 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 1: I was just happy to have water that day, damn, 37 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 1: which is nuts. Which is nuts now I do want 38 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 1: to have because in the last episode you talked about 39 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 1: getting dick, but you really didn't go into who is 40 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 1: this person? Do you like this person was good dick. Oh, yes, 41 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 1: but I'm calling you out because for our catchup, I 42 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:23,360 Speaker 1: would like to know about the set. It was a 43 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 1: few weeks ago. I know you're talking about when I said, um, 44 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: after Nina Na, who was it was a bd D. Oh, 45 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 1: you're back because you said you in it? You you 46 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 1: said you was done. Now I said I was doing 47 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 1: Old Bay. Now you said you did? She not say 48 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 1: she was also done with b D I was dead 49 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 1: to me. I just said that, but she said she 50 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:50,080 Speaker 1: was done that for Old Bay. Old Bay is dead 51 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 1: to me. But she said she was done with b 52 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:57,920 Speaker 1: d D. H hmm. But there was anyway happening. He 53 00:02:58,040 --> 00:03:00,919 Speaker 1: was celebrating something and I it and it just happened 54 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 1: to be in New York and I just he said, 55 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 1: let me give us a couchie. No him. This is 56 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 1: why I felt like it was God, here we go. 57 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 1: Don't bring God into your mess? Why are you doing this? 58 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 1: So just is happy? Basically I fly in from l A. 59 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 1: I'm fucking I had no idea, bro. It was right 60 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 1: right before the day before the was picnic, nine thirty 61 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 1: at night. I mean, um, Benny's at the apartment because 62 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:27,519 Speaker 1: we're going to Philly the next day, and I'm like, 63 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:30,799 Speaker 1: should we just have one drink? He's like yeah. We 64 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:34,519 Speaker 1: walked the Soho house. I didn't even see another person first, 65 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 1: and I saw him. I was like, wow, mind you 66 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 1: he lives in l A right. Granted I knew he 67 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:42,320 Speaker 1: was having this event in New York and he wasn't 68 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 1: even having it, so it was a whole another place 69 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: and we both saw each other. I walked in. He 70 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 1: was kind of drunk and he was like, good I 71 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 1: alie beat and I was just thinking about that big 72 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 1: old Deek and he hugged Benny. He hugged me and 73 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:00,120 Speaker 1: he looked at me up and down. He was you 74 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 1: know I was here, and I was like no. He 75 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 1: was like, yes, you did. And I was like, what 76 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 1: do you think I did? And he was like, because 77 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 1: you want to suck me? And I got so insulted. 78 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 1: I was like, you think I'm gonna just fucking stalk 79 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 1: your ass at the point where I'm gonna show up 80 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 1: to a place where so I could fuck you. He 81 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 1: was like, yes, actually that sounds like your behavior, which 82 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 1: could be true, but it really wasn't that true in 83 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 1: that moment. So you were only insulted because it wasn't 84 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 1: showing the moment. But you do admit that that is 85 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:31,599 Speaker 1: definitely with the type behavior now. But like if I 86 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 1: go to a party and I think you're gonna be 87 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 1: at that party, and I want to suck anyway, so 88 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:38,279 Speaker 1: let's get to it anyway. Okay, let's get to me anyway. 89 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 1: So I was actually so, I said how to all 90 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 1: his friends caught up whatever. I got so embarrassed that 91 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:48,240 Speaker 1: he thought that that I left or tried to leave. 92 00:04:48,279 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 1: I said goodbye, and he was drunk, so he was 93 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 1: talking to two people that he knew, and he looked 94 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 1: me dead in the face. He goes, where do you 95 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 1: think you're going on? I said, I'm leaving. I'm going 96 00:04:57,200 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 1: to like this dance party with any He choked me 97 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 1: out at the fucking not in like a like a 98 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:05,159 Speaker 1: sad way. Sorry, not in a violent way. Okay, okay. 99 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 1: He put his hands on my neck, and your pussy 100 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:11,840 Speaker 1: just started leaking. He said nothing else. He asked me 101 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:15,600 Speaker 1: another question. He told me my pussy was his, and 102 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 1: I was like giving toxic and he was like, you're 103 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 1: pussy's mind. M hmm, I know it is. And I 104 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 1: was like, first of all I thought, you know, I'm 105 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:30,159 Speaker 1: trying to start my city. Girl said Nick, he ain't 106 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 1: he ever? Who are you bucking? You could be done 107 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:35,599 Speaker 1: with somebody and then go back and it's okay, But 108 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:38,559 Speaker 1: I can't do that because I wasn't with that nigga. 109 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:40,840 Speaker 1: You was kind of that niggain. You loved that nigga. 110 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 1: You at one point considered leaving Old Bay, but like 111 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 1: you really liked that nigga. Let's not let's not front. 112 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:48,479 Speaker 1: Let's not act like we can't rewind the tape on 113 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 1: this nigga. Did you tell him? She didn't. She loves 114 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 1: this thig. That's what I'm trying to add. What the 115 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:58,280 Speaker 1: difference is sex, bro, we can run. No, it was 116 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 1: even after sex. She literally she literally wanted him and 117 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 1: wanted him to be her boyfriend, wal a bit with 118 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:09,960 Speaker 1: her boyfriend because she loved him up. I just want 119 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 1: to know, because when I get into the story about 120 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:18,280 Speaker 1: how okay that I think about this was a blip. 121 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 1: If that isn't worth, it's not a blimp a blip. 122 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 1: We got blips today. So whatever he choked me on, 123 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:31,600 Speaker 1: it was hot. And then I looked at Vine and 124 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:33,280 Speaker 1: Vinnie and then guy hit the two friends. He was 125 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:34,719 Speaker 1: talking to her look at me, and everybody was like, 126 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 1: what the fuck because a lot of people know we're cool, 127 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 1: but they don't know he's fucking. So he's like, um. 128 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 1: I was like, anyway, congrats on your event. Like I 129 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:46,320 Speaker 1: have to go, he was like congrats. I was like yeah, 130 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:48,360 Speaker 1: and then I said I should have brought you a gift, 131 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:50,920 Speaker 1: but since I didn't, since is pussy as yours, I'm 132 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:53,360 Speaker 1: gonna give you that. Later he was like all right, 133 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 1: bet So I left and I didn't want to tell 134 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 1: Vinny I was sucking this nigo. But I was like, okay, 135 00:06:57,240 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 1: we did get taken to this Bushwick party. Let's hurry up, 136 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 1: let's go. So we're walking down the street and then 137 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 1: he looking at me like bitch. So you're just gonna 138 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 1: let him do that to you in the middle of 139 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 1: all these people, and so I was like, I don't 140 00:07:08,080 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 1: really understand that's what happens. We have a big book 141 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 1: you can do. So then we go to this fucking 142 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 1: Bushwick party where I decided to do just a little 143 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 1: bit drugs, not that many, but anyway, So we're dancing, 144 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:18,920 Speaker 1: we having fun and like, who but I'm looking at 145 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 1: my phone where he's like, where you at? Uber sends 146 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 1: me the address, So finally I leave Vinnie, I go 147 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 1: get some dick, I go wherever the funk he was 148 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 1: staying at Midtown. I get out realize the address. It's 149 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 1: not a hotel, it's an apartment building. So I guess 150 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 1: again an Airbnb apartment and I have no apartment number 151 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 1: because this nigga fell asleep. So now I'm outside on 152 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 1: fifty something fucking trying to figure out how to get 153 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:48,840 Speaker 1: up there. So I go to the doorman. I'm like, hey, 154 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:51,680 Speaker 1: did just see a black pie go up? No, They're 155 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 1: looking at me like, bitch, what the funk are you 156 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 1: talking about? So I call all of this nigga's friends 157 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 1: at four o'clock in the morning, you wanted that day, 158 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 1: So I call all his homeboys. I call his brother, 159 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 1: who hears titch his brother. Do you remember the young 160 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: kid that came to our Atlanta show Old Day's nephew. 161 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 1: Well that ship also shares this nigga's brother's name. So 162 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 1: what do I do at four o'clock in the morning? 163 00:08:17,360 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 1: Called the person with that name in my phone? Really 164 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 1: going to worship, though I swear to God he answers 165 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 1: the phone, and he sounds like a young kid, just 166 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 1: like his brother. They're about the same age. I was like, yo, 167 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:33,719 Speaker 1: what room is this? Like where is he? He's like, 168 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:39,959 Speaker 1: where is who? Beats? Name? Is this? Gilas mind you? 169 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 1: I'm I am plastered, yes, And I'm like you're looking 170 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 1: at the phone like what's going on? Like it's the 171 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:50,720 Speaker 1: same name. I'm like, yeah, it's me. Where is he? 172 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 1: And he's like I don't know who that is? And 173 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 1: then it starts to click. I was like, oh my god. 174 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 1: I was like, sorry, I'm going to a party and 175 00:08:56,800 --> 00:08:59,000 Speaker 1: I'm trying to buy my friend's party just in case 176 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 1: he's told old Bay bitch. Anyway, I called two lines 177 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:04,679 Speaker 1: just in case, like, oh, you ain't one all Bay 178 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:06,880 Speaker 1: to be mad. I would all mag to be mad, 179 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: but you called your if that's a bit, that's oh, 180 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 1: I hope you'll find out. But anyway, it was rife 181 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:22,319 Speaker 1: he gonna here, Maggie. So anyway, basically, I then finally um, 182 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:25,680 Speaker 1: someone answers I and they told me his room number. 183 00:09:25,880 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 1: Now banging on the door and I'm like, damn, this 184 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 1: is desperate, but also I don't really care, so I'm 185 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 1: banging on the door, and his little brother, the actual 186 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 1: one with the name answers the door because of course 187 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:39,079 Speaker 1: he decided to let him crash. I was like, hey, 188 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 1: and I'm sitting there with my heels in my hand, 189 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 1: opened the door. BDDs sitting there sleeping, snoring with his 190 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 1: mouth open. His phone is in his hand, and I 191 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 1: just see eight calls missed from Wheezy. Wake this nigga up. 192 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:55,959 Speaker 1: We don't even talk. We don't talk. I'm sucking deep, girl. 193 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 1: And let me tell you something. When men are drunk 194 00:09:57,679 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 1: only they can't get their dick up, this nigga can. 195 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 1: And I imagin ship. I feel like when nigga drunk, 196 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 1: they can't get it down. That's a that's true. And 197 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:07,079 Speaker 1: he probably had it because he couldn't get down either, 198 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:09,840 Speaker 1: and is not ain't drinking hein. We both couldn't come 199 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:11,680 Speaker 1: because we were so drunk, but it was still good. 200 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:15,560 Speaker 1: And you know, uh when we were done because we 201 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:17,319 Speaker 1: were both so exhausted. I looked at my phone. It 202 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 1: was five in the morning, and then we're right before 203 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:21,679 Speaker 1: he goes to sleep. He was like to set that 204 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:27,320 Speaker 1: out alarm, but our roots, Big Nick was laughing at 205 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 1: me because I came to get that deep and um yeah, 206 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:34,120 Speaker 1: I went right back home around seven thirty, strung out, 207 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:37,200 Speaker 1: still drunk. It was really bad. I was so fucked up. 208 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 1: And he looked at me like what disgusted Nina and 209 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:43,320 Speaker 1: toe and then profit ol base house. So nice, Hey, 210 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:49,600 Speaker 1: well I'll share my little dad, I'll sep um so 211 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 1: yeah so so manye it's still been somewhat in the 212 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:58,439 Speaker 1: picture of the front and so uh. During Memorial Day weekend, 213 00:10:58,440 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 1: I didn't get to give you guys a eight. The 214 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:05,839 Speaker 1: four more erotic dining went amazing. It was great, yes, 215 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:09,680 Speaker 1: and clearly because we were not together. My plus one 216 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:12,560 Speaker 1: was Medina, So Medina from Cocktails came up. She was 217 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 1: my plus one all weekend. And so we go to dinner. 218 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 1: We're dressed to the nines and I was bringing liquor, 219 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 1: uh like champagne, so for when people walked in, they 220 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:27,440 Speaker 1: got champagne. So I was like already running around. We 221 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 1: had to get our makeup done, and he's like, well, 222 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:32,560 Speaker 1: I can bring the liquor. He gets to my house 223 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:34,719 Speaker 1: to drop off the liquor. It's time for me now 224 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:36,880 Speaker 1: to go. He's like, well I can thank y'all, and 225 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, you're being all nice. Mind you. The 226 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 1: only reason he was my plus one because nigga, we 227 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 1: broke up, and so I sold Joe cheer when we 228 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 1: broke up to then not really sold because it was free, 229 00:11:48,160 --> 00:11:50,439 Speaker 1: but I was like, I was gonna invite somebody else, 230 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 1: and it wasn't gonna be a nigga. It was gonna 231 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:57,319 Speaker 1: be my friends. So we get to where the location is. 232 00:11:57,440 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 1: Mind you, was a meat packing if never of y'all 233 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:02,400 Speaker 1: know about meat packing. The cobble stone is some fucking bullshit. 234 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 1: So he's literally walking into carrying our bags, carrying the liquor, 235 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 1: making sure me and Medina don't follow the cobble stone, 236 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 1: and clearly we know it's about to be a long 237 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 1: night because it's only a dinner. So there was no 238 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 1: play party after the dinner because of the because of 239 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:18,960 Speaker 1: the location. So we're all ready to go out, but 240 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:24,559 Speaker 1: just walking over one block, our feet are hurting. So 241 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 1: even though he's not invited to the dinner, he's like, well, well, 242 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 1: I've already been your little letter, so I'm gonna continue 243 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 1: being your little letter. So he's like, I want you 244 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 1: all to have a really good night. What do y'all need? 245 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:39,600 Speaker 1: And I'm like, my feet are already killing me. I 246 00:12:39,600 --> 00:12:42,320 Speaker 1: have my my little expensive feel song. So he goes. 247 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 1: He's like, I'm gonna go get you some flats so 248 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:47,400 Speaker 1: that you can have a good night, bitch. He comes 249 00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:52,320 Speaker 1: back right before the party starts. This nigga was like, 250 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 1: where do I go? Where do women's shop? This nigga 251 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:58,200 Speaker 1: went to Forever twenty one? Okay, and bro, I'm like, 252 00:12:58,240 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 1: I didn't even know niggas know what Forever do we 253 00:12:59,840 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 1: want play? They do? Well? He went up Forever twenty 254 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 1: one and brought back flip flops for me, Amada. It 255 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:08,560 Speaker 1: was like, here you go, guys. You guys, have a 256 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:10,880 Speaker 1: good night. Don't want to hover over you. And I 257 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:13,320 Speaker 1: was like, you were such a good little boy, and 258 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:14,760 Speaker 1: like I did a little thing because he was my 259 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:16,559 Speaker 1: little letter. He wanted to play the role of my 260 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:20,840 Speaker 1: little letter. And he's very very masculine and very little. 261 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:24,200 Speaker 1: Do I really get to be dominating like with him? 262 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:26,720 Speaker 1: So I was just really nice that he did that. 263 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:29,880 Speaker 1: It was like for like And that's the thing too, 264 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:32,760 Speaker 1: that I think he's he's known like I think it's 265 00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 1: because we come in not really needing men with money anymore, 266 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:43,320 Speaker 1: not really I mean we were not depending on it. 267 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:45,319 Speaker 1: Like there was a lot of men in my past 268 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:48,200 Speaker 1: that I could literally say I dealt with him for survival. 269 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 1: I dealt with you because I needed you to pay 270 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:52,960 Speaker 1: my rent, or to help me through school, or to 271 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:55,800 Speaker 1: help me do certain things. And just it feels good 272 00:13:55,800 --> 00:13:59,720 Speaker 1: to now just have genuine relationships. And so in terms 273 00:13:59,800 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 1: of where we've been talking, like he's now not use 274 00:14:03,080 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 1: it against me that I really enjoy acts of service, 275 00:14:06,400 --> 00:14:08,400 Speaker 1: and so in terms of a little letter in that 276 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 1: in that instance where it wasn't sexual at all, my god, 277 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:17,560 Speaker 1: my pussy was dripping, like just for him to cater 278 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:22,360 Speaker 1: to pick up the liquor. Don't do that, don't do that. Okay, 279 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 1: my pussy wasn't dripping to thank you, thank you. It 280 00:14:27,560 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 1: was the thought, but not only the thought, like I 281 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 1: took off my expensive shoes, I put those flop clubs 282 00:14:32,240 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 1: on it, and like, my pussy is leaking. No, but seriously, like, 283 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 1: oh no, it was leaking because to me, not only 284 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 1: the liquor, like he purchased the liquor, like he's done 285 00:14:42,680 --> 00:14:44,560 Speaker 1: some b n H runs for me for the studio, 286 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:48,280 Speaker 1: like he's just been like and that's the thing, right, 287 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:51,400 Speaker 1: I realized how much my love language have changed. Like again, 288 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:53,360 Speaker 1: if you'll listen to the pod a few years ago, 289 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:57,480 Speaker 1: maybe I won't gifts. I won't gifts or bills paid, 290 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 1: and that's all like give and now it's literally acts 291 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:06,840 Speaker 1: of service that when a man can put their schedule 292 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:09,640 Speaker 1: aside to do something to make my life easier, because 293 00:15:09,680 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 1: my life is very fucking hectic. That to me just 294 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:18,160 Speaker 1: as like oh god, motherfucking ship, damn, oh give it 295 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:22,440 Speaker 1: to give it some not seriously, like a whole faucet. 296 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:25,000 Speaker 1: So that was really nice for us. What was your 297 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:27,680 Speaker 1: bi the blip? I mean the blip was we went 298 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 1: to the safe flood the next night and uh, definitely 299 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 1: are y'all three again? Yeah, but she had six people 300 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 1: on her I don't know she shared it on her 301 00:15:37,080 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 1: show yet, like she was in her own world. Mind you. 302 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:44,000 Speaker 1: I was hosting, so I was a little less active, 303 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 1: got active. Your friends should be your new boundary for 304 00:15:48,560 --> 00:15:50,960 Speaker 1: sex with him. I think if you're gonna yeah, no, 305 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:54,720 Speaker 1: it is. It is. It is not someone you trust, 306 00:15:54,760 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 1: and it is it is. I mean we're we're slowly 307 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:03,720 Speaker 1: like just we're keeping set friends separate and I think, right, 308 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 1: so that's the thing in relationships. And I think we've 309 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:08,920 Speaker 1: we've sent my touch on this on Patreon. But when 310 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 1: you're in a relationship and you love your friends and 311 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:14,920 Speaker 1: you also want to bring your partner around, I think 312 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:17,840 Speaker 1: there becomes because even in coming back, he's explained how 313 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:20,600 Speaker 1: he feels like a prop in my life. And it's 314 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:23,560 Speaker 1: because even though he's super around my friends and we 315 00:16:23,640 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 1: have such a blast, when we break up, he realized 316 00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:28,960 Speaker 1: all my friends was like, duke this nigga, if you 317 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 1: out the picture, you have the picture with us too. 318 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 1: And so now it's an issue or or maybe something 319 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:35,840 Speaker 1: that he needs to work through because they ain't changing 320 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:39,720 Speaker 1: that even though we do all of these things together 321 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 1: and we make these memories together. I don't want you 322 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 1: to feel like a prop. But this is also my world, 323 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 1: and when you're not a part of my world, I 324 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 1: need you to know that nothing a part of my 325 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:53,400 Speaker 1: world will be attached to you once we're over. I 326 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:56,800 Speaker 1: tried to take last lap and well even even oh 327 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:59,480 Speaker 1: Boy took the took the bar away from me, he 328 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 1: took the bar from your house. We do that, and 329 00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 1: that's where I'm just like, I don't know what your 330 00:17:03,920 --> 00:17:07,640 Speaker 1: past relationships have been but ship gets with a breakup. 331 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 1: It's not only friends, it's not only our love, babe, 332 00:17:10,080 --> 00:17:11,840 Speaker 1: it's the places we go. And I got a whole 333 00:17:11,880 --> 00:17:15,320 Speaker 1: lot of power, a whole lot, so I was even like, 334 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:16,919 Speaker 1: just so you know, baby, I know the owners of 335 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 1: these sex clubs. Don't make sure there's a band on 336 00:17:19,320 --> 00:17:20,960 Speaker 1: your ass because I don't want to run into you 337 00:17:21,280 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 1: baby the beach. I don't know what sheriff I got 338 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 1: to talk to, you know what I mean? The sex 339 00:17:26,320 --> 00:17:28,920 Speaker 1: club thing like, and the problem is old Bays in 340 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:32,320 Speaker 1: his forties, Brooklyn nigga, so he knows fucking everybody that 341 00:17:32,359 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 1: owns the ship I go to, right, he moves and 342 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:37,679 Speaker 1: shakes in the same world. So I get it, Like 343 00:17:38,040 --> 00:17:42,159 Speaker 1: I won't love it, but no, I don't want to 344 00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:45,000 Speaker 1: not entertaining. He just a dude that's been around. I 345 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:47,200 Speaker 1: don't want nobody in the industry. He's not in that 346 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:49,480 Speaker 1: dick been around the blog and that's all that matter. 347 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 1: Even dated, But you did city, bro, They're gonna know 348 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:54,520 Speaker 1: if you dated somebody that they don't know that from. 349 00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:57,400 Speaker 1: Like it's hard, you got an anomaly, but like it's 350 00:17:57,440 --> 00:18:00,040 Speaker 1: not easy though, I dig it an anomaly and on 351 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:02,440 Speaker 1: another one, I gotta find me, not industry. I need 352 00:18:02,440 --> 00:18:04,359 Speaker 1: the world to shut down. I need the world to 353 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:05,960 Speaker 1: shut down again. That's the only reason I found this 354 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:08,359 Speaker 1: Next that's kind of why I'm into the dreaming again. 355 00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 1: Why because he's just like he gets it, but he's 356 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 1: not in it. And I also love that ship. Yeah, 357 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:17,760 Speaker 1: like I don't need to know, but like know what 358 00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:19,639 Speaker 1: I'm talking about, but not like I don't need to 359 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:24,159 Speaker 1: relate to much. Yeah that's a good feeling. Um, I 360 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:26,840 Speaker 1: could dig it. But yeah, when in a break up 361 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:28,960 Speaker 1: the place off limits sex club that they need to 362 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 1: go go on at, buddy, not only sex club. I 363 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:35,000 Speaker 1: just need listen, just know. And that's where like the 364 00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 1: boundaries or maybe that's a conversation to like to have 365 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:41,160 Speaker 1: on the first date. Now moving forward, like, listen, we're 366 00:18:41,160 --> 00:18:43,320 Speaker 1: gonna have a great time together. You're gonna meet all 367 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:46,439 Speaker 1: my friends because I work so much the way that 368 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:49,560 Speaker 1: I find ways to lick up with my friends even 369 00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:50,880 Speaker 1: if we are if we had a bar, of course, 370 00:18:50,880 --> 00:18:52,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell O my friends to pull up. I 371 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:55,199 Speaker 1: tell my friends to pull up on me whenever, wherever. Hello, 372 00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:58,120 Speaker 1: if I'm hosting something, everyone's invited because this is when 373 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:00,119 Speaker 1: I get to see my friends. Your time cost a 374 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:03,120 Speaker 1: lot of money, it does. And so but my friends, 375 00:19:03,160 --> 00:19:07,520 Speaker 1: my friends are number one in my relationship hierarchy of 376 00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:12,200 Speaker 1: what where people stand in my life. So and maybe 377 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:16,920 Speaker 1: my partner comes second or third. With family, family has yeah, 378 00:19:17,080 --> 00:19:19,119 Speaker 1: I damn near grow up to Osborne's. It's just a 379 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:22,359 Speaker 1: very toxic family. But I guess you know, friends like 380 00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:24,560 Speaker 1: the family, and my friends are the family that I 381 00:19:24,600 --> 00:19:28,440 Speaker 1: got to choose, so they come. They need so much too. 382 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:30,320 Speaker 1: I have to tell you gave me a little inspo 383 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:32,960 Speaker 1: recently because you know, I've been talking about how been 384 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:35,840 Speaker 1: going out to this party in l A. And someone 385 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 1: I've been hanging with her obviously, and we're cool with 386 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:44,439 Speaker 1: each other's friends now to the point where like we 387 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:47,879 Speaker 1: all follow each other, Okay, Vinnie my homegirl Emily in 388 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:51,320 Speaker 1: l A. Like Brittany met him like now his like 389 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:53,720 Speaker 1: and if someone comes in town. It's the point where 390 00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:55,920 Speaker 1: like we all vibe so hard, so we all hang out, 391 00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 1: and I'm like, that needs to be a conversation. You 392 00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:02,440 Speaker 1: have to have that versation when you start mixing. And Malak, 393 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:03,960 Speaker 1: he's ever going to hit a friend up without me, 394 00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:06,440 Speaker 1: but but but but but but to me, it just 395 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:09,280 Speaker 1: did it. But I did it. I see all boys. 396 00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:10,400 Speaker 1: I was going out and I was like, Oh, what's 397 00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:12,120 Speaker 1: you up to tonight? And I realized like, oh my god, 398 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:16,159 Speaker 1: I have to stop. But then at the same time, 399 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 1: I feel like this is what everybody wants. We always 400 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:22,800 Speaker 1: want to date someone or start hanging with someone that 401 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:26,280 Speaker 1: like can live and exist within our friend groups. And 402 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 1: I think what you really taught me was like the 403 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:32,240 Speaker 1: quote unquote boundary that you got to not you got to. 404 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:34,439 Speaker 1: But see, even you hitting up the friend, he probably 405 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:36,520 Speaker 1: didn't think anything of it. But that's the thing. If 406 00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:39,239 Speaker 1: you gotta stop working with each other, like these are 407 00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 1: my friends. But but That's what I'm saying. But is it? 408 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 1: Is it now that y'all share so much friends? If 409 00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:47,960 Speaker 1: you stopped working with him tomorrow, do you really feel like, damn, 410 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:50,720 Speaker 1: I've created all these great relationships with all these other people. 411 00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:53,439 Speaker 1: Now now I can't up with them because I met them. 412 00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:56,440 Speaker 1: I will say that feels nice about it. And I 413 00:20:56,560 --> 00:21:01,520 Speaker 1: said this, like, um, I don't know if Old Bay 414 00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:03,679 Speaker 1: and I had that with each other's friends, but I'm 415 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:05,640 Speaker 1: talking about this new nig no. I know what I'm saying, 416 00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:07,960 Speaker 1: Like it's like the worst of the best of whatever. 417 00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:10,000 Speaker 1: Right you complain when you do complain when we don't. 418 00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:14,520 Speaker 1: But I didn't realize it until this person, Like mm hmm, 419 00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:16,760 Speaker 1: is this what it could be like when friends are lit? 420 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:19,119 Speaker 1: Because old be and I just did not share friends 421 00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:22,200 Speaker 1: and I just expected not to. Don't get me wrong, 422 00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:24,199 Speaker 1: Like if we all went out with any cool or 423 00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:26,920 Speaker 1: you know whatever, Like we did a thing, but it 424 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 1: wasn't like this. It didn't feel like this, And I 425 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:32,400 Speaker 1: don't know which is worse. I just I would say 426 00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:35,600 Speaker 1: that's one of those conversations to where maybe you have 427 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:38,159 Speaker 1: it now, yo, if this doesn't work out, and like 428 00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:41,159 Speaker 1: would you feel away? Like, like, would you feel away 429 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 1: if I hit up your friends to hang out? Is 430 00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:46,760 Speaker 1: that a Is that a deal breaker? Would you feel 431 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:48,520 Speaker 1: away if he hit up your friends? Since clearly I did. 432 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:51,320 Speaker 1: And this was a conversation we never had until now 433 00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:53,840 Speaker 1: we're having it because we're in a cordial, just friendly 434 00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:56,520 Speaker 1: space where we can now like talk through the things 435 00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:58,720 Speaker 1: that weren't working in our relationships, but also even in 436 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:02,040 Speaker 1: our breakups, what things really fucked with us the most. 437 00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:04,639 Speaker 1: And that's what we're having now, so maybe before it 438 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:07,560 Speaker 1: gets there, that's a conversation I have. Way. Yeah, I 439 00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:10,080 Speaker 1: think you should. I think you should. All right, let 440 00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:12,000 Speaker 1: me get the boundary. Even though you're not made man, 441 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:19,960 Speaker 1: everybody wants to hear that. I'm just saying, let's get 442 00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:24,520 Speaker 1: into the outline um for this week. Let me read, 443 00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:26,119 Speaker 1: let me read it from the what you would call it? 444 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:28,920 Speaker 1: How do I read? Look? Look at me? I'm old? 445 00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 1: How Why do I feel like? Why does it feel 446 00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:36,080 Speaker 1: like when you're having your period? Crabs? Like there's really 447 00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:41,359 Speaker 1: a person and they're beating your ass? Yes, I had 448 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:43,840 Speaker 1: the worst like period last month and I was just like, 449 00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:47,720 Speaker 1: what the fuck? Um eating a lot of meat? Um? No, 450 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:51,239 Speaker 1: I think just stressed. I think just stressed, bitch. When 451 00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:53,080 Speaker 1: I was on that set frame TV, bitch, I blew 452 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:55,040 Speaker 1: up the best and they gave me the bethroom to myself. 453 00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:57,479 Speaker 1: I swear to god, I didn't know if it was nerves. 454 00:22:57,480 --> 00:22:59,480 Speaker 1: I also get nerves when I spend a lot of money. 455 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:03,600 Speaker 1: I spend a lot of money at once, you know, 456 00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:07,159 Speaker 1: I know, seriously, maybe I blew the bathroom. They was 457 00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:10,240 Speaker 1: like they were telling the hole set you see as 458 00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:13,640 Speaker 1: the bathroom, Please, that's where the guy. That's how bad 459 00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:15,840 Speaker 1: it was, mind you. I was gonna set at seven 460 00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:18,360 Speaker 1: thirty for hair and makeup. My home girl shot, I said, 461 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:19,919 Speaker 1: he there, Well, she's not my own girl, she's that's 462 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:22,160 Speaker 1: my boss. But she mean when you were doing the show, 463 00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 1: when you were when yeah, for the MTV Awards, So 464 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:27,320 Speaker 1: we were on set and maybe I had to get 465 00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:30,159 Speaker 1: there earliest fun but I I just spent so much 466 00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:32,440 Speaker 1: money and I was just my nerves were fucking shot, 467 00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:35,400 Speaker 1: so I blew. It was that a delf frist goes. 468 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:37,760 Speaker 1: But I'm would blame my nerves because I eat a 469 00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 1: delf fristcos and this they't never happened. But anyways, blow 470 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:43,680 Speaker 1: up the bathroom. It's seven o'clock in the morning. Heather 471 00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:48,399 Speaker 1: doesn't get there till eleven. The the motherfucking smell is 472 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:51,960 Speaker 1: still lingering. No man, she it was eleven, mind you. 473 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:54,200 Speaker 1: I felt so bad by the way, I'm apologized to 474 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:57,399 Speaker 1: you publicly. Taffy. Taffy's makeup room was right across from 475 00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:01,360 Speaker 1: the bathroom. I felt so bad because it just went, Oh, 476 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:05,760 Speaker 1: let me spray my little guccy. It was I was bad. 477 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:08,760 Speaker 1: Smell my own ship sometimes, Oh that it was bad. Yep. 478 00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:11,560 Speaker 1: I even tried to do courtesy fleshes. So my best 479 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,960 Speaker 1: friend talk me about courtesy fleshes, which are while you 480 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,480 Speaker 1: ship and when you spell it before you even get done. 481 00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:19,320 Speaker 1: Just start flesh right, just start flush while it's coming out, 482 00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:22,200 Speaker 1: while it's still coming out. I don't, I keep tina. 483 00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:23,919 Speaker 1: I was not gonna lie to match and blow the 484 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:27,160 Speaker 1: funk up. That's how. No, it was rancid. Nope, Nope, 485 00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:31,320 Speaker 1: it didn't ran. I'm telling you. It was del first 486 00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:33,800 Speaker 1: goes the early morning. I didn't even get my coffee yet. 487 00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:35,760 Speaker 1: It was either that or the throat coat t And 488 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:38,320 Speaker 1: I know it wasn't the throat code unless that works 489 00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:40,679 Speaker 1: as elaxative. I don't know it was that a period 490 00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:46,119 Speaker 1: ship heard no, but I was on my laptip. My period. 491 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:48,600 Speaker 1: It was the end of a period ship. I know 492 00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:51,240 Speaker 1: we had a beginning period ship, period ship. The period 493 00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:54,639 Speaker 1: ship is the worst. Why are we talking about booty 494 00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:57,760 Speaker 1: hole cramp dog Okay, I don't know about Booty. I 495 00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:06,200 Speaker 1: just know about you. Your your cramps to you. But 496 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:14,720 Speaker 1: maybe you just gotta ship. Oh do you feel like 497 00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:20,240 Speaker 1: you feel it in your back? She said? The bootoole 498 00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:27,919 Speaker 1: She's like no, Um, well, speaking of assholes and boodholes, 499 00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:30,000 Speaker 1: I wanted to get into the fiddle of ship for 500 00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:32,480 Speaker 1: this week. Um, and it's something that you actually spoke 501 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:35,679 Speaker 1: about as well with sex sells. So the woman, sorry, 502 00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:39,600 Speaker 1: the woman who made two hundred thousand dollars selling parts 503 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:41,920 Speaker 1: in a jar and went to the hospital, is now 504 00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:45,840 Speaker 1: earning five thousand dollars a day selling boom sweat and 505 00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:51,000 Speaker 1: she that is boob sweat. My nigga, Wait, why did 506 00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:54,480 Speaker 1: you so? I don't really know she I think she 507 00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:56,359 Speaker 1: just wanted to be on TV. Well now she's making 508 00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:59,359 Speaker 1: all the money, so it did. So this chick, if 509 00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:01,240 Speaker 1: anyone remembers a girl in any fiance that had a 510 00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:06,040 Speaker 1: compromised immune system who went to Australia to meet her girlfriend, 511 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,840 Speaker 1: she wasn't giving gay at all, to the point where 512 00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:11,880 Speaker 1: the other girl is kind of like it, but she's 513 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:14,680 Speaker 1: not even gay. It was just weird, I don't know. 514 00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:16,800 Speaker 1: And she was like complaining about everything, and she just 515 00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:19,600 Speaker 1: kind of seemed annoying. I just don't even see her 516 00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:22,200 Speaker 1: eating a pussy, and I guess that's true because she's 517 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:24,840 Speaker 1: instead of doing that on only. I do want to ask, 518 00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:28,200 Speaker 1: because you said you have you wouldn't do only fans 519 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:32,359 Speaker 1: because you're now in the certain positions and rooms that 520 00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:35,000 Speaker 1: you're in. Now, I get why you wouldn't do that, 521 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:39,280 Speaker 1: But would you randomly sell something that wasn't sexual to 522 00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:42,760 Speaker 1: the masses but maybe someone just wanted like boop sweat 523 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:45,880 Speaker 1: is not really sexual. No, you still wouldn't sell any 524 00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:47,680 Speaker 1: So I did do something on sex cells and on 525 00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:52,000 Speaker 1: my self for charity, and that's it, okay, mainly because 526 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 1: like I wanted to, I've been trying to live in 527 00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:56,760 Speaker 1: the life of the businesses, you know what I'm saying, 528 00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:59,040 Speaker 1: Like brod sad that episode where I got on the 529 00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:01,440 Speaker 1: phopo Sofia is so I just saw the editing footage 530 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:03,080 Speaker 1: and I was like, when we cut out my fall 531 00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:07,560 Speaker 1: at least like cant But I say that to say, 532 00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:11,680 Speaker 1: like I just I don't know if I can really 533 00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:13,719 Speaker 1: do it and be It's like I want to do 534 00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:17,240 Speaker 1: everything that I want to do with like pride, and 535 00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:20,960 Speaker 1: I'm not secure enough to do it. Okay, It's just 536 00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:23,639 Speaker 1: like talking about insecurities for a moment, like you know, 537 00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,000 Speaker 1: talking to Lena the Plug about her ship, like people 538 00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 1: could be bride eyed even though you were about your 539 00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:30,840 Speaker 1: feet picks like you didn't feel a way about doing 540 00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:33,720 Speaker 1: it like I do, Okay, And I don't mean I 541 00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:40,160 Speaker 1: don't noticed, I know, I mean just right like things. 542 00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 1: And it's maybe because I know someone will use it 543 00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:45,120 Speaker 1: for there I don't know. But you know, I'm also 544 00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:46,880 Speaker 1: just trying to be honest here because I'm not saying 545 00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:49,320 Speaker 1: it in a shamy way obviously. I mean, I'm sure 546 00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:50,800 Speaker 1: it can make great money if I decided to get 547 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:57,080 Speaker 1: only fans, but like, I can't do it. But that's 548 00:27:57,200 --> 00:28:00,840 Speaker 1: I thought it was about my job and stuff. But 549 00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:03,080 Speaker 1: ken you left the comment a few days ago on 550 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:06,360 Speaker 1: our roots picnic Ship like shaking my damn head, like 551 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:08,720 Speaker 1: you know, everyone I worked with for the most part 552 00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:11,680 Speaker 1: like knows what the do you know? Like I wanted 553 00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:14,439 Speaker 1: them calls and my emails wheezy at the company I 554 00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:17,800 Speaker 1: work for, like they know you know. And and so 555 00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:20,280 Speaker 1: I don't think it's that more than it's like I 556 00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:22,879 Speaker 1: don't think I'm secure enough to do it, Okay, I 557 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:25,000 Speaker 1: don't think. I don't know how sexy I could be, 558 00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:27,959 Speaker 1: Like you know, I think I'm goofy. I don't think 559 00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:29,720 Speaker 1: I'm sexy at all, but I'll be open to sell 560 00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:34,240 Speaker 1: on some ship showwood Boot, you want the limp from 561 00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:37,040 Speaker 1: my thoughts? Like what you won't, I'll sell it. How 562 00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:40,239 Speaker 1: much would you sell the books? Boots sweat? I mean, 563 00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:43,040 Speaker 1: if this bitch, I would I would charge premium just 564 00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:45,560 Speaker 1: because as a white woman, So I would charge premium 565 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:49,520 Speaker 1: rates because I'm gonna compete with this. I don't know, 566 00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:51,560 Speaker 1: but she means five thousand a day. And I tried 567 00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:55,680 Speaker 1: to blink it. Five thousand dollars a day. But boots sweat, 568 00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:59,880 Speaker 1: bro but boobs sweat. We were sweating on that stage, 569 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 1: his picnic stage, but not even where because the dress 570 00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:08,080 Speaker 1: was cut on the side. Oh puff puff, Like I 571 00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:09,880 Speaker 1: had to wipe my leg and it was not foreign. 572 00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:13,560 Speaker 1: Oh and I got I'm gonna have a whole bunch 573 00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:18,440 Speaker 1: of thoughts this summer, Like New York is hot, son, 574 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:21,880 Speaker 1: I am dying. I walked to the studio. It's a 575 00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:25,520 Speaker 1: fifteen minute walk. Okay, I didn't make it. It's hot, 576 00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:28,880 Speaker 1: a little deep, that's happy walk, no, I know, and 577 00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:31,720 Speaker 1: heels too. Oh yeah, you're bugging. Oh my god, really 578 00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:34,200 Speaker 1: almost lost my fucking mind. Why everybody knows how much 579 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:37,040 Speaker 1: I love Jesus. I'm walking on the street, this black 580 00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:40,800 Speaker 1: suburban stops, someone opens the door. I thought like, oh 581 00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:42,440 Speaker 1: my god, somebody's gonna holler at me. It was Jesus 582 00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:45,719 Speaker 1: saying like, yeah, dog, you should have seen me. I 583 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:49,000 Speaker 1: acted like and it's crazy when you're really a fan 584 00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:50,880 Speaker 1: of someone. And that's why a few weeks ago on 585 00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:52,200 Speaker 1: our episode when I was like, I don't care if 586 00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:54,880 Speaker 1: people come up to me, like, he stopped to say hi, 587 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:58,520 Speaker 1: and I still was he looked like he jumped back 588 00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:02,040 Speaker 1: in the car because I was like, was like, oh 589 00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:07,600 Speaker 1: my really yeah yeah hoping, man, I can't like I 590 00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:13,160 Speaker 1: just like when I love someone, I can't walking hope it. 591 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:17,560 Speaker 1: But not just love when you're like inspired by someone, 592 00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:21,400 Speaker 1: when someone is an idol to me at what they do. Fuck, 593 00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:27,760 Speaker 1: I'm that's Overdud. I haven't met, but I'm like over 594 00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:33,680 Speaker 1: Brown anyway. All right, let's get into the horrible decision 595 00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:37,200 Speaker 1: for this week. So the horrible decision is romping through 596 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:41,160 Speaker 1: the ages, and it's only because I have been seeing 597 00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:43,480 Speaker 1: so many things on the Internet where they be acting 598 00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:47,920 Speaker 1: like our granddaddy's wasn't cheating, the grandmama's wasn't being a hole, 599 00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:50,840 Speaker 1: and so I'm like I wanted to come on here 600 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:54,479 Speaker 1: and say we have been hoeing, nigga's have been cheating, 601 00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:59,200 Speaker 1: We've been busting a wide open for century. So I 602 00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:02,960 Speaker 1: found this article on the Sun dot co dot uk, 603 00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:06,600 Speaker 1: and I wanted to start off actually with sex toys. Um. 604 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:11,320 Speaker 1: Sex toys have actually been around forever and I know 605 00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:14,960 Speaker 1: we get now like all the things. So it says 606 00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:18,720 Speaker 1: humans have been creating toys to enhance their sex lives 607 00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:22,880 Speaker 1: for as long as they have been having sex. Um 608 00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:27,800 Speaker 1: back in the King dynasty, Um from China actually found 609 00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:34,960 Speaker 1: that King q I n G. That's king. There ain't no. 610 00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:36,640 Speaker 1: Why did you look at me like that? There ain't no. 611 00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:41,800 Speaker 1: You're just saying, but there there there might be a 612 00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:43,720 Speaker 1: Ming dynasty. But this is from the King dynasty but 613 00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 1: spelled with a quea and it would be look at 614 00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:50,760 Speaker 1: me looking at the Asian. Sorry sorry, I'm like, oh, 615 00:31:50,800 --> 00:32:00,280 Speaker 1: you're not Asians? Oh wait what this at hr? Sorry? Red, 616 00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,320 Speaker 1: but I was trying to be Yoda is her name? 617 00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:07,920 Speaker 1: Oh Yo Mada? Oh yeah, he's from South Africa, South 618 00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:17,920 Speaker 1: African America, African American whatever, proud King dynasty, sorry, king dynasty, nothing, bitch, 619 00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:19,960 Speaker 1: I'm reading, there's no and looked at us like He 620 00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:24,120 Speaker 1: was like, I knew so right, I said it right. 621 00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:28,160 Speaker 1: She wasn't my bad, my bad, Yomi am I yo 622 00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:33,360 Speaker 1: know where's Yomi? Not yo? Maira. Her name is Yomira, bitch, 623 00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:37,760 Speaker 1: don't you get her name. She just wanted to ask 624 00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:41,800 Speaker 1: some play with chew it. I didn't want to be done, Mada. 625 00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:47,720 Speaker 1: We are here, we are, bro. We are really trying 626 00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:51,320 Speaker 1: not to get canceled before we renewed his contrack, because 627 00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:53,160 Speaker 1: bitch that it already came up to us like, hey, 628 00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:55,840 Speaker 1: so those cute cumbers, we might we might not want 629 00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:58,720 Speaker 1: them at our festival. Oh bitch, Oh you didn't know 630 00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:03,120 Speaker 1: you'll be seeing the email. Well, yeah, well we'll talk 631 00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:05,320 Speaker 1: about it off. We know we're gonna talk about it off. 632 00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:09,040 Speaker 1: Oh the one that's about to hire us. Possibly they 633 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:14,280 Speaker 1: mentioned huh that festival. Yea, yes, they were, yeah, we'll 634 00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:16,520 Speaker 1: talk about it. It's a panel bro. No no, no, no, 635 00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:21,000 Speaker 1: I'm not that one the big boys. I could see 636 00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:28,960 Speaker 1: your fucking mouth. Um. Oh yeah, they were like we'll 637 00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 1: have a talk. Um anyways, now they was wild if 638 00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:34,840 Speaker 1: it was just nah, that wasn't even a normal cucumber 639 00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:38,200 Speaker 1: second team. They even that doesn't know what we're talking. 640 00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:40,560 Speaker 1: Sorry y'all if y'all were at the Ruth Picknick, because 641 00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:41,680 Speaker 1: we didn't get to talk about it when we got 642 00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:43,600 Speaker 1: into our whole rust picnic rant. We didn't get to 643 00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:46,440 Speaker 1: talk about the fabulousness of the hor hide that made 644 00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:49,720 Speaker 1: cucumbers be like that was too much. It wasn't giving, 645 00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:53,080 Speaker 1: it was giving a lot. So here's what happened. We 646 00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:55,600 Speaker 1: know we're only doing that ship normally. The last time 647 00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:57,800 Speaker 1: we did Cucumbers, I called COVID. We were in Mexico, 648 00:33:57,840 --> 00:33:59,400 Speaker 1: but we were at the pool with a pool party. 649 00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:03,479 Speaker 1: It was pool party we normally have not done, like 650 00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:05,680 Speaker 1: Mandy not. I mean maybe if you didn't Mandy, but 651 00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:07,960 Speaker 1: I needed to check, okay, So we got book to 652 00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:10,480 Speaker 1: do something during the pandemic. I was like, man, I 653 00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:12,239 Speaker 1: don't want to do it, and I came back and 654 00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:15,360 Speaker 1: had it. I was like, fucking we go on. So 655 00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:18,479 Speaker 1: we go and it was at a pool and people 656 00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:21,239 Speaker 1: were wasted. I will never do a pool party show again. 657 00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:23,200 Speaker 1: But I like, never mind, let me say how much 658 00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:26,279 Speaker 1: we make, but les say never. But like it was 659 00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:30,800 Speaker 1: just a mess, bro like sucking cucumbers, fucking Sharon Hookah's 660 00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:35,080 Speaker 1: bottles in my mouth but real quick. The only difference 661 00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:38,360 Speaker 1: from that and Ruth's picnic was there were no hookahs, 662 00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:41,480 Speaker 1: so it was just it was probably more wild at 663 00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:45,520 Speaker 1: Ruth's picnic than because they're outside. I don't know. They 664 00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:50,160 Speaker 1: got excited. They started double sucking, cue cars, doting girls 665 00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:52,440 Speaker 1: to compete because it's Pride months. And I even warned 666 00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:54,040 Speaker 1: the crowd, like, yo, if you don't like that ship, 667 00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:55,960 Speaker 1: get the funk out. This is what we're doing. So 668 00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:58,279 Speaker 1: was wild, not gonna front. They really was tiring you. 669 00:34:58,280 --> 00:34:59,759 Speaker 1: I didn't even really want to do it. I was 670 00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:02,200 Speaker 1: like a little much. She was like, no, we're gonna 671 00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:04,080 Speaker 1: fit in there. It's fine, we're gonna get through it. 672 00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:07,440 Speaker 1: I wasn't even trying to bring the cucumber, the cuber. 673 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:09,040 Speaker 1: I didn't want to do it. I didn't want to 674 00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:10,520 Speaker 1: do it. I didn't want to do it. I didn't 675 00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:12,759 Speaker 1: want to do it. Then finally we see we'll have 676 00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:15,080 Speaker 1: a little bit of wiggle room for time, and I 677 00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:17,080 Speaker 1: was just hoping. I was like, well, it looks like 678 00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:19,160 Speaker 1: I said, do we even have props? Benny sent me 679 00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:23,080 Speaker 1: a picture of four foot and a half long cucumbers. 680 00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:24,960 Speaker 1: I didn't even know. I didn't even know they were 681 00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:27,359 Speaker 1: this big bro. They was a foot and a half 682 00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:29,640 Speaker 1: cucumbers and I was like, these bitches want to make 683 00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:31,439 Speaker 1: sure the props was there. We was ahead of time 684 00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:33,600 Speaker 1: because I did not want to do the cucumbers. Anyways, 685 00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:37,160 Speaker 1: the cucumbers it looked wild. They look they would have 686 00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:40,839 Speaker 1: believed the girl. We're both good, right, and so we 687 00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:47,520 Speaker 1: were like, let's someone. No, it wasn't doing one each. 688 00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:50,560 Speaker 1: They were gonna suck the same, same one, and it 689 00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:52,839 Speaker 1: was it was it was you saw the picture if 690 00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:55,640 Speaker 1: y'all want to see you going through Instagram. Um, I 691 00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:57,719 Speaker 1: didn't want to go to as well. One of the 692 00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:03,440 Speaker 1: oldest dildos ever discovered is the whole how La Fells ballast. 693 00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:05,759 Speaker 1: It was discovered in the hole a Fels Cave in 694 00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:08,920 Speaker 1: Germany in two thousand five. It was carbon dated to 695 00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:13,799 Speaker 1: somewhere between twenty six thousand and thirty thousand years ago. 696 00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:17,680 Speaker 1: I also want to talk about some aphrodisiacs, which y'all 697 00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:19,920 Speaker 1: may know. Um, we talked, we've talked, we did a 698 00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:22,359 Speaker 1: whole episode on food that we're aphrodisiacs. But maybe y'all 699 00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:24,200 Speaker 1: don't know this because this is a shocker to me. 700 00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:29,280 Speaker 1: Beans while they may make your Buddhist squeeze are also 701 00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:33,360 Speaker 1: in aphrodisiac. Despite the popular image of damsels and distrust 702 00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:37,440 Speaker 1: and chastity about sex in the middle it was progressive anyway. 703 00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:41,040 Speaker 1: For one thing, there was a belief that erections were 704 00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:44,360 Speaker 1: caused when the penis filled with air, and as a result, 705 00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:48,680 Speaker 1: beans were thought to be the aphrodisiac for this. B 706 00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:52,240 Speaker 1: DSM also goes back all the way to four ninety 707 00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:58,359 Speaker 1: b c E. And it gets its name before Christ. Yeah. Yeah, um. 708 00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:00,399 Speaker 1: Some of the oldest evidence of b ds them can 709 00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:03,200 Speaker 1: be found in the Tomb of the Whipping and Extrue 710 00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:09,560 Speaker 1: and at Truth Scan Tomb and Lazio Italy. All right, um, 711 00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:12,800 Speaker 1: it gets it, so b d S the the actual 712 00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:15,919 Speaker 1: whipping gets it. The tomb name gets its name from 713 00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:18,680 Speaker 1: the fresco on the wall that shows two men who 714 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:20,960 Speaker 1: are flogging a woman as they have sex with her. 715 00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:25,040 Speaker 1: In the eighteen hundreds there were establishments known to cater 716 00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:30,760 Speaker 1: to kink, such as Teresa Berkeley's Berkeley's Brothel and Hallam Street, London. 717 00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:33,759 Speaker 1: Um as well. Birth control. I wanted to get into that, 718 00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:37,200 Speaker 1: especially since now they want to not even allow us 719 00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:41,239 Speaker 1: abortion in this country. Birth control in the past, So 720 00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:44,160 Speaker 1: sex in the past was fun, naughty, and an enjoyable experience. 721 00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:47,320 Speaker 1: So although popular belief has it that they were only 722 00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:51,200 Speaker 1: doing it to procreate, because Christianity wants us to believe 723 00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,560 Speaker 1: that was only made for reproduction, day live as most 724 00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:56,000 Speaker 1: of this most of the church does. But we are 725 00:37:56,080 --> 00:38:00,719 Speaker 1: not gonna get it to that pig gut condoms. We're 726 00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:04,040 Speaker 1: being used in the fifteen hundreds, and there's evidence of 727 00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:07,000 Speaker 1: contraception being used all the way back to ancient Egypt. 728 00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:11,800 Speaker 1: One method used back then was a vaginal pests three 729 00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:16,120 Speaker 1: made from Can you look up what pess thori is 730 00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:18,600 Speaker 1: p E S S A R Y. Is it like 731 00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:22,480 Speaker 1: a rosary? Vaginal pess THI is BC? I don't know. 732 00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:27,200 Speaker 1: I'm I'm assuming it's actually a condom, because let me 733 00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:31,759 Speaker 1: tell you what it's made of, crocodile dung and honey. 734 00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:34,960 Speaker 1: So a vaginal pessory is a soft removable device that 735 00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:36,960 Speaker 1: goes into your vagina and the supports the areas that 736 00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:42,800 Speaker 1: are affected by pelvic oregon prolapse. So this was probably 737 00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:47,080 Speaker 1: then some sort of uh coating to keep the sperm 738 00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:50,239 Speaker 1: from going all the way to the ovaries. This is 739 00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:52,480 Speaker 1: what happens when the bladder rectum or UNI. So they 740 00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:57,399 Speaker 1: were putting crocodile dung and honey and they puss Alabama 741 00:38:57,520 --> 00:39:09,160 Speaker 1: hot pocket buddy, Wow your mind. Because it's also Pride month. 742 00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:13,239 Speaker 1: I want to talk about lgbt Q and just so 743 00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:16,480 Speaker 1: you know, same sex desire and gender fluidity is found 744 00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:20,400 Speaker 1: all throughout history. Um. But some of the most important 745 00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:24,400 Speaker 1: documents and queer history are the Diaries of an Listener, 746 00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:28,280 Speaker 1: which by the way, has an HBO show now, and 747 00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:31,520 Speaker 1: it talks about how like they had to hide even 748 00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:34,520 Speaker 1: being get like and this is lesbians. This isn't even 749 00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:38,480 Speaker 1: gay met Lesbians couldn't even and although it's more accepted now, 750 00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:44,040 Speaker 1: lesbians also had to hide their gender fluidity in the past. Um. 751 00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:47,080 Speaker 1: That is just a few things, Um I have do 752 00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:49,200 Speaker 1: I have any more on here? They just gave a 753 00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:51,440 Speaker 1: whole bunch. It was just very interesting and I was 754 00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:53,160 Speaker 1: like that I need you all to know the pig 755 00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:56,200 Speaker 1: Latin kind of crazy, not only the common thing that 756 00:39:56,280 --> 00:40:00,680 Speaker 1: was like cat intestines or just wait, excuse me, and 757 00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:03,319 Speaker 1: this is what I don't eat hot dogs. This like 758 00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:06,480 Speaker 1: hot dogs is made with them intestins of animals and 759 00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:10,319 Speaker 1: ship Okay, they used like the backup of whatever, but 760 00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:15,000 Speaker 1: Nathans and Nathan is good. Nathans, we talked about somebody 761 00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:17,160 Speaker 1: real quick that I wanted this podcast. Fine is hell 762 00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:19,360 Speaker 1: but crazy there so you can flirt with him the 763 00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:21,839 Speaker 1: whole time. Are you gonna actually be a hot talk best? 764 00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:23,520 Speaker 1: You just maybe think about it with the hot dogs? 765 00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:28,680 Speaker 1: And they wait, the hot dog? Huh? His name is 766 00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:32,440 Speaker 1: nineteen keys. Oh and obviously you did. When I have 767 00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:34,680 Speaker 1: him on the what happened now? He just said he 768 00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:37,400 Speaker 1: in l A Okay, So hopefully we can have him 769 00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:40,520 Speaker 1: on when he's in New York. But um, so I 770 00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:42,799 Speaker 1: thought he did the crypto like you did. Yeah, I 771 00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:45,200 Speaker 1: was like, she hit me up like ninety He's gonna 772 00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:47,000 Speaker 1: be all horrible. And I was like, so this is 773 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:50,839 Speaker 1: on crypto. The markets is down, I've heard of his name. 774 00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:53,560 Speaker 1: They like didn't follow him or anything like that. Went 775 00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:55,520 Speaker 1: to when of Ian's events saw this nig and I 776 00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:58,360 Speaker 1: was like, whoa, I'm a hope up now I want you, 777 00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:01,759 Speaker 1: I hope. I don't know ship he dresses like one. 778 00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:04,520 Speaker 1: What can I not say that? You can say that 779 00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:09,359 Speaker 1: I have a lot when you come on here, sir face. 780 00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:11,920 Speaker 1: I cannot wait to talk about that fucking Coofy wrap. 781 00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:15,680 Speaker 1: It's the wrap. It gives, it gives DR's following him 782 00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:18,880 Speaker 1: a stage. I don't know, be fine. So anyway, I 783 00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:21,640 Speaker 1: started swiping on his page because I was like, what 784 00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:23,799 Speaker 1: does he talk about? Because I heard someone bring up 785 00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:27,040 Speaker 1: food in his conversation about food, and also he is 786 00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:29,040 Speaker 1: a podcast I was like, oh, ship, come recording our 787 00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:31,279 Speaker 1: studio in l A. Because if you're gonna have high 788 00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:35,960 Speaker 1: level conversations, honey, you need black magic six K. So anyway, 789 00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:39,799 Speaker 1: I started watching his Instagram clip where he starts talking 790 00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:43,480 Speaker 1: about food. Oh, no, I know who he is. No, 791 00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:48,560 Speaker 1: we saw he was there anyway, So I watched this 792 00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:50,920 Speaker 1: conversation at about food, and the dude was like, and 793 00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:52,000 Speaker 1: this is really what I want to talk to him 794 00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:54,839 Speaker 1: about because everybody in his comments are like gun hole 795 00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:57,319 Speaker 1: believing what he's saying. But I'm thinking this is nuts. 796 00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:58,760 Speaker 1: And I told him like, when you come on horrible, 797 00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:00,799 Speaker 1: why did you say that was nuts? So basically they 798 00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:03,919 Speaker 1: were talking about how you could be over sexualized because 799 00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:06,000 Speaker 1: they be put on hormones in the chicken, and they 800 00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:08,040 Speaker 1: put and put hormones in the chicken and they try 801 00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:10,880 Speaker 1: to sexualize the food that niggas. It's giving What is 802 00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:13,920 Speaker 1: the point of a hot dog? He said, the snickers 803 00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:15,680 Speaker 1: and this was the person he at all. It looks 804 00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:17,719 Speaker 1: like a black man's finish your bite into it and 805 00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:20,719 Speaker 1: oozes out and they're trying to get up, and I'm like, yo, 806 00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:23,920 Speaker 1: this is insane. But also he believes in like Steven 807 00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:26,239 Speaker 1: retention stuff, which I want to talk about. I don't 808 00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:28,360 Speaker 1: understand how you look like that and you don't come. 809 00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,520 Speaker 1: I mean, hey, sometimes you look I could be wrong. 810 00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:35,160 Speaker 1: Maybe he does come, because the retention doesn't mean you 811 00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:37,640 Speaker 1: don't come. You just certain times you edge or some 812 00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:40,560 Speaker 1: certain times you you stop yourself from coming, But it 813 00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:44,799 Speaker 1: doesn't mean you never come. Why. It's it's the build up, right. 814 00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:47,439 Speaker 1: I didn't feel like an athlete or something, or maybe 815 00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:49,520 Speaker 1: he's gonna teach me about some higher level. Turned me 816 00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:52,920 Speaker 1: into a hotep, sir, I turned me into one because 817 00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:54,600 Speaker 1: I want to know. That's why athletes don't be coming 818 00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:57,200 Speaker 1: when they got the finals. I understand that, but as 819 00:42:57,200 --> 00:42:59,319 Speaker 1: a man, you gotta hold into the saucer. Lad's good 820 00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:02,319 Speaker 1: for your workouts, for your every day energy. It's giving 821 00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:05,280 Speaker 1: hotel And you know what, I can't wait till I'm 822 00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:08,200 Speaker 1: talking about it because I like sometimes I get certain 823 00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:10,320 Speaker 1: things like when it when one of the conversations about 824 00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:12,360 Speaker 1: food and when you like kill animals and they're stressed 825 00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:13,960 Speaker 1: out and the meat is different. I hear that I 826 00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:16,879 Speaker 1: understand heal, but like you don't about tell me I'm 827 00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:20,160 Speaker 1: over sexualized that I eat chicken. No, but but you 828 00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:24,480 Speaker 1: understand the extrogen and the chicken or whatever. But that's 829 00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:27,440 Speaker 1: let me tell you the US of A. The f 830 00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:29,640 Speaker 1: d A approved. I don't want them to approve ship. 831 00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:31,799 Speaker 1: It would be some bullshit that we'll be putting into 832 00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:34,200 Speaker 1: our bodies. Because even when I lived in Singapore, there 833 00:43:34,280 --> 00:43:37,319 Speaker 1: was like no American food. There was nothing that was 834 00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:40,040 Speaker 1: approved by their You got to think about like our 835 00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:43,040 Speaker 1: ways game too, Like when I went to Japan and 836 00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:44,960 Speaker 1: saw that I could eat noodles every day and I 837 00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:46,839 Speaker 1: wasn't gaining weight. It's got to be even our cards 838 00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:49,399 Speaker 1: are different here, our noodles are different, our rights is different, everything, 839 00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:51,640 Speaker 1: And they were having ingredients that are in other countries 840 00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:57,560 Speaker 1: that we still that we consume. Crazy, but it is crazy. 841 00:43:57,640 --> 00:43:59,839 Speaker 1: Maybe he could help us stop eating It's wild now 842 00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:03,279 Speaker 1: for this week, um, because I wanted to talk, well, 843 00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:06,440 Speaker 1: we talked about how sex and hoism has been around 844 00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:10,759 Speaker 1: for our book. UM. Today's homel is actually coming from 845 00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:15,760 Speaker 1: me UM and our patriots. So last month's town hall, 846 00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:19,360 Speaker 1: I stayed on and talked to everybody. This was me 847 00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:24,080 Speaker 1: gearing up for my formal erotic donny experience as well 848 00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:28,720 Speaker 1: as the play party that I threw during UM Memorial 849 00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:32,600 Speaker 1: Day weekend. And so I sat on Zoom with about 850 00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:36,760 Speaker 1: eighty people and they shared with me sex clubs across 851 00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:39,400 Speaker 1: the country. So this is where if you are at 852 00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:43,000 Speaker 1: your desk, if you are just sitting in your living room, 853 00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:45,279 Speaker 1: please take out a pen and paper. Please take out 854 00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:48,719 Speaker 1: your notes UM. Also, if you are a patron, I 855 00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:50,799 Speaker 1: will be posting this. You'll probably have it a couple 856 00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:53,200 Speaker 1: of weeks ago, but I'm posting it to the Patreon. 857 00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:56,480 Speaker 1: Here are the list. I also have asterix for those 858 00:44:56,719 --> 00:45:01,720 Speaker 1: that are strictly LGBTQ friendly. Oh you're giving a sex clubs. 859 00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:04,640 Speaker 1: I'm giving sex clubs because of all we keept getting 860 00:45:04,680 --> 00:45:07,720 Speaker 1: asked where to go. I don't have every fucking sex 861 00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:10,359 Speaker 1: club in the country, but I curated a great list, 862 00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:13,480 Speaker 1: so please please pull out. Shut us to the patriots, 863 00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:17,600 Speaker 1: shout out to the patrons, the patrons dispressed. Um So, 864 00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:24,040 Speaker 1: here we go Entourage Vegas, Club Houston and Houston, Body 865 00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:31,719 Speaker 1: Zone Detroit, Steam Works Chicago, Trapeas Atlanta, of course, nsf W, 866 00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:36,680 Speaker 1: New York. Flex Flex is in Atlanta and Cleveland, and 867 00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:41,319 Speaker 1: it is men only. Velvet in Miami, Caligula as well 868 00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:45,359 Speaker 1: here in Queens, New York, Sousia and Brooklyn, Green Door, 869 00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:51,880 Speaker 1: Las Vegas. I'm not gonna, yes, Green Door, Las Vegas, 870 00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:57,759 Speaker 1: The Oasis, Toronto, Pleasure Hole, Seattle, Cloak Room, d C 871 00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:03,200 Speaker 1: Power Exchange, Sam Francisco, The Loft Atlanta, which to my 872 00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:09,560 Speaker 1: knowledge is also men only, Playhouse Baltimore, sat Fire in Portland, 873 00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:12,480 Speaker 1: This World in Portland, which is also l g B 874 00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:17,920 Speaker 1: t Q at five More Provado in Portland's Electric Social 875 00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:24,960 Speaker 1: Club in Providence, Rhode Islands. I'm just gonna, says Club 876 00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:29,880 Speaker 1: Joy in l A, The Spot in Kansas City, and 877 00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:34,920 Speaker 1: Club Sin in Cincinnati, Ohio. Now, these were all just given, 878 00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:37,239 Speaker 1: and I was asking are they still open, do they 879 00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:40,520 Speaker 1: still operate? Are they members only? There's a ton of 880 00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:43,719 Speaker 1: there's a ton of information that sometimes sometimes you do 881 00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:46,040 Speaker 1: have to be a member for clubs. Um So I 882 00:46:46,080 --> 00:46:48,880 Speaker 1: would just say, get on your Google's, go on Instagram. 883 00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:51,719 Speaker 1: A lot of them also do have Instagram pages. Sent 884 00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:54,839 Speaker 1: you all this. This is literally eighty three patrons who 885 00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:57,719 Speaker 1: stayed on with me on the town hall and we 886 00:46:57,840 --> 00:47:00,480 Speaker 1: ended up just getting into a free flowing convert station 887 00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:03,400 Speaker 1: and I started creating the list. Normally on our town halls, 888 00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:05,120 Speaker 1: I stay on and just talk for like one other 889 00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:09,560 Speaker 1: hour and thank you patrons. This is what our community 890 00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:15,239 Speaker 1: does for you guys to have how much pussy had 891 00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:19,760 Speaker 1: to get fucked for Mandy to get this a nice 892 00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:23,440 Speaker 1: little list, and they were I didn't really gas. But 893 00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:26,799 Speaker 1: also again a lot of our patrons, even on our 894 00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:29,439 Speaker 1: zoom calls, we may have three white people, so y'all, 895 00:47:29,480 --> 00:47:32,920 Speaker 1: these are all also given from black and brown patrons 896 00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:35,359 Speaker 1: that support us. They stayed on and talk to us, 897 00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:37,600 Speaker 1: and I just felt like I had a gem here. 898 00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:40,879 Speaker 1: And you guys asked us every fucking week that y'all 899 00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:43,080 Speaker 1: want to go to a fucking sex club. This is 900 00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:47,040 Speaker 1: a list. Find it, do your Google's and also joined community. 901 00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:51,759 Speaker 1: I will say from experiencing throwing the fed party and 902 00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:55,879 Speaker 1: hosting a party, set Life is your friend, Join fat Life. 903 00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:58,000 Speaker 1: This is not an ad. I'm not sponsored by them. 904 00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:01,920 Speaker 1: Fat Life has been something that has built community into 905 00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:04,400 Speaker 1: integrating all of the sex spaces that I go to, 906 00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:08,279 Speaker 1: and it's great. They're all king friendly the ones I've 907 00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:10,520 Speaker 1: been to. I won't speak for this list, but just 908 00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:13,040 Speaker 1: make sure you have it down. I'll put it on Patreon. 909 00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:15,080 Speaker 1: And if you're not a Patreon yet, this is where 910 00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:17,560 Speaker 1: I'm telling you to go join Patreon or re listen, 911 00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:20,640 Speaker 1: but the list will be posted on Patreon and patrons 912 00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:23,160 Speaker 1: that are on I implore you guys to also write 913 00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:26,319 Speaker 1: into the comments employer dictionary, you know what I mean. 914 00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:31,880 Speaker 1: Implore you guys to just add to this list because 915 00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:35,600 Speaker 1: what is community without sharing our resources? And there's that 916 00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:38,560 Speaker 1: um outside of that. Are we leaving with anything else? 917 00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:47,160 Speaker 1: With outcome? I can't stand you. I cannot stand you. 918 00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:50,879 Speaker 1: But also again, be sure to join our Patreon that's 919 00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:55,920 Speaker 1: patreon dot com. That slash so like I remember your 920 00:48:55,960 --> 00:49:00,759 Speaker 1: home girl, her name Latasha made horderv Yes, community needs 921 00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:03,239 Speaker 1: to be something. Community definitely has to be something you 922 00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:05,440 Speaker 1: could be like our next tour names or our next march. 923 00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:10,960 Speaker 1: I would love community. All right, don't do this now, 924 00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:14,120 Speaker 1: that baby. Alright, we we're not gonna make the shirt 925 00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:18,920 Speaker 1: because maybe y'all know what happens to black seconds. All right, guys, 926 00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:21,040 Speaker 1: until next time this has been you had another episode 927 00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:27,759 Speaker 1: of decisions by the last one of Icebreakers. If you 928 00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:31,520 Speaker 1: got married tomorrow, would you be okay with any of 929 00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:36,719 Speaker 1: your friends fucking any of your exes? I feel like 930 00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:40,400 Speaker 1: I would when I'm into somebody, and I'm like, I 931 00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:43,560 Speaker 1: don't care. That's me too. And it's funny because the 932 00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:47,359 Speaker 1: character in the show she gets married and finds out 933 00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:52,960 Speaker 1: there her best friend is fucking the man that she 934 00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:55,680 Speaker 1: was previously in love with. Now I'm not gonna hold you. 935 00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:59,520 Speaker 1: At first, I was like, bro, it is your ex 936 00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:02,680 Speaker 1: out of a lot. But as the fucking movie get 937 00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:05,719 Speaker 1: on and I find out this is a nigga that 938 00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:08,120 Speaker 1: she didn't had a miscarriage with and moved in with, 939 00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:11,400 Speaker 1: I was like, nah, that friend crossed the fucking line. 940 00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:15,480 Speaker 1: Went way too far. Like, bro, they were about to 941 00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:20,239 Speaker 1: have a family together. Well here that was too much. 942 00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:24,239 Speaker 1: But then we were talking about it, um which I 943 00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:28,080 Speaker 1: watched it with any and I was like, oh, nigga 944 00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:31,080 Speaker 1: because once we started realizing that, you know, she was pregnant, 945 00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:34,480 Speaker 1: and then they said eight years went by, wasn't it 946 00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:39,760 Speaker 1: the time? Frame eight years eight years. So, for example, 947 00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:44,479 Speaker 1: the older I get, the more I realized people circle back, 948 00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:47,840 Speaker 1: and I don't mean lovers, I mean friends. I go 949 00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:50,600 Speaker 1: to a Little Sister a Lot. It's a club underneath 950 00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:54,040 Speaker 1: the mox scene and as a dude that used to 951 00:50:54,080 --> 00:50:57,520 Speaker 1: work and manage tow that I keep seeing there that 952 00:50:57,680 --> 00:51:00,200 Speaker 1: runs the door and I'm looking at him and why 953 00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,800 Speaker 1: do I know you? And I'm like, oh my god. 954 00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:06,320 Speaker 1: I used to work in Orlando at fucking not Cairo. 955 00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:08,239 Speaker 1: What was it called not Tier? What was the name 956 00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:11,319 Speaker 1: of it? And your friend worked there and Danny owned it? 957 00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:14,239 Speaker 1: What the fund was the name of that clube? Bane? 958 00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:17,400 Speaker 1: I was like wow. Then I was like yeah, I 959 00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:19,120 Speaker 1: feel like I know you from somewhere else. He used 960 00:51:19,120 --> 00:51:22,880 Speaker 1: to suck my home girl. He was super cute. I 961 00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:25,960 Speaker 1: was a Brianda that night and I was like day 962 00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:30,239 Speaker 1: because he was feeling rihanda Rihanna was looking at him, 963 00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:34,120 Speaker 1: and I was like, huh, well, this just all came 964 00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:36,319 Speaker 1: back around and wearing a whole another city, right, This 965 00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:38,120 Speaker 1: person somehow back of my life and I see them 966 00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:42,480 Speaker 1: every few weekends. Now if I'm eight years later in 967 00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:44,879 Speaker 1: the game and realized I remember it nigga because someone 968 00:51:44,960 --> 00:51:46,919 Speaker 1: so used to fuck him. A matter of fact, there's 969 00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:49,719 Speaker 1: a basketball player that I just saw it played for 970 00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:53,080 Speaker 1: the Orlando Magic. His name is Kyle O'Quinn. Don't care 971 00:51:53,120 --> 00:51:54,560 Speaker 1: to say his name because I don't know even know 972 00:51:54,560 --> 00:51:57,040 Speaker 1: if you still play ball. Somebody used to play here 973 00:51:57,040 --> 00:52:00,600 Speaker 1: in New York. So a girl I used to live 974 00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:03,040 Speaker 1: with fucked him and was sucking him. And I only 975 00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:06,879 Speaker 1: remembered him because when I was sucking with scissors back then, 976 00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:11,279 Speaker 1: Scissors was like oh, we would come out and he 977 00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:13,239 Speaker 1: would look and she would get pissed, like what the 978 00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:15,360 Speaker 1: fun is he doing? Because he realized the lesbians are 979 00:52:15,360 --> 00:52:18,440 Speaker 1: in the room. How made fucking Biggie's And I'm like, 980 00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:20,719 Speaker 1: why do I know this nigked And he's looking at 981 00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:23,200 Speaker 1: me like he knows me. I was like, Yo, I 982 00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:25,000 Speaker 1: don't know how I know you, but I feel like 983 00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:27,319 Speaker 1: I really know you. And we're looking at each other 984 00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:30,640 Speaker 1: and he's like, did you used to live in Florida? Nigga. 985 00:52:30,680 --> 00:52:32,799 Speaker 1: When I realized once he said that who he was, 986 00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:34,480 Speaker 1: I couldn't even tell him who I was. I was like, 987 00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:36,799 Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm the roommate of the girl who 988 00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:40,680 Speaker 1: was getting like what But anyway, I was saying that 989 00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:43,080 Speaker 1: I just didn't feel he was with people. I was like, 990 00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:45,120 Speaker 1: I don't feel like reminding. Plus I don't know who 991 00:52:45,120 --> 00:52:47,440 Speaker 1: he with this, you know, And then I'm just like, 992 00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:50,080 Speaker 1: you used to fuck my roommate, remember I was lesbian. 993 00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:54,719 Speaker 1: Oh my god. So but here's the thing. What if 994 00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:58,400 Speaker 1: I saw him out recircled found out that, you know 995 00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:00,000 Speaker 1: what I mean? Like, I don't know, I just feel 996 00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:04,040 Speaker 1: like people surfaced back and eight years in the game, 997 00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:06,680 Speaker 1: and you're you're happy with a white picket fence, two kids, 998 00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:09,080 Speaker 1: and a gorgeous husband, like and a bitch is still 999 00:53:09,080 --> 00:53:12,160 Speaker 1: out here single in New York, like I could see it. Right, 1000 00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:17,160 Speaker 1: You might feel away, but valid, valid, Alright. So the 1001 00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:22,400 Speaker 1: Vanilla ship actually comes from Newsweek. And what's crazy is 1002 00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:25,719 Speaker 1: the scene that Wheezy was referencing in the beginning of 1003 00:53:25,760 --> 00:53:29,080 Speaker 1: this episode has been oh sorry, has been one of 1004 00:53:29,120 --> 00:53:33,160 Speaker 1: the most widely talked about scenes on a Netflix film 1005 00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:37,239 Speaker 1: because a dick is actually showed a full frontal and yes, 1006 00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:40,520 Speaker 1: it was a big size. So it's crazy with speculation 1007 00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:44,600 Speaker 1: as to whether there was any editing done to the 1008 00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:48,560 Speaker 1: dick for that it was his real dick. Bitch show UH. 1009 00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:54,080 Speaker 1: Sex Life UH is Netflix latest sexually explicit drama that 1010 00:53:54,160 --> 00:53:57,040 Speaker 1: viewers are devouring around the world, but it is not 1011 00:53:57,200 --> 00:53:59,520 Speaker 1: a sex scene that has most people heading to Google 1012 00:53:59,600 --> 00:54:03,200 Speaker 1: to find out. An episode three of the popular Netflix series, 1013 00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:05,880 Speaker 1: We are in the shower with Brad, who is played 1014 00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:10,360 Speaker 1: by Adam Demos, when the camera lingers on his gigantic 1015 00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:14,359 Speaker 1: penis in appendage that might even make Boogie Nights Dirk 1016 00:54:14,400 --> 00:54:17,880 Speaker 1: Diggler for a little inadequate in the department. Search on 1017 00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:20,560 Speaker 1: the Netflix film has been dominated by this scene, with 1018 00:54:20,640 --> 00:54:23,960 Speaker 1: the majority of inquiries making the first question that jumps 1019 00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:24,719 Speaker 1: to minds last