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Speaker 2: My niece bad, welcome back. This is good mom's bad choices.
Speaker 2: I'm Erica, I'm Mila. Happy Wednesday.
Speaker 3: It's a beautiful day in l A. We have a
Speaker 3: special guest, special guests. He has special, everyone's special.
Speaker 2: You are actually our first single dad guest. Oh, so
Speaker 2: it is special. Okay, I'm assuming that ship you sing
Speaker 2: on that. I ain't seen that ring. Sharonis Jackson? Did
Speaker 2: I say that right? This is your name?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 5: I say it again?
Speaker 2: Sharon Sharon.
Speaker 5: The spelling doesn't help at all.
Speaker 2: So it's s A.
Speaker 5: Are you in a s? That's that's how they are you?
Speaker 2: Are you Lithuanian? A Lithuanian name? What does it name?
Speaker 5: It means like witty, the fast one? Click on your feet?
Speaker 2: Okay, but why aren't you?
Speaker 5: But you gotta go back a lot.
Speaker 4: My father he named me after there was a professional
Speaker 4: basketball player in the late eighties and he was lithuan
Speaker 4: He is Lithuanian. Sharona's Marshalonis played for the Golden State Warriors.
Speaker 5: For a while. Yeah, good player. Okay.
Speaker 4: My dad was like, man, and my baby brother his
Speaker 4: name is Darius, right, and everyone knows that to be
Speaker 4: a black name, but it's actually Lithuanian as well.
Speaker 5: I just know that my dad named him out Lithuanian
Speaker 5: hockey players.
Speaker 2: Dad is an athlete.
Speaker 5: It just don't happened. It just went like that.
Speaker 4: I don't know, but my dad was like theres because
Speaker 4: the hockey player name was Darius cast Writers And my
Speaker 4: dad was like, I like that to Darius, and he
Speaker 4: was like one, yeah, I was originally supposed to be
Speaker 4: down te but my mom wasn't happening.
Speaker 2: So it's safe to say your dad is a sports fan.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah he was. He was after himself and just
Speaker 5: like you know he growing up. That's just how he is. Yeah,
Speaker 5: my whole friend, that's how it is. The guy that
Speaker 5: all the.
Speaker 3: Boys were just were huge, huge, huge And obviously you
Speaker 3: played football and football.
Speaker 2: Obvious right.
Speaker 4: No, it's funny because like people would never think that, right, yeah,
Speaker 4: basketball idea, but I did play football as well, even
Speaker 4: a little bit of my first in college. But yeah,
Speaker 4: I was.
Speaker 5: I played both sports, but basketball was.
Speaker 3: I know you walked in my house and I was like,
Speaker 3: oh ship, and actually I have kind I've seen you before.
Speaker 3: I saw you at the Insecure Rat party from Afar.
Speaker 2: I didn't say hi.
Speaker 5: I was shy.
Speaker 2: I was being shy and like me had a pearl party.
Speaker 2: I was like, we went about to lock this down.
Speaker 5: She came up to me. I was just like when
Speaker 5: you said, I was like, what the You're a minute
Speaker 5: to play everything together for a minute quick.
Speaker 6: There's going to go really bad or he's going to
Speaker 6: be cool. Well, here we go, Like you there, you
Speaker 6: were stingy.
Speaker 5: Like I was very I saw a very nice soft
Speaker 5: and he.
Speaker 6: Was walking by party in a super Bowl party and
Speaker 6: we it was tentative. This was scheduled tentatively and he
Speaker 6: was like communicating only with Erica. But I conveniently saw
Speaker 6: him at a party on Sunday and I I saw
Speaker 6: him walk by me.
Speaker 2: I'm like, there's no way you're going to get away
Speaker 2: with help. Come over here. Tapped him on the shoulder,
Speaker 2: lit his waist because that's where I come to, right, Yeah,
Speaker 2: timing on shoulders, you have to like jump up there. Hello.
Speaker 2: It's like, hey, are you coming to do to Milson
Speaker 2: Dyls this week?
Speaker 5: Yes? Yes, yeah, okay.
Speaker 2: Talking, I'm very busy. I'm like, well we're very open,
Speaker 2: so right it was.
Speaker 4: Actually perfect because yeah, we haven't communicated since then, I
Speaker 4: don't think so yeah.
Speaker 5: No, we did it.
Speaker 3: Well, I'm locked out of my Instagram and I don't
Speaker 3: have your phone number, so I can't. I can't currently,
Speaker 3: I haven't been on Instagram in like five days, walked.
Speaker 2: Five or six days. I even try to sign in
Speaker 2: for her, they won't send the security I finally got
Speaker 2: something today. I think I got to do it on
Speaker 2: the computer. I don't know.
Speaker 3: I've lost I broke my phone when I got a
Speaker 3: new phone. Then I got locked out of my Instagram
Speaker 3: and then I tried to log.
Speaker 5: In safety reasons.
Speaker 3: Is that what they're doing when they send you a
Speaker 3: verification code, you know, and then but the verification code
Speaker 3: isn't coming, so I can't enter anything.
Speaker 2: So therefore I'm locked up, which is, you know what,
Speaker 2: not so bad because I think been on I need
Speaker 2: I need a cleanse. I need a clean I do that.
Speaker 4: It's too much do yeah, I will purposely like set
Speaker 4: time to you know, or I monitor my inteight.
Speaker 5: I try not. I try not.
Speaker 4: I don't want it to be the first thing I
Speaker 4: do when I wake up, because I call myself doing that.
Speaker 4: And then or like if it's Twitter or Instagram, you know,
Speaker 4: I could I could wake up, really get my phone,
Speaker 4: get into it, and I could be.
Speaker 5: In bed way longer Than'm supposed to be. And I
Speaker 5: don't like doing that. I like being productive. And then
Speaker 5: and sometimes I get get very.
Speaker 4: Social media can irritate you very easily, especially Twitter, just
Speaker 4: because of the ignorance out there. I don't like being
Speaker 4: affected just my social media so pharone stupid.
Speaker 5: But that's how I am. I'm like, why am I
Speaker 5: getting so mad?
Speaker 2: I've been crying, Like you know, I'm angry. I'm like
Speaker 2: the world's horrible, play right right right?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: No, it's important means me to take breaks.
Speaker 3: We'll take I mean because on our Instagram, I'll be like, okay,
Speaker 3: so I'm not doing Instagram this week.
Speaker 2: You have to do it all week, right, because we
Speaker 2: have two instagrams.
Speaker 3: I have that I have to manage and that's my
Speaker 3: personal but also for work and then also this which
Speaker 3: is work.
Speaker 2: So it's like I can't get right now, I have.
Speaker 5: Social media clans. I got it from her.
Speaker 2: I was like, you know what, Yeah, you have to
Speaker 2: do it. And speaking of social media, are your dms
Speaker 2: lit or.
Speaker 5: You know they are?
Speaker 2: I know, I mean, I hear the women are pretty aggressive.
Speaker 2: I know I want to see what I know?
Speaker 6: Can you just like pull up like one am, like
Speaker 6: just just like scroll, like close your eyes and see
Speaker 6: what we get.
Speaker 2: Now.
Speaker 3: So we had man Lathan on right, Oh yeah, okay,
Speaker 3: and he he was showing his Instagram and he was actually,
Speaker 3: he'll say he'll still send us like videos of like
Speaker 3: girls working.
Speaker 2: Lots of water toking. Is that have you gotten that shower?
Speaker 2: A lot of showers turk like in the bath water splashing.
Speaker 4: I don't know if he says something to get these
Speaker 4: girls to do it, but if he don't know how
Speaker 4: he got.
Speaker 5: I've never got a water like a shower. I was thinking,
Speaker 5: like a girl was in the pool, she was making
Speaker 5: a way, but like she was the only one.
Speaker 2: Okay, there was a lot of torks.
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, you know what, Actually I need
Speaker 4: to show you my favorite one I ever got shot
Speaker 4: of that.
Speaker 5: It was very very interesting creative. You need to you
Speaker 5: need to read it. I'll let you guys read it
Speaker 5: aloud to when I get it to.
Speaker 6: You know what, I'm happy got to because I want
Speaker 6: to know, like, what's what's a successful creepy damn?
Speaker 2: Like if I don't know you at all and I'm
Speaker 2: coming out because clearly I'm not good at that.
Speaker 5: You're not You're not good at damning.
Speaker 2: No, lued into someone the celebrities d M because I
Speaker 2: was let me please tell you a little bit how
Speaker 2: it went.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay, I'm listening with just mind, but go ahead,
Speaker 4: go ahead, though, good morning.
Speaker 2: I just woke up and you were on my mind
Speaker 2: and I had a dream about you. I know this
Speaker 2: is a long shot, but America, you seem really cool
Speaker 2: and not just on the surface. First did not think
Speaker 2: any of those things, yo, don't make me fair dream part. Yes,
Speaker 2: I had a dream about you, and I just wanted
Speaker 2: to say I really think like two paragraphs. She actually said.
Speaker 2: I had to tell her the next day.
Speaker 5: You got to forgot keep it short in compact.
Speaker 2: You know, first of all, thank god he never read it.
Speaker 2: We unsent to it. You know that he'll never know.
Speaker 5: Nice were off? Can you tell me who? Oh my god,
Speaker 5: it was Envy, it was Mike, it was so.
Speaker 2: She was so she was so like literally walk up
Speaker 2: that morning. I was like, I'm in love.
Speaker 5: I know, you know, he knows, he said and everything.
Speaker 2: So we be around. But I think you likes white girls.
Speaker 2: So it doesn't matter anyway, my shots.
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna say that's true.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, we don't have to comment on.
Speaker 5: It, but it's just from my my all flavors for sure.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Well, you know maybe he likes the
Speaker 2: milk Choco.
Speaker 5: I guess you know it's funny like so that yeah,
Speaker 5: I guess that is lathing.
Speaker 2: That's not great. So do you notice it as a man?
Speaker 4: What is what? I guess A lot of black like black,
Speaker 4: A lot more black women brought to my attention, not
Speaker 4: that I you know, black women bring it to your
Speaker 4: have brought to my attention.
Speaker 5: That that's how it is. Like, well, because you understand
Speaker 5: from me, like I mean, I just like black women.
Speaker 5: That's just how I am.
Speaker 4: Well you know whatever for mix doesn't matter to me, right,
Speaker 4: but that's how I am. So like in my head,
Speaker 4: I'm I'm just like you know, and then the guys
Speaker 4: like my homeboys whatever they like black women to black women,
Speaker 4: to not all of them, Like I mean, I've seen
Speaker 4: the mess with all like you know what I mean,
Speaker 4: but like there's I guess thinking about it, it's like
Speaker 4: only me.
Speaker 5: And maybe.
Speaker 4: And my big brothers like that, Me and my big
Speaker 4: brother and home boy mind probably the only ones I
Speaker 4: know what we just like that's.
Speaker 5: What does it for us.
Speaker 2: It's really suxy to me because it's a loss.
Speaker 5: It's like a loss which is it's weird wow to
Speaker 5: me because everybody knows. I don't care what.
Speaker 4: No, I don't care if you're racist, for everyone knows
Speaker 4: that honestly, Like look all of our you know, be whatever.
Speaker 5: All women are.
Speaker 4: Beautiful, but black women are sexy, saying ever like touch
Speaker 4: this planet like that, like that's not even a secret.
Speaker 6: And then you came from a black woman. So that's
Speaker 6: like I have so many homeboys you're like, no, I'm
Speaker 6: fucking black. They say this to me like y'all be
Speaker 6: this y'all.
Speaker 2: I'm like, but you came from a blackgel guys.
Speaker 4: Anytime I'm like, I've always told them, even if it's
Speaker 4: like it's funny because like I know that I would
Speaker 4: never have a close home wood would say that, right,
Speaker 4: even if they're like if they have a white girlfriend now,
Speaker 4: they would not say I don't black girls. They would
Speaker 4: not say that because they have right and you know,
Speaker 4: they just don't happen to end with a white or
Speaker 4: Asian girl whatever it is.
Speaker 5: But anytime i've I've always like, I just it's just
Speaker 5: that's the lame as fun.
Speaker 2: That's super you know what to me's who you love.
Speaker 2: But when you write people off, yeah, I'm.
Speaker 6: Like, particularly when it's your own race, it's like, first
Speaker 6: of all, you're kind of ignorant, you hate, you have
Speaker 6: self hate issues.
Speaker 2: That you don't realize it. Yeah, yeah, absolutely, and I
Speaker 2: think you're dumb. And then I can't funk with you.
Speaker 4: See, to me, I'll give a good reason, like okay,
Speaker 4: so for me, like it's not that you know, like
Speaker 4: I don't like white women or anything like that. I
Speaker 4: just know that for me to end up with women
Speaker 4: like like have be married and have kids or something
Speaker 4: like that, there's a couple of you go into it
Speaker 4: like I don't. I don't have a lot of patience
Speaker 4: to break down.
Speaker 2: Why explain happened to me? Explained?
Speaker 4: And they're like, well, because I'm talking about I'll talk
Speaker 4: about this. I have like my best friend right like
Speaker 4: he's with he's with her. She's majority. Why she's like,
Speaker 4: you know, seventy five percent right quarter of Japanese, right
Speaker 4: basically white. That's what she had been with anyway, And
Speaker 4: a lot of times it's like she likes to come back,
Speaker 4: you know, she doesn't want it to be about race.
Speaker 4: I'm like, of course it's not for you, and her
Speaker 4: experience where she's from is white, and like she just
Speaker 4: doesn't get like, you know, I'm like, yo, we've lived
Speaker 4: our home.
Speaker 5: And I'm like, no, y'all make just now, holding y'all accountable.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm like yeah, but like and it's just and
Speaker 4: I know for me because and it's crazy because my
Speaker 4: homeboys like me, and he's all like he gets so
Speaker 4: frustrated something I'm see me. I was like, this would
Speaker 4: have like by it, Like if this came up in
Speaker 4: the first day or second day. As soon as I
Speaker 4: would have heard like saying something, I would have be like,
Speaker 4: this is not continuing at all. But you know, I mean, like,
Speaker 4: don't get wrong. I was like, yeah, like look, there's
Speaker 4: this ignorance out there.
Speaker 5: Whatever. She's like the one of the sweetest people you
Speaker 5: ever meet in your life's ignorance. She's like, you know,
Speaker 5: it's not what we.
Speaker 2: It's her experience. She doesn't understand because and she'll never will.
Speaker 5: She never feels pos is right now, can you read
Speaker 5: this out loud for me?
Speaker 2: Oh my guys, it's the damn Okay, so this is
Speaker 2: the d she's kept a short.
Speaker 5: Yes.
Speaker 3: I don't usually do groupy things like this, but I
Speaker 3: saw your interview on Hollywood Unlocked.
Speaker 2: You are a freak freak. I don't want to fuck
Speaker 2: a girl and nobody.
Speaker 5: Yeah, let her her, let her get it out, let
Speaker 5: her go. I don't.
Speaker 2: No way, shit, you're a freak freak. I don't want
Speaker 2: to fuck a girl with no legs and a big
Speaker 2: booty hit me up, nothing to get in the way.
Speaker 5: I went to her Instagram to confirm this something.
Speaker 2: Wait, what did I do?
Speaker 5: Okay, Yeah, I went. I went to Instagram and she
Speaker 5: has no legs. I mean I was a part of
Speaker 5: me liked that. I was like, yeah, girl like I
Speaker 5: don't care like shot at me. I like that. I
Speaker 5: need to get in nothing way. I was like, you
Speaker 5: got a boy, It's just I'm just.
Speaker 2: You know it.
Speaker 5: Anywhere I could literally just do like this file driving.
Speaker 5: Sorry I don't. Yeah, so shout out to Jess. You're
Speaker 5: not No, I'm not gonna saying that.
Speaker 4: Her name was generic enough for me to say that,
Speaker 4: but yeah I got that. No, that's just because you see,
Speaker 4: I didn't allow her to climate like I just so
Speaker 4: I can say this my favorite. Matter of fact, I
Speaker 4: don't lose it. But yeah, that was one of my favorites.
Speaker 4: That one was let me see it has a date
Speaker 4: on here this I'd have been like too much.
Speaker 5: Yeah, what did you say?
Speaker 2: Did you mention like girls with like like I never
Speaker 2: did that.
Speaker 5: I never mentioned that, and just all I did was
Speaker 5: I mean, they asked me questions.
Speaker 4: I answered honestly, like it's hard for me now I'm
Speaker 4: can't like I'm just unapologetically it's hard.
Speaker 5: For me not to be you know what I mean
Speaker 5: and be honest. I'm just very very you know, blunt
Speaker 5: with things.
Speaker 4: And I know I think they asked about certain like
Speaker 4: one of my most like most fun sexual experiences or
Speaker 4: something like that, or role play stuff and.
Speaker 2: Not give examples.
Speaker 5: I mean, I'm into it.
Speaker 4: I've only I've only done it really once or twice.
Speaker 4: Get Yeah, so like yeah, So I talked about that
Speaker 4: and then just certain things I like whatever or you know,
Speaker 4: but you go to role, my go to role, like
Speaker 4: in that experience. Well, since I since I've only done
Speaker 4: a couple of times, I liked. What got me into
Speaker 4: it was it was a girl I was messing with
Speaker 4: and well, no, actually, have we had sex yet? No,
Speaker 4: we hadn't had sex yet, but we had fooled around,
Speaker 4: We've done stuff. We just didn't have sex yet, right,
Speaker 4: And so.
Speaker 5: We were talking.
Speaker 4: We you know, it wasn't nothing serious, but we you know,
Speaker 4: we knew it was gonna happen. And so she was
Speaker 4: talking about going to some party, like a function. It
Speaker 4: was like a like a house party, mansion party type
Speaker 4: of thing, and she was.
Speaker 5: She's I was all, yeah, what what are you doing tonight?
Speaker 5: And she brought that up.
Speaker 4: She said, yeah, I'm actually like, I guess you could
Speaker 4: say it's kind of the day. She's like, I don't know,
Speaker 4: he's whatever, I'm not really like it. I just said
Speaker 4: I just decided to go. I knew some people were
Speaker 4: gonna be there, thought to be fun. And then I
Speaker 4: was like okay, and then we started joking around about
Speaker 4: I'm gonna go and I'm just like, you know, just
Speaker 4: act like you don't don't mean you know, I don't
Speaker 4: know you that whole type of thing, right.
Speaker 5: But then it just evolved into it like yeah, like
Speaker 5: it being okay.
Speaker 4: So like when we were strangers, we're complete strangers, you
Speaker 4: know damn Like you know, we catch each other's out
Speaker 4: of the party, you know, we're attracted to one another.
Speaker 4: She's there with somebody, and I take her from her
Speaker 4: man and I take her home whatever or not at home.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry. We like there at the party we went to,
Speaker 4: like it was a really nice house. It was like
Speaker 4: this this kid's room and he had a bathroom. Of
Speaker 4: the kids room had a bathroom.
Speaker 5: So we went in there. We did that, and then
Speaker 5: we act like nothing happened.
Speaker 4: When we leave, it will come out whatever, and then
Speaker 4: we just like go about our business, perfect perfect strangers.
Speaker 5: And I was just like I got really into that ship.
Speaker 2: I was like, wow, this is yeah, I like this.
Speaker 5: Writes down. Don't know exactly exactly I played one time,
Speaker 5: I want to be so bad. I want to do
Speaker 5: that so bad, one of my favorite porn videos to
Speaker 5: this house.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know that's.
Speaker 4: Especially the other terminology right now, in fact, I make
Speaker 4: it more than they take as possible.
Speaker 5: I needed, you know, I needed.
Speaker 2: The market is plummeting. It's very timing fast all in.
Speaker 4: Because my favorite one I remember, she was like she's
Speaker 4: like what she said something where she was like the
Speaker 4: guy's like, I mean, yeah, it's nice.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 4: Just she's like, well, I mean like she's like, well
Speaker 4: just seem you know, you get get like everything that comes.
Speaker 6: With the house, right and everything, everything that's in here
Speaker 6: right now yours.
Speaker 7: That's how she I was like, in here is yours
Speaker 7: real estate, Michaels, that's the point of Michael.
Speaker 2: That's a poorn you like, that's the porn I like.
Speaker 5: I was like, I'm into this.
Speaker 6: The only thing about playing in real play is like
Speaker 6: I don't like, don't start and then try and get
Speaker 6: out of character.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it really.
Speaker 2: Too.
Speaker 5: I will call it cut, cut, cut, We're gonna do
Speaker 5: this again. I will get fast. If you're just like laughing,
Speaker 5: don't laugh at me.
Speaker 2: Do you have any like porn stars that you like specifically?
Speaker 2: You don't watch for though when you search.
Speaker 4: Who do you like?
Speaker 5: What I used to?
Speaker 2: You don't watch anymore.
Speaker 4: You've retired not as much yeah, because like with guys,
Speaker 4: this is a real thing. If you watch too much,
Speaker 4: when you get down to it, man, your deck won't
Speaker 4: get as hard because you like, yeah, it's like now
Speaker 4: is it because visually you're getting used to certain things,
Speaker 4: you're not gonna get those same visuals or angles. It does,
Speaker 4: it does, it does, It's amazing whatever in the or whatever. Yeah,
Speaker 4: and so like it doesn't ruin sex. But for me
Speaker 4: I noticed, like like when I was watching a lot
Speaker 4: whatever and you know, yan and cranky, I would like,
Speaker 4: let's just say I didn't do it for a week,
Speaker 4: and then the next time I have sex, like I
Speaker 4: was ready to go, like I was a bone, but
Speaker 4: like if I was like not that I wasn't ready
Speaker 4: to go, but sometimes I could I could sense that.
Speaker 2: You know, yes, you know I'm like that part.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I believe that.
Speaker 3: I think it makes I think especially for like maybe
Speaker 3: young boys too, who like don't are just getting into sex,
Speaker 3: Like I feel like they have unrealistic expectations.
Speaker 4: Of what sex is like absolutely, you know, absolutely and
Speaker 4: like see because and it glorifies in a certain way.
Speaker 4: And I mean like look like sex is great and everything,
Speaker 4: of course, but like when they're over glorified like that
Speaker 4: and these unrealistic situations and and these women is like
Speaker 4: they now like all these guys want they girls have
Speaker 4: natural w d's and the fat ass and whatever all
Speaker 4: this stuff, like they like whatever they're looking at, whatever
Speaker 4: they're into, or they're always looking up certain things, like
Speaker 4: you know for a while, like yeah, for like whatever,
Speaker 4: if it was anything that had to be work related,
Speaker 4: like if you're on a professional.
Speaker 5: Senate or something like that, I was just like, okay,
Speaker 5: or the step.
Speaker 2: Mom step one, I'm like, something wrong with me, but
Speaker 2: like I'm.
Speaker 4: Not gonna get that situation and stuff, and so like
Speaker 4: you as excited for something, I'm like, that's that's yeah,
Speaker 4: that was way. So I remember I just randomly saw
Speaker 4: like I mean, I just heard this clip I think
Speaker 4: I want it might have been on TV, but a
Speaker 4: dude was talking about what's talking about that. I was like,
Speaker 4: and I'm just remember.
Speaker 5: Clicking to me. I was like, oh wow, like you
Speaker 5: know yeah, so so like if I do do it
Speaker 5: now see to me?
Speaker 4: You know what I prefer is if like if you know,
Speaker 4: like we have an experience and it's like okay, we
Speaker 4: record our experience.
Speaker 8: I'd rather have my own your own real life experience
Speaker 8: because my person I'm not even gonna be in it
Speaker 8: like that as coming from pod so I like, you can't.
Speaker 2: Afford you gotta keep you gotta keep the video.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I'm like, no, this is I ain't getting
Speaker 5: sent to you can watch it with me.
Speaker 2: But yeah, so I think, well for me like to.
Speaker 3: Answer my own question about my favorite porn stars, Oh yeah,
Speaker 3: I all my favorite porn stars are like not making
Speaker 3: as many not making many videos.
Speaker 2: I don't like, Like I go and look up Alexis
Speaker 2: Texas and I'm like, bitch, where are you really?
Speaker 5: Like I've seen all her anymore?
Speaker 4: After like after her what she says, what she said,
Speaker 4: but you know, because you see she's never had sex
Speaker 4: with black man.
Speaker 2: Right is she black?
Speaker 5: She's white?
Speaker 2: Like I just like a huge ass.
Speaker 5: That's the thing for me to pog POGs what's POGs?
Speaker 5: Fat ass white woman?
Speaker 2: What is it?
Speaker 5: What is the g A T? I mean girl, fat
Speaker 5: as a white girl? Fat p h A T asked
Speaker 5: a white w J girl.
Speaker 4: Right now?
Speaker 2: Fat oog p.
Speaker 5: A w G fat ass white girl.
Speaker 2: Oh, it wasn't about it wasn't about who she was sucking.
Speaker 5: It was about her, but she has a fast yes
Speaker 5: and in Israel pog was a was a was a
Speaker 5: good Oay.
Speaker 2: Well, now that I know she said something, she said.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like she doesn't have some black guys because of
Speaker 4: her her like her supporters, her because her.
Speaker 6: Herb clientele doesn't like it, or like her fan base
Speaker 6: wouldn't like that.
Speaker 5: She says, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I mean she's canceled. Jesus very jes it is. We
Speaker 2: learned from King and Jasmine.
Speaker 5: That's why I only I mainly watched.
Speaker 3: Well, there's not a lot of black porns that are
Speaker 3: like showing black people making love. It's always like very
Speaker 3: like aggressive.
Speaker 4: I don't like, man, what you can say whatever, Man,
Speaker 4: the niggasn't and porn life sometimes man, they just it's
Speaker 4: like sometimes I ruin it from him and shut the
Speaker 4: fuck up man talking to Yeah.
Speaker 5: I like yeah, because it's something I like the girl
Speaker 5: and nigga. The way he talking, I'm like.
Speaker 2: Jordan's naked like sugar feet. Oh here, okay, well and
Speaker 2: I'm about porn.
Speaker 3: I actually, So we play this little game sometimes with
Speaker 3: guests to get to know them better. It's called Trigger,
Speaker 3: and basically we're going to ask you we're gonna say
Speaker 3: a word. You have to say the first thing that
Speaker 3: comes to your mind, and we're gonna go really fast,
Speaker 3: so you have to try to just answer quickly.
Speaker 2: So you ready, Yeah, Okay, here we go. Where's my
Speaker 2: trigger list?
Speaker 9: L a.
Speaker 2: Work, travel, fun, basketball.
Speaker 4: Passion, toes, suck them some trash, love, nice.
Speaker 3: Thong or panties, Hate what you said? Hate strong curlier,
Speaker 3: straight curly insecurity.
Speaker 5: My back, your back?
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know I have scars from high school. I
Speaker 4: broke out on my back. A lot, nice trash this year.
Speaker 2: Period sucks down, Michelle Obahama, It's gorgeous. The Valley far
Speaker 2: I knew that was gonna be it. Monogamy possible, black history, but.
Speaker 5: Oh man, I.
Speaker 2: Love McDonald's.
Speaker 3: Taco Bell threesome Yes, fake ass, Nope, The Kardashians, vultures,
Speaker 3: black women, gods, white women.
Speaker 5: Oh man, Jesus Christ. Yeah, white women is one word, right,
Speaker 5: that's okay? White women?
Speaker 2: Slow, favorite color? Black favorite food?
Speaker 5: Food? Wow, favorite food. We'll go with.
Speaker 4: We'll go with.
Speaker 5: One Korean skirt steak, I.
Speaker 3: Will Henry Henry, Okay, the shade room, the shade room,
Speaker 3: garbage CARDI me.
Speaker 5: You mean, oh fine, Drake or jay z shit. Okay, Drake,
Speaker 5: but it's not easy, all right, I'm saying Drake though.
Speaker 2: Lebron goat zodiac sign, pisces age.
Speaker 4: Twenty eight, strippers, waste of time, sorry, breastfeeding yes, healthy, healthy.
Speaker 2: Harry.
Speaker 5: Whatever man crush man crush Wow. Can't tell you who
Speaker 5: used to be used to be Paul Walker before he passed.
Speaker 10: No currently Lebron favorite body part on me mm hmm, shoulders,
Speaker 10: dream job doing it.
Speaker 2: It's a love crush.
Speaker 5: Tessa Thompson m m m m.
Speaker 2: Racism, ignorant, lover, money, love, baby mama one inspiration.
Speaker 4: Black people, black culture, flaw, impatient, single mom, come here, oh.
Speaker 3: Oh, subjective black China, sorry, garbage, favorite favorite fatherhood.
Speaker 5: Blessing, dassie, that'll do pretty good.
Speaker 2: Well yeah, really, what did you say to single mom?
Speaker 5: Come here, come here, get it too?
Speaker 3: So you're not scared of a single another of a
Speaker 3: woman like previous to you having a child, would you
Speaker 3: have dated a woman with a child?
Speaker 2: Would you? Would you have avoided?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Okay, there was an age before after twenty five or
Speaker 4: twenty six is when I was like, you know what,
Speaker 4: it was too many amazing people in my life who
Speaker 4: had kids, you know, and you're not wasn't that it
Speaker 4: was just like you know what though, like, don't get
Speaker 4: me wrong, there's definitely situations where I'm like, I don't
Speaker 4: want to be a part of that, but the sole
Speaker 4: fact of them having a child, like you know, it's
Speaker 4: just I wouldn't base it off that. It has to
Speaker 4: be the situation that's attached to it where I make
Speaker 4: my decision if I'm like, oh, yeah, I fuck with.
Speaker 5: That or not, you know what I mean.
Speaker 4: So that's why I am can be like, yeah, it
Speaker 4: can be too crazy the situation for me to adopt,
Speaker 4: you know, because now I'm tied into that. People could
Speaker 4: be like, no, it's not just like that is my business,
Speaker 4: especially like into me. I'm a protector too, like just
Speaker 4: natural as I've always been. And like say, like my
Speaker 4: woman as a child by another man, and this nigga's
Speaker 4: disrespectful at some point, like you got to see me, bro,
Speaker 4: Like that's that.
Speaker 5: I don't play none of that, you know what I mean.
Speaker 4: So like I don't you know, and I don't want
Speaker 4: to see the woman I'm with, like you know, someone
Speaker 4: a nigg in the stress and.
Speaker 5: This isn't that.
Speaker 4: And also I'm very and also like it could cause
Speaker 4: problems too because I will tell my woman straight up like, yo,
Speaker 4: you're being very very inappropriate about the situation. You're being wrong.
Speaker 4: I will tell a woman she's being wrong towards a
Speaker 4: man too, and that can cause easy like you know,
Speaker 4: because some women want you to be on nice side
Speaker 4: all the time. Not just women, I'm sorry, people, some
Speaker 4: people just like want you to be on this side
Speaker 4: all the time. And I'm like, nah, I will I
Speaker 4: hold people accountable no matter who you are.
Speaker 5: You can be my mom and I'm black women, you're fair. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 5: I think so.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Do you think I mean, was fatherhood for you unexpected?
Speaker 5: Like really unexpected?
Speaker 4: I definitely wanted, you know, And I remember I always
Speaker 4: like said, you know, obviously as you go through life,
Speaker 4: clans change, but like you know, I always wanted a
Speaker 4: child before thirty.
Speaker 5: The circumstances were just different than what I thought they
Speaker 5: would be.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you and did you think that is it
Speaker 2: what you thought it would be? Is it harder? Is
Speaker 2: it easier?
Speaker 4: Is it it's okay, it's not as hard as I
Speaker 4: thought it would be. It's not easy, but it's not
Speaker 4: as hard as I thought it would be m I
Speaker 4: don't know why.
Speaker 5: I I don't know.
Speaker 4: Maybe just from when you talk to people, it just
Speaker 4: seems like some people like make it seem like it's
Speaker 4: this is like I don't know the hardest thing now,
Speaker 4: mind you. You know, I'm very I'm very comfortable in
Speaker 4: my life. So like that's a stress that I don't
Speaker 4: have to think about that a lot of people have
Speaker 4: to think about, especially when they add a child to
Speaker 4: the situation.
Speaker 2: You know, it also helps if you get along with.
Speaker 5: Does it really does? And honestly, like I think people
Speaker 5: have this well.
Speaker 4: I well, first of all, a lot of people don't
Speaker 4: necessarily know like my situation and the mother of my
Speaker 4: child situation, just because you know, they get like just
Speaker 4: wrong facts from such as the shape room stuff like that.
Speaker 4: But like we weren't romantically involved and we weren't dating
Speaker 4: or together, And honestly, that kind of helps our situation
Speaker 4: in a sense because there's there's no bad history to
Speaker 4: go off of.
Speaker 5: There's nothing toxic holding is bad.
Speaker 2: You guys were friends like having fun.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so like we just so happened to conceive and
Speaker 5: now like honestly.
Speaker 4: Like I'll hang out with I'll hang out with Dominique,
Speaker 4: and that's the mother my child named Dominique and my
Speaker 4: and my daughter's in Well we'll be hanging out whatever,
Speaker 4: and we're laughing a lot of the all the time,
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. I don't like I'm really lucky,
Speaker 4: Like I don't have a situation where it's just like
Speaker 4: like obviously no, don't get me wrong, Like do we
Speaker 4: have disagreements. Yes, you know, there's like we're normal. You know,
Speaker 4: there's there's things about it that's like, you know, could
Speaker 4: be frustrating at times, especially at the beginning, but like now,
Speaker 4: you know, just we're so easy with one another. And she,
Speaker 4: I mean, like especially with her, like you know, she's
Speaker 4: made it easy for me and you know, we just
Speaker 4: talking stuff and yeah, that's fine, that's why or whatever.
Speaker 5: You know, she doesn't ask if anything. I don't ask
Speaker 5: if anything.
Speaker 6: Cool because I don't know what that's I don't know
Speaker 6: what's like to nat with somebody.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess that that's the problem most of the time.
Speaker 2: Because how long did you guys or like know each
Speaker 2: other before you guys.
Speaker 4: Had we had the baby, And see if that was
Speaker 4: because you guys met on the show and that's.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Yeah, so we probably almost to year known each.
Speaker 2: Other almost, which is like you don't really know that
Speaker 2: person at that point. Fully, So you got lucky if
Speaker 2: you guys know exactly.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we do vibe now, don't get me wrong, Like
Speaker 5: there are certain things because you.
Speaker 2: Know, you're still getting to know each other.
Speaker 4: Yeah, when when you're getting to know someone, and I
Speaker 4: mean for the most part, we we know for the
Speaker 4: most part of one another. There's just I know, there's
Speaker 4: certain things that we just don't dive into because we
Speaker 4: won't agree on things like that. And yeah, there's certain
Speaker 4: maybe ways that she thinks in the ways I think
Speaker 4: is just like different.
Speaker 5: Yeah. So but the most important thing is that we're very.
Speaker 4: Understanding the patient with one another, and she's patient of me,
Speaker 4: you know, I getting patient like something that says a flaw.
Speaker 5: And we you know, zen's are priority, you know.
Speaker 4: So it's so tough, like you know, yeah, well that's
Speaker 4: common sense, we would think, you know, but a lot
Speaker 4: of people don't make it about the kid.
Speaker 2: And that's where it But that's because there's other things
Speaker 2: they're making That's what.
Speaker 4: I'm saying, and that but it's so sad that after
Speaker 4: child's expense, you know what I mean, it's just like
Speaker 4: it's just like yo, like this, it's it's just selfishness.
Speaker 4: You know that that ends up ruining a lot of
Speaker 4: things in a relationship with what could be good, like
Speaker 4: it'd be so nice you know for you know, for
Speaker 4: people if you know, hurt people, hurt people, we don't
Speaker 4: know that and stuff. So like, but moving forwards, like
Speaker 4: if people can just embrace the past, you know it's
Speaker 4: the past, and that they can sit down with one
Speaker 4: another and moving forward, it's just like, you know, like
Speaker 4: let's keep a positive for the child.
Speaker 5: But you know, it's way easier.
Speaker 4: Said than that.
Speaker 3: It's just like, man, no, for sure, I mean it
Speaker 3: in my situation with my like my dad is when
Speaker 3: my mom and my dad broke up before I was born,
Speaker 3: and my dad made my was not cool with my
Speaker 3: mom and just made it ill and it affected me,
Speaker 3: you know, And I think that's why I think that's
Speaker 3: why I make such a it's such a priority for
Speaker 3: me to always make sure even if me and her
Speaker 3: father are not getting along, which we go, we have
Speaker 3: really great moments and then we have not so great moments,
Speaker 3: but at the but it's always about her, you know
Speaker 3: what I mean, no matter for a fighting, I don't
Speaker 3: give a fuck. You can take her, go take her,
Speaker 3: it's fine. I will never keep your child away from her.
Speaker 3: Like I'll always invite you to whatever I think. You know,
Speaker 3: she is appropriate as long as it's not going to
Speaker 3: trigger us and we're not gonna act a fool in
Speaker 3: front of her, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: Sometimes, yeah, we probably shouldn't go to karate class this
Speaker 2: week together. You know, I'll take her to karate class
Speaker 2: this week, you take her next. She's cool, it's all right, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: but yeah, you know it should be that simple, but
Speaker 2: it's it's it can be. It can be tricky, and
Speaker 2: so that's amazing that you have that experience with her.
Speaker 5: I mean, and like I think it was, like I just.
Speaker 4: I just found I just took a great responsibility because
Speaker 4: I mean, you know, man, man, we could be so
Speaker 4: egotistical and just like very selfish, and we're just taught
Speaker 4: a lot of toxic way he's growing up, you know,
Speaker 4: as a boy, and it doesn't help with expressing your
Speaker 4: emotions or your feelings.
Speaker 6: Clearly, because trying to to do that, you don't right exactly,
Speaker 6: and then you're raging and that and that's.
Speaker 4: Where your explode, which is how I used to be.
Speaker 4: Like anger is is an emotion that I can channel
Speaker 4: very easy. Like man, you know, filming, if it's the
Speaker 4: same where it's anger, I'm like, okay, I'm not.
Speaker 5: Even working hard. Let me get w I'm scary.
Speaker 4: You know. Sometimes we're like WHOA. So I was actually
Speaker 4: lucky with him with my father. He my dad, my
Speaker 4: dad six seven, three hundred plus pounds, big guy. But
Speaker 4: he didn't like I mean, there would have been there
Speaker 4: certain times, but he didn't really you know, I could
Speaker 4: cry during a movie or something like that, and it
Speaker 4: was fine, Like he let me do that. He would
Speaker 4: cry in front of me if you saw something touching.
Speaker 4: So I saw that like I'll see him tear up.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 4: Now there were certain certain situations that he might have
Speaker 4: told me that whatever, and you know I was able
Speaker 4: to you know, but to still have like that there
Speaker 4: was like maybe a little balance of it. But to
Speaker 4: still have that with my I think that helped me
Speaker 4: to be like the man I am Dad. Well my
Speaker 4: brothers too, you know, me and my brother we could
Speaker 4: we could be very vulnerable on one another.
Speaker 2: Man, we're very very healthy.
Speaker 4: It is you know what I mean, and you would
Speaker 4: think because I mean, look the shortest you know man
Speaker 4: in my in my immediate family. I mean my baby
Speaker 4: brother is my baby brother.
Speaker 2: He's six six you know, no giant, right giants.
Speaker 5: My oldest brother is six six and a half, you.
Speaker 2: Know, supermodel or something.
Speaker 5: I want to be a director, but whatever, like you know,
Speaker 5: but yeah, so like just.
Speaker 4: You know, with my brothers, you know, we could we
Speaker 4: could express you know, I mean, you know, obviously gonna
Speaker 4: be time with we how to just I just think
Speaker 4: society as a whole will teacher you know, kind of
Speaker 4: does that to us, especially black men. But yeah, we
Speaker 4: uh we we we're very we communicate very well. And
Speaker 4: I think that definitely helped me with like situations like this.
Speaker 4: So with like, you know, I took a you know,
Speaker 4: I told myself, you know, just be very patience with
Speaker 4: the mother and my child. Be communicate with her, you know,
Speaker 4: show put the effort into it. Try hard not to
Speaker 4: you know, even if you're disagreeing, to not make it
Speaker 4: something like just like you know, disagree whatever, and also
Speaker 4: be fine with that that you're going to disagree with
Speaker 4: things and just and that's gonna be that, you know,
Speaker 4: and you know, luckily she's been very like.
Speaker 5: You know, open, and.
Speaker 4: You know, even if she's messed up in certain situations
Speaker 4: like okay, like I understand. I knew, like the fresh year,
Speaker 4: it's gonna.
Speaker 5: Be hard for the for the mother to separate from
Speaker 5: her child. So I knew that.
Speaker 4: I'm just like you know, there's times where you know,
Speaker 4: I want to have my daughter just with me from
Speaker 4: from for my own time. I want her to not
Speaker 4: to be dependent on having her mama around time. I
Speaker 4: know she's very young now, but I just want to
Speaker 4: start the habit you know early.
Speaker 5: Not Yeah, I know it's important, Yeah, I mean no,
Speaker 5: That's why I was like, look as much as.
Speaker 2: Don't call me, let's the buildings on fire right right, No,
Speaker 2: but you know what, I can relate to that too though.
Speaker 3: And even though like her father lived, we were together,
Speaker 3: we were together during that whole like first two years
Speaker 3: and or like no two years, but and even sometimes
Speaker 3: like even him being around, like he would want her,
Speaker 3: but she would cry when she was with him. I
Speaker 3: just get rid of me, Like I wouldn't even let
Speaker 3: him try because I would just I would just be
Speaker 3: so annoyed, and I just wanted to stop.
Speaker 2: That's not fair though, No, it's not it's not fair.
Speaker 2: It's absolutely not fair. What this has to be centered
Speaker 2: because there's still a situation. There's multiple situations happening here.
Speaker 2: We need to be aware of it. Scoot out.
Speaker 4: Sorry, that's all good.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was apologizing to the listeners for having the
Speaker 2: yellow air. She was yelling at me. Yeah, that's not
Speaker 2: right either. I know that's not right.
Speaker 3: I'm just saying that, Like I think as women sometimes
Speaker 3: have babies, like I mean, it's so attached, we can't
Speaker 3: it happens naturally, honestly.
Speaker 5: Yeah, like I said, I understand me.
Speaker 6: I didn't birth, but that's why, you know what it's
Speaker 6: for me, it was more important because I breast been
Speaker 6: for four thousand.
Speaker 2: Years, but it was also it was also more more
Speaker 2: important that I did carry her. So like here you go,
Speaker 2: it's time for you.
Speaker 6: I'm like, take that shirt offs, like because yeah, I
Speaker 6: read about that, like it's important for the for the
Speaker 6: for the fathers to have that bond too, and like
Speaker 6: early because so so.
Speaker 2: Much we think mom mo mom, but we carried them already.
Speaker 6: They've been inside us and we sometimes you breastfeed and
Speaker 6: you know there's generally that mom thing anyway, But I
Speaker 6: think a lot of times we make that habit too,
Speaker 6: because I was very aware to be like balanced and
Speaker 6: like here you go because it's fifty to fifty. That
Speaker 6: doesn't happen too often though, But I think because.
Speaker 2: That Luna wasn't. I mean, she is very mommy, but
Speaker 2: she'll be like daddy too.
Speaker 7: Like sometimes even now should be like, oh, I want
Speaker 7: to see at daddy's house and I'm like, why, I'll
Speaker 7: see you tomorrow, I think, But.
Speaker 3: I think also maybe like maybe it's because I think
Speaker 3: as women, we are preparing for child, like to have
Speaker 3: a child for nine months, we literally have all this
Speaker 3: time prepare where guys are checking in, but they could.
Speaker 2: Leave and like forget about it, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: And so I think once you have the baby.
Speaker 3: That you've carried and like you know, given birth to,
Speaker 3: and then you're going to give it to someone, and
Speaker 3: you guys were not together. Not saying this is okay,
Speaker 3: but I'm saying you guys were together. She was like
Speaker 3: does he even know what like how to care for her?
Speaker 2: Like is she do you know she has to change
Speaker 2: her diaper when the line turns blue?
Speaker 3: Do you know like she needs to eat every three
Speaker 3: I don't forget, and that's not fair that she wasn't
Speaker 3: going to give you the opportunity, but probably.
Speaker 5: Yeah told me like she would be like I need
Speaker 5: to know that she's this isn't it. But I'm like, yo, like.
Speaker 4: Like and these and these moments like you know where
Speaker 4: we where we were, we we would disagree or something
Speaker 4: like that.
Speaker 5: I might look like like, this is your first child too,
Speaker 5: you know what I mean?
Speaker 4: Like you like, I'm like to me and honestly, like
Speaker 4: in life, you know, I mean, it's not just for her,
Speaker 4: but I just feel I'm like, look, I feel like
Speaker 4: you know, I've been before the child leading up to this,
Speaker 4: I've handled my business like I'm more mature than you this,
Speaker 4: So how do I am I supposed to just trust
Speaker 4: you that you like you talk about me. I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 4: so I'm like, you know, I was just you know,
Speaker 4: this would be things I said. You know, I'm like,
Speaker 4: look like I said, unless you're breastfeeding, like now she
Speaker 4: needs us equally. You had the one up on me
Speaker 4: for a little bit first. But what's happening. You know,
Speaker 4: it happens, you know what I'm saying. So I know
Speaker 4: how to do this too, you know to you know
Speaker 4: what I'm saying, do this. I know, I like you whatever,
Speaker 4: I know all that.
Speaker 5: Exactly. I know I changed. I'll give her back all
Speaker 5: that on top of that.
Speaker 4: Like I've had cousins, you know, I've always called my
Speaker 4: cousin's kids my nephews or you know, and I have
Speaker 4: my practiced with them like changing. I was gonna have
Speaker 4: my own some day. So let me start knowing this.
Speaker 4: You know I got it in early whatever.
Speaker 2: But so you.
Speaker 5: Changedpers Yeah yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: Did you watch your baby be born?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: How's that for you?
Speaker 5: She had a seat session seat session.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I later start her inside good pull.
Speaker 2: Now you know people miss this. People really don't know.
Speaker 2: I tell people this like you do. Realize your intestines
Speaker 2: are coming out of the video. They let you a
Speaker 2: lot of times. They won't let you. They left Friday.
Speaker 2: They encouraged it. They're like, take your car Friday video.
Speaker 5: But I didn't record that. I have a week tim me.
Speaker 5: So I got behind it.
Speaker 2: No, it wasn't all. But you didn't see that. You
Speaker 2: didn't see this.
Speaker 4: Well, the thing is, I don't think they knew how
Speaker 4: tall I was. I walked in like, you know, it's high,
Speaker 4: but I all picked over. I was like ship out,
Speaker 4: like I was like, let me not d I was like,
Speaker 4: because she's right here, I was.
Speaker 5: Like, oh, what the fuck? She's dropped up though, so
Speaker 5: she's like.
Speaker 2: Is it bad?
Speaker 5: I was like, cut she was she you know. And
Speaker 5: then and then man, it was crazy, like what the fun?
Speaker 4: Then they pulled in out right and and look, my
Speaker 4: baby she's first of all, I was spoiled.
Speaker 5: She doesn't cry, she sleeps through the night. She's just
Speaker 5: like a good baby, you know what I mean.
Speaker 4: Like I chill her like I don't know if you
Speaker 4: look at my story, like I'm just chilling her. I
Speaker 4: have her, you know, my baby's a little trap, you know.
Speaker 4: I have her in there, and she's just like you know,
Speaker 4: she's just there. Yeah, and you can handle it. If
Speaker 4: I hand her to you right now, then she'd just
Speaker 4: be like, you know, she won't cry, so like, no,
Speaker 4: just wait till.
Speaker 5: My thing is later right at some point, But she's
Speaker 5: doing that now to be hitting me.
Speaker 4: Hit me.
Speaker 5: I'm a little.
Speaker 2: But I'm not a cheesecake factory. Though, I'd be like,
Speaker 2: it's only white right right.
Speaker 4: You yeah, Like, yeah, I'm enjoying these times until when
Speaker 4: they become their own little person.
Speaker 2: My child is white, goddamn valley, right, so I'm in
Speaker 2: the valley water.
Speaker 5: But I was gonna say she didn't. She didn't cry
Speaker 5: when she came out right.
Speaker 4: At first, like you know, scary it was so I
Speaker 4: was like hell, I was like this thing on, but
Speaker 4: like and the dominicque was like, I don't hear anything.
Speaker 4: I was likely she's good because I didn't see the
Speaker 4: doctor's panicing.
Speaker 2: Like must be fine.
Speaker 5: It could be cool, it's cool.
Speaker 4: And I heard then I heard going like like I
Speaker 4: was like, yeah, okay, okay, yeah, I didn't like I
Speaker 4: was just kind of like whoa.
Speaker 5: I was like, this is crazy, it's surreal.
Speaker 4: I was like, this is like, this is not happening,
Speaker 4: Like I don't it doesn't click, like honestly, it might
Speaker 4: have been real reason.
Speaker 5: Where finally I'm like, yeah, I am a full on father,
Speaker 5: like I am a father.
Speaker 4: That is wild to me to say, because I was like,
Speaker 4: you know, I was thinking, I was like, yeah, I
Speaker 4: wanted one before my thirty but that's not happening.
Speaker 5: I was thinking. I was like, okay, I you know,
Speaker 5: mid thirties Leo DiCaprio and you know, I don't know
Speaker 5: the way things gone. Say so.
Speaker 11: And then.
Speaker 4: I'm like man, and she came out of her eyes
Speaker 4: open whatever, and I'm like lead, I'm looking for I'm
Speaker 4: proud of this.
Speaker 5: I'm like the first person. She sees the first person, right,
Speaker 5: She's like, you know, finally and I see her.
Speaker 2: I'm like.
Speaker 5: I said that. I was like, oh ship because I'm
Speaker 5: just thinking. I was like, wow, you is in my
Speaker 5: and now you're here. God, so long, you swam so fast.
Speaker 4: You are the winner because finished like, her eyes are
Speaker 4: so big. My baby's eyes are so big and beautiful, right, baby,
Speaker 4: I appreciate that really?
Speaker 5: Do you guys are too?
Speaker 9: I was like.
Speaker 5: Right, right, right right.
Speaker 4: So she was looking at me and she was so
Speaker 4: alert from the get and she was staring at me,
Speaker 4: and I'm looking at her and I'm making sure this yeah,
Speaker 4: and I'm just like and I'm.
Speaker 5: Like, yo, this my fucking looked like me. I ain't
Speaker 5: no denying this. This is my baby looked like me.
Speaker 5: So I'm looking at her and she's just like I'm like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 5: I'm your dad. I am your father. Get this. Now
Speaker 5: I'm looking around like yeah.
Speaker 4: So then I first want to hold her, and she
Speaker 4: was looking at me. I don't man like and like
Speaker 4: she was looking at me and caught attention of her
Speaker 4: hand real quick.
Speaker 5: She was like, I am doing this and then y'all
Speaker 5: took her out to see a Dominique's mother.
Speaker 4: Dominiqu's mother is such a strong woman, like this strong
Speaker 4: black religious woman, like she's very you know, gave her
Speaker 4: a blessing everything and then Dominique's out.
Speaker 5: Of it, you know.
Speaker 4: So then yes, as soon as I was able to
Speaker 4: do my skins, took my shirt off, had bones right
Speaker 4: here with her. I did that first week when you know,
Speaker 4: she had a sea sage so she was recovering. So
Speaker 4: I stayed my uh Dominique from Houston. So we had
Speaker 4: the baby in Houston. Yeah, I want you know, I
Speaker 4: was like Philadelphia would be better, but whatever.
Speaker 5: So even I was even like thinking like, well, we're
Speaker 5: gonna have her in La but but now.
Speaker 4: So he was okay, whatever, and I was like you
Speaker 4: know what, yeah, because Dominici, I have a lot of
Speaker 4: men in my family. So I was like, I don't know, John,
Speaker 4: how much help ya niggas will be? Like like my
Speaker 4: brother's honestly up until like around Christmas. They weren't even
Speaker 4: comfortable holding her, so scared because she's.
Speaker 5: So like little and stuff like that, and they're like no,
Speaker 5: I just look and they're just being her face. And
Speaker 5: when she's laying down, they'll be like over her, like
Speaker 5: push up like this giant right, She's gonna be so
Speaker 5: used to it, like you know, uh got a little
Speaker 5: army though, yea, the whole tribe.
Speaker 2: You see.
Speaker 4: Yesterday, Yeah, I went and we went to use my dad,
Speaker 4: my baby brother. My big brother was working, so my dad,
Speaker 4: my baby brother, me and then my baby and then
Speaker 4: they're like right here, she's just like in the middle
Speaker 4: of just kind.
Speaker 2: Of like right.
Speaker 4: But yeah, so that first like week, week and a half, yeah,
Speaker 4: I was taking care of, you know, my baby, which
Speaker 4: was like so it was such like it's a crazy
Speaker 4: special time for me.
Speaker 5: I was like, man, because I felt like good, like
Speaker 5: you know, I was like, yeah, man, I'm doing.
Speaker 4: You know, I'll need your help, you know what I
Speaker 4: did help me, Yeah, because like at first, her hours
Speaker 4: were a little weird, you know.
Speaker 5: She she was born at eleven fifty nine PM, bro,
Speaker 5: you know, and May nineteenth, like.
Speaker 4: I with hers April twenty fifth, okay, stubborn, right, Yeah,
Speaker 4: I have a cousin that's a tourist stun but that's
Speaker 4: figure out.
Speaker 5: But she loves love, you know. I love that she
Speaker 5: loves love. Man, She's so excited. You know.
Speaker 4: You just give her like a lot of attention and
Speaker 4: you know, kissing on her or just playing with her,
Speaker 4: and she just she smiles a lot. And but yeah,
Speaker 4: so I was saying, like when I was taking care
Speaker 4: of her that first we feeding her and everything and
Speaker 4: just changing her or being on you know, on alert
Speaker 4: and stuff.
Speaker 5: Man. Crazy, how light of a sleeper you turn or
Speaker 5: something like that. It's like anything.
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, I would go in there and
Speaker 2: make sure she was still breathing.
Speaker 4: I was like, oh right, Yo.
Speaker 6: Did you ever have that moment where, like that first
Speaker 6: week or two when you're doing something and you forget
Speaker 6: you have a kid and you're like.
Speaker 4: I'm like, Imber, I was what was I doing? I
Speaker 4: think I was watching some sports, like on my phone.
Speaker 4: I was just watching it on my phone for like
Speaker 4: a good minute. And then I remember like at one
Speaker 4: point it was the end of a quarter. I was
Speaker 4: watching the basketball game. I think, wait, yeah, something, it
Speaker 4: was the end of.
Speaker 5: A quarter and then I was like, oh ship and
Speaker 5: I went to go check. I was like, and she
Speaker 5: was sleep still.
Speaker 4: I was like, oh my god, you here for real,
Speaker 4: like I gotta remember for life. So then I had
Speaker 4: a right next I ain't gonna hapen again, so I
Speaker 4: just put it right next me. And then like I was,
Speaker 4: I'll sleeping on the couch like because I wanted, like
Speaker 4: I don't want to ask her dominate or anything like that.
Speaker 5: And I was staying at her.
Speaker 4: We were at her mom's house, and like, like I said,
Speaker 4: Dominique has a lot of women in her family like
Speaker 4: sisters and cousins, you know, my mom, aunties, whatever. So
Speaker 4: I just thought, I was like in that hospital was
Speaker 4: like one of the top graded hospital, especially for child delivery.
Speaker 5: And so I was like, yes, that that that's smart.
Speaker 5: She was out there for like three months. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 5: and her sister. Yeah.
Speaker 4: I was like fine, but yeah, so she was there
Speaker 4: for three months, which was like it was kind of
Speaker 4: it was tough, like you know, that's why we would
Speaker 4: have our back course about like you know what, I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 4: like I want to have time because like the first
Speaker 4: three months after that first we had to come back.
Speaker 4: You know, I was still filming. I had to come back,
Speaker 4: and so then I didn't see my baby getting out
Speaker 4: you know, FaceTime of course.
Speaker 5: But like then she finally came out here.
Speaker 4: She was out yeah, and then she was out here
Speaker 4: for a little bit, and then she had booked a
Speaker 4: role and she was doing the movie and then she
Speaker 4: had to go to Atlanta. In my head, I'm thinking, okay,
Speaker 4: well I'm in l A, Like okay, well, like the baby. Yeah,
Speaker 4: hell no, she took.
Speaker 5: I don't think I could do it.
Speaker 4: I could do it. She took the to Atlanta. It
Speaker 4: was like supposed to be like two three.
Speaker 5: It was like a month.
Speaker 9: I don't.
Speaker 5: I feel your pain, but I don't want my baby flying.
Speaker 2: Going on tour. Take I don't know. She was going
Speaker 2: to work. She was going to go work. So that's
Speaker 2: the only way I was thinking, Like, I mean, I
Speaker 2: don't know if I could do not fair. I know.
Speaker 4: Yeah she took, Yeah, she took.
Speaker 5: She took her.
Speaker 4: It was like for like a month, like another month,
Speaker 4: I'm gonna be away from all right, my bady, Like no,
Speaker 4: it's cool, fun, I am right. So yeah, so that happened,
Speaker 4: and then when she came back and then anytime, I'll
Speaker 4: be like, all right, you know, like you know I'm
Speaker 4: trying to have over the weekend or like having for
Speaker 4: the night or something like that. Yeah, right away, I'll
Speaker 4: be like what what?
Speaker 5: But now what do you know? I'm like, are you magically?
Speaker 5: Are you magically producing? Are you?
Speaker 10: Are you?
Speaker 5: Are you breasting her? Now? Let me know so I know.
Speaker 5: And then I'm like and she'd always be something she
Speaker 5: had to.
Speaker 4: I'm like, you know who I live with, like you
Speaker 4: know them? You know that you know where I live
Speaker 4: in Beverly Hills. I'm not in dangerous area like I
Speaker 4: live like savment in yours. I tell him, like everything
Speaker 4: points to like her being with me is actually saving
Speaker 4: but you believe what you want.
Speaker 5: Yeah, she's so protected, like you know.
Speaker 2: Is that changed now?
Speaker 5: Like are you she's more so? Well now she's like
Speaker 5: more like you know, and I think the more time
Speaker 5: we have spent, you know, together and stuff like that, and.
Speaker 2: You know, and she'll see me with she needs to
Speaker 2: see you as.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I think that's like help dropped, which I'm like,
Speaker 4: you see me as far. I'm like, girl, I was
Speaker 4: here first doing this, but like I just you know, yeah,
Speaker 4: and now that Zims Moore.
Speaker 5: You know, she could sit up you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 5: you know, dude, like that it is more it's come
Speaker 5: more comfortable for her.
Speaker 4: But now I'm at a point where I'm like, okay,
Speaker 4: so like where I live now, I just like my
Speaker 4: setup now, Okay, I don't have the proper setup for
Speaker 4: my daughter stay with me right.
Speaker 5: Now because I get so much ship in my room.
Speaker 4: Like right now, I just I just need to reorganize
Speaker 4: it and set up her corner properly.
Speaker 5: I have her things there, but like it's just not there, right.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Well at the time it was.
Speaker 2: Set up actually needs a baby proof right I do.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, so it's yeah, but I mean like at
Speaker 4: the time it was set up, but like and that's
Speaker 4: time I just started well because yeah, because I'm like, well,
Speaker 4: she ain't here, so I started putting my ship like
Speaker 4: in that corner.
Speaker 5: I'm like, man, she out growing shit, I have.
Speaker 4: More. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I think she just probably needs to spend more time
Speaker 3: with you guys together to see you as to see
Speaker 3: you as a father, you know what I mean, Not
Speaker 3: to say that you're not a great father, but like
Speaker 3: I just know, as women like we when these people
Speaker 3: these little humans come out of us.
Speaker 2: They literally are like attachments. So we go primal, yeah,
Speaker 2: and then mom, And not to say.
Speaker 3: The dads don't, because there's daddy there too, but I
Speaker 3: think we just it's she just probably needs to see
Speaker 3: you more.
Speaker 4: I get it, because it's like she's don't trust herself
Speaker 4: and mostly you know what I'm saying, But like that's
Speaker 4: how I trust myself. One I trust her was in
Speaker 4: but that's because I just know how how I am
Speaker 4: and how protective I am, and like I just feel
Speaker 4: she'll be the most safe with.
Speaker 5: Me, right, But like it's not like she's in danger
Speaker 5: at all with either of us. Like yeah, we're just
Speaker 5: we're good. Like we're parents.
Speaker 2: I'm a great dad, I have a great mom, have
Speaker 2: a greater day ourselves, right, both are striving to.
Speaker 5: Be great parents, right right, right, right right.
Speaker 2: So you guys, you have good communication. You seem rather mature,
Speaker 2: which is refreshing.
Speaker 3: I have a question as a single dad so now
Speaker 3: or just as dad or single dad, do you find
Speaker 3: that you get more attention from women when you're out
Speaker 3: with your child now it's like having a pupa.
Speaker 4: Child, Like, oh my god, he's nurturing first of all,
Speaker 4: I will say this, like because one, first of all,
Speaker 4: the expectations of being a great father so low.
Speaker 5: Yeah, right right.
Speaker 3: Freddy takes Iriy to like any like ballet class, the
Speaker 3: way when they're like, oh my god, you're.
Speaker 4: Here.
Speaker 2: Like even my.
Speaker 3: Doctor that delivered delivered Irish I had to see section
Speaker 3: as well. He Freddy came to every single doctor's appointment.
Speaker 3: He did not know one, and she was just like,
Speaker 3: you know, I'm just so shocked, like honestly, She's like
Speaker 3: there's not a lot of husbands do this, but like
Speaker 3: I just can't believe he's here every week.
Speaker 2: I'm like, why I'm here?
Speaker 4: But okay, because like well yeah, in my in my circumstance,
Speaker 4: like I wasn't told about all that point, so I
Speaker 4: wouldn't even know.
Speaker 5: Just had appointments and I'm like, oh, like you know,
Speaker 5: I wouldn't tell It made me feel some type of way.
Speaker 2: But my point is is just that my point is.
Speaker 4: Expectations are low for black men exactly so because and
Speaker 4: like to piggyback off that when Zim was born and stuff,
Speaker 4: and then like so dominiquees in the bed recovery and stuff,
Speaker 4: like I was, I was in her faced all time
Speaker 4: with my daughter, Like you know what I'm saying, I'm
Speaker 4: in her face, so like you know, feeding her, I'm
Speaker 4: cam bur or whatever. I'm changing her, I'm walking around
Speaker 4: with her and whatever allways and stuff.
Speaker 5: And they're just like about me.
Speaker 4: I'm like, is this not what fathers do?
Speaker 2: This is not the parenting thing. It's so tall, it
Speaker 2: was black. He's feeding it.
Speaker 5: So good. Like it's just like I think it is.
Speaker 2: It's definitely it definitely is.
Speaker 6: Are you we're all paranoid because we know like the
Speaker 6: stereotype because sometimes when I do think my baby baddy,
Speaker 6: I'm like, look at us.
Speaker 2: We're at the museum right back. That's two parents and
Speaker 2: the baby right.
Speaker 5: Right right right.
Speaker 2: We're not together, but we don't know that exactly each other.
Speaker 4: Right, I say, I've had I've had my ive had
Speaker 4: dominique bring my baby to set, you know, to a
Speaker 4: business because hours are crazier.
Speaker 5: It could be away from so long.
Speaker 4: So I'm like, yeah, come especially I'm shooting in LA
Speaker 4: and you know, and people right now, even though I've said, like,
Speaker 4: people still think I said that that Dummlein's my wife.
Speaker 12: I'm just like, yes, yeah, that's where we are actually,
Speaker 12: but do you find that you get more attention from
Speaker 12: like women?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 4: Sorry, yeah, yeah so yesterday. Sorry, I get back to it. Yesterday,
Speaker 4: you know, being with my even being with my dad,
Speaker 4: my brother even made it. I think even more attention
Speaker 4: to because these big guys and it's just like it's
Speaker 4: just like they get softer for a man versus like
Speaker 4: you know, if I don't have one that a woman
Speaker 4: could be attracted to me and stuff like that. You know,
Speaker 4: they'll give me a look whatever like that, whatever the
Speaker 4: reason I come over, but right or some you know,
Speaker 4: because you know, literally, like man, that's the most harmful
Speaker 4: thing the woman of seeing me walk down the street
Speaker 4: is not necessarily you know, trying to avoid you know,
Speaker 4: they want to keep their life safe.
Speaker 5: You know, they don't know me from you know, candpaign,
Speaker 5: but with a daughter, then you're saying I am safe.
Speaker 5: So yeah, So I mean, and I can.
Speaker 4: Just see you on the gram is. I mean, I'll
Speaker 4: see the comments and stuff like that. But like you
Speaker 4: they're like, uh, where the applications that gives in the sibling.
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh that's hilarious, yeah, like like stepmom applications.
Speaker 6: I'm like, but but I mean absolutely, Like, do you
Speaker 6: want to be married or do you believe in monogamy?
Speaker 2: With your monogamy, what did you What did you say?
Speaker 2: When we asked him? He said possible with that possible.
Speaker 4: Because there was one word. So I want to give
Speaker 4: as much context now. I do think it's possible. I do.
Speaker 5: I'm not there right now, but eventually.
Speaker 3: Because do you want a monogamous relationship or would your
Speaker 3: ideal relationship be one that's.
Speaker 5: Open more open?
Speaker 2: I do?
Speaker 5: Like I do like the open aspect of things.
Speaker 4: I do.
Speaker 2: I feel like that's the world we live in. Know,
Speaker 2: I feel like it is too. Do you think it's
Speaker 2: making the world a better I don't know.
Speaker 4: I do because I do believe a strong connection and
Speaker 4: unions and like, But to me, I don't think it
Speaker 4: for for me, it just it's based on the individual.
Speaker 4: Because there's gonna be a woman and that's very possible
Speaker 4: for us, and there's gonna be one, but that's just
Speaker 4: not for her. But if I want her and that's
Speaker 4: you know, then that's then that's the relationship I'm going
Speaker 4: to have with her.
Speaker 5: It's not necessarily like sacrificing who I am.
Speaker 2: Have you been in like if someone's not down for it.
Speaker 6: Have you been in an open relationship before or you
Speaker 6: just think that's something that and it was successful the.
Speaker 4: One So the one I was in, it was like
Speaker 4: at the tail end of a relationship that I'd been
Speaker 4: done for a while, you know, and like you're.
Speaker 2: A monogamous and then like, let's try this. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: think does that work well?
Speaker 5: The thing? I mean, I will say that was the
Speaker 5: best way I ever do. But but no, it wouldn't you.
Speaker 2: Transitioned into saying but I mean like, if you go
Speaker 2: for monogamy to it's.
Speaker 4: I think people really think that automatically it's about you
Speaker 4: having sexual other people.
Speaker 5: That's not true because I wasn't even really the case.
Speaker 4: It's just like now, for some reason, when you put
Speaker 4: that title on, people think, now you could be very
Speaker 4: vulnerable and honest and truth with your partner.
Speaker 5: Which is like that should be it.
Speaker 6: It's true, that's true. You feel like you have once
Speaker 6: you put that title onun shit, you suddenly feel like
Speaker 6: you have to lie and sugarcoat because now if I
Speaker 6: don't do this, you're gonna dump me.
Speaker 5: And then I'll be like this, I want you to
Speaker 5: feel this way.
Speaker 2: Right, I'm like I don't care. But when you're I care,
Speaker 2: but I don't care because we're not together, well we're not.
Speaker 2: We have these these boundaries.
Speaker 6: It's true, like you're then you're suddenly like honest and
Speaker 6: vulnerable because it doesn't matter.
Speaker 4: Because being in an open relationship also us open to
Speaker 4: like you know, maybe you have a drink with someone,
Speaker 4: you go out to eat, doesn't necessarily mean you're fucking whatever.
Speaker 4: You know, you have friends that maybe you're in a
Speaker 4: monogamous relationship. Your man would have been I would have
Speaker 4: been comfortable with or your woman.
Speaker 5: And I don't.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so then and then after that, like there's but
Speaker 4: then you know, I do have a like a connection,
Speaker 4: you know, connection, union's both of those terms whatever with
Speaker 4: with someone and we but we do understand, like right
Speaker 4: now it's like at this point in my life and
Speaker 4: our life, you know, we're just you know, we're not
Speaker 4: going to be in this monogamous, committed relationship. I don't
Speaker 4: like to actually when people say, oh, but the committee
Speaker 4: you can be.
Speaker 6: Committed, I think you have to be that you have
Speaker 6: to be commitced to someone in order to be open
Speaker 6: or else.
Speaker 5: You're just exactly, I do have a connection with someone but.
Speaker 2: We're you know, there's no boundaries on what that means.
Speaker 4: But we're just like, you know, as long as we're
Speaker 4: honest with one another and everything, and that's you know,
Speaker 4: that's that's what it is.
Speaker 2: Is it hard?
Speaker 6: Have you had experience where you like have a like
Speaker 6: a union, union or whatever connection with someone and you're
Speaker 6: aware they're sleeping with someone else?
Speaker 5: Oh? Is that hard?
Speaker 2: I think that's Has that happened?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: So I think And was that difficult because as a
Speaker 2: man beginning, yes.
Speaker 4: Yes, it absolutely is. But because I'm very aware of
Speaker 4: that of being a man in our ego, because I mean,
Speaker 4: I just think about that with the woman put up
Speaker 4: with I'm like, like, God, do not to make me
Speaker 4: a woman because the strength.
Speaker 5: Y'all have and that we need.
Speaker 4: It was my thing was I mean, even to this,
Speaker 4: It's not like I'm gonna be like, yeah, gonna do it.
Speaker 4: It's not like that, like I want that innocence. But
Speaker 4: I understand, like you know, especially like hypocrisy is one
Speaker 4: of the despise is the number one thing I hate
Speaker 4: them mouse, you know what I mean.
Speaker 5: So I'm gonna be fine with it. I have an
Speaker 5: understanding of it.
Speaker 4: Also, like you know, you know, if if that's good
Speaker 4: with if you're good within your happy.
Speaker 6: But that's what you know, so you can't you can
Speaker 6: you can counteract ego and be like, yeah, we still
Speaker 6: have what we have and it doesn't And it's like.
Speaker 4: Even the type of way you try nip it in
Speaker 4: the butt, like yeah, I'm just like I tell myself,
Speaker 4: I'm okay, Like it's okay, I feel some type of
Speaker 4: way or whatever, I have a connection, so yeah, okay,
Speaker 4: it's okay.
Speaker 5: But you know, okay, then that's that and I let it.
Speaker 5: I don't let it live, let it go through me,
Speaker 5: and then I just I'm about that, move on and
Speaker 5: move forward. That's what it is. So do you guys,
Speaker 5: what is your take on it? Are you a monogamous
Speaker 5: person or for both?
Speaker 3: I have traditionally been in monogamous monogamous yeah, you know,
Speaker 3: it was vice versa. Like I think early on in
Speaker 3: my you know, in my early twenties, I cheated a lot,
Speaker 3: and but I was just monogamous and them to be monogamous,
Speaker 3: but I was not being monogous.
Speaker 2: I was like, well, I still love you. I just
Speaker 2: wanted to try that real quick.
Speaker 3: And then I think when I met my child's father.
Speaker 3: I told myself that I just fell in love so deeply.
Speaker 3: I felt like he was my soulmate. I had no
Speaker 3: interest in anybody, so it didn't even seem like I
Speaker 3: was trying to be monogamous.
Speaker 5: It just is what it was.
Speaker 3: And I thought we were on the same pain. But
Speaker 3: he's also a rapper, so we were young, and you know,
Speaker 3: he made mistakes and you know, so did I. But
Speaker 3: I think now that I'm outside of that relationship and
Speaker 3: monogamy was so difficult in that relationship, I have a
Speaker 3: different perspective.
Speaker 2: But I do know that I am possessive and I
Speaker 2: know that I like to know I need some.
Speaker 3: Sort of security my relationship, So sometimes that counteracts that
Speaker 3: the idea.
Speaker 2: Of what an open relationship is.
Speaker 3: But I think, like currently I'm dating somebody and we've
Speaker 3: been dating for six months and he's not my boyfriend,
Speaker 3: but it feels that way a lot when we're together,
Speaker 3: but we are totally not. We can do whatever the
Speaker 3: fuck we want to do, and it's like I actually,
Speaker 3: like feel so content with it absolutely because and it's
Speaker 3: been like a process. I've had to really work through
Speaker 3: this with him because I am so used to monogamy,
Speaker 3: and it's like I felt like that's what I was
Speaker 3: like my like intuitively or not intuitively, like not as
Speaker 3: even instinctively like just from what I've learned, I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 3: we've been dating this year, that's how you're familiar.
Speaker 5: That's like, I don't do well.
Speaker 2: I didn't ask that.
Speaker 3: I didn't ask him that, But in my I was
Speaker 3: struggling with this internally because I didn't want I knew that.
Speaker 2: That's not what I really wanted, but I could feel
Speaker 2: I had to check.
Speaker 6: But you feel like you would. It's that you start
Speaker 6: liking someone and you feel vulnerable on a plus own them,
Speaker 6: like wait, hold on, I like you, and I don't
Speaker 6: want anyone.
Speaker 2: Else to help you. Yeah exactly, you're yeah exactly. And
Speaker 2: so I never really expressed that to him.
Speaker 3: We've talked through it, though, but like I felt that
Speaker 3: inside and I was like, and I had to work
Speaker 3: through it because I'm like, whatever I was doing before
Speaker 3: has not been working. Monogamy for me or whatever, This
Speaker 3: idea of what I view a relationship supposed to be
Speaker 3: like has not been working, So I need to try
Speaker 3: something different. And so I'm trying something different and It
Speaker 3: wasn't until maybe like the last month or two that
Speaker 3: I'm like, really, I'm okay with it. Like I go
Speaker 3: out of town and I travel and do whatever the
Speaker 3: fuck I want to do. I have my fun and
Speaker 3: I come back and I know that we share we
Speaker 3: have a very like special relationship.
Speaker 2: We love each other, and yeah, I understand, and it
Speaker 2: feels good to know that, Like I do have someone
Speaker 2: that loves me. I do have someone that's out there.
Speaker 5: Caring for me, and there's no question about. That's what
Speaker 5: makes it.
Speaker 2: There's no question about.
Speaker 5: It's like if the.
Speaker 4: Key to it where I was gonna say what you
Speaker 4: said earlier, as the key is if the reassurance comes,
Speaker 4: it's like dang, like I know that you love me,
Speaker 4: I love you, and like we are the priorities you know,
Speaker 4: in each other's lives, and.
Speaker 5: We do cherish and respect this bond and union that
Speaker 5: we do have with one another.
Speaker 4: Then as long as that and that's believed by both
Speaker 4: and we both feel that and it's like genuine, then
Speaker 4: that's where you could, I think, have a successful if
Speaker 4: you have an open minded person like openness with your relationship,
Speaker 4: because then you know, even like I said, they do
Speaker 4: feel sometime like yeah, the one you know would feels
Speaker 4: some topic like are you like you know you're out there,
Speaker 4: are you going to see that such and such a right?
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course those company because you're human.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and this is fairly new as like like you know,
Speaker 4: I think we're like as a and this generation is
Speaker 4: like switched it for more shifted and it's fairly new.
Speaker 4: We're gonna be the ones that kind of like I
Speaker 4: don't know, this says normal start the normalization of it
Speaker 4: in a sense, you know what, even.
Speaker 2: More love that way.
Speaker 3: But even I think so too, like even us, like
Speaker 3: I was thinking about he said, like the moment we
Speaker 3: put a label on something, it just feels like I
Speaker 3: have to change.
Speaker 2: I can't be who I am. And it's like and
Speaker 2: it's like I can't I have to compromise something.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I was like, well, I love you just
Speaker 3: how you are right now, right and like I you know,
Speaker 3: and I know you love me the same and like
Speaker 3: even putting a label as a boyfriend or girlfriend, I
Speaker 3: don't know if I'm I'm a.
Speaker 2: Place in my life where like I'm thirty one, I
Speaker 2: have a kid.
Speaker 5: It's right.
Speaker 3: And so like it's so funny because just is going
Speaker 3: to listen to this my friend and she's been calling
Speaker 3: her boyfriend her partner for years and I used to
Speaker 3: make fun of her.
Speaker 2: I'd be like, yeah, people are gonna think he's okay, okay,
Speaker 2: like and she's like, no, that's just what he is.
Speaker 3: And now I'm getting to the point in my life
Speaker 3: I'm like, I get it, Like that's your partner, And
Speaker 3: I think what what me and my guy talked about
Speaker 3: is like we need to know, like I think because
Speaker 3: I'm like in the midst of being an open relationship.
Speaker 3: And he's also expressed open relationship isn't about sex for me.
Speaker 3: It's just like being open exactly, and he was and
Speaker 3: he's like, yes, I can go.
Speaker 2: Have sex with people, but honestly, it's not even what
Speaker 2: it is.
Speaker 3: And I was like, I think what for me as
Speaker 3: a person who does I'm still working through my possessiveness.
Speaker 2: It's just knowing where home is, that we have a home.
Speaker 3: Exactly as here, and that there's something here that's not
Speaker 3: that's diffinitely being protected.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And honestly, it's like because honestly, like this type
Speaker 4: of connection is just so rare. I'm like, honestly, I
Speaker 4: sometimes I'm thinking, I'm like, damn, like I could. It's
Speaker 4: just say like it's just you know, we're just all
Speaker 4: right this this is cut off whatever. I'm like, where
Speaker 4: the fuck else am I gonna get? Like, you know,
Speaker 4: because at this point, we like know everything about one
Speaker 4: another and same interests and same passions, were like you know,
Speaker 4: very like minded, you know, like attracts like and that's
Speaker 4: what's happened in a situation. So it's like I just
Speaker 4: don't you know, you know, I mean, I'm assuming especially
Speaker 4: if you are a certain way, you're going to keep
Speaker 4: attracting that because that's just what happened in my life
Speaker 4: at this you know, at this point in my life,
Speaker 4: I just attract what I want basically track what I want.
Speaker 4: So but it but it started with that, you know,
Speaker 4: that kind of like started all this, but like you know, so,
Speaker 4: but to have the understanding and for us to really
Speaker 4: be you know clear, yeah, yeah, yeah, and yeah, and
Speaker 4: just because I will say, like I mean, it was
Speaker 4: happening to a lot of guys, especially like we said,
Speaker 4: we're very fragile and egotistic, and uh, it's the more fragment.
Speaker 4: It's funny as I find it men in hip hop
Speaker 4: like rappers. They are because anybody in the industry like
Speaker 4: being in entertainment business. The most I've gotten into it
Speaker 4: with like damn, you're fighting or something like that. It's
Speaker 4: always been rappers.
Speaker 5: That's it.
Speaker 4: An R and B singer, this islet ain't no other actors.
Speaker 4: Maybe a director might get on my nerves but off
Speaker 4: from work, but rappers. Oh my, I'm what I'm going
Speaker 4: back then yelling?
Speaker 5: But whatever anyway, But.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was just about to say Jesus, oh yeah,
Speaker 4: that what really like what shook me was like, you know,
Speaker 4: my first relationshism like me and cheated on I didn't cheat,
Speaker 4: you know.
Speaker 5: Me and cheatah, and just was like what the fuck? Yeah,
Speaker 5: I was like me and mind you, I was a
Speaker 5: college hooper.
Speaker 4: This time Holland tuber and two times in a row,
Speaker 4: two times in a row, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 4: Like that one the.
Speaker 2: Next one, Like, but like, at least you don't hate
Speaker 2: all women. You're admitting this because I feel like a
Speaker 2: lot of men would never know.
Speaker 4: A lot of look a lot of yeah, guys, man,
Speaker 4: I don't know why, guys. This is this whole thing man,
Speaker 4: And like guys had this whole thing, Like you know,
Speaker 4: they never want to feel like they got best about
Speaker 4: it like a nigga like my bitch and like that
Speaker 4: type of ship like women because like you hear like
Speaker 4: a rap songs all the time like I'm gonna take
Speaker 4: yo bitch whatever like that you girl with me, blah
Speaker 4: blah all that. It's like, which is also weird fetish
Speaker 4: to me that rappers add too. Was like this this
Speaker 4: like an obsession. Really would take another dude's women. Yeah,
Speaker 4: which is when we did the role play thing. The
Speaker 4: girl liked it too, you know what I'm saying. So
Speaker 4: it's like so it's like it's so weird to.
Speaker 2: Me, but like guys like you want to you want
Speaker 2: to be like one up the alphay.
Speaker 5: That that really like I remember, especially like you know,
Speaker 5: I got you on.
Speaker 4: It was like like I said, I was a college
Speaker 4: basketball player and you I mean come on, like I
Speaker 4: could have it was. It was really there was no
Speaker 4: shortage of it. It was knocking on my door where
Speaker 4: at first I was great share in that du cane
Speaker 4: and then I was finished school in Connecticut my last
Speaker 4: year and a half, but I was like outside of
Speaker 4: New York, not that far from New York.
Speaker 5: And it was just like you know what I mean.
Speaker 4: So so when I was just like that, sh it
Speaker 4: was just like my stomach dropped out my ass. I
Speaker 4: was just like, yo, what the fuck? And that did
Speaker 4: shake me for a while because and after that, man,
Speaker 4: we stayed together, but like I was so spiteful, you know,
Speaker 4: I cheating her, I got with the Nasty Girl and
Speaker 4: stuff like that, and like she you.
Speaker 3: Think, did you feel really embarrassed? Because I feel like
Speaker 3: a man might might be like I feel like a
Speaker 3: woman cheating a man treating a woman, it's embarrassing, but
Speaker 3: it's more like hurtful, whereas I think for a man
Speaker 3: it's embarrassing, it's embarrassing.
Speaker 5: It was I mean, I was definitely hurt, but like
Speaker 5: it was, it's not embarrassing. But I feel like, you
Speaker 5: know why I think why I think it is like
Speaker 5: I'll tell you why, just my belief with men, why
Speaker 5: we find the more embarrassing. It's because.
Speaker 4: I see, like if we're cheating, it's like we're thinking
Speaker 4: like because we're like we're giving it too. Yeah, so
Speaker 4: we're thinking about our girl game, like you know what
Speaker 4: I mean.
Speaker 5: It's just like someone like it's such like some yeah,
Speaker 5: like you know, they dominated even look at you know
Speaker 5: what I'm saying, like, it's just but for a girl,
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. That's and it's like, oh
Speaker 5: my god.
Speaker 2: To start being more visual, like bigger than mine. Yeah.
Speaker 4: I didn't even ask that. I know, like I don't
Speaker 4: even ask. All that was but the thought but yeah, exactly,
Speaker 4: I didn't ask about you give.
Speaker 2: Yeah, which is like yeah, yeah, they want to know that.
Speaker 2: That's always the next question.
Speaker 4: I bet you're yes, you know, it's even worse if
Speaker 4: she just suck this even you don't even ge you simple,
Speaker 4: But I was so man, I was yelling, din, that's it.
Speaker 5: You didn't even get you didn't even get jumped.
Speaker 2: You do the typical man thinking like you are huh.
Speaker 2: You know automatically.
Speaker 5: I wasn't really saying I was not strong enough for
Speaker 5: me to be I have to say that, you know.
Speaker 4: It's just like yeah I don't yeah, I don't know,
Speaker 4: but but you know what to give example about like
Speaker 4: how these guys like you know something about fucking other dudes? Girl,
Speaker 4: weird ass dudes are here. Man, So like I remember,
Speaker 4: like because it was a my my second relationship. We
Speaker 4: were on and off a lot. You know, you can
Speaker 4: never keep tracking, you know whatever, always on and off.
Speaker 4: And she ended up sucking with this one dude who
Speaker 4: I had asked about. Not that I asked, I knew
Speaker 4: about whatever. I was just like, you know, obviously denied whatever.
Speaker 5: So but like you's down.
Speaker 4: Actually, like last year there's this girl that you know,
Speaker 4: me and her were kind of like, you know, just
Speaker 4: entertaining one another.
Speaker 5: It was her birthday thing. So I go to birthday
Speaker 5: thinking he's there.
Speaker 4: I had met him once, I remember, like a while ago,
Speaker 4: years ago, but like I didn't know him like that,
Speaker 4: you know what I mean.
Speaker 5: It wasn't cool with him like that.
Speaker 4: And it's like and then especially like I'm like, well
Speaker 4: they obviously had did they thing whatever like that?
Speaker 5: He well, he was like he didn't. He didn't say
Speaker 5: nothing to me, so like, you know, I didn't say
Speaker 5: nothing to him.
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, you know, so I was just
Speaker 4: like I don't care, Like I was just like whatever,
Speaker 4: you know, and then it's just like but then it
Speaker 4: was like this whole thing, like I think he thought
Speaker 4: I left, but I went to the bathroom ship Yeah exactly.
Speaker 4: He was asking, you know, asking a girl. The girl's birthday.
Speaker 3: Now.
Speaker 5: It was she was like, I don't know. I like,
Speaker 5: you don't numb me when I fucked this bitch or.
Speaker 2: Something like ah.
Speaker 4: And that's when it gets because niggas trying to barrass you.
Speaker 4: And I was just like, and when you were saying that,
Speaker 4: it was like, right on you. I was like here,
Speaker 4: I was, Yeah, I came up to this little nigga,
Speaker 4: bron grabbed right here.
Speaker 5: We're gonna talk, bro, come on, get off, you shut
Speaker 5: your ass up. And he's like, I'm not a tough guy.
Speaker 4: I was like myself. I was like and I told him.
Speaker 5: I was like, I don't don't know about the nigga,
Speaker 5: you bitch. I don't give a mind you did that.
Speaker 4: And on top of that, like from with the girl,
Speaker 4: like because the girl we had, the mutual friend we had.
Speaker 4: I was like, man, from what I know, bro, your
Speaker 4: ass was arguing with her again, and your feelings about
Speaker 4: that ship, that's your bits and about her you had
Speaker 4: you didn't fuck, man, you had sex. Youre trying to
Speaker 4: make love.
Speaker 2: To her talking about it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly your feeling. I don't ever try to embarrass
Speaker 5: me like that again. Bro.
Speaker 4: I gave him a fair warning. I was like because
Speaker 4: you was like, he's like five nine. I was like,
Speaker 4: I can hurt you right now.
Speaker 2: He definitely thought she left the building. Yeah, I think
Speaker 2: it goes both ways. So I think women do this
Speaker 2: ship too. They would love a man who's taken.
Speaker 5: That's coming. That so good.
Speaker 3: But yeah, well woman loves the man with the loves
Speaker 3: the woman. I'm man loves a man with another woman.
Speaker 5: They do, maybe not you that.
Speaker 2: Kind of looks smutty, bit.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it is that mutual woman.
Speaker 2: That's a certain particular type of money. Don't bring that
Speaker 2: bitch around.
Speaker 5: My boyfriend right right, Yeah, because they.
Speaker 2: Half sing at me and looking at my nigga. I'll bitch,
Speaker 2: I can see you and I'll cut you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, because that.
Speaker 4: Same girl I'm talking about her friends. Man, you don't
Speaker 4: think they my shir because here's my thing.
Speaker 2: I tell her all the time.
Speaker 5: Yo.
Speaker 2: If you who's flying, I'm my bait. You did good
Speaker 2: And if you need some help with that, holla, there
Speaker 2: is no and like no one. Okay, well we've already
Speaker 2: we hied over, we fight over, we have neutral, we
Speaker 2: fight to the death.
Speaker 5: Fine, you guys do also like women? Yeah, yeah, I
Speaker 5: know that. I don't know why I have a good
Speaker 5: like she likes like me.
Speaker 2: That's the same. They're my species.
Speaker 6: But for real, like I had my brother friend who
Speaker 6: keeps it trill or not exactly okay, but and when
Speaker 6: I got a guess if I leave my nigger around you, no, no,
Speaker 6: I don't do those type of friends.
Speaker 2: And I can sniff you out.
Speaker 5: Yeah, don't dudes man like dudes would be like that
Speaker 5: to try and be like on some slip ship. Yeah,
Speaker 5: some corny ship like DM and ship.
Speaker 4: They won't like those dudes like yeah, I don't have
Speaker 4: like we're not we're not cool anymore. But like my
Speaker 4: boys were shut up. I was like, hey, like, what's
Speaker 4: what's the deal with that? Y'all have y'all around like ship? Man,
Speaker 4: she looks like you get me energy?
Speaker 5: What you what you said? I'm like, man, knock it
Speaker 5: out the park and she don't you know, that's my room. Man,
Speaker 5: Go ahead.
Speaker 6: Guys guys will do ship like that and be lying
Speaker 6: into I feel like low key, But I'd rather or
Speaker 6: to take friendliness as like you know.
Speaker 4: Right, I mean no, yeah, because guys lying dick all
Speaker 4: the time. But which is crazy, which is very crazy.
Speaker 5: We're gonna find out but ship man girlul be our headline.
Speaker 4: So there's a list of I'm like, Dad, I don't
Speaker 4: know how I had these many bodies. I'm like, where
Speaker 4: is this coming from?
Speaker 5: Like that's just what? Yeah, that's just like trash, especially,
Speaker 5: you know.
Speaker 4: What, I find a tra especially when girls trying to
Speaker 4: make like maybe a girl I'm flirting with her into
Speaker 4: or whatever like that, trying to make her jealous and
Speaker 4: trying to.
Speaker 5: Make it seem like they know you or like we've
Speaker 5: never hugged in our life. Yeah, he's crazy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, calm down, Corn, with that ship I don't know
Speaker 4: that competition between girls and you know what.
Speaker 2: It's screams insecurity and that's that's not attractive.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm like what, I'm like, damn what you go through?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Like competition?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I have a questioning up, how has I know
Speaker 6: you have a good relationship with your baby mom, but
Speaker 6: have you had like how's your dating experience then now
Speaker 6: as a father, Like have is it?
Speaker 2: How has it changed? You know?
Speaker 5: I don't.
Speaker 4: I don't think it's necessarily changed, to be honest.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think it's.
Speaker 6: Changes for you the date like us and you get
Speaker 6: like once you get single or whatever, you've been single
Speaker 6: on then and then there's that time you're like like,
Speaker 6: yes I am a dad, like because there's a point
Speaker 6: where as a single mom, like a single mom's you know,
Speaker 6: there's a point where that was like.
Speaker 2: A I don't have any kids, I have a job,
Speaker 2: I have on place, you know what I mean? Okay,
Speaker 2: do you have a kid to have a baby daddy?
Speaker 5: Right right right?
Speaker 4: That's how Yeah, it's funny because like that's how I
Speaker 4: was out. I'm doing my day money, you know what
Speaker 4: I'm saying.
Speaker 5: Whatever.
Speaker 4: But now, honestly though, nah, I think a lot of
Speaker 4: even more now I'm like, yeah, I got a daughter, Like, yeah, I.
Speaker 5: Got a daughter.
Speaker 2: Because it's not the same.
Speaker 5: It's like it's not it's not because who I mean,
Speaker 5: you know, the child's with the mom more than the dad. Usually.
Speaker 3: What if she's dating, what would you like what ifah, like,
Speaker 3: do you care? Like does she need to like tell
Speaker 3: you when she is going to bring a man around
Speaker 3: your child?
Speaker 5: Oh yeah yeah yeah yeah, yeah yeah, I would.
Speaker 2: You need to meet him like that whole thing.
Speaker 4: If it's serious, Yeah, if it's serious, But like also
Speaker 4: if it's not serious, you shouldn't.
Speaker 5: Be bring niggas around the baby. Yeah, it's not serious anyway,
Speaker 5: like at least not like not in a sense like
Speaker 5: where he's just in the house.
Speaker 3: Have you guys ever had that conversation though, because you know,
Speaker 3: you think people are aligned, right and then they we
Speaker 3: kind of.
Speaker 4: Had it, no, man, Okay, yeah, we've kind of had
Speaker 4: it in a sense of like she talked about what
Speaker 4: she's comfortable with, because I know at the beginning she
Speaker 4: wasn't comfortable with woman being around my daughter. And I
Speaker 4: was like, that's fine. I mean, like I said, like
Speaker 4: if there were to be a woman around my daughter,
Speaker 4: there's just one know of that I was talking about.
Speaker 5: And then she.
Speaker 4: Expressed I was like, look, man, I forgot you need
Speaker 4: to go on a date or something whatever like that.
Speaker 5: And she but she's not. She's like she was and
Speaker 5: she can't tell you. She ain't tell you she could.
Speaker 4: I'm like, she just yeah, you know, if anything's like
Speaker 4: you know, I feel like maybe she was like she
Speaker 4: would because maybe she's like, let we get some reaction.
Speaker 2: Well you know what it is after you have a child,
Speaker 2: like you gotta get your sexy back.
Speaker 6: You gotta feel yourself against and and yeah, no like physically,
Speaker 6: but then there's also that part like like okay, who
Speaker 6: am I now?
Speaker 2: Like I'm somebody's mom, but am I still like young?
Speaker 2: Fun like you know right right faddy Caddy jamilla, or like.
Speaker 4: Sorry yours like thick thick?
Speaker 2: I do I have a fat caast? I do have
Speaker 2: a fat pussy. It's facts, my friend.
Speaker 5: Everyone's told me very easy to you know, to snack on.
Speaker 5: I feel like they're just presented itself in a way
Speaker 5: where I know there were so.
Speaker 6: Many variations until I dwelt like dilged into pussy.
Speaker 2: And like, oh wow, there's so many different kinds.
Speaker 5: There's so many, so many flavors.
Speaker 2: Now, yeah, certain people just have certain body odors.
Speaker 5: You know, I know which one is.
Speaker 2: Are a real thing.
Speaker 3: Have you ever just even been around someone just their
Speaker 3: really clothed them, You're like, the smell is not for me.
Speaker 5: It's not that it's it's just like it's just their
Speaker 5: natural which is for somebody else.
Speaker 2: Someone else.
Speaker 3: And then there is one like there's been like men
Speaker 3: in my life where I have their smell.
Speaker 2: I'm like put my nose in their beard, y'all are.
Speaker 4: Like women are so funny with this because I like,
Speaker 4: as I I know, there and deal with different women.
Speaker 4: I'm like, man, like the women really like I've had,
Speaker 4: Like I would be laying down and for just like
Speaker 4: I remember, she just would be smelling me.
Speaker 2: I'm a weird.
Speaker 5: Baby daddy.
Speaker 2: I would literally be like in his beard.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like just like my aunt would be like this
Speaker 4: on the whatever like that and she just like like
Speaker 4: TV like smelling me. Yeah, another one like I'll be
Speaker 4: like this and she bare face.
Speaker 2: I like.
Speaker 4: If it's not first like I'm like now like yeah,
Speaker 4: I'm like like I haven't put the odor or whatever
Speaker 4: like that.
Speaker 2: She like that because there's a nice Yeah, there's a
Speaker 2: I've once.
Speaker 11: Googled right right right like smell like psychic smell, the
Speaker 11: psychic sense of smell, because like there was a time
Speaker 11: I smelled like sickness.
Speaker 2: On someone consistently and I'm like, am I trip in?
Speaker 6: I'm like googling, and there is absolutely certain people get
Speaker 6: certain the strongest sense we have, Yeah, but.
Speaker 2: We're not familiar with of course.
Speaker 4: Yeah, when everyone's gonna think, like, you know, you'd rather
Speaker 4: you lose your sense of smelling in sight of course
Speaker 4: or something like that. People think that, but like for me,
Speaker 4: like I just know, like especially for memory. It's the biggest,
Speaker 4: like you know, brings it back somewhere and stuff like that.
Speaker 4: But so like, yeah, because especially women like be something
Speaker 4: I smell or whatever, or like certain things that you use. Man,
Speaker 4: I remember, not that long ago. I think it was
Speaker 4: like a certain like soap I smelled. I was at
Speaker 4: somebody's house and had a shower. I smelled it, and
Speaker 4: they reminded it fuller reminded.
Speaker 5: Me of another girl that moment. It took me.
Speaker 4: It literally took me to the moment where I was
Speaker 4: like like I like this, like it would be like
Speaker 4: like a shot like angle, like you know what I mean,
Speaker 4: and it's.
Speaker 5: Just like me just right in and I was just
Speaker 5: like it was like that, that's all right, but they
Speaker 5: like you and it's sorry. I wasn't not even right.
Speaker 4: Here.
Speaker 2: That was a good one.
Speaker 5: That was right right, remember, she.
Speaker 4: Used to Yeah, sometimes I sometimes I don't know why,
Speaker 4: Like I'll randomly think of someone, damn wonder like what
Speaker 4: somebody used to like or something like what I wonder
Speaker 4: what they're up to And then like I don't know,
Speaker 4: I don't know if you guys are thinking that happens.
Speaker 4: That happens a lot, which is wild or d M
Speaker 4: ME or something like that number somehow. Yeah, and then
Speaker 4: I think about this, like if I ran into them,
Speaker 4: like like you know, would be I don't know.
Speaker 2: Sometimes I think you can. I mean sometimes I run
Speaker 2: into people. Yeah, no, why do that?
Speaker 4: I think since like basically twenty fourteen and I can
Speaker 4: run anybody, I'm like, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm my resumes.
Speaker 5: I gotta get one. Yeah, we go under like before
Speaker 5: a few arrow Oh but yeah, so I mean I
Speaker 5: don't know.
Speaker 6: Okay, Well, speaking of the last thing, pussies, Yes, we
Speaker 6: have a segment called Horris Horror Stories.
Speaker 2: Whose stories sex. Yes, horror stories. You can think of.
Speaker 4: The face too in the hands so fucking dirty. It
Speaker 4: was like white porn right now for a second, cock,
Speaker 4: that's that's work.
Speaker 6: Such an ugly word, right or sexual horror story that
Speaker 6: went horribly wrong, like scary horrific?
Speaker 5: Oh man, damn yeah. Well, I mean, well a scary one.
Speaker 5: I just keep that breathing. This girl passed out, she
Speaker 5: full on out past. I'll get into something like the
Speaker 5: horror horror one whatever. But she fought on.
Speaker 2: What did you had to give her?
Speaker 5: CP?
Speaker 2: Like well wait wait wait, you on the top of
Speaker 2: her We hit it from the back.
Speaker 5: It was from the back. It was from the back.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and she but I think what happened was like
Speaker 4: because she had came like back to back, like it
Speaker 4: was literally like she was coming boom boom boom, and
Speaker 4: then like three strokes later she came in and that
Speaker 4: one was even harder, and I think she just was
Speaker 4: like she lost, overwhelmed and stuff like that.
Speaker 9: And I swear like I was she was and that's crazy,
Speaker 9: like what kind of like it was just kind of
Speaker 9: like she was like like going, I was like, where.
Speaker 5: Running I'm going. I think she's running?
Speaker 4: What's why all my credit Like look, I'm proudly very
Speaker 4: like I'm probably I'm average. I'm averge for a tall
Speaker 4: guy is very different from just average, but average for
Speaker 4: a tall guy tall average.
Speaker 5: So I'm like, you can't be really running from it,
Speaker 5: like damn, Like I know there's certain positions that make
Speaker 5: you run, but not just that right now right now.
Speaker 5: So I'm like, okay, So then so like yeah, she's
Speaker 5: like so but.
Speaker 4: Then like I'm like and like she kind of was
Speaker 4: like on side her face whatever, and then she was
Speaker 4: like I'm like and then.
Speaker 5: She it was just quick like she she was like,
Speaker 5: oh fuck, and I got it.
Speaker 4: I was like, I was like, yo, are you good,
Speaker 4: and like you know now right, I'm like right now,
Speaker 4: everything's not normal.
Speaker 5: Yeah, And then she just was like that was fucking crazy.
Speaker 5: I just passed it.
Speaker 4: I was just like, I mean, you need to keep,
Speaker 4: you want to keep? Should we stop? And she was like,
Speaker 4: and bless herself, she's such. She was like, did you come.
Speaker 4: I was like no, and she was like, oh no,
Speaker 4: She's like she got on her band, she got a
Speaker 4: position I liked, and I was just like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 4: you know what, you deserve all this on you.
Speaker 5: But yeah, so yeah.
Speaker 4: I will say though, like one of my favorite stories
Speaker 4: is that I was messing with this one girl and
Speaker 4: she was having a girl's night and you know, they're
Speaker 4: having a little slumber party, you know, like grown slumber parties,
Speaker 4: like the stories that come out of here.
Speaker 2: So it was a lesbian thing and it wasn't.
Speaker 5: It was it wasn't.
Speaker 2: It wasn't, but we thought, good thing.
Speaker 5: We didn't go right, oh okay, well.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so because I remember asking her, I was like, well,
Speaker 4: what you do She's always just I'm just hanging with
Speaker 4: the girls on my I was like okay, cool and
Speaker 4: you know, have fun whatever. Right, So I was probably
Speaker 4: like at eight pm and then like now, I mean
Speaker 4: midnight happens. But yeah, so they're they're drinker wine, sharing
Speaker 4: their stories, talking about whatever their lives, you know, you know,
Speaker 4: and so I get hit up and she was just like.
Speaker 5: She's like, oh she saw I think she's saw me
Speaker 5: out whatever.
Speaker 4: And then she was like, oh, my friends are such
Speaker 4: like saying to or whatever like that, and I was
Speaker 4: like okay, and I found the friends and I was
Speaker 4: okay cool, and like her friend was like pressing me
Speaker 4: like I was like yeah, I was like yeah, and
Speaker 4: then trying to make it be know, like I was like, oh,
Speaker 4: maybe she just thinks that I don't know.
Speaker 5: She just casually told her like oh, Sharon says there
Speaker 5: to say her and matrices and r with relationship. So
Speaker 5: I was like and she was really pressing me. I
Speaker 5: was like, oh, I was like yeah.
Speaker 4: I was like I was trying to have such and
Speaker 4: such coming out, but you know, she's she's at the
Speaker 4: crib with her friends.
Speaker 5: I was I don't know, maybe I'll go over there afterwards.
Speaker 5: We'll see, you know, like, and I'm trying to make
Speaker 5: it obvious, like okay, like you know your hungery.
Speaker 4: And she was like oh, She's like, oh yeah, just
Speaker 4: breeze right through it. And then she was getting like
Speaker 4: kind of she started dancing. Was like, okay, we could
Speaker 4: dance and there's no harm in that. The way she
Speaker 4: was dancing, there's a difference, I know.
Speaker 5: She was like, just really like it too, and my
Speaker 5: grown ass, I'm thinking okay, And then they started getting hard.
Speaker 5: I was like, what the fun I'm too grown for this.
Speaker 2: Grind out. You're so tall.
Speaker 5: She was tall. She was tall specializing. Yeah, you gotta
Speaker 5: wine in your stance.
Speaker 4: You know, you gotta wight in there yet, but or
Speaker 4: the wall usually helps you, you know what I mean.
Speaker 5: I know I put it up on it. I've been
Speaker 5: here before, so I put it up on it. I've
Speaker 5: been tall for a while. I was six. For my
Speaker 5: freshman year of high school, I didn't want to.
Speaker 3: Break away from the word invisual and I was like,
Speaker 3: I wasn't.
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah right, she was. She wasn't.
Speaker 4: She's like, why not, and so yeah, she's doing that
Speaker 4: and she's like I was like, and I was like okay.
Speaker 4: I was like, oh dang, you know my digging I
Speaker 4: feel like sometimes guys sometimes like getting bears up to
Speaker 4: not being like, oh they want you to feel I.
Speaker 5: Feel like we do.
Speaker 4: Like I was like okay, you know, I was like,
Speaker 4: oh okay, and she was just like, she's like, why
Speaker 4: you're stopping. I was just like and I was like,
Speaker 4: these ain't the right pants?
Speaker 5: Make the right pants for these I was like, anyway,
Speaker 5: you know, just tell them and she was just like
Speaker 5: she's I don't know. She's like they're the perfect pants,
Speaker 5: and she got right back on there.
Speaker 4: I was like, okay, ship like and then once I'll
Speaker 4: come on bless the DJ played genuine so anxious.
Speaker 5: One of my favorite songs of all time.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and like she saw she's like Benumban was black right,
Speaker 4: and she does somethinge she like put she puts her
Speaker 4: hand back and she starts grabbing all my ship out.
Speaker 4: I am going to fuck this girl right now. I
Speaker 4: like in my head, I'm I'm gonna come right now.
Speaker 4: I'm about the bus right now, because I was just like,
Speaker 4: this is like I don't know why whatever she had
Speaker 4: my dist touched because this was so so I was
Speaker 4: just like, yo, like my sensitive right now. So I
Speaker 4: was like, all right, I'm end up, I hit her
Speaker 4: friend up. I was like, I don't want I don't
Speaker 4: want this to be no trama. So I was like
Speaker 4: I was like, I was like, man, like so yo,
Speaker 4: like man, I'm not being like you know, we're in there.
Speaker 4: I was like, well, I was dancing with your friend.
Speaker 5: It was you know, really.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 5: She was like she was like yeah, really, I was
Speaker 5: getting real heated and stuff. I don't know.
Speaker 4: She's just like this with everybody or she's like on me,
Speaker 4: but that so that's what it kind of seems like.
Speaker 4: Did you tell her like we're walking around She's like
Speaker 4: she's like, oh.
Speaker 3: She knows.
Speaker 4: She's like and it's fine. She's like she's like it's fine.
Speaker 4: She's like you want to suck around her. I was like,
Speaker 4: this is I'm thinking about here, I get to text all.
Speaker 4: This is a fucking test. The guys always think that, like,
Speaker 4: you know, get the fuck out of there. I was
Speaker 4: just like, I was like, you funny, you know, to
Speaker 4: test it out. She's like no, She's like no, for real.
Speaker 4: I was like, I can't tell if you're testing me,
Speaker 4: like if you fucking him. She's like no, I'm sick.
Speaker 4: She's like she's like she's like, you're around here for
Speaker 4: a little bit. She's like, and then and then come here,
Speaker 4: come here afterwards.
Speaker 5: So she's like, oh you can. She's I would say
Speaker 5: bring her here now, but you know, I have a
Speaker 5: friend here that doesn't like her and stuff like that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I'm like all right. I was like, yeah,
Speaker 4: I'm leaving. I was, but then I was like, maybe
Speaker 4: I won't do that whatever tonight. I was like maybe
Speaker 4: another time.
Speaker 5: So I told her. I was like, yeah, I'm leaving.
Speaker 5: I'm into such and such spy. She She's like, I'm
Speaker 5: on the way, can you take me home? I was
Speaker 5: like all right.
Speaker 2: She's relentless, all right, taking no for an answer, but
Speaker 2: like yeah.
Speaker 5: So on her way home, she yeah, she.
Speaker 2: Put it in.
Speaker 5: She started sucking my dicky. I was like, oh man,
Speaker 5: yeah yeah. I was just like okay, so now I'm
Speaker 5: gett my dicks. I'm like, wow, I uh her spot.
Speaker 5: I didn't bust her anything, but it was good. It
Speaker 5: was good because it wasn't that far away, you know
Speaker 5: what i mean.
Speaker 4: I'm not giving myself credit just saying quarterback right right,
Speaker 4: that was there.
Speaker 5: So yeah, so yeah, I'll.
Speaker 2: Pull up.
Speaker 4: And she kes like she's going for a little bit,
Speaker 4: and I was like, oh, okay, I was here, I'm here.
Speaker 4: She pop said she's okay. She was like, she's like,
Speaker 4: you're going over there now she's okay. She's like, well,
Speaker 4: she's like she you know, she does get she gives
Speaker 4: you know, pardy over me. She's like me upth you
Speaker 4: know tomorrow whatever.
Speaker 2: I was like, she said, she does get priority over me.
Speaker 5: I was like, yes, this sounds like a great situation. Yeah,
Speaker 5: I'm gonna be right.
Speaker 4: I've been like, I've been a lot of great situations
Speaker 4: that guys would like to I just think I love
Speaker 4: that we live in shout society because I'm six eight,
Speaker 4: so girls just gravitate.
Speaker 5: Towards the talk thank you.
Speaker 4: Here exactly. So So yeah, so she gets out. I'm like, man,
Speaker 4: so now I'm like here with this situation. I head
Speaker 4: over to the girl's house and like she's there and
Speaker 4: her friends are there, right, So I'm like, okay, we're
Speaker 4: about to but yeah, she we basically, you know, she
Speaker 4: came a little short, like she pulls me in and
Speaker 4: to fuck her basically on the couch.
Speaker 5: She was ready to go. She was getting on all that.
Speaker 5: She was ready to go.
Speaker 4: Fuck her on the couch and I am fucking her
Speaker 4: in front of her friends and they're like helping me.
Speaker 5: Yeah, they're helping me.
Speaker 4: Give it to her, like going like like one of them,
Speaker 4: one of them got behamed. Was one of the sexiest
Speaker 4: things in my life. I'm getting into this right.
Speaker 5: Look. So she's like, so, like I have her. I
Speaker 5: get on my knees whatever, on the ground, put a
Speaker 5: pillow there.
Speaker 4: You know, she's on the couch on her back, legs open,
Speaker 4: do my whole thing, you know, getting ready.
Speaker 5: Okay.
Speaker 4: So then when I'm getting ready, like one of her
Speaker 4: friends like it's like behind me and like grabs my
Speaker 4: joint and it's just like guys me and I thought
Speaker 4: that was one of those sexiest things.
Speaker 5: And I was like yes, man, I was like and
Speaker 5: like I was like, man, give the the you know
Speaker 5: what I'm saying, like open, I'm grabbing like her, ask whatever.
Speaker 5: Like she she like pulled her pants. That's for me
Speaker 5: to get a good grip. I was like, man, good,
Speaker 5: this is a good squad. Yeah they are.
Speaker 4: And like not everybody was in volume. Some just want
Speaker 4: to watch. And someone was drinking and I was like, damn,
Speaker 4: like you know, and so you can hear what I'm saying,
Speaker 4: like damn, like now I'm trying to get now I'm
Speaker 4: thinking about whole I can't serve everybody.
Speaker 5: But she was just talking about like she want to
Speaker 5: call her dude again. Okay, good god, I don't know
Speaker 5: what y'all think. I am like, thank you for the
Speaker 5: thought of the credit.
Speaker 13: I was just like so like yeah, I was like
Speaker 13: and I was just like and I was just fucking
Speaker 13: her and then like I like, you know, thinking to
Speaker 13: her what I did eat for a little.
Speaker 5: Because she was there.
Speaker 4: She was like damn with and then like and then
Speaker 4: she's like feeling that and we're like soshi positions and
Speaker 4: stuff like that, and then she was like feeling and
Speaker 4: I was feilty and then she was like you want
Speaker 4: to take it?
Speaker 5: I was like right, I was just yeah.
Speaker 4: But now just other than that, like yeah, they she
Speaker 4: would like some of them, you know, they were like
Speaker 4: kids on her life so too.
Speaker 5: But you mainly just be fucking her.
Speaker 4: Really really, it was like it was a light like
Speaker 4: because I still don't consider I still haven't had a
Speaker 4: real three soome yet. Yeah, I haven't like where i'd like,
Speaker 4: you know, like we're doing this and it's okay, boom,
Speaker 4: we're doing this and y'all whatever.
Speaker 5: No, no, that I never entered another woman while with
Speaker 5: this one.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 5: It's I've had situations, you know, we're there, but this
Speaker 5: that was great to me.
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm pretty amazing.
Speaker 5: I'm pretty good. God yeah right. I was like, what
Speaker 5: is what did I do to deserve this? But yeah, no,
Speaker 5: it was, yeah, it was.
Speaker 2: It was that's good.
Speaker 5: So yeah, it was good.
Speaker 4: Good fifteen minutes of myself. I was happy it when
Speaker 4: fifteen minutes too, because it seemed like it was.
Speaker 5: I was like, how long? Was like, I felt like
Speaker 5: forty five minutes with everything so much is happening. He
Speaker 5: drove somewhere. I've been head on the way there with
Speaker 5: by your friend, with friends. I just feel like it
Speaker 5: was like yeah, later on.
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, in your life here carbon they definitely
Speaker 2: boss you around.
Speaker 4: I was, y'all, I was That's why I gave you
Speaker 4: all this because I always tell them, I'm like, y'all.
Speaker 5: I feel like I was the whole for the group.
Speaker 5: You are like in the hood, like you know, like.
Speaker 2: We need to be friends. We need more women like them.
Speaker 5: Yea, Yeah, I love to be more women like that.
Speaker 4: I was like, because I'm not used to like, I'm
Speaker 4: definitely not used to that, and I was definitely giving
Speaker 4: something where I was able to, like, you know, I
Speaker 4: glad I was giving my moments to like tell them
Speaker 4: what to do, so like whatever, boom, like start finking
Speaker 4: whatever all listen.
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, they were like fingering.
Speaker 5: There was some fingers mainly like I said, mainly me,
Speaker 5: but just it was just like wondirl was.
Speaker 2: Like helping, helping me.
Speaker 5: I was like I was pounding.
Speaker 4: I was right.
Speaker 5: I was just take my head, just take my going.
Speaker 4: And then yeah and then like but like I said
Speaker 4: that my mom my vy mom was like when the
Speaker 4: friend behind me guided me and then I was guided
Speaker 4: it grabbing.
Speaker 5: She had a big booty, so grabbing a little while
Speaker 5: I was sucking her.
Speaker 2: It was sounds bombed, sounds like wish I wasn't fly
Speaker 2: on that wall.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I wish I could watch that myself.
Speaker 5: And I was like, damn, damn.
Speaker 2: So yeah, I'm sure none of your friends believe.
Speaker 3: Well, if I ever decided to direct horror, I make
Speaker 3: sure that definitely adding taking.
Speaker 2: We should share that with we should share that with
Speaker 2: King or something. Yeah, you know those tips and tricks.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I guess another time. You guys can
Speaker 4: tell me y'all story story we have many.
Speaker 2: Just listen to the podcast, right there are plans they
Speaker 2: live there.
Speaker 5: I'm definitely gonna listen. Actually recommend me a specific episode
Speaker 5: for me.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I was just telling someone that three
Speaker 2: someomeone is so fucking funny. You have to listen to this.
Speaker 2: The three someone is funny. Five ways to have a
Speaker 2: successful threesome.
Speaker 5: Oh, I just say it on the list, Yes, that
Speaker 5: was that's in c Yes, you should listen to that.
Speaker 5: I will definitely will.
Speaker 2: My experience is quite ridiculous. I forget which ones I say.
Speaker 2: Now I gotta put check off.
Speaker 4: I'm definitely I need so I know how to really
Speaker 4: successfully do this.
Speaker 5: I'm trying to manage the three something happen in the
Speaker 5: next week or two or two We're going to go
Speaker 5: for a week. It's Grammy weeks.
Speaker 2: Listen to the episode and get back to us if
Speaker 2: you need any more coaching. But for the most part,
Speaker 2: it's all there. Okay, cool, Well, anyway, thank you so much.
Speaker 5: This was fun coming on.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I appreciate you. Thanks for coming on. Del We
Speaker 2: are very happy to have our first first still, can
Speaker 2: you be resident if anything happens like we need resident?
Speaker 4: Right right?
Speaker 7: Yes, I think I'm here for that to your matures.
Speaker 2: All right, you guys, Well, thank you for tuning in.
Speaker 2: Have a wonderful Where can we find you?
Speaker 7: Yes?
Speaker 4: Social media?
Speaker 5: Well, I mean J R O N E J A E.
Speaker 5: And that's on Instagram and Twitter. That's all I have.
Speaker 2: Instagram, you tweet a lot, but you know, for I think.
Speaker 5: For women, I'm not that interesting because it's a lot
Speaker 5: of sports talk. Twitter. I don't know how to work
Speaker 5: actually yeah I actually yeah I do. Yeah, very pro black,
Speaker 5: so you know how that goes.
Speaker 2: I know there's apparently this thing called black Twitter.
Speaker 4: Yeah, strongly in that community. Yeah, I'm definitely that strong leader. Yeah,
Speaker 4: the strong leaders.
Speaker 6: Okay, well, maybe if I follow you on Twitter, I
Speaker 6: can get into it because I can never figure.
Speaker 2: It out how to read tweet. There's only so many letters.
Speaker 2: It's really too much. I'm like, I'm gonna work on
Speaker 2: it though.
Speaker 6: Oh oh, so you could catch us on Instagram a
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Speaker 3: Also, we are having our one year anniversary on March nineteenth.
Speaker 2: Details coming soon. Mar Well if you're in town, come by.
Speaker 2: It's going to be in l A. Details coming soon,
Speaker 2: but we're doing a live show and drinks and.
Speaker 5: I will be in town yes.
Speaker 2: And coming out with all the single moments.
Speaker 5: My daughter just for you love me. That's funny.
Speaker 2: All right, y'all, I'll catch you next week. I didn't
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Speaker 12: Say something that.
Speaker 5: It was like the first day, y'all want say the
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Speaker 10: Your mother