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Speaker 1: Call from Nourick.

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Speaker 2: Oh hi, hey, oh wow you actually answered?

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Speaker 3: Wow I did? Why wouldn't I?

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Speaker 4: I don't know. Hold on, let me go tell my

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Speaker 4: wife really quick. I'm actually I'll.

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Speaker 3: Tell you how far away is she?

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Speaker 2: Not like grip?

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Speaker 5: Hey, hey, you need to get on therapy.

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Speaker 4: That go I'm on there. Oh yeah, well, sorry about you.

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Speaker 3: Can't just give her your call because she has to

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Speaker 3: call in on her own.

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Speaker 2: She has to call in on her You can't get

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Speaker 2: out my call.

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Speaker 4: Apparently, you have to call in on your own.

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Speaker 3: What's your name?

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Speaker 4: My name is Nurick.

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Speaker 3: How did your wife? How did you and your wife meet? Uh?

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Speaker 4: Threesome?

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Speaker 3: You met in a threesome?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was engaged to a really toxic person and

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Speaker 4: we were trying to do polyamory and me and her met.

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Speaker 4: But that's not what I want to talk to you about.

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Speaker 4: I'm here talking about.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely what I want to talk to you about now.

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Speaker 3: The so your ex wife, ex fiance, your ex fiance,

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Speaker 3: You were engaged to a woman, and whose suggestion was it?

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Speaker 3: The try out polyamory?

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Speaker 4: It was a mutual thing at the time. We were

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Speaker 4: both young and stupid, sure, and we were trying the

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Speaker 4: whole like you know, spicing up the marriage thing. We

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Speaker 4: did the tico not tiktoku, tender and shit and didn't

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Speaker 4: work out.

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Speaker 5: But go on, ask your questions.

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Speaker 3: So you were trying, I mean you were trying to

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Speaker 3: spice up the marriage before the marriage even happened.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was. I was dating her because I was

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Speaker 4: She was not the kind of person that was right

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Speaker 4: for me. She was more for Uh you ever like

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Speaker 4: live for live your life for other people. You ever

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Speaker 4: seen people do that?

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Speaker 3: Sure? Sure you felt some sort of pressure to be

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Speaker 3: in a relationship.

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Speaker 4: Pressure to be in a certain type of relationship, to

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Speaker 4: feel like the image of what a relationship should be

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Speaker 4: in some people's eyes.

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Speaker 3: Interesting, And what was it about this person that you

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Speaker 3: felt fulfilled that image?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 4: My father once told me, if you're going to get

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Speaker 4: with anyone, get with it's more complicated than that, but

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Speaker 4: it's more or less like get with someone with blonde

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Speaker 4: hair and big tips.

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Speaker 5: So yeah, so like that's what.

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Speaker 4: I thought was supposed to do, but I didn't want to.

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Speaker 4: I didn't want to do that.

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Speaker 3: So who knew? So your current wife who met her first?

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Speaker 3: Between you and your ex fiance?

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Speaker 4: So I met her and we because we both shared

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Speaker 4: a mutual friend. At the time, we were walking or

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Speaker 4: I was walking down the road to hang my way

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Speaker 4: to college because I lived off campus on the time. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: so I'm walking and as we're going, I all of

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Speaker 4: a sudden I hear one I hear someone shout out

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Speaker 4: what I thought was calling me the f slur because

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Speaker 4: I live in that kind of area where that thing

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Speaker 4: So I go over hop in the car and she

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Speaker 4: my is driving at the time. Me and her end

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Speaker 4: up getting the talking and at the time, she's like

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Speaker 4: in a relationship of her own, long distance wise, so

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Speaker 4: she was off like you know, it started out platonically,

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Speaker 4: I swear to God, GEK, Now, how.

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Speaker 3: Did your ex fiance react when you eventually left her

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Speaker 3: to be with this current?

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Speaker 2: Well, what happened.

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Speaker 4: What happened is I I almost I try to kill

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Speaker 4: myself one night, I try to drown myself in the bathtub.

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Speaker 4: And mainly because like the marriage or the engagement was

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Speaker 4: going south and I was realizing I was. I just

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Speaker 4: got on like this new prescription I forget what was

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Speaker 4: at the time was for depression and whenever, like I

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Speaker 4: got on that and I started therapy, like my eyes

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Speaker 4: were just wide open, and it's just like I I

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Speaker 4: need to something's wrong in my life and something doesn't

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Speaker 4: make sense, and I try to communicate that to my

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Speaker 4: life my fiance at the time, and she didn't understand that.

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Speaker 4: Like she first of all, she was against me, like

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Speaker 4: getting the medication the first place, because she didn't want

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Speaker 4: things to change. And then over time I've kind of

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Speaker 4: like noticed that as I'm realizing that I have not

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Speaker 4: a connection with my fiance, I have this strong relationship

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Speaker 4: with this person who was again we at the time,

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Speaker 4: we were platonic and then sex sex gone involved, like

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Speaker 4: wife and fiance and me. At the time, we were

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Speaker 4: like yeah, sure because that was on you know, all

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Speaker 4: of our bucket lists, was you know, three someome. I mean,

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Speaker 4: who who is it who doesn't have a threeesome on

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Speaker 4: their bucket list?

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Speaker 6: Right?

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Speaker 3: So, now in your car, in relationship with your current

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Speaker 3: and she's your wife, you're married to her?

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Speaker 7: Now?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we are.

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Speaker 4: We are very much married and very.

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Speaker 3: Much fully Is it fully closed or would you ever

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Speaker 3: consider trying polyamory again?

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Speaker 4: Oh, we actually in a PolyAm as a relationship. My

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Speaker 4: wife and I live, we live with her boyfriend interesting.

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Speaker 3: Do you like him?

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Speaker 8: I love him.

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Speaker 5: He's really cool. He's a really good guy.

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Speaker 4: They met a while ago, about a year ago, when

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Speaker 4: she was doing like her only fans and stuff, and

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Speaker 4: you know, they got to talking and the relationship bloomed.

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Speaker 4: And I'm the kind of person My whole belief is, like,

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Speaker 4: I think it's selfish for me as an individual to

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Speaker 4: think that I can satisfy the needs of another individual,

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Speaker 4: like another ego being. So I kind of like and like, look,

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Speaker 4: if if you want more out of like, don't let

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Speaker 4: me hold you back, right, So, Like, but you know,

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Speaker 4: I I feel like she kind of like, uh, she

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Speaker 4: So I guess I'm doing something right.

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Speaker 3: I mean that to me, screams. I mean that that's

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Speaker 3: a true sort of love for someone when you want

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Speaker 3: them to be happy, even if it means that you're

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Speaker 3: not involved in every aspect of the happiness.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Like, I learned from an early age that like,

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Speaker 4: love doesn't have to be what a mainstream idea is.

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Speaker 4: Does that make sense?

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Speaker 3: M Are you dating anyone else?

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Speaker 4: I'm currently single. I'm not really looking for a relationship

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Speaker 4: right now. I'm kind of happy where I'm at. I

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Speaker 4: talk to people, but I have really really bad social

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Speaker 4: anxiety sociophobia, so getting out on the scene like this

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Speaker 4: is actually new to me. I'm only doing this because

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Speaker 4: I'm stowing his balls right now?

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Speaker 3: Fair enough? Yeah, I remember, are you? You came and

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Speaker 3: you said you didn't want to talk about this? Is

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Speaker 3: there anything real quick you wanted to talk about?

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Speaker 4: I really wanted to talk to you about the time

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Speaker 4: I ate garbage because you that's like when I first

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Speaker 4: started to call it.

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Speaker 2: He was talking about like I think last week or

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Speaker 2: a few weeks.

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Speaker 4: I okay, okay, So long story short. I was trapped

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Speaker 4: because I have really shitty terence in my college town

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Speaker 4: because they were arguing with my sister and it was

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Speaker 4: during winter break and I couldn't go home, right I

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Speaker 4: had no money. It was my freshman year, so I'm

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Speaker 4: stuck in this town. I haven't had anything to eat

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Speaker 4: for like four days because it's win or break. The

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Speaker 4: cafeteria's closed, I have no money. I see a Jimmy

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Speaker 4: Joe on sandwich in the garbage, and to this day,

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Speaker 4: bootleggers are my favorite because of that.

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Speaker 2: M hmm.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, you know, I respect that you're living your

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Speaker 3: life exactly the way you want to live it.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, Gek, I appreciate that.

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Speaker 8: Norik.

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Speaker 3: Take it for sharing. Rick, You have a good rest.

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Speaker 4: Of the night, you too, Gek take it easy.

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Speaker 3: Ten out of ten.

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Speaker 9: Call never goes on the line, taking your calls every night,

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Speaker 9: never goes. He's teaching you your.

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Speaker 1: Life all from Ashley Ashley.

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Speaker 10: Hello, Ashley, Hi, Greg.

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Speaker 3: Mary Kate and Ashley.

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Speaker 10: Yeah that's me.

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Speaker 3: I always thought Mary, Kate and Ashley were three different people.

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Speaker 7: Well, I mean Mary, multiple personal I guess.

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Speaker 3: And Ashley, how many different people are you?

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Speaker 7: How many different people? I guess it depends on the day.

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Speaker 3: How many different people are you today?

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Speaker 7: How many different people? Let's see, Well, I'm the nice

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Speaker 7: person at work and they want to get home. I'm

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Speaker 7: the introvert and I don't like talk anybody. So I

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Speaker 7: guess that's a different thing from two different people.

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Speaker 3: So you like talking to people at work, but not

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Speaker 3: when you get at home, not when you get back home.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, called ambivert you No, I've never heard that.

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Speaker 3: It's a great to. When I found out about it,

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Speaker 3: I hate labels in general. But if I had to pick,

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so like left and right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, left and right. Ambiverts someone who embodies the qualities

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Speaker 3: I never liked the binary system of extroverts and introverts anyway.

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Speaker 3: I feel like it's it's it's it's too it's too binary.

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Speaker 3: It's it's I mean, it's a whole spectrum here.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I've never heard that. That's actually pretty pretty cool.

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Speaker 3: Listen, Ashley, I have a question for you. Yes, how

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Speaker 3: have you ever lied?

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Speaker 7: Unfortunately? Too many times?

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Speaker 3: Yes, too many times? Tell me what was what was

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Speaker 3: the too many a time?

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Speaker 7: I think I lie like a lot more at work.

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Speaker 7: Uh and for some reason, like I keep getting away

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Speaker 7: with it, probably because I.

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Speaker 3: Well, like, well, I was.

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Speaker 7: Talking actually about this the other day. Like I used

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Speaker 7: to work at a seafood restaurant, and the restaurants if

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Speaker 7: any food that was left over at night, they would

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Speaker 7: uh let the employees take it home. So I would

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Speaker 7: like put in fake orders just so I could take

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Speaker 7: food home to my parents.

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Speaker 3: That's smart.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so, and they never questioned it. I just would

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Speaker 7: always no, I never got caught. I would just always

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Speaker 7: bring food home.

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Speaker 3: Wasn't that suspicious when consistently the same person would keep

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Speaker 3: ordering food and not picking it up.

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Speaker 7: Well, I always put different names on it and like

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Speaker 7: different kinds of food.

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Speaker 3: Ooh, that is interesting.

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Speaker 7: And sometimes like you order like an lit extra more

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Speaker 7: He was like like I hope He's like, do you

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Speaker 7: He like turned around as he was leaving, like right

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Speaker 7: Yeah, which is unfortunate, but I mean it's just life.

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Speaker 7: Actually, his lawyer like reached out like a year ago because.

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Speaker 10: He's in prison.

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Speaker 7: No, but he did want like to write me a

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean I didn't. I didn't respond to it

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Speaker 3: I'm definitely, definitely extremely weird. I would actually say, but

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Speaker 3: you know, well, listen, thank you so much for sharing.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I think you were answering my call. I was

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Speaker 7: like I called like eighty nine times.

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Speaker 3: Eighty ninth the charm baby.

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Speaker 7: Yep, it's the charm.

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Speaker 10: I remember that.

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Speaker 7: I hope you have a good night.

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Speaker 3: Gek you too, Ashley, have a good night.

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Speaker 2: Alex, Hey, do my fucking god, what's up?

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Speaker 3: How? What's up?

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Speaker 4: Dude?

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Speaker 2: I have been trying to call you for ages?

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Speaker 1: How?

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Speaker 3: How how many ages?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 5: Probably like four months?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 3: What technologies have evolved?

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Speaker 14: Oh man, I was I would using the facts machine

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Speaker 3: Oh man, I got a cell phone now? And how

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Speaker 3: do you feel about this technological transition? Are you prepared

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Speaker 5: I mean, isn't it always?

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Speaker 14: I mean, I'm just I'm just sitting here calling hundreds

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Speaker 14: then you just yelled out, Alex, and it was just

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Speaker 14: but it's definitely definitely there.

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Speaker 3: Do you feel ready?

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Speaker 5: I guess I do.

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Speaker 3: Feel feel ready for this.

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Speaker 14: I feel ready to be on on the call.

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Speaker 3: That was the wrong answer. There's the wrong answer, Alex.

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Speaker 3: You should Actually the fact that you're ready implies to

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Speaker 3: to prepare implies that you had some sort of expectation

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Speaker 5: You know, that's that's a great point.

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Speaker 4: But I think I'll have to humbly disagree with you.

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Speaker 14: I think, just for the sheer amount of times that

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Speaker 3: You know what, I think that's reasonable, alex clusive, I

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Speaker 3: have a question for you, alex Yes, have you ever lied?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 14: Fucking I just did?

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Speaker 3: So many just did? How did you just lie? In

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Speaker 3: what I was ready and you're not ready?

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Speaker 14: I mean, like I said before, that are we ever

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I guess that wasn't true. Well, I mean

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Speaker 3: if you say I'm ready, you may in that moment

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Speaker 3: then it turns out that you're not ready. Did you lie?

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Speaker 3: I mean you believed that you were ready. When you

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Speaker 8: That's a great point.

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Speaker 2: But if I tell a girl.

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Speaker 14: I love her, and then four months later I don't

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Speaker 14: you bastard, you lied to me.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't think of that. I don't know if

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Speaker 3: I don't think of that's a lie because well, in

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Speaker 14: Yes?

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Speaker 2: I'm eighteen?

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Speaker 3: In a month, you're eighteen? Okay, I honestly thought you

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Speaker 14: Oh my, everyone says I look older too. I'm taul

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Speaker 14: and I don't know. I don't get it though.

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Speaker 3: But look a year from now, when you're nineteen, is

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Speaker 3: are did you lie? You said you were eighteen? Okay,

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Speaker 3: you're nineteen a month. In a month, you but you

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Speaker 3: told me that you're eighteen. So in a month, will

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 3: Because things change.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a great point and I didn't really think

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Speaker 3: Well, how do you feel about this conversation?

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Speaker 5: I think this is a good conversation. I think that

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Speaker 14: I'm sure there's more to be had, but from what

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Speaker 3: Beautiful. Well, listen, thank you so much for calling, Alex.

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Speaker 3: I hope that this lives up to your expectations.

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Speaker 14: Of course, well nothing ever does. So you have a

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Speaker 14: good one you too.

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Speaker 1: Aw from Lucas.

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Speaker 8: Lucas, Yo, Geck, what's up man?

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Speaker 3: How are you doing? Lucas?

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Speaker 5: You know I'm doing all right? Thank you?

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Speaker 8: Give me one secon stream for you.

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Speaker 3: Got anything else going on?

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Speaker 4: You know what?

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Speaker 8: You have a luck going on? Geck, you are about

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Speaker 8: to travel across an art you have a luckhsh jeeze Lucas.

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Speaker 5: Yes, sir, what are you doing?

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Speaker 8: I'm chilling my apartment just watching a guy in a

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Speaker 3: Is nice work.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, So I'm currently I'm kind of third wheeling it. Essentially,

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Speaker 8: what I'm doing is I lived with my best friend

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Speaker 4: And they have like this upstairs apartment area and I

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Speaker 8: So I'm thriving. I moved in like a month ago.

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Speaker 3: How are you paying the rent?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, so basically played them a flat. I'm not a

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Speaker 3: Oh you know your boy exactly.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I just a boy. And uh I literally put

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Speaker 8: like rent in the Venmo description. Here you go, pal, and.

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Speaker 3: That's how how much is for rent?

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Speaker 8: Seven and fifty a months, which in so I'm in Massachusetts,

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Speaker 3: So I mean, now is it what is the dynamic?

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Speaker 3: Like is it odd living with because it's like, I mean,

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Speaker 8: Oh yeah, I can see it already, like a sitcom

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Speaker 8: then this weird roommate moved in. But no, and also

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Speaker 8: do you.

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Speaker 3: Do be honest, do you consider yourself to be like

454
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Speaker 3: a weird guy? Are you a strange person?

455
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Speaker 10: Oh?

456
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Speaker 8: God no, I'm very comfortable with who I am I'm

457
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Speaker 8: twenty four years old. I'm happy where I am. I mean,

458
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Speaker 8: I'm really ever since you know, I graduated college and stuff,

459
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Speaker 8: I really like learned to be myself. So I'm really

460
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Speaker 8: not I don't consider myself a weird guy. I mean,

461
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Speaker 8: I have that social anxiety of oh man, I considered

462
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Speaker 8: a weird guy to these people, but especially like those

463
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Speaker 8: the situations at work or in like uh bars or

464
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Speaker 8: stuff like that.

465
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Speaker 5: But I'm really focused on this.

466
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Speaker 8: Being myself and just I'm going with the flow.

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Speaker 3: But you know, does it ever get weird living with

468
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Speaker 3: the couple. They're trying to do a couple of things

469
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Speaker 3: and you're just there.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, no, no.

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Speaker 8: We have you know, that's a good question.

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Speaker 12: You know, we just we just you know.

473
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Speaker 8: I've known them for the longest time now, so we

474
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Speaker 8: have the dynamic where.

475
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Speaker 2: We're all friends.

476
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Speaker 8: Essentially, we all just shoot the ship. We all work

477
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Speaker 8: nine to five jobs during the week, so we when

478
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Speaker 8: we all get home, we just shoot the ship, you know,

479
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Speaker 8: and then we do our own things. We have our

480
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Speaker 8: own areas. They have their private there their private areas,

481
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Speaker 8: and I have my own space. It's a great dynamics.

482
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Speaker 8: I'm really fortunate in that way. You know a lot

483
00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:36,399
Speaker 8: of folks, you know, they have the you know, they

484
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Speaker 8: hate their landlords, they have shitty living situations. But I

485
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Speaker 8: really looked out so.

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Speaker 3: Well, that's awesome. I know Alex was the last guy

487
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Speaker 3: to Lucas. That's awesome, Lucas, Lucas real QUI tell me,

488
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Speaker 3: I got a question for you, Lucas, just real quick.

489
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Speaker 3: Have you ever lied?

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Speaker 11: Oh?

491
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Speaker 2: Good question?

492
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Speaker 13: You know.

493
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Speaker 8: You'll I feel like everyone does to some extent. I

494
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 8: know that's the question of the evening because but I'm

495
00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:11,159
Speaker 8: really I'm really unprepared.

496
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Speaker 3: Oh man, just make something up.

497
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Speaker 7: You know.

498
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Speaker 8: I lie about little things that work. So I lie

499
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Speaker 8: at work, like I'll say I'll send this email or

500
00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 8: I'll do it today, but I really don't. I always

501
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:25,240
Speaker 8: push off till the next day. I've probably done that

502
00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:28,640
Speaker 8: like five million times at this point, and I feel

503
00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:30,879
Speaker 8: I'm not looking at Chat. I'm a good boy, But

504
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:33,480
Speaker 8: I feel like Chat will relate to that where like

505
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 8: oh yeah, like it's like three thirty and the answer me,

506
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 8: oh yeah, I'll do that today and then they'll just

507
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:41,840
Speaker 8: I just flow it off to like Monday or the

508
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Speaker 8: next day because I'm just so fucking tired. At that point,

509
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Speaker 8: it's like.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well listen, Lucas, I'll let you get back to

511
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Speaker 3: your unanswered emails. You are indeed a very good boy,

512
00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 3: and I appreciate you sharing with us.

513
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:56,920
Speaker 8: Yeah, honestly a lot of people waiting to call in.

514
00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:01,439
Speaker 8: I'll let you go to geck, subscribe to get Patreon chat.

515
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 8: It's awesome. I'm kind of promoting you here, gets kind

516
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:09,920
Speaker 8: of weird, but but other than that, you know, I'll

517
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:11,879
Speaker 8: let you go get best of luck with get across America.

518
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Speaker 8: I'm looking forward to that.

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Speaker 6: Man.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much, Lucas. I love you. I'll talk

521
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Speaker 3: to you soon.

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Speaker 8: Love you too, man.

523
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Speaker 5: Take care.

524
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Speaker 1: All from Katie.

525
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 3: Katie, Katy, I'm here.

526
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Speaker 12: What's up?

527
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:28,159
Speaker 3: You called me?

528
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 12: Yeah?

529
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:32,160
Speaker 10: That's right?

530
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:34,000
Speaker 3: Is your stream on?

531
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Speaker 5: I muted it?

532
00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:39,399
Speaker 3: So I'm tired.

533
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Speaker 12: Oh, just some laying around all day. But I have

534
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:45,879
Speaker 12: a prompt. Your your question?

535
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,119
Speaker 3: Oh you have a you have an answer to my question?

536
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:50,919
Speaker 10: Yes?

537
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 3: A good question is I haven't asked any questions yet?

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Speaker 12: Okay, then go have that?

539
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Speaker 3: Would you say your name was Katie? I have a question?

540
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:04,720
Speaker 12: What is your question?

541
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 3: Have you ever lied?

542
00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 8: Yes?

543
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 12: Not very successfully though.

544
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:16,600
Speaker 3: Successfully.

545
00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 15: Yeah, I have a bad habit of smiling when I

546
00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:21,960
Speaker 15: lie or laughing.

547
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 3: Tell me about this time in which you lied unsuccessfully.

548
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 15: You know the classic Uh, it's not you, it's not me,

549
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:36,919
Speaker 15: it's you.

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00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 12: Of course, it's not you, it's me. M.

551
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Speaker 3: So you were trying to lie about the way you felt.

552
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 12: Yeah, haven't you.

553
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,440
Speaker 3: Well, there's lots of different categories of lying. There's lying

554
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:55,159
Speaker 3: about events, whether or not they happened. There's lying about feelings,

555
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:59,160
Speaker 3: whether or not they are true. And I feel like feelings.

556
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 3: It's harder to get caught lying about your feelings.

557
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:06,480
Speaker 12: Yeah, it is.

558
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:08,600
Speaker 15: Well, I don't like other people feeling like shit.

559
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,760
Speaker 12: So I'm like, you know what, it's all me, it's me,

560
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 12: it's not you.

561
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 3: Now, who did you tell this to? Who did you

562
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:17,000
Speaker 3: tell that it was them and not you when in

563
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 3: reality it was indeed them?

564
00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:20,600
Speaker 12: Oh? Real people have dated?

565
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 3: Now the last person you dated? What was it about

566
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Speaker 3: them that made you break up with them?

567
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 10: Oh?

568
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:31,119
Speaker 12: They were just like there were?

569
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Speaker 15: Did it treat me how I wanted to be treated?

570
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Speaker 15: Did it make me feel how I wanted to be felt,

571
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Speaker 15: How how I wanted to feel?

572
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Speaker 3: How do you want to be treated?

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Speaker 15: I don't know, like you want to be the apple

574
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Speaker 15: if someone dying, Right, so you.

575
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Speaker 12: Don't want to like looking at other people?

576
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Speaker 3: Or well, how can how can someone? How can someone

577
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Speaker 3: treat you the way you want to be treated? If

578
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 3: you don't even know how you want to be treated?

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Speaker 12: Damn?

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Speaker 13: Okay, then.

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Speaker 5: You're right, you know.

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Speaker 3: I mean? Look, I mean it sounds like you have

583
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Speaker 3: an idea of how you do not want to be treated,

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Speaker 3: which is similar Uh.

585
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Speaker 1: Huh the silence.

586
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Speaker 3: You want to be apple of someone's eye?

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00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 10: Yeah, don't you?

588
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 12: Doesn't everyone?

589
00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 13: Not?

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Speaker 3: Really? I don't like the idea of being like revered

591
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Speaker 3: by like one person. It seems like a lot.

592
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:38,200
Speaker 15: So would you want to be like I heard the

593
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 15: call earlier? Would you want to be like in a

594
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Speaker 15: Poli relationship so you can get all the all different people?

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Speaker 3: I'm not sure to be honest, Well, I don't know.

596
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:54,520
Speaker 3: Like I have a friend who like uh. I remember

597
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 3: one time I saw one of my friends like his

598
00:29:56,840 --> 00:30:00,360
Speaker 3: girlfriend made an Instagram post about him and and she

599
00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 3: was like, and she was like, David is the most

600
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Speaker 3: My friend's name is David, who was like David, I'm

601
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Speaker 3: madly in love with him. He is my entire life,

602
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Speaker 3: the best human being I've ever met in my entire life,

603
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Speaker 3: and I remember saying to him like that, that's a

604
00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 3: lot of pressure right there, to be that for someone.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I want to be that for someone,

606
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Speaker 3: that's a lot. That's a lot of pressure there. I

607
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:27,840
Speaker 3: don't I don't know. If I want to be the

608
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Speaker 3: apple of someone's eye. I will gladly be. I will

609
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Speaker 3: gladly be a welcome, respected, appreciated part of an entire life.

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Speaker 3: But I don't know if I want to be an

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Speaker 3: entire life.

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Speaker 15: I got you, you just want to be a part

613
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Speaker 15: of it, not an entire not an entirety.

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Speaker 3: I mean, is that not how you feel? How do

615
00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:04,960
Speaker 3: you feel you want to be someone's every you want

616
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Speaker 3: to be?

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Speaker 15: Well, I'm not trying to like you know, obsessed or

618
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 15: so you know what I mean, who knows, you know,

619
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 15: there's you would that's like the far far extreme. You know,

620
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Speaker 15: you just want someone to not you know, look at

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Speaker 15: other people, or will not necessarily look at other people,

622
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Speaker 15: but talk about other people, like you know, cheating. I

623
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Speaker 15: guess it's so prevalent with like social media.

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Speaker 3: You want so you want someone who won't cheat on you?

625
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 15: Well, yeah, well I think everyone wants that unless you're like,

626
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 15: because that's.

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Speaker 3: That's the bare minimum.

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Speaker 15: Yeah, that is the bare minimum.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I mean I'm glad that you've defined that.

630
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:51,360
Speaker 3: That's a good thing to know that you want.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, very true.

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Speaker 3: I hope you find that.

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00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 12: Yeah, I mean that's a very like low requirement.

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00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:03,800
Speaker 3: You know, you're in luck. No, you said that's shitty

635
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Speaker 3: of you.

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00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 15: Well, if you can't meet that requirement, it's just like, yeah,

637
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 15: that's shitty.

638
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 3: No, I was gonna say. I mean, I think what's

639
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:17,640
Speaker 3: your name again, Katie? Katie? You're actually in luck because

640
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 3: you seem to have low standards, which is great. Don't

641
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 3: take that as a bad it's a good I swear

642
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:25,520
Speaker 3: to God being you know, I'll meet that serious. It's

643
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 3: a good thing. It's a good thing to have low standards.

644
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:31,480
Speaker 3: Because it's not it's becomes easier to make you happy.

645
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Speaker 15: I guess we can agree to disagree. I mean, that

646
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 15: makes you sound so terrible.

647
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:39,680
Speaker 3: Why does that make you that? Why what do you

648
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 3: mean why does that make you sound terrible?

649
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:46,480
Speaker 15: Because I'm like, loast it like any anyone can make me.

650
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Speaker 3: Isn't that a good thing that anyone can make you happy?

651
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 3: You know what I'd be worried for Katie. I'd be

652
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:56,440
Speaker 3: worried for you if you had high standards.

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00:32:57,920 --> 00:32:58,360
Speaker 15: Very true.

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Speaker 12: That makes it way harder to meet someone.

655
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:01,960
Speaker 3: Makes it way harder to meet. So I haven't look

656
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Speaker 3: low standards a good thing.

657
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 12: But well, oh I have something.

658
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Speaker 15: I have met someone, but I'm gonna go and beat them.

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Speaker 13: In two days.

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Speaker 3: I'm fantastic. Hope they don't cheat on.

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Speaker 15: You, that's what not.

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Speaker 3: Thank Katie, I appreciate you sharing with us this evening,

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Speaker 3: and do you have a one for us to the night.

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Speaker 15: Thanks for dropping that knowledge of course. Peace.

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Speaker 1: Calls from Mackenzie mckenn.

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Speaker 10: Mackenzie, Hi, how's it going?

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Speaker 3: You know? Honestly, McKenzie, I'm doing pretty okay. I'm trying

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Speaker 3: to live life.

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Speaker 10: You know.

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Speaker 3: Look, life is it's an intense experience, McKenzie, and I

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Speaker 3: feel like it's created with an appropriate reaction of intensity.

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Speaker 10: That's that's a good point. I agree there.

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Speaker 3: I mean all the emotions, Mackenzie. I mean life inspires joy,

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Speaker 3: it inspires grief, it inspires uh, excitement, nervousness, and I

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Speaker 3: just want to reciprocate all of these incitements with the

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Speaker 3: purest It's the most intense version of all those feelings.

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Speaker 10: I really no idea how to respond to that, but I.

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Speaker 3: Support you, Thank you, McKenzie. Look, Mackenzie, what are you

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Speaker 3: doing right now?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 10: I'm just chilling trying to get my phone call through

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Speaker 10: to you.

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Speaker 5: I think I think it was please please?

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Speaker 3: Do you think?

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Speaker 10: I think it was like one hundred and sixty nine,

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Speaker 10: So it's it's kind of a good number sixty.

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Speaker 3: Nine, baby, Kenzie, What are you doing right now? I

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Speaker 3: already asked you that. I didn't.

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Speaker 10: I you did.

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Speaker 3: I asked you that just now.

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Speaker 10: I'm chilling with my cat watching your stream.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I asked you know what, Mackenzie. I

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Speaker 3: like that. I asked you that question twice and you

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Speaker 3: went ahead and you answered it twice. And that's how

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Speaker 3: I know I can trust you. McKenzie.

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Speaker 10: That's a good point. Yeah, I'm a go getter. I'm

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Speaker 10: a yes man.

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Speaker 3: You're a go getter, yes man. How do you feel

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Speaker 3: about that? Do you enjoy being a well a go

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Speaker 3: get a ready yes man or two different things of it?

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Speaker 10: Right?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 10: I think I lied a little bit about the go gether.

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Speaker 3: Okay, now that we have a little bit of time

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Speaker 3: to sort of think, I know that they started off

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Speaker 3: a little intense and that's one hundred percent of my fault. Okay,

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Speaker 3: now that we have the time to think, do you

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Speaker 3: truly believe that you are a yes ma'am?

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Speaker 10: I no, because I just said no, so I suppose not.

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Speaker 10: I'm pretty close though. I think I do a pretty

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Speaker 10: good job about it. Though it's a spectrum.

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Speaker 3: I'll say it's a spectrum.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 10: So you're a maybe man man, Yeah, Mac The baby man.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, are you a go gether?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 10: Absolutely not. I'm not, which is which you know is

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Speaker 10: why I called?

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Speaker 11: So?

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, so you called because you're not a gogeter

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Speaker 3: and plea. I would love to hear more about what

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Speaker 3: you why you called?

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Speaker 10: Okay, okay. So my most recent issue, I have no

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Speaker 10: idea what to do with my life. I'm twenty four,

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Speaker 10: I just turned twenty four. I've got an associates in English,

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Speaker 10: which does fuck all? So I'm trying to figure out

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Speaker 10: what to do.

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Speaker 3: Give an associates in English? Such fuck all? Well, I mean, okay,

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Speaker 3: when you set out to get this associates in English,

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Speaker 3: you must have done it for some reason.

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Speaker 10: Well, the funny part is it's about one class away

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Speaker 10: from being an associates in biology. So it doesn't say

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Speaker 10: a lot that I am an associates in English.

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Speaker 3: Well what does it say for you to have an

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Speaker 3: associate biology associates in biology?

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Speaker 10: Well, I really wanted to work in being a wildlife

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Speaker 10: rehab but they make no money. You can't help the

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Speaker 10: get gos for a living.

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Speaker 3: So because your Biology degree wasn't going to make you

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Speaker 3: a lot of money, you and instead switched to an

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Speaker 3: English degree.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, Hey, there's a reason I'm calling you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well again, you you picked these things for a reason,

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Speaker 3: and I've gotta I gotta believe that there's more than

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Speaker 3: money at stake here. I mean, you must enjoy the

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Speaker 3: idea of being in wildlife rehab.

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 10: Well, it seems like every job that I pick out,

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Speaker 10: somebody advises me against it, or I look up and

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Speaker 10: they just do not make money. I think my career

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Speaker 10: goals are a little bit too empathetic, if that makes sense.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well, these people advising you against it? For what

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Speaker 3: reason are they advising you against it? Is it just

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Speaker 3: the money thing.

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Speaker 10: I've talked to a lot of teachers, and a lot

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Speaker 10: of teachers say absolutely not, do.

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Speaker 8: Not do it.

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Speaker 10: So, and they have a lot of different reasons. A

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Speaker 10: lot of it's to do with administration. Administrators. They really

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Speaker 10: don't like who they work under, which I suppose means

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Speaker 10: you know, to find the right school, but uh, money,

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Speaker 10: administration kind of the way that the job works, stuff

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Speaker 10: like that.

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Speaker 3: I mean, how much money do you think you need

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Speaker 3: to live?

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Speaker 12: Not a lot.

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Speaker 10: I'm I'm pretty uh, I'm pretty low maintenance, honestly.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, then I guess in that case, it should

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Speaker 3: matter with you if you don't make as much money

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Speaker 3: as someone else, as long as you're doing something you enjoy.

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Speaker 10: Doing, right, I want some sort of disposable income to

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Speaker 10: do it, and I also want to be sure that,

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Speaker 10: like I feel like I'm doing something I really want

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Speaker 10: to like my job. I'm somebody that refuses to hate

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Speaker 10: a third of their life. So I think that's why

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Speaker 10: I'm so obsessive over it.

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, it's extremely important. I agree with you

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Speaker 3: on the obsession. I think it's a good thing to

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Speaker 3: be obsessed about. But why do you want I mean

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Speaker 3: you said you want disposable income? I mean how much?

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Speaker 3: I mean when they say no money, Like, what does

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Speaker 3: that really mean?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 3: How much? How much money? How much money? Like is

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Speaker 3: there is there is there a number that you could give,

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Speaker 3: like how much money you could you make? And why

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Speaker 3: life rehab.

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Speaker 10: I think wildlife rehabits in the twenty grands, Like it's low.

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Speaker 3: That is actually but yeah, where you live.

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Speaker 10: Illinois, Southern Illinois.

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Speaker 3: Could you theoretically eat food and live in a house

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Speaker 3: for that amount of money?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, but I don't know if it's worth it, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, Okay, So what are you what do you think

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Speaker 3: you suppose I.

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Speaker 10: Could go really primal and just to live amongst them

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Speaker 10: and then take care of them.

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Speaker 3: I mean that's I mean, that's barely a living wage.

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Speaker 3: I don't even think there's no way it's even legal

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Speaker 3: to pay like that.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, well it's because you know, people, it's all based

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Speaker 10: mostly based off of charity. They run like a lot

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Speaker 10: of them, I know, run them out of their homes basically,

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Speaker 10: and just try to fundraise because unless you go into

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Speaker 10: like a government job, which was also an option of biology,

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Speaker 10: you don't get paid well.

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Speaker 3: So being a wildlife rehability is that off the table?

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Speaker 3: Have you decided that I'm not doing that, I gotta

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Speaker 3: find a new thing, or is that is that what

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Speaker 3: you really want to do?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 10: I came up with this plan that I would be

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Speaker 10: an English teacher and then work my summers as a

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Speaker 10: hobbyist wildlife rehab, which I don't think is the worst

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Speaker 10: plan every Yeah, I think I let my anxiety get

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Speaker 10: to me a little bit too much.

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Speaker 3: What are you anxious about?

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Speaker 10: Genuinely just making the wrong decision, which everybody says. You know,

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Speaker 10: you can always go back to school or always make

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Speaker 10: up a different decision. But you know, I care about

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Speaker 10: debt and everything, so.

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Speaker 3: No debt is a big one. I mean, you're not

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Speaker 3: thinking about incurring more debt, are you?

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Speaker 10: No? So far I've got my associations with no debt.

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Speaker 3: So oh, so you don't have any debt?

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Speaker 10: Not yet?

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Speaker 11: No?

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Speaker 3: Oh you don't wait so okay, but you just said

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Speaker 3: not yet. But then when I ask you if you're

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Speaker 3: thinking about a caring more that, you said no.

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Speaker 10: What's that going to try not to? But I guess yes,

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Speaker 10: I guess yes.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, no, I'll be sorry. Well you have okay, Well,

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Speaker 3: you want to be an English teacher or wildlife associates

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Speaker 3: I mean a wildlife rehabilitationist person. It sounds like you

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Speaker 3: have the qualifications required to be I don't know. I

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Speaker 3: don't have a real job, so I don't know what

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Speaker 3: it requires to do that. But it sounds like you

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Speaker 3: have what it takes requirementally wise to be an English teacher.

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Speaker 10: Right right, Yeah, I definitely could. I definitely say.

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Speaker 3: I mean, well, what's stopping you from this plan of

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Speaker 3: the English teacher during the year in the during the summer.

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Speaker 10: It's definitely the amount of teachers I've talked to that

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Speaker 10: have advised me against it, because I don't want to

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Speaker 10: be the guy that's like, you know, screw you all.

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Speaker 10: I'm not going to trust your advice, and I'm just

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Speaker 10: gonna do it anyway.

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Speaker 12: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: But I mean, let's say you do it anyway. I mean,

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Speaker 3: let's say you do one summer as a rehab person

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Speaker 3: and it sucks. You don't have to go into debt,

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Speaker 3: like like, what do you what do you? What do

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Speaker 3: you lose from trying it? That's what I'm trying to

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Speaker 3: figure out.

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Speaker 10: I guess there's not a lot to lose with the rehabit.

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Speaker 10: I'm doing it occasionally, but there's more to lose with

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Speaker 10: like a bachelor's degree.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there's definitely something to lose if you go back

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Speaker 3: to get more school. But that's what do you need?

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Speaker 3: Do you need more school to do this plan?

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Speaker 10: Yes, I need to finish my bachelors, so I only

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Speaker 10: have the associates. M h.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that does make it tough.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, it's a dilemmaker.

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Speaker 3: Let me ask you one one kind of less thing

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Speaker 3: that I like to think about when I think about

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Speaker 3: these sort of situations. Okay, uh, all right, you wanting

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Speaker 3: to be in the jobs themselves are like very tangible

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Speaker 3: specific things. Yes, but what's at the root of your

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Speaker 3: desire to do them? Does that make sense?

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Speaker 10: Like yeah, yeah, yeah, I would say it's just helping,

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Speaker 10: like I really enjoy helping animals and people kids specifically.

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Speaker 10: So that's when I said they're kind of empathy based.

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Speaker 3: Okay, great, And the reason I asked that is because

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Speaker 3: that like worst case scenario and I I've told this

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Speaker 3: to someone before with this exact camel background on another stream,

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Speaker 3: which is that I would really think about the I

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Speaker 3: would think less about the specifics and more about the

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Speaker 3: generalities of I want to help people, I want to

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Speaker 3: help kids, I want to help animals, because there's I

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Speaker 3: mean infinite ways to help people that don't require you

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Speaker 3: going into debt absolutely, So I would focus on chasing

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Speaker 3: those very general things because I think people a lot

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Speaker 3: of times like they go after this very specific thing

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Speaker 3: like I want to be like they get like television on,

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Speaker 3: like I want to be this thing, only this thing,

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00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:05,640
Speaker 3: and if someone says no to me and I can't

901
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 3: be this thing, I'm fucked. But when reality, what you're

902
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:12,120
Speaker 3: chasing is is the fulfillment of the general thing of

903
00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:14,920
Speaker 3: I want to help people. So I do you have

904
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:20,400
Speaker 3: that in mind as opposed to any specific career in mind?

905
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:24,359
Speaker 10: If that means yeah, absolutely, that's a that's a really

906
00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 10: great point. That's gonna help me out a lot.

907
00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:26,759
Speaker 3: Good.

908
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:29,879
Speaker 10: I appreciate that, mackenzie.

909
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 3: Well, thank you for for sure, McKenzie, and good luck

910
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:35,600
Speaker 3: you too. Have a good night.

911
00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 1: All from Beatrice.

912
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 3: Beatrice, you picked I picked up?

913
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:49,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, Hi, what's up dude?

914
00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:51,400
Speaker 3: Hey Beatrice, can you turn your stream off for me?

915
00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:52,440
Speaker 2: Oh?

916
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:54,400
Speaker 13: Yeah, sorry, yeah, it's off.

917
00:45:58,040 --> 00:45:58,600
Speaker 3: So what's up?

918
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 13: Nothing much. It's been a rough day and I saw

919
00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:05,799
Speaker 13: your streaming, so that cheered me up a little bit.

920
00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:08,440
Speaker 3: I'm happy to hear that.

921
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:11,160
Speaker 13: How about you?

922
00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:13,200
Speaker 3: Why has it been a rough day?

923
00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:14,400
Speaker 1: Uh?

924
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 13: Just long. I couldn't get any sleep last night and

925
00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:21,799
Speaker 13: I was running around to finish chores, so.

926
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 3: Finish tours chor chores.

927
00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:28,640
Speaker 14: Yeah.

928
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:30,359
Speaker 3: I didn't get to sleep on last night either. Did

929
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 3: sleep is uh for the week?

930
00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:36,600
Speaker 13: Yeah, I'm sorry.

931
00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:38,279
Speaker 3: They say that. I mean, here's the thing, here's what

932
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 3: I think I'm gonna look. I'm no doctor, but I'm

933
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:45,520
Speaker 3: a little skeptical, right because they say that sleep is healthy.

934
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:48,080
Speaker 3: M They said that sleep is healthy, but they also

935
00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:52,799
Speaker 3: say that exercise is healthy, and to me, that's a contradiction.

936
00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:54,960
Speaker 3: I'm like, what is it? Should I be laying around

937
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:56,840
Speaker 3: all day doing nothing or should I be moving my

938
00:46:56,880 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 3: body twenty four to seven. That's why I don't trust doctors,

939
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:06,719
Speaker 3: because they've been giving out too much contradicting information. How

940
00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 3: can sleep and exercise both be healthy?

941
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:14,279
Speaker 13: I'm an athlete, so I don't really know.

942
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:19,360
Speaker 3: All right, so you picked one, which I think is reasonable.

943
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:21,719
Speaker 13: Yeah, but it wasn't worth it.

944
00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:25,840
Speaker 3: Why was it not worth it? How old are you? Beatrice?

945
00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 13: I am twenty five.

946
00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:32,439
Speaker 3: You're an athlete? Are you? I mean, okay, so you're

947
00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 3: I mean at the age of twenty five, you're probably

948
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:39,520
Speaker 3: like a real athlete. You're not like in school or

949
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:41,160
Speaker 3: anything like that.

950
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:41,319
Speaker 2: Are you?

951
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 4: Yeah?

952
00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 13: No, I didn't go to college.

953
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:45,920
Speaker 3: What kind of athlete are you?

954
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 13: I'm a swimmer.

955
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:51,160
Speaker 3: Say you're like a professional competitive swimmer.

956
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:59,440
Speaker 13: I guess, so, I guess so well. I go to

957
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:03,160
Speaker 13: bitcomp petitions, but where I live it's not really that hard.

958
00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 13: There's not many people on our team, so it's easy

959
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:08,520
Speaker 13: to get picked to go to.

960
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:09,560
Speaker 8: These big ends.

961
00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:10,320
Speaker 10: Beature.

962
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:11,600
Speaker 3: Some my own the speakerphone right now.

963
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 13: No, I'm sorry, Are you like echoing.

964
00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:17,200
Speaker 3: No, no, it's just a little it's a little bit

965
00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:17,960
Speaker 3: tricky to hear you.

966
00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:22,160
Speaker 13: I'm sorry, Oh, no problem.

967
00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:26,879
Speaker 3: So you are right. So you said where you live,

968
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:28,239
Speaker 3: there's not a lot of people, so it's easy to

969
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 3: get picked. So you're the best. So you're among the

970
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:31,920
Speaker 3: kareem of the crown.

971
00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:36,080
Speaker 2: I guess because.

972
00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 3: You never sleep because you're too busy swimming.

973
00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:42,760
Speaker 13: I wish, I wish I could grow a pair of gills.

974
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:46,319
Speaker 3: Well, you're on your way. It sounds like, okay, so

975
00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:50,600
Speaker 3: you all right? So you're a professional swim.

976
00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:53,600
Speaker 13: Person, yeah, professional fish.

977
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 3: Do you enjoy being a professional fish?

978
00:48:59,200 --> 00:48:59,839
Speaker 8: I don't.

979
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:00,360
Speaker 2: I know.

980
00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:04,680
Speaker 13: I joined when I was in I think third grade.

981
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:07,960
Speaker 13: It's when I started to learn how to swim. And

982
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:11,839
Speaker 13: it was fun until like middle school, high school, and

983
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:16,240
Speaker 13: then it just started to get stressful and not too great.

984
00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:22,040
Speaker 3: Wow. So it's been stressful since middle school? Yeah, which

985
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 3: was ten years ago. Uh. And yet you've you've you

986
00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:29,440
Speaker 3: have persisted.

987
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:30,960
Speaker 8: Yeah?

988
00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:33,000
Speaker 3: What keeps you going?

989
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:39,560
Speaker 13: I like the experiences that I get to have, and

990
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:42,319
Speaker 13: I know if I quit, I probably wouldn't see half

991
00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:46,799
Speaker 13: of the people that I swim with anymore. Because we

992
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:48,440
Speaker 13: devote our lives to the sport.

993
00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:54,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, it sounds like an all encompassing thing. M.

994
00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:59,359
Speaker 13: What about you? Did you do any sports growing up?

995
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:04,759
Speaker 3: So do you think that you're gonna keep with it?

996
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:10,799
Speaker 13: I don't know. I've been thinking about that recently. There's

997
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:14,600
Speaker 13: a big meat coming up. It's gonna be in Puerto Rico.

998
00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:18,240
Speaker 13: And I just haven't been doing that right. I haven't

999
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:23,400
Speaker 13: been improving. I developed a chronic bronchitis, I think, and

1000
00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:26,320
Speaker 13: it's just been getting hard and I haven't gotten a

1001
00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:28,240
Speaker 13: chance to get myself checked out yet.

1002
00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 3: So have you talked to a real therapist about this stuff?

1003
00:50:33,640 --> 00:50:35,719
Speaker 3: It sounds like it's very genuinely stressing you.

1004
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 13: As No, it's too expensive, but I'm sorry, Oh no,

1005
00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:41,920
Speaker 13: I don't.

1006
00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:46,160
Speaker 3: You don't have to be sorry it's too expensive.

1007
00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:48,440
Speaker 13: Yeah.

1008
00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:51,719
Speaker 3: They don't have like a look for a sport that's stressful.

1009
00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 3: They should have like a sponsored thing.

1010
00:50:56,080 --> 00:51:00,080
Speaker 13: Well, I mean normally in bigger places like up the

1011
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:05,920
Speaker 13: the States, they have like some teams have the souses

1012
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:08,279
Speaker 13: and people that you can go to. But are some

1013
00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:11,840
Speaker 13: team is so small that they just they're kind of

1014
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:15,560
Speaker 13: happy that you're coming. And if she heard or something

1015
00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:19,400
Speaker 13: going on in your life, that's your problem.

1016
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 3: Mmmm. Well, look, I don't know. I feel like there's

1017
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:28,239
Speaker 3: got to be a thing that you can though I

1018
00:51:28,280 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 3: don't know, I haven't really researched this. I gotta I

1019
00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:36,160
Speaker 3: gotta get a better help code that I can give

1020
00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:41,839
Speaker 3: Michael Michael Phelps uses that ship? Which? Uh? Which? Which?

1021
00:51:41,880 --> 00:51:44,240
Speaker 3: Which is it that Michael Phelps uses that everyone hates?

1022
00:51:45,719 --> 00:51:48,279
Speaker 13: Oh, I couldn't tell you.

1023
00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:55,399
Speaker 3: Look if Michael, if Michael Phelps uses it, I feel

1024
00:51:55,400 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 3: like it could be good for you, I guess.

1025
00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:03,240
Speaker 13: I mean, look at him, it's a gold medalist.

1026
00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:06,560
Speaker 3: How do you How do you feel about this conversation?

1027
00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:11,480
Speaker 13: I feel like it's nice. I don't really like opening

1028
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:14,640
Speaker 13: up to friends or family because I don't want to

1029
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:17,719
Speaker 13: dump my problems or worries into them because I know

1030
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:20,080
Speaker 13: they're already stressed out with all the things happening in

1031
00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:21,760
Speaker 13: their lives.

1032
00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:27,880
Speaker 3: Your life is funny. Well, look, Beatrice, I hope that

1033
00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:30,080
Speaker 3: you do find a you know, a real therapist to

1034
00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:33,080
Speaker 3: talk to. Maybe uh, I don't know. Maybe you'll be

1035
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:38,000
Speaker 3: swimming one day and you'll, like, you know, it would

1036
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:41,520
Speaker 3: be interesting. I'm imagining you, like I don't know, you

1037
00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:45,239
Speaker 3: you fall into this like fantasy, but like you become

1038
00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 3: a mermaid and you go into the sea and you

1039
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:50,440
Speaker 3: start like telling all your problems to all the fish

1040
00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:53,120
Speaker 3: and stuff, and they give you any good advice, like

1041
00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:56,239
Speaker 3: better advice than I could give you, and you sing

1042
00:52:56,239 --> 00:53:00,000
Speaker 3: a song that could happen to you.

1043
00:53:01,719 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 13: I'd love for that to happen to me.

1044
00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:08,520
Speaker 3: I believe in it. Thank you well, you have a

1045
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:10,239
Speaker 3: good night, Beatrice. Thank you so much for.

1046
00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:12,719
Speaker 13: Calling you too. I appreciate the talk.

1047
00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:15,320
Speaker 3: Can I Beatrice?

1048
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:18,359
Speaker 13: Bye?

1049
00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:20,520
Speaker 1: How from.

1050
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:22,640
Speaker 5: Doctor Johnson?

1051
00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 3: Doctor Johnson? How you doing? Doc john.

1052
00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:35,360
Speaker 11: Look, I'm well, how are you?

1053
00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:40,239
Speaker 3: What kind of doctor are you?

1054
00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:43,040
Speaker 13: Uh?

1055
00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:46,600
Speaker 11: A fully qualified real one?

1056
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:49,560
Speaker 3: A fully qualified real one?

1057
00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:51,479
Speaker 10: Yes?

1058
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:55,200
Speaker 3: And what type of medicine are you fully qualified to

1059
00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:55,799
Speaker 3: really do?

1060
00:53:57,800 --> 00:53:58,120
Speaker 4: Uh?

1061
00:53:58,200 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 11: No, No, a doctor felicid?

1062
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:01,200
Speaker 1: Oh?

1063
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:08,560
Speaker 3: Doctor philosophy? Yes, I'm curious about this. You say you're

1064
00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:11,279
Speaker 3: qualified to be a doctor.

1065
00:54:12,920 --> 00:54:14,239
Speaker 11: In some sense of the word.

1066
00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:21,680
Speaker 3: What exactly qualify? What makes someone objectively more qualified to

1067
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:24,160
Speaker 3: philosophize than someone else?

1068
00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:33,440
Speaker 11: Is it objective? I guess some sort of paper.

1069
00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 3: It's on paper, it's I I you know, I mean,

1070
00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:37,920
Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know if it's objective. I

1071
00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:39,800
Speaker 3: guess that's why I'm kind of what I'm asking.

1072
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 11: Well, I didn't really expect to get in some of

1073
00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:49,000
Speaker 11: its right off.

1074
00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:50,360
Speaker 3: Oh, no worries.

1075
00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:54,719
Speaker 11: Take a time, Doc John, Sure, sure, can I come

1076
00:54:54,760 --> 00:54:56,000
Speaker 11: claim with you?

1077
00:54:56,040 --> 00:54:56,360
Speaker 3: Please?

1078
00:54:58,920 --> 00:54:59,720
Speaker 11: I'm not a doctor.

1079
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:04,480
Speaker 3: No, you're John back from the dead.

1080
00:55:06,400 --> 00:55:09,560
Speaker 11: Could be if that's what you like.

1081
00:55:11,200 --> 00:55:12,880
Speaker 3: I don't want what i'd like. I want the truth.

1082
00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:21,000
Speaker 11: I understand. Well, I'm not a doctor.

1083
00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:22,040
Speaker 3: Okay.

1084
00:55:23,440 --> 00:55:28,840
Speaker 11: Now I've come to uh have a charvity today, not

1085
00:55:29,160 --> 00:55:32,920
Speaker 11: not specifically related to the topic. I've just liked some

1086
00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:35,960
Speaker 11: advice and I thought this would be a lot easier

1087
00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:38,920
Speaker 11: than talking to a real you know, Gecker.

1088
00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:44,400
Speaker 3: Sure, sure, Look, I I I can promise you no satisfaction.

1089
00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:46,920
Speaker 3: I do not have a satisfaction guarantee, as a lot

1090
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:49,919
Speaker 3: of products and services do, but I will promise you

1091
00:55:50,640 --> 00:55:53,799
Speaker 3: an effort guarantee. I will try my best to give

1092
00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 3: you advice.

1093
00:55:55,920 --> 00:55:56,040
Speaker 2: Uh.

1094
00:55:56,280 --> 00:55:59,319
Speaker 3: So please please? Uh? What is it? What do you

1095
00:55:59,320 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 3: tell me? Everything?

1096
00:56:02,719 --> 00:56:10,400
Speaker 11: Okay, So here's the story. Tell me, I've just reconnected

1097
00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:15,880
Speaker 11: with a young lady, not young, but you know right,

1098
00:56:16,520 --> 00:56:22,080
Speaker 11: got it? And you know we'd had a bit of history,

1099
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:24,959
Speaker 11: high school crush kind of deal.

1100
00:56:25,520 --> 00:56:25,919
Speaker 3: Mm hmm.

1101
00:56:28,640 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 11: And yeah, yeah, it's now been five or six years

1102
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:36,920
Speaker 11: or so, and to complete the story, I liked it

1103
00:56:36,960 --> 00:56:42,520
Speaker 11: for a long time. I got into a relationship. She

1104
00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:45,800
Speaker 11: tried to make something happen, but I'm a you know,

1105
00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:47,600
Speaker 11: moral person, so I didn't go for that.

1106
00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:51,160
Speaker 3: And I'm sorry, Well I'm real quick, you said she

1107
00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:55,920
Speaker 3: first of all, Doc, John, I'm not quite getting the

1108
00:56:55,920 --> 00:56:57,880
Speaker 3: details of the story. Here's my current understanding of what

1109
00:56:57,920 --> 00:56:59,880
Speaker 3: you're trying to tell me is that you were seeing

1110
00:56:59,880 --> 00:57:02,960
Speaker 3: a girl and you too, is that you dated a

1111
00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:05,239
Speaker 3: girl for five years and then you told me she

1112
00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:08,959
Speaker 3: tried to make something happen, but you're against but because

1113
00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:10,680
Speaker 3: of your moraley, I mean, what is this something?

1114
00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:14,239
Speaker 11: My apologies, my my apologies. I was dating a girl,

1115
00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:18,120
Speaker 11: a different girl, and then this girl which I had

1116
00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:21,800
Speaker 11: you know, I had a thing for for many years previously.

1117
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:25,000
Speaker 3: Okay, you've been dating a girl and then a girl

1118
00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:28,280
Speaker 3: who you previously had a crush on wanted to make

1119
00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:31,680
Speaker 3: something happen with you, but you did not want to

1120
00:57:31,720 --> 00:57:34,600
Speaker 3: do that because you are currently in a relationship I

1121
00:57:35,120 --> 00:57:37,480
Speaker 3: was at the time. Yes, okay, so now you're not

1122
00:57:37,480 --> 00:57:38,800
Speaker 3: in a relationship.

1123
00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:41,520
Speaker 11: No, and it's been many years. But this is just

1124
00:57:41,800 --> 00:57:46,600
Speaker 11: this is just some background you know of the complexity

1125
00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:48,160
Speaker 11: of what's going on.

1126
00:57:48,400 --> 00:57:49,680
Speaker 3: So hit me with the four anyway.

1127
00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:54,880
Speaker 11: Uh, we just she's just got to touch again and

1128
00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:57,160
Speaker 11: we've we've seen each other once and it was it

1129
00:57:57,200 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 11: was very good.

1130
00:57:58,600 --> 00:58:00,520
Speaker 3: You don't sound like you have a problem, Like you've

1131
00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:02,400
Speaker 3: got a good thing going on. You are no longer

1132
00:58:02,400 --> 00:58:05,600
Speaker 3: in a relationship for whatever reason, and now this girl

1133
00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:08,080
Speaker 3: who you liked, who wanted to be with you when

1134
00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:10,440
Speaker 3: you were in a relationship, and you, you know, I

1135
00:58:10,480 --> 00:58:14,000
Speaker 3: think appropriately decided not to do that, but now you're

1136
00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:16,000
Speaker 3: not in a relationship and are not free to free

1137
00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:16,560
Speaker 3: to pursue that.

1138
00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:22,280
Speaker 11: Yeah, the only problem is now, like you know what

1139
00:58:22,600 --> 00:58:25,840
Speaker 11: and I I know nothing nothing about her.

1140
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:31,160
Speaker 3: Really, you don't know anything about her.

1141
00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:31,080
Speaker 13: Not.

1142
00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:34,200
Speaker 11: The person she is now.

1143
00:58:35,560 --> 00:58:42,400
Speaker 3: Well, Doc John, Doc John, it's get to know her,

1144
00:58:42,680 --> 00:58:45,520
Speaker 3: go on some dates for Christ's sake, Doc John.

1145
00:58:46,800 --> 00:58:51,280
Speaker 11: Yeah, that's that's the plan. However, I feel now like

1146
00:58:51,680 --> 00:58:55,520
Speaker 11: how I felt in high school, and like I want

1147
00:58:55,560 --> 00:58:59,040
Speaker 11: to know, like if I'm chasing something in the past.

1148
00:58:59,360 --> 00:59:03,960
Speaker 3: That's beautiful, John, Look, dot John, this person's giving you butterflies.

1149
00:59:03,960 --> 00:59:06,160
Speaker 3: If you're nervous to be with this person, you're nervous

1150
00:59:06,200 --> 00:59:07,640
Speaker 3: to take her on a date and I mean that's good.

1151
00:59:08,200 --> 00:59:11,840
Speaker 3: That means that you have something here. Follow the nerves, John.

1152
00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:15,200
Speaker 3: If you weren't nervous to be with her, then I

1153
00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:17,240
Speaker 3: mean that would be boring, that would not be a

1154
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:21,080
Speaker 3: relationship worth pursuing. I don't even think so. I think

1155
00:59:21,120 --> 00:59:22,840
Speaker 3: you follow the nerves. It means that you're getting out

1156
00:59:22,840 --> 00:59:24,920
Speaker 3: of your comfort zone. It means that you're attempting something

1157
00:59:24,920 --> 00:59:25,640
Speaker 3: that matters to you.

1158
00:59:25,720 --> 00:59:26,000
Speaker 6: John.

1159
00:59:29,480 --> 00:59:36,680
Speaker 3: Let's see, where are you gonna take her? Take her

1160
00:59:36,720 --> 00:59:37,120
Speaker 3: to the bowling?

1161
00:59:37,320 --> 00:59:37,760
Speaker 7: What do they do?

1162
00:59:37,840 --> 00:59:44,080
Speaker 3: And let's see. It sounds like you're from Taiwan. What

1163
00:59:44,120 --> 00:59:45,040
Speaker 3: do they do in Taiwan?

1164
00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:49,640
Speaker 11: Chinese food?

1165
00:59:51,280 --> 00:59:53,600
Speaker 3: I don't know if that's correct, but listen, doc John,

1166
00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:56,480
Speaker 3: good luck in your romantic pursuits. I'm giving you all

1167
00:59:56,520 --> 00:59:59,480
Speaker 3: of my gecko energy and I appreciate you calling in you.

1168
01:00:00,600 --> 01:00:01,640
Speaker 11: Thank you, Thank you.

1169
01:00:02,160 --> 01:00:03,200
Speaker 5: Australia by the way.

1170
01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:05,720
Speaker 10: Represent how come man?

1171
01:00:07,360 --> 01:00:07,800
Speaker 11: All right?

1172
01:00:08,240 --> 01:00:10,640
Speaker 3: This is actually is Australia back here. I love you too,

1173
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:12,240
Speaker 3: Dot John, you have one for us then, I thank

1174
01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:13,160
Speaker 3: you so much for sharing.

1175
01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:15,160
Speaker 11: Any Thank you.

1176
01:00:18,840 --> 01:00:20,760
Speaker 1: All from Anthony.

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01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:22,800
Speaker 3: Anthony.

1178
01:00:23,040 --> 01:00:30,439
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, come I own yeah yeah indeed. Uh well,

1179
01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:32,840
Speaker 5: I'm just listening and I don't hate your stream that's

1180
01:00:32,840 --> 01:00:38,760
Speaker 5: what you're wondering. So how are you doing.

1181
01:00:38,640 --> 01:00:47,480
Speaker 3: Tonight, Anthony? Yes, yeah, have you ever lied?

1182
01:00:49,760 --> 01:00:50,240
Speaker 4: I have?

1183
01:00:50,440 --> 01:00:50,640
Speaker 16: Yeah?

1184
01:00:51,480 --> 01:00:53,560
Speaker 3: Tell me about you having lied?

1185
01:00:55,200 --> 01:00:57,520
Speaker 5: H I have been thinking about that. I've been watching

1186
01:00:57,560 --> 01:01:00,520
Speaker 5: the entire stream and I just completely got.

1187
01:01:02,440 --> 01:01:03,080
Speaker 3: Free to remember.

1188
01:01:06,240 --> 01:01:10,400
Speaker 5: Oh here's an easy one. I guess. Like the beginning

1189
01:01:10,400 --> 01:01:12,560
Speaker 5: of high school, freshman year, I started smoking weed.

1190
01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:14,040
Speaker 2: I liked my.

1191
01:01:14,120 --> 01:01:16,920
Speaker 5: Mom about it like about a year and a half

1192
01:01:18,120 --> 01:01:20,400
Speaker 5: until like I caught, like sophomore year.

1193
01:01:22,680 --> 01:01:24,600
Speaker 3: And what was her reaction when you got caught?

1194
01:01:26,120 --> 01:01:26,880
Speaker 5: She was okay with that.

1195
01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:27,400
Speaker 2: She just.

1196
01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:32,040
Speaker 5: Yeah. She asked me why I didn't tell her anything,

1197
01:01:32,080 --> 01:01:37,240
Speaker 5: and I was like, smarter is something to tell I

1198
01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:37,600
Speaker 5: would like.

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01:01:37,600 --> 01:01:39,840
Speaker 3: With smoking weed. If you're like a kid or whatever,

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01:01:40,000 --> 01:01:43,800
Speaker 3: is like I mean, if you're like if I were

1201
01:01:43,840 --> 01:01:45,240
Speaker 3: like a parent and like I had a kid of

1202
01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:47,680
Speaker 3: suk a weed. I'm like, if you if everything else

1203
01:01:47,760 --> 01:01:51,720
Speaker 3: is like going good, I kind of don't care. Like,

1204
01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:54,760
Speaker 3: if you're like if you like get your grades are

1205
01:01:54,800 --> 01:01:59,200
Speaker 3: good and you're chilling and you have a life, you

1206
01:01:59,240 --> 01:02:02,960
Speaker 3: seem like a preductive human being, I kind of don't care.

1207
01:02:03,480 --> 01:02:05,560
Speaker 3: Where where people get sucked up is when they get

1208
01:02:05,600 --> 01:02:08,320
Speaker 3: like addicted to it. And it like fucks them up

1209
01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:10,600
Speaker 3: and like they don't do other things.

1210
01:02:11,400 --> 01:02:13,479
Speaker 5: That's that was basically the situation. I don't really smoke

1211
01:02:13,520 --> 01:02:17,680
Speaker 5: weed anymore, but well I haven't like smoking since like,

1212
01:02:16,880 --> 01:02:21,600
Speaker 5: uh like six months ago down there. Uh yeah, I

1213
01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:22,640
Speaker 5: just do it kind of casually.

1214
01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:27,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, breaking weed. Was that an intentional decision or did

1215
01:02:27,400 --> 01:02:29,680
Speaker 3: it just kind of fade out into something you didn't

1216
01:02:29,720 --> 01:02:30,280
Speaker 3: do as often?

1217
01:02:31,440 --> 01:02:31,600
Speaker 10: Uh?

1218
01:02:31,800 --> 01:02:35,200
Speaker 5: Kind of both. I usually took like tolerance breaks every

1219
01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:37,320
Speaker 5: few months. I started getting a little two into it.

1220
01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:39,400
Speaker 5: I would just kind of take a break, you know,

1221
01:02:39,640 --> 01:02:42,400
Speaker 5: but just break kind of lasted longer. I don't really

1222
01:02:43,280 --> 01:02:45,520
Speaker 5: want to go back to it right now. I guess

1223
01:02:46,360 --> 01:02:46,600
Speaker 5: I know.

1224
01:02:46,920 --> 01:02:51,040
Speaker 3: It's good life. It's good to take some time off.

1225
01:02:53,040 --> 01:02:55,160
Speaker 3: Sometimes you can smoke weed every day and just not

1226
01:02:55,520 --> 01:02:57,919
Speaker 3: like not even to realize that you're smoking weed every day.

1227
01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:01,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, I've had this time well like part parts of

1228
01:03:01,400 --> 01:03:04,880
Speaker 5: the day, I guess, like past midnight. You know, it

1229
01:03:05,000 --> 01:03:06,600
Speaker 5: kind of just gets like that. I think, you know,

1230
01:03:07,440 --> 01:03:11,680
Speaker 5: it's all kind of just a blur sometimes.

1231
01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:15,800
Speaker 3: Mm hmm. What's your relationship like with your mother?

1232
01:03:17,600 --> 01:03:20,480
Speaker 5: Uh, I'm not really too close, you know, a lot

1233
01:03:20,480 --> 01:03:21,400
Speaker 5: in common or anything.

1234
01:03:22,680 --> 01:03:25,920
Speaker 3: Really, How would you describe her.

1235
01:03:25,920 --> 01:03:29,760
Speaker 5: Uh, I don't know. She's kind of lazy, but also

1236
01:03:30,240 --> 01:03:32,560
Speaker 5: not she doesn't she just watches TV most of the day,

1237
01:03:32,760 --> 01:03:37,760
Speaker 5: kind of drives around and you know sort of thing.

1238
01:03:39,560 --> 01:03:42,120
Speaker 3: She's kind of watches TV all day. And how would

1239
01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:43,760
Speaker 3: you describe yourself in contrast?

1240
01:03:45,600 --> 01:03:48,560
Speaker 5: Uh, Well, because of the pandemic, I haven't really been

1241
01:03:48,600 --> 01:03:50,600
Speaker 5: able to go see my friends, but I would do that.

1242
01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:54,760
Speaker 5: Most of the time. We hang out, like, uh, go

1243
01:03:55,800 --> 01:03:58,439
Speaker 5: get food and walk around, hang out of the park

1244
01:03:58,480 --> 01:04:02,760
Speaker 5: and stuff, watch TV as well. Uh, I play frisbee

1245
01:04:02,760 --> 01:04:03,240
Speaker 5: and stuff.

1246
01:04:03,880 --> 01:04:05,400
Speaker 3: So what you and your mom do not have in

1247
01:04:05,440 --> 01:04:07,320
Speaker 3: common is that you have friends and your mom does

1248
01:04:07,400 --> 01:04:10,120
Speaker 3: not have friends.

1249
01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:11,320
Speaker 5: Sort of, I've spend more.

1250
01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:14,040
Speaker 3: Time with my friends, I guess, I kind of said.

1251
01:04:16,280 --> 01:04:18,840
Speaker 5: And well, when you get older, I guess what it's

1252
01:04:18,840 --> 01:04:19,600
Speaker 5: life for some people.

1253
01:04:21,000 --> 01:04:23,080
Speaker 3: Well listen, thank you so much for calling. You said.

1254
01:04:23,080 --> 01:04:27,080
Speaker 3: Your name is Anthony. Yeah, fuck yeah, dude, I actually

1255
01:04:27,160 --> 01:04:29,560
Speaker 3: I'm I should remember that name.

1256
01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:33,320
Speaker 5: Well, I have three questions for you, gek or like

1257
01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:37,600
Speaker 5: three things questions. Yeah, they're they're really short, all right,

1258
01:04:37,640 --> 01:04:41,000
Speaker 5: tell me, Okay, the first one, has anyone ever told

1259
01:04:41,040 --> 01:04:44,120
Speaker 5: you that you look like the actor Charlie Day? I

1260
01:04:44,160 --> 01:04:46,200
Speaker 5: was watching your stream like the other night WICKI to

1261
01:04:46,240 --> 01:04:48,600
Speaker 5: wiki or whatever. Yeah, I saw you, like without all

1262
01:04:48,640 --> 01:04:52,000
Speaker 5: the GEK makeup on, you look exactly like that guy,

1263
01:04:52,160 --> 01:04:53,560
Speaker 5: just like with lighter hair.

1264
01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:56,480
Speaker 3: I have that I look like that before. I have

1265
01:04:56,560 --> 01:05:00,240
Speaker 3: seen some TikTok comments, some some some twitch kind it's

1266
01:05:00,240 --> 01:05:01,320
Speaker 3: about that. I have seen that before.

1267
01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:07,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's really freaky. Another one. I've listened to like

1268
01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:10,960
Speaker 5: a lot of the podcasts recently, and I got to

1269
01:05:11,040 --> 01:05:13,040
Speaker 5: like the older ones because I've cleared out all the

1270
01:05:13,080 --> 01:05:16,560
Speaker 5: newer ones. And I noticed that you have like music

1271
01:05:17,120 --> 01:05:19,760
Speaker 5: that played like in between every call. I love that

1272
01:05:19,840 --> 01:05:22,640
Speaker 5: music so much. Why did you remove it?

1273
01:05:24,160 --> 01:05:25,080
Speaker 3: When did I remove it?

1274
01:05:27,560 --> 01:05:31,280
Speaker 5: I don't know, like the exact one, but probably like

1275
01:05:32,120 --> 01:05:34,600
Speaker 5: after at least the tenth call, our tenth episode.

1276
01:05:34,640 --> 01:05:36,880
Speaker 3: Maybe I would not be surprised if there was at

1277
01:05:36,960 --> 01:05:40,480
Speaker 3: least one podcast that I have put out that erroneously

1278
01:05:40,520 --> 01:05:43,280
Speaker 3: does not have music, but there should be.

1279
01:05:43,280 --> 01:05:45,520
Speaker 5: All was like the specific music though, it was just

1280
01:05:45,600 --> 01:05:49,000
Speaker 5: like it was great. I vibe with it every in

1281
01:05:49,040 --> 01:05:49,760
Speaker 5: between calls.

1282
01:05:50,320 --> 01:05:53,800
Speaker 3: The most recently, the most recent podcast have all used

1283
01:05:53,840 --> 01:05:55,760
Speaker 3: the same music, but in the past I tried to

1284
01:05:55,800 --> 01:05:57,120
Speaker 3: switch it up a little bit more but now I

1285
01:05:57,400 --> 01:05:59,920
Speaker 3: kind of use the same music for everyone.

1286
01:06:00,080 --> 01:06:03,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, and the last one was like a shout out

1287
01:06:03,320 --> 01:06:06,080
Speaker 5: to like someone that had called before. It was like

1288
01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:09,000
Speaker 5: the first guy that I like, I saw on your stream,

1289
01:06:09,400 --> 01:06:11,600
Speaker 5: like on TikTok. I just want to shout this guy

1290
01:06:11,600 --> 01:06:14,000
Speaker 5: out because like he changed my life almost. You know,

1291
01:06:15,560 --> 01:06:18,000
Speaker 5: it's the guy that he's only in the shower.

1292
01:06:20,000 --> 01:06:21,720
Speaker 3: If he's here, Yeah, I wonder if he's watching.

1293
01:06:22,680 --> 01:06:25,600
Speaker 5: Yeah. I think about this guy every day, like totally

1294
01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:28,120
Speaker 5: change my worldview like how everything works.

1295
01:06:28,120 --> 01:06:30,360
Speaker 3: You know, I don't do it.

1296
01:06:30,640 --> 01:06:33,920
Speaker 5: I seriously consider it though, every time I go to

1297
01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:34,920
Speaker 5: the bathroom.

1298
01:06:35,200 --> 01:06:38,240
Speaker 3: You know, you know, it's inspiring to listen to someone

1299
01:06:38,960 --> 01:06:40,280
Speaker 3: you really going out of the way to live their

1300
01:06:40,320 --> 01:06:43,480
Speaker 3: life their own way intentionally.

1301
01:06:44,560 --> 01:06:46,200
Speaker 5: He was really it seemed like he was on a

1302
01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:46,880
Speaker 5: new way of life.

1303
01:06:47,520 --> 01:06:51,560
Speaker 3: Okay, I hope he's I hope he's I hope he's

1304
01:06:51,600 --> 01:06:53,400
Speaker 3: doing Okay. I hope he's not dead. He could be dead.

1305
01:06:53,400 --> 01:06:55,520
Speaker 3: I haven't heard from while. I hope he's not though.

1306
01:06:56,240 --> 01:06:59,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, if he's listening calling, I'll be listening to the stream.

1307
01:06:59,440 --> 01:07:00,520
Speaker 5: And I love you.

1308
01:07:01,440 --> 01:07:05,240
Speaker 3: Thank you so much, Anceeny, thank you ye have a

1309
01:07:05,240 --> 01:07:06,720
Speaker 3: good night, all right.

1310
01:07:06,720 --> 01:07:08,040
Speaker 5: I love you gre love you.

1311
01:07:08,040 --> 01:07:08,480
Speaker 3: Too, baby.

1312
01:07:09,400 --> 01:07:12,880
Speaker 1: All from Aiden Aiden?

1313
01:07:13,240 --> 01:07:24,000
Speaker 2: Hello, Hey, Hey, how you doing? Hello?

1314
01:07:27,000 --> 01:07:29,000
Speaker 3: I'm doing good. How are you?

1315
01:07:30,720 --> 01:07:34,760
Speaker 2: I'm I'm doing all right, just all right.

1316
01:07:35,800 --> 01:07:37,880
Speaker 3: I think that's actually reasonable to be doing just all right.

1317
01:07:37,880 --> 01:07:44,880
Speaker 3: I'll be concerned if you were doing fantastically. I mean

1318
01:07:44,920 --> 01:07:47,880
Speaker 3: I can be doing amazing, you can be. Are you

1319
01:07:47,920 --> 01:07:50,200
Speaker 3: in a car right now? Hi?

1320
01:07:50,400 --> 01:07:50,600
Speaker 13: Sure?

1321
01:07:50,680 --> 01:07:51,960
Speaker 10: Am am?

1322
01:07:51,960 --> 01:07:54,120
Speaker 3: I on speakerphone? What's happening? Where am I? Right now?

1323
01:07:55,400 --> 01:07:56,320
Speaker 5: You're on speaker?

1324
01:07:56,840 --> 01:07:58,560
Speaker 2: Could I have a second to put my ears in?

1325
01:07:58,640 --> 01:07:59,160
Speaker 5: Is that okay?

1326
01:07:59,240 --> 01:08:01,560
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, let's let's do it. Let's get illegal in here.

1327
01:08:04,760 --> 01:08:08,800
Speaker 3: I'll wait, I've got anything else going on. This is

1328
01:08:08,800 --> 01:08:10,480
Speaker 3: what I played. This is when I woke up this morning.

1329
01:08:10,520 --> 01:08:14,920
Speaker 3: I fully planned on being a gay. I fully planned

1330
01:08:15,640 --> 01:08:21,360
Speaker 3: that at eleven twenty six pm this evening, I would

1331
01:08:21,400 --> 01:08:24,439
Speaker 3: be exactly where I am right now, in this chair

1332
01:08:25,240 --> 01:08:27,280
Speaker 3: as a get go, talking to people on the phone.

1333
01:08:27,320 --> 01:08:29,920
Speaker 3: So this is actually according to plan fully, So don't

1334
01:08:29,920 --> 01:08:31,240
Speaker 3: don't worry about it. Don't worry about me.

1335
01:08:32,479 --> 01:08:36,720
Speaker 2: I solid imad Are they in ie?

1336
01:08:37,040 --> 01:08:37,200
Speaker 4: Oh?

1337
01:08:37,400 --> 01:08:37,679
Speaker 2: Go ahead?

1338
01:08:39,760 --> 01:08:42,479
Speaker 3: Where are we? Where in the where in the car

1339
01:08:42,520 --> 01:08:43,639
Speaker 3: are we? What state?

1340
01:08:45,040 --> 01:08:46,200
Speaker 2: I am in? California?

1341
01:08:46,920 --> 01:08:50,280
Speaker 3: And where are we on our way to or.

1342
01:08:50,160 --> 01:08:52,280
Speaker 2: From home from work?

1343
01:08:53,479 --> 01:08:57,320
Speaker 3: Home from work? And where do you work?

1344
01:08:59,400 --> 01:09:00,800
Speaker 2: I'm work at game Stop?

1345
01:09:01,800 --> 01:09:04,160
Speaker 4: Ed where game Stop?

1346
01:09:04,600 --> 01:09:05,960
Speaker 3: Did they pay you in stock?

1347
01:09:07,920 --> 01:09:08,040
Speaker 13: No?

1348
01:09:11,840 --> 01:09:13,160
Speaker 3: Did you invest in game Stop?

1349
01:09:14,840 --> 01:09:17,240
Speaker 2: I got it or I wanted to, but it was

1350
01:09:17,280 --> 01:09:19,320
Speaker 2: a little too late for me to get in m.

1351
01:09:21,080 --> 01:09:23,519
Speaker 3: Apparently it's not. Apparently it just squows a little bit more.

1352
01:09:23,560 --> 01:09:24,800
Speaker 3: But I don't know how that shit works.

1353
01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:28,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I'm not I'm not very smart, so

1354
01:09:28,920 --> 01:09:29,559
Speaker 2: I don't really know.

1355
01:09:31,560 --> 01:09:32,519
Speaker 3: You're not very smart.

1356
01:09:34,920 --> 01:09:38,240
Speaker 2: I'd say I more street smart than financially or book smart.

1357
01:09:38,720 --> 01:09:41,040
Speaker 3: What makes you say that you're streets What makes you

1358
01:09:41,040 --> 01:09:44,600
Speaker 3: say that you're street smart?

1359
01:09:45,200 --> 01:09:46,479
Speaker 2: I don't know. I just have had a lot of

1360
01:09:46,520 --> 01:09:49,800
Speaker 2: life experiences and kind of taught me a lot. And

1361
01:09:50,479 --> 01:09:52,519
Speaker 2: I feel like I think a little bit more rationally

1362
01:09:52,600 --> 01:09:55,479
Speaker 2: than most people that I've met, So I feel like

1363
01:09:55,520 --> 01:09:58,360
Speaker 2: I can make logical decisions a lot easier than most people.

1364
01:09:59,320 --> 01:10:04,560
Speaker 3: Interesting, tell me, tell me of these life's decisions that

1365
01:10:04,600 --> 01:10:07,760
Speaker 3: you feel as though have inspired your street smartness, Which

1366
01:10:07,760 --> 01:10:10,760
Speaker 3: would you say is the most vital, the one that

1367
01:10:10,760 --> 01:10:12,479
Speaker 3: has inspired your street smartness the most?

1368
01:10:13,200 --> 01:10:19,960
Speaker 16: If you can pick, probably the day I decided to

1369
01:10:20,280 --> 01:10:22,400
Speaker 16: move out of my dad's time at the age.

1370
01:10:22,240 --> 01:10:27,640
Speaker 3: Of seventeen, at the age of what did they teach you?

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01:10:29,479 --> 01:10:32,680
Speaker 16: It taught me that life is more than just go

1372
01:10:32,720 --> 01:10:34,880
Speaker 16: to school and come home, or go to work and

1373
01:10:34,920 --> 01:10:39,360
Speaker 16: come home. It's a lot more about relationships than dealing

1374
01:10:39,439 --> 01:10:43,599
Speaker 16: with a bunch of shit you don't want to Hm, that's.

1375
01:10:43,479 --> 01:10:45,160
Speaker 3: A rather pessimistic viewpoint.

1376
01:10:47,160 --> 01:10:49,439
Speaker 2: I'd say it's a little bit more of a realistic viewpoint.

1377
01:10:49,560 --> 01:10:51,920
Speaker 3: I mean, it makes they always that's what they always say.

1378
01:10:53,240 --> 01:10:56,679
Speaker 3: I guess, yeah, But then again, I mean, look, perception

1379
01:10:56,760 --> 01:10:58,040
Speaker 3: is I mean, I'm about to sound like a new

1380
01:10:58,120 --> 01:11:03,760
Speaker 3: share but all right, perception is reality. Yeah, so if

1381
01:11:03,800 --> 01:11:10,240
Speaker 3: you perceive things optimistically, then you're a realist. But if

1382
01:11:10,280 --> 01:11:15,639
Speaker 3: you perceive things pessimistically, you're also a realist. So matter

1383
01:11:15,680 --> 01:11:17,400
Speaker 3: what thing you are, you're a realist.

1384
01:11:18,960 --> 01:11:21,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's a very good point. I don't really

1385
01:11:21,000 --> 01:11:21,640
Speaker 2: think about it like that.

1386
01:11:26,040 --> 01:11:28,200
Speaker 3: What get do people have a prank? Call you gay?

1387
01:11:28,439 --> 01:11:30,080
Speaker 3: When I was in when I was fourteen, I prank

1388
01:11:30,120 --> 01:11:32,080
Speaker 3: called game Stop all the time because it was the

1389
01:11:32,120 --> 01:11:35,120
Speaker 3: one place that a human being always picked up, like

1390
01:11:35,160 --> 01:11:36,479
Speaker 3: if I wanted to call, like if I tried to

1391
01:11:36,479 --> 01:11:38,599
Speaker 3: call Target or some shit it was always the robot

1392
01:11:39,080 --> 01:11:41,160
Speaker 3: or you had to like go to a bunch of

1393
01:11:41,200 --> 01:11:44,200
Speaker 3: shit to get to a human. But GameStop it was

1394
01:11:44,320 --> 01:11:46,840
Speaker 3: immediately always a human. So they were the easiest people

1395
01:11:46,840 --> 01:11:48,439
Speaker 3: to prank call. So I'd print call them a lot.

1396
01:11:49,800 --> 01:11:51,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, we we used to get a lot

1397
01:11:51,479 --> 01:11:54,080
Speaker 2: of print calls a couple uh years ago, but the

1398
01:11:54,080 --> 01:11:56,160
Speaker 2: print calls nowadays, they're kind of weak, to be honest, like,

1399
01:11:56,320 --> 01:11:59,200
Speaker 2: people don't really I don't really try. It's always like, oh,

1400
01:11:59,240 --> 01:12:02,000
Speaker 2: you have g Like, I mean, that's not really a

1401
01:12:02,000 --> 01:12:02,360
Speaker 2: print call.

1402
01:12:02,439 --> 01:12:04,559
Speaker 3: Dude, do you have what six?

1403
01:12:06,960 --> 01:12:09,880
Speaker 2: Do you have GTA six? And I'm like, that's not

1404
01:12:09,920 --> 01:12:11,800
Speaker 2: really a print call, you know, Like that's that's what

1405
01:12:11,840 --> 01:12:12,639
Speaker 2: you being done.

1406
01:12:13,160 --> 01:12:14,840
Speaker 3: No, I would prank call game stoff and I would

1407
01:12:14,840 --> 01:12:18,680
Speaker 3: just go ah and I would hang up.

1408
01:12:20,960 --> 01:12:22,519
Speaker 2: That's a prank call. I would love to take that.

1409
01:12:22,920 --> 01:12:24,599
Speaker 3: That's pretty good. All right, Where where do you work?

1410
01:12:24,720 --> 01:12:25,240
Speaker 3: I'll call you?

1411
01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:31,439
Speaker 2: Uh should I display that they area? I'll just say,

1412
01:12:31,680 --> 01:12:37,800
Speaker 2: I'll say Bay area, all.

1413
01:12:37,840 --> 01:12:41,479
Speaker 3: Right, I'll come in. I don't really play video games anymore.

1414
01:12:42,240 --> 01:12:43,880
Speaker 3: I only play I only played one video game, but

1415
01:12:43,880 --> 01:12:49,160
Speaker 3: it's like twenty years old, Green Skid, No Melee.

1416
01:12:50,400 --> 01:12:53,240
Speaker 2: Oh, Okay, okay, yeah, that's a good one.

1417
01:12:53,479 --> 01:12:54,200
Speaker 3: Do you guys have that.

1418
01:12:54,200 --> 01:12:57,160
Speaker 2: Probably one of the best. No, we don't.

1419
01:12:58,400 --> 01:12:58,840
Speaker 3: Would you say?

1420
01:12:58,920 --> 01:12:59,360
Speaker 6: Name was.

1421
01:13:01,040 --> 01:13:01,839
Speaker 2: Aiden? Aiden?

1422
01:13:03,439 --> 01:13:03,759
Speaker 3: Aiden?

1423
01:13:03,760 --> 01:13:03,920
Speaker 15: How?

1424
01:13:03,960 --> 01:13:04,160
Speaker 3: Fuck?

1425
01:13:04,200 --> 01:13:04,360
Speaker 5: How?

1426
01:13:04,600 --> 01:13:06,439
Speaker 3: How long have we been on the phone for? There's

1427
01:13:06,439 --> 01:13:07,880
Speaker 3: no way you aren't There's no way you haven't got

1428
01:13:07,880 --> 01:13:08,639
Speaker 3: gotten home yet.

1429
01:13:10,680 --> 01:13:12,920
Speaker 2: My commute is an hour and a half both way.

1430
01:13:13,080 --> 01:13:15,400
Speaker 3: You commute an hour and a half to work at

1431
01:13:15,479 --> 01:13:16,519
Speaker 3: game stop? Why?

1432
01:13:18,320 --> 01:13:20,439
Speaker 2: That's the question. That's kind of why I'm calling.

1433
01:13:23,800 --> 01:13:25,760
Speaker 3: Is there not a game stop closer to you?

1434
01:13:27,240 --> 01:13:30,679
Speaker 2: There is, but I'm not working under the leader who

1435
01:13:30,760 --> 01:13:31,679
Speaker 2: leads that district?

1436
01:13:33,080 --> 01:13:34,680
Speaker 3: Okay, well why do you? Why do you work it?

1437
01:13:34,680 --> 01:13:34,880
Speaker 7: Again?

1438
01:13:34,920 --> 01:13:36,479
Speaker 3: Why do you? Why do you commute so far?

1439
01:13:38,400 --> 01:13:41,320
Speaker 2: Because it's kind of the whole I dug myself into

1440
01:13:41,479 --> 01:13:44,439
Speaker 2: and I can't find a way out right now, so

1441
01:13:44,560 --> 01:13:45,680
Speaker 2: I just kind of deal with it.

1442
01:13:46,120 --> 01:13:48,519
Speaker 3: Let's go. What's your lease looking like? How much more

1443
01:13:48,560 --> 01:13:49,200
Speaker 3: you got on there?

1444
01:13:50,479 --> 01:13:52,519
Speaker 2: I it's actually a month to month, like I can

1445
01:13:52,520 --> 01:13:54,560
Speaker 2: move whenever I want, But you know, the bunny and

1446
01:13:54,600 --> 01:13:55,639
Speaker 2: the timing has got to be right.

1447
01:13:56,880 --> 01:13:57,200
Speaker 14: What U?

1448
01:13:58,160 --> 01:13:59,040
Speaker 3: It's month to month?

1449
01:14:02,200 --> 01:14:02,840
Speaker 4: What used to do?

1450
01:14:03,360 --> 01:14:04,760
Speaker 3: How many? How many months in a row have you

1451
01:14:04,760 --> 01:14:06,559
Speaker 3: commuted an hour and a half to game stop.

1452
01:14:08,120 --> 01:14:10,840
Speaker 2: Uh, probably a year and a half.

1453
01:14:10,880 --> 01:14:13,920
Speaker 3: Now what why.

1454
01:14:14,960 --> 01:14:21,920
Speaker 2: Okay, I can't get out man, No, nobody wants to. Well,

1455
01:14:21,960 --> 01:14:24,840
Speaker 2: I can't move out today area you know out here

1456
01:14:24,840 --> 01:14:28,200
Speaker 2: in California, man, like not too much? Doesn't pay me

1457
01:14:28,280 --> 01:14:29,000
Speaker 2: enough to live out there?

1458
01:14:29,080 --> 01:14:31,240
Speaker 3: Hell, but you can't. But you can't find the place

1459
01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:34,600
Speaker 3: that's but the cheap. You can't find a place for

1460
01:14:34,640 --> 01:14:38,599
Speaker 3: a similar price that's less than by the way, I mean,

1461
01:14:38,680 --> 01:14:43,400
Speaker 3: have you got like on gas on time? Uh? I

1462
01:14:43,439 --> 01:14:47,080
Speaker 3: feel like you can move a little bit closer. You

1463
01:14:47,120 --> 01:14:50,040
Speaker 3: really couldn't find the place closer than an hour and

1464
01:14:50,040 --> 01:14:50,439
Speaker 3: a half.

1465
01:14:51,800 --> 01:14:54,559
Speaker 2: I really wish I could say yes. But the most

1466
01:14:54,840 --> 01:14:57,360
Speaker 2: the cheapest one that I've been able to find is

1467
01:14:58,040 --> 01:15:00,280
Speaker 2: reach to four hundred dollars more than what I'm paying

1468
01:15:00,320 --> 01:15:03,200
Speaker 2: for now, and that does not fit my budget.

1469
01:15:04,160 --> 01:15:06,040
Speaker 3: I almost feel like, I mean, I don't know what

1470
01:15:06,040 --> 01:15:08,000
Speaker 3: gas prices around in LA, but I almost feel like

1471
01:15:08,040 --> 01:15:10,679
Speaker 3: you might even be spending more on gas, like enough

1472
01:15:10,680 --> 01:15:13,720
Speaker 3: on gas to justify it. Have you have you done that?

1473
01:15:13,760 --> 01:15:14,360
Speaker 9: Many?

1474
01:15:15,800 --> 01:15:15,840
Speaker 1: Have?

1475
01:15:16,200 --> 01:15:16,360
Speaker 10: Yeah?

1476
01:15:16,760 --> 01:15:19,559
Speaker 3: Three hours a day is a lot.

1477
01:15:19,920 --> 01:15:22,400
Speaker 2: It is a lot. No, you're you're absolutely ready. I

1478
01:15:22,439 --> 01:15:24,960
Speaker 2: mean the thing is, though, like I got to spend

1479
01:15:25,000 --> 01:15:26,880
Speaker 2: that money to get out here, to make money, to

1480
01:15:26,960 --> 01:15:29,400
Speaker 2: save money, to not have to spend so much money

1481
01:15:29,439 --> 01:15:32,960
Speaker 2: on gas. So it's it's almost like a double edged sword.

1482
01:15:33,000 --> 01:15:34,439
Speaker 2: I got to spend the money to get out there,

1483
01:15:34,479 --> 01:15:36,280
Speaker 2: and I don't really have the opportunity to save the

1484
01:15:36,280 --> 01:15:37,800
Speaker 2: money to not go out there.

1485
01:15:39,760 --> 01:15:42,760
Speaker 3: Dude, I don't know. I mean, look, obviously you've done

1486
01:15:42,840 --> 01:15:45,320
Speaker 3: the craigslisting and the googling and I haven't. But there's

1487
01:15:45,360 --> 01:15:47,400
Speaker 3: no I feel like you can find a place for

1488
01:15:47,720 --> 01:15:48,599
Speaker 3: a decent price.

1489
01:15:50,400 --> 01:15:52,879
Speaker 2: Maybe I also looked a little bit harder. It's possible,

1490
01:15:53,040 --> 01:15:55,320
Speaker 2: but I mean when I when I initially took the

1491
01:15:55,320 --> 01:15:58,639
Speaker 2: position and looked, it wasn't there. Just wasn't in the cards,

1492
01:15:58,720 --> 01:15:59,240
Speaker 2: so I.

1493
01:15:59,200 --> 01:15:59,880
Speaker 5: Just didn't do it.

1494
01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:01,360
Speaker 3: Are you a manager?

1495
01:16:02,840 --> 01:16:03,160
Speaker 2: I am.

1496
01:16:03,240 --> 01:16:06,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's pretty sweet. Do you play video games?

1497
01:16:08,160 --> 01:16:08,400
Speaker 10: I do.

1498
01:16:08,760 --> 01:16:12,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1499
01:16:12,680 --> 01:16:15,200
Speaker 3: Well, listen, good luck, Adrian Aiden.

1500
01:16:17,160 --> 01:16:19,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, I.

1501
01:16:19,080 --> 01:16:22,320
Speaker 3: Feel bad leaving you. You probably still have an hour

1502
01:16:22,479 --> 01:16:23,080
Speaker 3: left to go.

1503
01:16:25,040 --> 01:16:27,759
Speaker 2: Forty five minutes. Not bad, but I'm watching your streams

1504
01:16:27,760 --> 01:16:30,800
Speaker 2: so it gives me something to do. Well.

1505
01:16:30,920 --> 01:16:34,519
Speaker 3: Well, good luck, Thank you, sir. Have a good night,

1506
01:16:34,560 --> 01:16:37,080
Speaker 3: of course, you have a good night.

1507
01:16:39,400 --> 01:16:43,519
Speaker 9: Never goes on the line taking your phone calls every night,

1508
01:16:43,880 --> 01:16:47,240
Speaker 9: never goes to any times, teaching you Cloud in the

1509
01:16:47,479 --> 01:16:50,479
Speaker 9: of your Life's not really an expert.